Psychology of a Hero: TED LASSO, the Greatest Coach in History (part 1)

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  • @CinemaTherapyShow
    @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +92

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    • @sr.nicolecancel5012
      @sr.nicolecancel5012 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Are you going to do Villian Therapy on Nate the Great?

    • @bakekay21
      @bakekay21 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      only certain kinds of people feel safe being their vulnerable self with anyone & everyone... some of us don't feel safe being vulnerable with family...

    • @TheCommonGentry
      @TheCommonGentry ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Random Question. alan, what was that giant T at the 21:21 mark was about? was there a copyright on the InsideOut video?

    • @sweeney60
      @sweeney60 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you do an episode on Rebecca? Her arc in season 1 alone is worth it’s own episode. But the start to finish she has such an amazing journey on this show.

    • @Dahaka-rd6tw
      @Dahaka-rd6tw ปีที่แล้ว

      Miguel and Tulio from Road to El Dorado.

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq ปีที่แล้ว +2182

    This show demonstrates that kindness is contagious, and that people will remember you through random acts of kindness or empathy, no matter how small or inconsequential it may appear.

    • @catdragon2584
      @catdragon2584 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      And it’s so true, too. There are people I remember from ten+ years ago who I’ve never built close friendships with, but did something incredibly kind for me when they didn’t need to.

    • @Feminazi1dc
      @Feminazi1dc ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true. I remember the random people who took the time out of their day to compliment me. I am a different looking person and one time I spent a lot of time on my makeup, and some random middle aged woman when I was walking by near a bar said “OH MY GOD YOU ARE SO ADORABLE” I love that stranger 🥹

    • @sarahrzewnicki7292
      @sarahrzewnicki7292 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I think I relate a bit to Ted Lasso in not being great at my job but making a positive and hopefully helpful impact on the people around me

    • @lyricamare6073
      @lyricamare6073 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True true

    • @BreadSourdoughBaguette
      @BreadSourdoughBaguette ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Trina istg, i keep seeing you everywhere on yt why do we keep watching the same videos?! Lol!

  • @trinaq
    @trinaq ปีที่แล้ว +1758

    Rebecca and Keely's friendship warms my heart. It's great to see gals being genuinely friendly, without being passive aggressive or trying to undermine each other. Keely also proves that she's more than just a dumb model, being intelligent and not being stereotyped as a bisexual woman.

    • @kvoltti
      @kvoltti ปีที่แล้ว +119

      and then you introduce Rebecca's old friend Sassy and there is no sitcom drama between them at all.

    • @catdragon2584
      @catdragon2584 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      @@kvolttiI love that detail so much, and I love how Sassy and Keeley feed each other’s chaotic energy

    • @RodneshaGreen
      @RodneshaGreen ปีที่แล้ว +63

      A breakdown of the friendships here would be great - healthy and diverse female friendships (Rebecca and Keeley), enemies to Lovers (Jamie and Roy), friendship that challenge us (Ted and Beard), and healthy friendship circles (The Diamond Dogs). All great examples.

    • @m3rrys0ngstr3ss
      @m3rrys0ngstr3ss ปีที่แล้ว +26

      @@kvoltti I know! I was so afraid that Keeley would be jealous that Rebecca has another BFF and the fact she wasn't was so refreshing!

    • @tyrant-den884
      @tyrant-den884 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Probably my single favorite aspect of the show.
      If they had to make a show using only one element of the show: that one would be best.

  • @Master_WannaBe_
    @Master_WannaBe_ ปีที่แล้ว +345

    “The truth will set you free, but first it will piss you off,” is one of my favorite quotes of all time from any show, movie, or video game.

    • @coreyleamon2596
      @coreyleamon2596 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      This is actually a quote from Gloria Steinem.

    • @annabelledoesstuff
      @annabelledoesstuff 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      It’s a line in a Bring Me The Horizon song as well!

    • @a.nicolesmith1363
      @a.nicolesmith1363 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A budding clinical social worker I want to use this with clients in my intro

    • @blaw770
      @blaw770 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@annabelledoesstuff was hoping someone else would mention bring me the horizon.

    • @PeoplecallmeLucifer
      @PeoplecallmeLucifer หลายเดือนก่อน

      that line made me want to watch the show

  • @Vellona
    @Vellona ปีที่แล้ว +682

    What I liked about the "be curious not judgemental" scene is that it also called out the audience watching and us viewers. We were all judging him at some point thinking that we knew him, and then he plays darts like a badass and you realize we dont actually know much about him at all. Brilliant writing 👌

    • @Seilolo
      @Seilolo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Probably my favorite scene of all!

    • @wolfwoodphreak
      @wolfwoodphreak 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      I admit that too. as someone who had a very bitter angry disposition to the world I'm guilty of thinking little of "all the good people just trying to make a difference "... called me out.

  • @RoosVranken
    @RoosVranken ปีที่แล้ว +599

    Started to watch Ted Lasso ‘because I’ve heard good things’, not knowing what it was about. I cried, it healed me, it helped me evolve, and I watched it 4 more times. What a show. It’s so dear to me and practically no one in this country knows it. So you sharing your thoughts is being healed and talking it over with a friend♥️

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +50

      It is sooo good!

    • @thejuanderer4206
      @thejuanderer4206 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same. Went into this totally blind and did not expect it to make me so emotional. There’s times I remember a scene and it makes me laugh, cry, or both. That’s quite the impact.

    • @fayesouthall6604
      @fayesouthall6604 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I ignored it because I’m a football fan and thought Americans would mess around with it. Only when I got a new iPhone I got a year of Apple TV with it. I started watching and it became my favourite show ever. It’s not just Ted, so many wonderful characters. With Ted and Keeley they are the most positive characters.

    • @Seilolo
      @Seilolo 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I have watched it 3 times…going to try to wait a little before I watch again!

    • @fayesouthall6604
      @fayesouthall6604 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

  • @cuchelo1
    @cuchelo1 ปีที่แล้ว +493

    The character development on this show is just... breathtaking. Ted's journey from "relentlessly optimistic" to being realistic and opening himself up to sorrow for the first time since his father died 30 years ago, Rebecca going from being obsessed with destroying Rupert to understanding that SHE is what is most important in her life and focusing on HERSELF is what will make her happy, Roy finally accepting help to change the parts of himself he doesn't like, and Jamie... Jamie Jamie Jamie Jamie. The show gave us so many wonderful things. So many beautiful performers like Hannah and Phil and Brett exposed to a much wider audience. Oh, how lucky we are.

    • @The_Absolute_Dog
      @The_Absolute_Dog 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Jamies arc was breathtaking

  • @lerneanlion
    @lerneanlion ปีที่แล้ว +436

    Despite never watched the series and even heard it for the first time, Ted Lasso has proven that one does not needed superpowers to be a superhero.

    • @BreadSourdoughBaguette
      @BreadSourdoughBaguette ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Krang agrees with Krang, Krang wants to see Ted Lasso.
      /ref

    • @lerneanlion
      @lerneanlion ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@BreadSourdoughBaguette Kraang appreciates Kraang's agreement.

  • @kaiwilliams141
    @kaiwilliams141 ปีที่แล้ว +869

    This is one of my absolute favorite shows. I think it is so incredibly well written. I love the portrayals of masculinity, the toxic traits and responding to them. I especially love that men apologize often and no one has to prompt them to do it (especially not a woman).

    • @mohammedashian8094
      @mohammedashian8094 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      There’s toxic behaviour or lack of masculinity but there’s no such thing as toxic masculinity and I’ll fight anyone on that

    • @amycope7970
      @amycope7970 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      ​@@mohammedashian8094there's a certain set of traits that society has deemed to be masculine.... Some of those traits are toxic.
      The term Toxic masculinity has never ever been an accusation that all things masculine are toxic or that all things toxic are masculine

    • @mohammedashian8094
      @mohammedashian8094 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amycope7970 i don’t give a fuck I stand by what I said

    • @themightierpencil
      @themightierpencil ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @@mohammedashian8094 You don't see the irony in that statement, do you

    • @mohammedashian8094
      @mohammedashian8094 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@themightierpencil no, please enlighten me
      Because society can be hypocritical about what is or isn’t

  • @shad0wf1sh74
    @shad0wf1sh74 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    Ted's positivity is impressive, but I think his real superpower is his ability to listen. He waits quietly and patiently for someone to finish speaking, takes an additional moment to process, then answers and reacts. It's very inspirational.

  • @andresfelipemanjarres7061
    @andresfelipemanjarres7061 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    we need a whole series about every Ted Lasso character, Keely and Rebecca and healthy female friendship, Roy Kent healty rough masculinity, Jaime positive focuse of ego and talent, we can do something about the incredible man that is Higgins and his lovely normal family. Dont even get me start with what you to can do with a video about Nate, god this show have some of the best characters ever put on tv

  • @Laurie_Writes
    @Laurie_Writes ปีที่แล้ว +156

    Cool thing about the opening title sequence is that it absolutely defines the show. The idea of a drop of kindness in a pool of water, it colours the entire bowl. The seats all slowly changing as he sits down really gives me warm fuzzies every time because it reminds me what the show is about. Spreading kindness and and compassion.
    Actually Ola voices almost that same point in the end when Sam is disillusioned. He says to keep going for yourself, and for everyone else who needs that love in their lives.

  • @tobler17
    @tobler17 ปีที่แล้ว +309

    I really can’t sing the praises for this show enough. I haven’t connected to a story like this in a long time and I’ve really needed something like this. Ive always been a cynical person but over the last 10 years it’s gotten really bad. And had a lot of issues this show helped we work through.
    Ted Lasso really changed my whole outlook on life and my approach to people.

    • @johnathonhaikilla5109
      @johnathonhaikilla5109 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      That is so encouraging, I will check it out.

  • @smalltownpoetry
    @smalltownpoetry ปีที่แล้ว +110

    "it's worse to be sad and alone." I can't recall a time I've been brought to tears so fast. That hit way too hard. I might have to find a way to try to watch it now

  • @Mybrainchain
    @Mybrainchain ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Ted Lasso is adult humor in a kindhearted environment that actually works well to still be genuinely funny and heartwarming. I’ve cried and laughed so many times in this show and I don’t even like this genre. Now I love it! Thank you for reviewing this gem

  • @AGMAED-cv3fi
    @AGMAED-cv3fi หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I LOVE how “the drinking bird” was used in the therapy scenes! It gives insight to Ted’s emotional state, symbolizes control, and keys us into just how perceptive Sharon really is!

  • @ChildOfDarkDefiance
    @ChildOfDarkDefiance ปีที่แล้ว +155

    Ted embodies the idea that leaders don't need to be the smartest people in the room, they need to know who the smartest person in the room is.

    • @joeysingingchannel
      @joeysingingchannel 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      I've been spending the summer listening to books about Abraham Lincoln, and he had the same ability to get talented people to coalesce.

  • @rebeccawildman8787
    @rebeccawildman8787 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    The way Jason Sudeikis portrays a panic attack is pretty spot on. Just hearing him trying to talk while struggling to catch his breath reminds me of some of my own experiences. I really appreciate your explanation of forgiveness as being something that you can do to heal rather than doing it just for the other person’s benefit, just giving yourself peace so you can move forward. I like a lot of the messages in this show too, like feeling sadness but not letting it consume you, and to be curious and not judgmental. That simple quote stuck with me; the difference being that curiosity comes from a place of wanting to understand, and judgment comes from a place of rigid assumption. So glad we’re getting healthy relationships and nuanced characters in media like this!

  • @peppermintbee
    @peppermintbee ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'd love to see an episode on the Psychology of a Villian using Nate. I was POSITIVE that there was no way they could do his season 3 arc in a way that led me to forgive him and I was so incredibly wrong. This show puts forgiveness at the forefront and it is truly beautiful.

  • @ethanhorn6093
    @ethanhorn6093 ปีที่แล้ว +103

    When Rebecca comes to talk to Ted to apologize and tell him the truth is genuinely my favorite moment of the series. She says the lines "I am a fucking bitch" and it blasts me back to realizing, yes, she's the antagonist of the first season... but they layered her cruelty at the start of the series and made her more and more multifaceted throughout it that that moment makes you realize... She's seeing herself in that way because she's obsessed about this one thing, she's drowning in her own perception... she doesn't even realize all the little good that her worst quality brought out. Had she not sent the paparazzi after Ted, I think its doubtful her and Keeley would have been so close. Had she not sent Trent after Ted, Trent would have never realized how genuine Ted is and be inspired by it. Had she not sent Jaime away, he probably would have never been humbled and forced to come begging to be let back. All these little things she did for meanness in the moments after spiraled into things that brought people together. And while that might not have been her intention, she helped when she could have hurt... ever chance she had to plunge the knife deeper she hesitated. And that's why she never felt like a villain or a bad guy, because we saw her pain, and all the good she could and would do. Rebecca is my favorite character in the show by the way. I think about how Hannah Waddingham played her a lot. Brilliant stuff, genuinely.

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Such a fantastic character! And they did similar things with Nate's arc as well (not quite to the same extent/effect) and so many other characters, where we see them as whole, multifaceted people rather than stock villains who are just evil (except Rupert. He's basically just a cartoon villain, but we're okay with that). They all make mistakes. They all hurt people. They all help people and love people. They're messy and complicated and learning and growing and it's beautiful.

    • @ethanhorn6093
      @ethanhorn6093 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@CinemaTherapyShow All those things and then some you didn't even cover is why the show has free room and board in my mind.

    • @fayesouthall6604
      @fayesouthall6604 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Love how Ted processes it too …The look on his face gives little away, until she says “All you good people….” He then proceeds to forgive her saying they are the same, recently divorced, saying that I do crazy stuff too. Like take a job 3,000 miles away!

  • @JustinAlcorn
    @JustinAlcorn ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This show validated that who I aspire to be is possible.
    Ted, for his open heart.
    And Roy Kent. Because he can't hide his kindness, no matter how hard he tries.

  • @ari-cu6ql
    @ari-cu6ql ปีที่แล้ว +17

    "Before the truth will set you free, it'll piss you off" is actually one of my favorite lyrics. It's from a song called "mantra"

  • @oracleofthemundane9593
    @oracleofthemundane9593 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Could we get an episode talking about Roy and Jamie? Seeing their friendship grow is such a joy.

  • @audreylwalker
    @audreylwalker ปีที่แล้ว +152

    Yay!! Thank you for breaking for usual “no television” rule for Ted Lasso - it has so much to teach us and I just adore Ted so much. Such a great episode!👏🏼

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +31

      You're welcome. Ted Lasso is so perfect for our channel that we had to do it!

    • @jaykay-_-ok
      @jaykay-_-ok ปีที่แล้ว

      @@CinemaTherapyShow Hoping to see Avatar the last air bendender some day.

  • @sunnytheo
    @sunnytheo ปีที่แล้ว +94

    The way I cried after watching the finale of this show. I’ve never connected more to a show before like I did with this one. Genuinely so happy it exists. It really changed the way I view forgiveness and personal growth.

  • @evgeniya_elle
    @evgeniya_elle ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Ted Lasso is the most therapeutic show I've ever watched. It's like a cosy blanket. It's so kind!💔 I'm so glad you guys made an exception for it!

  • @wholesomecorephilosophy4198
    @wholesomecorephilosophy4198 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    When I was struggling with suicidal thoughts and desires, I went of Reddit to talk about it in the r/suicidal and I ended up just commenting on others posts, and it touched me a lot to not be alone, it helped that day. It helped a lot.

  • @kvoltti
    @kvoltti ปีที่แล้ว +105

    This show and The Good Place have the same idea that people can be better if you give them positive emotional support.

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +44

      We LOVE The Good Place!! Hilarious, meaningful, and so much heart.

    • @livinggreen7630
      @livinggreen7630 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Hey Cinema Therapy will you guys review The Good Place

    • @samanthasmith3544
      @samanthasmith3544 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I second the motion for The Good Place. Please. ❤

  • @heartmadefullmetal4297
    @heartmadefullmetal4297 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I was having an existential crisis both personally and professionally. A friend recommended watching Ted Lasso which turned out to be what I needed and also shook me to my core. After finishing the series, I searched the internet looking for something that appreciated the gravity of this experience and was very lucky to find your channel. Thank you for your wise words and analysis. It made the Ted Lasso experience even more meaningful and powerful. You also helped me understand why the show resonated so much with me and I will use this breakthrough going forward. Long live the Ted Lasso effect.

  • @kryptofreak4059
    @kryptofreak4059 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    I have never been so excited for a video on this channel. Ted Lasso was such an incredible show, and just so important to everyone that’s taken the time to watch it

    • @jamiereid7428
      @jamiereid7428 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too. If there was a single wish list item for them to cover, it was this.

  • @tressasmith
    @tressasmith ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I screamed with excitement when this popped up. This has become my favorite show of all time. I’ve told people without anxiety that this show almost perfectly portrays how my panic and anxiety feel (outside and in).
    (Also, crying with Alan less than 2 min in.)

  • @officialblimp
    @officialblimp ปีที่แล้ว +140

    YESS FINALLY! Ted Lasso is such a gem. The show is so funny and yet so real in the problems it tackles, and all the characters are so relatable at times. I wish I could rewatch it for the first time again.

  • @alexpleith
    @alexpleith ปีที่แล้ว +31

    My favorite thing about Roy singing is that Brettt Goldstein has said in an interview that it wasn't an in-character choice, he's just incapable as Brett of not singing along when Hannah is singing. I think it's what helped lead to all the later revelations (e.g., Sound of Music).

  • @Kal93
    @Kal93 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I love the quote "the truth will set you free, but first it's gonna piss you off." Is AWESOME

  • @DragonStar524
    @DragonStar524 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    And this is why I loved the ending of the show. He believes in people, and for others, even Nate, he still believed in him before he came back.

  • @MysterySemicolon
    @MysterySemicolon ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I'm right there with you guys on the fact that Ted is a healthy, anti-macho mentor who truly cares about everyone around him, but he's far from perfect. That's the most compelling thing about the show. How he and the people around him responds to that imperfection.

  • @nonbinary_pirate
    @nonbinary_pirate ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Let me just say, I was REALLY hoping y’all would do a video on Ted Lasso and when I saw this video I almost screamed. It’s right up y’all’s alley and it’s SO good. I knew y’all mostly did movies but this show definitely deserves to be covered by you two! Also if you’ve never watched it before DO IT. It’s a wonderful show, it genuinely made me want to be a better person. I love it

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +15

      We feel the same as you about Ted Lasso! Thanks for watching!

  • @nellieduncan8448
    @nellieduncan8448 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I truly think there is a trifecta of shows that MAKES someone a better person. Ted Lasso, Avatar the last Air bender, and The Good Place

  • @ethanphall
    @ethanphall ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Guys, your show (in addition to Ted Lasso) has got to be the best content out there today. I love watching you so much - thank you for sharing yourselves in this medium.

  • @francesco4312
    @francesco4312 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    God, the scene of Ted letting Michelle go keeps on breaking my heart every single time. I first started watching Ted Lasso in April, I think. It was about 2 months after my girlfriend of many years told me pretty much the exact thing Michelle told Ted and we broke up shortly after. She truly was everything to me and not for one second, I knew her did I ever doubt she was the right one for me, the person I wanted to spend the rest of my life with. Unfortunately I just wasn't that for her and she had to move on. It truly broke me, I've been suffering from depression and suicidal thoughts basically since I could form a conscious thought and the years I spent with her were the first time I actually felt happy. Since the breakup I've been feeling shittier than ever before. I've started self mutilating again, abusing substances and there probably wasn't a day in the months after where I didn't think about suicide at least once.
    What I'm trying to get to, however is the fact that for the first time in my life I've had the courage to ask for help. Not only from my friends and family but I've also scheduled an appointment with a therapist for early August and I genuinely do not think I would have been able to do that, if it hadn't been for you guys. And for that I truly truly want to thank you. Throughout the last 2 years or so you've normalized therapy for me, a thing I had demonized for myself in a dark time of my life in which I didn't think I was deserving of any help.
    Having said that I'm still scared shitless, so wish me all the best.
    Thank you Cinema Therapy

  • @amatornoctis9089
    @amatornoctis9089 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    "Be curious, not judgemental" was such a powerful sentence for me. Instantly became my mantra and it has been ever since. Season 1 is truly great.

  • @bretts1646
    @bretts1646 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I really felt what Alan said. This show showed up when a lot of people needed something positive to hang on to.

  • @Vesperitis
    @Vesperitis ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Some people might have felt that the third season was rough, but I saw it as all the people that Ted had inspired in his time in the club paying it forward and beyond. Instead of romantic love and characters getting together, we saw a lot more platonic love, of people (like Roy and Jamie) becoming best friends, or affirming their friendships into something stronger (like Colin and Isaac).

    • @scubasteve2189
      @scubasteve2189 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I actually found season 2 to be pretty terrible, and season 3 was better by comparison. Still not as good as 1, though. The first season was a nearly perfect season of television.

  • @serpent6827
    @serpent6827 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    We need more shows like this in today's world and I am so glad that you guys are analyzing it. It's definitely one of the greatest, and I wish that it wasn't over but they ended it so well.

  • @thebishopofme
    @thebishopofme 24 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    At 7:00 as someone who has suffered from debilitating panic attacks, i had to pause and cry for nearly an hour seeing how accurate his anxiety attack is. It was this episode I knew I was hooked.

  • @caifox3633
    @caifox3633 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE do a session on Roy Kent!!!!
    He’s such an amazing character and I think his growth (especially in the final season) goes a little unnoticed. Would love to hear your guys’ thoughts.

  • @story-powerpodcastbylucind4149
    @story-powerpodcastbylucind4149 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    It’s so nice to find two guys who celebrate omega males and who are willing to cry on camera. My dad was willing to cry at a good movie and even in public. It’s also a relief to find people who use movies as therapy. I’ve done that almost my whole life. I love Ted Lasso too. Thanks for both videos.

  • @harmonicajay91
    @harmonicajay91 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is a show that makes me happy to be alive. Also, I've been hearing Jason Sudeikis speak with that accent for 3 years and whenever I see a clip of him on 30 Rock I think "Oh, right. That's his real voice. Not the Ted voice."

  • @dorariggs3473
    @dorariggs3473 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Each character needs their own episode! ❤ This show is truly a work of art 🌈

  • @negin5172
    @negin5172 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I love rebbeca & ted relationship, when I first saw the show I thought like other shows it's gonna be seggsy relation between them but it was pure friendship and respect 😌 more of these relations please

  • @juangwillems
    @juangwillems ปีที่แล้ว +70

    Man... Ted fricking Lasso... This show has been so, SO powerful throughout the 3 seasons. I love all the insight you guys bring to the table, all the vulnerability you show. It truly is one of the best (if not THE best) shows out there. I love that you dedicated the time to go through this beautiful show. Lots, LOTS and LOTS of love to everyone on the team

  • @samuelrobles3737
    @samuelrobles3737 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Loved the portrayal of his panic attack with him fleeing from the area. Isolating himself when in fact he needs people to bring him back to reality. Its such a hard concept to understand for those who don't have panic attacks and it was illustrated beautifully. To be held to be talked to even when they can't hear you is the most powerful comforting thing you can give to someone with a panic disorder

  • @anjelica948
    @anjelica948 27 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Having a difficult day today, tons of anxiety, and I love being able to come back to the Ted Lasso episodes specifically. It really makes me feel like I can handle what’s going on in my life and that I’m not alone.

  • @karrihart1
    @karrihart1 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Every character on this show could have their own video. The writing is that brilliant.

  • @JorgeGenaro.
    @JorgeGenaro. 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    This show made me cry from joy and not from sadness. It caught me off guard, so refreshing. Genuine kindness and tough love was awesomely executed here. Never felt a cast of characters be so relatable.

  • @princesskaguya2000
    @princesskaguya2000 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This show was so wholesome! I absolutely fell in love with how they introduced the characters using familiar (tired) tropes and then steadily gave them all facets and dimensions that made them realistic human beings with (mostly) solid moral compasses and empathy. Not to mnetion, chicks being friends outside of their dating lives, men being friends outside of work and Higgins being married for decades and still deeply and openly in love with his wife. Just incredible.

  • @KyraHogue
    @KyraHogue ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm one minute in. I've heard the name Ted Lasso and didn't think much of it. The first minute of this video told me to go watch it. I'll be back after i watch the show.

  • @TheKrispyfort
    @TheKrispyfort ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "It's okay, you're just having a panic attack"
    Making such an experience seem so every day and survivable and not something to be made into a reason to be considered a failure

  • @PassiveAgressive319
    @PassiveAgressive319 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    God I love this show so much. The ‘be curious not judgemental’ scene is my absolute favourite and has become my mantra

  • @planetdivide9727
    @planetdivide9727 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This show unironically made me build the courage to make some very big, very scary life changes. I can't think of a single other piece of fiction that I have connected with more. I don't even like sports and this show changed my life. Was really hoping you guys would do a video on it, so absolutely glad you did.

    • @NyanNinja2007-px2zi
      @NyanNinja2007-px2zi 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I know i’m nine months late but i hope everything is working out

  • @blakehall5144
    @blakehall5144 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I was not ready to hear Mumford and Sons "Forever" in the background while she is talking to him about divorce. I almost started to cry on the spot.

  • @rachelreiser8308
    @rachelreiser8308 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I SCREAMED when I saw this and yelled to my kids “Cinema Therapy did Ted Lasso” and my youngest said “wow, your two favorite things”. Yep!!!

  • @jerbeng2394
    @jerbeng2394 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Not enough of my circle have Apple+, so I only had a handful of people to talk to about Ted Lasso. A friend I hadn't seen in years, called this show "A warm hug." She would NOT watch the last 2 episodes. I watched the series up to Season 3, episode 10, and also stopped. Then I watched the whole series again, with my wife. I caught SO MANY THINGS on my second viewing. I finally watched the final episode, and my wife fell asleep. I watched the final episode a 2nd time, and it just got better.
    I'll be watching the series again for a 3rd time to watch with my kids. I held off watching this episode, until I finished it.
    THANK YOU FOR DOING THIS EPISODE! It is one of the most underrated shows I've ever seen.

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      So glad you enjoyed it! Don't forget to check out part 2 (linked in the video description). Thanks for watching! :)

    • @jerbeng2394
      @jerbeng2394 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@CinemaTherapyShow I did, and I #criedwithAlan. Fantastic work, as always!

  • @fireironthesecond2909
    @fireironthesecond2909 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    A hero.
    If any word defines Ted Lasso that’s it.

  • @Shindai
    @Shindai 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've been obsessed with this show since I saw it because of this video. I just wanted to swing by and watch it again and share something. A lady at my tai chi class died Tuesday. My class is Thursday. The main instructor wasn't sure whether to cancel for the week to give people time to grieve, but I pushed to go ahead with it because I think it's what Louise would have wanted. She'd been coming for a few months to help her pain, and she enjoyed it. She wouldn't want us to miss out.
    The main instructor wasn't entirely sure about it. For both of us, it's the first time we've had a student die. but I told her there's something worse than being sad, and that's being alone and being sad. Ain't nobody in this room alone. I think that made her feel a lot more like we were doing the right thing to meet up. I said even if we don't do any tai chi, we should be together right now. And we were.
    We lit a candle next to a photo of Louise, and we had a really nice session that was part tai chi, part funeral. We sat in a circle, we talked about it, we remembered her. I don't think any of that would have happened the way it did had I not seen Ted Lasso and taken the message to heart that it's better to be sad with your team. A lot of the show hits home on a lot of things, but that's my personal tie to it now, that's my joining with it. God I love this show so much

  • @kayceedudley8374
    @kayceedudley8374 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Guys, I genuinely feel like it's Christmas morning as the opening montage is playing. Ted Lasso and Cinema Therapy is finally here!

  • @ryutak777
    @ryutak777 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    The part about letting go of hate is so good. I remember when I first let go of my hate for a person and tried to understand her. I felt lighter, free, and at peace. Hate puts you down and keeps you there.

  • @TheToxicDreamland
    @TheToxicDreamland ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What I love about Ted Lasso is that it shows that kindness isn't weakness, and that vulnerability is okay. It's so good.

  • @omgmacy
    @omgmacy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This show saved my life truly, binged all 3 seasons in a week in the darkest time of my life last month so when Alan cried about it and said it saved him I started sobbing because I feel this so much, thank you Ted Lasso ❤❤❤

  • @EzaleaGraves
    @EzaleaGraves 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    "Be curious, not judgemental"
    This scene is the one that made me realize why my parents seem so different than they were when I was younger. Somewhere along the line they stopped being curious and started being judgemental. It broke me a little bit too realize that, but it helped me move forward

  • @kazza6078
    @kazza6078 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I know we haven't seen it yet but I already need more content on the part with Ted and his mom. I have so much love for my parents and they did great, but there's still so much I wish they were more accountable for. They should win an Emmy just for the thank you/f you bit alone

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That is such a great scene! We definitely have lots to say about Ted and his mom in our part 2 episode.

    • @kazza6078
      @kazza6078 ปีที่แล้ว

      @CinemaTherapyShow I need like 6 hours of it though!! 💕

  • @imaginarysea
    @imaginarysea ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ted Lasso Saved My Life needs to be a tee shirt.
    Because it really did. This show pulled me through the darkest days of the past few years and made me look at my life and make choices to be positive.
    I have watched every episode many MANY times and know that I will keep watching it for years to come.

  • @reese9290
    @reese9290 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    One of the few shows out there that just makes you want to be a better person. So glad you're making another exception to your rule, Cinema Therapy! 🤗

  • @teamaang7915
    @teamaang7915 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I'm so glad you've done this I was just watching someone do an analysis on this as positive masculinity done right! Such a good show for so many reasons 😍😇🥰

  • @samstromberg5593
    @samstromberg5593 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    "It's possible for your parents to have done the best that they knew how to do AND for their approach to have really messed you up or caused you legitimate pain"
    That hit me so damn hard
    My parents were never physically abusive, and everyone around me thought they were really great people and knew that they did things for me out of a place of love, so I always felt guilty when I was younger (I'm talking until about a year ago - I just turned 18 last week) about hating or fearing them. I felt like I didn't really deserve to claim abuse because there were no marks on my body. And don't get me wrong - physical abuse is much worse than what happened to me. But they did really screw me up
    Being told things like "You make excuses - that's just what you do. It is your fault" or "You refuse to take responsibility for your actions" DIRECTLY after taking responsibility for my actions wasn't great. Much much worse was when I was told that I wasn't "worthy of love" or that I was an "ungrateful brat" because I felt bad despite someone in the world having a worse situation than mine. One of the reasons I love this show (Cinema Therapy, not Ted Lasso) so much is because my Internet Dads are so much better parents to me than my biological and legal guardians were.
    This episode was amazing
    Thanks, Internet Dads

  • @frankm.2850
    @frankm.2850 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ted is the kind of man I wish I could be. I try to be like that, but I’ve got a pretty sizable pessimist/misanthrope streak alongside the optimism, that Lasso doesn’t seem to deal with.

  • @djantisocial6827
    @djantisocial6827 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I did not expect to like the show as much as I did, let alone love it. It's so good at making me feel, and it portrays humanity in all it's light and faults

  • @caliburn9140
    @caliburn9140 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This show is so amazing! My favorite line is "All people are different people." Such a powerful line and a great philosophy in life.

  • @humblesparrow
    @humblesparrow ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Another exception you might make is "Undone" with Rosa Salazar and Bob Odenkirk. There's a lot to unpack there - schizophrenia, identity, generational trauma. It's only two seasons, and the rotoscoping effects are cool. You absolutely must watch until the last episode in order to get the full effect. Don't quit early!

  • @celestepastore1876
    @celestepastore1876 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Ted and Michelle's divorce was something I watched unfold on the heels of my own divorce, and it was the first time I felt like maybe more divorces were like my own than I thought. Granted, I didn't have kids with my ex-husband, so when we split we had nothing to really tie us together, but we didn't end the relationship hating each other. He let me go so that we could both be happy, and so I could grow into the person I'm meant to be and have the life I want to live. And looking back on it, I think I'll always be grateful to him for that.

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  17 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Jono here. Very similar situation to yours. Thank you for sharing this.

  • @Esterferreiradecastro
    @Esterferreiradecastro ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Its honestly amazing how many tropes they were able to completely destroy and turn it into something so much greater
    Everytime I thought i was predicting some drama situation would happen and it didn’t just felt so good
    Not to mention the many lessons in simply existing as a decent human being they give without making it “hallmark type shit” it’s incredible

  • @thedunelady
    @thedunelady ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That bit at the end about how you realize your parents did the best they could but could still mess you up. It's so true. You can be angry with them and blame them but it's not completely their fault because they in turn were raised by parents who did the best they could and messed them up. And so it goes. That's not easy to sit with.

    • @anjelica948
      @anjelica948 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Honestly, it really isn’t easy to sit with.
      My dad is a horrible person- absolutely atrocious and devoid of empathy and compassion. In large part bc of how he was raised. His dad was abusive, and his mother felt guilty and couldn’t really protect him- so she allowed him to do Anything he wanted, and never disciplined him.
      Then he in turn was cruel towards me. I cut off contact with him bc he was physically violent and it was impossible to maintain loving or affectionate feelings towards him without feeling rage and intense pain at every betrayal.
      My mom was also abused by her parents- but mostly through neglect rather than active harm. But her parenting methods were also abusive and extremely toxic. But with her, I am able to see “she did the best she could, and still really messed up.”
      It’s utter shit- but it’s just reality, and at a certain point you have to make your peace with it. Bc if you don’t, you’ll never move past it.

  • @tywiggs7965
    @tywiggs7965 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Salute to you guys I’m a black man in his 20’s from small poe town you guys are reacting audiences you’d never expect love the content can’t get enough fr you helped me alot thanks guys! 💪 y’all should do a episode on the movie Fences with Denzel

  • @mintygirrl3592
    @mintygirrl3592 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My Dad (who is watches your videos with me) and I watched this show and series when it came out, would wait patiently for each new episode. We loved Ted so much as a character, and loved the series. My Dad personally loved Roy Kent, where Ted reminded me so much of my Mom, who passed away recently. The show is very special to us, and we’re glad it’s just as special to you. We all need a Ted in our lives, and I’m happy I had mine. I hope that one day I can be someone else’s. ❤

  • @Annie_Warbucks71
    @Annie_Warbucks71 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    OMG, OMG, OMG!!!! I was so hoping you would cover Ted Lasso! This show was amazing. Every single character was endearing (except Rupert). I can to totally relate to Alan when he says this show saved him, because it did me too. After I watched the whole series, I binged it with my son. We both love it so much and we realized we needed therapy! 😂 We are starting next week. 💖

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congrats on taking that step! Thanks for watching!

  • @abbalou7717
    @abbalou7717 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I think like any timeless and heart-warming piece of media the driving force of Ted lasso is relationships and they're shown in such a beautiful, human way that it's a masterpiece to watch! I agree it's healing because it's always grounded in healing and connection! I love it, it's an amazing show!

  • @Vengfoul
    @Vengfoul ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Haven't even watched the vid yet, just -YESS! Been requesting ya'll to do Ted Lasso since season 1, I know you were waiting for all 3 seasons to finish. As I said before, this channel is the Ted Lasso of TH-cam 😉 Keep it up gentlemen.

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +13

      That's the highest honor. Thank you! 🥹

    • @Adirondaque
      @Adirondaque ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This channel is the reason why I heard about Ted Lasso and gave it ago, since they talked of a snippet about toxic positivity in a vid.
      *bawls*

    • @snpnme2
      @snpnme2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​I heard from it by way of @Popcorn Culture and @Super Carlin Bros. SUCH a great show and I'm so happy I got to watch it!

    • @lyricamare6073
      @lyricamare6073 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It's such a fun show

    • @RyanBischoffPercussion
      @RyanBischoffPercussion ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@snpnme2 love that there are more people out there that watch both of these channels. :)

  • @frankm.2850
    @frankm.2850 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The darts game is hands down one of my favorite scenes in the entire show. Tells you so much about Ted.

  • @jolfi11
    @jolfi11 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had a customer tell me about this show a couple of weeks ago. He told me it was the most wholesome and best written show he had ever seen. He sold me on it already but after this video I will absolutely watch it.
    If you ever do more tv shows... Could you take on "This is us" ? I know it would be a huge project. But it's one of the best shows that exist with a lot to cover /unpack.

  • @Jim73
    @Jim73 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When I first heard about and watched like 1.5 episodes of this show, I was unimpressed. The comedy I was looking for seemed *barely* there. Then I watched this video and part 2, and I was all "what's with this extreme emotionality?" Then another source talked about this show, and I figured I should give it another shot AND I AM SO GLAD THAT I DID. Thanks for the heads up. It really does have some very beautiful emotional aspects. Yes, it made me kind of low-intensity cry at the beauty many times.

  • @justingarrett2239
    @justingarrett2239 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What a coincidence!! I just started this series 2 days ago!!!

  • @creatinjustin
    @creatinjustin 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hands down my favorite show of all time

  • @TimeAngelxx
    @TimeAngelxx ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'd love to see more Ted Lasso with focus on the side characters! Everyone is so well fleshed out. And I have a lot of feelings about Roy Kent.

  • @TRPLD
    @TRPLD ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have no idea how I have awaited your take on Ted Lasso. It is a warm blanket on a cold night, a cup of hot tea in front of the fire on a winter night or an embrace from a loved one!

  • @allinaxford
    @allinaxford ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The formula for A the World Turns and its sister program was the power couple, a highly functional, near perfect couple, and the drama was the chaos around them. It made the show interesting, and at the same time meant that a good role model was always present. Something that came to mind watching this.

  • @Linnyfish8
    @Linnyfish8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My therapist recommended Ted Lasso to me as I was dealing with a toxic work environment and a new ADHD diagnosis during COVID on top of Generalized Anxiety. It did so, so, so, so much more for me than I think I can ever repay her for. The demonstration of anxiety is something I've used with friends and family to demonstrate what it can feel like and the awareness it shows to highlight mental health is just...chef's kiss. By far has become my favorite TV Show ever. Thank you for highlighting it and for the work you both do to that end as well.

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing. We're so glad you enjoyed the episode. Thanks for watching!

  • @PrimRooks
    @PrimRooks ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Yessss, we’re here!! So ready for a whole Ted Lasso saga!

  • @jonhansen1741
    @jonhansen1741 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In the first 5 minutes, you had me subscribed to you and while I have stopped at 5 minutes is that Im going to go watch Ted Lasso then come back to watch this. I've only ever seen clips of the joy and funny moments online from Ted Lasso so I made assumption of it not being the show for me. Because of the first 5 minutes, I now know that Ted Lasso is for me and ill be back

  • @RodneshaGreen
    @RodneshaGreen ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Y’all just want me to cry today don’t you… 😭😭😭😭
    That aside - this great show has so many wonderful journeys y’all could break down. I LOVE Rebecca’s journey, but Roy, Jamie, Nathan’s would also be great to breakdown as well. Honestly one of the thing I love most about this show is that small or large - no one exited this series the same way they entered. Every character got an arc and a journey - even Rupert! Well except maybe Shandy - I don’t think she changed much. I’m gonna miss this series. ❤
    Can’t wait for part 2!

  • @batmanvsjoker7725
    @batmanvsjoker7725 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The character development in this show is astounding. I remember vividly hating on Jamie during most of season 1. Then during season 2 and 3, he went from tolerable to one of my favorites.

    • @CinemaTherapyShow
      @CinemaTherapyShow  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! The show does a great job of making us love the characters we once hated!