It Took Me 36 Years to Uncover the Impact of This Trauma 🧠✨

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  • @romankistler6651
    @romankistler6651 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thanks for sharing your thoughts, your vulnerable site and stories about your life. It takes courage to do it, especial in public.
    I like the process of listening to each others, thinking and asking yourself and arguing with each other about it. And I'm convinced talking about issues and challanges in your life with others, can help each site a lot. It doesn't always need to be a talk with a thereapist. Most important are questions, which provoke you to think. Therefore, as long as a talk includes many questions, either to yourself or from the oponent, the process is started....
    Besides that showing empathie helps youselfe and the other site. Helping others can be that easy and fullfilling.....
    Regarding your questions for comments about what you shared. I start of, with explaining a bit my perspective of religions and terms they use. I prefere terms which don't remindin people on religions, because the most people have opinion or experiences about such terms which are biased. And I think most of them not positive. Therefore I prefere an approach like Eckhart Tolle is using > using as much as possible terms which don't relate to any beliefe system. As he is doing for example in this video: th-cam.com/video/r8m8zsfF9jk/w-d-xo.html
    On the other site religion can also offer a lot of good approaches, how to deal in a good way with life and the challanges of it. By providing advices and best practice for our day to day life.
    For instance praying and beeing grateful. Short ago I started to thank for the food before eating or while in case I forgot it at the beginning.
    This allone changes a lot. It gives me a good feeling for the food and more gratefullness. Which is an amazing feeling and booster for my life.
    To your points of reflection:
    1. Many have shaped it, some more and some less. One is: Not talking about conflicts with others. Which happens in my point of view to much in our society. And can delay our personal development a lot. Another one is beeing in the hamster wheel in life, with many aspects of life. For instance doing what others do, but is not fullfilling for you.
    2. I approach it by using different tools like Yoga, Meditation, silence retreats, talking with people I can trust, listen and learn from spiritual leaders like: Eckhart Tolle, Goenka, Sadhguru and some practical psychologists like Jordan Peterson or Robert Betz. Most important for me is: To set personal growth as prio 1, be open, patient with you and stay positive. Have soft or process targets and not figure targets > like I want to be able to climb mountains with 70 and not I want to climb the mount everest.
    3. Faith is important for me. But also a way, with a lot of work, since I'm skeptical and open for any perspective by nature ;-). This means I have to make up my mind first, go through the different arguments and also use my own experience in life. If I experienced myself that something works, I know it deeply myself and will continue keep doing it and it pays of at the end. If not, I mostly have troubles after some time, sticking to faith and I'm not able to overcome those challanges.
    Finally, I want to mention, that I realized again, how much communicating with others can help, no matter how.
    A lot of us grew up in a society which was not doing it often.
    And the best about it, is that it helps both sites. We can simply start it, by beeing open. Others will open up as well....
    Therefore again, thank you Nate a lot for starting this process.

    • @Unfiltered_Nomad
      @Unfiltered_Nomad  วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thank you for your thoughtful and insightful comment. I truly believe that openness is the first and most important step toward the freedom we all seek. Nobody can truly feel free while hiding their true self.
      Below, I’ve outlined the points where I think our perspectives differ slightly. For all the other points not mentioned, I fully agree with you.
      On Religion and Bias:
      I agree with your observation that religion can sometimes trigger bias in people. However, I think it’s important to delve into why that bias exists. You mentioned negative experiences, and I agree they can heavily shape perceptions. That said, it’s often not the religion itself that causes harm-it’s the way people interpret and live it out.
      For instance, I’ve experienced moments of deep disappointment with individuals within my own religion (Christianity). There was even a time when I questioned my faith because I mistakenly equated people’s actions with the teachings of the religion. Over time, I realized that while people might fail, the core of the faith-God, Jesus, and the principles of Christianity-remains good and unchanging.
      So, when negative experiences occur, I’ve learned to separate the actions of individuals from the essence of the teachings. In the end, I believe religion has done far more good than harm. Unfortunately, negativity often garners the most attention, while the quieter, positive impact of faith often goes unnoticed.
      On Eckhart Tolle’s Approach:
      I watched the video you shared, and I found it interesting and thought-provoking. While Tolle’s teachings hold value, I see a few key differences between his approach (which leans toward Buddhism) and Christianity. Here are some points where our perspectives might diverge:
      Context of Teachings: Tolle’s interpretation often lacks the broader context of what Jesus said in the Bible.
      1. Focus on Presence: His teachings center around mindfulness and presence, whereas Christianity emphasizes faith, doctrine, and the promise of salvation in addition to mindfulness.
      2. Interpretation of Jesus: Tolle leans toward a metaphorical and psychological understanding of Jesus’ words, while Christianity also incorporates literal interpretations.
      3. Salvation vs. Self-Work: Christianity teaches salvation through grace, whereas Tolle’s approach emphasizes personal enlightenment through individual effort.
      4. Blending Religions: While there’s value in learning from other faiths, blending teachings without understanding their full context can sometimes feel confusing or overly simplified.
      That said, I do believe we can draw meaningful lessons from other religions and traditions without losing sight of our own beliefs.
      On Faith and Effort:
      I think our views diverge slightly here as well. You mentioned that faith requires a lot of work. For me, faith is about trusting in what we cannot see and releasing the need to control. It’s like a child asking their parent for a gift. The child trusts the parent will provide it at the right time and in the best way, without working hard or worrying about it.
      Faith, to me, is about that same trust-believing that God will take care of things in His perfect time and way. It’s not about striving but about resting in that trust.
      Does this mean we can be idle and do nothing? Not at all. It means shifting our perspective from striving to praising. We do what we can with what we have, but with a mindset of gratitude and praise, rather than struggle or desperation.
      One of my favorite person, that in my opinion explains and simplifies the concept of christianity, grace and Jesus best, is Joseph Prince. He is on Spotify:
      open.spotify.com/show/5pOshWPwZwAaZjbVk0MaD1?si=b705e78324d94a38
      I hope it was an interesting read for you and look forward to a continous discussion. :)

  • @saleembalti-k6f
    @saleembalti-k6f 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Looking handsome ❤

    • @Unfiltered_Nomad
      @Unfiltered_Nomad  11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thanks, trying to stick to your level 😀

    • @romankistler6651
      @romankistler6651 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Unfiltered_Nomad
      Thanks for sharing your thoughts, your vulnerable site and stories about your life. It takes courage to do it, especial in public.
      I like the process of listening to each others, thinking and asking yourself and arguing with each other about it. And I'm convinced talking about issues and challanges in your life with others, can help each site a lot. It doesn't always need to be a talk with a thereapist. Most important are questions, which provoke you to think. Therefore, as long as a talk includes many questions, either to yourself or from the oponent, the process is started....
      Besides that showing empathie helps youselfe and the other site. Helping others can be that easy and fullfilling.....
      Regarding your questions for comments about what you shared. I start of, with explaining a bit my perspective of religions and terms they use. I prefere terms which don't remindin people on religions, because the most people have opinion or experiences about such terms which are biased. And I think most of them not positive. Therefore I prefere an approach like Eckhart Tolle is using > using as much as possible terms which don't relate to any beliefe system. As he is doing for example in this video: th-cam.com/video/r8m8zsfF9jk/w-d-xo.html
      On the other site religion can also offer a lot of good approaches, how to deal in a good way with life and the challanges of it. By providing advices and best practice for our day to day life.
      For instance praying and beeing grateful. Short ago I started to thank for the food before eating or while in case I forgot it at the beginning.
      This allone changes a lot. It gives me a good feeling for the food and more gratefullness. Which is an amazing feeling and booster for my life.
      To your points of reflection:
      1. Many have shaped it, some more and some less. One is: Not talking about conflicts with others. Which happens in my point of view to much in our society. And can delay our personal development a lot. Another one is beeing in the hamster wheel in life, with many aspects of life. For instance doing what others do, but is not fullfilling for you.
      2. I approach it by using different tools like Yoga, Meditation, silence retreats, talking with people I can trust, listen and learn from spiritual leaders like: Eckhart Tolle, Goenka, Sadhguru and some practical psychologists like Jordan Peterson or Robert Betz. Most important for me is: To set personal growth as prio 1, be open, patient with you and stay positive. Have soft or process targets and not figure targets > like I want to be able to climb mountains with 70 and not I want to climb the mount everest.
      3. Faith is important for me. But also a way, with a lot of work, since I'm skeptical and open for any perspective by nature ;-). This means I have to make up my mind first, go through the different arguments and also use my own experience in life. If I experienced myself that something works, I know it deeply myself and will continue keep doing it and it pays of at the end. If not, I mostly have troubles after some time, sticking to faith and I'm not able to overcome those challanges.
      Finally, I want to mention, that I realized again, how much communicating with others can help, no matter how.
      A lot of us grew up in a society which was not doing it often.
      And the best about it, is that it helps both sites. We can simply start it, by beeing open. Others will open up as well....
      Therefore again: Thank you Nate for starting this process👍