It IS mindboggling, isn't it? It happens though ... some people's lives are truly tragic 😢 The phrase "I would never ..." is a standard response - from people who haven't been in that situation. It's okay. I used to say it too - until I saw things that made me realise no-one can truly say how they'd behave when faced with trauma. Some people just need more of a hand than others, s'all 🙃
The pain in the daughter’s face 😢 the mom reaction it’s like “whatever, just pay me “ I understand she has to pay what she owns, but the mom’s indifference 😭
when the sister said "they just have different personalities." as if being put in foster care was just a day trip! 🙃 I guess it's easy to downplay when she's the daughter that was kept at home.
As someone who was also put into foster care at age 8, I can understand why there is an estranged relationship with her mother. I never lived with my mother again (29 yo), but she has helped me out as I live on my own. One thing I learned (after a long time) is that my mother's sins for putting me in foster care does NOT mean she owes me. Just means motherhood wasn't for her, and as much as I hated that, when I came into that realization, our relationship were able to have a healthy relationship.
In my culture and religion, kids don't owe parents anything and parents must take care of children. But children should step in to help and times when parents fall short. Such things can be very sad and I wish people made better decisions when it comes to having children in order to avoid ruining a potential child's life. I understand stuff happens (even rape), but with medical technology getting advanced, we can try our best to have children when we are absolutely prepared. I also hope our laws soon give us that liberty at least, if not, free abortion access.
@@zainabahmed6335 while my mother was not perfect, I'm grateful she gave me a chance and didn't abort me. I do agree though we need to be better at making decisions to prepare us (as much as possible) to take care of our children.
@@lc5786 I am definitely sure your mother was a good mom and did the best she did to take care of you and protect you. I still believe women who give up their children to foster care or adoption are good mothers because instead of neglecting them, they are trying to let them have an opportunity to a better life, something which they can't provide for some Time. I don't believe in abortion unless absolutely necessary. Today, laws in America are such that they dont even law that in few states.
@@zainabahmed6335 I believe my mother did what she felt was best to give me ans my younger brother a better life. She wasn't a good mother in terms of building a relationship, teaching us life lessons, or even taking us to a doctors appointment. But she did but our best interest ahead of hers, and as a parent myself, that's probably our number 1 job.
A parents job is to teach life lessons. That job is never over. If you dont you set your child up for a rude awakening. The world doesnt love you and wont care about your excuses.
How sad for the daughter to be placed into foster care at all, but especially at an age that the child is old enough to realize the role of a parent and it seems like she never came back for her, but had another daughter that she probably did take care of.
@@assyrianprincess3 sometimes you have no choice but to put your pride aside, life isnt as simple, sometimes you would go to your lowest to get the help you need, it doesnt matter at what cost, desperation is a real thing and it can happen to anyone even you
Sweetheart your mother did wrong by putting you in foster care but, she doesn't owe you. The way your Mother is rolling her eyes shows that she doesn't love you. I would pay her back and move on.
Lady, she brought this girl into this world, 🌍 as a mother she neglected her responsibility to raise her child, feed, clothe her & give her the love support & care for her child. She's never their for her. Now she loan her the money that she expect her to pay her back. My opinion only, as a mother I should jus have her keep the money in good heart & think I wasn't their for my child for so long. Money doesn't buy love. Heart does! & That what she should think & do before she sued her.
I don't get how people say the mother doesn't owe her cause she put her in Foster care. If you abandon your 8 year old you owe them for life. You were that child's word, safety, home and FAMILY. Yes you owe your children a good loving life. If you don't give them that the least you could do is help them out financially
You have your daughter up to age 8. Of course she has emotional scares. Of course she feels that her mother would help her out without this happening over such a small amount. This would be the end of my relationship with her. A loan is a loan but this is a whole another story that runs deeper then just a loan.
I'm imagining packing her stuff, getting her ready, and loading her into the car to go to Foster Care and I feel sick to my stomach. What a horrible woman.
Wow, she comes back to the states to sue her own daughter AND she gave her up when she was 8? Helping her with a damn car was the LEAST she could do for her OWN daughter. What a witch. My goodness gracious. 😒
As a mother knowing that your child is still struggling and you still want to take her to court to get your money back. That doesent sound like a mom to me.
@@loralubimaia2783 But she said she feels like she doesn’t owe her mom and claims it wasn’t a loan. But she clearly agreed to accept the money as a loan. Her mom doesn’t seem like mom of the year but the daughter appears to be deceptive.
@@8213apice I agree that the 8 year old child didn't agree to be born. But we don't know the circumference that caused the mother to make that decision. Not everyone has friends or family that they can count on. It's an extreme scenario but what if the mother was going through a stressful period where she thought that she might harm her child or herself physically. What would you rather her do? All I'm saying is that there can be reasons that a parent might give up their child that I can understand. I'm not saying this is the case here.
Well I have a foster brother who was abandoned at 8 by his mom and it was because she was on drugs and had mental health issues which she refused to seek help for... so there are 2 reasons...
@@NicoleKeith-Smith no , we actually went out for lunch that I paid for last week! U cornball bi***😂 and If she did , she wouldn’t be there to loan me anything! Get “cute” with ur mammy, not me!
A loan is a loan and I believe that it should be returned but the fact that the mother sued her daughter who she put in foster care when she was 8 years old is another level! What a shame! This shouldn't have gone to court.
What’s the obligation of the father? You people always blame the mother without saying one word about the deadbeat dad. If the mother thought for whatever reason that she couldn’t properly raise the daughter or that she would cause her irreparable harm, it was better to place her in foster care. Let the dad come to get her.
Yeah, the father should be blamed too for what happened to their child. I agree with you on that one. But my point is, should you be suing your daughter in TV court for not paying her loan to you? Does it really have to come to that? I mean, come on! Shaming your daughter on national TV for being unable to pay her loan to you as her biological mother? Really? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I don't think she even for a second chose JJ to "shame" her. That child showed no shame Anyways. It was time for her to get attention, no shame. They chose there because they get paid to go there. 🤷 I doubt there's Any other reason than that. @@makeelubrido8920
She never intended on paying her mom back at all. She felt like her mom should just give her the money without expecting a payback, because her mom knew she was having life/financial difficulties. Plus, if her mom is doing other things for family/people for free,... Then her mom should do favors for her for free as well.
There are many many things in life that can get messy. I myself wish I had the drive to sue my mother for several things, mostly for the horrible abuse she gave and the multitude of lies about my father
"Different personalities" are you kidding me! Me and my big brother were two totally different people personality wise, that has nothing to do with parents loving and providing for *all* their children
I can tell she thinks her mother owes her for giving her up but here's the thing... I personally feel that if you have an issue with someone, whether it be a parent, a friend, a family member, don't take money from them. If you don't like someone and you want nothing to do with them but you think they OWE you something emotionally or mentally or even spiritually, don't then turn around and try to take it financially but subsequently tell them you're willing to pay them back. If you truly felt like this is how they were going to pay you back then you would tell them straight up you're giving me this money because I feel like you owe it to me. You don't put it in writing that you're going to pay them back. That just makes no sense. Now they can sue you for what you owe them and then you're out money and your mind. And in the end they don't give AF at all about you still.
Could this mother be any more callus to her daughter? I wouldn't pay her back. That mother is SELFISH. Not to mention, she threw her daughter in foster care, no telling the amount of trauma she's went through
Dead beat mom put her daughter in foster care and now is sueing her. SHAME. Flying around from country to country but can't help her own child. Worth less
Im a daddy's girl and I currently owe him $4,675,754.02😂 for all of the "Daddy, can I borrow...?" requests all through my life. He knew when I asked that he'd never see it again lol. It's the reality of parenting and I know that now that I have 4 teenagers myself. They have a strained relationship and that's why they're in court. I hope they can work it out.
From a stale case to major family hurt and unresolved issues. This family needs therapy I can see the pain in the defendants eyes. The way the mother described the contract sounded like a business operation.
I'm imagining packing my daughter's things, loading her stuff in the car, telling her to hop in all knowing I'm taking her to foster care to abandon her. I feel sick to my stomach thinking about it. What a horrible human being.
A good mother ? Let me guess you think your a good mother cause you give your kids everything ? How about teaching them that life isn't like that you don't get what you want every time and in this case she can't just get money and not pay it??
Interesting to see how confident and forcefull JJ is on topics she ends up being wrong about (their is a difference between money being sent to you and when you can actually use it).
@@sarahjane4719 The contact was discussed after her mother sent the money. That's not appropriate. The contract should have been discussed before she sent it
So to address JJ's question about mother taking 2 years before suing... JJ clearly does not understand that despite citizenship status... when cost of tickets is $1200 to fly to Europe.... it is $1200 to fly to USA + hotel + car rental + whatever expenses + food + legal fees +++++++++. No rational human being would be sitting in Denmark or wherever wanting to hop on a plane over $3000 some loan when cost of flying itself is 1/3 of the loan amount. Unfortunately that is often a significant oversight on behalf of JJ to understand that "normal people" consider $1000 A LOT of money.
There is no pain in the daughter’s face. She is a hustler. Also, a Parent she never Parent out of guilt because it would exacerbate the situation. Meaning it could feed into, every time she wants something, you placed me in foster care at 8 years old, so you owe me for 30 or more years. The mom made a good or bad decision at that time, but should not pay for it for rest of life.
I understand a loan is a loan but I think the daughter is hurt about being put in foster care and when the mum kept asking for the money bk it probably hurt her knowing that her mother never gave her much and the money could have been a gift. It's a sensitive situation
That are the way kids are like this day... when they are on hardship they asked for help to their parents for some financial support and tell that they will pay them back... but that's it and you don't expect any payment from them. If you are a parent don't expect payment at all when your kid beg you some money.
So a grown woman - felt her mother is just rich enough to bail her out. Never lend $ to family but trust it has to happen. I love judge judy so most times i feel she is clear. But sometimes it is sad bc once you have been in these situations it becomes manipulative on the defendant and plaintiff side. Her job is to shift through that. Yes i can agree it is a stale argument… but even at my age i have learned from my parents to stand on my own two feet. They have assisted me. I have NEVER dreamed abt going on national TV to prove why they don’t deserve payback. And im not from money. I think it is just 100% sad that if you feel comfortable enough to ask for help you should feel comfortable reciprocating the support. Just sad her daughter felt that no I don’t owe her. Like girl… you owe your mom bare minimum which means to pay back.
People in the comments feel the daughter is right. Listen when you have nothing to do with a person you don’t allow them to help you. My mom and I have a horrible relationship. I wouldn’t dare accept a dime from her idc how bad I’m struggling. A loan is a loan you borrow money pay people back it’s that simple. No matter what kind of family you are
What it seems like is that you were a horrible mother and wanted to pay and help her after giving her up, than trying to be mother of the year… Than changed your mind!! WOMEN LIKE THIS, PLEASE DONT REPRODUCE!
Your statement is one dimensional, there can be more to the story of her mother leaving her in foster care. If she didn't cared, she wouldn't tried to renew relation and help her. If it was about the money, she would have filled the claim? sooner. I think that mother tried to help her, but also not be used, because she could not tell how much her daughter would change after that time they were seperated. If i were in her daughter possition i would make payments at slow rate, so maybe after one year it would be paid off, and the whole situation would not turn into a court, especialy if my mother said to me, that i dont have to return money after one month, but i can make small payments towards it. I think plaintiff should win this case. Defendand was trying to use her, and turn whole loan into a "gift" which in this case wasn't.
She owes her mother nothing. Her mom abandon her and put her in Foster Care she owes her everything. F the mother. I swear yall give deadbeats a pass like crazy.
Bygone be bygones Nonsince i say the mother didnt get her daughters car reposessed so thats just a true but a lame and poor excuse to Not wanting to pay the mother back . Just sayn ✌️😂
The thing is….if the show pays the judgment then why is the defendant fighting her on the money that seems it was clearly “loaned “. Is this all part of the script? Do they have to act like they are opposed to the plaintiff wanting her money. The defendant claims she doesn’t like persons knowing her business but here she is spilling it all for the world to see… Something is definitely a miss for me with these type of shows🤔
The show pays the judgement to the plaintiff and the defendant becomes indebted to the show. It’s standard and apart of the show agreement/adjudications.
I got A whole lot of "feel bad for me", in this case. I'm a single mom. I don't make ends meet. I don't even own a car nor have ever. I skip meals for the littles. Ect. My childhood was horrendous. I was abused in every way. I get it. But, using that to try and beat a civil case is crazy. If you wanted nothing to do with her, don't take their money. If you were trying to have a relationship with her, you already took the srong route.
It does matter because if I loan you money but I don’t tell you that it’s a loan… but I give it to you and a company puts a hold on the money BUT during that hold I say it’s a loan … how doesn’t that matter ?
You can see the disdain in the mother and the sister. How disgusting. I feel sorry for the defendant having to be related to them.
I can’t imagine raising my child until they’re 8 yrs old and then putting them in foster care
That’s you
Agree I could never I love them so much❤
Mother is a narcissist with an evil spirit.
It IS mindboggling, isn't it? It happens though ... some people's lives are truly tragic 😢
The phrase "I would never ..." is a standard response - from people who haven't been in that situation. It's okay. I used to say it too - until I saw things that made me realise no-one can truly say how they'd behave when faced with trauma. Some people just need more of a hand than others, s'all 🙃
It happened to me
The pain in the daughter’s face 😢 the mom reaction it’s like “whatever, just pay me “ I understand she has to pay what she owns, but the mom’s indifference 😭
Well said. Absolutely heartbreaking.
Her mom owes her that money . That’s the least she can do . Her mom is trash .
when the sister said "they just have different personalities." as if being put in foster care was just a day trip! 🙃 I guess it's easy to downplay when she's the daughter that was kept at home.
She's the daughter that gets gifts not loans. She talks to much,she'll get cut off.
I mean you can clearly see the favoritism, her mother flew into the country from Denmark for a 8th grade graduation 😂
As someone who was also put into foster care at age 8, I can understand why there is an estranged relationship with her mother. I never lived with my mother again (29 yo), but she has helped me out as I live on my own.
One thing I learned (after a long time) is that my mother's sins for putting me in foster care does NOT mean she owes me. Just means motherhood wasn't for her, and as much as I hated that, when I came into that realization, our relationship were able to have a healthy relationship.
In my culture and religion, kids don't owe parents anything and parents must take care of children. But children should step in to help and times when parents fall short. Such things can be very sad and I wish people made better decisions when it comes to having children in order to avoid ruining a potential child's life. I understand stuff happens (even rape), but with medical technology getting advanced, we can try our best to have children when we are absolutely prepared. I also hope our laws soon give us that liberty at least, if not, free abortion access.
@@zainabahmed6335 while my mother was not perfect, I'm grateful she gave me a chance and didn't abort me. I do agree though we need to be better at making decisions to prepare us (as much as possible) to take care of our children.
@@lc5786 I am definitely sure your mother was a good mom and did the best she did to take care of you and protect you. I still believe women who give up their children to foster care or adoption are good mothers because instead of neglecting them, they are trying to let them have an opportunity to a better life, something which they can't provide for some Time. I don't believe in abortion unless absolutely necessary. Today, laws in America are such that they dont even law that in few states.
@@zainabahmed6335 I believe my mother did what she felt was best to give me ans my younger brother a better life. She wasn't a good mother in terms of building a relationship, teaching us life lessons, or even taking us to a doctors appointment. But she did but our best interest ahead of hers, and as a parent myself, that's probably our number 1 job.
@@lc5786 She didn’t have to abort you. She could’ve put you up for adoption right when you were born to a family that wanted to be parents
She thinks her mom is obligated to help her since she wasn't around when she was growing up. I feel for her, but a loan is a loan.
No she is obligated that’s her child.
stfu she is obligated
@@acarroll187 she’s not legally obligated anymore so a loan is a loan
Mom should help her daughter.
@@nancyhoward7005 but she’s not obligated to lend her a loan
I believe the mother, although I find horrible that she is suing her own daughter for money.
A parents job is to teach life lessons. That job is never over. If you dont you set your child up for a rude awakening. The world doesnt love you and wont care about your excuses.
@@queenbee3647 getting your child to court is too far.
@@queenbee3647 she placed her child in foster care 🤨 that’s more than enough of a rude awakening
@@emilia.aviation it isn’t too far in this case. She loaned money she didn’t have and expected it back but didn’t get any of it back
@@GGLee1010 ok but it’s your own child, not a stranger? Also, read the other replies. She took it way too far..
How sad for the daughter to be placed into foster care at all, but especially at an age that the child is old enough to realize the role of a parent and it seems like she never came back for her, but had another daughter that she probably did take care of.
One has nothing to do with the other stop making excuses to be a dead beat if you barrow money you have to pay it back 🤡
@@jaypeee97well if she’s a deadbeat, the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree
Yet one gave the other a decent amount of money. Idk about that tree@@PrincessZaire100
I’m always loaning my daughter money knowing that she can’t afford to pay me back jeez I wouldn’t sue her🙄
That’s you
@@teesev6231 exactly it’s not a loan in that case but a gift 😅
The daughter was trying to be slick..
Why don’t you just give it to her?
@@teesev6231 you must be the deadbeat mother in the video
If she truly wanted nothing to do with her mom then she should’ve never taken a dime from her.
It's not that simple
It seems youve never been desperate
@@jo781 Its called pride. If she TRULY wanted nothing to do with her mother then thats a hill she dies on
@@assyrianprincess3 sometimes you have no choice but to put your pride aside, life isnt as simple, sometimes you would go to your lowest to get the help you need, it doesnt matter at what cost, desperation is a real thing and it can happen to anyone even you
She needed it some people aren’t dumb enough to not take things they TRULY need regardless of where it came from this was hypocritical asf to say😂
The way Bird looked at those stack of papers he handed him😂😂😂😂😂
I laughed, too! 😂
It was so thick. 🤣
The plaintiff keep looking up and rolling her eyes 👀😆
The way she rolling her eyes shows how much she hates her child 😪
She doesn’t hate her though, what’re you talking about? lol
what are you talking about she wants her money back
Her daughter is a liar.
That’s pretty strong!!! You don’t know that………
I doubt that's the reason.... I roll my eyes like that too when I know my teenager is lying lol
I don’t think I could sue my daughter for repayment. I’d never loan her a dime again. She knew her mom expected that money back.
The sister is part of the problem “ different personalities “ 😂🙄
The sister sounded so stupid
if you owe,PAY what you owe. You arent entitled to not pay just because youre related. messy people
My point...even though my mom wouldn't do that to me but their relationship is different and clearly her mom wanted her money back
Every family is different. Some family live as a individual and some live as family orientated.
Sweetheart your mother did wrong by putting you in foster care but, she doesn't owe you. The way your Mother is rolling her eyes shows that she doesn't love you. I would pay her back and move on.
Yes she does. She owes her for not being a mother.
Lady, she brought this girl into this world, 🌍 as a mother she neglected her responsibility to raise her child, feed, clothe her & give her the love support & care for her child. She's never their for her. Now she loan her the money that she expect her to pay her back. My opinion only, as a mother I should jus have her keep the money in good heart & think I wasn't their for my child for so long. Money doesn't buy love. Heart does! & That what she should think & do before she sued her.
Be careful of telling a daughter that you don’t whether a mother loves her child. You are way out of line here
Sweetheart the daughter wouldn't pay regardless in JJ court. The show pays all judgments.
I don't get how people say the mother doesn't owe her cause she put her in Foster care. If you abandon your 8 year old you owe them for life. You were that child's word, safety, home and FAMILY. Yes you owe your children a good loving life. If you don't give them that the least you could do is help them out financially
Exactly!
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The Defendant is absolutely gorgeous.
You have your daughter up to age 8. Of course she has emotional scares. Of course she feels that her mother would help her out without this happening over such a small amount. This would be the end of my relationship with her. A loan is a loan but this is a whole another story that runs deeper then just a loan.
I just can't imagine taking the child I gave birth to , to court...
I'm imagining packing her stuff, getting her ready, and loading her into the car to go to Foster Care and I feel sick to my stomach. What a horrible woman.
Wow, she comes back to the states to sue her own daughter AND she gave her up when she was 8? Helping her with a damn car was the LEAST she could do for her OWN daughter. What a witch. My goodness gracious. 😒
As a mother knowing that your child is still struggling and you still want to take her to court to get your money back. That doesent sound like a mom to me.
Her mother gave her money she should paid her back , as simple as this.
Well if you wanted to have a good relationship with your mother not paying back the loan she gave you isn’t the way to go about it.
Sounds like she couldn't. Shes a single mom who has no support from family. She couldn't even afford her phone bill.
EXACTLY. FINALLY SOMEBODY WITH SENSE.
@@loralubimaia2783 But she said she feels like she doesn’t owe her mom and claims it wasn’t a loan. But she clearly agreed to accept the money as a loan. Her mom doesn’t seem like mom of the year but the daughter appears to be deceptive.
If the mother wanted to have a good relationship with the daughter, you don’t sue her. How about that?
How did she think a struggling single mother was going to pay her back $3,160?
What could a 8 year old do that
Would desire abandonment.
Her mother is very self centered.
There's a list of reasons unfortunately
Who doesn't pay their mother back? That's right entitled idiots
@@davidsewilliams no. There isn’t any reason. She didn’t ask to be born
@@8213apice I agree that the 8 year old child didn't agree to be born. But we don't know the circumference that caused the mother to make that decision. Not everyone has friends or family that they can count on.
It's an extreme scenario but what if the mother was going through a stressful period where she thought that she might harm her child or herself physically. What would you rather her do?
All I'm saying is that there can be reasons that a parent might give up their child that I can understand. I'm not saying this is the case here.
Well I have a foster brother who was abandoned at 8 by his mom and it was because she was on drugs and had mental health issues which she refused to seek help for... so there are 2 reasons...
My mom has always made me pay her back, she never sued because I always paid back!!
Did your mom abandon you? Aw ok
@@NicoleKeith-Smith no , we actually went out for lunch that I paid for last week! U cornball bi***😂 and If she did , she wouldn’t be there to loan me anything! Get “cute” with ur mammy, not me!
A loan is a loan and I believe that it should be returned but the fact that the mother sued her daughter who she put in foster care when she was 8 years old is another level! What a shame! This shouldn't have gone to court.
What’s the obligation of the father? You people always blame the mother without saying one word about the deadbeat dad. If the mother thought for whatever reason that she couldn’t properly raise the daughter or that she would cause her irreparable harm, it was better to place her in foster care. Let the dad come to get her.
Yeah, the father should be blamed too for what happened to their child. I agree with you on that one. But my point is, should you be suing your daughter in TV court for not paying her loan to you? Does it really have to come to that? I mean, come on! Shaming your daughter on national TV for being unable to pay her loan to you as her biological mother? Really? 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I don't think she even for a second chose JJ to "shame" her. That child showed no shame Anyways. It was time for her to get attention, no shame.
They chose there because they get paid to go there. 🤷 I doubt there's Any other reason than that. @@makeelubrido8920
Her mom was 100% WRONG for giving her daughter up and especially at such a tender age. HOWEVER IT IS NO EXCUSE TO NOT REPAY A LOAN.
Lending money to your child and staying in Denmark for 2 years is a reason. In caps or not.
JJ said we're talking Apples 🍎 and Oranges 🍊 she knows good parables...hope someone understand the definition
Ma'am. Yes, we get it.
@@lcam9241 wait but what's an apple
She never intended on paying her mom back at all. She felt like her mom should just give her the money without expecting a payback, because her mom knew she was having life/financial difficulties. Plus, if her mom is doing other things for family/people for free,... Then her mom should do favors for her for free as well.
I don't receive money from people I don't like, regardless of my financial situation.
I would never get how parents and their children could sue each other just blows my mind
There are many many things in life that can get messy.
I myself wish I had the drive to sue my mother for several things, mostly for the horrible abuse she gave and the multitude of lies about my father
Did you read the comments she wasn’t a parent
easily.. she shld hv paid her mother
0:38 - 0:41 a dramatic close-up 😅
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My mom and I have loan each other a few thousands back and forth . I never look at what she owes vice versa . We will always help each other out ❤
Defendant is sweet but she is an oversharer lol
I never understood how a parent could give their child up for adoption then turn around and have more kids then keep them????? I’m lost
Me neither!
i would not want a dime for her and i would sue her for emotional trauma
Byrd looking like: 😞
This too much paperwork Luv 😑
😂😂😂😂
"Different personalities" are you kidding me! Me and my big brother were two totally different people personality wise, that has nothing to do with parents loving and providing for *all* their children
You didn’t take care of her so the least you could do was to give her the money. Not sue her. Your relationship is already strained. Why add to it?
Wtf no money has nothing to do with a relationship cause in that case all your doing is buying fake love and I rather have my money then fake love 🤡🤡🤡
For someone who doesn’t like people to know a lot about her she sure said a lot about her
So many horrible mothers. It is unbelievable
If the relationship was strained before it’s non-existent now. Great job awful mom!
I can tell she thinks her mother owes her for giving her up but here's the thing... I personally feel that if you have an issue with someone, whether it be a parent, a friend, a family member, don't take money from them. If you don't like someone and you want nothing to do with them but you think they OWE you something emotionally or mentally or even spiritually, don't then turn around and try to take it financially but subsequently tell them you're willing to pay them back. If you truly felt like this is how they were going to pay you back then you would tell them straight up you're giving me this money because I feel like you owe it to me. You don't put it in writing that you're going to pay them back. That just makes no sense. Now they can sue you for what you owe them and then you're out money and your mind. And in the end they don't give AF at all about you still.
Could this mother be any more callus to her daughter? I wouldn't pay her back. That mother is SELFISH. Not to mention, she threw her daughter in foster care, no telling the amount of trauma she's went through
There is a special place in hell for people that sue their own children
And give them up to foster care
Bingo!
Dead beat mom put her daughter in foster care and now is sueing her. SHAME. Flying around from country to country but can't help her own child. Worth less
Im a daddy's girl and I currently owe him $4,675,754.02😂 for all of the "Daddy, can I borrow...?" requests all through my life.
He knew when I asked that he'd never see it again lol. It's the reality of parenting and I know that now that I have 4 teenagers myself.
They have a strained relationship and that's why they're in court. I hope they can work it out.
Exactly. My boyfriend said he can’t wait to have girl, my dad told him he’s gonna be broke all his life😂
@@PrincessZaire100 😆 it's true!
@@hopemcintosh6998 I know it is, but he ain’t have to say it😂😂
Where's her money then!?
This is a mess 😂 Denmark 🇩🇰 like how I get in it 😂
Why do these ppl have kids when they're broke?? Im tired of these single mothers. Aaarrggg
That mom does owe her. A loan is a loan but when u didnt raise your own kid, its the least you could do. Damn
Love JJ not wanting to hear the sob stories. She’s a judge! Just the facts!
You don’t take money from someone and just not pay them back. You just don’t. It’s just wrong. You’ve got to pay people back.
I appreciate that Judge Marilyn Milian prefers to look at a phone. Sometimes there's info before and or after that changes printed out texts.
Ayyyyeeee part 2 🤷🏾♀️🤣🤣
And this is why I don't loan anyone money lol
Yep, learned that the hard way. Keep it that way lol
I guess you can’t be a bank owner.
Great way to reconnect with your daughter, mom!🤦🏻♀️
From a stale case to major family hurt and unresolved issues. This family needs therapy I can see the pain in the defendants eyes. The way the mother described the contract sounded like a business operation.
Lady, help your daughter when she needs assistance. You put her into foster care. Make some amends.
My mother would NEVER sue ANY of her children
I'm imagining packing my daughter's things, loading her stuff in the car, telling her to hop in all knowing I'm taking her to foster care to abandon her. I feel sick to my stomach thinking about it. What a horrible human being.
Bird always looks irritated 2:23 😂
Byrd issa alamitre
What kind of mother are you for sue your daughter
A good mother ? Let me guess you think your a good mother cause you give your kids everything ? How about teaching them that life isn't like that you don't get what you want every time and in this case she can't just get money and not pay it??
@@jaypeee97 she’s not a good mother
Interesting to see how confident and forcefull JJ is on topics she ends up being wrong about (their is a difference between money being sent to you and when you can actually use it).
She's trying to save her face
The point is that a contract was discussed before she had cash in hand.
you are wrong about the mediator.
@@sarahjane4719 even further…before shed spent it
@@sarahjane4719 The contact was discussed after her mother sent the money. That's not appropriate. The contract should have been discussed before she sent it
So to address JJ's question about mother taking 2 years before suing... JJ clearly does not understand that despite citizenship status... when cost of tickets is $1200 to fly to Europe.... it is $1200 to fly to USA + hotel + car rental + whatever expenses + food + legal fees +++++++++. No rational human being would be sitting in Denmark or wherever wanting to hop on a plane over $3000 some loan when cost of flying itself is 1/3 of the loan amount. Unfortunately that is often a significant oversight on behalf of JJ to understand that "normal people" consider $1000 A LOT of money.
Lady u put that child in foster care, just make it up to your girl by helping her financially at least
Im more cynical. Such a loving daughter that is desperate to make a loving relationship with her mom after being put in foster care? Doesnt add up.
Sounds like she has no one
That's her mom
There is no pain in the daughter’s face. She is a hustler. Also, a Parent she never Parent out of guilt because it would exacerbate the situation. Meaning it could feed into, every time she wants something, you placed me in foster care at 8 years old, so you owe me for 30 or more years. The mom made a good or bad decision at that time, but should not pay for it for rest of life.
She sure looked worried when those emails came out. This is a shame. She is mistreating her mom.
🙄🙄🙄🙄 did you say she mistreated her mother. Oh gosh this world is doomed
The dependent is beautiful. Woman
why do you need to sue your children? so sad.
I understand a loan is a loan but I think the daughter is hurt about being put in foster care and when the mum kept asking for the money bk it probably hurt her knowing that her mother never gave her much and the money could have been a gift. It's a sensitive situation
No matter their relationship she still owes the money. It's a loan with a contract.
So you go to Denmark come back 2 years later and say I want m money back...girl bye
The thumbnail should read, mother places, eight-year-old daughter in foster care.
okay but the defendant is absolutely stunning.
Never lend money to someone that you can’t afford to lose. Chances are you won’t get it back.
The wicked mother and sister are jealous of how beautiful the defendant is. The sister looks like Martin when he would dress up like Sheneneh.
This is a case of a woman who a child with a man she loved and he left her pregnant and she hates the child because of it
I can’t imagine my mom doing that to me
Byrd tries to be over JJ court. I don’t think he knows SQUAT.
That are the way kids are like this day... when they are on hardship they asked for help to their parents for some financial support and tell that they will pay them back... but that's it and you don't expect any payment from them. If you are a parent don't expect payment at all when your kid beg you some money.
So a grown woman - felt her mother is just rich enough to bail her out. Never lend $ to family but trust it has to happen. I love judge judy so most times i feel she is clear. But sometimes it is sad bc once you have been in these situations it becomes manipulative on the defendant and plaintiff side. Her job is to shift through that. Yes i can agree it is a stale argument… but even at my age i have learned from my parents to stand on my own two feet. They have assisted me. I have NEVER dreamed abt going on national TV to prove why they don’t deserve payback. And im not from money. I think it is just 100% sad that if you feel comfortable enough to ask for help you should feel comfortable reciprocating the support. Just sad her daughter felt that no I don’t owe her. Like girl… you owe your mom bare minimum which means to pay back.
agreed! yeah she has a sad story but that doesn’t mean she don’t owe that money lol
The daughter owes her money but mom owes her a childhood.
The mothers hair is amazing , I don’t like her though 😂
Pay back the loan and never speak to her again. Let her go to a home when she’s old and gray.
i would just pay her and leave it be.
If you abandon your child the least you can do is GIVE, not loan but GIVE, them money to help them make ends meet when they call on hard times.
People in the comments feel the daughter is right. Listen when you have nothing to do with a person you don’t allow them to help you. My mom and I have a horrible relationship. I wouldn’t dare accept a dime from her idc how bad I’m struggling. A loan is a loan you borrow money pay people back it’s that simple. No matter what kind of family you are
Bottom line the daughter needs to pay! It doesn’t matter if she is a single mom. She has money for make up😂
What it seems like is that you were a horrible mother and wanted to pay and help her after giving her up, than trying to be mother of the year… Than changed your mind!! WOMEN LIKE THIS, PLEASE DONT REPRODUCE!
You have no idea of the circumstances to judge the mother.
Your statement is one dimensional, there can be more to the story of her mother leaving her in foster care. If she didn't cared, she wouldn't tried to renew relation and help her. If it was about the money, she would have filled the claim? sooner. I think that mother tried to help her, but also not be used, because she could not tell how much her daughter would change after that time they were seperated. If i were in her daughter possition i would make payments at slow rate, so maybe after one year it would be paid off, and the whole situation would not turn into a court, especialy if my mother said to me, that i dont have to return money after one month, but i can make small payments towards it. I think plaintiff should win this case. Defendand was trying to use her, and turn whole loan into a "gift" which in this case wasn't.
You edited this and it still hardly makes sense🤣
@@umungus518 no it’s called English, clearly 16 people understood it… Perhaps you’re this type of mother?
@@markzelinski4434 I know its called English lmao youre just not very good at it🤣
She owes her mother nothing. Her mom abandon her and put her in Foster Care she owes her everything. F the mother. I swear yall give deadbeats a pass like crazy.
Bygone be bygones Nonsince i say the mother didnt get her daughters car reposessed so thats just a true but a lame and poor excuse to Not wanting to pay the mother back . Just sayn ✌️😂
The thing is….if the show pays the judgment then why is the defendant fighting her on the money that seems it was clearly “loaned “.
Is this all part of the script? Do they have to act like they are opposed to the plaintiff wanting her money. The defendant claims she doesn’t like persons knowing her business but here she is spilling it all for the world to see…
Something is definitely a miss for me with these type of shows🤔
The show pays the judgement to the plaintiff and the defendant becomes indebted to the show. It’s standard and apart of the show agreement/adjudications.
@@SeanSpencerr I didn't know that, thanks
“Aint shit mothers always disappear and then the moment they CAN help , hey sue their kids lol .
The daughter is lying. It's sad that their relationship is such, but it's painfully obvious that the daughter isn't being honest.
Wow the entitlement again stop helping these grown ass kids.
This adult woman, herself a mother, is so irresponsible, loose with the truth and blasé about other people's money that it is ridiculous.
I got A whole lot of "feel bad for me", in this case.
I'm a single mom. I don't make ends meet. I don't even own a car nor have ever. I skip meals for the littles. Ect. My childhood was horrendous. I was abused in every way. I get it. But, using that to try and beat a civil case is crazy. If you wanted nothing to do with her, don't take their money. If you were trying to have a relationship with her, you already took the srong route.
It does matter because if I loan you money but I don’t tell you that it’s a loan… but I give it to you and a company puts a hold on the money BUT during that hold I say it’s a loan … how doesn’t that matter ?