When my grandmother got remarried, she and her new husband took my dad and his brother when they moved...to Italy. She conveniently forgot to tell my grandfather until after they'd left. It was 1925 and the courts weren't as interested in supporting the parent who didn't have custody. So, my father and uncle lived near Florence for about a year before they came back to the U.S.
The plan, which assumed OP wouldn't fight, is that Alex would arrange OP a job but also arrange secretly for OP to be fired from that job (possibly taking the blame for Alex's own criminal actions). OP would then be unable to pay child support and be a 'deadbeat dad' so that EX and Alex would get full custody and OP would be legally prevented from ever contacting his kids again.
Diane was willing to risk prison time and put her new guy above her own children because she needed money? I'm glad Diane and Alex came clean, more surprised all was forgiven, but Diane is a shit mom. Once you treat your kids like tools or weapons, I lose respect.
Op ex wife deserve everything she got for her bad decision in life and she shouldn’t be allowed to be around her kids anymore because her decision will put her kids in danger
Anything that can affect your children's well-being in any way is your business!! Canada can and will extradite to any other country for business fraud charges. The ex-wife insisting on helping her fiance to run from his business dealings makes her guilty of conspiracy, thus endangers the children
In the first sentence of this post, the two main subjects were described as female. As I listened to the story I became confused. Obviously one is male. But glad things worked out for OP.
I think he should have went forward with full custody, but allowed visitation. That way he doesn’t get aced out after she marries into that powerful family. Because even though the ex has a good life, and it worked out for the best, she’s still pissed at OP. When she would’ve continued to act like I was the one in the wrong, is when I would have continued the process for insurance or safety.
I do not agree with the comments here. He should file for full custody and let her escape to canada or Bahames, who cares? It is higly unlikely that a judge would decide to uproot children from their current situation. He could use his knowledge to push for full custody not to blackmail her . She is an idiot, but this is her problem.
Perhaps OP went thru gender reassignment? Lol. Fiction probably AI (IA rather intelligence absent) written. But it least was human edited and narrated. But errors like that should be removed.
Interesting that it says at the start that they are both female, but doesn't say who the sperm donor is, especially for the second child that surprised OP.
You guys decided for her to quit her job and that you were going to have to make up for the money while she stayed home. Money doesn’t grow on trees. Someone has to work. Personally. I like having roof over my head, a car, electricity and groceries. That costs money. Diane seems to want you to divorce her so it’s your fault. No to marriage counseling. Sounds like she has a side dude.
Far too often people throw out pleasantries without thinking that in no way reflect their real feelings. It's best to be honest with yourself and not care about how things appear because if you've done or said the right thing than it's unlikely that you need to make an effort to look good because you won't look bad. I say this because he said he wishes them all the best but honestly, I truly doubt it. I'm not saying you have to hold a grudge or resentment but in truth I, and I believe he, would simply feel indifference. I wouldn't resent them but I also wouldn't wish them well because that would require caring about them in the first place. If you don't feel positive or negative about the situation then simply say that you wish them no ill.
Story one She seems to decide what you are doing, she seems a extremely selfish person she cannot really believe she can take the children and you are supposed to sell your house and move to a new area and find another job she definitely obsessed with him and she only known her for six months i did think she in touch with reality
She shouldn't have quit her job without talking to her husband first and then to get upset cuz he had to work more cuz of her actions is ridiculous!! She clearly wanted out and this was her way of getting out ! 9:13 actually she does have to let you know cuz your kids are around this guy! Anyone that thinks its ok to take children away from their parent is horrible and selfish!! He should have taken her to court cuz she is the one deciding to move thats not on op!! She clearly isnt mature enough to be responsible for kids or even a pet !! She doesnt even know this guy not at all in the best interest of their kids! Of course she wants you to call off the focus city and it's not because she loves her kids because if she did it wouldn't have even been a question as to what she should do to keep them in her life. You should have just let her do whatever she planned on doing because that's who she truly is. It seems like you have opened yourself up for more problems.
I'm confused are they a same sex couple or not. Because the start said they were both female. Unless that was a typo or something. Also I doubt the wife's relationship was only going on for 6 months and I suspect she was cheating. A lot of other details are all over the place.
OPs wife was certainly the biggest AH in this story. She deserved the consequences she received. She barely knew the man she was dating and she was willing to marry him, move to a new country, and expose her children to someone she really didn't know. That is true parental irresponsibility. But, in my eyes OP wasn't 100% innocent. His wife told him over and over again in the beginning that she was feeling lonely, and that she needed him more. But, he just kind of brushed it aside, and put work first, then was surprised when she gave up. Yes, he was working hard for his family, and i am not sure what his company's philosophy on family was. My husband and I run our company with the philosophy of "Family First," but sadly many companies don't believe in that rule. But, I don't know how much clearer the wife could have been that she felt abandoned. Everything else is on his exwife and she is a terrible mother.
Yeah I would agree with that if it wasn't for the fact that she quit her job and then they decided she should be a stay-at-home mom. And the fact that he tried to explain that the longer hours was to make up for losing her side of the income. Besides even after all of that he still put in work for the marriage she's the one who didn't
@@jestersreign7530 They both agreed for her to quit, and secondly her took those hours to maintain the life style he wanted, instead of cutting back expenditures.
While I agree that OP probably could've handled things better, I think it's a bit unfair to blame him for these things. For one, he made it very clear that their lifestyle was going to change, and she was fine with it until she wasn't. And 2. He said he also tried to plan date nights a d ways to spend time together.
Wild that nobody is pointing out that the OP contributed to his own divorce by being barely present and prioritizing his career over time with his family.. if he wasn"t making enough money for the hours he was working,, he should ha e found a better career so he could have had a good work/life balance.. i"m poor as hell and even i can pull that off..
No. Actually , his wife should have never quit her jaw without discussing it with him And then continue in to cry like a spoiled brat.That he wasn't making enough money and then complained that he was never home.
@@dariusshabaiash3861 just like she could have talked to op instead of storming out and ruining her kids lives weak woman dodge simple solutions and think everyone can read there mind 24/7
This dude is a lame.. He just wanted to try and destroy the relationship but it didn’t go how he thought 😂 She was wrong and deserved it.. But it wasnt just “about the kids” like he was tryna spin it. He was banking on that confession to end them..
So you think it’s ok for a mother to go to Canada with her kids for a man she’s only known for 6 months!!! Read the news and see how many step children are abused by a step parent!
This seems fishy to me. American citizens cannot just move to Canada and live there as they want. Immigration can/probably will take years, and involves extensive security checks.
When my grandmother got remarried, she and her new husband took my dad and his brother when they moved...to Italy. She conveniently forgot to tell my grandfather until after they'd left. It was 1925 and the courts weren't as interested in supporting the parent who didn't have custody. So, my father and uncle lived near Florence for about a year before they came back to the U.S.
Time to revisit the lawyer.
Hague convention would be invoked, international kidnapping of minors.
Also mentioned elsewhere Canada would extradite. Both egg donor and her fiancé.
The plan, which assumed OP wouldn't fight, is that Alex would arrange OP a job but also arrange secretly for OP to be fired from that job (possibly taking the blame for Alex's own criminal actions). OP would then be unable to pay child support and be a 'deadbeat dad' so that EX and Alex would get full custody and OP would be legally prevented from ever contacting his kids again.
Both at least OP said were 30 f.
Diane was willing to risk prison time and put her new guy above her own children because she needed money? I'm glad Diane and Alex came clean, more surprised all was forgiven, but Diane is a shit mom. Once you treat your kids like tools or weapons, I lose respect.
Op ex wife deserve everything she got for her bad decision in life and she shouldn’t be allowed to be around her kids anymore because her decision will put her kids in danger
Id have been heartless, i wouldnt have given her a way out
update 1: some people never learn smh and will learn the hard way
Anything that can affect your children's well-being in any way is your business!! Canada can and will extradite to any other country for business fraud charges. The ex-wife insisting on helping her fiance to run from his business dealings makes her guilty of conspiracy, thus endangers the children
So if they’re both females how did they have a child within the first year of marriage?
Adoption
Adoption or sperm donor
Diann should have kept her mouth shut, went to a country without an extradition treaty, then move to Canada.
Adoption wouldn’t happen that fast and definitely wouldn’t have been a surprise. Besides she miraculously turned into a he midway through the story 😂
OP referred to herself (?) as being a father. Did she mean father figure as opposed to Diane being the mother? I'm confused.
In the first sentence of this post, the two main subjects were described as female. As I listened to the story I became confused. Obviously one is male. But glad things worked out for OP.
Okay so im not alone in thinking 2 females oops
I think he should have went forward with full custody, but allowed visitation. That way he doesn’t get aced out after she marries into that powerful family. Because even though the ex has a good life, and it worked out for the best, she’s still pissed at OP. When she would’ve continued to act like I was the one in the wrong, is when I would have continued the process for insurance or safety.
He? Op is a woman
How dare OP work hard so that his wife can be a SAHM? What kind of person does that? Lol.
I don't see what's funny about that but I agree
I do not agree with the comments here. He should file for full custody and let her escape to canada or Bahames, who cares? It is higly unlikely that a judge would decide to uproot children from their current situation. He could use his knowledge to push for full custody not to blackmail her . She is an idiot, but this is her problem.
Good that there’s still justice WITHOUT nuclear revenge in this world.
Who cares what she thinks!!
When did the op become a man?!?!
Yea, it definitely said both were females in the beginning 😂
Right? I'm so confused.
Sounds like it was a typo.Why is that so hard for people to grasp.
Perhaps OP went thru gender reassignment? Lol.
Fiction probably AI (IA rather intelligence absent) written. But it least was human edited and narrated. But errors like that should be removed.
Interesting that it says at the start that they are both female, but doesn't say who the sperm donor is, especially for the second child that surprised OP.
thought they were 2 women but op said op was happy to be a father again? I call bs on this story
You guys decided for her to quit her job and that you were going to have to make up for the money while she stayed home. Money doesn’t grow on trees. Someone has to work. Personally. I like having roof over my head, a car, electricity and groceries. That costs money. Diane seems to want you to divorce her so it’s your fault. No to marriage counseling. Sounds like she has a side dude.
Far too often people throw out pleasantries without thinking that in no way reflect their real feelings. It's best to be honest with yourself and not care about how things appear because if you've done or said the right thing than it's unlikely that you need to make an effort to look good because you won't look bad. I say this because he said he wishes them all the best but honestly, I truly doubt it. I'm not saying you have to hold a grudge or resentment but in truth I, and I believe he, would simply feel indifference. I wouldn't resent them but I also wouldn't wish them well because that would require caring about them in the first place. If you don't feel positive or negative about the situation then simply say that you wish them no ill.
I think op accidentally hit f for themselves as well and meant m for anyone confused considering they called themself a father.
Have you ever seen a lesbian😂 one of them always attempts to look like a guy
Story one
She seems to decide what you are doing, she seems a extremely selfish person she cannot really believe she can take the children and you are supposed to sell your house and move to a new area and find another job she definitely obsessed with him and she only known her for six months i did think she in touch with reality
At the beginning, didn't it show OP as female?
She shouldn't have quit her job without talking to her husband first and then to get upset cuz he had to work more cuz of her actions is ridiculous!! She clearly wanted out and this was her way of getting out ! 9:13 actually she does have to let you know cuz your kids are around this guy! Anyone that thinks its ok to take children away from their parent is horrible and selfish!! He should have taken her to court cuz she is the one deciding to move thats not on op!! She clearly isnt mature enough to be responsible for kids or even a pet !! She doesnt even know this guy not at all in the best interest of their kids! Of course she wants you to call off the focus city and it's not because she loves her kids because if she did it wouldn't have even been a question as to what she should do to keep them in her life. You should have just let her do whatever she planned on doing because that's who she truly is. It seems like you have opened yourself up for more problems.
I'm confused are they a same sex couple or not. Because the start said they were both female. Unless that was a typo or something.
Also I doubt the wife's relationship was only going on for 6 months and I suspect she was cheating. A lot of other details are all over the place.
OPs wife was certainly the biggest AH in this story. She deserved the consequences she received. She barely knew the man she was dating and she was willing to marry him, move to a new country, and expose her children to someone she really didn't know. That is true parental irresponsibility.
But, in my eyes OP wasn't 100% innocent. His wife told him over and over again in the beginning that she was feeling lonely, and that she needed him more. But, he just kind of brushed it aside, and put work first, then was surprised when she gave up. Yes, he was working hard for his family, and i am not sure what his company's philosophy on family was. My husband and I run our company with the philosophy of "Family First," but sadly many companies don't believe in that rule. But, I don't know how much clearer the wife could have been that she felt abandoned. Everything else is on his exwife and she is a terrible mother.
Yeah I would agree with that if it wasn't for the fact that she quit her job and then they decided she should be a stay-at-home mom. And the fact that he tried to explain that the longer hours was to make up for losing her side of the income. Besides even after all of that he still put in work for the marriage she's the one who didn't
Op is a woman.
@@jestersreign7530 They both agreed for her to quit, and secondly her took those hours to maintain the life style he wanted, instead of cutting back expenditures.
While I agree that OP probably could've handled things better, I think it's a bit unfair to blame him for these things. For one, he made it very clear that their lifestyle was going to change, and she was fine with it until she wasn't. And 2. He said he also tried to plan date nights a d ways to spend time together.
@@Flakey101he only agreed after she already quit her job. She made the decision on her own at first
She loved money .....hence tried to work it out with the other guy..rather work in saving her family...funny rationale
Wild that nobody is pointing out that the OP contributed to his own divorce by being barely present and prioritizing his career over time with his family.. if he wasn"t making enough money for the hours he was working,, he should ha e found a better career so he could have had a good work/life balance.. i"m poor as hell and even i can pull that off..
No.
Actually , his wife should have never quit her jaw without discussing it with him And then continue in to cry like a spoiled brat.That he wasn't making enough money and then complained that he was never home.
@@perfectlyimperfect9129 then he should have had that talk earlier.. weak men fear tough conversations..
@@dariusshabaiash3861 just like she could have talked to op instead of storming out and ruining her kids lives weak woman dodge simple solutions and think everyone can read there mind 24/7
This dude is a lame.. He just wanted to try and destroy the relationship but it didn’t go how he thought 😂 She was wrong and deserved it.. But it wasnt just “about the kids” like he was tryna spin it. He was banking on that confession to end them..
So you think it’s ok for a mother to go to Canada with her kids for a man she’s only known for 6 months!!! Read the news and see how many step children are abused by a step parent!
This seems fishy to me. American citizens cannot just move to Canada and live there as they want. Immigration can/probably will take years, and involves extensive security checks.