MY STALKER Tried To Have Me ARRESTED (NOT CLICKBAIT) | Roly

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  • @RolyWestYT
    @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +443

    Hi everyone! Thanks for joining me today! PLEASE hit like on the video and leave a comment it really helps! Make sure also to check out part 1 if you missed it
    PART 1 ► th-cam.com/video/32-6VAbhTm4/w-d-xo.html

    • @postmelon4073
      @postmelon4073 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      We love you and you deserve to be supported, respected, and speak your truth.

    • @Cutiebook12
      @Cutiebook12 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I'm here for you if you need it.. this is bloody ridiculous of this person to do

    • @squeemdweem
      @squeemdweem ปีที่แล้ว +6

      We hope ur safe and well 🙏 💜

    • @wendyrocci9056
      @wendyrocci9056 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      U by far r the most amazing human I've seen on TH-cam and can't imagine u being any different in person. I did see ur first video about this person and it seems it was way worse than I thought. I'm so sorry any of that happened to u. Also, more Luxeria PLLLLLZ! I loooove u two together! ❤

    • @tracybaldwin1564
      @tracybaldwin1564 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      How you’ve managed to deal with all of this and still carry on is just incredible. You’re a good kid Roly. ❤

  • @blackivy7582
    @blackivy7582 ปีที่แล้ว +2126

    Just a gentle reminder to everyone. Never call a stalker "my stalker". Always refer to them as "the stalker" or just "stalker". Calling them anything with a possessive connotation can reinforce the delusions they have, give them attention (which is what they want), and lead them to escalate and make your life even worse.

    • @AutumnLeafdust
      @AutumnLeafdust ปีที่แล้ว +48

      All of this!
      A bit curious though, would referring to them negatively also have the same effect as if it were positive? Something like "the [whatever expletive you want] that won't get off my tail", for example?

    • @blackivy7582
      @blackivy7582 ปีที่แล้ว +82

      @@AutumnLeafdust Not really unfortunately. Just because any kind of attention to them is "good attention". Like if someone says something or posts a photo of something, the stalker will go "oh hey, there's a secret message in there just for me." So any attention, unfortunately, is going to make things worse. However, exposing them to people you can count on to help with your safety to keep yourself safe isn't a bad thing. It is advisable to have a support/safety network in these kinds of situations since most law enforcement won't do anything about stalkers until "a crime"(aka violence or harm to yourself) has been committed

    • @jubs96
      @jubs96 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      i think we’re way past this

    • @user-ll5vv7rv9p
      @user-ll5vv7rv9p ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@blackivy7582as an ex delulu person (I didn't do anything outside my own head though), delusional people really see hidden messages everywhere, no matter what. Even if there is no connection, they will simply make one for themselves.

    • @samgnz3n530
      @samgnz3n530 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      i get the psychology behind choosing the words to place a distance but also find that personally survivors of stalking should use "my" stalker as in "my life" and take back the power of what the stalker is doing a.k.a not allowing the control of their life through the unhinged actions of the stalker whom is the true one at fault, (unless professionals dealing with a survivors case advise otherwise).
      Always pressing the don't use "my" cause the stalker will get is power high as it enforces their delusions feels a bit like victim blaming the survivor of such trauma....the stalkers are already off the deep end of being parasocial why does the public or targets need to be the ones to caution/monitor behavior against that kind of unhinge worldview, it's just letting the stalkers hold everyone hostage?

  • @Deedoof
    @Deedoof ปีที่แล้ว +753

    Slander is slander when your words are false. Calling out an an abusive stalker with receipts proving they are abusive and stalking you is called the truth.
    Roly, I'm sorry you're living this situation right now. The silver lining is that you have everyone's support, and support is kryptonite for abusers.

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +142

      Absolutely! It’s so odd how she really thought she’d be able to say I’m lying about her.

    • @dmhq-administration
      @dmhq-administration ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🥰🤗💖

    • @ProjectCreativityGuy96
      @ProjectCreativityGuy96 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@ohdannyboythepipes4962
      He surely would be much more respected for at least doing something for His community! 😂

    • @ollie7173
      @ollie7173 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I’m so sorry, this seems like a total mess, I’m sorry you had to got through that, and I hope you, your family and your friends are ok

    • @karenanderson8455
      @karenanderson8455 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hi Roly, I’m in the process of watching this you tube video. I hope you’re doing ok. Sorry you went through this. It’s not nice . I think you’re cool. I don’t have any tats but yours are neat. 😊

  • @cats1900
    @cats1900 ปีที่แล้ว +365

    Your stalker story terrifies me. Yt is fantastic where fans can have great interactions with favorite creators... but the downside of unhinged fans makes my skin crawl. Be safe and take care of yourself.

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +59

      Yeah it’s rare but this can happen

    • @5Rice5Cake5
      @5Rice5Cake5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@RolyWestYT:( I hope you find a way to get her to stop ❤

    • @karenjohnson1523
      @karenjohnson1523 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Call them "The stalker" not Your. Otherwise it can tie the stalker to the person being stalked.

  • @Katkit91108
    @Katkit91108 ปีที่แล้ว +196

    When you said she got arrested I literally cheered, and that her charge got elevated was such karma. She literally did it all to herself. The fact she was still posting stuff after getting arrested is wild. Mental illness is real. Glad she actually faced the consequences of her actions though and you got a restraining order. Glad her own family even realized you were the victim. I'm sorry you had to go through that Roly. Glad you are in a better place now ❤

    • @teijaflink2226
      @teijaflink2226 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Hope her family will help her, people like this should not walk around free in society.

  • @kimsomniac2144
    @kimsomniac2144 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I feel like having a stalker is like having a horror movie type entity haunting you. They are everywhere, and nowhere, and want to traumatize or hurt you. I'm really glad Roly got a legal "exorcism". I'm so sorry you had to go through this

  • @callumfletcher2684
    @callumfletcher2684 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    I’m so so happy the police took this seriously. This whole story made me think of Christina Grimmie, where a fan took her life as she was about to hug them. Roly I’m so so sorry this happened to you and I’m glad it managed to get sorted out! Stay safe! You’re amazing! Your fans never doubted you for a second! ❤

    • @purplebean8989
      @purplebean8989 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      100% agree, glad the police took it seriously, especially before it escalated any further.
      Also hope that the police took the information to child services 🙏 I fear for her child

    • @Elizabeth-iu7lf
      @Elizabeth-iu7lf ปีที่แล้ว +25

      I saw Christina Grimme live on tour with Selena Gomez, truly an inspiration. I was young but I remembered her passion and what an incredible singer she was. Truly heartbreaking, it’s fantastic to hear that the police took Roly’s stalker seriously, I’d hate to see another inspiration fall to a crazed fan

    • @TheRealBambihooves
      @TheRealBambihooves ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I loved Christina so much. She was a beautiful soul and her life was so promising. Someone had to steal that away 🥺

    • @Daelyah
      @Daelyah ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's disturbing to consider the parallel between what happened to Christina, and what happened to Selena Gomez' namesake.
      And then Roly having to go through that... Jfc💀

    • @Bless-Ur-Heart
      @Bless-Ur-Heart 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My mind went straight to Christina Grimmie and even Selena back in the day. It's scary as hell And very very serious. I'm glad it's calmed down a bit.

  • @tynebaker
    @tynebaker ปีที่แล้ว +83

    Oof. Hearing Roly say how embarrassed he felt really made my heart sink for him. It’s absolutely unfair for him to feel personal embarrassment when he is being victimized. This is an awful thing to live through.

  • @thegreatgaby
    @thegreatgaby ปีที่แล้ว +496

    Before I dive in, I just want to say you have my endless support, Roly! I hate that bad things happen to good people. Stay strong! 💜

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Thank you lovely

    • @rosedonnapur
      @rosedonnapur ปีที่แล้ว +21

      ❤❤❤❤ 1000% so true your so loved.❤❤❤❤❤

    • @EmEm78
      @EmEm78 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@RolyWestYTI'm so very sorry that you were subjected to this horrendous behaviour, you never deserved anything of the kind xox❤

  • @samanthafairweather9186
    @samanthafairweather9186 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    From one stalking victim to another, I'm glad you were able to get the police to understand the situation. I, unfortunately, didn't get that until there was actual video proof of my stalkers behavior.
    He was an actual serial stalker, and I was one of a long line of victims, but I was his last. ( As far as I know).
    Mine even went as far as putting a split phone line under my house, and would call his house repeatedly to make it look like I was the one with the problem. When he was finally arrested, they found "How to" books on stalking! It wasn't until he was found guilty that I was given an apology by the police. One officer had actually threatened to arrest ME for lying about "such an upstanding young man"!
    I wouldn't wish being stalked on anyone. It affects all aspects of your life, and , even though this happened to me in the early 90's, I am still hyper vigilant to this day.
    I hope you are able to continue to make great videos, and that you don't give that person another thought. I'm so glad you are ok. Love ya guts Roly! You rock!! ❤️🤪🇭🇲

    • @TheProblem2025
      @TheProblem2025 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      I’m so sorry that happened to you what a monster. I’m glad you were able to prove the truth and get outa that situation ok, I’ve heard horror stories about trying to deal with this kinda thing in the 90s, fingers crossed things keep improving and it becomes even harder to get away with stalking

    • @samanthafairweather9186
      @samanthafairweather9186 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@TheProblem2025 Thanks. He actually rang me when he was released from prison to tell me he was out, and that he wouldn't contact me ever again! And he never has. The weird thing about that call was that I had a silent phone number, which only my parents had. We still have no idea how he got my number.

  • @Kristina-gw3uf
    @Kristina-gw3uf ปีที่แล้ว +292

    Social media can really make people become UNHINGED. Hope all is well! And glad you're speaking your truth and not letting her threats and actions stop you

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Oh absolutely!!

    • @michaeljohndennis2231
      @michaeljohndennis2231 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@RolyWestYTI do believe that this person should be barred for life from ever accessing the internet, having any internet enabled device nor any mobile phone - and if anyone else is foolish enough to grant her any access to thier devices, the same lifetime ban should apply to them too

  • @charliefrid4559
    @charliefrid4559 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    This is so crazy I dont feel like saying "I'm sorry this has happened to you" even cuts it!!
    I hope you're now doing better mentally and that you're able to move on from this insanity.
    Sending lots of love and good vibes 💕

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Yes now it’s been a while it’s nice to be back to myself again

    • @charliefrid4559
      @charliefrid4559 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @RolyWestYT I'm glad to hear you're feeling safer and more like yourself. I really couldn't imagine that level of stress, and im just so glad and relieved it's all over now.
      💜🩵💜

  • @Ch3rryT3a
    @Ch3rryT3a ปีที่แล้ว +160

    Calling them “My stalker” ties them to you in their mind and gives them what they want. You should call them “The stalker”. ❤

  • @sarahsinister
    @sarahsinister ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I've been stalked, by two separate men and it is beyond terrifying. I am so sorry this happened to you, I hope she doesn't appear again and you can heal. We only want to create content, we do not want the additional drama. We hide behind screens on purpose!! So sorry Roly

  • @KhloeeLouise
    @KhloeeLouise ปีที่แล้ว +176

    I swear if someone says "Katie and Sharon r the same person" I'm going to scream. Do I look like a 40 plus yr old woman with a child . No no i dont x

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +67

      You actually look like 75 year old

    • @KhloeeLouise
      @KhloeeLouise ปีที่แล้ว +33

      @@RolyWestYT how dare u x🤣

    • @gloriazaragoza3349
      @gloriazaragoza3349 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      I read it in Greta's voice.

    • @judeskickingtrash
      @judeskickingtrash ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RolyWestYTroly 😭😭

    • @judeskickingtrash
      @judeskickingtrash ปีที่แล้ว

      khloè what do you mean I met your child 🤔x

  • @silverghostcat1924
    @silverghostcat1924 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I hope you're free from this person and never have to deal with this type of situation ever again. No one deserves this type of harassment. 💜

  • @sshhrroomm
    @sshhrroomm ปีที่แล้ว +90

    firstly, im so genuinely sorry Roly, you don’t deserve that. secondly, I LOVE YOUR TATTOOS!!! THEY LOOK SOOOO GOOD ON YOU!!!

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +24

      Thank you love ❤️

    • @HelloYersoGae
      @HelloYersoGae ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Before Roly, I didn't think there was such thing as perfect sleeve tats. Most people have random and disconnected tats with different styles and quality

    • @sshhrroomm
      @sshhrroomm ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@HelloYersoGae oh my gosh yes!!!

  • @FirstNameLastName-ic1tn
    @FirstNameLastName-ic1tn ปีที่แล้ว +46

    That woman is demonstrably insane. I hope she's either getting help somewhere or being kept away from the rest of us. So glad it's over and you're safe and doing better. Take care! 💛

  • @theonionmachine5990
    @theonionmachine5990 ปีที่แล้ว +197

    I was JUST rewatching the original yesterday, I cannot believe it was two years ago and I'm genuinely sorry that you're still dealing with this. A lot of the content from the previous video gave me quite upsetting reminders of my own abusive mother, and I can't even imagine how overwhelming this must be for you

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +34

      ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @marekdg
      @marekdg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RolyWestYT it’s strongly advised not to use “my stalker” when addressing the person who is stalking. Because that’s exactly what they want. They want to be “claimed” by the person they harass 😢

  • @thisbetheverses
    @thisbetheverses ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Dealing with the police is so intense, exhausting and can be really traumatic, we're really glad that you got through all of that and got the result you did, massive support and well done for fighting this and its awful you had to, you shouldn't have had to deal with her bs at all. We hope nothing like that ever happens to you again, that's a LOT to deal with. - Connor

  • @KhloeeLouise
    @KhloeeLouise ปีที่แล้ว +193

    Hey Rolyshweeadoo x
    It really baffles me that she continued straight after ur first vid went up. She still threatened us and made herself look even crazier x
    Loved the video x

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +55

      Oh it’s bonkers

    • @KhloeeLouise
      @KhloeeLouise ปีที่แล้ว +35

      @@RolyWestYT I'm younger than her..... I don't even have that much energy.... like howwwww x

  • @theotterbestis
    @theotterbestis ปีที่แล้ว +37

    It will never surprise me how dangerous some delusional people can be, it's scary af.
    Stay safe Roly ❤

  • @mollypersson4139
    @mollypersson4139 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    The mind of a stalker is a scary place. And don’t let ANYONE try to silence you Roly🥰❤

  • @rachelwhite2210
    @rachelwhite2210 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m sorry you went through this. You shouldn’t feel embarrassed by that person’s behavior. You did nothing wrong and it’s her that should be embarrassed.

  • @Rikrobat
    @Rikrobat ปีที่แล้ว +476

    I'm sorry you've had to go through so much harassment from this person, Roly. I'm so glad you have a strong support system and good friends in your corner. This sort of thing is horrific, and no one should have to go through it.

    • @SindyJ37
      @SindyJ37 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      People get goofy out on these streets and I fully agree I am glad he had a good support system ❤

    • @mkchristner
      @mkchristner ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Roly I’m sorry you’ve been harassed so much by such a crazy obsessive psychotic idiot. Congrats on finally getting some help with a restraining order and everything. I wish you the best! 🖤

  • @BrunetteGaming
    @BrunetteGaming ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As someone who has dealt with not one but two stalkers, I completely understand your fear and frustrations, Roly! She's definitely pulling a common tactic between narcissistic/abusive individuals where they try to isolate the victim. I really hope all of this gets sorted out and this crazy woman finally leaves you alone! XOXO, Stay safe ♥

  • @chillleft
    @chillleft ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Usually referring to someone as "my stalker" is still giving them what they want. You should always call them the stalker to stop that association cuz they're looking for it in any way they can

    • @Lynx112
      @Lynx112 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yeah I didn't think about it like that. Yup...the stalker!

  • @superdrwholock
    @superdrwholock ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ‘As a victim, I will not be silenced’ YESSS this is so important to talk about, it’s an awful and violating crime

  • @jennybee42
    @jennybee42 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    I remember your original video and I cannot believe it got WORSE. I'm so sorry Roly. I can only imagine how much that stress affected your day to day life. Not knowing what she actually looked like must have been terrfying. I'm glad it's over, and hopefully she gets the help she so obviously needs.

  • @yugenknows740
    @yugenknows740 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Ooh, I feel for you.... I went through a similar thing with my ex-husband. It got so bad that 7-11 clerks went out of their way to tell me what a terrible person I am. I had to go to court for the protection order and it is very traumatic. It takes years to get over a barrage of death threats. I'm glad you have a good support system.

  • @Organic_Android
    @Organic_Android ปีที่แล้ว +25

    I'm sorry but if she has tried to contact your wider circle or friends/acquaintances, that is 100% stalking. I'm glad you kept your cool and used all the evidence she pretty much gave to you, and used in your case against her👏👏👏A fully grown woman using so much energy to try and make your life hell. STALKER!!!! Disgusting. Im appalled ☹️

  • @themaxblackshow
    @themaxblackshow ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I remember speaking to this person (years ago before the first video) and I never expected her to go this far. Seeing the way you shook in this video was genuinely heartbreaking and I am so genuinely sorry that you had to go through this abuse. What she did to you was inexcusable and I am so thankful that you did see her being punished and that you feel more like yourself again. This will continue to pass and I wish nothing but healing for you. I hope that making this video and speaking about it has brought some sort of healing or closure for you. Sending you love Roly ❤

    • @ellyh2247
      @ellyh2247 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Fr, on Twitter especially in the early days she seemed like the average fan and then to watch her behaviour gradually devolve and then for Roly to talk about it on Twitter and then in the video was so disheartening because everything we saw from her public accounts was only a tiny portion of what Roly had to deal with

  • @nessa_amo8077
    @nessa_amo8077 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I’m so sorry Roly! 💔
    I had a stalker when I was young so I understand how frightening and disturbing it is.
    My stalker was so desperate he even started stalking my school!
    I’m so glad you’re okay Roly and I’m proud of you for speaking up about this. It’s not easy!
    Much love!

  • @HannaH-lm4cy
    @HannaH-lm4cy ปีที่แล้ว +5

    People underestimate the damage that stalking does and it is so often overlooked...sorry you're going through this ❤ I hope it continues to get better

  • @sofiacollina
    @sofiacollina ปีที่แล้ว +29

    i just recently rewatched that video and i felt so bad. no one deserves to go through this ❤️

  • @Mikki247
    @Mikki247 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    While it sounds like a horror story, I know how real this is and you've got great support within your community, even if we're strangers.
    Cyberstalking is terrifying and I have no idea how laws haven't caught up while we've had these things happening for 15+ years 😓

    • @madhatterline
      @madhatterline ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In the UK The Protection from Harassment Act 1997 covers specific events of cyberstalking, including fear of violence, causing serious alarm or distress to the victim. They tend to not make laws when they can adapt & update old ones. Also in 2020 Stalking Protection Orders were introduced. More needs to be done, greater training & awareness, from the police, to solicitors. There are those that are great there are those that lack understanding & training. And Cyber stalking can be tricky when a stalker knows how to cover their tracks & limit evidence. Also the police often have a threshold the victim needs to meet before a protection order is put in place, when really a person should be protected from the start. But there are champions & campaigners, such as the Alice Ruggles Trust, who continue to push things forward.

  • @everogersdownunder1242
    @everogersdownunder1242 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    As someone who has had to go through "stalking" not once, but *twice* . I completely empathise with this, Roly.
    I had to go to court 3 times for 2 seperate people, which resulted in retraining orders. But as I'm in Australia, they didn't get in as much trouble with the law like in the UK, as the laws at the time (mainly early 2000s), were just not there.
    I was chased to my workplace - where I worked with children under 6yo to babies - where they tried to get into the building. It was *so* bad that I had to leave work with a *Police escort* to get me safely home.
    I'm a cis woman and both cases were involving cis men. Men that were a lot stronger than I am, (if you can read between the lines you may get what I'm saying here).
    The 1st person also had a cache of 🔥 arms. Which, in court, they lost their licence and all of those things were removed from their home & they were not permitted to even look at one let alone touch one.
    I'm so *so* sorry you went through all of this. I do understand and I get it. Not a lot of people will understand how much of an emotional roller-coaster it is to deal with as well as how paranoid you also become.
    I'm so happy to see that you've come out the other side with such a positive attitude and also still be graceful about how you presented this update on this issue.
    Thank you for sharing. You may be helping that 1 person who needs to hear this story to help them have the courage to change their own situations.
    Love and positivity to you. 🥰💜🖤🥰💜🖤

    • @thewanderingorphan
      @thewanderingorphan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bless your heart, hon❤ that's terrifying. So glad you all are ok.

    • @everogersdownunder1242
      @everogersdownunder1242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @thewanderingorphan thank you for your kind comment. It's appreciated. About 18 years later and it still haunts me *and* they still (at times) try to find me.

    • @thewanderingorphan
      @thewanderingorphan 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@everogersdownunder1242 well I'll add your safety to my manifestation meditation today. ❤️

    • @everogersdownunder1242
      @everogersdownunder1242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@thewanderingorphan thank you. That's very sweet.
      Add Roly in there too xx

  • @michelle7480
    @michelle7480 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Oh my goodness Roly, I'm so sorry that this is what you've had to go through for 2 years! I cant even to begin to fathom what you have been going through, just with you describing what you had to do before going to functions asking for your own security or letting your tattoo artist know what's been going on with you it must of been mortifying. I'm so glad she hasn't destroyed your lovely personality, character or your drive to carry on, you are most certainly a very strong person dont let anyone drag you down. I find you totally amazing I love your style everything. Stay being you and stay strong. Love and light to you.💫 💞🌈💞🤗

  • @phlackbillip
    @phlackbillip ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Just now watching, you have my full support and I'm so sorry you've dealt with this! Being online can actually be so scary jfc

  • @DarkMoon267
    @DarkMoon267 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m so sorry you’ve had to deal with all this. My ex- best friend put me through a similar thing because she couldn’t accept I set boundaries. Roly, we all adore you and enjoy your content. You’re not alone and you have a massive support system 💚

  • @stasiacat.
    @stasiacat. ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Jesus Roly, so sorry you've been going through this all this time. its unacceptable, so vile. the stuff she's said and done is just horrific. please look after yourself, and we all support you🖤

  • @kemmie9008
    @kemmie9008 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This story is honestly quite chilling when you think about it. I hope the outcome has lifted a weight off your shoulders and that you've been able to move on positively. Good to hear that it's all been resolved, but it sucks that it happened to begin with. Sending hugs and gayness 💖🏳️‍🌈

  • @lestat13666
    @lestat13666 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    You have support from Australia Roly.
    You are articulate and intelligent, and unfortunately the world is filled with people like that person who is harassing you.
    This would be plaguing your mental health and I hope you are ok.
    Much love and support in a non weird way.

  • @Lynx112
    @Lynx112 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I'm so sorry you went through this Roly , I'm Polish, Jewish and a bisexual woman. What right minded person hates on every single little thing they find about your followers? Crazy lady! You have the support of us lot mate ❤😊

  • @moleking_
    @moleking_ ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so sorry this happened to you, you definitely didn't deserve this. I'm so happy to hear your doing better and that she did end up getting punished!

  • @tabithadearth7507
    @tabithadearth7507 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The Michael Jordan Meme that says "Stop It, Get Some Help!" comes to my mind with this situation. I'm sending many positive vibes and fan love your way Roly. I'm so sorry that you are going through this awful situation.

  • @infinitivez
    @infinitivez ปีที่แล้ว +8

    WOW, I had no idea it went this deep. What a scary thing to go through. So glad it's behind you and you got this off your chest. Hoping they stay away and learn something from this. And yes, police records are generally considered public information, so long as you ensure you don't release identifying information, which you've been more than careful to do. But really, there's no real point. We're here for you, and we don't need to get involved in any sense beyond supporting YOU. The rest is best left to authorities. Happy Hallowseve!

  • @lhproductions61
    @lhproductions61 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Glad the police took you seriously!
    The person who stalked me online a few years ago was horrifying, met on a dating site told me he killed his pets when he was young and I decided to not pursue anything he was not having it. Found all my socials and messaged me constantly, even made sock accounts to message me trying to intimidate.

  • @liss-sanedrac
    @liss-sanedrac ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The insanity! The whole ordeal sounds exhausting. I’m glad everything worked out for you, Roly.

  • @jadedarlinggg
    @jadedarlinggg ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Gosh I’m so sorry such an awful person was able to take so much from you during those times. I can’t imagine how heavy you must have felt analysing your safety all of the time. Despite it all, you remain the kindest and a bloody good person. You’re a true gem! Sending you all the love. Show yourself so much love, you deserve it. 🩵

  • @karloskookies
    @karloskookies ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the most human video I've ever seen. Always be proud of the places you can leave behind.

  • @n0thersist3r
    @n0thersist3r ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I got heart palpitations just hearing about this Roly, damn I'm sorry, this stalker sounds scary and infuriating. When abusive people threaten legal action it's so dang stressful, having to explain everything so the police understand the situation, I've had to defend myself when my abusive dad went to police over things like us trying to arrange for him to get his belongings (which 3 years later much of it is still rotting in my attic). 🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @felvkitties8
    @felvkitties8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stalkers are crazy. I've heard of even some small TH-camrs having to move and stuff because people were coming to their house and stuff. Love you Roly stay safe.

  • @heatherk1700
    @heatherk1700 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I learned from Boze to never call them “my stalker”! Call them “the stalker” saying “my” gives them the satisfaction of connection with you

  • @lizh6420
    @lizh6420 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My heart goes out to you. It's horrible to lose trust in people, I'm glad to hear things have settled down. The stalker sounds like they belong in a psychiatric unit. Thanks for the update.

  • @pyrrhicvictoly
    @pyrrhicvictoly ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Stay strong, Roly! I'm just a casual fan and I rarely comment, but I appreciate your integrity and your sense of humor. You're a good dude, and it sucks that this happened to you. Wishing you all the best ❤❤

  • @LauraForrester
    @LauraForrester ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I spent this entire video thinking “who thinks this is normal and ok behaviour?” and I finally figured out there is no easy answer to that question. She isn’t logical, mentally stable or self aware enough to understand what she’s doing.

  • @CWazBroadwayBandGeek
    @CWazBroadwayBandGeek ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So sorry you had to go through this, Roly. I’m so happy you’re speaking your truth. Stuff like what’s happened to you NEEDS to be exposed. And you’ll have my infinite and endless support, always. 💜

  • @oktobersodyssey
    @oktobersodyssey 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your experience is so horrific. I cannot imagine how terrifying. Stay strong, Roly. I'm so sorry this happened to you.

  • @madisongriffin3478
    @madisongriffin3478 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’m so sorry you had to go through this. I can’t imagine how scary that must’ve been. Take care of yourself, Roly ❤

  • @angelmidknight3119
    @angelmidknight3119 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Roly, this is absolutely scary and I am glad its over. The fact that she's a mother is most worriesome.

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I have no idea what her kid does or cope with how she is

  • @elfhchan
    @elfhchan ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Roly, I am sending you all the positive vibes and energy. This is so sad and so wrong, especially when it is done to good people who did nothing to deserve this kind of attack in the first place.
    Be strong and never let anyone bring you down 💖

  • @MausThing
    @MausThing 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    this entire situation is absolutely horrifying and an absolute nightmare, you handled this so much better than most people couldve and im so glad you’re feeling better now! i only started watching you quite recently and your videos help me a lot. again, im so sorry this whole situation happened, nobody should ever have to deal with such bs

  • @Anne44444
    @Anne44444 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm honestly so so sorry this happened to you. It must be so stressful to deal with this on a daily basis.
    Your videos are what makes me feel better when I'm anxious, and you always make me laugh. I really hope you're doing okay, and you will feel safe again

  • @gwynkaitis1259
    @gwynkaitis1259 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Stay strong Roly. A lot of us love you in a healthy way!

  • @hiddenfroggo
    @hiddenfroggo ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So sorry you went through this - really pleased you got the right result, even if it can't make up for the pain. Thank you for continuing to upload and sharing your wonderful personality :) As a final note as well - major credit to how loyal your friends were/are. You are clearly very loved!

  • @RaindanceMaggieDance
    @RaindanceMaggieDance ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I can’t stop looking at your sleeves. The colour pops so so much! Fantastic work!

  • @MashedSpider
    @MashedSpider ปีที่แล้ว +3

    How can anyone have the time and energy to stalk someone?

  • @rosalindgeorgiefenn477
    @rosalindgeorgiefenn477 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Goodness, I'm so sorry Roly... she sounds unhinged. Glad you can talk about this and have good support around you. Thank you for sharing, helps us all realise hate isn't exclusive. A toast to a better future :D

  • @Psylaine64
    @Psylaine64 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've never wanted to give you a hug more Roly. I'm so sorry all of this happened to you but thank you for explaining. I'm sure it will give a people who have had similar issues with stalkers some hope and to those that think the whole stalker thing is a bit of joke pause to think. Please take great care of you x. And of you're ever down my way hit me up for that hug

  • @TheHellthirteen
    @TheHellthirteen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Watching this has made me very grateful to you for being so nice/kind/patient when I met you and Lux a couple of years ago. I can imagine that having a strange woman approach you when you are being stalked by a woman you've never met and have no idea what they look or sound like must be quite nerve-wracking. Whilst I hope that it wasn't on your mind at the time, I hope it ended up being an OK interaction for you (I don't expect you to remember it though) and I thank you for being so pleasant and welcoming despite going through such a horrible time.
    I'm really glad to hear it's over now and I hope it remains solidly in your rear view going forward!

  • @JennaGetsCreative
    @JennaGetsCreative ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm glad you're finally feeling like yourself again! You definitely have seemed happier this year than last. I'm still so sorry that you had to go through all that. It's insane that people can take the parasocial relationship that far and then turn it nasty when it doesn't work out for them. I'm glad you've got such a good group of friends around you! At this point I don't remember who I started watching first among a bunch of you guys with channels, but I love seeing you guys appear on each others channels and knowing that all these friendly voices I keep myself company with actually all know each other. The awesome LGBTQIA+ creators from the UK group

  • @AvTheOne
    @AvTheOne ปีที่แล้ว +1

    seeing roly feel like himself again is refreshing, Im so sorry you went thru this it must have been extremely scary.

  • @MeganKugs
    @MeganKugs ปีที่แล้ว +6

    God, I’m so glad you’ve gotten through this and incredibly sorry that this shit happened. Hearing you say that you’re feeling back to yourself is amazingly good to hear. (Also, fuck yes, I’m glad this is monetized!) 💜

  • @SirLynchington
    @SirLynchington 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have to say I’m incredibly relieved they’ve been arrested and was CHARGED. I hope this saga is completely over for you and you can get back to enjoying what you do without fear of all of the abuse and insanity this person was subjecting you to constantly. I can’t imagine what I’d have done in your situation. And APPLAUSE for the opening to this video!!! STRONG ROLY!!! Wishing you well! 💖Kim

  • @SparkleLuna77
    @SparkleLuna77 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Also had to put I really needed the message at the end today. Don’t worry I know it was a message to all your fans but wanted you to know so many of your fans benefit so much from your videos. I hope she leaves you alone Roly cause you’re one of the best. Sending friend hugs to anyone who needs them today 🤗

  • @yandereskitty
    @yandereskitty ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel so bad this womans kids have to be in the same vicinity as her. She needs to get physiological evaluation and to be sent to a secure area. Her kids need put in a safe area. She is not fit to be around humanity in the state of mind she's currently living in.. i am just so sorry youve had to endure this nightmare of a creature.

  • @rebecculousrk
    @rebecculousrk ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m sorry you went through that, it sounds so stressful. I appreciate the effort you taken in sharing this story. I think it’s really important to tell people what happened because when it happens, many people find it impossible to accept that a “nice” person would actually do this crap, and also there’s a misconception that this only happens to pretty young women. It can happen to anyone, it could be an ex, an acquaintance, or even a complete stranger. It’s scary how often this predatory behavior is minimized or ignored. ❤♥️❤️

  • @sarahjanewylde4750
    @sarahjanewylde4750 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so sorry you had to go through all of this Roly! I’m glad the police took it all seriously and charged her. I’m so glad you’re doing well now and I really hope this person gets the help they seriously need! Wishing you all the best Roly!

  • @saramichele7366
    @saramichele7366 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I am so sorry this happened to you, Roly. Stay safe! We love you so much! ❤

  • @celrinn5002
    @celrinn5002 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    -I haven't even started the video yet, but JSYK: We got your back, Roly,! And we support you and wish nothing but your health and safety. One tip I remember learning about stalkers: Don't call them "your" stalker, as it grants them the advantage of feeling like they've become a part of your life/they are in a special relation to your perception of them. Instead, say "a stalker" or give them a disgusting name like "spittle cabbage" or "smegma wriggler". Hope this helps!

  • @Bat_Fiend.
    @Bat_Fiend. ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm so sorry you had to suffer all that time! It's been so long that this has been happening, and hearing about how much worse it got is just awful. I remember watching the first video at the time feeling like sadly it might end up that way. I imagine the tough dilemma between wanting to tell your truth and fearing that they might be egged on by the "attention".
    I'm relived to hear there's been legal consequences and hopefully that's the end of it. I wish you the healing and happiness you deserve! ❤

  • @richiesmom12
    @richiesmom12 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am in my late 40s and a single mother, to think of spending my time harassing a stranger online is insane to me. I have dealt with people I knew in real life like this and it was scary but at least I knew what they were and weren’t capable of, but to think she has never met you is absolutely crazy. I’m so sorry you have to go through this

  • @catbuthuman
    @catbuthuman ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I remember seeing part one of this happen in real time. I’ve been waiting for this update for a WHILE.
    Ps All the love in the world, I hope she can get the help she very clearly needs

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yeah I really wanted enough time to pass so I could do this level headed

    • @catbuthuman
      @catbuthuman ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RolyWestYT absolutely understandable. This person was/is not stable and you gotta be safe!

  • @kimberlicornell9454
    @kimberlicornell9454 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I am so sorry you went through this. I am thankful you are as strong as you are, and made it through. May this next year be filled with joy

  • @aj32769
    @aj32769 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I appreciate when you share more personal stories, along with the piercing content. Hopefully you’re well and thriving!!

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Thank you! Yes I’m all wonderful now it’s over 🥰

  • @tracy_davis
    @tracy_davis 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    In the best way possible, I hope we never get another video like this from you Roly. Im still new here, but I know for a fact you never deserved this.

  • @elizabethtreat
    @elizabethtreat ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Roly, that sounds like a terrifying and exhausting year+. Proud of you for not re-dragging yourself through all the toxic, triggering messages to make the video! I'm glad the justice system did its job, and I'm relieved to hear you've got some peace now.
    Much love, ❤️ ❤❤
    (Edited comment after watching)

  • @LaylaSpellwind
    @LaylaSpellwind 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This person is extremely lucky that Roly is the type of person who says to not harass them, to avoid them if you know them. To just stay away from them.
    With 881k subscribers (and growing!) if he wanted to, their life would be hell. Roly, you're awesome. This person you're talking about on the other hand, terrible. Sorry you had to go through any of that.

  • @yomigonzalez9870
    @yomigonzalez9870 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Stalker: Allow me to show you I'm not a stalker and I'm not crazy by finding people you don't even talk to anymore and would be impossible to find unless I stalked him.

  • @CJMactaggartknits
    @CJMactaggartknits ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My first video of yours was "stalker girl video." Thank you for the updated information. Stalking is horrible. I have had my stalker for 20 years and the police have done nothing. Banks have given my stalker CREDIT and Loans allowing him to use my HOME as collateral. It's been terrifying. I am terrified to leave my home, I have the best of the best security, but I have not slept in years. I now have a therapy dog to help with my anxiety and for protection.

  • @faithpearlgenied-a5517
    @faithpearlgenied-a5517 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Scary how social media has brought so many unhinged people out of the woodwork 😳 must have been terrifying. Stay strong ❤

  • @abouncyfrog
    @abouncyfrog ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so sorry this has happened to you. But, on the bright side, while watching this and hearing your story I realized that a person in my life is really toxic because they had so many of the same qualities and behaviors as your “person”. I’m literally just lying here re-thinking so many past experiences and realizing how my family have all swept my feelings and this person’s behavior under the rug. Thank you. This video is healing me.

  • @ryantomei
    @ryantomei ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Who in the world has that much energy to be a stalker?! Not to mention just not being a stalker because it’s fucked up, but I’m shit at even contacting actual friends and even my mom! I still have postcards from 5 years ago that I never got around to sending to my brother and nieces 🤣🤣🤣

  • @sazmullium
    @sazmullium ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m so sorry this happened to you. Thank you for the update. Just know the vast amount of us love you and your content and are not batshit insane and know where the line is!

  • @TheGiraffeacake
    @TheGiraffeacake ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, some people really think the world revolves around them. Someone should tell her she’s not the main character. Glad you’re safe and that you didn’t have to see her and give her what she wanted! X

  • @locutusofquail8426
    @locutusofquail8426 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I've had something similar happen with an in-person friend group (not online), and it feels amazing to feel seen and understood, as sad as that is. I'm sorry this happened, but thanks for posting. I hope this closes a chapter for you, and everything moves forward swimmingly.

  • @styxxdaemon8306
    @styxxdaemon8306 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I watched the original video a few weeks ago. I can't tell you how happy I am to hear that things are resolved and you have moved on from this incredibly scary situation. Love and support from across the pond 💙

  • @CuppycakeWillow
    @CuppycakeWillow 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm glad that she got punishment for her actions. Stalking is something so horrible to go through. Hopefully that's the end of it and you can close that chapter and have some peace.

  • @Organic_Android
    @Organic_Android ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I told my sister to look up your original stalker video. She was freaked out 😬 I hope you can resolve this issue with the obsessed super freak!

    • @RolyWestYT
      @RolyWestYT  ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Yes it’s all over now ❤️

    • @Organic_Android
      @Organic_Android ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@RolyWestYT Thank goodness, I'm still watching your video and it's freaking me out 😅