The 3 Worst Reasons A Narcissist Wants You Back: Don't Fall For It!
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ค. 2023
- Are you being pushed to come back? What are the reasons a narcissist wants you back, especially when it's failed to work before? In this live, Dr. Kerry will discuss the psychology behind "hoovering." Learn why narcissists want their victims to return after discarding them. Learn the top 3 WORST reasons for this confusing exploitative tactics.
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This video helped. I felt sad why he was making himself sick. That was a way to get me to fall for it and to allow him back. Thank you god for my Angels and not letting it happen.
Oooops Kerry I only caught this live at the back end so I'm listening to it now.
I've been hoovered
it can be really confusing when a guy acts like they are addicted to you the first time they meet you.
It's unnatural attention & affection 💋that one does not get from anyone normally. (except maybe the dog) It's all agenda driven.
They want something : SEX? MONEY? PLACE TO STAY? LIFESTYLE?
Then they ask themselves how do I have to act & what do I have to do to get at that??
When you give it up to them ~ your fake value tanks rapidly!
It gets painful to now experience what they actually thought of you.....
You look the fool ~ being such a willing victim.
The innocence lost🤕 ~ not coming back anytime soon.
The REBIRTH into awareness and self preservation & self love
will pave the road to redemption.
💖Cheers Kerry💞 my valued friend & teacher.
Ps I love your book title :
👁"Love you More"👁
and the graphic of the knowing
watching
perceptive
tender eye
unmasking
the Svengali 🧛
Mercifully the lulled eye has been awakened
it feels a resurgence of quick sharp whit & energy
and with well honed judgement
recalibrates
corrects
and protects
the earnest but road weary bearer of the
resolute enlightened eye.👁
Thanks. Missed you too!!
Thank you so much. Mine was about the money too. I'm a nurse and he is a very broke so called mechanic who has never been good at it. Mine was, he said I love you and I would say I hate you more...
Oh I love the I hate you more part. Sad to hear this is too familiar to you.
Got hoover because the new supply dumped the Narc she sounded remorseful from deprivation of fuel. She did me dirty so closed the door to final discard
I appreciate you using your own experiences, it is,powerful. Thank for your teachings.
My husband and I had the same "I LOVE YOU MORE" game....for 17 years until right before he did what he did to get a restraining order against him in March.... I said to him " Don't say I love you more anymore when you do the horrible things you do to me.... That's not even loving me much less loving me more"..... Needless to say I received some psychological punishments for that one.
It’s such a crappy comment.
This was perfect for today. He came back hoovering this evening. It's our daughter's birthday so he had an excuse to message me. Sending me quotes telling me he still loved me and stuff. Then the real reason came out. He wanted me to be his taxi...😂. I told him he would never get back in my house or my car and he flipped that switch and started with deflecting and blaming. I just laughed and said "ok". I feel so impowered now...😁
Hooray. That’s awesome.
Good for u🤝
2 years after
Go Ahead with the Companion Book, Dr McAvoy.
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Oh thanks for that encouragement!
I'm over a month now no contact and actually can't wait for the hoover cos this time it's not on! So glad I've wised up at last😊
That’s amazing.
Your podcast is awesome. You and Tara are great together. 👍 Learning to spot exploutation would be great because I have become very untrusting and stuck
That makes sense. It’s challenging b
Don't be stupid. Don't fall to the narcissist again. He's coming back to get his previous supply. He probably can't find the next supply outside.
I can't block mine. He has an app that gives you different numbers to call from so he always has a way to get to me. And if I keep blocking him, he will go to our daughter or have his friends contact me. He ALWAYS finds a way.
Omg you too?!? I can’t block mine either I’ve tried to in the past and it just makes it worse… He has I’m assuming the same app as yours does because I get called and texted from all these different numbers every time I’ve blocked him
@katnaps2393 yep. Not just phones either. all social media but mostly FB. I had to block all ways for people to find me but he still stalks me.
@@destiny691966 Ugh the worst 😫
How upsetting!
That’s very disturbing
This was great!!! Thank you!
Glad you enjoyed it! That means a lot.
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Thx you.