The Best Ability Is Accountability Ft. Dr. Umar Johnson
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 3 มี.ค. 2024
- In this session of Counsel Culture, Nick Cannon and Dr. Umar Johnson sit down for their second session, to discuss the responsibility of the Black voice in the media. The two dissect the Hollywood troupe of Black men in dresses and even question if jokes have become too common of a coping mechanism in the community, and much more.
#NickCannon #DrUmarJohnson #Therapy @NickCannon
Dr Umar’s listening skills are unmatched he didn’t interrupt at all…. Now that’s masculine energy
15:40 “Patience is a feminine trait, Tolerance is a feminine traits….”
He’s a psychiatrist…..he’s trained to listen
Exactly.
It's part of his training. He is a psychologist.
@Boscoed it applies to both genders, not just females.
This felt like watching Nick in a counseling session trying to make his therapist agree with him. Bunch of rambling and splaining that makes him look illogical. Dr Umar has a ton of patience.
Thank you @morningcoffee1266. I was saying the exact same thing. I'm sure Dr. Umar had definite feelings about Nick and his many children not have the benefit of having their father in the house with them everyday, etc. Seems like Nick was making sure the Dr. didn't go there with him!
@@lisahenderson7480Umar has the same exact issue 2 kids out of wedlock 😂
@JDHleo naw I’m a keep it right here
@@JDHleo no
The impatient and the dunce people showing themselves proudly by making comments like yours.
Nick might need this more than the fans do 💀😭
That's what makes him standout though, he doesn't necessarily see himself as better than audience. As he mentioned earlier: "I'm guilty".
He gets my respect for that.
Right
Black people enjoy letting people talk reckless around them. But they watch they mouth around other people.
You ain't gonna day Ben-air around Mexicans, but you will let them say Knee-Gas around you
Yep
Nick Cannon should listen more than he talks , shout out to Umar for enduringthis narcissistic nonsense.
Totally agree. I had to fast forward to get to Doc Umar speaking
Lmao the amount of times Dr. Umar was saying “ok, ok, ok” lol he ain’t have no clue what he was saying
@@czhanell 😂😂 I thought it was just me
Lack of patience
Fast forwarding means you missed something
Dr Umar is for culture Nick is for society. Collectivism vs Individualism.
🎯💯
I like that, well put
❤... Broke that down well
u just stole @AE-ib3hv whole comment. be original
Affirmative!
Nick and Dr. Umar care about two different things plain and simple. Dr. Umar is about the betterment of our community, Nick is about individualism.
Nick proved Dr point when Dr said black boys look up to black men so when they see a black man in an dress the little boy watching gonna thing it's ok. Then Nick goes to say he look up to Jamie Foxx Eddie Murphy flip Wilson all the men that were dressed so he thought it was okay for him to like he literally just proved Dr umar's point
Exactly.
he did
THANK YOU!!!! I am over here screaming at my screen, it’s sooooo irritating
Good Point!
Exactly!
Dr. Umar was gentle with Nick. He sees how vulnerable and culturally uneducated Nick is. Seems Nick is trying to heal himself through these interviews. Dr. Umar handled it like a true clinician. Good interview!
Umar put on his therapeutic hat on and just let Nick talk lol
muhahahahahahahaha
Stg!!😂😂
I’ve never seen so many black men fight to say wearing a dress is ok 😩
In my damn life it’s sickening yeah I said it sickening 💯 Bring back masculinity all 2024 & forever ♾️
No one in AMERIKKKA has sell their souls more than the black man... These black entertainers will do anything for the opportunity to stand beside and be seen like the white man. For them it's to get white validation at all cost. Black entertainers since the Civil Rights movement hasn't stand for anything but the mighty dollar at any cost regardless of how they hurt the community.
@@TheWizrd114 Boys learn masculinity by emulating strong, confident and loving fathers. We need to bring some Godly order into many black households and stop the "baby daddy" nonsense, and become husbands and wives. We are destroying our children with dysfunctional environments.
@@van182🎯🎯🎯
@@van182 you ain’t never lied 💯
Nick interviewed himself with Dr Umar in the audience.
Well said. Thought I was the only one thinking this lolll.
😂 true!
L😊 l
😂😂😂😂
Im 11 mins in like where is the interview? Damn u hit that spot on
Nick just proved Umar’s point in the 1st 10 mins
He really did, and I doubt that he realized it!
He is so contradictory! Sounds like he is trying to convince himself
One thing about Umar is that he will always stand on business salute to the prince🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
He's a true G
Dr Umar’s masculines energy truly shines bright and it’s VERY attractive
Ain't it sis❤❤
Dr. Umar Johnson is a fantastic listener.
Just wanted to give him a shout.
Right!!!? It's the psychologist in him. We love to see it!
lol. The look on Dr. Umar face when Nick was explaining certain things was TOP TIER😂
Nick having these types of conversations when he has several children with different light women is crazy 😂
What does that have to do with anything? Go see a doctor to cure your inferiority complex
19:43 "Can ignorance ever be an excuse for irresponsibility?" (mic drop)
BOOM
Powerful
yo!!!!!!!
Talking to someone more educated, experienced, and empathetic than you is so much more needed to promote growth than we understand
I know I can't be the first/ only one to applaud this comment right here 😮
Maaann, Y'all trippin'
Yes! I was thinking that this is what our community is missing. We need more intergenerational conversations in our community.
This show is basically Nick recording his therapy sessions with Dr Umar & Dr Iyanla
When nick got emotional during the N word convo & Dr. umar said “stay with me” 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿
Nick clearly self conscious about wearing the dress cuz he spent the first 13 minutes explaining himself lol
Quite poorly, at that.
At least he’s confronting what he’s done
Once explaining for sure…
Uassrp
Remember when Katt Williams said, the people who sold their soul will do everything to make it seems that they didn’t
The brother still need a lot of DEEP PSYCHOLOGICAL COUNSELING
Nick was introduced to the industry at such a young age, he won’t understand and has already been conditioned to the max. He’s just rambling and rambling. Big ups to Dr.Umar.
The Real question is "If you lost the money would you put on the dress again?" And the answer is.....🤔
Alright now!
It's implied that he would
He already did! Walked the red carpet in a dress and wig after they took everything when he did that interview with Professor Griff and spoke too much truth.
@@ArrielleD There is the answer 👍🏾💪🏾
Nick would in a heartbeat based on his lame reasoning. He’s still Hollywood and Umar knows that after the first few words out of his mouth lol
When Nick mentioned supporting D wade.. That told me everything I needed to know
facts
Facts
Yup
Cosign
He seems b broken
Never thought we’d get to a point where men are debating men for there right to wear a dress lol
😂😂
Smh!
So embarrassing lol
Literally proved Dr. Umar’s point
What we just witnessed is the difference between Masculine and Feminine Love.
Big big facts. Masculine love is I love you but you have to change and I’m not taking no for an answer. Feminine love is I love you so I will accept anything you don’t need to change. Nick is the latter
@@zion9146 where is this the definition? 🤔
@@jaejae444 common sense
@@zion9146 this is not my experience, but ok.
It’s palpable in the polarity of body language.
Nick playing both sides
A very dangerous place to be
omg..facts...both frigging sides
Yup
As usual 🤦🏾♀️
Fear of standing on something (ground/structure)... Playing both sides makes him safe from ridicule, from those who can take the most from his fame/pocket...
Nick Cannon doesn't give masculine energy to me 😂 Umar does 🤟🏿🌹😘
And how would to know thats looks like. Bet your daddy wasn’t on your life. See how stupid I just sounded. Don’t do that
Agreed
Umar is a fraud, at least Nick makes his money honestly
Exactly!!!
That's interesting because from my understanding he's not a very attentive father so how " masculine" Is he really?
Dr Umar speaks nothing but truth.....
Nick is real smart at playing dumb
And the crazy part is he knows how damaging things are in BLK community due to our ignorance.
@@buckroger25586 That Part!
He has a show about dark vs light skinned people . Although knowledge in areas I think this man is lacking in culture awareness
And therefore very ignorant and blatantly and stupidly argumentative
That’s the problem, you think he’s “playing”
Wow!! Best line! “Content has intent”-Dr Umar
I ain’t gone lie nick did a lot of the talking and validation it was making me cringe he talked more than umar in this tryna validate certain topics but it was a good conversation ig
Yes, please less talking from the host and more dialogue from the hosts. This happens frequently
Omg thank u 🤦🏻♀️ I literally was saying down the phone can you just shut up and let the other guy talk it was just too much. It was doing my head in!
Nick sold his soul long time ago ppl.
Dr. Umar begins talking at 7:00 minutes. Thank me later!! Nick do better next time you invite a guest to interview this is not how interviews transpires.. your job is to listen. Most of Umar’s words…. Hmmmmm hmmm hmmm! I ain’t never seen Dr. Umar silenced. Nick’s therapy session should have been off camera. Sounds like guilty conscience on behalf of Nick😔 not interested in watching the rest of this interview ended at 15:00 minutes. Thank me later again!
@@thetruthwillsetyoufree2493 I couldn’t have said it better myself! 🤦🏻♀️🙌🏼💯% It felt so cringe 🥴 to me. Like Nick bro if u need counselling go & get it off screen mannnn. The other guy just sat there nodding his head, most of the interview! Lol
Nick you played a role in the demise of our people. Glad you recognize it now.
Why aren't people considered about the black women being mocked by these men in dresses🤔? Why is it ok to mock women?
This!!!!
This!! It’s never a thought, it’s always about protecting the black man and his image…
Because we are not talking about women we are talking about men. Go to your own podcasts and talk about your problems
OMG .... I say this all the time, it's not ok to mock races...but it is ok to mock women...
My thoughts exactly!!!!!
Dr. Umar tried to be nice and respectful to Nick thoughout this interview........... but at 32:35, King Kong Consciousness showed up 👑✊🏾
And it was necessary
Nick loves Hollywood. Period
Shout out to Dr Umar Johnson. A spectacular session. We needed this. 🙏 🙏🙏🤎
Umar is 4 cultural Nick is for society. Collectivism vs Individualism.
Well said!
Nick is for and working for the secret society.
I don't know exactly what Umar Johnson is for... But he gives off cameras. Nick is for joy, laughter and entertainment to take our mind off the ugliness of our realities.
During the Great Depression, a lot of industries suffered...many of them, excluding arts and entertainment.
The last time Nick did an interview with a conscious brother he had to apologize 😂
I love Dr Umar! Nick help him build that school !
If nick give that man's man he will be considered criminal
I wish there were more men like Dr. Umar thats in my circle. He is such a strong pillar of how a black man should be!
Dr Umar listening the way he does is amazing
It's amazing to see. But then again he is a Doctor in psychology so he is trained to do that! But it is truly amazing to watch
I love Dr. Umar
Keep underdressing our Black community issues.. The Black woman is so misunderstood when come to the black family with the black man and woman…
This is so true! We gotta be strong for everyone including ourselves. The white man made it that way because they havf our black men locked up.
Denzel, Sydney,Samuel and many other black male entertainers didn't wear a dress whether in their early or later years. It's about your upbringing and how you were raised.
Dr. Umar intelligence is official. Some people only see entertainment. They don't understand words in the position. Thank God for Free Thinkers. Thanks Dr. Umar.
And that the content we see on TV has to be approved by SOMEONE. Who is doing the approving?
1st video I've seen where someone talked more than Dr Umar.
Oh there’s plenty more, just look up his older interviews😅
LOL....I was busy working so I had the TH-cam interview running in a different tab but all I heard was Nick in the intro and had to quickly jump back to TH-cam to see if Umar was still in the building🤣🤣
Nick please stop being long winded! Love you and this podcast ❤
Love u nick, but let the guess talk good lord!
😂😂😂right the comments man😂
Trying to cover for the these he has done
Having an “openness” with one's integrity means a lack of limits on ones integrity 😂
He has some nerve talking about accountability 😂
My question is how is Nick Cannon able to not let his kids be from a single parent household with all them different baby mamas? He gets quiet when Dr. Umar talks about the single parent household.
Words are just that. My granny would always say, it's not what one calls you, it's what you answer too. The frequency of any word will validate its intent.
Man i got so much respect for Nick Cannon!!!! I think he is a shining light n a dope yung brotha who is really down for the people and the cause. No matter what color or race u are. Some people we come across in life are just amazing for us as humans and he is one. And a plus is he is a brotha 💪🏿
what people is he down for? Rich holly weird? All that money and building what helping who?
13:30 very long winded 😭
Dr. Umar all day…👑🖤
Team Ifatunde all day everyday! ✊💪🤎
NICK TALKING WAAYYY TO MUCH IN THE INTRO. ITS NOT ALL ABOUT NICK. ITS SYMBIOTIC. STOP MANIPULATING UNDER THE GUISE OF BEING EXTEMPORANEOUS. LET UMAR SPEAK. GOOD SHOW THOUGH. FROM CANADA🇨🇦
It’s called Civil discourse you have lack of patience
Impatient to a conversation you’re not even having.
Well said
Thumbs down comment 👎🏾
lol I take my statement back 😂
Great work Nick this is what the culture needs.
Nah the community doesn't need this LGBTq propaganda
@@chilardhino Our jails, prisons and graves are filled with young black males. Right now, one or two males wearing dresses for entertainment, is our least problem. Too many blacks are drawning in ignorance and apathy. Our fragmented families, Godless behavior and violent rap, are our greatest negative influencers.
Nope, the culture does not need Cannon's propaganda!
Great show, felt like I was watching a battle rap towards the end! Nice to see Black men have a discussion and agree to disagree on so many things. Extremely impactful! Dr. Umar, I can never thank you enough for your legacy and the historical legacies you uphold.
lol Umar was not tryna hear that shit
Dr.Umar is patient and definitely a good listener. He fully went over Nicks understanding
Nick body language throughout this interview speaks volumes
Nick is over talking a lot to avoid the intellectual ass whooping he's receiving 😂😂
The N word I was taught never to say as a black woman from my great grandmother. And here in San Diego I am disgusted on how often I hear it from the kids of all races 😢
If you're going to interview someone, then interview THEM. We're here to HEAR from the person you're interviewing. Nick talked the first 5-10 minutes of the episode. Come on man, let Doc speak.
Thank you
Nick all talk and I’m still waiting on the nipsey the Sebi documentary 5 years later 😢
He won’t answer why he hasn’t done the documentary. Maybe people stopped him from releasing it. Also Dr. Sebi’s children won’t answer why nick has not put out the documentary
Okay ?!??! If you don’t wanna die and said they I’d respect it more
Selective Outrage and Knowledge, The Sebi Documentary was done according to most sources. I don’t know if he ever started the Nipsey Documentary. Nip’s family was discussing a project based on his life as well. He may have deferred to them or another director/company. Look at what happened around the time the Trailer for the Sebi doc was released.
Nick, when it comes to a doctor, you should never over explain yourself... But great job.
Aspects of this conversation is the very reason why I could never take Nick seriously. I’ve always felt like this guy was a joke and I know at times during this conversation Dr. Umar was in total disbelief at his cultural ignorance..
This segment made me appreciate Dr Umar even more.
Dr Umar is an educational vocational GOAT
Who’s being interviewed? Did Nick set this up for a therapy session trying to rationalize his trauma. Please let Dr Umar speak.
He quoted the Bible but didn’t quote Deuteronomy 22:5 where a man should not wear that which pertains to a woman and vice versa.
Oh Brother Nick where to start? Firstly the fit is FLY!!! secondly we love to see Dr. Umar!
Now all the rest of these comments, all go together. First of all, I love the graphics, and the name and the purpose of this. I am most astounded and amazed at your humility to put yourself on the couch instead of the “doctor seat” this is so countercultural right now, but so necessary! I know a lot of the comments can be negative and harsh and hard to hear but I hope the ones that are encouraging are held closer to your heart! Thank you for being brave and sharing these videos I’m very grateful
IDK who's attention span this catering to but I want the full 3hr version lol. good conversation both raised great points. These are definitely the kinds of conversations that need to be had and in terms of media representation, I think podcast are the lane that helps push these higher level conversations to the same audience that is most malleable. we just have to continue to be intentional and associate the correct behaviors with images and information we put out
Right! They're catering to the generation of folks who only have the attention span of a TH-cam short. I would LOVE to listen to a full 3 hour episode. I don't like these type of things in parts. It's frustrating waiting 10 days for a part 2 🤦🏾♀️
Big facts even 5 hours just give it me now 😂😂😂
Nick is agent‼️
Thank you so much for opening up these conversations in such an intelligent and respectful way. I’m so grateful to have discovered this series.
This is actually amazing. Ive heard the N word conversation over and over, never thought a conversation would feel like its getting somewhere with some kind of progress
Lol, is Nick gonna let him speak 😂
Exactly 💯
Nick didn’t come to education & expand he came to defend smfh 🤦🏽♂️
And he made great points
These two can have a show with just them conversing alone! Great episode!
I love Dr Umar ❤️
Nick told us that it’s okay to sell your soul until you have secured the bag then you have a choice, he also told us that he is aware of the LGBTQ+ community and there power in culture. Nick also told us that he has a lot of kids, did I miss anything?
He also said he understand what communities he can NOT reference or speak negatively about.
Or maybe he just wasn't as enlightened at 18 as he is in his 40's people change. I don't think you listened to what he was saying you just heard what u wanted to hear
He say equanimity every episode 😂
😂😂😂😂😂 it’s my first time hearing that word. Nice to learn something new
This is so awesome! I love Nick Cannon openness to ask these questions? And also Dr Umar answering them w/ no judgement.
Answer the question Nick! And Ignorance Is NOT bliss, it's ignorance!!
He has the LUXURY OF DOING THAT!! Most of our children are “Latch Key”” children!! No parents @ home to explain!!😭😭😭😭😭😀
I appreciate this version of Dr Umar so much
I need Dr. Umar's patience. I need to be a person that listen that intently, intentionally, lovingly.....
Appreciate Nick for really drilling down on this conversation. Much to be learned fr opposing views when they're discussed constructively. Salute BOTH the Gods.
100%
ThankU son Nick for your video and i was called the N word by a non black in Philadelphia PA several times, minding my own business once while driving & while walking, i don't want to hear that word in NO form ever again. Recent comedians still don't care about the pain it brings, incl. David. C., really just about all black so-call comedians use that term & i turn the channel they aren't even funny using the N word at all, no comedy skills. It seems like they are trying to impress their audience even though they r veteran comics!ThankU Dr Umar! One LOVE to both of U
It's the long term effects on our communities for me! Powerful conversations.
So love this conversation!!
Love this but you spent the first 10 minutes trying to justify to yourself why you wore a dress
😂 He wanted to set all the records straight. It’s ok Nick, we all make mistakes.😂
@@sharlaamysamuel 😂
Video starts at 4:50
😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂 deadass cuz Nick will not stop talking
Nick bro….KEEP DOING THESE!
I really respect Nick to even be vulnerable enough to have this conversation openly
This is helpful only because nick revealed how sick he is and was saying how a lot of our people feel and umar enlightened him even tho he didn’t want to accept it. Shit was kinda craze watching him squirm uncomfortably
Him thinking embracing your feminine is equivalent to actors putting on a dress is insane
13:40 to get to Dr Umar’s response
🤣🤣 Thank you 🙏🏾
Nick was really going thanks 😂
😂😂😂😂