Good analysis madam. In my own family the photos of childhood and adolent and student times were happy, pleasent, lovely. Not that those days we we were rich. Just lower middle class life. But still more happy memories thand difficulties. Now well educated, excellent earnings, arranged marrages but the same faces are unhappy many a days. The daughters in law, sons in law enterd in to our families also had many such happy photos in their child hood and young age. Where the smiles have gone ,who stole those happy facis. That too when they have sufficient bank balance. I blame parents from both the sides for their over control and interference. The un necessar fears of these parents cayses havoc in the families of our childreb. The second reason the egoistic nature of the wife or husband or wife or both. The fight for control and upmanship. Mind these are all well educated couples. Third one is adamant attitude, grudge like attitudes which wiped off happiness from their faces. For very simple and common issues temperament raises, B.P raises body language changes and only hatred against each ovet flows. Is marrage is necessary. Is it only a licence for fulfilling your lustful desires. Do these youngesters capable of solving many problems in their profession can not reason and apply logic in rheir houses? Marrage system lost its value and purpose. I am talking of this problem with people who maintain character, and had unblemished conduct. No affairs, no extra mortial connection. But it is sad they are unable know the power of happiness in their lives. The vagabonds, street romeos who least cared for values are perhaps less stressed couples.
Good analysis madam. In my own family the photos of childhood and adolent and student times were happy, pleasent, lovely. Not that those days we we were rich. Just lower middle class life. But still more happy memories thand difficulties. Now well educated, excellent earnings, arranged marrages but the same faces are unhappy many a days. The daughters in law, sons in law enterd in to our families also had many such happy photos in their child hood and young age. Where the smiles have gone ,who stole those happy facis. That too when they have sufficient bank balance. I blame parents from both the sides for their over control and interference. The un necessar fears of these parents cayses havoc in the families of our childreb. The second reason the egoistic nature of the wife or husband or wife or both. The fight for control and upmanship. Mind these are all well educated couples. Third one is adamant attitude, grudge like attitudes which wiped off happiness from their faces. For very simple and common issues temperament raises, B.P raises body language changes and only hatred against each ovet flows. Is marrage is necessary. Is it only a licence for fulfilling your lustful desires. Do these youngesters capable of solving many problems in their profession can not reason and apply logic in rheir houses? Marrage system lost its value and purpose. I am talking of this problem with people who maintain character, and had unblemished conduct. No affairs, no extra mortial connection. But it is sad they are unable know the power of happiness in their lives. The vagabonds, street romeos who least cared for values are perhaps less stressed couples.
Evari evaru emi karu amma only darma ante awasram unte ne ani