Trish your story has touched me so deeply. I can’t tell you how many times I cried listening to it because I resonated with it so much and we have so much in common. I too am/ was a homeschooling mom except my kids are now 18 and 23 and I worked my ass off to get them what I did not receive as a child but it was not without consequences and in hindsight I can see how that also taught them things I wish I hadn’t taught them such as self sacrifice but they’ve watched me grow and change over the years and my hope is my modeling now will help to undo some of those dysfunctional messages. I am still challenged with my physical symptoms that started when I was a year old after a major trauma and I am now 52 but my capacity to hold challenging situations has grown so much. As I was listening to your story I felt deeply that I wanted to reach out and connect with you and then when you started talking about learning to ride a motorcycle I busted up laughing because I’m planning to take the course this summer as well. And my daughter at 18 is actually getting ready take the courses that she needs to become a fire fighter and she has never been vaccinated and they want her to get a whole host of vaccinations for the EMT course so I would love to ask you a few questions around that although we are In California so my guess is maybe the requirements are different in Minnesota. Anyway if you would be willing to connect at all I would love to speak with you more about so many things. I know you’re a busy mama so whatever works. You can email me at tallow@lotusrisingfarm.com If you’re open to chatting. Thank you again so much for sharing so openly and honestly! BTW have you heard of Kelly Brogan? I think you’d like her! Take care!
I grew up with religion being used as a weapon too and I had my son at 17! He is now 20. I jumped into marriage at 20. I say my son saved my life at 17 as well, and I’m so thankful to God for opening my eyes. I wasn’t abused with physical or substance but the emotional control and manipulation was horrid for my mind and still is.
From around 54 min, talking about stop pleasing others, stop worrying what other thinks of you, and that you become the woman, that would protect the child you were. Wow. I'm a man, but I can relate to all of it. I always put other ahead of me, because I'm so afraid to hurt people. Instead I harmed my health
It's good to know that we're not alone in our disaster stories and rollercoasters. Healing is a messy series of ups and downs, a rocky road but it needs commitment. I hit such a rock bottom that it broke through the armour of defences, I reached out for help and healing started with other symptoms. I welcome it but now i need to see it through to resolution, instead of the constant cycle of ups and downs!
I have listened to your story five times so far, Trish. I have experienced BMS for a year and half and this gives me such hope. You are the reason to keep going at this point so thank you. So inspiring, thanks Jim for posting this interview!
"I'm going to try better to fit in with these Christian moms, rooted in the idea that I wanted to make sure my kids got something better than what I got." WOW. We are like the same person
Playing around with the arts now more as well. Listening to music. Going to concerts. Working on projects. Knitting, diamond art next. Wrote a children’s story about my journey.
This story has really touched me, thank you for sharing Trish, I’m currently dealing with burning mouth syndrome, since Jan 2023, it’s hell. When my symptoms ramp up it’s so hard to not fear them :(! Some days are good then others it comes back with a vengeance and I don’t know why :(. I don’t want to live in fear and suffer with this awful pain anymore 😢
All this is sooo me. 2nd time that I’ve enjoyed a success story. Yes, grew into the woman that needed the protection her inner child needed. Started following MY instincts. Started looking for the EMOTIONAL as well as physical wins I explained to my adult children that I’m going through changes.
Pleasing chronically conflicted parents must be a common denominator in the lives of people who later develop chronic pain syndromes. It must be that those early experiences cause them to put enormous pressure on themselves to be perfect and good in order to create a safe domestic environment in their homes. This is very much in line with what Dr Sarno noticed in his pain patients at NYU.
This is such a beautiful and inspirational story. Made me cry a few times. I am also coming out and leaving behind my TMS journey. Everyday is almost as normal as it used to be before it all started. I am very pleased for you, thank you for sharing your journey and wishing you a continuous beautiful life moving forward. 🤗💗🫶🏼
Your courage is so inspiring! I’ve listened to your story a few times and learn more each time. I love that you see the sun. Thank you for sharing. You truly inspired me.
Wow what a story me too mouth pain and chest neck head pain. Can so relate don't have children but soo relate to your youth how you grew up ty ty ty. You made my day today. I am sooo happy for you i will get there don't know when but trust the process. Love you Trisha ❤❤❤❤ wish I could get in touch with you. 🤗🙏🙏🙏🙏
Love the cake story and your wonderful weekend! I am doing really well but it took almost two years of very hard work which makes the recovery even better♥️
Wow! Thank you for sharing your story in such an informative & inspiring way. So much helpful content to unpack. So lovely to hear of your recent trip with your husband & how good life is for you now ❤
Good stuff Trish, analysis paralysis sucks for sure,I'm about to get my dads 81 Harley Davidson fxs and I need to take my motorcycle license test in a couple months hoping to get it done the first time but Lord willing 😊❤ need motorcycle therapy for my TMS as well.
Wait so did her pain stop or not? It’s 4 am so I may have missed her talking about it because I’m tired but I didn’t hear her say if the burning mouth got better or not
thank you for this radical honesty unfolding - enough to make a stone seep with tears - beautiful body mind spirit - mastitis strict diets braces shaking hands practising safety behavior all the MDs the Dx the fly caught in the spider web of human life and its systems the sweet wisdom of the 13 year old like Goggins the firefighting the community the biking not to mention the pain endured - so beautiful - thank you both so much - it is really inspiring especially getting to a gym 💯💯🙏🙏🦸♀🦸♀🕊🕊
I have been dealing with chronic pain for 4 years now. I have taken the PRT healing workshop but cannot seem to make progress with the mind body techniques to help ease the pain. Any recommendations?? I so miss my old life. Used to be extremely and engaging in my community. Now pain stops me most days!! 😢
Hello, nik from uk.I have suffered pain .I have been divorced have a stressful job .Swim and push to do things everyday . I pushed myself and went flying that I really didn’t want to do . Not that kind to myself and the pain and emptiness absorbs me .Doc thinks fibro ! I don’t seem to have purpose and need validation on all my actions .I see therapist and they advise when doing good and relax therapy . My mood is exhausting and I have the odd good moment when with the kids . Please get back to me on key points a list of what will aid me and links to help.I am on my own most of the time and when not pleasing others sometimes reluctantly , recent pain and fears of getting old , will I ger bad neighbours ,Will I sleep and kids growing older leaving me more redundant. The pain and anxiety reflects a death a yearning and an itch that cannot be scratched.look forward to some guidance please as it’s really hard. Not on meds as therapist said not needed and wouldn’t really solve . Thanks Nik x
Trish your story has touched me so deeply. I can’t tell you how many times I cried listening to it because I resonated with it so much and we have so much in common. I too am/ was a homeschooling mom except my kids are now 18 and 23 and I worked my ass off to get them what I did not receive as a child but it was not without consequences and in hindsight I can see how that also taught them things I wish I hadn’t taught them such as self sacrifice but they’ve watched me grow and change over the years and my hope is my modeling now will help to undo some of those dysfunctional messages. I am still challenged with my physical symptoms that started when I was a year old after a major trauma and I am now 52 but my capacity to hold challenging situations has grown so much. As I was listening to your story I felt deeply that I wanted to reach out and connect with you and then when you started talking about learning to ride a motorcycle I busted up laughing because I’m planning to take the course this summer as well. And my daughter at 18 is actually getting ready take the courses that she needs to become a fire fighter and she has never been vaccinated and they want her to get a whole host of vaccinations for the EMT course so I would love to ask you a few questions around that although we are In California so my guess is maybe the requirements are different in Minnesota. Anyway if you would be willing to connect at all I would love to speak with you more about so many things. I know you’re a busy mama so whatever works. You can email me at tallow@lotusrisingfarm.com
If you’re open to chatting. Thank you again so much for sharing so openly and honestly!
BTW have you heard of Kelly Brogan? I think you’d like her! Take care!
I grew up with religion being used as a weapon too and I had my son at 17! He is now 20. I jumped into marriage at 20. I say my son saved my life at 17 as well, and I’m so thankful to God for opening my eyes. I wasn’t abused with physical or substance but the emotional control and manipulation was horrid for my mind and still is.
From around 54 min, talking about stop pleasing others, stop worrying what other thinks of you, and that you become the woman, that would protect the child you were. Wow. I'm a man, but I can relate to all of it.
I always put other ahead of me, because I'm so afraid to hurt people. Instead I harmed my health
This is an incredible story. What a strong woman. She was absolutely led to you Jim, and Nicole Sachs, Dan Buglio, Louise Hay by divine guidance. ❤❤
It's good to know that we're not alone in our disaster stories and rollercoasters. Healing is a messy series of ups and downs, a rocky road but it needs commitment. I hit such a rock bottom that it broke through the armour of defences, I reached out for help and healing started with other symptoms. I welcome it but now i need to see it through to resolution, instead of the constant cycle of ups and downs!
Love love love this. No judgement! At all!!!! So brave and what a fascinating sorry
I have listened to your story five times so far, Trish. I have experienced BMS for a year and half and this gives me such hope. You are the reason to keep going at this point so thank you. So inspiring, thanks Jim for posting this interview!
"I'm going to try better to fit in with these Christian moms, rooted in the idea that I wanted to make sure my kids got something better than what I got."
WOW. We are like the same person
Playing around with the arts now more as well. Listening to music. Going to concerts. Working on projects. Knitting, diamond art next. Wrote a children’s story about my journey.
This story has really touched me, thank you for sharing Trish, I’m currently dealing with burning mouth syndrome, since Jan 2023, it’s hell. When my symptoms ramp up it’s so hard to not fear them :(! Some days are good then others it comes back with a vengeance and I don’t know why :(. I don’t want to live in fear and suffer with this awful pain anymore 😢
Don’t give up , keep pushing through , fight for your health , keep re- reading Dr Sarno and Steve books
Trish you are absolutely amazing strong and beautiful!🦋🌟🦋🌟🦋🌟🦋🌟🦋🌟
All this is sooo me. 2nd time that I’ve enjoyed a success story.
Yes, grew into the woman that needed the protection her inner child needed. Started following MY instincts. Started looking for the EMOTIONAL as well as physical wins
I explained to my adult children that I’m going through changes.
Pleasing chronically conflicted parents must be a common denominator in the lives of people who later develop chronic pain syndromes. It must be that those early experiences cause them to put enormous pressure on themselves to be perfect and good in order to create a safe domestic environment in their homes. This is very much in line with what Dr Sarno noticed in his pain patients at NYU.
Wow!!! I only cried when I was mad too and still do! This is so amazing to hear such a close story to mine.
This is the best TMS testimonial I’ve ever heard. We are so similar❤
This is such a beautiful and inspirational story. Made me cry a few times. I am also coming out and leaving behind my TMS journey. Everyday is almost as normal as it used to be before it all started. I am very pleased for you, thank you for sharing your journey and wishing you a continuous beautiful life moving forward. 🤗💗🫶🏼
Your courage is so inspiring! I’ve listened to your story a few times and learn more each time. I love that you see the sun. Thank you for sharing. You truly inspired me.
Love a TMS success story Jim! Hope you’re well. 🏄♂️👍🏻
Great work Trish. 💪🏻💪🏻
Thanks Adam all good here! you’re one of these success stories as well
Wow what a story me too mouth pain and chest neck head pain. Can so relate don't have children but soo relate to your youth how you grew up ty ty ty. You made my day today. I am sooo happy for you i will get there don't know when but trust the process. Love you Trisha ❤❤❤❤ wish I could get in touch with you. 🤗🙏🙏🙏🙏
Love the cake story and your wonderful weekend! I am doing really well but it took almost two years of very hard work which makes the recovery even better♥️
Trish you are an amazing beautiful and genuine lady ❤️❤️. I was so compelled and inspired listening to you. Thank you ❤️
You give me sooo much hope Trisha I also do exactly what my brain doesn't want to do challenging hell yes uncomfortable hell yes ty ty ty ❤
Thank you for this, Trish. Also, you’re gorgeous inside and out!
Wow the stomach and burning mouth and food limitations is me..I literally am dbl over. I only eat rice chicken and oatmeal
Wow! Thank you for sharing your story in such an informative & inspiring way. So much helpful content to unpack. So lovely to hear of your recent trip with your husband & how good life is for you now ❤
Thank you so much, Trish, for sharing your story. Your story is my story . I am strengthen and inspired by your example to keep going.
Such a beautiful story
Coming back again. Love your story and how you put everything!!! Thanks so much!!!
thanks you are brave woman i have pelvic pain for 4 years and i felt same thanks again you gave me hope
what beautiful story! thx for sharing
This was a great success story. I took so much from it. Thank you for sharing your story.
I am helped by your story. Thank you.
Love this! I relate to you more than you know! Thank you! I go to the gym 6 days too!
Wow thanks for sharing, Trish your are a wonderful person!!!
So inspiring.
Good stuff Trish, analysis paralysis sucks for sure,I'm about to get my dads 81 Harley Davidson fxs and I need to take my motorcycle license test in a couple months hoping to get it done the first time but Lord willing 😊❤ need motorcycle therapy for my TMS as well.
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Love this !!! What a great lady and story ✊
Thanks❤
I just realized that you talked about chewing gum. I do the same thing for my mouth not as much as I used to but I do
Wait so did her pain stop or not? It’s 4 am so I may have missed her talking about it because I’m tired but I didn’t hear her say if the burning mouth got better or not
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thank you for this radical honesty unfolding - enough to make a stone seep with tears - beautiful body mind spirit - mastitis strict diets braces shaking hands practising safety behavior all the MDs the Dx the fly caught in the spider web of human life and its systems the sweet wisdom of the 13 year old like Goggins the firefighting the community the biking not to mention the pain endured - so beautiful - thank you both so much - it is really inspiring especially getting to a gym 💯💯🙏🙏🦸♀🦸♀🕊🕊
Bravo Trish!! You are a badassss!! I resonated with SO MUCH of your story.
I have been dealing with chronic pain for 4 years now. I have taken the PRT healing workshop but cannot seem to make progress with the mind body techniques to help ease the pain. Any recommendations??
I so miss my old life. Used to be extremely and engaging in my community. Now pain stops me most days!! 😢
What are your symptoms it's a lot Ng road it can take 5 years ime at 3 but can't make breakthrough but something's have changed
Suffering 26 years so should be easier for uou
Hello, nik from uk.I have suffered pain .I have been divorced have a stressful job .Swim and push to do things everyday . I pushed myself and went flying that I really didn’t want to do . Not that kind to myself and the pain and emptiness absorbs me .Doc thinks fibro ! I don’t seem to have purpose and need validation on all my actions .I see therapist and they advise when doing good and relax therapy . My mood is exhausting and I have the odd good moment when with the kids . Please get back to me on key points a list of what will aid me and links to help.I am on my own most of the time and when not pleasing others sometimes reluctantly , recent pain and fears of getting old , will I ger bad neighbours ,Will I sleep and kids growing older leaving me more redundant. The pain and anxiety reflects a death a yearning and an itch that cannot be scratched.look forward to some guidance please as it’s really hard. Not on meds as therapist said not needed and wouldn’t really solve . Thanks Nik x