This man saved me from doing some very dark and unfamiliar things. I state this with all sincerity and meaning-" He saved me from my dark side and ending my life." May He and his loved ones forever be Blessed by God.
And he, like many of us, looks to the father we all have in heaven. Seek the truth with all your heart, genuinely, and you will find it, and you will inevitably find Jesus.
@@David-kl5ln way ahead of you, brother. I’ve been walking in those footsteps for a very long time. Only He knows the hour and the day. Until then, there’s a battle to continue fighting. 👍🏻
There is no God. @ThreeEleven Edit: my comment keeps disappearing so I'll add it here Am I the one claiming there is one ? I'm glad humans came up with logical fallacies, so it's easy to just throw the ball back in your court... Did u know that if u make extraordinary claims, YOU must have extraordinary evidence. Not me, brother. So what about showing us verifiable proof of God's existence? AH, that's right, there is non. So bot go back to trance... @ThreeEleven If you would educate yourself on philosophical arguments and actual logic, you wouldn't believe what u believe cause it would go against reality and reason. To be able to believe what you believe requires a certain amount of distancing yourself from reality. That's something that actually smart and educated people would never do. And I didn't even mention all the moral dillemas and indoctrination that your and everyone else's believe systems practice to this day..
I've heard this speech before or at least these ideas from Jordan but I needed to hear it again. I'm going to Marine Corps boot camp again for the second time in a few months. The first time I broke my leg and got sent home. What I want. To be a Marine, to have a house, to have a wife, and to have a kid. I don't think that's too much to ask for and I think those things will be good for me. I don't care about money, wealth, fame. I just want to do what's right and to live a good life, with meaning and purpose, and to be a good man.
aye i can relate, just remember one thing , there will always be setbacks even if you tried your best and gave it everyting you got , some thing are just out of your controle , and even if it was something you could doo nothing about , with some things in life ,it doesn't matter if something does not work out by your actions or those of others , it can still leave you devastated, i know first hand and it will suck , and it will eat you up from the inside , and might break your heart,,,just remember ..Semper Fi ,,,feel the hurt,,,process it,, acceptit, then pick your self up and do it again ,better ,harder,, and motivated again,,,the things that come in your life that are good for your soul bring you joy and good memories, the things that bring the opposite ..are your lessons to learn!
I just want to say I'm sorry to everyone expecily my self I lost myself for a minute going through a lot but that's no excuse IM GOING TO PUT MYSELF BACK TOGETHER
Nothing in life is a accident, Unless you accidentally knock it over. You found Jordan Peterson speaking of words of wisdom because It was meant to be Found in your life at this very moment. As long as we are searching, we will find. You are too important to the world to give up. We all need this improvement in our lives every day every year. I have the same attitude you do. Always looking for a better change and direction.
Me to bro. I’m sorry to myself and the people around me. I got thrown into these loop of thoughts that I couldn’t escape. Now, I can finally think clearly and I have a plan. May God bless you and all of us.
I'm right there with you. I was on a good path, but got pulled off of it. Then I got back on and wouldn't you know, fell back off again. I'm never going to give up though. This isn't the first time I've been through this and it won't be the last. I fought addiction for years, off and on, off and on. I bested it and have been living clean for a few years. This is the same thing. I did really well with my studying, exercisez and at my job. Then I hit a snag. Fell off with everything. I'm just now getting things back together. You can do it. I'm rooting for you. And I can do it too. Other people say they see my efforts and they work to try harder themselves. People may be seeing you too. May be inspired by you too. We'll fall back down again and then we'll get back up.
This speech and video has been responsible for the turning point in my life. It was 3am one night and i was contemplating my life and my mistakes. I was in a living hell, fucking up everything in my life that i hold dear to me. It even got to the point where i had suicidal ideations, i loathed myself beyond comprehension in those moments. Next thing i know i turn my phone on and this is the first thing that pops up on my screen. This was no accident, it was the most important learning moment in my entire life and changed everything for me. Im striving to live in truth now and although these events happened as of recent, I have no doubt everything happened for a reason in those darkest moments. Peace and light everyone
You might not see and understand or make sense of what is happening in your present, but in the future you will look back and start to put all the pieces back together, including the moment you watched this video and decided to make a change and take control of your life. You’ll look back and realize that this had to happen. Like he said ‘ light is found in darkness’ you have definitely found it my friend. Have faith and stay strong. Everything you’re going through are just emotions. Even fear is just an emotion. Think about that for a min. God bless 💪🏼🤜
I've spent 35 years worrying about everything whilst not truly wondering what it is that i want from my life. I've comitted crimes, been in prison, been detained in psychiatric hospitals, and allowed myself to fall into a pit devoid of all meaning. For the past few weeks i set the past aside so that i could try and complete new goals. Small goals, that if completed add up to something much more. The reason i say all this is not for attention or consolation. I say this because i truly believe that anybody watching this video can change their life in a positive way. I went from the darkest nihilistic anti-human perspective imaginable to realising i needed to work on myself and give life a shot. You are worth it too. And just like said in this video the responsibility for ones life is personal. Peace.
“Be”coming requires letting go/complete surrender and trusting (asking questions t💞) that our Divine “within” us will guide us if we listen in silence and stillness (be blind-“receive Divine inner “I amguidance from our Divine Christ/God/“I am”Higher selves with The Mountain Top View …trust and choose 4 🍀 our Sacred Divine Journey…2🦋 our True North Authentic “who we came actually came here 2 🦋 ‘Be’”…letting go… re-orient….sacrificial….Love Surrender “all of all’ and Trust = living in the “Now”…meditating…discipline……maturing…a Sacred Journey to True Truth…to “knowing” =Peace/Flow…Serenity, be the change you want to see in the world” Namaste…I love you all Love and Light and Unity be willing to choose “metamorphosis” 2🦋 “U” We are all “One”…with our Eternal Prime Source “ONE” of ALL That Is Creator….✨🌅💫 Energy-Frequency-Vibration 3-6-9 11.11 So It Is🕊️
we can all feel hangry and with hanger and feel uncontrolable but going throug reallity hapenning for my actions, being condamned at the highest level its the abyss for me. Reset after all that its nutts and for someone with feelings its kind of impossible to survive...
@@ze2004 I'm back in a psychiatric hospital again and feeling homicidal now. The only thing keeping me going is my girlfriend who is also in another psychiatric hospital. Life is completely meaningless. You have to be the one that gives it meaning. I have not found mine yet, every day it gets incrementally worse. But I still have hope. If I didn't you'd have seen me on the news by now.
This genuinely made me cry as a man. I’m currently in the middle of my journey of being exactly who I want and need to be. Moving across the country by myself to put myself completely in a new space. It’s been almost 6 months of nothing but a depressive state when thinking about my goals. But digging deeper I found that I was upset because I moved and nothing changed. Because I had no idea what I wanted. Within the last few weeks a few very unfortunate things happened in just the right order to make my brain flip into the “I need to be this” mindset. And since that day everything has changed. Truly a light in the darkness Jordan Peterson.
Psalms 51:10-12 Create in me a clean heart, O God, And renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me away from Your presence, And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Your salvation, And uphold me by Your generous Spirit.☦️💜
One would hope that this guy keeps speaking because man O man does he ever get the Nesssssss of life , I dropped out of life for 2 yrs soaked myself in books and then heard this guy and Poooooof la , I'm sober . Have my children back and tomorrow I go for my first interview in 5 yrs , so have faith and be grateful for the little things .Be the change . Seek and you shalllllllllllllll find ......my dream of life is to sit beside a river in the sweet summer heat and banter with this Peterson I shall pray in my sweats lodges for this as I have for everything it has come true .BELIEVE BELIEVE
Challenge accepted. For what it’s worth, leaving my comfort zone was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. It’s only been 6 months but the transition I’ve made in my life has been tremendous. I have so much better perspective in my life, the good things the bad things and the things I’m not able to understand. I left to make a name for myself and ended up finding humility. I forgive the people who meant me harm, I appreciate the things that matter and most importantly I’ve reconnected with my faith. I’m no longer in control and neither is anyone reading this. The Lord loves us, he accepts us despite our ugliness. Look at the world you’re in. It’s beautiful living breathing ART. The wars, the politics, the conflicts, the family drama it’s all a consequence of all of our choices. Choose love, choose what’s right and let God in your heart. He’s waiting for you to smile and let him take control. 1 month 6 months a year take that time to escape your routine and humble yourself before the Lord. He died for that. He rose again for that. He’s patiently waiting for that.
I pulled myself together, went from being on 120mg methadone a day/lyrica 300, vyvanse (a lot), smoking, porn, social media, anti-depressants, soda, etc (there was a lot), who couldn't even clean his room, to getting off all that over 2 years and now I can take care of everything 10 times over. I can clean my room, clean the basement, ride my bike 10 miles on my off day from working full time welding car parts. I'm just some random guy commenting on a TH-cam video. If I can do it, so can you!!
I was a heroin opiate addict 16 years and got off Suboxone and I’m at a point where taking a shower is a big deal and the thing I feel now is I have no idea who I am …. Just lost for what I should do. Nialistic much of the time like I’m not even here and just watching
@@lauraestes9304 Nobody may clearly understand ur situation.. there is always hope and choice in ur hand trust in ur self.. You jus kept ur self far from u get urself back.. Go to nature exercise gift much water have a walk talk to people.. meditate if u can't meditate jus sit stil your higher self vil heal u definitely i really got tears after reading your words it might not happen all of a sudden but it vil happen believe in the process..!
@@lauraestes9304 Keep listening to Jordan Peterson to help you find your path. Congrats on your recovery! One day at a time. You just might surprise yourself with the unknown magic inside you, waiting to be developed!!! ❤
I cry everyday at what happened to me at the hands of others... my ex set out to destroy everything in my life and he succeeded... I learnt the monster was not under my bed.. I was sleeping beside it. Jordan's speeches are changing my thinking, letting me learn that mabey, mabey there is another way apart from just leaving this life. God bless u Jorden ❤
Motivation madness is the perfect name for this channel. You have helped me with my sports injury recovery that i have been working on for 7 years. The days that i dont think i can handle one more step i turn this on. For the last 4 months i have been off work recovering from major surgery and everyday i turn on channels like yours. Thank you for existing.
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
I’m looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you thing I should be buying?
Too, many of us have our own personal paths, we came from... I am was born in the abiss, I loved my momma never knew my bio-dad, till 30yrs.of age... I have found no love in this world,untill I heard the heart of this man... May,God bless Dr. Peterson, in Jesus name claim I...AMEN!!!
I didn't even realize that we really need to hold up men. I'm an older woman. I had 3 kids, 2 sons, and I daughter. My sons are in their 40s now. They're strong men. I don't know how many there are now because society wants to break them. Thank you so much for helping them. They are the reason we had all the things we have for everything. We should all thank them and be grateful. Anyway, you're inspiring for sure. I've listened to your videos over and over. Thank you! To all the men watching, thank you for all the wonderful things you fix and invent! What's coming will be hard, but you can be our strength. And as women, we need to be ready to stand behind our men. And most of all, to support and care for.
I owe my life to this man. He saved my life when i was at my rockbottom. Today, im clean and learning to know myself. The quote that saved me is " The pathway to less suffering is through suffering," and i literally wear it on my sleeve.
in one of his videos he said once, the key to helping yourself is starting with cleaning your room! & i laughed at that theory but now i get it, if you can't change your everyday surroundings for the better clutter that your walk bye & past every single day. then it's pretty much impossible to achieve your goals, cuz if you don't start with cleaning your room first and proving to yourself that with a liitle effort comes rewards, you might try to reach goals but if your room isn't clean there will come a day when your upset and look around at your life/ messy room and say, forget it NOTHING HAS CHANGED. because you didn't start with cleaning your room first. and you will just end up right back where you started. but if your room is clean & you have a bad day, at least you can look at your room and say, well at least i made a change, and i can see it, so the way i feel right now is just a setback. Sorry to waste everyones time with my rant, CLEAN YOUR ROOM
One of the best advices. I truly believe in cleaning the room first and making the bed everyday. It may seem foolish, silly, not that important but for some reasons this little act is very powerful in many ways we can't see. I just did that yesterday after a long time and I just felt released, happier, motivated, optimistic, more inclined to a positive attitude. Maintaining it clean it can be harder, but doing that it will help so much on the long term in such a way that when you catch up from the suffering, procrastination etc. There will come a day when you will be so aligned with your goals that it will become so easy for you from then on. Make this your routine, integrate this into your reflexes because it will help enormously!
almost two years sober, I still struggle from time to time with addictive tendencies. But Mr. Petersons peaching of "bear your cross" and happiness is found in adoption of personal responsibility has helped me through the years dig out of that hole. I find it too convenient that at a point where the west is struggling with an identity/drug crisis Jordan pops on the scene. Stay up folks! and fight like hell!!!
I’ve been sober almost 17 years. What you’ve described is common. I suspect all addicts go through it for lengthy periods of time, but not all of them are honest about it. I didn’t feel comfortable with sobriety until I turned 6. That doesn’t mean you’ll go through the same thing. That was my experience. There was just a day when I woke up and I felt an awareness that I didn’t have to fight anymore. And I didn’t. I haven’t had to fight for sobriety since that day. I don’t know what changed. I don’t know why it happened at 6 years sober. No idea. But that day, I just embraced everything, including me. Don’t give up. Don’t let it force you into a box. Keep talking about it. Keep moving. Talk to the universe. Your one day will come, and it’ll all work out as it should. You’re doing all the right things. Keep doing that.
Been lost for many years following my combat tours, finding Mr Petersons lectures has helped clear a path. I’m not there yet but I work everyday to get a little better. I still feel alone in a room full of people but at least I’m starting to get comfortable with the uncomfortable
You’re never alone brother. Stay on your path, adjust that ruck and keep that warrior spirit. This world is nuts but you’re not out of the fight, the world needs good leaders and mentors who know how to complete the objectives ahead of us.
So many people are facing the same battle. Most don’t have the experience of combat tours but many have had a childhood of neglect or abuse. At first glance, you may think they are very different but the more you dig you will see the similarities. I can guarantee you that in every room full of people, there is at least one person who understands your struggle. You are not alone. And you are not allowed to give up. Your testimony, your journey, is meant to help bring others up. God bless you❤
Wonderful compilation. He’s so very well spoken that every single word holds value. I need to listen to this about a dozen more times to fully digest all the gems of knowledge.
Yes do it! I’ve done the same and you’ll eventually will learn it word for word. Our subconscious is so powerful when it’s fed this type of information and amazing knowledge.
I’m just watching a documentary about Steve McQueen. Guy came from NOTHING, nothing. His desire to succeed was just so strong he overcame everything in his way. But you can’t just DESIRE, you have to ACT, you have to get off your butt and be willing to do absolutely anything and everything and never complain. If you fail, figure out why, and try again and ask yourself if maybe you’re failing because it’s not what you truly want, and never succeed at anything if it’s not what you truly want, so never be afraid to simply try something else. But keep pushing forward. I actually had some news today, that I’m being kicked out of my house, (I’m temporarily renting but it was sold and the new owner is moving in) and I told agent, it’s ok, it is what is. Tomorrow I find a new place, I’m not going to waste 1 minute worrying about it, because I can’t change it, I just have to keep moving forward.
But success doesn’t mean rich and famous… why is steve McQueen the example? why is it that being a celebrity is the epitome of a person who’s achieved anything worthwhile , successful
@@achristianson4059 no, you’re saying that. I just used him as an example, not the only measure of success. Someone else’s measure of success could be anything, even something humble, like being a great gardener. The point is, is doesn’t matter what your circumstances are, with perseverance you can succeed.
Best wisdom I've ever related with. Be a monster, be scary be intimidating, but know when to use it. Be humble caring and kind but also have the ability to go to grave lengths to protect your loved ones more or less yourself. I always figured whatever social opinion you have always keep a 50/50 combo of the opposite. Be prepared for everything. I'm not saying go build and underground shelter with 100lbs of MREs but no when to keep composure and also when to snap on a dime in attack mode. Life throws some pretty nasty fast balls at people. That's doesn't mean be naturally aggressive at any moment just be alert, aware and capable of doing the ugly things life may require you to do. That's your test that's your sacrifice that's your proof you can adapt and overcome. The world really is your oyster, you just gotta learn how to work with it and take what comes to you
Jordan, your speaking skills motivate me to become a speaker. Your cerebral thoughts put into words process is just incredible. 😊🙏🏼 Thank you for stepping up and letting the world hear you
What I've learned through his books and videos is this : What's happened, happened. You can't change the past, you cant predict an unpromised tomorrow. Setting goals, writing everything down, making plans, coming down on a agreement with yourself about future plans, its all about the NOW! You are becoming better EVERY moment with every THOUGHT! Don't hesitate to dream big. God is within you. Stop searching what is "God". God begins where the human mind stops. No matter the religion, the message is ONE! Do good to others as you have them done good to you. Imbrace yourself and your thoughts. You are having negative thoughts? GOOD! USE THEM IN A WAY THAT OVERCOMING THEM WILL BENEFIT YOU! Push your mind and exercise your body. Learn something new every moment in anything you do. Keep your mind sharp and ACCEPT yourself because only then you will understand your faults and make a genuine effort to treat YOURSELF better. IMBRACE the catastrophe and realize who you are. Stay strong
Between Bible studies and watching/hearing Jordan Peterson, I’ve learned to sacrifice to become the best version of myself. Many things have changed in these years and in no way did I see myself in my current situation 5 years ago. Or even 3 years ago. Thank you God and thank you God for Jordan Peterson.
I went off grid about 11 years ago, best choice I ever made. I'm 45 miles from the closest town so I was forced to make my own decisions and my own schedule and organizing. I'm happy now. and as a bonus out here I found women that don't look at your appearance and your wallet. Instead the majority of them actually look at your heart and your hands. And if they grew up out here they're usually healthier and don't worry about the petty things . Turns out they are rather enjoyable to be around.
Excellent, sounds like a little bit of paradise. More and more of us is moving off the grid and it is a brand new life for the better. I still like to listen to j. P. Speak with excellent understanding of truth Wait reality.
Michael that is so interesting because I as a woman did the same thing.. I moved to the middle of the woods in Wisconsin from a big city well, not the middle of the woods -the edge. But the trees and nature became my relatives. And yes people with less treat people better - I felt the same way you did about men…. where I come from men will not date women unless they have a lot lot…. So that can work both ways.;) First thing, my ex-husband did was jump in my car and say G whose car is this I’d like to marry her …. So that being said it goes both ways :-) glad you found happiness.
This is relevant to everyone. If this doesn't get you intrigued with life or questioning how you can make the most of your potential, then you might not be human. This is a real thought leader who speaks freely and with compassion for his audiences. A listener can simply tell that he truly cares! He has the perspective of authority that he shares through a lens of empathy. Reminds me of Jesus. A purity in his way of being, Dr. Peterson embodies all that is good with this world. That is saying a lot. More people need to embrace his teachings, Dr. Peterson is a real saint - an angel in human skin that can verbalize the love and knowledge of God. 💯❣️🙏🏼
I did this not to see if people would notice. I did it because my life was spiraling into cayous. It was the most difficult and most beautiful time of my life. I had to confront my poor choices that caused my life spiraling out of control. It's rough, of course, but it's a tremendous opportunity to self growth if you allow yourself to objectively view your life and choices you made you can learn heal and be better if you allow the hurt and pain and healing to takes place. Like I said, the most difficult and beautiful thing I've ever done.
I have always wanted the best for everybody else around me while i barely was keeping myself afloat now looking back this been my whole life. I'm 22 now I'm learning a lot about sacrifice
I’m near 60 and same way. Stop it now while you’re young. I’m not saying don’t have compassion for others, but you need to grow up/mature and understand you can’t-nor should you-try to save people. Trust me, no matter how much you help, most of those people will not be in your life in the future. You must pursue your path, who you are meant to be-and not feel guilty about that. Note that you’re disrupting their ability to pursue their paths. I gave so much time, energy, money to people and if I could go back and put that love, time and energy into myself I would do it! Then I’d be where I should, not where I ended up. I have a good life, but not the one I want/should have. You’re young-focus on you!
We all have areas in our lives we either ignore or can improve upon, we all have moments when we could have done better but we can make better moments, for that's up to us. Once you have that understanding, you can make better decisions and respond to life.
I agree on most of what Jordan Peterson says, minus the part about sacrifice. As children we do not have to sacrifice our time to build a future, nor do we have to sacrifice our present for our future. When you do what you love, you don't work hard or grind, you enjoy every moment doing what you do, and you do not want to stop doing it, day or night. When you live by the code Do What You Love you will never grind, not a day in your life. Do you know yourself well enough to know what you love, or do you follow the herd like a sheep, because you're too nosy to stop gossiping and listen to your inner voice (the only mentor that will never leave you; Your gut)? Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Jordan Peterson. I appreciate you! May God give you the health of a young colt and the power of a old oak tree.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place. Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone. He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
I watched him say this a couple of times a few years ago long story short my life is 10x better now as I internalised his words, god bless Jordan Peterson
He has definitely softened up his message which I appreciate. Empathy sounds good coming from him and I like to hear the more nurturing tone in his voice
yeah I'm listening to this I finished high-school last year but spent 5 months struggling in hospitals, stroke got me in icu and I'm only 18, I failed my exams and In my country when you fail your life is over society rubs it in no matter what you went through every day for the last 6 months I've loathed myself and failures, I've fallen so deep in depression but I have started taking responsibilities and will change my life yes I do struggle financially but I believe in a great future despite what I've been through
@43:04 Speaking directly to me. Drowning in anxiety and grief is not just a descent into nihilism and bitter resentment, it is a headlong dive. Learning how to process grief is like learning to swim. Swimming can be challenging, dangerous, exhausting and terrifying. But it beats drowning. Dangerous, exhausting and terrifying is a step up from dying. Living with unprocessed grief is emotional water boarding. It may as well be drowning. It feels the same.
I did exactly what Peterson has suggested. I quit my high paying dream job and found myself spending through my savings, traveling the USA with my family, and working on MYSELF. You can’t measure personal development. Teach yourself how to code. Learn another language. Write a story. Create something! LIVE YOUR LIFE.
“Thinking about yourself in a way that someone else who cares about you would” is a huge breakthrough for me. 33 years old and never thought about it like that. I’m great at guiding others..
What a lovely and eloquent conversation, teaching, sharing,, encouraging and pertinent video that has comforted me. Thank you! Peace has spoken to me. And GOD is good.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. A lot of this I know but did not believe it was true until now that this is life changing for me. Explained like this makes it right. Now I need to keep doing thinking this ways act on this daily. Thank you and do not stop your changing lives thank you Sir. May God keep blessing you daily.
I agree with this with just one update. Words have power and meaning, with meaning giving it distinct power. God created existence itself with spoken word. "It is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person." Matthew 15:11 The tongue is the smallest muscle but it can either do the most damage or encourage and edify us and others. We have the power of choice, if what to do, what to say. So I'd suggest that you use the word "immerse" oneself, as brainwashing has a connotation of enslavement. And you are not enslaved, you are FREE! Free indeed! "Free at last, free at last. Thank God almighty I'm free at last!" God is so good! God bless and Godspeed on this journey called life.
Agreed and brain wash is kind of funny if we break it down. Once the window is clean we can see clearly. So the common connotation is negative. But its actually positive. And the OPs statement is actually relatable and hilarious which i love. ❤. So in essence im not arguing with either but contributing.
Your words couldnt have hit me at a better time JP read your book 12 rules for life antidote to chaos some time ago... if i only knew how much chaos could envelop a life in strange times .. So thankfull for all the work I've seen and what a good and sharp speaches you contributed to countless souls going through life in all its forms ❤️ Wish you all cherried moments in the holidays ❤🎅
This man is Soley the reason I am still a being.i didn't believe in coincidence but since seeing one of his reading on one of my darkest days,I thank him and powers that be I didn't have my second leaving from life.thank you jordon and I'm now a listener.
The answers non beleivers are looking for is in blind faith. Thats what they dont have. How i beleived in god when i didnt was know who they say he is and what he represents in the bible. He is the purist image of goodness we have. The devil is the ourest image of evil we have. When u surround yourself with god. Aka as good. Ur life becomes better. When u actually apply the things this god u dont beleive in. Ur life changes. I cant describe this thing but ever since i did i never let go. I always say this is the purest good i know of. This is honorable and good for me. That sparked my intrest in god. Then i tried to understand what there saying. Theres no loss in trusting god or having blind faith. U become freinds with someone who understands u. U dont need anyone else when u know him. U get so excited that u want to share the feeling u get and its so good feeling. Then u find someone who curses god when u go try to help. Then u get discouraged but u also wonder how a person could not accept something this good for you. Has someone got in your head about god before u were even aloud to understand who he was ? U built up a resentment to something u never got to know? The man on ur left and ur right cant be trusted. All information we give is not true or a lie its our perception of reality. But god is a base for it all. Once u grasp this u get curious about more. Then u look for him and find him. Thats how he leads you. Like a ghost asking u to follow. Some people get in kids heads early and try to manipulate them and tell them god isnt reall and theres even conspiracies people are beleiving that its to control the masses 😂. If u beleive that ur already controlled by someone. If u follow god only god controls u. Look around.. we arent here forever. Quit wasting thoughts on evil and being angry. No one owes u anything. Ur hurt so are we. Im not convinced he is make beleive. The best people and highest intelligence comes from men who follow god. The best and most good ive ever done for myself. Came from god. Im praying for you people who dont know. Im not saying dont question everything. Im saying ur missing out. I hope one day very soon u find out before u waste your life not knowing your true potential. Im finding mine. Only because god. I hate myself if i dont have him. Love u. ❤️ it takes courage to knock on peoples door so much that i havent even done it. I have respect for those who do. It takes guts.
I don’t comment much, so if I do it means I found something particularly interesting. I have never felt more broken down and in reality than when I listen to his words. I realize what I am doing wrong and although I wouldn’t disclose it here, I know I have a long and hard battle ahead. I know I have to do it now for the betterment of me. I hope to revisit this comment in a while with a sense of accomplishment and “set on the right tracks” Hope I find myself, see me sooner rather than later
We have so many toxic narcissts and Psykopats around us. They take our energi and kills us slowly.. THERE is a way out of The toxic enviroment.. Stay strong and stay stoic!
I started to write about half way into this video. Idea's kept formulating... Such a great compilation... I appreciate all the wisdom... I hope in turn I can pass it on to help🙏 Happy Holidays and a Blessed New Year
I am doing the same. JP is bringing up a lot of good points. I need to write down I can always remember them the best I can and live them that way. Just maybe my kids and grandkids may be able to read what I have written. I found when I am writing, I am writing other thoughts that pop into my mind that continues that same conversation even further. A lot of inspiration pops into my mind. What I am writing inspirational things. Sometimes I think I'm just going to write one sentence. But then end up writing 2 more pages. That's pretty cool.
@@leswalker2639good idea, I'm going to call all my notes my Inspirational journal so when I'm gone my family can read and continue the learning...I heard a song the other day about this...can't think of the name of the song tho.. something like learned from my grandma or something. thanks for reminding me!
It would be great if we could wake up every morning with some type of inspiration information. I also try to read my scriptures every day and that way ,I can receive greater knowledge and inspiration.
Les Brown is the real deal! His words nourish my mind and spirit, making me believe in my dreams and the power of choice. His infectious laugh and inspiring messages uplift my soul every time. Thank you, Mr. Les Brown!
I just stopped heroin and cocaine addiction over a lifetime and joined a business system and a gym 4 weeks ago just found this and it's exactly what I need 😢
So much to say I refuse to quit. I built my arc now with a fractured foot I will be homeless going into 2024 if you read this know its you vs you Noone is coming Noone but you.i will get threw this as I will hold on a piece of driftwood as I watch my arc sink I will make it to shore as I have been fighting way to long to quit.
Why Dr Peterson is amazing...... as always clicked expecting 5-10 minutes of motivation..... didn't note the runtime until 25 minutes in. Kinda bummed I have to leave now.
Same. But yes definitely want to hear the rest. Would love to see Dr Peterson speak in person. Just recently discovered he is touring and will be speaking semi close to me. Wish it was closer, I'd definitely go
I’ve probably listened to this video at least 20 times so far and every time I hear something I didn’t hear before and it helps me. Often, I’ll listen to it first thing in the morning just to get my orientation straight before I head out into my day.
He doesn't know the general answer for everyone's life. I lost all the aim in my life. I used to have two jobs on my earlier 30's then got married (biggest mistake!) All was taken from me! I tried to get into a career got back to school A-level in a different country, got into uni to study CS then the wife pressure for kids, from that point even though I love the kids it was just on the way of my progress. Instead I was turned to build houses for my wife, even though I was never a builder. Now I'm finishing the second house, I've done everything that you can imagine in a house including installing steel beams and build an extension and not gratification other than food and roof. The house is not mine, everything is as prescribed on the pre nuptial agreement. I did only expect respect in exchange which never happened. I'm badly trapped in this. My dad passed many years ago, my mom died last year. Now I ask you Jordan Peterson, where are my options , how can I pull this one out? Should I still believe in any of that ?
Gd first tears a man down, before he builds him up. Look in yourself for can grow in the disasters, and I promise what you'll find there will be worth the loss.
Once you understand and accept that you attract and co create your reality by the frequency/vibration you broadcast, you can begin to manifest consciously, instead of unconsciously. You stop feeling like life happens TO you and realize that it it all happening FOR you. You start seeing struggles as challenges and learning opportunities. And once you feel sincere gratitude for every experience, both light and dark, you broadcast the frequency of gratitude, which sends a message to the universe to bring more experiences into your reality that make you feel grateful. Hard to wrap your head around and let go of victim mentality, but it makes all the difference! It changed my life!
What a helpful message. It gives you hope and helps you steer your ship in the right direction. Bless you Peterson; you have brought so much to the world.
the first 10 minutes are extremely powerful. Thank you Father for your mercy, thank you for answering my prayers. Please continue to be with me, and others who are so lost. whove never had a vision. You are the vision. your will, not mine LORD....help me to realize you in myself, help me be the change i want to see in the world. these things i ask in your son Jesus's name, amen
The war is intense: in all my strivings to use less words I tend to become more wordy and not able to ascertain the oh so small explosive seed with the Glory that never lets up on discipleship of That Which Matters Most...
Conflict Resolution: 'WHO'S AT FAULT?" To me Fault=Blame so I question big time from dealing with very difficult & unhealthy people since childhood, enough to know that one can get defensive when word blame pops up* I prefer let's sit down to discuss where the issue begun & what we can do from both ends to amend this by both taking responsibility leaves no room for anyone to feel defensive* since it takes two to tango/// for lack of communication, empathy & or knowledge can be the culprit, deeming a person innocently unaware in an oblivious sort of way... Really enjoyed the speech & found it to be motivation-ally enlightening🥰
This man saved me from doing some very dark and unfamiliar things. I state this with all sincerity and meaning-" He saved me from my dark side and ending my life."
May He and his loved ones forever be Blessed by God.
When Jordan cries, I cry with him.
Love this man SO much - he embodies the father far too many of us wish we had but never did.
And he, like many of us, looks to the father we all have in heaven. Seek the truth with all your heart, genuinely, and you will find it, and you will inevitably find Jesus.
@@David-kl5ln way ahead of you, brother. I’ve been walking in those footsteps for a very long time. Only He knows the hour and the day.
Until then, there’s a battle to continue fighting. 👍🏻
Omg I’ve always said that about Jim Rohn.. now Jordan is my step Dad 😁
@@ThespiritualstrippaThen we must be sisters 🥰😆
This guy is a light amongst a lot of darkness . Thank god for people like this.
*God
Be thankful to the gods that there is a real God, who made you in His perfect image.
He's been compromised
@@ItsMeUrDaad elaborate?
There is no God. @ThreeEleven
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Am I the one claiming there is one ? I'm glad humans came up with logical fallacies, so it's easy to just throw the ball back in your court... Did u know that if u make extraordinary claims, YOU must have extraordinary evidence. Not me, brother.
So what about showing us verifiable proof of God's existence?
AH, that's right, there is non. So bot go back to trance... @ThreeEleven
If you would educate yourself on philosophical arguments and actual logic, you wouldn't believe what u believe cause it would go against reality and reason.
To be able to believe what you believe requires a certain amount of distancing yourself from reality. That's something that actually smart and educated people would never do.
And I didn't even mention all the moral dillemas and indoctrination that your and everyone else's believe systems practice to this day..
I've heard this speech before or at least these ideas from Jordan but I needed to hear it again. I'm going to Marine Corps boot camp again for the second time in a few months. The first time I broke my leg and got sent home. What I want. To be a Marine, to have a house, to have a wife, and to have a kid. I don't think that's too much to ask for and I think those things will be good for me. I don't care about money, wealth, fame. I just want to do what's right and to live a good life, with meaning and purpose, and to be a good man.
Keep your faith in God and he will guide you 🙏
I hope everything works out positively for you !
You have a great aim…get after it😇🙏🏼
aye i can relate, just remember one thing , there will always be setbacks even if you tried your best and gave it everyting you got , some thing are just out of your controle , and even if it was something you could doo nothing about , with some things in life ,it doesn't matter if something does not work out by your actions or those of others , it can still leave you devastated, i know first hand and it will suck , and it will eat you up from the inside , and might break your heart,,,just remember ..Semper Fi ,,,feel the hurt,,,process it,, acceptit, then pick your self up and do it again ,better ,harder,, and motivated again,,,the things that come in your life that are good for your soul bring you joy and good memories, the things that bring the opposite ..are your lessons to learn!
You’ll make it this time! You’re stronger this time around
I just want to say I'm sorry to everyone expecily my self I lost myself for a minute going through a lot but that's no excuse IM GOING TO PUT MYSELF BACK TOGETHER
Nothing in life is a accident, Unless you accidentally knock it over. You found Jordan Peterson speaking of words of wisdom because It was meant to be Found in your life at this very moment. As long as we are searching, we will find. You are too important to the world to give up. We all need this improvement in our lives every day every year. I have the same attitude you do. Always looking for a better change and direction.
Lessons to keep trying ❤
I'm feeling the same way. God loves you.
Me to bro. I’m sorry to myself and the people around me. I got thrown into these loop of thoughts that I couldn’t escape. Now, I can finally think clearly and I have a plan. May God bless you and all of us.
I'm right there with you. I was on a good path, but got pulled off of it. Then I got back on and wouldn't you know, fell back off again. I'm never going to give up though. This isn't the first time I've been through this and it won't be the last. I fought addiction for years, off and on, off and on. I bested it and have been living clean for a few years.
This is the same thing. I did really well with my studying, exercisez and at my job. Then I hit a snag. Fell off with everything. I'm just now getting things back together.
You can do it. I'm rooting for you. And I can do it too. Other people say they see my efforts and they work to try harder themselves. People may be seeing you too. May be inspired by you too. We'll fall back down again and then we'll get back up.
This speech and video has been responsible for the turning point in my life. It was 3am one night and i was contemplating my life and my mistakes. I was in a living hell, fucking up everything in my life that i hold dear to me. It even got to the point where i had suicidal ideations, i loathed myself beyond comprehension in those moments. Next thing i know i turn my phone on and this is the first thing that pops up on my screen. This was no accident, it was the most important learning moment in my entire life and changed everything for me. Im striving to live in truth now and although these events happened as of recent, I have no doubt everything happened for a reason in those darkest moments. Peace and light everyone
God bless in the name of his son Jesus Christ!
I'm about to watch the video. Glad it changed your life.
You might not see and understand or make sense of what is happening in your present, but in the future you will look back and start to put all the pieces back together, including the moment you watched this video and decided to make a change and take control of your life. You’ll look back and realize that this had to happen. Like he said ‘ light is found in darkness’ you have definitely found it my friend. Have faith and stay strong. Everything you’re going through are just emotions. Even fear is just an emotion. Think about that for a min. God bless 💪🏼🤜
Good luck friend. Nothing lasts forever! This too shall pass. And with your efforts it will pass easier.
Sigue adelante Gracias por compartir
Praise the Lord, for within darker days He is the light in front of us.
I've spent 35 years worrying about everything whilst not truly wondering what it is that i want from my life. I've comitted crimes, been in prison, been detained in psychiatric hospitals, and allowed myself to fall into a pit devoid of all meaning. For the past few weeks i set the past aside so that i could try and complete new goals. Small goals, that if completed add up to something much more. The reason i say all this is not for attention or consolation. I say this because i truly believe that anybody watching this video can change their life in a positive way. I went from the darkest nihilistic anti-human perspective imaginable to realising i needed to work on myself and give life a shot. You are worth it too. And just like said in this video the responsibility for ones life is personal. Peace.
Your words motivated me
😮 Very compelling, Thank you❤
“Be”coming requires letting go/complete surrender and trusting (asking questions t💞) that our Divine “within” us will guide us if we listen in silence and stillness (be blind-“receive Divine inner “I amguidance from our Divine Christ/God/“I am”Higher selves with The Mountain Top View …trust and choose 4 🍀 our Sacred Divine Journey…2🦋 our True North Authentic “who we came actually came here 2 🦋 ‘Be’”…letting go…
re-orient….sacrificial….Love
Surrender “all of all’ and Trust
= living in the “Now”…meditating…discipline……maturing…a Sacred Journey to True Truth…to “knowing”
=Peace/Flow…Serenity, be the change you want to see in the world”
Namaste…I love you all
Love and Light and Unity
be willing to choose “metamorphosis” 2🦋 “U”
We are all “One”…with our Eternal Prime Source “ONE” of ALL That Is Creator….✨🌅💫
Energy-Frequency-Vibration
3-6-9
11.11
So It Is🕊️
we can all feel hangry and with hanger and feel uncontrolable but going throug reallity hapenning for my actions, being condamned at the highest level its the abyss for me. Reset after all that its nutts and for someone with feelings its kind of impossible to survive...
@@ze2004 I'm back in a psychiatric hospital again and feeling homicidal now. The only thing keeping me going is my girlfriend who is also in another psychiatric hospital. Life is completely meaningless. You have to be the one that gives it meaning. I have not found mine yet, every day it gets incrementally worse. But I still have hope. If I didn't you'd have seen me on the news by now.
This genuinely made me cry as a man. I’m currently in the middle of my journey of being exactly who I want and need to be. Moving across the country by myself to put myself completely in a new space. It’s been almost 6 months of nothing but a depressive state when thinking about my goals. But digging deeper I found that I was upset because I moved and nothing changed. Because I had no idea what I wanted. Within the last few weeks a few very unfortunate things happened in just the right order to make my brain flip into the “I need to be this” mindset. And since that day everything has changed. Truly a light in the darkness Jordan Peterson.
Wish I could go too!
God bless you. You deserve it. I promise you, don't give up. Life is worth it. Accept God.
Psalms 51:10-12 Create in me a clean heart, O God, And renew a steadfast spirit within me. Do not cast me away from Your presence, And do not take Your Holy Spirit from me. Restore to me the joy of Your salvation, And uphold me by Your generous Spirit.☦️💜
Amen. That's the whole video in just a few words. Amazing!
@@carolinevolkwein4019 Amen and Amen!
Everyday I asked the Lord for this. Amen
One would hope that this guy keeps speaking because man O man does he ever get the Nesssssss of life , I dropped out of life for 2 yrs soaked myself in books and then heard this guy and Poooooof la , I'm sober . Have my children back and tomorrow I go for my first interview in 5 yrs , so have faith and be grateful for the little things .Be the change . Seek and you shalllllllllllllll find ......my dream of life is to sit beside a river in the sweet summer heat and banter with this Peterson I shall pray in my sweats lodges for this as I have for everything it has come true .BELIEVE BELIEVE
Godspeed ❤
Challenge accepted.
For what it’s worth, leaving my comfort zone was one of the best decisions I’ve ever made. It’s only been 6 months but the transition I’ve made in my life has been tremendous. I have so much better perspective in my life, the good things the bad things and the things I’m not able to understand. I left to make a name for myself and ended up finding humility. I forgive the people who meant me harm, I appreciate the things that matter and most importantly I’ve reconnected with my faith. I’m no longer in control and neither is anyone reading this. The Lord loves us, he accepts us despite our ugliness. Look at the world you’re in. It’s beautiful living breathing ART.
The wars, the politics, the conflicts, the family drama it’s all a consequence of all of our choices. Choose love, choose what’s right and let God in your heart. He’s waiting for you to smile and let him take control.
1 month 6 months a year take that time to escape your routine and humble yourself before the Lord. He died for that. He rose again for that. He’s patiently waiting for that.
Don't count on a ghost. You will end up disappointed and alone.
I pulled myself together, went from being on 120mg methadone a day/lyrica 300, vyvanse (a lot), smoking, porn, social media, anti-depressants, soda, etc (there was a lot), who couldn't even clean his room, to getting off all that over 2 years and now I can take care of everything 10 times over. I can clean my room, clean the basement, ride my bike 10 miles on my off day from working full time welding car parts. I'm just some random guy commenting on a TH-cam video. If I can do it, so can you!!
That's amazing! Congratulations! 😃🎉
I was a heroin opiate addict 16 years and got off Suboxone and I’m at a point where taking a shower is a big deal and the thing I feel now is I have no idea who I am …. Just lost for what I should do. Nialistic much of the time like I’m not even here and just watching
@@lauraestes9304 Nobody may clearly understand ur situation.. there is always hope and choice in ur hand trust in ur self.. You jus kept ur self far from u get urself back.. Go to nature exercise gift much water have a walk talk to people.. meditate if u can't meditate jus sit stil your higher self vil heal u definitely i really got tears after reading your words it might not happen all of a sudden but it vil happen believe in the process..!
You're a freaking INSPIRATION!!! Your actions will echo out into the Universe. ❤
@@lauraestes9304 Keep listening to Jordan Peterson to help you find your path. Congrats on your recovery! One day at a time. You just might surprise yourself with the unknown magic inside you, waiting to be developed!!! ❤
I cry everyday at what happened to me at the hands of others... my ex set out to destroy everything in my life and he succeeded... I learnt the monster was not under my bed.. I was sleeping beside it. Jordan's speeches are changing my thinking, letting me learn that mabey, mabey there is another way apart from just leaving this life. God bless u Jorden ❤
hope youre well
Motivation madness is the perfect name for this channel. You have helped me with my sports injury recovery that i have been working on for 7 years. The days that i dont think i can handle one more step i turn this on. For the last 4 months i have been off work recovering from major surgery and everyday i turn on channels like yours. Thank you for existing.
Sigue adelante hermano, tu puedes!!!!
He is brilliant! So admirable. I wish you unwavering focus and faith in your recovery! How can you not get there!!!:)
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🙏men!
Amén
Jobs will pay your bills, business will make you rich but investment makes and keep you wealthy! I pray everyone here becomes successful
Everyone needs more than their salary to be financial stable. The best thing to do with your money is to invest it rightly, because money left for saving always end up used with no returns.
I’m looking for something to venture into on a short term basis, I really need to create an alternate source of income, what do you thing I should be buying?
Crypto/stock investment but you will need a professional help on that
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Too, many of us have our own personal paths, we came from... I am was born in the abiss, I loved my momma never knew my bio-dad, till 30yrs.of age... I have found no love in this world,untill I heard the heart of this man... May,God bless Dr. Peterson, in Jesus name claim I...AMEN!!!
I didn't even realize that we really need to hold up men. I'm an older woman. I had 3 kids, 2 sons, and I daughter. My sons are in their 40s now. They're strong men. I don't know how many there are now because society wants to break them. Thank you so much for helping them. They are the reason we had all the things we have for everything. We should all thank them and be grateful. Anyway, you're inspiring for sure. I've listened to your videos over and over. Thank you! To all the men watching, thank you for all the wonderful things you fix and invent! What's coming will be hard, but you can be our strength. And as women, we need to be ready to stand behind our men. And most of all, to support and care for.
I owe my life to this man. He saved my life when i was at my rockbottom. Today, im clean and learning to know myself. The quote that saved me is " The pathway to less suffering is through suffering," and i literally wear it on my sleeve.
I don’t wanna play anymore but this man gives me hope and anyone that wants to take that away isn’t as good of a person as they think.
in one of his videos he said once, the key to helping yourself is starting with cleaning your room! & i laughed at that theory but now i get it, if you can't change your everyday surroundings for the better clutter that your walk bye & past every single day. then it's pretty much impossible to achieve your goals, cuz if you don't start with cleaning your room first and proving to yourself that with a liitle effort comes rewards, you might try to reach goals but if your room isn't clean there will come a day when your upset and look around at your life/ messy room and say, forget it NOTHING HAS CHANGED. because you didn't start with cleaning your room first. and you will just end up right back where you started. but if your room is clean & you have a bad day, at least you can look at your room and say, well at least i made a change, and i can see it, so the way i feel right now is just a setback.
Sorry to waste everyones time with my rant, CLEAN YOUR ROOM
Make your bed every day. You are worthy of going to bed in a nice, neat bed.
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One of the best advices. I truly believe in cleaning the room first and making the bed everyday. It may seem foolish, silly, not that important but for some reasons this little act is very powerful in many ways we can't see. I just did that yesterday after a long time and I just felt released, happier, motivated, optimistic, more inclined to a positive attitude.
Maintaining it clean it can be harder, but doing that it will help so much on the long term in such a way that when you catch up from the suffering, procrastination etc. There will come a day when you will be so aligned with your goals that it will become so easy for you from then on. Make this your routine, integrate this into your reflexes because it will help enormously!
I didn't stop with my room, I cleaned out the entire house, and made many changes.
almost two years sober, I still struggle from time to time with addictive tendencies. But Mr. Petersons peaching of "bear your cross" and happiness is found in adoption of personal responsibility has helped me through the years dig out of that hole. I find it too convenient that at a point where the west is struggling with an identity/drug crisis Jordan pops on the scene. Stay up folks! and fight like hell!!!
I’ve been sober almost 17 years.
What you’ve described is common. I suspect all addicts go through it for lengthy periods of time, but not all of them are honest about it.
I didn’t feel comfortable with sobriety until I turned 6. That doesn’t mean you’ll go through the same thing. That was my experience. There was just a day when I woke up and I felt an awareness that I didn’t have to fight anymore.
And I didn’t. I haven’t had to fight for sobriety since that day. I don’t know what changed. I don’t know why it happened at 6 years sober. No idea. But that day, I just embraced everything, including me.
Don’t give up. Don’t let it force you into a box. Keep talking about it. Keep moving. Talk to the universe. Your one day will come, and it’ll all work out as it should. You’re doing all the right things. Keep doing that.
Been lost for many years following my combat tours, finding Mr Petersons lectures has helped clear a path. I’m not there yet but I work everyday to get a little better. I still feel alone in a room full of people but at least I’m starting to get comfortable with the uncomfortable
You’re never alone brother. Stay on your path, adjust that ruck and keep that warrior spirit. This world is nuts but you’re not out of the fight, the world needs good leaders and mentors who know how to complete the objectives ahead of us.
So many people are facing the same battle. Most don’t have the experience of combat tours but many have had a childhood of neglect or abuse. At first glance, you may think they are very different but the more you dig you will see the similarities. I can guarantee you that in every room full of people, there is at least one person who understands your struggle. You are not alone. And you are not allowed to give up. Your testimony, your journey, is meant to help bring others up. God bless you❤
Wonderful compilation. He’s so very well spoken that every single word holds value. I need to listen to this about a dozen more times to fully digest all the gems of knowledge.
I understand what you mean, and live it myself ❤
Yes do it! I’ve done the same and you’ll eventually will learn it word for word. Our subconscious is so powerful when it’s fed this type of information and amazing knowledge.
Very well said.
Jesus , how did I miss out on this feeling of having you for so long? You are the defender of my heart.
Love this man SO much - he embodies the father far too many of us wish we had but never did.
I’m just watching a documentary about Steve McQueen. Guy came from NOTHING, nothing. His desire to succeed was just so strong he overcame everything in his way. But you can’t just DESIRE, you have to ACT, you have to get off your butt and be willing to do absolutely anything and everything and never complain. If you fail, figure out why, and try again and ask yourself if maybe you’re failing because it’s not what you truly want, and never succeed at anything if it’s not what you truly want, so never be afraid to simply try something else. But keep pushing forward.
I actually had some news today, that I’m being kicked out of my house, (I’m temporarily renting but it was sold and the new owner is moving in) and I told agent, it’s ok, it is what is. Tomorrow I find a new place, I’m not going to waste 1 minute worrying about it, because I can’t change it, I just have to keep moving forward.
Hi how are you today ?
But success doesn’t mean rich and famous… why is steve McQueen the example? why is it that being a celebrity is the epitome of a person who’s achieved anything worthwhile , successful
@@achristianson4059 no, you’re saying that. I just used him as an example, not the only measure of success. Someone else’s measure of success could be anything, even something humble, like being a great gardener. The point is, is doesn’t matter what your circumstances are, with perseverance you can succeed.
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@@aldunlop4622Well said!
Best wisdom I've ever related with. Be a monster, be scary be intimidating, but know when to use it. Be humble caring and kind but also have the ability to go to grave lengths to protect your loved ones more or less yourself.
I always figured whatever social opinion you have always keep a 50/50 combo of the opposite. Be prepared for everything. I'm not saying go build and underground shelter with 100lbs of MREs but no when to keep composure and also when to snap on a dime in attack mode. Life throws some pretty nasty fast balls at people. That's doesn't mean be naturally aggressive at any moment just be alert, aware and capable of doing the ugly things life may require you to do. That's your test that's your sacrifice that's your proof you can adapt and overcome. The world really is your oyster, you just gotta learn how to work with it and take what comes to you
Beautifully expressed 🌟
Jordan, your speaking skills motivate me to become a speaker. Your cerebral thoughts put into words process is just incredible. 😊🙏🏼 Thank you for stepping up and letting the world hear you
I think this is one of the best compilations of dr Peterson material for men.
Just men?
What I've learned through his books and videos is this : What's happened, happened. You can't change the past, you cant predict an unpromised tomorrow. Setting goals, writing everything down, making plans, coming down on a agreement with yourself about future plans, its all about the NOW! You are becoming better EVERY moment with every THOUGHT! Don't hesitate to dream big. God is within you. Stop searching what is "God". God begins where the human mind stops. No matter the religion, the message is ONE! Do good to others as you have them done good to you. Imbrace yourself and your thoughts. You are having negative thoughts? GOOD! USE THEM IN A WAY THAT OVERCOMING THEM WILL BENEFIT YOU! Push your mind and exercise your body. Learn something new every moment in anything you do. Keep your mind sharp and ACCEPT yourself because only then you will understand your faults and make a genuine effort to treat YOURSELF better. IMBRACE the catastrophe and realize who you are. Stay strong
I believe Dr. Peterson’s words lead us to one another. And that’s where and when it all begins. Try it.!
Between Bible studies and watching/hearing Jordan Peterson, I’ve learned to sacrifice to become the best version of myself. Many things have changed in these years and in no way did I see myself in my current situation 5 years ago. Or even 3 years ago. Thank you God and thank you God for Jordan Peterson.
I went off grid about 11 years ago, best choice I ever made. I'm 45 miles from the closest town so I was forced to make my own decisions and my own schedule and organizing. I'm happy now. and as a bonus out here I found women that don't look at your appearance and your wallet. Instead the majority of them actually look at your heart and your hands. And if they grew up out here they're usually healthier and don't worry about the petty things . Turns out they are rather enjoyable to be around.
Where is this please! Would love to live where people have these values.
Excellent, sounds like a little bit of paradise. More and more of us is moving off the grid and it is a brand new life for the better. I still like to listen to j. P. Speak with excellent understanding of truth Wait reality.
Michael that is so interesting because I as a woman did the same thing.. I moved to the middle of the woods in Wisconsin from a big city well, not the middle of the woods -the edge. But the trees and nature became my relatives. And yes people with less treat people better - I felt the same way you did about men…. where I come from men will not date women unless they have a lot lot…. So that can work both ways.;)
First thing, my ex-husband did was jump in my car and say G whose car is this I’d like to marry her …. So that being said it goes both ways :-) glad you found happiness.
changed my life. I'm aiming up Dr. peterson. thank you
This is relevant to everyone.
If this doesn't get you intrigued with life or questioning how you can make the most of your potential, then you might not be human.
This is a real thought leader who speaks freely and with compassion for his audiences.
A listener can simply tell that he truly cares! He has the perspective of authority that he shares through a lens of empathy.
Reminds me of Jesus. A purity in his way of being, Dr. Peterson embodies all that is good with this world. That is saying a lot.
More people need to embrace his teachings, Dr. Peterson is a real saint - an angel in human skin that can verbalize the love and knowledge of God. 💯❣️🙏🏼
Beautifully said ❤️🙏🏽
I vanished for a year… no one noticed or reached out. Opened my eyes
It’s possible the other people also varnished for a year..
I'm planning to disappear this year..n I believe I will experience the same result as yours..
@inezy6329 you are loved, very lovable, and deserve love. ❤
Dont do it for other people to notice, do it for YOU to notice a change in your life
I did this not to see if people would notice. I did it because my life was spiraling into cayous. It was the most difficult and most beautiful time of my life. I had to confront my poor choices that caused my life spiraling out of control. It's rough, of course, but it's a tremendous opportunity to self growth if you allow yourself to objectively view your life and choices you made you can learn heal and be better if you allow the hurt and pain and healing to takes place. Like I said, the most difficult and beautiful thing I've ever done.
I have always wanted the best for everybody else around me while i barely was keeping myself afloat now looking back this been my whole life. I'm 22 now I'm learning a lot about sacrifice
22, your life is gone. Just give up...😅
I’m near 60 and same way. Stop it now while you’re young. I’m not saying don’t have compassion for others, but you need to grow up/mature and understand you can’t-nor should you-try to save people. Trust me, no matter how much you help, most of those people will not be in your life in the future. You must pursue your path, who you are meant to be-and not feel guilty about that. Note that you’re disrupting their ability to pursue their paths. I gave so much time, energy, money to people and if I could go back and put that love, time and energy into myself I would do it! Then I’d be where I should, not where I ended up. I have a good life, but not the one I want/should have. You’re young-focus on you!
Well said Maryland
I was the peace keeper, scapegoat
22? 😂
@@TheFirstCalled.60AD lol ye
We all have areas in our lives we either ignore or can improve upon, we all have moments when we could have done better but we can make better moments, for that's up to us. Once you have that understanding, you can make better decisions and respond to life.
Thank you for speaking with truth and integrity
This man's youtube videos saved my life
I agree on most of what Jordan Peterson says, minus the part about sacrifice. As children we do not have to sacrifice our time to build a future, nor do we have to sacrifice our present for our future. When you do what you love, you don't work hard or grind, you enjoy every moment doing what you do, and you do not want to stop doing it, day or night.
When you live by the code Do What You Love you will never grind, not a day in your life. Do you know yourself well enough to know what you love, or do you follow the herd like a sheep, because you're too nosy to stop gossiping and listen to your inner voice (the only mentor that will never leave you; Your gut)?
Thank you for sharing your wisdom, Jordan Peterson. I appreciate you! May God give you the health of a young colt and the power of a old oak tree.
Psychedelics are just an exceptional mental health breakthrough. It's quite fascinating how effective they are against depression and anxiety. Saved my life.
Can you help with the reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. Very hard to get a reliable source here in Australia. Really need!
Yes, dr.sporessss I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD and addiction and Mushrooms definitely made a huge huge difference to why am clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He is 59 & has so many mental health issues plus probable CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac.
He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD know if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Is he on instagram?
Yes he is. dr.sporessss
Even in the darkest moments, there's a light guiding us towards purpose and truth-never stop striving for the life you deserve.
The first 3 minutes has summed up exactly what I hv been trying to do since my youngest boy passed away around 2yrs ago...
I watched him say this a couple of times a few years ago long story short my life is 10x better now as I internalised his words, god bless Jordan Peterson
He has definitely softened up his message which I appreciate. Empathy sounds good coming from him and I like to hear the more nurturing tone in his voice
yeah I'm listening to this I finished high-school last year but spent 5 months struggling in hospitals, stroke got me in icu and I'm only 18, I failed my exams and In my country when you fail your life is over
society rubs it in no matter what you went through
every day for the last 6 months I've loathed myself
and failures, I've fallen so deep in depression but I have started taking responsibilities and will change my life
yes I do struggle financially but I believe in a great future despite what I've been through
Everything can change for the better !!! Have faith. You can do it. I believe in you. ❤
This is a great outlook 🤩
You are just a baby and have your whole life ahead of you.
I love your optimism 🥰❤️🙏🏽
Thank you and we appreciate you for this immense beacon of hope, guidance and clarity! 🙌
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Speaking directly to me.
Drowning in anxiety and grief is not just a descent into nihilism and bitter resentment, it is a headlong dive.
Learning how to process grief is like learning to swim.
Swimming can be challenging, dangerous, exhausting and terrifying.
But it beats drowning.
Dangerous, exhausting and terrifying is a step up from dying.
Living with unprocessed grief is emotional water boarding.
It may as well be drowning.
It feels the same.
Jordan Peterson the great teacher.
These comments are amazing and so uplifting to think of all the improved lives. God bless everyone on of us that are figuring these things out.
I did exactly what Peterson has suggested. I quit my high paying dream job and found myself spending through my savings, traveling the USA with my family, and working on MYSELF. You can’t measure personal development. Teach yourself how to code. Learn another language. Write a story. Create something! LIVE YOUR LIFE.
“Thinking about yourself in a way that someone else who cares about you would” is a huge breakthrough for me. 33 years old and never thought about it like that. I’m great at guiding others..
What a lovely and eloquent conversation, teaching, sharing,, encouraging and pertinent video that has comforted me. Thank you!
Peace has spoken to me. And
GOD is good.
Thank you for sharing your wisdom. A lot of this I know but did not believe it was true until now that this is life changing for me. Explained like this makes it right. Now I need to keep doing thinking this ways act on this daily. Thank you and do not stop your changing lives thank you Sir. May God keep blessing you daily.
Blessings
I'm gonna listen to this over and over until I'm completely brainwashed. Choose your brainwashing..
53:00
I agree with this with just one update. Words have power and meaning, with meaning giving it distinct power. God created existence itself with spoken word. "It is not what goes into the mouth that defiles a person, but what comes out of the mouth; this defiles a person." Matthew 15:11
The tongue is the smallest muscle but it can either do the most damage or encourage and edify us and others. We have the power of choice, if what to do, what to say.
So I'd suggest that you use the word "immerse" oneself, as brainwashing has a connotation of enslavement. And you are not enslaved, you are FREE! Free indeed! "Free at last, free at last. Thank God almighty I'm free at last!" God is so good! God bless and Godspeed on this journey called life.
Really good idea
Agreed and brain wash is kind of funny if we break it down. Once the window is clean we can see clearly. So the common connotation is negative. But its actually positive. And the OPs statement is actually relatable and hilarious which i love. ❤. So in essence im not arguing with either but contributing.
Very good point
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Salute 🫡 to Jordan Peterson!
Your words couldnt have hit me at a better time JP read your book 12 rules for life antidote to chaos some time ago... if i only knew how much chaos could envelop a life in strange times .. So thankfull for all the work I've seen and what a good and sharp speaches you contributed to countless souls going through life in all its forms ❤️ Wish you all cherried moments in the holidays ❤🎅
This man is Soley the reason I am still a being.i didn't believe in coincidence but since seeing one of his reading on one of my darkest days,I thank him and powers that be I didn't have my second leaving from life.thank you jordon and I'm now a listener.
The father I always needed thank you sir 🫡
The answers non beleivers are looking for is in blind faith. Thats what they dont have. How i beleived in god when i didnt was know who they say he is and what he represents in the bible. He is the purist image of goodness we have. The devil is the ourest image of evil we have. When u surround yourself with god. Aka as good. Ur life becomes better. When u actually apply the things this god u dont beleive in. Ur life changes. I cant describe this thing but ever since i did i never let go. I always say this is the purest good i know of. This is honorable and good for me. That sparked my intrest in god. Then i tried to understand what there saying. Theres no loss in trusting god or having blind faith. U become freinds with someone who understands u. U dont need anyone else when u know him. U get so excited that u want to share the feeling u get and its so good feeling. Then u find someone who curses god when u go try to help. Then u get discouraged but u also wonder how a person could not accept something this good for you. Has someone got in your head about god before u were even aloud to understand who he was ? U built up a resentment to something u never got to know? The man on ur left and ur right cant be trusted. All information we give is not true or a lie its our perception of reality. But god is a base for it all. Once u grasp this u get curious about more. Then u look for him and find him. Thats how he leads you. Like a ghost asking u to follow. Some people get in kids heads early and try to manipulate them and tell them god isnt reall and theres even conspiracies people are beleiving that its to control the masses 😂. If u beleive that ur already controlled by someone. If u follow god only god controls u. Look around.. we arent here forever. Quit wasting thoughts on evil and being angry. No one owes u anything. Ur hurt so are we. Im not convinced he is make beleive. The best people and highest intelligence comes from men who follow god. The best and most good ive ever done for myself. Came from god. Im praying for you people who dont know. Im not saying dont question everything. Im saying ur missing out. I hope one day very soon u find out before u waste your life not knowing your true potential. Im finding mine. Only because god. I hate myself if i dont have him. Love u. ❤️ it takes courage to knock on peoples door so much that i havent even done it. I have respect for those who do. It takes guts.
I don’t comment much, so if I do it means I found something particularly interesting. I have never felt more broken down and in reality than when I listen to his words. I realize what I am doing wrong and although I wouldn’t disclose it here, I know I have a long and hard battle ahead. I know I have to do it now for the betterment of me. I hope to revisit this comment in a while with a sense of accomplishment and “set on the right tracks” Hope I find myself, see me sooner rather than later
Fragmented Fathers in the Abyss.......I have been looking for this video for a long time.....Thank you
We have so many toxic narcissts and Psykopats around us.
They take our energi and kills us slowly..
THERE is a way out of The toxic enviroment..
Stay strong and stay stoic!
I started to write about half way into this video. Idea's kept formulating... Such a great compilation... I appreciate all the wisdom... I hope in turn I can pass it on to help🙏 Happy Holidays and a Blessed New Year
I am doing the same. JP is bringing up a lot of good points. I need to write down I can always remember them the best I can and live them that way. Just maybe my kids and grandkids may be able to read what I have written. I found when I am writing, I am writing other thoughts that pop into my mind that continues that same conversation
even further. A lot of inspiration pops into my mind. What I am writing inspirational things. Sometimes I think I'm just going to write one sentence. But then end up writing 2 more pages. That's pretty cool.
I rewound the whole thing and started writing from the beginning!!:) What a treat!!
@@leswalker2639good idea, I'm going to call all my notes my Inspirational journal so when I'm gone my family can read and continue the learning...I heard a song the other day about this...can't think of the name of the song tho.. something like learned from my grandma or something. thanks for reminding me!
I disappeared for about 10 years. It takes honesty to do this properly. ❤
It's hard work. It's no magic word apart for hard work
Probably the best compilation I have heard 🎉
❤ Love you Mr. Jordan
Just woke up and this is what I needed to hear.
It would be great if we could wake up every morning with some type of inspiration information. I also try to read my scriptures every day and that way ,I can receive greater knowledge and inspiration.
Les Brown is the real deal! His words nourish my mind and spirit, making me believe in my dreams and the power of choice. His infectious laugh and inspiring messages uplift my soul every time. Thank you, Mr. Les Brown!
I just stopped heroin and cocaine addiction over a lifetime and joined a business system and a gym 4 weeks ago just found this and it's exactly what I need 😢
Oh my God this changed my mindset overtime really helpful
This way of looking at life is very satisfying. At any age.
I haven’t listened to Jordan for a bit.
Hearing his voice again is both humorous and refreshing
So much to say I refuse to quit. I built my arc now with a fractured foot I will be homeless going into 2024 if you read this know its you vs you Noone is coming Noone but you.i will get threw this as I will hold on a piece of driftwood as I watch my arc sink I will make it to shore as I have been fighting way to long to quit.
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Everything happens for a reason 😌! Everything happens for a reason 😊! GOD IS GOOD!
May you have to capacity to understand and implement what you learn by watching and listening to this video
50:04 Another piece of great advice ...grow and have those around you grow as well .
Why Dr Peterson is amazing...... as always clicked expecting 5-10 minutes of motivation..... didn't note the runtime until 25 minutes in. Kinda bummed I have to leave now.
But..come back
@@Leeuwyfie7 I did, eventually. Sometimes you gotta do.... that's pretty much what the man himself tells us funnily enough.
Same. But yes definitely want to hear the rest. Would love to see Dr Peterson speak in person. Just recently discovered he is touring and will be speaking semi close to me. Wish it was closer, I'd definitely go
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I’ve probably listened to this video at least 20 times so far and every time I hear something I didn’t hear before and it helps me. Often, I’ll listen to it first thing in the morning just to get my orientation straight before I head out into my day.
I'm going to do that✔,that and David GOGGINS 😂
I absolutely love this lecture ❤
Thank you, Jordan. You are a hero!!
I disappeared for 2 years, best decision I ever made.
I'm thinking of doing this
I need to disappear also 💪
Wait what?
Where or how did you disappeared and how did you appeared again?
He doesn't know the general answer for everyone's life. I lost all the aim in my life. I used to have two jobs on my earlier 30's then got married (biggest mistake!) All was taken from me! I tried to get into a career got back to school A-level in a different country, got into uni to study CS then the wife pressure for kids, from that point even though I love the kids it was just on the way of my progress. Instead I was turned to build houses for my wife, even though I was never a builder. Now I'm finishing the second house, I've done everything that you can imagine in a house including installing steel beams and build an extension and not gratification other than food and roof. The house is not mine, everything is as prescribed on the pre nuptial agreement. I did only expect respect in exchange which never happened. I'm badly trapped in this. My dad passed many years ago, my mom died last year. Now I ask you Jordan Peterson, where are my options , how can I pull this one out? Should I still believe in any of that ?
Don't give up, it's your test, if you pass this, you get what you want.
It’s the test of life.
Gd first tears a man down, before he builds him up. Look in yourself for can grow in the disasters, and I promise what you'll find there will be worth the loss.
Once you understand and accept that you attract and co create your reality by the frequency/vibration you broadcast, you can begin to manifest consciously, instead of unconsciously. You stop feeling like life happens TO you and realize that it it all happening FOR you. You start seeing struggles as challenges and learning opportunities. And once you feel sincere gratitude for every experience, both light and dark, you broadcast the frequency of gratitude, which sends a message to the universe to bring more experiences into your reality that make you feel grateful.
Hard to wrap your head around and let go of victim mentality, but it makes all the difference! It changed my life!
Why are you staying?
Such positivity and academic truth. You sir are a Legend!
I really needed this content today. Thank you. ❤
What a helpful message. It gives you hope and helps you steer your ship in the right direction. Bless you Peterson; you have brought so much to the world.
Information is only as good as if you applied it.
the first 10 minutes are extremely powerful. Thank you Father for your mercy, thank you for answering my prayers. Please continue to be with me, and others who are so lost. whove never had a vision. You are the vision. your will, not mine LORD....help me to realize you in myself, help me be the change i want to see in the world. these things i ask in your son Jesus's name, amen
the people that called this man a Nazi must be held to account.
Nazi were socialist… what we modern day as democrat…
The only nazis we’re those pointing fingers and giving us all labels.
Important messages in this video everyone should understand. ❤
Great speech and important advice, thank you for this message!!!
The war is intense: in all my strivings to use less words I tend to become more wordy and not able to ascertain the oh so small explosive seed with the Glory that never lets up on discipleship of That Which Matters Most...
Спасибо за хорошую добрую подборку❤
Conflict Resolution: 'WHO'S AT FAULT?" To me Fault=Blame so I question big time from dealing with very difficult & unhealthy people since childhood, enough to know that one can get defensive when word blame pops up* I prefer let's sit down to discuss where the issue begun & what we can do from both ends to amend this by both taking responsibility leaves no room for anyone to feel defensive* since it takes two to tango/// for lack of communication, empathy & or knowledge can be the culprit, deeming a person innocently unaware in an oblivious sort of way... Really enjoyed the speech & found it to be motivation-ally enlightening🥰
Will do. I’m waiting for you Jesus.
The aim we have impacts our lives more than we know. If this is off by a hair it will derail our path and destination. Great talk.
It's amazing motivation