Pet Loss and Pet Grief by Sonya Fitzpatrick Pet Psychic Animal Communicator

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  • A Guide To Help You Through Bereavement by Sonya Fitzpatrick Pet Psychic Animal Communicator, Sonya Fitzpatrick helps pet owners through the process of pets passing on to the spirit world.
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  • @haydenharris3059
    @haydenharris3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Its three years after having him 16 years and I still want to dig him up and cuddle his remains.
    I rescued him but he also rescued me.
    RIP my dearest Reginald 🥰

    • @embracedchimera5886
      @embracedchimera5886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      i felt the same after burial..my fiance told me no..i wanted to see him..

    • @cf6880
      @cf6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You sure loved your Reggy,
      It is not easy to forget your rescuer

    • @haydenharris3059
      @haydenharris3059 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@cf6880 Thank you and I never will. ❤

    • @allexx123
      @allexx123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have my Anubis kitty wrapped in freezer paper and in a box in my basement freezer, since he was so beautiful I am thinking about having him Freeze dried one day.

    • @Tammy-Jeanne-Movies
      @Tammy-Jeanne-Movies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My Coco PUFF is freeze dried. I'm not the only one wanting to dig up my doggy son Tony~O who passed Oct 22 2021 I wonder how long it takes for decomposing ☹

  • @cindyl760
    @cindyl760 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Nothing can prepare me for the loss of my dog, she’s still alive but I am not ready to accept my life without her yet

  • @love69ner
    @love69ner 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Lost my sweet little cat Feral, September 30th, 2023 🥺😭 it was sudden and unexpected how quick it happened. She passed while looking at me and being held close until she just faded away. See traces of her in every room now as I walk around waiting to hear her meow and purr for me. Be at peace my little sweet Feral girl xxx ooo

  • @thecitizenarmy7958
    @thecitizenarmy7958 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Whether you’re spiritual or not, there’s a lot of wisdom in this video.

  • @stevepmo
    @stevepmo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    thank you so much, i lost my molly 7 weeks ago. she was 19. i miss her so much.... i feel i cant go on without her... she was all i had. i still cry everyday.

    • @MsGlamourcat
      @MsGlamourcat 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Your Molly wants you to go on... she will come back to you xxx
      Every time one of my cats passes, I feel I can't go on without them - I grieve so deeply and wish I'd gone too. One of mine went less than a week ago, I told God to take me instead and spare her, but alas for it did not go that way. She will come back to me, I know this because the love I have for her is so overwhelming... as she left this world I told her "If you knew how much we love you, then you wouldn't want to leave!" - but she left and I feel that her physical body had inherited the characteristic faulty gene from her father whom had only passed away 2.5 weeks prior! So she needs to come back in a stronger body that doesn't have the genetic fault.

    • @tobytremain5120
      @tobytremain5120 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for this wonderful video Sonya! I really needed to hear your healing words today. We had the pleasure of meeting you on Minnesota when you were on your book tour. You comforted us after we lost our kitty (Sassy) We have lost 5 very precious souls within the past year, of which included my mother and our two senior special family members-Milo, our 17 year old red tabby, and Nugget, our 13 year old beautiful catahoula rescue dog. The amount of loss we have experienced this year has been overwhelming....never have we experienced so much loss is such a brief timeframe....I wish I could comprehend why we had so much loss ....we often hear " It was their time"...that just doesn't bring me comfort.

    • @marleneflaherty4843
      @marleneflaherty4843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know that feeling all to well. I suppose only time will heal are hearts. I will keep you in my prayers

    • @pamm8608
      @pamm8608 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wanted to go with my cat, too. It was so devastating. Only time helped.

    • @belmum1689
      @belmum1689 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Over a yr ago my 13 yr old greyhound suddenly passed away on her bed in the lounge room just after I got home from work at 9.30 in the morning, she closed her eyes to sleep one last time, she called out in her sleep like she was having bad dream but it was different cry when I looked at her I saw her releasing herself on her bed and I knew instantly that she was dying so I ran over thinking I could snap her out of it but her spirt she was no longer there anymore while her body was still slowly shutting down it was sad but amazing. It was a honor to watch and hold her paw it was quick and peaceful RIP Butcher Never forgotten

  • @TheYazmanian
    @TheYazmanian หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Well my goodness after my Treybee passed away our German Shepherd Ralphie started doing things she would do. He started hackling whenever he would hear the door bell. He started booping me with his nose. He came running when I would cry for her. He became very protective of me just like she used to do. It was so very comforting and when he started acting like her it's when I truly started healing from her death. Now he has died and I must comfort myself. I miss him deeply.

  • @judywhite82
    @judywhite82 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    A wonderful woman. you can feel her loving energy.

    • @thesummerland6165
      @thesummerland6165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      agree, what a wonderful advocate/voice for all sentient beings we share this earth with

  • @tinadooley7145
    @tinadooley7145 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I have just lost my little dog only yesterday and the pain is unbearable. I watched your video Sonya and it brought me a huge amount of comfort. I think it is something I will watch regularly. Thank You so much. I will put in to practice everything you have said. I have another dog here with me called Louis who I know is on borrowed time and is also grieving. With your help I hope we can get through this terrible terrible devastating time

    • @therealpriss
      @therealpriss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏🏼 sending love and light 🕯

  • @Leaning_Bear
    @Leaning_Bear 2 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I am grieving the passing of my dearest cat Akina. Thank you for making this video, it has really helped me feel better about the decision my husband and I had to make to let her go just a few days ago... I've been feeling very worried and upset that our baby girl was traumatized by that last ride in the car, I felt like I was betraying her by telling her everything would be ok as I pet her little head those last few times. Our vet is very sweet and believes that all animals deserve to go out "tripping balls" as she put it, so our baby received a hefty dose of Ketamine before the final injection. I have no doubts that what we did was a kindness and relief to her physical pain, and that she understood what we did for her was our final duty and obligation to honor the joy she has brought to us for the last 15 years. Still, I was feeling a great deal of guilt about all of it and this video has helped me find some comfort and relief.
    To all of you who have come here seeking some type of comfort, I truly hope you find it. My heart breaks for all of us collectively, we hurt for the most beautiful reason - LOVE.

    • @traarias6223
      @traarias6223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I feel the same way and can relate to a lot of what you shared. I'm sorry for your loss ☹️🙏♥️🐾

  • @singingchannel2648
    @singingchannel2648 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Only others that have experienced that special bond with their pet can understand and relate to the grieving of missing them when they cross over. My boy passed in April💔 and I have been on a rollercoaster of emotions...nothing eases the heart ache...I am learning to fully feel my way through the pain, frustration, and upsets...I have been aware of his spiritual presence and I do talk to him...I've felt him jump onto the bed with me, his paw pushing down on my leg and the warmth of him snuggling in...I have thought I've heard his barking, and the other day our one cat was starring into the hallway, just sitting there and I took a photo of her and right in front of her face was an orb,,,,I believe it is the spirit of my dog as they'd known each other for many years, and she was just sitting there as she would when he'd sniff her, nose to nose. When you mentioned them going into the body of another pet, I burst into tears because our girl Cali has been acting like him and I had thought how strange, Ari used to do that, so unlike her, so that confirms him wanting to connect with me, then, I looked up into the space around my bed in my room as I was watching this video and saw the outline of his face and his eyes looking at me, so I called him over to cuddle, and softly cried.....I know he's here, I just so want him to be in his physical form for me to hold and pet...We found out that even though he was neutered this year and prior to the unfortunate events of his passing, he was able to still impregnate our girl, she's due in June and I am so hoping he comes back and we are definitely keeping a puppy. he's graciously given us some solace, with a beautiful gift of his babies on the way💓

  • @julianag4761
    @julianag4761 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Thank you so much.this was much-needed my heart hurts 😢as I have lost my dear cat.

    • @ginahenderson3381
      @ginahenderson3381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      So sorry for your loss. I have lost my cat five weeks ago. Not enough time with her.

    • @chars437
      @chars437 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lost my precious MAGGIE a beautiful Tabby cat of 18 years. I'm broken. Comforting to know we all feel the same 😢

    • @ModernGoddess81
      @ModernGoddess81 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m here for the same reason…my beautiful tabby Scooter passed 4/1/22…I’m beside myself…💔

  • @mommyloveyukito
    @mommyloveyukito 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This video gives me a lot of comfort right now.. i was crying all the time since may 13th when my baby boy Yukito passed away..

  • @Blustone60
    @Blustone60 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Romans 8:18-21 God loves them greatly. We will see them again. They won't ever die again after the next transformation. 🕊⚘️

  • @marialovesmusicalot
    @marialovesmusicalot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Thank you Sonya. It's been a few months already and I still cant stop crying about my baby when I think about how his physical body isnt near me anymore.

    • @BlingyBea
      @BlingyBea 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s very heartbreaking to lose our furbaby.🙏🏻🐾❤️

    • @stevepmo
      @stevepmo 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i feel the very same way, it hurts so much

  • @allexx123
    @allexx123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I cried through this whole video My Kitty Anubis passed away 6 weeks ago. I still miss him dearly

  • @user-js2jb4ec9y
    @user-js2jb4ec9y 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I think you're amazing, and what you said about animals who have passed was so comforting to hear. I lost my 15-year-old dog this year along with my 18-year-old cat. I adopted a little puppy who I had for five weeks. He was only five months old and had distemper when I bought him from the rescue. I thought I could save him, but I ultimately had to have him put down. He began having these awful tremors and could no longer walk.
    When my 15-year-old dog died, I asked my late husband (who loved my dog when he was alive) to help him cross over and to be with him. Several hours after my dog passed, one of my cats was looking under the table at something that I could not see. I began taking photos of the area. One of the pictures had an image in it of my late husband's profile of his back. On his back was a dog who looked exactly like my dog who just passed. Some of my friends saw it too. I believe it was them letting me know they found each other and were together again.

    • @cindyl760
      @cindyl760 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Girl don’t make me cry, got teary eyed for a second there

    • @ericaespinosa4030
      @ericaespinosa4030 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Beautiful to hear that I totally believe in that

  • @kittyj1926
    @kittyj1926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Thank you Sonia. I am grieving the loss of my beautiful tabby boy Sammy who died last week. The bond I had with this cat went beyond words. I found your video very comforting. I hope that we meet up again somehow on the earth plane once more. Bless you for the work that you do.

  • @cf6880
    @cf6880 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I have a Maltese who is almost 17 Yrs old,
    The signs she's giving is Dementia,
    I had her at the vet and they want to put her down and I refused,
    I'm watching her 24/7,
    I'm feeding her through a syringe and medicating her with Darrow's liquid to support the kidneys,
    I know that it's a matter of time for her to leave soon,
    My Mom came to see her yesterday and held her like a baby,
    I have come to terms with her leaving me soon

  • @annaorlovska8551
    @annaorlovska8551 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is the video I needed so much. Put to sleep my baby 2 days ago. Guilt, frustration and anger loosing them is just too much. Thank you for reaffirm they are peace and in better place. I lost my baby in question if 24 hours, I did not see it coming. I am grieving and I just look for signs or something because I believe and hope that my boys will come for me when my time will come.

  • @alessamoura8321
    @alessamoura8321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I keep watching this over and over…Your voice is so comforting! I miss my cats Miau and Meera. I have always believed in death as a door, not the end. I hope they can return to me.

  • @nyleve68
    @nyleve68 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I had two cats from t he same liter and they loved each other, 3 months ago one passed away and he is still looking all over for the other one and it seems like he is crying or calling him.they were 12 years old. I miss him so much. your video helped. I bought a beautiful toy stuff cat black and white like he was and he cuddles with the cat, and from old socks I made him to roll up (and I called them his babies, so now he cuddles with the 3 of them but, he is still looking for his brother .

  • @sarahfoster5648
    @sarahfoster5648 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is so helpful. My beautiful, perfect, loving rabbit passed over on Friday and I feel like my world has lost its colour. She (Skylar) was a little piece of heaven xx

  • @amylou1236
    @amylou1236 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You gave me the best reading I've ever experienced, 15 years ago... read my cat, now passed. I will never forget it or you. She is still around me!! Thank you for that gift to me. Working on communication with Spirit world now. You are amazing! ❤🙏

    • @rachelles_wheels
      @rachelles_wheels 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m thinking of a reading. What did she say that convinced you she was real?

  • @Flytr567
    @Flytr567 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I've lost many cats and all of them were my favorites
    I'll miss them and I miss them.
    Tinku,Daffy,Bunty etc etc

  • @Trendle222
    @Trendle222 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    just had to put my 18yr old Yorkie girl down, she was literally my best friend, i would die for her without a second thought. Youve really calmed me down and you are so soothing and make so much sense =) Little Binky (2 1/2 pounds lol) went very peacefully with me holding her and talking to her, she passed happy! im both very sad and happy at same time, your video is really helping me get through this

    • @seadd1
      @seadd1 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My yorkie transitioned 4 days ago, I understand your pain ❤ They will always be in our hearts…Its hard to comprehend it and get used to life without him though

  • @lovedolphin100
    @lovedolphin100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you so much for making this video. 😭
    My 14 -year-old dog just died yesterday, and due to the quarantine I couldn’t be with him when he left. I felt so heartbroken and has been crying so hard, lying on my bed whole day. After I found your video, I feel so much better now. As you say there is no death and there is no separation, I should be happy for my dog since now he is moving to a wonderful place and definitely meeting my grandpa there. What I can’t get over maybe is just his physical body.
    I wish you all the best. Appreciation from Taiwan.

    • @techh9171
      @techh9171 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lost my pal couple of days back and not seeing him in his physical form is what makes me sad but it also brings me peace that he's in better place and he's with me spiritually.

  • @Tammy-Jeanne-Movies
    @Tammy-Jeanne-Movies 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm crying 😢 My Tony~O Loved us and would turn his head to look in my eyes even days he didn't feel well with his vestibular issues from brain tumor.

    • @user-by5ew8uk3i
      @user-by5ew8uk3i หลายเดือนก่อน

      Same happened to my boy,same disease and brain tumor.my heart is so broken.3 months and I cry still today

  • @moxymouse1231
    @moxymouse1231 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Suddenly lost my sweet 12 year old lop bunny 💔who was the last survivor and my sole companion for years after my husband passed. My house looks and feels so empty without his physical presence. I received a visitation dream from him 72 hours after he passed.

  • @WonderMagician
    @WonderMagician 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Every living being strives to stay alive. Every moment of living: painful, joyous or just plain mundane, is precious. I would not want to be euthanized just because I am in pain or have a terminal illness. My choice would be to remain alive until all of my self and body is ready to die, living my life to completion. Dying is an integral part of being alive. I have come to believe that the death process is every living being's way of saying goodbye to having been alive.
    Throughout my life, I have had the privilege of caring for 11 cats and 4 dogs. I loved each of them dearly. Two of our dogs and all of our cats lived a long life; two dogs died at the age of 4 and eight; both where hit by a car. My cats lived to the age of 16, 18, 21, and 22 years. Each died when they where ready to leave their body: a natural death. When one of my animals became ill, and recovery was doubtful, I prayed for courage and guidance to help them reach their own end, on their time table, not mine. What I had to do was overcome my fears of accompanying them on their final journey. I was blessed. The life and death of each of my pets taught me a great deal. All the proponents of euthanasia stress that you think about your pet's quality of life. It's time to start examining on how we respect the dying process of the animals in our care. They have a right to die when they choose to die. The body makes very potent painkillers that far outperform any vet or doctor can prescribe. The "quality of life" argument for euthanizing our pet is an encouragement to avoid facing the dying process. Every vet would warn me about the suffering of my pet: There is suffering when there is pain, but each of my animal companions showed me that each breath was precious to them. There was no horror in their deaths.

    • @kimberletaitano2905
      @kimberletaitano2905 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My Sophie passed at home however, each pet is unique. I am grateful she passed at home but to comment in a tone of judgement or blame on those who had their fur babies down none of us know another'
      s situation. You're beliefs r yours to assume it is the right and all others are wrong.

    • @ModernGoddess81
      @ModernGoddess81 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I regret every pet I’ve put to sleep instead of letting nature take its course…

  • @user-by5ew8uk3i
    @user-by5ew8uk3i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Y dog screamed and cried when the needle went in.i will never get over this.i cry and cry .
    He was scared and it hurt him!

  • @tinasyoga
    @tinasyoga 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My Lucy 13 years old passed away 2 day ago, the last 48 hours I tended to her 24/7 held her and her companion ( my other dog) was so attentive and worried. I told her I lived her and appreciated all her ❤️, She was in my arms when she passed, I watched the life force leave her little body, luckily I was home when she needed most , for that I am grateful. We did a sedative ti reduce pain. My Ellie other dog are both physically and emotionally exhausted. We are recovering slowly. I appreciate your words❤️🙏

  • @leighannwhitelock
    @leighannwhitelock 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I lost my baby boy peppy yesterday 😢he was a yorkie and was 13 years old he was the most funny cheeky boy ever!! Your video has really helped me like you wouldn't believe ❤ I miss him so much I haven't stopped crying and I can't eat !! Thank you again this video is amazing and your voice is so comforting I'm going to watch it again x

    • @user-by5ew8uk3i
      @user-by5ew8uk3i หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry.My fur boy has been gone 3 months and I still break down.hugs.it sure hurts.

  • @carmelaseverino681
    @carmelaseverino681 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I feel like you are speaking just to me ! Thank you 😢

  • @janecolledge407
    @janecolledge407 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hi Sonya , it’s Gillis daughter Jane, love you’re videos , I have 3 cocker spaniels and bred them myself, hope you’re doing well x

  • @susannautterback6815
    @susannautterback6815 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you Sonya. I’ve lost so many over the years. One of my dogs passed away and a few years later he found me!! I was at a friends house sitting on the porch. He ran up to the gate and jumped up against it. I ran out calling his name. It was him…he looked exactly as he did when he had been with me. I was able to pet him and tell him how much I love and miss him. We shared those moments and then he ran off🥰. I will never forget that

  • @sandraguerra9155
    @sandraguerra9155 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you! I really needed to hear this, I lost my lil dog on November 9th 2023 and I am still crying till this day.

    • @ModernGoddess81
      @ModernGoddess81 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sorry for you loss. I just lost my baby almost 48 hours ago…putting her in the ground tomorrow and I’m just numb

    • @ModernGoddess81
      @ModernGoddess81 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m so sorry for your loss…my baby irl passed a week ago and I know I have a long hard road ahead of me. It’s always so hard losing a pet 😢

  • @Misshalimay
    @Misshalimay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My dog Brady is passing as of now. He looks so miserable and I had a chance to put him down Friday and was scared. He is so skinny, no food and water today so I am going to put him down this morning until at the pet hospital. I know where he will be going home where my mom is. This video made me feel so much better! Thank you.
    My dog princess that I have now is my last dog I had princess. They act exactly the same and I was crushed to get rid of her because I lived with my mother and she ended jo biting a few people. So the place made us get rid of here. A month before I found out I was pregnant is when she came into my life again. A

  • @Omoroseangel
    @Omoroseangel 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you for sharing this. Since my beloved companion kitty passed 3 days ago, I've been realizing a lot. 😥❤️💔😔 Feeling the deepest pain and separation, and bewilderment that she is gone. I've gone through a lot of traumas in my life. Even almost losing my life a few times this last many years while she was with me. While I felt no one understood during my darkest days, she was there, always there. Like a CatDog. Following me at my feet even when I didn't feel good. There were days I didn't have the love inside of myself to even pet her when I was going through the worst of the worst. We both have been through so much together. 😔I know she's okay I just wish I could spend another day with her, pet her sweet furr and kiss her sweet head. I'm devastated and I'm trying to process these profound emotions I've never felt before. The connection to her was strong and she chose to leave her body when I was there with her, after nine months of surviving a stroke that left her paralyzed, but I was able to help her heal that she was independent for the last nine months. When she first had the stroke, I was so afraid to lose her I begged her to stay. I truly believe she stayed because I wasn't ready to have her go, nor was she. Her little body couldn't handle the neurological issues that came with the stroke in due time, but she did a beautiful job of living and loving everyone. She had her stroke on my birthday last year. As traumatizing as that experience was, helping her heal and all and spending that time with her, it brought some of the biggest gifts I never knew could come of it. 💔❤️ as I sit here bawling my eyes out I realized she taught me unconditional love on a level NO ONE else has ever. I miss you so much, I look forward to seeing you again. Thank you for everything . 😥😭😭😭🙏💔❤️❤️

  • @thesummerland6165
    @thesummerland6165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    this helped me so much, for both my own passed animals and ALL animals, regardless of breed, type, captive elephants, wolves, etc
    may I please ask if this applies to ALL animals, including those poor animals who are abused, who never had a caring human, etc, or elephants suffering in neglectful captivity and endangered wildlife? thank you for all you do for these beautiful souls

  • @kimcornell2123
    @kimcornell2123 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I lost my soulmate dog in June 2021 .and my only soulmate I ever had.i still grieve over her and always will I feel like we shared the same soul I was her and she was me.we were one soul is how I feel .living without her has been so hard for me.i hope she can live another life with me here on earth before I die.i feel like we lived many lives together.completley lost without her.

  • @MsPopo81
    @MsPopo81 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I was glad that i was able to be with my 20yr old cat until her last breath naturally... Just didnt feel right to put her down as she was sleeping most time. Took three days to pass after she couldnt walk anymore.

  • @blezyljoysinco5457
    @blezyljoysinco5457 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video has full of love and joy from the fur babies who already passed over. 🐾 🐶 💜 I missed my dog everyday of my life. ✨

  • @joannemcevoy4232
    @joannemcevoy4232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I started with three cats. I had to put my cat Munchkin down in July 2020, and I wasn't permitted in the room during the euthanasia due to lockdown restrictions. I had to put my cat Molly down on March 27th this year due to advanced kidney failure and other issues. Putting Molly down was tough as she was my first cat but I was able to be there with her during the euthanasia. I have one cat left, Amy. It is just the two of us. I have been grieving and some days are better than others. I have been trying to find videos to help with this process.

  • @user-ot4cw6iv3f
    @user-ot4cw6iv3f 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much Sylvia. I had to put my Coco down on January 21st she was almost 15 years old and I've been devastated ever since.. I can't make myself function in life anymore and find myself not even wanting to get out of bed. Her daughter Angel is still with me but I'm beyond devastated. I keep feeling Coco go lifeless in my arms and it kills me. I miss her so much. She followed me everywhere I went in my apartment. Laid in her doggy bed by the table where I worked. So many things I am missing 😭💔 I am trying my best to move forward but it's a struggle every single day.

  • @traarias6223
    @traarias6223 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you very much for this video it has helped me. It's only been a few days that I had to release my dog from his body and let him cross that bridge. It hurts so much. I wake up in the middle of the night and tears will just fall. Bless you Sonia ♥️🙏

  • @paulmech3610
    @paulmech3610 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5 days ago my beautiful 12 year old red doberman went into respiratory distress. It was after midnight, over and hour drive to the nearest animal hospital. All the sudden she couldn't breathe, she dropped her bowel at once. Because of all the fatty tumors, her recent struggles and recent diagnosis of Laryngeal Paralysis I made the decision to put her down. The pain. The guilt, the emptiness all too much to handle.
    Still waiting to get the call to get her ashes.
    About 9 months ago I stopped her from going upstairs. The steps we're no longer safe. I brought my mattress down and had it on the floor so we could still sleep together. Couldn't even use the box spring because it was too high. I have put the mattress back on the box spring, but I have not slept on it since her passing.

    • @macreadylives
      @macreadylives 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ❤ Just lost my beloved cat of a little over 12 years. Also, I had a doberman growing up who died way too young. Just wanted you to know you're not alone. It looks like it's been about two years since your loss. I'm guessing (and hoping) that the pain has subsided and that now you're just filled with happy memories and gratitude for having had your beloved pet at all and for the opportunity for you to love them and to be loved back in return. ❤

  • @marilynnyoung7026
    @marilynnyoung7026 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This was such an incredibly helpful video. I had to put down my beloved Symba a week ago and though I am very privy to the Spirit World and quite psychic myself, I still am grieving deeply. I feel very comforted by this tho….
    Omg, it REALLY *got* me at the end…..when dear Jack had passed on. That said, it gave the subject matter even more levity and depth, so thank you Sonya and Jack too. ❤❤❤

  • @michellebloomer4750
    @michellebloomer4750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel I was guided to your message in an act of mercy from the other side. Thank you for sharing this message that is bringing me healing and relief. My cat, Zoe, was/is a soulmate, and the pain is particularly sharp. Gratitude for your message.💛🙏

  • @MsRominaAguilar
    @MsRominaAguilar 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My 17 year old baby is passing today. I can not explain the pain im feeling. this video helped me, i could not watch chapter 6 Tho, i'm not ready. Blessings to everyone watching this

    • @EpiC-oz2hl
      @EpiC-oz2hl 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im so sorry sending you positive energy. I lost my cat 4 days ago and i have never Been this sad:( she only Got to live for 1 year and 5 months. I hated that she died so Young and that i took her to the vet because they gave her the injection when i came back Home from the vet and they didn’t tell me they would do it:( i just thought they would do the surgery to fix her broken legs:( i feel so bad for her so i Can understand What you are going through.

  • @toldyaso444
    @toldyaso444 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sonya thank you for helping all the wonderful people hurt & grieving over a lost member of the family
    GodBless you

  • @user-sx4ou8zk1y
    @user-sx4ou8zk1y 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In my opinion-we suffer A LOSS LIKE NO OTHER.

  • @issbiss11
    @issbiss11 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was very helpful for me thank you. after 2 hard days of grieving for my sweet cat, i smiled thinking of him being young and playing again with animals in heaven, and when i did that, i felt connected to him, and felt the love and bond we will always share.

  • @altheiabass-seldon7342
    @altheiabass-seldon7342 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I assisted my GS, KING to the rainbow 🌈 bridge today. It was the hardest decisions I ever made in my life. He had osteosarcoma of right hind leg with Mets to his lungs , amputation in February 2021, had a great 5 months . He was no longer able to walk , eating decreased , he could move unless assisted , he had this glare in his eyes , he vomited this morning and I said o can't allow my boy to suffer any longer. Please keep me in prayer . I miss him so. I feel out of touch
    ❤️🌈🙏🏽🐕

  • @robbie0517
    @robbie0517 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cannot thank you enough. Sending love & light for you to keep doing what you're doing

  • @rosebudcreationsroserody7519
    @rosebudcreationsroserody7519 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your video I found a comforting. I lost my chihuahua Daisy 6 weeks ago and it hurts so bad still today as it did the day that I lost her. I was just wondering if my Daisy is around me I feel she is and I wonder if she will or has come back to me. I miss you my baby girl I think about you everyday and talk to you through your picture and ashes till we meet again I will never forget about you and it hurts so bad every single day without you. Rip my Daisy Girl.🙏❤️

  • @moshpetroleum8549
    @moshpetroleum8549 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this amazing video. I'm euthanizing my 13 year old Cockerspaniel in 3 days time because he's in a lot of pain, and this video has given me a small sense of relief.

  • @dodieceo1267
    @dodieceo1267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i had to put my 15 year old cat sherbert down dec 8 2020. 945 pm its gonna be a year soon and i miss him alot this cat was there for me in ways no human could be and i cry daily and when i had to make the decision to end his life i felt like i murdered him what if the vets were wrong and i killed him i held him tightly and told him how much i loved him and how much i want to go with him he loved me very much if the world and the people in the had a quarter of the Class this cat had the world would be a better place

  • @adelegaffney3314
    @adelegaffney3314 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thankyou this has helped ease the suffering ive felt the last 36 hrs

  • @lorrainebrett7765
    @lorrainebrett7765 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is so reassuring. I do know that nobody ever really leaves. I lost my dog yesterday and I needed to hear this.

  • @concesi8877
    @concesi8877 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just lost my baby boy yesterday. When I got home its been empty but around meal time I could of sworn I heard a faint bark. I hope he knows I love and miss him very much. I'm such a mess of this loss.

  • @marleneflaherty4843
    @marleneflaherty4843 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My two beloved furbabies I had to put down one week apart. Then my eldest sister Maureen passed. All three the month of February 2021. I'm still grieve for my pets. My dear sister I am at peace. Thank you

  • @mirarasol
    @mirarasol 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I recently loss my pet cat, Big Meng. And losing him has been hard but I'm glad I found you video it helped me a lot. Thank you so much for your video. I hope I get to see my Big Baby one day again.

  • @Brooklyncv
    @Brooklyncv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I lost my dog, my baby the day before Thanksgiving this year. It's been so difficult for me. I wish I could have been euthanized with my baby so we can be together. I cry every single day and its so hard for me to function. I keep asking myself if I did the right thing and it's driving me crazy.
    I miss my baby so much. I miss you baby, mommy loves you❤
    This video was helpful, I thank you for confirming my choice was best for him..
    My baby was paralyzed from a Back injury and was given pain meds 3 times a day for 2 years.

    • @therealpriss
      @therealpriss 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m so sorry for your incredible loss 🙏🏼 I have to put my baby to rest tomorrow and she’s been paralyzed twice and fought through it all😭 Your baby knows you loved him so much and will never leave your side💕sending light and love to you 🕯

    • @user-by5ew8uk3i
      @user-by5ew8uk3i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I'm so sorry same here .my heart hurts.i cry and cry.going on 3 weeks and I am so depressed I can't go on
      I will never be the same
      I want my baby back! I should had never had him put down.NEVER!

    • @Brooklyncv
      @Brooklyncv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-by5ew8uk3i I'm also so sorry you are feeling this pain.
      My condolences on your fur baby.
      It is the one of the worst Heartache a person can go through. I 'd rather have a root canal than this pain.
      Please talk to your baby's picture, sleep with it. I did, and it helps, I have been doing it since my baby crossed over the Rainbow bridge.
      The pain eases in time, but never goes away. I had about 10 pictures printed and placed them over my bed wall, so I can talk to my fur baby.
      I still hurt for my fur baby. And still cannot get a dog because I'm still not over it, it's been 3 years. But that's just me. Other people I know got a dog a year later to help ease the pain.
      Please don't regret putting your baby down. You did it to stop your baby from suffering, I also questioned if I made the right choice. We did the most humane choice. And it's a very hard decision to make. But you're a great Mommy and wanted the best for your baby.
      I pray you feel some comfort soon. I understand your pain so much. I wish we can turn back time so we can have our fur babies back in our lives🙏🏽
      Talk to your fur baby, your fur baby's spirit is with you and instilled in your heart.

    • @Brooklyncv
      @Brooklyncv 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@therealpriss thank you so much.
      I'm so sorry you had to put your baby down. She is Blessed to have you in her life who gave her love & care. May your baby rest in peace 🙏🏼💗

  • @SummersAngel84
    @SummersAngel84 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My current black i'm pretty sure is spirit of a black cat I had that died suddenly and unexpectedly when she was 3yrs old. My current black cat just happened to cross my path as a tiny kitten but it wasn't until a few months in when her personality really started showing through I realized she did things just like my last cat. And they look almost identical, both solid black females with tiny frames. My most recent cat that I just put down last week, i kept feeling my dad in him. I'm pretty sure it was my dads spirit in that cat. I never got to be with my dad when he passed and i was to afraid to tell my dad goodbye because at that time i was in denial that he was dieing. With this cat we had to euthanize and so I got be present with him and be with him when he passed and to say goodbye. I think my dad did that to get some level of closure that I didnt get when he died as human. My dad was pretty empathic and intune with me growing up and so was this cat. I miss Luigi so much.

  • @sisterB_warriornun
    @sisterB_warriornun 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I keep replaying this video every time I miss my dog... it makes me feel a whole lot better! Thank you so much for this. It's very enlightening!

  • @sandymatza
    @sandymatza 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yur amazing. I’ve had so many Furbabies. They’re all passed now. My last two were Rusty and Quincy. Quincy grieved my Furbaby Jackie because they were mates since they were 6 months old . Rusty grieved Jackie so bad , they he made himself sick and I had to put him to sleep. When I pass , at least I know I’ll be with all my Furbabies. Thank-You. Then I rescued another Furbaby Quincy which I rescued at the AWA. I had to have Quincy put to sleep a little over a year ago. I had all my Furbabies cremated so they are all still with me. Thank-You.

  • @bravo2080
    @bravo2080 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much. You have answered so many questions. I still am suffering over losing dog but you shown me it is normal and not to be ashamed of it. Love.

  • @sandraadams7913
    @sandraadams7913 ปีที่แล้ว

    We remember you Sonya! Me and my girls were amazed at your abilities. I'm so happy to see you again.

  • @adelegaffney3314
    @adelegaffney3314 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    RIP wee Kittie may you be painfree my beautiful baby xxx❤

  • @mommyloveyukito
    @mommyloveyukito 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Our cats really looked sad..i can see in their eyes that they are also grieving for my boy's death...

  • @rhondabritt3086
    @rhondabritt3086 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lost my snuggie 18 yrs old ,I cant quit crying. She was my heart, help please,cant handle the pain. Loved snuggie and tinker twins. What am I going to do with out them.

  • @lorivattes2187
    @lorivattes2187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I lost my chihuahua, CocoBean, outside when she got out on December 28, 2021. I found her dead on December 30, 2021 inside the gate at the entrance where I live. She had gotten out when I left to go to Wal-Mart on the 28th. I came back home and realized she wasn't in the house. I looked for her outside 24/7 right away. I have two stray cats that hang around my door for a long time. One of the cats who I named Sammy, walked with me around the community every time I went out looking for my dog.

  • @marleneflaherty4843
    @marleneflaherty4843 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your stories. Makes me feel less pain through this process 💕

  • @narsreenjohnson4966
    @narsreenjohnson4966 ปีที่แล้ว

    i had a frizlwe chicken used to sit onmy shoulders sleep inside then she got cancer had operation vet said she wont live long.gave pain killers i could not give her.my friend came visit i asked her if she could take my chicken as she had many birds and knew how to givepain killer.i feel deep down i didnot want to see her die.I cry evry day for my chicken why i let her go.She died outside as she did not live inside anymore but with another chicken she was friends with,.i never ever forgive myself.
    2 years later another chicken same colur a brown hen walked into our gate when my husband came in he didnot notice.I had actually seen her 2 weeksbefore in our street knowcking her beak at next doors house but when we went to pick her up she ran away out of the street arounfd the corner .
    Now suddenly we found thishen here.I went to see where the houses have hens cannot find.However from afar we here chickens sometimes.
    She is withus now for a year settling in a pram outside evry night.I feel that is my jenny came back to me.I dont believe in human rencarnation but maybe animals do.I feel Sonya is right.
    I am still grievung over my little hen i wish i never did that to her.I could have learnt how to give her pain killers even if it was difficult.I love you Jenny the hen.
    I wish Sonya could tell me howshe felt and if she was alright before she died.She would have wanted to be with people she knew before passing.

  • @thianwong2587
    @thianwong2587 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    thank you so much for your insights and truths...they give me comfort.

  • @sallec.9554
    @sallec.9554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dear Sonya, you are such a comfort, thank you. Lost my beautiful girl, a 12 year old tortoiseshell cat, not long ago and I’ve never known such heartache. They just aren’t here long enough! She was such a loving, sweet being. I am at a loss to know how to fill the hole she’s left in my life.

    • @sallec.9554
      @sallec.9554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lesleyhumphries426 I feel for you! I know. I have never felt so much loss, not over parents, siblings, it is awful

    • @sallec.9554
      @sallec.9554 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I should add that I think they are in a much happier place than we are

  • @Elaine_P_Smith
    @Elaine_P_Smith 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's been 7 months and 7 days since I euthanized my 14 years, 5 month, and 9 day old service dog. I knew that it was time and I promised him that I would let him go with dignity. I didn't want him to drag his body on the ground. I still cry every time I think of him or someone says/asks about him. Cheeko taught me what love is and how to love.
    Your video is very helpful for me and I want to thank you cause I don't feel like a Zombie anymore.

  • @wolfjess9326
    @wolfjess9326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you I feel a bit better even though my rabbit passed probably over 6 months ago I still miss him so much I would talk to him about my life when I was sad and he was just listening it felt nice to know that he was always there the night before he passed I don't know why but I felt like crying I had no clue why the next day I walked in to my room he was lying on the cage floor and I stroked him he gasped and looked in my eyes and than he was gone I was crying for 2 says straight but it may of felt bad to lose something I love but it brought me closer to my cat the night after he passed I had a lucid dream of him as a spirit and in the dream he was a spirit he was sitting on my brother's new carpet and my brother was in the dream but he couldn't see the rabbit only I could and I woke up in tears but some how the dream made me feel better to even though I still miss him

  • @Kuulpb
    @Kuulpb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    We just lost one of the most amazing cats we’ve ever had, he was loving, delicate, loud, ambitious. We had to put him down because he couldn’t see, couldn’t react, kept trying to hide, he was terrified and I feel so guilty we made the decision, he was only 14, but he must have been in so much pain. He couldn’t walk properly, collapsed a few times, would go to the toilet just wherever he was stood, without realising he was doing it. I miss him so much... he left us 27th Nov 2021

  • @ciganilla
    @ciganilla 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so comforting

  • @lorivattes2187
    @lorivattes2187 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    When you were doing your Animal Planet Show, you said that a lady's cat kept thinking that why is she sleeping with my picture, I"m right here.

  • @skyhigh33716
    @skyhigh33716 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I would never say good bye to my pets…..I will say until we see younagain

  • @amiebeck14
    @amiebeck14 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so very much for your insight and expertise. It has just gone 2weeks since Benson crossed over and its been very challenging. I know he will be with me forever and his sister has really helped me tonight as I finally have accepted this uncomfortable feeling is never going away. My goofy pants gave me so much joy and happiness and loved me when I couldn't love myself. I will be looking forward to his reincarnation day when I'm ready.
    Big big love and thank you for helping my heart feel a little light. Cried throughout your video and I'm so so glad I searched for relief.

  • @annieann6347
    @annieann6347 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you for sharing your wonderful wisdom 🙏. 🙏.

  • @redlanterns
    @redlanterns 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you. You have thoroughly helped me understand. My pet cockatiel died three weeks ago and I am devastated he was 22 years old. I cry all the time. Listening to you was a consolation. Thank you.

  • @TinaMarieItalianIce
    @TinaMarieItalianIce หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you 🐾🙏🏼💓

  • @mybabyandme08
    @mybabyandme08 24 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤❤ so much love to you

  • @trishmorton2035
    @trishmorton2035 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is a wonderful video, thank you.

  • @ginamarrone5532
    @ginamarrone5532 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you. This helped me so much. I was desperate for some clarity and understanding.

  • @ganeskrish4490
    @ganeskrish4490 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It is a journey and experience. Easier said than done. Birth is not a beginning, death is not an end. This what keeps me moving. I will see my boy the other side.

  • @bluecollarlit
    @bluecollarlit 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a kind person.

  • @shadrach6299
    @shadrach6299 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’ve made up my mind that I will have to hurt. Just feel it.....

  • @charlitathomas8023
    @charlitathomas8023 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    My baby Dave die nov 18 2021 I'm still crying so much and break my heart becoz I miss him so much and I love him with all my heart I cry 😢 every single day I wish he is with me now Dave baby I love u and I miss u alot .
    You always be may 👶

  • @evakazanis2759
    @evakazanis2759 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    WONDERFUL KNOWLEDGE THANKS SONIA FITZPATRICK MAY YOU BE BLESSED FOREVER WITH YOUR ANIMALS AND PEOPLE 😊😊🙏🙏🐕🐱🦌🦓🦄🐎🌲🌲💗💗❤💜💗💗💗

  • @samantharobinson9686
    @samantharobinson9686 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for offering comfort 🥰

  • @traceygoodman6203
    @traceygoodman6203 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One of THE most beautiful tutorials and I must share this and YOU are such a beautiful human and educator xx oh thank you and God bless you 💟🛐✝️☮️😭🐶🌈💔xx you confirmed all the things I already believe and MORE!! XOXO 🇬🇧

  • @thecryingame222
    @thecryingame222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for advocating for rescue and rescue animals! 💖 #adoptdontshop

  • @alessamoura8321
    @alessamoura8321 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏

  • @MiaHessMusic
    @MiaHessMusic 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much.

  • @Uglyartworks
    @Uglyartworks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you✨