How to Break Up With Your Boyfriend (The RIGHT Way)

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  • @gone.sailing
    @gone.sailing 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1965

    i love him but im not in love anymore.
    hes not who i pictured my life to be with im always constantly in a battle with myself. 😭

    • @hayleyz3578
      @hayleyz3578 8 ปีที่แล้ว +125

      Allison Mouser that's my same problem it's so hard

    • @bluevelvettt
      @bluevelvettt 7 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Same here..

    • @blackfox4690
      @blackfox4690 7 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Allison Same

    • @lisamona8255
      @lisamona8255 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

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    • @miniksi5992
      @miniksi5992 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      U are the best

  • @izzyconley4948
    @izzyconley4948 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1275

    I want to break up with this guy but he loves me more then anything and I feel bad breaking up but it's long distance relationship and I don't know what to do (help)

    • @nocturnalmeatpie2200
      @nocturnalmeatpie2200 8 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Again, thats depend on the problem(s). If it's fixable, then try to fix it first :)

    • @ajaraiii
      @ajaraiii 8 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Same here!!

    • @thenerdnextdoor3239
      @thenerdnextdoor3239 8 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      its better to break up with him now if u don't love him because otherwise you are literally saying u love him when u don't

    • @MrSnail-ih1rk
      @MrSnail-ih1rk 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      same

    • @thenerdnextdoor3239
      @thenerdnextdoor3239 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Izzy Conley yayyyyyyyyy I'm so proud😅😺🙌🙌

  • @catherinee6878
    @catherinee6878 8 ปีที่แล้ว +913

    I want to break up with him, but I'm too scared too.. He loves me, and I used to, but I just don't feel the relationship anymore. And, I like someone else, too. 😕

    • @gabi-gj1eg
      @gabi-gj1eg 7 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      catheriine same here

    • @hi-kd8vd
      @hi-kd8vd 7 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      catherinee sameeeee

    • @trash7692
      @trash7692 7 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      same

    • @jrivera3628
      @jrivera3628 7 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Same! I don't want to lead him on so I need to break up with him already

    • @fabiolasalgado9608
      @fabiolasalgado9608 7 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      catherinee meee tooo

  • @chloelevasseur5196
    @chloelevasseur5196 9 ปีที่แล้ว +511

    or you could just leave this video on your laptop and leave it in your their room

  • @tsekui
    @tsekui 8 ปีที่แล้ว +595

    holy loud ass intro, almost had a heart attack..

  • @lexiehoy8487
    @lexiehoy8487 8 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    I'm dating this guy we have been dating for three months. He told me he loves me and I told him that I loved him to. Some days I really like him but some days I just wanna be single and just not have to worry about anything. (Help)

  • @sparklesandroses
    @sparklesandroses 6 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    super important not to jump into another relationship and spend time being single!!!!

    • @LoveStrategies
      @LoveStrategies  6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      💯

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Being single is nothing to be ashamed of. Better no relationship than a toxic one.

    • @michellelohde8729
      @michellelohde8729 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LoveStrategies my boyfriend and I been frighting for 4 mouths we been together for over year we loves each others but he kissed another girl after our fright what I do ? we on break i he is transgender i want break up ,

  • @harleerozeboom5327
    @harleerozeboom5327 7 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    My boyfriend thinks it's him and that we can fix it, but the problem is I love him but I just don't see myself with him in the future. I don't love him as I used to. I don't want people to be mad with me for ending it with him but I don't want to keep it going when I don't love him anymore.

    • @victoriastarle3048
      @victoriastarle3048 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Harlee Rozeboom
      how did you do it/

    • @winterlol857
      @winterlol857 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      SAME

    • @ghostachillescepeda9620
      @ghostachillescepeda9620 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I am in the same boat , crying myself to sleep every night and avoiding him during school. But the worst part is, he told everyone that I said we were dating BEFORE we were dating

    • @keptins
      @keptins 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope he found someone better for himself 💙

    • @fatounaghazou8345
      @fatounaghazou8345 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yo same here ... need help

  • @charlottegardner2010
    @charlottegardner2010 8 ปีที่แล้ว +648

    I'm breaking up with my boyfriend tomorrow. I have commitment issues and I'm not really sure I want to be in a relationship at the moment. This is going to be my first time breaking up with someone (I'm usually the one getting dumped). My problem is that he suffers depression so I don't know how this will turn out. I'm really scared, wish me luck.

    • @jimjohnson3364
      @jimjohnson3364 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      How did it go

    • @jimjohnson3364
      @jimjohnson3364 8 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      FYI I'm a girl on my brothers account

    • @charlottegardner2010
      @charlottegardner2010 8 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      Eh, we kind of talk. He has started to avoid me (And is getting strangely close to my best friend) but such is life.

    • @asmranonymous9596
      @asmranonymous9596 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Charlotte Gardner This is literally what I'm going through right now.

    • @katielight8363
      @katielight8363 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Charlotte Gardner That is so freaking weird Im literally in the same exact boat. Same exact thing going on with me like the depression and being afraid to call it off but being more afraid of not...

  • @daniasamir6878
    @daniasamir6878 8 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    What if he is so stupid thats you tried millions times to broke up with him and he keeps begging and asking for new chance and nothing really change

    • @lasalviriquena8926
      @lasalviriquena8926 8 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Dania Samir Stand your ground

    • @KeventeLewis
      @KeventeLewis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dania Samir Same here

    • @jessiebeauty2779
      @jessiebeauty2779 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Say noo

    • @bobharris3136
      @bobharris3136 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Leave him say you can't and no say why and leave

    • @sumbianielsen3850
      @sumbianielsen3850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Omg!!!! this is the exact problem I’m facing right now 🤔☺️

  • @vilyda
    @vilyda 8 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I did this and It worked really well. We remained friends and even hugged after the break up. Easiest break up ever. Thank you.

    • @Sofia-eo8jy
      @Sofia-eo8jy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Victoria Dann lucky 😕 I already know mine isn’t going to take it so well...

  • @divoportugal2576
    @divoportugal2576 8 ปีที่แล้ว +352

    I can't break up because my boyfriend is so happy that hes whit me but i don't want to be on a relationship whit him

    • @laurenwinstanle5512
      @laurenwinstanle5512 8 ปีที่แล้ว +116

      +bea like music i hate it when they say that line "I'm so happy you're mine... i love you so much" and if you dont say it back they look worried and i can't bring myself to break up with him, but i dont feel the same anymore.. guys make it so hard!!

    • @vanessar1630
      @vanessar1630 7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      The same thing is happening to me I told my friend that the first week we started to say I really loved him but now I don’t and I’m going to date him for pity ness but she said no bc it’s going to hurt him more later on. Honestly idk how to break up with bc I see him at school and we have the same classes and his friends know about it. He really loves me a lot

    • @sodapop62
      @sodapop62 6 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Same... my bf is way to attached to me and won't leave me alone... and I want to break up because I don't like him anymore. but I feel guilty so I haven't broken up yet...

    • @oliviab4388
      @oliviab4388 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      soda pop Same :(

    • @xxbubblesx1202
      @xxbubblesx1202 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @stinkybutt02able
    @stinkybutt02able 8 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    I'm breaking up with my bf friend tomorrow because I never see him outside of school, he doesn't have a phone so I can't contact him, my heart isn't in it 100%, and he irritates my soul.

    • @KeventeLewis
      @KeventeLewis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kimberlyn McMurray 😂😂😂😂

    • @corrierobert02
      @corrierobert02 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kimberlyn McMurray
      we r on the same boat

    • @kenzie5789
      @kenzie5789 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kimberlyn McMurray omg same! Idk how to do it

    • @courtneyfindlay3849
      @courtneyfindlay3849 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is exactly what I'm going through😂

    • @emnabouzguenda3116
      @emnabouzguenda3116 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kimberlyn McMurray "he irritates my soul" lmao

  • @corinnemurray7684
    @corinnemurray7684 8 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I started crying after watching this video. I'm gonna do it. I need to get it over with already. I was so in love with him the first couple of months. he was my best friend. but I've noticed that 90% of the contacts in his phones are girls. he never texts me anymore. I'm always the one to say hi first. he never wants to go out so that I can actually see him. I haven't seen him in three weeks. he said he's sorry and that he loves me and doesn't want to loose me. he said he'll try harder. that was two weeks ago. he hasn't changed a single bit. today was our eight month anniversary. I waited to see if he was going to say anything. nothing. not a single text. I've wasted so many tears on that boy. I bought him a gift about a month ago. but I haven't seen him at all, so I never got to give it to him. idk what I'm going to do with the gift now. I'm so torn up right now. should I break up with him? or should I stay and see if he gets better?

    • @corinnemurray7684
      @corinnemurray7684 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i did it. and now i feel like shit.

    • @chernille4916
      @chernille4916 8 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      just give him up.. at first u wl feel horrible but soon in the future u wl laugh at urself for crying over him.For now listen to sum idfwu songs

    • @corinnemurray7684
      @corinnemurray7684 8 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      +Bunny _ lmao yeah I'm over it now. I figured out he actually had a thing with another girl. I slapped him. i am soo done with him.

    • @shahermyonez6647
      @shahermyonez6647 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@corinnemurray7684 good for you!!!!! Yeah. I broke with him last week. I wonder if he had a thing with another girl. Whatever fuck him. Ahhh he was so annoying. He told me to not forget him after not talking to me for a week. I said off course I could never forget you. He said "same" with some stupid emojis. And then doesn't talk to me for 8,9 days. When I finally say hi to him. He says he is watching a movie. Like he got time to watch movies but doesn't have a single moment to talk to me. Whatever if you don't wanna talk to me. F u then. I never get angry with him but at that moment I was just done. I sent a angry text saying how he changed and the fact that he doesn't even talk to me. Like dude break up with me instead of keeping me as a option. What the hell happened to me being his "best friend". He doesn't reply for 2 days but has the adacity to change his bio to "watch for for what you see in people". At this point I feel like shit, and I felt like I was in the wrong. But you know what, I talked to this one person who told me that I should forget and work on myself. Finally, broke up and he just pretty much says "K". I wrote everything in a reply to the person in top of you. Iam so done. I miss the good part of him. But I have to remind myself how shit he is. Byee boy.

    • @shahermyonez6647
      @shahermyonez6647 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hope one day he looks back and regrets everything he did to loose me who would have anything for him. Fuck him. But I still wish him all the best in life.

  • @jgunn03
    @jgunn03 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    A restraining order usually gets the point across.

  • @andinawong8424
    @andinawong8424 8 ปีที่แล้ว +167

    I am trying to break up with my bf now. But I am really scared I might deeply hurt his feelings since we have only been together for less than a month. But if I don't break up with him, I feel really tired about talking to him every day and I don't have any feelings for him any more. What should I do ?

    • @gen492
      @gen492 8 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      You just explained my whole entire problem...

    • @alexisfernando9677
      @alexisfernando9677 7 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Andina Wong going through the same thing here :( we have been dating for less than a month and I feel like it's too early to end it. I like another guy and I have liked that guy since I met him last year and we got really close but then just faded away. My boyfriend now is a really great guy and he is super nice and always makes me laugh but whenever I am with him I just don't feel comfortable :( I felt better being single to be honest. But just seeing the other guy that I like just make me question if I am doing the wrong thing. That maybe I shouldn't be dating this guy.

    • @mxriuhna
      @mxriuhna 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Andina Wong same

    • @alexisfernando9677
      @alexisfernando9677 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      XARIA DUROCHER maybe just tell him that you don't have feelings for him anymore and that you just want to stay as friends. I broke up with my boy friend ( the one I was talking about) and we are really close friends now

    • @nopurpose2050
      @nopurpose2050 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have the same problem! Did you break up with him cause if you did how??

  • @bellacooper9357
    @bellacooper9357 7 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    I wanna break up with my boyfriend but he loves me more than the world and he suffers from depression and he's so nice to me and I feel bad because I like someone else and I feel uncomfortable around him. I need help

    • @kyliedrabik4406
      @kyliedrabik4406 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      wow im actually in that same exact situation. im just gonna tell him that i cant date and we should take a little break and then go get that other boy who likes me!! jkjk but you can do the same if you feel the need

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Try breaking up slowly and talking through your problems.you can either break up but still talk as friends or just never talk to him

    • @gaymhur
      @gaymhur 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @Heart_Fxx
      @Heart_Fxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You are not responsible for anyone’s happiness

    • @Em_Elizabeth
      @Em_Elizabeth 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same. He's on medication for his depression but I know things got self-destructive with the last girl he briefly dated.

  • @vanessapamer4041
    @vanessapamer4041 9 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I want to break up with my boyfriend because we have never been on 1 date because he is to busy with baseball and I have a crush on someone else and I dont know what to do I need help

  • @ticasimo2096
    @ticasimo2096 6 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    I don’t have a boyfriend
    Why am I watching this

  • @amyfan1997
    @amyfan1997 7 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    How to break up with someone: leave your search history open after watching these videos lmao

    • @lyssamoon3494
      @lyssamoon3494 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      how to break up with someone even better: leave this video open with this comment liked

  • @daydreambarbie
    @daydreambarbie 6 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    me - *quickly sends message*
    also me - *shuts off phone cause too scared for response*
    also also me - almost cries*

  • @Cloud420-bx2kw
    @Cloud420-bx2kw 8 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I want to break up with my bf cause me and him have nothing in common I'm an outgoing emo who loves rock and heavy metal and he's a shy preppy American guy it's just not working out I want someone who's similar to me

  • @savannah4229
    @savannah4229 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My boyfriend is a asking person. He's really sweet and kind but I just don't feel like we're meant to date. Help me pls I don't want to break his heart or regret it

  • @billcipher9787
    @billcipher9787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I'm breaking up with my boyfriend because I just don't have time for him my life is too busy at the moment I don't have time for a relationship but he's sensitive and I don't know what to do(help)

  • @jennaalyssa2203
    @jennaalyssa2203 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    my boyfriend doesnt want to propose to me because of his job he screamed and cursed at me and said he hated me i said i wanted to break up but he only listens to what he wants to hear.

  • @sophiiamitchelll
    @sophiiamitchelll 7 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    im breaking up with mines cuz he's a full time player and i know for a fact he's cheating. and i can tell he deleted messages on insta. and he takes forever to reply to me which makes me think he's cheating. everyone warned me bout him tho .

  • @lovemecom3832
    @lovemecom3832 7 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    If you don't feel anything anymore just say it will all honesty.

    • @nehafathima8421
      @nehafathima8421 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      LoveMe,com but I'm really scared tbh. I don't feel anything yeah and I feel suffocated and pretty much like it's holding me down and makes me sick to my stomach but I'm just scared

  • @Lucy-nm2en
    @Lucy-nm2en 7 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    my boyfriend is just taking things wayyy too fast. he already says he loves me and is calling me baby. we have been dating for 2 days. we have also only known each other, for 2 days. oml

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      I have the same situation.what should i do ? Should i break up with him? Because im always the person to text first.the person who starts the conversation its annoying

    • @tsunnyan
      @tsunnyan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      :( mine too, i need sollution fast. And plus, mine is a gold digger.

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@tsunnyan just dump him cuz if he gold digger well he aint worth your time

    • @jordaanww
      @jordaanww 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      THATA MY PROBLEM TOO

  • @twdcraft8536
    @twdcraft8536 8 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    My boyfriend never text me anymore, always just saying he's busy when, dude you make time for those you love, he never even flirts with me anymore. He gets pissed at me randomly when I did NOTHING even just saying anything I can do to help? We used to be so close but now it's like we are drifting apart and he doesn't care anymore. I talked to him about it a few times but he just blows me off. I told him one time I had a dream where we started a family together and he just laughed. Sometimes, when I say I love him he never says it back. We never even have fun together like we used to.... shit now I'm crying :"( What do I do?

    • @k8ne0456
      @k8ne0456 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Twd Craft Dude this sounds weird but I have the same problem as you.

    • @jourww3920
      @jourww3920 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Same i kept thinking about breaking up but im scared that its the wrong choice

    • @gewoonme3653
      @gewoonme3653 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have the same problem. Pls someone give me tips on how I should break up with him. I've been crying for days now I can't take this anymore

    • @hannahsutherland5518
      @hannahsutherland5518 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Twd Craft my eyes literally started to be filled with tears 😢. If he is making you so unhappy and he doesn’t even care … I think you know what you should do. Good luck 🍀

    • @hannahsutherland5518
      @hannahsutherland5518 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ajournai Honey_Lemon I think I’m their … I really love him but he keeps bringing up his ex and I think I should just leave and let them be together but I’m gonna see him every freaking day on campus … I was gonna do it December when he was suppose to graduate but he isn’t leaving till next your August now…

  • @katharinafuchs2973
    @katharinafuchs2973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I feel so bad in my Relationship bc i think i never rly loved him, i just liked him much.. but i'm afraid to break up bc i dont want to hurt him, to be alone and to lose our friends bc i think they all would hate me if i break up w/him..
    Pls help me😩

  • @undertaletrash1097
    @undertaletrash1097 7 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I'm breaking up with my boyfriend soon, and I'm really scared. he has a lot of mental issues that I dont think I can handle both anymore, I dont want anything bad to happen because he could do anything. I mean ANYTHING. he was a caring person in general but, when im around him I dont feel like myself. Wish me luck!

    • @tasheve3015
      @tasheve3015 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Undertaletrash How did it go?

    • @pjmingi8709
      @pjmingi8709 7 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I have the same issue thing is I’m too scared to break up with mine

    • @ellaluvs21suarez32
      @ellaluvs21suarez32 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      same he stalks and might hurt me.

    • @bangchansonyeondan349
      @bangchansonyeondan349 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same.. Im scared too

  • @BeefDotXML
    @BeefDotXML 6 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I've been in a relationship with a guy for a year and 4 months now.. There isn't much wrong with the guy at all. He's sweet, caring, friendly, and he cares about me, but I feel like this isn't working for me. Nothing bad has happened in the relationship, other than him telling me over texting he's starting to have a crush on someone he doesn't know (whom is in one of his classes), which a bit after that made me have second thoughts, though I was thankful he talked it through with me.
    But now I feel uncomfortable when he hugs me or gives me kisses in a 'boyfriend' way. He sort've now feels like an over-protective brother now, ya know? He's once before given off that vibe to me when we had previously broken up, because we didn't think we were ready for a relationship. After that it felt like nothing had changed other than not addressing him as 'my boyfriend'. I don't think the relationship will work out, and I expected this, but now that the time has come for me to realise that it won't last I'm too scared to break it to him, along with me now feeling attracted to a girl whom is very nice and kind.
    Is breaking up with my boyfriend the right thing to do if I feel this way?

  • @siven8471
    @siven8471 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The guy I’m with is moving wayyy to fast for my likings. He’s always texting me and I just want a little space u know?? I want to be single but I’m scared I’ll hurt his feelings :(

  • @abigailwanty2263
    @abigailwanty2263 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a boyfriend and i was thinking about breaking up with him, because we don't talk in person anymore, he is always " too busy" to text or call and he is always talking to his girl "best friend" when im his girlfriend. His friends have been telling him to talk to me because they noticed it to. He was talking to me for like 2 days but now he is doing it again!
    I love him and in need of help because i don't want to louse him... Help me😢😢

  • @KeventeLewis
    @KeventeLewis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I want to break up with my boyfriend of 4 years. He's become clingy, paranoid, physcotic, and depressing. Lol Now I've done everything to help him and us. He's aggravating, overbaring now and I don't want him. He's not who he used to be. I'm in a very happy spot in my life.. and his misery brings me down. misery loves company

    • @KeventeLewis
      @KeventeLewis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Breaking up with him tomorrow morning. Goodnight ✌☺

    • @KeventeLewis
      @KeventeLewis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Pray for me because this dude did say if I leave him or be with someone else he's gonna kill me , my family, and his self. Alot of times now I'm worried about breaking up with him and walking around the same city...

    • @saijafantauzzi1772
      @saijafantauzzi1772 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      did you do it? was it ok?
      @@KeventeLewis

    • @ezimzalabim100
      @ezimzalabim100 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ke'Vente Lewis have you yet?

  • @amberbaker1121
    @amberbaker1121 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm dating a really sweet guy and he loves me more than anything and I just dont feel a spark anymore and I dont know what to do because all my friends are saying I should stay with him and one of them said the reason I don't feel anything anymore is bc I dont do anything w him. Idk what to do. Plz help.

    • @LoveStrategies
      @LoveStrategies  6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you don't feel a spark then it is time to move on!

    • @gacha_floss7703
      @gacha_floss7703 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey. I don't know you so I don't know if you broke up with this guy, but if you have... Is there any advice?

  • @iriscortez5889
    @iriscortez5889 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I only dated a guy for a day and I regretted it right away , I felt right away he wasn’t the type of guy I would like to be with so I want to break up and this helped very much !

  • @orphanaccount-l8r
    @orphanaccount-l8r 8 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I need serious help I have a boyfriend and I do NOT like him I used to like him sure but now I see us as just friends! But i can tell he really loves me... Now here's the weird part I am in love with person and well I'm pretty sure he likes me I can tell the only reason he hasn't asked me out is the fact that I have a boyfriend... I really like this other person and I've caught him straight up staring at me and when he realized I caught him he jerks his head toward an object and stares at it... Is this a sign that he likes me and what should I do with this other relationship

    • @natalias603
      @natalias603 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emerald Orca the staring then looking away when you see him is usually a sign

    • @BrentonGandyE
      @BrentonGandyE 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Emerald Orca what's the issue? it seems like you want to be with the other guy.

    • @optimisticgrl
      @optimisticgrl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It's time to let your boyfriend go if you haven't done it already. Don't be that person who emotionally cheats on their part. Just dump the guy.

    • @orphanaccount-l8r
      @orphanaccount-l8r 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      optimisticgrl I broke up with him. Now he's a little shit that said he was gonna use me and that he never really liked me... he was the one that asked me out...(he's gay now)

    • @optimisticgrl
      @optimisticgrl 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He sounds like an emotional mess! You dodged the bullet by dropping him!

  • @staggers67
    @staggers67 8 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    This guy asked me out and to be honest i never really wanted to date him anyway i find it much more easy being single, but i said yes because i didnt want to hurt his feelings and i see him at school everyday and have to sit next to him in most lessons. We've only been dating for a couple hours and i just know its not right, I know i was trying to not hurt his feelings by saying yes but i think i'm gonna hurt his feelings even more by dumping him so soon. What should i do?

    • @gracev5297
      @gracev5297 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hold on for a few days or weeks the try to brake up

    • @xxfrostqueenxxyt2133
      @xxfrostqueenxxyt2133 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kacie Stagg im in the same situation ive dated him for 5 days and i just want to be friend i have a guilt part of me and i feel horrible

    • @BrentonGandyE
      @BrentonGandyE 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Kacie Stagg I was with a girl whom I had no attraction to at all. Make a long story short she became my first love. Sadly she died 7 years ago. And I miss her everyday.

    • @chloemai5318
      @chloemai5318 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I know the feeling and idk what to do !

    • @cathleenzhang6997
      @cathleenzhang6997 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kacie Stagg I feel you girl, that's what I did I rlly don't want to hurt him

  • @aboodlifetv778
    @aboodlifetv778 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Being single is comfortable trust me.

  • @sprinkleheartstv6861
    @sprinkleheartstv6861 8 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    I'm having my first relationship right now and it's so weird I said yes since I was desperate to find someone and for peer pressure and now I want to break u0 with him even if only less than 24 hours happend I don't want a forced relationship but he's really sweet and I feel like I'm gonna break his soul should I try it out or should I be unhappy to make him happy

    • @fa1ry_eyes
      @fa1ry_eyes 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sprinkle HeartsTV I started my first relationship today but im not sure if he really loves me and it feels uncomfortable. :/

    • @amruthakarlapudi9359
      @amruthakarlapudi9359 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sprinkle HeartsTV omg sameee

    • @lovelive9249
      @lovelive9249 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sprinkle HeartsTV That’s me rn

    • @nataleegwinn732
      @nataleegwinn732 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Feel the same on somedays. Ive been dating someone for almost 2 months and im only in 7th grade. (Kinda dumb not gonna lie) but he talk to other girls sometimes more than me. Such as his ex and it bothers the shit out of me sometimes. But i learned to cope with it.

  • @Khmerpride2013
    @Khmerpride2013 9 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    how do do break up with someone who lives with you?

    • @kakehg9299
      @kakehg9299 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yaiks..same question in me head too:-(

    • @mariahpersad1516
      @mariahpersad1516 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if he lives by u

    • @gacha_floss7703
      @gacha_floss7703 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wow wasn't expecting that. And I don't know how to break someone who I rarely see!

  • @saramenezes6106
    @saramenezes6106 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I can’t say “ I wanna break up with you” without smiling... I feel bad for that
    He’s my first bf
    We don’t really talk like at all at school nor do we text
    I really don’t like him anymore.
    I really like being single. Sorry?

    • @nataleegwinn732
      @nataleegwinn732 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dont say "i want to break up with you" say it in a nice way and give reasoning. It will be more understanding to him.

    • @addaelliott2651
      @addaelliott2651 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same hahahahha i even laughed at my ex whilw saying that and he could not take me seriosly

  • @katherinemccauley3880
    @katherinemccauley3880 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Someone asked me out and I don’t like him, but I felt bad saying no. Can someone please help? He keeps saying I love you, and I say it back but I don’t like him.

  • @eizeloidnio7123
    @eizeloidnio7123 9 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Thank you so much for the advice...i have watched lot of your videos and it really help me to be a better woman..im wondering if you have written a book? I prefer books rather than video on you.tube.

    • @LoveStrategies
      @LoveStrategies  9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Liezel Dionio I'm glad it's helped! Here's my book: menloveconfidentwomen.com/

  • @mayaka1766
    @mayaka1766 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I mean guys if you are in a relationship you should be completely honest with your partner. Which means if you are sick, you’re sad, you’re annoyed, you’re jealous, you’re not having the same feelings anymore; just tell him right away. You need to know the right way to talk to him/her. Find the way he’s gonna be totally fine with it. For example, my boyfriend likes it when we go on a call; he feels words are coming right from the heart. So what i wanted to say is that find the way he/she would like to get along a conversation with you and be a completely honest partner.

  • @icantreachmyphone8716
    @icantreachmyphone8716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I want to break up with my boyfriend, but he's one of the one's that are very sensitive. I also feel bad.

  • @Ray-ss5sc
    @Ray-ss5sc 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    So,I have an online relationship that started a few days ago, he has a weird obsession about me and he's on the other side of the world from me and I don't want to feel like I have barriers to who I can talk to. He keeps calling me and it's pulling me away from my friends and family. I really need help, I've never cried this much.

  • @azh2146
    @azh2146 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love my boyfriend but I think we both can be happier if we break up cause of my mental issue. I'm living with my boyfriend in his parents house. One day we had a big argument and all his family saw me breaking his stuff and being out control. I just made it even harder to live and get along with them by myself. It's too much stress for me to living with him and the family. I don't even know I have a mental issue though. But I can tell that I was wayy happier before I started living with him..no..even before we started daiting.I didn't have this issue when I was single. Wtf's worng with me. I really need a help

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Its okay your not alone if ur not happy then break up with him and move out...

  • @roxiatarka
    @roxiatarka 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm honestly pondering doing this. Lately he's just seemed much more distant around me and isn't really talking to me much, he also always ditches me for his friends, especially at school. He's just been ignoring me a lot and it's really ticking me off. I already talked to him about this once but I feel like he kinda just shrugs it off and doesn't think anything's wrong. I really really love him and I think he's awesome, but I think we might be better off as friends.

  • @rainbowgirl4216
    @rainbowgirl4216 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I like someone else and they like me but I don't wanna hurt my current boyfriends feelings

    • @catherinee6878
      @catherinee6878 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rainbow Girl Samee

    • @denisalexis2274
      @denisalexis2274 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Rainbow Girl oh u bitch for doing that ur not loyal

    • @imogenmcintosh1888
      @imogenmcintosh1888 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @nataleegwinn732
      @nataleegwinn732 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You cant really help who you like..but i would break up with your current boyfriend

  • @senorita5090
    @senorita5090 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to breakup with my bf because he doubt me all the time. He don't let me to enjoy my life. That's why i am so unsatisfied with this relationship. But i am unable to broke with him because he loves me more than anything and he don't have his father and mother. Please give me some solution guys. (help)

  • @Exphoric1
    @Exphoric1 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I never loved him to begin with... he was my best friend and then he asked me out, I said yes because I was scared that if I said no, we would lose our friendship.. we have been dating for 3 months and everyday I keep trying to make up excuses in my head of why I should break up with him.

    • @m4e
      @m4e 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Maddie Gaming GURL THATS EXACTLY MY PROBLEM. look he asked me out yesterday and today i metand i asked him why he wanted to be in a relationshipwith me and he said that im his type and his type is a girl who doesnt like parties etc i kind of felt offended but i know that he wants this type of girl because he also doesnt like parties alcohol etc. He didnt talk much and i had to do everything.
      And the end of the "date" i told him we could try it out but he shouldnt tell anyone yet. fter i came back home i had a massive bellyache and i never felt so uncomfortable in my life. Ive never been in love before and i thought in this momemt that i was in love with him but rn i realised that i just had a crush on him and just because i am his type doesnt meAn we would be a perfect match. Im not sure if i even love him, i do rly like him but he already told me that he was in love with me and i think that was the moment i started to get/feel uncomfortable. Lol im sorry to write this longass paragraph but if u want to talk with me more lol because i think we have similar problems why dont u message me on insta? My insta@ is @chaylatae.
      Thanks for listening

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you really dont love him then break up with him. But do it in a way that you guys will still be friends.you know?

  • @lilmanV_22
    @lilmanV_22 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I met this boy on Snapchat and I don't really like him and we have been dating for 20 mins I don't want to make him upset idk what to do😭

  • @iCupcakeMelaniex3
    @iCupcakeMelaniex3 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I been thinking about breaking up with my internet boyfriend. The thing, he is always saying he hates life due to heartbreaks which will be ironic if I break up with him. I am planning to break up with him either this or next week because finals will start soon and this has been on my mind since weeks ago.

    • @iCupcakeMelaniex3
      @iCupcakeMelaniex3 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      If anyone could help me out that would be great

    • @stinkybutt02able
      @stinkybutt02able 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      iCupcakeMelanie you should break up with him. Guys like that just want pity so that people won't break up with them. If you're no happy leave him because it's not good for your overall health to stay with someone like that.

  • @peppa6985
    @peppa6985 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I thought I liked him, but turns out I liked him only as a friend. I know it’s really shitty of me to go out with him when I don’t like him, but it was honestly an accident. He’s so sweet, said he loves me, and said I was the best girlfriend ever, and I don’t wanna hurt his feelings. I just want to get it over with without feeling like a horrible person. I hate confrontation and wanna do it over text, but I don’t know how to say it. People have also been saying things like “Oh, you can do better than him.” or, “Why are you dating that kid?” Any suggestions? :/

  • @chickitie34
    @chickitie34 8 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    So just blocking his number so that he can't call or text me anymore is not a good way of breaking up?

    • @KeventeLewis
      @KeventeLewis 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      chickitie34 Riight ? lol

    • @nessawithsmiles
      @nessawithsmiles 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      chickitie34 😂😂😂🤣

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's a bit harsh

    • @shahermyonez6647
      @shahermyonez6647 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Awwww don't do that that hurt. Just let him know you wanna break up, explain and then block him

  • @sniperdiapergirl4997
    @sniperdiapergirl4997 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don’t really love him anymore and he’s constantly hurting my feelings without noticing. I’d feel terrible but....I’m just tired of it and plus, he forced me to be with him. Maybe I’ll switch schools and forget him. But I still just don’t know what to do.

  • @gachamaddison5160
    @gachamaddison5160 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I do have a bf.. But I don't see or feel the relation ship with him anymore. So I will end it today with him.. Even though I tried it once and he begged to try win me back. But, today is da day lmfao. Thank you so much for this video! (I'm 4 years late ._.)

  • @zerrinsucabk4883
    @zerrinsucabk4883 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He broke up with me when i was trying to break up

  • @cindyacevedo9276
    @cindyacevedo9276 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I mean he loves me and I love him but I feel like he doesn't try 😭and I feel like I love him🤧but also
    1.he doesn't try
    2.he doesn't care
    3.he doesn’t do anything to make me feel comfortable and when he is with his friend he doesn’t pay attention 😭😭😭

  • @joitus
    @joitus 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I kinda searched this as a joke but like that was mega helpful and really normalized what I'm feeling so thank you 🙏🏻

  • @axeltheredpanda
    @axeltheredpanda 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm a 14 year old male and I want to break up with my boyfriend would theses steps be the same for me being young and gay

    • @KeventeLewis
      @KeventeLewis 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spark The Wolf Whyy lawd 😂😂😂

    • @anwargaminganwar166
      @anwargaminganwar166 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Does kids are crayze this days

    • @angelakim2313
      @angelakim2313 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Spark The Wolf Yes, I presume it's the same.

    • @Sarah-qp6yx
      @Sarah-qp6yx 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Spark The Wolf you should be focusing on school at your age have a relationship when you're older

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yh probably

  • @MichelleBaxoPowerLove
    @MichelleBaxoPowerLove 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved the point you brought up about getting to know yourself before jumping too quickly into another relationship!

  • @ghost-lo5qp
    @ghost-lo5qp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I don't know if I love him. He asked me out yesterday, so I will just give him a while. I am in bed crying because I really don't want to see him again, so it will be hard.

    • @m4e
      @m4e 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hello random person GURL THATS EXACTLY MY PROBLEM. look he asked me out yesterday and today i metand i asked him why he wanted to be in a relationshipwith me and he said that im his type and his type is a girl who doesnt like parties etc i kind of felt offended but i know that he wants this type of girl because he also doesnt like parties alcohol etc. He didnt talk much and i had to do everything.
      And the end of the "date" i told him we could try it out but he shouldnt tell anyone yet. fter i came back home i had a massive bellyache and i never felt so uncomfortable in my life. Ive never been in love before and i thought in this momemt that i was in love with him but rn i realised that i just had a crush on him and just because i am his type doesnt meAn we would be a perfect match. Im not sure if i even love him, i do rly like him but he already told me that he was in love with me and i think that was the moment i started to get/feel uncomfortable. Lol im sorry to write this longass paragraph but if u want to talk with me more lol because i think we have similar problems why dont u message me on insta? My insta@ is @chaylatae.
      Thanks for listening

    • @ghost-lo5qp
      @ghost-lo5qp 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I don't have instagram, sorry. I didn't want anyone to know, but now about 35 people know. Maybe even more.

  • @PolarDenMother
    @PolarDenMother 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    This guy was so much easier to listen to and I will take heed..I dont want damage I just want done.

  • @irene4705
    @irene4705 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Okay my bf in school don't talk with me but our friends forces us to kiss and hug and when I text him sometimes he don't reply and sometimes after 2 3 days he reply but he say to his friends he loves me I'm so confused

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Listen that happened to me and i felt horrible. He never even responded to my messages. Later on i found out it was all a lie. Or he might just be embarrased

  • @theresenabua8666
    @theresenabua8666 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    HE SHOWS HE IS SERIOUS, BUT HE DOESN'T CHANGE, AND SOMETIMES LIES, HE DOESN'T WANT ME TO LET GO

  • @depressedegirl5470
    @depressedegirl5470 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need help. I have a boyfriend, but I'm pretty sure that I like someone a lot more, and they like me back. So, what should I do?

  • @aliaezurin7369
    @aliaezurin7369 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    we've been together for years .. but i can see clearly he's not the same anymore . No efforts no suprises . just nothing .

  • @meenalu405
    @meenalu405 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Omg I'm so dumb I actually tried clicking step 2 😂

  • @basil2005
    @basil2005 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have a boyfriend, but he is far to away and I don't feel like i love him anymore. but he love Me soo much and I don't want him to get hurt... he loves me so much but i can't do it . He is a good person and really kind but I don't want to hurt him can u help me...

  • @lharris6753
    @lharris6753 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    My bfffffffffffl
    Asked
    Me
    Out
    I said yes but it was a mistake I just don’t see him that way. He’s like my brother and I’m gonna be honest.
    His dad is the reason I haven’t ended it. He keeps making me feel horrible and I don’t know what to do x help?

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Just do it. No matter what anyone says. Not even his father(he doesn't have the rght to say that)

    • @lharris6753
      @lharris6753 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      insi whinsy thank you!!! 🌹❤️

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lharris6753 np i try. i hope it helped

    • @lharris6753
      @lharris6753 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      insi whinsy fingers crossed 🤞

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lharris6753 good luck

  • @sumbianielsen3850
    @sumbianielsen3850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love my baby daddy but I don’t see my future with him and I have broken up with him several times but he cries and begs for second chances yet he never fulfills them.. he even proposed to me yesterday with his late mother’s ring but I just don’t love him anymore! Please help🙏🏻

  • @panicatmychemicalpiltsdisc7775
    @panicatmychemicalpiltsdisc7775 7 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I am breaking up with him but it's so hard cuz he is depressed and he loves me more than anything else but I think am not ready for this relationship it's a big pressure on me idk what to do I don't want to hurt him plz help plz I need a reason help

    • @angelakim2313
      @angelakim2313 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      panic ! At My Chemical Piløts Disco Just say exactly what you wrote to him?

  • @MJBrewer
    @MJBrewer 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This information is great! Sometimes people just grow in different ways, not necessarily one person being bad and the other good -- just different. If the relationship isn't working, he probably suspects something anyway. This good advice. Myself? I've been single, not even dating, for nearly seven years. You need to be comfortable enough with yourself, and confident enough, that you don't NEED someone else like a life preserve. Come on... you can do it!

  • @BrentonGandyE
    @BrentonGandyE 8 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Y'all women trip me out. "I have a boyfriend. I want to be with another guy. And I'm thinking about breaking up with him"
    Just do it!!!

    • @mornalisam.6008
      @mornalisam.6008 7 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      But it ain't that easy fam :'(

    • @xoeiloveg2587
      @xoeiloveg2587 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      If it was that easy most men wouldn’t cheat????

  • @Selenaniii
    @Selenaniii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wanna break up with my boyfriend but I don’t wanna break his heart. He loves me and I don’t really love him. He’s really clingy and personally don’t love him anymore.

    • @anishashrestha6332
      @anishashrestha6332 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Did you break up? Did this methods worked out?

    • @Selenaniii
      @Selenaniii 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Anisha Shrestha we did break up and it did work and he said it’s ok and we are still friends :)

    • @anishashrestha6332
      @anishashrestha6332 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Selenaniii thanks a lot for your reply. I'm going to brkup with my bf today. I hope everything will go smoothly and may he understand me.😔

    • @Selenaniii
      @Selenaniii 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Anisha Shrestha wish you the best luck 🥺

  • @sydneyberzins2038
    @sydneyberzins2038 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Someone please reply to this and help me because I know all y'all reading this. Ok so I want to breakup with my boyfriend because he treats me like crap and it rude to me, he is an f-boy and he looks at other girls all the time. None of my friends or family members like him, and he talks shit about everyone. My grades have gone down because of him and my parents are ashamed. I still really like him, but I'm a damn princess and I DONT deserve this. He is spoiled and has a lot of money, then try's to show it off😒 he even talks crap about ME to OTHER PEOPLE!?!?! We have an on again off again relationship and I can't take it anymore. The thing is... I don't know how to breakup with him because I still like him. But he breaks up with me all the time and then begs for me back again. I've given him thousands of chances and this is the last one. Can someone PLEASE tell me what to do?!

    • @sarahkaylynn1306
      @sarahkaylynn1306 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Break up with him the same way he did to you, or just say you want to be friends.. You should feel like a princess with whoever your with and do not take any shit from guys. You can find someone so much better and someone that doesn't look at other girls in a sexual way. I know guys can be dumb sometimes but if your dating him and he's really not good for you, and your grades, do not waste your time!

    • @jgbaybee4584
      @jgbaybee4584 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      You deserve the BEST. Ignore him. That's what you have to do. Block all his numbers, his Facebook, everything.

    • @american_girl5606
      @american_girl5606 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      You should tell him that you've had enough of the mixed signals ( him looking at other girls and breaking up with you then wants you to take him back) Then say that you don't think you can handle it anymore, then say that you want to break up. Do it in person if you want to be honest instead of over a text. (Because if you send it via text he may think that your relationship with him never meant anything to you)
      just a suggestion

    • @ellielopez7101
      @ellielopez7101 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      No, no, no. Your grades didn't go down because of him, unless he done all your tests for you, don't put everything on him.

    • @sydneyberzins2038
      @sydneyberzins2038 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Random Rainbow actually yes they did. I was so distracted by him that I didn't do well on my work, because I was thinking about him.

  • @buenavibraviviralmaximo8806
    @buenavibraviviralmaximo8806 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’ve been dating my boyfriend for like 3 months and I love him endlessly. I want to end it off with him because I don’t think he seems to put much effort into our relationship and it doesn’t seem like he wants to see me. He’s my first boyfriend and it hurts me so much to break up with him. I don’t wanna be with someone who doesn’t seem like they don’t want me and it hurts me that it seems that way. I already told him I want to see him but he doesn’t seem to take much action.

  • @poke_vids_and_more8897
    @poke_vids_and_more8897 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Anybody else watching this with ramen?

    • @fa1ry_eyes
      @fa1ry_eyes 7 ปีที่แล้ว

      Póke_vids_and_more ! ???

  • @kellytush1571
    @kellytush1571 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I haven’t seen my boyfriend in weeks and it’s because I find myself making excuses. Whenever he wants to hang out I tell him that I’m working (which I always am) and then when he asks if I wanna come over I always make an excuse like “my mom doesn’t trust me being out late anymore”. This kid has been someone I like for three years and he finally asked me out and we have been dating for 4, almost 5 months. At first the relationship was so good and I was able to see him a lot and we would cuddle and stuff but now I just don’t feel a connection and I don’t want to see him anymore. The problem is, he’s a depressed person and I feel like he would hurt himself if I do break up with him cause he truly does love me and I still care for him but it’s easier being single. I don’t want him to be more depressed then he really is. How do I break up with someone I care about so much but still keep our 3 year friendship strong? He also has bad anxiety and he’s awkward around people he doesn’t know so I don’t want to make it awkward for us when I do break up with him.

    • @LoveStrategies
      @LoveStrategies  6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honesty is always the best policy!

    • @kellytush1571
      @kellytush1571 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      Sexy Confidence Soooo today I told him that it wasn’t working out and that I still wanted to be his friend and he was trying so hard to try and keep me in a relationship with him and I just said it would be best if we just cut it off. And his reply was “ok well I’ll get back to you eventually” sooo I am confused. He seems really sad and mad. I was his first real girlfriend

  • @Potato-xu6cu
    @Potato-xu6cu 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    im dating this guy and he has cheated on me multiple times but he hasnt done it in over a year, he constantly guilt trips and he emotionally manipulates me. he broke up with me for a week once because i was platonicly messing around with a friend. he just isnt really someone who i pictured my life with... yet i love him bits to pieces yet i dont think he feels the same. he has told me that he loves me on multiple occasions, i really need to break it off because this is a toxic relationship but when were not together he gets so depressed and hurts himself and its just really hard for me because i think that im the one causing it so i get back with him out of sympathy, but a part of me still really wants to be with him. im trying to find a way to end things..... but its just so hard for me because i have no clue how he will react....... HELP PLZ

  • @razzberrydraws8183
    @razzberrydraws8183 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve told him how I feel, he ignores me and plays VR, we don’t laugh about stuff together, he has completely different values, he leaves me to do most of the chores, talks about girls he finds attractive, constantly gas lights me and tells me I’m overreacting, doesn’t want to move out of his parents house, and also said that he won’t mind if I leave him bc he wants me to be happy with someone else even though he won’t try to make me happy or feel understood. Maybe we’re not right for each other but I think I’m too ugly to ever get someone to date me who is not exactly like him

  • @Harley-go2iy
    @Harley-go2iy 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I should've left the first time he cheated, but I decided to stay and fix things but now he's wanting to get married and I don't want him anymore.

  • @jrivera3628
    @jrivera3628 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I need to break up with my boyfriend but I'm so scared to do it! He loves me but I don't and I have a crush on someone else! I don't want to hurt his feeling and I still want us to be friends! Help😭

  • @ElexisStacy
    @ElexisStacy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So uh I wanna break up with him but I will feel bad because he loves me so much ...

    • @kiana7007
      @kiana7007 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      did you ever do it

    • @ElexisStacy
      @ElexisStacy 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      kiki yeah but I said “my dad told me to break up with u and we can’t talk anymore” somewhere along those lines

  • @tia3414
    @tia3414 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like him and he likes me. We got together yesterday. I thought it would be fine. His ex text me and said when she broke up w him he kept kicking her and punching her and giving her bruises. He spread rumors about her and called her a fat b*****. We have good communication and I’d rather go back to being close friends. I have a horrible guilty nervous scary feeling in the pit of my stomach 😫

  • @jgbaybee4584
    @jgbaybee4584 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    He just ignores it, and day after day asks me to hangout and I calm down so I do, then he hugs me and gives me a kiss when I leave... It's like he won't let me break up with him but I just want to be friends

  • @franiepiaabella1610
    @franiepiaabella1610 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I've been thinking about this many times if I have to break up with him or not. However, I made my decision though I found it hard but this is the best way for us. I love him, but I'm no longer happy with him. He said that I am always in his heart forever and has faith in our LDR. I don't want to hurt him, however, how about me? Time is gold and doesn't want to waste it anymore. I've been waiting for him patiently, give my trust and loyalty. I believe it's time for a change and I need to find myself. I hope and pray that he will be okay after.

  • @StanleyPanda
    @StanleyPanda 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    I feel awful but I'm breaking up with him for someone else. He used to be different, he used to be what I thought I wanted but over time I've realised he isn't. I really thought I loved him but if I can develop feelings for someone else I clearly don't love him as much as I thought I did. I hate breaking up with people so much, my last boyfriend threatened to commit suicide if I didn't stay with him. It's so hard ugh.

  • @rosie1176_
    @rosie1176_ 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    a boy asked me out today and I said yes and he is sending me loads of nice stuff over text and I really like him as a friend and I only sad yes cus he was a good friend and I didn't want that relationship to end but hes just not my cup of tea and I already broke up with someone 2 months ago and I don't want it to seem like im a user and a bad person please help im really stuck on what to do! please please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @insiwhinsy260
      @insiwhinsy260 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Break up with him the proper way not by text. Break up with him but u know u can still be friends

  • @okyuji
    @okyuji 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to break up with my bf but he loves me a lot and I really feel bad for him. The reason I want to break up with him is becuz I’m starting to lose feelings for him we barley even talk :( and how am I supposed to break up with him through text :( he lives far away..

  • @maddietaylor7748
    @maddietaylor7748 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m here because he always makes me feel guilty for things I have no control over and gets upset when I’m busy and can’t see him and I’m tired of feeling unhappy

  • @420car
    @420car 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    it’s too hard long distance is so hard and he still really likes me and i still really like someone else.. i’m a jerk.. and everyone will hate me i’ve wanted to since october it’s JANUARY

  • @muraj3119
    @muraj3119 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm breaking up right now..wish me luck✊🏽✊🏽

  • @animelove648
    @animelove648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    OK SO I don’t talk to my boyfriend at ALL. I did like him at first but now I just don’t feel anything for him anymore. I don’t wanna break his heart but I want to be single Again. He likes me but I don’t like him. Help me

  • @logophile92
    @logophile92 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm here because my fiance barely talks to me anymore. I can't help but shake this feeling that he is simply uninterested in our relationship, and that is slowly killing me, frustrating me, and making me feel sad. I don't want to break up so I guess I'm watching this to find out if it would make sense to do it, and how to do it if I decide to.

  • @dailykimcore
    @dailykimcore 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a boyfriend and I’ve lost feelings for him but he loves me so much and I feel bad if I dump him 🙁

  • @shreelatapatro9845
    @shreelatapatro9845 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Same here....he loves me...more than anything and..I'm scared....to do...I want to get our the relationship...pls help me