If there's something that I love about your channel is that you can never watch a video and still be the same...you always learn something and you grow. My love life has improved since I started watching...I'm in a relationship for 6 months for the first time in my life❤️ my previous ones only lasted 2 weeks or so lol
This is absolutely true. These pointers make a huge difference and make communication even more effective: 1. Listen to understand not to respond 2. Mind your tone 3. Be quick to forgive 4. Never bring up past wrongs/ transgressions 5. Don't shout/yell but speak calmly and with kindness. Be mindful of this and deliberate in doing so! Thank you so much.
It's really motivating so see christian couples up here on TH-cam just blowing love to each other. May God bless this relationship. All roads to 100K :)
Love this couple. I've been married for 23 years now and I've known my husband for 35 years but they're imparting so much wisdom in my life as young as they are. Thank you so much guys for these topics. Keep shining
Those nuggets about not ever raising your voice 👏🏽 Confession: I am so rebuked by this video on communication because I had just gotten off the phone with my BF and I was very snappy to him. When the call ended, this video was waiting in my notifications. Going to practice what I just learnt and ask for forgiveness 🙏🏽
I’ve literally been so bad at all these points for the past year and 3 months with my partner , and it’s caused major issues. One of the worst things I think is the attacking the other person when they’ve dissapointed/hurt you. Instead of getting vulnerable about how something has made you feel, we go into defense mode and attack the other. Awesome video, awesome content !
I alwys thot that being christian couple was hard but guys after watching this guys i humbled myself♥️ n last i subscribed to mpoomy n yolz channel because i feel like this guys are not fake. Love from Botswana
The Bible says what Sir Brenden 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂slow and quick... This made my day... I know you a week ago and you are THE channel for me.. Thank you for making Christianity so cool.
Brenden is right on point when he says sound being louder doesn't mean its more audible. As an Audiology student I learn a lot about communication but I often took it for granted but I am ready to implement these tips.
One thing I've loved about these relationship chats is that I saw a different side to Mpumi (not that you've been fake all along🤣). I swear I thought she was perfect and I aspired to that but with each video I learn that uyahlupha like the rest of us women and we are all on this journey to trying and bettering ourselves 🤣❤️ thank you guys for sharing yourselves with us. Truly. 🙏🏾💖
Yesss I read somewhere that said sometimes you have to understand that its you and your partner against a situation and not you against your partner. Absolutely Agree!
Love the point on forgiveness. I need to understand how it makes you feel so I can validate it for myself for the future. Helps with self accountability.
😂😂 I’m the quick forgiver in the relationship. Communication is really important, it’s a work in progress. Sometimes you get it right, other times it’s difficult but what’s important is to keep trying. Love this video. Thanks guys.
Well done Brandon for leading your first vid, you have done really really outstanding and can we have more vids where you lead the conversation 😃😃😅😅😅😅.... really enjoyed the vid. thank u guys. Yes can we have a full video about forgiveness not just forgiving the other person but self forgiveness as Well
I'll want to add that since some of us are non-South Africans, if you could add the translation of the things you say in your dialect, we'll appreciate it. All the same Thank you Mpoomy. We love you♥️
I’m watching this video and I didn’t even realize it but I was actually mentally reflecting on my past relationship because there were certain points Abuti Brenden mentioned that were very familiar to my past experiences. I thought to myself “why am I watching this if I’m not even in a relationship?” but I realized that I’m actually equipping myself for my future and that came to me as an epiphany. I’m very big on communication and I believe it really does make or break a relationship. Your recent videos/series on love has been so great for me, thank you hey. 💛🙏🏽
Dies ist das einzige Ehepaar, das ich von Anfang bis Ende mit einem anerkennenden Lächeln beobachte. May you continue to be abundantly blessed with good health and overflow of wisdom and wealth. #Roadto100K 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The amount of wisdom that you guys possess wow and thank you for sharing it with the rest of the world. Trust me it's helping us out here. God bless you
I think it's wonderful when both partners are matured and can handle this communication thing but it's even better when the guy gets it because he is called to be the leader of his home.
You guys are so refreshing! God bless you guys! We're living in an era where Men and Women are just going at each other trying to prove which gender is better but you guys really advocate for unity and true love. That can only happen when you know God. The spirit of Christ is upon you and I pray that each and every individual reading this gets touched by the Holy Spirit in a way that they never thought God would!
Thank you for sharing Ledwaba's, this conversation triggers a lot of things in my life. I have been doing self introspection few days ago and I have been praying that God helps me to overcome short tamper. I have been struggling with being quick to get angry such that most of my discussions end up being arguments and fights. I pray for improving in my listening skills and lowering my voice. Bless you guys.
Mina i just love you guys❤️. & the bonus point is everything, I have noticed it with my younger siblings that whenever you raise your voice at them they become more rebels, but when you talk calmly to them they respond positively. Thank you darlings 😘.
I love you guys a lot, ever since I subscribed to your channel I make sure when that notification comes I don't waste time, i'm learning a lot, God bless you our beautiful Mrs Mom and your family!!❤❤
very true. the right communication approach will determine weather your partner will listen to you or not. sometimes we might be right, but, the way and the tone we use to present our case might make us wrong. thank you so much
I have learnt that listening at times calls for more than just hearing the words but also observing the unspoken, full engagement warrants a better understanding..
I feel blessed now that I'm introduced to yo content 🤞 everytime I watch yo content I want to comment but Im in lost for words 😢 what you guys have is so real & special 💯👌 young married black couple in Christ 🙌💯 recipy for success ✨✨✨
I remember with my ex....he would say sorry and when i try explain how i felt/ how it made me feel he would start shouting at me saying "I said sorry mxm what more do you want" and then he would do it again. And I honestly feel if he had heard me he wouldnt do it again.
Wow, I have truly been rebuked by this conversation. I pray God helps me and may I learn to communicate better with my partner no matter the situation. Love is beautiful, Love is God. May God continue to bless you both with wisdom, thank you for sharing 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
I've been watching so much of you guys n yhoo thixo wam ! i fall inlove nani guys everytime. im not yet married but boy oh boy iknow once im married umshado wam will be super amazing hence i take tips all the time from these channels. keep the love burning guys syanithanda
Wow..I'm really touched and shaken by this video, it really taught me a lot that i have to fix my communication skills in all of my relationships especially with my siblings because we fight alot and we dont entirely forgive each other since we do bring up the past to the present issue. THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS ❤️..
Just saw your channel. You are at 190k subscribers and am subscribing now. I have watched 5 videos and i have felt inlove with everything you guys are doing. Keep it up
Mpoomz, we need God on this one... This beautiful institution of marriage needs work and a lot of selflessness. One's ability to not always want to be right and always asserting themselves, self control etc...You guys are right, every partner's view and needs are equally important. A sensitive/complex topic but a very necessary one...thanks for the light and wisdom... Ohh by the way, some people resort to Silence to communicate and can do a lot of damage... May God help us.
Who's here in 2024? Love love my people. Look how far they've come, dad(God) is truly amazing.
If there's something that I love about your channel is that you can never watch a video and still be the same...you always learn something and you grow. My love life has improved since I started watching...I'm in a relationship for 6 months for the first time in my life❤️ my previous ones only lasted 2 weeks or so lol
Hahah we are proud of you ❤️
True, I also always learn something new from them.. I love them
So true ❤ they're the Light in this world. A light that's shining so bright so give us direction. God bless you more.
This channel is a ministry ❤
Brenden the verse is James 1:19
Don't sweat it you got it right. It says let every person be quick to listen, slow to speak, slow to anger.
This is absolutely true. These pointers make a huge difference and make communication even more effective:
1. Listen to understand not to respond
2. Mind your tone
3. Be quick to forgive
4. Never bring up past wrongs/ transgressions
5. Don't shout/yell but speak calmly and with kindness. Be mindful of this and deliberate in doing so!
Thank you so much.
Power shot: “Louder isn’t always more audable” . “When having a discussion both parties’s suppose to win”. You guys are really adorable 😊
Urg loved this video. 😍😍😍 We have hit 100k subies 💃🏻💃🏻. CONGRATULATIONS 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I love how Brendan always has his hand on your back......always!!!
So gentle man argh
It's really motivating so see christian couples up here on TH-cam just blowing love to each other. May God bless this relationship. All roads to 100K :)
I see Mpoomy Ledwaba and I click. As simple as that🙏✨
Ahhh I appreciate it so much ❤️🤗
You are loved dearly sis Mpumi❤
Me too😊❤️
Loool same here 😂😅
Love this couple. I've been married for 23 years now and I've known my husband for 35 years but they're imparting so much wisdom in my life as young as they are. Thank you so much guys for these topics. Keep shining
I love how you guys admit your weaknesses and don't display a perfect front 😍
The urge to like this video over and over again whenever I watch it. Very beautiful and informative❤
Wow, am not in a romantic relationship but I plan on applying this in every aspect of my life, communication is key.
Those nuggets about not ever raising your voice 👏🏽 Confession: I am so rebuked by this video on communication because I had just gotten off the phone with my BF and I was very snappy to him. When the call ended, this video was waiting in my notifications. Going to practice what I just learnt and ask for forgiveness 🙏🏽
That's real growth 💯
I’ve literally been so bad at all these points for the past year and 3 months with my partner , and it’s caused major issues. One of the worst things I think is the attacking the other person when they’ve dissapointed/hurt you. Instead of getting vulnerable about how something has made you feel, we go into defense mode and attack the other.
Awesome video, awesome content !
"Lead with love"✍️, everything should be done in love, even communication in this regard. I'm loving this🥂
*Louder isn’t always more audible* 🙌🏼
Don’t raise your voice, improve the quality of your argument! So true
3 yrs later still visiting suchhh goood content like this # wisdomupthere
4:05 listening 🫶
I alwys thot that being christian couple was hard but guys after watching this guys i humbled myself♥️ n last i subscribed to mpoomy n yolz channel because i feel like this guys are not fake. Love from Botswana
"When leading with love it becomes easier to forgive" 👌.
The Bible says what Sir Brenden 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂slow and quick... This made my day... I know you a week ago and you are THE channel for me.. Thank you for making Christianity so cool.
Who else was watching something and came running here 😅😅 #NotificationGang🔔
Lol thank you!
i do that as well. Then i share the link to my Whatsapp groups. i think they have secretly named me mmaMpoomy.
Me, l just love this couple 😊😊
You have no reason to raise your voice . I love this point ...
THAT BONUS🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🔥...."louder isn't always audible"...I think mostly as ladies we can relate to this😕
Enjoyed the video so much
Notification squad ❤️❤️❤️
We like before we watch
Thank you so much ❤️
Brenden is right on point when he says sound being louder doesn't mean its more audible. As an Audiology student I learn a lot about communication but I often took it for granted but I am ready to implement these tips.
One thing I've loved about these relationship chats is that I saw a different side to Mpumi (not that you've been fake all along🤣). I swear I thought she was perfect and I aspired to that but with each video I learn that uyahlupha like the rest of us women and we are all on this journey to trying and bettering ourselves 🤣❤️ thank you guys for sharing yourselves with us. Truly. 🙏🏾💖
"Whenever you raise your voice it doesn't mean the other person can hear you better"..I took this one..
Thanks alot
I learnt so much
Yesss I read somewhere that said sometimes you have to understand that its you and your partner against a situation and not you against your partner. Absolutely Agree!
Brenden Finally knows what the topic is 😂😂😂😂 sanithandi❤❤
😂😂😂
"There's a reason why we have one mouth and two ears" hmm intriguing
Love the point on forgiveness. I need to understand how it makes you feel so I can validate it for myself for the future. Helps with self accountability.
I felt “the stalkers”😂😂😂😂. Guilty as charged!!
Maxine’s Perspective I hope you’ve rectified that ntombi 😂
I also felt that😂😂😂 i even subscribed after that
Who else likes Mpoomy’s laugh 😂😂?
LOL I AM ONLY COMMENTING BECAUSE IT IS YOU
Skhuthele Ntintili you don’t know how happy I am just seeing your name pop up on my screen 😭😭😭😭!
@@mondeherstory8849 The Feeling Is Mutual Nana 🎉
These videos really make me a better human being shem
Same here. I'm learning so much!
Brenden: “ai baby ngiya Leader today” 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Brenden knows today's topic😂
😂😂 I’m the quick forgiver in the relationship. Communication is really important, it’s a work in progress. Sometimes you get it right, other times it’s difficult but what’s important is to keep trying. Love this video. Thanks guys.
Well done Brandon for leading your first vid, you have done really really outstanding and can we have more vids where you lead the conversation 😃😃😅😅😅😅.... really enjoyed the vid. thank u guys. Yes can we have a full video about forgiveness not just forgiving the other person but self forgiveness as Well
"at the of the day WE ARE A TEAM; we need to BOTH WIN"
The bonus has hit hard on me. "There's never ever a reason to raise your voice"
I'll want to add that since some of us are non-South Africans, if you could add the translation of the things you say in your dialect, we'll appreciate it. All the same Thank you Mpoomy. We love you♥️
Rita Appiah yah I didn’t understand the “vele” thing. But I still love mpoomy and brenden they are doing great job!!
South Africans how do we translate vele? Vele? 🙈
@@MoveWithSalsa Lol there isnt a better word I can think of than 'Actually'
I think its indeed indeed or truly truly 😏😏
@@thorishonoko6203 Yes indeed Actually
“Make it about how you feel” whew that was it. It’s very easy to say “you you you” and naturally the other person is bound to get defensive.
I gain so much as a person,as a woman that is so positive from watching every video of yours ♥ ♥
Brendon: Hambo shatu Cornelius 🤣🤣🤣
I'm loving this, so real❤️
We are soo close 100k💃
"Louder isnt always more audible" 🔥
Part of my List of Confessions: "I am slow to speak, quick to hear, and slow to anger!" cc'Joyce Meyer
I’m watching this video and I didn’t even realize it but I was actually mentally reflecting on my past relationship because there were certain points Abuti Brenden mentioned that were very familiar to my past experiences. I thought to myself “why am I watching this if I’m not even in a relationship?” but I realized that I’m actually equipping myself for my future and that came to me as an epiphany. I’m very big on communication and I believe it really does make or break a relationship. Your recent videos/series on love has been so great for me, thank you hey. 💛🙏🏽
"Treat it as a new chapter even if it happened in the past".. I'll try to bear that in mind🤫🤫
Content I signed up for..
I love your consistency Mommy❤❤
And we are headed to 100k🎉🎉🎉💃💃
You know when someone says something you already knew but Holy Spirit is still working on you... Looved this video.
Yes!!!!
Dies ist das einzige Ehepaar, das ich von Anfang bis Ende mit einem anerkennenden Lächeln beobachte. May you continue to be abundantly blessed with good health and overflow of wisdom and wealth.
#Roadto100K 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
The amount of wisdom that you guys possess wow and thank you for sharing it with the rest of the world. Trust me it's helping us out here. God bless you
Brenden: "u Mrs Mom uyacwebezela" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Lmao so cute 😂❤️
😂😂😂
I think it's wonderful when both partners are matured and can handle this communication thing but it's even better when the guy gets it because he is called to be the leader of his home.
I am the part of the stalker gang, LAWL ! I absolutely love you guys. I really pray that God continues to bless and strengthen you.
U guyz are just a blessing to us I personally will like to meet u one day😿💕💗
You guys are so refreshing! God bless you guys! We're living in an era where Men and Women are just going at each other trying to prove which gender is better but you guys really advocate for unity and true love. That can only happen when you know God. The spirit of Christ is upon you and I pray that each and every individual reading this gets touched by the Holy Spirit in a way that they never thought God would!
Thank you for sharing Ledwaba's, this conversation triggers a lot of things in my life. I have been doing self introspection few days ago and I have been praying that God helps me to overcome short tamper. I have been struggling with being quick to get angry such that most of my discussions end up being arguments and fights. I pray for improving in my listening skills and lowering my voice. Bless you guys.
Mina i just love you guys❤️. & the bonus point is everything, I have noticed it with my younger siblings that whenever you raise your voice at them they become more rebels, but when you talk calmly to them they respond positively. Thank you darlings 😘.
When they just keep posting and posting 😍😍😍💪
I love you guys a lot, ever since I subscribed to your channel I make sure when that notification comes I don't waste time, i'm learning a lot, God bless you our beautiful Mrs Mom and your family!!❤❤
Thank you so much!
Every time I watch the videos I realize I don’t want to settle at all , love is beautiful 🌺and I don’t want anything diluted 🥺thank you guys
I am 18 years old, and I am so determined that watching your channel will turn me into a better person, it is making me realize plenty
Brenden: "Hamba u yo shada u Cornelius" 😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣
His comments are killing me today😂😂😂🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂😂😂
wizepearlzz Foundation he finished me with laughter that part is hilarious
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 yho!!
Hahahahaha i literally laughed out loud
I stan a consistent Queen 😍
💁♀️💁♀️🥰🥰
Nibahle, you are beautiful Mr & Mrs Ledwaba. God bless you more, increase you and cause you to laugh all the days of your life.
You guys are amazing. Much love from 🇧🇼Botswana❤️💕
Thank you so much!
very true. the right communication approach will determine weather your partner will listen to you or not. sometimes we might be right, but, the way and the tone we use to present our case might make us wrong. thank you so much
Can I just say, Brandon brings such good humor and lightness to these topics. I really enjoy your videos together. God bless.♥️
Same here hope all men can listen to this video
M smiling coz I am Mpoomy the second, talk fast, tWorking on forgiving n bringing up the past
I related so much with this. Especially with being prideful and always wanting to come across as right.
This is what me and my husband so needed. Thank you the Lebwabas
Mpoomy's laugh😂❤ so adorable
Wow! great lessons right there.
It's not what you say but how you say it ♥️ pleasure listening and watching you. Learning a lot from you.
I have learnt that listening at times calls for more than just hearing the words but also observing the unspoken, full engagement warrants a better understanding..
Mann.. Brenden dropped some knowledge bombs towards the end. Love you guys
I feel blessed now that I'm introduced to yo content 🤞 everytime I watch yo content I want to comment but Im in lost for words 😢 what you guys have is so real & special 💯👌 young married black couple in Christ 🙌💯 recipy for success ✨✨✨
I remember with my ex....he would say sorry and when i try explain how i felt/ how it made me feel he would start shouting at me saying "I said sorry mxm what more do you want" and then he would do it again. And I honestly feel if he had heard me he wouldnt do it again.
Wow, I have truly been rebuked by this conversation. I pray God helps me and may I learn to communicate better with my partner no matter the situation. Love is beautiful, Love is God. May God continue to bless you both with wisdom, thank you for sharing 🙌🏾🙌🏾❤️
It was not a disaster, lol, Nuri was fun. right?
I discovered Mpoomy like 6weeks ago. And can I say I've watched all her videos. Am I a stalker or part of the notification gang?
Relatable.I discovered mpoomy like yesterday and I've watched all her videos 😂😂😂
Yalls are professional watchers! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Thank you for sharing this content! We have to promote channel’s that teach on healthy communication in relationships 👌🏾
I've been watching so much of you guys n yhoo thixo wam ! i fall inlove nani guys everytime. im not yet married but boy oh boy iknow once im married umshado wam will be super amazing hence i take tips all the time from these channels. keep the love burning guys syanithanda
Thank you for this. I'm gonna try and not yell on my child even though it difficult. I love you guys.
Wow..I'm really touched and shaken by this video, it really taught me a lot that i have to fix my communication skills in all of my relationships especially with my siblings because we fight alot and we dont entirely forgive each other since we do bring up the past to the present issue. THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS ❤️..
Just saw your channel. You are at 190k subscribers and am subscribing now. I have watched 5 videos and i have felt inlove with everything you guys are doing. Keep it up
To think I can't even get my man to watch these videos💔
Mpoomy & Brenden you really are serving us amazing Content, thank you❤️
Same hear
Hamba u yo shada u Conelius kikiki....this video is really helping me a lot. I'm guilty about a lot of things mentioned.
I really enjoyed the content in this video. Such simple examples and illustrations yet so profound. Keep doing what your are doing. Great tips!
"That's a bar " Mpoomy busking in her man's wisdom😂😂😂😂
Mpoomz, we need God on this one... This beautiful institution of marriage needs work and a lot of selflessness. One's ability to not always want to be right and always asserting themselves, self control etc...You guys are right, every partner's view and needs are equally important. A sensitive/complex topic but a very necessary one...thanks for the light and wisdom... Ohh by the way, some people resort to Silence to communicate and can do a lot of damage... May God help us.
You have a great content and that is why your channel will always grow! You are legit and we love it.
I haven't watched the video yet and I already know it's first class content.
Communication is the key. Interesting topic and very informative. Avenibahle 😍 May the God bless you.
Wooow. Thank you, you guys are Heaven sent.
Like that's exactly what my partner and I need. "GOOD COMMUNICATION"
Communication
1. Listen to understand
2. Mind your tone
3. Forgive quickly
4. Don't bring up transactions from the past