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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ส.ค. 2024
- sorry this vlog is literally 6 months late lol i moved across the country and completely forgot to post it OOPS
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imagine getting rejected from your dream school, and then being invited to give a lecture there a few years later, i mean what an ultimate flex
its a power move for sure
I mean she didn't get rejected tho
AznMushroomx3 6:18
actually she was admitted to stanford. she mentioned it in her 50 facts video
?? Yes but in this video she was talking about usc, they’re two different schools
Rewind to that time where she said she wanted to wear a red glows dress to an award show but she said she would not go to an award show in 20 years
you’re so right, that sad little dress lol
Riiiiiiight?
She said Oscars award show.
The streamys is not the Oscars
I was watching that video yesterdday lmao
I JUST FINISHED WATCHING THAT VIDEO YAS
Ashley reading her speech to us bc she didn’t get to at the show feels like such a coming of age movie scene I love it
radiated main character vibes fr
jack castello did that in hollywood
I cried so hard
I love how she just casually mentions that a major university invited her to give a GUEST LECTURE
Yes, wish she had Vlogged that!
a true actual queen doesn’t trash a speech when she doesn’t win - she shares it anyway because it’s a positive empowering message we can all benefit from hearing
@@The_Kawazaki_Kid Literally all of us who watch her, moron.
@@moonbeeps Moron? What was the point of that ???
@@soofu you can't see the comment that I replied to, probably the user erased it cause he was being disrespectful
moonbeeps Ohh that makes sense, I was confused by the missing context
@@moonbeeps what did the comment say? Just curious.
i've concluded that i need ashley to make a podcast so i can listen to her having an existential crisis every other episode and have philosophical debates about life and womanhood and media and shit because ashley's really out hear hitting me where it hurts and i want that in podcast format
the closet to that is the red wine talk she did with damon dominique on his channel 🙆♀️
YES PLSSSSS ashley if u’re reading we need this!!
oh! I need this is my life~
YES YES YES ASHLEY WE NEED THIS PLS
YES PLS
Am I the only one who is sad cuz her photo session was cut short cuz of Paris Hilton 🥺🥺
yes!! that was rude
@@farahfathy3116 true but i dont think that was Paris' fault, they probably called her to come up or smth
@@farahfathy3116 you should express yourself more respectful i think
Maybe you should express yourself more respectful
Ryan what how were they being rude?
The world needed/needs that speech, Ashley! ❤️❤️❤️
oh my goodness! hi Damon! you and jo's channel is my favorite channels on youtube!(Ashley's as well. she's the beeest. I wish she were my older sister)
She totally should have kept her oscar dress. Damn, I´m regreting that decision for her.
same :o
The red dress from her old vlog. Gees 🤧😭
Omg yes when I saw the tittle I immediately thought of that red dress
Rita Rodrigues that’s what I thought when she posted her streamys look!!
gosh i remember this dress.. thank god we can look back at it and appreciate its existence hmm god bless
The fact that she wasn’t panicking and almost crying while being late makes me jealous lol
same, i can't help but cry if I'm ever late to school, it's sad really.
Honestly I’m a lot like that I just kinda give up and go with the flow when I’m late
Me watching her getting ready while she‘s super late and just thinking GIRL, you‘re late, hurry and don‘t talk to the camera the hole time 😂 man she‘s so cool
@@lemonjane384 same
I was second-hand panicking for her, HOW DO PEOPLE DO THIS
1. Even though Ashley didn't win, she is still the winner in our hearts ❤️👑
2. Ashley, if you have a recording of the guest lecture you did at USC, you should definitely post it (if you are allowed to)!
I second both of these points! I would love to hear that lecture.
dude i got chills when you said, "the world is yours for the taking." that line was so poetic and beautifully powerful. it's just what i needed to hear. thanks ashley :,)
Same!
that hit so hard i teared up
Same! I really got chills!
i could listen ashley talk about herself and her life lessons for hours
i agree LMAO
Agreed when she talks about these lessons it makes me reflect and think a lot
she rlly needs a podcast
im in
yess😭
When she said “my stomach’s been like bWuwaWo” I felt that 😔
When Ashley read her speech I wasn’t expecting to cry. Her talking about being an Asian American women really hit home. I remember always being proud to see at least one person that looked like me. Just representation alone for me was enough. I’m glad that I found Ashley because she truly is a role model that I truly look up to.
Also if you can’t understand this comment I would like to apologize, I’m still in my feels.
She is so beautiful ✨
She is!
Love you btw
Ashley could talk abt anything and I would be here within the first 5 mins, we have to stan
Yesssss....saaame
Absolutely
I fourth
right behind you on this
Same
ashley: self, dont cut your bangs any further. you’ll regret it.
also ashley: *cuts her bangs even shorter*
i support it haha she looks so good with bangs 😭
ashley: 10 min till leaving the house
also ashley: continues spilling her thoughts and advertising her hair curler
but honestly though, don’t feel afraid to share your thoughts and rant for an hour :) because a lot of what you speak resonate with us and that’s what comforts many of us - that we are not alone in our thoughts. also, your prepared speech really warmed my heart ashley... thank you for always being so genuine.
one of the things i love about ashley is how she's always very reflective on her life whether it be her in the past, present, or what she hopes for in the future and reflective on how society and the world are changing , especially cuz she doesn't have to be or when she's filming videos like this grwm or a thrift haul. you wouldn't expect her introspections on life in these sorts of videos but they add a special like, detail to all her vids and are truly one of the things that makes her and her content so special. love you sm ashley, you deserve the world
I’m speaking for everyone here that we REALLY need a podcast from you Ashley, especially now. We don’t care what you talk about, just make one.
- sincerely your subscribers
Yeah that would be cool and all, but she is already very stressed, don't you think it would be too overwhelming for her?
@@vilnes.2335 Yeah exactly that would be stressful for her
YES
yesss
YESS
Am I the only one who is sad because she didn't win and didn't get the chance to read her speech in front of the people?
Who won?
I wish she won
@@hyangi25 Patrick Starr won :/
mrs mendes he isn’t even a fashion blogger or whatever 😑
Ariel Ko this years streams was so bad
Can we just appreciate how normal Ashley is? She’s so down to earth, openly talks about her insecurities and mistakes, doesn’t preach the idea that makeup = beauty etc. we stan the right person
me: *clapping*
----bf enters room
bf: "what are you clapping for?"
me: *scowls* "when someone gives their oscars speech you applaud."
You go girl xx
i'm pretty sure this comment will get lost in hundreds of others, but if you come across it somehow, there's this book called "beauty sick" by renee engeln and it's fantastic! it talks about beauty standards and how it affects women. the author is a college professor, but she didn't base the book entirely on her knowledge, she also interviewed a lot of women about their struggles in a beauty-driven world. i would highly recommend it not just to ashley, but to everyone here!
Renee Engeln references The Beauty Myth in her psychology of beauty class which I was lucky enough to take! Highly recommend Beauty Sick if you're looking for an academic analysis of beauty culture + it's just a fun read
I read this sentence by some guy, I don't really remember but it was interesting : "this world is not obssessed with women's beauty, it is obssessed with women's obedience"
This sounds cool!
YES! OH MY GOD that book has helped me so much in the past month (i just picked it up) to build up my lost self confidence and self esteem regarding my appearance again! its so well written!
This book is the best💕I read it in Korean and the title was 'We spent too much time in front of mirror' in korean which I thought was so true
I don't think Ashley realises how happy I get when she uploads literally anything. I could watch her looking at a wall and still enjoy it.
EXACTLYYYY
Can we make this a T-shirt 😂 I would buy 10
Omg same
Charlotte Thompson- Kirk she should release merch with the screenshot of this comment on it... WHY DOES SHE NOT HAVE MERCH?? SHE SHOULDDDD
SAME
why aren't people talking about the comment on why she doesn't curling the hair on the back of her head 😂😂
I have no idea but its gold she slipped that in there. Classic xD
Honestly that’s just Ashley at this point....
She mentioned once that she doesn't really care much about the back. In her painting video.
Just want to let you know that you inspire so much young ~asian~ women to be confident and to be not scared to go out there in this world run mostly by westerners. It is intimidating and scary but you paved your way up. And we are so proud of you! No award or title could change that. I look up to you and thank you for being an inspiration :)
the fact that i’m legitimately getting stressed out that ashley is going to be late and is spending her time filming and talking about books !!!
And the way she curled her hair while rushing made me think she was gonna burn herself. Lol
Saaaaame
ashley honestly inspires me to get my life together periodt
also ashley: cuts her own bangs
Natalie Cheung i did that too oOps
HONESTLY SAME
This is honestly a mood I am in constantly :D
It confuses me so much why Patrick won. Like, he's cool and all, nice person, but he isn't a fashion channel. Eh. Whatever. You're still doing great and growing :)
I just spent 15 minutes typing in “streamy awards 2020” to find out if she won only to come back and read the description LOLLLL
My first impression seeing that title was “should’ve kept that red oscars dress”
ME. TOO. I felt legitimate second hand regret
Amych SAMEEE
SAME! When she said "Oscars" I was like oop shoulda kept that dress
Which video is that?
@@aryastark9246 one if her thrift videos
When Ashley is running late and still talking, I can just feel my anxiety acting up lol I know it doesn’t impact me but does anyone feel that way??
YES but being late is a pet peeve of mine
YES! I was like "Ashley hurry!! This is not the time to be talking"
my heart was beating so fast I was like stop TALKING
I was lowkey like girl what time is it ahhhhhhhhhh
Same. Whenever she's late I'm like THIS IS NOT THE TIME TO TALK, RUN!!!
I think Ashley is very powerful in a way that she knows and understand what her flaws are but also that she knows what her strengths and what makes her Ashley. It's just so inspiring to see her talk all the time because she always says some really intellectual stuff. I love her so much. All her videos are like a Ted talk of some sort only much much more relatable and her stories are always something full of insight. Thank you Ashley. I'm always thankful I've stumbled upon your channel back when you were still in college. Seeing you grow into an amazing person is just... beautiful!
9:24 pretty sure that's cody ko, a crossover i was not expecting
Oh shit yes
omg how did you spot that?!
Didn’t even realise this was her second youtube channel, the quality is THAT GOOD
I just checked after seeing your comment that this is bestmess -.-
Just checked n I didn't even realise its bestmess. I was like "maybe it's Thursday lol"😂
same, I searched it on her main channel first!
"Do you ever just say stuff and then immediately regret it"
Sis ALL THE TIME!
Saumya Chaubey haha awesome profile pic
@@probablyafrog3357 hehe thanks! XD
"what do we say to the god of terrible bangs? not today" I SCREAMED AHH
Ashley is going to be like the Leonardo DiCaprio of youtubers who creates amazing fricken content but doesn't get recognized for it until years later :< you don't need an award for anything ashley, you are the best in your own category!! 💖💖
To be honest I teared up at your speech at the end.
These awards can feel like a great achievementTM but they are also given by people with limited knowledge, empathy, and with various interests at heart.
I feel like it's important to remember that the real measure of success is the positive influence you have on other people's lives, and your personal growth.
So, I felt like you "won" listening to your speech here in a video even more so than if I'd listen to you giving it on stage.
Congratulations!!
Agreed!!!! This is SUCH an underrated comment!! ♥️
who won the category she was in?
Yeah 💯 percent agreed
Dang , you’re so right!!😍😍
i teared up too :)
OMG! does anyone cry when she's reading her speech? I did.....
i definitely shed a few tears
same I love ash she’s so sweet 🥺
lol same
same wow
So do I. I love you Ashleyyyyyyy
I didn't even know Paris Hilton has a TH-cam channel and Ashley has WAYYY more followers but look how she was treated 🤬😠😡😤
Maybe you should express yourself more respectful
Maybe it's bc Paris makes music videos?? Im not trying to justify how they treated Ashley. She deserves something better
Ashley. I almost cried at your makeshift speech. You inspire me so much. I am also Asian American, Chinese American to be exact, and I am really really passionate about touching others with my music, but I am also really really focused in school lol. SO I relate to you in so many ways. Sometimes I worry that my chances of sharing life and feeling through music are minimized because of my ethnic background, but you show me that anything is possible. You have rooted a sense of determination in me in pursuing my dreams of serving others, whether that is through music or my academic passions. I know you get thousands of comments, and you might never see this, but I really wanted to express to you my appreciation for your work. You are a good person. I love you for everything you have done for me and the millions of others who watch you.
Love, Tiffany
If there's a recording of that USC lecture you led I'm sure we would love to see it!
Yes that sounds so interesting!! I would love to have Ashley as a guest lecturer at my uni even though it's pretty much on the other side of the world lol
Damn she shoulda kept that really cute orange dress that she threw away in her closet cleanout
Damn I guess a lot of people agree with me 😂🤣
OH MY GOD YES
all the stans see this and like YESSSS I THOUGHT OF IT RIGHT AWAY
i was JUST thinking that
She never ended up selling it! It's still up on her online store but no one's bought it yet (as of this writing)
FACTS 😮👏
tbh I find her high levels of stress/anxiety kinda comforting. I can definitely relate, and it's nice to see that she's really taking hold of her life and her struggles in a way I'm struggling to right now. We love and support you Ashley ❤️
i feel like you should have won. no. YOU SHOULD HAVE WON.
she could be advertising a sponge and i would still have no choice but to watch. she is too relatable
Literally all of us when she did the Amazon add video tho
Naya Roy facts
I love that you addressed how you want to stop making self-deprecating jokes about your appearance and then later in this same video, mentioned that you were proud of your USC lecture. The confidence is amazing and you are no less funny by being less self-deprecating!!!
Edit: and the speech! I loved it so much.
That speech was....incredible. You deserved that award, girl. Your content is par excellence. Know that in our eyes, you've won.
Love, a long time subscriber.❤️
OKAY so since I started watching Ashley a few months ago her comments about self care and mental health have really helped me to examine the way I treat myself. in the past ~month ish i've been so much nicer to myself than I ever have in my life and I feel so much happier. I see myself better when I look in the mirror, i'm more fun to be around because i'm not constantly hating on myself, and i'm generally more content with who I am as a person. I've also started taking more time for hobbies that I used to love instead of doing nothing all day, and i'm honestly a much happier person. Thanks for inspiring me to be better, Ashley :)
ashley: reciting her streamys speech to us
me, an asian american girl: actually crying 🥺🥺
Me, an Indian girl: *completely in tears* :'(
I always wonder if those problems that asian/half asian/any race/...have to face are all the same everywhere...? Like is the struggle the same in Europe than in the US? I am from Europe and I always hope, that people of a foreign country feel kind of good here...
Edit: oh, i am always so scared that I mess up and that people feel attacked by my comment. So it's just me being curious..?
@@whateverfanclub6241 i personally think each country has its own problems when it comes to racism, and each person's struggle is different. But at the same time, there are similar patterns and routes, and they make people's experiences relatable.
whatever fanclub I‘m half Asian half white, from Europe, and I do feel kind of good here. It’s just that „kind of“ sometimes isn’t enough and it irks me that I have to ask myself if people treat me differently because of my race
@@Mauvaiseplaisante yes, every country has its own racism/ect.... that is a pretty wise thing to say and I guess it's true. Hopefully the world will continually try to fight racism and discrimination.
I saw the title and immediately thought about that stunning red dress and how Ashley didn't keep it. Would have been a stunner, but to be honest, Ashley is always stunning
Oh my god Ashley!
They missed THIS AMAZING SPEECH!!!
THEY MISSED SUCH EMPOWEFUL WORDS!
I'm greateful that I didn't!!!
THANK YOU FOR TELLING USS!! ♥️♥️♥️
10:50..... gave me goosebumps....cause it's so hard to put your self and your art out there, well DONE GIRL!!
I love how she doen't care about telling what's in her mind which doesn't seem fake like other youtubers, so much personality. Love u ashley
I know who would accept that Paris Hilton situation on the internet or not cut out the part where they are excited to win the award even if they don't I don't think I've ever been so in love with a creator and their content before
Ashley’s speech given in front of her computer feels so much more compelling and honest and humble. As an Asian American girl I’m so thankful to be able to watch you and be proud of you and your success in a very tough industry. Love u ashley
i love ashley's speech so much that it made me actually teary eyed
I was not ready for that 90° curler bend O_O
Also imagine being invited to give a speech at a College that rejected you... big oof 😂😂❤
Ashley has 10 minutes left: *talks about every possible topic available* love it
Honestly, Ashley is probably the best creator on this platform. She’s a great role model and an adorable and real person, I love her so much. Here’s hoping she stays safe and healthy!
I miss your energy and videos, I hope you’re doing well 😊
This nearly made me tear up. I missed this Ashley, thank you for showing us this really honest side of you.
Oh hell yeah this is JUST what I needed.
"cheesy but um.. I was kinda proud of it"
Ashley we're proud of you and that speech was amazing ❤️
i don't know why but this video made me so emotional. thank you ashley for always being honest in your videos, especially the part where you said that you were so nervous the whole day and you're not going to pretend that you're just cool about it. also, you even read us your speech. i'm also asian that's why i kind of understand and love your intention in writing ur speech. thank you ashley! good luck & there are so much more good things to come both in your career & life 💓☁️✨
I literally love just getting ready and watching her get ready!! it’s just like vital girl time that I don’t get Ashley is like my best friend
wow i really felt when you talked about how self deprecating jokes are so common coming from young women. i'm trying to love my body & my appearance even with all this quarantine weight (lol) and it's nice to be reminded that everyone else feels the same way. as always, i love how genuine ashley is!! it's so nice to see, because i really feel like i can relate to her. love these little behind the scenes videos!!
So happy that we got to hear this masterpiece of a speech even if you didn't win the award. You should have won it tho
okay but you're sooo much better than a fashion award Ashley, you deserve to get best TH-cam channel- best edited videos and best content period. perioddddd
Ashley's videos are INCREDIBLE, this girl deserves the best things in the world!! The way she's always so honest in her videos is amazing, makes them very unique and fun to watch.
Wish you lots and lots of success, you are a huge inspiration to me!
I was talking to my friend and she mentioned how she wanted to move to England and I immediately thought of how one of my other friends has a father who’s British and that they should talk but then I realized...that friend was Ashley 😭 imagine being so amazing that your subscribers think of you as their friend
awww thats so wholesome
that's adorable oomf
Similar thing happened to me lol, I casually mentioned I know someone who went to UCLA to my friends but then I realised I only know her through the internet its so crazy
I’ve done that before too lol! She feels like a friend so naturally 😅
Lol I’ve done this before, I’ll be like “my friend did this thing...” and then be like “well not really friend but I know this girl who...”
college: an experience that makes you so desensitized towards being late that a year or something later, you're getting late to an award show and you're not even in the slightest of a hurry.
WHY DIDNT SHE WIN WTH SHES AMAZING AND NO UR NEVER CHEESY ILY
i read this line somewhere recently and i think its so true
the world isnt obsessed with womens beauty
it is obsessed with womens obedience
the last time i was this early, ashley was still living in LA
wasn’t even this early for my own birth lol (also 5:47 hehehe) i never really comment a lot, but now i felt like i had too!! honestly you’re my biggest inspiration in life, on youtube wherever! your videos are so refreshing, motivating and incredibly special! always incredibly shot and edited! you showed me that you can get anywhere in life with just enough commitment! your personality is beyond amazing and your videos are so inspiring that i finally overcame my fear of starting my own youtube channel! so thank you so much for being such an inspiration!! ily, ash
hearing your speech literally made me cry a little bit 🥺thank u ashley u really are like a big sister and such an inspiration to all us young ladies out here
that speech is beautiful, especially when you thanked them for not making you doubt yourself... your content has been a delight, thank you our fashionista
Idk if she doesnt get the award. She is so influential in the way that she promotes fashion for young girls out there, while teaching them that it’s ok to be vulnerable sometimes n talk about female problems. She won the award in my heart
Your speech is simple but so comforting and clever i feel so full after hearing it
Thank you for sharing your speech 🥺 definitely made me cry a little. You are such a fantastic creator and human. I hope whatever you’re doing right now makes your heart happy ❤️
I like your humour.. and actually self depricating humour is the best kinda way to bond with people. It's like I'm being vulnerable but I'm also kinda confident.
I will continue to say this till my last breath: BEST DRESSED WAS FOOKIN ROBBED 💀💀
Who won the award?
@@chiyaamari patrick starr
Wait isn't Patrick for Makeup, when did he become fashion oof
@@maymayy1208 exactly ! utter bullshit 🙄🙄
I’m so happy you don’t ignore the fact that you’re Asian American. most of the you tubers I watch are Asian American or black and a lot of them seem to adhere to only American / European standards and ideas when they have so much culture to embrace and be proud of. But to each their own (:
That speech was so witty, fun and also very well crafted and really shows how grateful you were. That was amazing. Let’s hope Ashley gets nominated and wins next year to say this same speech!
ASHLEY I MISSED YOU SO MUCH THAT I CRIED FOR LIKE WHOLE VIDEO :( I HOPE YOU ARE OKAY
Listening to Ashley is so calming, I love it
Agreed
okay one thing i love about bestdresses is that whenever she's talking or vlogging you always feel like you know her, and are part of her life. Her channe, is just so perfect.
your speech is beautiful and so inspiring, congrats for that sweetie, love your channel!! 💕
i really love ashley's chatty type vlogs, i could listen to her talk and not get bored ❤️
when i saw the bathroom i was like- hang on a minute...
I don't really know why but her speech made me cry, it was so inspiring
that speech was amazing. ashley u were so extremely deserving of that award🥺 love u
GOTTA LOVE THE FACT THAT ASH GOES INTO LIKE FIVE RANTS WHILE LATE FOR THE AWARD SHOW, yessssssss
Omg I've missed bestmess!!! Also your speech made me tear up a bit
Lmaooo I didn't realize this wasn't the main channel until I saw this comment
No one:
Me to Ashley: **An overflow of unconditional love and respect** 💖
I was comfortably eating pasta and that speech made me cry Ashley wtf
I love u btw pls be my friend
I kind of feel like Ashley is basically an amalgamation of the Asian American women TH-camrs she gave a shout-out to! Jenn Im - fashion sensibility, Michelle Phan - serving make up looks and video aesthetics, Nat Tran - silly but witty humor. These ladies really did pave the way for amazing TH-camrs like Ashley :')