answering tmi GIRL TALK questions ur too scared to ask ur mom

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  • @maiphammy
    @maiphammy  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3070

    should I do more of these videos?? DM me your questions on Instagram @maiphammy! also I have a private spam account @maispammy

  • @kiwiiorlando
    @kiwiiorlando 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15091

    I think we can all agree Mai is the older sister we wish we had

  • @lilburnsierockinfuntimelif1018
    @lilburnsierockinfuntimelif1018 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4791

    “i was literally raised by youtube” SAME

  • @anoushka2351
    @anoushka2351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2452

    I like how she’s so respectful to everyone’s opinions. You go girl!

  • @samanthabarnes2020
    @samanthabarnes2020 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2830

    I got my period before we had the period talk in school and announced to my whole class that I was bleeding down there and thought I was dying. Love that for me.

    • @TheSilveryew
      @TheSilveryew 3 ปีที่แล้ว +98

      My mother thought the same. Back in the day it was really taboo and nothing of the sort had been discussed with her beforehand, so you can imagine how frightened she was when it first happened. She was, in her own words, hysterical and thought she was bleeding to death

    • @Kvngssoup
      @Kvngssoup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      I got mine in the middle of the night while watching h2o

    • @marleehill14
      @marleehill14 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Mine started the first week of summer😞😭

    • @amya1803
      @amya1803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      @@Kvngssoup LMAOOO LOVE THAT

    • @ashivau
      @ashivau 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      No because I had the talk before it happened at school and I shed tears

  • @May-il9zm
    @May-il9zm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6934

    Shaving the 🐱 is the worst thing... feels smooth and cute for like 1day THEN it grows back so fast wtf

    • @corinad9906
      @corinad9906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +813

      EXACTLY AND ITS SO SHARP UHHH ;(

    • @hazelsouttakes
      @hazelsouttakes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      RIGHTT

    • @inhle1688
      @inhle1688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +557

      right!!!! and how do you get all the way down, like i’m not a contortionist

    • @May-il9zm
      @May-il9zm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +97

      @@corinad9906 lmaooo sharp asf

    • @May-il9zm
      @May-il9zm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      @@inhle1688 ommmgg right!

  • @addisonhelfrich6678
    @addisonhelfrich6678 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4740

    Literally I thought she was 20 not 17. She looks so much older and mature then other 17 year olds

    • @kaylavaldepena181
      @kaylavaldepena181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +187

      she's mature in the right way.... it's important for girls to be taught these girl things

    • @mialines7094
      @mialines7094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thats everyone these days

    • @beverleylagunas3285
      @beverleylagunas3285 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Fr

    • @mariamebaid5071
      @mariamebaid5071 3 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Like iam 19 and she looks more mature than me she looks like a lady wait what iam a lady wtf😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @imawakemymindisalive13
      @imawakemymindisalive13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      SHE’S 17!!!

  • @krischelleguillermo7145
    @krischelleguillermo7145 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5522

    i keep forgetting that she is 17 like she’s so accomplished

  • @alexandriaann6031
    @alexandriaann6031 3 ปีที่แล้ว +893

    Don’t skip the ads is back!!!!

  • @francesca394
    @francesca394 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1735

    I'm just going to say that when I first got my period my father posted about it on Facebook.

    • @kanye4106
      @kanye4106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +566

      *cries in second hand embarrassment *

    • @danas5846
      @danas5846 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

      bruh

    • @naghamshyyab365
      @naghamshyyab365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      @@kanye4106 lol samee

    • @lucygregson9502
      @lucygregson9502 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

      ohhhhhh myyyyyy godddd i cant imagine how fucking embarassing

    • @am20828
      @am20828 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      BIG oof

  • @mishkapishka1111
    @mishkapishka1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3003

    _i wanna have friend like her_
    okay...i just wan’t friends tbh

  • @angelinalu4720
    @angelinalu4720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +779

    let’s be honest, we lowkey all needed this a lot 😭

  • @talia.roppolo2665
    @talia.roppolo2665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +872

    I love how Mai isn’t afraid to post videos even if they embarrass her. She helps out the girls so much! She is like a big sister♡︎

    • @Candyy248
      @Candyy248 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yeah I would never even try to upload videos like this v:

  • @veru3208
    @veru3208 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5189

    Why do I feel like you've been 17 for 3 years lol

    • @briok7999
      @briok7999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +61

      Bruh same like can she grow🙄🙄🙄

    • @alyssaromero7470
      @alyssaromero7470 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Omg I’m not the only one? 😂

    • @jesussonofgod2450
      @jesussonofgod2450 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

      I swear she was 17 in 2018

    • @jeffreyd508
      @jeffreyd508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      If she said "I'm 25", I would 100% have believed that

    • @oliviamulraney3474
      @oliviamulraney3474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg yes

  • @hlaaaa6726
    @hlaaaa6726 3 ปีที่แล้ว +825

    if you're second guessing sending pics, ppl in my city made a whole acc exposing girl's n0odz. so when it comes to pics, HAVE trust issues

    • @PamAbels
      @PamAbels 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      well or when it comes to pics DON'T expose others

    • @genesism.5514
      @genesism.5514 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

      Also if a person is asking you for nudes and it’s a blackmail situation where they say “If you don’t send me nudes I won’t be your bf/gf” DO NOT SEND NUDES because if they are doing that imagine if they do get your nudes they’ll black mail you with them. So be very careful with who you send them to!! Or don’t send them at all!!!

    • @kelseychumney
      @kelseychumney 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      This happened so many times it’s not even funny. Small town issues lol just don’t send pics

    • @jenn99878
      @jenn99878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      this happened in my city too. they ended making a whole website and they would comment things under the girls picture like “slut” etc. it was a shit show.

    • @kayleerivera5568
      @kayleerivera5568 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      There could also be some legal consequences which is scary. I know a 15 year old who had major consequences and it will be on his record forever. Like Mai said, BE CAREFUL!!!

  • @lunajeo3418
    @lunajeo3418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1296

    i'm older than her but i feel like she's my older sister 😂💜

  • @bellyuvi
    @bellyuvi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +442

    “I literally was raised by TH-cam” I felt that 😂✨

  • @happyhippp898
    @happyhippp898 3 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    I swear Mai Is that One girl in school that just made you feel Good when you where in a bad mood,or place i watch all of her videos and honestly there getting funnier every time she posts i love you Mai, keep up with the good work 😍😁

    • @happyhippp898
      @happyhippp898 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maiphammmy u the best girl i literally love u 😍

    • @futurecorpse1165
      @futurecorpse1165 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@happyhippp898 Is that James Charles on your profile pic when he was still in HS ......nice👌😅......he couldn’t look any better.

    • @happyhippp898
      @happyhippp898 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah lol😂

  • @letitiabotea4710
    @letitiabotea4710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +364

    she’s so underrated like CMON YALL i feel like she could be my bigger sister and best friend type of vibe you know?

  • @thickivicki89
    @thickivicki89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +344

    What’s even crazier is I feel more comfortable expressing myself online to complete strangers and getting so many different point of views from others rather than my own friends. This is amazing and I’m so glad I found your channel thank you 🙏🏼

    • @iakanep
      @iakanep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      it's because you know they won' judge you and wouldn't talk about it around you

    • @thickivicki89
      @thickivicki89 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iakanep 💯👍🏼 exactly

    • @girlfromthemountain6545
      @girlfromthemountain6545 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iakanep so true ❤️

  • @azulacx9948
    @azulacx9948 3 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    You make me feel so comfortable to be a woman, thank you so much!!

  • @aubranaedavis6350
    @aubranaedavis6350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +695

    I’m currently having pregnancy scares and it’s stressing me tf out like I’m manifesting for my cycle to start since it’s already late 😭😭😭😭

    • @kelseyninh3508
      @kelseyninh3508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      SAME

    • @aubranaedavis6350
      @aubranaedavis6350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@kelseyninh3508 I’ll pray for you sis 😭

    • @kelseyninh3508
      @kelseyninh3508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      i’ll manifest for both of us

    • @gillianleigh
      @gillianleigh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      SAME lol i’m manifesting too😭

    • @aubranaedavis6350
      @aubranaedavis6350 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@gillianleigh yes ma’am 😭

  • @alexandra6010
    @alexandra6010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +276

    I love how Mai has a whole shelf with nice ass sneakers and than on the other side of the bed a shelf with crocs !!!

  • @kth7038
    @kth7038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +226

    the difference of me being 17 and HER being 17. I swear to god I look like a 5th grade kid and she looks like an effortless model aha

  • @emofish-stick904
    @emofish-stick904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +530

    For all the younger girls seeking advice, everything Mai said is soooo good.

  • @christinamaridanao3857
    @christinamaridanao3857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    About the v-card thing, I learned that it's the hymen that contrubutes more in hurting. Being comfortable with someone also adds

    • @LunarAngel
      @LunarAngel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Foreplay too. Lemme tell y’all, lubrications HELPS. whether it’s natural or bottled ~

    • @123-c8h
      @123-c8h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@LunarAngel fore play really helps make the natural lube

    • @iakanep
      @iakanep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes. if it hurts the hymen has been broken! and it's not supposed to! so be careful. spread the word

    • @christinamaridanao3857
      @christinamaridanao3857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Hymen is not suppose to be broken? But it's natural tho as it is a tissue covering the entrance (which depends in every girl) so it's inevitable to be broken

    • @christinamaridanao3857
      @christinamaridanao3857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      An yeah lubrication does help of course

  • @teganhessey7167
    @teganhessey7167 3 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    my heart actually melted when she mentioned its ok to love who you love if your into boys or girls thank you for being such and amazing role model

  • @meaganrodeffer6691
    @meaganrodeffer6691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +351

    When shaving "down there" shave in the direction the hair grows (so if it grows done shave down), use a women or mens razor but make sure it has enough blades, exfoliate regularly like a few days before shaving and then exfoliate really well the following few days, after a shower (only on the outside) take some witch hazel on a cotton pad (it helps with redness and irritation), then after that dries take some anti itch/cortisone cream and apply it( I used to get ingrown hairs and irritation when hair grew back these two things helped so much.)
    **if there is alot of hair to start with TRIM first with scissors!!!
    **try to only go over one area twice..no more it can cause irritation and bleeding!!

    • @kenziexo5154
      @kenziexo5154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ilysm

    • @lashaespeaks4336
      @lashaespeaks4336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      witch hazel ?? I thought that irritated the skin more because of the high levels of alcohol ?? i would suggest bio oil. It works amazingly and you only need to use a little amount to get the amazing results

    • @meaganrodeffer6691
      @meaganrodeffer6691 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@lashaespeaks4336 there are certain witch hazel's with alcohol in them yes! I just didn't clarrify that. Use the one with no alcohol. But whatever works for you!

    • @lashaespeaks4336
      @lashaespeaks4336 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@meaganrodeffer6691 😁

    • @astridramirez558
      @astridramirez558 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What do you recommend for exfoliating?

  • @aprvurmom
    @aprvurmom 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    this was so informative and when she went i dont mean to say guy/boy at the beggining my bi heart just exploded

  • @carrotcheese3918
    @carrotcheese3918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    SAME. I've always searched up things like "how to make your period come faster" and stuff but I got mine in 6th grade and I regretted ever wanting my period.

    • @mayvee001
      @mayvee001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      fr😤

    • @ninathekillerfan2408
      @ninathekillerfan2408 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I googled things like “Much are pads.” I got mine in 4th, but meh. Not really important lol.

    • @elenasmith7438
      @elenasmith7438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I got mine when I was 10 almost 11 :/

    • @sumaiyaafrin5680
      @sumaiyaafrin5680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I fit mine when I was 19

    • @MS-kq3dr
      @MS-kq3dr 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same, right when i got my period at 10 i started getting pimples
      and l thought i had chickenpoxs cause they never told us about what pimples were 😃

  • @urlovemyla
    @urlovemyla 3 ปีที่แล้ว +235

    about porn: the pornographic industry it's actually really dirty and problematic, Mia Khalifa's experience its an exemple of it, most of the time, all the girls are treated like sex slaves in front of cameras, so i recommend to you guys pay for porn content like "only fans" cause the person who's doing it has total control of it.

    • @ayelmao1314
      @ayelmao1314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      true true about independent content creators but just do your research

  • @yanaw1438
    @yanaw1438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    I'm pretty sure we can all agree that she's great and that this was so helpful . you should def make a part two.

  • @isabelafoy3897
    @isabelafoy3897 3 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    'I was literally raised frm TH-cam' gurlll that's one thing I can relate tooo

  • @ainsophianair
    @ainsophianair 3 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    Mai is such a real person and that's what i'm pretty sure we all love about her. Also stay safe guys , take care

  • @abigaildean-stahl1993
    @abigaildean-stahl1993 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I absolutely love what she said about loving whoever you love, that was so sweet and considerate.

  • @mariechicot8068
    @mariechicot8068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1205

    Why is nobody talking bout the fact that 14 is sooooo young bruh

    • @dancerxo9339
      @dancerxo9339 3 ปีที่แล้ว +403

      omg fr! not tryna shame her but i was shocked

    • @snehavankineni3213
      @snehavankineni3213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +279

      Right? I’m 14 and I could never

    • @ae11aa
      @ae11aa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +123

      my sisters was 13 🤨

    • @azzyntll
      @azzyntll 3 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      @@ae11aa holy shit

    • @myrtila
      @myrtila 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

      I’m 18 and I haven’t

  • @nyalee04
    @nyalee04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    this is so funny because I was planning on watching girl talks all night today, you always know what I went😭😭

  • @nataliemathis1750
    @nataliemathis1750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Omg I love how she talks about this kind of stuff. It doesn’t make you feel awkward at all, because it’s rlly only awkward if you make it seem that way but she made all of this seem like regular stuff BECAUSE IT IS and there’s nothing to be ashamed about ❤️

  • @sydneyhays5833
    @sydneyhays5833 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Mai is literally so unproblematic, I love her.💙

    • @reginajafrida
      @reginajafrida 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m a small youtuber and i’ve been working really hard. it would mean the world to me if you could check it out (one video) and maybe subscribe !!!!

    • @albertnortononymous9020
      @albertnortononymous9020 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Losing the v-card at 14 is unproblematic?👀

  • @mageprincess1926
    @mageprincess1926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    She is the friend you can ask without fear of being ashamed or embarrassed I so want a friend like her

  • @lalalalisafan1106
    @lalalalisafan1106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    the fact that i’ve learnt more from maiphamy then from my own mom or sister rlly says sum abt my family. ngl she’s like an older sister to me i luv her🤍

  • @plsstopursosnnoying
    @plsstopursosnnoying 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    i just found this queen on TH-cam and BISS IM IN LOVE WITH THISS GIRLLL SHE A QUEEN

    • @reginajafrida
      @reginajafrida 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m a small youtuber and i’ve been working really hard. it would mean the world to me if you could check it out (one video) and maybe subscribe !!!!

  • @YM-zy4ev
    @YM-zy4ev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I feel like alot of younger girls needed answers like this and I'm glad mai answered them

  • @dannimcknight670
    @dannimcknight670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Don’t feel weird posting this!! It’s so helpful, I know all this but I still love hearing your thoughts ✨💕

  • @val-qw3bl
    @val-qw3bl 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    This helps me because in 5th grade I missed the period talk😭😂

  • @sophiacunningham8884
    @sophiacunningham8884 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    literally love this so much honestly she’s like a big sister to me that’s probably sounds so cheesy but i ain’t lying

    • @reginajafrida
      @reginajafrida 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      i’m a small youtuber and i’ve been working really hard. it would mean the world to me if you could check it out (one video) and maybe subscribe !!!!

  • @elodieducharme1952
    @elodieducharme1952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I feel like mai is the girl in high school who everybody wants to be and everyone likes, but as a person she’s genuinely a really nice person.

  • @justforfun3283
    @justforfun3283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +122

    ya know what doesn't get talked about at all. Labia length. anyone else really insecure about theirs? cuz same!

    • @kanye4106
      @kanye4106 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ikr

    • @lilyblue9025
      @lilyblue9025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Omg girl u literally spoke the truth it's so irritating whenever I look at it and it feels so wrong to have it

    • @pavender3073
      @pavender3073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      What do you mean by labia length, I've never heard of that before.

    • @justforfun3283
      @justforfun3283 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@pavender3073 well your fucking lucky

    • @xolisanda1666
      @xolisanda1666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Ikr, my friend is so embarrassed by the fact that hers is medium length and a bit wrinkly

  • @charisaariana9099
    @charisaariana9099 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i love these videos. i love that women come together and help eachother out because we are so confused. you are the best kind of people mai. older sister energy.

  • @lola-ys1hg
    @lola-ys1hg 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    i dont have like a good mom figure in my life and being a 15 year old this rly helps me so much, thank you

  • @alivia7747
    @alivia7747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    OMG I LITERALLY DID EXACTLY WHAT SHE DID I KNEW HOW TO PUT A TAMPON IN THE FIRST I GOT MY PERIOD CUZ I PRACTICED, AND ATE ALL THE FOOD TO HELP GET MY PERIOD. LMAOAOAOOAAIAO

  • @amandahuggens667
    @amandahuggens667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Growing up in an abusive home, watching videos like these really help during puberty. Thank you💗

  • @allisonterrill221
    @allisonterrill221 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank you so much for being confident to talk abt this, especially from people (including me) who didn't have a mother or a sister in my life, and had to learn all that stuff on their own.

  • @isabellavance
    @isabellavance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    me has youtube premium:
    mai: don't skip the ads to help a sis out
    me: about that...

    • @clarissadocarmo767
      @clarissadocarmo767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      is youtube premium actually worth it?

    • @isabellavance
      @isabellavance 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      yes 100% the ads are super annoying and with TH-cam premium you can go from video to video without having to watch a million ads.

  • @christinamaridanao3857
    @christinamaridanao3857 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This is really helpful for those who has no sister (like me) and mother to talk to. Thank you so much!

  • @gotmefooled
    @gotmefooled 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    i love watching mia mature as a person it makes me happy, i feel like a proud little sister🥺

  • @callieorr6660
    @callieorr6660 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think we can all agree that Mai is stunning 🤩

  • @rutha1276
    @rutha1276 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    I’ve been busy with school but I’m BACK, I’ve missed you

  • @lyllyvallance3142
    @lyllyvallance3142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    "i was literally raised by youtube" BEUH why is this literally dedicated to me because im so scared to ask anyone for help about anything if ik the person

  • @juliet-huynh
    @juliet-huynh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I’m 21 and I never know how to put a tampon on!! Thank you so much em!! I love you!🥺💛I never comment on here but you’re amazing!!

  • @juliawhiskers138
    @juliawhiskers138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    can you do more of this videos because these were super helpful and i’m always way to scared to talk to my mom about certain things!! love you

  • @tamalisahu8483
    @tamalisahu8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I remember I was so embarrassed when I first got my periods and didn't realise that I was making the bed sheets dirty 🙂
    To be honest I am very lucky to find this channel cause as she says nobody else can be very open like her.. And she speaks the truth. She is 1 year younger than me but she is my savior.. Like before that i was really confused about how to shave down below and i got the answer here.. Thanks!!!

  • @jaylanorwood1688
    @jaylanorwood1688 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    what's crazy is you're 17 and i'm 16 yet i literally look up to you so much and it feels like to me at least that you are 20! You are just really independent, work hard, and are just confident like you aren't 17!!!!

  • @xo_kristenjade
    @xo_kristenjade 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I was literally just apreciating how beautiful she is 😍
    This video is also super Interesting love to see more Content like this💕

  • @jordann.222
    @jordann.222 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    mai you make me so comfortable with myself. i constantly feel alone because i have nobody to talk to about this kind of stuff so you talking about it like we’re close friends is amazing. you look and act almost exactly like my big sister and i haven’t seen her in a few years and i really miss her so your videos make me feel so happy and so much closer to her. i love you so much and i really appreciate you.

  • @mathepm5296
    @mathepm5296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i love listening to her, literally the sister I’ve never had, please keep making videos like this, you’re helping a lot of us, thank u :)

  • @bloopbloop5243
    @bloopbloop5243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I honestly appreciate this because I am the older sister to a younger sister and all my older cousins aren’t close to me and it’s hard for me to be the older sister so thank you so much for this :) I wish I had an older sister haha. You’re the older sister I’ve wanted and needed 💕

    • @issy8266
      @issy8266 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same it's so harsh being a "older sister: I'm so glad I can kinda have like a sister lol

  • @compdump2215
    @compdump2215 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Hi Mai, i know you say you read all your comments, i don’t know if you’ll see this but thank you. I’m turning 18 this year and seeing you helps me w/ feeling more confident about growing up and moving onto a new chapter :)

  • @embadjor
    @embadjor 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    ok now we ESPECIALLY need a part 2. this is a series I never knew I needed !

  • @haleygreybill1835
    @haleygreybill1835 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’ve watched your videos for years and you still are my favorite on TH-cam!!! I think what’s so great about you is your transparency with your viewers/fans. You are great and keep doing what you do!!😊💗

  • @raeofsunshine1249
    @raeofsunshine1249 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Literally love that this feels like an older sister talk I wont ever actually get (only child) but fr this is so comforting

  • @moonlitchi11d
    @moonlitchi11d 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Yesss i was waiting for this video lol, hope everyone has a great day and be safe please!!!

  • @helo7952
    @helo7952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    yess, please do a part 2... this videos help soo much and the way ur so open and explain everything so well is very helpful

  • @giulidelai
    @giulidelai 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ok, this has nothing to do with the video, but I'm brazilian and I study english since I was a kid but I've always had a difficulty to understand english speakers, but I'm watching your video without subtitles and I'm literally understanding everything that ur saying and I'm just so proud of myself rn!!!!!

  • @raventahh
    @raventahh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    I LOVE U IM IN CHEMISTRY RN LMAO

    • @raventahh
      @raventahh 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      And this is why my dumbass is failing because I be watching your videos in class 😭🤠

    • @sabrinaswanson1544
      @sabrinaswanson1544 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hahaha I’m in pe rn

    • @kristianabayutas6879
      @kristianabayutas6879 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabrinaswanson1544 lmao im in english

    • @salamatoure6001
      @salamatoure6001 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sabrinaswanson1544 same lol

  • @vickyvanna
    @vickyvanna 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    you’re seriously so cute!!! i was bored doing laundry but now i have company. thank you mai ♡

  • @rachellelirette1227
    @rachellelirette1227 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m 12 and my best friend’s younger sister who is 11 got her pictures leaked. And I remember I got questioned by the police for it and the police said she got pressured to sending them and the guy that pressured her got suspended. So basically don’t send them and they won’t get leaked.

  • @rachelizeevi5509
    @rachelizeevi5509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    you literally like the big sister I wish I had so thank you for that luv you

  • @kai-aya8110
    @kai-aya8110 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I would love more girl talks!
    Edit: I just though of a question! How do you deal with social pressure to look and act a certain way? What are some tips to help others feel more comfortable and not pressured to change because society says that they should change?

    • @iakanep
      @iakanep 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      in these coming day and age, we are seeing so much progress with people freeing themselves from the societal pressures. Use this fact to help boost your confidence, I see so many of them online as well so you can surely find inspiration and encouragement. Also just remember that you really won't see anyone from your highschool etc after it's over. That's a fact I have just finished high school and really never see anyone from high school (it's great).

    • @123-c8h
      @123-c8h 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@iakanep same in the U.K. we finish school at 16, before we move and go into further ed and omg it was GREAT when I left everyone behind and got to start fresh

    • @tinalove4324
      @tinalove4324 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah!!

  • @soulxerii1143
    @soulxerii1143 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    ur dress is so adorable you look so pretty in this video

  • @hayatpatel5418
    @hayatpatel5418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Heyyyyy as soon as i saw a notification that you posted i clicked straight away!

  • @londonstewart519
    @londonstewart519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’m growing up so much so I need these notes to gather. 😂 thanks mai for being like my sister love ya

  • @pennygadget5243
    @pennygadget5243 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    honestly i dont know why i watch those "too scared to ask your mum" vids since my mum explained about periods to me since i was 5, and told how a baby happens since i was nine, and she helped me wax my down there since i was 11.

  • @ss2879
    @ss2879 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Honestly i am not even teen anymore but i am here watching this coz its relaxing it felt like i was chatting with my sis ❤😘

  • @hearts444destiny
    @hearts444destiny 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mai is literally posting so much now and i'm all the wayy here for it!!!

  • @sophxii614
    @sophxii614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    my grandma never talk abt safe sex, puberty, periods, etc with my mom. She ended up being a teen mom with 2 kids, 3 as of now. Im the only girl, the other 2 are boys. My mom always avoided talking abt periods and stuff bc her mom did the same thing to her. i found out abt it all on youtube and school- (shes becoming better with talking abt it and im proud of her

  • @leahromero1670
    @leahromero1670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Don’t send pictures! Guys say they won’t show no one. They show everyone and will start rumors. Plus if he cares for you. He won’t ask for it. But if he’s with you just for pictures and stuff your not ready for. Leave. There is absolutely no rush. Love your videos Mai 🙂

  • @joselynlopez2321
    @joselynlopez2321 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Thank you this helps a lot! 😊 you make us girls more comfortable while talking about the things we are all probably embarrassed to ask our mom/ sister. Thanks for teaching me how to use a tampon I was trying to figure out how to use it and I was really embarrassed to ask my mom.

  • @litz11
    @litz11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I actually like these typa videos I don’t have a big sister or any type of female figure I can talk to &’ you were so open it made me comfortable 🥰

  • @vrindanair7
    @vrindanair7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    U literally answered all my questions...love u mai

  • @dikramohamedelfallah4968
    @dikramohamedelfallah4968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Girl, thank you so much for this i felt like this was a conversation with my sister, i don't have one but you really explained everything that a girl should know 🙏❤

  • @prisha4713
    @prisha4713 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please don't ever stop making these videos, I couldn't be more thankful to you

  • @samanthaadjetey2213
    @samanthaadjetey2213 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Was feeling down about school and this lifted my mood thanks Mai❤

  • @hadassahgrossman8365
    @hadassahgrossman8365 3 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    mai: i was so excited to get my period
    me: sameee, everyone else in my class had gotten it and i literally screamed in joy. then the cramps came. shit

  • @_steri_1685
    @_steri_1685 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    10:57 I recommend using daily pads so it won’t get dirty, but you have to change them in a few hours or when it got dirty. You might still get a little spot next to it since the daily pads are not that big.

  • @ashleedanielle5778
    @ashleedanielle5778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I love how honest and caring she is and how she’s able to be mature with it

  • @astro9089
    @astro9089 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    this is definitely what i needed to hear when I was like 14 LMAO

  • @Tatycharmz
    @Tatycharmz 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg oso true about the pics. I learned after years of experience. The best guys don't ask, it's sounds unreal but it's true in my last. Thank you Mai for giving good helpful advice to all girls

  • @charlotteriach6963
    @charlotteriach6963 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Imagine Mai being a mum, I would literally die for that

  • @miasyoutube5055
    @miasyoutube5055 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Mai! I just wanted to say I am literally so happy to be one of your subscribers and you honestly make me feel so much more confident because you're so willing to connect with your viewers and just relate to peeps! Love you the mostest