Yes, recently a female school teacher file false rape case on his own student in Indore. When that boy went to file a police case, the female police officer at the police station was saying, give me 3 lakhs to close the case Otherwise I will put you in jail. Then that boy did not have money so he committed suicide.
Our schools and families should stop gender discrimination. Movies should start promoting civic sense.Directors can make movies by showing male and female as good friends and stop the romance stereotypes between them going on since 1960's.please come out of the stone age mentality India🙏
I am 30 year old , still don't have any girl as friend , bcz in school we were told not speak to them . College was also boys only no interaction there . Now I don't even have a courage to speak any girl other than my cousins and mother.
@@IyengarAaditya just go out and talk :-( nah, your are going to get 11:34 if your not a handsome and rich (example are on deepika bhardwaj channel) 11:48 *EVERY TIME! EVERY DAY, THE REAL R APE CASES* happen in India. when we discuss about women issue we need to talk about FC, because *THE REAL R APE CASES* and *THE REAL VICTIMS (womens)* got affected by that. Also, men but, don't worry about men because there is a no law in india, if men got r ape or he found innocent after fc. But, atleast think about real victims *womens* who got affected by these false cases AND DIDN'T GET JUSTICE.
just before watching this video, a short appeared in my fyp in which a man was doing disgusting gestures towards a woman in public transport and she recorded and posted it as evidence that how she encountered this situation and what many women go through, but still a guy was giving justification of that man by saying "that guy is just a paid actor, u prolly asked him to do those gestures" like wow the audacity of men to never accept that how much men do wrong to women whenever they get a chance, there was another video I watched few days ago in which a woman was shouting on a guy for groping her and men were still saying "she needs to calm tf down", some men were even spamming R word in comments against that girl and called her women ☕ for standing up against that guy, these are the same men who would talk against women who actually give consent but at the same time they leave their houses only with intention of groping women just to check if she is easy going who gets impressed so they proceed with their ill intentions, but when a girl starts to make sound she is still blamed for standing up against it
@@Anime_Animation_Illustration Could be a reality but I feel not,laws are made not to punish the offenders but to safekeep the peace. It's common sense to have laws.
This mentality of females can never be r apists is EXACTLY why karma is punishing your gender, half of your gender are r apists and the other half protects them. Always a FEMALE protecting a FEMALE r apist
@@BibekKapali-vr8bo Yes ofc ur Fault. Nobody cares about u! People only Love Cute Cat (Girl) not Ugly Chicken (Boy) Your Worth is as Long as you can Feed them.
@@Kilallfemales we live in a patriarchy and if you're willing, we can have a polite and respectful debate on this edit: or actually never mind. your username is 'killallfemales' and your pfp states that men have authority over women. its clear you're just a raging misogynist.
@@Shreya...1 that's because 3-5% of them are harassing 96-97% of women. On paper 3-5 percent sound small but the population of India is very high that's why there are alot of them but still not most or all of them. Some states have more cases and some states have less cases depending upon the crime prone states. UTs have enforcement and are civilised that's why they are safe (except Delhi) like the safe countries.
Ask your friend mum or sister' how many times they were harass, stalked or creep on by men aged 15 to 65 some of the। Were relatives too@@VAIBHAVMALHOTRA19
@@Xoxososowi marital r ape doesn't exist , it's a fictional thing, but men still get jailed for it, It's another con to silence male victims and save female r apists. Basically Your kind is so privileged equality feels like oppression to you.
Wdym anti male laws ? Are laws made against dowry harassment , rape , sexual abuse etc etc anti male ?? No they're not anti" male" itd be anti male , only if your FREEDOM gets confiscated, is anything like that happening to u ? I do get that men also face such problems in the society and I absolutely want laws that'd help them get justice, but the laws that are already existing, are just there to help victims not all women , now you might pull the fake cases are 99% , but actually only 27 % of cases actually get reported , and also about alimony , well marry a woman who's independent and has dignity , she wouldn't even want a grain of salt from them
@@Xoxososowi I don't think so, can you give any proves? Not denying your argument, just asking for a source because last I checked it was a punishable offense.
@@wildyato3737 Not the OP, but I'm referring to the comments section. Men getting triggered at "not all men, but always a man" phrase and then coming up with justifications to the crime, mostly with whataboutery.
@@squ34ky r/whoosh I honestly doubt those men understood the phrase in the first instance. Statistically speaking, almost entirely the perpetrators of SA have been men (and this is just for those which have been reported; gives quite a bleak picture of the true number). And let's not forget how deeply patriarchal Indian society (and by extension, South Asia) is.
Rape is rape. It's evil. Whether rapists are men or women. Things I disagree with saying not all men but always a men. Men rape cases always get ignored by everyone including police, society, and politicians. For the equal part, we are not even the same thing. it's like comparing a cow with a bull. No one is beneath anyone and both have their own place in the world. I am scared of talking to women and unable to get over this fear cause of the extreme abuse done to me by my mother. I respect women and men both but trying to talk to women is still a scary thing for me. I heard on a video where a rapist/pedophile said, if women have a strong father, brother, and male friends then he will not go near her. For daughters, go out with your father. For wives, go out with your husband. For sisters, go out with your brothers. This will not just keep you safe but also tell that you are considering them part of your trust circle. Make men strong and this can stop. We should talk about fake rape cases. Also talks about women harassing an another women. Also, women raping women.
Sorry to hear what you've gone through because of your mother mistreating you. But now, that should help you realize women who get mistreated by their fathers, their brothers, their extended family members, their male coworkers and superiors... and imagine their fear now. And the atrocities that have made the news with Kolkata and Badlapur have just worsened their fear, and it wouldn't be wrong to say "always a man" because, let's be honest, out of a 100 of such cases which manage to get reported, more than 95 of these are committed by men. All I'm asking is to put yourself in their shoes to realize the point, which will make it easier with your trauma (hopefully). It's not the time to trivialize the issue for your personal point, but to understand what causes such crimes, and what can be done to prevent them from happening again. The hospital incident should be something to introspect the society.
@@diablow1411bro, he is not wrong there. Sexual assault against men are ignkred, specially in India. There is a reason why Indian Judiciary doesnt have something related to r@pe against men or smthng. If something happens to a man, even the police will say,"Man up". So lets not try to ignore his point. Rape is rape whether it is against men or women.
@@diablow1411 not 95% but 100% of R@pist are Men. U know why? Bcoz as per Law: If u are a Women & u incert a Iron Rod or Bottle in the Pvt. Part of Man or Woman. It won't be considered as R@pe. U won't be even jailed, coz there is no Law. As per Law is't just a Prank that's why u'll never hear Women R@pist. What about Woman harassing Woman? What about Woman harassing Man? What about Woman making False Allegation?
@@diablow1411 not 95%, 100% of R@pist are Men. U know why? Bcoz as per Law: If u are a Women & u incert a Iron Rod or Bottle in the Pvt. Part of Man or Woman. It won't be considered as R@pe. U won't be even jailed, coz there is no Law. As per Law is't just a Prank that's why u'll never hear Women R@pist. What about Woman harassing Woman? What about Woman harassing Man? What about Woman making False Allegation?
I’m so proud of you for making this. And proud of the efforts you put in the research. I truly wish atleast 10, if not more of the men viewing this video learn to empathise.
People don't understand when we say 'Not all men, but always a man'. Firstly, when we talk about abuse on women, we didn't start saying 'all men do this', we talked about 'men' as there's a large amount of people who do this. And it's not just about rape, but the little things that we face every single day like those creepy glances and unwanted touches in public and in a lot of cases, these kind of things come from family members themselves. So we don't really know whom to trust properly. We have to keep our guards high cause almost every woman has faced some kind of harassment or the other and we don't know who are the good ones and who won't be faking it. I'm not saying that the women who blame "all men" are correct, it's definitely not all men and women too can be perpetrators, it's just we see whose cases are higher. It's a psychological fear that sits on us. So even if a man may not understand what we want to say, you can be sympathetic. We don't have similar experiences (in the larger picture) but we still can be empathetic to each other and try to understand where almost 50% of the population is coming from.
I get why people say 'not all men but always a man,' and it’s true that we need to tackle the serious problem of violence and harassment. But let’s be real... blaming all men for the actions of some doesn’t help anyone. It just creates more division and pushes away those who genuinely want to help make a difference. Instead of pointing fingers at an entire gender, why not focus on how we can all work together to make things better? The truth is, we need everyone... men included to stand up against violence and support those who’ve been affected. Creating change isn’t about tearing people down, it’s about building a better world together. Even though It's true that statistically, many of these terrible acts are committed by men, and that's a reality we need to face. But here's the thing when we frame it as 'always a man,' it can feel like we're painting all men with the same brush, even the ones who are actively working to combat this behavior.If the goal is to create a safer society, we need to bring more people into the conversation, not push them away. The focus should be on holding those accountable who actually commit these acts, while also encouraging and supporting those who are allies in this fight. Blaming all men doesn’t solve the problem but it just creates more division, and that’s not going to get us anywhere. Let’s direct our energy toward real solutions and keep the conversation open. We can call out bad behavior without assuming every man is a potential threat. So yeah, let’s call out the bad behavior when we see it, but let’s also recognize that not every man is the enemy. We’re all in this together, and we’ll only make progress if we stop blaming and start working side by side.
Probably the reason why people talk about fake rape cases when real rape happens is because this is the time when people atleast give a response even if in a small way. If people keep talking about fake rape cases then many people would be like why are you still talking about this same topic. That's the irony
As a woman i don't understand the 'not all men' phrase. I feel that most of the men do not commit crimes when they are part of a society because that may take away their reputation and honor that they have in a society/community. But they always need constant ego massage and the need to feel superior by asserting 'Women(with a laugh)' or 'she won't be able to do this work,etc.' But once they find women in isolated places or away from their society , they find the opportunity to commit atrocities against women. It is important for the men to develop compassion towards everyone not just women but even animals and other men in the society. View people as people . Stop dehumanising by calling women 'Ghar ki laxmi' ,etc.
if every man does that when ever they find a chance then the world would have been much worse place, a man who loves him woman will not do any harm execpt those who are toxic who might do that but not all ...a few number of men will be toxic, say all will be like that is inaccurate
@@nikolatesla399 i understand that only a few are toxic , but these cases have scared women and we dont know how to spot good ones . Sad state of affairs.
@@shlokshivhare3356 that is what men like you are doing just pinpointing whether one is feminist or not .But instead try developing empathy. If a woman is surrounded by good men and if she is alone at night , she will still be scared for life even if she is the strongest. These cases have led to viewing everyone as a perpetrator.
@@Samiksha_W I'll be honest with you last time and don't disturb me again, good men genuinely have no respect and girls genuinely prefer to isolate them than to talk with them, the criminals who are actually guilty are supported by political parties who are supported by feminists, these so called "feminists " are pointing all their fingers to men instead of blaming criminals and corrupt politicians, and please don't ask me to support any girl (I have been ignored, isolated and ghosted by them just because I was being friendly) , I don't ask to have sympathy with me I am just asking you to not expect any sympathy from me and fight them alone because "all men are guilty " so don't ask "men" for support women
Very nice and information video I wish everyone should watch ur video The moral values should be thought in every school and family. The psychological condition of men being superior to women should be treated.
@@diablow1411 for what ? I've never raped a woman, never had any rapist desires, never looked at women in a wing way. Hence I don't know how the mind of a rapist work. What wrong did I say ? Atleast understand first
" a man never needs to give consent, its always a yes, men are hungry for it " always?? is it true? i am a man, men are bound with social and moral values too. a white paper when gets dirty, the dirt shows as the unique identity of it, let whatever size it be,
if a man says NO then it means there is very unlikely that he is going to get r@ped by women and his body is going to be found in an assaulted condition, ask yourself, have u ever been groped by women in public transport? have u ever felt yourself vulnerable at night that maybe a woman is following u who can harm u??
@@SnehashisNaskar-s8g mere bhae , mein ne ek video dekhee thee jis mein ek larka bata raha tha k jab vo 10 saal ka thaa uss k saath 18 saal ki larki ne kuch galat kiya, lekn comments mein sirf larkian hee uss k saaath sympathesize ker rahee thee bajaye ye kehne k "not all women " aur un larkion k reply section mein kuch mard keh rahay they "tum bhee mere saath vo ker lo mein mind nahi kerun gaa" and jo larka apna experience share ker raha thaa ussko mard hee "gay" bol rahay they because he didn't like her touch, ab khud batao jab aisee soch rakhnay valay mard hon ge toh society kya sochay gee mardon k baray mein??
Totally agree. I would like to say to all women that try to carry a taser. Taser, is a handheld device that incapacitates a person temporarily by transmitting a 50,000-volt electric shock.
indian public transports have "women helpline " and "children helpline" , can u tell why do men not have that helpline, because they are the reasons why those helplines are needed in first place, women and children are at risk
@@dhinaggarrajahcr6318 have u ever felt scared at night that a woman might be near u who can harm u? Have u ever seen a woman doing disgusting gestures to u when u r in public transport? Have u ever heard of a man not feeling safe in his work place because of pervert women?
@@dhinaggarrajahcr6318 u didn't answer my question though, why is there no helpline for men? Tell me, if they are really vulnerable then how come they don't have any safety measures and women and children are having safety measures , and it is already too obvious that who is the reason behind it
@@unsaali4201idk if you are dumb or someone who is living in the past. R@pe against men happen in India. There is no such thing as r@pe against men in our judiciqry, not because we dont need it, but because nobody gives a fuck about men in India. You wanna know why? POLITICS. In order to cater someone's need, the gov completely ignores the other side. Even if they do make some laws regarding it, the so calked Feminists and opposition will go on a strike and say this and that and what not. (U know.. the patriahy things and all..) Idk how someone coukd be this delusional.🙄
So much sense. ..it's system that privilege certain section over other ..it's just simple reason but still resist ..nobody is accusing men individually ..it's recognition of group that enjoy power with respect to others .but its not easy for powerful group to give their privileges and being accountable ..
Sure Rape jokes are offensive but to say that they are one of the causes of assaults is unheard of . I truly believe there is a deeper problem in our society as even today subjects related to sex are considered taboo . And it all comes down to the education system as well, as you mentioned the differential between boys and girls in school ,I could not really relate to that as in schools I've studied , had no such problems, which again shows the disparity in the type of education different people go through , most bad a few good . So again its a much deeper problem than jokes . I believe the problem lies in the content we watch , porn usage( India has always been one of the top consumers) Lack of discussion among with parents/adults , old oppressive "Traditions" and like you said Victim blaming or " Taali ek haath se nahi bachti"
@@biratbhowmick7291 Looks matter but not so much The real reason is that people can harass small boys without much consequences but if they do it with a small girl then they might get in trouble Also you should refrain from using such words as they make the matter look a little less serious
@@biratbhowmick7291it's real men get raped too..but who rape them?? It's about the mentality of the rapists which mostly are men and not the gender of the victim..
My Takes - 1. Politics 80 % rape cases are filed in which political people are responsible - Directly or Indirectly 2. Lack of Proper Education . 3. Lack of Law and Order 4 . the case in kolkata was not a reason of debate between Not all men or But its Men . Thats a case of one woman lone trying to go against the bad things happening in hospital for ages Like Inlegal Organ Selling etc . there are multiple cases against that hospital . Many men and women dies when they tried to go against authority . Politics are also included in that . Mens Kills Mens , Mens kills Womens too but killing womens in horrible way is Disgusting . Lastly i Mention Only one thing Blaming or Defending Mens in Social Media is just a content that goes for few weeks but i Know if we had Good Political System Cases would have been minimal , Same with old believes in some Religion .
Good video, straight to the point and well balance. I also really appreciate that you mentioned fake/false rape cases as well. There are a few things I would like to add: 1) Rapist under the use of drugs/alcohol: There is an increase in the usage of drugs/alcohol in India, especially in Tamil Nadu with their stupid TASMAC. This will definitely affect the person to commit crimes even rape. 2) Religious and inter-caste related violence: Love Jihad, and lower cast men targeting Brahmin girls. This is something that is happening in Tamil Nadu and Kerala and needs to get more attention. We need to do more to stop these kind of genocide. 3) Corruption and People of power/money are getting away with any form of crime including rape. 4) More function CCTV in public spaces and people need to start installing door security camera on their doorstep. This will definitely reduce any form of crime. 5) More Police officers. USA has more police per population than India and crimes need to be recorded digitally.
That's Because of reproduction aren't you see women as a fellow human women is not an animal even animals don't behave like this with their female partner's
@Off Angle by Aaditya Iyengar I was absolutely stunned when I learned the statistics in India-a rape occurs every 16 minutes. I was truly shocked. Equally disturbing was hearing about the prevalence of female infanticide. It’s hard to ignore the conclusion, though some may disagree, that this is deeply rooted in the cultural norms of India, where women are often seen as the property of men and considered inferior. This dynamic fosters the dominance that many men in India exert over women. It’s a cultural issue and one that will be difficult to dismantle. In my experience studying the Indian community, while there are many remarkable aspects of India and its people, the persistence of the caste system (which is often claimed to no longer exist) and the blatant disrespect towards women-sometimes even deciding at birth whether they should live-suggests that India is still grappling with its colonial and cultural history. It has yet to fully embrace a future where women are seen not as possessions, but as equals and partners.
I agree with the video though , my point usually is , sure one can "all men" but then dont be a hypocrite and also say "all muslims" when it comes to terrorism cuz if you cannot follow the same lvl of moral in all scenarios then dont do it at all 😊
By saying "always a man", u are dismissing the existence of female pedophiles and rapists altogether. Our law arrests a 12 yr old boy who was molested by a 17 yr old girl. 15 yr old boy gets arrested cuz he "promised marriage" to a 24 yr old female pedo. What exactly do u have say about that? Sure i agree with what u have to say. But saying that it's "always a man", when there are so many strories of men getting molested/assaulted by women? It's a disingenuous and dismissive, don't u think? I bet u will have that one person (men or women) in ur circle, who will laugh at a F on M assault
@@roach3498 No side is completely innocent and no one person can be used as an example to determine the true nature of either of the sides. I cant say the all men are r@pists because of a crime by only one or a group of men, and the same cant be said about women either. 🤷♂️
Firstly when you say" always a Man "then you are simply Ignoring all those cases where women Sexually assault or Rape someone specially kids ,Mothers sisters ,Aunts name any Relation who haven't Sexually Assulted or Raped a Minor of all ages so This argument is null and void Also you said have Empathy towards women ok i don't have any problem with that but do women have empathy for men ? If a Rape Happens i am ready to take stand for women but not if you will call me Rapist ,there are 1000s of Men protesting for Victim when women say "All men " it includes them too and thats the problem if they will keep spewing venom against men the number of such men will keep Decreasing ,like you can notice something Similar to this Earlier if women used to accuse someone people used to support her but now as no of Fake cases are increasing people have stopped blindly supporting women and now ask for proof or want to listen to other side too ,so now if a woman is saying truth but she don't have any proof no one will support her which wasn't case Earlier Same will happen if women will keep Abusing men and all other things like Abusing laws ,playing victim card and all some men who are now helping will stop too cause no one wants to be called as Rapist being uncomfortable because of a Stranger isn't wrong even men can feel it but when your whole twitter and Insta account is filled with announcing how all men are Rapist or how only men commit crimes its not right then and we can't empathize with you then
@@henggaraed No my point of bringing Fake cases is that people have now started to not trust women so if a woman have been SA no one will believe her easily which wasn't case earlier but since fake allegations are now Increasing people have started to not believe them it is a very visible change in Society plus no of Women who Does Domestic abuse ,SA and Rape to specially Kids are very high they just get unnoticed due to societal norms and all but is very evident in number Plus as you said what will be proof of SA than that was my point there isn't people just used trust women but since all these fake allegations no one believes them now Rape can still be proved Plus one more point is Women call men Incel who talk about men's rights and all and just all the problems men face .I never saw protests for any male victims like a guys GF chopped his penis and flushed it there are thousands of cases like these never saw any protest instead you will be mocked that these cases are in Trace amount and how women suffer more you are Incel and all but expect men to stand with them in these cases ,my point was if they will keep doing it Men will stop helping here too
@@henggaraed "how a minute fraction of reported rape cases is fake." 22,300 Case are Fake. Is this a Small No.? Or False R@pe Allegation a Joke? R@p causes Lifetime Trauma, but everyone around her feels Empathy, Tries to Compensate, Comforts her & give her Solace. While in case of False Allegation the Innocent Man faces - Lifetime Trauma Reputation & Modesty Destroyed for Lifetime His Career Over Social Boycott People Bully him & Taunt him Family Faces Humiliation Father loses Job Friends Leave him Alone What about them??
@@henggaraed "how a minute fraction of reported rape cases is fake." 22,300 Case are Fake. Is this a Small No.? Or False R@pe Allegation a Joke? R@p causes Lifetime Trauma, but everyone around her feels Empathy, Tries to Compensate, Comforts her & give her Solace. While in case of False Allegation the Innocent Man faces - Lifetime Trauma Reputation & Modesty Destroyed for Lifetime His Career Over Social Boycott People Bully him & Taunt him Family Faces Humiliation Father loses Job Friends Leave him Alone
@@henggaraed "how a minute fraction of reported rape cases is fake." 22,300 Case are Fake. Is this a Small No.? Or False R@pe Allegation a Joke? R@p causes Lifetime Trauma, but everyone around her feels Empathy, Tries to Compensate, Comforts her & give her Solace. While in case of False Allegation the Innocent Man faces - Lifetime Trauma Reputation & Modesty Destroyed for Lifetime His Career Over Social Boycott People Bully him & Taunt him Family Faces Humiliation Father loses Job Friends Leave him Alone
When rapes happen it shows the failure of society. It shows that we couldn't able to civilise some humans who are a specie of animal kingdom. I agree that many bollywood indirectly encourages rape culture. Also, in co-ed schools boys and girls are treated as different species and hardly interact with each other. You said "Not all men rape but all rapists are men" that is true but do you know why do men have to say that "Not all men rape"? Because men are being generalised as rapist or a potential rapist. Although, it is very painful and traumatic for women who are victims of rape and molestation but shaming all men and making all men feel guilty of rape is not a good way to protest or raise a voice. As I have mentioned that it is social problem but we both men and women work together to correct this. I have noticed in my personal experience women generally don't want to interact with men even if those men behave nicely. For men to accept women as a fellow human being not an object of desire women must also open up and make interactions with men just like they do with their female friends. Just like you asked men to empathise with women issues, women should also empathise with men issues and what they have to go through in their daily life even though men issues may seem futile but good communication and interaction can only happen when both the genders empathise with each other. Just like you I may be wrong in some of my words but I also want a safe world for women.
When we say “all men” we don’t directly imply that they’re all criminals, we say it because they’re all complacent when crimes occur. If you do nothing when such jokes are made, if you don’t call your friends out, if you don’t encourage female perspectives, that behaviour encourages predators into thinking that violating another person is normal. That’s why we say all men.
@@IyengarAaditya I disagree that all men are complacent and do nothing to help women and understand their perspective. The moment we say "All men" we are generalising. There are muslim terrorists who kill innocent people. If going by your logic then we should say "All muslims" but you know that would be generalising all muslims as terrorists. If you see the ongoing nationwide protests you can see the large number of men in the rallies. There are men who're leading the protest and fighting for justice. Rape, murder, corruption and all sorts of evil are a result of a failed societal system and society includes all gender. Those rapists and murderers are the representation of our society. Guilt-trapping one gender and putting blame on one gender is not going to help much. It may create more divide. Many men don't want patriarchal system. Many don't want to be ultra-masculine to get a women's attention. But the reality is women are encouraging the patriarchy and desire for those 'alpha males'. It is the responsibility of all genders to work together to build a better world not blaming one gender and hold only one gender accountable.
Social crime will never stop even if you fix everything you are mentioning here. Human mind is complex and you will surprise to know many hineaous acts committed by so called civilized and educated families bcz even if everything is done there always be many twisted ones lurking around us. Only two things can be and must be done: 1. The judiciary and police need to be fixed. People trying to save the culprits should be identified and punished extremely. 2. As a community we need to stop turning our eyes in the other direction when we see a woman getting harrassed, molested or teased. We can not be everywhere to save them, but wherever we are ,we can make it comfortable and secure for them.
Talk of false rape allegations happen all the time. It's not merely in response to actual rape cases. You didn't have to bring it up in the first place.
@@Devgoingindie-dm4qt "You didn't have to bring it up in the first place" why not? it is true that too many comments show up about false rape cases especially in posts about women issues, more so than anywhere else. As if false rape cases are the norm in India? sure its a big problem (for men), but think about proportions too.
12:02 i see u didnt wanted to disscuss the serious topic, actually it takes caliber to speak on such topic boy, you knew ur best move was to post a video blaming other men , getting yourself a cleanchit and speaking the only one side
We let men like you bark too. LOL, you are obviously the type of man to say how great of a man you are in order to prove that you are a real man. Real men don't act that way. They look at both situations because they are wise. i am glad my kinsmen and male friends are wise and not shortsighted like you.
@@mariatrinitymya8618 for your kind information its not about man vs woman but its the fight between good vs evil, i agree that women are not safe but generalising a particular gender on the basis of some animals won't give any kind of solution,we need to eliminate the crime rather than discriminating and being sexist
"Always men rape" is such a false term, i had a friend in my village of panjab india, he was less bright and in derogatory terms many can call him simplicit or "bhola" or even "lola", anyhow he was really good woth everyone, the most polite human , one day his female friend in my class called him to his home regarding maths assignment, i kmow this because i was the one who dropped him off, the girl was from the richest family on our town with political connections, anyway long story short , there were not one but 4 girls in total who made fun pf his disabilities and made him strip and eventually had sex or raped him, he was soo pure and kind he didn't even googled porn cuz his mom told him it was a bad thing , and i am one of his only friends, and i know what he went through I am not trying to argue , i am just trying to discuss, that women rape too, and in both cases it is equally wrong , and equally bad.
But tell me one thing, someone killed a woman after forcing them. Shouldn’t there be a death penalty in that case! I think there should be. For incidents by family members and public transport, there may not be death penalty but there should definitely be some punishment. Otherwise, what’s the point of conviction and conviction rate!
The correct statement is "always a men but not all men " this doesn't hold any prejudge or agenda of any group that maybe involved but sticks to the point and neutral towards both genders. Its never fair to blame the innocent just because he belongs to the same gender that's basically sexist mindset.
It's about weak and strong or lower and upper mindset in society..not about gender.. most of the rapists think that women are weak or men are superiors. And these kinds of mindsets have passed down to them in their families or from society.
Please don't assume that only boys rape. There are some incidents that boys were raped by girls also, though this frequency is lesser but it happens. So it's better to solve this irrespective of gender.
@@samirbhalerao5579 but not all girls who face these crimes against them are guilty..There are innocent ones in them too..We are addressing that..How much ever we try to justify crime against women is a reality..Good men suffer because of bad men..And also good women suffer too..We are speaking for these women.. Because of these men .how can we trust men..We can't keep on trusting men and take a chance to judge whether he is good or bad..The women' experiences have been bad so they are speaking up .No good men are addressed here..bad men only . However men assume that we are speaking about all men
@@jurithjohn3166 I love how you are saying he is trying to "justify r ape" By pointing out female r apits exist because then you cannot justify and protect female r apists.
@@jurithjohn3166 "it's usually a man" As if we don't SPECIFICALLY listen to cases where only the man is the r apits, as if you don't actively protect and justify female r apists by saying it's usually a man,
You missed misuse of law by women. Take the 498a, the most miused law. Nowadays r@Pe cases are also getting misused, I know a lady filed 6 different r@Pe cases against 6 different men and extorted money. Another reason why innocent woman aren’t getting justice soon is because of these kinds of women. I was talking like you till I got divorce, I was victim of this divorce industry. I was told pay 1.75 cr Rs of compensation to take back the dowry harassment (filed by my ex-wife) case reported against me and my parents. You are generalizing that "all women are pure and pious" . Take the incident happened WB, women who is the CM of the state is as much responsible as the criminals who did this crime - as she was protecting them by destroying the evidence. What I meant is "crime has no gender" .
Generalising the mentality of all men with a specific criminal mindset is itself a biggest joke. Get some common sence before making vedios on such issues, if always a man then we would have lived under a patriarchial society, instead of pointing out all men, you should have blamed the govt. for not providing enough security to a woman
@@IyengarAaditya open your eyes, do you even know the meaning of patriarchy? If we are still living under such a stereotypical mindset then india would have been turned into the next taliban, but we have democracy
Don't play victim man ...men have done horrible things you know and like how you guys generalize women ...that ladki ko hi shadi ke baad ghar chorna hai ,ladkiyan hi khana banati hai,ladkiyan hi baby ka pura dhyan rakhti hai, ladkiyan hi makeup kerti hai ,lakiyon ko gadi chalani nai ati , ladkiya hi roti hai ...ab khud generalized hore ho toh pta ni kya ho rha hai males ko when almost every girl has been sexuallized ,sexually harassed, or sexually assulted by men
@@bhoomisoni915 kaun se yug me ji rahe ho aj kal sab barabar hai koi kisi se kam nahi aur rahi baat kuch tum jaiso ki to ajate ho men ko gali dene without any reason, manta hu kuch log galat kam karte hai par iske liye pure men ko gali dene lag jaoge aisa kon si kanun me likha hai
@@bhoomisoni915 so as if women don't use to play victims, just visit your nearby judicial dept. you will know that 80 percent of rape case were just false acused by a women. But society only blames a man for such issues, crime is crime whether its done by a man or a woman, so stop generalising whole men on the basis of some animals, we live in a country where you are free to do anything you want and for your kind information the things you have stated above used to happen a decade ago, now we all are equal and independent
rape is a thing. excuse me, false rape case is a thing. how about this, if a rape case is proved false & planned, the girl should get the same punishment? i.e. she will be jailed for 7 years or whatever. how many agree with it. why not make it happen? not justifying, eve teasing, & don't know what word become sexual harassment to girl. have you seen, a fan had touched Katrina kaif & Katrina kaif kicked the hell out of him. 'how dare you touch me', isn't she did the right thing? ofcourse yes. do you remember, a girl softly pat on prabhas's chick. a girl tries to kiss aditya roy kapur. anyone there who made noise 'adam teasing ' ? huh, adam teasing, I must be joking. lol.
@@userxy-i4u bhai tu kia fuk rhaa he jake ek google search kar ke aoo mohtarma .80% cases are fake and blackmailing and abstracting money is normal by threatening some innocent male and this time of cases are not even reported
India mein kitnee aisee aurtein hain jinka real mein r@pe hua hai ya kitnee aise mard hain jin ko falsely accuse kiya gaya hai? millions of real r@pe case mein hardly koi ek false case ataa hoga aur ussko base bana ker tum mard real cases ko invalidate kero ge
@@userxy-i4u What Source says - number of actual rpe cases is far more tha false rpe cases? WhatsApp? Go & check NCRB, Govt. of India - No. of Rap cases in India is 30,000 out of which 74% are False Allegation i.e., 22,300 Innocent Men ended up in Jail. - 75% of Su!
7:08 why is it only women specific? should it be only women specific and then only called harrasment? or do u have any other explanations, if not maybe you are just speaking chatter chitter
0:03 Aose time par video mat daal...sab bhadke hue h.. Woh hoga bhi na..ossme bhadak jaaymege ki tum kyu nikal rahaa h video😂 2:07 Godamn hormones..but no one understand it until they own other bodies..so it is better to be quiet 3:39 Exactly since we dont pursue each other..we don't have any experience..until behind when we was child..Most people divides out from teenage..cuase of this gap...due to lack of talking to other skills as towards women and women towards men.. this thing happens
Not punishing Rapists is leading to UNJUST laws framed against good MEN in India
The laws are useless without high rates of conviction!
@@IyengarAaditya True, but anti-men laws are used to target Indian husbands by opportunist wives and feminist lawyers.
@@LifeGeneralistfeminist lawyers? Did u really know the meaning of it?
@@LifeGeneralistthis is another issue on which we can talk, ask TH-camrs to talk about it rather than making accusations 😂😂😂
Yes, recently a female school teacher file false rape case on his own student in Indore.
When that boy went to file a police case, the female police officer at the police station was saying, give me 3 lakhs to close the case Otherwise I will put you in jail. Then that boy did not have money so he committed suicide.
Our schools and families should stop gender discrimination. Movies should start promoting civic sense.Directors can make movies by showing male and female as good friends and stop the romance stereotypes between them going on since 1960's.please come out of the stone age mentality India🙏
more films written by women 🥹
Discrimination is the root cause of every problem on earth.
I will not come out
@@IyengarAadityain school and laws gender discrimination is there
@@Jatin-o6j I will also not
I am 30 year old , still don't have any girl as friend , bcz in school we were told not speak to them .
College was also boys only no interaction there .
Now I don't even have a courage to speak any girl other than my cousins and mother.
they’re regular people brother, just go out and talk, socialise, put yourself in social situations and you’ll be just fine. Cheers 🍻
@@IyengarAaditya
just go out and talk :-(
nah, your are going to get 11:34 if your not a handsome and rich (example are on deepika bhardwaj channel)
11:48 *EVERY TIME! EVERY DAY, THE REAL R APE CASES* happen in India. when we discuss about women issue we need to talk about FC, because *THE REAL R APE CASES* and *THE REAL VICTIMS (womens)* got affected by that. Also, men but, don't worry about men because there is a no law in india, if men got r ape or he found innocent after fc.
But, atleast think about real victims *womens* who got affected by these false cases AND DIDN'T GET JUSTICE.
just before watching this video, a short appeared in my fyp in which a man was doing disgusting gestures towards a woman in public transport and she recorded and posted it as evidence that how she encountered this situation and what many women go through, but still a guy was giving justification of that man by saying "that guy is just a paid actor, u prolly asked him to do those gestures" like wow the audacity of men to never accept that how much men do wrong to women whenever they get a chance, there was another video I watched few days ago in which a woman was shouting on a guy for groping her and men were still saying "she needs to calm tf down", some men were even spamming R word in comments against that girl and called her women ☕ for standing up against that guy, these are the same men who would talk against women who actually give consent but at the same time they leave their houses only with intention of groping women just to check if she is easy going who gets impressed so they proceed with their ill intentions, but when a girl starts to make sound she is still blamed for standing up against it
Bollywood is always responsible and no one calls them out for their crimes against humanity
True
"common sense" is what the world should have more
Ironically common sense is not common.
@@NO_NAME-p8c True, I hope we have a system for improving it for each individuals.
If common sense was everything - there would not be any laws
@@Anime_Animation_Illustration Could be a reality but I feel not,laws are made not to punish the offenders but to safekeep the peace. It's common sense to have laws.
True
Not All Men
But Always A MAN
This mentality of females can never be r apists is EXACTLY why karma is punishing your gender, half of your gender are r apists and the other half protects them. Always a FEMALE protecting a FEMALE r apist
Good brainwashed. It's not always men. Women too r@pe. That's very small but so you will ignore?
Always a man, until a woman assaults you, then no one will hear your voice.
@@BibekKapali-vr8bo Yes ofc ur Fault. Nobody cares about u!
People only Love Cute Cat (Girl) not Ugly Chicken (Boy)
Your Worth is as Long as you can Feed them.
@@BibekKapali-vr8bothe commenf she made shows how immature she is. Why arguing with her😂
People start their whataboutism instead of talking about the actual problem
The actual problem being misandry and the matriarchy
@@Kilallfemales touch some grass
@@Kilallfemales we live in a patriarchy and if you're willing, we can have a polite and respectful debate on this
edit: or actually never mind. your username is 'killallfemales' and your pfp states that men have authority over women. its clear you're just a raging misogynist.
@@Kilallfemales I have a good mind to report your account for vile misogyny, to be very honest.
@@Kilallfemalestouch grass
why is it that the worst outcome of violence against women is seen as 'all men may be seen as bad' and not 'too many women are getting hurt'?
Many men ...thats why
It's literally all of them each indian women has been harassed atleast 1 time in her whole life
@@Shreya...1 that's because 3-5% of them are harassing 96-97% of women. On paper 3-5 percent sound small but the population of India is very high that's why there are alot of them but still not most or all of them. Some states have more cases and some states have less cases depending upon the crime prone states. UTs have enforcement and are civilised that's why they are safe (except Delhi) like the safe countries.
'Cuz you're losing allies by attempting to blame those who had no part in it.
Ask your friend mum or sister' how many times they were harass, stalked or creep on by men aged 15 to 65 some of the। Were relatives too@@VAIBHAVMALHOTRA19
Also it is totally wrong for Indian lawmakers to make Anti-Male, Anti-Husband laws when more rape cases happen
Um marital rape is still legal in India. Pretty much law is with men
@@Xoxososowi marital r ape doesn't exist , it's a fictional thing, but men still get jailed for it,
It's another con to silence male victims and save female r apists.
Basically Your kind is so privileged equality feels like oppression to you.
Wdym anti male laws ? Are laws made against dowry harassment , rape , sexual abuse etc etc anti male ?? No they're not anti" male" itd be anti male , only if your FREEDOM gets confiscated, is anything like that happening to u ? I do get that men also face such problems in the society and I absolutely want laws that'd help them get justice, but the laws that are already existing, are just there to help victims not all women , now you might pull the fake cases are 99% , but actually only 27 % of cases actually get reported , and also about alimony , well marry a woman who's independent and has dignity , she wouldn't even want a grain of salt from them
@@Xoxososowi On the other hand law does not consider a man a rape victim.
@@Xoxososowi I don't think so, can you give any proves? Not denying your argument, just asking for a source because last I checked it was a punishable offense.
Not all of us but most men of india are just like that
most men everywhere :)
It only takes a few/minority to screw the image of the majority. Maybe 10/20% of men have rotten though.
@@IyengarAaditya ------------------- > Another Dhruv + @ ++ 1
So you are a rapist?
Didn't know 3 r@pists a year was "most men" Of India . You're just as bad as a r apist
Holy hell why are people defending the horrible crime? 🤮
he isnt defending
@@wildyato3737 Not the OP, but I'm referring to the comments section.
Men getting triggered at "not all men, but always a man" phrase and then coming up with justifications to the crime, mostly with whataboutery.
@@diablow1411 well, as your reply shows clearly they're not defending the crime but the attempt at blaming all men for it.
@@diablow1411 they re not bro. People are just mad because he tried framing all men for it despite knowing the reality.
@@squ34ky r/whoosh
I honestly doubt those men understood the phrase in the first instance. Statistically speaking, almost entirely the perpetrators of SA have been men (and this is just for those which have been reported; gives quite a bleak picture of the true number). And let's not forget how deeply patriarchal Indian society (and by extension, South Asia) is.
Rape is rape. It's evil. Whether rapists are men or women. Things I disagree with saying not all men but always a men. Men rape cases always get ignored by everyone including police, society, and politicians. For the equal part, we are not even the same thing. it's like comparing a cow with a bull. No one is beneath anyone and both have their own place in the world. I am scared of talking to women and unable to get over this fear cause of the extreme abuse done to me by my mother. I respect women and men both but trying to talk to women is still a scary thing for me. I heard on a video where a rapist/pedophile said, if women have a strong father, brother, and male friends then he will not go near her. For daughters, go out with your father. For wives, go out with your husband. For sisters, go out with your brothers. This will not just keep you safe but also tell that you are considering them part of your trust circle. Make men strong and this can stop. We should talk about fake rape cases. Also talks about women harassing an another women. Also, women raping women.
Sorry to hear what you've gone through because of your mother mistreating you.
But now, that should help you realize women who get mistreated by their fathers, their brothers, their extended family members, their male coworkers and superiors... and imagine their fear now. And the atrocities that have made the news with Kolkata and Badlapur have just worsened their fear, and it wouldn't be wrong to say "always a man" because, let's be honest, out of a 100 of such cases which manage to get reported, more than 95 of these are committed by men.
All I'm asking is to put yourself in their shoes to realize the point, which will make it easier with your trauma (hopefully). It's not the time to trivialize the issue for your personal point, but to understand what causes such crimes, and what can be done to prevent them from happening again. The hospital incident should be something to introspect the society.
@@diablow1411bro, he is not wrong there. Sexual assault against men are ignkred, specially in India. There is a reason why Indian Judiciary doesnt have something related to r@pe against men or smthng. If something happens to a man, even the police will say,"Man up".
So lets not try to ignore his point. Rape is rape whether it is against men or women.
@@diablow1411 not 95% but 100% of R@pist are Men.
U know why?
Bcoz as per Law:
If u are a Women & u incert a Iron Rod or Bottle in the Pvt. Part of Man or Woman. It won't be considered as R@pe. U won't be even jailed, coz there is no Law.
As per Law is't just a Prank that's why u'll never hear Women R@pist.
What about Woman harassing Woman?
What about Woman harassing Man?
What about Woman making False Allegation?
@@diablow1411 not 95%, 100% of R@pist are Men.
U know why?
Bcoz as per Law:
If u are a Women & u incert a Iron Rod or Bottle in the Pvt. Part of Man or Woman. It won't be considered as R@pe. U won't be even jailed, coz there is no Law.
As per Law is't just a Prank that's why u'll never hear Women R@pist.
What about Woman harassing Woman?
What about Woman harassing Man?
What about Woman making False Allegation?
@@advayaprakash1307men raping men is real but it's men again..not all but still a man.
I’m so proud of you for making this. And proud of the efforts you put in the research.
I truly wish atleast 10, if not more of the men viewing this video learn to empathise.
People don't understand when we say 'Not all men, but always a man'. Firstly, when we talk about abuse on women, we didn't start saying 'all men do this', we talked about 'men' as there's a large amount of people who do this. And it's not just about rape, but the little things that we face every single day like those creepy glances and unwanted touches in public and in a lot of cases, these kind of things come from family members themselves. So we don't really know whom to trust properly. We have to keep our guards high cause almost every woman has faced some kind of harassment or the other and we don't know who are the good ones and who won't be faking it. I'm not saying that the women who blame "all men" are correct, it's definitely not all men and women too can be perpetrators, it's just we see whose cases are higher. It's a psychological fear that sits on us. So even if a man may not understand what we want to say, you can be sympathetic. We don't have similar experiences (in the larger picture) but we still can be empathetic to each other and try to understand where almost 50% of the population is coming from.
You are wrong all men having a potential rapist ok so dont be informative too much
@@bloodreaper4221all women also have a potential r#pist or ped0file in them would that be a correct statement?
its not all men, but its enough men that every women has a reason to be scared of all of them.
Was gonna say the same a little before, but you've articulated it much better.
@@bloodreaper4221yes ,similarly all women are potential risk gold digger or a fraud( who alway accused men by false claim rape )
I get why people say 'not all men but always a man,' and it’s true that we need to tackle the serious problem of violence and harassment. But let’s be real... blaming all men for the actions of some doesn’t help anyone. It just creates more division and pushes away those who genuinely want to help make a difference.
Instead of pointing fingers at an entire gender, why not focus on how we can all work together to make things better? The truth is, we need everyone... men included to stand up against violence and support those who’ve been affected. Creating change isn’t about tearing people down, it’s about building a better world together.
Even though It's true that statistically, many of these terrible acts are committed by men, and that's a reality we need to face. But here's the thing when we frame it as 'always a man,' it can feel like we're painting all men with the same brush, even the ones who are actively working to combat this behavior.If the goal is to create a safer society, we need to bring more people into the conversation, not push them away. The focus should be on holding those accountable who actually commit these acts, while also encouraging and supporting those who are allies in this fight. Blaming all men doesn’t solve the problem but it just creates more division, and that’s not going to get us anywhere. Let’s direct our energy toward real solutions and keep the conversation open. We can call out bad behavior without assuming every man is a potential threat.
So yeah, let’s call out the bad behavior when we see it, but let’s also recognize that not every man is the enemy. We’re all in this together, and we’ll only make progress if we stop blaming and start working side by side.
Not all men but always a man but the men who have never done anything shouldn't face hostile treatment because of wrongdoings of the men.
You are arguing with another Dhruv + @ + + !
Yeh safed Knight m @ n g ! n @ $ kabhi nahi sudharenge, jab tak khud jail jayenge.
By your decision : Girls are always God 😂
Always a man? Always a man who falls victim to females
What constitutes hostile treatment?
@@Xoxososowihating men because some men commit crimes
Probably the reason why people talk about fake rape cases when real rape happens is because this is the time when people atleast give a response even if in a small way. If people keep talking about fake rape cases then many people would be like why are you still talking about this same topic. That's the irony
As a woman i don't understand the 'not all men' phrase. I feel that most of the men do not commit crimes when they are part of a society because that may take away their reputation and honor that they have in a society/community. But they always need constant ego massage and the need to feel superior by asserting 'Women(with a laugh)' or 'she won't be able to do this work,etc.' But once they find women in isolated places or away from their society , they find the opportunity to commit atrocities against women. It is important for the men to develop compassion towards everyone not just women but even animals and other men in the society. View people as people . Stop dehumanising by calling women 'Ghar ki laxmi' ,etc.
if every man does that when ever they find a chance then the world would have been much worse place, a man who loves him woman will not do any harm execpt those who are toxic who might do that but not all ...a few number of men will be toxic, say all will be like that is inaccurate
@@nikolatesla399 you can't argue with a feminists
@@nikolatesla399 i understand that only a few are toxic , but these cases have scared women and we dont know how to spot good ones . Sad state of affairs.
@@shlokshivhare3356 that is what men like you are doing just pinpointing whether one is feminist or not .But instead try developing empathy. If a woman is surrounded by good men and if she is alone at night , she will still be scared for life even if she is the strongest. These cases have led to viewing everyone as a perpetrator.
@@Samiksha_W I'll be honest with you last time and don't disturb me again, good men genuinely have no respect and girls genuinely prefer to isolate them than to talk with them, the criminals who are actually guilty are supported by political parties who are supported by feminists, these so called "feminists " are pointing all their fingers to men instead of blaming criminals and corrupt politicians, and please don't ask me to support any girl (I have been ignored, isolated and ghosted by them just because I was being friendly) , I don't ask to have sympathy with me I am just asking you to not expect any sympathy from me and fight them alone because "all men are guilty " so don't ask "men" for support women
Very nice and information video I wish everyone should watch ur video
The moral values should be thought in every school and family. The psychological condition of men being superior to women should be treated.
Absolutely
I'll never understand what it's like to be a rapist
@@christylawrence29 What the actual f**k?
Reported!
@@diablow1411 for what ? I've never raped a woman, never had any rapist desires, never looked at women in a wing way. Hence I don't know how the mind of a rapist work. What wrong did I say ? Atleast understand first
@@diablow1411 you're a r***st ?
I appreciate you.
" a man never needs to give consent, its always a yes, men are hungry for it " always?? is it true?
i am a man, men are bound with social and moral values too. a white paper when gets dirty, the dirt shows as the unique identity of it, let whatever size it be,
To gain some views and female attention these people use to blame the whole community without any reason 😪
if a man says NO then it means there is very unlikely that he is going to get r@ped by women and his body is going to be found in an assaulted condition, ask yourself, have u ever been groped by women in public transport? have u ever felt yourself vulnerable at night that maybe a woman is following u who can harm u??
@@SnehashisNaskar-s8g mere bhae , mein ne ek video dekhee thee jis mein ek larka bata raha tha k jab vo 10 saal ka thaa uss k saath 18 saal ki larki ne kuch galat kiya, lekn comments mein sirf larkian hee uss k saaath sympathesize ker rahee thee bajaye ye kehne k "not all women " aur un larkion k reply section mein kuch mard keh rahay they "tum bhee mere saath vo ker lo mein mind nahi kerun gaa" and jo larka apna experience share ker raha thaa ussko mard hee "gay" bol rahay they because he didn't like her touch, ab khud batao jab aisee soch rakhnay valay mard hon ge toh society kya sochay gee mardon k baray mein??
@@SnehashisNaskar-s8gthen what do you think about it,... why do men rape?
I cannot empathize with someone one generalising an entire demographic.
Start viewing people as individuals
Totally agree. I would like to say to all women that try to carry a taser. Taser, is a handheld device that incapacitates a person temporarily by transmitting a 50,000-volt electric shock.
so many women can't afford it in my country.
Just ask them to carry a gun.
Then ask them just to avoid going out
"Its always a man" is also a generalizing statement. So women can't do r@pe?
indian public transports have "women helpline " and "children helpline" , can u tell why do men not have that helpline, because they are the reasons why those helplines are needed in first place, women and children are at risk
@@unsaali4201 🤦♂
@@dhinaggarrajahcr6318 have u ever felt scared at night that a woman might be near u who can harm u? Have u ever seen a woman doing disgusting gestures to u when u r in public transport? Have u ever heard of a man not feeling safe in his work place because of pervert women?
@@dhinaggarrajahcr6318 u didn't answer my question though, why is there no helpline for men? Tell me, if they are really vulnerable then how come they don't have any safety measures and women and children are having safety measures , and it is already too obvious that who is the reason behind it
@@unsaali4201idk if you are dumb or someone who is living in the past. R@pe against men happen in India. There is no such thing as r@pe against men in our judiciqry, not because we dont need it, but because nobody gives a fuck about men in India.
You wanna know why? POLITICS.
In order to cater someone's need, the gov completely ignores the other side.
Even if they do make some laws regarding it, the so calked Feminists and opposition will go on a strike and say this and that and what not. (U know.. the patriahy things and all..)
Idk how someone coukd be this delusional.🙄
So much sense. ..it's system that privilege certain section over other ..it's just simple reason but still resist ..nobody is accusing men individually ..it's recognition of group that enjoy power with respect to others .but its not easy for powerful group to give their privileges and being accountable ..
Sure Rape jokes are offensive but to say that they are one of the causes of assaults is unheard of . I truly believe there is a deeper problem in our society as even today subjects related to sex are considered taboo . And it all comes down to the education system as well, as you mentioned the differential between boys and girls in school ,I could not really relate to that as in schools I've studied , had no such problems, which again shows the disparity in the type of education different people go through , most bad a few good . So again its a much deeper problem than jokes . I believe the problem lies in the content we watch , porn usage( India has always been one of the top consumers) Lack of discussion among with parents/adults , old oppressive "Traditions" and like you said Victim blaming or " Taali ek haath se nahi bachti"
Please do a video on child abuse and focus on male child abuse. We need to talk about such issues
That will never happen. Why??
People Care only for Cute Cat (Girl) not for Ugly Chicken (Boy)
Hopefully u understand the Metaphor
@@biratbhowmick7291 Looks matter but not so much
The real reason is that people can harass small boys without much consequences but if they do it with a small girl then they might get in trouble
Also you should refrain from using such words as they make the matter look a little less serious
@@biratbhowmick7291it's real men get raped too..but who rape them??
It's about the mentality of the rapists which mostly are men and not the gender of the victim..
@@biratbhowmick7291are you living in shithole fantasy of yours again?
Why aren't Bharatiya mothers teching their young children to respect all women no matter who they are? It all begins at home and then moves outward.
My Takes -
1. Politics 80 % rape cases are filed in which political people are responsible - Directly or Indirectly
2. Lack of Proper Education .
3. Lack of Law and Order
4 . the case in kolkata was not a reason of debate between Not all men or But its Men . Thats a case of one woman lone trying to go against the bad things happening in hospital for ages Like Inlegal Organ Selling etc . there are multiple cases against that hospital . Many men and women dies when they tried to go against authority . Politics are also included in that . Mens Kills Mens , Mens kills Womens too but killing womens in horrible way is Disgusting .
Lastly i Mention Only one thing Blaming or Defending Mens in Social Media is just a content that goes for few weeks but i Know if we had Good Political System Cases would have been minimal , Same with old believes in some Religion .
Good video, straight to the point and well balance. I also really appreciate that you mentioned fake/false rape cases as well.
There are a few things I would like to add:
1) Rapist under the use of drugs/alcohol: There is an increase in the usage of drugs/alcohol in India, especially in Tamil Nadu with their stupid TASMAC. This will definitely affect the person to commit crimes even rape.
2) Religious and inter-caste related violence: Love Jihad, and lower cast men targeting Brahmin girls. This is something that is happening in Tamil Nadu and Kerala and needs to get more attention. We need to do more to stop these kind of genocide.
3) Corruption and People of power/money are getting away with any form of crime including rape.
4) More function CCTV in public spaces and people need to start installing door security camera on their doorstep. This will definitely reduce any form of crime.
5) More Police officers. USA has more police per population than India and crimes need to be recorded digitally.
Interesting insights bro.
India’s substance abuse problem is another league of its own. I will cover this extensively soon.
@@IyengarAaditya Please do bro, thanks you very much for your reply
Again the love jihad propaganda? I can show you as much opposite religion cases as what you call "love jihad"
But hey A HOLE what do you mean by lower caste men TARGETING upper caste women? Love is love be it lower caste or upper caste another castist
Men and women are not equal... Atleast not biologically
That's Because of reproduction aren't you see women as a fellow human women is not an animal even animals don't behave like this with their female partner's
@Off Angle by Aaditya Iyengar
I was absolutely stunned when I learned the statistics in India-a rape occurs every 16 minutes. I was truly shocked. Equally disturbing was hearing about the prevalence of female infanticide. It’s hard to ignore the conclusion, though some may disagree, that this is deeply rooted in the cultural norms of India, where women are often seen as the property of men and considered inferior. This dynamic fosters the dominance that many men in India exert over women. It’s a cultural issue and one that will be difficult to dismantle.
In my experience studying the Indian community, while there are many remarkable aspects of India and its people, the persistence of the caste system (which is often claimed to no longer exist) and the blatant disrespect towards women-sometimes even deciding at birth whether they should live-suggests that India is still grappling with its colonial and cultural history. It has yet to fully embrace a future where women are seen not as possessions, but as equals and partners.
Thanks for making this video. I agree with you as a Bangladeshi woman
Horrendous! I did not know that the Bharatiya film industry glorifies those malicious acts against women. Deplorable.
It is!
More than 80-90% of the films I’ve found “hilarious” as a 12-13 year old have had these jokes.
@@IyengarAaditya That really sucks 😞!
Bro i have a huge tip for ur video, u need a low volume background music which make your video energetic ❤❤
I agree with the video though , my point usually is , sure one can "all men" but then dont be a hypocrite and also say "all muslims" when it comes to terrorism cuz if you cannot follow the same lvl of moral in all scenarios then dont do it at all 😊
idk... sometimes I will gets a primal urge that cannot be ignored...
By saying "always a man", u are dismissing the existence of female pedophiles and rapists altogether. Our law arrests a 12 yr old boy who was molested by a 17 yr old girl. 15 yr old boy gets arrested cuz he "promised marriage" to a 24 yr old female pedo. What exactly do u have say about that? Sure i agree with what u have to say. But saying that it's "always a man", when there are so many strories of men getting molested/assaulted by women? It's a disingenuous and dismissive, don't u think? I bet u will have that one person (men or women) in ur circle, who will laugh at a F on M assault
Also you are ignoring the monitor lizard and dog victims in india
Yall know who the agressor is
@@roach3498thats a different issue but punishable offense
@@roach3498 No side is completely innocent and no one person can be used as an example to determine the true nature of either of the sides.
I cant say the all men are r@pists because of a crime by only one or a group of men, and the same cant be said about women either. 🤷♂️
Firstly when you say" always a Man "then you are simply Ignoring all those cases where women Sexually assault or Rape someone specially kids ,Mothers sisters ,Aunts name any Relation who haven't Sexually Assulted or Raped a Minor of all ages so This argument is null and void
Also you said have Empathy towards women ok i don't have any problem with that but do women have empathy for men ? If a Rape Happens i am ready to take stand for women but not if you will call me Rapist ,there are 1000s of Men protesting for Victim when women say "All men " it includes them too and thats the problem if they will keep spewing venom against men the number of such men will keep Decreasing ,like you can notice something Similar to this
Earlier if women used to accuse someone people used to support her but now as no of Fake cases are increasing people have stopped blindly supporting women and now ask for proof or want to listen to other side too ,so now if a woman is saying truth but she don't have any proof no one will support her which wasn't case Earlier
Same will happen if women will keep Abusing men and all other things like Abusing laws ,playing victim card and all some men who are now helping will stop too cause no one wants to be called as Rapist being uncomfortable because of a Stranger isn't wrong even men can feel it but when your whole twitter and Insta account is filled with announcing how all men are Rapist or how only men commit crimes its not right then and we can't empathize with you then
@@henggaraed No my point of bringing Fake cases is that people have now started to not trust women so if a woman have been SA no one will believe her easily which wasn't case earlier but since fake allegations are now Increasing people have started to not believe them it is a very visible change in Society
plus no of Women who Does Domestic abuse ,SA and Rape to specially Kids are very high they just get unnoticed due to societal norms and all but is very evident in number
Plus as you said what will be proof of SA than that was my point there isn't people just used trust women but since all these fake allegations no one believes them now
Rape can still be proved
Plus one more point is Women call men Incel who talk about men's rights and all and just all the problems men face .I never saw protests for any male victims like a guys GF chopped his penis and flushed it there are thousands of cases like these never saw any protest instead you will be mocked that these cases are in Trace amount and how women suffer more you are Incel and all but expect men to stand with them in these cases ,my point was if they will keep doing it Men will stop helping here too
Nobody Cares for Men
People only Love Cute Cat (Women) not Ugly Chicken (Men)
A Chicken's Worth is as Long as He can Feed you.
@@henggaraed "how a minute fraction of reported rape cases is fake."
22,300 Case are Fake. Is this a Small No.? Or False R@pe Allegation a Joke?
R@p causes Lifetime Trauma, but everyone around her feels Empathy, Tries to Compensate, Comforts her & give her Solace.
While in case of False Allegation the Innocent Man faces -
Lifetime Trauma
Reputation & Modesty Destroyed for Lifetime
His Career Over
Social Boycott
People Bully him & Taunt him
Family Faces Humiliation
Father loses Job
Friends Leave him Alone
What about them??
@@henggaraed "how a minute fraction of reported rape cases is fake."
22,300 Case are Fake. Is this a Small No.? Or False R@pe Allegation a Joke?
R@p causes Lifetime Trauma, but everyone around her feels Empathy, Tries to Compensate, Comforts her & give her Solace.
While in case of False Allegation the Innocent Man faces -
Lifetime Trauma
Reputation & Modesty Destroyed for Lifetime
His Career Over
Social Boycott
People Bully him & Taunt him
Family Faces Humiliation
Father loses Job
Friends Leave him Alone
@@henggaraed "how a minute fraction of reported rape cases is fake."
22,300 Case are Fake. Is this a Small No.? Or False R@pe Allegation a Joke?
R@p causes Lifetime Trauma, but everyone around her feels Empathy, Tries to Compensate, Comforts her & give her Solace.
While in case of False Allegation the Innocent Man faces -
Lifetime Trauma
Reputation & Modesty Destroyed for Lifetime
His Career Over
Social Boycott
People Bully him & Taunt him
Family Faces Humiliation
Father loses Job
Friends Leave him Alone
So true.
Thanks for making this video.
Hope men will see this and understand
When rapes happen it shows the failure of society. It shows that we couldn't able to civilise some humans who are a specie of animal kingdom.
I agree that many bollywood indirectly encourages rape culture. Also, in co-ed schools boys and girls are treated as different species and hardly interact with each other. You said "Not all men rape but all rapists are men" that is true but do you know why do men have to say that "Not all men rape"? Because men are being generalised as rapist or a potential rapist. Although, it is very painful and traumatic for women who are victims of rape and molestation but shaming all men and making all men feel guilty of rape is not a good way to protest or raise a voice. As I have mentioned that it is social problem but we both men and women work together to correct this. I have noticed in my personal experience women generally don't want to interact with men even if those men behave nicely. For men to accept women as a fellow human being not an object of desire women must also open up and make interactions with men just like they do with their female friends. Just like you asked men to empathise with women issues, women should also empathise with men issues and what they have to go through in their daily life even though men issues may seem futile but good communication and interaction can only happen when both the genders empathise with each other. Just like you I may be wrong in some of my words but I also want a safe world for women.
When we say “all men” we don’t directly imply that they’re all criminals, we say it because they’re all complacent when crimes occur. If you do nothing when such jokes are made, if you don’t call your friends out, if you don’t encourage female perspectives, that behaviour encourages predators into thinking that violating another person is normal. That’s why we say all men.
@@IyengarAaditya I answer that in comment how innocent girls are
@@IyengarAaditya I disagree that all men are complacent and do nothing to help women and understand their perspective. The moment we say "All men" we are generalising. There are muslim terrorists who kill innocent people. If going by your logic then we should say "All muslims" but you know that would be generalising all muslims as terrorists. If you see the ongoing nationwide protests you can see the large number of men in the rallies. There are men who're leading the protest and fighting for justice. Rape, murder, corruption and all sorts of evil are a result of a failed societal system and society includes all gender. Those rapists and murderers are the representation of our society. Guilt-trapping one gender and putting blame on one gender is not going to help much. It may create more divide. Many men don't want patriarchal system. Many don't want to be ultra-masculine to get a women's attention. But the reality is women are encouraging the patriarchy and desire for those 'alpha males'. It is the responsibility of all genders to work together to build a better world not blaming one gender and hold only one gender accountable.
@@IyengarAadityawhat about the men who get r@ped?
If Bollywood encourages R@pe then why is R@pe much worse in USA & Europe.
There shouldn't be any R@pes right?
Social crime will never stop even if you fix everything you are mentioning here. Human mind is complex and you will surprise to know many hineaous acts committed by so called civilized and educated families bcz even if everything is done there always be many twisted ones lurking around us. Only two things can be and must be done:
1. The judiciary and police need to be fixed. People trying to save the culprits should be identified and punished extremely.
2. As a community we need to stop turning our eyes in the other direction when we see a woman getting harrassed, molested or teased. We can not be everywhere to save them, but wherever we are ,we can make it comfortable and secure for them.
Don't roll ur eyes when Men are Falsely accused also.
Plz Protest for him as well
thank you for ... stating that ... some men ... do not all ... behave that WAY!
Lot of factors count in Culture education etc etc. Its not men or women, its our society. Its sad to see now it has become a gender war
Talk of false rape allegations happen all the time. It's not merely in response to actual rape cases. You didn't have to bring it up in the first place.
not the time to play the victim mate
@@IyengarAaditya I'm not playing the victim. Just pointing out double standards.
This was specifically pointed out by the OP for responses like yours, and sadly enough it clearly went over your head
@@atanubhuyan7004 Did you actually read my response?
@@Devgoingindie-dm4qt "You didn't have to bring it up in the first place" why not? it is true that too many comments show up about false rape cases especially in posts about women issues, more so than anywhere else. As if false rape cases are the norm in India? sure its a big problem (for men), but think about proportions too.
12:02 i see u didnt wanted to disscuss the serious topic, actually it takes caliber to speak on such topic boy, you knew ur best move was to post a video blaming other men , getting yourself a cleanchit and speaking the only one side
*Feminist Men Strategy:*
Talk only in Favour of Women
Ignore All Men
Make her Comfortable
Gain her Trust
Get her to Bed
@@biratbhowmick7291 so true, it think this youtuber is the same. slowly all of this will become a blame game
Its the same as chigma men where they laugh at male victims blame women victims but always cry abt men rights under women empowerment videos
@@biratbhowmick7291
After reading this comment.
Ladkiya: Sabh ladko ko oosi m ghusna h😂
But it's true after all
I'm proud of calling you my friend.
Not all men rape
Not all women are innocent
That's it
Its sorta also sad the people need to learn all these things which are so basic :'(
Let them bark "all men are ..."
It's boosting their ego and release their frustration...
We men aren't that weak enough to get so easily triggered:)
We let men like you bark too. LOL, you are obviously the type of man to say how great of a man you are in order to prove that you are a real man. Real men don't act that way. They look at both situations because they are wise. i am glad my kinsmen and male friends are wise and not shortsighted like you.
@@mariatrinitymya8618 for your kind information its not about man vs woman but its the fight between good vs evil, i agree that women are not safe but generalising a particular gender on the basis of some animals won't give any kind of solution,we need to eliminate the crime rather than discriminating and being sexist
@@SnehashisNaskar-s8g let them bark bro let them bark.. ☕
What else can they even do? 😂
I love this video. Thanks for spreading information about this case.
Can you also respond to these "Men are brave" videos flooding the social media??
"Always men rape" is such a false term, i had a friend in my village of panjab india, he was less bright and in derogatory terms many can call him simplicit or "bhola" or even "lola", anyhow he was really good woth everyone, the most polite human , one day his female friend in my class called him to his home regarding maths assignment, i kmow this because i was the one who dropped him off, the girl was from the richest family on our town with political connections, anyway long story short , there were not one but 4 girls in total who made fun pf his disabilities and made him strip and eventually had sex or raped him, he was soo pure and kind he didn't even googled porn cuz his mom told him it was a bad thing , and i am one of his only friends, and i know what he went through
I am not trying to argue , i am just trying to discuss, that women rape too, and in both cases it is equally wrong , and equally bad.
But tell me one thing, someone killed a woman after forcing them. Shouldn’t there be a death penalty in that case! I think there should be.
For incidents by family members and public transport, there may not be death penalty but there should definitely be some punishment. Otherwise, what’s the point of conviction and conviction rate!
This is a brilliant video Aaditya!!!
Love this channel!
Proud of you
Great video bro 🙌 you gained a new subscriber
this is the most "pick me" vid I've ever watched
Please, Elaborate
Their opening doesn't matter
The correct statement is "always a men but not all men " this doesn't hold any prejudge or agenda of any group that maybe involved but sticks to the point and neutral towards both genders.
Its never fair to blame the innocent just because he belongs to the same gender that's basically sexist mindset.
It's about weak and strong or lower and upper mindset in society..not about gender.. most of the rapists think that women are weak or men are superiors.
And these kinds of mindsets have passed down to them in their families or from society.
Follow Deepika Narayan Bharadwaj n understand what men r going through everyday in India
Please don't assume that only boys rape. There are some incidents that boys were raped by girls also, though this frequency is lesser but it happens.
So it's better to solve this irrespective of gender.
Bro why you guys always try to justify these acts like these..it is usually a man..and it is a huge problem..even if you agree or not
@@jurithjohn3166 mostly but not always. Don't think all girls are innocent.
@@samirbhalerao5579 but not all girls who face these crimes against them are guilty..There are innocent ones in them too..We are addressing that..How much ever we try to justify crime against women is a reality..Good men suffer because of bad men..And also good women suffer too..We are speaking for these women.. Because of these men .how can we trust men..We can't keep on trusting men and take a chance to judge whether he is good or bad..The women' experiences have been bad so they are speaking up .No good men are addressed here..bad men only . However men assume that we are speaking about all men
@@jurithjohn3166 I love how you are saying he is trying to "justify r ape" By pointing out female r apits exist because then you cannot justify and protect female r apists.
@@jurithjohn3166 "it's usually a man" As if we don't SPECIFICALLY listen to cases where only the man is the r apits, as if you don't actively protect and justify female r apists by saying it's usually a man,
You missed misuse of law by women. Take the 498a, the most miused law. Nowadays r@Pe cases are also getting misused, I know a lady filed 6 different r@Pe cases against 6 different men and extorted money. Another reason why innocent woman aren’t getting justice soon is because of these kinds of women.
I was talking like you till I got divorce, I was victim of this divorce industry. I was told pay 1.75 cr Rs of compensation to take back the dowry harassment (filed by my ex-wife) case reported against me and my parents.
You are generalizing that "all women are pure and pious" . Take the incident happened WB, women who is the CM of the state is as much responsible as the criminals who did this crime - as she was protecting them by destroying the evidence. What I meant is "crime has no gender" .
So proud ❤
Generalising the mentality of all men with a specific criminal mindset is itself a biggest joke. Get some common sence before making vedios on such issues, if always a man then we would have lived under a patriarchial society, instead of pointing out all men, you should have blamed the govt. for not providing enough security to a woman
we do live in a patriarchal society mate
@@IyengarAaditya open your eyes, do you even know the meaning of patriarchy? If we are still living under such a stereotypical mindset then india would have been turned into the next taliban, but we have democracy
Don't play victim man ...men have done horrible things you know and like how you guys generalize women ...that ladki ko hi shadi ke baad ghar chorna hai ,ladkiyan hi khana banati hai,ladkiyan hi baby ka pura dhyan rakhti hai, ladkiyan hi makeup kerti hai ,lakiyon ko gadi chalani nai ati , ladkiya hi roti hai ...ab khud generalized hore ho toh pta ni kya ho rha hai males ko when almost every girl has been sexuallized ,sexually harassed, or sexually assulted by men
@@bhoomisoni915 kaun se yug me ji rahe ho aj kal sab barabar hai koi kisi se kam nahi aur rahi baat kuch tum jaiso ki to ajate ho men ko gali dene without any reason, manta hu kuch log galat kam karte hai par iske liye pure men ko gali dene lag jaoge aisa kon si kanun me likha hai
@@bhoomisoni915 so as if women don't use to play victims, just visit your nearby judicial dept. you will know that 80 percent of rape case were just false acused by a women. But society only blames a man for such issues, crime is crime whether its done by a man or a woman, so stop generalising whole men on the basis of some animals, we live in a country where you are free to do anything you want and for your kind information the things you have stated above used to happen a decade ago, now we all are equal and independent
rape is a thing.
excuse me, false rape case is a thing.
how about this, if a rape case is proved false & planned, the girl should get the same punishment? i.e. she will be jailed for 7 years or whatever. how many agree with it. why not make it happen?
not justifying, eve teasing, & don't know what word become sexual harassment to girl.
have you seen, a fan had touched Katrina kaif & Katrina kaif kicked the hell out of him. 'how dare you touch me', isn't she did the right thing? ofcourse yes.
do you remember, a girl softly pat on prabhas's chick. a girl tries to kiss aditya roy kapur. anyone there who made noise 'adam teasing ' ?
huh, adam teasing, I must be joking. lol.
Great video 🎉 Love from Germany
Gaurav thakur needs some notes from him and translate into Hindi.😂
Great work try to make videos in regional languages also .
I think that's why burkha exist in Islam we should adapt their ideas not being deplomatic
You are reason why rape are happening
What does "men and women are same" even mean?
Mentally same..
Not physically
Both are humans
Thanks y'all
Explain Gaurav Hada from Indore next.
Ise ka faida uthake londia sab masum ladko pe harrasment ka case thok date h
@@userxy-i4u 73% of ALL CASES ARE FAKE
@@userxy-i4u far less doesn't me that isn't a crime. It's just as bad as r@pe.
@@userxy-i4u bhai tu kia fuk rhaa he jake ek google search kar ke aoo mohtarma .80% cases are fake and blackmailing and abstracting money is normal by threatening some innocent male and this time of cases are not even reported
India mein kitnee aisee aurtein hain jinka real mein r@pe hua hai ya kitnee aise mard hain jin ko falsely accuse kiya gaya hai? millions of real r@pe case mein hardly koi ek false case ataa hoga aur ussko base bana ker tum mard real cases ko invalidate kero ge
@@userxy-i4u What Source says - number of actual rpe cases is far more tha false rpe cases? WhatsApp?
Go & check NCRB, Govt. of India
- No. of Rap cases in India is 30,000 out of which 74% are False Allegation i.e., 22,300 Innocent Men ended up in Jail.
- 75% of Su!
7:08 why is it only women specific? should it be only women specific and then only called harrasment? or do u have any other explanations, if not maybe you are just speaking chatter chitter
It should also be monitor lizard specific
0:03 Aose time par video mat daal...sab bhadke hue h..
Woh hoga bhi na..ossme bhadak jaaymege ki tum kyu nikal rahaa h video😂
2:07 Godamn hormones..but no one understand it until they own other bodies..so it is better to be quiet
3:39 Exactly since we dont pursue each other..we don't have any experience..until behind when we was child..Most people divides out from teenage..cuase of this gap...due to lack of talking to other skills as towards women and women towards men..
this thing happens
Well said
Bro wants clicks that's it