WHAT I'VE HAD DONE // COMPLICATIONS // REGRETS
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- HEY BEAUTIES!!!
Today I’m sharing any and all cosmetic procedures and complications associated with EDS.
I hope you all enjoy!
XOXOXOX
-Mel
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“I’ll get to my tatas” so funny, you will be sorely missed Dear Mel, may you be in peace and flying with angels 👼
Probably her implants that caused her death 🥴 breast implant illness is real. Been there
@@GraphicBeauty1998 we don’t know that, so please stop spreading misinformation.
@@ALT-vz3jn we do. Do some research
When she talked about getting older my heart dropped. Rest in Peace Mel
Mine too! 35 is too young
I'm just now able to watch her videos, and want to not just to keep the channel alive but also because she was amazing, but I have to mentally to skip over some things. The first one I watched (the last one) where she said "see y'all in my next video" I full-out sobbed.
@@sarahc-b I still can’t accept this. Mel looked so good in her last video...I often wonder if she suffered in the end or it just was so sudden..hospital or home. Can’t get her out of my brain.
Same for me 🥺
Missing Mel so much!
hey everyone lets all commit to watch at least 1 video and comment daily to keep her channel active so her positivity and knowledge continues to be shared
That’s exactly what I plan on doing LeeLee. I don’t want her videos to be taken off ever. I am so so sad that Mel is gone. Can’t stop thinking about her.
Hi ladies! I’m here watching and re-watching Mel’s videos. I miss this talented woman so much!
I am now, even now. She will never stop teaching me about makeup-but most importantly-she teaches me to be a better person. 💕
Ill watch mel as long as her vids are here. Love this beauty
Did she even know the joy she brought to folks lives? I sure hope so....My heart is broken...SHE brought me back to life.
Poor girl. I'm so sad that she will never get older. It's still so surreal that she is gone. These videos make me feel like she's still here with us.
My heart is broken along with the rest of you. I just don’t believe it and can’t stop watching her videos. Mel was one of the most beautiful talented influencerS. No one can blend and do eyes like Mel. Such a gentle sweet soul that suffered too much!,, may you RIP! You are already missed. My thoughts and prayers are with puffin and the children.
I don't like to think of her as gone, I prefer to think of her as she's looking down from heaven while she's doing her makeup and smiling at us with those beautiful eyes. I still revisit and watch the videos I've already seen and those I haven't get seen and learn the tips and tricks of her craft, her expertise in the world of makeup 💄. She will be missed but she'll never be far away. She's not far away, she's as close as the wind and hold her in our hearts 'til we see her again. Mel, please know that you are still 💘 loved.
I feel so sad that we lost her, RIP beautiful angel we all love you xx
THIS JUST REALLY BREAKS MY HEART, I STILL CAN'T BELIEVE GOD RECEIVED ANOTHER ANGEL. PRAYERS FOR HER CHILDREN AND HUSBAND. I PRAY THEY HAVE THE COURAGE TO GET THROUGH THIS DIFFICULT TIME. 🤗
Mel passed last week, Viki
@@lisacorreia7160 Mel passed September 26th.
I miss you so much already Mel it’s not the same not seeing you’re reviews you were so talented this is beyond tragic rest in paradise beautiful ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
I just had a jaw lift....
It didn’t make me look younger, just fresher and I have no regrets.....My face had gone down so much when I lost my Mom, my hubby got cancer and then COVID hit. I just looked as sad as I was inside.
It boosted my morale and if I’m still torn inside, al least I can face the world with more confidence!
As you always say, you do you Boo! But it is a bit sad that, we women, have to walk on eggshells when talking about plastic surgery, Botox...
We can be very harsh and envious, more then men, when it comes to this subject!
So like Mel to open and share something so private…in hopes of helping others. Mel was such a loving, genuine Beauty - inside and out! RIP.
You're so candid, it's like listening to a friend or sister. Whenever I see a new video, it's like a friend giving a life update. It's nice.
Well said and so true!! Beautiful comment!♥️
You’re a gem, Mel.
Thank you for the transparency! Keeping it real for the lay-peopke
Agreed! Mel’s like having a really cool friend or sister.
Couldn’t have said it better!!
RIP Mel…You will be missed. 💜
I hope she can help others realize they have EDS. I have EDS and run a support group because awareness is not where it should be. I was diagnosed with my daughter in 2011. Yes thin skin,soft skin,see through skin,slow healing,and excess scaring among others is typical with EDS. We’ve come along way but not far enough. I’m sad she’s gone 😢
I have vascular EDS and would love to join your group.
Her eye makeup is incredibly beautiful in this video but I always notice her bright and sparkly her eyes in every video. A natural beauty 💞
Rip. Heaven gained another beautiful angel
Omg this just came on autoplay and I wasn't watching, and I just heard "heyyyy beauties..." heart just sank... miss you already Mel, my God girl I know your man and kids are hurting so much. I promise yall are in my prayers... love you Mel, rip
Heyyyyyyy Beauty,
Thank you Mel, for everything you gave us, for all the giggles, tears and wisdom, for your innate artistry, for YOU.
Today is one of THE saddest days of my life. Today I learned of your passing. Today everything changed.
Oh sweetheart, you're going to missed be so many people.
My heart is broken and I can't stop crying, love you very, very much. 💔💔😭😭💔💔😭😭💔💔😭😭😭😭😭
Right there with you! 😭💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔💔
This video makes me feel close to Mel and understanding the personal and health issues she bravely faced, such an honest gentle soul, you are missed
Our dear Mel, you have left such a void. I have watched your videos for years. I never believed I could ever be as good a makeup artist or enthusiast as you, but that didn’t have anything to do with why I watched. You were simply comforting and encouraging. There has nor will ever be anyone like you. Rest in peace, our dear angel.
I am so scared! Scared of the pain, scared of complications, scared of end results not being what had in mind. But would I love to have my saggy teabags done...YES!!! A forever inner struggle! Thank you for sharing, Mel! 💜
I love the honesty that Mel speaks with as it is most informative. She will be so missed.
I've said it before, but I don't care: To me, you are just so incredibly ridiculously unbelievably beautiful - inside and out! 🥰 Much love from Denmark, Scandinavia ❤
Mel. Thank you so much for talking about this. My daughter has E.D.S. I am very appreciative of you sharing this. This is the kind of thing that is not talked about. People who have this condition don't have enough information. It is very difficult dealing with the many issues that go with this diagnosis.
My breast augmentation was the worst decision I’ve ever made! I had silicone which burst and led to 4 reconstruction surgeries. Take two: I had them removed but during the 9 hour surgery the catheter was left in too long which resulted in an autoimmune disorder that forced my retirement from practicing law and destroyed my life. I have exhausted all medical treatments and am left with having to deal with pain management medication and avoid stress at all costs. Being a litigator was destroyed. I hope this can be a cautionary tale. I’m so sorry for everything you are going through. My prayers are with you Mel 💙🙏
I’m so sorry!!! 💔😣
@@melthompson2856 TYSM Mel and likewise 💙
@@K9_NINA Girl me too- I had crohn's disease before and then after getting implants I developed horrible psoriatic arthritis. I got them out a year later. Never again
@@amysmithssportsandmakeup1397 I’m so sorry 🙏😔
I'm so sorry. 🙏💜
Mel your face is ABSOLUTELY BEAUTIFUL no more work is necessary, just beautiful.
I love how open she is about her experiences so others can learn. Very much missed. 😔
I can’t believe how honest you are. Trying to help others! You will be truly miss. I love your videos.
At this point, I haven’t had any cosmetic procedures done. I’ve definitely considered it but it scares me, honestly. I would definitely have work done on my eyelids if they ever get too droopy cause I want to wear eye shadow til I’m 105!!! As far as my boobies, my kids basically nursed the life right outta them. Lol!! But hey, they served their purpose. I’m proud of you for your honesty and talking about the ups and downs of what you’ve gone through. You are so incredibly beautiful, Mel. Inside and out!!♥️♥️♥️
She really Is!!!
@@deboraspolaor474 Most definitely! I’m so glad I found her channel. She is just a class act!
LOL. Get them done. You deserve it!
You smiled so much and it's so beautiful to know that you did💖
I agree, her smile was infectious!
As someone who was diagnosed with an aggressive, incurable and difficult to treat blood clotting disorder in 2004 (and who has doctor!failure stories that would curl your hair - actually cost a dude his medical license), you are awesome for speaking about your health so openly. I can’t tell you how much I would have loved to hear a voice in the void when I started (and kept) clotting, no matter what we did; both legs, both lungs, the brain, and there was no one who had been there, who knew the pain and the fear and the frustration, for this scared 22-year-old who was flat out told she wouldn’t see 25 to talk to. Social media has made it easier to connect with other chronically ill and complicated medical marvels like myself, and I try hard to use those 18 confirmed clots (with a whole bunch more suspected; somebody pass me my frequent flyer toaster reward already) to help guide someone who’s in that same darkness I was, but it’s still a very personal thing, and your open honesty is just a beautiful thing to witness. I’ve no doubt it’s helped someone who needed to hear this, and it’s just confirmed for me that you truly are as stunning on the inside as you are on the out.
RIP beautiful Mel 🙏🌷💕
❤️❤️
I'm going to miss you so much but I'm so glad we still have your videos!! Love you Mel ....
Mel will be so missed, rest in peace beauty 😢
I had a doctor INSIST there was an injury to my nose as a kid because it’s pretty crooked with a bump on the bridge. No, that’s just my nose. I mean sure it’s possible my parents kept something secret from the first few years of my life, but I highly doubt it. I wanted a nose job for the longest time but as I’ve gotten older, I’ve grown to love it. Besides, it functions just fine and I don’t snore, would like to keep it that way! It’s a unique nose but it’s mine. :)
I used to be so self conscious about my nose too. My mom told me how they can fix it and that scared the shit out of me. I do want my boobs reduced so much. It puts so much stress on my back it always hurts it sucks..
Such a beautiful person! Inside and out… Can’t you just feel it? I certainly can! ❤️
Wow it is so rare to hear anyone bring up EDS, me and my children all have it, and I was just thinking about getting my breast done, us zebras are special, and thank you so much for putting this out here.
I love how genuine and honest you are. It makes you even more gorgeous and real. Love you girl!
I am seeing this video for the first time. Mel’s beauty literally takes my breath away. I love her laugh and voice. Rest in Peace sweetheart. You are Loved! ❤❤❤
I keep watching Mels videos to keep her spirit alive. She was so lovely, but it breaks my heart when she talks about what she’ll do in the future. I miss you
I really love your honesty.
My sister has EDS as well and it is nice to hear your story.
I still can’t believe you’re not here you’re going to be missed by so many people I don’t know why the good die Young not fair
Thanks to Mel for giving valuable advice ever. Beautywise consiousness and reason is what she gave to to her community, which at times not even every doctor would be able to give.
I have EDS and between my chronic pain and struggling to feel my best, I have had this exact fear considering implants and filler. I soooo very much appreciate your openness on this and your many other struggles. Love your beauty inside and out!!! 💓
Mel you are a beautiful person inside out 💕 thank you for being brave enough to share your story 😘
Mel the kindness you show and share is wonderful. You really open up. God Bless you XOXOXOXOXOOXO
Bless you, sweet Sharon ❤️
I have a bit of a giggle when you say tatas ☺️😉 It’s funny to hear what everyone calls them because there are so many nicknames we grow up hearing from other girls.
This all is so over the top .
@@susancassar1044 that’s pretty good 😂
Thank you for this video. My daughter has been diagnosed with EDS & RA. I had my augmentation in 2012, have the gummy bears and he went through the arm pits. I also had a lift because as a teenager I would always try to push my boobs up. They were tear drops, so I just didn’t like the way I look. When my daughter was diagnosed last year with EDS they told her I bet your mom has this. I’m 18 knee surgeries in and that doesn’t include rotator cuff, elbow and other things. So makes me wonder.
Sending you positive vibes so you can continue to heal. Thank you for being upfront and honest. I love the raw side of Mel. I hope it helps you as well. 💜
I didn't know about EDS, so thank you for the education 😊 you are beautiful and I don't think you've had to much done ❤
love u mel..dont know how we will live without u .. sooo honestly n boldly u shared everything.. u were one of your kinds.. will always miss your laughter n yr sweet smile.. rest in peace dear..
As a fellowEDS’er it’s always good to learn from other’s experiences. Thank you for sharing x
Mel 8s fixing faces in Heaven rite now! Miss you Mell
Will miss you, and going through some old ones.💄⚘ sending prayers
Rest In Peace Mel. I'll never stop watching your videos❤
we miss you dearly! thinking of you a lot today. I will pull my Tiny Marvels out to use today. I cherish that palette like it was special part of my life and journey on YT. I haven't posted in a year myself due to a lot of life situations I needed to handle. You are reinspiring me to post again. R.I.P MEL
Mel your candidness is so refreshing and always helpful. Your eyes look gorgeous today!
It’s like listening to a good friend. You have hundreds of friends out here in you tube land who love and care for you so much.
I am so glad you had the things done that made you happy.
Good morning Miss Mel, thank you for being so open and generous. You are a marvel 🐛🪲🦋🐞🐜🐝😃
thank you
I scar horribly too, i've had so many skin things removed and have scars everywhere and stitches are the worst. Ill try this tape next time. RIP Mel! We will miss you
I have EDS and I have been really curious about this subject, but as you say, there's not much out there other than the general warning that we don't heal easily. I'm terrified of needing surgery because I struggled with just lobe piercings and I'm one of those people who don't respond normally to injections at the dentist because my tissues absord the stuff in a weird way. And of course pregnancy put stretch marks in all sorts of weird places, lol. Thank you SO MUCH for this video!
I have EDS as well. I've had several surgeries: knee, gallbladder, carpal tunnel, and others. None were elective, obviously, but results are the same. My scars are generally impressive...as in stretchy and maybe a little slower to heal. But I did heal. If you ever do need surgery, just make sure you talk to the doctor doing your surgery. Make sure everyone knows before it's scheduled. You'll also need to make sure the anesthesiologist knows because patients with EDS also aren't as easy to numb up/knock out.
Okay I know you asked for none of this...sorry
I have EDS and I always have trouble with the dentist and anesthesia. Anesthesiologist have told me how hard it was to keep me under because you can’t give too much where it lowers your heart rate yet the normal amount I wasn’t responding too. My dentist when I was 17 asked me if I did recreational drugs (I don’t) because his injections weren’t numbing me
@@kristamarie02 every single surgery that I've ever had I warn them hey I come awake every surgery so whatever you're doing please make sure I can like let you know. Every single one. Whenever I was having my wisdom teeth removed I scared the crap out of the dentist and the nurse that was in the office. We all screamed. He put me back under and I guess he gave me higher extra levels and something else because I was literally stoned out of My mind for 2 days. Had no idea that I had the surgery. Kept on coming too wondering why I had a big on why I had caught in my mouth why did I taste blood what the hell is going on. My boyfriend called the doctor and was like hey how long is she going to be like this. She has amnesia like something real. They explained to him the type of medication that they gave to me basically gives you amnesia. And it should wear off within 48 hours if not call them back. Thank God it did. But every single surgery I've ever had to come alive. FYI dentist you have to tell them no buffer in the Novocaine. It flies through our tissues. When they put the buffer in the epinephrine we can't take so many injections of that cuz that will mess with our heart. We're not like normal people so if you have a dentist procedure you must explain to them hey you have to make sure you give me novocaine with a buffer or else you're going to hurt me. I can't tell you how many dentists office I have had tears fall from my face from the pain they put me through. I hate it
This video was so typically Mel. Always helpful and considering how she could help others. Miss you. Xx
So sad RIP lovely Mel,try to help by watching All Videos again,
I think you're freaking gorgeous! If it makes you happy, do it, if it makes you unhappy undo it. Happiness is what matters
Thank you! 💜
I was diagnosed last year with hEDS. Its good to hear about others journey with this disease. For me my knees, hips, and spine are the worst. I had almost gotten implants but now in glad I past on it. My skin is very soft stretchy and I take longer to heal.
Rest easy darling. You were truly a beautiful soul.
We are about the same size. And I resonate with all of this. I don't feel womanly I don't feel sexy 😕I don't wear a bra and when I do I stuff with these silicone pad things... I want to feel good naked. I want to be confident. Thank you for being brave sharing this ❤
I feel the exact same way! I feel like I was cheated of such a womanly trait! :(
Same 😔
Same here, I missed out in that department of my body also, I don’t even have to wear a bra and you wouldn’t know, I have to buy padded bras and once I even had to buy a child’s bra because I couldn’t get anything that was pretty at the time, I’m now @60+ and they’re shrinking like the rest of me as I age Gracefully. 🌸🌺🌸🌺
What an incredibly helpful and candid video. Using your pains to care for others.
Thank you for bravely sharing your story and experience. Hopefully someone out there will benefit from this!
I’m scared of filler too! I do Botox but I’m too afraid of filler moving around my face or not fully dissolving over time.
Thank you for sharing. It’s important for people with chronic illness/rare disease to have this kind of info. I had two procedures not knowing I had Cushing’s and I had the same reaction of “why is this happening? This can’t be right.” You’re my hero!
I hate the fact that so many people look in the mirror and are so unhappy with what they see,that they will literally get cut open and pumped up to change it. I stand by your right to do it though.
I agree with you.
I got a Ba because after having my son my boobs changed dramatically and they looked like grandma boobs after. Changing after pregnancy is HARD!
Btw-I understand how a lot of people will say they don't see anything "wrong" or like you shouldn't have altered yourself. You were beautiful before, of course u were! But that's invalidating af. We all have to be happy with ourselves, so if Mel thought her lips should be fixed, that's her feeling, don't tell her she wasn't right about it! We all have our insecurities! We have a right to choose and a right to change.
Your body is your own, as long as you are happy and it doesn't effect your health long term then it's nobody elses place to judge. Beautiful inside and out as always and I admire your honesty ❤
Oh man! I love your hair this way!!
Thank you for sharing your story with us.
You're doing the lips RIGHT!! they're SO natural and so beautiful, same with the botox, again, so natural and so gorgeous. I see some girls who their whole face has changed, i'm not a fan of that. Your implants are perfect with your slim figure!! you're just a beauty Mel, thats all there is to it
I still refuse to believe she’s gone 💔💔💔😭😭😭.
Thank you for sharing Mel! You certainly will help many. I wasn’t expecting what you shared and it was very informative! I always knew I wanted breast augmentation and finally was able to in my early 30’s. I think that happened for a reason. It forced me to do years of research and know my health as good as I could. That would be my suggestion to anyone wanting any type of cosmetic surgery. I’m grateful to be almost 45 and still happy with no touch up surgery yet.
You look stunning Mel!! So happy for you!😍🤩🖤
I am 65 and had a breast augmentation in 1982 when I was 26. Over the next 30 plus years, I gained weight everywhere except my boobs! I begin to get concerned on how long they had been in..I had never had any issues, but didn't want to wake up at 80 with a 'flat. So in 2018, I had my 36 year old implants removed and replaced with new ones. Now I have perky boobies again!
Perky boobies are everything. I had a breast lift and reduction 3 years ago at age 49; had to wear a bra from age 12 on, so being able to go braless was just life-changing. Still braless and loving every minute😆, if they ever get too saggy again I’ll definitely get them re-lifted. So grateful the painful grooves on my shoulders are a thing of the past.
Thank you so much for talking about your EDS! It took me years and a boatload of doctors to get diagnosed. I’m fourth (traceable) generation, and the first in my family to get an official diagnosis. Now, several people in the family have the diagnosis officially. I don’t have as much trouble with the skin issues personally, but my dislocations are crazy. I’ve been told that I’m not eligible for for joint surgeries because of the strain it would put on surrounding joints. It’s nice to follow your journey! And you are stunning (fillers, Botox, whatever)!!
You always keep it real Mel. I’m still learning new things from your videos ❤️
Did you know that Mel passed away last week? Such a beautiful woman and too young to be taken x
@@CaroleEvans93436 yes I heard that. Very sad.
Sweet Mel, still miss you and seeing your wonderful videos.
I have EDS I’m really glad you talked about this. My doctors always say EDS patients should never get elective surgeries because of all of the complications and extreme risks but I’m glad your doctor found a solution for your breast implants. Also if anyone is looking for a good EDS specialist, look up Dr. Brad Tinkle in Indianapolis Indiana. He’s one of the top in the country.
Thank you. I’ll look him up.
A lot of great information here. Miss you, Mel! Rest In Peace ❤️
God I miss you so damn much. Keeping your sweet voice on in the background while I work is helping. Love and miss you beautiful. 😘
Rewatching all these videos, it is very disconcerting to me, especially as Mel, has now sadly passed 😔
If I didn't have lip filler, I would have almost no lips! I need lips to put my lipstick on!!!!
Super important info. You will be so missed.
You don’t even look like you had kids, I have zero kids and you look like a super model next to me 😂😫
I agree lol
I thought they were her non bio kiddos.
I thought they were her step kids.🤷🏽♀️
@@Strawberryfearsforever oh I have no idea lol
Girl, u look like a super model urself in ur pic, if that's pic of u but either way we are all beautiful and never think ur not.
Oh, EDS, yep, it's frustrating and painful. And it affects *everything*. So sorry you are struggling with this. From a fellow Zebra. Oh, and there are several excellent EDS support groups on FB. So loving and helpful! Get connected!
As someone with 36A & easily accumulate fat around my stomach, I dont think ill actually ever be 100% happy with my body. I still havent decided what ill do in the future but this video definitely helps. Thanks so much for the transparency 💜💙
Same here except I'm a 32A.....ugh.
I will continue to support her channel..
I love that you’ve talked about this. I get accused of having things done that I’ve never had, which surprises me, because like you, I’m an open book with things like that. I’d love to get my tear troughs done but I don’t think I’ll ever dare. Xxx
Thing being, when someone is expressing and has little to no movement in the forehead and/or brows then says they haven’t had any Botox generally makes people disbelieve them! Same as when someone smiles and has no lines at all either side of the eyes, this is just not the norm. Everyone of all ages has lines, there is a difference between lines and wrinkles though. It’s personal choice. If people want to have Botox or filler, that’s up to them. Nobody should have to justify themselves either. But when they’re on a public social media platform saying they’re in their 40/50/60s and they have no movement or lines and claim they have absolutely nothing, that’s not really right. But it’s also not right that people slam others for having things done to their own body! It’s their body! Their choice.
@@Beauty-mad people have the right to question, but when they’re told the truth they sometimes choose not to believe it and tend to get quite aggressive. This always makes me wonder why they questioned in the first place if they didn’t want an honest answer. Lighting makes a huge difference to how your face looks. It has a huge part to play and can disguise and blur fine lines and wrinkles. Having said that I have Botox and I love it. It’s not for everyone, and that’s fine, but it’s definitely for me, for now anyway. X
@@PamperedWolf Yes thats when its wrong! If you dont want to believe it when it is the truth then there is no point! Some people think they know everything though!
Yes i know, I have tried to tell so many people that the bright lights and things like soft boxes etc are always going to blue things and make things look smoother. Which is why its good when many do reduce their lighting and/or do natural light close ups. That shows the true finish-especially if filmed on a mobile phone!
Fair play to you! its your face and your choice. If people dont like it then its their own tough s**t lol. Its your face! I am similar to Mel, I have one side of my lip thats half the thickness of the rest, so i have had filler for years because of it. Mine was bcause of something that happened though so ive always been consious of it! Im in my 40s and thats all ive done. Im still not ready to put botox in, I probably never will! I re4ally dont like it personally. That said i know so many people who have it and the difference is fantastic! But i worry to much itll go wrong and then im screwed for life! Ive seen too many horror stories lol.
I'm just learning about eds and I think this could be the answer for a lot of my health issues. Thank you for sharing 💗
Miss you Mel!!!🐝🐝🐝🐝
Thank you for your willingness to share your story in hopes of helping others. You have such a kind soul. I’m here for loving oneself and enjoying this one chance at life. You’re beautiful Mel, enjoy your tatas!
Rest in Paradise Mel - you are loved and missed
Thank you for sharing your story Mel! Would you be willing to do a video on EDS specifically? I’ve never heard of this and when you mentioned your symptoms I could relate (soft skin, kinda stretchy) and when I googled it (I should not have) I got all freaked out about life expectancy and all of that. And I’d just be really interested to hear your personal experience with it, if that’s something you’d be willing to talk more about 😊
It's really great when you're able to be fully open about yourself and medical stuff. Thank you for this
Mel you don’t owe anyone an explanation about beauty esthetics, that is you, you’re an adult and it’s none of anyone’s business. I just hope ppl aren’t still being asshats about your choices. I think you’re beautiful inside and out. Sometimes I just want to clap back on ppl like that, but they are nobodies. I support what you do as long as you are happy with yourself! Love ya homegirl 😻😘💃🏼🌴