5 Reasons Men Should NOT Get Married
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- John Heinen, Devin Schadt, and Sam Guzman explore the nature of marriage in our fast-paced hook-up culture and examine why some men (and women) argue that men should avoid marriage. With declining marriage rates and persistently high divorce rates, it's clear that marriage is challenging, leading millions to opt out entirely. We discuss 5 reasons why marriage is difficult for men and why some argue we should abandon this supposedly outdated social construct. But is there truth to these statements? The discussion reveals how these five reasons fall short in helping men live their best lives and uncovers the enduring value of marriage.
We also get to answer a question from a listener about how to pray and improve his life after a devastating divorce.
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One of the big illusion which we should destroy is to think that “we are still young and we have time to find a woman to get married, so no hurry”. In reality there is no intermediary phase between youth and old age. You think you are too young to found a family and then suddenly you wake up and realize that you are already too old. The “right age” between “too young” and “too old” doesn’t exist. So, if you read me and you love a girl, go for it. You are not too young. Don’t believe in the lies of society, of friends and sometime of your own family.
💯 agree with you!! As soon as you find a good woman of virtue and modesty who lives God, MARRY HER and start a family!
@@Foxie770 @JeanPierreAussant1 you guys sound very based. I myself have always hoped to one day have a large family and start as early as possible. 🙏🏽 :) thanks for the encouragement
@Foxie770 and she can divorce and take your children at any time
Look, not to put in a reality check, but a significant amount of women don’t want to get married and have kids until they are well into their thirties.
@@wanderingthedesert5599 when it's highly unlikely
Blessed Catherine Emerick said that the marriage is a state of penance
After Sin, yes. Adam and Eve lived out their Marriage as penitents doing everything as much as God enabled them to do in reparation to God.
Very nice show. It’s all true. I’m so happy I was married. Family is a foundation that is absolutely necessary.
God provides. I am a teacher at a parochial school. My wife is a homemaker. We have 11 children. God provides.
we need a female version too.
You are so great and holy. Thanks for what you do.
The most important person in a child's life is the father
God already blessed marriage when he said “Be fruitful and multiply….” also his first miracle that he performed after his baptism was manifested at the wedding at Cana, and Mother Mary was there. The fruits of that mystery was “To Jesus through Mary…”
The only things that give me satisfaction and fulfillment are alcohol and the gym.
Have you tried video games and social media?
@@rn9940funny lol
@@rn9940
Or hoola hoops.
Excellent episode! Very interesting statistics!
Thanks for listening! God bless.
Ask the men trapped in a loveless and sexless marriage... nothing short of pure misery
When men talk about lovelessness and sexlessness in marriage, my first question is "how much do you serve her and sacrifice yourself for her happiness and beatitude in the marriage?"
The wife who resists giving love and sex is experiencing resentment or is trying to protect herself. What is the man doing not providing for and protecting her, and how?
@@aperta7525Denying her husband sex is a sin.
@@aperta7525I would think that going to a soul crushing job and providing her with the “life that has become accustomed to” is a pretty big sacrifice. I’m not saying it’s the only sacrifice, but let’s be honest, if not for the family court turned against men, you’d be out on your butt.
@@fantasia55no it isn't. Find the church teaching or Bible passage that says so.
@@wanderingthedesert5599if you weren't married, would you stop going to work? Did you have a job before marriage?
Also please let him know about this retreat in November
How can the Catholic Church address concerns about the concentration of power and wealth in the hands of AI developers and corporations, particularly in relation to social justice and the common good?
I would spend every penny possible on my children.
THEE FIRST COMMANDMENT GOD gave to MAN and Woeman was=== BE FRUITFUL and MULTIPLY. Period. MARRIAGE is THEE HOLIEST of Sacraments and Ceremonies and thee MOST HOLY of COVENANTS with God thee Father. PROCREATING new life is THEE MOST SACRED and solemn act of LOVE and SACRIFICE=== any human can give on EARTH; In my HUMBLEST of humble observations on the REAL WORLD. Love to ALL> Praying for the Love of Christ's Divine Mercy to reign in each heart.
Union with the Word of God precedes Marriage.
Eucharist is the holiest of Sacraments.
Marriage seems like a nightmare in this day and age
My mother and father were born in 1936. I don’t know if marriage was under attack in the 50s.
Great episode but I would argue, which St Thomas would confirm, that religious life is an objectively higher state than marriage.
Jesus is my relationship ❤, don't need a wife 🙏🏽😃
1 Corinthians 7:32-35
32 I would like you to be free from concern. An unmarried man is concerned about the Lord’s affairs-how he can please the Lord. 33 But a married man is concerned about the affairs of this world-how he can please his wife- 34 and his interests are divided. An unmarried woman or virgin is concerned about the Lord’s affairs: Her aim is to be devoted to the Lord in both body and spirit. But a married woman is concerned about the affairs of this world-how she can please her husband. 35 I am saying this for your own good, not to restrict you, but that you may live in a right way in undivided devotion to the Lord.
Matthew 22:30
30 At the resurrection people will neither marry nor be given in marriage; they will be like the angels in heaven.
Not everyone is called to marriage, but most are
Completely clueless on female nature, biblical masculinity, feminism, and family law
Fortunately, Spanky Does have a "concept" of being behind bars... and of the Hatians who will come to visit him with their dogs & cats...
Simply put if she has high body counts you’re obviously not her first, second or even her third choice. You’re what she settled for. In terms of having children don’t think that after getting married the husband is going to be her first choice for her getting pregnant. DNA test should be mandatory.
Exactly
You have to choose someone who is converted and repented in mind, not someone who still follows the ways of the world.
First make sure you’re earning six figures, or close to it, before even thinking about marriage.
Marriage no longer exists.
That is a straight up lie
@@eleanorel5918 Straight up, legally speaking, marriage no longer exists.
@@fantasia55 how so
@eleanorel5918 If the woman can leave at any time, and take his house/money/children, the man was never in a marriage.