Looking at the data it's looking really bad for guys. (Source: Google) Shocking Statistics. 1.) 10% of women have a credit card debt of $7,500 and higher. 2.) 1/3 (33%) of women have an STD. 3.) 2/3 (66%) of women have Student Loan Debt. 4.) 39.7% of women are obese. 5.) 20% of USA Population identifies as LGBTQ. On the flip side. 50.4% of the USA Population are women. 49.9% of USA women are married. After running the numbers it came to 147,872 potential mates out of 171,360,000 women (USA Female Population) that would be sane candidates for dating and marriage. Now take into account that I have to compete with every guy on the planet for those women. The odds of meeting this person and getting this potential candidate is slim to none. Those 147,872 women are being taken by the top 10% of men. Average Joe which is most men don't stand a chance. So nobody should be surprised why most men either give up or buy a passport and take their chances overseas finding someone else.
@@koza7676Kinda wrong but he took the undesairable women from the total. In debt ldtv, obese, stds etc. And Assumed they are anything equilibrated sane and attractive enogh. But yeah all the oter numbers are right. 1/3 have stds its the median the number its far higher from 16 to 30, then lowers a LOT in 30 to 40 women (for some reasson they are not getting raw dont in their baby rabbies time), and then increase massively 45 and above. In men its very very low... but skyrocket at 45 and above.
mmm if those are your metrics for a quality woman your perspective is whacked. Only STD matters, and also which one anyway ? Nearly everybody picks up HSV1 but who manifests it say as cold sores is due to genetics.
No man wants to pay new BMW prices for a used clapped out Honda civic. Women offer so much less and ask for so much more than any generation in history.
I remember when a Civic was able to be modded into something personal, and yet they are loyal in the daily running, got great mileage and reliable. A wife should be like that....EG6, EK9 in human female form.
haven't you heard of Hugh heffner's Widow? Or Jeff besos New woman? Or Ana Nicole Smith? Now tell me again how men's dicks do not dictate their choices...
As a law student, I can see that the laws are COMPLETELY against men in divorce proceedings. Men get destroyed in marriage. My goal is to get these laws overturned. No one should be given things that they have not earned. Just because you said “I do” doesn’t mean that you should get HALF of what someone earned before they married you.
Doesn't matter if the laws change. Women's NATURE has been revealed. We know they will use any scenario to their advantage. We are just pawns in their world in their mind. And it's a HUGE majority of women and our culture so checking out is the only option for anyone logical
It's the judges' fault. In other countries the wealth brought into the marriage and inheritances are taboo for the split. Even splitting the wealth accrued during marriage has been earned by men. They do half the housework, did it before marriage so what value does a women bring to demand half or all of his wealth.
I'm a muscular guy, the amount of women checking me out next to their husbands/boyfriends is disgusting. I've checked out long ago but it is a constant reminder why I take no woman seriously, they're never satisfied and always looking for a bigger fish - and there's always a bigger fish so why bother?
''...I'm a muscular guy...'' That makes two of us for I have been going to the gym for thirty years ...Your post is spot on and I have had the exact same experience as you have, like you, I am totally disgusted..... I am deadly serious here, I have completely wiped out of my life, and any form of association with a particular gender.
Finding someone physically attractive doesn’t necessarily equate to cheating. It’s quite natural to appreciate another person’s appearance without the intention to be unfaithful. Human attraction is complex and not limited to a single individual.
@CGMiamiMoods002 its about respect. The same way women will get mad at men checking out other women around them. Its rude to do that to your spouse unless its been talked about already.
@@CGMiamiMoods002 Matthew 5:27-28 (KJV) Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery: But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
I'm a software developer who served in the Marine Corps. Being 5'9 without a college degree, the opportunities just aren't there (mostly by choice). Never mind the fact that my military background adds the "protector" aspect of a male partner, but my income (provider) is in the six figures. Since I do not advertise my income, women do not even look my direction. Being a self-taught techy, I know I make more than many college grads. It took a long time to get where I am and I'll be damned if a temporary modern woman tries to swoop in and take what I earned. I used to look... now, I'm content flying solo and I enjoy my selfish lifestyle.
Yeah bro, these women want the clowns that sag their pants two sizes too big for them who flaunt their fake printed money and chains. Everyone's a clown these days.😂
sorry, @KyleGravesLive , youtubes is deleting my response. Just learn and sacrifice. Get a recruiter and be honest with your skill level, they will help you get a junior position.
@@iSoldat hey, I was going to ask how to break in to the tech industry with no degree but the guy up top beat me to it. Where would be the best place to go get in contact with a recruiter? Any forums/ websites/ meetups where I can get in contact with these folks? Thanks Also prior military (USAF) thank u for your service 🫡
Shes right im a electrician and a girl i dated was so embarrassed of my profession she would constantly tell me to talk about my finances with all her white collar friends. I make way more money then all those offices workers but somehow i was an embarrassment
Yep. I'm now making over 200/yr in construction with over a mil in equity, yet these women still find it embarrassing. I don't tell them I have a neuroscience degree before I give them the punt lol
Dating is doomed, from both ends. Average women don’t want over 80% of men because they are not tall enough, handsome enough or rich enough. And at least half of men don’t want to grind to make 6 figures and get in shape, only to marry a 30+ year old with high body counts that can destroy them financially in divorce court. Liberalism, feminism and social media/dating apps were absolutely catastrophic for dating.
Typicsl female nonsense, you are just another clown anna with no sense of the reality around you! You just cant make magically 6 figures, no matter how hard you try. The reality does not work like that. This right there is the reason why everything is screwed: You clown want an ATM , while you on the other hand offer nothing!
Its not a case of men aren’t willing. Economically and mathematically it is impossible for men to become attractive enough for most women. The time investment and then the achievement of this on mass by most men will just shift the goal posts once again because the average will have also risen, women do not want average.
feminist ideology is so deeply ingrained into western society there is no moderate solution. only hard trade offs where we curtail women's rights. if not then we really need to stop complaining and fear mongering over men leaving the sexual market place.
I'm a 32 yr old virgin and I'm not ashamed of it. I saw what my mom put my dad through. I see what the stress of that dating and relationships did to my brother, cousins, and friends. I'm going to just continue focusing on me and get become financially free so I can move out of the U.S and start a family in another country.
Just for the record. Things like hypergamy, cheating, and other things we don't like about Western women still exist with foreign women. Just take a look at Ukraine. Feminism is global.
If I were you I would just find something to f*ck for the moment. Cuz if youth think you’re gonna keep a grown good woman with virgin penis… Your gonna be real f*cked up in the game my dude. Would you throw a player in the game if he never showed up to practice?
If you really want to leave the US and that’s a good idea for a couple of reasons, you should move first and then work on your financial stability in your new home country. Because you will have to start all over again anyway. You can take with you, your education and your personality traits. But you rarely can transfer a career you’ve built in one country to another.
I'm a 33 year old African American male, 6'3, and do well financially. I say that to point out it's often forgetten that the small pool of men that women go for also have to like and want them back. The gentleman in the video was spot on when he said why would we commit. The ROI is not there. We're not drawn to a woman's accolades/money and the qualities that we do look for in a wife are almost forgotten. At the same time, intimacy is readily available without the required commitment. We also inheritly assume much more risk in marrying than we would single. Logic says, why would someone with everything to lose and nothing to gain in marriage, marry. Especially when there's a revolving door of low risk interaction available at a lower stress return. Anology: What successful business would sign a contract with a business partner, where they assume all risk? When they could sign no contract at all and work with numerous business partners, all while assuming no risk. Something to think about - If you can get any man that you want, why are you not with the man that you want?
Tis sounds like the lad online who is going around asking women to describe their qualifications for men and showing them the probability of meeting a man with that criteria. I haven't seen anyone get higher than 3% yet lol
Why do these women think a man desires a wealthy woman and at the same time admit they expect him to pay for everything. What then does her wealth bring to the relationship if he's covering everything like she desires.
I’m a 40 year old divorced man. I have been divorced for 4 years and single for the same amount of time. I have went on a few dates with a few different women but ultimately I came to realize I’m so much happier not being in a relationship. Today’s society leaves absolutely no good reason to marry as a man. If I were giving advice to any 20 something male it would be to never get married.
Absolutely! I am 52, like you, I am divorced - been divorced for 11 years. Have also gone on a couple of dates and in all the cases I ended the dating because the women were not right mentally, emotionally and their outlook on life just was completely wrong. Most women today are not fit for marriage. Will I get married again? They say never say never, but at this stage, I am happy and at peace being single. I have a feeling I will more than likely just have a "girlfriend" than get married, less problems when things don't work out as opposed to being married. This is not me preparing to fail but by today's standards that is almost a guarantee in "modern" relationship/ marriage. I like your point of advising the young ones not to get married. If someone decides to get married then make damn sure there is a tight prenup.
I am 49 here and divorced from a very toxic marriage, and the last thing I want is another narcissistic woman child dictating what I can do with my life.
@@J.B.7.4 my 2 boys and I have bonded so much over the past few years. I love every minute I have with them and bringing another woman into the picture is just out of the question for me. I just want to focus on being dad at this point nothing else matters to me. My life is so stress free right now I just can’t go back.
We have Schrodinger's Feminists to blame for all of it. Can you imagine how our grandparents would react to this dating climate if they could time travel and be 21 in 2024... We should be ashamed of what we let it get too...
the movie industries constant pressure that show idyllic emotional relationships , that are totally delusional. Unrealistic, and childish. and women are brainwashed to thinking that should be what a man feels. Men do not feel that way.
Haha it's true. When the goalposts keep moving, that's how you know you're being manipulated. The only winning move with a manipulator is to not play the game.
The plumber who replaced my sewer line from the house to the street is a nice guy. A good man. Not overly good looking, but genuine, funny, and very very wealthy. Owns (no mortage) two nice homes, one in the mountains, and one at the beach. He's a millionaire a couple times over. Can't get a date.
Women wanted all the equality of men with none of the responsibilities. A successful man with alot of money will gladly date down to a less "successful" partner but women can't handle having to do that.
No we can’t handle it. so y’all need to catch up. Unless you are younger than her what’s your excuse to not being at an equivalent or almost equivalent level
I’m a Heterosexual man who brings in six figures, over 6 ft tall and at least modestly attractive. I haven’t approached a woman all year so I agree that many men have checked out. My experience is that most modern women via feminism want wayyyyyyyyyyy more than they are willing to give. I would rather stay single than to get into another “bad deal.”
I agree 100% with you. I make around 140k a year and I am exactly 6 feet, I’m in relatively good shape (I am a boxer but not in camp at the moment), and never had issues getting women. However, I have noticed in recent years how women’s expectations have become egregious. To the point where average women are looking for above average men or men outside their class. Women are group thinkers and as a result social media has warped women’s thinking to a state of delusion. But i will remain single and keep slaying dragons
Ibstopped caring about money after not wanting to approach money. Women approach me often and i dont care. I tell them they aint ish to me. Not looking to get falesly accused again by any woman
Im 1,93m. 96 kgs of full muscle like a marvel avenger body. Im top 6% earners in my country. Never had a problem bedding females. BUT the reality of life is... that its far easier to find 2 girls to do a threesome, than 1 female that its equilibrated and perform intellectualy at human level to have a relationship.
“Making right the wrongs of the past” People who have never experienced the wrongs, going after innocent people who’ve never done the wrongs. Clownworld stuff we’re living through right now
is there a sector of the manosphere that talks about modern dating WITHOUT bringing up money and/or marriage? i’d be nice to hear them talk about issues with modern dating surrounding how both genders communicate with each other and not always superficial stuff like money and looks. for example, why do a lot of men not ask questions on dating apps/show interest in anything besides how we look or even bother to read our prompts?
Can we all just agree that most women have become impossible to deal with in any way, I'd rather die younger than expected, than to be bearated with drama and misery with a modern day woman into an early grave 🪦🪦🪦
That's the truth right here. The levels of entitlement are crazy. On the dates, I would be shocked how many women would try to act superior to me, while I am not a bad-looking guy, have my career, contribute to the world in a meaningful way, and have my head on right for the most parts. What have you done with your life to try to take the upper hand? To suffer being condescended to by a half-wit? No thanks.
Stress reduces your life considerably. I would argue that modern day dating and god forbid marrying a modern day woman would actually decrease your life expectancy.
@@TheWolfalpino *Obviously you do not get the reference.. while the vid is talking about ppl in states of America, it is spreading to anywhere that women are taking on this modern mentality, modern spirit actually. I am assuming you are not from the u.s... if you are, it is wild that you dont understand the reference. You should go figure what that means..*
@@TheWolfalpino Many ppl like the comment and even the owner of the channel.. you should know that you dont understand something. Unless you do understand and was trying to pick a fight with a dog since you may be wolf with that name..
If you are a woman that makes money and has status who works white collar, what’s wrong with wanting someone who does the same. All women can’t be delusional. I understand if you are gold-digging and never worked a day in your life. Some how the gold digger tends to be what men want. A women that just blindly follows them because they have money.
I’m a 25y/o single man who grew up around stable parents. I watched the way they treated eachother and I thought that was the way it was supposed to be, my dad being a hardworking trade worker who loves my mom. I’ve struggled my whole life with dating until recently I pretty figured out that I’ve been treating woman with respect and kindness (how you’d treat your wife) and it seems most of them have zero idea how to comprehend that kind behavior from a man. I’ve been labeled far to many times as being too nice and a good friend so yeah, financially stable and respectable men like me just get burnt out of being made to feel like this is our fault.
I once made out with a woman in her bed while we were both drunk. I obviously thought about initiating sex but restrained myself because I knew she was a lot more drunk than I was, and I didn’t want our new acquaintanceship to be defined by a drunk fling. I actually liked her as a person enough to show her the respect that I thought she deserved. (Plus let’s be real I was afraid of being accused) Right before she drunkedly passed out she told me “you’re too nice” then she fell asleep. I tucked her into bed, grabbed my shit and went home. The next day I texted her… nothing. Tried again the next day, nothing. I was ghosted and that shit really bummed me out cause I was genuinely interested in a serious relationship with her. I understand she was probably turned off by me not being “man enough” in that instance but the contrary would have meant me having sex with her without consent since she was so drunk and possibly being accused of SA by her. 2 years later my horny male brain regrets not taking the risk and smashing her right then and there. Ironically that would have gained me more respect from her. Life is confusing.
I’m only 21 and I feel I am in the same boat. I make good money for my age and a reason for that is putting in time to go to trades school and my parents being good parents but it’s so overwhelming to end up trying to put your self out there and find someone when all they want to do is use you for their own benefit and take your being nice or treating them with respect for granted.
Women put you in the betabux category if you're nice and respectful. If you're good looking enough, maybe they'll string you along and pretend to be "pure" while fvking Chad on the side. They have more respect for a man that treats them like a used napkin. It's so backwards.
tyler: SO TRUE!!!!! They have no reference point for being treated properly. I cannot tell you how many times I hold a door open for a woman and they just stand there and you can see the confusion on their faces. I actually have to say, "you are supposed to walk through the door!"
Oh man. Plumbers make bank. If you can date or marry a plumber, electrician, lineman, carpenter, machinist, or other skilled worker, do it. They'll provide for you, are often down to earth, and are usually easy to get along with.
At 56, divorced and have not dated since, that was 11 years ago, a tradesman is the perfect guy. Hard working, down to earth beats a desk jockey every single time. That said, I’ll stay single until I die. I can’t risk the pain of betrayal ever again.
I'm deathly afraid of even approaching a woman nowadays. I don't want to take the risk of getting metoo'd over just randomly talking to a girl. Thankfully, a lot of these chicks will telegraph themselves out in public now, so they're a lot easier to avoid.
I would say be worried about a woman making an accusation if she is your co-worker . A woman you see on the bus or train everyday when going to work is less of a concern. But still I completely get where your coming from.
@@badbot4ever566 doesn't matter where it happens, all it matters is that on the spur of the moment you crossed her path and something flipped in her mind. Even when you should have other people calling her accusation BS, most will not want to be involved because they may get some bad press. And on the reverse, men should lay down their life for random women on the street ?? seriously Fuck that shit.
I approached some chick a few months ago. She said "is this how you start conversations" and said I was gaslighting her. It was straight out of a nightmare commercial. wild
Yeah it's messed up I approached a girl at my local card shop flirted and we got to texting and suddenly she accused me of harassment etc. And the owner called me in to have a talk with me about it and I said it was consensual and I said to have a look at her texts because she told me to no longer text her and so I deleted her msgs and nothing came out of it.
@@RunfastgoI got one girl get pissy with me because I called her "Hon". I'm a Southern Alabama white boy. That shit is almost instinct. It's not like I mean anything by it.
When I was young and lived at home, I always thought my mother was a bit strange because she didn't like the feminist movement back in the late 60s and 70's. Now, seeing how ridiculous it has gotten, I now think my mother just saw where it was going, that's what she didn't like. Just one more example of how the older you get, the smarter your parents become
I have enough conservative women in my family who all worked jobs to various levels of success and all of them reject feminism as it always bites back at anyone who doesn't fall in line.
@@Gajdosh she is now 83 and still speaks her mind. She participated in the civil rights marches, loudly and staunchly believes everyone is equal. She also said she never saw a more ridiculous display as women burning their bras on the street and felt one could be treated with respect without being disrespectful to themselves. Yep she is a smart and yes, a Godly and good woman 👠💖
I'm a 44 year old white man, or as society calls it the root of all evil. In my teens and twenties, the most important goal for me was to find a good woman to marry and have children. By my early thirties, all of that was over. I don't want anything to do with dating or relationships. And I have to say it was the best decision I ever made. Being single really is the only the path to true male happiness. All of my time is my time. All of my money is my money and all of my friends are my friends. Way better than in a relationship where my time is our time, my money is our money, and my friends are her friends. Trust me guys, once you get past your biological imperative to have as much sex as possible, being single is the only way to go.
@dutube99 Your libido will drop as you get past 40 or 45; especially if you are overweight or suffer from depression. Perhaps paradoxically I find that meditation, a generally calm disposition and pleasurable work and hobbies also lower my sex drive.
Over 25 years ago, I was about to make the final payment on an engagement ring for the proposal, and as I reached the Jewel store, there she was, opposite the store, kissing another man. 15 years after that woman asked me why we didn’t get married.
@@marinekappa82 She’s my sons mother, hence we still communicated for years.. The worst part about it, my hand was still in a cast from a dislodged elbow, and I went back to work before time, just to get this done.. Women are devils children we can’t live without unfortunately.. lol
@@marinekappa82 Just use deductive reasoning to complete the story. If she needs to ask him 15 years later, he didn’t confront her with her infidelity and he didn’t buy that ring either.
All of the women I've met over a dating app, are from universities, have a career, MA degrees, n were very feminist . Rejected after the first coffee date meet. You know the reason? "No romantic match/connection." These ignorant girls are searching for "lust"! Not a real genuine connection. I just met a 39 year old lawyer with that same reason lol!l😂 no "romantic match"...? Based on a 15 minutes coffee chat! How was i supposed to "ignite romance" in 15 minutes! Over a coffee!? 😂 ridiculous!
Sounds like you're the common denominator. I recommend you improve the coffee date by talking about your world views (briefly ) then asking for her views and genuinely listen so you can understand/ learn who she is. Enjoy laughter wherever the opportunity presents itself.... that'll get you "romantic match" ... it's NEVER just coffee. And you just showing up is not enough, if that's your mentality as a man or woman YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE
What Melanie doesn't mention when she talks about the men in the past being "ahead" of the women is that it was men who was shouldered with the responsibility of supporting the family. Do you really think my grandpa enjoyed loading haybales on boxcars all day while my grandma stayed home, milked the cows and took care of the house. Is he really ahead for making a paycheck, or is it just teamwork?
Men were never ahead. It's nonsense spouted by privileged little girls. "Oh but that 1% of top men had it easier than women...." that's all they ever really say.
Where your grandfather got his “enjoyment and sense of purpose” from though was being able to provide for his family. Something that men still covet. Women are the ones that have lied to each other telling themselves they derive their happiness from what makes a man happy…which is a lie.
Women overvalue their work/input and undervalue men's. It has been like this forever. So they will claim men had all the power in the past, even if they didn't. Anyway, I think even that is just an excuse, something that's being pushed into the foreground by women because they want more priviliges without looking bad. So they invent the narrative that they need to be recompensated for the past, I honestly believe they don't care about the reason, they just need any justification.
I’ve worked in optometry and ophthalmology for the last 10 years I stare at peoples eyes all day long. When I see a set of unique eyes they stand out. At the grocery store paying for my redbull I notice the cashier is a pretty girl maybe 21-24 with very pretty crystal blue grey eyes. As I’m paying for my drink I say “you have very pretty eyes”. She barely acknowledges what I said and goes “ok” but it was so prude. I’ve never in my life felt that low for just trying to be a nice person I’ve never seen or talked to her before or since but man to have someone who probably didn’t even graduate high school make you feel so low because they’re somewhat attractive so they can look down on other people. Social media has girls who are 6- 7 at best on a great day thinking they’re 10s and beyond
It's so refreshing to hear Melanie outright say "Women are like infants", because it is true. Protected, self-centered and completely driven by impulses. Not all but definitely many
@@marissa816 yea, the term man baby is used a lot. Because of that you would think that women are not like babies in comparison, but that is wrong assumption. That's why I said that comment.
@@marissa816 The difference is, society at large protects and validates the infantilised woman and demonises/invalidates the infantilised man. Both should be invalidated and encouraged to change, as they are as toxic as each other.
@charlesfinnegan7930 Both my ex wives were not virgins when I married them. I refuse to Marry anymore but I did have the opportunity to. Family court could change tonight and Marriage is not a good deal. Women age and get mean it's not worth it anymore especially in America
@airheadusmc3821 100 agree. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it's been tainted here in the west to the point where it's no longer a good deal for a man. A woman gets a great deal. A man gets set up for the reckoning, and I'm not a pessimistic person, but numbers don't lie.
My wife and I are married over 28 years. Both are parents said it’s ok to start at the bottom. Save, be thrifty and when you hit your late 30s and early 40s you’ll see your hard work pay off. But today’s women want their cake and eat it too. They want to date Chad and Tyrone in their 20s, collect large body counts which men see such behavior as illogical and irrational, build their career’s and marry and divorce the average guy. Modern women’s dating lifestyles is just destructive and toxic. Women don’t want love, they want a business partnership.
The flaw with your logic is thinking they have the capacity to "want" things. Theyre like animals. No conscious thought. Impulse driven animals that were treated like pets for all of human history for a reason.
I've read already 20 years ago, in dating advice books from women for women, that women often give off the vibe that they only love the relationship, not the man they have the relationship with. And men hate that.
Also, after they rack up the body count, they shows up with a damn cargo container’s worth of trauma that WE are then expected to accept. Nah. I’m good. Go find someone else to be your atm
They don't want a business partnership, as such partnerships usually benefits both parts. They want ALL the benefits with ZERO accountability. In this "business partnership " the man is ALWAYS the loser.
I’m a 69 y/o retired professional man and I’m done with relationships with women. I don’t care if I ever have another “woman” in my life… I’m done and not tryin’. So-called “modern women” sicken me.
As a 36 year old man, I used to think it was me (I'm by no means perfect). Yet, ever since returning to the US, I've noticed this is a generational issue. One of my most significant relationships ( someone i thought I was going to propose to) is a person described in this video. Intelligent, beautiful , successful, yet never happy. I know this because she's been in several long relationships after me. Despite all that, she seems to suffer the same symptom that I noticed towards the end of my time with her. That is, she is perpetually on the lookout for the next best thing. I don't know how anyone could be happy living that way. Personally, I seem to find more American women to have this mentality. I, too, am on the verge of giving up because...well, why keep putting yourself through that feeling of being "taken back to the store for a better model" over and over again?
the wording hit me the other day even though I've learned about 'mgtow' material for years. It's just increased standard of living. Imagine everything we're seeing here being a result to some degree of increased standard of living. With less fear (of lack of essentials i.e. education, shelter, food, transport) u get people who naturally tolerate others to a less degree simply because there's no reason to do that. Once u remove the stigma of divorce and even incentivize the decision, well now things really begin to skew toward deterioration/non commitment. People nowadays also feel hyper connected to endless mating opportunities due to increases in tech. Then u add hypergamy to the equation and u get higher standard of living creating endlessly self imposed unsatisfied people and women who seem to consistently constrict their dating pool year over year. It all reminds me that fear is the great balancing force. It's the most primordial teacher. It's the one we all avoid the most. And yet it would erase all of this in an instant and we would have what we consider more 'traditional' mating experiences
Not all women are like that tho, in college, I had some begging me to be in a relationship. But I was the one that passed in hopes of a more attractive girl. I’m still looking but I just keep approaching girls until I meet one that I feel is a good match. Keep going
yeah bro. i just got back from the sauna, i was talking to a dude in there about this situation, and we were comparing notes and we had the same experiences. another dude came in and heard us talking and excitedly proclaimed we were spitting facts and he said he also is having lots of troubles with women. this is an issue that is affecting all of us
@@theonlyconstantischange123 yes FEAR of starving, being killed by a bear, fear of getting pregnant. Now what is there to fear? Birth control, welfare state, police protection, safety of gated community and own car. Multiple income sources including welfare child support court system own income and career. There is no end in sight
They ALL want to be in a relationship- in the beginning-its the staying faithful and not monkey branching that will destroy you as a man. DO not do it unless you have properly prepared. To prepare, use assets in a trust, keep assets out of the country you want to have a women in. Use Cook islands trust to keep assets hidden. Make bank, NEVER do state sponsored legal marriage. Number one rule - NEVER allow a female to gain leverage over you in ANY WAY. Never tell a female what assets you have , nor how much you make, or even where you work- NEVER. @@davidh7832
I'm 63 and have totally given up on the idea of a romantic relationship with a woman, I get offers of sex but from the wives and girlfriends of male friends of mine, which I find disgusting as I've always been a moral person and wouldn't consider coming on to another person's partner or someone who a friend of mine was deeply in love with, even if that woman didn't feel the same way towards my friend. I'm fine by myself and my life is drama free and peaceful on the whole.
Go get a passport and travel .. I’m 64 in good shape go the Dominican Republic.. Colombia and Costa Rica .. I’ve met and bedded a whole bunch and have the time of my life.. leave these miserable manly looking .. smelly .. unkept .. bad dentistry broads alone…😂😂😂😂😂 I live In New York and it’s a horror show here..
Holy shit you are a better man than I but that totally smacked me. It really that bad? I literally stay clear of ppl girl friends and wives cause it feels inevitable they will come at me as i already see them treat me better than they own mates but i try to believe it is coincidence. But what your saying feels like profecy dude 😯😯😯😮💨 it like u u cant trust none of them. Like is there a decent one anywhere or already they all playing a role temporarily? 🧐🧐
Imagine being dating age in the 90s. You are with someone and you are both happy. There is no social media window or dating apps to go look on with a billion potential better options.
I agree I was born in 94, I think social media has ruined dating and even ruined society in general. people don’t even talk to each other anymore just stare at their phones. Before social media people actually appreciated people a whole lot more because before social media came you had to do everything in person. It’s like social media has desensitized everybody to everything it’s like alot of things are not even fun anymore I can only imagine how fun life was before social media
@@Justicethedude People are living in an entertainment-induced coma. Nobody realizes it but we're all on a slow drip feed of constant dope hits via our social media feeds and constant content streaming. Seems like most people don't realize they lack the neurochemical capacity to be receptive to the natural pleasures in life.
@@Ton-uy1xd Yeah the only thing I would say improved since social media is the economy/money opportunities but it pretty much literally ruined everything else and people wonder why dating is not working anymore.
Feminism gave women a desire to display what they truly are, and social media gave them the platform, and men have paid attention. The curtain of 'feminine mystique' has been pulled back, and is seen to be the fallacy that you can find a woman who isn't like all the others.
Your argument about equality of outcome is spot on. They want everything men have, but aren't willing to put in the same amount of efforts men are expected to put in to get those results. They want the same income, but aren't willing to take the same responsibility. Dangerous job? No women Physical job? No women. Technical job where the machine you work doesn't care about your fifis? No WOMEN!
100% When do you ever hear feminists taking about closing THE DANGEROUS JOBS GAP?! Women want equality, but they are risk averse and do not want to shoulder any real responsibility. They are entirely reliant on men to build and maintain ALL the essential infrastructure vital to society.
"Women think the fantasy can be real." Wow, what a quote. That is the best quote I have heard in a long time and it sums up the whole game. Way to go Melanie. You are brilliant.
One persons worst case scenario is another persons fantasy. So yes, the fantasy can be real because it’s been real for many people. Many people’s lives changed overnight and for the better. Just like many people’s lives changed for the worse. A sad, lonely, broken, broke, disturbed and disillusioned man obviously cant give you a fantasy. He can’t even give himself a stable mediocre life. His life is below mediocre.
I've known it for decades. Women aren't interested in reality. Buying a ticket every once in a while, to obtain a tiny chance of meeting 'that guy' is preferable to women than starting and maintaining a real relationship with a genuine man.
I stopped dating at 23 because I was just being used and thrown away all the while they already had someone else lined up. Decided to stop wasting my finite time that i get to be alive and focus on myself. I could really care less about being alone when I die because this past decade I've never been happier and the dating scene just keeps getting worse and worse just like people lmao.
''Decided to stop wasting my finite time that i get to be alive and focus on myself.''💯 ''I could really care less about being alone when I die because this past decade I've never been happier and the dating scene just keeps getting worse and worse just like people lmao''.💯
statistics show single men d!e earlier than married men, while married women d!e earlier than single women so women are not the problem. Men’s lives are statistically better with women in it even though you guys complain about women. Women risk their lives to carry pregnances and give birth to children that are going to have the man’s last name and that in itself can NEVER be equated to anything a man can give a woman. I think this generation of men don’t truly know the value of a woman and think their money is so special that women need to bow down to them.
I'm 34 yo male with office job, apartment and a car. I'm fit and I enjoy good conversation...at this moment of my life I can say that women at my age are rude or/with issues and the younger ones are just rude and aggressive with their feminist approach to everything. I am slowly checking out, interaction with women is exhausting and hard nowdays.
statistics show single men d!e earlier than married men, while married women d!e earlier than single women so women are not the problem. Men’s lives are statistically better with women in it even though you guys complain about women. Women risk their lives to carry pregnances and give birth to children that are going to have the man’s last name and that in itself can NEVER be equated to anything a man can give a woman. I think this generation of men don’t truly know the value of a woman and think their money is so special that women need to bow down to them.
If you have your own place + stable money + body you should be living life every week with different girl until you find a compatible one, so you capping
I’m very happy you are having a hard time, instead of you trying understand why there is a need for a feminist approach, you want someone who wants to treat you like a god and maintain the oppressive patriarchy that women have suffered through, for your own pleasure. You men don’t actually care to get to know women as human beings and why women complain about the things they do. You want women to shut up, cook, clean for you and give you $ex, and women are tired of that b.s. So I hope you continue to suffer and stay single or become gay.
It's not about the relationship, the "power pyramid" has flipped. They don't wear make up, dress up wear heels for 90+% of men. It's about competing with the other hens. If anyone besides Tom Bradley and Elon Musk of looks or success thinks they do it for them have big egos
@@danf7411 Frankly, neither Tom or Elon are good husband material. They both lack qualities that would makes them a good mate, yes Giselle was not a good wife either. What has wearing makeup have anything to do with being a wife? My husband loves that I've never worn makeup, I do dress "girly" since 80% of what I wear are dresses. When men want women to dress a certain way, look in the mirror to see how you present yourself. This whole 1950's Trad Wife aesthetic is fine, but where are the 1950's looking men. Where is our Cary Grant or Sean Connery. Back in the day, both genders looked great-men wore suits, very sharp.
LOL no sane girl rejects a guy because she wants a fashion accessory. She rejects for personal reasons. And if she has rejected you, it’s because SHE can see that you’re not compatible. She has that foresight. You don’t. She can see that she can’t be with you. It doesn’t matter if you can’t see it. If you think that you ARE compatible, then why are you incapable of showing it through your actions or understanding her sensibilities? Obviously, if you don’t understand her it means that you are incompatible. You can’t be in a relationship with someone whose mindset, values, likes, dislikes and life is beyond your comprehension. How is she wrong in rejecting you, if you claim that she rejected you because she wants a fashion accessory? You literally STILL don’t know what she wants and you’ll never figure it out, with any girl. Because you lack self awareness. It just so happens, that it’s against human nature to TRUST people who abuse, stalk, steal from, harass, bully and belittle you, holding you back and committing crimes against you. It’s common sense that people who abuse you, don’t understand you or how you operate. They don’t know what makes you fall in love or what makes you tick/like a guy. The guy who gets rejected, never knows that about the girl who rejects him. Because she didn’t choose to have a relationship with him. He wouldn’t know what she’s like with a guy she likes or WHAT makes her like a guy. Anything and everything he has a hand in, repels her and makes her go EWWWW. Obviously, his advice would be counter productive to any man seeking a relationship with her or any friend seeking to mend ties with her. He only knows what makes her REJECT a guy. His entire thought process, actions and track record are geared towards a certified rejection. He can’t advise anyone on how to be friends with her or how to date her. He wouldn’t know how to advise them. Yet, he wants to take the front seat in other people’s friendships, relationships and equations, earning them lifelong BLOCKED status. With such a horrendous record, a man with dignity, sanity and self respect would F OFF.
"All women are 10s. They don't say all men are 10s, they don't say all men deserve love."..Sooo TRUE! And I love the sarcastic tone when you said all women are 10s
I lost my girlfriend of 7 years this year because of everything Malanie said. She is right about everything, I don't feel like ever dating again. I'm still hurt and I have anger in me that I don't know how to deal with. It's sad and it makes it even more sad that it's frustrating because you as a man can't do anything about anymore.
''I don't know how to deal with'' ...a hobby that you love...a "Gorgeous" electric guitar and a full Marshall double stack is what does it for me lol ..if you start thinking about good/awesome things MORE that some st00pid Bi+ch/negative ..you will see the change
Put that frustration into a life that’ll make you happy. Walk in nature, have a booming system in your house or car. Get a game console, exercise, play an instrument, travel, etc
Don't let the anger consume you brother. Once you understand women, there's no need to hate them. I bought a high end silicone doll to take care of those testosterone needs. She's more beautifull than 99.999% of human females, she doesn't cheat on me or leave me, doesn't have an attitude, no STDs, no morning breath or kitty stink, no drama and the sex is great! Human females leave me indifferent at this point, no matter how young and 'beautiful' they are, because my synthetic gurl at home is vastly superior and adds value to me life. Check it out, there has been an explosion in the doll market, guys had enough, they are replacing human females with synthetics, some come with AI as well these days.
You dodged a bullet. It's called the awakening. Be careful how you handle it. Don't hurt yourself or others. Find a hobby or passion other than xx's to pass the time. You are better off.
I met my first wife in 2000 on a dating website. I divorced her after 10 years of marriage in 2013 from her cheating and lack of integrity. I'm remarried to my best friend, whom I met at work. She also was divorced. We have mutual respect, integrity, kindness and love for another and families. We have full trust between ourselves and neither of use would EVER do something stupid like my ex-wife did, cheat. There's something to be said about dating someone you already know as a friend/colleague. You build that foundation of trust and respect and it blossoms.
i was engaged to a woman who i was happy with. but 6 months into the engagement, she decided to call it off for one reason: i wasnt making 'enough' money for her. I'm self employed so for her that didn't meet her needs. it took me almost a full year to decompress the whole situation and move on.
damn bro. sorry you went through that. i was speaking with a woman i really like and she had no issues telling me she was attracted to her boss. total disrespect, my heart has recently healed from the sick behaviour. i only focus on myself now.
That happened to me more than once and it is soul crushing to be treated like that. I stopped dating and having anything to do with women outside of the professional level. Sometimes I am approached by women but I tell them I'm just not interested in dating a man.
She supposively said that you don't make enough $$$ but than again she is only one that knows the real reason. Maybe she used this as an excuse to get out of this situation.
@MikaComments If a woman says something that makes her look bad (look like a good digger), it's either because it's true, or the truth makes her look MUCH worse. Either way, BEST case scenario for her, she was telling the truth.
Online dating is the same as going to the casino and playing slot machines. The difference is you know if you have won or lost right away on a slot machine. And you win more on a slot machine than online dating.
Narrsiccism is the root cause of all of this. Narrsiccism is at epidemic levels. It's spilling over into existing marriages and ruining a lot of those, too. It's not confined to younger women. Many older women who've been in what was perceived as a committed relationship are turning their back on the husband who worked his tail off to support her and their children. Feminism and Narrsiccism are largely synonymous. But narcissism came first.
Narcissism is equally divided between both genders. From my observations-I'm a bi-racial woman- it is much higher in the black community. First, how does Narcissism develop? It's a lack of a controlled environment. This means not having an authority figure in the home. In the past one lived with extended family, this created a support environment for the children. But if everyone is away from the home, who is watching the children? Second is there is usually a genetic component--Narcissism runs in families.
@@DavidVandemark Depends on their position in life. Nearly every politician is a Narcissist: Donald Trump, Boris Johnson, Putin, Tony Blair, Joe Biden, Obama are all Narcissists & none of these men are punished. Amber Heard, Megan Markle, Jada Pinkett, Jennifer Lopez are all criticized for their behavior.
@@DavidVandemark I can see that you have no idea who some of these men are. Do you really believe that former PM Tony Blair is as criticized as Megan Markle or Amber Heard? That's seriously funny! While Donald Trump is criticized, it is not for his Narcissism alone. Again, Narcissism is the norm in politics. Look at Hillary Clinton and her husband Bill Clinton, both are Narcissists. Who do you think has had more criticism over the years, Bill or Hillary? Obviously it should be Bill since he had an oath of office, but back in the day when he was President he was called " Teflon Bill" since none of his actions stuck to him. So, that shows a lack of accountability on his side. All of his friends and all of their sordid behavior were in the FOB (Friends of Bill) Club. What about his 27 visits to the "Island", why has he never been implicated in any of this? I'm not a fan of Megan Markle, but some of the comments against her are truly unhinged. Somehow not pressing one's clothes is an offense against humanity.
I am 50 years old and I haven’t dated or had sex in 11 years. I completely walked away from relationships with women. One day it just hit me that it wasn’t worth it anymore. I didn’t feel good about having sex outside of marriage and dating or being in a relationship added so much stress to my life so I walked away. Honestly I can’t tell you how much better my life has been. I am close to God and I stay true to myself. The pressure to look a certain way or drive a certain car are gone. I own my condo which didn’t seem good enough for the women I dated in the past. They wanted to be living in a house. I love my condo and I have worked hard to keep it the last 20 years. Bottom line I simply could not compete with the expectations. Nothing ever felt good enough so now it’s just me and my two cats who I love dearly. Has anyone else experienced what I have experienced? Thanks so much. Derek
I'm 44 and going through the same. I was working in tech making 6 figures, I work out regularly which got me a very muscular physique and I drive a $100k Mercedes yet none of that was enough for women. I'm short, only about 5'8 and even with all the other things I have going on for me, none of it was enough and women always found something else to add to their check list. I destroyed my psyche, my confidence and my self esteem. It got to the point where I contemplated ending my life because of how low and inadequate women made me feel. One day I decided to completely check out from women. I realized modern women have very little value and very little to offer, but so much to demand. It still hurts me deeply that I will never have a wife or children as all I ever wanted to do was be a good husband and other to someone someday but the juice just isn't worth squeeze anymore. Women are nothing more than a liability and they only bring drama. Now instead of looking for someone to love, I love myself.
I'm 56, caught between wishing I had a loving, supportive wife to share life with, and, like you, just not motivated to go through the unnecessary headache of modern dating, with the expectations of these women. I have a dating coach, but lately I look at a woman who may have a mutual interest in me, but all I see are the requirements that they place in front of you. I'm content at present with many of the same things you have, and don't have a desire to voluntarily add potential drama to my life. Then there's the probability of her later filing for divorce on a whim, and I end up in pauper's prison from alimony.
@@carld3218 I know man it’s tough. The more I think about it I think any guy who gets back in the gauntlet is really playing with fire. 🔥. I hate being this cynical but we need to protect ourselves. 99% of the time the man is the one losing everything he worked for. If a guy has a child/children it makes it 💯 worse!
They dont get whats their version of high achieving. They think they need to develop a career because thats what they value in men but all they need is youth beauty and a traditional view on gender roles and LOYALTY... and they can have the top 0.1% of men.
@@jimpanse1638 men have the same issue of thinking women value the same things as them. Just look at the amount of men in the comments talking about how good looking they are but don't understand why they can't keep a partner. Unlike men, women don't put as much value in their partner's looks as they do their personality/communication/etc. It's not a gendered issue, the problem is on both sides.
Women want a traditional man. At 70 being a traditional man is quite an accomplishment. My son, at 30, married and a dad is a traditional man. I’m so proud of him. Men also want a traditional woman. The problem is the word traditional woman has become a demeaning word for western women. It’s a team effort and requires a lot of effort. As the team begins to mesh and act as one, there is no better life.
Your son has a 50/50 chance of being divorced later on. Don't want to sound like a downer. But if you read this in some years from now and it happened you'll remember.
For every 200-300 women I approached or got to know through socialising I got 1 date - nothing stupid or weird said to women, just normal conversations. That's a lot of time and effort to spend for a man - womens standards are Disney delusional.
A woman competing with her man means she's not focused on loving him. I checked out this year and I haven't felt this much peace and relief in a long time.
While I get where you're coming from, the experiences I've had have provided the necessary insight to come to the conclusion that I have. Also, the peace I'm now getting after moving on from someone who was competing, and not loving; is clear evidence imo of where the mindset of women are. Not all women, but enough to notice.@theformidabletruth
I grew in a matriarchy family structure and it almost broke me. The ill treatment that I was on the receiving in from my far older half-sisters, their daughters etc. I had hell on my hands! It has taken a lot of therapy and pure determination to get past all of that. I do not have relationships with any of my relatives because of it. I have my two close friends and I have my fiance who I will be marrying next March. And I am ok with that small circle. Those same relatives are now complaining because I refuse to deal with them. They are asking when can they met my Filipino fiance. That is not going to happen because I will not allow it nor allow them to bring any drama into my relationship.
Don't ever get back a relationship with these people. These women will do whatever they can to try and convince your Filipina fiance to leave you and "she can do better". I assume it's a woman and she might be more traditional etc. They will try everything even tough you're their brother to sabotage it.
I agree with a lot of this discussion. I am a School teacher that teaches a Foreign Language. I am buying my own home, I have no debt, I workout regularly. Never Married No children Certified and I have a Masters Degree. I CAN TELL YOU RIGHT NOW, I HAVE A LOT OF POSITIVES, AND IT IS STILL AN ISSUE TO FIND SOMEONE THAT CONSIDERS ME A "GREAT CATCH." Ultimately, I just want my house... my peace of mind, and I will enjoy constructing my life.
I was in a relationship before turning completely off to it. Most of the women I had met while growing up, I did not particularly like. Most were very masculine and would even threaten to beat you up. It was insufferable to be around. I had a girl push me because I bumped into her and even said I was sorry. I was confused that she would push me. Anyway, I met someone online, years later. Everything was good for about a month then everything turned into hyper drama that made me a nervous wreck. I'd constantly have my emotions played with and was manipulated. Ultimately, it ended as predictably as most would expect. It was traumatic enough for me to never want to get into relationships again. I soon found how much I enjoy being alone after I ended that relationship. No one tells me when to stop playing video games. No one is trying to force money out of me. Life is better and I'm able to pursue the things I want like exercise and my own education. I even went to a Community College as my aspiration is knowledge and not to attain some arbitrary paper that says I should know as much as I do. People obtain knowledge for the wrong reason when they do it for money and success. I don't want a masters degree so that my life is spent doing nothing. I want to feel tested and to solve problems with what I know. It would be difficult to fill time with what to do to solve a problem, if I could just pay someone to fix the problem. I don't want to rely on other people. I want to be well tempered and folded into the perfect sword that only I know about and can take advantage of.
First thing i'd do to solve this is to remove social media, remove the number of options and all the attention.. I honestly believe social media is the biggest reason as to why dating is so hard, cause you see what everyone around the world has so you keep comparing instead of appreciate what you got..
I did that too. no FB and never had an IG or SC or any other. My "X" account is anon and the only female followers are bots or thots and I don't follow them.
While she may be a woman, Melanie has some correct values underpinning her. What are those? Biblical understanding of male female relationships. Why? For the greatest happiness and success, men and women need to operate in those parametrics.
This was a well spoken video. I wanted to thank you for posting it. I agree. I am a single man with no children. Never married. I have a full time job, military benefits after sacrificing myself on a battlefield for a year. I am not physically disabled but I have seen some horrible things and have had a lot of close calls. I come home, get a BA degree, stay fit and pursued women that I thought would be a good fit for me. They all chose to find someone else. Many times the "chads" you speak of that got them pregnant and left. Then some of those called me after having children with other men. But by the time they did that I was no longer interested. I have remained single now for going on 6 years and I have accepted it at this point. I don't think I did anything wrong but this was my result. I can only imagine that this is probably happening a lot in our society. So personally, I understand that group of men that have chosen to go their own way. This was a great and educational video. Thank you. At least I know I am not alone in all this.
I was dating in the early ‘90s but not frequently. I had a roommate who was a player and always had a date. I was stable, responsible, and tried to be considerate of women and not be a jerk. A guy in our friend circle was over one day and I was telling him about my dating challenges and he said he was around some of the women in our group. As they talked about types of guys they told him my roommate was the guy you want to date and have fun with while I was the type of guy women looked for when they were ready to get married. I thought to myself if I can’t date a lot now, how do they think I wouldn’t have given up on relationships by the time they were ready to settle down? I did find a wife in my late 20s so everything worked out. It appears guys like me in their 20s would have no chance in the 2020’s dating market.
I learned that early on so I’ve spent my entire 20’s just sleeping around. I also got a vasectomy because I never want children. Especially an accidental pregnancy with some fun bat shit crazy woman.
Im a male 5'6 I've seen the writing on the wall for a while now. After 1 divorce and my ex fiance cheated and got pregnant with the person she cheated on me with. I've checked out of the game entirely. Ive always had the family values and having a daughter that is already in college and the way dating is its going have consequences in the future countries are already worried of not having enough people in the future for work force due to so many not having children now. It's a sad reality now. Checking out is my way of finding what happiness left out of life for me before dying.
I'm 5 8 without shoes and I feel I get looked over if only these women knew 80 percent of guys lie about their height on dating apps maybe I would be a little more lucky but them lying ruined it... Starting to think I might as well lie a couple inches like everyone else. The only thing is short cells got is money if you don't got money then your double screwed.
A growing number of men have decided to forgo marriage, dating and relationships for a number of valid reasons. The blaming. The shaming. The noise. The aggravation. The lack of respect. The lack of appreciation and the massive expense. Since I regained my bachelor status, I found peace, freedom, early retirement, zero debts and a rapidly growing bank account. Things that would have been highly unlikely if I had a modern woman in my house. Winter is coming. Be careful out there.
@@cdp5708 Nothing's stopping you. It's just in your interest to understand the risks. And there are plenty of risks both big and small. At the very least, you'll be expected to pay for entertainment and meals while you're being manipulated into providing more. Worse case scenarios include false accusations of abuse and sexual assault. Baby trapping and paternity fraud. Getting a STD. Getting assaulted or killed by a jealous ex boyfriend or herself. These can happen without marriage and/or divorce. Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.
@@cdp5708 Have fun. No one's stopping you. Just understand the risks involved and know they range from minor inconveniences to serious consequences. Good luck.
statistics show single men d!e earlier than married men, while married women d!e earlier than single women so women are not the problem. Men’s lives are statistically better with women in it even though you guys complain about women. Women risk their lives to carry pregnances and give birth to children that are going to have the man’s last name and that in itself can NEVER be equated to anything a man can give a woman. I think this generation of men don’t truly know the value of a woman and think their money is so special that women need to bow down to them.
Beautiful. Your analysis of the ‘fantasy model’ which is hindering females from clearly assessing potential mates was so good. I’m 62 and divorced. My young male friends (less than 35) are having a terrible time. I have spoken to some of their female friends who overlook them because of height, income, and a lack of grace pursuing women. I’m startled at how the fantasy model explains their lack of interest in these fine young men. It is really terrible and my young friends are quite depressed about it.
Melanie here's another explanation for why more & more men are dropping out of the dating market by the day. More and more men are realizing that they don't want to compete with women's hypergamy to get and keep relationships and that's exactly how things are atm. The more a woman has and wants, the more she expects from her man because she always expects him to have, want, and be more than she has, wants, and is. So women's very own nature is pitting men against women and once men realize this, MANY of them decide not to even play that game because very few men, if ANY, want their woman to be constantly raising her expectations of him. So as long as women keep expecting more and more and more out of men just because they themselves have accomplished more and more, we will continue to see men opting out of playing that game of competition with women's egos & expectations. This is one case where women's hypergamy is backfiring on them hard and I see virtually no cure for it as long as it continues. I personally don't expect this to turn around to any great degree but I'm watching from the sidelines to see exactly how far this goes before everything collapses. Good luck everyone but I don't think that will be enough.
Well, a problem with hypergamy is exactly who is "better" than you? Most women with a piece of paper from college are not at all educated, and can do few basic things to survive life. Yet, these same women will not marry a plumber or electrician who actually is educated on how significant sections of our infrastructure works.
It’s doesn’t help either when literally every institution like college pushes them through the door with free credits and grants and scholarships you can get literally just for existing as a female. They get a gender studies degree and work as a barista and think they are better than a guy making 6 figures as an electrician
Not only that but it isn't love. I'm convinced most women have lost what that even means and I think at the core that is what men are noticing. Who wants a relationship with a woman who is incapable of love?
I’m 33 year old male and a general manager at Costco. I make what is considered average for a general manager. It’s hard for me to find a date or even find a women that I actually want to date. Side note I’m also tall 6’4. I think what you do for a living does matter and it really shouldn’t. We live in a backwards world when it comes to dating and relationships sadly.
Unfortunately it really does. I make 100k+ working in corrections, in a small town where the average HOUSEHOLD salary is 54k. But I can't tell you how many times a woman has ghosted me the moment I said my job title. When I say corrections, they hear "prison guard" aka lowlife. But if I let on that I'm in school full time for my master's, they perk up. They value "prestige" over all else, including family and money
So you being a manager at Costco and tall so that means you are a catch?? See you men don’t even want to work in your personality and emotional intelligence but claim women are the problem. You think women are dum creatures who only care about height and your job position smh.
Dude I work at an eye doctors office doing billing, insurance , retinal imaging and optician work. With my commission and sales I make decent money living in New York and dude the girl at the grocery store who can barely speak English was so prude to me when I said you have pretty eyes. 2 second conversation while I was paying for my redbull, I’ve worked in optometry and ophthalmology for 10 years I stare at peoples eyes all day for a living so I notice eyes that stand out dude I regret it I’ve never had someone who probably didn’t even graduate high school make me feel so low for trying to be nice. I swear man even a girl whose decent looking these days thinks she’s a supermodel movie star
It's interesting when Melanie said that they want the fantasy to be real. It's like no matter how much reality shows them the truth they refuse to believe it.
They don’t want to be believe anything . They want equality while doing nothing about it . They don’t want to cook or clean or do anything physical so WTF even are you ? They can’t even describe what tasks they even do . Any sort of criticism to them you get all types of words thrown at you . Literally just leave them alone with there phones it’s the best thing to do
Thanks for pointing out that sympathy is not a one-way street! We have far too many double standards like that in order to take equality seriously at all.
I'm 41. Had lots of women In my life. At this point I am absolutely done. They are absolutely delusional and selfish, I can't take it. Only good for a "good time" and I don't care about that anymore. Sad state these days
That is why I started dating women from Asia. I met a woman from the Philippines. A lot of women there appreciate men and relationships more than Western women. They make our lives better and easier.
Same. Except I chose Southeast Asia. A lot of these women are transactional. But it’s all up front with no bs. And when you find a “good” one, it’s a whole lot better than the western ways.
You don't have to stop dating, you just have to stop dating western women. I started dating in south east Asia, I've never been treated with so much love and respect.
I'm a 67 year old man and have had a female in my life for a total of 12 years. They were the worst and most miserable years of my life. I love the freedom I have as a single man, and no, I haven't dated or had any hook-ups in a very long time, and I don't miss it either. I wasted 12 years of my life on them, and I won't waste one more second on them either. I went MGTOW before anyone knew what MGTOW was, and I don't regret it for one second. Life is too short to waste on the madness and insanity that comes with each and every one of them. No thanks, I'll stay happy as a single free man.
I'm 62 and I've followed a similar trajectory except I've spent even fewer years in relationships. Financially secure, good friends, good health, very good fitness and self directed high level intellectual pursuits. Also MGTOW before it was ever a thing.
lol, same here. 62 years old and went MGTOW long before it was a thing. Was in some relations now and then but never let it be anything serious as even the best of them would turn toxic as if it was a natural thing for them. Left all women all together some 10 years ago and stopped spending my hard earned money on them while they treating me not so nicely and always having never ending demands. I've never had so much peace and quiet in my life and I love it :)
It's also the fact that we no longer live in communities. We no longer have to converse with others to get what we want. Everything can be done behind the safety of a screen.
My ex broke up with me because I told her I had recovered from anxiety after my mom had her first heart attack (seven years prior) as I said talk therapy really helped with the stress of taking care of an ill parent. She started questioning the relationship because she misunderstood what a person's emotional anchor (your rock) is. She believed I should literally be a rock. Really toxic behavior from a supposed Feminist who doesn't know anything about men.
developing anxiety because of your mom's health actually sounds very sweet. It shows that you care, and that you're a family guys. Good riddance tbh, you deserve better.
@@leedlbagginshield8492 My sister's ex was WALKING RED FLAGS. We tried to persuade her to not marry him, but she wouldn't listen. Married in 2001, divorced in 2016. He cheated multiple times, didn't work since 2007 and lived off welfare while she worked the whole day long. It has taught me to never ever ignore red flags. You can't and won't change a person that's already rotten.
When he talks about it being unfathomable that young men would just write off women, I can totally relate. That's the way I was in my teens and 20s during the 1980s and 1990s: I had no desire whatsoever in pursuing women. From a very early age I learned to distrust and despise females - primarily due to my mother and older sister, and my father's "mentoring" on women did not help. Things I saw on TV, movies, at school, etc. turned me off as well. By the end of 9th grade/15yo I had psychologically shut down and vowed not to pursue women. At that point, I really didn't "see" them anymore. I used masturbation to simply get rid of the urge and focus on just being a soldier. By my early 20s, I started to seriously consider going to the doctor and have a procedure done to make it so I would not ever think about sex for the rest of my life. I didn't dance with a girl until age 21 - only because she asked (I never would have). I didn't have my first kiss/date/sex/girlfriend until I was a 23yo sergeant, and only because she made all the first moves (I never would have). I didn't realize it at the time, but girls had been pursuing me since junior high but I was incapable of reading their cues and my low self-esteem made it impossible for me to believe any girl would ever want me - something my older sister made me believe. I didn't actually approach a girl (for the purpose of getting a date) until age 25 - which was successful. Even still, I very rarely made attempts to approach due to my ingrained hatred and distrust, and my belief they are just out for a man's money and other material gain. I finally met a good woman and married at age 30 and have been married for 21 years. Still, it took years into marriage to become fully comfortable with sex, especially since I was gone to war or training 75% of the first 10 years of our marriage. She never complained. But it wasn't until my mid-40s - and 15 years into marriage - that I started watching social and PUA coaches and finally learned to better read social cues, socially interact, be better at sex, and really learn to love women (but understand the danger of them at the same time).
I can't love them. I don't trust any. I might be friendly but only on the surface. I don't trust guys either. I'm only 31 but feel like I forgot how to be a human and I reject everybody. People are just objects.
Wow, I loved reading this. I’m also very sorry you went that as a child and young adult. I’m so happy and proud of you for realizing this in yourself and making the effort to improve to make your relationship with your wife better. I’m happy that despite your history, you still tried and found a wife you felt safe enough to stay with for so many years. I wish you all the best 💖
Ye this one worked out in the end but I know countless men for whom these issues have not been solved by the stroke of luck of “meeting the right person”
@severussin Yeah Ive noticed that watching vids like this. I consider it an act of God I found her in the right place at the right time sitting at the table I normally sat at alone in a country dance club.
I've watched a lot of your content, Melanie, and when you said what you said about how comparing what women are doing (hypergamy) and what men are doing (MGToW, blackpill) being two different things, I wanted to argue. But you are right. Like, painfully right. Nobody's asking guys anything. The only solutions we have are exiting the scene, or trying and failing until we do. The sheer volume of options available to women now is obscene, and that enables the hypergamy. And then you mentioned the ick. And then he mentioned the 'tall girl' problem, and you brought that to the attractiveness thing (which is still in hypergamy as women can afford the injections and fillers and high-end treatments, and so they expect a minimum of effort in that field that still shows he does more). Now, I don't want to say all women are this way, because that is similar to all men being labelled incels. It's not fair to say. My wife is not this way, but my wife and I have been off the dating market for nearly two decades now. Maybe I am so far removed that I don't know how absolutely crazy it is. But that means I have two young boys going into it in the next decade. I'm afraid for them. One is a tall boy, but not lean and muscular. The other will likely be shorter than 6' and be wiry. The big one is shy and introverted, and the little one is very happy-go-lucky and extroverted. The older one is going to need a caring woman that might have to work to get him out of his shell, and the youngest is going to need someone who can handle his high energy without saying everything he does is icky. I am teaching my sons to have strong boundaries and to say no. I am teaching them to simply refuse to give too much more than they get in return. I'm teaching them to be chivalrous, but strong enough to walk away from a relationship. Don't be in the friend zone and never, ever simp. Don't sleep around, and don't accept women that do. Work on yourself constantly to be the best version of yourself, and do it for you so you recognize and care about your own value.
The problem is a overinflated sense of self and perception of entitlement on both sides as a result of lack of realistic outcomes that are hyper activated by social media and a serious lack of self confidence and personable skills. Everyone is trying to have a perfect life or to have something better than what is practical. I have seen low class dudes pull some of the best women based almost entirely on their self confidence, charisma and self assured value of themself.
my main reason to opt out is every relationship ive been in has ended with "i need to find myself" being her excuse to cheat, breakup then start just taking cock from every guy around her. then while single the last time i stood on the sidelines and saw how this is a common phenomenon from there i didnt want to have a bias and so i researched what was going on in the rest of society and found these enormous expectations of men to meet just to be in a relationship with someone who was giving it up for free to the neighborhood chads and tyrones. so it sucks but ive chosen isolation over this corruption.
Thank you for chiming in there when Chris said "women need sympathy!" Because they don't. What they really deserve is apathy, because that is exactly what they dish out to us, or at least to me
You are so right Melanie. I am a single man and the last time I was in a relationship was so long ago that I think it was 20 years ago!!! 😢 I don’t work in an office, I work in construction. I like to get my hands dirty. But I am quite well off with assets of about £9M. Obviously, I don’t advertise this to women. I am afraid Melanie that I think I will die alone. It does not make me sad as I have accepted this fact.
Stay true to yourself 👑 keep that bag safe. They realistically have nothing reciprocal emotionally or finacially to offer you. £9mil aint some chump change, dont you dare loose that to some manipulate broad.
The last girl friend I had, actually told me, when I asked for her opinion on some landscaping decisions I was needing to make on the land I am buying. She said, that’s too much of a commitment for her… I said, I’m not asking for your hand in marriage, I want your opinion on these choices, as it impacts our future… She then proceeded to tell me, how she needs time on her own, like each week, like maybe more than 2 days a week… wtf I said, I’m not looking for that I guess. I want a full time girlfriend not a part time one. Gtfoh
@@jld12er you are 🤪. I've lived of the land and on my peppery my whole life. You would die if you ever worked a day at my place. You are a modern man. Period. Have a nice day.
Its difficult to have mercy or pity for the female behaviour that became the norm in current times. Girls are absolutely ruthless to guys they consider unworthy and are utterly arrogant/uncultured when it comes to men they like(or choose to stay with, really). I've been molested by women since I was like 13. At first I thought it was just because I was cute, as a child. Then it proceeded into high school and uni and I realized that women just have absolutely 0 clue that they have to hold themselves back. They laugh about it, thinking they're cute and are totally fine with doing it right in front of guys that like them. They can brag about cheating on or using guys that they consider to be worse than you, thinking that it somehow makes them look better or more desirable. When men do it, they're called out even by other guys. I don't care if chicks want a "better guy" or whatever. Its only natural. But the absolute lack of humanity of that process, even towards the men of their choice, makes me feel nothing but disgust towards them. Worse yet, current culture corrupts ALL women to be that way. Give nice girl a chance and if she has a "girl boss" friend, that same nice girl will suddenly think that she's on top of the world and dates down. Its frankly so draining having to deal with all that bs, that I started actively going against the usual tests/games that women put up, just out of spite. I have no idea where I can find a decent partner, because even those that I meet only take a few months to show their true nature and do so unapologetically.
I'm 52 and told my mother about some of the neighbors and ladies in church that she swore were her friends, she had zero comment. I don't even talk to my mother because she never held herself accountable for the idiot that she married after my father left her.
I've been considering asking a girl out at work, she's Indian, seems nice (only real downside is she doesn't use deodorant) but I'd feel more comfortable with someone more traditional rather than going for a western woman. Plus I like learning about Indian culture, I even tried learning Hindi at one stage.
Looking at the data it's looking really bad for guys.
(Source: Google)
Shocking Statistics.
1.) 10% of women have a credit card debt of $7,500 and higher.
2.) 1/3 (33%) of women have an STD.
3.) 2/3 (66%) of women have Student Loan Debt.
4.) 39.7% of women are obese.
5.) 20% of USA Population identifies as LGBTQ.
On the flip side.
50.4% of the USA Population are women.
49.9% of USA women are married.
After running the numbers it came to 147,872 potential mates out of 171,360,000 women (USA Female Population) that would be sane candidates for dating and marriage.
Now take into account that I have to compete with every guy on the planet for those women.
The odds of meeting this person and getting this potential candidate is slim to none.
Those 147,872 women are being taken by the top 10% of men.
Average Joe which is most men don't stand a chance.
So nobody should be surprised why most men either give up or buy a passport and take their chances overseas finding someone else.
Never trust statistics they change EVERY mili-SECOND🤓 …I never go by anybody statistics googles, or scientist, researchers people in general
How did you get 147 872? Your numbers are wrong
@@koza7676Kinda wrong but he took the undesairable women from the total. In debt ldtv, obese, stds etc. And Assumed they are anything equilibrated sane and attractive enogh.
But yeah all the oter numbers are right.
1/3 have stds its the median the number its far higher from 16 to 30, then lowers a LOT in 30 to 40 women (for some reasson they are not getting raw dont in their baby rabbies time), and then increase massively 45 and above. In men its very very low... but skyrocket at 45 and above.
Your numbers are wrong!!!!
mmm if those are your metrics for a quality woman your perspective is whacked. Only STD matters, and also which one anyway ? Nearly everybody picks up HSV1 but who manifests it say as cold sores is due to genetics.
No man wants to pay new BMW prices for a used clapped out Honda civic. Women offer so much less and ask for so much more than any generation in history.
I remember when a Civic was able to be modded into something personal, and yet they are loyal in the daily running, got great mileage and reliable. A wife should be like that....EG6, EK9 in human female form.
TBF, a civic is more reliable than a bmw, so I do agree with the premise of the analogy, just not the comparison. Gotta respect good cars
NOT THE CLAPPED OUT HONDA CIVIC IM WEAK BRO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
haven't you heard of Hugh heffner's Widow? Or Jeff besos New woman? Or Ana Nicole Smith? Now tell me again how men's dicks do not dictate their choices...
Hoeflation
As a law student, I can see that the laws are COMPLETELY against men in divorce proceedings. Men get destroyed in marriage. My goal is to get these laws overturned. No one should be given things that they have not earned. Just because you said “I do” doesn’t mean that you should get HALF of what someone earned before they married you.
There institutions in its entirety is rigged against the working man.
Laws keep being made, not many ever nullified
Doesn't matter if the laws change. Women's NATURE has been revealed. We know they will use any scenario to their advantage. We are just pawns in their world in their mind. And it's a HUGE majority of women and our culture so checking out is the only option for anyone logical
Fax
It's the judges' fault. In other countries the wealth brought into the marriage and inheritances are taboo for the split. Even splitting the wealth accrued during marriage has been earned by men. They do half the housework, did it before marriage so what value does a women bring to demand half or all of his wealth.
It's maddening listening to women complain about reproductive rights to people who have very little reproductive rights.
I'm a muscular guy, the amount of women checking me out next to their husbands/boyfriends is disgusting. I've checked out long ago but it is a constant reminder why I take no woman seriously, they're never satisfied and always looking for a bigger fish - and there's always a bigger fish so why bother?
''...I'm a muscular guy...'' That makes two of us for I have been going to the gym for thirty years ...Your post is spot on and I have had the exact same experience as you have, like you, I am totally disgusted..... I am deadly serious here, I have completely wiped out of my life, and any form of association with a particular gender.
Finding someone physically attractive doesn’t necessarily equate to cheating. It’s quite natural to appreciate another person’s appearance without the intention to be unfaithful. Human attraction is complex and not limited to a single individual.
@CGMiamiMoods002 its about respect. The same way women will get mad at men checking out other women around them. Its rude to do that to your spouse unless its been talked about already.
@@Blacklla In my opinion it’s completely normal irregardless of being in a “relationship” we are human beings, it’s all science
@@CGMiamiMoods002 Matthew 5:27-28 (KJV) Ye have heard that it was said by them of old time, Thou shalt not commit adultery:
But I say unto you, That whosoever looketh on a woman to lust after her hath committed adultery with her already in his heart.
Don’t chase
Workout
Eat healthy
Go outside
Be happy yourself
Enjoy life
get skilled at something
practice semen retention
And never experience women.
meh
@@Othraerir agreed, meh.
And live within your means..........
I'm a software developer who served in the Marine Corps. Being 5'9 without a college degree, the opportunities just aren't there (mostly by choice). Never mind the fact that my military background adds the "protector" aspect of a male partner, but my income (provider) is in the six figures. Since I do not advertise my income, women do not even look my direction. Being a self-taught techy, I know I make more than many college grads. It took a long time to get where I am and I'll be damned if a temporary modern woman tries to swoop in and take what I earned. I used to look... now, I'm content flying solo and I enjoy my selfish lifestyle.
Any advice on getting into an IT career w no experience?
Yeah bro, these women want the clowns that sag their pants two sizes too big for them who flaunt their fake printed money and chains. Everyone's a clown these days.😂
Nice! Not advertising income is genius
sorry, @KyleGravesLive , youtubes is deleting my response. Just learn and sacrifice. Get a recruiter and be honest with your skill level, they will help you get a junior position.
@@iSoldat hey, I was going to ask how to break in to the tech industry with no degree but the guy up top beat me to it.
Where would be the best place to go get in contact with a recruiter? Any forums/ websites/ meetups where I can get in contact with these folks? Thanks
Also prior military (USAF) thank u for your service 🫡
Men aren't backing away from relationships. It's the lack of quality women that they're "retreating" from.
This 👆
🎯
Men aren't "commitment" phobic, women are increasingly becoming "commitment" incompatible
... ones with reasonable expectations.
Yeah. If I go to a dealership and, after perusing all the cars, I don't find what I'm looking for I'm not afraid of driving.
Women get pissed off when the men they want, treat them like they treat men they dont want.
What's even worse is they do this to the men on their level or even a little above. You have to be way above them to be the men they pursue
Truth bomb!
@@takensouls1Women don’t pursue men
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty Lmao, yes they do
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeautyIf your attractive, yes they definitely do.
Shes right im a electrician and a girl i dated was so embarrassed of my profession she would constantly tell me to talk about my finances with all her white collar friends.
I make way more money then all those offices workers but somehow i was an embarrassment
WTF
And you probably dont have debt either so you really made more
Lol same
Yep. I'm now making over 200/yr in construction with over a mil in equity, yet these women still find it embarrassing. I don't tell them I have a neuroscience degree before I give them the punt lol
wow wtf was her job? CEO of Morgan Stanley?
Dating is doomed, from both ends. Average women don’t want over 80% of men because they are not tall enough, handsome enough or rich enough. And at least half of men don’t want to grind to make 6 figures and get in shape, only to marry a 30+ year old with high body counts that can destroy them financially in divorce court. Liberalism, feminism and social media/dating apps were absolutely catastrophic for dating.
Typicsl female nonsense, you are just another clown anna with no sense of the reality around you!
You just cant make magically 6 figures, no matter how hard you try. The reality does not work like that.
This right there is the reason why everything is screwed:
You clown want an ATM , while you on the other hand offer nothing!
Facts bro I’m actually curious on how the dating wise will be within 3-8 years from now
Its not a case of men aren’t willing. Economically and mathematically it is impossible for men to become attractive enough for most women.
The time investment and then the achievement of this on mass by most men will just shift the goal posts once again because the average will have also risen, women do not want average.
Black pill
No, we got away from what the OEM of marriage designed it to be...
Correction: women’s hypocrisy and entitlement have ruined relationships
In other words, women have shown their narsissm and toxic behaviour.
And all the emotional attacks from treating men like children in their relationships to blaming and shaming in the media.
feminist ideology is so deeply ingrained into western society there is no moderate solution. only hard trade offs where we curtail women's rights. if not then we really need to stop complaining and fear mongering over men leaving the sexual market place.
What I love is how many Black men are being banned from Instagram for pointing any of this out. That platform is the past
@@rhyno8644thats interesting!
I'm a 32 yr old virgin and I'm not ashamed of it. I saw what my mom put my dad through. I see what the stress of that dating and relationships did to my brother, cousins, and friends. I'm going to just continue focusing on me and get become financially free so I can move out of the U.S and start a family in another country.
That’s what I wanna do too, I’m sick and tired of the same women in the US”
Just for the record. Things like hypergamy, cheating, and other things we don't like about Western women still exist with foreign women. Just take a look at Ukraine. Feminism is global.
sad but fair
If I were you I would just find something to f*ck for the moment. Cuz if youth think you’re gonna keep a grown good woman with virgin penis… Your gonna be real f*cked up in the game my dude. Would you throw a player in the game if he never showed up to practice?
If you really want to leave the US and that’s a good idea for a couple of reasons, you should move first and then work on your financial stability in your new home country. Because you will have to start all over again anyway. You can take with you, your education and your personality traits. But you rarely can transfer a career you’ve built in one country to another.
23 Years old, fit and handsome but stopped looking for a girl. Every thing in a relationship at my age is totally toxic and not worth looking for.
Know your worth young king
Young rat 😂
Know the signs, avoid the flags, and find your unicorn. It's worth it.
I'm 34 and can say the same....it isn't the age it is the society of today
I'm a 33 year old African American male, 6'3, and do well financially. I say that to point out it's often forgetten that the small pool of men that women go for also have to like and want them back. The gentleman in the video was spot on when he said why would we commit. The ROI is not there. We're not drawn to a woman's accolades/money and the qualities that we do look for in a wife are almost forgotten. At the same time, intimacy is readily available without the required commitment. We also inheritly assume much more risk in marrying than we would single. Logic says, why would someone with everything to lose and nothing to gain in marriage, marry. Especially when there's a revolving door of low risk interaction available at a lower stress return.
Anology: What successful business would sign a contract with a business partner, where they assume all risk? When they could sign no contract at all and work with numerous business partners, all while assuming no risk.
Something to think about - If you can get any man that you want, why are you not with the man that you want?
They could stare directly into a mirror, and still fail to see the problem.
Women use the mirror so much yet can't see they are the common thing in all there failures in life.
Preach!
Tis sounds like the lad online who is going around asking women to describe their qualifications for men and showing them the probability of meeting a man with that criteria. I haven't seen anyone get higher than 3% yet lol
Why do these women think a man desires a wealthy woman and at the same time admit they expect him to pay for everything. What then does her wealth bring to the relationship if he's covering everything like she desires.
I’m a 40 year old divorced man. I have been divorced for 4 years and single for the same amount of time. I have went on a few dates with a few different women but ultimately I came to realize I’m so much happier not being in a relationship. Today’s society leaves absolutely no good reason to marry as a man. If I were giving advice to any 20 something male it would be to never get married.
Absolutely!
I am 52, like you, I am divorced - been divorced for 11 years. Have also gone on a couple of dates and in all the cases I ended the dating because the women were not right mentally, emotionally and their outlook on life just was completely wrong. Most women today are not fit for marriage.
Will I get married again? They say never say never, but at this stage, I am happy and at peace being single. I have a feeling I will more than likely just have a "girlfriend" than get married, less problems when things don't work out as opposed to being married. This is not me preparing to fail but by today's standards that is almost a guarantee in "modern" relationship/ marriage.
I like your point of advising the young ones not to get married. If someone decides to get married then make damn sure there is a tight prenup.
I feel you. I just stay on my square and mind my business. I set boundaries and leave the rest to fate.
I am 49 here and divorced from a very toxic marriage, and the last thing I want is another narcissistic woman child dictating what I can do with my life.
@@J.B.7.4 my 2 boys and I have bonded so much over the past few years. I love every minute I have with them and bringing another woman into the picture is just out of the question for me. I just want to focus on being dad at this point nothing else matters to me. My life is so stress free right now I just can’t go back.
Thanks! Travel & enjoy life on the way
Men were shamed for being so sexually motivated, and now we're being shamed for not being sexually motivated.
Women unhappy. Men to blame
😂😂 It never changes we are somehow always at fault
We have Schrodinger's Feminists to blame for all of it. Can you imagine how our grandparents would react to this dating climate if they could time travel and be 21 in 2024... We should be ashamed of what we let it get too...
It don't make no dam sense. Just live for yourself mane🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
the movie industries constant pressure that show idyllic emotional relationships , that are totally delusional. Unrealistic, and childish. and women are brainwashed to thinking that should be what a man feels. Men do not feel that way.
Haha it's true. When the goalposts keep moving, that's how you know you're being manipulated. The only winning move with a manipulator is to not play the game.
The plumber who replaced my sewer line from the house to the street is a nice guy. A good man. Not overly good looking, but genuine, funny, and very very wealthy. Owns (no mortage) two nice homes, one in the mountains, and one at the beach. He's a millionaire a couple times over. Can't get a date.
Why would he want to date a western woman?
Hard to believe. Take a partner dance class, the amount of women looking for a good lead is impressive.
@@dutube99 If you want to date the golden girls 😅
Women wanted all the equality of men with none of the responsibilities. A successful man with alot of money will gladly date down to a less "successful" partner but women can't handle having to do that.
It's selfishness and any woman that agrees with that shh is not worthy of any man
No we can’t handle it. so y’all need to catch up. Unless you are younger than her what’s your excuse to not being at an equivalent or almost equivalent level
@@irreplacable1988 not catch up, just travel and find a true woman.
Feminism=Masculine
@@irreplacable1988Most of you are fat bossy and on medications. Because you make more money doesn't mean you have your shit together
I’m a Heterosexual man who brings in six figures, over 6 ft tall and at least modestly attractive. I haven’t approached a woman all year so I agree that many men have checked out. My experience is that most modern women via feminism want wayyyyyyyyyyy more than they are willing to give. I would rather stay single than to get into another “bad deal.”
I agree 100% with you. I make around 140k a year and I am exactly 6 feet, I’m in relatively good shape (I am a boxer but not in camp at the moment), and never had issues getting women. However, I have noticed in recent years how women’s expectations have become egregious. To the point where average women are looking for above average men or men outside their class. Women are group thinkers and as a result social media has warped women’s thinking to a state of delusion. But i will remain single and keep slaying dragons
@@unlimited9004 No lies detected!
Ibstopped caring about money after not wanting to approach money. Women approach me often and i dont care. I tell them they aint ish to me. Not looking to get falesly accused again by any woman
Asian women. And by asian i don't mean ABc's.
Im 1,93m. 96 kgs of full muscle like a marvel avenger body. Im top 6% earners in my country. Never had a problem bedding females.
BUT the reality of life is... that its far easier to find 2 girls to do a threesome, than 1 female that its equilibrated and perform intellectualy at human level to have a relationship.
“Making right the wrongs of the past”
People who have never experienced the wrongs, going after innocent people who’ve never done the wrongs.
Clownworld stuff we’re living through right now
Much like “reparations”.
@@aixpert291 nah ur just racist big bro
Men dying in the millions in trenches, workplaces etc. How dared they!
it's a type of liberal fascism.
@@aixpert291make the same analogy about Jews
We die alone. They die alone. We happy. They miserable.
Everything will be just fine.
Positive attitude 😅
Well obviously not. You're here commenting about it
@alexb6631
People who aren't impacted shouldn't have an opinion/comment? Get out of here man.
Nobody is miserable alone, who’s miserable in my opinion are people with the wrong partner. Feeling alone when in a relationship is the worse feeling.
is there a sector of the manosphere that talks about modern dating WITHOUT bringing up money and/or marriage? i’d be nice to hear them talk about issues with modern dating surrounding how both genders communicate with each other and not always superficial stuff like money and looks. for example, why do a lot of men not ask questions on dating apps/show interest in anything besides how we look or even bother to read our prompts?
Can we all just agree that most women have become impossible to deal with in any way, I'd rather die younger than expected, than to be bearated with drama and misery with a modern day woman into an early grave 🪦🪦🪦
That's the truth right here. The levels of entitlement are crazy. On the dates, I would be shocked how many women would try to act superior to me, while I am not a bad-looking guy, have my career, contribute to the world in a meaningful way, and have my head on right for the most parts. What have you done with your life to try to take the upper hand? To suffer being condescended to by a half-wit? No thanks.
They're exhausting.
They're delusional, narcissistic, egomaniacal, severely immature and arrogant.
Stress reduces your life considerably. I would argue that modern day dating and god forbid marrying a modern day woman would actually decrease your life expectancy.
There's only one woman in my life that's impossible to deal with. All the others are lovely and I enjoy every one of them immensely
I'm blue collar but can do white collar, and screening women is easy. If a woman cannot accept the blue, she doesn't deserve the white collar.
Are you a dog?
@@TheWolfalpino *Obviously you do not get the reference.. while the vid is talking about ppl in states of America, it is spreading to anywhere that women are taking on this modern mentality, modern spirit actually. I am assuming you are not from the u.s... if you are, it is wild that you dont understand the reference. You should go figure what that means..*
@@TheWolfalpino Many ppl like the comment and even the owner of the channel.. you should know that you dont understand something. Unless you do understand and was trying to pick a fight with a dog since you may be wolf with that name..
If you are a woman that makes money and has status who works white collar, what’s wrong with wanting someone who does the same. All women can’t be delusional. I understand if you are gold-digging and never worked a day in your life. Some how the gold digger tends to be what men want. A women that just blindly follows them because they have money.
@@teem6024Simps desire gold digger
I’m a 25y/o single man who grew up around stable parents. I watched the way they treated eachother and I thought that was the way it was supposed to be, my dad being a hardworking trade worker who loves my mom.
I’ve struggled my whole life with dating until recently I pretty figured out that I’ve been treating woman with respect and kindness (how you’d treat your wife) and it seems most of them have zero idea how to comprehend that kind behavior from a man. I’ve been labeled far to many times as being too nice and a good friend so yeah, financially stable and respectable men like me just get burnt out of being made to feel like this is our fault.
I once made out with a woman in her bed while we were both drunk. I obviously thought about initiating sex but restrained myself because I knew she was a lot more drunk than I was, and I didn’t want our new acquaintanceship to be defined by a drunk fling. I actually liked her as a person enough to show her the respect that I thought she deserved. (Plus let’s be real I was afraid of being accused)
Right before she drunkedly passed out she told me “you’re too nice” then she fell asleep. I tucked her into bed, grabbed my shit and went home.
The next day I texted her… nothing. Tried again the next day, nothing. I was ghosted and that shit really bummed me out cause I was genuinely interested in a serious relationship with her.
I understand she was probably turned off by me not being “man enough” in that instance but the contrary would have meant me having sex with her without consent since she was so drunk and possibly being accused of SA by her.
2 years later my horny male brain regrets not taking the risk and smashing her right then and there. Ironically that would have gained me more respect from her. Life is confusing.
Start looking overseas, us market is honestly dried up bro
I’m only 21 and I feel I am in the same boat. I make good money for my age and a reason for that is putting in time to go to trades school and my parents being good parents but it’s so overwhelming to end up trying to put your self out there and find someone when all they want to do is use you for their own benefit and take your being nice or treating them with respect for granted.
Women put you in the betabux category if you're nice and respectful. If you're good looking enough, maybe they'll string you along and pretend to be "pure" while fvking Chad on the side. They have more respect for a man that treats them like a used napkin. It's so backwards.
tyler: SO TRUE!!!!! They have no reference point for being treated properly. I cannot tell you how many times I hold a door open for a woman and they just stand there and you can see the confusion on their faces. I actually have to say, "you are supposed to walk through the door!"
Oh man. Plumbers make bank. If you can date or marry a plumber, electrician, lineman, carpenter, machinist, or other skilled worker, do it. They'll provide for you, are often down to earth, and are usually easy to get along with.
At 56, divorced and have not dated since, that was 11 years ago, a tradesman is the perfect guy. Hard working, down to earth beats a desk jockey every single time.
That said, I’ll stay single until I die.
I can’t risk the pain of betrayal ever again.
About half of the women at my company are married to men in the trades, they all have solid relationships.
Newly divorced at Age 61, I don't stand a chance.
I’m neither of those workers but as a man, I respect and applause those men.
If you are a welder that can lay down clean butt joints, you can absolutely make bank.
I'm deathly afraid of even approaching a woman nowadays. I don't want to take the risk of getting metoo'd over just randomly talking to a girl. Thankfully, a lot of these chicks will telegraph themselves out in public now, so they're a lot easier to avoid.
I would say be worried about a woman making an accusation if she is your co-worker . A woman you see on the bus or train everyday when going to work is less of a concern. But still I completely get where your coming from.
@@badbot4ever566 doesn't matter where it happens, all it matters is that on the spur of the moment you crossed her path and something flipped in her mind. Even when you should have other people calling her accusation BS, most will not want to be involved because they may get some bad press.
And on the reverse, men should lay down their life for random women on the street ?? seriously Fuck that shit.
I approached some chick a few months ago. She said "is this how you start conversations" and said I was gaslighting her. It was straight out of a nightmare commercial. wild
Yeah it's messed up I approached a girl at my local card shop flirted and we got to texting and suddenly she accused me of harassment etc. And the owner called me in to have a talk with me about it and I said it was consensual and I said to have a look at her texts because she told me to no longer text her and so I deleted her msgs and nothing came out of it.
@@RunfastgoI got one girl get pissy with me because I called her "Hon". I'm a Southern Alabama white boy. That shit is almost instinct. It's not like I mean anything by it.
When I was young and lived at home, I always thought my mother was a bit strange because she didn't like the feminist movement back in the late 60s and 70's. Now, seeing how ridiculous it has gotten, I now think my mother just saw where it was going, that's what she didn't like. Just one more example of how the older you get, the smarter your parents become
I have enough conservative women in my family who all worked jobs to various levels of success and all of them reject feminism as it always bites back at anyone who doesn't fall in line.
My mother Too!✅
Great comment, hats off to your mum. Must have been pretty wise person even back then.
@@Gajdosh she is now 83 and still speaks her mind. She participated in the civil rights marches, loudly and staunchly believes everyone is equal.
She also said she never saw a more ridiculous display as women burning their bras on the street and felt one could be treated with respect without being disrespectful to themselves. Yep she is a smart and yes, a Godly and good woman 👠💖
Some parents look smarter, others look dumber
Its better to have no relationships than toxic ones that cause stress
I'm a 44 year old white man, or as society calls it the root of all evil. In my teens and twenties, the most important goal for me was to find a good woman to marry and have children.
By my early thirties, all of that was over. I don't want anything to do with dating or relationships. And I have to say it was the best decision I ever made. Being single really is the only the path to true male happiness. All of my time is my time. All of my money is my money and all of my friends are my friends. Way better than in a relationship where my time is our time, my money is our money, and my friends are her friends.
Trust me guys, once you get past your biological imperative to have as much sex as possible, being single is the only way to go.
'get past'? ummm how?
@dutube99 Your libido will drop as you get past 40 or 45; especially if you are overweight or suffer from depression. Perhaps paradoxically I find that meditation, a generally calm disposition and pleasurable work and hobbies also lower my sex drive.
Over 25 years ago, I was about to make the final payment on an engagement ring for the proposal, and as I reached the Jewel store, there she was, opposite the store, kissing another man. 15 years after that woman asked me why we didn’t get married.
So did you ghost her after that? How long were you two dating before you saw that she was stepping out? We need details sir.
@@marinekappa82 She’s my sons mother, hence we still communicated for years.. The worst part about it, my hand was still in a cast from a dislodged elbow, and I went back to work before time, just to get this done.. Women are devils children we can’t live without unfortunately.. lol
Yes we need the rest of the story lol
@@marinekappa82 Just use deductive reasoning to complete the story. If she needs to ask him 15 years later, he didn’t confront her with her infidelity and he didn’t buy that ring either.
@@jansix4287 we still want details.
All of the women I've met over a dating app, are from universities, have a career, MA degrees, n were very feminist . Rejected after the first coffee date meet. You know the reason? "No romantic match/connection." These ignorant girls are searching for "lust"! Not a real genuine connection. I just met a 39 year old lawyer with that same reason lol!l😂 no "romantic match"...? Based on a 15 minutes coffee chat! How was i supposed to "ignite romance" in 15 minutes! Over a coffee!? 😂 ridiculous!
they withheld the truth, you're just not enough.........keep taking swings, you're not dead yet, Son
This is the definition of playing a rigged game..keep playing the unicorn is just around the corner. Lol
Sounds like you're the common denominator. I recommend you improve the coffee date by talking about your world views (briefly ) then asking for her views and genuinely listen so you can understand/ learn who she is. Enjoy laughter wherever the opportunity presents itself.... that'll get you "romantic match" ... it's NEVER just coffee. And you just showing up is not enough, if that's your mentality as a man or woman YOU ARE NOT READY FOR MARRIAGE
sorry bro but they’re just looking for someone to sleep with and you’re not the guy
@@1bluegreen2man...it almost sounds like you had a backseat to his dates. That's some grade A useless BS you pulled out of thin air.
What Melanie doesn't mention when she talks about the men in the past being "ahead" of the women is that it was men who was shouldered with the responsibility of supporting the family. Do you really think my grandpa enjoyed loading haybales on boxcars all day while my grandma stayed home, milked the cows and took care of the house. Is he really ahead for making a paycheck, or is it just teamwork?
This gets reflected in the "Yours is ours but mine is mine" mentality that's often lamented.
Bingo. Men didn’t have “a choice” either. They were expected to go out and earn a living that could support a family.
Men were never ahead. It's nonsense spouted by privileged little girls. "Oh but that 1% of top men had it easier than women...." that's all they ever really say.
Where your grandfather got his “enjoyment and sense of purpose” from though was being able to provide for his family. Something that men still covet. Women are the ones that have lied to each other telling themselves they derive their happiness from what makes a man happy…which is a lie.
Women overvalue their work/input and undervalue men's. It has been like this forever. So they will claim men had all the power in the past, even if they didn't.
Anyway, I think even that is just an excuse, something that's being pushed into the foreground by women because they want more priviliges without looking bad. So they invent the narrative that they need to be recompensated for the past, I honestly believe they don't care about the reason, they just need any justification.
I’ve worked in optometry and ophthalmology for the last 10 years I stare at peoples eyes all day long. When I see a set of unique eyes they stand out. At the grocery store paying for my redbull I notice the cashier is a pretty girl maybe 21-24 with very pretty crystal blue grey eyes. As I’m paying for my drink I say “you have very pretty eyes”. She barely acknowledges what I said and goes “ok” but it was so prude. I’ve never in my life felt that low for just trying to be a nice person I’ve never seen or talked to her before or since but man to have someone who probably didn’t even graduate high school make you feel so low because they’re somewhat attractive so they can look down on other people. Social media has girls who are 6- 7 at best on a great day thinking they’re 10s and beyond
It's so refreshing to hear Melanie outright say "Women are like infants", because it is true. Protected, self-centered and completely driven by impulses. Not all but definitely many
Men are also like infants. Hence the term man baby.
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@@marissa816 yea, the term man baby is used a lot. Because of that you would think that women are not like babies in comparison, but that is wrong assumption. That's why I said that comment.
men take longer to mature but woman mature at their peak around 18 years old and remain at this stage @@marissa816
@@marissa816
The difference is, society at large protects and validates the infantilised woman and demonises/invalidates the infantilised man. Both should be invalidated and encouraged to change, as they are as toxic as each other.
It's sad because a man is expected to provide, protect, maintain himself and women think they can just show up with all their baggage.
It's not a Good Deal 😮
Yes that is the deal breaker. No hymen, no diamond. It is there for a reason.
@charlesfinnegan7930 Both my ex wives were not virgins when I married them. I refuse to Marry anymore but I did have the opportunity to. Family court could change tonight and Marriage is not a good deal. Women age and get mean it's not worth it anymore especially in America
@airheadusmc3821 100 agree. Marriage is a beautiful thing, but it's been tainted here in the west to the point where it's no longer a good deal for a man. A woman gets a great deal. A man gets set up for the reckoning, and I'm not a pessimistic person, but numbers don't lie.
The game is rigged lmao
My wife and I are married over 28 years. Both are parents said it’s ok to start at the bottom. Save, be thrifty and when you hit your late 30s and early 40s you’ll see your hard work pay off. But today’s women want their cake and eat it too. They want to date Chad and Tyrone in their 20s, collect large body counts which men see such behavior as illogical and irrational, build their career’s and marry and divorce the average guy. Modern women’s dating lifestyles is just destructive and toxic. Women don’t want love, they want a business partnership.
The flaw with your logic is thinking they have the capacity to "want" things. Theyre like animals. No conscious thought. Impulse driven animals that were treated like pets for all of human history for a reason.
I've read already 20 years ago, in dating advice books from women for women, that women often give off the vibe that they only love the relationship, not the man they have the relationship with. And men hate that.
They don't even want partnership. They want a financier.
Also, after they rack up the body count, they shows up with a damn cargo container’s worth of trauma that WE are then expected to accept. Nah. I’m good. Go find someone else to be your atm
They don't want a business partnership, as such partnerships usually benefits both parts. They want ALL the benefits with ZERO accountability.
In this "business partnership " the man is ALWAYS the loser.
I’m a 69 y/o retired professional man and I’m done with relationships with women. I don’t care if I ever have another “woman” in my life… I’m done and not tryin’. So-called “modern women” sicken me.
As a 36 year old man, I used to think it was me (I'm by no means perfect). Yet, ever since returning to the US, I've noticed this is a generational issue.
One of my most significant relationships ( someone i thought I was going to propose to) is a person described in this video. Intelligent, beautiful , successful, yet never happy. I know this because she's been in several long relationships after me. Despite all that, she seems to suffer the same symptom that I noticed towards the end of my time with her. That is, she is perpetually on the lookout for the next best thing. I don't know how anyone could be happy living that way.
Personally, I seem to find more American women to have this mentality. I, too, am on the verge of giving up because...well, why keep putting yourself through that feeling of being "taken back to the store for a better model" over and over again?
the wording hit me the other day even though I've learned about 'mgtow' material for years. It's just increased standard of living. Imagine everything we're seeing here being a result to some degree of increased standard of living. With less fear (of lack of essentials i.e. education, shelter, food, transport) u get people who naturally tolerate others to a less degree simply because there's no reason to do that. Once u remove the stigma of divorce and even incentivize the decision, well now things really begin to skew toward deterioration/non commitment. People nowadays also feel hyper connected to endless mating opportunities due to increases in tech. Then u add hypergamy to the equation and u get higher standard of living creating endlessly self imposed unsatisfied people and women who seem to consistently constrict their dating pool year over year.
It all reminds me that fear is the great balancing force. It's the most primordial teacher. It's the one we all avoid the most. And yet it would erase all of this in an instant and we would have what we consider more 'traditional' mating experiences
Not all women are like that tho, in college, I had some begging me to be in a relationship. But I was the one that passed in hopes of a more attractive girl. I’m still looking but I just keep approaching girls until I meet one that I feel is a good match. Keep going
yeah bro. i just got back from the sauna, i was talking to a dude in there about this situation, and we were comparing notes and we had the same experiences. another dude came in and heard us talking and excitedly proclaimed we were spitting facts and he said he also is having lots of troubles with women. this is an issue that is affecting all of us
@@theonlyconstantischange123 yes FEAR of starving, being killed by a bear, fear of getting pregnant.
Now what is there to fear? Birth control, welfare state, police protection, safety of gated community and own car. Multiple income sources including welfare child support court system own income and career. There is no end in sight
They ALL want to be in a relationship- in the beginning-its the staying faithful and not monkey branching that will destroy you as a man. DO not do it unless you have properly prepared. To prepare, use assets in a trust, keep assets out of the country you want to have a women in. Use Cook islands trust to keep assets hidden. Make bank, NEVER do state sponsored legal marriage. Number one rule - NEVER allow a female to gain leverage over you in ANY WAY. Never tell a female what assets you have , nor how much you make, or even where you work- NEVER. @@davidh7832
I'm 63 and have totally given up on the idea of a romantic relationship with a woman, I get offers of sex but from the wives and girlfriends of male friends of mine, which I find disgusting as I've always been a moral person and wouldn't consider coming on to another person's partner or someone who a friend of mine was deeply in love with, even if that woman didn't feel the same way towards my friend. I'm fine by myself and my life is drama free and peaceful on the whole.
I'm 47 and I decided on the same thing. The only drama I like has subtitles nowadays.
Go get a passport and travel .. I’m 64 in good shape go the Dominican Republic.. Colombia and Costa Rica .. I’ve met and bedded a whole bunch and have the time of my life.. leave these miserable manly looking .. smelly .. unkept .. bad dentistry broads alone…😂😂😂😂😂 I live In New York and it’s a horror show here..
Holy shit you are a better man than I but that totally smacked me. It really that bad? I literally stay clear of ppl girl friends and wives cause it feels inevitable they will come at me as i already see them treat me better than they own mates but i try to believe it is coincidence. But what your saying feels like profecy dude 😯😯😯😮💨 it like u u cant trust none of them. Like is there a decent one anywhere or already they all playing a role temporarily? 🧐🧐
You are a good men and a good friend.
You are a good men and a good friend.
Imagine being dating age in the 90s. You are with someone and you are both happy. There is no social media window or dating apps to go look on with a billion potential better options.
I agree I was born in 94, I think social media has ruined dating and even ruined society in general. people don’t even talk to each other anymore just stare at their phones. Before social media people actually appreciated people a whole lot more because before social media came you had to do everything in person. It’s like social media has desensitized everybody to everything it’s like alot of things are not even fun anymore I can only imagine how fun life was before social media
@@Justicethedude People are living in an entertainment-induced coma. Nobody realizes it but we're all on a slow drip feed of constant dope hits via our social media feeds and constant content streaming. Seems like most people don't realize they lack the neurochemical capacity to be receptive to the natural pleasures in life.
@@Ton-uy1xd Yeah the only thing I would say improved since social media is the economy/money opportunities but it pretty much literally ruined everything else and people wonder why dating is not working anymore.
Born in 78 so I was perfect age for this era. It was the very best time in history to be young.
I just want to see an experiment where they shut down Instagram and only fans for a year and see how many women will go mad!😂😂☠️
Because online dating doesn't facilitate relationships. It just feeds women to the top 5% guys.
Feminism gave women a desire to display what they truly are, and social media gave them the platform, and men have paid attention. The curtain of 'feminine mystique' has been pulled back, and is seen to be the fallacy that you can find a woman who isn't like all the others.
Great observation
10/10 You have a way with words
Just a bunch of prostitutes that priced themselves out of the market.
They are almost all comples h0es
This is it right here
Your argument about equality of outcome is spot on. They want everything men have, but aren't willing to put in the same amount of efforts men are expected to put in to get those results.
They want the same income, but aren't willing to take the same responsibility.
Dangerous job? No women
Physical job? No women.
Technical job where the machine you work doesn't care about your fifis? No WOMEN!
100% When do you ever hear feminists taking about closing THE DANGEROUS JOBS GAP?! Women want equality, but they are risk averse and do not want to shoulder any real responsibility. They are entirely reliant on men to build and maintain ALL the essential infrastructure vital to society.
We don’t have the physique to deal with the demands of those jobs
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty Tell that to the "we don't need no man" crowd. Also, if you can't do the job, don't complain you aren't getting the salary.
@@EnlightenedGoldenBeauty Then get the physique. If you dont want to put in effort, dont complain about your predicament.
"Women think the fantasy can be real." Wow, what a quote. That is the best quote I have heard in a long time and it sums up the whole game. Way to go Melanie. You are brilliant.
Agreed. La la land
One persons worst case scenario is another persons fantasy. So yes, the fantasy can be real because it’s been real for many people. Many people’s lives changed overnight and for the better. Just like many people’s lives changed for the worse. A sad, lonely, broken, broke, disturbed and disillusioned man obviously cant give you a fantasy. He can’t even give himself a stable mediocre life. His life is below mediocre.
@@AshnesssDamn, I would feel really sorry for your son if he would be in a deep pit and his mother has this kind of mentality.
I've known it for decades. Women aren't interested in reality. Buying a ticket every once in a while, to obtain a tiny chance of meeting 'that guy' is preferable to women than starting and maintaining a real relationship with a genuine man.
I really appreciate your point about not feeling sorry for women. This meant a lot to me and it is something I really needed to hear. Thank you.
I stopped dating at 23 because I was just being used and thrown away all the while they already had someone else lined up. Decided to stop wasting my finite time that i get to be alive and focus on myself. I could really care less about being alone when I die because this past decade I've never been happier and the dating scene just keeps getting worse and worse just like people lmao.
After the pandemic I have defitely gotten used to being alone and truth be told it isn’t that bad. Definitely much less drama.
''Decided to stop wasting my finite time that i get to be alive and focus on myself.''💯
''I could really care less about being alone when I die because this past decade I've never been happier and the dating scene just keeps getting worse and worse just like people lmao''.💯
Being alone is not loneliness. True loneliness is feeling completely alone while you're lying in bed next to a woman who makes you miserable.
statistics show single men d!e earlier than married men, while married women d!e earlier than single women so women are not the problem. Men’s lives are statistically better with women in it even though you guys complain about women. Women risk their lives to carry pregnances and give birth to children that are going to have the man’s last name and that in itself can NEVER be equated to anything a man can give a woman. I think this generation of men don’t truly know the value of a woman and think their money is so special that women need to bow down to them.
Avoid narcissistic women by all means necessary!!!
I'm 34 yo male with office job, apartment and a car. I'm fit and I enjoy good conversation...at this moment of my life I can say that women at my age are rude or/with issues and the younger ones are just rude and aggressive with their feminist approach to everything.
I am slowly checking out, interaction with women is exhausting and hard nowdays.
statistics show single men d!e earlier than married men, while married women d!e earlier than single women so women are not the problem. Men’s lives are statistically better with women in it even though you guys complain about women. Women risk their lives to carry pregnances and give birth to children that are going to have the man’s last name and that in itself can NEVER be equated to anything a man can give a woman. I think this generation of men don’t truly know the value of a woman and think their money is so special that women need to bow down to them.
Sorry to hear that, brother. Hang in there.
If you have your own place + stable money + body you should be living life every week with different girl until you find a compatible one, so you capping
@@swoldier7308 you sound dum as hell, yall will be ho3s but want to marry someone with a low body count
I’m very happy you are having a hard time, instead of you trying understand why there is a need for a feminist approach, you want someone who wants to treat you like a god and maintain the oppressive patriarchy that women have suffered through, for your own pleasure. You men don’t actually care to get to know women as human beings and why women complain about the things they do. You want women to shut up, cook, clean for you and give you $ex, and women are tired of that b.s. So I hope you continue to suffer and stay single or become gay.
Many women aren't searching for quality men, they are searching for a fashion accessory.
It's not about the relationship, the "power pyramid" has flipped. They don't wear make up, dress up wear heels for 90+% of men. It's about competing with the other hens. If anyone besides Tom Bradley and Elon Musk of looks or success thinks they do it for them have big egos
@@danf7411 Frankly, neither Tom or Elon are good husband material. They both lack qualities that would makes them a good mate, yes Giselle was not a good wife either. What has wearing makeup have anything to do with being a wife? My husband loves that I've never worn makeup, I do dress "girly" since 80% of what I wear are dresses.
When men want women to dress a certain way, look in the mirror to see how you present yourself. This whole 1950's Trad Wife aesthetic is fine, but where are the 1950's looking men. Where is our Cary Grant or Sean Connery. Back in the day, both genders looked great-men wore suits, very sharp.
LOL no sane girl rejects a guy because she wants a fashion accessory. She rejects for personal reasons. And if she has rejected you, it’s because SHE can see that you’re not compatible. She has that foresight. You don’t. She can see that she can’t be with you. It doesn’t matter if you can’t see it. If you think that you ARE compatible, then why are you incapable of showing it through your actions or understanding her sensibilities?
Obviously, if you don’t understand her it means that you are incompatible. You can’t be in a relationship with someone whose mindset, values, likes, dislikes and life is beyond your comprehension. How is she wrong in rejecting you, if you claim that she rejected you because she wants a fashion accessory? You literally STILL don’t know what she wants and you’ll never figure it out, with any girl. Because you lack self awareness.
It just so happens, that it’s against human nature to TRUST people who abuse, stalk, steal from, harass, bully and belittle you, holding you back and committing crimes against you.
It’s common sense that people who abuse you, don’t understand you or how you operate. They don’t know what makes you fall in love or what makes you tick/like a guy. The guy who gets rejected, never knows that about the girl who rejects him.
Because she didn’t choose to have a relationship with him. He wouldn’t know what she’s like with a guy she likes or WHAT makes her like a guy. Anything and everything he has a hand in, repels her and makes her go EWWWW. Obviously, his advice would be counter productive to any man seeking a relationship with her or any friend seeking to mend ties with her.
He only knows what makes her REJECT a guy. His entire thought process, actions and track record are geared towards a certified rejection. He can’t advise anyone on how to be friends with her or how to date her. He wouldn’t know how to advise them. Yet, he wants to take the front seat in other people’s friendships, relationships and equations, earning them lifelong BLOCKED status.
With such a horrendous record, a man with dignity, sanity and self respect would F OFF.
Of the two sex's which one ends up costing the most over time!
@SamBourgeois-mr4hq I tell my husband nearly every day how grateful I am to have him in my life. We live simply & rurally so we support each other.
"All women are 10s. They don't say all men are 10s, they don't say all men deserve love."..Sooo TRUE!
And I love the sarcastic tone when you said all women are 10s
women: we are better than men!
also women: I want a man who's better than me!
Woman's "logic"
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Yup, this is why women aren't logical.
Its so true though
Can't make this shit up🤣
Imagine if women imposed half of those standards on themselves. It would be paradise on earth 😂
Women don't want to be held accountable
I lost my girlfriend of 7 years this year because of everything Malanie said. She is right about everything, I don't feel like ever dating again. I'm still hurt and I have anger in me that I don't know how to deal with. It's sad and it makes it even more sad that it's frustrating because you as a man can't do anything about anymore.
''I don't know how to deal with'' ...a hobby that you love...a "Gorgeous" electric guitar and a full Marshall double stack is what does it for me lol ..if you start thinking about good/awesome things MORE that some st00pid Bi+ch/negative ..you will see the change
You didn't marry her after 7 years? That's why she left bro. She has a biological clock.
Put that frustration into a life that’ll make you happy. Walk in nature, have a booming system in your house or car. Get a game console, exercise, play an instrument, travel, etc
Don't let the anger consume you brother. Once you understand women, there's no need to hate them.
I bought a high end silicone doll to take care of those testosterone needs. She's more beautifull than 99.999% of human females, she doesn't cheat on me or leave me, doesn't have an attitude, no STDs, no morning breath or kitty stink, no drama and the sex is great! Human females leave me indifferent at this point, no matter how young and 'beautiful' they are, because my synthetic gurl at home is vastly superior and adds value to me life. Check it out, there has been an explosion in the doll market, guys had enough, they are replacing human females with synthetics, some come with AI as well these days.
You dodged a bullet.
It's called the awakening. Be careful how you handle it. Don't hurt yourself or others. Find a hobby or passion other than xx's to pass the time. You are better off.
I met my first wife in 2000 on a dating website. I divorced her after 10 years of marriage in 2013 from her cheating and lack of integrity. I'm remarried to my best friend, whom I met at work. She also was divorced. We have mutual respect, integrity, kindness and love for another and families. We have full trust between ourselves and neither of use would EVER do something stupid like my ex-wife did, cheat. There's something to be said about dating someone you already know as a friend/colleague. You build that foundation of trust and respect and it blossoms.
i was engaged to a woman who i was happy with. but 6 months into the engagement, she decided to call it off for one reason: i wasnt making 'enough' money for her. I'm self employed so for her that didn't meet her needs. it took me almost a full year to decompress the whole situation and move on.
Same here lol
I just don’t care anymore though
damn bro. sorry you went through that. i was speaking with a woman i really like and she had no issues telling me she was attracted to her boss. total disrespect, my heart has recently healed from the sick behaviour. i only focus on myself now.
That happened to me more than once and it is soul crushing to be treated like that. I stopped dating and having anything to do with women outside of the professional level. Sometimes I am approached by women but I tell them I'm just not interested in dating a man.
She supposively said that you don't make enough $$$ but than again she is only one that knows the real reason. Maybe she used this as an excuse to get out of this situation.
@MikaComments If a woman says something that makes her look bad (look like a good digger), it's either because it's true, or the truth makes her look MUCH worse. Either way, BEST case scenario for her, she was telling the truth.
Online dating is the same as going to the casino and playing slot machines. The difference is you know if you have won or lost right away on a slot machine. And you win more on a slot machine than online dating.
Online dating is a slutmachine lol
Narrsiccism is the root cause of all of this. Narrsiccism is at epidemic levels. It's spilling over into existing marriages and ruining a lot of those, too. It's not confined to younger women. Many older women who've been in what was perceived as a committed relationship are turning their back on the husband who worked his tail off to support her and their children.
Feminism and Narrsiccism are largely synonymous. But narcissism came first.
Narcissism is equally divided between both genders. From my observations-I'm a bi-racial woman- it is much higher in the black community. First, how does Narcissism develop? It's a lack of a controlled environment. This means not having an authority figure in the home. In the past one lived with extended family, this created a support environment for the children. But if everyone is away from the home, who is watching the children? Second is there is usually a genetic component--Narcissism runs in families.
@@mtngrl5859only difference is, men are punished for their narcissism. Women aren’t. In fact, female narcissism is encouraged. “Every woman is a 10.”
@@DavidVandemark Depends on their position in life. Nearly every politician is a Narcissist: Donald Trump, Boris Johnson, Putin, Tony Blair, Joe Biden, Obama are all Narcissists & none of these men are punished. Amber Heard, Megan Markle, Jada Pinkett, Jennifer Lopez are all criticized for their behavior.
@@mtngrl5859 every single man you listed is criticized more publicly and more consistently than every woman you listed.
@@DavidVandemark I can see that you have no idea who some of these men are. Do you really believe that former PM Tony Blair is as criticized as Megan Markle or Amber Heard? That's seriously funny! While Donald Trump is criticized, it is not for his Narcissism alone. Again, Narcissism is the norm in politics. Look at Hillary Clinton and her husband Bill Clinton, both are Narcissists.
Who do you think has had more criticism over the years, Bill or Hillary? Obviously it should be Bill since he had an oath of office, but back in the day when he was President he was called " Teflon Bill" since none of his actions stuck to him. So, that shows a lack of accountability on his side. All of his friends and all of their sordid behavior were in the FOB (Friends of Bill) Club. What about his 27 visits to the "Island", why has he never been implicated in any of this?
I'm not a fan of Megan Markle, but some of the comments against her are truly unhinged. Somehow not pressing one's clothes is an offense against humanity.
No more chances ladies. It’s over!!
I am 50 years old and I haven’t dated or had sex in 11 years. I completely walked away from relationships with women. One day it just hit me that it wasn’t worth it anymore. I didn’t feel good about having sex outside of marriage and dating or being in a relationship added so much stress to my life so I walked away. Honestly I can’t tell you how much better my life has been. I am close to God and I stay true to myself. The pressure to look a certain way or drive a certain car are gone. I own my condo which didn’t seem good enough for the women I dated in the past. They wanted to be living in a house. I love my condo and I have worked hard to keep it the last 20 years. Bottom line I simply could not compete with the expectations. Nothing ever felt good enough so now it’s just me and my two cats who I love dearly. Has anyone else experienced what I have experienced? Thanks so much. Derek
Sounds similar to my life, isn’t it grand
I'm 44 and going through the same. I was working in tech making 6 figures, I work out regularly which got me a very muscular physique and I drive a $100k Mercedes yet none of that was enough for women. I'm short, only about 5'8 and even with all the other things I have going on for me, none of it was enough and women always found something else to add to their check list. I destroyed my psyche, my confidence and my self esteem. It got to the point where I contemplated ending my life because of how low and inadequate women made me feel. One day I decided to completely check out from women. I realized modern women have very little value and very little to offer, but so much to demand. It still hurts me deeply that I will never have a wife or children as all I ever wanted to do was be a good husband and other to someone someday but the juice just isn't worth squeeze anymore. Women are nothing more than a liability and they only bring drama. Now instead of looking for someone to love, I love myself.
I'm 56, caught between wishing I had a loving, supportive wife to share life with, and, like you, just not motivated to go through the unnecessary headache of modern dating, with the expectations of these women. I have a dating coach, but lately I look at a woman who may have a mutual interest in me, but all I see are the requirements that they place in front of you. I'm content at present with many of the same things you have, and don't have a desire to voluntarily add potential drama to my life. Then there's the probability of her later filing for divorce on a whim, and I end up in pauper's prison from alimony.
@@carld3218 I know man it’s tough. The more I think about it I think any guy who gets back in the gauntlet is really playing with fire. 🔥. I hate being this cynical but we need to protect ourselves. 99% of the time the man is the one losing everything he worked for. If a guy has a child/children it makes it 💯 worse!
Man I'm about to hit 30 and I've been single for 12 years. Thing is too, I WANT a relationship. I'm just invisible out there.
Even women who aren't high achieving still think they deserve the world
There’s chicks who are obese and working part time at McDonald’s who think they deserve someone like Chris Evans. 😂
Bro it’s crazy. Well below average looking fat bimbos think they deserve the best man it’s so crazy 😂😂😂
They dont get whats their version of high achieving. They think they need to develop a career because thats what they value in men but all they need is youth beauty and a traditional view on gender roles and LOYALTY... and they can have the top 0.1% of men.
@@jimpanse1638 men have the same issue of thinking women value the same things as them. Just look at the amount of men in the comments talking about how good looking they are but don't understand why they can't keep a partner. Unlike men, women don't put as much value in their partner's looks as they do their personality/communication/etc. It's not a gendered issue, the problem is on both sides.
Women want a traditional man. At 70 being a traditional man is quite an accomplishment. My son, at 30, married and a dad is a traditional man. I’m so proud of him. Men also want a traditional woman. The problem is the word traditional woman has become a demeaning word for western women. It’s a team effort and requires a lot of effort. As the team begins to mesh and act as one, there is no better life.
Your son has a 50/50 chance of being divorced later on. Don't want to sound like a downer. But if you read this in some years from now and it happened you'll remember.
Let's just wish his son the best! He might end up with a wonderful wife and life :)
Not true.
@@StunningTransformationsproof?
For every 200-300 women I approached or got to know through socialising I got 1 date - nothing stupid or weird said to women, just normal conversations. That's a lot of time and effort to spend for a man - womens standards are Disney delusional.
The juice isn't worth the squeeze I'm in the same situation
I'm a straight male and enjoy the company of men more than I do modern women. I only have used women for sex mostly in the past.
Damn
A woman competing with her man means she's not focused on loving him. I checked out this year and I haven't felt this much peace and relief in a long time.
Yeah I keep telling myself I'm good on women it's hard though seeing attractive women everywhere but I'm definitely at peace
How so? @theformidabletruth
While I get where you're coming from, the experiences I've had have provided the necessary insight to come to the conclusion that I have. Also, the peace I'm now getting after moving on from someone who was competing, and not loving; is clear evidence imo of where the mindset of women are. Not all women, but enough to notice.@theformidabletruth
@theformidabletruthproof?
I grew in a matriarchy family structure and it almost broke me. The ill treatment that I was on the receiving in from my far older half-sisters, their daughters etc. I had hell on my hands! It has taken a lot of therapy and pure determination to get past all of that. I do not have relationships with any of my relatives because of it. I have my two close friends and I have my fiance who I will be marrying next March. And I am ok with that small circle.
Those same relatives are now complaining because I refuse to deal with them. They are asking when can they met my Filipino fiance. That is not going to happen because I will not allow it nor allow them to bring any drama into my relationship.
Don't ever get back a relationship with these people. These women will do whatever they can to try and convince your Filipina fiance to leave you and "she can do better". I assume it's a woman and she might be more traditional etc. They will try everything even tough you're their brother to sabotage it.
I agree with a lot of this discussion.
I am a School teacher that teaches a Foreign Language.
I am buying my own home,
I have no debt,
I workout regularly.
Never Married
No children
Certified and I have a Masters Degree.
I CAN TELL YOU RIGHT NOW, I HAVE A LOT OF POSITIVES, AND IT IS STILL AN ISSUE TO FIND SOMEONE THAT CONSIDERS ME A "GREAT CATCH."
Ultimately, I just want my house... my peace of mind, and I will enjoy constructing my life.
I was in a relationship before turning completely off to it. Most of the women I had met while growing up, I did not particularly like. Most were very masculine and would even threaten to beat you up. It was insufferable to be around. I had a girl push me because I bumped into her and even said I was sorry. I was confused that she would push me. Anyway, I met someone online, years later. Everything was good for about a month then everything turned into hyper drama that made me a nervous wreck. I'd constantly have my emotions played with and was manipulated. Ultimately, it ended as predictably as most would expect. It was traumatic enough for me to never want to get into relationships again. I soon found how much I enjoy being alone after I ended that relationship.
No one tells me when to stop playing video games. No one is trying to force money out of me. Life is better and I'm able to pursue the things I want like exercise and my own education. I even went to a Community College as my aspiration is knowledge and not to attain some arbitrary paper that says I should know as much as I do. People obtain knowledge for the wrong reason when they do it for money and success. I don't want a masters degree so that my life is spent doing nothing. I want to feel tested and to solve problems with what I know. It would be difficult to fill time with what to do to solve a problem, if I could just pay someone to fix the problem.
I don't want to rely on other people. I want to be well tempered and folded into the perfect sword that only I know about and can take advantage of.
First thing i'd do to solve this is to remove social media, remove the number of options and all the attention.. I honestly believe social media is the biggest reason as to why dating is so hard, cause you see what everyone around the world has so you keep comparing instead of appreciate what you got..
I believe social media is allowing men to see what these feminist are about, and showing us that the best strategy is to opt out or go elsewhere.
We need to get girls under 18 off social media entirely
We need to get rid of social media period! The bad far outweighs the good!@@coastcity7029
I did that too. no FB and never had an IG or SC or any other. My "X" account is anon and the only female followers are bots or thots and I don't follow them.
As long as women can afford to be single, they will continue to refuse to be with men they dont want.
Instant subscription. First woman online Ive seen that truly understands the male experience in the dating life.
then you are clueless about this broad. She's a KNOWN grifter
You go to a fisherman to catch fish not the fish.
While she may be a woman, Melanie has some correct values underpinning her. What are those? Biblical understanding of male female relationships. Why? For the greatest happiness and success, men and women need to operate in those parametrics.
Very true. She's great.
This was a well spoken video. I wanted to thank you for posting it. I agree.
I am a single man with no children. Never married. I have a full time job, military benefits after sacrificing myself on a battlefield for a year. I am not physically disabled but I have seen some horrible things and have had a lot of close calls. I come home, get a BA degree, stay fit and pursued women that I thought would be a good fit for me. They all chose to find someone else. Many times the "chads" you speak of that got them pregnant and left. Then some of those called me after having children with other men. But by the time they did that I was no longer interested.
I have remained single now for going on 6 years and I have accepted it at this point. I don't think I did anything wrong but this was my result. I can only imagine that this is probably happening a lot in our society. So personally, I understand that group of men that have chosen to go their own way.
This was a great and educational video. Thank you. At least I know I am not alone in all this.
PS I got a dog.
I was dating in the early ‘90s but not frequently. I had a roommate who was a player and always had a date. I was stable, responsible, and tried to be considerate of women and not be a jerk. A guy in our friend circle was over one day and I was telling him about my dating challenges and he said he was around some of the women in our group. As they talked about types of guys they told him my roommate was the guy you want to date and have fun with while I was the type of guy women looked for when they were ready to get married. I thought to myself if I can’t date a lot now, how do they think I wouldn’t have given up on relationships by the time they were ready to settle down? I did find a wife in my late 20s so everything worked out. It appears guys like me in their 20s would have no chance in the 2020’s dating market.
That advice is something they have always told guys date the loose girls for fun but married the nice virgin girls.
I learned that early on so I’ve spent my entire 20’s just sleeping around. I also got a vasectomy because I never want children. Especially an accidental pregnancy with some fun bat shit crazy woman.
Damn 😞
These guys are stupid they don't hear at all what the lady is saying. They ignore the answer and keep asking the same question.
Rule number one: Don’t ever listen to what women say when it comes to what they are attracted to. Watch what they do.
Im a male 5'6 I've seen the writing on the wall for a while now. After 1 divorce and my ex fiance cheated and got pregnant with the person she cheated on me with. I've checked out of the game entirely. Ive always had the family values and having a daughter that is already in college and the way dating is its going have consequences in the future countries are already worried of not having enough people in the future for work force due to so many not having children now. It's a sad reality now. Checking out is my way of finding what happiness left out of life for me before dying.
I'm 5 8 without shoes and I feel I get looked over if only these women knew 80 percent of guys lie about their height on dating apps maybe I would be a little more lucky but them lying ruined it... Starting to think I might as well lie a couple inches like everyone else. The only thing is short cells got is money if you don't got money then your double screwed.
Dude I’m the same I don’t get it
Just stay celibate and alone and find happiness in yourself. Nobody can stop you then
Learn Chinese, Indian or Spanish.
A growing number of men have decided to forgo marriage, dating and relationships for a number of valid reasons. The blaming. The shaming. The noise. The aggravation. The lack of respect. The lack of appreciation and the massive expense.
Since I regained my bachelor status, I found peace, freedom, early retirement, zero debts and a rapidly growing bank account. Things that would have been highly unlikely if I had a modern woman in my house.
Winter is coming. Be careful out there.
Why not just dating women for fun without searching for a committed relationship?
@@cdp5708 Nothing's stopping you. It's just in your interest to understand the risks. And there are plenty of risks both big and small.
At the very least, you'll be expected to pay for entertainment and meals while you're being manipulated into providing more.
Worse case scenarios include false accusations of abuse and sexual assault. Baby trapping and paternity fraud. Getting a STD. Getting assaulted or killed by a jealous ex boyfriend or herself. These can happen without marriage and/or divorce.
Whatever you decide, I wish you the best.
@@cdp5708 Have fun. No one's stopping you. Just understand the risks involved and know they range from minor inconveniences to serious consequences. Good luck.
statistics show single men d!e earlier than married men, while married women d!e earlier than single women so women are not the problem. Men’s lives are statistically better with women in it even though you guys complain about women. Women risk their lives to carry pregnances and give birth to children that are going to have the man’s last name and that in itself can NEVER be equated to anything a man can give a woman. I think this generation of men don’t truly know the value of a woman and think their money is so special that women need to bow down to them.
Beautiful. Your analysis of the ‘fantasy model’ which is hindering females from clearly assessing potential mates was so good. I’m 62 and divorced. My young male friends (less than 35) are having a terrible time. I have spoken to some of their female friends who overlook them because of height, income, and a lack of grace pursuing women. I’m startled at how the fantasy model explains their lack of interest in these fine young men. It is really terrible and my young friends are quite depressed about it.
Melanie here's another explanation for why more & more men are dropping out of the dating market by the day.
More and more men are realizing that they don't want to compete with women's hypergamy to get and keep relationships and that's exactly how things are atm.
The more a woman has and wants, the more she expects from her man because she always expects him to have, want, and be more than she has, wants, and is.
So women's very own nature is pitting men against women and once men realize this, MANY of them decide not to even play that game because very few men, if ANY, want their woman to be constantly raising her expectations of him.
So as long as women keep expecting more and more and more out of men just because they themselves have accomplished more and more, we will continue to see men opting out of playing that game of competition with women's egos & expectations.
This is one case where women's hypergamy is backfiring on them hard and I see virtually no cure for it as long as it continues.
I personally don't expect this to turn around to any great degree but I'm watching from the sidelines to see exactly how far this goes before everything collapses.
Good luck everyone but I don't think that will be enough.
Well, a problem with hypergamy is exactly who is "better" than you? Most women with a piece of paper from college are not at all educated, and can do few basic things to survive life. Yet, these same women will not marry a plumber or electrician who actually is educated on how significant sections of our infrastructure works.
It’s doesn’t help either when literally every institution like college pushes them through the door with free credits and grants and scholarships you can get literally just for existing as a female. They get a gender studies degree and work as a barista and think they are better than a guy making 6 figures as an electrician
@@odysseus2656they've been severely brainwashed and have turned against us men. It will only lead to women's downfall. they're playing a stupid game
@@dothedewinme Indeed. Sad but true but it is what it is.
Not only that but it isn't love. I'm convinced most women have lost what that even means and I think at the core that is what men are noticing. Who wants a relationship with a woman who is incapable of love?
I’m 33 year old male and a general manager at Costco. I make what is considered average for a general manager. It’s hard for me to find a date or even find a women that I actually want to date. Side note I’m also tall 6’4. I think what you do for a living does matter and it really shouldn’t. We live in a backwards world when it comes to dating and relationships sadly.
Unfortunately it really does. I make 100k+ working in corrections, in a small town where the average HOUSEHOLD salary is 54k. But I can't tell you how many times a woman has ghosted me the moment I said my job title. When I say corrections, they hear "prison guard" aka lowlife. But if I let on that I'm in school full time for my master's, they perk up. They value "prestige" over all else, including family and money
So you being a manager at Costco and tall so that means you are a catch?? See you men don’t even want to work in your personality and emotional intelligence but claim women are the problem. You think women are dum creatures who only care about height and your job position smh.
That is so wild. Damn dude.
There’s nothing average about making it to GM. Good job brother!
Dude I work at an eye doctors office doing billing, insurance , retinal imaging and optician work. With my commission and sales I make decent money living in New York and dude the girl at the grocery store who can barely speak English was so prude to me when I said you have pretty eyes. 2 second conversation while I was paying for my redbull, I’ve worked in optometry and ophthalmology for 10 years I stare at peoples eyes all day for a living so I notice eyes that stand out dude I regret it I’ve never had someone who probably didn’t even graduate high school make me feel so low for trying to be nice. I swear man even a girl whose decent looking these days thinks she’s a supermodel movie star
And thus, we men walk away.
Wow Melanie.
You are so on point.
We'll feel overview of these things. Thank you for your content
It's interesting when Melanie said that they want the fantasy to be real. It's like no matter how much reality shows them the truth they refuse to believe it.
Touche...
They really do operate like children - it's pathetic lol
They don’t want to be believe anything . They want equality while doing nothing about it . They don’t want to cook or clean or do anything physical so WTF even are you ? They can’t even describe what tasks they even do . Any sort of criticism to them you get all types of words thrown at you . Literally just leave them alone with there phones it’s the best thing to do
Yep damn straight
Thanks for pointing out that sympathy is not a one-way street! We have far too many double standards like that in order to take equality seriously at all.
I'm 41. Had lots of women In my life. At this point I am absolutely done. They are absolutely delusional and selfish, I can't take it. Only good for a "good time" and I don't care about that anymore. Sad state these days
That is why I started dating women from Asia. I met a woman from the Philippines. A lot of women there appreciate men and relationships more than Western women. They make our lives better and easier.
Same. Except I chose Southeast Asia.
A lot of these women are transactional. But it’s all up front with no bs.
And when you find a “good” one, it’s a whole lot better than the western ways.
30 and same here, not gonna settle for modern women. Its sad cuz I also met good women but honestly did not feel that attracted in the physical.
You don't have to stop dating, you just have to stop dating western women. I started dating in south east Asia, I've never been treated with so much love and respect.
I'm a 67 year old man and have had a female in my life for a total of 12 years. They were the worst and most miserable years of my life. I love the freedom I have as a single man, and no, I haven't dated or had any hook-ups in a very long time, and I don't miss it either. I wasted 12 years of my life on them, and I won't waste one more second on them either. I went MGTOW before anyone knew what MGTOW was, and I don't regret it for one second. Life is too short to waste on the madness and insanity that comes with each and every one of them. No thanks, I'll stay happy as a single free man.
I’m 60 and I concur with that.
I'm 62 and I've followed a similar trajectory except I've spent even fewer years in relationships. Financially secure, good friends, good health, very good fitness and self directed high level intellectual pursuits. Also MGTOW before it was ever a thing.
lol, same here. 62 years old and went MGTOW long before it was a thing. Was in some relations now and then but never let it be anything serious as even the best of them would turn toxic as if it was a natural thing for them. Left all women all together some 10 years ago and stopped spending my hard earned money on them while they treating me not so nicely and always having never ending demands. I've never had so much peace and quiet in my life and I love it :)
Im 32 and I’m thankful my girl is more on the logical and down to earth side.
@@LOSTGPS For now. Good luck.
It's also the fact that we no longer live in communities. We no longer have to converse with others to get what we want. Everything can be done behind the safety of a screen.
They aren't retreating, they are making a tactical withdrawal.
Women didnt like this video, I don't see a single comment from them...
Well I am a woman, I totally agree with the man’s comments. But I am of an older generation.
My ex broke up with me because I told her I had recovered from anxiety after my mom had her first heart attack (seven years prior) as I said talk therapy really helped with the stress of taking care of an ill parent. She started questioning the relationship because she misunderstood what a person's emotional anchor (your rock) is. She believed I should literally be a rock. Really toxic behavior from a supposed Feminist who doesn't know anything about men.
developing anxiety because of your mom's health actually sounds very sweet. It shows that you care, and that you're a family guys. Good riddance tbh, you deserve better.
seems like you dodged a bullet. As the comment above me already said: It’s good that you got rid of her
@@leedlbagginshield8492 My sister's ex was WALKING RED FLAGS. We tried to persuade her to not marry him, but she wouldn't listen. Married in 2001, divorced in 2016. He cheated multiple times, didn't work since 2007 and lived off welfare while she worked the whole day long. It has taught me to never ever ignore red flags. You can't and won't change a person that's already rotten.
Why you datin' a feminist bro
That's a stage 7 unfixable
Who do you think you are?
I'm happy you're there for your mom
When he talks about it being unfathomable that young men would just write off women, I can totally relate. That's the way I was in my teens and 20s during the 1980s and 1990s: I had no desire whatsoever in pursuing women. From a very early age I learned to distrust and despise females - primarily due to my mother and older sister, and my father's "mentoring" on women did not help. Things I saw on TV, movies, at school, etc. turned me off as well. By the end of 9th grade/15yo I had psychologically shut down and vowed not to pursue women. At that point, I really didn't "see" them anymore. I used masturbation to simply get rid of the urge and focus on just being a soldier. By my early 20s, I started to seriously consider going to the doctor and have a procedure done to make it so I would not ever think about sex for the rest of my life. I didn't dance with a girl until age 21 - only because she asked (I never would have). I didn't have my first kiss/date/sex/girlfriend until I was a 23yo sergeant, and only because she made all the first moves (I never would have). I didn't realize it at the time, but girls had been pursuing me since junior high but I was incapable of reading their cues and my low self-esteem made it impossible for me to believe any girl would ever want me - something my older sister made me believe. I didn't actually approach a girl (for the purpose of getting a date) until age 25 - which was successful. Even still, I very rarely made attempts to approach due to my ingrained hatred and distrust, and my belief they are just out for a man's money and other material gain. I finally met a good woman and married at age 30 and have been married for 21 years. Still, it took years into marriage to become fully comfortable with sex, especially since I was gone to war or training 75% of the first 10 years of our marriage. She never complained. But it wasn't until my mid-40s - and 15 years into marriage - that I started watching social and PUA coaches and finally learned to better read social cues, socially interact, be better at sex, and really learn to love women (but understand the danger of them at the same time).
I can't love them. I don't trust any. I might be friendly but only on the surface. I don't trust guys either.
I'm only 31 but feel like I forgot how to be a human and I reject everybody. People are just objects.
Wow, I loved reading this. I’m also very sorry you went that as a child and young adult. I’m so happy and proud of you for realizing this in yourself and making the effort to improve to make your relationship with your wife better. I’m happy that despite your history, you still tried and found a wife you felt safe enough to stay with for so many years. I wish you all the best 💖
Ye this one worked out in the end but I know countless men for whom these issues have not been solved by the stroke of luck of “meeting the right person”
@severussin Yeah Ive noticed that watching vids like this. I consider it an act of God I found her in the right place at the right time sitting at the table I normally sat at alone in a country dance club.
I've watched a lot of your content, Melanie, and when you said what you said about how comparing what women are doing (hypergamy) and what men are doing (MGToW, blackpill) being two different things, I wanted to argue. But you are right. Like, painfully right. Nobody's asking guys anything. The only solutions we have are exiting the scene, or trying and failing until we do. The sheer volume of options available to women now is obscene, and that enables the hypergamy. And then you mentioned the ick. And then he mentioned the 'tall girl' problem, and you brought that to the attractiveness thing (which is still in hypergamy as women can afford the injections and fillers and high-end treatments, and so they expect a minimum of effort in that field that still shows he does more).
Now, I don't want to say all women are this way, because that is similar to all men being labelled incels. It's not fair to say. My wife is not this way, but my wife and I have been off the dating market for nearly two decades now. Maybe I am so far removed that I don't know how absolutely crazy it is. But that means I have two young boys going into it in the next decade. I'm afraid for them. One is a tall boy, but not lean and muscular. The other will likely be shorter than 6' and be wiry. The big one is shy and introverted, and the little one is very happy-go-lucky and extroverted. The older one is going to need a caring woman that might have to work to get him out of his shell, and the youngest is going to need someone who can handle his high energy without saying everything he does is icky.
I am teaching my sons to have strong boundaries and to say no. I am teaching them to simply refuse to give too much more than they get in return. I'm teaching them to be chivalrous, but strong enough to walk away from a relationship. Don't be in the friend zone and never, ever simp. Don't sleep around, and don't accept women that do. Work on yourself constantly to be the best version of yourself, and do it for you so you recognize and care about your own value.
The problem is a overinflated sense of self and perception of entitlement on both sides as a result of lack of realistic outcomes that are hyper activated by social media and a serious lack of self confidence and personable skills. Everyone is trying to have a perfect life or to have something better than what is practical. I have seen low class dudes pull some of the best women based almost entirely on their self confidence, charisma and self assured value of themself.
Men are looking for love : Women are looking for romance and adventure
You missed one, the most important one of them all........excitement......which I guess equals your fun and adventure.
Men fall in love, women fall in business.
my main reason to opt out is every relationship ive been in has ended with "i need to find myself" being her excuse to cheat, breakup then start just taking cock from every guy around her. then while single the last time i stood on the sidelines and saw how this is a common phenomenon from there i didnt want to have a bias and so i researched what was going on in the rest of society and found these enormous expectations of men to meet just to be in a relationship with someone who was giving it up for free to the neighborhood chads and tyrones. so it sucks but ive chosen isolation over this corruption.
...and she always finds herself ankles-behind-ears in love underneath a biker or truckdriver.
Thank you for chiming in there when Chris said "women need sympathy!" Because they don't. What they really deserve is apathy, because that is exactly what they dish out to us, or at least to me
Exactly 💯 that's ridiculous men should not feel sorry for these parasites at all. They made there bed.
You are so right Melanie. I am a single man and the last time I was in a relationship was so long ago that I think it was 20 years ago!!! 😢
I don’t work in an office, I work in construction. I like to get my hands dirty. But I am quite well off with assets of about £9M. Obviously, I don’t advertise this to women.
I am afraid Melanie that I think I will die alone. It does not make me sad as I have accepted this fact.
Stay true to yourself 👑 keep that bag safe. They realistically have nothing reciprocal emotionally or finacially to offer you. £9mil aint some chump change, dont you dare loose that to some manipulate broad.
The last girl friend I had, actually told me, when I asked for her opinion on some landscaping decisions I was needing to make on the land I am buying. She said, that’s too much of a commitment for her… I said, I’m not asking for your hand in marriage, I want your opinion on these choices, as it impacts our future…
She then proceeded to tell me, how she needs time on her own, like each week, like maybe more than 2 days a week… wtf
I said, I’m not looking for that I guess. I want a full time girlfriend not a part time one. Gtfoh
Women😂 ☕
She's already cheating
At least she didn't just decide you were not the one, just with you mentioning you owned property. I tell a man that, and I'm immediately ghosted.
@rondasoutherland6882 can I choose the category things that never happend Alex thank you and the answer is what is BS I was correct thank you
@@jld12er you are 🤪. I've lived of the land and on my peppery my whole life. You would die if you ever worked a day at my place. You are a modern man. Period. Have a nice day.
Melanie: Keep doing what you're doing. Great job.
I’ve COMPLETELY checked out 3 decades ago. I’ve learned my lesson loooong before there were dating apps.
You absolutely rock!! Thanks for bringing more awareness to a prominent issue for men and women 👏
Today's Women have become to the equivalent of the ENDPIECE BREAD IN A LOAF OF BREAD: EVERYONE TOUCHES IT BUT NOBODY WANTS IT💯
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That is damn hilarious
Good analogy
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You’ve pinpointed my whole problem. The heel is my favorite piece…dammit😂
Its difficult to have mercy or pity for the female behaviour that became the norm in current times. Girls are absolutely ruthless to guys they consider unworthy and are utterly arrogant/uncultured when it comes to men they like(or choose to stay with, really).
I've been molested by women since I was like 13. At first I thought it was just because I was cute, as a child. Then it proceeded into high school and uni and I realized that women just have absolutely 0 clue that they have to hold themselves back. They laugh about it, thinking they're cute and are totally fine with doing it right in front of guys that like them. They can brag about cheating on or using guys that they consider to be worse than you, thinking that it somehow makes them look better or more desirable. When men do it, they're called out even by other guys.
I don't care if chicks want a "better guy" or whatever. Its only natural. But the absolute lack of humanity of that process, even towards the men of their choice, makes me feel nothing but disgust towards them. Worse yet, current culture corrupts ALL women to be that way. Give nice girl a chance and if she has a "girl boss" friend, that same nice girl will suddenly think that she's on top of the world and dates down. Its frankly so draining having to deal with all that bs, that I started actively going against the usual tests/games that women put up, just out of spite. I have no idea where I can find a decent partner, because even those that I meet only take a few months to show their true nature and do so unapologetically.
I'm 52 and told my mother about some of the neighbors and ladies in church that she swore were her friends, she had zero comment. I don't even talk to my mother because she never held herself accountable for the idiot that she married after my father left her.
Those true colors are very dreadful..You always try to be optimistic, but then damn..the true colors become visible
I've been considering asking a girl out at work, she's Indian, seems nice (only real downside is she doesn't use deodorant) but I'd feel more comfortable with someone more traditional rather than going for a western woman. Plus I like learning about Indian culture, I even tried learning Hindi at one stage.
Women hitting men on their dm asking them to buy their "content" should be considered harrassment.
THANK YOU FOR SPEAKING IN THE “ ICK “ ❤️… THAT WAS THE LAST STRAW FOR ME , MOST CHILDISH CONCEPT EVER HEARD , NOBODYS PERFECT