Situations are not the same , it was easy for you to leave because there are no kids involved . With kids involved , you do not just decide to leave then boom you pack and leave. Its more complicated with kids.
No, no no. We need to stop using kids as scapegoats for staying in toxic marriages, it does not do them any good, it's damaging to them and you who are aggrieved. This is Coming from a person who grew up in a home where the woman stayed for the kids.
The way yol lie to yourselves and use children as justification for your own dysfunction and low self esteem in staying in broken marriages is getting so old. Kids are not the reason you do this because it doesn’t benefit them. You are staying because of your own issues and fears and normalising junk. This is a plain old lie: no child benefits from an unhappy home and Marriage where the mother is depressed and hurt because of a cheating spouse or an abusive spouse, basically a home with no love and warmth and stability plus emotional security especially love. Stop this! It is much more damaging to the children and has far reaching effects for them later in life in terms of the types of relationships they get into the anxiety and mental issues they struggle with. Stop giving children broken examples of marriage/relationships. It’s a lie. It’s toxic. Stop it
@@GidzaWithNokwanda yes its easy to say , but when you are the situation its different especially for women . Many things comes onto your mind , like introducing your kids to your new partner . You do not even know how he will treat your kids or how kids will treat him. It's a lot to adjust , and deep down you might think that the only guy who will truly love your kids their biological father hence you may try to work things out with him( even though , he might have cheated ). This is what usually happen to people .
I married at 21 Ninja because I fell pregnant. I left my husband at 27 yrs old because he was failing our family as a husband & as a father to our son. Due to him losing me because being a careless husband, he's now a 10x better husband to his current wife & such a wonderful father to our son. Staying in a bad marriage is you telling your partner that you accept their behavior & they will continue with that bad behavior.
Literally crying. Thank you for being so open about your journey. I love that you were adamant about using protection before you had decided to leave the marriage. You are handling this situation like a boss.
Taking an HIV test is a nerve wrecking experience even when you are single, the trauma that comes from taking an HIV test knowing you have been loyal to someone, dedicated your life, soul, your body to this person and they casually go out there and stray has got to be the worst experience ever. i wonder if cheaters know just how much they put the cheated partner through. for them its a fun and games, but the scars their actions cause are incomprehensible. NXA!
I will definitely be sharing this with my 16 year old sister. We really need to build and ensure that young women's self esteem is intact, before they engage in any relationship (platonic/romantic) with the opposite gender, and even with the same gender. Low self esteem is the root of "I'm staying for the kids", "it was a mistake, he loves me" or "every relationship has ups and downs, we can work this out". Staying in such relationships is dangerous.
I totally have respect for people(both men & women) who leave their cheating spouses. Even in the Bible, it is the one reason God allows for divorce. There is no reason anyone should stay with a cheating spouse, it is torturous to them and the kids and not worth it. Thank you Owami for being vulnerable with us. I want to comment on HIV. As someone who has done HIV education before, hiv positive people are not sick, if they are living a healthy lifestyle, they live better lives than negative people because they eat right, drink right and exercise. Most are very healthy. Gone are the days when receiving a positive result was a death sentence. It simply means, one needs to start living differently.... and they also go on to have healthy negative babies.
Thank you, I wish more people would educate themselves about it. I'd honestly rather date someone who is living with HIV than a person who "does" because they dont test very often.
It takes a brave and strong woman to share the difficulties in one's life. Thank you for sharing your life experiences as to advice both young and old women out here🙏
I advocate 100% for married womxn getting tested regularly whether they are aware or not of their husband's infidelity. Research documented in UN reports shows that there is a pervasive belief among the HIV community that males (male promiscuity) are primarily responsible for spreading the infection among married and cohabitating couples. Big ups for being accountable for your health Sh'bobo. Super inspired and proud of you❤️
This makes me so angry! Marriage benefits them (men) the most, even the bible says that in it's own way, yet some are outchea taking it for granted by being reckless.
The risk of being HIV infected when your partner cheats is what just makes my heart skip the beat. It's beyond selfish when someone risks someone's life for their pleasure. It just makes me so strong.
Owami you’re so strong. Yes you’re showing young girls like us that you can get out of relationships we don’t want and not to tolerate cheating no matter how it’s been normalized
This is so emotional I am going through a divorce as we speak.Its true you mourn the relationship. You mourn the years of companionship, you mourn the pain,you mourn the abuse. I don't think one is ever the same.Days are not the same
2 things about ur story that hit me: 1. You just NEVER know what people are going through coz u were still here entertaining us but going through the most. 2. Life is such a process. Even when one incident happens, it ends up sometimes taking a while to get through coz it affects other areas of your life too. Thank you for being transparent with us Owamie. Wishing u continued love and strength 🙏🏾❤️
The moment I see a comment about how difficult it is to stay when you have kids, oh its not easy to leave because the partner is a breadwinner... Hai hai mann stop it now 🤞🤞😢😢😢. Nobody is saying it's easy, we are woman we know it. But we are now normalizing leaving situations where happiness is not served full stop....
We feel like we’ve been with you on this journey, we appreciate your honesty, vulnerability and relatability! We love you Queen Ninja and please take things one day at a time, it will get better, promise 🙏🏾❤️
Man will never understand the dangers they imposed whenever they decide to cheat, it doesn't only affect you emotional,mental but physical.Imagine having to deal with all this because of someone who decided to choose themselves and their selfishness. Ninja nation ❤☕
Guys I feel like you point too much at guyz, Alot of women cheat too and alot of man are raising kids that are really not theirs because of cheating women, so when we talk about cheating lets generalise....Women cheat on higher grade too....talking from experience.
Thanks for the advise Owamie ,, also u need to protect ur self even if u are happily married coz u never know ,, some men are really good at hiding things
My good sis telling the truth!!! You are so honest and I tell you this video will save lives. You have done something that many churches and mothers and gogos and aunties have failed to do! Well done for being brave enough to be a big sis to thousands of women who needed to hear this. You are a star. I wish you joy and happiness!
Please call Nozibele Mayaba and delve into this HIV topic from a marriage and young, wild and free point of view. Let's sensitise this area and sort of counsel your followers who are experiencing living with HIV and it's the pits. I'm an HIV Activist/Advocate from Botswana 🇧🇼 living openly with HIV and appreciate you ladies touching on these topics.
🙁🙁🙁🙁😪being cheated on by your husband is the most painful thing ever... it comes with so many things, im waiting for ladies who still say bona they bekezela such nonsense... Wena Ninja we will forever respect you ane we will forever support you coz you choose yourself and avoided alot of things
Yebo... people who are used to it are literally ready to receive any ish that their partners will bring to their homes, from sti's , HIV, children, mental and financial strains basically everything.... Ag you took the best decision ever lapho ninja its hard kodwa look at you climbing up having strength to share your experiences 🥺😭😘❣sakthanda and siyabonga for the teachings
My husband cheated and brought HIV...im glad i left...still separated but in process of divorcing. He just dsnt care. He never tried to save marriage the marriage, he expected to bekezela bcos is the woman who is supposed to fight, otherwise a woman is regarded as weak or not wife material. 😭😭
Yhooo wami, I was even scared to hear what the results are, the trauma and emotional turmoil you went through even doing the test worse when waiting for the results. We thank God Wamie.
When you said you were about to cry, I honestly shed a tear. You are truly a lioness Ninja one of the strongest women I know.. The pain of being loyal to someone and have cheat on you is too much but thanks God you came out of the situation healthy and HIV negative...Healing from all the lies and cheating might take a little longer but it always gets better with time. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Thanks for sharing your story... I am also separated pending divorce because of the same thing. It's so painful going through infedility especially when you are doing your most in the marriage to build.. And someone is out there sleeping around without a condom. We go through alot as women and I respect your strength in sharing and being open. God Bless.
Can you please make an STI focused video , and talk about whether to stay in the relationship after been given any STI or STD , if possible get a medical expect even a nurse is fine ,many young people go to the clinic for STI related issues every day!
Maaaaaan!! You are tackling such important topics, it's such a pity that you had to go through such a traumatic and stressful time in your life and relationships but I'm glad that you are choosing to take the lessons and educate others. Well done, and I guess the reason why it holds so much substance is because you are speaking from experience. Thank you for sharing on such a difficult situation.
Notification gang.💃You Look Beautiful Wamie 💖😍.Cheating is deep hey you don't just break someone's trust but you bring incurable diseases to your loved ones. This is therapy Wamie thank you so much for being transparent we are learning a thing or two
To set up your camera, lights, get yourself ready, sit in your room and create this video,edit a 45min video!!! You are healing someone, you are helping someone, and through this you will help yourself and your process. Thank you for trusting us and sharing such intimate details of a painful process you are going through. Praying for you Owamie.
Wow! Your videos always have so much wisdom. I am here for the "community service" part. Cheating wouldn't have been normalized like this, had a lot of women thought of the next women.
Listening to your truth really pains me coz I have a friend who is in an abusive relationship and she's been cheated on for years. The sad part is she will say he cheats coz these woman bewitch him ei 😥 all these excuses. Its so sad coz I've told her a million times that she has to choose herself and her happiness but after a day or 2 you will hear that they are back together . She's gone as far as saying atleast he hasn't made any other woman pregnant. Her kids are traumatized from seeing their parents fight. I pray one day she gets the guts to leave because this is not life.
The man has studied her love language and mastered it so he will hook him with that or she has a personality problem , some women are so naive even when there is evidence . You will never understand that until you get out of the ' pot ' of abuse .
You are glowing Owamie. I wish you all the best in all your future endeavours, I used to think you were so messy LOL! and didn't understand why/how someone can be so messy but in all honesty, you're just someone only creating a living for themselves❤️
You are absolutely right, my dad has been a serial cheater (married to my mother) for years up until he decided to leave my mother in 2004, her life and health and fell apart and that's where she got a wake up call. My father, not giving a damn, continued with his life. You are not lying. No matter how they say "It's complicated because we have children" its a worn out excuse to not change their current predicament due to financial and other factors. If my father can leave his first wife with children and then his second wife with children then he can certainly do it again. Men (self centred ones), are for themselves and what satisfies them. I'm standing in solidarity with the notion you're setting. Emotions can manipulate you into tolerating bs, iIve seen it with my own eyes when it came to me personally.
The "community service" is so necessary. If i catch a man cheating i dont think twice i dump him. (Never been married though). But i once dated a man who cheated in all his previous relationships(red flag i know) but was never dumped for cheating. So when he cheated on me i brokeup on him not only for myself but also for community service just so he knows that cheating is risky you might lose someone you love.
@@austinmartin5354 how do you know I'm not getting the point? Your mother is the one that's slow because she gave birth to you and you are even slower. There was no need to be rude.
I also just want add on what you said there are also spiritually transference. When he is sleeping with other women he carries their bad omens back to you . Leading to unknown miscarriages, fibroids nje you carry those women's things spiritually.
@@tshegofatsosewela9312 what upsets me is the double standard. This is only emphasised a lot to women and seems to not comply to men meanwhile more then half of the time men(including married men) have sex with multiple women...The same person I could be saving myself for is/has engaged with several women now I have to suffer for his actions...Even if he hasn't had sex with several women he might after our marriage ,because that's what most(not all but men have constantly proven that more than half of them do it) men do. I think soul ties exists to a certain extend it's all about how much power you give it.
Girrrl you are a Queen for real. Keep educating us. The shine on you💥💥💥. You are only going up and forward and that does come with pain. Awsome stuff Owamie .
Truth be told it takes a lot courage to leave. As women we really need to put ourselves first and stop thinking marriage defines us. Haters can say what they want. But you are a strong beautiful queen.❤
The honesty your giving is clearly coming from someone who has had a lot of questions and search for valid answers. It may look to other like you’re an advocate for divorce but this advice is necessary for young women to hear... only someone who has experienced and tried everything can be this real with you. Wow I hear you sis❤️
Owami , not to take you back, but I would like to find out, how did you find out about the cheating, were you snooping? I found condoms in the spare wheel compartment of his car, and he is an ex now.
I honestly don't feel any sympathy for people who stayed in relationship knowing that their Patners were cheating and later on contracted disease .that's like feeling sorry for a person who was playing with a hungry lion then eventually got eaten
This takes me back when i got mine , i was so devastated ( being young , in Matric and pregnant)... But with time and counselling, i got to be better emotionally than i was 15 years ago.. Keep on motivating shibubu, you the best... 🤗💕😘🙏
Out of curiosity kengoku Owamie if you were HIV POSITIVE were you gonna tell us?... You have a beautiful bedroom you also handling this devorce thingy so well.
Situations are not the same , it was easy for you to leave because there are no kids involved . With kids involved , you do not just decide to leave then boom you pack and leave.
Its more complicated with kids.
No, no no. We need to stop using kids as scapegoats for staying in toxic marriages, it does not do them any good, it's damaging to them and you who are aggrieved. This is Coming from a person who grew up in a home where the woman stayed for the kids.
@@GidzaWithNokwanda Very true I grew up in the same situation and all I just wanted to see were my parents happy whether they are divorced or together
@@GidzaWithNokwanda So so so true 💯 well said dearie 💕
The way yol lie to yourselves and use children as justification for your own dysfunction and low self esteem in staying in broken marriages is getting so old. Kids are not the reason you do this because it doesn’t benefit them. You are staying because of your own issues and fears and normalising junk. This is a plain old lie: no child benefits from an unhappy home and Marriage where the mother is depressed and hurt because of a cheating spouse or an abusive spouse, basically a home with no love and warmth and stability plus emotional security especially love. Stop this! It is much more damaging to the children and has far reaching effects for them later in life in terms of the types of relationships they get into the anxiety and mental issues they struggle with. Stop giving children broken examples of marriage/relationships. It’s a lie. It’s toxic. Stop it
@@GidzaWithNokwanda yes its easy to say , but when you are the situation its different especially for women .
Many things comes onto your mind , like introducing your kids to your new partner . You do not even know how he will treat your kids or how kids will treat him.
It's a lot to adjust , and deep down you might think that the only guy who will truly love your kids their biological father hence you may try to work things out with him( even though , he might have cheated ). This is what usually happen to people .
I married at 21 Ninja because I fell pregnant. I left my husband at 27 yrs old because he was failing our family as a husband & as a father to our son. Due to him losing me because being a careless husband, he's now a 10x better husband to his current wife & such a wonderful father to our son. Staying in a bad marriage is you telling your partner that you accept their behavior & they will continue with that bad behavior.
The honesty is so refreshing. This channel is therapy.
She's amazing ❤️
Indeed it is....
Literally crying. Thank you for being so open about your journey. I love that you were adamant about using protection before you had decided to leave the marriage. You are handling this situation like a boss.
Ikrrr😯
Taking an HIV test is a nerve wrecking experience even when you are single, the trauma that comes from taking an HIV test knowing you have been loyal to someone, dedicated your life, soul, your body to this person and they casually go out there and stray has got to be the worst experience ever. i wonder if cheaters know just how much they put the cheated partner through. for them its a fun and games, but the scars their actions cause are incomprehensible. NXA!
Can We Just Take Time to appreciate the beauty of this Woman 😍❤wow
Inside and out ❤️
I will definitely be sharing this with my 16 year old sister. We really need to build and ensure that young women's self esteem is intact, before they engage in any relationship (platonic/romantic) with the opposite gender, and even with the same gender. Low self esteem is the root of "I'm staying for the kids", "it was a mistake, he loves me" or "every relationship has ups and downs, we can work this out". Staying in such relationships is dangerous.
"Not all men cheat" PREACH!🙌🏽👏🏽
Thank you for always giving us advice. We appreciate it.
And this is the truth of it all. There are good men out there.
I was raised by one He’s not my dad but I got to see that not all men are the same through him.
Here is one of them.
@@gordenmg4966 God bless you
@@GidzaWithNokwanda where
When you tried so hard to hold back your tears.. I actually dropped one tear 😥
Yeh I felt that as she was trying so hard to hold the tears back 💔
Thank you for this. People really need updated HIV education, thank you to people like Nozibele Mayaba who are sharing their positive stories.
I totally have respect for people(both men & women) who leave their cheating spouses. Even in the Bible, it is the one reason God allows for divorce. There is no reason anyone should stay with a cheating spouse, it is torturous to them and the kids and not worth it. Thank you Owami for being vulnerable with us.
I want to comment on HIV. As someone who has done HIV education before, hiv positive people are not sick, if they are living a healthy lifestyle, they live better lives than negative people because they eat right, drink right and exercise. Most are very healthy. Gone are the days when receiving a positive result was a death sentence. It simply means, one needs to start living differently.... and they also go on to have healthy negative babies.
With too much extra unnecessary precautions .
Thank you, I wish more people would educate themselves about it. I'd honestly rather date someone who is living with HIV than a person who "does" because they dont test very often.
It takes a brave and strong woman to share the difficulties in one's life. Thank you for sharing your life experiences as to advice both young and old women out here🙏
Absolutely right love 🥰
Very true, and be strong and courageous Owami, your happiness come first
Not me liking the video before I could even watch it❤️
Also, you are so beautiful 🤩
I advocate 100% for married womxn getting tested regularly whether they are aware or not of their husband's infidelity. Research documented in UN reports shows that there is a pervasive belief among the HIV community that males (male promiscuity) are primarily responsible for spreading the infection among married and cohabitating couples. Big ups for being accountable for your health Sh'bobo. Super inspired and proud of you❤️
This makes me so angry! Marriage benefits them (men) the most, even the bible says that in it's own way, yet some are outchea taking it for granted by being reckless.
The risk of being HIV infected when your partner cheats is what just makes my heart skip the beat. It's beyond selfish when someone risks someone's life for their pleasure. It just makes me so strong.
I test every year. It was just part of my exsistance!!! Owamie its good to educate the nation on your platform..very proud of you my queen🎤🎤🎤🎤preach
You can cry this is part of your therapy darling, your pain will heal so many women out there.
Yaaasss awumhle 😍 filming in the bedroom because maki beka busy nge fruit salad 😂😂😂😋
😂😂😂😂
Ninja you’re too much 😂😂
I saw that insta story and I was like 😯 we need to hear more about this Maki 😂😂
Owami you’re so strong. Yes you’re showing young girls like us that you can get out of relationships we don’t want and not to tolerate cheating no matter how it’s been normalized
Don't disrepect yourself girl.
This is so emotional I am going through a divorce as we speak.Its true you mourn the relationship. You mourn the years of companionship, you mourn the pain,you mourn the abuse.
I don't think one is ever the same.Days are not the same
May God give you strength to overcome. 🤍
2 things about ur story that hit me:
1. You just NEVER know what people are going through coz u were still here entertaining us but going through the most.
2. Life is such a process. Even when one incident happens, it ends up sometimes taking a while to get through coz it affects other areas of your life too.
Thank you for being transparent with us Owamie. Wishing u continued love and strength 🙏🏾❤️
That's why I always quote somebody's statement that u must treat everyone u meet like they going through something, cause the smile can be deceiving
It takes strength to open up, thank you for sharing that part of you with us Owamie ❤️
Yeah sis i did it(testing) 2 weeks ago even though Im married and been with him over a dacade.Its better to know than not to know really!
The moment I see a comment about how difficult it is to stay when you have kids, oh its not easy to leave because the partner is a breadwinner... Hai hai mann stop it now 🤞🤞😢😢😢.
Nobody is saying it's easy, we are woman we know it. But we are now normalizing leaving situations where happiness is not served full stop....
We feel like we’ve been with you on this journey, we appreciate your honesty, vulnerability and relatability! We love you Queen Ninja and please take things one day at a time, it will get better, promise 🙏🏾❤️
Well said on all points. Never be a backup plan for some man, husband or not. We need to love ourselves first. You got this, Sis👊🏽
May God strengthen you during this trying time. Take heart sis. Take it one day at a time.
Your ninjas love you and are cheering you on. ❤️🕯✨
Man will never understand the dangers they imposed whenever they decide to cheat, it doesn't only affect you emotional,mental but physical.Imagine having to deal with all this because of someone who decided to choose themselves and their selfishness.
Ninja nation ❤☕
You can say that again🙏
Say that again Thando and again hun 💕
Cheating is such a selfish act. If you’re not happy, tell you’re partner and if noting changes.. leave.
@@lulamanjuza exactly instead of making them fool cause the other person will be making future plans with you in the picture while you ain't there
Guys I feel like you point too much at guyz, Alot of women cheat too and alot of man are raising kids that are really not theirs because of cheating women, so when we talk about cheating lets generalise....Women cheat on higher grade too....talking from experience.
Thanks for the advise Owamie ,, also u need to protect ur self even if u are happily married coz u never know ,, some men are really good at hiding things
My good sis telling the truth!!! You are so honest and I tell you this video will save lives. You have done something that many churches and mothers and gogos and aunties have failed to do! Well done for being brave enough to be a big sis to thousands of women who needed to hear this. You are a star. I wish you joy and happiness!
Please call Nozibele Mayaba and delve into this HIV topic from a marriage and young, wild and free point of view. Let's sensitise this area and sort of counsel your followers who are experiencing living with HIV and it's the pits.
I'm an HIV Activist/Advocate from Botswana 🇧🇼 living openly with HIV and appreciate you ladies touching on these topics.
Nonetheless girl u beautiful. That look Is my favorite , those lashes wow. The Face Is so snatched 💯🔥
I respect you so much. You're so beautiful and so inspiring.
🙁🙁🙁🙁😪being cheated on by your husband is the most painful thing ever... it comes with so many things, im waiting for ladies who still say bona they bekezela such nonsense... Wena Ninja we will forever respect you ane we will forever support you coz you choose yourself and avoided alot of things
Its the worst i won't lie
Yebo... people who are used to it are literally ready to receive any ish that their partners will bring to their homes, from sti's , HIV, children, mental and financial strains basically everything.... Ag you took the best decision ever lapho ninja its hard kodwa look at you climbing up having strength to share your experiences 🥺😭😘❣sakthanda and siyabonga for the teachings
@@khutsomanokoana1805 thank you my Ninja 🥰🥰🥰
My husband cheated and brought HIV...im glad i left...still separated but in process of divorcing. He just dsnt care. He never tried to save marriage the marriage, he expected to bekezela bcos is the woman who is supposed to fight, otherwise a woman is regarded as weak or not wife material. 😭😭
@@bettykhuboni8758 Im so sorry sis that u had to go through that...pls stay strong
Yhooo wami, I was even scared to hear what the results are, the trauma and emotional turmoil you went through even doing the test worse when waiting for the results. We thank God Wamie.
We are here for you and thank you for telling us your story
Wow wow wow....shhuuu...you mentioned big stuff there!!! You must have a talkshow😍😍😍😍😭😭😭😭❤❤❤
You look so gorgeous Owamie 😍🌻
When you said you were about to cry, I honestly shed a tear. You are truly a lioness Ninja one of the strongest women I know.. The pain of being loyal to someone and have cheat on you is too much but thanks God you came out of the situation healthy and HIV negative...Healing from all the lies and cheating might take a little longer but it always gets better with time. Thank you for sharing ❤️
Hey Carol I shared a tear too eish is not an easy situation but hey God is our strength love 💕
‘Cry before work and cry after work’ This is funny but shows your strength of character. You’re tough and resilient. Thank you for sharing Owami.
Ncooo thank you for being open. Cry its ok.😍
True Rato ♥️
Yes you are right, you are helping the next woman that will come in his life
To me you've always been a strong woman since I knew you in varsity girl. One love💕🥀
I love you Ninja 💞
The fact that people can be married and still be searching for their soulmates, scares the living shit out of me. 😩
It's people that never married their "soulmates" in the first place. Sometimes you marry the wrong person for the wrong reasons.
@@deeslife8243 this is scary man😩
@@deeslife8243 exactly. Then u divorce and move on.
Owamie is stating the untold truth. We have honestly normalised the wrong things,
Some people are snakes!
Smart lady - it’s about you and your health.
Thanks for sharing your story... I am also separated pending divorce because of the same thing. It's so painful going through infedility especially when you are doing your most in the marriage to build.. And someone is out there sleeping around without a condom. We go through alot as women and I respect your strength in sharing and being open. God Bless.
Owami I cried at 11minutes of the video...
May you strengthen up girl. Ay life can b rough man
Girl girl you are real deal! A friend in my mind, preach the truth sista 😍
Can you please make an STI focused video , and talk about whether to stay in the relationship after been given any STI or STD , if possible get a medical expect even a nurse is fine ,many young people go to the clinic for STI related issues every day!
@ Mmakgomo Maeko That would be very informative. Great idea Sis❤️
@@kcndaba8072 thank you for the back up sis!
@@mmakgomomaeko6663 ❤️❤️
Yes thanks it will help a lot out there
Maaaaaan!! You are tackling such important topics, it's such a pity that you had to go through such a traumatic and stressful time in your life and relationships but I'm glad that you are choosing to take the lessons and educate others. Well done, and I guess the reason why it holds so much substance is because you are speaking from experience. Thank you for sharing on such a difficult situation.
Notification gang.💃You Look Beautiful Wamie 💖😍.Cheating is deep hey you don't just break someone's trust but you bring incurable diseases to your loved ones. This is therapy Wamie thank you so much for being transparent we are learning a thing or two
To set up your camera, lights, get yourself ready, sit in your room and create this video,edit a 45min video!!!
You are healing someone, you are helping someone, and through this you will help yourself and your process. Thank you for trusting us and sharing such intimate details of a painful process you are going through. Praying for you Owamie.
I love you for this, you're so authentic Sis Owami ❤️
Owamie , I started knowing your through Celebrities' stories , but today , let this your content - real stories you are great in narrating .
Wow! Your videos always have so much wisdom. I am here for the "community service" part. Cheating wouldn't have been normalized like this, had a lot of women thought of the next women.
We are here❤️happy Monday ninjas♥️🥂
To you too Ninja🤗
🥂
Please do a collab with Nozibele Mayaba about HIV issues
I was thinking the same thing. Currently my 2 of my fav ladies currently on TH-cam. Real ladies. Thank you both so much
I agree
Great idea
I agree
Wooow i was thinking the same thing as i watched.
You are so gorgeous shuu 🔥🔥 that glow mma 😍
We will flow you Owami because Girl boss we want you to Prosper❤️
Listening to your truth really pains me coz I have a friend who is in an abusive relationship and she's been cheated on for years. The sad part is she will say he cheats coz these woman bewitch him ei 😥 all these excuses. Its so sad coz I've told her a million times that she has to choose herself and her happiness but after a day or 2 you will hear that they are back together . She's gone as far as saying atleast he hasn't made any other woman pregnant. Her kids are traumatized from seeing their parents fight. I pray one day she gets the guts to leave because this is not life.
The man has studied her love language and mastered it so he will hook him with that or she has a personality problem , some women are so naive even when there is evidence .
You will never understand that until you get out of the ' pot ' of abuse .
She will see her husband's kids when her husband dies , I am sorry to say that .
@@jedidiahgodsbeloved6605 yah very true he knows how to get to her that i know. Its sad though I just hope one day things change.
@@MsKay287 women should be emotionally and psychologically empowered and read biblical based books to know the real truth from God .
Bless you Owamie for this video. Honestly, GOD bless you !!!!!!!
Community service.... I like that. Thank you for strengthening ours sisters. You are incredible 🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Owamie is beautiful guys baby girl you glowing ❤️❤️❤️
Thank you so much for sharing. You are very strong but like you said, strength is also acknowledging and feeling the pain. You are amazing.
You are glowing Owamie. I wish you all the best in all your future endeavours, I used to think you were so messy LOL! and didn't understand why/how someone can be so messy but in all honesty, you're just someone only creating a living for themselves❤️
You are absolutely right, my dad has been a serial cheater (married to my mother) for years up until he decided to leave my mother in 2004, her life and health and fell apart and that's where she got a wake up call. My father, not giving a damn, continued with his life. You are not lying.
No matter how they say "It's complicated because we have children" its a worn out excuse to not change their current predicament due to financial and other factors. If my father can leave his first wife with children and then his second wife with children then he can certainly do it again.
Men (self centred ones), are for themselves and what satisfies them. I'm standing in solidarity with the notion you're setting. Emotions can manipulate you into tolerating bs, iIve seen it with my own eyes when it came to me personally.
can i tell you something? when you feel like crying, please dont withhold the tears, please cry it out, i respect women who leave cheating partners.
You’re a strong and bold woman thank you for sharing and “GROW THROUGH WHAT YOU GO THROUGH “
Am so proud of you for opening about this it's not everyone who can address this situation publicly. Let's talk about it 🤎🤎
You look gorgeous babe😍😍Where did you buy your lashes?? In fact please do me a tutorial on this look
Goodmorning beautiful ninjas❤️❤️
Yho NINJA o motle hore😍
It's ok love, you're one tough cookie ntomboooo💖💖
I love you so much. You are such a strong woman ❤❤💖💖
Beyond glad you are okay Owami. This video will teach and heal a lot of people
Thank you Owamie for this video you are a strong Queen ♥️♥️♥️👸. Please do invite the person & a video on how to exit.
The "community service" is so necessary. If i catch a man cheating i dont think twice i dump him. (Never been married though). But i once dated a man who cheated in all his previous relationships(red flag i know) but was never dumped for cheating. So when he cheated on me i brokeup on him not only for myself but also for community service just so he knows that cheating is risky you might lose someone you love.
The truth is someone is going to date him anyway
@@tondaniraluswinga2590 you are not getting the point, so slow
@@austinmartin5354 how do you know I'm not getting the point? Your mother is the one that's slow because she gave birth to you and you are even slower. There was no need to be rude.
The consistency of slaying I have no choice but to stan 🔥
I also just want add on what you said there are also spiritually transference. When he is sleeping with other women he carries their bad omens back to you . Leading to unknown miscarriages, fibroids nje you carry those women's things spiritually.
Do soul ties really exist?
@@lebohangm7252 they really do you will carry people's bad luck and stuff . Sex is dangerous for women. That's why your body should be your temple
@@lebohangm7252 a lot , they are real .
@@tshegofatsosewela9312 what upsets me is the double standard. This is only emphasised a lot to women and seems to not comply to men meanwhile more then half of the time men(including married men) have sex with multiple women...The same person I could be saving myself for is/has engaged with several women now I have to suffer for his actions...Even if he hasn't had sex with several women he might after our marriage ,because that's what most(not all but men have constantly proven that more than half of them do it) men do. I think soul ties exists to a certain extend it's all about how much power you give it.
Girrrl you are a Queen for real. Keep educating us. The shine on you💥💥💥. You are only going up and forward and that does come with pain. Awsome stuff Owamie .
Truth be told it takes a lot courage to leave. As women we really need to put ourselves first and stop thinking marriage defines us.
Haters can say what they want. But you are a strong beautiful queen.❤
Owami you deserve to be followed everywhere you take your work serious.
The only long videos I watch 🥷
The honesty your giving is clearly coming from someone who has had a lot of questions and search for valid answers. It may look to other like you’re an advocate for divorce but this advice is necessary for young women to hear... only someone who has experienced and tried everything can be this real with you. Wow I hear you sis❤️
Owami , not to take you back, but I would like to find out, how did you find out about the cheating, were you snooping?
I found condoms in the spare wheel compartment of his car, and he is an ex now.
Wow one of the last places I would even look . My ex married his ex behind my back his still texting me inappropriately
I honestly don't feel any sympathy for people who stayed in relationship knowing that their Patners were cheating and later on contracted disease .that's like feeling sorry for a person who was playing with a hungry lion then eventually got eaten
You are amazing Owamie, I wish God keep blessing you and give you energy to empower others.💪🏽❤️
This takes me back when i got mine , i was so devastated ( being young , in Matric and pregnant)... But with time and counselling, i got to be better emotionally than i was 15 years ago..
Keep on motivating shibubu, you the best... 🤗💕😘🙏
So happy you are still alive and looking healthy. Keep living and loving. ❤❤
The honesty ❤😭😭😭.. we appreciate you ninja
I went through the same situation but came up with two kids. It gets better with time. Trust me girl.💓
M glad you didn’t stay for the sake of the kids
Thank you for Advice Owamie. I'm glad you are Negative. We thank God ❤🙏
Good morning ❤️... I’m sure that was such a nerve wrecking experience
The more you talk about it is the more you are going to heal I am proud of you you put your self first
Sending you love and praying for you ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Out of curiosity kengoku Owamie if you were HIV POSITIVE were you gonna tell us?...
You have a beautiful bedroom you also handling this devorce thingy so well.
"Hi Nunju, how is you and your grandmother doing"? Love you Owamie, you're hilarious!😂🤣
Owami I'm proud of you Mama Africa❤️
Informative talk💜
HAow... Queen Ninja.. le Kitchen nyana fela.. Or bathroom geh..
Hey Owami. You are so brave for doing this. We love you
What is this level of gorgeousness ghuurrrl 🔥
Super proud of you Ninja, you are a super star