did that with my friends and they were like "Wait... you weren't already out about this?" Apparently my coming out was just me realising what they all knew...
When I told my mom and Grandpa I was pansexual, my grandpa dead @ss turned to my mom and asked where his 25 bucks was at. 😂😂😂 apparently my mom thought I was going to be at least bi while my grandpa said pansexual
When I came out to my mom as lesbian she was like “ok. I’m not getting any pride flags to put on the fridge until you get your grades up.” I love her 😂
My mom when I came out as a Lesbian she yelled at me for 2 straight hours how it wasn't "Christian like" of me. Then when I told my dad he was just like "Aren't girls hot?"
I came out to my parents as demiaroace and when i told them i got really scared cause ik their not huge fans of like the lgbtq stuff so i nearly started having a breakdown but their reactions when i told them and explained to them what it was,it was kinda idk how to feel about it,like it was kinda dry but at the same time sweet idk They like said stuff like "we dont really care if you date someone or have kids as long as your happy"(the reason i say it was dry is cause they had like no expression on their faces until they noticed the fear in my eyes and the tears i had busy trying to come out) and when i told them i was scared to tell them they were trying to reassure me that they still love me,but whenever i say stuff like im not going to date someone or have kids they always say to me "wait till you've found the right guy/ famous last words" like tbh it gets really annoying so yea but im kinda scared to come out as pan to them TwT 😂
But i do support people’s choices😌 as long as it’s ok to their religion and such. i wouldn’t really go against my religion or loved ones for it, but that’s honestly my choice ❤️
@@ImTheRealOfficialHyunjin no lmfao if you want your child to be happy & feel safe with you, just call them by their preferred name, its not that hard and it makes it easier for literally everybody, you wouldn't be happy if your name is (for example) Dennis, and your mom called you another name like Stella.
My sister is trans and autistic, someone caused her to have an autistic meltdown because of what they said, they said : imagine being so mentally unstable you thought you were girl even though you're obviously a boy. They then proceeded to laugh at her as she sat on the floor crying and grabbing at her arms to stimulate herself (trying to avoid crying as it gives too much stimulation when she does because of how many things she feels when crying) She's never gone to another shop without wearing a mask, gloves and skirt ever since
That is so horrible of those people to do that to your sister. I hope your sister can find more people like you who support her, and I hope she can thrive and feel confident being her true self. (I'm nonbinary and autistic)
That is plain bullshit. I don’t care if I get banned or not. It’s not right. I swear, give me an address and I can take care of it myself. That is totally wrong, not only are they targeting her for sexuality, but also her disability. That is all around fucked up. Something needs to be done about this. Not only for your sister but for everyone else including me. My mom told me to kms if I thought about being the opposite gender or LGBTQIA+, my parents are highly phobic to it all. This is wrong and needs to be addressed ASAP.
Pspsps, tell your sister that she is the most girliest, pretty princess to ever princess, she put princesses the rest of the princesses and leaves them in shame! I hope you both take care, stay safe!
I came out to my mom that I am bisexual. She said "You should be straight," and I was sad and cried in my room all night. So I kept my sexuality hidden from my mom and she thinks that I'm straight but I'm bisexual and non-binary. Some of my classmates are bi, non-binary and some are straight. Ngl, my class just literally supports each other..
Awh you have a good class my class doesn’t support each other everyone is straight (except me) they are anti lgbt except my friend and bff and they’re so rude and if someone is gay they hate on them
I'm A Non-Binary Bisexual, Too! 🏳️🌈😊 But, At Home, I'm Kind Of Forced To Be Closeted About It Because My IRL Sister Is Rude To Me And Had The Audacity To Tell Me I'm "Not Bi" At One Point. She Also Seems To Like Hurting Me, So I'm Just Trying To Steer Clear Of Her Now. 🖤🐾
I remember when i had such a sentimental talk with my father and my brother once, and I started crying cuz he started talking about stuff like friends and that friendships could end up, family stuff, and how our parents will always support and love us no matter what, and the next day my mom (who was already sleeping when we had that talk) asked me "Love, do you like (my bff's name)?" And i have to confess, that, yes, i think i might like her, but I'm still not ready to share it with my parents- And i answered her "wut? Why?" And she just told me smth like "becuz ur dad told me that you got kinda sentimental while talking 'bout her..." I got rlly nervous- 😭😭😭
I once told my aunt im bisexual and she said “your too young to understand.” “It’s not like you ever felt something for a girl”and she laughed. I had a crush on a boy and a girl. I AM bisexual but they won’t take me seriously And from that day I didn’t say anything to my parents about my personal life.
My brother randomly said at dinner "im gay" and the whole table is like "cool" Also for those wondering my brother was under the influence but he is still 🏳️🌈 thank you for the support and storys you have shared ^^ God loves everyone you should never bully someone for their sexuality
Im a Christian but when ever someone starts to be homophobic i say "just let then love who they love, and be who they want to be!" No need to be scared of who you are, go out and live an amazing life! ❤
I’m Christian as well and it bothers me so much when i see fellow Christians being disrespectful and rude to people in the LGBTQ+ community like dude. Mind your own business. God loves them just as much.
Came out to my mum as bi, got a "yeah, I knew. What do you want for dinner?", came out to my dad, got a "Okay. You still going to give me grandkids right?" I said I would try but if I couldn't have them naturally, I'd adopt- he was cool with that answer (I wanted kids anyways soooo). Chill parents are precious and we need to protect them at all costs.
once a bisexual called doma had come out one day to their mama what do we say when kids are gay well one could have said "thanks obama" hope u got new family
To hopefully explain to the best of my extent what this person means (sorry if I get it wrong), they're afraid of their dad not accepting them. Because of, perhaps, hearing of his views, or little things in the past, or just plain fear due to hearing other's stories about lack of acceptance this person is scared to come out. Even if their dad doesn't know about their gender identity yet, it still might hurt to be called a girl..it was that way for me too.
I haven’t came out to my parents (I’m bi) but they’re always like “I have to meet your boyfriend or girlfriend” when I’m dating and it honestly feels better when they don’t judge but if I came out my family would lose their shit 👀👀👀
@@Midnight-fg3rl thank you so much idk why you ppl are so nice when you don’t know me but I had came out to my parents not my family last week and they are completely fine with it and my brother already picked up the signs, I’m thinking of coming out to just my grandparents for now because it would be a lot to tell all of them 😭
this reminds me of my sister (mtf) who has to live with my parents not fully supporting trans rights, they say stuff like how "Trans people are touching their kids!" and say things like that, one time my school put an LGBTQ++ flag outside the school, the pastor did not show up, my parents refused to take me to school one day because it was protesting for spreading the 'gay agenda' around the school because according to them "the LGBTQ++ people are touching their kids and they can't let that happen", they also can't seem to accept the fact that the internet is a get away for trans/nonbinary/genderfluid kids that don't know how to tell their parents
Ok so i am completely fine with LGBTQ people but i dont think u should expose it to people in school. I mean if its a college its ok but high school? middle school? no way. In those years, the kids (yes kids) are still DEVELOPING. They shouldnt be going all on in that age. At that age u havent even figured many things out yet so ig the parents not bringing you to school was a good choice, but the reason was not
This reminds me of trying to come out to my mom **this happened when I was 8**telling her I was Lesbian she said: "u think girls are pretty? Dw I will support you isn't two of your sisters bi? its okay take your time.* that legit made me cry.
@user-cv1so7dw6f it is crazy. You can't just switch genders when you feel like it. I get feeling like the completely wrong gender and changing into the other, but to change constantly is ridiculous.
my girlfriends nonbinary (they said themself they’d still want to be called mt girlfriend^^) and everytime someone says she i automatically correct them and their face always lights up when i do it and it’s such a nice feeling
I am also dating a non-binary person and they love when, if I tell my friends I met them in kindergarten I never say their dead name (name a person is born with but doesn't like it or prefers something else) and they are soo happy whenever I do that for them
I'm trans. I'm gay "You're just straight, you'll grow out of it." "Stop trying to be interesting" "You'll figure it out sometime don't worry." "What a nice daughter you have!" I'm not a girl.. I'm not a girl.. I'm not a girl... I'm not a girl
@@WarLordEditzzdo you have to hate on every comment in this whole video? I’m pretty sure this comment section is supposed to be a safe place so thanks for ur opinion but please stop hating on people. Thank you
I literally cried in the middle of a mall today because this guy kept bugging me and they kept calling me a guy because I have short hair which I didn't get mad at him for it but then he called me a girl which I wasn't mad at either because he didn't know I was nom binary. So I corrected him and he wouldn't stop calling me she or he and he was poking fun at me and bullying me and I clearly stated my boundaries. He didn't respect them at all. I had gone to multiple different stores in the mall that were far away from them and he wouldn't stop laughing at me and bullying me. I had gone into got topic and the immediately realized what was happening and the amazing person there called security and comforted me and everything! I love hot topic and their caring personality❤ for anyone who reads this please know that you're amazing and you're strong and we're going to get through this together. Love everyone for who they are and accept them❤❤
I told my brother I’m pansexual/panromantic, polyamorous, and genderfluid and bro was like “Okay, tf that gotta do with me?” (He’s supportive but just doesn’t care what I identify as lmao, he’ll still love me even tho I’m an asshole 💀💀)
Bro i told my brother i was gay (just gay i wasnt sure what i was then,ik now im pan) and he said "no your not" and a couple days later said staright to my face "i hate gay people" i felt so hurt after that but whenever i "joke" around saying "im gay" and stuff like that he just always yells at me saying"no your not stop it" like i get it hes homophobic but really gotta shut his mouth😢😂
If i say to my mom i'm bi- *cutely gets disowned* Edit: am I a bit famous? :)) Edit: to whoever who can relate to this, I hope you the best for your future Edit: good luck,I'll always support you
Funny story. I was at a wedding handing out little goodie bags because they let me. One middle-aged man, apparently the groom’s friend’s dad, they said “Thank you ma’am!” The dysphoria hit me like a train wreck. I was in a suit, and my hair was short. My eyes widened and I didn’t give out the rest, but my mom did. Thanks mom. ❤
@@equonixcookiesI get that. If I was that person, I would’ve at least stuck to sir knowing your appearance. I know that feeling. Something really commonly dysphoric to me is when my mom drags my butt into the “women’s” clothes section. I’m nonbinary, but when I see the men’s section, the clothes seem so much more suitable for me and more comfortable to me overall. But I could never ask my mom to “go into the men’s section”. She would go off (talking) about something I didn’t ask for.
Had a similar experience at work. Was working on picking up weeds in the parking lot, and a nice lady came to help. She called me a "she" despite me looking fairly masculine/androgynous. Luckily when I said I was a boy, she didn't press and corrected herself. Even if they don't mean harm, it can still hurt a bit.
I am really tired of unsupportive parents. Im a trans boy, and im finding it hard to come out to my parents because i came out to them once already about my pronouns but they didn't listen :( Edit: I came out to them as a trans bot! Though they still won't use my preferred name or pronouns
If it makes you feel any better, that weight gets lighter when you're not living with them. My fiancé had a similar problem but now that he's out of the house he can express himself properly! The light at the end of the tunnel is coming, even if your parents aren't supportive!
FR. They also somehow found out I was NB last year and they said “quit this bullsh!t, you’re a girl, so act like one. Or else you’re grounded.” So later this year i told them “uhh, yeah sure I’m female” when I met my therapist and she asked what gender i was and MY ASS WHO’S STILL NB-
I dont like lgbtq (respectfully, meaning i dont hate or anything but instead just stay away from it) but im sorry for you, that must suck a lot, i wish you the best
I remember when i came out as bi to my mom, she looked so scared. She told me, "That's okay, I can't tell you what you are. But don't tell your father..." I was terrified of him finding out since.
I told a uncle I went by he / him , and I was trans, and I response I got made me cry and want to throw a chair,at him. He responded with "no matter what you go by you'll always be my little girl" and for the whole family. My grandma knows, but she goes 'people like you' and says it as if I'm a new species the world just found and absolutely hates it
You're a girl. Stop playing the different child hmara be yourslef. It's not because you're not like " other girl " that you're a boy. Don't say" i just feel like i was born in the wrong body 🥺" no one care. You're born to be a women. Live with that. If we can just like "change" when there's a problem in our life everyone would do that so stop trying to change just because you don't accept the reality of the life.
I'm so sorry you have to go through that, it sounds really tough. You're valid and there are safe spaces and better, and more accepting people out here. Stay strong dude o7
You poor thing! You gotta get out of your echo chamber and come back to reality! I swear to you these people do not care about you! You need people who are going to do whats best for you instead of just trying to make you happy
As nonbinary myself, I felt this. I've clearly stated what things I'm comfortable with my family saying (such as nickname sissy, I'm okay with, but she/her pronouns or deadname I don't feel comfortable with), yet family still deadnames me and still says she/her pronouns.. If you're going through something similar, it's okay, it won't last forever and we'll get through this. 🫶
@@Laceration_Gravityyy just stating that you guys are all snowflakes because your getting called the wrong name and throw a big fit over it. “aS a NoN bInArY mYsElF”
@@TKG72-2 Excuse me but that's rather rude?? If they want to be called something else because their dead name brings, for example, bad memories, then you should be respectful of that. Imagine if your name was "Tim" and your parents called you "Tamara" instead I'm not trying to start an argument, but if you're going to be pissy about this, then just don't comment at all, simple as that :/
as a genderfluid person who has parents and a family that wont respect my they/them pronouns this means alot thanks ❤ edit: OMG 32 REPLIES you are all amazing and i love all you fluid and non binary pals :)
i like to appear as an androgenous and its funny bc when i was a kid it was hevy bc other kids would ask me whether i was a boy or girl and i always said im ✨both✨
my mom literally went from “if a boy wants to be a girl, let em be a girl, if a girl wants to be a boy, let em be a boy.” to “dont watch [insert trans mtf ytber i forgot the name of], they’re weird. that’s a man.” 😭
Why is that my mom too 😭 She went from "Oh I'm so happy the world is more accepting to those groups nowadays" to "Who's going to be the husband? Who's going to be the wife? A girl with a girl is wrong and a boy with a boy is wrong." (Idk her views on trans ppl-)
I came out as nonbinary to my parents and they told me that they weren't going to use my pronouns and that they didn't understand why I wouldn't want to be a girl. They always say she/her instead of they/them and it makes me feel really upset and misunderstood. This video made me really happy so thank you! I alwyas love your videos!❤
@@itz_Nia87 omg you're genderfluid!? That's so cool! I'm sorry that you have to go through that it really sucks but i think being genderfluid is really cool and I completely support!
Even if you don't support LGBT, it's just common decency to respect them. It's just being a decent person. That's what I believe anyway. Edit- I've had a change of some perspective. I asked someone in my religion that is knowledgeable about it and he said to use the pronouns would technically be against the belief of what is a woman and what is a man but that doesn't mean you be disrespectful. Another edit- intersex is a medical thing y'all it's not LGBTQ 😭
True but I've come across too many people who look like a specific gender but get mad when they're called that, if I ask they what they're pronouns are they get offended...? It's like a loose loose situation for me right now.
@@kaitlyn-sss I completely understand. If they get offended, just politely ask why they got upset and what you should refer them as so they don't get mad again. And try to work then through it.
"we love our daughter!" "We love our daughter!" "We love our daughter!" "We love our daughter!" Me inside my head when they say that: And im not a girl And im not a girl And im not a girl And im not a girl.... I haven't told them yet so it hard for me💔
Right after we moved my sister got a gf and came out to our grandfather and this is how the conversation went: “Pop, I have a girlfriend.” -my sister. “New home, new homies.” -my grandfather 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"We love our *straight* daughter." "We love our *straight* daughter." "We love our *straight* daughter." IM NOT *STRAIGHT* ! IM NOT *STRAIGHT* ! IM NOT *STRAIGHT* !
Me when someone says "daughter" I'm not a girl. I'm not a girl. I'M NOT A GIRL Anymore...they/him/he/them but sometimes they/she/her/them but I prefer a lot they/he/him/them.
i'm trans with horribly transphobic parents. sometimes i eavesdrop on their conversations whenever lgbtq+ stuff comes up, and every time, they say something along the lines of "trans people are ruining america." and every time, i cry. and recently, one of my good friends, whom i came out to on thanksgiving last year, used she/her on me when i was hanging out with a friend who supported me. thankfully, they said "he's not a girl." and when i said the same thing, she said, "i don't care." i lost it and went off on her. but APPARENTLY, it was 'just a joke.' when i told her not to joke like that again cuz she really hurt me, she just said sorry without any remorse. and there's another friend i have who just... doesn't care at all. last time i told her i was trans, she said "no, ur not a boy, ur a girl. that's weird that u think that." the face i made at her goes beyond anger. but of course, in all the shit, there's one friend that is supportive of me.❤️ anyone who read this far, no matter where or what u r, there will always be someone who supports u, even if u don't know them yet, they'll come eventually. patience is key. love you!🫶🏻
Oh my god… thats horrible… I‘m so sorry that your family is like this, and I‘m really glad that you have a supportive friend!!!! My father is like that too, and he cant handle to have a trans son lol Luckily I have a boyfriend who corrects everyone when I‘m too scared to say anything. Youre not alone bro, and I promise that it‘ll get better. I know this sounds so stupid, but life always has its ups and downs, and I promise that one day, youll have a family who accepts you (maybe not your biological family, but def a „chosen“ one)! You are loved, my brother
@@Mango1808what does God have to do with this and it's kinda irresponsible and disrespectful to use his name to hate or prove a shitty point to people don't think I don't know what you're trying to do by saying this
That sucks bro........ We all have that one friend who we can rely on and they're always either the most innocent bean ever or the most dirty minded out of pocket mf ever. No in between
This is like how it is for me except the other way around. I'm not a girl. And absolutely no one has the place or right to tell me that I'm not. It's my body, it's my gender.
I'm a mom. And I'm also a daughter. I grew up with conditional love. And I swore I would have no conditions for my children to have my love. Our child was amab. But if my child comes to me some day and says "I don't want to be a boy" my answer will be "and I still love you. You are my child before anything else. Before your gender, your sex, your romantic or lack there of attraction. You are my child. And I am your mom. Nothing will change my love. And I mean nothing " If you cannot love your child because of their authentic self, do not have children. And withholding love isn't love. Abandoning your child isn't love. Shaming them isn't love. They are not property. They are not extensions of you. They are their own whole self. We as parents are there to help them discover who they are. Do not teach them they are unwanted. Better not to have them than make a broken person.
This made me want to tear up. Omg. Its hard when you know some random amazing person on the internet, or your friends parent is more supportive than your own. Ur Awesome!
i can agree with this a lot in some ways, my mom when i came out said i was gonna go to hell and that im a demon, that was a year ago and she still doesn’t accept me and i don’t think she ever will bc she threw away all my “boy-ish” clothes cuz i look like a boy in them which i want to, but she’s was over feminizing me but she’s calmed a little, she’s bought me some baggy clothes but she always tells me if they’re too baggy she’s returning them, but that’s just an empty threat but she hasn’t even talked to me about she’s just pushing it away, and my cousin who’s in a few of my classes told my aunt about how my teachers call me oscar and my aunt told my mom and my mom yelled at me. I wish she would’ve talked to me calmly about it tho and it makes me feel like she’ll never treat me the same because of it.
@@Multifandom_pers0n no a parent’s job is absolutely not about mistreating their child or abusing them. It’s about taking them out of their little fantasies of trying to change their whole identity. I would do the same thing if it was my child no way are they being gay or transgender or any other type of lgbtqa+++++++++++ or whatever. Stop trying to deny reality because everyone knows you’re the same person you were born as. I’m a girl and I’ll always stay a girl. So will everyone else
@@ShhsBsndosijok so?theres Nothing to disrespect.As a Christian,yes I’m homophobic but that doesn’t mean u just can tell them what they do.. ? so don’t destroy someone’s dreams.
When I told my mom I was gay she kept going on saying: “I won’t raise you in this house under my roof, it’s either you like the opposite gender or you don’t like anyone at all!” But I’m now secretly pansexual, and she/they!❤️🩹
Gosh, I feel this with all of my grandparents calling me their granddaughter. Or giving me cards on my birthday that say granddaughter. I know some of them are trying, but they have to realize that doing little things like that do hurt me. I'm pretty sure some of them don't even try to correct themselves. One of them will, on occasion, misname me since I've changed my name twice in the past 1 and a half years, then they'll say, "Or whatever you go by these days." or something along those lines, and they don't realize how much that bothers me. Anyways, sorry for the rant. I just connected with this video a lot and wanted to share my experience with stuff like this! For all the nonbinary and trans beauties out there, you are loved, appreciated, and respected here. ❤
@l.i.f.e1035 grandchild. Things like that. I have a book called how to they/Them and one of the pages gives a bunch of genderneutral terms people could use for parents, siblings, etc.
@makinpplmad I'm going to have to ask you to delete this reply. I was simply stating how I relate to this video. If you cannot accept that, why are you even watching Clawed Beauty?
I’m going to absolutely despise writing this comment. A couple years ago, I came to the conclusion of “I must be a boy since I know I’m not girl.” Which was wrong, but it’s what my parents and family got used to. I now go by they/them, but my family keeps using masculine terms for me. So this video honestly brought tears to my eyes
I'm muslim girl too. I respect them. And I hate it when people hurt/disrespect them bc they might end up hurting them so badly even killing them. That is NOT ok. Killing is HARAM. There is no reason to hate them so much and there is def no reason to take them off this earth too early. +BEING attracted to the same gender isn't haram but COMMITTING to it is. You're allowed to feel like you're the opposite gender (after all , you're not your body) BUT you're not aloud to modify your body or change pronouns. This life is just a test. There will be no rules in Jannah you can literally do anything there! You're supposed to trust god for this life then completely do what you want in Jannah. I don't support committing to it on this dunya , bc that's breaking Allah's rules. It's just like any other haram thing , you don't support the doing of haram , but you don't go out of your way to take the pork sandwich out of some non-muslim's hand and through it on the floor , then spit on them. You don't go out of your way to kill someone for eating a pork sandwich. They had their whole life a head of them and had a chance to repent and change their mind that you took away from them. Imagine how angry that would make Allah. The only ever sin that the punishment for in islam is to die : is rape. Nothing else that I'm aware of. *sorry for the 3 thousand word essay*
But I don't understand why people think that their more than one person by using they/them pronouns. It's silly do you think that your worth more than me or what (I know that it means that it a boy and a girl and this is why I don't think it is necessary). I don't agree. Use the one on your birth certificate and stay with it. I don't understand why people have to be so crazy about this subject.
@@DrawingWithHailey. They/Them isn’t always referring to more than one person, and in this context is used to refer to someone without putting them into any gendered category.
”I love my straight grandchild!” ”I love my straight grandchild!!” ”I love my straight grandchild!!!” ”I love my staright grandchild!!!!” Grandma☝🏻 ”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!” ”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!!” ”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!!!” ”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!!!!” Me and my mom☝🏻 (I’M BI I’M NOT LESBIAN IF YOU’RE CONFUSED!!!!!!)
As someone who's enby and has parents who won't respect that, I felt this. It's even easier for them cuz I go by any pronouns, yet they still refuse to use gender neutral terms for me and always call me daughter. I remember about a week ago my mother was filling out a form for me for lazer tag. There was a neutral option in the section where you choose your gender, yet she STILL chose female.
@Raisin_brand they never really like when I try to explain things to them. They take offense whenever I try explaining things to them, like I'm acting like I'm smarter than them. This goes not just for being enby but for anything, really. I'd love to explain it to them but I'm not really allowed to.
@@Raisin_brandyou know what’s not a hard concept? The fact that when you’re born you’re either a boy or a girl. That can’t change just because you’ve been brainwashed into believing this bs.
It's the same for me except the other way around, my mom had said that she supported that stuff, but I'm female to male (ftm) and when she found out, me and her had an argument and she still calls me my dead name and "She/her" and it just hurts, but amazing videos!! They cheer me up!
When I told my mum I am lesbian she said that she doesn’t believe me and that she will never ever attend a lesbian wedding and when I was heartbroken after my gf of 6 months broke up with me she said “ oh well it was more of a close friendship wasn’t it “ and I was so upset like my best friends mum was more supportive and took me and my best friend out for lunch and was hugging me and all
Gosh, is it ok if I vent? (scroll down to see my rant, or not.) So, I remember there was this time when I told my mom I was a lesbian, I thought she’d me ok with it, and since she was a nice person I thought she’d support me. But honestly, I do think I was too young to make that choice. I’m still thinking about it to this day. I was just 7. And I didn’t go to school since I was homeschooled, so my mom asked me, ‘why now? You don’t even see females your age, is it those friends of (…)?!’ She started raising her voice at me, and this (…) person, I don’t want to name her, she’s my cousin. And that time, I was recently added to their GC. They were older than me by 3 years, almost all of them. One was my age. Which was the one I caught feelings for. I’ve seen them in real life before I was added to the GC since they were a friend of a friend. At that time I think I was peer pressured to be a lesbian, to like girls. But then I realized, I wasn’t peer pressured. I just wanted attention. But at the same time I kinda felt bad. I was grounded for 2 months, and I lost the trust from my parents just because I told them I liked girls? Sure, I wasn’t into girls that time.. but really? That day was the first time I have ever seen my dad cry. I thought I did something wrong. That I was something wrong. But eventually I came to realize that I don’t like JUST girls. I like both genders. A few days ago my parents talked to me about trans people, since (…), my cousin, was trans. Nearing the end of the conversation my dad said “So we won’t accept it if youre-“ he got cut off from my mom, “Lesbian?” My mom asked. My dad continued with his sentence, the following thing he said was ‘No, trans.’ Which makes me even more afraid to tell them. And I don’t plan on telling them any time soon. Now I have a girlfriend I really like and respect, +I’m 15 and turning 16 in a month. If you read this, ty! :)
Something similar happened to me, I’m pansexual and I’m closeted. But when I was around 10ish I thought I liked this girl and I told her and um yea. I guess I thought it was like a trend?…
You’re so wrong for dating behind your parents back and too bad bc the truth fcking hurts deal with it. You’re not lesbian you’re just trying to be different. You’re straight deal with it.
You saying your dad cried over you being was it lesbian? Is the same thing which will happen to me if I ever tell him that. I'm straight and Christian and we just moved to Europe and my dad will ask me if he was wrong to do that. This is because in my home country I never knew about those stuff and I bet if I stayed there I wouldn't have known until I was at least 14.(just to clarify I'm not lesbian or bi I'm just predicting what will happen if i say that
@@SonicX-pd9kc not really, it only happened a few days ago. I'm not homeless (I have an apartment since I'm in college, at least until the end of the year. My parents just don't want to see me during any holidays or for summer as far as I'm aware) at least, so for now I'm only dealing with the emotional fallout and potential future consequences
I am so sorry to hear that... I am sure you'll get through this... Some people just don't deserve their children and shouldn't be named parents. Stay strong in this
Hi Cat Lynn, please read this ❤ I deal with a chronic illness and it really takes a toll on my mental health, but you've really helped me cope ❤ im starting to heal! I also want to dress alternative, but I don't know where to shop or how to do it bc the only stores near me have preppy Lululemon stuff, which I cannot afford. Does anyone have advice?
Hey, @Its_omis_world, I know I’m not her and not emo but I used to be, and thrift stores are usually where the goods are, from baggy jeans you can rip to band tees to others❤
I saw some cheap chokers just yesterday at TJMaxx in the girls section. Most shirts they sell are about 8-12 dollars. I found a cool alternative red and black striped jacket there once. Marshalls also sells cheaper clothing. Some places that have about 20 dollars and up items are Rue 21, Hot Topic, and Box Lunch. Rue 21 has good alternative jeans but are somewhat hard to find on sale. Hot topic and box lunch almost always have something on sale if you sign up for text message updates.
My dad is totally nonbinary-phobic (he’s not transphobic or homophobic, but idk) and I haven’t come out yet but I know what his exact response would be. “It’s just a phase, you’re still young.” And he would call me by my deadname. I use my deadname with everyone except my two best friends, because they don’t know, but my dad wouldn’t care.😅
I'm trans ftm so Everytime i hear "this is our daughter *deadname*" all i can think is.. I'm not a girl And then after they get done introducing me to their friends or whatever i go silently cry in my room 🙂
My mom once said i should have a girlfriend like one of my friends and i just said "i hope for that too". Then after some months she also called me out for being non-binary. She knows all of this and i was scared of talking to her, i hope more people can have loving and understanding parents as well 💖
“We love our daughter” “We love our daughter” “We love our daughter” “We love our daughter” I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER
Your videos have helped me get rid of most my anxiety, oddly enough. Even though you don't tend to make videos about that kinda stuff, it's these videos that not only make me smile, but they also make me want to talk more to other people. And if you're wondering, that's not particularly natural for me. It's even helped me adapt to people I know better. It's also got me thinking about my sexuality and who I am. Thanks for the videos and the positive messages you're sending to people like me. Keep making people smile! 🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂
@@riotpb10I’m not gonna reply again after this comment, so don’t bother telling me it’s nonsense. xe/xem are pronouns. For instance, I think you would use them by saying, Xe is going to the mall today, I like xem. Instead of, he is going to the mall today, I like him. (if I’m not using xe/xem correctly please let me know)
This one is dedicated to my spouse ❤. I will always love you as my non-binary bean ❤
Aww that's so cute >_<
Aww that’s so nice of you ❤
@@Sage_923object show fan spotted!?
YIPEEEE
Tyy I’m nonbinary and genderfluid and my parents wouldn’t accept me
I came out to my entire family with my relatives during this year's Chinese New Year Eve dinner. Everyone said they already knew.
Lmao
did that with my friends and they were like "Wait... you weren't already out about this?"
Apparently my coming out was just me realising what they all knew...
*PLOT TWIST*
Damn lucky for you
When I told my mom and Grandpa I was pansexual, my grandpa dead @ss turned to my mom and asked where his 25 bucks was at. 😂😂😂 apparently my mom thought I was going to be at least bi while my grandpa said pansexual
i told my dad i liked girls and he just high fived me and said same
Lol, my dad commented on wario’s muscles when playing Mario kart, and said he would kiss Harry Potter during a kiss scene soooooo…
LOL
Thats amazing 😂👍
I envy you
Reminds me of Lucifer from Hazbin Hotel
i came out to my hispanic dad as gay and all he said was "ok, more women for me i guess"
ur dad is cool
Ur dad is cool😂
W dad tho
RESPECT
😂
When I came out to my mom as lesbian she was like “ok. I’m not getting any pride flags to put on the fridge until you get your grades up.”
I love her 😂
Lucky you, my mum is homophobic and transphobic😢
Better get your grades up tho!!❤
@@lenkaaaa0i wish my mom was homophobic then shed agree with me😂
“Mom, I like girls”
“Ok, that doesn’t explain your grade though”
@@lenkaaaa0 I can adopt you, my mom is both a lesbian and a transwoman, 🫴
My mom when I came out as a Lesbian she yelled at me for 2 straight hours how it wasn't "Christian like" of me. Then when I told my dad he was just like "Aren't girls hot?"
Girls are hot
The irony is that God created us, so in theory, he made you lesbian
I hate my dad :)
@@zay-jp7mf If you don't mind me asking, why?
@@Charlotte._.Morningstar35 it's father related.....
I told my mom I was bi, her response was ligit "okay, as long as whoever you date isn't an ass" i love my mom so much 😂❤
Same with my mom when I told her I was lesbian
I came out to my parents as demiaroace and when i told them i got really scared cause ik their not huge fans of like the lgbtq stuff so i nearly started having a breakdown but their reactions when i told them and explained to them what it was,it was kinda idk how to feel about it,like it was kinda dry but at the same time sweet idk
They like said stuff like "we dont really care if you date someone or have kids as long as your happy"(the reason i say it was dry is cause they had like no expression on their faces until they noticed the fear in my eyes and the tears i had busy trying to come out) and when i told them i was scared to tell them they were trying to reassure me that they still love me,but whenever i say stuff like im not going to date someone or have kids they always say to me "wait till you've found the right guy/ famous last words" like tbh it gets really annoying so yea but im kinda scared to come out as pan to them TwT 😂
could never be me judging that my parents are LGBTQ+ haters. I’m not one but i wouldn’t go against them despite everything, 👍
and i don’t mean “could never bE mE” in a mean way i’m saying i would get abandoned if i was apart of the community.
But i do support people’s choices😌 as long as it’s ok to their religion and such. i wouldn’t really go against my religion or loved ones for it, but that’s honestly my choice ❤️
Interviewer: Are you male or female,
Me: sometimes
The correct answer is yes ;0
Same lol! 🩷🤍💜🖤💙
"are you a boy or a girl"
"nah"
@@foxcollias4444Fellow Gender Fluid!!
@@TheLegendaryForgOfFrogLake yes!!
🩷🤍💜🖤💙
The next vid I got was "I'm not a boy, and I'm not a girl. I'm a coconut!"
Enbies moment 😂
Your pfp aweee 🥺
I feel like that’s a prince reference 😂
Am I a male? Am I a female? Do I prefer not to say? I’m a croissant
I'm a c. A. C. Tu. S
i always argue with my mom whenever she calls my brother "emily"
Is your brother’s name Everett?
why would you share your brother's deadname on the internet
She gave birth so she should be able to choose the name until it is legally changed
@@ImTheRealOfficialHyunjin no lmfao if you want your child to be happy & feel safe with you, just call them by their preferred name, its not that hard and it makes it easier for literally everybody, you wouldn't be happy if your name is (for example) Dennis, and your mom called you another name like Stella.
@@notatxmnnah cause that shows the parents you don't like the name they gave you
My sister is trans and autistic, someone caused her to have an autistic meltdown because of what they said, they said : imagine being so mentally unstable you thought you were girl even though you're obviously a boy.
They then proceeded to laugh at her as she sat on the floor crying and grabbing at her arms to stimulate herself (trying to avoid crying as it gives too much stimulation when she does because of how many things she feels when crying)
She's never gone to another shop without wearing a mask, gloves and skirt ever since
That is so horrible of those people to do that to your sister. I hope your sister can find more people like you who support her, and I hope she can thrive and feel confident being her true self. (I'm nonbinary and autistic)
That is plain bullshit. I don’t care if I get banned or not. It’s not right. I swear, give me an address and I can take care of it myself. That is totally wrong, not only are they targeting her for sexuality, but also her disability. That is all around fucked up. Something needs to be done about this. Not only for your sister but for everyone else including me. My mom told me to kms if I thought about being the opposite gender or LGBTQIA+, my parents are highly phobic to it all. This is wrong and needs to be addressed ASAP.
Pspsps, tell your sister that she is the most girliest, pretty princess to ever princess, she put princesses the rest of the princesses and leaves them in shame!
I hope you both take care, stay safe!
@@luminousmistakes thanks, I will
I hope your sister will be okay ❤
I came out to my mom that I am bisexual. She said "You should be straight," and I was sad and cried in my room all night. So I kept my sexuality hidden from my mom and she thinks that I'm straight but I'm bisexual and non-binary. Some of my classmates are bi, non-binary and some are straight. Ngl, my class just literally supports each other..
Awh you have a good class my class doesn’t support each other everyone is straight (except me) they are anti lgbt except my friend and bff and they’re so rude and if someone is gay they hate on them
I'm A Non-Binary Bisexual, Too! 🏳️🌈😊
But, At Home, I'm Kind Of Forced To Be Closeted About It Because My IRL Sister Is Rude To Me And Had The Audacity To Tell Me I'm "Not Bi" At One Point. She Also Seems To Like Hurting Me, So I'm Just Trying To Steer Clear Of Her Now. 🖤🐾
Damn, lucky. My class is basically homophobic :/ i hear them joking about drawing the pride flag then burning it :(
bro if my class found out what you were you would actually stop existing (not hate I'm bi it's just my class is homophobic)
Ur the type of mom that when your kid comes out gay/les/bi/trans u respect it and not disown them like some parents do ❤️
I wish my mom was like that (I'm so terrified of coming out)
@@Yuki_irl just tell her it migh go well it mughgr not xx
@@Yuki_irl If they put u up for adoption after they don't deserve you.
my dad would probably disown me, and i just don't tell my mom anything 😭
@@Yuki_irl
Same.. good luck 🫶
Dude my friend got an airhorn so when ever they call their sister a boy or deadname she honked it and said "WRONG" It is so funny😂
That's a good friend
That’s a really good brother/sister right there
Iconic XD
😂😂
Loool thats too good
I remember when i had such a sentimental talk with my father and my brother once, and I started crying cuz he started talking about stuff like friends and that friendships could end up, family stuff, and how our parents will always support and love us no matter what, and the next day my mom (who was already sleeping when we had that talk) asked me "Love, do you like (my bff's name)?"
And i have to confess, that, yes, i think i might like her, but I'm still not ready to share it with my parents-
And i answered her "wut? Why?"
And she just told me smth like "becuz ur dad told me that you got kinda sentimental while talking 'bout her..."
I got rlly nervous- 😭😭😭
I once told my aunt im bisexual and she said “your too young to understand.”
“It’s not like you ever felt something for a girl”and she laughed.
I had a crush on a boy and a girl.
I AM bisexual but they won’t take me seriously
And from that day I didn’t say anything to my parents about my personal life.
Same..I said I'm lesbian.
I said I was transgender x
I had the same situation with my parents
My mum had the same reaction when I said I'm bi Yess I'm dating a guy but I do like both
My brother randomly said at dinner "im gay" and the whole table is like "cool"
Also for those wondering my brother was under the influence but he is still 🏳️🌈 thank you for the support and storys you have shared ^^
God loves everyone you should never bully someone for their sexuality
Vibezz
If I said that to my family my dad would be SCREAMING at me 😭
@@rablerablerableraa he was drunk
Nah van I have your family😭
@@ShawniYetz 😨
Im a Christian but when ever someone starts to be homophobic i say "just let then love who they love, and be who they want to be!" No need to be scared of who you are, go out and live an amazing life! ❤
AS YOU SHOULD!
As you should 👍😊
I’m Christian as well and it bothers me so much when i see fellow Christians being disrespectful and rude to people in the LGBTQ+ community like dude. Mind your own business. God loves them just as much.
THANK YOU for listening to the whole Bible.
It bothers me when Christians are anti-LGBTQ because God said LOVE THY NEIGHBOR, and he created EVERYONE.
''we love our son''
''im not a boy!''
''we love our sans''
Why is that so damn funny is it a typo or did you just reference undertale
@@Chimeramoon49 both
“We love our Walmart bag”
Came out to my mum as bi, got a "yeah, I knew. What do you want for dinner?", came out to my dad, got a "Okay. You still going to give me grandkids right?" I said I would try but if I couldn't have them naturally, I'd adopt- he was cool with that answer (I wanted kids anyways soooo). Chill parents are precious and we need to protect them at all costs.
My parents don’t care if I have kids or not personally and my mom said almost the exact same thing 😂 and my dad doesn’t know-
I wish my dad was like that.
My mom said i dont “act” trans…WHAT!!!! HOW DO I ACT TRANS!!!!!!!
REAL
I'm questioning my existence rn w- HOW TF DO U ACT TRANS
Ikr@@xstvrl1ght.
Literally my mom said that though
say for her "And how a trans act?"@@Valentino_on_pawzz
I told my parents I was Bisexual and they but told me "No." My oldest brother is the only reason I'm here to this day...
Oh no :( atleast you have/had your brother :)
once a bisexual called doma
had come out one day to their mama
what do we say
when kids are gay
well one could have said "thanks obama"
hope u got new family
Ok lol
@@Tamashiifuxkteehee your so funny fuck you
@@kiraoshiro9251 Can't tell if this is supposed to be a insult or to make me laugh
Relatable except it's "girl" is what my dad and everyone calls me- ;-;
(I haven't opened up to him yet-)
Than what's the issue if you haven't came out yet? 😶
My dad still calls me a girl and I still haven't came out yet bc I'm scared of him. I tried to explain this to you the best I can 😶
To hopefully explain to the best of my extent what this person means (sorry if I get it wrong), they're afraid of their dad not accepting them.
Because of, perhaps, hearing of his views, or little things in the past, or just plain fear due to hearing other's stories about lack of acceptance this person is scared to come out.
Even if their dad doesn't know about their gender identity yet, it still might hurt to be called a girl..it was that way for me too.
@@xzjayqthe issue is these people want problems to exist that don’t exist.
@@riotpb10bro what?
I haven’t came out to my parents (I’m bi) but they’re always like “I have to meet your boyfriend or girlfriend” when I’m dating and it honestly feels better when they don’t judge but if I came out my family would lose their shit 👀👀👀
Come out to them I can talk to u if it didn’t go well
@@Midnight-fg3rlYou're a very wholesome human being, my faith in humanity has been restored.
🤢🤢🤢
@@Midnight-fg3rl thank you so much idk why you ppl are so nice when you don’t know me but I had came out to my parents not my family last week and they are completely fine with it and my brother already picked up the signs, I’m thinking of coming out to just my grandparents for now because it would be a lot to tell all of them 😭
@@Cotton1711 I’m so happy that they accepted u Ik that we don’t know each other but I love being nice to people
this reminds me of my sister (mtf) who has to live with my parents not fully supporting trans rights, they say stuff like how "Trans people are touching their kids!" and say things like that, one time my school put an LGBTQ++ flag outside the school, the pastor did not show up, my parents refused to take me to school one day because it was protesting for spreading the 'gay agenda' around the school because according to them "the LGBTQ++ people are touching their kids and they can't let that happen", they also can't seem to accept the fact that the internet is a get away for trans/nonbinary/genderfluid kids that don't know how to tell their parents
“LGBTQ++” The premium premium gay
I am actually a gender-fluid, but nobody seems to recognize that. People have called my crazy for it!
Ok so i am completely fine with LGBTQ people but i dont think u should expose it to people in school. I mean if its a college its ok but high school? middle school? no way. In those years, the kids (yes kids) are still DEVELOPING. They shouldnt be going all on in that age. At that age u havent even figured many things out yet so ig the parents not bringing you to school was a good choice, but the reason was not
This reminds me of trying to come out to my mom **this happened when I was 8**telling her I was Lesbian she said: "u think girls are pretty? Dw I will support you isn't two of your sisters bi? its okay take your time.* that legit made me cry.
@user-cv1so7dw6f it is crazy. You can't just switch genders when you feel like it. I get feeling like the completely wrong gender and changing into the other, but to change constantly is ridiculous.
As a person who has a friend who's nonbinary I feel this
@UrFriendXXX0 wut
same, and they’re emo lol so even more bullying they get :(
@@katekatt3128 that's sad
Ur friend is baka
@@kxstenn wut
my girlfriends nonbinary (they said themself they’d still want to be called mt girlfriend^^) and everytime someone says she i automatically correct them and their face always lights up when i do it and it’s such a nice feeling
aww thats adorable, happy for u two
That is so CUTEE
New sub ❤
I am also dating a non-binary person and they love when, if I tell my friends I met them in kindergarten I never say their dead name (name a person is born with but doesn't like it or prefers something else) and they are soo happy whenever I do that for them
AWW
My friend does that for me because I’m socially awkward. We are non binary bros
When I told my mom I’m pansexual she said:” oh nice, I’m bi.” And I was like “wait- wha?-“
Do u guys like cooking pans?
(Joke)
@@St4r_0n-PawZ-w yep 💅✨💄
(Also joke)
@@a_odd_one 👁👄👁 going to buy pans rn>:3
@@St4r_0n-PawZ-w dude buy me one 😭 I’m running out 😭😭😭
🩷💛💙
"hows my favourite niece"
"Wheres my granddaughter"
"This is my daughter"
Im not a girl
Im not a girl
Im not a girl
What are you pronouns then?
yes you are
@Mellow_Yellow1443 thanks
@@Beba_pistxc he him they them
@@grobowapowaga847 no I'm not
I'm trans.
I'm gay
"You're just straight, you'll grow out of it."
"Stop trying to be interesting"
"You'll figure it out sometime don't worry."
"What a nice daughter you have!"
I'm not a girl..
I'm not a girl..
I'm not a girl...
I'm not a girl
Same but im bi trans :3
You're a girl :3
Exactly the same we aren't girls we are boys mi friends!!!
Gurl u slay ur life don’t care what they say JUST………………………………………………………………..SLAY❤
Nuh uh. I ain’t a girl. I’m a boi.
When i told my mom i was bi at the age of 14, she said "damn, now i gotta be careful when u have girls over too?" Haha we love a protective queen😂❤
Omg your mom sounds so fun💗
@@Bakugo-the-editor she really is! I love her so much🥰
That's so cute!!
My friend came out as gay to his religious mom and she said it’s Adam and Eve not Adam and Steve 💀
@@Meeeeeeeeeeeeeee-frLOLLOLLOL
same situation for me but everyone calls me a girl when I’m trans- it’s annoying but I can’t rlly do anything about it bc when I do, no one listens 😭
OH NOO! IM SO SORRY- 💗 I USED TO MISGENDER MY TRANS FRIEND ALOT BUT I APOLOGIZED AND NOW I DONT ANYMORE!!! TRUST ME THEY WILL LISTEN SOON!!
I even asked her (mother) to call me by my chosen name and pronouns and refuses to understand dysphoria
W mom
@@WarLordEditzz what are you doing on an LGBT post lol
@@ghost.ink. it was random
@@WarLordEditzz still you could've just scrolled lol but idk have a nice day
@@WarLordEditzzdo you have to hate on every comment in this whole video? I’m pretty sure this comment section is supposed to be a safe place so thanks for ur opinion but please stop hating on people. Thank you
I literally cried in the middle of a mall today because this guy kept bugging me and they kept calling me a guy because I have short hair which I didn't get mad at him for it but then he called me a girl which I wasn't mad at either because he didn't know I was nom binary. So I corrected him and he wouldn't stop calling me she or he and he was poking fun at me and bullying me and I clearly stated my boundaries. He didn't respect them at all. I had gone to multiple different stores in the mall that were far away from them and he wouldn't stop laughing at me and bullying me. I had gone into got topic and the immediately realized what was happening and the amazing person there called security and comforted me and everything! I love hot topic and their caring personality❤ for anyone who reads this please know that you're amazing and you're strong and we're going to get through this together. Love everyone for who they are and accept them❤❤
That is TOO SWEET holy shit!
Awww
That’s why we love Hot Topic. You’re valid!!!
The main issue there was not his disrespect for your pronouns, it's the fact he was fucking following you. Both are issues, but one is 10x worse.
@@alexisjustexisting yea
I told my brother I’m pansexual/panromantic, polyamorous, and genderfluid and bro was like “Okay, tf that gotta do with me?” (He’s supportive but just doesn’t care what I identify as lmao, he’ll still love me even tho I’m an asshole 💀💀)
my brother did that too
bro got the human mod list 🙏🏻
Bro i told my brother i was gay (just gay i wasnt sure what i was then,ik now im pan) and he said "no your not" and a couple days later said staright to my face "i hate gay people" i felt so hurt after that but whenever i "joke" around saying "im gay" and stuff like that he just always yells at me saying"no your not stop it" like i get it hes homophobic but really gotta shut his mouth😢😂
@@Jo-chanVAI'm so sorry that happened 😢
I told my younger brother that I was bisexual and he was like "okay?" 😂
(I'm still trying to figure out if I'm pansexual or bisexual)
If i say to my mom i'm bi-
*cutely gets disowned*
Edit: am I a bit famous? :))
Edit: to whoever who can relate to this, I hope you the best for your future
Edit: good luck,I'll always support you
Oh no! Are you ok? I hope u accept yourself bkz ur amazing just the way u are :)
@@Eclipse_daWeirdestGurl ty :>
@@Koalacommenter I'm an LGBTQ+ fan, with a lesbian cousin, so I know :)
That the opposite my dad is very much homophobic
My brother is bi
I love you so much your my comfort person and as stopped me from getting bipolar depression (I still have clinical depression but tysm
Funny story. I was at a wedding handing out little goodie bags because they let me. One middle-aged man, apparently the groom’s friend’s dad, they said “Thank you ma’am!” The dysphoria hit me like a train wreck. I was in a suit, and my hair was short. My eyes widened and I didn’t give out the rest, but my mom did. Thanks mom. ❤
I mean it’s not the man’s fault, he didn’t know, but yeah
I know, but it’s just kinda funny and painful.
@@equonixcookiesI get that. If I was that person, I would’ve at least stuck to sir knowing your appearance.
I know that feeling. Something really commonly dysphoric to me is when my mom drags my butt into the “women’s” clothes section. I’m nonbinary, but when I see the men’s section, the clothes seem so much more suitable for me and more comfortable to me overall. But I could never ask my mom to “go into the men’s section”. She would go off (talking) about something I didn’t ask for.
@@korahholl810IKK like why do the men get all the coolor clothes 🤩🤩
Had a similar experience at work.
Was working on picking up weeds in the parking lot, and a nice lady came to help.
She called me a "she" despite me looking fairly masculine/androgynous.
Luckily when I said I was a boy, she didn't press and corrected herself.
Even if they don't mean harm, it can still hurt a bit.
I am really tired of unsupportive parents. Im a trans boy, and im finding it hard to come out to my parents because i came out to them once already about my pronouns but they didn't listen :(
Edit: I came out to them as a trans bot! Though they still won't use my preferred name or pronouns
same, I feel ya there.
If it makes you feel any better, that weight gets lighter when you're not living with them. My fiancé had a similar problem but now that he's out of the house he can express himself properly! The light at the end of the tunnel is coming, even if your parents aren't supportive!
@@Akalim thank you so so much 💚
same but make it genderfluid, nb, and trans hoping they will listen to at least one
@@TopOceanKitty_Gachagreatest pfp of all LMAO
I told my mom that i was lesbian. She said "you be what you want i love you no matter what. I also used to be lesbian!" I love my mom
THATS SWEET
My fam:we love our daughter
Me who knows I can't come out as NB:okay...
Same here
@@Demytyboinanimate insanity fan spotted
FR. They also somehow found out I was NB last year and they said “quit this bullsh!t, you’re a girl, so act like one. Or else you’re grounded.” So later this year i told them “uhh, yeah sure I’m female” when I met my therapist and she asked what gender i was and MY ASS WHO’S STILL NB-
I wish I had the confidence to come out to my parents knowing they dont support.
I dont like lgbtq (respectfully, meaning i dont hate or anything but instead just stay away from it) but im sorry for you, that must suck a lot, i wish you the best
relatable
Hear Hear
@@Scottcreatescontentyeah it’s good that you clarified. Ppl will be mad
Same
YES FRRRR LIKE WHY CANT PEOPLE UNDERSTAND 😭😭😭
it really hurts some people a lot 😔
(btw the fit it’s fitting and the hair is ✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨✨)
Ok
Fr! (And also i love the outfit and haircut too! ❤🖤)
I'm sorry if I hurt you but it hurts me to try to understand how someone can be many genders at once
@@jennifertattershall9141 You can say that again, I've witnessed this first hand.
@@jennifertattershall9141smbdys sensitive
I remember when i came out as bi to my mom, she looked so scared. She told me, "That's okay, I can't tell you what you are. But don't tell your father..." I was terrified of him finding out since.
I told a uncle I went by he / him , and I was trans, and I response I got made me cry and want to throw a chair,at him. He responded with "no matter what you go by you'll always be my little girl" and for the whole family. My grandma knows, but she goes 'people like you' and says it as if I'm a new species the world just found and absolutely hates it
You're a girl.
Stop playing the different child hmara be yourslef. It's not because you're not like " other girl " that you're a boy. Don't say" i just feel like i was born in the wrong body 🥺" no one care. You're born to be a women. Live with that. If we can just like "change" when there's a problem in our life everyone would do that so stop trying to change just because you don't accept the reality of the life.
I'm so sorry you have to go through that, it sounds really tough. You're valid and there are safe spaces and better, and more accepting people out here. Stay strong dude o7
It sounds like he wasn't trying to be offensive or anything, but he should've used your pronouns
@@Iamsparklyvampireman tbh I don’t think he even knew what it meant really? And how important it was…
You poor thing! You gotta get out of your echo chamber and come back to reality! I swear to you these people do not care about you! You need people who are going to do whats best for you instead of just trying to make you happy
i hate it when my parents do this, it's seriously annoying. finally theres someone who gets it
As nonbinary myself, I felt this. I've clearly stated what things I'm comfortable with my family saying (such as nickname sissy, I'm okay with, but she/her pronouns or deadname I don't feel comfortable with), yet family still deadnames me and still says she/her pronouns.. If you're going through something similar, it's okay, it won't last forever and we'll get through this. 🫶
grow up
Don’t worry about that hate comment, I imagine their life isn’t very happy if that’s what they do in their free time.
@@Laceration_Gravityyy just stating that you guys are all snowflakes because your getting called the wrong name and throw a big fit over it.
“aS a NoN bInArY mYsElF”
@@TKG72-2 I couldn't agree more
@@TKG72-2 Excuse me but that's rather rude?? If they want to be called something else because their dead name brings, for example, bad memories, then you should be respectful of that. Imagine if your name was "Tim" and your parents called you "Tamara" instead
I'm not trying to start an argument, but if you're going to be pissy about this, then just don't comment at all, simple as that :/
This is true, at school my teachers call me she/her yet.. I’m a they/them and it hurts everytime
as a genderfluid person who has parents and a family that wont respect my they/them pronouns this means alot thanks ❤
edit: OMG 32 REPLIES you are all amazing and i love all you fluid and non binary pals :)
i like to appear as an androgenous and its funny bc when i was a kid it was hevy bc other kids would ask me whether i was a boy or girl and i always said im ✨both✨
Aw I'm gender fluid too I am respected in my house tho I hope you one day feel loved and respected
I'm that too 😢, this helps a lot
Same- ur not alone
I am nonbinary and I have never in my life had respect for my pronouns ( They / Them
If I recall correctly, Cat once called her spouse a “golden retriever gamer”. I like that.
my mom literally went from “if a boy wants to be a girl, let em be a girl, if a girl wants to be a boy, let em be a boy.” to “dont watch [insert trans mtf ytber i forgot the name of], they’re weird. that’s a man.” 😭
oh!
Why is that my mom too 😭
She went from
"Oh I'm so happy the world is more accepting to those groups nowadays" to
"Who's going to be the husband? Who's going to be the wife? A girl with a girl is wrong and a boy with a boy is wrong."
(Idk her views on trans ppl-)
My mom’s response to me being pan: *Yells at me and says she wish she could disown me.*
My dad: “Anyone can be hot, can’t they?”
I came out as nonbinary to my parents and they told me that they weren't going to use my pronouns and that they didn't understand why I wouldn't want to be a girl. They always say she/her instead of they/them and it makes me feel really upset and misunderstood. This video made me really happy so thank you! I alwyas love your videos!❤
I’m sorry about that :( I hope things get better for you
@@itz_Nia87 it's ok, thank you so much ❤️
@@ender_jade2132 You’re welcome, as a genderfluid I know what it’s like when people don’t respect such an important part of who you are.
@@itz_Nia87 omg you're genderfluid!? That's so cool! I'm sorry that you have to go through that it really sucks but i think being genderfluid is really cool and I completely support!
@@ender_jade2132 Thank you :)
Even if you don't support LGBT, it's just common decency to respect them. It's just being a decent person. That's what I believe anyway.
Edit- I've had a change of some perspective. I asked someone in my religion that is knowledgeable about it and he said to use the pronouns would technically be against the belief of what is a woman and what is a man but that doesn't mean you be disrespectful.
Another edit- intersex is a medical thing y'all it's not LGBTQ 😭
THAT'S WHAT I'M TALKING ABOUT
EXACTLY!
FR
True but I've come across too many people who look like a specific gender but get mad when they're called that, if I ask they what they're pronouns are they get offended...? It's like a loose loose situation for me right now.
@@kaitlyn-sss I completely understand. If they get offended, just politely ask why they got upset and what you should refer them as so they don't get mad again. And try to work then through it.
"we love our daughter!"
"We love our daughter!"
"We love our daughter!"
"We love our daughter!"
Me inside my head
when they say that:
And im not a girl
And im not a girl
And im not a girl
And im not a girl....
I haven't told them yet
so it hard for me💔
I hope you can tell them soon and they support tou all the way. If not, then im here :)
I hope you'll have a chance to tell them, if worst comes to worse, atleast you found the courage to tell them ❤
Right after we moved my sister got a gf and came out to our grandfather and this is how the conversation went:
“Pop, I have a girlfriend.” -my sister.
“New home, new homies.” -my grandfather
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
"We love our *straight* daughter."
"We love our *straight* daughter."
"We love our *straight* daughter."
IM NOT *STRAIGHT* !
IM NOT *STRAIGHT* !
IM NOT *STRAIGHT* !
nobody says that
@@grobowapowaga847 okay but it's my comment.
@@We_sh0uldst1ckt0g3th2r it’s on public yt post
@@grobowapowaga847 oh, i didn't know, I wasn't trying to copy
Me when someone says "daughter" I'm not a girl. I'm not a girl. I'M NOT A GIRL Anymore...they/him/he/them but sometimes they/she/her/them but I prefer a lot they/he/him/them.
i'm trans with horribly transphobic parents. sometimes i eavesdrop on their conversations whenever lgbtq+ stuff comes up, and every time, they say something along the lines of "trans people are ruining america." and every time, i cry. and recently, one of my good friends, whom i came out to on thanksgiving last year, used she/her on me when i was hanging out with a friend who supported me. thankfully, they said "he's not a girl." and when i said the same thing, she said, "i don't care." i lost it and went off on her. but APPARENTLY, it was 'just a joke.' when i told her not to joke like that again cuz she really hurt me, she just said sorry without any remorse. and there's another friend i have who just... doesn't care at all. last time i told her i was trans, she said "no, ur not a boy, ur a girl. that's weird that u think that." the face i made at her goes beyond anger. but of course, in all the shit, there's one friend that is supportive of me.❤️
anyone who read this far, no matter where or what u r, there will always be someone who supports u, even if u don't know them yet, they'll come eventually. patience is key. love you!🫶🏻
Oh my god… thats horrible… I‘m so sorry that your family is like this, and I‘m really glad that you have a supportive friend!!!! My father is like that too, and he cant handle to have a trans son lol Luckily I have a boyfriend who corrects everyone when I‘m too scared to say anything. Youre not alone bro, and I promise that it‘ll get better. I know this sounds so stupid, but life always has its ups and downs, and I promise that one day, youll have a family who accepts you (maybe not your biological family, but def a „chosen“ one)! You are loved, my brother
God>>>
@@Mango1808what does God have to do with this and it's kinda irresponsible and disrespectful to use his name to hate or prove a shitty point to people don't think I don't know what you're trying to do by saying this
That sucks bro........ We all have that one friend who we can rely on and they're always either the most innocent bean ever or the most dirty minded out of pocket mf ever. No in between
@@Mango1808yes God is good but , some people have other religions and I personally love God but like.. dude?..
When I came out to my mom as a Lesbian she said: "Oh reeeallyy? I didn't know!" 😂❤ I love her sm!
This is like how it is for me except the other way around. I'm not a girl. And absolutely no one has the place or right to tell me that I'm not. It's my body, it's my gender.
I'm a mom. And I'm also a daughter. I grew up with conditional love. And I swore I would have no conditions for my children to have my love. Our child was amab. But if my child comes to me some day and says "I don't want to be a boy" my answer will be "and I still love you. You are my child before anything else. Before your gender, your sex, your romantic or lack there of attraction. You are my child. And I am your mom. Nothing will change my love. And I mean nothing "
If you cannot love your child because of their authentic self, do not have children. And withholding love isn't love. Abandoning your child isn't love. Shaming them isn't love. They are not property. They are not extensions of you. They are their own whole self. We as parents are there to help them discover who they are. Do not teach them they are unwanted. Better not to have them than make a broken person.
You are so sweeet
Exactly! People who don’t support their children no matter what (unless they’re a r@pist or murderer) don’t deserve to have kids!
well said, girlie. we need more mothers like you in this world.
This made me want to tear up. Omg. Its hard when you know some random amazing person on the internet, or your friends parent is more supportive than your own. Ur Awesome!
Please adopt me I live at 35°06'06.0"N 101 °54'32. 1 "W
(This is a joke it’s just some random place on Google maps)
i can agree with this a lot in some ways, my mom when i came out said i was gonna go to hell and that im a demon, that was a year ago and she still doesn’t accept me and i don’t think she ever will bc she threw away all my “boy-ish” clothes cuz i look like a boy in them which i want to, but she’s was over feminizing me but she’s calmed a little, she’s bought me some baggy clothes but she always tells me if they’re too baggy she’s returning them, but that’s just an empty threat but she hasn’t even talked to me about she’s just pushing it away, and my cousin who’s in a few of my classes told my aunt about how my teachers call me oscar and my aunt told my mom and my mom yelled at me. I wish she would’ve talked to me calmly about it tho and it makes me feel like she’ll never treat me the same because of it.
Good finally a parent doing their job
@@ShhsBsndosij so a parents job is to make their child uncomfortable, miserable, hated, and mistreated?
I'm so sorry for that, I'll have you know that I support you even if I don't know you 💜
@@Multifandom_pers0n no a parent’s job is absolutely not about mistreating their child or abusing them. It’s about taking them out of their little fantasies of trying to change their whole identity. I would do the same thing if it was my child no way are they being gay or transgender or any other type of lgbtqa+++++++++++ or whatever. Stop trying to deny reality because everyone knows you’re the same person you were born as. I’m a girl and I’ll always stay a girl. So will everyone else
@@ShhsBsndosijok so?theres Nothing to disrespect.As a Christian,yes I’m homophobic but that doesn’t mean u just can tell them what they do.. ? so don’t destroy someone’s dreams.
When I told my mom I was gay she kept going on saying: “I won’t raise you in this house under my roof, it’s either you like the opposite gender or you don’t like anyone at all!”
But I’m now secretly pansexual, and she/they!❤️🩹
Gosh, I feel this with all of my grandparents calling me their granddaughter. Or giving me cards on my birthday that say granddaughter. I know some of them are trying, but they have to realize that doing little things like that do hurt me. I'm pretty sure some of them don't even try to correct themselves. One of them will, on occasion, misname me since I've changed my name twice in the past 1 and a half years, then they'll say, "Or whatever you go by these days." or something along those lines, and they don't realize how much that bothers me. Anyways, sorry for the rant. I just connected with this video a lot and wanted to share my experience with stuff like this! For all the nonbinary and trans beauties out there, you are loved, appreciated, and respected here. ❤
So what are they supposed to say? My lovely grandthey? (Not trying to be rude)
@l.i.f.e1035 grandchild. Things like that. I have a book called how to they/Them and one of the pages gives a bunch of genderneutral terms people could use for parents, siblings, etc.
Get over it. Women these days…
@makinpplmad I'm going to have to ask you to delete this reply. I was simply stating how I relate to this video. If you cannot accept that, why are you even watching Clawed Beauty?
@@quills_cos Congratulations, you’ve fallen for it! Whole point of this account is to try and make people mad, and you obviously didn’t get the memo.
I’m going to absolutely despise writing this comment.
A couple years ago, I came to the conclusion of “I must be a boy since I know I’m not girl.”
Which was wrong, but it’s what my parents and family got used to. I now go by they/them, but my family keeps using masculine terms for me. So this video honestly brought tears to my eyes
i love how expressive your tiktoks are, reminds me of theater!!:D
I understand this perfectly like so many people in my class say that Brantley is a boy she is not a boy she is a girl😡
I'm a Muslim girl. So I can't really change my gender. But I respect everyone. (No hate pls)
Like of shame
@@WarLordEditzz Stop it.
I'm muslim girl too. I respect them. And I hate it when people hurt/disrespect them bc they might end up hurting them so badly even killing them. That is NOT ok. Killing is HARAM. There is no reason to hate them so much and there is def no reason to take them off this earth too early.
+BEING attracted to the same gender isn't haram but COMMITTING to it is. You're allowed to feel like you're the opposite gender (after all , you're not your body) BUT you're not aloud to modify your body or change pronouns. This life is just a test. There will be no rules in Jannah you can literally do anything there! You're supposed to trust god for this life then completely do what you want in Jannah.
I don't support committing to it on this dunya , bc that's breaking Allah's rules. It's just like any other haram thing , you don't support the doing of haram , but you don't go out of your way to take the pork sandwich out of some non-muslim's hand and through it on the floor , then spit on them. You don't go out of your way to kill someone for eating a pork sandwich. They had their whole life a head of them and had a chance to repent and change their mind that you took away from them. Imagine how angry that would make Allah.
The only ever sin that the punishment for in islam is to die : is rape. Nothing else that I'm aware of.
*sorry for the 3 thousand word essay*
Nobody can change their gender.
@@riotpb10 well, debatable
I really don’t get why people can’t understand pronouns
FR THO
It’s not hard
But I don't understand why people think that their more than one person by using they/them pronouns. It's silly do you think that your worth more than me or what (I know that it means that it a boy and a girl and this is why I don't think it is necessary). I don't agree. Use the one on your birth certificate and stay with it. I don't understand why people have to be so crazy about this subject.
@@DrawingWithHailey.FR!!! Just use the one on your birth certificate
@@DrawingWithHailey. They/Them isn’t always referring to more than one person, and in this context is used to refer to someone without putting them into any gendered category.
*we love our daughter*
*we love our daughter*
*We love our daughter*
I HATE BEING CALLED A GIRL. JUST SAY MY NAME...
@TheAnti-AnimeSquad we need the exact same person as you but in ship version (i'm an anti-shipper)
Also yes i can feel how bad it is... Because i also got that experience
We love our GoMilkshake
well.. are u a girl??
My name @TheAnti-AnimeSquad
YOU ALWAYS MAKLE ME FEEL BETTER ABOUT MYSELF TY
”I love my straight grandchild!”
”I love my straight grandchild!!”
”I love my straight grandchild!!!”
”I love my staright grandchild!!!!”
Grandma☝🏻
”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!”
”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!!”
”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!!!”
”SHE’S NOT STRAIGHT!!!!”
Me and my mom☝🏻
(I’M BI I’M NOT LESBIAN IF YOU’RE CONFUSED!!!!!!)
Slaay gurl im bi and nonbinary but no one uses my prns :(
@@B3lla490 I’m so sorry to hear that… what would you prefer me to call you?🫶🏻❤️
@@Space.3869 aww ty
my heroe
im ftm, and my family always calls me a girl, or daughter.
I AM YOUR SON
I AM A BOY
I AM NOT A SHE
I AM NOT A HER.
I AM A BOY AND I AM PROUD OF IT
SAME IM TRANS FTM TOO ❤️❤️❤️
@@emo_ghost.boy. IVE SEEN YOU B4 I THINK
@@emo_ghost.boy. LIKE ON THIS CHANNEL
OMG EMO GHOST BOY?!?!?? HIIIIIII
@@shake.Zula3 HIII
As someone who's enby and has parents who won't respect that, I felt this. It's even easier for them cuz I go by any pronouns, yet they still refuse to use gender neutral terms for me and always call me daughter. I remember about a week ago my mother was filling out a form for me for lazer tag. There was a neutral option in the section where you choose your gender, yet she STILL chose female.
@Raisin_brand they never really like when I try to explain things to them. They take offense whenever I try explaining things to them, like I'm acting like I'm smarter than them. This goes not just for being enby but for anything, really. I'd love to explain it to them but I'm not really allowed to.
@@Raisin_brandyou know what’s not a hard concept? The fact that when you’re born you’re either a boy or a girl. That can’t change just because you’ve been brainwashed into believing this bs.
My step dad is very supportive and is happy if I’m happy, and my mother threatened to kick me out of the house because I’m pansexual :(
I hate when people don't understand how being nonbinary works
Are they supposed to?
As a trans girl, I felt this in my soul. Both my parents struggle with my pronouns, but at least their trying. I have to correct them frequently
Wait are u born boy ? 💀
"We love out daughter"
"We love our daughter"
"We love are daughter"
"We love *CAROLENE*
"IM NOT A GIRL"
"IM NOT A GIRL"
"IM NOT A GIRL"
"IM AM *RAY*
Ok this is off topic but this song is so relatable 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
When I told my dad I was bi he was like “good. now go pay the food delivery, today is your turn” … I HAD NO MONEY THAT DAY
WE STAN THESE KINDS OF PARENTS
@@HazelLevesque_Reborn no, he left me in bankruptcy 😭
@@haerinmania I meant the ones who don't care and just get on with their lives
Not ones who leave you in bankruptcy 🤣😭
@@HazelLevesque_Reborn it was a joke JHAHAHHAHA
@@haerinmania 🤣
It's the same for me except the other way around, my mom had said that she supported that stuff, but I'm female to male (ftm) and when she found out, me and her had an argument and she still calls me my dead name and "She/her" and it just hurts, but amazing videos!! They cheer me up!
“We love our daughter *Dead name*” “But I’m not a girl and I go by Tyler…”
When I told my mum I am lesbian she said that she doesn’t believe me and that she will never ever attend a lesbian wedding and when I was heartbroken after my gf of 6 months broke up with me she said “ oh well it was more of a close friendship wasn’t it “ and I was so upset like my best friends mum was more supportive and took me and my best friend out for lunch and was hugging me and all
Gosh, is it ok if I vent?
(scroll down to see my rant, or not.)
So, I remember there was this time when I told my mom I was a lesbian, I thought she’d me ok with it, and since she was a nice person I thought she’d support me. But honestly, I do think I was too young to make that choice. I’m still thinking about it to this day. I was just 7. And I didn’t go to school since I was homeschooled, so my mom asked me, ‘why now? You don’t even see females your age, is it those friends of (…)?!’ She started raising her voice at me, and this (…) person, I don’t want to name her, she’s my cousin. And that time, I was recently added to their GC. They were older than me by 3 years, almost all of them. One was my age. Which was the one I caught feelings for. I’ve seen them in real life before I was added to the GC since they were a friend of a friend. At that time I think I was peer pressured to be a lesbian, to like girls. But then I realized, I wasn’t peer pressured. I just wanted attention. But at the same time I kinda felt bad. I was grounded for 2 months, and I lost the trust from my parents just because I told them I liked girls? Sure, I wasn’t into girls that time.. but really? That day was the first time I have ever seen my dad cry. I thought I did something wrong. That I was something wrong. But eventually I came to realize that I don’t like JUST girls. I like both genders. A few days ago my parents talked to me about trans people, since (…), my cousin, was trans. Nearing the end of the conversation my dad said “So we won’t accept it if youre-“ he got cut off from my mom, “Lesbian?” My mom asked. My dad continued with his sentence, the following thing he said was ‘No, trans.’ Which makes me even more afraid to tell them. And I don’t plan on telling them any time soon.
Now I have a girlfriend I really like and respect, +I’m 15 and turning 16 in a month.
If you read this, ty! :)
thanks for sharing. i hope you can eventually tell them☺
i hope you can tell them soon
Something similar happened to me, I’m pansexual and I’m closeted. But when I was around 10ish I thought I liked this girl and I told her and um yea. I guess I thought it was like a trend?…
You’re so wrong for dating behind your parents back and too bad bc the truth fcking hurts deal with it. You’re not lesbian you’re just trying to be different. You’re straight deal with it.
You saying your dad cried over you being was it lesbian? Is the same thing which will happen to me if I ever tell him that. I'm straight and Christian and we just moved to Europe and my dad will ask me if he was wrong to do that. This is because in my home country I never knew about those stuff and I bet if I stayed there I wouldn't have known until I was at least 14.(just to clarify I'm not lesbian or bi I'm just predicting what will happen if i say that
I HAVE THAT EXACT SAME HAT !!
Edit: idk why i was so excited abt that😭✋
My family kicked me out for being a boy. Unsupportive parents are rough. I'm sorry for anyone dealing with something similar.
Are you okay?
@@SonicX-pd9kc not really, it only happened a few days ago. I'm not homeless (I have an apartment since I'm in college, at least until the end of the year. My parents just don't want to see me during any holidays or for summer as far as I'm aware) at least, so for now I'm only dealing with the emotional fallout and potential future consequences
I am so sorry to hear that... I am sure you'll get through this... Some people just don't deserve their children and shouldn't be named parents. Stay strong in this
Ur not a boy 😂😂😂
Well.
I’m straight and male as and Jango Fett said “I’m just a simple man trying to make my way in the universe”
Hi Cat Lynn, please read this ❤
I deal with a chronic illness and it really takes a toll on my mental health, but you've really helped me cope ❤ im starting to heal! I also want to dress alternative, but I don't know where to shop or how to do it bc the only stores near me have preppy Lululemon stuff, which I cannot afford. Does anyone have advice?
Hey, @Its_omis_world, I know I’m not her and not emo but I used to be, and thrift stores are usually where the goods are, from baggy jeans you can rip to band tees to others❤
I saw some cheap chokers just yesterday at TJMaxx in the girls section. Most shirts they sell are about 8-12 dollars. I found a cool alternative red and black striped jacket there once. Marshalls also sells cheaper clothing. Some places that have about 20 dollars and up items are Rue 21, Hot Topic, and Box Lunch. Rue 21 has good alternative jeans but are somewhat hard to find on sale. Hot topic and box lunch almost always have something on sale if you sign up for text message updates.
@SonicX-pd9kc cool! Thank you sm! We are tight on money and this sounds like something we can afford!
@Camy-34 thank you!! We have a good one near me that's really cheap! I didn't think of that, and now I'll go!
Come to Jesus he loves you.
My dad is totally nonbinary-phobic (he’s not transphobic or homophobic, but idk) and I haven’t come out yet but I know what his exact response would be. “It’s just a phase, you’re still young.” And he would call me by my deadname. I use my deadname with everyone except my two best friends, because they don’t know, but my dad wouldn’t care.😅
I'm trans ftm so Everytime i hear "this is our daughter *deadname*" all i can think is..
I'm not a girl
And then after they get done introducing me to their friends or whatever i go silently cry in my room 🙂
If you need to talk I’m here
"we love our CHILD"
My mom once said i should have a girlfriend like one of my friends and i just said "i hope for that too". Then after some months she also called me out for being non-binary. She knows all of this and i was scared of talking to her, i hope more people can have loving and understanding parents as well 💖
My mom supports me and she calls me a "handsome boy" and "cute" and "beautiful girl" and I love my mom sm
“We love our daughter”
“We love our daughter”
“We love our daughter”
“We love our daughter”
I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER
I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER
I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER
I’M NOT UR DAUGHTER
This lady is literally the sweetest emo ever!❤ your so beautiful btw❤❤❤
Your videos have helped me get rid of most my anxiety, oddly enough. Even though you don't tend to make videos about that kinda stuff, it's these videos that not only make me smile, but they also make me want to talk more to other people. And if you're wondering, that's not particularly natural for me. It's even helped me adapt to people I know better. It's also got me thinking about my sexuality and who I am. Thanks for the videos and the positive messages you're sending to people like me. Keep making people smile! 🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂🙃🙂
"we love our dagthur" " "sweethaer" "IM NOT A BOY OR GIRIL!" "IM NONBRITHDAY!"
Your autocorrect went crazy lmfaoo
Girl:❌ Boy: ❌ Non Birthday: ✅
As a bean myself using e/em and xe/xem, I love this. Thank you Cat Lynn.❤️
The fuck does any of that even mean? You need help.
@@riotpb10Do you find joy in attacking random people online? Goddamn.
@@FOLLOW3RSW0RD they do it to themselves with this nonsense. Wtf is a xe/xem? This is why people don’t take them seriously.
@@riotpb10I’m not gonna reply again after this comment, so don’t bother telling me it’s nonsense. xe/xem are pronouns.
For instance, I think you would use them by saying,
Xe is going to the mall today, I like xem. Instead of, he is going to the mall today, I like him. (if I’m not using xe/xem correctly please let me know)
@@MidnightWolf773 yea I know how a pronoun works genius. Xe or xem is not one though.
Relatable. I was born a Girl but I’m trans. My parents still call me things like “she” “her” “sister”. And I’m scared to tell them I’m trans.