The mother in love it's open minded and supported her son happiness over anything else. Honestly in my book this is a good mother. He as a son should treasure such parents!
Her mom had me crying when she teared up during the wedding. How sweet. My mother in law is Italian. Her parents settled into West Virginia when they immigrated to the US. My husband said his grandma didn’t speak any English her whole life here. She didn’t learn it. The only thing she would or could say in English is, “You eat”. So the family would speak Italian at home and outside of home, the children (my mother in law & siblings) would speak English.
It’s really not a good idea to go into a marriage divided on something as important as wanting children or not. In any case I wish them the best and a long and happy marriage!
Why don't people discuss if they agree on having children BEFORE getting into a relationship? I totally understand not wanting children. But did he not know that about her beforehand?
Steffi and mother in law the look like strong women similar vibes they’re going to be great support for the families wishing love happiness and health to the newlyweds
The daughter-in-law is trying everything to embrace her in-laws and their culture, but what about the husband? What has he done to appreciate and embrace the Italian culture and his parents-in-law? I feel like this is always one sided.
@@KaesOner I know that too, but my question surely touched a nerve in you. It isn't for you in the first place, it is for the show and for the couple involved in it.
I don’t think steffi and sanghyeon are properly ready to be married it seems like steffi has strong opinions bout things like the patriarchal standards in the household (like when her mil was saying youll have to cook for him later and she said oh he’ll be cooking ) and also it seems she’s not keen on childrearing.idk I think they haven’t discussed the important things and are still in their honeymoon phase of getting to know each other
@@ericsohn5084 it’s not the same, anyone can hire someone to clean whatever they want, it’s about actually putting the time and effort to get sth done, and way too many men simply leave the bathroom super dirty and stinky. It’s more like a sense of responsibility and hygiene, so instead of leaving the mess for someone else, he takes the responsibility and does a good job
I was married to a Korean while in Korea. We had both a Westerner and Korean style wedding. My mom ,Aunt,and a cousin were able to attend thanks to my Wife’s Family. They made it easy for me.
No, just standard Italian woman, strongly opinionated and unlikely to be bossed around. Don't mistake superiority with having boundaries and self respect.
I just did this as the groom, and it was a lot of fun. The 5 hr photo session beforehand and the makeup appointment were a lot, but I would do it all again for her. They definitely don't give robes that fit my chest over there. Haha!😂 We did a wedding in the US and another one a week later in Gangnam. Then off to Jeju for the honeymoon!
Parents being pressuring them to have many kids since SK has low birth rate 😅 Now I know why some of them avoid to being married and stay single. SK man has that “pride” of marrying a foreign woman in their life. The parents (older gen) are not that keen when their children choose to marry a foreigner. It’s all shown in this clip😂😂 And to foreign woman, please take note that the man in kdrama is totally different with real life. Maybe not all, but mostly that’s the case. 😊
6:30 I love how the mom looks not like simp or lovely dovey to her daughter like any typocal mother in law that i'm seeing in tv show, instead she's just rlly like asian typical mom that just brag about her daughter in law behind her😂❤
@@Tarotblackcat just because she knows shes gonna have to work full time and take care of the child too because husbands are useless and wont do anything? idiot
I mean I am Italian too and I have to say it’s impressive how she speaks Korean… I know she went to school and all of that but it’s a totally different language with a different alphabet and what not.
I think it’s the husband’s ancestors, so if they want memorial services, the burden should be on him. She should help but the responsibility should not fall on her. I’m from a culture that does memorial services, but we don’t take it that seriously (my parents don’t expect me to do it)
Why does he have to understand something ridiculous culture which makes even Korean women not want to get married. Bad culture should be finished. that's why many Korean women don't want to get married.
@@ranniesdexactly. My husband's family do memorial service while mine don't (different religion). We have never talked about it before marriage (simply because i'm unaware of the practice) so when his mum sprung it on us, i let him handle it. If he wants to do it, it'll be his responsibility, i'd probably help, but he's the one who has to take charge if he wants it to happen. Since he's too lazy to arrange one, it simply never happened 😂😂 And thankfully my husband is wise enough to said to his family that he's the one who doesn't want to do it (so the in laws never has problems with me).
The European beauty standard is popular in not just south korea but also in japan and China I've noticed from videos I watched even if the person is average looking they get treated as if they look like angelina jolie or megan fox they also really like pale skin skin bleaching products are a billion dollar industry in asia they make fun of people with tans it's......interesting
If I were in her place, I wouldn’t do it either not because it’s a lot to prepare but because it conflicts with my faith (Christianity) maybe it’s the same for her
My husband still pays respect to his ancestors..am a Christian I don't believe in this..We make it simple we buy side dishes and fruits then make one soup..Thats it. She should discuss with her husband and find a way out
@@jeddymoon3803 I grew up in a culture that worships ancestors, but I don't routinely practice the rituals. However, I see it as a way to memorialize the things your ancestors have gone through and did to bring their descendants to where they are now. Like recognizing the work they did to ensure the family lineage persists in a hard world. I'll occasionally pray to my ancestors and "ask" them to give me strength to go through life in the same way that they were able to persevere and make it. Even if I don't know them myself, they were once important people to others in the family line and helped shape values that were passed down through generations. (Though I understand customs are just different and we should be free to practice our own beliefs!)
I think they will not last forever. The way the girl talks to her bf, is giving the vibes of being manipulative and she has a bad attitude. And also the girl doesnt want to agree with her bf of having babies. Of course, she is in Korea, she should learn and respect the culture. She should leave Korea if she don't want some of their culture.
Слкушайти народ зачем богатсва если у мират на том свете богатства не нужна тол ко за любимых нужна вы ходить иженщинам имужчинам на том свете бденги не понадобяться потом далеть будите что не сделали не партесь что родители говарят по любви маладеш
Hope that Steph is not serious in saying that she doesn’t want any children. It is pointless having a partner OF NOT HAVING ANY CHILDREN. GOD BLESS BOTH OF THEM, AS THEY SEEM a very good couple. The in laws or the parent of the would be husband is such a charming and generous in laws and the grandmother is very loving and caring, too. thank you for sharing.
Plenty of couples choose not to have children and are perfectly content and happy. Having kids isnt the sole reason or even a reason at all for some to get married.
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The mother in love it's open minded and supported her son happiness over anything else. Honestly in my book this is a good mother. He as a son should treasure such parents!
Its just on tv
Lol right😅@@evilydal
Her mom had me crying when she teared up during the wedding. How sweet. My mother in law is Italian. Her parents settled into West Virginia when they immigrated to the US. My husband said his grandma didn’t speak any English her whole life here. She didn’t learn it. The only thing she would or could say in English is, “You eat”. So the family would speak Italian at home and outside of home, the children (my mother in law & siblings) would speak English.
It’s really not a good idea to go into a marriage divided on something as important as wanting children or not. In any case I wish them the best and a long and happy marriage!
hahaha steffi is funny.
her sense of humor is how she copes with life's annoyances
Why don't people discuss if they agree on having children BEFORE getting into a relationship? I totally understand not wanting children. But did he not know that about her beforehand?
Likeeee recipe for disaster
Exactly.
@@MichelleOfoegbu they should absolutely not get married if they cant agree on having children,
It's going to be a disaster if they don't come to agreement about this.
Especially since there is literally no compromising with this topic.
The inlaws are so nice. Steffi started off ahead in the dating field with that degree in Korean studies!
Steffi and mother in law the look like strong women similar vibes they’re going to be great support for the families wishing love happiness and health to the newlyweds
The daughter-in-law is trying everything to embrace her in-laws and their culture, but what about the husband? What has he done to appreciate and embrace the Italian culture and his parents-in-law? I feel like this is always one sided.
💯💯💯
This is a Korean show and they live in Korea... they're only going to show the Korean side...a little critical thinking goes a long way.
@@KaesOner I know that too, but my question surely touched a nerve in you. It isn't for you in the first place, it is for the show and for the couple involved in it.
He probably eats pizza every now and again. That's good enough.
@@chriskane1726😂😂😂😂
I don’t think steffi and sanghyeon are properly ready to be married it seems like steffi has strong opinions bout things like the patriarchal standards in the household (like when her mil was saying youll have to cook for him later and she said oh he’ll be cooking ) and also it seems she’s not keen on childrearing.idk I think they haven’t discussed the important things and are still in their honeymoon phase of getting to know each other
This show is called my neighbor Charles for anyone who’s wondering!! I was looking for it too and saw that they had mentioned it in this vid
Her Korean is actually really good
wow husband cleans the bathroom so well and throughout this is unheard of, he's a keeper
what if a dude hires a maid to clean the bathroom?
@@ericsohn5084 it’s not the same, anyone can hire someone to clean whatever they want, it’s about actually putting the time and effort to get sth done, and way too many men simply leave the bathroom super dirty and stinky. It’s more like a sense of responsibility and hygiene, so instead of leaving the mess for someone else, he takes the responsibility and does a good job
@@JL_hahaha0303 So which do you prefer, a man cleaning his bathroom or a man hiring a professional cleaner?
@@ericsohn5084 ofcoz both, only little kids need to choose 😆
My husband is the same haha. His cleaning standards are really high. Remember Korean men go to the military so lots are really disciplined.
steffi has amazing sense of humor and personality
I was married to a Korean while in Korea. We had both a Westerner and Korean style wedding. My mom ,Aunt,and a cousin were able to attend thanks to my Wife’s Family. They made it easy for me.
What is westerner wedding?
@@alifc1082 sorry an American style wedding.
Steffi’s attitude is very superior (i dont think this couple will last )
No, just standard Italian woman, strongly opinionated and unlikely to be bossed around.
Don't mistake superiority with having boundaries and self respect.
I just did this as the groom, and it was a lot of fun. The 5 hr photo session beforehand and the makeup appointment were a lot, but I would do it all again for her.
They definitely don't give robes that fit my chest over there. Haha!😂
We did a wedding in the US and another one a week later in Gangnam. Then off to Jeju for the honeymoon!
Parents being pressuring them to have many kids since SK has low birth rate 😅 Now I know why some of them avoid to being married and stay single. SK man has that “pride” of marrying a foreign woman in their life. The parents (older gen) are not that keen when their children choose to marry a foreigner. It’s all shown in this clip😂😂 And to foreign woman, please take note that the man in kdrama is totally different with real life. Maybe not all, but mostly that’s the case. 😊
6:30 I love how the mom looks not like simp or lovely dovey to her daughter like any typocal mother in law that i'm seeing in tv show, instead she's just rlly like asian typical mom that just brag about her daughter in law behind her😂❤
What I felt until the end of this video is that Korean mother in law looks very not kind.. I was feeling sad imagining that Italian girl's parents
Congratulations wishing you love and happy life.
The grandmother was so cute 😂
I saw it only for few minutes but my impression from this couple is they won't last long. I do not feel the spark between them.
They complately different in every way .lol the boy so cute and he wants many children the woman is not and not cute at all
@@Tarotblackcat just because she knows shes gonna have to work full time and take care of the child too because husbands are useless and wont do anything? idiot
Wow! your Korean is so good..where did you learn?
She's very intelligent and elegant.
The music that starts at 1:45 is very good. Where did you get it?
She is very critical of him it is weird
Congratulations ❤
Wishing you a lovely and happy life with each other
he must've love her so much that he wants 3 versions of her 😄
결혼하시는구나. 축하해요.
Sooo cute❤
If she doesnt want children and he does why are they getting married?
❤❤❤
22:42 Oh Shit 할때 ㅈㄴ 웃기네ㅋㅋㅋ
I mean I am Italian too and I have to say it’s impressive how she speaks Korean… I know she went to school and all of that but it’s a totally different language with a different alphabet and what not.
She should do her culture and her husband do his culture when it gomes to ceremony for ancestors. I think she will regret marrying him and he's short
❤I would hold the service. Cook a little and order the rest if the food. 😅
자녀는 부부가 힙의 절대존중♡♡♡
What is this show called?
My neighbor Charles! I was looking for it and saw that they just mentioned it in this vid!
does someone know which TV show it is ? thanks
Operation Marriage. This was aired 2022. Haha.
It’s called my neighbour Charles. It’s not operation marriage lol 😂
I wish she would be a bit more.....understanding and accepting of the memorial services.
I think it’s the husband’s ancestors, so if they want memorial services, the burden should be on him. She should help but the responsibility should not fall on her. I’m from a culture that does memorial services, but we don’t take it that seriously (my parents don’t expect me to do it)
Why does he have to understand something ridiculous culture which makes even Korean women not want to get married. Bad culture should be finished. that's why many Korean women don't want to get married.
@@ranniesdexactly.
My husband's family do memorial service while mine don't (different religion).
We have never talked about it before marriage (simply because i'm unaware of the practice) so when his mum sprung it on us, i let him handle it. If he wants to do it, it'll be his responsibility, i'd probably help, but he's the one who has to take charge if he wants it to happen.
Since he's too lazy to arrange one, it simply never happened 😂😂
And thankfully my husband is wise enough to said to his family that he's the one who doesn't want to do it (so the in laws never has problems with me).
❤❤❤❤ cute
good man who can a houseman,
It looks like she does not want to have a kid in the future..
Ela não quer filhos, ele quer filhos… 😬
B
개신교 집안이나 가톨릭 집안에 시집을 갔으면 제사 안해도 돼는데…
Funny how in Korea any (non fat) white woman is considered pretty.
The European beauty standard is popular in not just south korea but also in japan and China I've noticed from videos I watched even if the person is average looking they get treated as if they look like angelina jolie or megan fox they also really like pale skin skin bleaching products are a billion dollar industry in asia they make fun of people with tans it's......interesting
Yeah, she's not pretty at all.
Anyone has her instagram?
I think she should respect the Korean culture….
And pay respect to their ancestors
I think she does a lot to respect Korean culture. Besides, it's much more rare to see respect for the foreign culture in these scenarios.
If I were in her place, I wouldn’t do it either not because it’s a lot to prepare but because it conflicts with my faith (Christianity) maybe it’s the same for her
My husband still pays respect to his ancestors..am a Christian I don't believe in this..We make it simple we buy side dishes and fruits then make one soup..Thats it.
She should discuss with her husband and find a way out
@@jeddymoon3803 I grew up in a culture that worships ancestors, but I don't routinely practice the rituals. However, I see it as a way to memorialize the things your ancestors have gone through and did to bring their descendants to where they are now. Like recognizing the work they did to ensure the family lineage persists in a hard world. I'll occasionally pray to my ancestors and "ask" them to give me strength to go through life in the same way that they were able to persevere and make it. Even if I don't know them myself, they were once important people to others in the family line and helped shape values that were passed down through generations. (Though I understand customs are just different and we should be free to practice our own beliefs!)
@@Romina2711Respecting parents & ancestors is a basic human virtue, and it is greater than religion. 😅
This marriage is gonna be a DISASTER.
She might say no for kids, but I am sure she will change her mind soon 😊❤
Both the boy and girl are thousands time more handsome and prettier than SJK and his wife 😅
Fax
I think they will not last forever. The way the girl talks to her bf, is giving the vibes of being manipulative and she has a bad attitude. And also the girl doesnt want to agree with her bf of having babies. Of course, she is in Korea, she should learn and respect the culture. She should leave Korea if she don't want some of their culture.
아이고야 이 결혼 많이 피곤하겠는데 ...
근데 kbs이 인간들은
영어방송을 송출하면서
내용물은 1988 올림픽시절
이야기를 하고 있네
답답하다
She sounds so Korean. No accent at all.
nah, she clearly has an accent and makes a few mistakes. but yea her korean is much better than most foreigners', it *is* impressive
#AMWF
Слкушайти народ зачем богатсва если у мират на том свете богатства не нужна тол ко за любимых нужна вы ходить иженщинам имужчинам на том свете бденги не понадобяться потом далеть будите что не сделали не партесь что родители говарят по любви маладеш
한국 결혼 문화 문제 많다.
없어져야 할 문화중에 하나라고 생각함.
Lol epic failed when she married a Korean guy
Hope that Steph is not serious in saying that she doesn’t want any children. It is pointless having a partner OF NOT HAVING ANY CHILDREN. GOD BLESS BOTH OF THEM, AS THEY SEEM a very good couple. The in laws or the parent of the would be husband is such a charming and generous in laws and the grandmother is very loving and caring, too. thank you for sharing.
Plenty of couples choose not to have children and are perfectly content and happy. Having kids isnt the sole reason or even a reason at all for some to get married.
Ngl, she looks more like she could be his step mom than his wife.
They are both in their thirties so 🤷♀️ Asian usually look younger than their age
this comment should be brought down ASAP ..I think u wrote it while drunk
@@jeddymoon3803You might not like it-but they’re right. She does look a little older than him.
@@b.a3595 But there are polite ways to put out a comment..For example "the guy looks young for his age"
Have you looked at yourself in the mirror lately?
이 커플은 결혼 안하는게 지구 건강에 좋습니다. 하면 더 지옥이 될 예정
i wish she will give birth to quadruplets twice within 3 years
Serving death people 😮. Worship them 😮. Gladly isn't my culture. I served Jesus
He is super dead tho
What is the show called??