Why you dont deserve to be confident

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  • @ItsMeRuff
    @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +498

    in summary:
    study and do well - confident
    study and do bad - study harder next time
    no study and do well - ego
    no study and do bad - no shit sherlock

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +71

      ​@Accumulated Thoughts when it comes to studying yeah but in other parts of life ive had to put in the work to do well so 🤷‍♂ but i wouldnt change anything tbh my ego is what made me so sure i could do whatever i want in the first place. it's a good way to start but if u let it take control it'll probably lead to your demise so gotta be careful with that

    • @swilgwizhi8692
      @swilgwizhi8692 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey man, anyway I can get in contact with you? I'm a year older and have some questions. Following the advice of Cobra himself and networking with like-minded people. You wanna be the best right?

    • @RedFox222...
      @RedFox222... ปีที่แล้ว +3

      so that look from a girl when i said everything easy was not of happiness for me but of contempt, she revealed 1 time about her situation and was kinda sad ngl i felt like trash

    • @Animalmoments-y3q
      @Animalmoments-y3q ปีที่แล้ว

      What your Instagram man

    • @greatidealooker
      @greatidealooker ปีที่แล้ว

      💀

  • @vsrgdog
    @vsrgdog ปีที่แล้ว +378

    You can't be confident in something that you haven't put effort on. Great message as always ruff

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +25

      thank u bro

    • @solipse.
      @solipse. ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The ikea effect

  • @abrilalvarado5823
    @abrilalvarado5823 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    "confidence is silent. ego screams for validation" gah damn

  • @kkillass
    @kkillass ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Ruff with the consistent W’s

  • @tonysimps5071
    @tonysimps5071 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    It’s funny because yesterday was the first time all year my confidence dropped significantly, I was naturally good at geometry by the start of 2023 I was making big gym progress and was passing all my exams with flying colors, until yesterday I completely bombed the test and my grade took a big hit as a result , I realize now I have to work hard instead of expecting things like good grades to come naturally to me and I guess this quote sums it up pretty well: “hard work beats talent when talent doesn’t work so hard”

    • @bhxmxkx
      @bhxmxkx ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This is so real literally what happened to me

  • @deepimprovement3733
    @deepimprovement3733 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    Man, I'm going to be honest, I really like listening to you.
    The way you make your videos so interesting without actually doing much.
    I was't even bored while listening

  • @icaleb_0
    @icaleb_0 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Confidence takes a while to earn but once you have it, it feels amazing. Great vid, also loving the consistency 💖

  • @Scholartaire
    @Scholartaire ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Came across your channel, brother. I came from your ‘disappearing for a year’ video and you’d be suprised of how much we have in common. Being needed but not wanted, being observed but not seen. You even called me out on alot of my behaviour. I see you. Keep posting. Keep talking. Keep rising 🤘🏾

  • @sleepybraincells
    @sleepybraincells ปีที่แล้ว +2

    man I've been binging so many of your videos

  • @The-Buffy
    @The-Buffy 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Basically, earn your confidence. Actually put in the effort towards your goal. Thanks for this Ruff, I'm gonna take action now

  • @scenetury
    @scenetury ปีที่แล้ว +4

    5:25 so i wasn’t the only one feeling this way 😭 whenever our grades comes out i don’t feel impressed by it even tho it’s pretty high. this vid is so helpful, thanks ruff !!

  • @xpicaronn
    @xpicaronn ปีที่แล้ว +15

    really amazing video, immediate sub. could relate a lot when you talked about getting easy As. ive never had to work for grades at all, and growing up labeled "gifted" hasnt helped. im confident in my grades to the point where i've stopped caring about tests simply because i know i'll do fine. where ive had to work on is making and keeping good relationships, self improvement, and working out. and when i see results there, my confidence is boosted way more than an A+ could have ever given me. this is such an incredible video along w the rest of your channel. ive binged all of your videos over the past few hours.
    also wanted to say that you ARE very attractive!! your self respect and self love and overall mindset is really cool and i respect people like this a lot. keep going bro just your personality is hella fine and your content is such a W

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      thanks. i went to a gifted education programme primary sch so that was a thing except i had family matters so my grades werent good then from then on i just destroyed everyone once my family managed to chill tf out.
      first time someone has called me attractive (except my friend’s mom) 🤩 these are the comments that truly keep me going. muah

    • @AnimainiacMV
      @AnimainiacMV ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsMeRuff bro question... why do you wear the mask? Is it an insecurity? Reason for asking is because this gave me a flashback of my past insecurity and I find this quite intriguing.

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +6

      privacy not insecurity 💀 if i was insecure i wouldnt be telling the internet my childhood trauma

    • @AnimainiacMV
      @AnimainiacMV ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ItsMeRuff oooh aite, that's understandable... was wondering😭🤙🏽

  • @Not_Williams
    @Not_Williams ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this guy feels like my best friend giving me advice
    thanks

  • @bhxmxkx
    @bhxmxkx ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is so real- i used to be bad at studies and i worked hard to be good and then i stopped in 8th grade and now it has become more like i don't even have to try to be able to get a good score and i see others working hard and i don't even have to do that. NOONE believes me when I tell them this but it is indeed true. I knew what hard work was and i used to be confident but then i stopped working hard. I have ego ik i do. And yesterday it was one of the most important exams of my school and i did not as great as i thought i would and it REALLY humbled me. I hope i do find a way to work on it. Thanks dude for giving me a REALITY CHECK literally

  • @2T41_
    @2T41_ ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Every time I see your video get recommended I can't help but watch it, and I have never been disappointed. :)

  • @jamesslayer4
    @jamesslayer4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Totally relate. Always had good grades in school, and I have been taught a grade ahead for most of my subjects, but it doesn't feel good. I don't walk into to high level math and get all giddy with all the work I put in. No, I just got a head start on most things. It just feels crappy. But guitar? I feel confident in that. Sure, I am not the greatest their ever was, not even average, but it feels good to have work out behind my accomplishments. That talent show where I played for the school, that was when I felt confident. Thanks for being my semi adult still sorta kid mentor Ruff, it means a lot.

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      glad u enjoyed the video broski

    • @The_Jazziest_Coffee
      @The_Jazziest_Coffee ปีที่แล้ว

      so goddamn true
      people always compliment me about my music, but i know i've slacked off way too much on honing my skills and developing properly to be confident in it (now that i'm a literal music captain, i probably should get more disciplined haha)
      but the only thing i always felt confident in was my tennis. sure i was dogshit in relative terms compared to the really good players that i've went up against, but just continuing to develop my skills and have that centered focus just felt so good.

  • @dontask5
    @dontask5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You're going places bro

  • @WaterM321
    @WaterM321 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks bro

  • @sivakumarveerasekar250
    @sivakumarveerasekar250 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks man,I have exams coming up and this video thaught me not to be delutional

  • @heriam7851
    @heriam7851 ปีที่แล้ว

    Its a talent for you , but a skill for me , i worked for it but you’ve been gifted this.

  • @Jayy788
    @Jayy788 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Damn back to back vids

  • @hankhill338
    @hankhill338 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so good, thank you ruff.

  • @torveh.
    @torveh. ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey ruff, I saw your video about disappearing not too long ago and I really though you had more subs, the way you speak to the camera really feels like you’re interacting with the person on the other side. You helped me.
    Thank you, I guarantee you’ll get over 10k within a week

  • @please_no_offence_fr
    @please_no_offence_fr ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Ruff!

  • @xanaxjanna2665
    @xanaxjanna2665 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I knew this guy played league, your vids are amazing keep posting

  • @delta_kanji6353
    @delta_kanji6353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always actually struggled with the same thing, like i had good grades but not really because i studied (i do know, but most of my life i didn´t) so whenever something didn´t go well, i frustated a lot

  • @obido8971
    @obido8971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Two vids in one week that's some grinding

  • @froggy8864
    @froggy8864 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm more then glad that you popped up on my youtube :)

  • @ligth3977
    @ligth3977 ปีที่แล้ว

    When I'm learning something that interests me, it doesn't feel like studying.
    But when forced to learn, I learn it but forget the next day.

  • @danielabreu9916
    @danielabreu9916 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man your channel is gonna blow up soon I know it. Consistently putting up great content

  • @Philbilly_Rocks
    @Philbilly_Rocks ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for this for the folks that need to hear it.

  • @coltsterzing8970
    @coltsterzing8970 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Almost 3k wooooooo
    Edit: now 3k woooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo

  • @LazyLaw-
    @LazyLaw- ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great message man 🫡

  • @whsiamhasan
    @whsiamhasan ปีที่แล้ว

    My exams will start tomorrow thanks for the conference 😃 and thanks to TH-cam for recommending this today

  • @elcue_6848
    @elcue_6848 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ay good to see your channel grow rapidly

  • @6haos
    @6haos ปีที่แล้ว

    What sneako should've been, Ruff I don't even know who you are I literally just found your channel but you give me good vibes, I appreciate your content, much love

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      thank you sm bro

    • @6haos
      @6haos ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsMeRuff thank you, it's really calming and interesting :)

  • @kdburner5783
    @kdburner5783 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ruff posted🥵🥵

  • @BluYune
    @BluYune ปีที่แล้ว

    i want you to know, you started a genere, you are a insperation to me, so now thank you

  • @Ansanity_2
    @Ansanity_2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video but what about being confident in social situations? I wanna be better in that but * dunno what to do

  • @soggybum
    @soggybum ปีที่แล้ว

    God I love ur videos bro

  • @cunnyfied-sapp9180
    @cunnyfied-sapp9180 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great Content Bro!

  • @SuZhii
    @SuZhii ปีที่แล้ว +3

    One intelligent Asian, just like me fr

  • @LoudSilentness
    @LoudSilentness ปีที่แล้ว

    bro making me rethink life

  • @athenacherrymusic
    @athenacherrymusic ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found your channel today, pretty good stuff mate! 😌👍

  • @YungPyramidScheme
    @YungPyramidScheme ปีที่แล้ว

    i think it would be cool to make a discord or something for your channel,, just like a self improvement space

  • @mushroom6771
    @mushroom6771 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Another video from you

  • @hazelene_
    @hazelene_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Im never confident in my exams. Even if i study. But i still ace every exams. I have no idea how but i don't wanna shout "I GOT A PERFECT SCORE WITHOUT EVEN TRYING!" I wanna keep it to myself. People will see it themselves.

  • @GoofyAhhEngineer
    @GoofyAhhEngineer ปีที่แล้ว

    Take action

  • @chocolateka6019
    @chocolateka6019 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey there, just so you know, I really love watching your videos. It's like talking to your wise friend, thank you :3

  • @blue-the-realist
    @blue-the-realist ปีที่แล้ว

    Im gonna tell u my story man im a boxer and i know i dont work hard enough to gain mind peace like i used to be good and all but there’s no process rn i truly love it but im always shattered by my negative thoughts i cant control it im suffering and i feel bad for suffering and it gets more intense when i think of sparring and the things i didnt try and school is coming up and im burnt out and i hate school i get attention for boxing all the time they jus come up to me and do dum shit i jus hate it like im constantly suffering this’s not me being a bitch like i wanna improve but i cant help it and im know this sounds ridiculous and i wanted it to be like that

  • @josegumban
    @josegumban ปีที่แล้ว

    yeah your confidence is what you have but ego changes it wich you dont deserve tho you can still be anxious and less confident than you should be

  • @Kniflex_
    @Kniflex_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video as always, growing really fast i see, remember the few people that supported you since the start, you are really conscious about yourself :) i wish you only the best

  • @princenight8450
    @princenight8450 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your underrated guy 👍🤯

  • @cheesycheese60
    @cheesycheese60 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Idk man I don't have that motivation factor to study harder and when i do, it just gets overshadowed by the countless times i got a full mark whilst skimming the book but that doesn't work anymore and my grades are so bad I don't wanna fail, the whole bloodline's expectations are on my shoulders i got a year and a half left
    Plus this idea that even if i fail i can just get a job without a degree because im good with programming but that won't make my parents happy and I can't trust myself if i drop out now to pursue programming as a career

  • @therealelgatoIII
    @therealelgatoIII ปีที่แล้ว

    1:33 he called me out on all of these. i need to start working D:

  • @beurreamoustache3333
    @beurreamoustache3333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bold of you to assume I'm confident in anything

  • @furrybeater9138
    @furrybeater9138 ปีที่แล้ว

    RUFF POSTED BABE RUFFF POSTED OMGO OMGO MGO MOGM RUFF POSTEDDDD RAHHHHHHHH

  • @alusineamara1604
    @alusineamara1604 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love u 🙄

  • @priyankanegi1920
    @priyankanegi1920 ปีที่แล้ว

    you add meaning to my life
    - some 18 year old

  • @Zaptrap101
    @Zaptrap101 ปีที่แล้ว

    Still finding the guys who made the comment😅

  • @rhett786
    @rhett786 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dam yesterday i saw u were around 3k today 4k poggers
    Now ur a inFlUnZeR

  • @kennyjohn1562
    @kennyjohn1562 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Somethings tell me this is the birth of a new legend (⁠๑⁠•⁠﹏⁠•⁠)

  • @oniononion815
    @oniononion815 ปีที่แล้ว

    hey man, love your videos! i was just wondering, what do you use to edit your videos? like the background music etc.

  • @minlrgo
    @minlrgo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    okay i thought you would be talking about being confident speaking to people

  • @NibsilProductions
    @NibsilProductions ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm looking forward to you in 3 years.

  • @Eueuejjjj
    @Eueuejjjj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t think the first example was good because that’s a totally different context on what everyone is talking about because the answers how to do well on a test are the actual answers but the answer to getting girls making money getting respect is confidence itself it’s not a gateway to get you to the answer it is the answer I do understand your point of saying working hard at something can only give you confidence while that’s true in a lot of cases there’s others where even if they study hard more than a lot of others they don’t feel confident if they did enough or they aren’t so confident in their answers on the test like that moment where you see that you bubbles in c 3 times and feel the need to change it 😂 a confident person who studied wouldn’t be worried since he knows he studied and he believes that is the right answer while an unconfident person even if they had studied would look at that and try to change something even if it’s not the correct answer just because it seems off

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      the unconfident person who studied a lot may be lacking in other areas of life. they probably sacrificed in other areas to just focus on study. imagine one person who studied hard and had a good social life and good mental health. we know hes confident or at least more confident than the person who also studied hard but didnt take care of anything else in his life. he has bad habits and no social life.
      u get confidence by progress but u cant just progress one thing. and tbh a lot of ur capability to be confidence also comes down to mental health (but nearly everything in life comes down to that so)
      confidence is somewhat a prerequisite to getting girls but its still something u have to progress thru.
      an unconfident guy can become confident by getting rejected multiple times because thats really the only way to truly progress. at the 10th rejection he probably doesnt care anymore. whats the worst that could happen? that outcome independence is extremely useful and makes u faaaar more confident than the guy who’s naturally confident and can talk to girls easily because he has the short cut. he didnt earn it.
      its the same with guys who naturally have good bodies in high school. they tend to lose it after their physical peak. but almost every jacked guy u see was once fat asf or skinny asf. they had to earn it.
      its the same when it comes to girls or money.

    • @Eueuejjjj
      @Eueuejjjj ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsMeRuff that’s exactly what I mean when I say confidence is the answer all of that other stuff contributes to your confidence which contributes partly to your success I think you may misinterpreting what I’m saying I agree with you I just thought that the first example was a bit off

  • @leventemezo5607
    @leventemezo5607 ปีที่แล้ว

    So true

  • @axtr998
    @axtr998 ปีที่แล้ว

    ruff is growing quick

  • @ItzJuzGREY
    @ItzJuzGREY ปีที่แล้ว

    That 4C MC boy handsome

  • @nelson05
    @nelson05 ปีที่แล้ว

    My boi splitting asian facts

  • @26ratish.k77
    @26ratish.k77 ปีที่แล้ว

    Damm bro u in ACSI??

  • @adoniis90
    @adoniis90 ปีที่แล้ว

    the next hamza after hamza

  • @marburg8697
    @marburg8697 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy is handsome

  • @daslanyan
    @daslanyan ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Not gonna lie great content but I feel like youtubes gonna censor content like this out and your account may get shadowed

  • @definitelyenisi345
    @definitelyenisi345 ปีที่แล้ว

    what kind of music do you use in your videos

    • @eugenesate
      @eugenesate ปีที่แล้ว

      Lofi

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว

      its in the description of every video

  • @P0pel0
    @P0pel0 ปีที่แล้ว

    This comment will ruin the number 69 😂💔
    But still congratulations bro for 4.5k subs a great adoniss😂youtuber is growing wish u all the best 🖤🔥

  • @Visionoftmr
    @Visionoftmr 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    There must be some routine to not try help olevrl

  • @AndrewisDifferent
    @AndrewisDifferent ปีที่แล้ว

    goat

  • @definitelyenisi345
    @definitelyenisi345 ปีที่แล้ว

    off topic but didn't you have around 2k subscribers yesterday? you have more than 4k now

  • @Darkwater-sw4ww
    @Darkwater-sw4ww ปีที่แล้ว

    Raid Shadow Legends is like RickRoll nowdays

  • @aramiswilliams767
    @aramiswilliams767 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    bro your voice sound so familiar but i just cant pin it you a cool dude tho

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      i sound like every asian who grew up on western media so he unconsciously developed a slight accent.

  • @cthegud7132
    @cthegud7132 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hm

  • @digitalstorm3028
    @digitalstorm3028 ปีที่แล้ว

    Regarding your academic ability have you taken the CAT4 test that is usually administered in British schools? I got an average score of 116 on that test and would be nice to know your score lol

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว

      ive never taken the CAT4. i took the GCSEs sorry. is it harder or easier than the GCSEs

    • @digitalstorm3028
      @digitalstorm3028 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ItsMeRuff its sort of like an IQ test since its designed to test you cognitive ability(ability to learn) instead of your ability to remember and it helps to filter out applicants to a school. I've been homeschooled since primary school and ig that's my only measure of academic ability sadly. Would love to see a video about under-socialization as a child if you have extra time lol

    • @digitalstorm3028
      @digitalstorm3028 ปีที่แล้ว

      Btw its popular in some British schools so that is why I asked

  • @vrfrenzy8451
    @vrfrenzy8451 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm not confident tho

  • @AAMARIYO
    @AAMARIYO ปีที่แล้ว

    you are saying that the confidence is based on the things that you accomplish?

  • @shanghean1870
    @shanghean1870 ปีที่แล้ว

    Can I be in your next video?

    • @ItsMeRuff
      @ItsMeRuff  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      get more subs first loser

    • @shanghean1870
      @shanghean1870 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@ItsMeRuff :(

  • @user-zc5xe2sf4q
    @user-zc5xe2sf4q ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why the mask bro?

  • @joshuaanthony16
    @joshuaanthony16 ปีที่แล้ว

    W Ruff

  • @TehHolySpudBoi
    @TehHolySpudBoi ปีที่แล้ว

    the only thing I'm good at is Roller Skating lol

  • @MINATO-th2vn
    @MINATO-th2vn ปีที่แล้ว

    W

  • @vvs1706
    @vvs1706 ปีที่แล้ว

    1000 likes!!

  • @gamernick11
    @gamernick11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yo can you stay humble and intellegent and dont do a sneako on us. Ty

  • @drizzleamstizzle11
    @drizzleamstizzle11 ปีที่แล้ว

    Ruff is the better version of old sneako.

  • @icklemshinsei775
    @icklemshinsei775 ปีที่แล้ว

    XD really ? 3:07

  • @josh-k8i
    @josh-k8i ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey Ruff, how can you even get good grades without trying, you have to make some effort at least

  • @Zambian_girl
    @Zambian_girl ปีที่แล้ว

    When is your birthday? lol

  • @JanJan-uf9mv
    @JanJan-uf9mv ปีที่แล้ว

    Are you just copying hamza now

  • @Ryomensukuna-zs5ps
    @Ryomensukuna-zs5ps ปีที่แล้ว

    I am learning from him (as an Asian (indian) not normie and self artist all I can relate 80% but I am not good in studies but my art skills are natural but I took biology and preparing for an entrence test (neet) it's hard to manage all that shit although I am working really hard to rid from my bad habits 💦😂 and working on my good ones like exercise sleep early and getup on 5 and on my future goles like ( fuck my future wife) now I'm feeling like I am an 16 year old exceptional kid but in good way and trying to improve myself and yeah your video about ( disappearing for a year looks like kinda helping me thanks love from India🫂♥️) byee brooo okh ( give me a kiss and TAKE ACTION

  • @learnbot1838
    @learnbot1838 ปีที่แล้ว

    W RUFF W RIZZ

  • @user-zc5xe2sf4q
    @user-zc5xe2sf4q ปีที่แล้ว

    Why the mask bro?