Why You Shouldn’t Have Sex Outside Of Marriage From A Non-Virgin And Virgin’s Perspective 🤷‍♂️🤷‍♀️

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  • @jackieVanTine_
    @jackieVanTine_  หลายเดือนก่อน

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  • @franciscocampana7187
    @franciscocampana7187 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    I am 25, and thanks to God I havent lost my virginity. But ironically as you say the world praises exactly the opposite, and we live in times where people dont even value saving oneself for marriage anymore. But even virgins struggle with temptations, so I pray I can remain celibate and marry one day with someone like me.
    Thank you for posting the video, I pray for you to have a great and Godly marriage.

    • @philemonrandy4572
      @philemonrandy4572 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hi

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If Matthew 19:10-11 applies too you can be one 144k male virgins.

    • @stephenhowe4107
      @stephenhowe4107 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      So? I am 62 and I have not lost my virginity, God, so far, has not provided anyone.

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stephenhowe4107 well if u do find someone make sure they don't believe in the Trinity or oneness doctrine

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@stephenhowe4107 and make sure the man never married b4

  • @Johnny_Colorado
    @Johnny_Colorado ปีที่แล้ว +224

    My sister has been diagnosed with lung cancer. She is young, and has two babies. Can you guys please pray for God to heal her?

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +61

      yes Johny! I am so sorry you're going through this... keep praying over her and encouraging her in the Lord!

    • @crocodilestantv734
      @crocodilestantv734 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      ✝️💯🙏Father God We Ask For A Miraculous Healing and Deliverance From this cancer that our Sister In Christ is suffering with In Jesus Name We Pray Amen and Amen 🙏 💯✝️

    • @Johnny_Colorado
      @Johnny_Colorado ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! @@jackieVanTine_

    • @Johnny_Colorado
      @Johnny_Colorado ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! @@crocodilestantv734

    • @cassagnolleonidasjr.461
      @cassagnolleonidasjr.461 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Father God in Heaven, Creator of all things, Holy Father of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ, may Your healing Hands be on this sister battling cancer. May Your Strength uplift her in Jesus’ Name. Help us, dear Father, to be prayerful and trusting in Your Will, in the Name of Jesus Christ. Amen.
      Stay strong with His Strength.

  • @chaithanyababbu6021
    @chaithanyababbu6021 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    While Jackie told about her past Lance was comforting her. The love between you two is good God bless you both..

  • @EternalDestiny48
    @EternalDestiny48 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Thank you both for your openness and vulnerability. May Christ bless and protect you both

  • @theghostofmrcow1985
    @theghostofmrcow1985 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I lost my virginity when i was 27 years old. And was in a relationship for 6 years,from year 2013 tru 2019. Been single every since,never married and no children. Please pray for me that God will send me a wife that would seek first the kingdom of God with me.😊😊😊🙏🙏🙏

    • @soundcheck2k7
      @soundcheck2k7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Are you preparing yourself to Biblically become the husband God wants you to be? Do you have issues with lust/porn? That can hold back the blessing

  • @likenl4508
    @likenl4508 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    As someone who has been married for 9 years, just another piece of advice. Please don't just marry anyone just to avoid fornication. You should love the person also and want to marry them. I know believers who have married not knowing each other very well and just hurried and got married and they end up resenting one another and divorced. The excitement of sex with a person goes away and if you marry for that reason and that's the only thing that was holding you both together, if that was the only foundation then that's gonna be one tough marriage that might end in divorce. Make sure you love the person

    • @pamm2652
      @pamm2652 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      They talked full about it in another video. They were already to a point of knowing they wanted to get married. So instead of a normal year engagement, they decide it would be easier to just get married.

  • @thelittlebeanbeanbean566
    @thelittlebeanbeanbean566 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    i love how open and honest you both are. you are so relatable to people our age. thank you

  • @Capybara2240
    @Capybara2240 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    5:30 that was wholesome when he comforted you for speaking about your childhood trauma. God bless y’all

  • @GEORGIOARCADE
    @GEORGIOARCADE ปีที่แล้ว +44

    It's weird, when I first tried to watch your video; I had no sound but 2 ads and now I can actually hear you 😄 I'm glad God allowed me to hear the good message you and your husband had to share. I always felt that I wanted a serious relationship before sex came in the picture. I always felt weird about having that without a genuine loving connection from a woman. I'm still a virgin by choice but I try to be careful not to fall into bad temptations but it's not easy. Thanks for encouraging us with your perspectives. God bless you 🙏🏼💫

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Wow God bless you brother! Be proud of yourself for keeping yourself pure :) God sure is !!!!

    • @GEORGIOARCADE
      @GEORGIOARCADE ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jackieVanTine_ Thank you so much! I appreciate the kind encouraging words 😊🙏🏼💫

  • @gumdrop4869
    @gumdrop4869 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jackies face cracks me up during this all she is so expressive haha love this video thanks guys!!

  • @thesciencekid3546
    @thesciencekid3546 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    You have made me realize, I have a purpose in life and to better mankind even in the smallest way just like you 2 are making a remarkably positive change. The vibration of my thoughts increase when I see your videos. Thank you! ❤❤

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      So glad that we could minister to you!! God bless you science kid 😊

  • @Mr-pn2eh
    @Mr-pn2eh ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Still a virgin and will be vigilant about abstinence until marriage.
    I pray that the lady that God brings to me is also a virgin.

    • @gabrielaj2066
      @gabrielaj2066 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen for her to also be a virgin for you!!

    • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin
      @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Amen but as long as she a Christian is what really matters she could of been out there in the world before being a Christian but as long as she is with God everything will go on well

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Even if she’s not, don’t discriminate brother :) the blood of Jesus washes her clean!

    • @gabrielaj2066
      @gabrielaj2066 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@jackieVanTine_ don’t confuse discrimination with preference.

    • @tonyknoweverything1764
      @tonyknoweverything1764 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@gabrielaj2066Truth

  • @knightsatin
    @knightsatin ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Thank you Lance and Jackie for sharing your experiences. I have been on my own now for 4 years and by God's grace alone it's all good. May the Lord bless you both abundantly 🙏

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God bless you too :) He loves your gratitude!!!

  • @gregwatson2607
    @gregwatson2607 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I've had my heart broken several times.. I knew better and was raised better, but rebelled against how I was brought up. None was ever the same after my first love, but I kept on having sex outside of marriage. Looking back I should have married her and done it all right, but hindsight is 20 20. Glad yall found each other, God has someone for me, but now I'm 41 years old and single and waiting on the right woman this time. I'd rather be alone than with the wrong one.

  • @elevate408
    @elevate408 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you guys. I needed to hear this and for being so vulnerable as to tell your story. God Bless your marriage and ministry.

  • @StaticBlaster
    @StaticBlaster 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Jackie, I’m deeply saddened to hear about your past experience. It’s truly heartbreaking that you had to endure such a thing. No one should ever have to go through that. Please know that justice has a way of prevailing, and those who do wrong will face their consequences. My thoughts are with you. I'm really glad you found Lance. He seems like a really nice, respectful guy. May you both share a life filled with happiness as you grow old together.

  • @ddascola01
    @ddascola01 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is a fantastic video Jackie! Congratulations Lance on finding an amazing woman of God! And congratulations to you both and it makes me really choked up with joy to see the two of you together, and to know that you are glorifying the Lord as a married couple and that you are instructing others in the ways of righteousness!
    There's no question in my mind that the Lord has great plans for the two of you in Christian ministry and I am praying for you both even now!

  • @yahudahintrudahtruetribeof7639
    @yahudahintrudahtruetribeof7639 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🫂🙌🏽🙌🏽 Amen sir and ma'am. You are definitely some of the few that have pulled threw with it and held on for the right way with the right person. May the Lord bless you bless you and bless you.

  • @cassagnolleonidasjr.461
    @cassagnolleonidasjr.461 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Preach! I too, struggled with my porn and masturbation sins. 1 Cor. 13:11 This past weekend helped me understand during this season of singleness I’m working on making myself pure and training my flesh with the help of the Spirit for my future godly wife in Jesus’ Name. Thank you Lance and thank you Jackie for sharing your past experiences and teaching the consequences of following those sins while learning the rewards of remaining virtuous and diligent. God bless you both!

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cassagnolleonidasjr.461 1 John 3 KJV.

  • @rmnpvlyk
    @rmnpvlyk ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Wow, I have the same situation with my lady. And I'm truly so happy for you two. Can't wait for babies

  • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin
    @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Thank you for this video it was great I am a 17 year old who is still a virgin and I pray God keep me a virgin until I get married can y’all pray for me cause y’all know it’s very hard to remain a virgin in these times especially how my family now will be pressuring me to get a girl have sex and everything and God told me I will go through a lot of temptations when it comes to girls but ik God got me and I won’t fold u til marriage this is an encouragement especially lance story keep it up

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      May the Lord keep you and draw you deep into His presence and keep you unspotted from the world. Keep reading His Word and meditating on it brother :)

    • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin
      @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jackieVanTine_ amen thanks

    • @sol_di_14
      @sol_di_14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I hope the best for you ❤ it's a wise decision you're making and it will probably be hard but worth it

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@ZxAMobile this happens because a lot of women don't submit to their husband how God ordained it. Genesis 3:16-17
      King James Version
      16 Unto the woman he said, I will greatly multiply thy sorrow and thy conception; in sorrow thou shalt bring forth children; and thy desire shall be to thy husband, and he shall rule over thee.
      17 And unto Adam he said, Because thou hast hearkened unto the voice of thy wife, and hast eaten of the tree, of which I commanded thee, saying, Thou shalt not eat of it: cursed is the ground for thy sake; in sorrow shalt thou eat of it all the days of thy life;

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@ZxAMobile tell me more about the pickup community what is it ?

  • @liteswitvh
    @liteswitvh 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You two are so happy, and so cute together. 😢 Two beautiful Christians. Thank you for your ministry.

  • @americantopgunner5102
    @americantopgunner5102 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    There are spiritual consequences to physical sin. After being healed and cleansed by God my ex came over to tempt me and we did not have sex but regardless we had a few seconds of intimate closeness and I heard a voice say stop. I kicked her out!! The next morning I woke up and seen two faces with lit up eyes saying theirs tryig to enter me I was being attacked spiritually!! My body and emotions were manipulated!! I had to declare my authority in Jesus Christ name!! I declared war on the demons! The sword of God will strike you down demons. I went thru warefare immediately after being healed and called by God. Keep ur eyes ears and mouth clean otherwise Lust will tempt you!!! She your healed if u sin u can open another doorway for demons to enter in u or tempt from the outside. I also can’t watch tv or listen to music I’m hyper sensitive in the spirit. Holy spirit let’s me know. It’s hits me in my chest I feel it in my spirit!

  • @elijahcarfa3022
    @elijahcarfa3022 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You both have my utmost respect!
    I totally agree with everything you say and you motivate me to stay strong.

  • @jgj930
    @jgj930 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for sharing your testimonies!! Much appreciated for those of us enjoying the single stage of life! God’s way is always the best way.

  • @treverpettersson2082
    @treverpettersson2082 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If someone would’ve explained to me what a soul tie was way before I went down the path that I went on, I would’ve stayed a virgin.
    However, I’m living in grace, currently enrolled in medical counseling, continuously reading the word, and each day is getting better than the last. There’s a lot that I’m going through, but God is walking with me.

    • @Servant44
      @Servant44 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      A virgin is someone that does not have a husband, or a wife for a man
      ‭‭Leviticus‬ ‭21:3‬ ‭KJV‬‬
      [3] and for his sister [a virgin,] that is nigh unto him, which [hath had no husband;] for her may he be defiled.

  • @ismaelrojas5291
    @ismaelrojas5291 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Blessings Lance and Jackie, you both work very well sharing honest and truthful realities most are not willing to confront head on, I appreciate you both❤️😊, continue reaching out to younger people who are struggling with such issues, God bless and keep in prayer🙏 everyone suffering in the Middle East conflict, may God deliver Israel from terrorist

  • @kentower
    @kentower ปีที่แล้ว +2

    what you say about soul ties makes sense. Wish I had heard this earlier. You two are cool, bless you!

  • @igboyaalale6145
    @igboyaalale6145 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THANK YOU, VAN TINE COUPLE! I really appreciate how calmly and peacefully, Lance explains things! I wish you a very happy and long life together as a couple!

  • @twuntsworth7203
    @twuntsworth7203 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hey! Love you both and God bless. Thank you for being so open. Im sure people will look down but like Jesus said, "let he who is without sin cast the first stone".
    Thank you for being so open.
    The only thing i'd add is that its also impulsiveness and inpatients (is that even a word, lol?) .. a lack of patience. People normally endup with somesort of "chance" to throw away their virginity and as its easy and they lack patience they go for it. But wide is the gate..
    Its so incredibly easy to be fooled nowadays with so mamy snake oil salesmen around on the internet pushing their lies. And its very hard to hear an alternative because people like you two wont be pushed by the algorithm. But i respect what you do and i really appreciate you both talking about such a sensative topic because no one else does. People are all too "perfect" or "proodish" to talk about it. So its great to see videos like this because it means that people can see another side to life, honestly. They can find answers.
    And that is our job basically lol. To bare whitness to and share the truth. Not a subjective truth or sense of morality like so many people seem to cling to. Truth comes from our father and we share it. I love what you both do. God bless and keep up the great work.
    P.s.. sorry for the long message haha, sort of a thought train type of text. Anyways, God bless.
    (My autocorrect has decided to leave me.. lol)

  • @Princess29-y9k
    @Princess29-y9k 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    She is saying the truth. I learnt my own lessons in a very hard way. Sex out of marriage brings nothing but lots of trouble if you are not lucky enough. I am a single mom and this circumstance has thaught me to trust in God and wait on him...though we always run to God after we had gone through pain amd hurt. But God is a merciful and a forgiving and he is so kind to accept us back after been disobedience to his words and plans for our life.

  • @Veera9999
    @Veera9999 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You both inspire many people in the USA, God bless you abundantly, 🙏 .

  • @lukemurphy6244
    @lukemurphy6244 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good for you guys. I hope you have a beautiful family.
    God Bless Your Union.

  • @justin-dr6sx
    @justin-dr6sx ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Excellent video you two! May God bless you forever.

  • @adambrooks6580
    @adambrooks6580 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Good bless you both..I'm 39 and haven't had sex in a good while but I've decided I want to stay single..I don't want kids and I kinda feel that naturally you should only have sex if you are married and want to have kids..unless I find a woman that wants to abstain from sex then I will stay single

    • @adambrooks6580
      @adambrooks6580 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@FoundSheep-AN thanks for the advice, much appreciated

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That’s okay :)

  • @paintotheworld8445
    @paintotheworld8445 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you guys so much for this advice guys I love how vulnerable you guys are I will definitely take your wise counsel and wait for marriage

  • @smokeandmirrors-pk6ic
    @smokeandmirrors-pk6ic ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m still a virgin and I’m waiting for my wife 🙏Lords timing is always perfect ⏰

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes it is :) TRUST !

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Study your king James bible God word in English and read it as is.

    • @sol_di_14
      @sol_di_14 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Congratulations!

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Matthew 19:10-12 KJV. If that applies to you you can be Rev 14.

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      144k in Revelation are male virgins.

  • @Worick_
    @Worick_ ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm not a virgin but i'm stopping myself having anymore sex. I always feel a bit weird afterward

    • @anettetorres3716
      @anettetorres3716 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      The bible says that even when we don't know Jesus the law Moses is written in our hearts, I believe that that weirdness is guilt knowing that you have sinned only because we decided to believe the lies of the enemy and be tempted by lust. Remember that by you're own willpower you won't be able to stop yourself from sinning and it's normal because we are in the flesh and we are humans, but remember to call onto the Lord and he will save you james 4:7 therefore submit yourselves to the Lord, resist the devil, and he shall flee, God bless you❤

    • @CalledUntoHoliness
      @CalledUntoHoliness 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen. The Spirit of the Lord gives us ppwer over sin (Romans 8:3-14),(Galatians 5:16-23).@@anettetorres3716

  • @grace1672
    @grace1672 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You guys are so sweet together this brought me to tears 😢❤ God bless your marriage in Jesus name🤍🙏🏽🥹

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You can't remarry God word doesn't allow women to do that.

  • @lorainyunus
    @lorainyunus ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you sister Jackie and brother Lance for such an important video
    I pray that this video reaches out to millions and that many are saved 🙏
    God bless you both ❤
    Love you sis Jackie and brother Lance ❤❤

  • @simon-pierreseppou5818
    @simon-pierreseppou5818 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you both for your testimonies, God bless you both abundantly🙏🏽🙏🏽
    While listening on Lance's part, I could relate on so many things, and many questions came up in my mind- which I would like to ask him/the couple...
    I don't know if I should here in the comments section...

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You can email me at miajacquelinda22@gmail.com and we can answer your questions through there! Blessings :)

  • @PhillDrakeEntertainment
    @PhillDrakeEntertainment 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Wonderful video, I practice abstinency from porn and masturbation to be able to meet a proper woman one day and get married. You both are so at ease very enjoying to listen to you both.

  • @caribbeankpoplover
    @caribbeankpoplover 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much for sharing this! I’m 27 turning 28 and sometimes feel a bit hopeless and weary. But hearing people’s testimonies helps so much 🙏🏾❤

  • @taismedeiros9582
    @taismedeiros9582 29 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I love you guys ministry 🥰 may the Lord bless you and your home.

  • @resoluton
    @resoluton ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Lance is righteous, thats why eve ate the apple. God is the way.

  • @BibleIsLife
    @BibleIsLife ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Woww I didn't know you're the wife of Lance. I've been listening to him for some time. You both are individually such great man and woman of God 🙏🏼

  • @michaelwiebe4282
    @michaelwiebe4282 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Great video, I'm waiting till marriage

    • @kopronko
      @kopronko ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Don't be blindly-Naive , to think, that in the marriage there can not be a fornication !!! ! !!! Because, Toooo Many Times it gets even Much Worse than in some Very Blessed Realtionships where The True Marriage Is In The Spouses's Hearts , and even if it is Not written onto some material paper !!! ! !!! Peace with you.

    • @victoriaedejor5405
      @victoriaedejor5405 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@kopronko and don't be blindly naive to think that someone who is obedient with God in the waiting, will also be obedient in respecting their marriage!

    • @WoziduranJahemter
      @WoziduranJahemter ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kopronko awesomely said!

  • @MultiBaggerInvesting
    @MultiBaggerInvesting 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My wife and I rushed into it when I was 22. Married a cougar at 25. She was in good shape and I was a very hormonal young man to say the least. Three kids later though, a home and white picket fence.

  • @nathanthedisciple
    @nathanthedisciple ปีที่แล้ว +2

    GOD BLESS YOU BOTH! 🫶🏾

  • @random88667
    @random88667 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    you can see how her husband's deeply in love with her. He seems pretty chill too i wish i had a friend like him.

    • @enriquebaena8222
      @enriquebaena8222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      O well, you 'llfind some one 💗🤠💐🎄🆗💟😜

    • @MetaMurse
      @MetaMurse 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Do you think it looks reciprocated back?

  • @EndTimesEric
    @EndTimesEric ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very true. I’ve got a lot of respect for you guys! God bless

  • @WhyGod7.0
    @WhyGod7.0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you both for sharing! I never been married I turn 40 in 1 month from today and I been single for 2 years after an abusive relationship. I slept with over 80 women in my past which I’m disgusted by but by the help of the Holy Spirit I haven’t touched a women in 2 years and I’m waiting until I’m married to my Godly wife God sends me. I trust in God and I obey him. God is so Good! I have times I’m lonely and would love to have my wife now but I know and trust God is aligning it up at the perfect time cause his timing is perfect! God bless you guys so happy to see GOD joining Godly couples! ✝️❤️🙏

    • @WhyGod7.0
      @WhyGod7.0 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@danilaroche1156 2 years later i still am a little salty even after praying for her. I think I’m salty cause she’s done remarried and I truly thought God sent her to me to be my wife and somehow I’m still healing from being with a narcissist. I got Jesus so all good just wanted to share that! If you could pray for me to be able to completely move on and find my godly wife I’d appreciate it! I’ve healed so much just can’t get completely over how I got done been trying. The trauma and soul tie is/was real. Thanks again! Trust me I’ve prayed so much in this! I’m tired of not being able to get her out of my head.

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Your supposed to lead the woman so just make sure she'll listen to God word. And cover her hair

    • @marisoltorres3
      @marisoltorres3 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Just don't watch p**n while your waiting

  • @happydog4929
    @happydog4929 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God is love.
    Thank you for the work you do.

  • @MeekoRuiz
    @MeekoRuiz ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I carry my Wife on my hip!
    When my enemies approach I load my clip!!

  • @cletodavid4875
    @cletodavid4875 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    War ongoing... My heart broken.. Pray for peace 😢

  • @deathclaws5946
    @deathclaws5946 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank God,for Jackie from the day that she spoke about the topic of lust because I've seen it in past when I met with the wrong people.

  • @city_by_the_bay7769
    @city_by_the_bay7769 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I disagree about women being more emotional when it comes to sex. I know and seen plenty of women who will have sex with other men like its nothing without any kind of attachment. If anything, the roles have been reserved. Men seek relationship while women are on to the next like it's nothing.

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Like I said, it’s case by case, I’m just speaking in general :)

    • @jeffwhatley2634
      @jeffwhatley2634 ปีที่แล้ว

      The Bible is correct.
      All is vanity.
      Mirror, mirror, on the wall...
      ...who is fairest of them all?
      Eve.
      The most beautiful creation that God ever made.
      An absolute stunner. A temptation that could not be resisted.
      Seeing is believing.
      In the 21st century, Eve is showing us everything.
      The women i've encountered go through men faster than a pack of smokes.
      My ex hung me out to dry. Took all my money...and my son.
      And I have many male friends who have had similar experiences.
      These are men who believe in a Higher Power. They believe in LOVE.
      They may not seek God at all times...but they seek love...genuine love.
      But the Eve's of this world have made it into their playground.
      Eve forgot God completely, she now only believes in money and pricey real-estate.
      Where did all these women get the idea that they could OWN the planet?
      I thought God owned the planet.
      Am I misinformed?
      The world has always been Eve's vanity project.
      It's about time the Truth gets told.
      Hang in there, Jackie.
      There is always more to the picture than meets the eye.
      Vaya con Dios.
      @@jackieVanTine_

    • @lucasshill8780
      @lucasshill8780 ปีที่แล้ว

      Generally women DO need an emotional connection to have sex with someone. I would have to completely disagree with you here 😭

    • @boazadventures
      @boazadventures ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I know what you are saying, but that is when they are allready broken. Imagene you put tape on a object, you pull it off and you put it on another object. You repeat that again and again and again... but after 8 times the tape doesn't stick anymore.
      Thats what happend to those women. They got heartbroken by the first couple of guys but continued having sex with diferend guys and now their ability to bond with someone is damaged. Those are the kind of women who end up divorced.
      What Jackie said is true in general.

    • @jeffwhatley2634
      @jeffwhatley2634 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Perhaps...
      It is a case by case basis.
      It is strange though...
      All these men (and women) looking for love.
      Not God...love.
      Jesus went into the desert looking for God.
      He wasn't seeking a relationship.
      So if God IS Love, what did Jesus find?
      Not just for himself, but for everybody?
      Wasn't it the Love of God?
      He rejected the world, Satan, in the desert.
      He threw away any chance at romance.
      Jesus...dies a virgin.
      ...he gave it all back to God...and still...
      ...no girlfriend.
      It's a pity.
      It really is.
      God is Love.
      ...Jesus can be a tough act to follow.
      Can we just let Jesus do Jesus?
      Jesus loves only God, I get it.
      ...but didn't it start with a man and a woman?
      Must all the men live like monks?
      Did that really work for the Catholics?
      Anyway, ignore me. I am on a fool's errand.
      Men should keep their hands to themselves.
      This must be what God wants.
      For years on end...touch no one.
      At all. Ever.
      Jesus dies at thirty-three.
      Celibacy is easy for Jesus.
      I guess the path is extremely narrow.
      Don't expect any female companionship.
      i quit expecting that years ago.
      Vaya con Dios.
      @@boazadventures

  • @jonathanquinlan999
    @jonathanquinlan999 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wish I saw this video sooner than later. I wasted my virginity on someone I thought I was going TO marry, I wish I lost it after marriage. I realized how much God was protecting me from that, despite my porn addiction I had and insecurities since I didn’t have sex at the time. Because of the unfortunate experience, God is now working me slowly. I will be one year porn free after 10+ years in July and I’m now over two months not masturbating. God is so good!!! Put Him above your own needs, and He will do the rest!

  • @mathewsjohn5934
    @mathewsjohn5934 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm 32 this year and still a virgin and single !

  • @chokmah3926
    @chokmah3926 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for being vulnerable,❤ you guys teach me a lot

  • @OneWingedShark
    @OneWingedShark 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    @LanceVanTine
    Thank you both for sharing your stories, they're really encouraging.
    I'm over 40, still a virgin, and sometimes it's really, really hard… besides the temptation, there's also the feeling of "Do you have anything for me, God?" and the (obviously incorrect) "Scripture says 'he who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtains favor from the Lord'… I haven't 'found a wife', so God is showing disfavor."
    On the topic of pursuing, one thing that's been discouraging for me is encountering rejection over multiple, mutually exclusive things (e.g.) pursuing is "creepy", not pursuing is "passive", etc; this is especially irksome WRT integration into theological life-view: "God will bring someone into your life" is kind of passive, with pursuing coming off as not trusting God - in some real sense, it feels like I'm presented with a no-win, "[whatever you do,] you lose" situation -that's obviously incorrect, given the nature of love [1 Cor 13], but James 4:2 says "ye have not because ye ask not", implying that your own actions are part of the calculus, and that your prayers prayed/unprayed actually matter.
    There's a woman God brought into my life a while ago (she's out of state now), which I want and think I heard God say 'yes' to (the ability to "hear what I want" makes me cautious), but in order for _that_ to come about several miracles need to happen, which is OK because God is a God of miracles - I want so badly that (a) I should love her like Jesus, as per Eph 5:25, (b) that I should be able to show her off and say "Jesus is the God who hears prayers, and cares about our wants and desires; see, he gave me the woman I asked for by name!", and (c) she's backslidden right now, and was rather dismissive of prayer, and I want to be able to whisper in her ear "No, you are the answer to my prayers" when she gets into that make-themselves-unlovable funk that it seems women are prone to, (d) obviously after she turns back to Jesus.
    Please pray for me, but even more please pray for her: to return to Jesus… I want her saved even more than I want to be able to "win her heart". (Obviously the bible requires believers to have believing spouses, so it's prerequisite in that case.)

  • @carolineawada9556
    @carolineawada9556 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Jackieee!! My beautiful sister in Christ! If I don't meet you here on earth, I can't wait to meet you in Heaven!!:D you're such a beautiful soul and a beautiful friend of Jesus🥰 and God bless you both abundantly!!! Praise God 🙏✝️💪

  • @annnimo
    @annnimo ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi dear am so glad to hear this n am in Africa with your brother,he also has the same kind of thinking he has changed to a good person.He told me how he was long ago n now he is different.

  • @plmelody1276
    @plmelody1276 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ps, what do u think of 1 Corinth 1:1-16?.. Woman needing to be covered before the Lord, for the Man is their “Head” and Christ is “Man’s Head” and God is “Christ’s Head”
    Jews still wear head caps for reasons… but this says the woman should wear it? (Her hair is long for it is her cover), but a man’s hair is short for it reveals his glory to God!
    Also 1 Corinth 14:34-39… Woman should remain silent in church and ask their husband if not understood the Word of God?… after talking of gifts of tongues and prophecy and that it is for building church.
    Why does nobody talk about these verses?…

    • @tbrg1965
      @tbrg1965 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are speaking about the truth of headship; which most churches have left by the side, claiming it was simply a cultural aspect of the times when Paul wrote the epistles. That in itself is largely connected to why divorce is so prevalent in the churches of North America. Studying it carefully with intention to seek out the truth will revel that the truth of headship indicates the man is submitted to God, and accountable for his family. The wife is also submitted to God, but as a result of this submission, the wife submits to here husband to honor the Lord. The head covering is a physical representation of this, that is in the context of the local gathering of the church before the Lord. The verse that has led to much interpretation is 1st Corinthians 11:16. In the King James you will read this following the summation about head coverings: "But if any man be contentious, we have no such custom, neither do the churches of God." This has led many to believe it is an optional aspect of being obedient in church worship and gathering. When you read the New Living Translation, as well as some other more recent translations from the original rtexts, you will find this: "But if anyone wants to argue about this, I simply say that we have no OTHER custom than this, and neither do God's other churches. (NLT.) This shows that following this in obedience is a requiremnt of a "Church of God." which leaves me to believe that many churches are simply churches of men, and thier own practices.

  • @GamingPhilosophy30
    @GamingPhilosophy30 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Havent been to this channel in a while but congrats on your marriage!

  • @SpaceMan-f6d
    @SpaceMan-f6d ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You look great together and you fit each other. I wouldn't be brave enough to talk about sex and my intimacy openly in public. Anyways, it's smart what you're saying. Amen!

  • @bibleprophecyEzekiel33
    @bibleprophecyEzekiel33 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you Father for these two wonderful preachers. I thanked God during prayer earlier for connecting me with sister (in Christ) Jackie and receiving the prayers from her through their deliverance but I'm glad I now have the opportunity to also Thank You Both Online. You are such an AMAZING couple! You're right Jackie, "God knows your type more than you know your type."
    Glory Only in the Lord ✨
    "For you see your calling, brethren, that not many wise according to the flesh, not many mighty, not many noble, are called. But God has chosen the foolish things of the world to put to shame the wise, and God has chosen the weak things of the world to put to shame the things which are mighty; and the base things of the world and the things which are despised God has chosen, and the things which are not, to bring to nothing the things that are, that no flesh should glory in His presence. But of Him you are in Christ Jesus, who became for us wisdom from God-and righteousness and sanctification and redemption- that, as it is written, “He who glories, let him glory in the Lord.” 1 Corinthians 18:26-31.

  • @annabevilacqua8192
    @annabevilacqua8192 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing! God bless you!

  • @Tribal_Christian
    @Tribal_Christian ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Amen🙏. God Bless You.

  • @verccety1
    @verccety1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Blessed is he whose transgressions are forgiven, whose sins are covered. Blessed is the man whose sin the LORD does not count against him, in whose spirit there is no deceit.

  • @nini.123
    @nini.123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    God bless you my brother and sister in Christ! The Lord mightily uses us, His children in spite of our regrets, past sins and mistakes for his greater glory. Praise be to our Father, our Redeemer, our Living God in Christ Jesus, may the Lord surround you with his abounding grace and favor. The Lord loves you and I love you both!🤍

  • @lizettelopezGodislove
    @lizettelopezGodislove หลายเดือนก่อน

    God Bless you both, thank you so much for this video ❤

  • @NROhvac
    @NROhvac ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless you two thank you for this

  • @unbornharbor
    @unbornharbor 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Wow I love you guys!

  • @AP86777
    @AP86777 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow, Jackie, been through that also. God bless you. Looking for the right man of God. ❤

    • @DeleiteDelCorazonDeCristo
      @DeleiteDelCorazonDeCristo 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi, I wanted to share these warnings:
      Matthew 12:32 and Mark 3:20-30, talk about an UNFORGIVABLE sin. For example, calling something false when it's actually from the Holy Spirit (an apostle, a prophet, a teacher, a pastor, praying in tongues, a word etc). Another example: Keeping the Day of Rest or the diet laws in the Bible is FROM THE HOLY SPIRIT and many call this doctrine false or of the devil. That's BLASPHEMY AGAINST THE HOLY SPIRIT. UNFORGIVABLE SIN. Not saying you committed it but a warning rather. Also, There are "people" with CORRUPT GENETICS. They look like people but aren't
      There are NEPHILIM among us.
      There are people are mating with these and don't know.
      In the days of Noah (as we see in Genesis 6) there were NEPHILIM/FALLEN CREATURES because of the women sleeping with angels.
      1 Enoch 19:2.
      "And the women of the angels who went astray will become sirens."
      Meaning that they became one and there is NO FORGIVENESS because salvation is only for mankind. So it is happening today. Many in lust, homosexuality, fornication, etc ended up copulating with the nephilims unknowingly and THERE IS NO FORGIVENESS. FLEE FROM ALL SIN AND OBVIOUSLY DON'T MARRY THESE.
      There's nothing new under the sun (Ecclesiastes 1:9).This also happens with IVF, IUI, FERTILITY TREATMENTS and being a circuit (giving your body to carry someone else's child), as they would swap the eggs for strange seed, from the nephilim and there's NO FORGIVENESS for it. Bestiality is also UNFORGIVABLE. NEVER MERGE YOURSELF WITH TECHNOLOGY BECAUSE THERE IS NO FORGIVENESS, JESUS DIDN'T DIE FOR MACHINES.I hope my English is understandable (it's not my first language). We need to give our lives fully to God and need Him to reveal these things to us and protect us. Look up "The Master's Voice Prophecy Blog." Remember to stay prayerful always because we need to be prepared for these times we are in. Jesus is the Way, the Truth and the Life. Have a blessed day, Jesus loves u

  • @SonN-PAml
    @SonN-PAml ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am glad that you both are loving and care for each other by the love of God that's in you both. True love is not an easily way to get or see, sometime true loving sitting right Infront of you. But you are completely blind or not knowing. Wish you both having a last long lovely couple.

  • @adityashrivastava8498
    @adityashrivastava8498 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You both look great together.

  • @randyellison602
    @randyellison602 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is a great topic thank you both for sharing this. I will wait on the Lord for a Godly partner. Blessings to both of you.

  • @nerizehenning
    @nerizehenning ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much for sharing.

  • @toml.8210
    @toml.8210 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I won't criticize Jackie for what happened. She went through a lot of what I saw in college, and she was blessed enough to get out of it and get things right.

  • @arcaneknight9799
    @arcaneknight9799 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Likelihood of divorce becomes much higher as sexual partners before marriage become higher than 0 or 1.

  • @toml.8210
    @toml.8210 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'd like the blessing of attracting a lovely friend from another state.
    We seem to have a lot in common, including our faith, so we think there is something there for us, and we'd like to spend time together to explore that, and maybe god will bless us with marriage.
    In the meantime,the enemy is tempting me with thoughts of intimacy, and sometimes it's really overwhelming, after seeing some photos of my lovely friend.

  • @plmelody1276
    @plmelody1276 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Haven’t watched yet, but I’ve learned something important recently.
    Agape: Love of God, unconditional, self-sacrificing, etc. (Also a love we can have; a Godly love for fellow Christians AND sinners for whom your heart desires to find Christ!)
    Eros: desires of the sexual, flesh etc.seeking the fulfillment of the heart, only feeling at peace when having physical contact with other gender…
    Also arousal even when simply tingling someone’s back, even if for a small moment, it’s not okay! One should actively deny this!
    If you let it happen, you allow it… thus you sin already…
    “For it is better for a man not to touch a woman”
    And ofc the verse you guys had “it is better to marry if you can’t keep your hands off eachother”
    This actually includes any kind of sexual contact as I’ve learned recently…
    At marriage u say: “U may kiss the Bride.”
    That’s when Eros is awakened for the first time ever if done accordingly to the Law of God! ~

  • @ahl8229
    @ahl8229 ปีที่แล้ว

    This was so special and held so much healing for so many people Jackie and Lance! Thank you for your openness and vulnerability, you guys are such a special anointed, Spirit filled couple and am so excited to see what the Lord is doing and is going to do and has planned for you both! God bless you guys and keep on pressing on toward the upward calling in Christ Jesus our Lord! Love and appreciate you both for your faithfulness in obeying Christ and speaking His Words of Truth even though its hard at times, a special blessing awaits you guys that you get a foretaste of now and will enjoy in its fullness together in Eternity! Hallelujah! Glory to The Lamb!
    and Amen!:-))❤️‍🔥
    -stayten

  • @justustrurainboe6304
    @justustrurainboe6304 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks, God bless all, amen

  • @tbrg1965
    @tbrg1965 ปีที่แล้ว

    I agree. I was not saved until I was 31, even though I was raised in a Christian home. I did not save myself, and lived recklessly in this area up until I was saved in 2010. I have been waiting on the Lord ever since, but in hindsight, I wish I hadn't done the things I did. It makes the war of the mind a constant battle. Anyone who still has the chance to avoid heartache and spiritual struggles, is well advised to wait and be blessed.

  • @vUngbay510
    @vUngbay510 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You couple are so match and adorable 😁

  • @valentinadallas
    @valentinadallas ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are so inspirational, when i feel
    Like giving up from all the wrongful persecution by my own family , the isolation and the evil thrown my way for speaking truth and refusing to sell my soul as a nurse and push wicked perverse agendas on innocent kids , when I feel like my FAith is shaking n hope is lost and the loneliness eats me up , i Turn u
    Guys on and I feel Holy Spirit moving through you , May god continue to bless u guys , all glory praise and honor to the most high speaking through you both , u guys have most amazing inspiring testimony

  • @LaneKelly-c7g
    @LaneKelly-c7g หลายเดือนก่อน

    Not every one is intended for marriage lane Kelly

  • @Gizmologist_
    @Gizmologist_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    3:27. Jackie's eyes say everything

    • @Gizmologist_
      @Gizmologist_ 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      3:38 Vengeance kicks in

  • @Just_in_Christ7
    @Just_in_Christ7 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great example brother

  • @yungali760
    @yungali760 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you so much my brother and sister. ❤️❤️❤️🔥🔥🔥.

  • @Thehumblejosh
    @Thehumblejosh ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Incredible video

  • @selohcin
    @selohcin ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am very worried that I keep seeing this non-biblical concept of "Soul Ties" repeatedly being proclaimed by so-called Christian influencers. There is absolutely nothing in the Bible that suggests this. This is a New Age concept that has been artificially brought over into Christianity. Please!! If you're going to preach or teach others, teach only what is in the Bible!

    • @84themosthigh
      @84themosthigh 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You is lame for that yo😂

    • @GJH3735
      @GJH3735 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      No it’s not a new age thing..when you have sex you are literally creating a covenant and intertwining your souls..have you not noticed in the Old Testament where they speak about “knowing” your husband or wife? They had sex and they “knew” their wife. The literal act of having sex made them married. Just as it does today. That’s why sex is designed for marriage your soul is going to desire that person once you become intimate with them. People go around sleeping with all these people and you open yourself up to the demons that are in their souls as well..

    • @mother4413
      @mother4413 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The bible says that your souls become one after marriage. It references this while saying when your flesh comes together your souls will as well. It is a logical conclusion that outside of marriage you will still be somewhat tied to a person because of Gods design of this soul tie. This is the biggest consequence of sex outside of marriage. It is not new ageism.

    • @selohcin
      @selohcin 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mother4413 No, the Bible does not say that. You are making stuff up and claiming that your words are God's words. Shame on you. Repent.

    • @mother4413
      @mother4413 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@selohcin “Do you not know that he who unites himself with a prostitute is one with her in body? For it is said, ‘The two will become one flesh’” (1 Corinthians 6:16). I need to correct myself here; The bible does not talk about a soul connection but a strong bodily connection which of course can take a toll on your soul and your spirit. Because the body is ruled by its head. I did not mean to represent the bible by using the word soul ties but wanted to explain this concept in man-made terms.

  • @lingkenfiliteku3950
    @lingkenfiliteku3950 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you

  • @themistics6954
    @themistics6954 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm 18.
    I don't loose virginity.
    But many people from my place and country already had loose it before me
    I came to jesus at 15, but i could loose virginity at 12-13 if my ex crush let me.
    But that never happend.

    • @nathanmccumber8965
      @nathanmccumber8965 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Good keep it up. Study king James bible God word in English

  • @junjunsay93
    @junjunsay93 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm really trying to reconnect with God, but I'm just way broken right know. Wife living with another man, had a baby with him, and still married to me. I had sex with other woman's just to not feel the pain. I wasn't a good husband, because i didn't give her the attention she deserved, and can't forgive myself. Im just in a hole without exit

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Pray and Ask God to forgive you.
      Confess your sins to God and he shall forgive you.
      Ask him to grant you the ability to repent.
      Pray that your wife returns to you.

    • @DsLmaNiaC
      @DsLmaNiaC ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is not solely on you though. She has her part as being responsible for what happened. And the way of dealing with things is not the optimal from what you are saying.
      Everyday we can be better. Try to do that and learn from your mistakes and you can cure yourself and meet someone that will be just better for you.

    • @Mr-pn2eh
      @Mr-pn2eh ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ​​@@DsLmaNiaCthat's why I told him to pray for his wife.
      It's a sin to get remarried if his wife is still alive.
      Now if his wife died, then he can get remarried. I'm in no way saying that he should kill his wife, but if his wife doesn't come back to him, he needs to wait until his wife dies.

    • @jackieVanTine_
      @jackieVanTine_  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Seek the Lord brother…. God cares about your pain… trust in Him. And give yourself in prayer pour out your complaint before Him!

    • @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin
      @Annoitedpastorlewiswalkin ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hallelujah repent of your sins and may God bless you amen

  • @LaneKelly-c7g
    @LaneKelly-c7g หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm not having sex outside of marriage and not. Ment for marriage and made for singleness lane Kelly

  • @tritzispoosa
    @tritzispoosa 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We have to FLEE FORNICATION . Run run run run away. from it …….RUN