How Much Allowance Should We Give to Our Parents in Singapore? | Mothership Hits The Streets
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- The first time you received a paycheck, how did you decide how much to give to your parents?
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Some of us grew up with financial difficulties where parents had to limit their children allowances to single digit for a week’s worth of school allowance. Some of us had to skip school meals or going out with friends and adapted to not ask about extra allowances or favour from our parents, in which they grew stingy within the household but huat ah with others outside. So in the end just give what you can afford even if it’s little rather than nothing because you are taught better than that.
Earn a lot of money, then a child should give plenty to your parent especially if they are living below poverty line . If only have a small monthly income, then just give small allowance to your parent to lessen their suffering.
I give all to my mother, if I want to buy something useful I will take from her.
Lol 1:31 she clearly comes from a well off family
Yes, put rich people aside please. They're not the same as us common folk
Dont just judge. It could be someone who just wants to give back to their parents.
I find that giving 10% of your salary is the sweet spot.
Audiology so little, might as well don’t give
@@325_00 How is 10% a sweet spot?!!?!! omg.
After cpf or before?
@@325_00 you still have a house to pay for. children's education to pay for. their insurances bills house bills. to pay for ..
Sandwich generation..
This is really irrelevant but why do people always look at supporting our children as an investment? Stop or the return on your investment will always be mismatched against your expectation. Why? Because your children will think they are throwing good money after bad when the time comes for them to support you.
The same reason why Chinese and Indians favour males in the past... to work in the fields and bring home income for the parents...
I think it's because as a parent, you love your kids so much that you cannot bear to spend less on them and more on a retirement plan, especially if you don't have much to begin with. I think as a basic form of reciprocity, we should do the same and support them. And to be honest... if the ROI is not there, whose fault is it?
this girl like dora the explorer
Ikr! 😁
Lmfaooo
Ah... Parents Do think about whether it’s too much or too little allowance when they give it to their kids...esp if they are on a budget. The generalisation all parents love their children is also not realistic. Besides that, there are parents who are not fit to manage their own money. You give them money, they go and gamble it away or give to scammers. When they insist to continue to feed such addiction, it’s a bottomless pit.
I don’t really know how it is in Singapore but in the UK you usually give maybe 20-30% of your money to your parents while your still living with them (we call it ‘rent’ though not ‘allowance’) but when you move out it usually flips around and they actually might help you to start buying things for your house
After completed O level and started to work low pay job. I give monthly allowance to my parent and I also pay utilities bills. Yearly I give my 1 month bonus to my parent. CNY increased my allowance to my parent due ang pau money distribution. Not much savings.
It depends on your income I think and whether you are providing for your parents in other ways. For me, I didn't give my mom a lot of allowance because I was the sole provider for my family when I finished school. I paid the bills, paid for my mum's flat in cash cos her CPF was completely finished, paid part of her medical bills and also gave groceries $. I had to keep a portion for myself as well because I took an education loan and had to repay that. This continued even after I married and had kids. Now that I am a housewife, I cannot provide financially but I provide in kind. My mum stays with me and I look after her and my kids.
Children are not parent's retirement plan.
Lol Sad but some Parents think like that only
@@thedarkside3178 Most parents think like that...
Oh wow ... so what are parents to the kids? The amount of time, care , love and money they gave to the kids are enough for you to at least not say ungrateful things like
Joshua Ng: "Children are not parent's retirement plan"
TheDark side
: "Lol Sad but some Parents think like that only"
anoynm anonymous
: "Most parents think like that..."
So parent 是因该 give the kids? You guys should be ashamed of yourself. How about paying back your parents whatever their spent on you then u start thinking that you are a retirement plan. You are still a debtor man ... retirement plan my foot !!
Wake up la.
A culture that ensures parental care when they're no longer able to work is a commendable culture. You dont expect parents to work till they die, do you? They've worked for decades to feed you, clothe you, send you to classes, pay your tuition fees, take you overseas for holidays, pay for your wedding and give you gifts when you get a new house.. if you add up all the amount they spend on you alone it will be more than $200k. If they didnt spend this money on you they'd have kept it for their retirement.
It's shameful that we hear all these people are so selfish, so reluctant to part with a fraction of their money on their parents who have raised them and spent so much on their upbringing!!
@@ChuChuAndAhBa i have more than enough money and will not need to rely on my children to support me financially in my old age. this is by design and not just work my whole life and hope for the best
2:29 LOOK AT THE BACK HAHA
this answers nothing at all!
Hay ya lor very vague
Cos there is no answer to this.
So at the end of this video, there isn't an answer to the question. Click bait title!
sensitive ...u give 100 people say...u give 300 people say u give $500 people will still say..so better keep it low..
Remember as a parent ur kid is ur responsibility . Don’t expect ur kid to return u the favour .
I give when my mom asked. She is a hardworking mother with understanding how to control expenses. She seldom buy anything just for herself. I give her $500 approximately which also include my household expenses.
If need to top up cpf for our elderlies, does that not prove the cpf scheme failed for many elderlies ?
I have so many questions when the girl at 2:27 said that her father sets an amount for the children to give 😱
Think parents will be a bit sad...hearing the comments here.
As much as you personally need. Put yourself in their shoes.
so if i need to be homeless thats okay?
saying "you should give your parents money because they took care of you" is so bs, arent it their job?
Agreed and not all parents are the stereotypical loving ones. Some don't even give a fuck about their child.
at least give a little...I imagine when u are a kid back then and your parent don't give u pocket money...how will u feel
@@justicelai7404 if you don't want to give pocket money then don't have children in the first place
How is it that western elderlies don’t need to rely on allowance from children to survive but Asian parents do?
Aki Tsubame chill lol. I wasn’t comparing. I was just asking to see what caused the diff.
government take care of them..lol
Filial piety is important in Asian culture! Imagine your parents brought you up so many years, its only human nature to give back to them when you are self-reliant.
actually children giving parents money will also build a relationship for the next generation as they will learn n do the same...imagine if your kids see u never give money to their grandparents..then when they grow older...they will do the same to u ..then don't cry...
The indian girl is the only who speaks understandable english
Singapore is a wealthy country. Did the elderly not save for their retirement? Working people need to save for their own retirement and raise the next generation.
maybe the old ones in the video were living in a time where jobs were scarse? idk but cant imply the current financial situation with their time.
Cute la you.. (the host)
Dora the explorer chinese version😁✌🏽
A culture that ensures parental care when they're no longer able to work is a commendable culture. We should not expect our parents to work till they die. They've worked for decades to feed us, clothe us, send us to classes, pay our tuition fees, take us overseas for holidays, pay for our wedding, give us gifts when we get a new house, help care for our babies... if we add up all the amount they spend on us alone it will be more than $200k. If they didnt spend this money on us they'd have kept it for their retirement.
It's shameful that we hear all these people being so selfish, so reluctant to part with a fraction of their money on their parents who have raised them and spent so much on their upbringing!! And to think that when they die, their house will be sold and money from the sale will go to the beneficiaries, mostly their children! So why cant the children lighten their parent's burden when they've grown old and cant perform as well as the younger workers at the workplace? Parents have sacrificed so much for their children, why cant we do the same for them?
If the government passes a bill to deduct part of our salary to give it to the parents, i will support it.
frankly although parent always say .nevermind don't need...but frankly...when they began to raise u...they spend alot of time n money .. even if we are not born with a silverpoon and earn million over dollars a month.. a fillial will always be there .
My husband is the only son working out of my in_laws’ two sons. We have two children so in order to help I give to my mother and father in laws too in addition to our households expenses for over 20 years. Obviously nobody cares the giving from daughter in laws.
what u mean 'care the giving'... if don't care then don't take... if don't take then don't give... what u talk about?
Kong si mi lan jiao wei. Not happy don't give lor
That depends on how is the relation between the parent and children.
I heard there are parent abuse wife n kid and disappeared n only appeared for money. Want to sue the children not giving money or not letting him stay with them. Trying to make big news.
There also many children all along been paying own school fee n home bills. Whole life is about working.
Just imagine a random kidnapper keep shouting that a random woman is their children n suppose to give her money.
Not all the same.
the host is so cute with that hairstyle , man i hope she's my gf
2:29 guy video bomb on left
I working and still take allowance from parents.
I satki bo?
It's your duty as a parent to raise your child, it was your choiced getting into marriage coz u were in heat. And if u look at ur children as a fortune/assest, ur basically a failure as a parent and your life.. Real talk.
Sogooooood
1:31 erm that's exclusive to your family. My parents weren't very poor but my mother will still not give. And when arguing with her she will be like: I give you so much allowance. I'm like: excuse you??? I receive the least among my classmates at that time but still you say that it's "a lot"
2:39 really no one gonna point that out?
200-500
No job how to give
This part 2:37 had me 😂
parents took care of us was very tough, so we need to give back to them....this is bullshit. it was their job as parents to take care of us.
instead, why not repay them back by being a good parents ourselves? only then will humanity and civilisations improve and become better
To lah or not to lah 🤦♀️
At your own risk lol 😂
Now the young never think lol when we grow have to work until we die lol like the government said lol and they follow poor the old ppls la
where the hell you get the logic to allowance to our parents whom are working the same level as you?
Stop putting so many captions it’s annoying
you shoud not give money, filial piety is outdated
@@ChuChuAndAhBa having children is a choice, theyre not responsible for your well-being. im not going to expect my future children to fund my life.
0:30 malay or pinoy? hahah. cant tell
Pinoy
She's a Pinoy from her accent.
But pretty tho...
PINOY LA.. she said 'no one else will take caRe of youR paRents when they gRow oldeR...'
actually filipinos are malay
A lot of people give their parents very little money .. as low as $100 to $200 no matter how much they are making. Younger generation now feels that they should be not a sandwich generation .. but bear in mind that their parents did used up a lot of their money on their kids and have little savings for themselves. They rather spend money on material stuff then repay their parents. I think it is not a matter of whether your parents are well off or not. Its just an excuse to give little to nothing.
My brother only gives to his in-laws, but not to his own mother.
Children are not supposed to be treated as asset. Parents did not ask their permission to bring them to the world. If the sole purpose of having a child is to get money from her at later stage, I guess a lot of children would prefer not to be born. Me as a parent, have the responsibility to plan a head and take care of my own retirement. I would never ask any fix allowance from my children. If they want to show their gratitude in terms of gifts, I am happy with that. But they should not be forced to give. That’s my two cents as a parent.
@@wennw2711 Well said. Many parents expect their children to give them so much but don't realise their children also need to save up for the future.
im glad that there are still daughters,that gives to parents and see it as n act of gratitude and duty,,compared with other evil sons/daughters etc
and how come your still make fun of it? and try to ridicularize the old folks for? government won;t give mah,son and daughter must help not government!!