MIL Gave Me 2 Options: Either Quite My Job To Take Care Of Her Or Move Out Of Her Son's House,
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(Op (F34) is a hardworking adult who really loves her job and lives with her mother-in-law and husband. Her MIL doesn't like her even though Op happily let her stay with them when her husband’s brother moved to another state. Her MIL doesn't like her because Op refused to have children as soon as they married and MIL obviously wanted grandchildren. MIL and Op constantly fight on the topic of having children and when Op keeps denying it MIL tries something else. She pretends to have gotten weak and needs support and Op helps her out for a few days. When it is time for her to go back to her job, MIL tells her that she needs her and threatens her that if she does, she will kick Op out. She also explains to Op that this is the only way to get her to have grandkids and that she won’t quit. Op gets mad at her and complains to her husband but he agrees with his mom. Op argues with both of them that she makes more than her husband, and if somebody had to stay there full time, it should be her husband. They disagree, saying that it is a woman's job to stay in the house, and MIL gives Op a month to reconsider, after which she would throw her out. Op talks to her husband and asks him if he completely agrees with his mom, even about throwing her out, and he says yes. This really hurts Op and she refuses to believe that the person she chose to marry was trying to do this to her. She thinks about it a lot and tells her husband and MIL that she was refusing to quit her job, so they kicked her out. Op waits a week, giving them time to realize their mistake, but when they don’t reach out, she decides to do it. She goes home the next day and reveals to them that this house was a gift from her parents and since she had pretended that it was a rented place. The person they thought was their landlord was just her friend who would pretend when she needed him to. After the reveal she explains that she never expected her own family to treat her like this. Op tells them how selfish and heartless they had been and asks them to get out of her house. Her MIL says that she can’t do this to her and Op makes a call to a bunch of people who come in and start throwing her stuff out. Having realised that Op was serious both of them start begging Op but she kicks them out. For the next entire month they both keep apologising and asking Op for a second chance but she doesn't give them. After thinking about it she also decides to divorce her husband. Even though my relationship with my mother in law was never the best, I never expected her to do something like this to me. I am still very surprised and heartbroken that my MIL threatened me this way just because I refused to do something she wanted me to.
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“His decision is fixed”. Unless he can poop out a kid on his own then it is not up to him.
Way too many chances. I would not have been put out of my own house. MIL needed to go the moment she started disrespecting your wishes.
It’s 0P’s body she’s the one who has to carry that baby that mother-in-law needs to freaking back off. You already have grand children. Why are you in such a hurry mother-in-law’s like this makes my blood boil.
She considered the OP disposable. Once she got pregnant, lost her figure, and endured the shame of his infidelity MIL would encourage sonny boy to find another woman whose life she would ruin.
Mother-in-law has no right to throw you out of your own home. Your husband better get a spiny spine soon or he’s going to lose a good woman.
MIL probably thinks women should be barefoot, present and in the kitchen. OP makes more money. DH and MIL should be the ones to leave.
My ex boyfriend wants baby and i don’t. We talked and i gave an idea that we can get surrogate. But he just wants me to go through all the process of having baby . Fyi , i am nervous and will get weak whenever i think about the pregnancy process. So i don’t want that. He kept forcing me. Though i love him, i just don’t want him to control me anymore.. getting pregnant should be planned by both the parents not only one.
It's best to do this planning with a husband not an ex boyfriend, so no don't not get pg by this man, no matter how much he begs please birth control and condoms hun.❤
If he's forcing you to do something now, he'll probably do it again.
Give that B an eviction notice
Why are you considering a agreeing to a surrogate with your EX BOYFRIEND
A BOYFRIEND WHOSE AN EX?? RUN RUN RUN You’ve already realized he’s not a good partner, why would you want to ties yourself to him and his crazy family. Don’t let anyone push you RUN RUN RUN RUN
I guess I didn't get the manual because I actually LIKE my daughter-in-law. My adult son that I raised is capable of making decisions without totally relying on me. People, that's the point of being a parent; loving your child enough and teaching said child to make good decisions.
You read my mind! I have 2 amazing children, and they have amazing partners. THEY make great decisions because I raised independent-thinking individuals. And, YES, that's the goal of being a parent, in my opinion.
@@laurie2649 Are your children happy, healthy, independent, able to pay their bills? Yes? Then you did your job. You want grand kids? From young just tell your kids, "No pressure but give me a grandchild when you can handle it and afford it." If you have done your job well, you don't need more.
So disgusting when your husband is dating his mother instead of you.
My husband and I agrred to make sure our marriage was reasonably stable. It was one of the best decisions we made
That super angry woman unable to move the suitcase made me laugh
I would divorce because nobody would force me into having children before I was ready to.
What a vile MIL, and pansy husband.
My MIL has four children, with my husband being the youngest. Her three older kids were adamant that they would be child-free. So, her last hope was me and my husband. She never pressured us, never asked, and told us she supported whichever decision we made. On her 65th birthday (about 4 years after my husband and I amrried) we gave her a gift. When she open the card she was confused because ot said, "Congratulations on your promotion!" She looked at us and asked what did we mean. That's when my SIL yelled out, "Holy crap, your being promoted to Grandma!" My MIL looked at me for confirmation then hugged me and cried a little. We then told her to open her gift and in it were 2 pacifiers and 2 bibs. I ask if she knew why there were two, and she said she figured one for our house and one for hers. That's when my other SIL yelled out, "Holt crap, no mom, they are having twins!" Before I got a chance to hug my MIL her eyes rolled back and she was passed out on the floor. When we finally got her to come to, she hugged me, cried, and kept thanking me for a good 15 minutes. That moment with my MIL is one of the most precious moments of my life. 7 years later we gave her another grandbaby. She is now 88 and swears that her grandchildren are what have kept her alive, healthy, and young. Lol.
What a beautiful, heartwarming story. Reading it brought tears to my eyes. Thanks for sharing!
My stepmother passed away this week, and grand kids and great grand kids were what kept her moving as well as my dad.
@memyselfi7292 I am so sorry for your loss. You are correct. I see my MIL's face just light up the moment she sees my kids.
My dad's mom said she wanted to be a grandma by a certain age believe 65 she was joking of course cause none of her grandkids were in a hurry because the only ones in a relationship at that time was my sister and brother the eldest of her grandkids the rest of us weren't interest brother gave her a great at I think 66 or 67 😂
Beautiful story ..blessed be💜
Your husband was a momma's boy 🤦
she was very dishonest. She owned the house.
There’s nothing wrong with having kids later in your marriage. Let them have them time before a kid comes. She can wait on a grand kids both oh, Pete and her husband decided this why is it so hard for his mother to realize that.
Never give up your job children are expensive and don’t get me started how expensive childcare is and the cost of raising them
Op why would you have to stay home and take care of your husbands mother?
OP needs a divorce. He sent you to your room like a child. You do not mean anything to him.
Good for you, OP for standing your ground!
I don't understand why his mother is so deep in OPs marriage. MILs are the worst. A man is supposed to protect his wife from everyone, especially his mother. Men these days are so weak. I pray Op finds a man with a backbone
Not all MILs are awful. I had a lovely MIL - it was my husband who was awful and a cheat. I think that I’m a lovely MIL I don’t interfere. I help if and when I can. If my children are making big decisions I ask what their spouses think as I am ensuring that they are in agreement. As far as I’m concerned it’s their marriage and as long as they are happy, I am content.
You sound like an angel compared to mine. She would literally try to set him up with wealthy women in my face at her parties. Ugh. When my husband passed away she kicked myself and her grandkids out of her mom's house the day after the funeral
@@scarletspie thank you for your kind words. I sincerely hope that your life is much happier and serene now. As long as your children and yourself are safe you can cope with anything. Your MIL sounds like an entitled and unhappy person. God bless you and keep you all safe and healthy.
Her husband is so spineless.
Kick both of them out and divorce
As someone who is married, me and husband make all the choices. No one comes in the circle. They accept or not. Their choice, their loss.
A woman is 🚫 not a brood mare! 🤬 If MIL wanted a grandchild so bad, hire a surrogate with her own money.
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Talk about the stupidest way to teach a lesson. You willingly let them annoy you for weeks when you could've been shut shit down. This story should've been 5 minutes long. Once my spouse takes sides against me it's a wrap especially he watched you get mistreated. Aint no way
With MIL playing sick, I'd say "good thing I dont have kids yet. I could not posdibly care for you and a baby."
It’s too bad your mil came in between the love you and your husband had. However, they bit the hand that fed them and you made the right decision. Good luck in the future op.
Doubt there ever was love just like grandma used "love" to try to control us
The part of this that got me most mad was when mil faked getting thrown down after physically assaulting OP via dragging her out the door and the doormat husband got mad at OP. If someone is getting handsy on you like that then its a perfectly valid response to be handsy back.
Now she knows why the other brother and sister-in-law moved sister-in-law moved so now it's up to her she either needs to stay and put up with this and have a baby and quit her job and stay home or she needs to put on her big girl panties pack her bags move out divorce the husband and find somebody that will love her for her and when she's ready to have a baby or not it's up to her it is her body after all
Wish parents never moved back closer to moms parents they both controlled and tried to control our lives and went crying to moms stupid siblings when we said no
Keeping the line very firm and clear should have said from the beginning no I'm not going to sit and think about quitting my job and having a kid instead I'm thinking about getting a divorce. We had an agreement. Make a choice sweetheart
What we have here is a glutton for punishment. She did not her tell him about her owning the house. It is possible that the house was part of a secret "escape hatch". An eviction order should have been given within 24 hours of the first threats being made. Shown a copy of the deeds at the same time. If the house was gifted after the wedding, it could be a joint asset. She abandoned the place. She said that he gave her money for the rent. That would make him her tenant. It appears that she and her family illegally evicted him and his mother. Maybe gave them grounds to sue.
Problems with mother in laws start when the husband's refuse to stand up to them! So that's perpetuating the problem instead of demanding respect for their wives!
Waiting a few years is not a bad thing they’re still young people are having babies at 70 or 60 sometimes
Tell her mom to have he sons kids if she's being like that .another story bout mommy dearest!!
Wait a sec....they are threatening the breadwinner? How does that make any sense?
OP..You should have recorded the threats from your MIL. Go see a Lawyer and file suit against her and her Mommas BOY!!
Op is an idiot for playing into this mess
what a mommy's boy the husband is...why did he bother to get married, but stay single, and have mummy tuck him in bed every night and sing Soft Kitty ...
How about you go ahead and have a child your self if you want a child
Why should I sacrifice my happiness, money & time on something doesn’t interest me. Not like their going to be their to raise the kid for me
Good for OP!!!! The two of them decide to gang up on her for what? A grandchild and a baby for him?!?! Wtf??? It's HER body and her decision. Period. Good move on her part.
Never get involved with a mommas boy.
People who allow there parents to control and dictate there relationships is wild asf, couldn't be me
Years down the line know one is going to to give a f about her job and she just going to be lonely old rich lady. If she like it I love it
All I know is that NO MIL could move into my home, rather if I owned it or was just renting! She would have kicked out so quickly along with her spineless son and I would have divorced him so quickly that his head would still be spinning! What some of these wives tolerate is just mind boggling!
How does someone QUITE their job?
Im guessing that probably why bil left mil is quite simple something i won't sat on here.but op good for you 👍 you didn't hold back for your mental health you didn't need thst extra toxicity part of your life anymore
I think Mr. Reddito needs to invest in a good spell checker. Its quit not quite.
And ask whose name is on the house the deed is it just yours or is it both yours if it's both of yours then you need to sell the house and split the proceeds don't forget to take everything in the house that is yours
Are you kidding me? I am at 13:14, and her husband isn't backing OP up after they long agreed on a plan to have children? He'd be out on his A$$, and I'd be moving on for a better life. He can keep being a Momma's boy, but not with me. I'd tell him: "Not my Monkey's, Not my circus!" And if you don't back me, Your Wife, find someone else to listen to your BS. I listened to the rest of the story and am so damn pleased that OP came to her senses about getting rid of her POS husband and MIL! OP, pick a better partner next time. I wish you the best!
This is very self they attack you in this wat, your husband knows better. He needs to know he can definitely loose his wife like she can loose her daughter n law.
Move Out !
Follow your dreams
Please can you consider doing content about toxic dils. The type that isolate their male partners, ect. I believe some of your subs would like this, if it's possible. ❤
If true MIL and husband are disgusting. But also if true why is OP asking for help in post 1 without revealing the most important, game-changing piece of information?
My mom pressure me so much to have kids it ruined the not only our relationship but the one I had with my sister grandmothers and all 6 aunts not to mention 8 uncles. She was a greedy B who told horrible lies about me til her dying day. And I still refuse to have a child.
Maybe if she hadn’t have stolen 100s of 1000s of $ from me it would’ve been different
I will say this, my mother is wonderful woman, but she has her faults. It definitely affected my marriage having her live with us. I do not recommend it.
She illegally evicted them.
Should jave goldilocks that her som didn't own the house off the bat and put both out
Divorce husband/mil
First!
Mr. Reddito I like your stories but man you gotta start proofreading! When your thumbnails have misspellings it looks very bad and unprofessional
34 and She still does not think about having children. Is she really delaying it or not want to? Her mother-in-law is right, but her method is wrong؛
Thank God that your ex-husband dodged the bullet and got rid of you. I hope he marries a woman who loves him and has many children with her.
Grow a back bone.....girl