@sleeplessinsilverlakes....sounds like u want people still 2pity u from whatever happened 2u in ur childhood...NEVER LET IDIOTS PITY U..IT'S DISGUSTING
It’s true and I isn’t. Kids ARE more resilient in the moment to bounce back from things and to move on through big life changes because they are used to everything changing apace with them as they grow so fast. Adults are much more stuck in their ways and their realities and have a harder time coping when big things come along and unseat them. Yes kids might be left with some trauma that comes out later on but the same can be said for adults too 🤷🏼♀️ Children are resilient and they do recover quicker than adults from most things because it’s the nature of their existence.
I felt this interview on a deep, soulful level. Like, for those who don't have a deep level of awareness... this might not hit home. But this is actually such a deep conversation full of so many nuggets.
Agree the screen should be on the green wall with your logo Love the wall and the detail but i feel like I’m watching a conversation i don’t care to watch when you guys are talking about details that 1)that have nothing to do with the interview I’m waiting to see and 2) we can’t even see what you’re talking about
My husband calls me in the middle of the day every day for the past 8 years. He has a job and actually runs his own business. But he will always find time in his work day to call me and if I call him he will always pick up or call me back as soon as he can. Having time in the middle of the day to call someone is still possible when you’re working a full time job if you really care about someone. I am a lawyer and I find time to call my husband in between meetings and reviewing contracts. If I’m in the office, I’ll even go into a conference room just to call him in privacy. We talk and text multiple times during the day when we’re working, even though we will always see each other at the end of the day when we’re both home. It’s something I love about him. Sometimes he just calls to check up on me and the dog lol.
I miss my albert. we were like exactly like this.....I've ;ost a lot of weight since his passing. He would talk in his sleep about food...chicken parm, everything bagel with cream cheese and bacon.... big mac.... Then he would complain I was always hungry lol
@@tamilee9462 Aww that's so sweet. I'm sorry you lost him. I can't imagine how tragic that would be. I try to remind myself that every moment is a gift and most people never even get to find a relationship like that, so we have both been very blessed it seems.
The BEST episode yet! Lala was fantastic... I like the way Nick was interacting with Lala.. they would honestly be great hosting a podcast together. Lala was so comfortable and the conversations were interesting and not forced. Go for more of this vibe!!
I heard that our lowest deepest darkest hardest moments are also our best moments in life BECAUSE we really come into who we are and LEARN what we’re made of and how we survive and strengthen ourselves and so much more. Damn life is so fucking wild.
@Nick, I haven’t watched The Bachelor since season 2. Therefore I have no opinions of who you are. I hopped on to watch this podcast for the LIB fiasco and I have now binged at least a few episodes by now. I have to say that I truly enjoy how you and your team interview your guests. It’s insightful, relatable, so real and you guys do such a great job at getting answers. You’ve absolutely gained a new fan!
This conversation was EPIC. You both seem like you understand each other on a fundamental level I’m hoping this becomes a real friendship honestly! Lala is amazing, need more real people like y’all out there 💯
What a great conversation. Nick I know ppl have different opinions about certain topics but your podcast is always intriguing and makes you think great job to you guys
You don't realise how intelligent lala is until you listen to a podcast like this because going off the show Vanderpump Rules you get a very surface perspective of her character... thanks for this podcast and what excellent questioning and interviewing skills from Nick
Listening to Lala talk about how the hardest part is what is happening to her daughter. I am a mom of 3 boys and my husband was arrested in July so sine then I have been alone. Its hard but the hardest part is that my kids are hurting because their dad isnt in the home anymore. That is the hardest part. I may be out but they arent...
I saw a tiktoc of a girl talking about how she does not wash her hands after leaving the public bathroom, and I was SHOOK that in the comments so many people said that they do that too. Truly, a community for ANYONE.
True lol. most just do the dip wash anyways. They know No soap comes out of the dispenser, but still give it a pump and do a 2 second dip through the water hitting the dryer with their elbow on the way out. 🤭Let’s be real. Lol.
Recap: 26:00: 💬 Lala discusses loyalty, friendships, and being perceived as intimidating. 35:20: 💔 Lala discusses feeling hurt by comments about her relationship and motherhood, and vows to confront those who weaponize her pain. 44:34: 💔 Discussion on love, relationships, and being cautious in dating due to past experiences. 53:42: 🎢 Lala reflects on painful experiences, finding exhilaration in surviving them and being reminded by scents and songs. 1:03:04: ⚖️ Lala discusses her co-parenting situation with Randall and prioritizing her daughter's well-being. 1:11:58: 🗣️ Discussion about conflict avoidance and its impact on relationships and friendships. 1:20:42: 🤔 Discussion about the complexities of friendships, vulnerability, and associations with controversial individuals. 1:30:12: 🔍 Highlighting the importance of helping someone in need and providing them with an opportunity to determine who they can trust. 1:38:52: 💔 Discussion about a regretful encounter, sharing screenshots, and offering empathy to the girlfriend of the person involved. 1:48:28: 👩🦰 Lala discusses the unequal blame placed on women for men's actions and the need for accountability. Recap by Tammy AI
the amount of respect i have for this woman in insane. I knew I liked her from the start of Vanderpump but holy shit, she's amazing. she is a reality tv star that you actually want to look up to shes not just talking about her book or stupid brand deals on these podcasts its very refreshing.
Whoever edits these videos - first of all, great job! Would love it if we could see what is on the TV screen at the beginning of a new topic, especially at the episode beginnings. Probably not always possible and maybe it's not worth the extra work, but the top of the screen is kind of a tease
ONE DAY AT A TIME LALA! You’re amazing, you’re such a loving mother. You clearly will protect your daughter and anyone you love so fiercely and selflessly. I love you. I always have! ❤❤❤❤
i used to not like LaLa when she was first on the show but boy have i grown to love her so much! i feel like shes grown so much or just became more "herself" on camera but shes amazing, intelligent and beautiful and funny...i just love her! i know a lot of people judge her but they dont see what shes been thru or maybe they havent been thru real shit in life so they dont get her...great interview! also, please include clips of whatever video, pic or other "internet" stuff you guys are talking about on the screen so we can all see it too
🤣 at lala at the end giving that girl advice to Tell the 'other woman" she slept with her partner the other night. What about Lala's reaction to all the ppl who warned HER about Randall when they were still together?! None of those ppl got Thanks from Lala! They were sprayed with vitriol and hate!
1:02:25 just thinking about Lala being in recovery, I’ve been sober for just over 2yrs. And as they were speaking about regrets and what you can control… like thank God Lala is an alcoholic and leaner how to deal with it. I can’t imagine trying to go through this without coping skills. 🙏❤️
This is my first time really watching this podcast. I watched for Lala but I am a huge bachelor nation fan. I’m really impressed with how much Nick has changed and matured since his time on that show. You may have just gained a new regular listener. I already love Lala and now I really like Nick.
Lala is not stupid i guess she was just blinded by private planes fancy vacations, gifts showing off to her friends. Unfortunately now your daughter will be affected by this break up and once old enough to read and watch everything on mommy and daddy. This will definitely be trama, drama and scaring sorry no matter how you slice it
I loved this interview so much! Congrats to you, LaLa, for being so independent and strong and such an amazing advocate for you and your beautiful daughter! I'm a huge fan of yours here and love the lessons you're sharing with all us all here. Appreciate it so much esp too b/c I have a 4 year old daughter myself. Hugs. I also have to say the name "Ocean" esp for a girl is beautiful, I love that.
Buttttttt … I’ve done that twice. Once I didn’t sleep with the man. Just saw him with a woman not his wife. (And three children. They don’t have an open marriage) I told both women. Both I ended up the one that was seen as a liar. The one with the 3 children my husband saw them too and suggested I tell her. But they didn’t blame him. I didn’t know the first one I met and knew for only a week. Ended it when I found out. And I was soooo kind to both women. Told them having complete empathy and didn’t stay over involved. But wow would I do it again. Idk. 🤷🏼♀️
I think with Amp you can only do it live. But I’d love to know if there’s another way. I listen to a show on Thursdays at 5 pm while I walk my dogs because I can’t listen anywhere else.
I’m a SAHM, and yes lala, is right. I don’t have the connections or money she has but we always need a plan b! My husband is perfect and supports us BUT I’m finishing up my certifications in IT as a Latina, for my daughter and I. Even if my husband and I last forever, what gets me through school is realizing I can give my daughter everything she wants and needs on my own. I’m doing all of this so one day she knows she doesn’t need anybody.
Lala completely missed the mark when Nick said that friendships in L.A. are based off of convenience....She wants her friends to ask how she's doing and care about her life but she herself burns bridges if her friends "don't add to her life" or "suck her soul dry" when she's around them. Does she not realized that she's doing to others exactly what she doesn't want done to her? She's literally proving Nick right, she's "burning bridges" because she finds it inconvenient to deal with other people's issues, but she wants them to care about hers 🤨. She's right, she's not a good friend, because that seems totally one sided.
Lala Kent at 1 hour and 21 minutes ''' dude you'd be a tough one to be friends with '' comment of the night ..... And has you thinking about Nick's elevated expectations of friendships
I love Lala and loved this, BUT she was so hypocritical talking about how her friends should reach out to see how she’s doing and then 10 min later saying she doesn’t want friends to do that because she has her family. I was confused and wish Nick questioned that.
Lala, as a child of divorce, at Ocean's age, she will think it's normal. She is at a young age. My brother was a bit older than her when they divorced. He didn't see a difference. You're a strong woman and will guide her so she won't feel different from other kids. You got this!
I cannot stand when people say kids are resilient. I know everybody says that to make themselves feel better. Kids are not resilient. They carry their trauma to adulthood which then results in lots of therapy for the childhood trauma
Hard disagree with the cereal w/ milk. I say some soft fruits like peeled oranges, strawberries. Yogurt. Maybe some bread, or baked goods. Those are the most considerate in my opinion.
Yet again you were showing us and talking about Drew Barrymore images like you were about images on the last episode about a different image but you failed to show us even though we're watching on TH-cam..... Can you either show us all the images via well-positioned camera or don't invite the FOMO ..... Now I want to see Drew Barrymore's pictures that you refer to but I'm frustrated because you don't even give a link
Nice to see LaLa Kent does have a strong moral compass. I realize this as she talks about feeling guilty about bringing Ocean into a conflicted relationship. I like her, but I do wish she'd be more private with her sexuality. Ocean is likely going to view the tv shows and be embarrassed about her mother's lack of privacy and liberalness. I know that's me being judgmental, but for me no matter what people's sexuality should be private publicly. It's not a problem talking among a small group of friends who you are intimate with, but not for the world to know so much.
She wanted to leave for a really long time, but instead she stayed and had a kid??? Lala is so fake and stayed with Randall for his Money which has been her motive since day 1.
I'm sorry we need darker hair lala back. Besides that I wanna add, she is gorgeous, funny and the completey sober one of the bunch and has a very clear mind to speak the things she says. She doesn't need to be drunk to be entertaining nor to be herself.
Never listened to this human- maybe seen him once. I am the same way as Lala and you- nick, are you a Virgo lol? I actually have the same birthday as LVP, sept 15th and I guess prince Harry and other people that day but you seem to think very deeply and idk- very relatable. Stopped this only a few minutes in because not taking victim mentality is huge for me and I’m digging all of this- subscribed noW. Appreciate this dialogue
I'm not American but I visit LA every couple of years and I find it completely hysterical that the response to the rapidly growing homeless crisis going on in LA was to change the terminology from homeless to unhoused, so on brand for California! It's the most meaningless and empty response imaginable, I assure you no homeless person is concerned with what word you're using to convey their living situation but would rather some form of action is taken to help them remedy it. Great for Dave Grohl, that is such a wonderful thing to do.
"I don't associate with weakness" God forbid anyone in your life shows vulnerability or "weakness." You all have been that person yet love to aim at the weaker link. You think you're the alpha, but you're just a bully.
Meh, she’s not a bully, she just doesn’t want to associate with weak ass cowards that bend because they don’t want to be unpopular rather than stand their ground and do the right thing. Weakness to her I believe is NOT OWNING your shit and weaseling out of it with bullshit excuses. I think Lala respects people that own their weaknesses and actively WORK on those weaknesses rather than deny that they have any .
I keep looking for pod casts that will call this woman out. Ridiculous. LaLa is not a Lion when it will come to A Real One. She would be read to tears. This is pathetic.
I am telling u Virgos are a blessing men n women. Their real no sugar coating n will be loyal to no fault even if they don't agree they will tell u but still have ur back like real ppl should. They say if u have nvr slept with a Virgo or had a friend that's a Virgo ur missing out. They lead with all heart n love n their gut feelings are spot on n I am a Virgo fan! Love LaLa n LVP both Virgo's even Beyonce is a Virgo, alot of the greats are Virgos.
hell yeah LALA i total agree totally what i teach my children ... i understand if the man wants to take care of you and have a family but a woman should never lose herself in the relationship or marriage a woman needs to be there own individual as well as well vise vera if a man is the stay at home daddy .... and your children will totally appreciate that
Lala starts at 26:01
QUEEEEENNNNNN I LOVE YOUUUUU! Thanks
Thank you sooooo much!!!!!
🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽
I hate when people say kids are resilient, they actually are not at all and they carry burdens from their childhood well into adulthood
completely agree..
@sleeplessinsilverlakes....sounds like u want people still 2pity u from whatever happened 2u in ur childhood...NEVER LET IDIOTS PITY U..IT'S DISGUSTING
100000000000%!!!! Hello childhood trauma 😂
It’s true and I isn’t. Kids ARE more resilient in the moment to bounce back from things and to move on through big life changes because they are used to everything changing apace with them as they grow so fast. Adults are much more stuck in their ways and their realities and have a harder time coping when big things come along and unseat them. Yes kids might be left with some trauma that comes out later on but the same can be said for adults too 🤷🏼♀️ Children are resilient and they do recover quicker than adults from most things because it’s the nature of their existence.
This isn’t entirely true Everyones resiliency is different
If kids are so resilient why are so many adults in therapy for things that happened in their childhoods? 🤦🏻♀️
Ok I only saw Nick on bachelor and truly his way of questioning his guests are so refreshing. He gets very deep. Love the convos
If ONLY this interview was done after today!!!! Would love to hear Lala's thoughts and comments about Sandoval and Raquelle getting caught!
I knowwww
Ikr
I know I’m so sad there’s NO JUICE this time. Maybe one by one he’ll have each cast member back to tell their thoughts.
She literally posted everything on instant stories lol
@@kerstinfontaine7941 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢🎉
I felt this interview on a deep, soulful level. Like, for those who don't have a deep level of awareness... this might not hit home. But this is actually such a deep conversation full of so many nuggets.
“I often smile most when I think about my most painful experiences.” I knew I liked you.
I love watching on TH-cam, would you guys be able to put whatever is on the tv screen youre looking at bigger so we can see!!
or include it in the video. Zane and Heath Unfiltered does a pretty good job of it for example
Same with Dear Shandy - they add visuals. It’s strange to have a huge screen only for Nick and guests view
I agree! So frustrating to not be able to see what they are talking about!
Agree the screen should be on the green wall with your logo
Love the wall and the detail but i feel like I’m watching a conversation i don’t care to watch when you guys are talking about details that 1)that have nothing to do with the interview I’m waiting to see and 2) we can’t even see what you’re talking about
Agree!
My husband calls me in the middle of the day every day for the past 8 years. He has a job and actually runs his own business. But he will always find time in his work day to call me and if I call him he will always pick up or call me back as soon as he can. Having time in the middle of the day to call someone is still possible when you’re working a full time job if you really care about someone. I am a lawyer and I find time to call my husband in between meetings and reviewing contracts. If I’m in the office, I’ll even go into a conference room just to call him in privacy. We talk and text multiple times during the day when we’re working, even though we will always see each other at the end of the day when we’re both home. It’s something I love about him. Sometimes he just calls to check up on me and the dog lol.
I miss my albert. we were like exactly like this.....I've ;ost a lot of weight since his passing. He would talk in his sleep about food...chicken parm, everything bagel with cream cheese and bacon.... big mac.... Then he would complain I was always hungry lol
@@tamilee9462 Aww that's so sweet. I'm sorry you lost him. I can't imagine how tragic that would be. I try to remind myself that every moment is a gift and most people never even get to find a relationship like that, so we have both been very blessed it seems.
This is the beginning of a beautiful friendship between Nick and Lala 🫶
I know, I was shipping them. 😅
That's not what I got from their talk lol. They seem to have different standards for friendships
Not anymore. Nowadays, Nick keeps talking about Lala & Scheana like a dog, calling them bitter and jealous of Ariana.
Nick please make her come back!!! We need lala back after all the chaos!
I love lala so much. I've watched almost all of her interviews lately she's a badass mom and woman❤ thanks for inspiring us.
The BEST episode yet! Lala was fantastic... I like the way Nick was interacting with Lala.. they would honestly be great hosting a podcast together. Lala was so comfortable and the conversations were interesting and not forced. Go for more of this vibe!!
I heard that our lowest deepest darkest hardest moments are also our best moments in life BECAUSE we really come into who we are and LEARN what we’re made of and how we survive and strengthen ourselves and so much more. Damn life is so fucking wild.
@Nick, I haven’t watched The Bachelor since season 2. Therefore I have no opinions of who you are. I hopped on to watch this podcast for the LIB fiasco and I have now binged at least a few episodes by now. I have to say that I truly enjoy how you and your team interview your guests. It’s insightful, relatable, so real and you guys do such a great job at getting answers. You’ve absolutely gained a new fan!
Lala has shown so much strength and growth after becoming a mom. ❤
No. She uses being a mom as an excuse to justify her awful behavior. Shes vile
This conversation was EPIC. You both seem like you understand each other on a fundamental level I’m hoping this becomes a real friendship honestly! Lala is amazing, need more real people like y’all out there 💯
What a great conversation. Nick I know ppl have different opinions about certain topics but your podcast is always intriguing and makes you think great job to you guys
You don't realise how intelligent lala is until you listen to a podcast like this because going off the show Vanderpump Rules you get a very surface perspective of her character... thanks for this podcast and what excellent questioning and interviewing skills from Nick
He's amazing.
Listening to Lala talk about how the hardest part is what is happening to her daughter. I am a mom of 3 boys and my husband was arrested in July so sine then I have been alone. Its hard but the hardest part is that my kids are hurting because their dad isnt in the home anymore. That is the hardest part. I may be out but they arent...
I saw a tiktoc of a girl talking about how she does not wash her hands after leaving the public bathroom, and I was SHOOK that in the comments so many people said that they do that too. Truly, a community for ANYONE.
I see women do this in the bathroom/locker room at my gym and I’m baffled. Not for nothing, they should at least wash them out of shame.
True lol. most just do the dip wash anyways. They know No soap comes out of the dispenser, but still give it a pump and do a 2 second dip through the water hitting the dryer with their elbow on the way out. 🤭Let’s be real. Lol.
Recap:
26:00: 💬 Lala discusses loyalty, friendships, and being perceived as intimidating.
35:20: 💔 Lala discusses feeling hurt by comments about her relationship and motherhood, and vows to confront those who weaponize her pain.
44:34: 💔 Discussion on love, relationships, and being cautious in dating due to past experiences.
53:42: 🎢 Lala reflects on painful experiences, finding exhilaration in surviving them and being reminded by scents and songs.
1:03:04: ⚖️ Lala discusses her co-parenting situation with Randall and prioritizing her daughter's well-being.
1:11:58: 🗣️ Discussion about conflict avoidance and its impact on relationships and friendships.
1:20:42: 🤔 Discussion about the complexities of friendships, vulnerability, and associations with controversial individuals.
1:30:12: 🔍 Highlighting the importance of helping someone in need and providing them with an opportunity to determine who they can trust.
1:38:52: 💔 Discussion about a regretful encounter, sharing screenshots, and offering empathy to the girlfriend of the person involved.
1:48:28: 👩🦰 Lala discusses the unequal blame placed on women for men's actions and the need for accountability.
Recap by Tammy AI
We need more men like Nick in this world. Nvr really agree with someone on every level but Nick I do n I respect it.
the amount of respect i have for this woman in insane. I knew I liked her from the start of Vanderpump but holy shit, she's amazing. she is a reality tv star that you actually want to look up to shes not just talking about her book or stupid brand deals on these podcasts its very refreshing.
This is an incredibly vulnerable and beautiful episode
Helpful suggestion, can you guys zoom in on the screen or whatever they are sharing? I never see what you guys are talking about. Lol
13:36 the sit the fuck down really got me 🤣🤣🤣
Ok but Lisa was right she was young & pretty and very naive and She turned a blind eye
Whoever edits these videos - first of all, great job! Would love it if we could see what is on the TV screen at the beginning of a new topic, especially at the episode beginnings. Probably not always possible and maybe it's not worth the extra work, but the top of the screen is kind of a tease
ONE DAY AT A TIME LALA! You’re amazing, you’re such a loving mother. You clearly will protect your daughter and anyone you love so fiercely and selflessly. I love you. I always have! ❤❤❤❤
i used to not like LaLa when she was first on the show but boy have i grown to love her so much! i feel like shes grown so much or just became more "herself" on camera but shes amazing, intelligent and beautiful and funny...i just love her! i know a lot of people judge her but they dont see what shes been thru or maybe they havent been thru real shit in life so they dont get her...great interview!
also, please include clips of whatever video, pic or other "internet" stuff you guys are talking about on the screen so we can all see it too
❤I love the fact Lala engaged with all three podcast hosts.She’s super cool 🫶🏻🙏fifi
She can STILL and ALWAYS make her daughters life great! Never forget.
🤣 at lala at the end giving that girl advice to Tell the 'other woman" she slept with her partner the other night. What about Lala's reaction to all the ppl who warned HER about Randall when they were still together?! None of those ppl got Thanks from Lala! They were sprayed with vitriol and hate!
Great interview! Lala is such a badass! Sometimes a hot mess but at least she owns her sh*t. Love that about her.
I used to listen to Layla and Randalspodcast he seemed like the nicest most positive kindest person. That was just his public persona
1:02:25 just thinking about Lala being in recovery, I’ve been sober for just over 2yrs. And as they were speaking about regrets and what you can control… like thank God Lala is an alcoholic and leaner how to deal with it. I can’t imagine trying to go through this without coping skills. 🙏❤️
This is my first time really watching this podcast. I watched for Lala but I am a huge bachelor nation fan. I’m really impressed with how much Nick has changed and matured since his time on that show. You may have just gained a new regular listener. I already love Lala and now I really like Nick.
The intro before the interview has me always laughing! I love your dynamic and you guys are hilarious 😂😂
I love you, Amanda for pronouncing keto like “khetto”, similar to ghetto. Lolol
It had me questioning myself hahaha
Lala is not stupid i guess she was just blinded by private planes fancy vacations, gifts showing off to her friends. Unfortunately now your daughter will be affected by this break up and once old enough to read and watch everything on mommy and daddy. This will definitely be trama, drama and scaring sorry no matter how you slice it
also i love nick but he was def tested with lala in terms of her intelligence. shes like his female match lol
This was a great interview!
I loved this interview so much! Congrats to you, LaLa, for being so independent and strong and such an amazing advocate for you and your beautiful daughter! I'm a huge fan of yours here and love the lessons you're sharing with all us all here. Appreciate it so much esp too b/c I have a 4 year old daughter myself. Hugs. I also have to say the name "Ocean" esp for a girl is beautiful, I love that.
19:06 so true we should be able to disagree with friends but at the end of the day still be friends
I like to believe anything bad can happen to you in a Chilis’. Epic statement & words to live with ! 😂😂😂🙏❤️
Buttttttt … I’ve done that twice. Once I didn’t sleep with the man. Just saw him with a woman not his wife. (And three children. They don’t have an open marriage) I told both women. Both I ended up the one that was seen as a liar. The one with the 3 children my husband saw them too and suggested I tell her. But they didn’t blame him. I didn’t know the first one I met and knew for only a week. Ended it when I found out. And I was soooo kind to both women. Told them having complete empathy and didn’t stay over involved. But wow would I do it again. Idk. 🤷🏼♀️
Was there ever an update on the caller who unknowingly slept with someone’s baby daddy ?! If so what episode pleaseee
nicks untied shoes is killing me
Can someone tell me how I can watch/listen to “better date than never” after the fact? Or can you ONLY listen while it’s live?
I think with Amp you can only do it live. But I’d love to know if there’s another way. I listen to a show on Thursdays at 5 pm while I walk my dogs because I can’t listen anywhere else.
I’m a SAHM, and yes lala, is right. I don’t have the connections or money she has but we always need a plan b!
My husband is perfect and supports us BUT I’m finishing up my certifications in IT as a Latina, for my daughter and I. Even if my husband and I last forever, what gets me through school is realizing I can give my daughter everything she wants and needs on my own. I’m doing all of this so one day she knows she doesn’t need anybody.
Lala completely missed the mark when Nick said that friendships in L.A. are based off of convenience....She wants her friends to ask how she's doing and care about her life but she herself burns bridges if her friends "don't add to her life" or "suck her soul dry" when she's around them. Does she not realized that she's doing to others exactly what she doesn't want done to her? She's literally proving Nick right, she's "burning bridges" because she finds it inconvenient to deal with other people's issues, but she wants them to care about hers 🤨. She's right, she's not a good friend, because that seems totally one sided.
Lala Kent at 1 hour and 21 minutes ''' dude you'd be a tough one to be friends with '' comment of the night ..... And has you thinking about Nick's elevated expectations of friendships
I love Lala and loved this, BUT she was so hypocritical talking about how her friends should reach out to see how she’s doing and then 10 min later saying she doesn’t want friends to do that because she has her family. I was confused and wish Nick questioned that.
"I threw up Taco Bell and went back" low-key trying to say yes I 🍻 before going to Taco Bell
I agreed with 99% of what nick said through this episode.
What a beautiful conversation! Subscribed!
Where can we get updates on the call hour I have been watching these all day and I want to know the ipdates
Lala, as a child of divorce, at Ocean's age, she will think it's normal. She is at a young age. My brother was a bit older than her when they divorced. He didn't see a difference. You're a strong woman and will guide her so she won't feel different from other kids. You got this!
I cannot stand when people say kids are resilient. I know everybody says that to make themselves feel better. Kids are not resilient. They carry their trauma to adulthood which then results in lots of therapy for the childhood trauma
This woman is frikking gorgeous and full of life! I love her intelligence, capacity for self-analysis and interest in growth and change. Big fan.
Wow, this aged well. Great interview!
Is having a virtual breakfast that needs champagne a thing? I was so confused by that.
I worked @ Islands! It's my fave!! Love y'all ❤️
Hard disagree with the cereal w/ milk. I say some soft fruits like peeled oranges, strawberries. Yogurt. Maybe some bread, or baked goods. Those are the most considerate in my opinion.
This healed me
Red flag sandwich is anything on a scooped out bagel or scooped out baguette. They’re just masquerading as a sandwich person.
Love me some LaLa she says in a real down to earth way
Much respect. Great conversation
why does the red headed chick at the end ask the same question 4 ways? we got it the first time.
this shit was good Lala is truly evolving!
Let’s just watch Nick drool over lala
Yet again you were showing us and talking about Drew Barrymore images like you were about images on the last episode about a different image but you failed to show us even though we're watching on TH-cam..... Can you either show us all the images via well-positioned camera or don't invite the FOMO ..... Now I want to see Drew Barrymore's pictures that you refer to but I'm frustrated because you don't even give a link
Nice to see LaLa Kent does have a strong moral compass. I realize this as she talks about feeling guilty about bringing Ocean into a conflicted relationship. I like her, but I do wish she'd be more private with her sexuality. Ocean is likely going to view the tv shows and be embarrassed about her mother's lack of privacy and liberalness. I know that's me being judgmental, but for me no matter what people's sexuality should be private publicly. It's not a problem talking among a small group of friends who you are intimate with, but not for the world to know so much.
Omg the date of this episode
She wanted to leave for a really long time, but instead she stayed and had a kid??? Lala is so fake and stayed with Randall for his Money which has been her motive since day 1.
I'm sorry we need darker hair lala back. Besides that I wanna add, she is gorgeous, funny and the completey sober one of the bunch and has a very clear mind to speak the things she says. She doesn't need to be drunk to be entertaining nor to be herself.
Re: friendships. Not everyone is meant to be an entree. Appetizers have their place. ✌️😂
Never listened to this human- maybe seen him once. I am the same way as Lala and you- nick, are you a Virgo lol? I actually have the same birthday as LVP, sept 15th and I guess prince Harry and other people that day but you seem to think very deeply and idk- very relatable. Stopped this only a few minutes in because not taking victim mentality is huge for me and I’m digging all of this- subscribed noW. Appreciate this dialogue
How do we find out the follow ups form the office hours?
Pity she can’t look back at this interview… not a girls girl atm ugh😢
Best line ever spoken in an argument, Lala to Katie, DISENGAGE!! I don’t argue often but I most definitely stole it and put it my arsenal!😂😂😂🙏❤️
lala but you had katie helping build chairs lol
Cereal? Who wants to hear people slurp milk lol
I'm not American but I visit LA every couple of years and I find it completely hysterical that the response to the rapidly growing homeless crisis going on in LA was to change the terminology from homeless to unhoused, so on brand for California! It's the most meaningless and empty response imaginable, I assure you no homeless person is concerned with what word you're using to convey their living situation but would rather some form of action is taken to help them remedy it. Great for Dave Grohl, that is such a wonderful thing to do.
Lala, you are forever my favorite from the cast. And I love how maturely you described what you are most proud of 💗💗
"I don't associate with weakness"
God forbid anyone in your life shows vulnerability or "weakness."
You all have been that person yet love to aim at the weaker link. You think you're the alpha, but you're just a bully.
Meh, she’s not a bully, she just doesn’t want to associate with weak ass cowards that bend because they don’t want to be unpopular rather than stand their ground and do the right thing. Weakness to her I believe is NOT OWNING your shit and weaseling out of it with bullshit excuses. I think Lala respects people that own their weaknesses and actively WORK on those weaknesses rather than deny that they have any .
@Pixy Mixy meh, being weak isn't something any therapist would refer to anyone as. Enough with the alpha shit.
Anyone else hardcore shipping these two now??!
Integrate your ego and shadow self to truly find inner peace and strength
With peace and love, a timestamp would have been lovely
Hmmm, they would make a great couple 😘
nick asks about 8 questions in one go, and goes on and on making the same point. also STOP WITH THE RESTLESS LEG
You two should work together!!!!! You guys vibe
I keep looking for pod casts that will call this woman out. Ridiculous. LaLa is not a Lion when it will come to A Real One. She would be read to tears. This is pathetic.
Nick your shoe is untied.
I am telling u Virgos are a blessing men n women. Their real no sugar coating n will be loyal to no fault even if they don't agree they will tell u but still have ur back like real ppl should. They say if u have nvr slept with a Virgo or had a friend that's a Virgo ur missing out. They lead with all heart n love n their gut feelings are spot on n I am a Virgo fan! Love LaLa n LVP both Virgo's even Beyonce is a Virgo, alot of the greats are Virgos.
Lala is awesome!! 🙏🙏🙏❤️❤️❤️
Nick and Lala would be the cutest couple
hell yeah LALA i total agree totally what i teach my children ... i understand if the man wants to take care of you and have a family but a woman should never lose herself in the relationship or marriage a woman needs to be there own individual as well as well vise vera if a man is the stay at home daddy .... and your children will totally appreciate that
But what if she cant leave and you tell her and now if gets nasty in there relationship and they have a kid