That’s so selfish! What’s embarrassing about walking down the aisle alone? Everybody’s not going to accept her being transgender, but it’s her sister’s wedding and that’s who she’s there for and nobody else. Walking alone will have all the attention on her. She should feel honored and walk like a model down that runway for her sister.
@@tdcleveland09well if her sister really wanted her sister to be there for her big day she wouldn’t have told her sister that she had to walk alone because grooms was uncomfortable holding her arm!! It’s just a walk down isle not intercourse ! I would have got a male to walk w/ my sister that didn’t mind she was trans. So it definitely gave her sister told those grooms that she was trans . Even if they already knew her sister before the transition so the sister claimed then whoever ain’t wanna walk with my sister would’ve had to go and replaced with someone that didn’t mind period
I can’t imagine carrying a child for nine months just for family to brainwash that child into thinking I was not their mother…and she looks like her mom. And I do believe her momma would’ve beaten the brakes off that aunt…..it’s never to late honestly😂
My auntie told me early on that my Dad wasn’t my biological father, FOR YEARS! My whole family said she was crazy or just joking. When I was 12yrs old, I found out she wasn’t lying.
He always has something nice to say to EVERYONE. Yeah, I always listen to how he compliments them. And one thing, the guests always look good. I haven't once heard him lying about it. Every guest always looks shaaarrrrp.🥰
That’s a way to cause them to feel at ease. I do that to my clients too. Finding something that you can say that is a true compliment makes them take their guard down.
@@jbwolf4no it doesn’t…..it never does. I never hear/heard a trans compare themselves to a JEW!!…they wouldn’t dare make that comparison. They’re BOTH “marginalized groups”…PLEASE stop using my skin color to prove mistreatment towards a sexual orientation
Nah it definitely makes him insecure, if the groomsmen didn’t wanna hold ANYONE’S hand then yeah they’re just uncomfortable, but specifically a trans woman’s? Why? What’s the difference? It’s a 30 second walk you’re not sleeping with her afterwards.
@@scottiemo7 so if your homie was getting married, and for his wedding he wanted his groomsmen to hold hands as a sign of their strength for whatever reason, you would say no and remove yourself from the wedding? Because that would be a man in a suit, even more manly. Or would you be fine because it’s a homie and you know y’all ain’t like that? The same thing applies, sister said they knew her before she transitioned this isn’t a stranger at the wedding this is a friend of theirs
I'm in the middle bc they could have just walked side by side I think what makes him insecure in requesting to walk separate to Indya, you may not want to lock arms fine but I think to do that especially when it's not your wedding or about you makes you insecure it's not like being Trans is passing a disease and it seems from the dialouge she wasn't hinting for a man or anything neither so she was really just there for support
Agree💯 just something ppl use I feel can’t make ppl accept things u want ppl to -just need to b comfortable with their decisions and selves while accepting others beliefs amd boundaries = ALL OF US❤💯
Yep she's messy.. I can relate to the drama in that family.. it's horrible when ur own mom picks sides in her children 🤧 I've been protecting my peace for yrs🤞🏾!! 🙏🏾
It’s resentment, her mother took her siblings and moved to another state leaving her behind. She had to watch From outside as her mother built another family and did not include her. How do you think that made her feel as a 10-year-old? That’s abandonment right there. Then when she reconnected with her siblings the mother would instigate drama between them. The mother has never acknowledged the abandonment and alienation that she made her daughter feel. The mother took her to court trying to take custody of her kids. The respect has sailed away and at this point, her Mother doesn’t deserve respect. 🤷🏽♀️
@@rhearamjohn4792 I grew up in and out of foster care and my mother never got custody of me back try again i know exactly what it feels like but still I would never talk to my parent like that I understand the anger but there’s still ways to get that out without the disrespect…
If one of my ever in life spoke to me like that..well than again..I raised all my kids..I went to school plays I went to games..I grow wit my children. .n they would never speak to me or their dad like that..mind your business.. ggiirrlll babbbyyy...
@@stacygoodwin7277 thank you!! I might not have always had my mom in my life but still it’s always gonna be respect to the person that birthed you wether they raised you or not
Being black is not the same as being transgender. If a person did not want me to walk with them because I was black...oh well give them another partner.. I would not feel not kind of way except happy.
For all the adults who grew up in families that had (or still have) these types of issues and the parents had treated them this way as children, we need to keep in mind that our parents were once children themselves with parents/family that may have given them unfair treatment. It took me 30 years to realize this about my parents and how I was raised. Depending on your parents age, that will reflect the generation they've grown up in and that will reflect how THEIR parents raised them because older generations were extremely strict and sometimes unemotional. Talking to family, and your parents, will absolutely help you understand and in return YOU can change yourself.
Everyone does not have to be ok with walking with a man that thinks he’s a woman. That’s a choice the trans made and that’s a choice that man made. It doesn’t make him less of a man Karamo. And if he didn’t walk to do it because your black it is still his choice. I think it messed up that if you don’t agree with man wanting to present as women you are labeled as transphobic because I don’t agree with a person wanting the world to be ok with trans wanting to change reality. However, I don’t have nothing against people that live a gay lifestyle.
What grown woman want to be a flower girl...everyone would walk down the aisle solo. Just change up the wedding. All the bridemaids and maid of honor walk together and the grooms walk together. I would not make my sister feel funny at all js
@@lindasharp5766you are not slick Linda, trying to come up with alternatives so nobody had to touch the trans woman makes you yourself seem transphobic as well. It’s a 30 second walk you aren’t gonna catch cooties
Just came off to moms rude disrespectful… Neva shame ur parents talk… and I pray for those who don’t have great relationships with their parents.. I didn’t but I respect my mom.. forgive to b forgiven NO ONES PERFECT AND U ONLY HAVE ONE MOM ONE DAD!!! Prayers all ❤❤❤❤ communication and Actively LISTEN 💯💯 Can’t expect all to all accept u and can’t force others as well it’s mutual live ur life ur own lives and accept selves respect others overall with choices THEY MAKE NOT OTHERS- Love love love and be mutually respectful!❤❤❤ 2 nd girl… u know that’s your mom via side chubby mom cheek and chin for sure via view most definitely have ur dads’s nose💯 Proof to stop listening to ppl 100% ❤
This is the problem with this community. So if you are a trans. You don't feel it's right for you to let the other person know that you are if you're going to be holding their arm or walking down the owl with them. How do you know the other person is comfortable with it? How do you know that wouldn't affect the other person mental? After finding out that they did that act without knowing. Everybody's just so tender instead of thinking outside the box smh
Toxic mothers are real and girlie hit it head on tell the TRUTH!!!! Too many women are healing from these mothers and it’s so toxic. Heal and move on no apologies just respect and changed behavior.
If the sister hadn't told me anything, I wouldn't have noticed that it was a trans woman. What nonsense to say she had to walk alone. Being trans isn't contagious, is it? I don't like the word jealous, but I am a little jealous of the self-confidence that Indya radiates, I wish I had that same self-confidence! Good for you, you did not attend the wedding. Stupid to allow people to let you be the center of gossip and being ridiculed. it should be about a wedding, not a "trans-thing". I hope your whole family will be good again, all of you with your mum and your sisters and brother, family is all we have!❤❤❤
She’s beautiful she doesn’t look like a male at all. I thought it was just a rumor when she first said the reason they didn’t wanna walk with her … that’s insane she’s beautiful asf . I couldn’t believe the fact that she was actually trans but still also in shock that her sister allowed that crap. I love her and wish the best for this woman she look better than me she is beautiful she was def meant to be exactly who she is now !!
She’s very disrespectful to her mom but she’ll be really upset if her kids said something like that to her!!!! “Karma “is real and knocks on your door unexpected
The mother Jumped on the one daughter yes she did!!! That’s messed up! Wait he needs to Apologize himself! The mother isn’t a good person! I disagree the daughter wasn’t Disrespecting her mother she was standing up for herself! Why did she abandon her child??????!!!!
Sound crazy !! It’s a 30 second walk not asking the man to kiss her or nothing . The man could’ve stayed home that refused and I would’ve got a man that didn’t mind walking next to my sister !! Family first if she love/support her sister like she said she would’ve accommodated a change for her sister & not for a man !!! Whew y’all was not raised right and it shows .
J'ai du respect pour la maman et ça me touche beaucoup ou elle demande pardon car elle est vraiment en paix avec elle même et les enfants et elle a raison de dire de laisser le passé derrière nous pour avancer vraiment dans la vie on a dès hauts et des bas et je trouve que la maman est avec beaucoup de souffrance car il lui faut beaucoup d'amour maman vraiment j'ai plus de maman et je sais comment cette maman peut se sentir avec toute se problème de famille et elle reste forte maman love for you ans your kids❤❤❤❤ be all in ❤❤et rester en paix car la vie est courte vraiment j'ai du respect pour vous tous et je vous souhaite beaucoup bonheur ❤❤
People have a right to not walk with someone they don’t agree with their life style, and it’s not her sisters fault they didn’t feel comfortable. Get over it. It was your chose at the life style you chose.
Well not wanting to walk down the aisle with her,,is like making out she will poison to anyone who touches her. Nobody needed to know her situation at all, and to make walk alone just makes her look untouchable, you do not be that unkind to anyone.
I wouldn’t walk arm and arm with trans. Say I’m insecure or not confident whatever… I have boundaries and my “feelings” should be respected just like person believe they were born in the wrong body
one doesn’t “become” transgender. being trans is not a choice bc it’s an identity, transitioning is a choice (which doesn’t invalidate trans identities). being trans is just as much out of a person’s control as being black so this was a very fair comparison signed, a cisgender black man.
She’s just jealous of her sister, because she was born a woman and she was not. Please don’t compare the complexion of a persons skin with the fact that you made a conscious decision to decide to be other than what you were born that has nothing to do with anybody’s race You will never be a woman I pray you have happiness, in who you are NO men do not have to agree to lock arms with another man if they don’t want to I am so tired of people making decisions to change their sexuality, and then being mad because everyone does not want to take part that is unfair and bias I have no problem with people being whoever it is that they want to be but don’t try to grab the rest of us around our necks and try to make us accept it or agree with it
@@simonensimyah Apparently you read what you wanted to read skipped over it and did not read at all I guess you didn’t see the part where I said people have the right to be whatever it is if they decide to be but bottom line is SHE !!!! was jealous because she was not born a woman although that is what she has decided to be in the future write what you want on your page 🤷🏿♂️ baby😂😂😂😂
I wonder if the mother has issues with having a natural daughter and decided to encourage a perfect daughter in her son. 🤔 The mother is overly critical of her daughter for being a female. It also seems, she may feel, she could be a better mother to her grandchildren. It appears, the daughter is the fluke in her eyes; it looks like she h8ts her and wants to emotionally bring her pain. It may have alot to do with the daughter's father rejecting her. I see an unGodly twisted minded mother.
Wait a minute when did they allow for people to bring guns to the show? If you zoom in on the waistband of the father when he comes to the stage there is a silver holster clip to his pants parrot you can't say that's the microphone because at no time was he expected to come to the stage otherwise they would have given him a mic. None the less you can see the hammer and a sturdy clip that latches onto the belt to hold that weapon in place. I might be wrong but I blew this up as big as you could be before it became distorted and it certainly looks like a gun to me. What do you guys think?
Saying “before you transgendered over” like what. You SISTER is trans why do you not know the right terms. Why did you let the groomsman disrespect your sister in that way. If they did want to hold her hand they shouldn’t have been in the wedding period. I can’t even stand near anybody who will disrespect my sister.
Toepez if you're watching this.... You're not wrong for anything that happened with either of your family members! He's not a real woman and can't be mad if they decided to not walk next to her! People have a choice not to be Ok with this trans lifestyle . And the Mom is just a angry person
The groomsmen were not wrong. They have a choice of whether they want somebody else's life choices forced upon them or not. Alot of the lgbtq etc folks have so many issues with what others think or do because they're not secure with themselves and the choices they have made. Its nobody else job to go overboard to accept them. They have to accept themselves and be okay with that. To each his or her own I have no problem with people who are different just don't try to force gay on me and I won't force straight upon you. When she have her own wedding then she can do what she pleases. That was not her call she could've walked by herself or sat in the audience if it was about the sister but no she just wants attention. The mom was wrong and she knew it thats why she started out about everybody has a past. She knew hers was about to embarrass her because she abandoned her daughter as a child and still as an adult she don't have her back. Topaz is probably better off just saying it is what it is. She shouldn't have to keep apologizing for being left out to make them feel better about leaving her out.
Okay. Wait. Now see this is the only issue i have with the trans subject. We cant expect others to accept our feelings about being trans if we cant respect how others feel about it. You cannot force hetero men to be down with anything just because it hurts your feelings. It is their right not to want to lovk arms with a trans if they aren't comfortable. It doesnt make them phobic or insecure. Its a choice and their right to do so. Trans rights do not amd should not be the only feelings that matter. This is unacceptable. PeriodT
She feels like u ruined it because it was boring without you. Yep u are the event baby, she mad cause she needed u there and instead o apologizing and telling them grooms u will be replaced if you won’t walk with my sis she got angry and then insulted you even more . She’s a spoiled sister and did not take up for her . I’m angry abt this one , and we can tell that babygirl is confident and independent but also that is her sister the one she probably thought she would love and trust the most so I know behind closed doors she does probably cry who wouldn’t . But I’m happy she stood on her respect no matter what, and baby it’s okay to show emotions in public as well. God bless you’ll have a fulfilling life and a partner who loves you and new sisters and brothers hopefully your husband will have siblings so u can be close with them
No he’s a strong black man. And yes, he has the right to know that he would walk down the aisle with a trans person. Just like he has the right to play dress up, he has a right to not want to walk down the aisle with a trans man. As a friend I would have told him as well. He made this all about her. So what you was walking down the aisle by himself. He could have took that and ran with it and slayed that isle, but he chose not to go. Okay.
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I don’t blame her for not showing up. She protected her peace and privacy. Why walk into embarrassment ?
Yep 👍🏾 All all for protecting my peace ✌🏾
That’s so selfish! What’s embarrassing about walking down the aisle alone? Everybody’s not going to accept her being transgender, but it’s her sister’s wedding and that’s who she’s there for and nobody else. Walking alone will have all the attention on her. She should feel honored and walk like a model down that runway for her sister.
@@tdcleveland09well if her sister really wanted her sister to be there for her big day she wouldn’t have told her sister that she had to walk alone because grooms was uncomfortable holding her arm!! It’s just a walk down isle not intercourse ! I would have got a male to walk w/ my sister that didn’t mind she was trans. So it definitely gave her sister told those grooms that she was trans . Even if they already knew her sister before the transition so the sister claimed then whoever ain’t wanna walk with my sister would’ve had to go and replaced with someone that didn’t mind period
Right I would’ve took whoever out the wedding that didn’t wanna hold my sister hand and got a new man that would period !! Sisters before misters
Karamo is so respectful and wise!
Wow I would have never thought she was trans woman until she said it. She looks gorgeous!!!
She definately is...
Absolutely
She really does but her shoes is to small her toes on the floor not on the shoe
I can’t imagine carrying a child for nine months just for family to brainwash that child into thinking I was not their mother…and she looks like her mom. And I do believe her momma would’ve beaten the brakes off that aunt…..it’s never to late honestly😂
😂I hope she records it 😭💀..Go Mom🤞🏾
🤣🤣🤣
My auntie told me early on that my Dad wasn’t my biological father, FOR YEARS! My whole family said she was crazy or just joking. When I was 12yrs old, I found out she wasn’t lying.
Ever since Iyanla stopped filming I was looking for something similar and karamo definitely delivers! I love it
He sure do
I live for Karamo’s acknowledgment and compliments to the guest when they come out
He always has something nice to say to EVERYONE. Yeah, I always listen to how he compliments them. And one thing, the guests always look good. I haven't once heard him lying about it. Every guest always looks shaaarrrrp.🥰
@@CurlyCrowienope some people he doesn't compliment or hug. He is bias
@@monsoonBloom oh ok. I probably just haven't noticed it yet.
That’s a way to cause them to feel at ease. I do that to my clients too. Finding something that you can say that is a true compliment makes them take their guard down.
biased about and with what or who
I watch to see what Karamo has on. He's soooooo clean!
The dad is a great man! can tell the love he has for his wife & daughter!
Comparing being trans to being black is wilddddd
Two marginalized groups of people just existing, there are a lot of comparisons that don’t work, I’d say in this case it does
@@jbwolf4no it doesn’t…..it never does. I never hear/heard a trans compare themselves to a JEW!!…they wouldn’t dare make that comparison. They’re BOTH “marginalized groups”…PLEASE stop using my skin color to prove mistreatment towards a sexual orientation
I agree two different things.
They're out here killing people for being black and killing people for being trans. Regardless of how you feel about it, both are in danger
Facts
I have to say that , that doesn’t necessarily make a MAN insecure. Maybe uncomfortable but not insecure.
Nah it definitely makes him insecure, if the groomsmen didn’t wanna hold ANYONE’S hand then yeah they’re just uncomfortable, but specifically a trans woman’s? Why? What’s the difference? It’s a 30 second walk you’re not sleeping with her afterwards.
@@jbwolf4Because it’s a man in a dress. He has the right to no longer want to participate.
@@scottiemo7 so if your homie was getting married, and for his wedding he wanted his groomsmen to hold hands as a sign of their strength for whatever reason, you would say no and remove yourself from the wedding? Because that would be a man in a suit, even more manly. Or would you be fine because it’s a homie and you know y’all ain’t like that? The same thing applies, sister said they knew her before she transitioned this isn’t a stranger at the wedding this is a friend of theirs
I'm in the middle bc they could have just walked side by side
I think what makes him insecure in requesting to walk separate to Indya, you may not want to lock arms fine but I think to do that especially when it's not your wedding or about you makes you insecure it's not like being Trans is passing a disease and it seems from the dialouge she wasn't hinting for a man or anything neither so she was really just there for support
Agree💯 just something ppl use I feel can’t make ppl accept things u want ppl to -just need to b comfortable with their decisions and selves while accepting others beliefs amd boundaries = ALL OF US❤💯
She looks just like her mother, how can she doubt that she’s not her mother.
Mommy is the reason why all this is happening
Yep she's messy.. I can relate to the drama in that family.. it's horrible when ur own mom picks sides in her children 🤧 I've been protecting my peace for yrs🤞🏾!! 🙏🏾
The mom literally got up and only spoke on Topaz then said she dont take sides 💀💀💀
I was raised with my grandmother an she did a great job she is now gone an some times I sit an cry coz she was better than my mother ❤😢
This is the best show to exist
i believe topaz 😭 you can see the fed up in her face she’s DONE indya is def the victim player and she got mommy to defend her….
That made me cry, I am so glad now she can stop listening to the outside noise.🙏🙏🙏
So, on point and insightful. Excellent job, Karamo and family. Stay blessed. ❤
But she looks just like her mom..
Gotta stop wasting Uncle Karamo time...Uncle Karamo STOP letting these ppl play with us... I love you
I love Karamo he be having me in tears
See, the reason you have to be careful who’s around your children!
On the first story, the trans-woman looks and sounds 1000% female. She is beautiful!
No she doesn’t 😂😂
12:04 The mother is the orchestrator of all the dysfunction.
I would not want my children around the spirits in that woman.
Nah see they different cause why do you feel comfortable talking to your mom like that? I woulda been scared of my mom adult or not😭
It’s resentment, her mother took her siblings and moved to another state leaving her behind. She had to watch From outside as her mother built another family and did not include her. How do you think that made her feel as a 10-year-old? That’s abandonment right there. Then when she reconnected with her siblings the mother would instigate drama between them. The mother has never acknowledged the abandonment and alienation that she made her daughter feel. The mother took her to court trying to take custody of her kids. The respect has sailed away and at this point, her Mother doesn’t deserve respect. 🤷🏽♀️
you clearly don't know what it's like to be abandoned by your mom when you needed her the most. Stop judging from ignorance
@@rhearamjohn4792 I grew up in and out of foster care and my mother never got custody of me back try again i know exactly what it feels like but still I would never talk to my parent like that I understand the anger but there’s still ways to get that out without the disrespect…
If one of my ever in life spoke to me like that..well than again..I raised all my kids..I went to school plays I went to games..I grow wit my children. .n they would never speak to me or their dad like that..mind your business.. ggiirrlll babbbyyy...
@@stacygoodwin7277 thank you!! I might not have always had my mom in my life but still it’s always gonna be respect to the person that birthed you wether they raised you or not
I would never talk to my mother like that😢😮! Topaz is disrespectful 😭.
maybe because she got treated like shit
Be grateful you're fortunate and stop judging by what u will never understand
The truth must be told...!!
That mother need to GROW UP!!! She was a drug addict and alcoholic trauma is still there smh
Never will I disrespect my mother period
Those ppl are sick to tell that to a little girl
Being black is not the same as being transgender. If a person did not want me to walk with them because I was black...oh well give them another partner.. I would not feel not kind of way except happy.
Thank you Karamo for tossing those darn stuff animals 😂
Powerful study in human behavior!! Wow!!
For all the adults who grew up in families that had (or still have) these types of issues and the parents had treated them this way as children, we need to keep in mind that our parents were once children themselves with parents/family that may have given them unfair treatment. It took me 30 years to realize this about my parents and how I was raised. Depending on your parents age, that will reflect the generation they've grown up in and that will reflect how THEIR parents raised them because older generations were extremely strict and sometimes unemotional. Talking to family, and your parents, will absolutely help you understand and in return YOU can change yourself.
Yes we can but that doesn't excuse them for not changing too. They're the ones who could've stopped the cycle too but chose not to
Yes all of this exactly 💯💯💯
Comparing Trans as a strong Black WOMAN is WILDDDDDDDD
Everyone does not have to be ok with walking with a man that thinks he’s a woman. That’s a choice the trans made and that’s a choice that man made. It doesn’t make him less of a man Karamo. And if he didn’t walk to do it because your black it is still his choice. I think it messed up that if you don’t agree with man wanting to present as women you are labeled as transphobic because I don’t agree with a person wanting the world to be ok with trans wanting to change reality. However, I don’t have nothing against people that live a gay lifestyle.
Second Video, mom saying she's a Christian but curses came rolling off her tongue there after. Made my stomach turn.
I loved it. She doesn’t play about her babies.
Love these videos ♥️♥️♥️
I dont know any man that would be okay not being told that they were holding hands with a man. I as a woman wouldnt care but that doesn't apply
💯💯 Facts!!
It’s truly not that deep. Yall are weird
@@afropuffs4785 Or maybe you’re just wrong…🤷🏽♀️
@@afropuffs4785 exactly 💯
Could have been the flower girl waking first...this is just a suggestion....
That’s actually a really good suggestion
But it kinda caters to the transphobic individuals in the wedding that didn’t want to touch the trans sister
@@teehee83 it really is the person's choice to touch anyone.....
What grown woman want to be a flower girl...everyone would walk down the aisle solo. Just change up the wedding. All the bridemaids and maid of honor walk together and the grooms walk together. I would not make my sister feel funny at all js
@@lindasharp5766you are not slick Linda, trying to come up with alternatives so nobody had to touch the trans woman makes you yourself seem transphobic as well. It’s a 30 second walk you aren’t gonna catch cooties
Second story: she looks just like that woman. This one was a little ridiculous.
I can always tell how it’s going to end based on where people sit next to each other
I felt so sorry for Topaz tbh
Just came off to moms rude disrespectful… Neva shame ur parents talk… and I pray for those who don’t have great relationships with their parents.. I didn’t but I respect my mom.. forgive to b forgiven NO ONES PERFECT AND U ONLY HAVE ONE MOM ONE DAD!!! Prayers all ❤❤❤❤ communication and Actively LISTEN 💯💯
Can’t expect all to all accept u and can’t force others as well it’s mutual live ur life ur own lives and accept selves respect others overall with choices THEY MAKE NOT OTHERS- Love love love and be mutually respectful!❤❤❤
2 nd girl… u know that’s your mom via side chubby mom cheek and chin for sure via view most definitely have ur dads’s nose💯
Proof to stop listening to ppl 100% ❤
“No we’re” instead of nowhere is diabolical
This is the problem with this community. So if you are a trans. You don't feel it's right for you to let the other person know that you are if you're going to be holding their arm or walking down the owl with them. How do you know the other person is comfortable with it? How do you know that wouldn't affect the other person mental? After finding out that they did that act without knowing. Everybody's just so tender instead of thinking outside the box smh
Do you think holding hands with a trans woman would affect someone’s mental health seriously?
@@trindanyella5824 Truthfully, Yes!
If holding a trans arm during a wedding messes with your mental health, you need help
@iyannaking03 Let me guess you are trans or maybe into trans And you feel like no one has the right to know? 🤣smfh
Toxic mothers are real and girlie hit it head on tell the TRUTH!!!! Too many women are healing from these mothers and it’s so toxic. Heal and move on no apologies just respect and changed behavior.
Yes Karamo thank you for holding everyone including Topaz accountable too, girl be what you preach stop the hypocrisy
If the sister hadn't told me anything, I wouldn't have noticed that it was a trans woman. What nonsense to say she had to walk alone. Being trans isn't contagious, is it? I don't like the word jealous, but I am a little jealous of the self-confidence that Indya radiates, I wish I had that same self-confidence! Good for you, you did not attend the wedding. Stupid to allow people to let you be the center of gossip and being ridiculed. it should be about a wedding, not a "trans-thing". I hope your whole family will be good again, all of you with your mum and your sisters and brother, family is all we have!❤❤❤
She’s beautiful she doesn’t look like a male at all. I thought it was just a rumor when she first said the reason they didn’t wanna walk with her … that’s insane she’s beautiful asf . I couldn’t believe the fact that she was actually trans but still also in shock that her sister allowed that crap. I love her and wish the best for this woman she look better than me she is beautiful she was def meant to be exactly who she is now !!
She’s very disrespectful to her mom but she’ll be really upset if her kids said something like that to her!!!! “Karma “is real and knocks on your door unexpected
She is a beautiful trans woman and the voice matches.
The mother Jumped on the one daughter yes she did!!! That’s messed up! Wait he needs to Apologize himself! The mother isn’t a good person! I disagree the daughter wasn’t Disrespecting her mother she was standing up for herself! Why did she abandon her child??????!!!!
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Whoever would be uncomfortable walking with my trans brother/sister would be immediately removed from the wedding party
Her sister did her wrong. Her husband is ignorant for treating her sister like that. She is beautiful whatever her sexual preference is
The bride should have supported her sister. that guy should’ve been removed. Nobody needed to know the grandma’s past. She raised good daughters
As she should have let the men know. Topaz you’ve done nothing wrong 🙌🏽
They already knew her before the transition the Sister didn't tell them.
Sound crazy !! It’s a 30 second walk not asking the man to kiss her or nothing . The man could’ve stayed home that refused and I would’ve got a man that didn’t mind walking next to my sister !! Family first if she love/support her sister like she said she would’ve accommodated a change for her sister & not for a man !!! Whew y’all was not raised right and it shows .
Indya wow, I would’ve never guessed. I still can’t tell.
I think he has the right to not wanna walk down the aisle with a transgender....and she has the right to feel a way about it....
J'ai du respect pour la maman et ça me touche beaucoup ou elle demande pardon car elle est vraiment en paix avec elle même et les enfants et elle a raison de dire de laisser le passé derrière nous pour avancer vraiment dans la vie on a dès hauts et des bas et je trouve que la maman est avec beaucoup de souffrance car il lui faut beaucoup d'amour maman vraiment j'ai plus de maman et je sais comment cette maman peut se sentir avec toute se problème de famille et elle reste forte maman love for you ans your kids❤❤❤❤ be all in ❤❤et rester en paix car la vie est courte vraiment j'ai du respect pour vous tous et je vous souhaite beaucoup bonheur ❤❤
People have a right to not walk with someone they don’t agree with their life style, and it’s not her sisters fault they didn’t feel comfortable. Get over it. It was your chose at the life style you chose.
THANK YOU!!!!! Thank you thank goodness some one stands for the truth.!!!!!
Oh shut up
And the sister had a right to not go to the wedding! Point blank. They chose their lifestyle and she chose hers.
The transphobia in this comment section is WILD.
Bless your little heart
You can't be mad at someone for not wanting to walk with you. That's crazy they feel he's less of a man for that.
Well not wanting to walk down the aisle with her,,is like making out she will poison to anyone who touches her. Nobody needed to know her situation at all, and to make walk alone just makes her look untouchable, you do not be that unkind to anyone.
She just got something for everything
Being in serious denial seems to be the highlight of the first story. Imo. Isaiah 55:8 kjv
I wouldn’t walk arm and arm with trans. Say I’m insecure or not confident whatever… I have boundaries and my “feelings” should be respected just like person believe they were born in the wrong body
Race is not a choice, becoming transgender is; stop with the comparisons.
one doesn’t “become” transgender. being trans is not a choice bc it’s an identity, transitioning is a choice (which doesn’t invalidate trans identities). being trans is just as much out of a person’s control as being black so this was a very fair comparison
signed, a cisgender black man.
She’s just jealous of her sister, because she was born a woman and she was not. Please don’t compare the complexion of a persons skin with the fact that you made a conscious decision to decide to be other than what you were born that has nothing to do with anybody’s race You will never be a woman I pray you have happiness, in who you are NO men do not have to agree to lock arms with another man if they don’t want to I am so tired of people making decisions to change their sexuality, and then being mad because everyone does not want to take part that is unfair and bias I have no problem with people being whoever it is that they want to be but don’t try to grab the rest of us around our necks and try to make us accept it or agree with it
Nothing about her gave jealous
"You will never be A woman" but called Her 'She'?? 🤔😬😵💫 You wrote all that for what?
@@darkchild85 Right 💯🤧🤧
Oh, so you're a bad person.
Gotcha.
@@simonensimyah Apparently you read what you wanted to read skipped over it and did not read at all I guess you didn’t see the part where I said people have the right to be whatever it is if they decide to be but bottom line is SHE !!!! was jealous because she was not born a woman although that is what she has decided to be in the future write what you want on your page 🤷🏿♂️ baby😂😂😂😂
39:24 DNA outcome
Looking like her Easter Outfit with that Big white Bow on her hair
Ikr, it’s so cute!🩷
Your sister should have checked with the men before making you her bridesmaid so that you wouldn’t have to feel singled out.
I love when families fix it 🥲❤
she is beautiful beautiful woman trans or not
Topaz needs to leave that family and block all of them
I wonder if the mother has issues with having a natural daughter and decided to encourage a perfect daughter in her son. 🤔
The mother is overly critical of her daughter for being a female. It also seems, she may feel, she could be a better mother to her grandchildren. It appears, the daughter is the fluke in her eyes; it looks like she h8ts her and wants to emotionally bring her pain.
It may have alot to do with the daughter's father rejecting her. I see an unGodly twisted minded mother.
they look alike
Confusion
Wait a minute when did they allow for people to bring guns to the show? If you zoom in on the waistband of the father when he comes to the stage there is a silver holster clip to his pants parrot you can't say that's the microphone because at no time was he expected to come to the stage otherwise they would have given him a mic. None the less you can see the hammer and a sturdy clip that latches onto the belt to hold that weapon in place. I might be wrong but I blew this up as big as you could be before it became distorted and it certainly looks like a gun to me. What do you guys think?
It’s not
He about big as Karamo 😂talking about “come through”im sorry I cant get with the times
Was the second story staged? Lmfaoo idk what it was about it
“Transgendered over” is interesting 🤔
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I think that the mom aunt is her real mother
Toppaz forgive so you can heal
Saying “before you transgendered over” like what. You SISTER is trans why do you not know the right terms. Why did you let the groomsman disrespect your sister in that way. If they did want to hold her hand they shouldn’t have been in the wedding period. I can’t even stand near anybody who will disrespect my sister.
Toepez if you're watching this.... You're not wrong for anything that happened with either of your family members! He's not a real woman and can't be mad if they decided to not walk next to her! People have a choice not to be Ok with this trans lifestyle . And the Mom is just a angry person
I cant focus cause why Toppaz wig touching her brows😂
Girl it's not just bout you your mother went through something as a young woman being young and raising children baaaaby you gone find out
Hold on ole girl in the white used to be a man damn I didn’t know that she look good.
Karamo, stop.lying, not everyone is beautiful like the guy in a blue dress and white ribbon karamo talking about a strong black woman
The groomsmen were not wrong. They have a choice of whether they want somebody else's life choices forced upon them or not. Alot of the lgbtq etc folks have so many issues with what others think or do because they're not secure with themselves and the choices they have made. Its nobody else job to go overboard to accept them. They have to accept themselves and be okay with that. To each his or her own I have no problem with people who are different just don't try to force gay on me and I won't force straight upon you. When she have her own wedding then she can do what she pleases. That was not her call she could've walked by herself or sat in the audience if it was about the sister but no she just wants attention. The mom was wrong and she knew it thats why she started out about everybody has a past. She knew hers was about to embarrass her because she abandoned her daughter as a child and still as an adult she don't have her back. Topaz is probably better off just saying it is what it is. She shouldn't have to keep apologizing for being left out to make them feel better about leaving her out.
Okay. Wait. Now see this is the only issue i have with the trans subject. We cant expect others to accept our feelings about being trans if we cant respect how others feel about it. You cannot force hetero men to be down with anything just because it hurts your feelings. It is their right not to want to lovk arms with a trans if they aren't comfortable. It doesnt make them phobic or insecure. Its a choice and their right to do so. Trans rights do not amd should not be the only feelings that matter. This is unacceptable. PeriodT
She feels like u ruined it because it was boring without you. Yep u are the event baby, she mad cause she needed u there and instead o apologizing and telling them grooms u will be replaced if you won’t walk with my sis she got angry and then insulted you even more . She’s a spoiled sister and did not take up for her . I’m angry abt this one , and we can tell that babygirl is confident and independent but also that is her sister the one she probably thought she would love and trust the most so I know behind closed doors she does probably cry who wouldn’t . But I’m happy she stood on her respect no matter what, and baby it’s okay to show emotions in public as well. God bless you’ll have a fulfilling life and a partner who loves you and new sisters and brothers hopefully your husband will have siblings so u can be close with them
Wow 😨😳😨😳🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
No he’s a strong black man. And yes, he has the right to know that he would walk down the aisle with a trans person. Just like he has the right to play dress up, he has a right to not want to walk down the aisle with a trans man. As a friend I would have told him as well. He made this all about her. So what you was walking down the aisle by himself. He could have took that and ran with it and slayed that isle, but he chose not to go. Okay.
Indya is beautiful than a toppaz
I believe toppaz
This 🌈 mess is out of hand 🤦🏽
She was a trans 😳😳😳😳 damn she bad 😍😍
You should of still went to the wedding, just refused to be a bridesmaid