1) overcommitting 2) ignoring her context of her request 3) ignoring your boundaries 4) assuming reciprocity 5) expecting quick gratitude (appreciation) for helpful effort 6) misusing of showoff 7) forgetting to follow-up
A lot of times girls will ask a guy for a favor to test a man's confidence and strength. I've fallen in to this trap before, but the last time that happened i realized my mistake and have since adjusted accordingly. Guys, NEVER let your feelings for a girl dictate your decisions. Always maintain your masculinity. Masculinity and confidence are what women look for in a man and a potential partner. Not weak wanting to always please type behavior. That is a sign of weakness and lack of confidence.
Just happened. We were set to hang today at 8pm. She texted me to make sure I was coming at 6. At 7:37 she randomly asks me to grab her some cabbage from the store….some cabbage……….20 minutes before hanging out….. I said no so quick 😂 I remember another girl use to ask me for shit randomly right before we hung out and I’d always say no but it’s cause I didn’t like her enough to be her personal Uber Eats. She s stayed a longggg time. They test us so much 😂it’s just funny
Excellent points on this, really liked it. A little spin, you can also use this to your Advantage If You Do Like her and You want to figure out whether she trusts and likes you as well, or if you're a doormat, or just Mr. Friendzone. It comes down to if its a personal confidential favor to her, if she reciprocates, she repays you, her Reactions or if she is simply a user. Might be easy to figure out, unless your brain consists of rebar steel, like Mine then unfortunately you're completely clueless and lost :) However, sometimes Females will want to borrow something from you (sneakily and trickily that they actually dont really need), If they're going away etc. JUST TO HAVE A CONNECTION or tabs on you... so watch out!
She asked for favors like helping her put gas in her car, which she paid for. Or helping her with her computer. But then when I asked for a favor, my feeling is that I was imposing on her because of her attitude that it was an inconvenience to her. I've seen a few red flags in our 8 month relationship, and the signs I don't like, and that I'm being taken advantage of; so I'm leaning towards ending it.
I did a favor for someone I thought might bring us closer together and show that I will be there for her. Instead I feel rejected. She didn't keep her word to full fill her promise. Left me heart broken.
Try only doing favours which are free from your own agenda or expected outcomes, otherwise it's not doing a favour , it's simping in the hope they reciprocate
When someone asks you for a favour hand it off to someone else. Best way to know if they really are interested is just how dumb the request is. The dumber it is the more interested they are in you.
If I help someone and they don't say, "Thank you," I'm probably not coming back to see to try to catch a glimpse of a subtle gesture I most likely won't see. Saying "Thank You" is not difficult no matter what a person is going through. Giving someone a hand without them specifically asking, or without saying anything is a different scenario though. You can't expect anything from anyone in those situations.
idk dont think i well been takeing my 7week old baby puppy puppy dog into town today tho as we have got too doing few jobs today in town and ive got too going too the local hard wear store for a broom for my pub an bar setup too buying for it etc. and asking around if theres any free pallet wood about for my next DIY PROJECTS AND SOME LONG PALLET WOOD AS WELL IVE GOT TOO GETTING FOR MY NEXT DIY PROJECTS ETC.
With “Assuming Reciprocity,” I offered to give a sanitizer wipe to the woman on the treadmill next to me, because I was hoping we would do something after.
Joyanima thank u soo much 4ur counsel it rely helps...i rely like listening 2 ur advice & i adore da way u speak very fluent..der is truth,honesty,holiness,&,completeness in u!!love u ❤❤❤stay hapi stay blesses & God bless u abundantly😊
there is this girl in my college who asks for a favor from me more oftenly sometimes and i get the sign that she is interested in me but the moments later I caught a feeling that she is interested in other guy. should I propose her.i have known her for like three to four weeks or should I wait few days and get to know each other more??
I found just refusing to do a favour for them, but doing a favour for someone else in front of them, then talking to them like normal works. That sort of toxic behaviour goes against my personality, But when being kind and doing the favour gets you nowhere, So you have no choice if you actually give a damn about the girl. It works like clockwork, the girl WILL respond to that toxic behaviour and now will just think about you. She may already have picked up on the fact you like her, which is why she asked you to do a favour in the first place, so she wants to take advantage. Which is why you should just refuse. This way, she no longer has the power over you she thinks she has. Then she starts to wonder why. like why you are still talking to her like you like her, yet refuse to do a favour, but at the same time, she is wondering what that other girl has so that you would do that favour for them and not her. Then later on as a day or so passes, tell them "hey, sorry I couldn't help you the other day. were you able to sort it out?" This will mess with her mind a little bit. because you are acting like you care, but she can't take advantage of your feelings. Also you seem generous enough to care that it worked out, but you also do favours for others just not her. It will confuse her and you'll finally be able to raise attraction in her. That sort of backward mind-games nonsense works on women, it's their own fault. I hate it but it works. The Chads and players do this naturally and it works for them.
yeah idk well been out an about this weekend on Saturday 9th off march 2024 as ive well been going into town too have looking around for some dream bedroom stuff too buying an some new outfits an new jacket for going out on few dates as i need some new outfits an few another jackets etc. ive seen this every cool as bads bad boy Black Jackets is size xl too wear when i going out too few local pubs or bars or coffee cafe dates for meet ups with few younger looking women or younger looking girls etc and going too buying some hairstyle gal for my hairstyle aka new haircuts when i next getting one etc . an Sunday 10th off march 2024 and getting a top up for my callphone too as its out off money on it too etc and and some new Sunglasses too buying as well too with few new outfits an aftersave sets or few another colonges sets too getting for myslfe for my 30th birthday incoming up ever soon on wednesday 1st off may 2024 this year this month in 2024
yeah idk was going too been going into town today tho i was too busying busying doing jobs around home today soo it maybe on Friday 8th off march 2024 an idk well been going too town this weekend too as well too seen my homies an few mates or few freinds ive not seen for sometime or awhile too etc. on Saturday 9th off march 2024 Sunday 10th off march 2024 cuzzy rory aka cuzzy rory aka cuzzy customs aka uncle rory is in the comments section too night hahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahhahahah
yeah idk saveing upp for few bads bad boy motorcycles an few cars as well too etc. for bads bad boy outfits an motorcycle too ride on the street like bads bad boy all the ladys love would come for a ride on the back off my motorcycle
yeah loveley anna joyanima aka anna joyanima aka bella bello vids ive watched this morning on Thursday 7th off march 2024 cuzzy rory aka cuzzy Rory aka cuzzy Rory aka cuzzy customs aka uncle Rory idk well been going into town today every soon for few jobs too doing etc an hopefully seen my mates or few freinds in town today etc. an seening some new lady freinds aka new crush aka new gf aka new girlfreinds or younger looking women or younger looking girls today in town
Sooooo there's this new girl at work ,pretty, smart but all the guys are chasing because of her body and validation. Anywho it's warehouse we deal in tiles anyway, we have private relationship ,well laugh at other co workers share info ,Bonnie and cylde vibes... now a bunch of thrist after her at my job ,I do my work ,but I always find her in my work space ,or asking me to help her when other men are around 🤷🏽♂️...I'm busy but I'll make time ,watever fyi I like her 😅,moving on , a few days ago I started ignoring her ,staying away ,avoiding her best I could. You're like why we'll because the other dudes at my job ain't like it ,at every turn they'd sabotage me at work..I'd here oh did you hear ,she's doing this with that dude ,it wasn't what she was doing idk ,but my peace at work was being distracted by nonsense the second day I ignored tf outta her she asked me why... I said yo.. listen alot of dudes talking like I like you(I do🤷🏽♂️🤣) and I'm tired of hearing it everytime you need help,we're together for five minutes and people running they mouths about nonsense..I'm tired if it if I'm away from you I save us both..what did she say?inno care bout don't ignore me ,when I said hi, or hello acknowledge me😢. At this point I was confused asf ,like why you care if I say hi or not 🤷🏽♂️🤣I mean ...any ways she asked me today to do something a baby could do ,probably because attention ,maybe she like me inno the world is weird..that's my story🤷🏽♂️🤣♒️
Maybe she likes you. Maybe this is her way of flirting. Just get on with it and ask her out. Be ok with it whether she says yes or no. But don’t be the guy who thinks back on it years later thinking “She was special, I wish I had at least given it a shot.”
So have you ever caught yourself in a situation like this? Share your story below!
🤔🤔 maybe, can't recall at the moment.
ĤI think it shall always be in her mind
Never set yourself on fire to keep someone else warm.
1) overcommitting
2) ignoring her context of her request
3) ignoring your boundaries
4) assuming reciprocity
5) expecting quick gratitude (appreciation) for helpful effort
6) misusing of showoff
7) forgetting to follow-up
When asked for a favor run as fast as possible 🤯
She's dropping gems, much appreciated 💯
A lot of times girls will ask a guy for a favor to test a man's confidence and strength. I've fallen in to this trap before, but the last time that happened i realized my mistake and have since adjusted accordingly. Guys, NEVER let your feelings for a girl dictate your decisions. Always maintain your masculinity. Masculinity and confidence are what women look for in a man and a potential partner. Not weak wanting to always please type behavior. That is a sign of weakness and lack of confidence.
Great advice
Just happened. We were set to hang today at 8pm. She texted me to make sure I was coming at 6. At 7:37 she randomly asks me to grab her some cabbage from the store….some cabbage……….20 minutes before hanging out….. I said no so quick 😂 I remember another girl use to ask me for shit randomly right before we hung out and I’d always say no but it’s cause I didn’t like her enough to be her personal Uber Eats. She s stayed a longggg time. They test us so much 😂it’s just funny
Excellent points on this, really liked it.
A little spin, you can also use this to your Advantage If You Do Like her and You want to figure out whether she trusts and likes you as well, or if you're a doormat, or just Mr. Friendzone. It comes down to if its a personal confidential favor to her, if she reciprocates, she repays you, her Reactions or if she is simply a user.
Might be easy to figure out, unless your brain consists of rebar steel, like Mine then unfortunately you're completely clueless and lost :)
However, sometimes Females will want to borrow something from you (sneakily and trickily that they actually dont really need), If they're going away etc. JUST TO HAVE A CONNECTION or tabs on you... so watch out!
She asked for favors like helping her put gas in her car, which she paid for. Or helping her with her computer. But then when I asked for a favor, my feeling is that I was imposing on her because of her attitude that it was an inconvenience to her. I've seen a few red flags in our 8 month relationship, and the signs I don't like, and that I'm being taken advantage of; so I'm leaning towards ending it.
It's time to rebuild, inside, outside. I've hit the brick wall. 😊
I did a favor for someone I thought might bring us closer together and show that I will be there for her. Instead I feel rejected. She didn't keep her word to full fill her promise. Left me heart broken.
Try only doing favours which are free from your own agenda or expected outcomes, otherwise it's not doing a favour , it's simping in the hope they reciprocate
yep
That’s why you don’t do favors until you smash first
Even if im watching paint dry, I always so NO.
another simp will bend for you < and I say that too
Good advice for doing favors for people in general
When someone asks you for a favour hand it off to someone else. Best way to know if they really are interested is just how dumb the request is. The dumber it is the more interested they are in you.
If I help someone and they don't say, "Thank you," I'm probably not coming back to see to try to catch a glimpse of a subtle gesture I most likely won't see. Saying "Thank You" is not difficult no matter what a person is going through. Giving someone a hand without them specifically asking, or without saying anything is a different scenario though. You can't expect anything from anyone in those situations.
idk dont think i well been takeing my 7week old baby puppy puppy dog into town today tho as we have got too doing few jobs today in town and ive got too going too the local hard wear store for a broom for my pub an bar setup too buying for it etc. and asking around if theres any free pallet wood about for my next DIY PROJECTS AND SOME LONG PALLET WOOD AS WELL IVE GOT TOO GETTING FOR MY NEXT DIY PROJECTS ETC.
With “Assuming Reciprocity,” I offered to give a sanitizer wipe to the woman on the treadmill next to me, because I was hoping we would do something after.
Joyanima thank u soo much 4ur counsel it rely helps...i rely like listening 2 ur advice & i adore da way u speak very fluent..der is truth,honesty,holiness,&,completeness in u!!love u ❤❤❤stay hapi stay blesses & God bless u abundantly😊
Great video 👌✨
Spot spot on & WELL set out 😉👌✨
Great work here 💯❗
I aways ask for details when asked for help. I know how to say NO!
I think these rules of thumb are useful in general everyday life and not just for simps
Another great vid! Very interesting and informative
Always Great, Anna..TY!
thank you!
Affection is useless if it is not going to solve problem.
In fact, it is a negative diversion from the fact.
She's reading 😂
Love your videos
Hmm... I like it better when you are in the Thumbnail. The other pictures are nice and all, but...
there is this girl in my college who asks for a favor from me more oftenly sometimes and i get the sign that she is interested in me but the moments later I caught a feeling that she is interested in other guy. should I propose her.i have known her for like three to four weeks or should I wait few days and get to know each other more??
But the other girl speaks another unknown language so its way easier to just do it than to spend 5 minuets trying to decode each other.
Shes so lovely ❤😊
Very interesting video
Glad you think so!
What to do if a girl instead offers you a favor on multiple occasions? (I said thanks I'm fine)
I found just refusing to do a favour for them, but doing a favour for someone else in front of them, then talking to them like normal works.
That sort of toxic behaviour goes against my personality, But when being kind and doing the favour gets you nowhere, So you have no choice if you actually give a damn about the girl.
It works like clockwork, the girl WILL respond to that toxic behaviour and now will just think about you. She may already have picked up on the fact you like her, which is why she asked you to do a favour in the first place, so she wants to take advantage. Which is why you should just refuse. This way, she no longer has the power over you she thinks she has. Then she starts to wonder why. like why you are still talking to her like you like her, yet refuse to do a favour, but at the same time, she is wondering what that other girl has so that you would do that favour for them and not her.
Then later on as a day or so passes, tell them "hey, sorry I couldn't help you the other day. were you able to sort it out?" This will mess with her mind a little bit. because you are acting like you care, but she can't take advantage of your feelings. Also you seem generous enough to care that it worked out, but you also do favours for others just not her. It will confuse her and you'll finally be able to raise attraction in her.
That sort of backward mind-games nonsense works on women, it's their own fault. I hate it but it works. The Chads and players do this naturally and it works for them.
Great advice
yeah idk well been out an about this weekend on Saturday 9th off march 2024 as ive well been going into town too have looking around for some dream bedroom stuff too buying an some new outfits an new jacket for going out on few dates as i need some new outfits an few another jackets etc. ive seen this every cool as bads bad boy Black Jackets is size xl too wear when i going out too few local pubs or bars or coffee cafe dates for meet ups with few younger looking women or younger looking girls etc and going too buying some hairstyle gal for my hairstyle aka new haircuts when i next getting one etc . an Sunday 10th off march 2024 and getting a top up for my callphone too as its out off money on it too etc and and some new Sunglasses too buying as well too with few new outfits an aftersave sets or few another colonges sets too getting for myslfe for my 30th birthday incoming up ever soon on wednesday 1st off may 2024 this year this month in 2024
Anna
yeah idk was going too been going into town today tho i was too busying busying doing jobs around home today soo it maybe on Friday 8th off march 2024 an idk well been going too town this weekend too as well too seen my homies an few mates or few freinds ive not seen for sometime or awhile too etc. on Saturday 9th off march 2024 Sunday 10th off march 2024 cuzzy rory aka cuzzy rory aka cuzzy customs aka uncle rory is in the comments section too night hahahahahahahhahahahahahahhahahahahhahahah
yeah idk saveing upp for few bads bad boy motorcycles an few cars as well too etc. for bads bad boy outfits an motorcycle too ride on the street like bads bad boy all the ladys love would come for a ride on the back off my motorcycle
yeah loveley anna joyanima aka anna joyanima aka bella bello vids ive watched this morning on Thursday 7th off march 2024 cuzzy rory aka cuzzy Rory aka cuzzy Rory aka cuzzy customs aka uncle Rory idk well been going into town today every soon for few jobs too doing etc an hopefully seen my mates or few freinds in town today etc. an seening some new lady freinds aka new crush aka new gf aka new girlfreinds or younger looking women or younger looking girls today in town
How can I make you love me you so beautiful and cute ❤
Sooooo there's this new girl at work ,pretty, smart but all the guys are chasing because of her body and validation. Anywho it's warehouse we deal in tiles anyway, we have private relationship ,well laugh at other co workers share info ,Bonnie and cylde vibes... now a bunch of thrist after her at my job ,I do my work ,but I always find her in my work space ,or asking me to help her when other men are around 🤷🏽♂️...I'm busy but I'll make time ,watever fyi I like her 😅,moving on , a few days ago I started ignoring her ,staying away ,avoiding her best I could. You're like why we'll because the other dudes at my job ain't like it ,at every turn they'd sabotage me at work..I'd here oh did you hear ,she's doing this with that dude ,it wasn't what she was doing idk ,but my peace at work was being distracted by nonsense the second day I ignored tf outta her she asked me why... I said yo.. listen alot of dudes talking like I like you(I do🤷🏽♂️🤣) and I'm tired of hearing it everytime you need help,we're together for five minutes and people running they mouths about nonsense..I'm tired if it if I'm away from you I save us both..what did she say?inno care bout don't ignore me ,when I said hi, or hello acknowledge me😢. At this point I was confused asf ,like why you care if I say hi or not 🤷🏽♂️🤣I mean ...any ways she asked me today to do something a baby could do ,probably because attention ,maybe she like me inno the world is weird..that's my story🤷🏽♂️🤣♒️
Maybe she likes you. Maybe this is her way of flirting. Just get on with it and ask her out. Be ok with it whether she says yes or no. But don’t be the guy who thinks back on it years later thinking “She was special, I wish I had at least given it a shot.”
@@Private-GtngxNMBKvYzXyPq thx I'll shoot my shot🤷🏽♂️💯
Also Say If a Woman
I Wish You Say If a Lady
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General enough to cover any, every and all scenario that we could ever come across. It is just a little bit of common sense💬🫢