Yeah, I had a feeling it was because of that. And I truly agree. "But if they cannot control themselves, they shall go ahead and marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion." 1 Corinthians 7:9
I got married after 3 months. I prayed and I had peace in my heart that is the right person. This is the 5th year since we got married and our second baby is 6 months. Grace to Lord.
My husband and I went out for 6 weeks before getting married. We’ve been married 47 years now We prayed and knew we were meant to get married so we eloped My daughter dated her husband 4 months and have been together 24 years now It’s about hearing what God says and not well meaning friends and family! He wants the best for us!
Me and my wife eloped and made some family members Pretty angry about that, but but 30 years later, we're still going strong🙂 Sadly, all of our friends that got married around the same time With big, fancy weddings, none Survived this test of time. And Honey, to this day 30 years and four kids later The fire still burns hot...😁 so God knows what he's doing. Waiting is for suckers, LOL
My parents were not saved when they got married. They were quite the opposite. They lived in Vegas, worked at casinos, dealing blackjack and craps. My dad went up to my mom’s table, hit on her they went out that night and got eloped 3 wks later in ‘79. Later in ‘88 ny dad got saved and my mom in ‘92. Had they not got saved, they would’ve been divorced. All praise & glory to our God. Married for 42 yrs until my dad passed
@@GaboH-h7s Psalm 139 O Lord, you have searched me and known me! You know when I sit down and when I rise up; you discern my thoughts from afar. You search out my path and my lying down and are acquainted with all my ways. Even before a word is on my tongue, behold, O Lord, you know it altogether. You hem me in, behind and before, and lay your hand upon me. Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high; I cannot attain it. Where shall I go from your Spirit? Or where shall I flee from your presence? If I ascend to heaven, you are there! If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there! If I take the wings of the morning and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, even there your hand shall lead me, and your right hand shall hold me. If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me, and the light about me be night,” even the darkness is not dark to you; the night is bright as the day, for darkness is as light with you. For you formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb. I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made. Wonderful are your works; my soul knows it very well. My frame was not hidden from you, when I was being made in secret, intricately woven in the depths of the earth. Your eyes saw my unformed substance; in your book were written, every one of them, the days that were formed for me, when as yet there was none of them.
My wife and I got engaged after 1 week, married a month after that. That will be 27 years ago on August 23. Been one hell of a ride!!!! But we’re still going strong!!!
Sooo glad for the both of you, for the godly love that He has given the two of you ❤️ for each other (because of the love that He has given each of you for Himself) Unfortunately, it wasn't so for me and my wife, because of UNREPENTED sin in our hearts. Therefore we were among the foolish men and women who build their lives on the sand. . . things came crashing down,sad to say . . . God has indeed given you a very precious wife Lance! 🙂 ❤ God has indeed given you a very precious husband Jackie! 🙂 ❤ I am sooo thankful to God for giving the two of you to each other 🙂🙂🙂 As far as marriage counseling goes there is a TREMENDOUS NEED for marriage counseling IN THE CHURCH. Although we were attending a godly church we were married WITHOUT marriage counseling, so sad to say. - a BIG MISTAKE. Anyway, keep loving ❤️ our God, keep loving ❤️ each other, and keep loving ❤️ others, in Jesus' name, Amen! 🙂 ❤️ I would like to talk to you two sometime. 🙂
Started dating a Christian man, within one week today we have been on three dates, I have told him I am celibate before marriage and he said 'you're gonna have to do better than that to scare me off' he's a keeper 😊 feels right, so happy. Looking forward to asking him more and more and vice versa...building the foundation 😊😊
Common now celibate after being railed by multiple people is not actually celibate. You are just deceiving him and having sex with your ex behind his back.
Amen! Finally someone who understands! Above all my husband and I prayed for each other. The holy spirit literally told me I’d marry him on the first day and I couldn’t believe it. But God knows who’s best for you! It seems these days it’s harder to find someone who understands this topic. We also asked and talked about evvvveryyything for the same reasons! We didn’t want to date to see where things would go but rather date to marry and have that goal of a lifetime together. My husband and I were engaged by 3 months and by 6 we were married. Now going on 6 years everyday we grow closer to God TOGETHER. It’s a beautiful thing to grow your nest from the ground up and with nothing but all the love and with the grace of God. I look forward to watching more content! God bless you guys ❤
@@naomigiselle8469 hi there and God bless you! To give you a little backstory I had been struggling with dating prior to meeting my husband. I remember being stood up and just walking home crying and asking God why? Why was it so hard to find a good man? Why was I being treated that way? Was there something wrong with me? Etc. I’ll never forget I fell to me knees when I got home and cried my heart out as I prayed. I felt in my spirit what was wrong. God told me I needed to fall in love with Him first before any man. And so that’s when things changed for me completely. I started to seek the Lord more and pray like crazy. I genuinely started to work on my relationship with God before anything else and whole heartedly trusting God that He would find the right man for me at the right time. That same year I met my husband at the the job I had at the time. We met in the break room and started to chat a bit. When I met him I remember thinking, “there’s something different about him.” As we said goodbye and parted ways I heard in my spirit, “you will marry that man.” 😳 I was like God I just met him this is crazy. Well little did I know I actually would lol. We ended up communicating on social media and well after several dates and so much talking we decided we both wanted something serious and above all put God first. I now know that at that time my husband was also praying for the right woman. You could say it’s a testimony. I don’t believe any one is perfect but I do believe God had the right person for you and we should pray on it. All marriages have struggles but when you’re equally yoked things are much easier. Like it was mentioned in the video when something is coming from the Lord, things just easily fit. Like how they’re families liked each other, for example. My advice to anyone is to pray pray pray and trust God. So sorry for the long message but I hope I explained myself. Much love and God bless!
Wow. Jackie, I prayed about this for you since I first saw one of your videos. I noticed you were young, well-knowledgable in the ways of God, beautiful, sharp, and intelligent. I prayed to the Lord for a godly guy for you. I am very happy for both of you. This is definitely from God and it has brought me much hope. Congratulations to both of you. Continue listening to the word of the Spirit and He will bless you beyond your expectations.
Congratulations! Other young couples these days tend to prolong the important stuff (like opening up about their past and sharing testimonies) cause they are culturally persuaded to be in a long engagement, but they are also rushing straight into physical intimacy. (Makes zero sense). You all did it the right way! Sharing your hearts, connecting spiritually and emotionally first! I pray that other couples will follow your example 🙏 ❤ God bless your marriage!
So happy for you two!! A beautiful story ...it's very hard to meet someone equally yoked to what we know is real truth and have a strong following and faith in Jesus...so happy to see this this new union through Christ!! CONGRATS!!
Thank you for sharing together. It brought to mind so much of the time my wife and I had at getting to know each other back in 1978. We married in December 1980 and the Lord called her Home at the end of this last December. Part of my healing has been hearing other couples' stories and another part has been to give the younger couples at church an embrace and a blessing. So even though I can't reach out to embrace the two of you, I can still say may the Lord bless you two with a long meaningful life together. And Jackie, your messages are always an encouragement to me.
I am crazy about this beautiful, Lord loving, Christ following, believing couple. What a role model for everyone. Yes, finding someone who brings you closer to the Lord. 💗💗
I talked everyday with a guy for 2 and half- 3 months. We had same opinions on everything : God, life, love, etc. I really believed he was the one because we were aligned. We shared intimate stories and deep thougts. We created emotions and love despite the distance. We litteraly never saw each other because he lives abroad and he couldnt come now to see me because of schedule but he promised to come in a year. But I recently I was desperate because I am ready to get married and he wants to wait 7 years or more to get married in order to achieve a career, wich doesnt really made sens to me. So we dont talk anymore because of that. I cannot understand why wedding and career cannot exist in the same time in his mind and I am older than him, I simply cannot wait 7-8 or more years for him, it would kill me inside and compromise my fertility. Please pray for me, pray for us, so we receive clarity and that I could move on if it is the right thing to do. Please. Aurélie
He would want to marry you soon if it was from God, 95% of the time. Read Passion and Purity be Elisabeth Elliot. They waited only because her husband was called to unreached people groups and felt he had to do it alone first.
Wow....I've seen this before and it just came up again on YT...the reason why I say this is I to met someone on Instagram and she's turning out to be quite special. She is a God-fearing woman of faith and just an amazing woman.
Blessings and love to you from Pakistan... please remember Christians from Pakistan as we are going through Very hard times for the last 2 weeks... 21 churches burned with 400 houses ...😢
I’m very happy for you two! I agree with a FAST marriage if you both know you’ve been lead by God. My wife and I married after 2 months. 8 years married still! Praise God! Your love will grow over the years. Love is not necessary for each other at the beginning, only your love for Jesus is important!
Only go to cheap hotels at the very beginning. We never bought land and built a house until AFTER we were married! Don't spend ANY big money until AFTER marriage. And ONLY get married in the Philippines! And EVER allow her to become a U.S. Citizen!
@@foreignerescapestothephi-lj3ls I see. Understood. Sir, I have another question! So if you're already married and still don't have a place.. how would you afford paying for a hotel daily?
Absolutely!!! We Knew! We married not to burn! Just had our 32 Anniversary WE both love Jesus! THE BEST EVER!!! GOD is soooooo good! It was hard to wait a month first kiss❤
Amen to that! This honestly helps me a lot in my life on so many levels. Congratulations y’all! You have found the love the lord has made for you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽✝️
This is a marriage made in Heaven. Sooo happy for you both. And I believe it is important to meet real people in real life - not on Kettle of Fish. ❤❤❤✝️✝️
Lance and Jackie: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! If only I could send You a vocal note to express the enthousiasm I feel in my heart for hearing such a wonderful news, I would! May G-d BLESS you ABUNDANTLY and make this marriage a TREMENDOUS SUCCESS!! May HE give YOU the STRENGTH and WISDOM to overcome all adversity and to spread his message throughout the World!!!! AMEN!! 🎼🎶Glory to G od(×2), Glory to G od in the highest, and on earth, peace on earth , peace to people of good will!🎵
Woaw, you two are incredibly beautiful people! And yes he was a random guy in your comment section! 😄 I appreciate both of your honesty and transparency; truly an inspiration in finding true love 🙏 thank you for your testimony
I got married 5 months after meeting my husband. That was 7 years ago. I did not want to live together and have sex while being unmarried. I do have to say the biggest cons is not to know the other person as well because you haven’t met them 100%. It took a couple of years to adjust 😂, I don’t know if other couples that have married have felt the same way but this was my experience.
What I believe is that you both were ready in your own individual lives for a husband or wife and you were guided to each other. Very happy for you both. Congratulations! You deserve each other.
To be honest it’s very humbling to watch you talk about the struggle of dating while fulfilling God’s word and I wish you all the best in your journey . I see you’re both so committed you are now sharing your passion of making videos and I love the way your energies complement each other . It’s gonna be great seeing your content together. May this union be blessed in the name of Jesus! Amen! So happy for you Jackie cause your husband seems to be seeing you through God’s filter and you Him.
HalleluYah! The Lord brought me here for a reason I am not confident in yet. My Apostle and Prophetess just got married almost a year and a half ago. She just wrote a book on "Waiting in Purpose" for singles, of course. A few women have approached, but nothing sticks. I keep seeing 222 (the lord speaks to me with numbers, this is not angel numbers), but I'm not sure if it's of increase within marriage or outside of that but, I love the testimony y'all and God bless you all.
I will pray for you too! Am so happy for you!! May God Almighty bless your union. God loves you two, he made you for each other!! God’s time is the best!! But I must say, this Guy is one of the most lucky guys on this earth to have a God fearing Woman for wife. Jackie is a proverb 31 woman!! Thank you Lord for this wonderful deed!!
I used to watch him before I came across you on TH-cam. I know he was waiting on his wife and I am so glad it's you!!!! What a blessing for you both. 🎉
Congrats to the both of you! It’s important to keep certain things in private especially when your in love! I like how you guys naturally fell in love and truly support the lord in all his ways!🙏🏽
Confirmation from God is so important in marriage! I just did a video about marriage, remarriage and divorce and I can NOT agree with you more on that! Blessings to you both. You're such a beautiful couple! I pray your marriage, ministry and marriage counseling is blessed and fruitful.
Congratulations to you both. she's an exceptional beauty inside and out, Good job young man I'm from Michigan too Bloomfield. Keep going and serving the Lord . I'm engaged myself too and i really relate to you both as far as your testimonies on dating. I'm old enough to be both you father and really respect the example you all set for so many of our younger Christians.
Such a beautiful story thank you for sharing. I unfortunately was kicked out by my ex husband when my daughter was 6 months old. I married him when I was 18 and was went through hell until I turned 21. My little baby and I moved out of the state I was living in and back in with my mom. I prayed because I was so lonely and 2 months later I ran into an old friend from high school at orientation we stared off as friends. And he asked me out on a date. We lived together for four years he taught my daughter how to walk, and then we eventually married each other. I was just hesitant to get married again after coming from a physically, verbally abusive bipolar, manic ex husband. I’ve turned back to Christ and I’m hoping my husband has that same revelation. He’s helped me raise my daughter and been such a good blessing to my life. ❤ I hope my testimony can help other young women who choose to get married at a young age. Or if they marry someone mentally unstable. That Christ can walk you through it just trust and rely on him. ❤
You two seem so good for each other. The closer you get to the Lord, the closer you'll get to each other! That's how it works in my marriage, it's such a noticeable thing in our lives! O Lord, bless their marriage, put a protective hedge about them as new roots are established as man and wife! In Jesus name, Amen 🙏 💖✝️
I am so very happy for you both! 3 months ago I perceived thoughts while viewing your marvelous videos...why is this woman single? And then it came to me that it is only a short time, and blam,.. here I witness the truth that was coming in to be. Lovely! I am so happy for you both as one in the unified ways of love and more it is really amazing your story and it brought tears to my eyes in joy over all that you both expressed. I Love it.
Congratulations to both of you! WOW WOW WOW phenomenal wisdom and advice! Every Christian couple needs to watch this video! I’m at 67 year old Christian man who has been married to my beautiful bride for 32 years! We have given the same advice to numerous couples throughout our marriage!👏👏👏
This is such an encouragement to me. So glad the Lord brought such a man of God into your life Jackie. Better to marry than burn is so true. It has been a heavy burden in my life but the Lord purposed to withold this blessing from me. Of course this results in a daily struggle but it gives me joy to know of godly couples like yourselves who are like oases in this fallen world. God bless you both.
@@_sky_blue_ Thank you for the kind words. Regrettably my time has passed and I now look to eternity with eager expectation. They say life is short and it is. Youth is even shorter. I always wanted to go through life with the wife of my youth. There is a very small window of time to find happiness.
@@Bob31415 In any case, I know that your words today helped me grasp something that I could not see before. I invite you to take a look at Psalm 38, you will see that when He is severe with us, it is with the intention of helping us grow. And just between you and me, it is a blessing when He pushes us to the limit, because no one realizes what it means when He ignores us. Don't worry, He needs you for something and as I see things happening in the world, it won't be long until He makes it clear to you what you mean to Him God's blessing
Wow! After 4 months? 😲 That's some kinda love story lol. It awesome you found someone and you basically did it through social media because it's not often that a guy can end up with a female content creator like that. I think it's important to note that we shouldn't rush into marriage and we should really take our time to know people and especially live with them before saying lets get married. More power to anyone out there in their dating choices. I just say be careful in your final decision. I wish you continued happiness with your husband tho Jackie.
You have no idea what God would've done for them to know that they didn't need to wait any longer. Isaac married his wife, probably the day they met (if I remember correctly). He was abraham's main offspring. Imagine how much was at stake for him, and he didn't waste any time before he married his wife. There are other examples as well
@bepreparedforwhatscoming4975 you have a great point. I'm not here to judge, by the way. It's just fascinating how people meet and end up together, you know. I'm glad Jackie is blessed with happiness 😊
@bepreparedforwhatscoming4975 You're right, and I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts and explain things. That's why I was very careful in my wording because I wanted my comment to be positive.
@FoundSheep-AN I meant that it's not every day that guys meet a content creator, and it turns into a relationship. It's a fascinating thing, and I meant no harm in my comment.
What a awesome story! God has a path for each of us and it's great to see 2 amazing people brought together by God. God Bless you both on your future adventures.
God's timing 🙌 Not man's. Beautiful couple ❤ All of the trials you've both been through in your youth, you will be able to counsel so many. You are both on fire for God, and now that flame has been doubled 🔥🔥
Congratulations. I believe God brought you both together. Both of you serve the Lord individually and He will always be there to hear your partitions. Always keep Him in the center of your marriage and He will bless the union. Great to see He brought you to each other.
Congrats guys, your video has given me so much hope. I am going through a divorce right now because my wife was abusive to me and my kids. A long time ago I was told that God was going to bring me a Rebecca. This word is finally being made real to me in the hardest season of my life. But right now I am just fighting for my kids. Please pray for me and my 3 kids.
@@kimmathe6701 thanks for your prayers, we have a final hearing on the 6th of September where I will have to tell the court all that I have learned that she did to my kids especially my son. It’s gonna be hard talking about these things but I pray God will give me boldness and confidence to do so.
Congratulations 🎉 equally yoked in Christ that means you both can pull from the strength of one another to further glorify our savior. I pray for your marriage and ministry to be strong and prosperous ❤
Same here me and my husband eloped too we knew each other for 4 months prior 🥰 married for almost two years and have our little angel our daughter. I was done dating too when I met my husband. It was really interesting how the moment I let go of control God began working 🙏🏽💕
Lanceline, you’re my favorite celebrity couple. Thanks for sharing this exciting story, and thanks the both of you for the nuggets of wisdom you spoke ☺️
Jackie, that you for having the guts to tell it like it is. Most Christians always have everything under control and don't and haven struggled with anything. They make you feel like there's something wrong with you. When in reality they are not honest with people. God bless you and your husband.
I am so happy for you! I found your videos last week, Jackie, and you are such an encouragement. It is wonderful to listen to you and feel directed by a true woman of God. Your videos compliment the wonderful guidance I’m receiving from my church.
I love you guys sooooo much 😭🙏🏻🙌 this makes me have hope. This makes me believe. This makes me trust Jesus even more with my love story while waiting for the man He has for me! And I love your confidence Jackie. I pray to have this confidence and to stop doubting myself and my gifts. I also dream of being leaders with my future husband and being in ministry. Thank you for speaking life! And encouraging! And being so vulnerable and trusting us! What you did was wise . I’m encouraged that next time I date I will be vulnerable. I will open up. And will ask questions! Asking Him to heal my wound of rejection which makes it hard to open up and makes me want to put a perfect image out there. But that isn’t fair to the other person. Vulnerability is humility and I want that! ❤
CONGRATULATIONS!!! (Lance and Jackie) I'm happy for both of you. I felt you were a good, equally yoked match when I watched the video of Jackie introducing Lance as her boyfriend, so it's not a complete surprise to hear that you got married. It's exciting and encouraging to hear not only about how the GOoD Lord brought you together (Rev 3:7&8), but the ministry plans He has for you as a couple. The world needs more Godly examples of good marriages, the way God intended marriage to be, and yes, good Christian marriage counselors are needed as well, as the divorce rate among Christians is embarrassingly high. Thanks for sharing more of your story. Press on and up, in Christ Jesus, in His mighty name, for His ultimate glory (Phil 3:14, 4:13). Hallelujah and Amen!!!...☝️🙌👍👌💪♥️👑✝️🙏🙂
Congrats. I met someone at Church she felt like my soulmate but she is not forthcoming and has a lot of personal pain. It's sad because I think we have a connection and I felt like God was telling me to not give up on her. I even thought I heard satan telling me "she doesn't like you" and "she's just being nice". Sometimes when I talk to her she answers questions the same way I would answer almost using the same exact words. It's sad we may never be together unless a miracle happens. Today is her birthday and I'm sad I can't say Happy BIrthday to her and give her a hug. Please pray for her that her pain and sadness and past hurt is removed from her mind and heart.
Hi, congrats to both of you, I wanted to let you know, Jack. I.e. Have been watching your TH-cam channel for quite some time now. You have helped me through some hard times and inspired me and made me appreciate. The things that God has given to me. And now hes given you a husband I am very, very happy for you.
Congrats! I’ve been dating my gf for 8 months now and I want to propose to her, everything feels right but I’m not financially independent yet and it bothers me so much that if I did ask her I wouldn’t be able to provide the life she deserves. I pray everyday for guidance but I don’t know what to do…
@@vivaeuropa she made me wait 2 months and then said no. She never told me that she was autistic and couldn’t understand her own feelings at all so she didn’t want to waste anymore of my time since she didn’t think she’d ever be able to make a decision. Just as well, as my brother died a few weeks afterwards and I’ve shut myself off from everyone ever since. I guess everything really does happen for a reason…
Yeah, I had a feeling it was because of that. And I truly agree.
"But if they cannot control themselves, they shall go ahead and marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion."
1 Corinthians 7:9
Man of cult- Ahh-hem. I mean man of God.
@@Emmanuel-wh4hh I do not approve your mockery upon me. If anything, it should be atheism that you call a cult. For their religion is kind of foolish.
@@ericpratt984It was just a joke😑
@@Emmanuel-wh4hh Mmhm.
@@Emmanuel-wh4hha stupid joke
I got married after 3 months. I prayed and I had peace in my heart that is the right person. This is the 5th year since we got married and our second baby is 6 months. Grace to Lord.
Wow glory to God 🙏💕👏🏽
My husband and I went out for 6 weeks before getting married.
We’ve been married 47 years now
We prayed and knew we were meant to get married so we eloped
My daughter dated her husband 4 months and have been together 24 years now
It’s about hearing what God says and not well meaning friends and family!
He wants the best for us!
Me and my wife eloped and made some family members Pretty angry about that, but but 30 years later, we're still going strong🙂
Sadly, all of our friends that got married around the same time With big, fancy weddings, none Survived this test of time.
And Honey, to this day 30 years and four kids later The fire still burns hot...😁 so God knows what he's doing. Waiting is for suckers, LOL
Congratulations on A Wonderful Marriage. Praise Yahweh 🙏🏻
My parents were not saved when they got married. They were quite the opposite. They lived in Vegas, worked at casinos, dealing blackjack and craps. My dad went up to my mom’s table, hit on her they went out that night and got eloped 3 wks later in ‘79. Later in ‘88 ny dad got saved and my mom in ‘92. Had they not got saved, they would’ve been divorced. All praise & glory to our God. Married for 42 yrs until my dad passed
christ is the foundation of marriage, without him in marriage there's a large chance that won't work out.
"God knows your type more than you know your type" AMEN
This is the best sentence I heard today. Love it and will use it
@@GaboH-h7s
Psalm 139
O Lord, you have searched me and known me!
You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
you discern my thoughts from afar.
You search out my path and my lying down
and are acquainted with all my ways.
Even before a word is on my tongue,
behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.
You hem me in, behind and before,
and lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me;
it is high; I cannot attain it.
Where shall I go from your Spirit?
Or where shall I flee from your presence?
If I ascend to heaven, you are there!
If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!
If I take the wings of the morning
and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,
even there your hand shall lead me,
and your right hand shall hold me.
If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me,
and the light about me be night,”
even the darkness is not dark to you;
the night is bright as the day,
for darkness is as light with you.
For you formed my inward parts;
you knitted me together in my mother's womb.
I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.
Wonderful are your works;
my soul knows it very well.
My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
intricately woven in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes saw my unformed substance;
in your book were written, every one of them,
the days that were formed for me,
when as yet there was none of them.
My boy slid into the DMs in the name of Jesus!! Haha congrats guys
Hahaha 😆 he sure did. He definitely had luck on his side that day. You love to see it, tho
😂😂
I never post but this but dang😅
He was one of her viewers lol
😂😂
My wife and I got engaged after 1 week, married a month after that. That will be 27 years ago on August 23. Been one hell of a ride!!!! But we’re still going strong!!!
My grandparents dates for 3 months and were married. They were married for just a week short of 70 years when my Grandpa passed.
God brings the right people together. God bless your marriage in Jesus mighty name
Sadly, today there is Tooo many couples 2gether by their own ways, so they end divorced soon. Sad storyes. Peace with you.
“God does not send you confusion “ spoke to me so loudly ❤
I love how you both are so honest, open, accepting, respectful, and loving to each other.
Sooo glad for the both of you, for the godly love that He has given the two of you ❤️ for each other (because of the love that He has given each of you for Himself)
Unfortunately, it wasn't so for me and my wife, because of UNREPENTED sin in our hearts. Therefore we were among the foolish men and women who build their lives on the sand. . . things came crashing down,sad to say . . .
God has indeed given you a very precious wife Lance! 🙂 ❤
God has indeed given you a very precious husband Jackie! 🙂 ❤
I am sooo thankful to God for giving the two of you to each other 🙂🙂🙂
As far as marriage counseling goes there is a TREMENDOUS NEED for marriage counseling IN THE CHURCH.
Although we were attending a godly church we were married WITHOUT marriage counseling, so sad to say. - a BIG MISTAKE.
Anyway, keep loving ❤️ our God, keep loving ❤️ each other, and keep loving ❤️ others, in Jesus' name, Amen! 🙂 ❤️
I would like to talk to you two sometime. 🙂
Started dating a Christian man, within one week today we have been on three dates, I have told him I am celibate before marriage and he said 'you're gonna have to do better than that to scare me off' he's a keeper 😊 feels right, so happy. Looking forward to asking him more and more and vice versa...building the foundation 😊😊
Wonderful, i am happy for you! I hope everything turned out well for you!
any news? haha
Common now celibate after being railed by multiple people is not actually celibate. You are just deceiving him and having sex with your ex behind his back.
Update?
Amen! Finally someone who understands! Above all my husband and I prayed for each other. The holy spirit literally told me I’d marry him on the first day and I couldn’t believe it. But God knows who’s best for you! It seems these days it’s harder to find someone who understands this topic. We also asked and talked about evvvveryyything for the same reasons! We didn’t want to date to see where things would go but rather date to marry and have that goal of a lifetime together. My husband and I were engaged by 3 months and by 6 we were married. Now going on 6 years everyday we grow closer to God TOGETHER. It’s a beautiful thing to grow your nest from the ground up and with nothing but all the love and with the grace of God. I look forward to watching more content! God bless you guys ❤
Hi! Thanks for sharing this, how did the Holy Spirit tell you? Also did your husband also know you were the one?
@@naomigiselle8469 hi there and God bless you! To give you a little backstory I had been struggling with dating prior to meeting my husband. I remember being stood up and just walking home crying and asking God why? Why was it so hard to find a good man? Why was I being treated that way? Was there something wrong with me? Etc. I’ll never forget I fell to me knees when I got home and cried my heart out as I prayed. I felt in my spirit what was wrong. God told me I needed to fall in love with Him first before any man. And so that’s when things changed for me completely. I started to seek the Lord more and pray like crazy. I genuinely started to work on my relationship with God before anything else and whole heartedly trusting God that He would find the right man for me at the right time. That same year I met my husband at the the job I had at the time. We met in the break room and started to chat a bit. When I met him I remember thinking, “there’s something different about him.” As we said goodbye and parted ways I heard in my spirit, “you will marry that man.” 😳 I was like God I just met him this is crazy. Well little did I know I actually would lol. We ended up communicating on social media and well after several dates and so much talking we decided we both wanted something serious and above all put God first. I now know that at that time my husband was also praying for the right woman. You could say it’s a testimony. I don’t believe any one is perfect but I do believe God had the right person for you and we should pray on it. All marriages have struggles but when you’re equally yoked things are much easier. Like it was mentioned in the video when something is coming from the Lord, things just easily fit. Like how they’re families liked each other, for example. My advice to anyone is to pray pray pray and trust God. So sorry for the long message but I hope I explained myself. Much love and God bless!
We didn’t kiss for 6 weeks but we got married in 4 months. Lol. I pray this works out. And was Gods will.
WOOWWWWW, Congratulations guys. I'm so happy that you're married. 😊😊😊😊
Wow. Jackie, I prayed about this for you since I first saw one of your videos. I noticed you were young, well-knowledgable in the ways of God, beautiful, sharp, and intelligent. I prayed to the Lord for a godly guy for you. I am very happy for both of you. This is definitely from God and it has brought me much hope. Congratulations to both of you. Continue listening to the word of the Spirit and He will bless you beyond your expectations.
@@danilaroche1156 🙏
I feel the energy between you two. You guys belong with each other. God is good. Plz pray for me that i find my wife.
beautiful couple ☺️☺️☺️makes me so happy seeing how and when God brings people together he’s a good God.
Congratulations!
Other young couples these days tend to prolong the important stuff (like opening up about their past and sharing testimonies) cause they are culturally persuaded to be in a long engagement, but they are also rushing straight into physical intimacy. (Makes zero sense). You all did it the right way! Sharing your hearts, connecting spiritually and emotionally first! I pray that other couples will follow your example 🙏 ❤ God bless your marriage!
So happy for you two!! A beautiful story ...it's very hard to meet someone equally yoked to what we know is real truth and have a strong following and faith in Jesus...so happy to see this this new union through Christ!! CONGRATS!!
Man!!!!! I am SO happy y'all got married !!! This is incredible !!!!! 👰♀️🤵♂️ You're both GREAT teachers !!!
I'm super happy for you both. Sincerely!
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Congratulations .May God richly bless you both forever .in Jesus name Amen.
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Thank you for sharing together. It brought to mind so much of the time my wife and I had at getting to know each other back in 1978. We married in December 1980 and the Lord called her Home at the end of this last December. Part of my healing has been hearing other couples' stories and another part has been to give the younger couples at church an embrace and a blessing. So even though I can't reach out to embrace the two of you, I can still say may the Lord bless you two with a long meaningful life together. And Jackie, your messages are always an encouragement to me.
God bless you sir ❤ I'll be seeing you and you're wife in heaven one day 🙏 😊
God bless you..
Sorry for your lost.
God bless you!
I am crazy about this beautiful, Lord loving, Christ following, believing couple.
What a role model for everyone. Yes, finding someone who brings you closer to the Lord. 💗💗
I’m so happy for you guys. Ya’ll are just too cute together. I love it, and you can tell that this is a 100% God ordained marriage.
Congratulations to the both of You! My God bless your marriage with his amazing grace and loving kindness
Wow! I am happy for you guys. I pray that your marriage prospers! This makes me happy Jackie.
I talked everyday with a guy for 2 and half- 3 months. We had same opinions on everything : God, life, love, etc. I really believed he was the one because we were aligned. We shared intimate stories and deep thougts. We created emotions and love despite the distance. We litteraly never saw each other because he lives abroad and he couldnt come now to see me because of schedule but he promised to come in a year. But I recently I was desperate because I am ready to get married and he wants to wait 7 years or more to get married in order to achieve a career, wich doesnt really made sens to me. So we dont talk anymore because of that. I cannot understand why wedding and career cannot exist in the same time in his mind and I am older than him, I simply cannot wait 7-8 or more years for him, it would kill me inside and compromise my fertility. Please pray for me, pray for us, so we receive clarity and that I could move on if it is the right thing to do. Please. Aurélie
He would want to marry you soon if it was from God, 95% of the time. Read Passion and Purity be Elisabeth Elliot. They waited only because her husband was called to unreached people groups and felt he had to do it alone first.
,7 years , red flag😢
You already received clarity. He doesn't want to be married now and wants to wait seven years. The Bible said be impatient for nothing.
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He Sadly Was Playing her For Narcissistic Supply
I pray to the Lord to someday have a husband that stares at me the way your husband stares at you when you’re talking. ❤
Wow....I've seen this before and it just came up again on YT...the reason why I say this is I to met someone on Instagram and she's turning out to be quite special. She is a God-fearing woman of faith and just an amazing woman.
A grown man of 36 and ya got me teary eyed lol. That was a beautiful story! Thank you for sharing.
This video gave me hopes. Your husband looks like a great man, so calm and kind. When something is coming from the lord is PERFECT 😍
Blessings and love to you from Pakistan... please remember Christians from Pakistan as we are going through Very hard times for the last 2 weeks... 21 churches burned with 400 houses ...😢
Wow that’s awfull!!
Keeping you and Christina’s in your country in my prayer’s 🙏
In my prayers 🙏🏻
Prayers for my Christian neighbors
Praying for you
I’m very happy for you two! I agree with a FAST marriage if you both know you’ve been lead by God. My wife and I married after 2 months. 8 years married still! Praise God! Your love will grow over the years. Love is not necessary for each other at the beginning, only your love for Jesus is important!
Would if you don't have your own place yet?
Only go to cheap hotels at the very beginning. We never bought land and built a house until AFTER we were married! Don't spend ANY big money until AFTER marriage. And ONLY get married in the Philippines! And EVER allow her to become a U.S. Citizen!
@@foreignerescapestothephi-lj3ls I see. Understood. Sir, I have another question!
So if you're already married and still don't have a place.. how would you afford paying for a hotel daily?
This might be the most adorable video I have seen on YT in a while!!
Absolutely!!! We Knew! We married not to burn! Just had our 32 Anniversary WE both love Jesus! THE BEST EVER!!! GOD is soooooo good! It was hard to wait a month first kiss❤
This is amazing and adorable and you're both worth it. This was destiny, without a doubt.
*God's will*
Amen! My wife and I did the same thing. Very similar to our story. married 12 years and still serving the Lord.
So basically married because social media viewers If wasn't viral it wouldn't be loved
@@youngbenfranksinatra is my English so poor or did you sent negativity?
Why no diamonds?
Needed this video, God is playing 10000 ELO Chess with this one. So much conviction, wisdom and guidance. God bless y’all ❤😅
Amen to that! This honestly helps me a lot in my life on so many levels. Congratulations y’all! You have found the love the lord has made for you.❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏽✝️
This is beautiful. God’s love story is so good. Single and believing for a husband sent from God.
My mum and dad met and married within 5 months. I’ve always known it will be quick for me too. Thanks for sharing your testimony.
This is a marriage made in Heaven. Sooo happy for you both. And I believe it is important to meet real people in real life - not on Kettle of Fish. ❤❤❤✝️✝️
Lance and Jackie: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! If only I could send You a vocal note to express the enthousiasm I feel in my heart for hearing such a wonderful news, I would! May G-d BLESS you ABUNDANTLY and make this marriage a TREMENDOUS SUCCESS!! May HE give YOU the STRENGTH and WISDOM to overcome all adversity and to spread his message throughout the World!!!! AMEN!! 🎼🎶Glory to G od(×2), Glory to G od in the highest, and on earth, peace on earth , peace to people of good will!🎵
We got married after 3 months. We also eloped. 12 years and still going strong!
Woaw, you two are incredibly beautiful people! And yes he was a random guy in your comment section! 😄 I appreciate both of your honesty and transparency; truly an inspiration in finding true love 🙏 thank you for your testimony
you two will last forever happily bc you two are in love with the lord. congrats!
You're both so well-spoken...may the Lord keep the both of you in unity under His guidance.
I got married 5 months after meeting my husband. That was 7 years ago. I did not want to live together and have sex while being unmarried. I do have to say the biggest cons is not to know the other person as well because you haven’t met them 100%. It took a couple of years to adjust 😂, I don’t know if other couples that have married have felt the same way but this was my experience.
What I believe is that you both were ready in your own individual lives for a husband or wife and you were guided to each other. Very happy for you both. Congratulations! You deserve each other.
To be honest it’s very humbling to watch you talk about the struggle of dating while fulfilling God’s word and I wish you all the best in your journey . I see you’re both so committed you are now sharing your passion of making videos and I love the way your energies complement each other . It’s gonna be great seeing your content together. May this union be blessed in the name of Jesus! Amen!
So happy for you Jackie cause your husband seems to be seeing you through God’s filter and you Him.
HalleluYah! The Lord brought me here for a reason I am not confident in yet. My Apostle and Prophetess just got married almost a year and a half ago. She just wrote a book on "Waiting in Purpose" for singles, of course. A few women have approached, but nothing sticks. I keep seeing 222 (the lord speaks to me with numbers, this is not angel numbers), but I'm not sure if it's of increase within marriage or outside of that but, I love the testimony y'all and God bless you all.
I will pray for you too! Am so happy for you!! May God Almighty bless your union. God loves you two, he made you for each other!! God’s time is the best!! But I must say, this Guy is one of the most lucky guys on this earth to have a God fearing Woman for wife. Jackie is a proverb 31 woman!! Thank you Lord for this wonderful deed!!
I used to watch him before I came across you on TH-cam. I know he was waiting on his wife and I am so glad it's you!!!! What a blessing for you both. 🎉
Thanks for sharing....I pray God blesses and watches over you. God knows what He is doing!!
Congrats to the both of you! It’s important to keep certain things in private especially when your in love! I like how you guys naturally fell in love and truly support the lord in all his ways!🙏🏽
It makes me so happy seeing the two of you!
Confirmation from God is so important in marriage! I just did a video about marriage, remarriage and divorce and I can NOT agree with you more on that! Blessings to you both. You're such a beautiful couple! I pray your marriage, ministry and marriage counseling is blessed and fruitful.
Congratulations you guys, this is beautiful !!! May God continue to bless this union 🙌🏽💗
Aww congratulations!! ❤❤ God bless you both!!
Congratulations to you both. she's an exceptional beauty inside and out, Good job young man I'm from Michigan too Bloomfield. Keep going and serving the Lord . I'm engaged myself too and i really relate to you both as far as your testimonies on dating. I'm old enough to be both you father and really respect the example you all set for so many of our younger Christians.
Such a beautiful story thank you for sharing. I unfortunately was kicked out by my ex husband when my daughter was 6 months old. I married him when I was 18 and was went through hell until I turned 21. My little baby and I moved out of the state I was living in and back in with my mom. I prayed because I was so lonely and 2 months later I ran into an old friend from high school at orientation we stared off as friends. And he asked me out on a date. We lived together for four years he taught my daughter how to walk, and then we eventually married each other. I was just hesitant to get married again after coming from a physically, verbally abusive bipolar, manic ex husband. I’ve turned back to Christ and I’m hoping my husband has that same revelation. He’s helped me raise my daughter and been such a good blessing to my life. ❤ I hope my testimony can help other young women who choose to get married at a young age. Or if they marry someone mentally unstable. That Christ can walk you through it just trust and rely on him. ❤
You two seem so good for each other. The closer you get to the Lord, the closer you'll get to each other! That's how it works in my marriage, it's such a noticeable thing in our lives!
O Lord, bless their marriage, put a protective hedge about them as new roots are established as man and wife! In Jesus name, Amen 🙏 💖✝️
I am so very happy for you both! 3 months ago I perceived thoughts while viewing your marvelous videos...why is this woman single? And then it came to me that it is only a short time, and blam,.. here I witness the truth that was coming in to be. Lovely! I am so happy for you both as one in the unified ways of love and more it is really amazing your story and it brought tears to my eyes in joy over all that you both expressed. I Love it.
Wow Jackie! Ive been watching your videos for some time and I am so thankful that God gave you the right person. God bless both of you!
Congratulations to both of you! WOW WOW WOW phenomenal wisdom and advice! Every Christian couple needs to watch this video! I’m at 67 year old Christian man who has been married to my beautiful bride for 32 years! We have given the same advice to numerous couples throughout our marriage!👏👏👏
Congrats to you both may our lord bless you with all that you deserve!!🙏
Congratulations and thanks for sharing this video! I’m happy for you both!
I would totally be friends with y'all! Love your hearts for the Lord!!! So encouraging
This is such an encouragement to me. So glad the Lord brought such a man of God into your life Jackie. Better to marry than burn is so true. It has been a heavy burden in my life but the Lord purposed to withold this blessing from me. Of course this results in a daily struggle but it gives me joy to know of godly couples like yourselves who are like oases in this fallen world. God bless you both.
Always at His time and mostly He teaches us something.
God bless you.
@@_sky_blue_ Thank you for the kind words. Regrettably my time has passed and I now look to eternity with eager expectation. They say life is short and it is. Youth is even shorter. I always wanted to go through life with the wife of my youth. There is a very small window of time to find happiness.
@@Bob31415 In any case, I know that your words today helped me grasp something that I could not see before.
I invite you to take a look at Psalm 38, you will see that when He is severe with us, it is with the intention of helping us grow.
And just between you and me, it is a blessing when He pushes us to the limit, because no one realizes what it means when He ignores us.
Don't worry, He needs you for something and as I see things happening in the world, it won't be long until He makes it clear to you what you mean to Him
God's blessing
Wow! After 4 months? 😲 That's some kinda love story lol. It awesome you found someone and you basically did it through social media because it's not often that a guy can end up with a female content creator like that. I think it's important to note that we shouldn't rush into marriage and we should really take our time to know people and especially live with them before saying lets get married. More power to anyone out there in their dating choices. I just say be careful in your final decision. I wish you continued happiness with your husband tho Jackie.
You have no idea what God would've done for them to know that they didn't need to wait any longer. Isaac married his wife, probably the day they met (if I remember correctly). He was abraham's main offspring. Imagine how much was at stake for him, and he didn't waste any time before he married his wife. There are other examples as well
@bepreparedforwhatscoming4975 you have a great point. I'm not here to judge, by the way. It's just fascinating how people meet and end up together, you know. I'm glad Jackie is blessed with happiness 😊
@@GEORGIOARCADEi'm not judging you either, i'm just trying to help you understand.. you might be in the same position one day!
@bepreparedforwhatscoming4975 You're right, and I appreciate you taking the time to share your thoughts and explain things. That's why I was very careful in my wording because I wanted my comment to be positive.
@FoundSheep-AN I meant that it's not every day that guys meet a content creator, and it turns into a relationship. It's a fascinating thing, and I meant no harm in my comment.
What a awesome story! God has a path for each of us and it's great to see 2 amazing people brought together by God. God Bless you both on your future adventures.
God's timing 🙌 Not man's. Beautiful couple ❤ All of the trials you've both been through in your youth, you will be able to counsel so many. You are both on fire for God, and now that flame has been doubled 🔥🔥
Congratulations. I believe God brought you both together. Both of you serve the Lord individually and He will always be there to hear your partitions. Always keep Him in the center of your marriage and He will bless the union. Great to see He brought you to each other.
Congrats guys, your video has given me so much hope. I am going through a divorce right now because my wife was abusive to me and my kids. A long time ago I was told that God was going to bring me a Rebecca. This word is finally being made real to me in the hardest season of my life. But right now I am just fighting for my kids. Please pray for me and my 3 kids.
I will pray for you and your children. God hears our prayers 🙏 and answers in his perfect timing. . Always! Blessings .
@@kimmathe6701 thanks for your prayers, we have a final hearing on the 6th of September where I will have to tell the court all that I have learned that she did to my kids especially my son. It’s gonna be hard talking about these things but I pray God will give me boldness and confidence to do so.
He will.... Speak up@@heluvsya
May God protect both of you, congratulations!
Congratulations 🎉 equally yoked in Christ that means you both can pull from the strength of one another to further glorify our savior. I pray for your marriage and ministry to be strong and prosperous ❤
Wow congrats ⭐🌟🙏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾 hope god bless you guys marriage with abundance
Same here me and my husband eloped too we knew each other for 4 months prior 🥰 married for almost two years and have our little angel our daughter. I was done dating too when I met my husband. It was really interesting how the moment I let go of control God began working 🙏🏽💕
Lanceline, you’re my favorite celebrity couple. Thanks for sharing this exciting story, and thanks the both of you for the nuggets of wisdom you spoke ☺️
Wow! Thank you for your testimony!!! It brings me so much joy and hope :)
This is so on another level, I love it💗. I wish God may protect what you guys have started (marriage). Stay blessed🙌
Jackie, that you for having the guts to tell it like it is. Most Christians always have everything under control and don't and haven struggled with anything. They make you feel like there's something wrong with you. When in reality they are not honest with people. God bless you and your husband.
I am so happy for you! I found your videos last week, Jackie, and you are such an encouragement. It is wonderful to listen to you and feel directed by a true woman of God. Your videos compliment the wonderful guidance I’m receiving from my church.
I love you guys sooooo much 😭🙏🏻🙌 this makes me have hope. This makes me believe. This makes me trust Jesus even more with my love story while waiting for the man He has for me!
And I love your confidence Jackie. I pray to have this confidence and to stop doubting myself and my gifts. I also dream of being leaders with my future husband and being in ministry.
Thank you for speaking life! And encouraging! And being so vulnerable and trusting us!
What you did was wise .
I’m encouraged that next time I date I will be vulnerable. I will open up. And will ask questions! Asking Him to heal my wound of rejection which makes it hard to open up and makes me want to put a perfect image out there. But that isn’t fair to the other person.
Vulnerability is humility and I want that! ❤
Congrats cherubs!!!🎉 May your commitment stay strong and your ability to help inspire us all to stay true and faithful grow. ✝️
Jackie & Lance Are Amazing Together. God is Amazing .Thank You Jesus.
Give thanks fro the word!!!! I love what you did...how you did it and why you did it. All praise to God in Jesus name.🙏
CONGRATULATIONS!!! (Lance and Jackie)
I'm happy for both of you. I felt you were a good, equally yoked match when I watched the video of Jackie introducing Lance as her boyfriend, so it's not a complete surprise to hear that you got married.
It's exciting and encouraging to hear not only about how the GOoD Lord brought you together (Rev 3:7&8), but the ministry plans He has for you as a couple. The world needs more Godly examples of good marriages, the way God intended marriage to be, and yes, good Christian marriage counselors are needed as well, as the divorce rate among Christians is embarrassingly high.
Thanks for sharing more of your story. Press on and up, in Christ Jesus, in His mighty name, for His ultimate glory (Phil 3:14, 4:13). Hallelujah and Amen!!!...☝️🙌👍👌💪♥️👑✝️🙏🙂
Amen
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The world needs to know the truth about marriages.
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I am so happy for you both.
Love and blessings from Australia 🇦🇺
Congrats. I met someone at Church she felt like my soulmate but she is not forthcoming and has a lot of personal pain. It's sad because I think we have a connection and I felt like God was telling me to not give up on her. I even thought I heard satan telling me "she doesn't like you" and "she's just being nice". Sometimes when I talk to her she answers questions the same way I would answer almost using the same exact words. It's sad we may never be together unless a miracle happens. Today is her birthday and I'm sad I can't say Happy BIrthday to her and give her a hug. Please pray for her that her pain and sadness and past hurt is removed from her mind and heart.
I'll pray
Love you both together 🙏❤️ I can feel the harmony around you - so calming and peaceful 💫🥰 god bless you 🌼
Hi, congrats to both of you, I wanted to let you know, Jack. I.e. Have been watching your TH-cam channel for quite some time now. You have helped me through some hard times and inspired me and made me appreciate. The things that God has given to me. And now hes given you a husband I am very, very happy for you.
Congrats! I’ve been dating my gf for 8 months now and I want to propose to her, everything feels right but I’m not financially independent yet and it bothers me so much that if I did ask her I wouldn’t be able to provide the life she deserves. I pray everyday for guidance but I don’t know what to do…
Build together :) God will provide! Don’t let just that stop you!!
@@jackieVanTine_ Thanks Jackie, I’m gonna do it! Wish you both the best.
@Stuark54 What happened if you don't mind me asking?
@@vivaeuropa she made me wait 2 months and then said no. She never told me that she was autistic and couldn’t understand her own feelings at all so she didn’t want to waste anymore of my time since she didn’t think she’d ever be able to make a decision. Just as well, as my brother died a few weeks afterwards and I’ve shut myself off from everyone ever since. I guess everything really does happen for a reason…
@@Stuark54 😢
This was a beautiful story that truly gave me hope. May God continue to bless your union and ministry!! 🙏🏾🫶🏾
You two make my faith stronger. Thank you. And have a great and fruitful marriage. ❤
Congratulations Jackie I'm so happy for the both of you! God bless you and your husband in everything 🎉
Gorgeous couple. God bless you and may you remain in the rock as a matrimony forever.
Congratulations to both of you! 🎉🎊🎉🎊 May God use you both powerfully in his Kingdom to bring him glory by you both as a couple 🙏🏻
Congratulations! What a beautiful testimony of how God looks after us and bless us. May you have a long and fruitful marriage❤