Hi Nathan, please, please, please, -Make a video on the 'level' of 'humanity' (virtue) corresponding to the personality type. E.g. INFJ, ISTJ, INTJ, and ENFP typically have above average levels of humanity; much makes these personality types (generally, without the influence of Cluster-B) sustainable and a core pillar/foundation of any [civilized] society. From a random, genuine-INFJ (that doesn't have Cluster-B). Also FYI, 'narcissitic personality disorder' is basically ESFJ and ESTJ personality types on steroids! x3 ~toxic. And isfp empower them.
@@thirstwithoutborders995 Yeah. lol. The best one was when my public speaking professor told me "You have a very calming voice." If she only knew the storm that was raging inside, especially after having to speak in front of a group of people.
"Each INFP is different" is a beautiful thing to hear. A lot of people like to group us INFPs as a monolith of negative stereotypes. There are many of us who are artists and creatives, as there are programmers and scientists, healthcare workers and providers, and even servicemen. Thank you so much 😊
I agree! I see so many stereotypes of us being super depressed and melancholy, but that couldn't be further from my personality. I am a bubbly, happy, optimistic person. My husband (INTJ) says my fun bubbly personality is what initially attracted him to me. So when I see my personality type described as gloomy, it baffles me because I am so opposite. Even when life is really difficult and horrible things happen, I try to focus on the blessings I have and how the trials of life can help me to grow and build my character. I probably appear more like an ENFP, but I am definitely introverted. I enjoy being around people I love, but I need my alone time to recharge lol
@@linmonPIE It's not rare at all. People just get overtyped as INFPs when they meet those negative stereotypes and undertyped when they don't. INFPs aren't any more prone to unhealthiness than other types.
@@grazynawolska8160 So real, normal for an Ni dom. If you see someone slowly walking, or rather floating, who seems to be thinking or meditating, lost in his/her mind, It might be an INTJ. I confirm for the most introspectiv. Ni constantly moving in the space/time, both everywhere and anywhere.>
I remember expressing the characterstics he talks about in the video, but only when I was among people whom I trust. I'm not going to say something "weird" out of the blue to a stranger, who more than likely will be confused.
Idea for a new video - Like you mentioned INFP's as Madagascar if they were a country, it would be interesting to see this for all types. "16 types as countries/places" Also, please add SOME pictures/colour/animation, just SOMETHING to the background, this ENFP gets bored staring at the noir screen with blanc words . Puhleezz !
That would be an interesting topic! I would rather say "Which country suits best to your MBTI type?". As an ENFP, I feel as an UFO everywhere I go. In Western European countries, I can meet more people who share my values and concerns, but real life here seems to me too structured and superficial, almost absurd. In other less rich countries, then it's the opposite. I usually find more authenticity, generosity, and at the beginning my life is exciting while discovering odd places and people, but at some point, reality catches me back and I realise there is also a lot of hypocrisy, absurdity and limitations due to the economical situation. So, I am still dreaming with a country that would promote my highest values (diversity, concern for ecology, possibilities of self growth, etc) AND wouldn't be so structured, sanitized, ruled and commercial. But Nathan is a genius, he must know where Utopia is, for ENFP and INFP misfits. 😀
"Cool, calm, and collected was invented to describe the ISTJ" Wow yes. In my healing journey (which now i'm done nearly a year and on my new journey already), I always told myself to strive to be a "Cool, calm, unwavering" person - which now I'm in the best mental state ever. Now my phone home-screen is a 'Calm' wallpaper, just a word 'Calm'. I strive to be in this state most of the time, so i know where my mind goes and bring it back to reality and mindfulness - whenever i have a negative intrusive thought or so. Great descriptions, Nathan :D
This video made me smile :) as an ENFJ who does in fact greatly value acceptance and appreciation of every individual, this is a wonderful illustration of how I view people. I always take notice of people's unique and positive attributes. I've thought these exact things about the various mbti types I know personally. Keep up the insightful content
Was it always like this or is it something that came naturally to you over time as you grew up ? I can relate to that, I really accept people as they are..... but when I was really young, I use to go with what others thought about a certain person. Like looking down on someone because rumors like he/she doesn't bath....they must be disgusting... But I also tried spending some time with disliked people myself, and realized that they weren't that bad at all... And slowly I stopped believing at other's negative stereotypes of a certain guy/girl... So how was it for you ?
My boyfriend is ISTP and when we firs saw each other [we haven't talked at our first meeting] i thought that he is too cool to talk to me and yet he was the one to start the conversation weeks later. But it creates a problem, because of his coolness he has a lot of female admirers i can't even count how many girls confessed to him for all the time we know each other. This is the true magic of ISTP, bacause he is doing literally nothing and yet he works like a magnet.
I'm an INFJ and I've been told a couple of times that I have that "calming aura". I was a substitute teacher at a kindergarten and some of the teachers said that it's great when I'm on their floor because the kids are so calmed when I'm around. And At my new job my coworkers told my boss that they appreciate the "calm" I bring. The thing is, I have no idea how I'm doing it... 😅 I guess being a confidant is one thing, but I didn't exactly have deep talks with the 1 - 3 year old kids. x) Could someone describe it from the "outside"? If you've had simliar experiences with an INFJ, what was it like for you, and what did the INFJ do?
Ahaha 🤣 that's a GENUINE telltale sign of a REAL INFJ! and it isn't easily faked! -From a genuine INFJ IRL. Fyi, on a random note, I never knew INFJ were "popular"/liked. I think it's only during their absence, that a group realise their worth or impact on others (polar opposite of narcissits; and their fake, gaslighting, toxic aura). INFJ radiate a clean, almost cold but 'cool' aura. It has a calming affect (as you said), like 'mint'. I know the biological mechanics at play, but I won't publise this. Particularly as INFJ are basically hunted down by the evil 'ESFJ', ESTJ and overgrown-fetus ISFP and ESFP.
Fellow INFJ here, my friends have told me that it's because I'm rarely scared or surprised by their problems. They feel like I always know what to do and how to do it, and I will help them do it with a calm voice and reassuring words. Even thought most of the time I'm as stressed as them, still they think I'm in control. I think it's because our fisrt reaction is make the other feel safe, and just after solve the problem.
I agree with Lu’s comment above, and will add some of my own observations. Infjs have a way of making me feel seen without me having to explain myself, which is very comforting. They’re also very attentive and patient and can witness my feelings without being overwhelmed by them. When the conversation is on me, they seem willing and able to be along for the ride
My college roommate was an INFJ (golden example of the ideal roommate btw). It took a long time to get to know her, but being an ENFJ I made it happen lol. I think we both found each other calming in distinct ways, and in our case I would partly attribute that to easily relating to each other's mindset but having different strengths (see our cog functions). I gently encouraged her Se while she encouraged me to be more decisive with Ti. I helped talk her through times when she got stuck in the future (Ni) and she would remind me to take care of myself (Fe dom struggles). I felt no judgment from her and she was polite with setting boundaries. She was easy to talk to and joke around with, which did calm me. I found her inspiring and imaginative, and she would often surprise me with a goofy side when we became good friends. There are a lot of reasons I find INFJs calming, tbh.
Me and my husband are both INTJ. We both understand each other well and like to give each other some space because we are pretty individualistic person. But if one person goes deep into overthinking, the other one also get sucked in. So it's a bit difficult to hold on to the surface and at the same time carry the other one above.
'Istps are one of the hardest types to read' -> from experience I would add: 'yet they can read others exceptionally well' I know a couple of istps, and both seem loners oblivious of the social game, yet, when you talk with them it surprises me how accurate their understanding is of the inter- and intrapersonal dynamics around them. Maybe a result of all that observing from the corner :p To circle back: I find this, too, a very attractive feature of istp's. ^^
Yeah I am very observant and understand people very well. Many people often think otherwise because we seem to be unreadable. But some of our need to be alone comes from our understanding of people. We have a strong ES so this should’ve been obvious, but sadly it isn’t lol.
Hi Nathan! I think this is the most you have said about the ESFJ in a describing the 16 personalities video. Thank you. These videos are rather insightful and helpful.
I’m not sure about brilliant, but I am certainly nuts. The ESFP was a perfect description of my sister. We are both nuts, but she is intense and drains me. Also she convinced me to go camping. I’m really cold right now.
Oh...I have been called the "Quiet Power" by (way older) men that later on or earlier confessed feelings to me at my job in theater...that hits a spot... Edit: I would also like to add a thank you for pointing out the "pushover" misconception of the ISFJ type, which I see around all the time. It's foolish how people think this is the reason we act the way we do. As they also underestimate the power of being able to pull the strings behind the scenes and work under the radar, as it's mentioned. Think of INTJs with Fe and more practical than intuitive. We make sure everything goes according to the plan for the greater good without being in the spotlight which brings responsibility and potential consequences to us. And no one tries to steal the power from you when they don't realize you have it. 😎
I don’t for one second believe isfj are pushovers I have always seen them as sly with no real morals just working in the bad system and keeping it bad with a semblance of niceness and feelings to deceive
The rock solid strength and self -possession combined with an almost parental sense of caring is what I found very attractive in my ISTJ partner. I am ENFP who has lived through extremely difficult life situations and am thus extremely resilient. And yet the ISTJ seems so naturally like a superman to rely on I find myself turning to him without even thinking (though fully capable of dealing with stuff myself).
I believe he said this for the ENFJ but oh man, is it hitting way too close to home with me, an INFP. Being understanding and accepting has come at a great cost for me, precisely because of lack of boundaries.. maybe because in a lot of ways boundaries are limits and therefore erase a lot of that 'acceptance'.. at least in my mind.. Still trying to figure out how to make them both make sense at the same time without one erasing the other..
@@mariyabardarska5895 Agreed. I have learned that I can accept someone, but that doesn't mean they have a right to be in my inner circle. If I accepted everyone into my inner circle based on my ability to accept them, everyone would be allowed and there would not be an inner circle anymore. I do not have the capacity to have that many close friends. So I get choosy. My inner circle is only people I can trust who I actually enjoy spending time with. I can accept anyone, but I don't trust or enjoy everyone.
You really nailed it, with why I’m attracted to my ISTJ partner! I have to try really hard to also be strong and stoic, like he is. Recently, he asked me if he had a rash on his back. He did. It was *weird!* but I didn’t want to freak him out so I controlled myself, and just calmly said we’d keep an eye on it. After it went away, I told him it was gone but also that when it was still there I wanted to freak out but didn’t so I wouldn’t freak him out. He thanked me for that!🤣
Ok I REALLY LOVE the istp description, although I rarely realise I am giving those vibes , I always think that i am super normal and boring and almost not noticed , but then I get shocked when I know that they actually think I am cool or even .. frightening . And sometimes that even makes me afraid of having relationships with people as they may think I am like that all the time and get disappointed cause I feel in my friendships I am like an enfj , my subconscious , a more opinionated and strict one though , I feel that I get so weak and easy because of my fe and I get shocked when they actually don't see that , although that's kinda good actually , or they still keep that image of me and then I feel this is not a real relationship or that i am a bad person . Guess there is also a component here of fe being inferior and that's where your fear exists so I am always afraid that everybody hates me . On the inside I am very gentle and would say super easy to read and predict , it's so awkward how you people don't see that .
I have some insight to this as an ENFJ with an ISTP brother. We were best friends as kids and grew apart as teenagers. As adults we've reconnected and as strange as it may seem for opposite types to get along so well, I think it works because we deeply admire each other. He's good at all the things I wish I was, and I get the feeling he has the same idea. Perhaps it's because he grew up with two ENFJs, but he has well-developed Fe and can come across as a stern/shy ENFJ if he's in the right mood (or drunk lmao). Seeing as how FeNi gives me mind reading abilities, I don't find him awfully hard to decipher and I do see a lot of the qualities you describe. Young ISTPs who are basically just TiSe can come across as cold or indifferent, but when you start developing Ni and Fe it's easy to see that there's a wonderful gentleness behind all that focus. Just because your friends don't comment on that doesn't mean they don't feel it, but I would encourage you to express yourself and ask for their opinions to show them that you care. Your Ni is clearly solid, you're on the right path.
infp here. I was just trying to describe why I find you intjs so fascinating, but I couldn't find the right words. On the outside you are the serious and tough people, but we infps and enfps see who you really are. goddamn cuties with a soft heart :D You are often so intellectual and articulate, that impresses me and talking to you is always exciting. your Ni and generally your depth is simply a mystery. It seems like my Ne is naturally attracted to your strong Ni. You Intj's are my favorite type and we xnfp's love you! Btw sorry for my bad english
As an ESTP, I love adventures... even ask a girl working in a corner store to go out in a trip to Chile since a bad decision with another one gone wrong.
I have practically always typed as an INFJ, but I can never relate to the stereotype of being the confidant. I don't feel like people rely on me any more than they would someone else, but that may be due to my initially mysterious/reserved nature making them feel uncomfortable at first. Perhaps I don't have relationships close enough for this ability to be apparent to me, but I wouldn't mind relating to this stereotype either
As an ENTP😎 having a best friend of INFJ😇 type.. I think I can try to answer that acc to my opinion/observation..👩🎓 it's bcoz you guys are too much into your head💭 and extra careful of stepping on anyones toes..🤞 you guys give best advice and another aspect to someone's point of view..💥 but the thing is others have to initiate first..🤔 other people thinks prolly you are not interested in talking to them and they'll end up bore you and your type thinks the same for other people🤦♀️ so it's kinda complicated..🤖 even if you feel like giving a piece of advice to someone, your type tend to over- analyze that you will be overstepping to someone else's life which is also valid point as your perspective..💯 you all tend to speak less but when your type do it's on point, witty and accurate..✌ you guys have counterpoints to all the jokes made against you and your friends..💣 which is quite impressive, attractive🔥 and sometimes intimidating to others which often lead them to think that you will think they are stupid or less of knowledge/sense of humour..😌 (I know you all won't believe me but that's the truth) I know you guys have problem digesting someone appreciating you or saying good things abt you..💁♀️ prolly bcoz you all are more into thinking good abt others before yourself..🤠 and by any chance you put yourself first before anyone else this always lead you all think bad abt urself🤓 and the guilt works as cherry on the top of it..🤦♀️ Take it as a advice or suggestion, you all need to learn to believe/accept when someone compliments you..💫 just don't question it in your head when someone says good or positive things abt yourself..💯 I guess, I stretched it too far😅 but I was bored😹 and after reading your comment can't keep myself to not ans since I know someone of your type closely..🤗 and it makes me feel sad when my bff and any of your type don't acknowledge someone saying good abt you🤷♀️ and think that it's just a stereotype even though that's not the case..💁♀️ (excuse my English, it's not my first language) and if you are still reading this lengthy comment thank you for bearing it with me.. 😂😂 I talk alot lot.. sorry not sorry, lol🤣
@@Sakshiii-_._-10 thank you for everything you said! It's definitely true for me too, I tend so brush over compliments and focus on the criticisms instead. It seems like you know your bff and the INFJ type really well, they're lucky to have a friend like you that pays so much attention to their character and genuinely cares about them 😊
@@whitneyd6827 he did a previous video (Seductive types) it’s based on a book from Robert Greene, called The Art of Seduction, it’s basically about the raw psychology of love, and he theorized that everyone has a lack in life, depending on what it is, that’s your victims type, it’s the crucial information you need to know about someone if you want to influence them :) Robert is a genius, I recommend you his books if you like psychology
about socially introverted as ENTJ its relate but i think i have some issues since i've moved to my new neighbours some people are annoying, like i greet them for a 3 times and they don't respond me back. so i dont want to greet them back or talk with them anymore
I’m an infj and the guys that chased me seemed to always be the estps and esfps (istps would attempt to sneakily get with me while I was in relationships, they’re naughty). Married to an esfp.
No. Curiosity. Absolutely the curiosity that drive us to our studies, exploration and etc. We usually like to make people think, to make people question, and to make them search for answers. ESTPs and ENFPs are usually more funny and have a better sense of humor than ENTP.
As an ENTP I absolutely agree that curiousity is my core personality trait and that my creativity, innovative spirit, rebelliousness, etc, almost entirely stem for my insatiable curiousity.
That's interesting. I always think N's go better with other N's and S's go better with other S's. But I may be biased because as an INFP the compatibility charts always say I am not compatible with any S's lol. Like straight Red all the way down for S types lol. I just get so much more depth out of my N relationships, so it's interesting to me when other N's feel differently. I'm married to an INTJ and my best friend is an INFJ for reference.
I had an estp partner. Im Infj. It was great, but they were also very suspicious of my introverted way, like I was hiding something, which I wasn't. They seem to like all the cards facing up on the table at all times, or you lose. I def wasn't prepared for that. And lost 😅
I had an estp partner. Im Infj. It was great, but they were also very suspicious of my introverted way, like I was hiding something, which I wasn't. They seem to like all the cards facing up on the table at all times, or you lose. I def wasn't prepared for that. And lost 😅
I'm an ESTP, my best friend at school was an INFJ, and there are things that don't go so well. For example, I was a bit dismissive of her emotions and preferred to just get on with it, while she listened and listened. She was the only one who listened to my inner thoughts that I couldn't tell everybody. She always says that there are lots of things to learn from me. And she's interested in stuff that I don't care about, politics and philosophy for example. But yeah, she's great :) As long as you are aware of what makes each other secure and healthy
In case he does, I’m gonna put my guesses here to see how they match up with his guesses: Abuela - ESTJ, Pepa - not sure, definitely Exxx though, Felix - ESFP, Bruno - ENFP, Julietta - ISFJ, Augustine - ENFJ, Dolores - ISFP, Camilo - ENTP, Antonio - INFP?, Isabela - ESFJ?, Luisa - INFJ, Mirabel - ENFP
if you are content creator from Love Who then; indulge the indulge the audience by quoting the famous line of "and now for something completely different..." in another video and yes, i have liked and subscribed
i am desperately trying to figure out whether i am intj or intp and these videos aren´t helping :DD i relate to both (i did the tests several times on different plantforms and on different days and the results have been fluctuating in between the intp/intj types. i also got the istj once but that was a short dating app quiz so idk)
ESTP is a big no, ISTP 🤔 possible, INFJ maybe, I don't know, ENFJ I like, ENTP is a no, INTP I don't know, ESFJ and ISFJ is a no, ENTJ were not compatible, INTJ sure why not, ISFP I don't know, ESFP no, ENFP can be, ISTJ can to rely on, ESTJ no, never, no. INFP here
Dear Reader, I want you to know today that Jesus Christ loves you. The fact is, He loves you so much that He made the ultimate sacrifice for you! You see, God is a perfect, just God who will not tolerate sinful people coming into heaven, and the problem is that we are sinful by nature. No matter how much good we do, it will never be enough to meet God's perfect standard. The good Lord knew this, and He loved us so much that He came down to earth, lived a sinless life, and died to take the sin of the world. Romans 6:23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." All you have to do is ask the Lord to forgive your sin and tell Him that you accept His gift of salvation as the ONLY way to eternal life. Please consider salvation today; you never know when your time may be up. Remember, Jesus loves you! I hope to meet you in heaven one day!
@@fuzzymilk You are right, we are made in God’s image, but we are not God. The Lord made us to have a will of our own, instead of making us like robots that just do what He says, He lets us make our own choices. In the garden we had the opportunity to listen to His rules but we instead chose to disobey, so every child that has been born since Adam, has inherited the sinful nature. I hope this answers your question. I will be praying for you😊
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Hi Nathan, please, please, please,
-Make a video on the 'level' of 'humanity' (virtue) corresponding to the personality type.
E.g. INFJ, ISTJ, INTJ, and ENFP typically have above average levels of humanity; much makes these personality types (generally, without the influence of Cluster-B) sustainable and a core pillar/foundation of any [civilized] society.
From a random, genuine-INFJ (that doesn't have Cluster-B). Also FYI, 'narcissitic personality disorder' is basically ESFJ and ESTJ personality types on steroids! x3 ~toxic. And isfp empower them.
Time stamps
00:03 ESTP
00:52 ISTP
01:35 INFJ
02:17 ENFJ
03:01 ENTP
03:46 INTP
04:32 ISFJ
05:14 ESFJ
06:05 ENTJ
06:48 INTJ
07:34 ISFP
08:15 ESFP
08:56 ENFP
09:41 INFP
10:21 ISTJ
11:02 ESTJ
ty for this
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Thank you !!!
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INFJ may bring a calming presence outwardly, but inside it is a category 5 hurricane.
Can attest. 100% true.
😂 I am surprised every time someone says how calming I am, because I am certainly not calming to myself.
@@thirstwithoutborders995 Yeah. lol. The best one was when my public speaking professor told me "You have a very calming voice." If she only knew the storm that was raging inside, especially after having to speak in front of a group of people.
😅 exposed!
thanks for making me understand better my older brother
"Brilliant, insightful, wise... and also kind of nuts."
Sure. Why not?
-INTP
" Eccentric sage "
That might be just the perfect two word definition of our type
First time someone compares me to Yoda.
I'll take it !
Also, the creator kinda exposed himself out by illustrating only INTP with a recognizable character (and not just any character) ^^
So basically... Doctor Who
"Each INFP is different" is a beautiful thing to hear. A lot of people like to group us INFPs as a monolith of negative stereotypes. There are many of us who are artists and creatives, as there are programmers and scientists, healthcare workers and providers, and even servicemen. Thank you so much 😊
Which kind of INFP are you?
@@luisj.m2471 they are a bizzare one perhaps
I agree! I see so many stereotypes of us being super depressed and melancholy, but that couldn't be further from my personality. I am a bubbly, happy, optimistic person. My husband (INTJ) says my fun bubbly personality is what initially attracted him to me. So when I see my personality type described as gloomy, it baffles me because I am so opposite. Even when life is really difficult and horrible things happen, I try to focus on the blessings I have and how the trials of life can help me to grow and build my character. I probably appear more like an ENFP, but I am definitely introverted. I enjoy being around people I love, but I need my alone time to recharge lol
@@bunny_0288 Sounds like you’re a rare healthy INFP. Congrats!
@@linmonPIE It's not rare at all. People just get overtyped as INFPs when they meet those negative stereotypes and undertyped when they don't. INFPs aren't any more prone to unhealthiness than other types.
INTJ totally. So much depth that we are lost in ourselves, and perceived as lost in this world. Wander aimlessly, and in same time with so many plans.
I couldn't agree less, especially the independence part her talked about,
That's not INTJ at all.
Sounds like high Ne user with lack of Te.
Sounds like an infp
My isfp friend often describes me as "lost in time and space" lol 😆- intj
@@grazynawolska8160 So real, normal for an Ni dom. If you see someone slowly walking, or rather floating, who seems to be thinking or meditating, lost in his/her mind, It might be an INTJ. I confirm for the most introspectiv.
Ni constantly moving in the space/time, both everywhere and anywhere.>
The ISTP one made me laugh. Fond memories of rolling around in the grass with an ISTP, then discussing politics afterwards. Bliss.
Me as an INTP, why can’t I be the exact person he described?
Also me, dang I’m brilliant
I remember expressing the characterstics he talks about in the video, but only when I was among people whom I trust. I'm not going to say something "weird" out of the blue to a stranger, who more than likely will be confused.
Appreciating the effort to make each type shine ✨
Idea for a new video - Like you mentioned INFP's as Madagascar if they were a country, it would be interesting to see this for all types. "16 types as countries/places" Also, please add SOME pictures/colour/animation, just SOMETHING to the background, this ENFP gets bored staring at the noir screen with blanc words . Puhleezz !
You literally said what I was gonna say-
I guess ENFPs and INFPs really do share the same braincells lol 😅😂
Lmao XD
Entp here, i would also love to see that
Or even just your face talking. Your facial expressions can be quite entertaining and add a lot of charm to the videos. ~entp
That would be an interesting topic! I would rather say "Which country suits best to your MBTI type?". As an ENFP, I feel as an UFO everywhere I go. In Western European countries, I can meet more people who share my values and concerns, but real life here seems to me too structured and superficial, almost absurd. In other less rich countries, then it's the opposite. I usually find more authenticity, generosity, and at the beginning my life is exciting while discovering odd places and people, but at some point, reality catches me back and I realise there is also a lot of hypocrisy, absurdity and limitations due to the economical situation.
So, I am still dreaming with a country that would promote my highest values (diversity, concern for ecology, possibilities of self growth, etc) AND wouldn't be so structured, sanitized, ruled and commercial. But Nathan is a genius, he must know where Utopia is, for ENFP and INFP misfits. 😀
Thanks for the unique and informative way of describing us ISTP's. You made my day.
"Cool, calm, and collected was invented to describe the ISTJ" Wow yes. In my healing journey (which now i'm done nearly a year and on my new journey already), I always told myself to strive to be a "Cool, calm, unwavering" person - which now I'm in the best mental state ever.
Now my phone home-screen is a 'Calm' wallpaper, just a word 'Calm'. I strive to be in this state most of the time, so i know where my mind goes and bring it back to reality and mindfulness - whenever i have a negative intrusive thought or so.
Great descriptions, Nathan :D
This was so brilliantly accurate and insightful, it tickled my soul.
This video made me smile :) as an ENFJ who does in fact greatly value acceptance and appreciation of every individual, this is a wonderful illustration of how I view people. I always take notice of people's unique and positive attributes. I've thought these exact things about the various mbti types I know personally. Keep up the insightful content
Was it always like this or is it something that came naturally to you over time as you grew up ?
I can relate to that, I really accept people as they are..... but when I was really young, I use to go with what others thought about a certain person. Like looking down on someone because rumors like he/she doesn't bath....they must be disgusting...
But I also tried spending some time with disliked people myself, and realized that they weren't that bad at all...
And slowly I stopped believing at other's negative stereotypes of a certain guy/girl...
So how was it for you ?
My boyfriend is ISTP and when we firs saw each other [we haven't talked at our first meeting] i thought that he is too cool to talk to me and yet he was the one to start the conversation weeks later. But it creates a problem, because of his coolness he has a lot of female admirers i can't even count how many girls confessed to him for all the time we know each other. This is the true magic of ISTP, bacause he is doing literally nothing and yet he works like a magnet.
I'm an INFJ and I've been told a couple of times that I have that "calming aura".
I was a substitute teacher at a kindergarten and some of the teachers said that it's great when I'm on their floor because the kids are so calmed when I'm around. And At my new job my coworkers told my boss that they appreciate the "calm" I bring.
The thing is, I have no idea how I'm doing it... 😅
I guess being a confidant is one thing, but I didn't exactly have deep talks with the 1 - 3 year old kids. x)
Could someone describe it from the "outside"? If you've had simliar experiences with an INFJ, what was it like for you, and what did the INFJ do?
Ahaha 🤣 that's a GENUINE telltale sign of a REAL INFJ! and it isn't easily faked!
-From a genuine INFJ IRL.
Fyi, on a random note, I never knew INFJ were "popular"/liked. I think it's only during their absence, that a group realise their worth or impact on others (polar opposite of narcissits; and their fake, gaslighting, toxic aura).
INFJ radiate a clean, almost cold but 'cool' aura. It has a calming affect (as you said), like 'mint'. I know the biological mechanics at play, but I won't publise this. Particularly as INFJ are basically hunted down by the evil 'ESFJ', ESTJ and overgrown-fetus ISFP and ESFP.
Fellow INFJ here, my friends have told me that it's because I'm rarely scared or surprised by their problems. They feel like I always know what to do and how to do it, and I will help them do it with a calm voice and reassuring words. Even thought most of the time I'm as stressed as them, still they think I'm in control. I think it's because our fisrt reaction is make the other feel safe, and just after solve the problem.
I agree with Lu’s comment above, and will add some of my own observations. Infjs have a way of making me feel seen without me having to explain myself, which is very comforting. They’re also very attentive and patient and can witness my feelings without being overwhelmed by them. When the conversation is on me, they seem willing and able to be along for the ride
People can easily emo-dump onto the infj... going from stressed to calm.
My college roommate was an INFJ (golden example of the ideal roommate btw). It took a long time to get to know her, but being an ENFJ I made it happen lol. I think we both found each other calming in distinct ways, and in our case I would partly attribute that to easily relating to each other's mindset but having different strengths (see our cog functions). I gently encouraged her Se while she encouraged me to be more decisive with Ti. I helped talk her through times when she got stuck in the future (Ni) and she would remind me to take care of myself (Fe dom struggles).
I felt no judgment from her and she was polite with setting boundaries. She was easy to talk to and joke around with, which did calm me. I found her inspiring and imaginative, and she would often surprise me with a goofy side when we became good friends. There are a lot of reasons I find INFJs calming, tbh.
Oooh, I'm an INTP and I can relate with what you said. I never think there's anything attractive in my personality, so those words were appreciated.
INTJ @6:48
I admire your efficiency ❤️
Me and my husband are both INTJ. We both understand each other well and like to give each other some space because we are pretty individualistic person. But if one person goes deep into overthinking, the other one also get sucked in. So it's a bit difficult to hold on to the surface and at the same time carry the other one above.
ur making it seem bad. the only bad thing is your health
'Istps are one of the hardest types to read' -> from experience I would add: 'yet they can read others exceptionally well'
I know a couple of istps, and both seem loners oblivious of the social game, yet, when you talk with them it surprises me how accurate their understanding is of the inter- and intrapersonal dynamics around them. Maybe a result of all that observing from the corner :p
To circle back: I find this, too, a very attractive feature of istp's. ^^
We understand it, we just don't like it lol.
💯 describes my ISTP husband. Excellent at reading people, yet a loner by choice.
Yeah I am very observant and understand people very well. Many people often think otherwise because we seem to be unreadable. But some of our need to be alone comes from our understanding of people. We have a strong ES so this should’ve been obvious, but sadly it isn’t lol.
I married an ISTP. Agree 100%
We can read them, highly alert on what's going on around us, but we choose not to deal with it, unless under circumstances (to the rescue, lol!)
INFJ was surprisingly simple for a change
Hi Nathan! I think this is the most you have said about the ESFJ in a describing the 16 personalities video. Thank you. These videos are rather insightful and helpful.
ISFJ. I love how you described our "Quiet Power" because that's exactly how I am especially at work.
I’m not sure about brilliant, but I am certainly nuts.
The ESFP was a perfect description of my sister. We are both nuts, but she is intense and drains me.
Also she convinced me to go camping. I’m really cold right now.
I would love to know the proportion of each MBTI type among Nathan's subscribers. It would be funny to vote in a survey, someday 😁 ENFP.
Uuuh yes!
Edit: I'm an ESTJ
ENFP gang
INFP
ENFJ here✌️
Oh...I have been called the "Quiet Power" by (way older) men that later on or earlier confessed feelings to me at my job in theater...that hits a spot...
Edit: I would also like to add a thank you for pointing out the "pushover" misconception of the ISFJ type, which I see around all the time. It's foolish how people think this is the reason we act the way we do. As they also underestimate the power of being able to pull the strings behind the scenes and work under the radar, as it's mentioned. Think of INTJs with Fe and more practical than intuitive. We make sure everything goes according to the plan for the greater good without being in the spotlight which brings responsibility and potential consequences to us. And no one tries to steal the power from you when they don't realize you have it. 😎
Well said, from another ISFJ 👏
I don’t for one second believe isfj are pushovers I have always seen them as sly with no real morals just working in the bad system and keeping it bad with a semblance of niceness and feelings to deceive
@@leahboynton1280 🤝🤜🤛
@saving gift No type is perfect 😆
What a large edit
The rock solid strength and self -possession combined with an almost parental sense of caring is what I found very attractive in my ISTJ partner. I am ENFP who has lived through extremely difficult life situations and am thus extremely resilient. And yet the ISTJ seems so naturally like a superman to rely on I find myself turning to him without even thinking (though fully capable of dealing with stuff myself).
The Rock🤨
"...when balanced with boundaries..."
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That is, in fact, the conundrum, right there.
Fr, how it can be this hard? 🥲😂😂
I believe he said this for the ENFJ but oh man, is it hitting way too close to home with me, an INFP. Being understanding and accepting has come at a great cost for me, precisely because of lack of boundaries.. maybe because in a lot of ways boundaries are limits and therefore erase a lot of that 'acceptance'.. at least in my mind.. Still trying to figure out how to make them both make sense at the same time without one erasing the other..
@@mariyabardarska5895 I think I understand what you are trying to say...
@@mariyabardarska5895 Agreed. I have learned that I can accept someone, but that doesn't mean they have a right to be in my inner circle. If I accepted everyone into my inner circle based on my ability to accept them, everyone would be allowed and there would not be an inner circle anymore. I do not have the capacity to have that many close friends. So I get choosy. My inner circle is only people I can trust who I actually enjoy spending time with. I can accept anyone, but I don't trust or enjoy everyone.
Honestly you can actually have one. I start to think about my childhood friends lately as a bit of my imagination boundaries.
You really nailed it, with why I’m attracted to my ISTJ partner! I have to try really hard to also be strong and stoic, like he is. Recently, he asked me if he had a rash on his back. He did. It was *weird!* but I didn’t want to freak him out so I controlled myself, and just calmly said we’d keep an eye on it. After it went away, I told him it was gone but also that when it was still there I wanted to freak out but didn’t so I wouldn’t freak him out. He thanked me for that!🤣
Ok I REALLY LOVE the istp description, although I rarely realise I am giving those vibes , I always think that i am super normal and boring and almost not noticed , but then I get shocked when I know that they actually think I am cool or even .. frightening . And sometimes that even makes me afraid of having relationships with people as they may think I am like that all the time and get disappointed cause I feel in my friendships I am like an enfj , my subconscious , a more opinionated and strict one though , I feel that I get so weak and easy because of my fe and I get shocked when they actually don't see that , although that's kinda good actually , or they still keep that image of me and then I feel this is not a real relationship or that i am a bad person . Guess there is also a component here of fe being inferior and that's where your fear exists so I am always afraid that everybody hates me . On the inside I am very gentle and would say super easy to read and predict , it's so awkward how you people don't see that .
That's a lot of rambling about yourself for someone claiming to be cool, but ok.
@@jpesmar I am not claiming I am cool I am confused why you think so , i think i am boring but i love the description though and i wish it to be true
I have some insight to this as an ENFJ with an ISTP brother. We were best friends as kids and grew apart as teenagers. As adults we've reconnected and as strange as it may seem for opposite types to get along so well, I think it works because we deeply admire each other. He's good at all the things I wish I was, and I get the feeling he has the same idea. Perhaps it's because he grew up with two ENFJs, but he has well-developed Fe and can come across as a stern/shy ENFJ if he's in the right mood (or drunk lmao). Seeing as how FeNi gives me mind reading abilities, I don't find him awfully hard to decipher and I do see a lot of the qualities you describe.
Young ISTPs who are basically just TiSe can come across as cold or indifferent, but when you start developing Ni and Fe it's easy to see that there's a wonderful gentleness behind all that focus. Just because your friends don't comment on that doesn't mean they don't feel it, but I would encourage you to express yourself and ask for their opinions to show them that you care. Your Ni is clearly solid, you're on the right path.
@@whitneyd6827 I completely get your point , thank you
Calming presence is a beautiful way to be attractive. Thank you.
Are there people who are attracted to an INTJ’s depth? 🤔 where are these people
infp here. I was just trying to describe why I find you intjs so fascinating, but I couldn't find the right words.
On the outside you are the serious and tough people, but we infps and enfps see who you really are. goddamn cuties with a soft heart :D
You are often so intellectual and articulate, that impresses me and talking to you is always exciting. your Ni and generally your depth is simply a mystery. It seems like my Ne is naturally attracted to your strong Ni.
You Intj's are my favorite type and we xnfp's love you!
Btw sorry for my bad english
@@moflo6093 Your English is very good friend ❤️
Yes. But... I find you guys adorable.
-enfp
Here are some time stamps for y’all! Great video btw^^
ESTP: 0:03
ISTP: 0:52
INFJ: 1:35
ENFJ: 2:17
ENTP: 3:02
👑INTP👑: 3:46
ISFJ: 4:32
ESFJ: 5:13
ENTJ: 6:04
INTJ: 6:49
ISFP: 7:35
ESFP: 8:15
ENFP: 8:57
INFP: 9:42
ISTJ: 10:21
ESTJ: 11:03
Thank you 😀
-genuine infj, here!
Also, I hate ALL 'ESFJ', ESTJ, and overgrown-fetus ISFP (and will never be changing my mind anytime soon)! 😀👍🏽
@@Human_01 why would you hate a specific type tho
@@Jasper_C_
Did you check the date?
@@jackcolson4745 Alright, you got me
As an ESTP, I love adventures... even ask a girl working in a corner store to go out in a trip to Chile since a bad decision with another one gone wrong.
ENTP - Curiosity killed the cat… but satisfaction brought it back! And got you a date, apparently 😂
I just put the ENFJ part on repeat..... I guess there was something interesting there :P
😂😂😂 boundaries!!
I have practically always typed as an INFJ, but I can never relate to the stereotype of being the confidant. I don't feel like people rely on me any more than they would someone else, but that may be due to my initially mysterious/reserved nature making them feel uncomfortable at first. Perhaps I don't have relationships close enough for this ability to be apparent to me, but I wouldn't mind relating to this stereotype either
As an ENTP😎 having a best friend of INFJ😇 type.. I think I can try to answer that acc to my opinion/observation..👩🎓 it's bcoz you guys are too much into your head💭 and extra careful of stepping on anyones toes..🤞 you guys give best advice and another aspect to someone's point of view..💥 but the thing is others have to initiate first..🤔 other people thinks prolly you are not interested in talking to them and they'll end up bore you and your type thinks the same for other people🤦♀️ so it's kinda complicated..🤖 even if you feel like giving a piece of advice to someone, your type tend to over- analyze that you will be overstepping to someone else's life which is also valid point as your perspective..💯 you all tend to speak less but when your type do it's on point, witty and accurate..✌ you guys have counterpoints to all the jokes made against you and your friends..💣 which is quite impressive, attractive🔥 and sometimes intimidating to others which often lead them to think that you will think they are stupid or less of knowledge/sense of humour..😌 (I know you all won't believe me but that's the truth) I know you guys have problem digesting someone appreciating you or saying good things abt you..💁♀️ prolly bcoz you all are more into thinking good abt others before yourself..🤠 and by any chance you put yourself first before anyone else this always lead you all think bad abt urself🤓 and the guilt works as cherry on the top of it..🤦♀️ Take it as a advice or suggestion, you all need to learn to believe/accept when someone compliments you..💫 just don't question it in your head when someone says good or positive things abt yourself..💯 I guess, I stretched it too far😅 but I was bored😹 and after reading your comment can't keep myself to not ans since I know someone of your type closely..🤗 and it makes me feel sad when my bff and any of your type don't acknowledge someone saying good abt you🤷♀️ and think that it's just a stereotype even though that's not the case..💁♀️ (excuse my English, it's not my first language) and if you are still reading this lengthy comment thank you for bearing it with me.. 😂😂 I talk alot lot.. sorry not sorry, lol🤣
@@Sakshiii-_._-10 thank you for everything you said! It's definitely true for me too, I tend so brush over compliments and focus on the criticisms instead. It seems like you know your bff and the INFJ type really well, they're lucky to have a friend like you that pays so much attention to their character and genuinely cares about them 😊
@@Sakshiii-_._-10 definitely an ENTP 😆
you could tone down the emoji use
@@Makaveli2000 Haha!! Well, sometimes (I mean most of the times) this big paragraphs feel boring to read.. so I thought why not😂🤣
I love your videos and content❤️ENFP here and yes bring me all your weirdest eccentric thoughts and dreams and we can ponder them together🙌
Oh no, is this an april fools joke? 😅
Please do ‘Victim types’ for each type, inspired by Robert Greene ❤️🙏
What is that? I haven't heard of it
@@whitneyd6827 he did a previous video (Seductive types) it’s based on a book from Robert Greene, called The Art of Seduction, it’s basically about the raw psychology of love, and he theorized that everyone has a lack in life, depending on what it is, that’s your victims type, it’s the crucial information you need to know about someone if you want to influence them :) Robert is a genius, I recommend you his books if you like psychology
@@Mynameisdarkxxo This sounds fascinating... and also terrifying hahahaha
If infps are magadascar entps are florida
@ᗩᒪIYᗩᕼ as an ENFP I have no idea
Enfp part is spot on!!
about socially introverted as ENTJ its relate but i think i have some issues since i've moved to my new neighbours some people are annoying, like i greet them for a 3 times and they don't respond me back. so i dont want to greet them back or talk with them anymore
Spot on with ISFJs 🎯
I’m an infj and the guys that chased me seemed to always be the estps and esfps (istps would attempt to sneakily get with me while I was in relationships, they’re naughty). Married to an esfp.
Wow, that’s so interesting how you drew all those SPs! What’s it been like pairing up with an ESFP? :)
~an ISFP
ENTP - it’s our sense of humor. All other answers are wrong.
Or annoying
No. Curiosity. Absolutely the curiosity that drive us to our studies, exploration and etc. We usually like to make people think, to make people question, and to make them search for answers. ESTPs and ENFPs are usually more funny and have a better sense of humor than ENTP.
@@DANGARANGS evil, jealous, good-for-nothing ESFJ detected! I'm referring to you dang
(although he might be shXtty estj, or overgrown-fetus ISFP).
@@gedois3714 Being funny has got me laid plenty. Being nosy has not.
Im an intp, one of my best friends is an entp and I am way funnier than him
As an ENTP I absolutely agree that curiousity is my core personality trait and that my creativity, innovative spirit, rebelliousness, etc, almost entirely stem for my insatiable curiousity.
When you're so early the timestamps dude is yet to arrive.
Me (INFJ): I send cat memes. What more can one ask for?
I am here.
Now make me feel great about myself!!!!!!!!!
No wonder why people tend to share sensitive information when I have a calming presence...
I'm an INFJ and I would DIE for an ESTP partner 😂
That's interesting. I always think N's go better with other N's and S's go better with other S's. But I may be biased because as an INFP the compatibility charts always say I am not compatible with any S's lol. Like straight Red all the way down for S types lol. I just get so much more depth out of my N relationships, so it's interesting to me when other N's feel differently. I'm married to an INTJ and my best friend is an INFJ for reference.
I had an estp partner. Im Infj. It was great, but they were also very suspicious of my introverted way, like I was hiding something, which I wasn't. They seem to like all the cards facing up on the table at all times, or you lose. I def wasn't prepared for that. And lost 😅
I had an estp partner. Im Infj. It was great, but they were also very suspicious of my introverted way, like I was hiding something, which I wasn't. They seem to like all the cards facing up on the table at all times, or you lose. I def wasn't prepared for that. And lost 😅
I'm an ESTP, my best friend at school was an INFJ, and there are things that don't go so well. For example, I was a bit dismissive of her emotions and preferred to just get on with it, while she listened and listened. She was the only one who listened to my inner thoughts that I couldn't tell everybody. She always says that there are lots of things to learn from me. And she's interested in stuff that I don't care about, politics and philosophy for example. But yeah, she's great :) As long as you are aware of what makes each other secure and healthy
@@shikicat3118 yeah I'd love the contrast. It would spur me to act
I'm early today. Don't mind me
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🕯Hi Nathan, could you do an Encanto characters typing video? It would be fantastic if you could 🤗.🕯
In case he does, I’m gonna put my guesses here to see how they match up with his guesses: Abuela - ESTJ, Pepa - not sure, definitely Exxx though, Felix - ESFP, Bruno - ENFP, Julietta - ISFJ, Augustine - ENFJ, Dolores - ISFP, Camilo - ENTP, Antonio - INFP?, Isabela - ESFJ?, Luisa - INFJ, Mirabel - ENFP
Smeagol is a raw beauty.
if you are content creator from Love Who then; indulge the indulge the audience by quoting the famous line of "and now for something completely different..." in another video
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You’ve missed the opportunity to say Sike! at the end of the video 😅
P.S. Sorry, someone had to say this.
I was waiting for this! Aaaa
ESFJ seems the most attractive personality type to me. - ISFP
Plz do another one on how each type is uniquely obnoxious😂
ENTP 5w4 here, and I admire ISTPs so much
the reason people like these videos is because they are practically complements that you want to hear, as they may be relatable or otherwise.
Your channel keeps the stereotypes in control!
one of my favourites
April foooools
Convinced my celeb crush is an INFJ cuz it seems like everyone who goes to his concerts feels this way!
Who is it? This got me curious..
@@Sakshiii-_._-10 Avi Kaplan... He's immensely, _immensely_ wonderful
@@RosheenQuynh sorry, but I don't know him.. Is he Indian? The name seems like Indian..
@@Sakshiii-_._-10 He's Jewish lol He used to be in the acapella group Pentatonix
Self appraism and self criticism lmao accurate
ISTP's are to be shaken, not stirred 🍸
i am desperately trying to figure out whether i am intj or intp and these videos aren´t helping :DD i relate to both (i did the tests several times on different plantforms and on different days and the results have been fluctuating in between the intp/intj types. i also got the istj once but that was a short dating app quiz so idk)
When you dont fit your types stereotype in the attractive parts
Dunno about the attractiveness but Intj one is too accurate.....
@eedd sdsd same lol.... I find this quality only confuses others not attracts them.
@@grazynawolska8160 lol ikr
Quirks? Me? Ok I accept that but are they really so easy to spot?
Didn't Yoda die alone?
I've found intp cute without them realising it.
How many INTP's here have a meme page?
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ESTP is a big no, ISTP 🤔 possible, INFJ maybe, I don't know, ENFJ I like, ENTP is a no, INTP I don't know, ESFJ and ISFJ is a no, ENTJ were not compatible, INTJ sure why not, ISFP I don't know, ESFP no, ENFP can be, ISTJ can to rely on, ESTJ no, never, no. INFP here
🤣 oh I wish the ENFJ had been accurate
April fools?! I am not sure if I should take this seriously or not...
5:50
I am not able to like the video
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@@candellina6 Hello 🤗
If man was created in gods image, and god is perfect, how are man sinful by nature
@@fuzzymilk You are right, we are made in God’s image, but we are not God. The Lord made us to have a will of our own, instead of making us like robots that just do what He says, He lets us make our own choices.
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I hope this answers your question.
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