Interview With Wyatt - a Nonspeaking Autistic Teen - Walk & Talk #3
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 6 มิ.ย. 2021
- Wyatt is a non-verbal autistic teenager who I have been working with for over 8 years. We have developed a truly unique connection in this time - and in this walk and talk interview I would like to provide some insight on what it is like when we communicate and how it might differ from a neurotypical conversation. I hope you enjoy!
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wyatt definitely has that teenager energy lol, he seems like a prankster
Oh, without a doubt. He has an angsty teenage energy for sure. He's an awesome guy. Thank you for watching
i like the way he has his hair and clothes, he looks like a cool skater teen, not a child, or such as that, so many parents like to keep their disabled kids looking like children and in a childlike infantilized look, im really glad this guy looks like a typical stylish teen .
My exact thoughts! I think that might be where the term “you don’t look autistic” comes from.
Do you know Gabe Gottesmann? He’s also a nonverbal autistic teen and Wyatt kinda reminded me of Gabe. Gabe also has a cool style. He was recently on SBSK and his mom Nicole shares their story on Instagram and TikTok. If you don’t know them, you can check them out if you want ;)
Agreed!
Agreed.
Spot on. Thought the same.
couldn't agree more
My children are autistic, and one of my sons was nonverbal until he was 6 years old. He clearly understood receptive language, but had no way to communicate verbally. For whatever reason, something somehow “clicked” for him, and he spoke many words and even sentences one day!!! Out of nowhere, he said “Look, mama, it’s a pepperoni!” I will never forget that moment. We were making pizza together. It came out of nowhere from my POV. His language began to explode after that. I’m certain Wyatt has receptive language. Have you tried communicating through typing? There are “typers,” nonverbal autists who learned to communicate profoundly through typing. It’s really amazing what they have to say. They’re not all that different from neurotypical people. In fact, they’re often “well-spoken” when you hear the words read to you.
He smiles so often! He clearly likes you a lot and enjoys being with you! :)
Thank you!
If a child so sweet like Wyatt looked at me with that smile I’d probably tear up. That smile says, “I love you!”
My daughter is 26 an she in non verbal. She does a little sign language. She run just like him. She understand everything that is said to her.She is my life.
My friends daughter is autistic and nonverbal and likes to pretend she doesn’t understand what’s going on or what’s being asked for her at times. She will straight up ignore her mom asking her to apologize or say thank you. She humphed at her mom and turned to me and smiled. When her mom said again to say thank you her daughter stuck the tip of her tongue out and made eye contact with me. I told my friend that I’d be thrilled to know what’s going on in her daughters mind because I have a feeling she’s a little sassy with a great sense of humor. The day came where they got access to a communication device and the first thing her daughter wanted the family to know is that they’re too loud 🤣 and it’s true. They’re a very loud bunch. I can’t wait to have a conversation with her. I have a feeling she’s going to have me on the floor laughing. She’s already told her mom she’s pretty but the perfume stinks.
I wonder if your daughter would be able to communicate more clearly with this iPad like device. They started by teaching her to communicate her needs which became very helpful when her daughter got sick. They have a history of her daughter running a fever and expressing pain but not being able to say where it hurts. They ended up doing scans to locate infections but now her daughter can help pinpoint the area of pain. It’s absolutely incredible and so so beautiful. Her mom always called her daughter the best secret keeper ever and I told mom to be nice because now the child has the ability to tell the world her moms secrets.
Out of curiosity: Does she have the ability to think to herself "I want to study this and that in college" or "I want kids in the future" things like that? I don’t know if it’s just another misconception, but I’ve heard that many nonverbal people can write well and actually think a lot and understand. I’m just curious as to what extent if you’re this high on the spectrum? Can they eventually just start talking or are they usually nonverbal for life?
Haven't I seen Wyatt on YT before? Not on this channel. If it's the same young man I really like him. He is quite a handsome young man. Oh, we used to live in Baton Rouge. My only child was born in Baton Rouge so it's special for us as a family. I loved it there. The food is the best. I like the food in my hometown Panama City Beach, Florida. Both cities have the best food of anywhere in the WWW. Had we stayed there am certain my daughter would have gone to LSU. But we came to Alabama so she got her Masters from Troy University in Troy,AL. A very nice international university. LSU would have been awesome,too. I do miss BR. But now we live only 90miles from Panama City Beach which we absolutely love. We have lived in Hattiesburg,MS where my husband and I got our degrees, then we lived in Pensacola another great food venue with beautiful white sand beaches, then here in Enterprise,Alabama. I am so impressed by the autistic people on YT and the art they create is amazing. These autistic folks are so talented. I am an artist and most of them are way more talented than I am. Their ability to focus on the art is so impressive to me. It's definitely a gift from God. Wyatt is very happy being with you. So nice you 2 are good friends. Nature is good for everyone. It is healing for the mind, soul amd body. Is that Your home or his? The wildflowers/flowers are pretty. In BR our backyard was always mushy the ground so low and when it rained it was quite squishy.. Things grew very well from the rain and humidity. I seldom needed to water anything unless it was in a pot. I would hang tomatoes in baskets and they grew like crazy. We could never eat them all, but we certainly tried. TY for doing a great job playing and communicating with Wyatt. I envy you. He seems like he is a great friend to have.You are blessed to have his trust and friendship and he is blessed to have yours. Bye you two. Thanks for sharing with us your day of comaraderie.❤
Steven, I don't know how your huge heart fits inside your body. Wyatt is clearly over the moon with joy that he has you. Look at how happy he is! Your videos are not only heart-warming but so informative about Autism. You should be very, very proud of yourself.
Thank you so much. Your comment really means the world to us. We're just out here trying to do our best. I'm glad you enjoyed and thank you for watching ☺️☺️
im autistic and had a lot of problems as a teenager. thank you so much for your autistic awareness. we get so misunderstood and ignored
What avatar is creepier?
@Steven Rockwood that's messed up bro
Your an awesome young man buddy never dim your light you are a blessing from God, keep your head up love you brother
@@michaelpaul9208 i appreciate it so much-with much love to you as well!! god bless you too😇
@@michaelpaul9208 Thanks ... 👋
I'm 16 I'll be 17 on September 2nd and I have autism, and while I'm not nonverbal, I have Childhood apraxia of speech will will possibly extend into adulthood, so I have limited words, and people who don't know me well struggle to understand what I say. I'm really glad you took time to learn to communicate with him even though it's different.
You are such a Caring person. I have a 13 year old grandson who is autistic and non verbal. I wish he had someone like you in his life. 💜
What a delightful teenager. He looks like a lot of fun to be around. Mischievous too. 😊
You are an incredible man Steven. Wyatt is very lucky to have you in his life . Beautiful relationship
That means so much to hear. Thank you so much
I have a 20 yr old son on the spectrum who is verbal but he still uses various ways to express himself. Hes very social and likes to livestream. He also loves music. Ive always told him that he can do anything and that its ok to be different. God makes us all uniquely special. He is currently learning job training. Hes accomplished so much and very proud of him. I'm blessed and proud to have him in my life.
Awesome! We are starting a discord for gaming and socializing. If your son is interested in joining just let me know. You can send an email to me at walkingdiscoveryinfo (AT) gmail (dot) com and I will get you both the link 🔗
My grandson is on the spectrum, he talked by age 7, and will sit in his room building things, he now builds Lego 1,500 pieces, he’s 10, and been building them since age 7-8? He is the most loving boy I know. ❤
You sound like a awesome grandmother. Good for you for encouraging his interests in letting him be himself. Everyone deserves a grandma like you! Thanks so much for watching and leaving a nice comment, I hope you have a great week!
I love the purpose of this video (as I understand it), to make people understand that people happen to be nonverbal, but that doesn't mean they aren't communicating. They feel, they understand more than most people realize, and they are speaking in they're own way. Beautiful! ❤
He looks very loving and he thinks the world of you he is trying to show so much love. I think you are a very lucky guy to have Wyatt.
I couldn't agree more. I have a non verbal autistic daughter and we communicate in a lot of the same ways. I am so glad these 2 found each other. Wyatt has someone that loves him so much, he knows you will always be there for him. In return, the love he has for you is so bright!! I love seeing the adoration on his face for you. You are both so lucky to have each other. Thanks for sharing some of ur time together with all of us!! 🥰
Wyatt is just radiating with energy! Can't help but smile when he smiles. And that's really cool of you to work with him and still hang out with him despite being non verbal. Wishing all the best for him.
I wouldn't have it any other way. I really enjoyed my time spent with Wyatt. I learned so much from him. Thank you so much for watching and I hope you have a great day. Hope to see you in our future videos.
@@walkingdiscoveryAre you still working with Wyatt or are you doing something different now?
Hang out? Is he Hs teacher, guardian, what? Where does this guy fit in. All other videos always explain background yet this guy doesnt and I just have gut feeling it's a fake setup for $?
This is so beautiful to see! It's unfortunately rare that nuerotypical people choose to meet us in our worlds, to speak our nuerodivergent languages, what ever that may be. We are instead expected to adapt ourselves to the nuerotypical verbal world, and those that don't are assumed not to have the rich inner worlds and emotional complexity of the rest of the world.
I'm verbal and autistic and I've been doing research for a non verbal character I'm writing, and it's been exhausting. I've watched kids in aba being forced to stop stimming, and listened to parents and doctors describe autistic children as disconnected from the world and trapped by autism. As if it was some disease holding their "real" child captive. I needed this reminder that there are people who simply respect our differences without question
Humbling words! Good luck on your writing - sounds so interesting. Thank you for watching
I agree with the narcissistic grooming and brainwashing tactics that ABA therapy does. My son is 8, and began speech therapy, they did ABA on him, and I didn't even know, I was also in ABA therapies and desensitization therapies as a child so the pairing method was easy for them, I'm autistic and I believe I have pda pathological demand avoidance yet they gave me npd diagnosis and autism of course. I have trust issues because of the ABA I endured as a child. My son talks now, but he's still in a sense pre verbal. He started saying things outside of echolalia at 6 with yes and no. He does know multiple languages as well Spanish and Russian, yet my son and I still communicate nonverbal because words sometimes well most times aren't enough. I give my son as much screen time as he wants, I actually did everything opposite of ABA bs and what his iep objective was and would you believe in kindergarten he read at 5th grade level, public school was great until they too had him doing ABA therapy and he lost 4 teeth due to treats given for rewards I didn't know he was receiving.. as well as he stopped eating breakfast and lunch, quite communicating with me, because the rewards were of his high demand.. My son loves learning, constantly, and when watching television he fast-forward rewind and pause to memorize as well as close caption because he loves reading. Tbh I hope if he wants to that maybe he will help other autistics one day, but he really loves his privacy and is introverted when around people, but he adore electronics, he's genius at them really, at three he put a puk lock on all the devices and the guy had to take them to get fixed..
I think an important point to make, as a neurotypical (....possibly) person, is a lot of the time we are used to being shut down for asking questions about neurodivergency. Most neurodivergent folks aren't willing or wanting to answer questions (and on one hand, understandably so), so a lack of understanding takes place. On the flip side, some neurotypical folk aren't willing to meet you in the middle, like you said.
@@SilverTippedArrow101 I appreciate you sharing that thought, and also recognizing where nuerodivergent people may be coming from. I think it's important to talk about how to have challenging or uncomfortable conversations with people it super important. I know this is long winded for a comment, but I do hope it gets read, the topic of how we as a culture engage with each other is super important to me
That protective response you see is very much rooted in living in a world that either doesn't listen to us, speaks over us, and people demand we be educators and/or model disabled people. I'm going to share some suggestions in healing that disconnect from the side of people outside the nuerodivergent community. If your initial reaction is to feel like the burden is being put entirely on you, I will share that I also have conversations within the nuerodivergent community about what it means reach out from that end, it's justva whole other complex topic that diverges from this thread. However there is also a power dynamic, and history at play that does mean there are specific repairs necessary in the culture of how nuerotypical people treat people with developmental conditions/different nuerotypes.
That being said, it's hard to know how to respond to, and it doesn't feel good. A way to bridge that gap is first to seek out people online or in books who have already chosen to share their experiences. And when you do have specific questions, you can ask in ways that hold space for peoples boundaries, and the vulnerable position in society nuerodivergent folks often live in.
Here are some ways to open a dialogue that can make space for their needs and boundaries. Hopefully these are also helpful in a more general sense, for any nuerotype, whether you're interacting with marginalized communities, or just considering word choices that give opportunity for your conversation partner to express their needs and wants.
"I was curious about your personal experience as a nuerodivergent person, would you be interested in sharing or being asked some questions?" this shows that you are curious someone's personal experience and not a more general autism 101. That you want their perspective, rather than expecting them to give you information that can be easily found online, or that puts a burden on them to distill the experiences of a whole community into one conversation.
"I've seen you sharing your experiences/advocating for your community, is that something you'd be comfortable doing right now?" this shows recognition that even a person who is an activist may not always have the time, energy, or be in a place their comfortable having a conversation.
Along with these things you can show interest in a persons work. If you've already learned something from a person, you can tell them so, and that you appreciate their art, writing, video, etc. It shows you're already engaged and listening. This can also go along with asking someone where you can find more of their work. Someone who makes tiktoks say, may also host a workshop, where their time dedicated to education, or have another creative medium they use to communicate.
Save yourself from a Slip of the tongue, we all do it at times. If you find you've blurted a question without showing that patience and respect for what their boundaries may be, add on something like "if you don't mind my asking" or "if you're comfortable talking about it." Even if they say no, it's the sort of thing that can still ease the discomfort of an interaction.
Share a bit of yourself. Maybe you have a shared interest with someone, or something they've said resonated with your own emotions. Showing your own emotion and vulnerability can make people in general more comfortable sharing about themselves. But in particular autistic people are often dehumazed in the medical community and by people they encounter just out in the world. Letting someone know that THEY connected with you, shows that you're curious about them in a way that is rooted in human connection, and not as a spectical or scientific fascination. Sadly many of us have learned to be cautious of who we open up to, because curious people are not always safe or kind, or even actually receptive to what we have to say.
Also maybe notable that holding conversations by going back and forth with anecdotes as one persons thoughts remind the other of something, rather than having a social expectation of asking questions of eachother, or waiting to be asked a question to talk about oneself, is a very common style of communication for nuerodivergent folks.
Respect a no. It's true, no one owes other people education, and respecting autistic autonomy is so important, it is often taken away from us. You are also not owed a kind tone and words, especially when autistic people often don't know how others will perceive their speech or expressions, they may even have reduced ability to control movements and tone, or recall language. Some people maybe intentionally hostile, other times people may have no idea how they are being read, there's no way to know in a conversation that someone is telling you they want to end.
Obviously there are different degrees of hostility, and this is getting into my personal beliefs about the world at large, and these are things I say to people in all walks of life. We live in a world in distress, we are exposed to more information/opinions (positive and negative) than ever before. The choices we make day today effect ourselves and our communities, and ripple out into the world. Pick your battles, know when to walk away and a conflict and let it go. That's different depending on personal values and context. But we always have choices on whether to contribute to the culture of conflict in the world, or to step away and return to our own emotional equilibrium. You can't change the choices others make, you can only decide if your choices are cultivating your best life and the world you want to see
@@SilverTippedArrow101 I appreciate you sharing that thought, and also recognizing where nuerodivergent people may be coming from. I think it's important to talk about how to have challenging or uncomfortable conversations with people it super important. I know this is long winded for a comment, but I do hope it gets read, the topic of how we as a culture engage with each other is super important to me
That protective response you see is very much rooted in living in a world that either doesn't listen to us, speaks over us, and people demand we be educators and/or model disabled people. I'm going to share some suggestions in healing that disconnect from the side of people outside the nuerodivergent community. If your initial reaction is to feel like the burden is being put entirely on you, I will share that I also have conversations within the nuerodivergent community about what it means reach out from that end, it's justva whole other complex topic that diverges from this thread. However there is also a power dynamic, and history at play that does mean there are specific repairs necessary in the culture of how nuerotypical people treat people with developmental conditions/different nuerotypes.
That being said, it's hard to know how to respond to, and it doesn't feel good. A way to bridge that gap is first to seek out people online or in books who have already chosen to share their experiences. And when you do have specific questions, you can ask in ways that hold space for peoples boundaries, and the vulnerable position in society nuerodivergent folks often live in.
Here are some ways to open a dialogue that can make space for their needs and boundaries. Hopefully these are also helpful in a more general sense, for any nuerotype, whether you're interacting with marginalized communities, or just considering word choices that give opportunity for your conversation partner to express their needs and wants.
"I was curious about your personal experience as a nuerodivergent person, would you be interested in sharing or being asked some questions?" this shows that you are curious someone's personal experience and not a more general autism 101. That you want their perspective, rather than expecting them to give you information that can be easily found online, or that puts a burden on them to distill the experiences of a whole community into one conversation.
"I've seen you sharing your experiences/advocating for your community, is that something you'd be comfortable doing right now?" this shows recognition that even a person who is an activist may not always have the time, energy, or be in a place their comfortable having a conversation.
Along with these things you can show interest in a persons work. If you've already learned something from a person, you can tell them so, and that you appreciate their art, writing, video, etc. It shows you're already engaged and listening. This can also go along with asking someone where you can find more of their work. Someone who makes tiktoks say, may also host a workshop, where their time dedicated to education, or have another creative medium they use to communicate.
Save yourself from a Slip of the tongue, we all do it at times. If you find you've blurted a question without showing that patience and respect for what their boundaries may be, add on something like "if you don't mind my asking" or "if you're comfortable talking about it." Even if they say no, it's the sort of thing that can still ease the discomfort of an interaction.
Share a bit of yourself. Maybe you have a shared interest with someone, or something they've said resonated with your own emotions. Showing your own emotion and vulnerability can make people in general more comfortable sharing about themselves. But in particular autistic people are often dehumazed in the medical community and by people they encounter just out in the world. Letting someone know that THEY connected with you, shows that you're curious about them in a way that is rooted in human connection, and not as a spectical or scientific fascination. Sadly many of us have learned to be cautious of who we open up to, because curious people are not always safe or kind, or even actually receptive to what we have to say.
Also maybe notable that holding conversations by going back and forth with anecdotes as one persons thoughts remind the other of something, rather than having a social expectation of asking questions of eachother, or waiting to be asked a question to talk about oneself, is a very common style of communication for nuerodivergent folks.
Respect a no. It's true, no one owes other people education, and respecting autistic autonomy is so important, it is often taken away from us. You are also not owed a kind tone and words, especially when autistic people often don't know how others will perceive their speech or expressions, they may even have reduced ability to control movements and tone, or recall language. Some people maybe intentionally hostile, other times people may have no idea how they are being read, there's no way to know in a conversation that someone is telling you they want to end.
Obviously there are different degrees of hostility, and this is getting into my personal beliefs about the world at large, and these are things I say to people in all walks of life. We live in a world in distress, we are exposed to more information/opinions (positive and negative) than ever before. The choices we make day today effect ourselves and our communities, and ripple out into the world. Pick your battles, know when to walk away and a conflict and let it go. That's different depending on personal values and context. But we always have choices on whether to contribute to the culture of conflict in the world, or to step away and return to our own emotional equilibrium. You can't change the choices others make, you can only decide if your choices are cultivating your best life and the world you want to see
My best friend’s 14 year old is non verbal as well. I’ve known him since he was born, so I’m his “auntie.” He is very smart, and we all do lots of things together! He likes to to like Wyatt and be playful with people he knows.
My son is nonverbal autistic, 14 - and very similar to Wyatt. My relationship with my son is also similar to your bonding, communication and fun with Wyatt. Thank you for being helpful and cool. Rock on, guys!🤟🏼Subscribed.
It means so much to read these kind words! Glad you and your son have such a cool and unique relationship. Thanks for watching. Going to try and get back into making videos again. Editing can be so hard but making connections to people is important to me! Cheers and thanks for watching 🤘🏼🤘🏼
im also the parent of a non verbal daughter, just wanted to say parent to parent you're awesome the amount of work that goes into caring for these individuals is absolutely insane
So very sweet. Language is more diverse than the narrow framework we chose to encompass as a means of communication.
I completely agree - I love how you worded that. Thank you for watching and leaving your thoughts 👣
I left the industry a few years ago due to my mental health. Completely brought on by taking a promotion in an incredibly toxic organisation. I miss the crew I worked with so much! This interview with you and Wyatt had me smiling within seconds, and my heart almost swollen out of my chest!! I will head back to the industry in my own way, but will never work for an organisation again. It goes against my every grain when the people that we're meant to exist for are put close to last on the list. I'm excited that more and more families are able to support their family members in making their own choices about who they work with, spend time with and how! 😊😊
Anyway, bloody awesome vid, Wyatt looks like he'd be a blast to hang out with, you guys are lucky to have each other 🤙🤙🤙
Thanks for sharing!!!
Cheers from Australia ❤🇦🇺🤙🤙🤙
Hey there! Wow! What a great comment. I know how hard working in this industry can be, and working for organizations that seem to have little empathy for people. I have burned myself out several times giving my best to companies that couldn't care less about me, or the people that they are serving. Sometimes companies start out with great intentions and then a lack of quality management and the ability to pay people what they're worth really leads to low quality engagement and poor service. It's awful how those types of things can shake out. I hope you regain your footing and find a way that you can work for yourself, because you know what you're worth and you deserve it.
I'm glad this video could bring a smile to your face all the way in Australia. It blows my mind when our videos connect with people all around the world. TH-cam is a magical thing sometimes.
Anyway, we've released videos every Sunday so stick around the channel for more inspiration and feel free to reach out or email me if you need any encouragement or advice. I would be happy to help. Hope you have a great week and thanks again
❤ He deserved to be seen ❤
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It’s a blessing to encounter these teachers. When they look in our eyes it’s like they see your soul. When you look into their eyes all you see is innocence. No hate…No greed…No Ego…Just Purity.
You are so right about that, it's amazing the connection that you can have with people outside of cultural norms or the pressure of society. It's a magical thing and I am honored to have experienced it first hand. Thank you for watching and leaving your comments. Have a great day, and a great week!
My son who is also basically non verbal would have jumped into that water! Thank you SO much for helping this young man and being his friend. Anytime you want to move to CA, we are here!!
hey there! I am actually looking for west coast families to work with! If you would like I can send you an email with more information. I make yearly trips to the west coast. walkingdiscoveryinfo@gmail.com if you send me an email, I will reply!
You say non verbal..but he do make 'noises'...only asking...how then non verbal?
@@hannetjie4817 vocal sounds which are not considered to be words, such as a grunt, squealing, shrieking or singing a wordless note is per definition considered nonverbal..
Usually "verbal" means "words". So just like how Wyatt makes sounds, he's VOCAL, but not VERBAL. That's what the difference is 🥰
In answer to the parent,who said their son would have jumped in the water…my non verbal son at the time..verbal now and high functioning…did jump into the water..💦 Twice..!!!!
What a happy, communicative young man Wyatt is. Thank you for your very good work.
You're right about that! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch the video and leaving your thoughts. Hope you have a great day wherever you are ✌️👣
Love this so much. Reminds me of my son Cavan, who turns 14 soon. Wish he had a friend like you. Hello Wyatt, nice to meet you.
So glad you do! Thanks for watching.
I love how caring you are with Wyatt and how you frame explain your communication with him so we understand.
Thank you for your comment! It was challenging to try and explain while in the moment but Im glad it came across well 😊
He is so joyful 🥹🥹🥹
You are right about that! He is a light in many people's lives. Thank you so much for watching
Looks like Wyatt really enjoys the outdoors and his time with you.. great video to watch
Thank you dad!
This is going to sound wild but this teenager has perfectly blended highlights in his hair. Most teenagers would dream of that. I appreciate his parents for giving him highlights and clothing that teens envy.
The hair gods have definitely shown down on him 😇 Haha, not weird at all. Thank you for watching!
That boy really loves you. I like how he looks so happy, his family take good care of him.
He's so frigging cute. Bless you for looking after him.
Thank you for watching and leaving your comment. Hope you have a great week
Just great . I have been with a non-verbal person for 33 years . I love every minute of it . My guy was 9 when I started with him . Congrats on both of your success .
Hey James! Thanks for watching and leaving your comment. That is so incredible! How long you have shared a relationship with them. Good on you and I wish you both the best in life!
My son uses D and E sounds alot he just turned 4..non verbal. I can imagine him having a deeper voice one day making similar sounds to Wyatt 😂😂😂 that's so crazy. I always imagine what my son will be like when he gets older lol
My son is turning 3 and there isn’t an hour that goes by that I imagine the man my son will become. His name is Easton and also non verbal
My son is also 4 and using D and E sounds a lot when he is happy.
My little brother was late to walk as a toddler, didn't speak until 4 or 5, and was a menace at school (and at home) until about 4th or 5th grade (had to be homeschooled for a few years in there). The school and doctors tried diagnosing him with some sort of autism/adhd and the school would only allow him back in school if he was medicated (he punched a girl in second grade... prompting the homeschooling). He's now in his senior year of high school, taking all AP classes, straight A student, and even has a gf. Keep your expectations high and don't let doctors medicate someone who may not need it.
This is awesome. Wyatt seems awesome and reminds me so much of my son Jude. Thanks for sharing this and helping bring awareness to how non verbal autistic people really are. Verbal stimming and our way of communicating can seem weird to people. Do it's really nice to have this normalized.
Absolutely! Glad that this video can be helpful and reassuring for people. It's not something many people take the time to understand.
Wyatt has a nice personality. Thanks for sharing: I have a friend that has a non verbal son and he is also 15 going on 16 perhaps the same age as Wyatt, but he has cerebral palsy and is also crippled. I was able to use snacks to know when he wanted another chip or not, and also when he held the bag of chips, he would give them back to me, and then I tried giving them back to him, and he then gave them back to me again, uh, ok, the message was clear: I don't want any more. It's fun to see that they understand what's going on. Then later, I was petting his cat on the couch, and he ( non verbal boy) gave me the biggest smile cause I was interacting with the cat. Very priceless! Thanks for a great time. and video. Terry
The way you describe the chips sounds exactly like something wyatt would do. Thank you so much! For sharing your story and leaving a comment. We love reading these
lots of great info about neurodiversity and how it can manifest. Non speaking does not equal non-social! You speak Wyatt’s language...❤️
Definitely A unique bond. Glad you are helping to break that stigma. That teen has way to much energy for me though, you got A huge heart.
Thanks so much for watching. Good thing I've got the energy to match. Hope you have a great day 🌱
You know, I write blogs about autism advocacy, independence, and acceptance. People like you are the reason why! 😀
My guy is super happy! You definitely need to match he's super high energy to keep up with him! Awesome video, cheers from Portugal.
Wow, all the way from Portugal? I've always wanted to visit. Thank you for watching and leaving a great comment. Hope you have a great week!👣✌️👋
I am from Indonesia.. And I'm teaching a special kid. His parents really trust me to educate and help him to grow.. nice to see you one day here..
Wow, all the way from Indonesia? I would love to visit one day. Good luck with your career and working with people. Social jobs can be tough so please let me know if you need any advice or to chat with anyone. Thank you for stopping by and giving the video a watch. I hope you have a great day!
My son is also severely autistic with very limited speech.
I have written a book about the struggles we have faced as a family while raising him. It is called ‘Daniel’. The Author is myself Elizabeth Grech.
Thanks so much! I am definitely going to be checking out your book. I appreciate you watching the video and leaving your thoughts. So cool! I'm excited to read it!
@@walkingdiscoveryplease do and thank you for your support
My son is non verbal autistic and he’ll be 9 next month. I read your book about 6 months ago. It’s very well written and very informative and gave me an idea of what to expect.
@@YerDaddY. thank you. You are so kind. I wish you and your son all the best
Wyatt likes resonance, too. I love to hear from the inside as well!
Could you explain resonance to me? I think I understand what you mean, but I've not really heard that term used in this context (hearing from the inside) Thanks so much for dropping in!
Things like verbal stims, massaging and you patting him, it resonates through your body, like vibrations and its very satisfying. K had such a hard time replying on my phone so sorry if there's multiple replies
@@iswearimnotcrazydoesthatma6460 no, of course not! I totally understand thanks for taking the time to reply 👣
@@walkingdiscovery no worries!
Beautiful bond. I had a similar relationship with an autistic elementary student of mine that was misunderstood, deprived and starved of social experiences because of social misconceptions and fears and as a result,in high school,he killed himself. He was found naked in the high school cafeteria with a knife. I too am hoping we all can learn to adjust and be a bit more kind. Thank you. ❤
Thanks for highlighting and informing people of the effects of autism.
My non verbal grandson will be 14 this year .. it's different but we all get along pretty normal and ❤️..
My nephew is 29 next month.
His autism on a different level. He is verbal .. but affecting more emotionally..
I'm praying the mystery of autism is figured out so we can stop this from happening to our kids who are very intelligent in many unexpected ways.
Thank you so much for watching! You sound like a great grandparent. Continue doing a great job for your grandchildren. I know they will always appreciate it
Through hypnosis of a relative, when they are under we are able to speak to the souls of different people. These souls of those children can speak.
They can tell you why they chose to have their human experience in those bodies.
I do know this, the souls choose their world with others before they enter bodies. Their programing in the spirit is limited.
I would love one day to set up a group study of the hypnosis technique.
my son is 4 and non verbal autistic. he loves musical instruments as well. this brought me a lot of happines to watch. thank you for sharing!
I guess music really is the universal language? That is so cool. I'm glad that the video made it to you and you gave it the time to watch. We really appreciate the support and hope to see you in future videos. Have a great day!
Thank you so much for sharing this video. I really appreciate it when non-autistic people stand up for autistic people so that we are included more and become less of a stigma. I love the bond that you guys have. 💗
Thank you so much - and thank you for watching 👣 we are doing our part one step at a time.
so happy too see my fellow ASD people being communicated with and talked to with so much understanding and patience. wyatt seems like such a fun guy! having autism can be hard at times, but it can also make life so colorful and exciting. thanks a lot for this.
I don't know how common it is, but I feel sharply envious, sad and painful when I see how you two communicate. Wyatt is so relatable to me that I myself could never be.
I worked with non verbal teens many many moons ago. I miss it. People who don't take the time to recognize these magnificent souls are missing out on a great experience and special connection. I ended up bumping into one of the gals I worked with at a grocery store I was a cashier at and I hollered her name. She immediately came around the counter to give me a big hug - I was worried she wouldn't remember me. She did 🥰🥰🥰 Her nurse was perplexed lol. (Newly subscribed btw I really enjoyed this!)
Hey Sandi! Thank you so much for taking the time to watch our video. I really enjoyed reading your story about the awesome connections you have made with people over the years. It shows how much of a connection you made on that person, and how awesome of a person you are. Thank you for subscribing , and I urge you to stick around the channel for more videos every Sunday.
Cheers and thanks again!!!
Thank you for this. I feel bad, because I am terrified of making a mistake or doing the wrong thing when communicating or interacting with someone who is autistic and non-verbal. Just watching how you communicate and your patience is so refreshing and beautiful!
Hey there! So happy that this video was insightful for you. A lot of the times anxiety about doing the wrong thing is exactly what makes people do the wrong thing. Being yourself, trying your best to make it honest, connection is a great place to start.
If you know in your heart you are coming from a place of openness and true connection, you will be fine. Let me know if there's any advice I could give you or if you need any help. I'm happy to chat with you through email or through our discord server. If you're interested, just let me know and I'll provide you with the contact information?
First time viewer, loved your video.
Keep making them.
Thank you! More on the way.
Thank you for this! My nephew was just diagnosed with autism at 3, and I'm seeking out information on all parts of the spectrum. He kind of has some words now, so people keep saying as a kind of reassurance that he'll probably talk, have no intellectual disability and just be an awkward person. I want to understand how to interact with him regardless of how much or how he ends up being able to communicate and find it kind of annoying that people keep responding this way. Thanks for doing this interview!
thank you for watching! i'm glad this could help you. your nephew is lucky to have someone like you!
Dear Aunt, try learning sign language together on videos called "Signing Times." Even if he cannot sign back, he will understand. It has helped my son and me very much. All the best to you.
He might end up being someone who isn’t nonverbal. He could end up being quite verbal with even a good vocabulary, but present other challenges. Autism is a spectrum.
I appreciate videos like this I really do and I love how you treat you him no different from anybody else
Great to see Wyatt together with you, good friends ! What a wonderful Friendship ! ⭐️⭐️⭐️🙏
My brother has autism and is hardly communicating with anyone. I was raised with him so I know him very well and what I like to see that’s similar in the communication with Wyatt is you have these very specific things to communicate. I have that as well with my brother. My brother has specific interests and humor that we both know and others can hardly understand. This can come off as rude or secluded for others but this makes him extremely happy. He also is flapping his hands which is for me a sign of extremely relief and pleasure. Then I see him doing well. Such a smart guy as well but he needs guidance. Thank you so much for expressing this and showing me I’m not alone. You have a beautiful connection together!
Aw man, what a touching story. You sound like an amazing brother to have. World needs more bros like you out there. Thanks for watching and stick around for more videos with Wyatt coming up 🤘🏼
My nephew is 10 wears diapers still and is autistic, I feel for his feature. Many people don’t quite understand autism, and I’m so happy to see you bring awareness 🥹 thank you for this one
Thank you for sharing and for watching the video. Glad we could make this connection with you
Wyatt reminds me so much of my brother, David. We had this kind of bond. his speech was echololic. so we would say the same things to each other, over and over. he was a joy.
Thanks so much for sharing. You sound like great brothers. I appreciate you taking the time to leave us a comment - have a great day
he seems to watch your motions actions and gves you his answer in his special way, i am so glad he has found a friend who can be his back
Thanks a lot Kevin. I appreciate you stopping by the channel and leaving your comment. I'm lucky to have a guy like Wyatt :)
Wyatt! I really enjoyed watching and listening to your conversation, it reminded me of how I communicate with those who are closest to me in my own life. Sometimes I don't use mouth-words either; they can be so burdensome.
That was great! Loved meeting Wyatt. I have older boys and just loved this age. He absolutely shines. Your bond is strong.
Thank you so much! I'm glad this video made It's way to you and you could connect with it. Have a great day!👣✌️
@@walkingdiscovery love 💫from Tasmania Australia.
This makes my heart whole❤
Wyatt seems like a cool teen boy. I hope he's doing well going forward. Best wishes to him and his family. Thanks for being a good buddy to him. He looks really happy in your company. Btw, the garden is lovely.
Thanks a lot Kyra, it's been a honor to be and wyatts life. I appreciate you watching and leaving your thoughts. And yes, that garden is incredible!
In another video I watched about a non-verbal autistic teen, he would also use eye contact a lot to communicate. I noticed the same action in Wyatt. There are so many ways we communicate with each other. I think the key is to be open to the other person. The other boy I watched really loved music and this was an avenue for connecting with others. You have a good relationship with him.
You're absolutely right about that. Thank you for watching and leaving your observations. Hope you have a great day!
Loved this video ! So true. You can have a lovely relationship without words. We can communicate in many different ways!
I love this so much, I started as a para at a school in December. I love it so much and Wyatt reminds me of the kid I work with. I totally see the kid I work with rn being like Wyatt when he is older. You just gained a new subscriber!
This was an awesome video and both you and Wyatt are awesome guys. Thank you for everything your doing to help shed a light on autism and teach people what it’s all about. As you both show here, not all heroes wear capes.
Dude that’s amazing history you two have man. Your awesome man.
Just came across your video. My son, Ben, is exactly like Wyatt. I haven’t met many people like him so it’s always nice to see others. My son is 20. He is doubly incontinent and has epilepsy and challenging behaviour as can be very aggressive if upset. It was so lovely to see you interacting. My husband has a similar relationship with Ben but Ben and I have a more nurturing one. Ben likes me singing to him and playing music for him.
Wow, what an amazing thing that this video connected with you. TH-cam can be a magical place, because it seems to get these videos to people who really relate to them. It blows my mind sometimes.
I'm glad you and your husband could connect with this video and relate to it. It shows that people aren't all alone and their experience within their families. There are other people who experience similar things, and I hope that's comforting to you.
I hope you stick around the channel because there's more videos coming out this summer that will feature my experiences with Wyatt.
Thanks a lot for taking the time to watch and leaving the thoughtful comment. I wish you and your whole family a great day, month and year! 🌱
Thank you for introducing such a beautiful person!
Thanks friends. I'm enjoying this representation from someone right in my area. I'm the mother of a 6 year old nonverbal son and it's very hard to see the stares and whispers when we go in public. My son behaves and communicates alot like your pal there. I Love to see it. 🥰 much love from Denham Springs.
Yesterday, I saw a guy pacing back and forth by the eye doctors office, and he reminded me of Wyatt!!!!!
This vid is amazing in so many ways..
I’m super glad to have found your channel today! These videos are incredibly helpful and informative. Very helpful to me personally as well. Thank you so much! Subbed👍👍👍
Thanks a lot, true reviews!! I replied to your other comment mentioning coming to Philly! I should be there this spring actually, so let's keep in touch and we can make something happen on a video!
Love this, keep this up, need more people like yourself in this world.
We're just out here trying our best! Thank you for the kindness. It really brightens up my morning. Have a great day!
So much love given!
Thank you for sharing this video. Wyatt reminds me so much of my son Jacoby. It's awesome to see how much of a deep bond you guys share!
My pleasure! It's been such a fun journey getting to know Wyatt and connecting to his community. Thank you for watching 👣🖤
That was awesome! Sounds like you both had a great time! 🤗
Also-I see those editing skills👀👏🏼
One of our best walks to date. Haha thank you 👣
Thank you for this beautiful video! God Bless you!❤
Thank you for your kind words - I'm glad it was an enjoyable to you. Have a great day!!
This is awesome. This whole video put a smile on my face. You’re a great person and friend. Wyatt seems like a very cool and happy dude. I wish more people like you existed to give autistic people a chance for relationships.
Wyatt smiles abd shows he is happy soending tome with you. He shows confidence with his body language. You can see the trust thst Wyatt has in you. His touch shows he feels safe with you.❤
I consider non-verbal language to be a language. We consider ASL to be a language. Why can individual-specific gesturing not then be considered language as well? I have Asperger's. I listen and absorb, whether I look like I am or not. He's speaking without words, and I'm thankful that people like you listen to us. People often get uncomfortable around people who act "different". It's because of their own social anxiety. They're worried how they will look. Nothing wrong with those of us on the spectrum...it's a lot of the rest of the world who acts shamefully towards those they view as "different" and towards what they don't understand. Don't judge a book by it's cover.
I believe it was Ram Das that said silence is the language of God's .and yes, nonverbal communication is more vast than using words at the right time, tbh I like listening to the space between words, it's also a different type of conversation.
What a wonderful video! Thank you for sharing this, it is so good for parents like me to see this interaction between a young adult with Autism and a caring service provider. My son is 28 years old with severe Autism. He is semi-verbal, and capable of so many things. Great job, keep up the good work.
Thank you so much! I'm glad you connected with it and I'm excited to check out your channel tonight when I get off work. If your son is interested, we have online social options for connecting with other neurodivergent adults. If you're interested, just reply and I'll hook you up with the details!
Either way, I just appreciate you stopping by the channel and dropping some love. Hope you have a great week!
@@walkingdiscovery thank you! Yes I am interested in exploring online social options.
Love ur videos
Hope to see more of Wyatt and his progress
Stay tuned! I will be visiting Wyatt this winter in February and we will record more videos.
This video made me smile and made me happy and remember an old friends brother who reminded me so much of Wyatt thank you for this video ❤️
I'm glad you connected with this video, Kayla! We're happy to brighten up your day. Thanks so much for watching and hopefully we'll see you in the next video :)
We totally need more Wyatt videos. He is damn cool!
This was so wholesome. Thank you for the content. The world would be a better place with more positivity like we see here.
Wow, thank you so much for the kind words! Hope you have a great week!👣🌷
This has restored some faith in humanity for me today. Exceptional work sir
Thank you for the kind words. All a labor of love.
Ugh this was lovely to watch you both and your bond… I wish there was more people like you and more acceptance ❤ you are doing great work by showing this ❤
Thank you so much jon! I'm glad you enjoyed it. And, I really appreciate the kind words. You got my morning started off right 👋✌️👣
You’re an angel for sharing your experiences
Thank you for watching and leaving a comment. Hope you have a great week!
I admire what you do for him! You are a good person!
Thank you for watching and leaving your thoughts! Hope you have a great week
Enlightened. Thank you.
Great story of communication and relationship. Bless you!! What a gift!! This is so insightful. Thank you for bring it to us.
Thank you so much for watching! I truly appreciate you taking the time out of your day and I'm glad you got something from the video.
Bless yall stay up!!
Wyatt seems like a fun dude. Awesome interview, thanks!
He is a very fun dude indeed! Thanks so much for watching and leaving a comment. Cheers, have a great week!!
He's awesome and so are you.
Thank you for sharing your relationship with this beautiful boy.
Wow, thank you for the very kind words. You brightened up my morning. I appreciate you taking the time to watch and leaving your thoughts. Cheers!
Your video just popped up in my queue today and I’m so glad it did. You’ve got a new subscriber as a result. My son was recently diagnosed as high functioning autistic but still exhibits some of the hand movements and a desire to create his own set of sounds to communicate when he feels a need to retire from the world. I’ve been learning more every day about autism…your video captures a beautiful relationship and shares it with others in a way which I found extremely helpful.
Many thanks, George
Hey George! Thank you so much for watching and subscribing. I so happy you found this video helpful and I hope you enjoy our other videos too. They are coming out every Sunday so stay tuned. Have a great day!
Love this so much.
I have a 3 yr old on the spectrum. You’re on a def level. Thank you for what you do.
We're just out here trying our best. Thank you so much for watching and I'm glad you got something from the video 👣
I love this so much. It is really beautiful. Thank you.
Glad you enjoyed and connected with the video. Our pleasure! Have a fantastic day