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1. They feed the unhappiness 2. They're never fully satisfied 3. They live in the past or future 4. They don't celebrate others 5. They aren't grateful 6. They're bored out of their minds 7. They are stingy 8. They're always ready to pick a fight 9. They identify with negative mental health 10. They require things instead of happiness 11. They compare themselves to others 12. They play victim 13. They love drama 14. They worry about everything 15. They don't take responsibility
What happened in their lives to make someone like this is the big question. For alot of them, trauma and hurt morphed Into bitterness and hate. Nobody is born with all these negative traits, they gather them overtime because too much negativity happened to alot of them at once or in a short space of time in their life that it became an endless ruminating cycle of mental anguish and hurt for which they never received closure or peace.
It annoys me when a miserable person says how lucky I was about something I achieved. No, actually I set a goal and kept working on it until I achieved it. Luck did not play a roll in it.
Agreed! Even something like having a strong emergency fund helps me sleep at night. If SHTF and I go unemployed, my skills will transfer BUT in the meantime I can pay bills and keep myself fed while I find a new job.
My motto is, Leave dem fkn people where dey at! I cannot deal with miserable people at all, they never wanna do anything pertaining to enjoying everyday living of life, they act as if they are sitting around waiting to die! Guess what? Im ready to live! Thanks for the video Alux, you guys have been A1 since day one!.......-Trusno🖤🗡🐍
It's the lack of responsibility that's most annoying. They surround themselves with like minded losers. They tell each other their stories. In these stories, the miserable person is usually "the victim." They may even delussionaly play "the hero." They themselves cause bad and even tragic things in their lives and blame others.
@@Brian-bk3fz no, they had my support all my life and all they did was try to kill me in return. They wanted to be miserable and so I left them to their wish :)
Most annoying part? Making other people pay the price for their issues, because those 'in charge' think it is easier to just give them what they want just to shut them up. Trouble is, they then just want more.
What annoys me most: people who don’t take responsibility and blame their actions on others. Anyone who proudly labels themself a “counterpuncher” is a miserable person who will only make the world worse.
The thing is, i’m tired of pretending it’s my fault everything is shit in my life. Nobody wants to shoot themselves in the foot, it’s done by accident, so i would appreciate it if people lile you were constantly trying to guilt me into “not being sad.” When did humans not have the right to… be human?
Maybe the cause of me today miserable is my father who beat me every day and denied my true existence by making me like he wanted me to be by force......try you not to become miserable after such abuse...
@@markushaahr9194there’s a difference between a miserable person and a sad person we’re talking about someone here who just miserable no matter what they don’t need a reason they’re just miserable
The most annoying trait of miserable people to me is the complaining!!! This one girl at my old job complained about 14 things in 4 minutes!!! I wrote them all down while she was talking to me and was gonna hand it to her but backed out. My whole work was annoyed with her and many had already said look I'm not in the mood to hear all that you are just never happy. FOURTEEN things, y'all. No ✋
Great that Alux includes the “chapters” separation on the time-bar. It makes it easy to review some specific parts 👏🏻 In case you missed this, for a quick overview: 00:30 - They feed the unhappiness 01:04 - They are never fully satisfied 01:39 - They live in the past…or future 02:07 - They don’t celebrate others 02:44 - They aren’t grateful 03:12 - They are bored out of their minds 03:52 - They are stingy 04:26 - They are always ready to pick a fight 04:58 - They identify with negative mental health 05:35 - They acquire things instead of happiness 06:11 - They compare themselves to others 06:51 - They play victim 07:27 - They love drama 07:50 - They worry about everything 08:41 - They don’t take responsibility
Gene Simmons once admitted that being wealthy doesn't necessarily make one happy. However it is alot better to be rich and miserable than to be broke and miserable.
i had people like this in my life and really thought they were my friends turns out they was not since i stopped seeing and talking with them i am doing better mentally and emotionally stay away from these kinds of people life is too short to be unhappy
Misery doesn’t disappear with cash flow into the pocket, nor savings. İt is deep down inside , is profoundly rooted traumatic events that is surfacing as insecurities
I feel like the last topic is a tired old question that ppl need to stop asking already. If it can provide food in your stomach, shelter over your head, clothes on your back, and better health, then YES 💲💲💲 can def buy you happiness!!
My girlfriend is so miserable lmao, she HATES when I leave a tip or hold the door open for a girl or ask how a girls day is going😂 It almost makes me miserable.
When you're born into a miserable family so miserable, that the only misery they know is the misery they inflict upon others to make them miserable along with them.
Accepting the fact that you exhibits all the behavior mention is a step away from being a miserable person, if you want to take a step further, Always think about others before you make any decision, don’t do unto others, what you wouldn’t what anyone do to you. I wish you all the best.
…. So this is uncannily accurate for me and members of my family. It feels like I’ve begun to wake up recently and I’m getting all these coincidences, or “synchronicity‘s” if you will, thrown into my face. I guess it’s time to take notice. Now I need to figure out how to dig myself out of this pit. Thanks for this Alux, This is eye-opening
I have to tread carefully with the mental disorder one. I am openly admitting to being schizophrenic for my (developing) brand. Usually (successful) schizophrenics hide their disease their whole career. I want to become an inspiration… a role model for others… that having a mental illness doesn’t mean one is doomed to all the crap that comes with it. That one can overcome and turn weakness into advantage.
I'm guilty of these habits some of them really irks me. I'm dealing with a situation that I can't change but, I know for a fact that I can somehow turn it around.
First I'm not writing this comment, to sound defeated or "Negative". Maybe "miserable " people don't want to be miserable. Maybe they just been wronged and never had a remedy to fix it. When that happens it's not easy when you have negative experiences. Disadvantages are a real thing. When you have disadvantages that you have to work through you have to be very creative. That pressure to be creative is very stressful, then it's downhill from there. Instead of their "friends" lifting them up , rebuilding their confidence and giving moral support , they just cut you off when you needed them the most. Horrible cycle
Alux, I do hope you'll follow this up with, "15 habits of Happy People". I know too many miserable people, and I keep my distance from them as much as practicable! Now I've got some creative fun to do.
@@pmb6667 🤣🤣🤣 Incel + SJW mixer. Make them do cotillion class together. See if they enjoy acting like ladies and gentlemen. Who knows? Maybe they just need practice?
The challenge for empaths is you feel awful kicking these people to the curb because they seemingly are suffering but after so many verbal “rafts” thrown to them that are never utilized and endless hours of advice not heeded, you become really tired and resentful. And then ultimately you pray the relationship just fades from existence without having to feel like a jerk. That’s the story of my life with certain acquaintances/relationships and it’s always a tough situation.
Money buys comfort. Happiness is rather a state of mind which we can all access. Basing it on material gain will only lead to disappointment. Sure, it can also buy you experiences and if you stabilize yourself financially, it can help with the stress, but in the end, money isn't everything
i wouldnt call myself miserable but sometimes I am bored. And I certainly blame living in a city is why I am bored. I grew up in the mountains and all their is to do in the city is shopping and eating or drinking. if you want to do anything outdoors you have to drive 30 plus minutes or walk a basic city park. Its hard to get excited about man made nature when you grow up in real mountains. So i guess thats my problem.
but when you are in trapped and messed by those being,to (getting as Entertainment routine that worst than drugs addicts) i found out the best to use is be more than what they try to in most natural act but(but) remember this- Dont take sympathy advantage even offered, there's big reasons ,its not easy but this is how we human being best way cut off any specie's be much harmfull fun smart, that how to keep human BEING THAT SPECIE'S , its deep but all this its not from teaching... but the ONLY MEANS THAT CALLED "FACTS" digging only this words its all about UNDER STAND ' so sorry im not teaching or bragging .. take a little in minute's THINKS and put on Logics.... am so sorry im not good in explainations.. am not here to clear anything or cover up.. doesn't get me any MEANINGS at all ,, if founded useable.. keep it .. feels no.. just put it aside... ..but pls pls every miserable to fight REMEMBER AND ALWAYS REMIND THIS word -( TIRED )-. DONT ever missed this .. "dont ever let this words Suddenly strike u in later after long miles ....TIRED... i cannot explained mine here totally causing ... in to FIGHT and reveal with ability what so ever miserable ,, hold this , use this words and FEELS THIS miserable came before TIRED .... THANK YOU ..TAKE CARE ... GBU.
how is it my fault if i do the exact same job at the exact same place my dad did 35 years ago, that it only gets me one car and a studio instead of an entire house to myself 2 cars and a boat like it supposed to? and you expect a person to be HAPPY about that and not miserable? same effort same work same place should be same reward, not 75% less, that is bullshit, and not worth doing... it is stupid to work harder to get less, the entire point of working is to live, and make more, improve your life, you work to live not live to work.
Its so easy to stay in your comfort zone sometimes. And looking at things and finding fault, finding and point out the flaws, is the easy thing to do. It takes more effort to work towards making things better.
Thank you for this vid. I USED to be like this because of my peers. Through pain, suffering, struggle (àla Goggins, Neitzchè) I'm happier now w/ greater purpose who finally learned how to leverage pain.
Responsibility is Questionable and all people experience one or two and sometimes all specifics of miserableness. If you have a plan and life and also a back-up plan, you might sidestep all aspects of being miserable.
This is every couple that's in a 50/50 relationship described to the T!!! I know because this was me when I was in a toxic union. Dear women, level up, become more feminine, break up with your dusty, and practice hypergamy. There's no need for you to stay with someone out of convenience, you are single until marriage.
at 03:38 i did do and will 100% prevent boredom by getting a minimum of 23 hours per week away from my home and sticking with my highest areas of interest
Because unhappy people are pessimists and feel a lack of control over their lives, they tend to sit back and wait for life to happen to them. Instead of setting goals, learning, and improving themselves, they just keep plodding along, and then they wonder why things never change.
Sex And Drugs And Money Doesn't Buy Happiness. There's a Lot Of Rich Miserable Millionaires And Billionaires. And All The Money In The World Won't Get You Into Heaven. If you use your Money Wisely??? You can do a lot of good things. And God will Bless You. If you Don't???? Money Can Be a Curse??? 🖤 It's Your Choice.
At the moment everyone has one or more of these traits but that doesnt mean that they are miserable. It just means life has its ups and downs. If you cut out the people who have this traits then no one will left in your life
Sometimes you have to meet people where they are …. And leave them there. There are no coincidences, life is beautiful & we are in charge of our own happiness. Chose to laugh, chose to live. 🙏
How to Deal With a Negative Spouse Be empathetic to their situation. Have a strong form of support. Confront their spouse with compassion. Contain the negativity. Steer clear. Call him on his negativity. Get him to talk but set limits. Point out the good.
How about help rejecting complainers? These types of people always complain about something. Then when you offer perfectly logical suggestions, they say either that it will never work, that they're scared to do it, that they're too busy, or that they just don't want to do what you suggest. Do any of you deal with this kind of person? What do you say to them?
I was raised miserable, so I need to listen to happy things all day to keep my spirits up. Sometimes I steer clear of ppl when they fall upon hard times tho, just bc it brings me down. Haven't figured out how to not do that yet ....
I was Raised in a Miserable, so called, Family. Being a Unwanted Abused And Neglected Problem Foster Child. Raised in a Foster Home From Hell!!! Never Went To School. Denied a Education. And The List Goes On And On. I Had To Homeschool Myself. In The Old Days, You Had To Depend On Books And Smart Kind People To Teach You Anything. Now We Have TH-cam. 👀 😁 It's Like Being In School. ONLY BETTER. ❤
The internet is one of the best/worst things ever created. Stuff like this is very cool & most importantly informative. But there's so many miserable people all over the internet. They beef & debate on mindless topics like entertainment especially. A person that's happy or is trying to make themselves happy doesn't have time for that. This segment didn't disappoint me @ all. They covered everything I could think of.
I also second to that REALLY hate the victimhood. That 2nd grade teacher example has been a LEGIT excuse I have heard. I have someone say an ex friend put a curse on them, that they (same person) didn't get to go to good enough schools and her parents wouldn't sign the paper for her scholarship so that's why she is broke now.......stop it. ✋ C'mon now 😶
This is an awesome subject. Everybody's bound to display these behaviour from time to time because of mood or whatever. The crucial thing is to ALWAYS WATCH yourself as not to slip down the spiral.
it is true that they manifested those characters ..unless this term of label comes from society they live with ..they want them not to be this ,that while this men whole being taped in this searches for approval of others their behavior end up with the level of that terms.. it just like circle that rotate by it self unable to contact another circle to form chain . i noticed this kind people have best technique for sth in there surrounding so goes back to how we in that space view them decided for them is highest problem than the partly leveled society. most Healthcare care fileds play like religion and family culture dogma they resist to find how it happens . if they concerned then make theory that is separate from subject in question and making "looks like conclusions with unrelalted premise
Fascinating how the duality causes great advice can be misinterpreted. I fall into a few things a bit, but as using innervation tools to get results. Thanks for so much awesome content
I don't like to be miserable! I can't get anything done! I am a grateful person and try not to let things get me down. My problem is miserable people gravitate to me or I do them because I try to bring them up.. after a while they blame me because their miserable! I get on their nerves.lol
I was very happy when I got to move from a crappy apartment where everyone threw their trash everywhere and wannabe gang members graffitied every surface they could find, to purchasing a quaint house in a nice neighborhood with pretty homes and is centrally located so my commute time is short. That required money. Money made me happier. But spend time chasing more money and lose out on my little girls' lives? That would make me miserable!
Miserable people is also attached to caos and you actually can see it: the way they dress, the order in their rooms and houses, the discipline in their everyday life…
@Alux 4:28 - 4:32 focus point : Contradicting or just more elaboration If all suffering comes from the self being happy is the alux focus point to focus on one self ? so were creating suffering ? or another thing one video you stated the more knowledge the more the sorrow ? are we chasing sorrow to obtain wealth which creates the happiness ?? would love other Aluxer to add their opinions
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Hello Aluxers! What trait of miserable people annoys you the most?
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@@MyKhaled07 100%
Toxic competative nature
Toxic people who use others fir there own good
1. They feed the unhappiness
2. They're never fully satisfied
3. They live in the past or future
4. They don't celebrate others
5. They aren't grateful
6. They're bored out of their minds
7. They are stingy
8. They're always ready to pick a fight
9. They identify with negative mental health
10. They require things instead of happiness
11. They compare themselves to others
12. They play victim
13. They love drama
14. They worry about everything
15. They don't take responsibility
Thx for doing this! 🙏
Condescension
@@dianareintges4117 Doesn't it suck to be right about awful things, tho? 🤨😜
Thanks for the summary
What happened in their lives to make someone like this is the big question. For alot of them, trauma and hurt morphed Into bitterness and hate. Nobody is born with all these negative traits, they gather them overtime because too much negativity happened to alot of them at once or in a short space of time in their life that it became an endless ruminating cycle of mental anguish and hurt for which they never received closure or peace.
What annoys me the most is their constant nitpicking of fights and negativity. They hate when when you don’t feed into their energy!
You are too superficial and childish to understand what causes their hatred. And they're fully entitled to it.
The most annoying sign of miserable people is when they start feeling insecure/jealous, so they'll just start talk mess or gossiping about others.
My mom and dad
It annoys me when a miserable person says how lucky I was about something I achieved. No, actually I set a goal and kept working on it until I achieved it. Luck did not play a roll in it.
Really?
You really think everyone has the same start in life?
What bothers me more is that they love to argue even for things that make no sense
This makes no sense!
Jk jk, hahaha I picture so many people like that xD hate them!
It's insane right!!! It's exhausting!
Money may not buy happiness, but it sure takes the sting out of being miserable. What it does buy is more choices.
Takes financial stress away...
Money hu that's why so many rich people have literally blown their brains out in some hotel or in some alley it wont fix you real life problems
@@alexrivera1075 I said it buys you choices. No one said it fixes all your problems.
Agreed! Even something like having a strong emergency fund helps me sleep at night. If SHTF and I go unemployed, my skills will transfer BUT in the meantime I can pay bills and keep myself fed while I find a new job.
Money makes you more of what you already are. If you're happy, it'll make you super happy, but if you're miserable, it'll make you more miserable.
Hope whoever is reading this accomplishes financial FREEDOM, wealth, and is blessed with true happiness!
thanks.
Stop being so selfish.
Thanks.
I wish those things for you as well...
Thank u!! I hope many BLESSINGS COME YOUR WAY AS WELL... HAVE A WONDERFUL WEEK.
BRANDY.M
FROM CANTON,OHIO 👋🥳⭐☘️
My motto is, Leave dem fkn people where dey at! I cannot deal with miserable people at all, they never wanna do anything pertaining to enjoying everyday living of life, they act as if they are sitting around waiting to die! Guess what? Im ready to live! Thanks for the video Alux, you guys have been A1 since day one!.......-Trusno🖤🗡🐍
It's the lack of responsibility that's most annoying. They surround themselves with like minded losers. They tell each other their stories. In these stories, the miserable person is usually "the victim." They may even delussionaly play "the hero." They themselves cause bad and even tragic things in their lives and blame others.
This list is 100000% accurate! I knew so many people like this and I've never felt better once I cut them out of my life, including family!
Family is everything
Facts
All I can say is: #FACTS ❗
Maybe if they had your support they wouldn't be so miserable. Something happened for them to be miserable.
@@Brian-bk3fz no, they had my support all my life and all they did was try to kill me in return. They wanted to be miserable and so I left them to their wish :)
Most annoying part? Making other people pay the price for their issues, because those 'in charge' think it is easier to just give them what they want just to shut them up.
Trouble is, they then just want more.
Agreed, Those in charge could be the government, the boss at work, the leader of a family or organisation.
This is true and relatable
That's what I find too. I will give her what she wants, and then there's something else. It's a bottomless pit of neediness!
What annoys me most: people who don’t take responsibility and blame their actions on others. Anyone who proudly labels themself a “counterpuncher” is a miserable person who will only make the world worse.
💯💯💯💯💯👍🏾
^this.
The main three things I dislike about miserable people is Playing the victim, Being ungrateful, and complaining.
The main three things I hate about "happy" people is ignorance, condescension and more ignorance.
The thing is, i’m tired of pretending it’s my fault everything is shit in my life. Nobody wants to shoot themselves in the foot, it’s done by accident, so i would appreciate it if people lile you were constantly trying to guilt me into “not being sad.” When did humans not have the right to… be human?
Maybe the cause of me today miserable is my father who beat me every day and denied my true existence by making me like he wanted me to be by force......try you not to become miserable after such abuse...
@@markushaahr9194there’s a difference between a miserable person and a sad person we’re talking about someone here who just miserable no matter what they don’t need a reason they’re just miserable
Miserable people energy can kill the whole vibe if you let it.
The most annoying trait of miserable people to me is the complaining!!! This one girl at my old job complained about 14 things in 4 minutes!!! I wrote them all down while she was talking to me and was gonna hand it to her but backed out. My whole work was annoyed with her and many had already said look I'm not in the mood to hear all that you are just never happy. FOURTEEN things, y'all. No ✋
Great that Alux includes the “chapters” separation on the time-bar. It makes it easy to review some specific parts 👏🏻
In case you missed this, for a quick overview:
00:30 - They feed the unhappiness
01:04 - They are never fully satisfied
01:39 - They live in the past…or future
02:07 - They don’t celebrate others
02:44 - They aren’t grateful
03:12 - They are bored out of their minds
03:52 - They are stingy
04:26 - They are always ready to pick a fight
04:58 - They identify with negative mental health
05:35 - They acquire things instead of happiness
06:11 - They compare themselves to others
06:51 - They play victim
07:27 - They love drama
07:50 - They worry about everything
08:41 - They don’t take responsibility
Thx for doing this! 🙏
Gene Simmons once admitted that being wealthy doesn't necessarily make one happy. However it is alot better to be rich and miserable than to be broke and miserable.
i had people like this in my life and really thought they were my friends
turns out they was not since i stopped seeing and talking with them i am doing better
mentally and emotionally
stay away from these kinds of people life is too short to be unhappy
“Happiness is in the mind of the beholder”. Love it. 💕
Misery doesn’t disappear with cash flow into the pocket, nor savings. İt is deep down inside , is profoundly rooted traumatic events that is surfacing as insecurities
Amazing!!! So true; someone close to you will always be miserable!!! Two words; STAY AWAY!!!
Those 6 dislikes are of miserable people hope there miseries end.
I feel like the last topic is a tired old question that ppl need to stop asking already. If it can provide food in your stomach, shelter over your head, clothes on your back, and better health, then YES 💲💲💲 can def buy you happiness!!
My girlfriend is so miserable lmao, she HATES when I leave a tip or hold the door open for a girl or ask how a girls day is going😂 It almost makes me miserable.
I understand your pain.🤣🤣🤣
@@jessaniceto It's the dumbest thing ever haha, it's not like I'm trying to flirt🤦🏽♂️
While money does not buy happiness, poverty is a guarantee for misery!
Respectfully disagree. Financially strapped, but rich in so many other ways.
Money is freedom, happiness is up to you
When you're born into a miserable family so miserable, that the only misery they know is the misery they inflict upon others to make them miserable along with them.
It's official, I'm a miserable person 😭😭😭
@Luka Igrutinovic I have all the habits mentioned in the video that's why I said that 😔
Aww
You can change this, it’s all about mindset
Accepting the fact that you exhibits all the behavior mention is a step away from being a miserable person,
if you want to take a step further, Always think about others before you make any decision,
don’t do unto others, what you wouldn’t what anyone do to you.
I wish you all the best.
Sounds cool though!
This speak exactly of mom. I love her but she is angry, miserable and refuses to change.
✂️ from your life
…. So this is uncannily accurate for me and members of my family. It feels like I’ve begun to wake up recently and I’m getting all these coincidences, or “synchronicity‘s” if you will, thrown into my face. I guess it’s time to take notice. Now I need to figure out how to dig myself out of this pit. Thanks for this Alux, This is eye-opening
Don’t hate miserable people, don’t be miserable, they are just unfortunate.
I have to tread carefully with the mental disorder one. I am openly admitting to being schizophrenic for my (developing) brand. Usually (successful) schizophrenics hide their disease their whole career. I want to become an inspiration… a role model for others… that having a mental illness doesn’t mean one is doomed to all the crap that comes with it. That one can overcome and turn weakness into advantage.
This video is about ME - I have at least 12 of the 16 traits mentioned here!!! I have to change - thanks Alux!
Me too I have too many traits of the ones listed below. Have you had any progress if you changed your lifestyle?
@@alfonso_v1121 He's dead..
We all know bums like this. Can’t keeps people like this around you for too long. It’s too toxic.
I'm guilty of these habits some of them really irks me. I'm dealing with a situation that I can't change but, I know for a fact that I can somehow turn it around.
Sometimes it's the environment and people that cause misery. This was me when I was living in the Philippines until I left for Australia.
First I'm not writing this comment, to sound defeated or "Negative". Maybe "miserable " people don't want to be miserable. Maybe they just been wronged and never had a remedy to fix it. When that happens it's not easy when you have negative experiences. Disadvantages are a real thing. When you have disadvantages that you have to work through you have to be very creative. That pressure to be creative is very stressful, then it's downhill from there. Instead of their "friends" lifting them up , rebuilding their confidence and giving moral support , they just cut you off when you needed them the most. Horrible cycle
Alux, I do hope you'll follow this up with, "15 habits of Happy People". I know too many miserable people, and I keep my distance from them as much as practicable! Now I've got some creative fun to do.
I been vibing with this channel HEAVY here as of late.
It’s like you’re describing Radical 3rd Wave Feminism.
Wow I was thinking more along the lines of about the XY incels going on rape and shooting/murder sprees but hey, you do you.
as well as red pill men
@@miloudivyne Hi Aluxer! Do you know you waste a lot of luxury! Look at my channel you will understand 💪
Why do you take an honest question and turn your answer into a jab?
@@pmb6667 🤣🤣🤣 Incel + SJW mixer. Make them do cotillion class together. See if they enjoy acting like ladies and gentlemen. Who knows? Maybe they just need practice?
The challenge for empaths is you feel awful kicking these people to the curb because they seemingly are suffering but after so many verbal “rafts” thrown to them that are never utilized and endless hours of advice not heeded, you become really tired and resentful. And then ultimately you pray the relationship just fades from existence without having to feel like a jerk. That’s the story of my life with certain acquaintances/relationships and it’s always a tough situation.
Money buys comfort. Happiness is rather a state of mind which we can all access. Basing it on material gain will only lead to disappointment. Sure, it can also buy you experiences and if you stabilize yourself financially, it can help with the stress, but in the end, money isn't everything
i wouldnt call myself miserable but sometimes I am bored. And I certainly blame living in a city is why I am bored. I grew up in the mountains and all their is to do in the city is shopping and eating or drinking. if you want to do anything outdoors you have to drive 30 plus minutes or walk a basic city park. Its hard to get excited about man made nature when you grow up in real mountains. So i guess thats my problem.
but when you are in trapped and messed by those being,to (getting as Entertainment routine that worst than drugs addicts) i found out the best to use is be more than what they try to in most natural act but(but) remember this- Dont take sympathy advantage even offered, there's big reasons ,its not easy but this is how we human being best way cut off any specie's be much harmfull fun smart, that how to keep human BEING THAT SPECIE'S , its deep but all this its not from teaching... but the ONLY MEANS THAT CALLED "FACTS" digging only this words its all about UNDER STAND ' so sorry im not teaching or bragging .. take a little in minute's THINKS and put on Logics.... am so sorry im not good in explainations.. am not here to clear anything or cover up.. doesn't get me any MEANINGS at all ,, if founded useable.. keep it .. feels no.. just put it aside... ..but pls pls every miserable to fight REMEMBER AND ALWAYS REMIND THIS word -( TIRED )-. DONT ever missed this .. "dont ever let this words Suddenly strike u in later after long miles ....TIRED... i cannot explained mine here totally causing ... in to FIGHT and reveal with ability what so ever miserable ,, hold this , use this words and FEELS THIS miserable came before TIRED .... THANK YOU ..TAKE CARE ... GBU.
how is it my fault if i do the exact same job at the exact same place my dad did 35 years ago, that it only gets me one car and a studio instead of an entire house to myself 2 cars and a boat like it supposed to? and you expect a person to be HAPPY about that and not miserable? same effort same work same place should be same reward, not 75% less, that is bullshit, and not worth doing... it is stupid to work harder to get less, the entire point of working is to live, and make more, improve your life, you work to live not live to work.
Its so easy to stay in your comfort zone sometimes. And looking at things and finding fault, finding and point out the flaws, is the easy thing to do. It takes more effort to work towards making things better.
ANOTHER THING IS THAT THIS PANDEMIC IS INFECTIOUS - I HAD A FRIEND WHO WAS ALWAYS MISERABLE COUPLE OF YEARS LATER I WAS HIM
The character traits that annoy me the most is number eight always planning to start a fight and playing the victim.
why some people say self development is bad ....
And My doubt is too much self development is bad or good ..
Can you make a video....
I just found out that I am miserable. I will do my best to change 😭
*Habit n.16:* They DO NOT watch High Living.
Of course they're miserable.
lousy drivers !!!!
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Thank you for this vid. I USED to be like this because of my peers. Through pain, suffering, struggle (àla Goggins, Neitzchè) I'm happier now w/ greater purpose who finally learned how to leverage pain.
Responsibility is Questionable and all people experience one or two and sometimes all specifics of miserableness. If you have a plan and life and also a back-up plan, you might sidestep all aspects of being miserable.
This is every couple that's in a 50/50 relationship described to the T!!! I know because this was me when I was in a toxic union. Dear women, level up, become more feminine, break up with your dusty, and practice hypergamy. There's no need for you to stay with someone out of convenience, you are single until marriage.
at 03:38 i did do and will 100% prevent boredom by getting a minimum of 23 hours per week away from my home and sticking with my highest areas of interest
15 best books on happiness. Thanks!!! Will do.
Because unhappy people are pessimists and feel a lack of control over their lives, they tend to sit back and wait for life to happen to them. Instead of setting goals, learning, and improving themselves, they just keep plodding along, and then they wonder why things never change.
As a miserable person. This video made me miserable
Sex And Drugs And Money Doesn't Buy Happiness. There's a Lot Of Rich Miserable Millionaires And Billionaires. And All The Money In The World Won't Get You Into Heaven.
If you use your Money Wisely??? You can do a lot of good things. And God will Bless You.
If you Don't???? Money Can Be a Curse??? 🖤 It's Your Choice.
At the moment everyone has one or more of these traits but that doesnt mean that they are miserable. It just means life has its ups and downs. If you cut out the people who have this traits then no one will left in your life
Damn this is soo true. We should recognize our traits too
Sometimes you have to meet people where they are …. And leave them there. There are no coincidences, life is beautiful & we are in charge of our own happiness. Chose to laugh, chose to live. 🙏
Thank you for this and every other amazing content. Usually people wakeup and have tea, while I like to listen to Alux.
I deliver food and you know what miserable people tip very little or nothing at all
And they complain and always want something for free
How to Deal With a Negative Spouse
Be empathetic to their situation.
Have a strong form of support.
Confront their spouse with compassion.
Contain the negativity.
Steer clear.
Call him on his negativity.
Get him to talk but set limits.
Point out the good.
How about help rejecting complainers? These types of people always complain about something. Then when you offer perfectly logical suggestions, they say either that it will never work, that they're scared to do it, that they're too busy, or that they just don't want to do what you suggest. Do any of you deal with this kind of person? What do you say to them?
I don't say anything. I allow them to be miserable.
The subtitles are glitched. Any chance of Alux to get it right?
I've tried so hard for so long to not be a miserable person
I relate to some of these painfully. But I am taking steps to improve them.
If you don’t have money, you worry about how to get it.
If you have money, you worry about how to keep it.
Count your BLESSINGS one by one God loves ❤
Great video. Been telling people this but miserable people like being miserable.
I was raised miserable, so I need to listen to happy things all day to keep my spirits up. Sometimes I steer clear of ppl when they fall upon hard times tho, just bc it brings me down. Haven't figured out how to not do that yet ....
I feel this 100%
Miserable people do things that reinforce their misery and poor people do things that reinforce their poverty.
The Holy Bible is our guide as to how we're to live our lives!God loves us all according to John 3:16 KJV
Money does not buy happiness, but it buys options
I'm not stingy..just too nice 👍 taking advantage of my kindness so my door permanently closed unfortunately
Such a great video I just HAD to watch it when it popped up on my feed! Thank you for always producing amazing content! 🙌🏾🙌🏾
I was Raised in a Miserable, so called, Family. Being a Unwanted Abused And Neglected Problem Foster Child. Raised in a Foster Home From Hell!!! Never Went To School. Denied a Education. And The List Goes On And On. I Had To Homeschool Myself. In The Old Days, You Had To Depend On Books And Smart Kind People To Teach You Anything. Now We Have TH-cam. 👀 😁 It's Like Being In School. ONLY BETTER. ❤
The internet is one of the best/worst things ever created. Stuff like this is very cool & most importantly informative. But there's so many miserable people all over the internet. They beef & debate on mindless topics like entertainment especially. A person that's happy or is trying to make themselves happy doesn't have time for that. This segment didn't disappoint me @ all. They covered everything I could think of.
I also second to that REALLY hate the victimhood. That 2nd grade teacher example has been a LEGIT excuse I have heard. I have someone say an ex friend put a curse on them, that they (same person) didn't get to go to good enough schools and her parents wouldn't sign the paper for her scholarship so that's why she is broke now.......stop it. ✋ C'mon now 😶
This is an awesome subject.
Everybody's bound to display these behaviour from time to time because of mood or whatever.
The crucial thing is to ALWAYS WATCH yourself as not to slip down the spiral.
it is true that they manifested those characters ..unless this term of label comes from society they live with ..they want them not to be this ,that while this men whole being taped in this searches for approval of others their behavior end up with the level of that terms.. it just like circle that rotate by it self unable to contact another circle to form chain . i noticed this kind people have best technique for sth in there surrounding so goes back to how we in that space view them decided for them is highest problem than the partly leveled society. most Healthcare care fileds play like religion and family culture dogma they resist to find how it happens . if they concerned then make theory that is separate from subject in question and making "looks like conclusions with unrelalted premise
Money helps but it should be used as a tool.
Yes to take care of yourself my bro uses it to buy drugs and wonders why he's homeless.
Fascinating how the duality causes great advice can be misinterpreted. I fall into a few things a bit, but as using innervation tools to get results.
Thanks for so much awesome content
I don't like to be miserable! I can't get anything done! I am a grateful person and try not to let things get me down. My problem is miserable people gravitate to me or I do them because I try to bring them up.. after a while they blame me because their miserable! I get on their nerves.lol
This is another great video! Thank you, Alux
The other side is not to go through life with rosy glasses and be totally gullible.
I was once this person and Im glad Ive left that world.
Except for a few things in that list, I am a miserable myself!
They don't celebrate others.
They don't take responsibility
They aren't greatful
Key point: not taking responsibility
I was very happy when I got to move from a crappy apartment where everyone threw their trash everywhere and wannabe gang members graffitied every surface they could find, to purchasing a quaint house in a nice neighborhood with pretty homes and is centrally located so my commute time is short. That required money. Money made me happier. But spend time chasing more money and lose out on my little girls' lives? That would make me miserable!
The main one has to be number 15 never owning up to their mistakes
sounds like my father inlaw hes got at least 12 of these traits
You can't change him but you can eliminate the ones you have.
Miserable people is also attached to caos and you actually can see it: the way they dress, the order in their rooms and houses, the discipline in their everyday life…
Misery loves company
@Alux 4:28 - 4:32
focus point : Contradicting or just more elaboration
If all suffering comes from the self being happy is the alux focus point to focus on one self ? so were creating suffering ? or another thing one video you stated the more knowledge the more the sorrow ?
are we chasing sorrow to obtain wealth which creates the happiness ??
would love other Aluxer to add their opinions
What annoys me the most is self pity.
I feel personally attacked. 😑
Hello the voice (I don't know your name ) would you make a video on how to decide to have or not to have children? Thanks for all the efforts ❤️❤️❤️❤️
How could you be so perfect in all the 15 points ,I am speechless and stunned , would love to see YOU...MISS ALUX... MY LOVE TO UR WORK FROM DELHI 💕