How To Know If You Should Marry Him/Her | mildred kingsley-okonkwo

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  • @dimmauzoegwu4319
    @dimmauzoegwu4319 ปีที่แล้ว +98

    "You may never find a perfect person because you're not perfect...but if you find someone who is flexible and sold out to God, you can have the marriage of your dreams" Thank you Pastor M for this!

    • @moradekeoyewole4733
      @moradekeoyewole4733 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Father help me to control my Anger because it kills and destroy

    • @akumtambe
      @akumtambe ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Anger destroys and kills for real.God please help us out in this.

  • @amaratv23
    @amaratv23 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love you so much ma 🥰🥰 I've ended an almost toxic relationship that would have turned into something else because I listened to ur msg and obeyed all

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Pastor M, you are a rare gem 💎. God is using you and pastor K are making the truth of marriage come to life. God bless you two and your family 🙏

  • @africainvesther2.0
    @africainvesther2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    She preached her face off!! When I come back to visit Naija I will visit her church.

  • @faithsamuel7553
    @faithsamuel7553 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I see what you are doing lord…..this is a timely message…..all that I needed to hear and assure me that God ‘s will is the best

  • @ndivhuwotshivhase792
    @ndivhuwotshivhase792 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    You look so beautiful Ma

  • @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27
    @dailymotivationbyyourgirl27 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Make sure your relationship worship God
    Make sure your relationship working?
    Make sure the relationship is worth it.
    Make sure it's word-ruled. Make sure your relationship is govern by the word of God. Don't run your marriage by culture but by scripture.
    Courtship is practice for marriage just without the sex. Men, please marry for where you are going not where you are. Eph 5:33

  • @pie_official6374
    @pie_official6374 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Pastor M, you are an embodiment of wisdom. God richly bless you for for being a blessing. This is deep!!!

  • @moecheeks0305
    @moecheeks0305 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This was a WORDDDD in due season for me…thank you holy spirit for leading me to this video

  • @igbosylvia4128
    @igbosylvia4128 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Please I want to like this more than once.I was blessed.Thank you holy spirit for your daughter.

  • @lorriselotas5705
    @lorriselotas5705 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Wow this is the best preaching on relationship I never watched God bless you Lady Pastor M

  • @prettydevoted
    @prettydevoted ปีที่แล้ว +31

    "Don't marry for where you are, marry for where you're going." Thank you for the powerful message!

  • @anneanthony6385
    @anneanthony6385 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seriously God's will is definitely different from ours
    He is supernatural

  • @charitynkem-chime7636
    @charitynkem-chime7636 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mama you are just a blessing to this generation

  • @kamarungatiara9571
    @kamarungatiara9571 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wisdom here.And I subscribed after watching this and am in a new courtship and indeed God is Faithful

  • @enugumabel6419
    @enugumabel6419 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You can attract a man with your shape but you can only keep him with your sharp.

  • @catherinemchome8721
    @catherinemchome8721 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Indeed... I have been blessed with this lesson,GOD bless you pastor M
    Form Tz 🇹🇿

  • @victoriasedegan7847
    @victoriasedegan7847 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Since Monday I am enjoying your video Past K and M. May GOD bless your ministry

  • @esesleek
    @esesleek ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much Pastor Mildred ..May God continually increase His anointing upon you. Amen.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    23:40 your relationship should make people want to know and glorify God.

  • @favourdave4680
    @favourdave4680 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you Ma! I always get blessed by your teachings. I Love and Celebrate you always!

  • @lilianthuku-zf3hm
    @lilianthuku-zf3hm ปีที่แล้ว

    God I pray that you show me the right person... Control my life God🙏

  • @oluchiadibe
    @oluchiadibe ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Good day Pastor Mildred. I have asked this question before.. How did Pastor Kingsley get his own comfirmation?

  • @ntsakomavunda9018
    @ntsakomavunda9018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We are getting the science of the relationship but may we not neglect prayer 🙏🙏

  • @atutakasolutions
    @atutakasolutions ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pastor M looking so youthful and glorious. I love the wisdom. God bless your ministry 💕

  • @deborahadegboro
    @deborahadegboro ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is really insightful and timely. Thank you very much ma for yielding to God 🙏

  • @jenniferbrown8568
    @jenniferbrown8568 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Black girl from America loving this word

  • @D_Tops
    @D_Tops ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No matter how good or godly you are if you don't marry a good or godly person it can't work

  • @annysolomon7370
    @annysolomon7370 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much Pastor M. this right here was a real Blessing to me.
    Thank you and God bless you with more Wisdom Amen🙏

  • @chidinmaokoro24
    @chidinmaokoro24 ปีที่แล้ว

    Pst M thanks for the message, you may attract a man by your looks but it takes sense, reasoning to keep him.

  • @arethajackson13578
    @arethajackson13578 ปีที่แล้ว

    Praise GOD, HE is so awesome. Prayer, relationship with the Heavenly Father GOD. Hallelujah, amen. WOG thanks for sharing.

  • @JacintaNkirukasunday
    @JacintaNkirukasunday 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Am blessed with these words.. More grace ma

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว

    17:33 Props to pastor kingsley. chosen by God.

  • @yetundefadiya8488
    @yetundefadiya8488 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your messages has always been a blessing

  • @angelalozie2118
    @angelalozie2118 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Pastor M, God is indeed great,, assuming you married that guy,, apparently you wouldn't have ministered to me today

  • @nobuhlekhumalo1903
    @nobuhlekhumalo1903 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love her...

  • @uchechiiyeghe1699
    @uchechiiyeghe1699 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Let your light so shine before MEN😂😂😂

  • @luckerlynemaxis
    @luckerlynemaxis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    “Only Jesus can be trusted”

  • @estherchisangabanda7909
    @estherchisangabanda7909 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lord work on my life 🥺🥺

  • @niifiolaryea6353
    @niifiolaryea6353 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love you Pastor Mildred.. You're deep

  • @zipporahkyeni
    @zipporahkyeni ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Auntie pastor M😘😂

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    40:01 She is saying do what the bible says.

  • @mabel.e.kgalley9710
    @mabel.e.kgalley9710 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome woman of God always telling it the practical way. Thanks as always.

  • @NamakulaNama
    @NamakulaNama 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hallelujah God bless you Ma

  • @akpovwovwoese8339
    @akpovwovwoese8339 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is so wonderful 💖.
    This hits so deep!
    Thank you 😊

  • @sakerlyfri5182
    @sakerlyfri5182 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Chai so timely,
    Not me asking God for clarity if this is the one and the only word he gives me is "be a prudent wife"
    I was like!!! Father what do u mean!!
    Please can anyone recommend being a prudent wife teaching???

    • @MwaleWaGitau
      @MwaleWaGitau ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Pray & ask the Holy Spirit what it means to be a prudent wife.

    • @sakerlyfri5182
      @sakerlyfri5182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@MwaleWaGitau thank you 🙏I will

  • @uchechiiyeghe1699
    @uchechiiyeghe1699 ปีที่แล้ว

    Godly and beautiful mummy Mildred

  • @chineyegift2168
    @chineyegift2168 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm Blessed... Thank you Aunty Pastor M❤

  • @gracesongs2406
    @gracesongs2406 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Wow! Glory!🙌

  • @kellascorner8557
    @kellascorner8557 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I will be a baby girl oooh they didn't swear for me ma wow...soo interesting

  • @dan-ingbianmvena1115
    @dan-ingbianmvena1115 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks ma. I love u

  • @Sage3817
    @Sage3817 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why I think I was the only person with this problem where seeing people around me drains me, and when ever I’m out for too long I’m dying to go home 🤦🏾

  • @sakinaatieno
    @sakinaatieno ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks so much

  • @patiencekumah1502
    @patiencekumah1502 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Pastor....im highly blessed

  • @kellascorner8557
    @kellascorner8557 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're great Ma, well done

  • @AdebayoFolake-z4y
    @AdebayoFolake-z4y 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    God bless you ma

  • @foyinlolasworld6072
    @foyinlolasworld6072 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you Pst M

  • @Amakathebrand
    @Amakathebrand ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you ma’am ,I super blessed by this.

  • @favourjoemadu1680
    @favourjoemadu1680 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    God bless

  • @greatness23FL
    @greatness23FL ปีที่แล้ว

    Just to anyone what does psalms 88 really mean...I saw it in my dream and woke up .....

  • @houseofellatv7115
    @houseofellatv7115 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Weldon PM
    I got Value 🙌
    Thank you for sharing ands with Us.
    God bless you 🙌

  • @bridgetmoonga4012
    @bridgetmoonga4012 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amen thank you so much.

  • @raquelmyles4227
    @raquelmyles4227 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you for this

  • @agnestalks746
    @agnestalks746 ปีที่แล้ว

    😭😭😭😭😭 Thank you Holy spirit

  • @evangelistopoku6544
    @evangelistopoku6544 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great message

  • @faithbishop1444
    @faithbishop1444 ปีที่แล้ว

    I thought it was her brother who spoke into her ears.

  • @joane5296
    @joane5296 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m still waiting for my answer o. 😢

  • @preciousamos976
    @preciousamos976 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What then happens when your in already and begin to see all this lapses that weren't taken note of due to short and distance courtship???

  • @beershebagiwu3527
    @beershebagiwu3527 ปีที่แล้ว

    Teach Pastor M

  • @panashechikurunhe9749
    @panashechikurunhe9749 ปีที่แล้ว

    Powerful!!

  • @captainbosingwa7226
    @captainbosingwa7226 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What if God say yes and we have been in cold, hot,up and down in a relationship always how can you handle such a situation.

    • @rumbidzaichirango8589
      @rumbidzaichirango8589 ปีที่แล้ว

      No that situation continue to give thanks to God..I thank lord cause he already shows you the one

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว

    0:33 Interesting. The wife amplifies what her husband has.

  • @Nkosiedread
    @Nkosiedread ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm in a relationship, my person just told me he won't ever marry me, we r living together and having kids, please advise, i understand we jumped some important steps, I feel like now we stag 😢

  • @odunayooluwatobi8405
    @odunayooluwatobi8405 ปีที่แล้ว

    Am blessed 🥰🥰🥰

  • @Adaplene91
    @Adaplene91 ปีที่แล้ว

    i learnt so much from this message.
    thank you so much Ma

  • @PEPELICIOUSCHI_28
    @PEPELICIOUSCHI_28 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good evening ma

    • @PEPELICIOUSCHI_28
      @PEPELICIOUSCHI_28 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love your preaching

    • @PEPELICIOUSCHI_28
      @PEPELICIOUSCHI_28 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if I don't hear from him( holy spirit) what will I do

    • @King_Miracle
      @King_Miracle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@PEPELICIOUSCHI_28 Keep praying.
      God will speak.

  • @oluchianyi3882
    @oluchianyi3882 ปีที่แล้ว

    🤣🤣🤣🤣 let your light shine before men 👌

  • @lifestyleoflulu8454
    @lifestyleoflulu8454 ปีที่แล้ว

    U will just say God thank you o😂😂😂

  • @chukwujekwunkwonta9531
    @chukwujekwunkwonta9531 ปีที่แล้ว

    Who was that person that was chanting yea yea at the background?

  • @anneanthony6385
    @anneanthony6385 ปีที่แล้ว

    Courtship is rehearsal in marriage except sex

  • @angelmatalda6363
    @angelmatalda6363 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This I won't marry a man that's not tall..Pastor M please leave me oh🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @maameamabainson2254
    @maameamabainson2254 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว

    46:22. Interesting she and her husband are opposites. Yes marriage is a miracle because men are women are so different. Definitely marriages Are instituted by God

  • @mariamkane3348
    @mariamkane3348 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂

  • @evangelistavanesa-fermin7227
    @evangelistavanesa-fermin7227 ปีที่แล้ว

    😀😀😀creat your own institution

  • @cheerztomma
    @cheerztomma ปีที่แล้ว

    Please how were you able to accept such an advertisement before the message? That was such a bad intro

    • @cynthiaodison7252
      @cynthiaodison7252 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Una can shaa criticise.....Jesus PA...nawa

  • @isabellaajoh6755
    @isabellaajoh6755 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The person saying , yeah at the background 😅. Kilode 😢😂😂😂

    • @chiamakaugwumba4063
      @chiamakaugwumba4063 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol. I thought I was the only one that noticed it. But you can blame her the message was too good.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว

    19:33 Lol

  • @luckerlynemaxis
    @luckerlynemaxis 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tweark your brain 😂

  • @esthervictor1089
    @esthervictor1089 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    When she said if you are with him and he is not adding value to your life and vice versa, leave. I just remembered loving you is a loosing game

  • @carole5765
    @carole5765 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Mum!! So enlightening

  • @ijeomaezenwelu2729
    @ijeomaezenwelu2729 ปีที่แล้ว

    God bless you Ma

  • @patrickrumbu2902
    @patrickrumbu2902 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For me, the most important take away here is: women submit. And it's not blind submission..you don't just see a joker & submit to. Guys! (Women) the power to select who you summit to is your prerogative. Choose wisely who you submit to...seems like a fair deal to me.
    Don't allow some lady online who hasn't had/keep a good family drag you down.

    • @MwaleWaGitau
      @MwaleWaGitau ปีที่แล้ว

      That's interesting coz I have the same take away as a woman. I see your name is Patrick, meaning you are a man. Shouldn't you have a take away that applies to your gender? 🤔

  • @oluchukwuobioma1127
    @oluchukwuobioma1127 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Make sure that you are living a life of prayer and your relationship with the Holy Spirit is intact. God bless you ma

  • @nwobiarita5375
    @nwobiarita5375 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    That skin sha...plus anoiting plus wisdom plus kai!

  • @perpetualchimechefulam4316
    @perpetualchimechefulam4316 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Oh Lord bypass my emotions and do what is best for me, really an enerst prayer 🙏
    Thank you 💕 mama,
    You hit the nail at the head: "no matter how good or godily (even prayerful) you are, if you don't marry a good or godily person, the marriage will not work"...
    There's no magic to it...
    😭😭

    • @zizi5137
      @zizi5137 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am with you in this prayer

  • @ADIGBOCOMFORT-dd4tk
    @ADIGBOCOMFORT-dd4tk ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for all your teachings, they are impactful. My hubby always feel emasculated whenever I buy and do things for myself without waiting for him. He would go weeks without touching and eating my food. And as for me I don't like depriving myself of something I can get and do myself.

  • @chimakalu41
    @chimakalu41 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    24:59 excellent point the man is the head .but the woman must choose who she can submit to. 👏🏾. Excellent explanation .

  • @racheal701
    @racheal701 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, learnt a lot, thx for the message, am glad I watched this, God bless u and Anoint u more wit Pastor K to kip shining a light on marriage for the many of us out here living in ignorance....

  • @mankonimmyel6888
    @mankonimmyel6888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    "If He is silent, then that's your answer" Wait till you get a "yes"