i always text long texts first but if they just keep replying with short ones i mirror the energy, i’m not gonna end up looking like i’m chasing or desperate for someone tf 🙄
@@444fawn fr if I ever text a person without energy at this point im not going to try but I can't help just to be myself and eventually just send paragraphs to that person anyways lol
That's so true and they often don't elaborate or go into detail at all. People often find the shortest ways to reply to texts nowadays, unless they like you or find you interesting.
Very true . I’ve got the “Good. Wbu” a lot of times. I’ve actually stopped texting so many girls because I see the conversation is quite redundant or I messed up and tried to hard by randomly asking a open ended question. “ what’s your favorite color “ which isn’t exactly a turn off but it makes you look boring for sure. You know a girl considers you boring if you are used to her reponding at a certain pace (excluding the occasional real life inconveniences) and randomly the messages start becoming more and more delayed. You dropped from potential partner/friends with benefits to at most you are a acquaintance
Fr it’s not being dry if u just answer the other person it’s acc being so rude my ex best friend never texted me I was always the one who texts first and she never rlly extended the conversation she just answered me then went offline
@@adelynnminney9197 anxiety of what? Entitlement is killing you. You think women are the only ones that feel FEAR of death and losing everything you worked to build? Ever been married to a woman, as a man, who you thought loved you for 5 years just for her to TAKE YOU FOR EVERYRHING YOU G O T because she's BORED and thought she could DO BETTER!! Hmm? Bet not! So smart in everything but cant simply TALK to people and be GENUINE...its pathetic.
A person who reciprocates is a must. Of five recent conversations I’ve had, maybe one out of five asked about my interests. The other 4 gave off vibes of being very self centered.
All of these absolutely work - if she's already head-over-heals drooling over you. But if she just kind of likes you or you are just starting out, most of these are suicide. 1. The open-ended questions bit is true - simple yes or no questions often kill conversations. Open-ended questions are great for texts and IRL conversations. 2. Long-ass texts out of nowhere can often be overwhelming to men or women. While you don't always want to text short one-sentence texts, regularly texting at least a few lines of dialogue shows you're not bored, but sending them an entire book will make anyone think you're obsessed. If you're really concerned, try to match their energy. 3. Emojis - as stated at the end of #2, match their energy. NEVER start going crazy with emojis right out of the gate. Don't be afraid to use a few when starting out, but when one person uses few to no emojis and the other person uses a ton, it can be overwhelming, and often annoying.
Terrible advice tbh. If you’re a guy chatting to a girl you like over text your one and only goal in said text conversation is to arrange a meet up. Only use emojis to soften a message if it could be interpreted differently. One time there was this girl I really liked and we messaged eachother all day for months. By the time it got round to seeing her it was the most awkward date I’ve ever been on why? Because I’d already said on text everything I had to say
if you have nothing left to say on a date when you've been texting her for months then that's a problem with face to face chemistry, not you running out if things to say, because that doesn't happen with actual couples that stick together, they always have something to talk about. Thats why the poster urges you to face time than text, so that meetups like that feel more natural.
Kinda sounds like a you problem. What exactly was your plan if you became partners? Stare at each other until you retire? The emoji stuff is decent advice though.
If someone responds dryly I send back a drawing of stick figure them with their response written in the corner, basically imitating how they looked when they sent the text
How I am rizzing a fine lightskin with a great personality as a white boy with a 4/10 face and a 7/10 physique: 1. Be laid back go with her pace but always keep her guessing as to your intentions (make sure she mentions facetime first dont force that) 2. Be bold when sending messages dont be afraid to send a risky text you can always play it off as a joke (if she sends you mirror or beach pics compliment her outfit/style) 3. Send her updates thru your day while being nonchalant about it but also funny sometimes (especially if you play sports let her know when your putting in work but remember being athletic is only part of it she doesnt care about your team she cares about how you are making progress) 4. Make her laugh and open up to her but not a crazy amount maintain a playful level of mystery 5. DON'T BE AFRAID TO GO OFF TOPIC when im texting/facetime we'll could be talking about family drama and immediately switch up to just a funny post I saw that day (THIS IS HOW YOU DONT BE DRY)
Thanks for the advice! There is this girl and we both like each other but I'm not good at showing it through text. This gonna help a lot! Thank you! 🙏💯
@@JhonnyStone100 And yet this comment was left under a video about texting ANYONE. If it were a dude in the video, none of you would be talking about this stupid fish analogy. You just can't see women as anything other than a potential hookup, and that's your problem not mine. Maybe try being a normal person, it's a lot easier.
If hes over 40 and dry texting just leave him to his babymama and kids in peace. You deserve better. Speaking from experience. Do not every carry a conversation.
At times it may not be your fault i mean sure you can focus on the attributes of what make you interesting by doing hobbies and doing the things that you love but at times even a man who has hobbies money and take good care of his health at times some girls are just not interesting themsleves at times it not your fault it her fault it depends on both parties actually i hope my information helps you.
Tbh I feel like when you actually connect with someone, you won’t find the need to try so hard to continue the conversation. My ex boyfriend and I would talk about literally anything and never get bored. On the other hand, some other guy I was getting to know, it was extremely dry to the point where I’d be googling what to talk about. Sometimes, it really is just a waste of time.
We all can stop the dry texting and be human and meet in person. I personally would rather have deeper conversations in person. If you don’t have Covid, you don’t need to be having deep conversations through text messaging or even video chat.
Crazy, I skipped straight to talking on 12+ sometimes 17+ hours calls with someone for one to two weeks straight at one point during the pandemic, to all of a sudden nothing like we were strangers.
When I was talking to my crush on a topic on text, he kept answering me but not with as much detail. And me: answering with more detail, then, all of the sudden he called me on FaceTime and my heart skipped a beat ❤
Have you eat dinner yet? What did you eat? How did you it? Why did you eat? Who did you eat with? Where did you eat? Whe did you it? That’s like 5 question at least in one topic so it’s a win for me.
my convo with bf ( warning: dry ) Him,” says a paragraph for gf day about how much he’s thankful for me “ 🥺🥺❤️ Me,” replies back with a paragraph “ Him,” Wyd” *my head* : OMG 😔 Me,” Folding da dishes😌” Him,” huh” 🤦♀️ Me now having to say,” wyd” 🤦♀️ Him,” nothing “ 😀 Me,” nicee” 😤 Him,” ikr “ Me ,” 👍” Him,” ima go watch YT “ 🙃
The only rule that matters: “get the fuck off of texting” Most women don’t get as turned on by your energy as a video/voice message or just calling/facetiming them.
My gf texts me every morning which I appreciate (she’s two hours ahead) but she’s really boring to text and I always have to initiate the FaceTime calls which I’m getting really tired of.
i use two to three emojis, hate ft hate audio calls . i already had this gut feeling to never have a crush God please someone help me detach or get over her 😭💔 i just cant
Yo she is setting you guys on a suicide mission on the emoji part
fr
Lmaooo
And the text alot part
Yea that shits reminds me of September 11th
That’s when I realized the video was for girls
“My grandma died”
“Omg it’s like giving trolls 🧌😭💀👉🤌🧜♀️🙆♀️🙉🎤🐭”
😂😂😂
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How the HELL does this only have 48 likes?! 😭😭😭
lmafo
Lol 🪑🗽😂🥸📸🦍🌝🥺☹️🥶💩🤰
My texting energy is usually dependent on how the other person texts lol I don’t want to text paragraphs and they reply with a few words 😅😂
Same😭
i always text long texts first but if they just keep replying with short ones i mirror the energy, i’m not gonna end up looking like i’m chasing or desperate for someone tf 🙄
@@444fawn fr if I ever text a person without energy at this point im not going to try but I can't help just to be myself and eventually just send paragraphs to that person anyways lol
Exactly
SAME 😂😂💀💀💀
Thank you 💖🖤☪️♉️🖤♑️💜🛌🩸🌡️🌡️💉🌆💿🌃💾🏐🎣🏐⚽️🤿⚽️
I laughed at your comment 😂
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Same omg 😂😂😂😂😂😅😂😮😂😮🎉😅🎉😊❤😊❤😊😂😊😅🎉😅🎉😅❤😅❤
@@avaroche3984I didn’t laugh at yours😂😂😂
basically what she meant 💀
"How was your day?" Is also not open-ended, I've learned, because people will often respond with "good."
That's so true and they often don't elaborate or go into detail at all. People often find the shortest ways to reply to texts nowadays, unless they like you or find you interesting.
Very true . I’ve got the “Good. Wbu” a lot of times. I’ve actually stopped texting so many girls because I see the conversation is quite redundant or I messed up and tried to hard by randomly asking a open ended question. “ what’s your favorite color “ which isn’t exactly a turn off but it makes you look boring for sure. You know a girl considers you boring if you are used to her reponding at a certain pace (excluding the occasional real life inconveniences) and randomly the messages start becoming more and more delayed. You dropped from potential partner/friends with benefits to at most you are a acquaintance
You can follow that up with, “How so?”
Bro but if they are interested in talking to you, they can also say you know what this happened with me today..
how about if you ask "So, did anything exciting happen in your day?"
new and improved title:
*how to get bullied over text*
Whats your advice?
@@de.negroz.rize47don’t spam emojis like a physcopath 😔
@@mattybwilliams7615just say you're boring 🙄🙄 emojis make it so much more fun and improve the mood 😭
@@Noo-My-Only-Weakness-Dying who?
@@mattybwilliams7615 everyone who thinks emojis are stupid 😭😭
If the girl is interested, she'll text you no matter what
Fr it’s not being dry if u just answer the other person it’s acc being so rude my ex best friend never texted me I was always the one who texts first and she never rlly extended the conversation she just answered me then went offline
She can also be scared
True
If she loves you, you can't do nothing wrong in her eyes. If she doesn't love you, you can't do nothing right in her eyes.
Yeah true if she interesting
So, here's your advice for never sending dry texts.
1) Have a good personality
That makes sense now :(
*keyboard clacking* how to.. get a good personality
You don't necessarily have to have a good personality, you just need to look like you do. But genuinely having a good one is better for long term
Shit
*be social
I already hate normal phone calls. FaceTime gives me anxiety. I’d rather send snap videos back and forward. Or talk in person.
Ok same, y’all make me relate…..like ALOT
imagine having social anxiety over the phone 💀💀 couldn’t be me 😭😂
Butch assed generation, it's just conversation not a drug deal
@@CorporationSKY it’s called anxiety…tell me when you learn how it feels
@@adelynnminney9197 anxiety of what? Entitlement is killing you. You think women are the only ones that feel FEAR of death and losing everything you worked to build?
Ever been married to a woman, as a man, who you thought loved you for 5 years just for her to TAKE YOU FOR EVERYRHING YOU G O T because she's BORED and thought she could DO BETTER!! Hmm? Bet not! So smart in everything but cant simply TALK to people and be GENUINE...its pathetic.
A person who reciprocates is a must. Of five recent conversations I’ve had, maybe one out of five asked about my interests. The other 4 gave off vibes of being very self centered.
Anything but the FaceTime 💀
Me last year: well I’ll never meet a girl so I won’t ever have to worry about this
Me now: oh shit
Broooo don't ask questions, it just gets you into dead convos ong
so what do we do instead? can’t really ask for a meet yet because we haven’t established rapport yet
A wise man once said, "you don't ask a fish how to catch them, you ask a fisherman"
I was looking for this comment.
@@Thomas--Shelby your welcome
If you genuinely believe this and think it's insightful you aren't alpha, you're eels who think they are "fishermen".
@@Unixnizebro took it too serious
Lmaooo
All of these absolutely work - if she's already head-over-heals drooling over you. But if she just kind of likes you or you are just starting out, most of these are suicide.
1. The open-ended questions bit is true - simple yes or no questions often kill conversations. Open-ended questions are great for texts and IRL conversations.
2. Long-ass texts out of nowhere can often be overwhelming to men or women. While you don't always want to text short one-sentence texts, regularly texting at least a few lines of dialogue shows you're not bored, but sending them an entire book will make anyone think you're obsessed. If you're really concerned, try to match their energy.
3. Emojis - as stated at the end of #2, match their energy. NEVER start going crazy with emojis right out of the gate. Don't be afraid to use a few when starting out, but when one person uses few to no emojis and the other person uses a ton, it can be overwhelming, and often annoying.
Istg I'm more dry over call than text 💀
Me writing an essay
Girl = Okay 😑
Exactly! Except gender bend
@@thesnow_princess3608huh?
lmao
The solution: stop writing paragraphs
not me
Terrible advice tbh. If you’re a guy chatting to a girl you like over text your one and only goal in said text conversation is to arrange a meet up. Only use emojis to soften a message if it could be interpreted differently. One time there was this girl I really liked and we messaged eachother all day for months. By the time it got round to seeing her it was the most awkward date I’ve ever been on why? Because I’d already said on text everything I had to say
if you have nothing left to say on a date when you've been texting her for months then that's a problem with face to face chemistry, not you running out if things to say, because that doesn't happen with actual couples that stick together, they always have something to talk about. Thats why the poster urges you to face time than text, so that meetups like that feel more natural.
Kinda sounds like a you problem. What exactly was your plan if you became partners? Stare at each other until you retire? The emoji stuff is decent advice though.
@@Unixnize😂😂😂
“Go crazy on the emojis”💀💀💀
OMGGG, thanks girlyyyy. I'm not dry anymore! 😍😍👀💕💕😍🎉🎉😘😘💞💞💞😍🎉🎉🎉👀
You are lost utterly:)
If someone responds dryly I send back a drawing of stick figure them with their response written in the corner, basically imitating how they looked when they sent the text
How I am rizzing a fine lightskin with a great personality as a white boy with a 4/10 face and a 7/10 physique:
1. Be laid back go with her pace but always keep her guessing as to your intentions (make sure she mentions facetime first dont force that)
2. Be bold when sending messages dont be afraid to send a risky text you can always play it off as a joke (if she sends you mirror or beach pics compliment her outfit/style)
3. Send her updates thru your day while being nonchalant about it but also funny sometimes (especially if you play sports let her know when your putting in work but remember being athletic is only part of it she doesnt care about your team she cares about how you are making progress)
4. Make her laugh and open up to her but not a crazy amount maintain a playful level of mystery
5. DON'T BE AFRAID TO GO OFF TOPIC when im texting/facetime we'll could be talking about family drama and immediately switch up to just a funny post I saw that day (THIS IS HOW YOU DONT BE DRY)
Bro my texts are so dry that my dumbass sent her a pic of a brick wall
Update: she said no
My dry response to this video tips "Ok"
Girl went “THIS” 😳 with her eyes OPENNN
me texting a whole paragraph
my bestfriends only saying "ok" or "lol" or "sure"
I be mad as hell when they do that lol
Thanks for the advice! There is this girl and we both like each other but I'm not good at showing it through text. This gonna help a lot! Thank you! 🙏💯
Me: Hey how are you?
Her: good
Me: How was your day?
Her: good
Me: You have fun at school?
Her: ya
The reason im a dry texter it’s bc Idk how to start a conversation or just I don’t care abt the person who im texting 💀
Ouch the second one hurts
@@testedguy lmfao
Don't listen to fish to catch fish,
1. people aren’t fish
2. this is about texting anyone, not only the people you are trying to court. don’t you have friends?
@@corn8591 1 people are fish
2 this women is about females being the fish 🎣
@@corn8591 texting anyone isn’t the same as texting girls you’re trying to hook up with.
@@JhonnyStone100 And yet this comment was left under a video about texting ANYONE. If it were a dude in the video, none of you would be talking about this stupid fish analogy. You just can't see women as anything other than a potential hookup, and that's your problem not mine. Maybe try being a normal person, it's a lot easier.
haha 😂
nah bc i ft we js be sitting there…”so how’s ur fish?”
No cause whenever I do this there just like “idk.” LIKE WDYM💀
If hes over 40 and dry texting just leave him to his babymama and kids in peace. You deserve better. Speaking from experience. Do not every carry a conversation.
I tried your advice, but she still texts dry. And now I realize that she just ain't into me
At times it may not be your fault i mean sure you can focus on the attributes of what make you interesting by doing hobbies and doing the things that you love but at times even a man who has hobbies money and take good care of his health at times some girls are just not interesting themsleves at times it not your fault it her fault it depends on both parties actually i hope my information helps you.
Dry testers me making me think they mad through text fr💀‼️ (power of dry texting)
I can’t be the only person who hates FaceTime with my whole life. It is so awkward and boring and I just would rather meet the in person or text
i’m so glad someone else agrees with the emojis, i can’t do one line without them to be honest 😭
“where are we going for dinner 🎷😂🙏🎷🙌✅💝🥶😋😅🤪🤪😅🥸🤨😞🤮😸🤧🤖👾🤑😸😸🤮🤐🤖🤐😹🗣️👩🏾🎠🎠⛲️🚈⛲️🚉” perfect response
I HATE texting! Honestly, I prefer dry texts.... It means the conversation is over faster 😅
Thanks I hate texting because it feels so awkward
I don't use emoji that much but I'm a sticker addicted 😂
"use emojis"
My honest reaction: 🤯🔫, 🍑🏊, 🧑🦽🚗, 🕳️🤸
Wait really? No way. 💀💀💀💀☠️☠️☠️☠️☠️
FaceTime is way less awkward especially in newer relationships
“Never ask a sheep how to catch itself” she is setting yall up
Guys just remember if carrying a conversation its better to talk to wall then her.
I’ve only gotten aww, after a long text
Tbh I feel like when you actually connect with someone, you won’t find the need to try so hard to continue the conversation. My ex boyfriend and I would talk about literally anything and never get bored. On the other hand, some other guy I was getting to know, it was extremely dry to the point where I’d be googling what to talk about.
Sometimes, it really is just a waste of time.
So u free tomorrow?
Her: yes
Me: 10:00am right?
Her: yes
Me: alright.
Me: What brand is your microwave?
Her: huh?
We all can stop the dry texting and be human and meet in person. I personally would rather have deeper conversations in person. If you don’t have Covid, you don’t need to be having deep conversations through text messaging or even video chat.
Crazy, I skipped straight to talking on 12+ sometimes 17+ hours calls with someone for one to two weeks straight at one point during the pandemic, to all of a sudden nothing like we were strangers.
In 41 do not F'n facetime me
She responds in one word when I send a paragraph
When I was talking to my crush on a topic on text, he kept answering me but not with as much detail. And me: answering with more detail, then, all of the sudden he called me on FaceTime and my heart skipped a beat ❤
Thats why you dont ask a fish how to catch a fish, she setting yall up except for the open ended questions
my ex bsf saw this and went "nah imma do my own thing" ☠️
i fr dont wanna be too obvious with it cuz i may like her but i like her as a friend that i would hate to lose too
Me: hey how are you today?
Her: good
Me: that's good
Her: yea
Me:.... 💀
Im kinda happy, that me and my „crush“ are both extremely dry Texters.
Does that even mean they like you
@@longmoney6543 yes, in irl. In texting we‘re more of people who reply with „ok“ and then death.
No one can be more dry than my ex
Miranda Sings moves her head in the same way giving advice
or u can talk in person and have real entertaining conversations
Ima dry texter bc I’m emo BAHAHAH💀🖐🏻
are you laughing at yourself
What gave u the urge to reply
😂
I try to avoid face times as much as possible.. I think texting is way better than facetimes
im bouta use these tips rn
Have you eat dinner yet? What did you eat? How did you it? Why did you eat? Who did you eat with? Where did you eat? Whe did you it? That’s like 5 question at least in one topic so it’s a win for me.
Don’t always send paragraphs of texts to the other person bc it won’t always work just send like a sentence each text
Can yall guys stop judging her looks, and what she says?
She's giving her own opinion...if u want than u follow what she says or not...
You are gorgeous.
Me: "Hey, when are you going to the thing about the thing? What should I bring too? 😎"
Him: "yar"
Rule 1: Never take a woman advice.
Rule 2 : there is only rule 1
Rule 3: Read rule 1
Sigma rule....
I’m a woman and i confirm this comment as helpful advice
ew
What if your socialy awkward and the FaceTime is dryer then the text-
Ok very good advice except for the emoji part
To avoid dry texting , do wet texting💦
I texted one chick and asked her: How do I get rid of you and stop texting me? She said: You just texted me.... And I was like: Damn your right
Just be yourself, it worked for me to lose a girl
Yeh - text loads - women love that
What if the conversation is good and I have lots of energy when I’m texting but the texts ending up being like ‘wowza’
AHHH THANK YOU ❤
Here all the introverts
Rule no.1 : never take dating advices from women
She's dry texting me all the time lol
my convo with bf ( warning: dry )
Him,” says a paragraph for gf day about how much he’s thankful for me “ 🥺🥺❤️
Me,” replies back with a paragraph “
Him,” Wyd”
*my head* : OMG 😔
Me,” Folding da dishes😌”
Him,” huh” 🤦♀️
Me now having to say,” wyd” 🤦♀️
Him,” nothing “ 😀
Me,” nicee” 😤
Him,” ikr “
Me ,” 👍”
Him,” ima go watch YT “ 🙃
Me: asks an open ended interesting question
Her: ahaha what idk heh
the ask the fish how to fish you ask the fishermen
Guys don’t listen, you don’t seek validation
The only rule that matters: “get the fuck off of texting”
Most women don’t get as turned on by your energy as a video/voice message or just calling/facetiming them.
Never ask a fish how to catch a fish
My gf texts me every morning which I appreciate (she’s two hours ahead) but she’s really boring to text and I always have to initiate the FaceTime calls which I’m getting really tired of.
Me sending her details about my day
Her: Oh okay
Based on a true story
U finee ask I love that smile keep showing it you’ll pull any guy
Never ask a fish on how to catch a fish, you ask a fisherman..Stay hard...that's what she said
I thought she had a filter on the whole time
How to put u in the friend zone 💯
😂 fuck bro why you are right
You don't ask a fish on "how to catch a fish", you ask the fishermen
Me who does it on purpose: this is so informative
what open ended questions shoulf i even ask😭😭
yeahh that's where i'm stuck 😭
Would love for there to be a way to send this to her without being rude
also use caps and just send reels
What if she doesn't do the same 😅
i use two to three emojis, hate ft hate audio calls . i already had this gut feeling to never have a crush God please someone help me detach or get over her 😭💔 i just cant