@RiquitasReality do you understand she's promoting for women to marry when they're older ?? Has it worked for her ?? She's saying she wants marriage and kids but she's already in her 40s and single so how much more time does she have to have kids ?? She needs to start having a child now if she really wants to have children because father time waits for no woman. A woman is not a man that can have kids at any stage of life
This is why therapy is so hard and people leave. Self reflection, awareness, and accountability it’s HARD! They fight to the death to be validated in their mess.
@@TsarOfRuss Only broken codependent people who look for a relationship to validate them and make them feel worthy believes that being single is a curse of some sort. Being broken and in a relationship just because you don’t like yourself and afraid to spend 5 minutes alone with yourself is the real curse. Smh
So she can't teach how to get a husband or how to be married or how to be a mother because she doesn't know how it is to be that. She can teach how to be single in your 40s with no kids and that about it as far as relationships
Am I the only one yelling.... "NICK SHUUUT UP!!!!" OMG! He's A LOT!😤 Im only here after her sit down with Cam Newton. I had never heard of her BUT she is absolutely ON POINT!!!
Feminist wants to be the head of the family cus they dont want to be told what to do, thats why she herself is 50 and still single, follow her advise at your own risk
He seemed uncomfortable. Talking over her and interrupting her. She was expertly breaking down many behaviors and subconscious needs. Masterfully spoken. I’m going to look for videos of her speaking. I would love to hear her speak unobstructed.
I'm glad that Nick said the #1 thing that black men desire..even over love is respect. The problem with this is (some, not all) their definition of respect. I know several men that feel this way, but their DEFINITION or VERSION of respect was/is distorted & is rooted in toxic masculinity. They believe women speaking up for themselves while respectfully disagreeing with them or doing anything seemingly "offensive" or challenging is disrespectful. In their minds, if they can't control her, it's a form of disrespect...when in essence, their insecurities are being confronted, therefore they feel emasculated & the only way to avoid facing their feelings of inadequacy is to deflect or shut the woman down by any means necessary...from fleeing to verbal or even physical abuse.
And women continue to praise and reward toxic masculinity. Why do you think most toxic dudes have multiple baby mothers while 40% of BM end up with none. Accountability isnt your strongest character.
@@postnutclarity007 I agree 100 with @trinjuwan4422 and I also agree 100% with you about women not being good at holding males accountable. I believe this is something taught and passed from previous generations and it is learned behavior through what we observe not necessarily what what our mother's and grandmothers verbally taught us.
They have to learn how to give the respect and most definitely learn how to respect themselves to receive therefore know when you hear a BLK man say BLK women don’t respect them trust they done many of things to hurt & disrespect her before no longer respecting them. BLK ppl are raised with respecting others due to it being force among us by the master . So don’t believe the hype that the black man gives you. Nick is a narcissist that’s taking a vantage of the women’s allowing him to.
I definitely agree. He was unconformable with what she was saying. She definitely hit a nerve in a wonderful manner that wasn't disrespectful and authentic. Overall, a great conversation
I mean she was literally putting words in his mouth tho. He had to clear it up for her because he will literally get backlash for the words she put in his mouth. Thats how ruthless black women on social media are. It doesnt even have to be true and they will still slander him
I think it’s actually a great message for black woman to embrace - that we are actually highly respected as a “collective” globally, amongst other groups. That doesn’t always translate to fair treatment - but, what it means is that we command respect, admiration and a favorable opinions globally - in sought of our plight. BM would like us to believe that we are not desired or respected to keep us bound to them with resources and access.
Someone gets it! Black women are finally waking up to this and that is why black men are scrambling and creating lies to discredit them. Once black women start opening up and speaking the real truth, they will heal and be able to reach out and help heal others from their traumas.
It's a great message but it's not the truth. I've worked in corporate internationally for the last 2 decades. You're not desired and it reflects in the marriage rates. Her excuse was they are just trying to stick to black men. Other races marry their own and it's a cultural L for them not to do so ie they aren't seeking black women and they never have been. The consensus is they think black women are too masculine, too loud and too ego driven. If they like you it's because you are one of the "good ones" not because they respect black women as a whole. Globally women are borderline 2nd class citizens in their own country so how do you think they feel about foreign black women? She's being disingenuous for the sake of her ego. People doing their job ≠ global respect. I'm a black man for the record and if I lived 100 lives every one would be with a black woman but she started pulling made up stats out of the air for the sake of her argument.
Awesome conversation! Why on earth did this video NOT reach ONE MILLION views? Dr. Bryant is the real deal. She is blessed with WISDOM beyond her years.
If she's blessed with WISDOM beyond her years why is she still looking for a husband and children in her 40s ?? The only thing real is her delusion of thinking that she's going to find a young man as a husband and have kids in her 50s
If you think she's the truth then you must agree with the lifestyle of waiting for Mr Right that don't exist like her and that's why she's still single at 40 something talking about she wants to get married and have kids with a younger man at that.FOH
Phew that mic 🎤 drop at the end👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Nick CLEARLY has a self-control issue….that’s why he wants to control everybody but his damn self. That was on point 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I wasn’t expecting to love this interview. I’m now a fan of Dr. Cheyenne Bryant. Our pedigree isn’t the same but similar to her, I don’t have the experience of being the most disrespected, undervalued, unwanted, etc. within society but when those emotions arise it’s usually from our community. My hope is that we learn to properly value each other.
Peace... I agree with us working together to learn to properly value each other. In this regard I could only recall the statement- The greatest trick the devil ever played was making the people think he didn't exist.... The science of warfare is unknown to our community even living in these warzones on so many aspects and there are plenty of silent weapons for quiet wars being utilized against us.
If she's very conscious and aware why does she think she still has a lot of time to find a husband and have kids in her 40s ?? That sounds like delusion to me
@@JohnJones-ko5yg because women are literally having children in their 40's and 50's. Because she has her own standards , and vision for her life. 80 year old people get married ... wtf are you talking about ... lol ...
@@kjenki11 first off we're not talking about what 80 year olds are doing. We're talking about someone wanting to get married and have children. Do you understand the conversation now ?? Also have you ever heard of menopause?? It's not regular for women to have kids in her 50. Yes it happened but it's not the norm no matter how delusional you want to be 🤣🤣🤣 don't be mad at me for woman's menopause because I didn't give it to them. It's just reality but you can choose to live in delusion if you want 🤣🤣🤣
Nick, I just want to commend you for being so Vulnerable & creating this space for our people. The way you are representing our men in such a raw, lost but trying to find your way through it is very admirable. Thank you.
Black women are not disrespected outside the black community. I’ve never been disrespected by any race of men outside the black community. Especially in corporate America. Some of my greatest mentors have been white and Asian men. This narrative that we are highly disrespected only exists in the black American culture.
This is fact. I’ve worked in battered women’s shelters and the majority of the women were black, violated by black men. I work with many blk women now and everyone loves them. I only see the h@te for them coming from blk men on and offline. It’s pretty clear who the problem is.
Some times, that experience is another form of slavery. I once heard "some of these yt CEOs use us (blk women) as guard dogs of their companies. Giving us a liltte more authority than the blk man because in our mind "we getting the job done" when in actuality the yt CEO is thriving off us just like a lazy bum or keeping the blk man at lower monetary value that keeps us in a alpha/masculine mindset which contribute to a blk man not being able to meet our "relationship and/or monetary standards." But those ppl definitely still feeling some type of way, they just hide those thoughts away from you, by acting "professional". The blk community is being attacked on ALL LEVELS of life/existence
And that's why he doesn't like her as much because she not Iyala or Dr. Umar and she not gonna mother or pacify his dysfunction. He also didn't expect her to be as qualified professionally and personally in her real life. He even tried to down play her by saying the man's she wants doesn't exist, after asking why she was single.
I take it you think a 40 something year old single woman with no kids that's looking for marriage and kids from a younger man is amazing to you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This is such a good conversation! This lady is so smart, I’ve learnt so much from this chat. Well done to Nick for being vulnerable and sitting through being analysed, it’s not easy.
a whole word!!!! I may not be a fan of the decisions he makes (but not my life not my business) but creating this platform as a black man is admirable!
I’ve been watching these episodes and I believe she is the first counselor that has given you what you need! I love it 🥰 Keep her! 😁 She will help you heal and grow. She’s real, she’s good, and she’s loving 🥰 and effective! Real growth is uncomfortable at first but you will be so happy you did it. God bless y’all! I love it 🥰
He seemed uncomfortable with the 'Only a low vibrational woman would sign up for his deal'. He caught that and tried to explain it away. He couldn't sit still. She had to tell him to regulate his emotions.
This women completely straw-manned what Nick said. She made up her own narrative-and constructed her own argument about Nick's life. Women truly can not argue: and don't understand that their emotion doesn't constitute morality
Nick I love your authenticity! We all can learn from it! And Dr. Bryant is just phenomenal!!! This dialogue is needed and I appreciate you both for having it!!! We love you Nick! With the good and the bad!
Can she be my therapist. ... This episode was powerful & kudos to Nick for being vulnerable enough to be used as the "teachable moment" to help heal whoever is watching... & again, this episode was powerful...
Yesss! This episode was amazing. I love that he had the courage to sit through the uncomfortable moments. And I love the acknowledgement, clarity and support Dr.CB provided
I honestly have more respect for Nick after finishing this interview , mainly for being open to have the conversation. Whether he receives it or not, I feel so many of us have. So many of us needed this conversation, myself included. Dr. Bryant, has a new supporter in me! I feel she is creating a nu conversation in a major way in therapy! I heard a lot of things I needed to work on as well and change my perspective on self control.
"More respect" for a man that proved himself close-minded and basically doubled down on his own misogyny? His disrespected the guest on his show and tried to minimize her expertise as an educated therapist and her expereince as a woman. I guess he gets props for having a professional of her caliber on but he basically undermined even that by his behavior.
I honestly agree with you, even tho he knows he will be get lots of criticism about his way of thinking and choices he made. He still chose to upload everything knowing that dr Bryant will drops some gems, that can benefit the rest of us.
Nick is certainly accomplishing what this channel was intended to achieve. Great conversation once again, a bit heated at times but that makes for a even more greater dialogue. Dr. Bryant made some good points about having control within yourself therefore reducing that need to control others. I like the fact that she said "I love you" at the end to Nick. So sincere and respectful.
That man fidgeting and talking over her and some more stuff, she was hitting the core of him real hard and you can tell he’s not ready for the conversation…
“We can teach what we know, but we create what we are” I love that! It really puts the responsibility and accountability on no one but ourselves. This interview was refreshing to watch for many reasons but for me it was the simple fact that they admitted they are toxic/ have toxic ways. That was something I struggled with coming to terms with. Even admitting to have control issues. I got a great perspective from this interview. Thanks Dr. Bryant! I love what you’re preaching!
This was a really great interview. Ms. Bryant dropped many gems with humility and grace. I could see transformation in Nick from beginning to end. I can't say he bought it all, but I can definitely see he was taking it as food for thought and for that Mr. Cannon I give you much respect. It's a start and that's all anyone can ask for. He is open to learning and evaluating a different perspective.
Definitely have become a fan of hers between her interview with Cam and Nick. Purchasing her book ASAP. We should always be aspiring to be the best version of ourselves.
I loooove her this episode was amazing… she is so right about black women sticking with black men cause we typically don’t want any other I definitely feel this way I love black men and don’t desire outside of it ❤
So obvious that nick still have a lot of inner healing to do here....@nickcannon my Brother in Christ...get that healing dont met your ego go across be humble...May God bless you!
We need more Dr Bryant heavy on the you can’t walk into a room unevenly yoked because it ruins what’s been established!!!! A word- when people plug into you what are they getting!!!
Tell him Cheyanne!!! I am well traveled and the only place we have a problem is in America! I am highly respected period! And I am sought after in all arenas! I do not by into none of that and Cheyanne is speaking facts facts facts!
Dr Bryant thank you for explaining the difference between high value and high functioning/vibrational versus low value and low functioning. I would love to hear you converse with Kevin Samuels. He only focused on high value but high functioning is also very necessary. It’s the difference between being healed and being toxic.
Do you want to be TEACHED by a 40 something year old that's single with no kids on how to achieve to be happily married?? Also a 40 something year old that's looking for younger guys at that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@JohnJones-ko5yg and that’s sad she was STILL ABLE TO SIMPLY BRING TRUTH. I know for our culture IT STINGS. I get it but it’s called LIFE LESSONS. Receive apply and TRANSFORM.
@@CoachSN3 you think someone like her that's in her 40s looking for husband and kids in younger men can teach you how to find it ?? Why do you think she got the answers if she hasn't been able to accomplish it herself?? It's a red flag being in your 40's looking for a younger man to be your husband. All she can teach is how to get to be in your 40's single with no kids because that's all she knows. Have you ever heard of if you knew better you would do better??
@@JohnJones-ko5yg Her main focus wasn’t on her own life. If it were, we’d find that no one is truly qualified to teach anyone! We all fall short in various ways-just take a moment to think about it! But the essence of what she was sharing is fundamental truth, regardless of her singleness. What she was teaching has the potential to transform anyone who receives and applies it, plain and simple. And that’s really what it's all about, my brother-1000%.
I’ve learned so much from this episode!! I respect her so much! She is beautiful, smart, witty and so down to earth. This conversation is so refreshing.
I love this topic and dialect. Dr. Bryant is so well versed and knowledgeable on these issues. I’ve gotten so much knowledge and understanding on how to identify and them redirect to reach solutions. Thank Dr. Bryant and Nick for this platform
Im trying to find that statistic Doc where black women are underneath white men when come to societal respect. I'm not to sure about this statistic, it should be easier to find. I need that statistic a.s.a.p. lol
Dr. Bryant is the woman every healed and unhealed man wants because she is self aware. A woman aware of her values, clear on them, stands on her boundaries and has respect for herself is a verry attractive thing to any man.
That level of SELF control is despised honestly. People are poked MORE when they flow with the circumstances and don't give in to outside darkness or energies.
I resonate with her position on black women being the most disrespected. We have to stop bottling up all of these isms and feelings and attaching them to our life experiences. We all don't all have the same experiences or perceptions. What's insane is that we associate and label common life mishaps as racist or disrespectful. What really needs to be examined is why simple things such as being bumped or misunderstood trigger feelings of inferiority to feel disrespected. Know who you are, be in control of yourself and no one can ever own or define your life experience.
Regarding the women being disrespected most within the black community. I have had 7 job positions in my life. Only 2/7 of those professions were all black companies/organization. I was the most disrespected in those 2 positions. I cried the most, was hurt the most and felt betrayed the most. The 5/7 positions being predominantly white, took great care of me, collaborated with me and promoted me. My current position blows my mind at how much support I receive. This has been a topic that always hurts me because the black community can be so detrimental to our own health. So I have to agree on her with that. This is just my experience. It really just places things into perspective.
The topic of black women being the most disrespected was a general question, i dont understand why she made it personal. Its like asking someone does racism exist, the person responds and say i have never experienced racism...just because you've never been disrespected doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I would like her to share the sources where she got those statistics.
yes to all that , as well...?>> is she speaking globally or in america? it was a blanket statement with her reference to her stats being truth, was... "google it" ...🧐🤨google will make any stat you want☑️
Based on her profession, she should be the quintessential black woman to be disrespected and disregarded. Yet,she wasn't. She is saying her character gained her favor amongst her peers, and they respected her. How long are black men and women of America going to be always on this victim culture. Other races are not going to fix it for you, nor do they care to. It's time to hold yourself high, command the room and spaces you are in, and live with purpose. This victim mentality is embarrassing and telling of how they actually feel about themselves.
I was surprised that Nick hosted a real therapy session, that’s cool. Nick was transparent and a willing participant. This can let other black men know that seeking professional guidance is okay. I’m sure many people have questions about his relationship choices and it was interesting to hear his perspective.
I think Nick got so triggered about the lack of control within himself because he’s never worked through his trauma from having a chronic health condition. He seeks control externally because he can’t control the reality of his own mortality and has never worked through that.
THIS is at the root of Nick’s issues in recent years. He wants to spread his seed as a sign of vitality because he doesn’t want his lupus diagnosis to define him. He’s still wrong for how he’s viewing living a legacy to the world by having so many children.
@@jo.onthego and what is sad is him knowing that he has the condition and that he can possibly even though not hereditary but depending on the genetics of his randoms it may come about in later years of the child's life. so whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhy are you out here procreating with fucked up as genetics knowingly .. lol ...
I don’t know if Nick is willing to heal a toxic behavior let’s be clear. To have all of the children back to back with all these woman and he’s not in the household steady with them all is toxicity at its best. And not realizing that he’s definitely over compensating by recreating as Dr Bryant stated “little me’s” is the forever issue. He thinks he knows all. He feels he’s done the work.And that’s an issue when you truly want to heal and discover why you doing the things you doing
I think this is a great conversation and topic that we needed. But Nick needed to allow her to also speak without interruptions instead of being defensive to validate who he is and his point. However, overall it was great and we need to hear from DR Cheyenne Bryant more...
When someone can command it speaks volume and it’s respected you can tell someone commands and some one demands. Command and they do. Demanding you’re begging basically.
The way she broke it down 29:36 had me at hello, u better preach. The things that men specifically black men put on women especially the black women who is most loyal they beat up with their toxic masculinity aka ego because of the trauma they have seen other black men go through. Most black women will reveal the toxicity and once that happens the black man feels disrespected and attacked when all she is trying to do is elevate the mindset and move as a unit. But instead the mans ego is ruined and he flees because he does not want to deal with self. Most of them flee to white women or women out their race because there is no challenge. When I say challenge I mean she will not challenge him to come at his best self. The perfect example of how a man thinks controls and demand respect is The Color Purple, What's love got to do with it.
Nick is hard to have a conversation with and it’s hard to watch at times. He over talks, tries to add humor to deflect and appears forever stuck in his ways. Dr Bryant is a great guest and I’ve learned a lot when she is able to express herself fully. I will be following her on her channels.
Apparently, listening is like being a brain surgeon. And Black Women are only disrespected in the Black community by the Black Men we support, uplift, take care of, help to do, etc. I honestly haven't been disrespected by men but came close to and it was a Brother. Other races of men are incredibly respectful to me all the time.
I need Dr. Bryant to go to every single one of these men's podcasts and talk to them. I need her to continue to do the Lord's work!!
Yes !! She needs to go on tour 😂
YES!
She's definitely doing the Lord's work
Welp I don’t like her anymore. The black woman is def the least respected… girl bye
@RiquitasReality do you understand she's promoting for women to marry when they're older ?? Has it worked for her ?? She's saying she wants marriage and kids but she's already in her 40s and single so how much more time does she have to have kids ?? She needs to start having a child now if she really wants to have children because father time waits for no woman. A woman is not a man that can have kids at any stage of life
This is why therapy is so hard and people leave. Self reflection, awareness, and accountability it’s HARD! They fight to the death to be validated in their mess.
A complete mouthful!!!! ❤
THIS‼️
She’s not reading you Nick--she’s trying to grow you! Keep listening, sharing, and growing.
Follow her advice and you will be 50 and still single just like her
No concern of yours🤷🏾♀️
Some males see truth delivered by a woman as an attack . It is super childish, but not surprising
@@TsarOfRuss Only broken codependent people who look for a relationship to validate them and make them feel worthy believes that being single is a curse of some sort. Being broken and in a relationship just because you don’t like yourself and afraid to spend 5 minutes alone with yourself is the real curse. Smh
@@pkp6791 and yet they say that we can’t handle the truth 🥴🤦🏻♀️The truth literally shatters them
The people that need the most counsel always do the most talking and get the most defensive
Fact!
When she said you are overcompensating for the control you dont have within yourself 😮🤯WHEW
She's got a good point....when you are controlled within yourself you don't need to control others💯
But yet she says she is controlling. SMH
@@StraightUp101 it's called self-awareness.
"We teach what we know, we create what we are" Dr. Bryant
Ase'! 🔥🔥🔥
So she can't teach how to get a husband or how to be married or how to be a mother because she doesn't know how it is to be that. She can teach how to be single in your 40s with no kids and that about it as far as relationships
Am I the only one yelling.... "NICK SHUUUT UP!!!!" OMG! He's A LOT!😤 Im only here after her sit down with Cam Newton. I had never heard of her BUT she is absolutely ON POINT!!!
No you are not the only one,this guy has no chill like wtf. LET HER SPEAK!!!
Nick is ERKY AF🙄😫🥴
Right … she real! And don’t need know limelight
Why don’t these woke men fix their fellow man
Nick is insufferable but I learned that decades ago from Love Don't Cost A Thing
I was just saying to myself: Nick needs somebody he loves and respects to yell STFU!
You tell her to stop using the word control, just for you say “I am a control freak”. 😭😭😭 Nick, she is holding you accountable with so much love!
Right & that in itself showed his need to “control” & also his need to “control” others view of him.
Feminist wants to be the head of the family cus they dont want to be told what to do, thats why she herself is 50 and still single, follow her advise at your own risk
It’s either you are a Christian or not, if you do not believe in marriage you are not a Christian…
One man 12 children 5 baby mamas is too much…
@@EricTerfa-sq1gr If he shows up at ur door today, you will still open your legs for him
He seemed uncomfortable. Talking over her and interrupting her. She was expertly breaking down many behaviors and subconscious needs. Masterfully spoken. I’m going to look for videos of her speaking. I would love to hear her speak unobstructed.
💯 u hit the nail on the head.
He had to speak up, she was lying and twisting the man’s words.
She was literally putting words in his mouth. Like thats crazyy
Their last interview {they said was more intense}, was worse so this one (they believe) is a lot better / smoother.
Factual evidence.
I'm glad that Nick said the #1 thing that black men desire..even over love is respect. The problem with this is (some, not all) their definition of respect. I know several men that feel this way, but their DEFINITION or VERSION of respect was/is distorted & is rooted in toxic masculinity. They believe women speaking up for themselves while respectfully disagreeing with them or doing anything seemingly "offensive" or challenging is disrespectful. In their minds, if they can't control her, it's a form of disrespect...when in essence, their insecurities are being confronted, therefore they feel emasculated & the only way to avoid facing their feelings of inadequacy is to deflect or shut the woman down by any means necessary...from fleeing to verbal or even physical abuse.
And women continue to praise and reward toxic masculinity. Why do you think most toxic dudes have multiple baby mothers while 40% of BM end up with none. Accountability isnt your strongest character.
@@postnutclarity007 I agree 100 with @trinjuwan4422 and I also agree 100% with you about women not being good at holding males accountable. I believe this is something taught and passed from previous generations and it is learned behavior through what we observe not necessarily what what our mother's and grandmothers verbally taught us.
@@postnutclarity007i just hope you arent on other channels shaming women who wait, date out or choose better
They have to learn how to give the respect and most definitely learn how to respect themselves to receive therefore know when you hear a BLK man say BLK women don’t respect them trust they done many of things to hurt & disrespect her before no longer respecting them. BLK ppl are raised with respecting others due to it being force among us by the master . So don’t believe the hype that the black man gives you. Nick is a narcissist that’s taking a vantage of the women’s allowing him to.
Yuuuup🙌🏽👏
I honestly would love to see a conversation between her and Dr Umar
That would be so good!! I love her!
Nick didn’t push back on ANY of the other professional doctors like he did her. Questioning her at every juncture. He is definitely overcompensating!
He has admitted it to it in the past so definitely. That is true
I definitely agree. He was unconformable with what she was saying. She definitely hit a nerve in a wonderful manner that wasn't disrespectful and authentic. Overall, a great conversation
Right he didn’t let her talk at first
I mean she was literally putting words in his mouth tho. He had to clear it up for her because he will literally get backlash for the words she put in his mouth. Thats how ruthless black women on social media are. It doesnt even have to be true and they will still slander him
@@ghost99100 theyll believe a woman over a man EVERYTIME, so hard to take any of them seriously when they never hold each other accountable.
I think it’s actually a great message for black woman to embrace - that we are actually highly respected as a “collective” globally, amongst other groups. That doesn’t always translate to fair treatment - but, what it means is that we command respect, admiration and a favorable opinions globally - in sought of our plight. BM would like us to believe that we are not desired or respected to keep us bound to them with resources and access.
Someone gets it! Black women are finally waking up to this and that is why black men are scrambling and creating lies to discredit them. Once black women start opening up and speaking the real truth, they will heal and be able to reach out and help heal others from their traumas.
😂😂😂 that's not black men....that men globally
It's a great message but it's not the truth. I've worked in corporate internationally for the last 2 decades. You're not desired and it reflects in the marriage rates. Her excuse was they are just trying to stick to black men. Other races marry their own and it's a cultural L for them not to do so ie they aren't seeking black women and they never have been. The consensus is they think black women are too masculine, too loud and too ego driven. If they like you it's because you are one of the "good ones" not because they respect black women as a whole. Globally women are borderline 2nd class citizens in their own country so how do you think they feel about foreign black women? She's being disingenuous for the sake of her ego. People doing their job ≠ global respect. I'm a black man for the record and if I lived 100 lives every one would be with a black woman but she started pulling made up stats out of the air for the sake of her argument.
Awesome conversation! Why on earth did this video NOT reach ONE MILLION views? Dr. Bryant is the real deal. She is blessed with WISDOM beyond her years.
If she's blessed with WISDOM beyond her years why is she still looking for a husband and children in her 40s ?? The only thing real is her delusion of thinking that she's going to find a young man as a husband and have kids in her 50s
i like how she dismantled the "when you come from mud" mentality".
Yes please a part 3!!! Part 4 and 5 and on! Lmao Dr Bryant is the truth!!! Thank you Nick for sitting and participating in this space!!!
If you think she's the truth then you must agree with the lifestyle of waiting for Mr Right that don't exist like her and that's why she's still single at 40 something talking about she wants to get married and have kids with a younger man at that.FOH
Phew that mic 🎤 drop at the end👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Nick CLEARLY has a self-control issue….that’s why he wants to control everybody but his damn self. That was on point 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
A high functioning woman will not allow herself to be used and be someone’s one of many baby mommas. She walks as a wife and expects to be one.
I wasn’t expecting to love this interview. I’m now a fan of Dr. Cheyenne Bryant. Our pedigree isn’t the same but similar to her, I don’t have the experience of being the most disrespected, undervalued, unwanted, etc. within society but when those emotions arise it’s usually from our community. My hope is that we learn to properly value each other.
Peace... I agree with us working together to learn to properly value each other. In this regard I could only recall the statement- The greatest trick the devil ever played was making the people think he didn't exist.... The science of warfare is unknown to our community even living in these warzones on so many aspects and there are plenty of silent weapons for quiet wars being utilized against us.
What a BEAUTIFUL mind. She made me so proud as a BW. Expanded thinker, indeed.
Nick let her be “big cuz” on this one bruh 😂 she gotchu mentally. She’s a psychologist! Seems very conscious, and aware!
just goes to show..Black men truly have ego issues when they see a successful Black woman. Statiscally proven as well
If she's very conscious and aware why does she think she still has a lot of time to find a husband and have kids in her 40s ?? That sounds like delusion to me
@@JohnJones-ko5yg because women are literally having children in their 40's and 50's. Because she has her own standards , and vision for her life. 80 year old people get married ... wtf are you talking about ... lol ...
@@kjenki11 first off we're not talking about what 80 year olds are doing. We're talking about someone wanting to get married and have children. Do you understand the conversation now ?? Also have you ever heard of menopause?? It's not regular for women to have kids in her 50. Yes it happened but it's not the norm no matter how delusional you want to be 🤣🤣🤣 don't be mad at me for woman's menopause because I didn't give it to them. It's just reality but you can choose to live in delusion if you want 🤣🤣🤣
Love how open Nick is to her.
Nick, I just want to commend you for being so Vulnerable & creating this space for our people. The way you are representing our men in such a raw, lost but trying to find your way through it is very admirable. Thank you.
Black women are not disrespected outside the black community. I’ve never been disrespected by any race of men outside the black community. Especially in corporate America. Some of my greatest mentors have been white and Asian men. This narrative that we are highly disrespected only exists in the black American culture.
That’s what she said
After going to business school and being the only black women in my field / graduating class I agree with you.
Because they know you can get them canceled. Other races definitely talk shit. It’s just behind closed doors.
This is fact. I’ve worked in battered women’s shelters and the majority of the women were black, violated by black men. I work with many blk women now and everyone loves them. I only see the h@te for them coming from blk men on and offline. It’s pretty clear who the problem is.
Some times, that experience is another form of slavery.
I once heard "some of these yt CEOs use us (blk women) as guard dogs of their companies. Giving us a liltte more authority than the blk man because in our mind "we getting the job done" when in actuality the yt CEO is thriving off us just like a lazy bum or keeping the blk man at lower monetary value that keeps us in a alpha/masculine mindset which contribute to a blk man not being able to meet our "relationship and/or monetary standards."
But those ppl definitely still feeling some type of way, they just hide those thoughts away from you, by acting "professional".
The blk community is being attacked on ALL LEVELS of life/existence
She 100 on the Nick read! It’s wonderful . We can’t grow if we don’t know our issues!
And that's why he doesn't like her as much because she not Iyala or Dr. Umar and she not gonna mother or pacify his dysfunction. He also didn't expect her to be as qualified professionally and personally in her real life. He even tried to down play her by saying the man's she wants doesn't exist, after asking why she was single.
I’m not sure why this video doesn’t have over millions of views. She is amazing!!!
I take it you think a 40 something year old single woman with no kids that's looking for marriage and kids from a younger man is amazing to you 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I like how she did not accept the BW are the most disrespected narrative. She shot that BS 💩 down ASAP
We all need to gain control of oneself, and stop projecting onto others and trying to control everyone else … she is preaching
This is such a good conversation! This lady is so smart, I’ve learnt so much from this chat.
Well done to Nick for being vulnerable and sitting through being analysed, it’s not easy.
We need more of these kinds of conversations in our community.
a whole word!!!! I may not be a fan of the decisions he makes (but not my life not my business) but creating this platform as a black man is admirable!
I’ve been watching these episodes and I believe she is the first counselor that has given you what you need! I love it 🥰 Keep her! 😁 She will help you heal and grow. She’s real, she’s good, and she’s loving 🥰 and effective! Real growth is uncomfortable at first but you will be so happy you did it. God bless y’all! I love it 🥰
Love and agree with Dr. Bryant. Nick talk less and listen more.
Nick it’s not blaming! It’s literally a correlation!!!! He is so stuck on stereotypes and his way of thinking as truth.
Did you see how he couldn’t let her finish. He didn’t seem ready to confront how she unpacked him. It was very telling.
He seemed uncomfortable with the 'Only a low vibrational woman would sign up for his deal'. He caught that and tried to explain it away. He couldn't sit still. She had to tell him to regulate his emotions.
Just like Cam and many other black men.
This women completely straw-manned what Nick said.
She made up her own narrative-and constructed her own argument about Nick's life.
Women truly can not argue: and don't understand that their emotion doesn't constitute morality
Hence why he has a created a counsel culture to expand his knowledge and wisdom. Only respect for Nick cannon
Nick I love your authenticity! We all can learn from it! And Dr. Bryant is just phenomenal!!! This dialogue is needed and I appreciate you both for having it!!! We love you Nick! With the good and the bad!
I love Dr. Bryant’s intelligence and honesty and way of keeping things real! Thank you 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Great interview! Nick you did a fantastic thing creating a space to have these honest conversations.
One of the best conversations yet. These sessions are right on time.
Can she be my therapist. ... This episode was powerful & kudos to Nick for being vulnerable enough to be used as the "teachable moment" to help heal whoever is watching... & again, this episode was powerful...
I was screaming CAN SHE BE MY THERAPIST!!! She holds you accountable without making you feel like she’s beating you down.
Like seriously lols ❤God bless us all
Yesss! This episode was amazing. I love that he had the courage to sit through the uncomfortable moments. And I love the acknowledgement, clarity and support Dr.CB provided
I honestly have more respect for Nick after finishing this interview , mainly for being open to have the conversation. Whether he receives it or not, I feel so many of us have. So many of us needed this conversation, myself included. Dr. Bryant, has a new supporter in me! I feel she is creating a nu conversation in a major way in therapy! I heard a lot of things I needed to work on as well and change my perspective on self control.
"More respect" for a man that proved himself close-minded and basically doubled down on his own misogyny? His disrespected the guest on his show and tried to minimize her expertise as an educated therapist and her expereince as a woman. I guess he gets props for having a professional of her caliber on but he basically undermined even that by his behavior.
I honestly agree with you, even tho he knows he will be get lots of criticism about his way of thinking and choices he made. He still chose to upload everything knowing that dr Bryant will drops some gems, that can benefit the rest of us.
She’s amazing and I’m listening and learning
Nick is certainly accomplishing what this channel was intended to achieve. Great conversation once again, a bit heated at times but that makes for a even more greater dialogue. Dr. Bryant made some good points about having control within yourself therefore reducing that need to control others. I like the fact that she said "I love you" at the end to Nick. So sincere and respectful.
That man fidgeting and talking over her and some more stuff, she was hitting the core of him real hard and you can tell he’s not ready for the conversation…
Whew ! I need an associate , mentor , professional like this Grand Goddess
He REALLY exposed himself. Glad she saw through it. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
“We can teach what we know, but we create what we are”
I love that! It really puts the responsibility and accountability on no one but ourselves. This interview was refreshing to watch for many reasons but for me it was the simple fact that they admitted they are toxic/ have toxic ways. That was something I struggled with coming to terms with. Even admitting to have control issues.
I got a great perspective from this interview. Thanks Dr. Bryant! I love what you’re preaching!
It takes courage and forethought to have someone dig deep into your core.❤
Those last 3 minutes were gold
Girl preach! Self governing
Facts!! Please preach to this man. We are not the most disrespected at all. That has not been my experience either. 👏👏👏👏👌✨💛
Dr. Bryant better tell it!!! Awesomeness!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Great honest conversation! We need more of it and respect for one another as we go deep!❤😢😅😂😊❤ Great LOVE!
Wowww..she Gathered Mr.Cannon..we ready 4 Part B-Z.. Queen Dr. Cheyenne is Amazing❤
This was a really great interview. Ms. Bryant dropped many gems with humility and grace. I could see transformation in Nick from beginning to end. I can't say he bought it all, but I can definitely see he was taking it as food for thought and for that Mr. Cannon I give you much respect. It's a start and that's all anyone can ask for. He is open to learning and evaluating a different perspective.
Definitely have become a fan of hers between her interview with Cam and Nick. Purchasing her book ASAP. We should always be aspiring to be the best version of ourselves.
Yea, that conclusion on controlling self was it!!! Because you lack control of self, you want to control everything else. Boom!!
I loooove her this episode was amazing… she is so right about black women sticking with black men cause we typically don’t want any other I definitely feel this way I love black men and don’t desire outside of it ❤
So obvious that nick still have a lot of inner healing to do here....@nickcannon my Brother in Christ...get that healing dont met your ego go across be humble...May God bless you!
I LOVE IT ! So enriching ! May GOD bless u all.
I absolutely loved what she extrapolated about being "the most disrespected". Well said. Also her lighting should have been better.
We need more Dr Bryant heavy on the you can’t walk into a room unevenly yoked because it ruins what’s been established!!!! A word- when people plug into you what are they getting!!!
Tell him Cheyanne!!! I am well traveled and the only place we have a problem is in America! I am highly respected period! And I am sought after in all arenas! I do not by into none of that and Cheyanne is speaking facts facts facts!
Dr Bryant thank you for explaining the difference between high value and high functioning/vibrational versus low value and low functioning. I would love to hear you converse with Kevin Samuels. He only focused on high value but high functioning is also very necessary. It’s the difference between being healed and being toxic.
Thank u Nick for bringing Dr Bryant ❤
Wow what a powerful conversation. Big love to you both
Success is peace and autonomy.
Cheyenne came ready to TEACH!!
Do you want to be TEACHED by a 40 something year old that's single with no kids on how to achieve to be happily married?? Also a 40 something year old that's looking for younger guys at that 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@JohnJones-ko5yg and that’s sad she was STILL ABLE TO SIMPLY BRING TRUTH. I know for our culture IT STINGS. I get it but it’s called LIFE LESSONS. Receive apply and TRANSFORM.
@@CoachSN3 you think someone like her that's in her 40s looking for husband and kids in younger men can teach you how to find it ?? Why do you think she got the answers if she hasn't been able to accomplish it herself?? It's a red flag being in your 40's looking for a younger man to be your husband. All she can teach is how to get to be in your 40's single with no kids because that's all she knows. Have you ever heard of if you knew better you would do better??
@@JohnJones-ko5yg
@@JohnJones-ko5yg Her main focus wasn’t on her own life. If it were, we’d find that no one is truly qualified to teach anyone! We all fall short in various ways-just take a moment to think about it! But the essence of what she was sharing is fundamental truth, regardless of her singleness. What she was teaching has the potential to transform anyone who receives and applies it, plain and simple. And that’s really what it's all about, my brother-1000%.
This was fantastic dialogue, great episode!
I’ve learned so much from this episode!! I respect her so much! She is beautiful, smart, witty and so down to earth. This conversation is so refreshing.
I love this topic and dialect. Dr. Bryant is so well versed and knowledgeable on these issues. I’ve gotten so much knowledge and understanding on how to identify and them redirect to reach solutions. Thank Dr. Bryant and Nick for this platform
Im trying to find that statistic Doc where black women are underneath white men when come to societal respect. I'm not to sure about this statistic, it should be easier to find. I need that statistic a.s.a.p. lol
ok, post the link when you find it lol
I feel the same idk if that statistic she gave is correct and have yet to find that data
Black woman are the most educated group in America. More black woman graduates than any other race , that’s why.
I think she means in terms of education .
She literally made it up. She tried to conflate education with respect and nick isn't smart enough to call that out.
Dr. Bryant is the woman every healed and unhealed man wants because she is self aware. A woman aware of her values, clear on them, stands on her boundaries and has respect for herself is a verry attractive thing to any man.
That level of SELF control is despised honestly. People are poked MORE when they flow with the circumstances and don't give in to outside darkness or energies.
I need this woman to be my therapist the last three minutes 🔥🔥🔥
Again, love this conversation
Great job tolerating Nick Doc ! 🎉
I resonate with her position on black women being the most disrespected. We have to stop bottling up all of these isms and feelings and attaching them to our life experiences. We all don't all have the same experiences or perceptions. What's insane is that we associate and label common life mishaps as racist or disrespectful. What really needs to be examined is why simple things such as being bumped or misunderstood trigger feelings of inferiority to feel disrespected. Know who you are, be in control of yourself and no one can ever own or define your life experience.
Regarding the women being disrespected most within the black community. I have had 7 job positions in my life. Only 2/7 of those professions were all black companies/organization. I was the most disrespected in those 2 positions. I cried the most, was hurt the most and felt betrayed the most. The 5/7 positions being predominantly white, took great care of me, collaborated with me and promoted me. My current position blows my mind at how much support I receive. This has been a topic that always hurts me because the black community can be so detrimental to our own health. So I have to agree on her with that. This is just my experience. It really just places things into perspective.
This was a good chat with coach, Cheyenne Bryant
She’s amazing
The topic of black women being the most disrespected was a general question, i dont understand why she made it personal. Its like asking someone does racism exist, the person responds and say i have never experienced racism...just because you've never been disrespected doesn't mean it doesn't happen. I would like her to share the sources where she got those statistics.
yes to all that , as well...?>> is she speaking globally or in america? it was a blanket statement with her reference to her stats being truth, was... "google it" ...🧐🤨google will make any stat you want☑️
Yea it’s not about you. It’s about the whole. I think what she said diminished many people’s experiences
Based on her profession, she should be the quintessential black woman to be disrespected and disregarded. Yet,she wasn't. She is saying her character gained her favor amongst her peers, and they respected her. How long are black men and women of America going to be always on this victim culture. Other races are not going to fix it for you, nor do they care to. It's time to hold yourself high, command the room and spaces you are in, and live with purpose. This victim mentality is embarrassing and telling of how they actually feel about themselves.
I agree. Thank you for this comment, it’s important!
Exactly! To ignore the social construct & intersectionality (Patrichary and Racism) that affects our experiences as collective is disingenuous
I was surprised that Nick hosted a real therapy session, that’s cool. Nick was transparent and a willing participant. This can let other black men know that seeking professional guidance is okay. I’m sure many people have questions about his relationship choices and it was interesting to hear his perspective.
I think Nick got so triggered about the lack of control within himself because he’s never worked through his trauma from having a chronic health condition. He seeks control externally because he can’t control the reality of his own mortality and has never worked through that.
THIS is at the root of Nick’s issues in recent years. He wants to spread his seed as a sign of vitality because he doesn’t want his lupus diagnosis to define him. He’s still wrong for how he’s viewing living a legacy to the world by having so many children.
@@jo.onthego and what is sad is him knowing that he has the condition and that he can possibly even though not hereditary but depending on the genetics of his randoms it may come about in later years of the child's life. so whhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhy are you out here procreating with fucked up as genetics knowingly .. lol ...
This is so good, definitely thank you for these first two videos.!!!❤
The topic of control: how to be a good leader. Good leaders know how to navigate a room without controlling.
I don’t know if Nick is willing to heal a toxic behavior let’s be clear. To have all of the children back to back with all these woman and he’s not in the household steady with them all is toxicity at its best. And not realizing that he’s definitely over compensating by recreating as Dr Bryant stated “little me’s” is the forever issue. He thinks he knows all. He feels he’s done the work.And that’s an issue when you truly want to heal and discover why you doing the things you doing
Agree with you 100%!
I think this is a great conversation and topic that we needed. But Nick needed to allow her to also speak without interruptions instead of being defensive to validate who he is and his point. However, overall it was great and we need to hear from DR Cheyenne Bryant more...
Oooooouuuu she is gifted in calling the bs out. Lord
I really enjoyed this interview and it was frustrating to watch Nick talk over Dr. Cheyenne.
Great episode.
When someone can command it speaks volume and it’s respected you can tell someone commands and some one demands. Command and they do. Demanding you’re begging basically.
The best revenge to outsmart a hater is success. Keep God first was was the first. Peace out 💯💖
The way she broke it down 29:36 had me at hello, u better preach. The things that men specifically black men put on women especially the black women who is most loyal they beat up with their toxic masculinity aka ego because of the trauma they have seen other black men go through. Most black women will reveal the toxicity and once that happens the black man feels disrespected and attacked when all she is trying to do is elevate the mindset and move as a unit. But instead the mans ego is ruined and he flees because he does not want to deal with self. Most of them flee to white women or women out their race because there is no challenge. When I say challenge I mean she will not challenge him to come at his best self. The perfect example of how a man thinks controls and demand respect is The Color Purple, What's love got to do with it.
The color purple was made by man hating lesbian.
Woo Love this!!
Nick is hard to have a conversation with and it’s hard to watch at times. He over talks, tries to add humor to deflect and appears forever stuck in his ways. Dr Bryant is a great guest and I’ve learned a lot when she is able to express herself fully. I will be following her on her channels.
What an amazing woman ❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥
Apparently, listening is like being a brain surgeon. And Black Women are only disrespected in the Black community by the Black Men we support, uplift, take care of, help to do, etc. I honestly haven't been disrespected by men but came close to and it was a Brother. Other races of men are incredibly respectful to me all the time.
Fisher Town stand up!!!