This video is for those who try so hard to fit into a rare archetype that doesn't come naturally. This video is very important!! That description was very accurate and I liked how you mentioned that this archetype comes naturally.
So glad we are focusing on our womanhood and growth. I was getting tired of the dusty conversations. Once we come into our own....nothing can deter us.
2022 Ladies we are walking in Feminine Energy ✨ along with healing , growing , and becoming the best version of ourselves. Hope everyone have a safe and happy new year 🙏🏽❤️
Yes. This is a 1000% on point After high school I had to stop being friends with all my female friends bcuz I realized that they were using me to either meet men or for business motivation I went ghost for years Got into my career and have nothing but boss friends around me No competing …no one asking what are you wearing They have their own vibe and all own it All shades of the melanin rainbow and stop traffic and have men running to open the doors The funny thing is all my guy friends always stayed true. Same guy friends since elementary school. My grandmother was the ultimate goddess in my eyes Effortless beauty, kind, smart, married (and spoiled by her husband and everyone) and could stop the world w her dimples
I don’t think everyone can be a goddess or a queen. That’s why there are princess and other titles available, and that’s ok. I feel like goddess are born this way, even if they had to learn. It’s within, from birth .
@@jaylaav1166 actually yes it is , everyone is not born with enchanting beauty , y’all seem a little jealous that y’all aren’t goddesses 🤷🏼♀️ that’s the energy I’m getting
@@ashleighlenora8842 from the looks of it I can definitely see why you call yourself that , you almost look like riri girl 😂 but seriously you’re beautiful
I actually do get the attention of a goddess but I have a lot of self-work before I will be fully able to step into it and thrive. As always, love your content!!
Unfortunately the goddess is my Archetype. There’s great things about it like being highly desired by men, being able to get what you want and free stuff. But it’s a another thing when women secretly hate you and try to Sabotage you within your own family and even at work.
A lesson learned for all my younger ones: when you keep thinking “but I’m not doing anything,” when some female friends seem jealous or you have so much attention from boys; please know it’s because you don’t HAVE to (do anything). You were born with this energy. Respect it, learn about it, treasure it, and you will avoid the shadow aspects that can derail your life. Another awesome video Chloe! 🌻🐝🍯 I remember when I came into knowing. I was in my early 20s and heard some ladies in an elevator talking about how chivalry was dead and realized, really starkly, that I had the exact opposite experience. Men who were loved ones as well as strangers had been nothing but dutiful, giving, and respectful in relation to me….to this day. That’s when I realized I was living with access to a different vibration. And when I met another goddess for the first time, it was magic. ✨
I’m definitely NOT the goddess archetype. As much as I used to want to believe I was I knew in my heart I was not. And that’s okay. As you mentioned, there are plenty other archetypes and valuable feminine qualities aside from the goddess. I do agree that’s it’s important to be realistic about what archetype you are and who you are in your femininity so you can better develop the natural qualities you already possess. I have a friend who actually embodies the goddess archetype. Men fall over themselves to get to her all the time and she doesn’t even have to try. It never fails 😂 She literally gets anything she wants without any resistance. I love it! 😭 I NEVER hate on her or try to compete with her because I admire what she brings to the table as a woman and I am confident in my feminine qualities. 🙌🏿 Great video! 🤎
A good movie that shows the bad/good side of being a goddess is Malena, with the goddess herself, Monica Bellucci. It showed how men & young boys objectified her and how the women outright hated her to the point of violence.. Great video Chloe!
I use to not wear certain clothes around certain people or not try to look as good so these women would feel comfortable around me! So crazy I use to dull my light to make other people feel comfortable. They would ask me where I was going? Trying to be funny b/c I like to dress. Not my fault I look good and bring the boys to the yard 💅🏽🤷🏽♀️
I literally had that happen to me in the “hood” I literally was wearing a pink skirt a puffer coat and trainers. The cashier looked me up and down and was like “where you going all dressed up?” I did not know this lady and literally looked basic
This is so true. I went to an event yesterday and I got so much attention from the men, one actually gave me a gift of pink champagne and a bottle of white rum for being pretty ☺️ My friend is 7 years younger, beautiful and much slimmer than me but didn’t get hardly any attention. I haven’t always known about or owned my goddess status but now at age 47 I’m taking full advantage, whilst avoiding narcissistic men! Thank you for such wisdom Chloe, I love your content 💚
Cassy, girl tell me your secret. Still curious about that Goddess energy(even though I identify with Girl-Next-Door). Did you change the way you dress? Did you change your hair? What self-love steps did you take??? Enquiring minds wanna know!😄
I've attracted doctors, engineers, business owners without trying but my self esteem was never up to par with what I attracted. So I am here to learn...
You nailed it !!!! I do not know where to start commenting . Other women will hate and create gossip about the goddess in order to bring her down , yet they will copy her ideas and creativity !
I thought I was the diva but as you said in the beginning, The Goddess are often mistaken for being a diva simply because she’s beautiful, confident, and alluring. I am The Goddess. Jealousy is the story of my life but I am taking my power back from every envious person who tried to destroy me due to their own insecurities!!
This is the sad true of it all...Is even difficult to get a date cuz men always think that your occupied. Or if they find out you are single, they think automatically that something is wrong with you. Cuz how can someone so beautiful be single?🙄Hating by alot of women, even family and even men get intimidated. It is now easy to be a Goddess
From a mans perspective, having a gorgeous woman can be too much to handle. The constant fights with other men who are too disrespectful, knowing that when not around, countless men be in your ear daily, your female friends have male friends that try for the #1 spot, wealthier men just volunteering thousands of $$ to you. As soon as the inevitable arguments occur you have 100+ male shoulders to cry on. Its not your fault for being blessed. But its hurtful to a young man. Now when it comes to middle age men who already been through it, hurt, cried, etc. we arent fazed at all by the disrespect. lol good luck!!
Chloe this has literally been my life since middle school at home and with friends. I'm 26 now black sheep in my family with little to no girlfriends and learned my archetype this year it's been such a painful journey but with your videos, lots of therapy lol and other women on TH-cam like you I've learned to move accordingly thank you so much!
My best friend is this archetype. I think a part of your feminine journey is not to jealous of someone’s alluring energy. Just live in your own. She taught me that. ❤️💫 I look forward to your other videos I’m not sure which one I am yet even though I lean towards the mystic
*There are perks but, I can say the hardest thing about being the Goddess archetype is the being taken seriously. I work in the accounting field & every time I start a job I try to "dumb down" my looks so I can be taken seriously & since it is a female-dominated field it can be a struggle to convince your co-workers that your merit & not your looks got you here.*
And if your looks helped get you where you are much easier so what! The game is to always work smarter not harder. Don't let those dust maggots spew their insecurities onto you. Thrive in your beauty.
I work in banking and this is spot on. I recently quit because it became too much for me coming from the other women how do you handle the isolation? I'm pretty much alone 99% of the time it takes a toll on me some days
I’m definitely a Goddess archetype, Chloe has literally read me in 11 minutes….. I did not realize this until a few years ago. The downside to it can be horrific, I’ve been through it all except passed around, the Aquarius in me keeps me loyal until no end.
This me to a T. I always felt this but I could not see it or believe it due to my trauma filled upbringing 😢 I was in the girl next door until my 27 birthday when life HIT. Through my spiritual self discovery journey and you @chloe 🤗 I have been soo much happier and more comfortable embracing the Goddess I truly am. No spiritual attack rather man, friends, family, work etc can touch me, I am one of one. Thank you 💕♥️
I’ve always been naturally feminine, since a young girl. I used to often wonder why I was how I was in comparison to other women. I stick out like a sore thumb for my looks and personality. I truly love being sexy, alluring, sensual and super feminine without effort. Thank you Chloe for letting me understand my Goddess Archetype ❤️
It is really difficult it is to find something genuine when you fit this archetype. It's just lustful men & female friendships barely work out no matter how hard you try. I won't lie and say I don't enjoy pretty privilege but I really hate that I can't do anything without being objectified - even on days when I look my worst. I even more so hate that I can't be respected or taken seriously until I become mean or hard, and I hate having to drift from my softness and kindness cos that takes me out of my natural character. I know looks matter but I wish more people would appreciate character, kindness, acts of goodwill and intelligence over appearance!
Crap! I might be this archetype too. I never felt comfortable around men and I will never. It's always the lustful looks and comments that I find such a turn off.
@@silmsadie the lustful looks and comments, chileeee!! 😭 I think it's worse when you think you found someone who ACTUALLY likes you for who you are but it turns out he's like most the other men you've encountered!
I could've written this myself! The being taken seriously part. Ppl think you're just something pretty to look at and that's all there is to you. Like hey, I do have a working brain, gifts and talents that don't revolve around my outer beauty. not complaining about having pretty privilege bc there are benefits, but there are downsides to it as well.
Thank you for this! I’ve always felt connected to this archetype and experience a lot of the traits and encounters it comes with. I just have so many blockages that are holding me back from truly stepping into this role, but I will continue to work on my healing and hope that one day everything will change and I will feel like the goddess I truly know I am. ❤️
I’ve never had problems with attracting men but I noticed that I attracted more very charismatic men… which I’m grateful for. To me femininity is about self care and integrity. Thanks for this wonderful and insight insightful video. And happy new yr to all 🥂✨✨✨
I wish I could just post a voicenote coz I have so much to say. After listening to this video I can confidently say that this is my feminine archetype. The unwanted attention is exhausting to deal with. I used to dress like a boy to hide myself. The other downside is that often guys just want to live out their fantasies instead of listen to me. I feel like this archetype is likely to encounter a misogynist person who strongly feels entitled to breeding this kind of woman. But natural beauty has it's perks. It costs less for me to maintain my looks. It also ironically gives me a sense of confidence when I get dolled up. I agree with Chloe when it comes to authenticity. Sometimes my friends and I wear each other other's clothes and imitate each other but it always looks off and we see that each of us has a unique look that's works perfect for them. But the jealousy though... lol I was once calle the b word by a girl at school coz I spoke to her crush. Like fr I've never understand how people can be triggered just by looking at me. Or how they become surprised if I say something really smart. Unless I waer my glasses I usually don't get taken seriously. Being a beautiful woman with real thoughts and opinions is apparently not a great combination for a lot of these guys outchea. This video helped clarify what kind of person I'd be better suited with. Anyway happy holidays everyone. Hope you're having a great time with family and friends 🤗😘💜 thanks Chloe for this informative video. I'm looking forward to the rest of this series. I won't be surprised if I closely resonate with another archetype. I tend to be confused about what I am sometimes.
@@sarahb6758 omg that's terrible. It's girls reacting to how unfair it is for us to easily get attention not knowing the burden it comes with. We'll get judged if we don't act lady like around these guys and we'll get called horrible names if we refuse to give anyone attention. Either way it's our fault. There's no sympathy for pretty women. That's why sometimes I feel that pretty privilege is not exactly a privilege for all pretty people.
I used to feel that same way when I was younger That being beautiful was a curse And I would try to dim Myself but it never worked It sometimes is a curse when you’re not fully aware of who you are bcuz you will attract narcissistic people (men and women) Men will try to date you just to say they dated you And mistreat you when you’re goddess energy And the women will solely be your friend to get men attention and try to take those guys. But it never works bcuz it’s something about you not them I always knew who I was but as I started getting older I embraced me even more And eliminated the toxic waste Keep glowing up 👑
Oh wow! This is so me! It’s like an blessing and a curse. I get called a hoe because I attract wealthy men that have a level of respect for me not out hoeing so they put me on a pedestal. I get women that try and copy my style and join together to bash me, slander my name. Narcissist men who couldn’t keep me try and shame, demean and make me jealous by going for the downgrade. When I laugh at them they get mad at the downgrade. The downgrade gets mad because she put so much effort into becoming me. Then on the other end, many men always look at me as being in a relationship, yet I be sitting at home bored and single as the last cookie in the jar that’s hard to reach. 🤦🏽♀️💜💜☺️
Awww. I’ve been there sis The best thing to do is go solo and embrace loving your own company One day you will meet other goddesses who don’t compete w you but compliment you But until then don’t alway anyone to tarnish your shine. It will take too much elbow grease to get the original luster back Stay safe and keep being you
The pedestal is so lonely. My mother was a trophy wife, my father wouldn't let her work. He did all the grocery shopping, didn't want her to be seen by potential rivals. Only company was a dog he bought her until she had children. I learned a lot from her story and tried to hide my goddess energy to avoid her fate. I became a doormat to have friends, I gained weight so people would trust me. But after a while.... you have to be you. And to hell with fake friends!
Love this series!👍🏼 ..I feel like MOST women thinks they're a goddess but in reality are average/basic & over compensating trauma by being overtly sexual & bossy.
Wow, I thought something was wrong with me and I was doing something unconsciously…. I’ve always had these struggles and still do… I’m at the point where I just have to embarrass it while sticking to my standards and boundaries. I definitely have to have secure females in my life in order to have a friendship and I realized I’ve always dated secure men and that’s what I need. I dated an insecure man and let’s just say never again. I also changed how I dress, I dress more conservative anything less I’m overly sexualized. It’s a struggle. People always ask me what do I do to these men because when I’m ready to walk away they have a hard time with letting go and go to extreme length to receive my energy. I’m mindful of that as well, I had 1 stalker situation and I realized my power and how I can’t give me to just anybody.
I’m not sure if I’m the goddess type (they are hard to come by) but I relate to a lot of things mentioned in this video. I developed my curves at the age of 15 and have been considered “body goals” for the majority of my 20’s. I’ve had three life changing relationships with narcissistic men, one of them spread lies about me to his fraternity that resulted in a lack of respect on their end. I get compliments about my femininity from different men. And I’ve experienced a lot of hatred from other women that I could never understand because I try to be nice and understanding to everyone, until I’m tested… then you’ll see a different side of me. Btw I’m team Virgo ♍️
First of all , I appreciate the quality of these pictures and thank you for the effort you put into your videos ! A true virgo ♍ I am the goddess archetype and unfortunately I am starting to embrace it now. For along time , I use to fight the attention because I grew up being told that I was a seductress so I did everything to self sabotage my relationship with men !
I am the girl next door for sure, I love these archtypes and when you mention women who represent these archtypes it truely makes sense. my culture and upbringing made sure that I was always in my femenine and I thought all women were but when I moved to the US I understood every one of your videos. I love them and I cant wait for more videos
You had me in the first half! Thought I was the goddess archetype, however, I only attract ashy dust mites and receive envy from equally ashy women without any effort 🥴
I’m a goddess archetype and it’s annoying 🤦🏾♀️🤣 I know, “oh you’re complaining about pretty privilege?” Yes. Y’all don’t understand how happy I was about the pandemic. Because I could put a hat on and a mask and all people could see was my eyes. This still didn’t stop men from coming up to me and asking me out, but it was less than usual. I just want to be left alone sometimes.
I'm 100% the Goddess! and the Princess too! I get sooo much attention without trying. But as you said there's the good and rhe bad, most women are so envious and some men objectify and look at me as a trophy to show to their male friends. I used to hate ro actually been seen as just beautiful but know Im using it to my advantage and getting more dept as a woman.
Thanks Chloe for this video this really hit home for me I'm definitely the goddess prototype naturally and it is the gift and curse Thank you for breaking down the dark side of it so on point.
Omggggggg this is so crazy! As always your very virgo self be reading! Ive missed all the series in this valuable lesson but im definitely going to play catch up! Im just realizing my goddess role! Ive always marched to my tune and everyone else clamored to be around me. Ive loved the sound of my own beat to the point i never compared myself. I always want everyone to find their inner bliss and never understood the unnecessary turmoil that people thrive off of keeping going. Im so excited about this woman im becoming! Thanks for the confirmation ❤
Yes, Chloe, bosses are the best, especially if they see a woman as a muse to their success. The feminine mystique continues to intrigue men even when your looks start to fade. It's like a super power! But feeling lonely as a goddess is true and envy comes at you all the time. It's best if you work from home or not at all. Workmates can be evil. I have a few close friends who love me and hate me at the same time. There's nothing I can do about that. One friend forbade me from coming to her house because her husband was so excited to see me. This hurt me because I would never cheat on a friend. But maybe only goddesses follow the sister code because they attract men all the time. Less competitive.
Love it! This is going to be a great series! Although I drew upon great inspiration from the Goddess archetype in my level up period of my life. My feminine power lies elsewhere.
Yes on getting a lot of attention from high earning men👀. Yes on attracting a high number of narcissistic men!😖 And thankfully, I am unaware of any jealousy from female friends☺️
Great video Chloe! People tend to not agree with me but Gal Gadot is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen so I’m glad you mentioned her in this topic.
Thank you for pointing out that being in goddess energy can attract shallow and narcissistic people that really just want to siphon that energy from you rather than cultivate their own. It’s hard to walk around in that energy when you were not raised with emotionally affirming adults around you. I love that scene on American Gods when this ancient goddess, Bilquis/Queen of Sheba, was a hobo sleeping on the streets and looked up at a tv through a store window and saw her temples being ruined on the news in Ethiopia. I related to that moment very deeply and metaphorically. I am meeting my own needs now (so that I am not in need of ‘worship’ or needy) and requiring those who want to enter my temple to bring offerings of value and quality, Asé✨
I am definitely the Goddess archetype, I have several sisters who are all pretty. Some of their boyfriends/girlfriends have told them that "All of your sisters are pretty but [insert name] is SEXY". I've only had one of my friends [Girls] that didn't find themselves attracted to me sexually. Women have always been jealous of me or just plain hated me since I was a teen and to be honest I never understood it because I am not a 10 in the looks department Lol. I once asked a woman why she was attracted to me, in her words "aside from obviously being pretty, you weren't trying too hard".
Let’s lift each other up !!!! Nothing gives me more satisfaction than to be in the presence of other women’s power and to celebrate it as if it was my own success. Imagine if we all treated each other as soul sisters ! I am rewatching this video and Wao! It so good and accurate . Love the part about “ attracting shallow men that objectify her and lots of narcissist that want to use the goddess as a trophy wife” Wufffff ! That was a lot.
I think when I was younger I was really tapped i to this unknowingly. The energy I received from men and women was........something. I had to harden my exterior a bit sue to environment. Now, idk which archetype I am.
Thankfully im balanced in all this because my daughter is just the same and watching how I handle it all. As a goddess, life truly is a game of Chess. Every true goddess can play chess; remember that! 💋
Am I a goddess? I’ve had men of status interested in me. I have the hour glass figure. I’ve had women hate me. Or am I the girl next door? I’m quiet and my self esteem isn’t where it needs to be. Wish I knew about this in my early 20s. I’m 29 now.
I have to check the other archetypes because this sounds close to me with the body, attention and unintentional seduction but idk. I was super shy and insecure growing up and tried to cover and downplay my looks and shape to make others feel better. Got with a few narcissists too. More recently I've been glowing up inside and attracting bosses! When I whip this wardrobe into shape I may have a problem on my hands 😬. I'm going for something like Molly's look in Insecure mixed with the styling in "And Just Like That..." (sequel of Sex in the City). Excited, but bracing myself too.
definitely not the goddess archetype… but of course I would love that. looking to find out which I am based on your schema. I think I’m a combination of the princess and the bohemian type.
Definitely have the Goddess in me which attracted very controlling and narcissistic partners, what I found familiar from my upbringing. I am un-conditioning from all that damage, it can turn very destructive if you don’t know any of this educational guidelines. The downside is being ashamed for your natural sensuality and self-love. I think the Goddess has a natural infinite self-love that illuminates every place.
Loving the Feminine School Types videos!! I'm excited to learn more of these archetypes. I personally feel as though I embody "The Goddess Characteristics, I always received the stank face when women meet me and knew nothing about me at all but I know I share other Archetypes equally also. Keep us on our toes in 2022 Chloe. Love all your content!!!😘
Thank you Chloe_💖! I am really beautiful but I know that I am not "The Goddess." My sister Ericka is a natural goddess♥️! I am totally "The girl next door archetype🥰!
This video is for those who try so hard to fit into a rare archetype that doesn't come naturally. This video is very important!!
That description was very accurate and I liked how you mentioned that this archetype comes naturally.
So glad we are focusing on our womanhood and growth. I was getting tired of the dusty conversations. Once we come into our own....nothing can deter us.
Yes
Same. I took a break.
“Highly desirable without having to try”….most notable point.
2022 Ladies we are walking in Feminine Energy ✨ along with healing , growing , and becoming the best version of ourselves. Hope everyone have a safe and happy new year 🙏🏽❤️
Happy New Year to you as well 💞
Prosperous New Year to you Goddess🕯
Happy New Year 🎊🎈🎆
Mostly black women ❤️
Yes. This is a 1000% on point
After high school I had to stop being friends with all my female friends bcuz I realized that they were using me to either meet men or for business motivation
I went ghost for years
Got into my career and have nothing but boss friends around me
No competing …no one asking what are you wearing
They have their own vibe and all own it
All shades of the melanin rainbow and stop traffic and have men running to open the doors
The funny thing is all my guy friends always stayed true. Same guy friends since elementary school.
My grandmother was the ultimate goddess in my eyes
Effortless beauty, kind, smart, married (and spoiled by her husband and everyone) and could stop the world w her dimples
😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍
Lucky you my grandparents all were TRASHY KARMICS
Bossed up! 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Awwww. I’m sorry
Well you’re going to change that
You’re a beautiful force to be reckoned with
Keep growing and glowing sis
A lot of women think they are the Goddess archetype. In my opinion, it’s a rare archetype.
I don’t think everyone can be a goddess or a queen. That’s why there are princess and other titles available, and that’s ok. I feel like goddess are born this way, even if they had to learn. It’s within, from birth .
She's soft, a natural
@@ashleighlenora3792 beauty is not enough to be qualified as Goddess archetype 😌
@@jaylaav1166 actually yes it is , everyone is not born with enchanting beauty , y’all seem a little jealous that y’all aren’t goddesses 🤷🏼♀️ that’s the energy I’m getting
@@ashleighlenora8842 from the looks of it I can definitely see why you call yourself that , you almost look like riri girl 😂 but seriously you’re beautiful
I actually do get the attention of a goddess but I have a lot of self-work before I will be fully able to step into it and thrive. As always, love your content!!
facts same here
I'm right here with you Goddess🕯
Me too ❤️
@@diamond_queen111 you are absolutely right! This year was the beginning for me now it's time to flourish!💞💞
Unfortunately the goddess is my Archetype. There’s great things about it like being highly desired by men, being able to get what you want and free stuff. But it’s a another thing when women secretly hate you and try to Sabotage you within your own family and even at work.
A lesson learned for all my younger ones: when you keep thinking “but I’m not doing anything,” when some female friends seem jealous or you have so much attention from boys; please know it’s because you don’t HAVE to (do anything). You were born with this energy. Respect it, learn about it, treasure it, and you will avoid the shadow aspects that can derail your life. Another awesome video Chloe! 🌻🐝🍯
I remember when I came into knowing. I was in my early 20s and heard some ladies in an elevator talking about how chivalry was dead and realized, really starkly, that I had the exact opposite experience. Men who were loved ones as well as strangers had been nothing but dutiful, giving, and respectful in relation to me….to this day. That’s when I realized I was living with access to a different vibration.
And when I met another goddess for the first time, it was magic. ✨
I’m definitely NOT the goddess archetype. As much as I used to want to believe I was I knew in my heart I was not. And that’s okay. As you mentioned, there are plenty other archetypes and valuable feminine qualities aside from the goddess. I do agree that’s it’s important to be realistic about what archetype you are and who you are in your femininity so you can better develop the natural qualities you already possess. I have a friend who actually embodies the goddess archetype. Men fall over themselves to get to her all the time and she doesn’t even have to try. It never fails 😂 She literally gets anything she wants without any resistance. I love it! 😭 I NEVER hate on her or try to compete with her because I admire what she brings to the table as a woman and I am confident in my feminine qualities. 🙌🏿 Great video! 🤎
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Well said
Respect 🙏🏾
A good movie that shows the bad/good side of being a goddess is Malena, with the goddess herself, Monica Bellucci. It showed how men & young boys objectified her and how the women outright hated her to the point of violence..
Great video Chloe!
Love that movie so much❤❤❤❤
I use to not wear certain clothes around certain people or not try to look as good so these women would feel comfortable around me! So crazy I use to dull my light to make other people feel comfortable. They would ask me where I was going? Trying to be funny b/c I like to dress. Not my fault I look good and bring the boys to the yard 💅🏽🤷🏽♀️
Exactly! We aren’t doing too much, they aren’t doing enough! 💁🏾♀️
I literally had that happen to me in the “hood” I literally was wearing a pink skirt a puffer coat and trainers. The cashier looked me up and down and was like “where you going all dressed up?” I did not know this lady and literally looked basic
I’m not the goddess type, and I’m happy with that!
This is so true. I went to an event yesterday and I got so much attention from the men, one actually gave me a gift of pink champagne and a bottle of white rum for being pretty ☺️ My friend is 7 years younger, beautiful and much slimmer than me but didn’t get hardly any attention. I haven’t always known about or owned my goddess status but now at age 47 I’m taking full advantage, whilst avoiding narcissistic men! Thank you for such wisdom Chloe, I love your content 💚
Cassy, girl tell me your secret. Still curious about that Goddess energy(even though I identify with Girl-Next-Door). Did you change the way you dress? Did you change your hair? What self-love steps did you take??? Enquiring minds wanna know!😄
I've attracted doctors, engineers, business owners without trying but my self esteem was never up to par with what I attracted. So I am here to learn...
You nailed it !!!! I do not know where to start commenting . Other women will hate and create gossip about the goddess in order to bring her down , yet they will copy her ideas and creativity !
Yes! The story of my entire life
I thought I was the diva but as you said in the beginning, The Goddess are often mistaken for being a diva simply because she’s beautiful, confident, and alluring. I am The Goddess. Jealousy is the story of my life but I am taking my power back from every envious person who tried to destroy me due to their own insecurities!!
This is the sad true of it all...Is even difficult to get a date cuz men always think that your occupied. Or if they find out you are single, they think automatically that something is wrong with you. Cuz how can someone so beautiful be single?🙄Hating by alot of women, even family and even men get intimidated. It is now easy to be a Goddess
Sis PREACH!!
🔥👌💯
I come off as intimidating but I'm no goddess
@@lindanava345 your have the goddess spirit😊
From a mans perspective, having a gorgeous woman can be too much to handle. The constant fights with other men who are too disrespectful, knowing that when not around, countless men be in your ear daily, your female friends have male friends that try for the #1 spot, wealthier men just volunteering thousands of $$ to you. As soon as the inevitable arguments occur you have 100+ male shoulders to cry on. Its not your fault for being blessed. But its hurtful to a young man. Now when it comes to middle age men who already been through it, hurt, cried, etc. we arent fazed at all by the disrespect. lol good luck!!
Chloe this has literally been my life since middle school at home and with friends. I'm 26 now black sheep in my family with little to no girlfriends and learned my archetype this year it's been such a painful journey but with your videos, lots of therapy lol and other women on TH-cam like you I've learned to move accordingly thank you so much!
Chloe is back at it again and I'm here for it .
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My best friend is this archetype. I think a part of your feminine journey is not to jealous of someone’s alluring energy. Just live in your own. She taught me that. ❤️💫 I look forward to your other videos I’m not sure which one I am yet even though I lean towards the mystic
And her boyfriend is a Lt in the army so it makes a lot of sense! Lol
*There are perks but, I can say the hardest thing about being the Goddess archetype is the being taken seriously. I work in the accounting field & every time I start a job I try to "dumb down" my looks so I can be taken seriously & since it is a female-dominated field it can be a struggle to convince your co-workers that your merit & not your looks got you here.*
Same here. I work in accounting as well and avoid wearing certain clothes to work such as pencil skirts because of my curvy figure
I’m in accounting too 💁🏽♀️
And if your looks helped get you where you are much easier so what! The game is to always work smarter not harder. Don't let those dust maggots spew their insecurities onto you. Thrive in your beauty.
@@laurensanchez8063 hello 💯💪🏾
I work in banking and this is spot on. I recently quit because it became too much for me coming from the other women how do you handle the isolation? I'm pretty much alone 99% of the time it takes a toll on me some days
I’m definitely a Goddess archetype, Chloe has literally read me in 11 minutes….. I did not realize this until a few years ago. The downside to it can be horrific, I’ve been through it all except passed around, the Aquarius in me keeps me loyal until no end.
This me to a T. I always felt this but I could not see it or believe it due to my trauma filled upbringing 😢 I was in the girl next door until my 27 birthday when life HIT. Through my spiritual self discovery journey and you @chloe 🤗 I have been soo much happier and more comfortable embracing the Goddess I truly am. No spiritual attack rather man, friends, family, work etc can touch me, I am one of one. Thank you 💕♥️
I’ve always been naturally feminine, since a young girl. I used to often wonder why I was how I was in comparison to other women. I stick out like a sore thumb for my looks and personality. I truly love being sexy, alluring, sensual and super feminine without effort. Thank you Chloe for letting me understand my Goddess Archetype ❤️
I know it’s rare, but I CLAIM IT!! I reject my “girl next door” upbringing and embrace THIS one. 🤷🏽♀️ Practice makes permanent.
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It is really difficult it is to find something genuine when you fit this archetype. It's just lustful men & female friendships barely work out no matter how hard you try. I won't lie and say I don't enjoy pretty privilege but I really hate that I can't do anything without being objectified - even on days when I look my worst. I even more so hate that I can't be respected or taken seriously until I become mean or hard, and I hate having to drift from my softness and kindness cos that takes me out of my natural character. I know looks matter but I wish more people would appreciate character, kindness, acts of goodwill and intelligence over appearance!
Crap! I might be this archetype too. I never felt comfortable around men and I will never. It's always the lustful looks and comments that I find such a turn off.
@@silmsadie the lustful looks and comments, chileeee!! 😭 I think it's worse when you think you found someone who ACTUALLY likes you for who you are but it turns out he's like most the other men you've encountered!
@@itskamo332 very disappointing 😞
I could've written this myself! The being taken seriously part. Ppl think you're just something pretty to look at and that's all there is to you. Like hey, I do have a working brain, gifts and talents that don't revolve around my outer beauty. not complaining about having pretty privilege bc there are benefits, but there are downsides to it as well.
5:12- Destiny's Child "Cater 2 U" BET performance oozed feminity. Ladies a must see.
I feel that as I’m getting older, I’m tapping more into my goddess archetype 💜💅🏽
Thank you for this!
I’ve always felt connected to this archetype and experience a lot of the traits and encounters it comes with.
I just have so many blockages that are holding me back from truly stepping into this role, but I will continue to work on my healing and hope that one day everything will change and I will feel like the goddess I truly know I am. ❤️
Chloe doing the lords work ❤️✨❤️✨
3:35 when she said you need an hourglass figure... my heart sank😥💔
I’m definitely a goddess lol Thank you Chloe🙏🏾❤️❤️
Marjorie Harvey is definitely this archetype and attracted a boss like Steve Harvey
I’ve never had problems with attracting men but I noticed that I attracted more very charismatic men… which I’m grateful for. To me femininity is about self care and integrity. Thanks for this wonderful and insight insightful video. And happy new yr to all 🥂✨✨✨
I wish I could just post a voicenote coz I have so much to say. After listening to this video I can confidently say that this is my feminine archetype. The unwanted attention is exhausting to deal with. I used to dress like a boy to hide myself. The other downside is that often guys just want to live out their fantasies instead of listen to me. I feel like this archetype is likely to encounter a misogynist person who strongly feels entitled to breeding this kind of woman. But natural beauty has it's perks. It costs less for me to maintain my looks. It also ironically gives me a sense of confidence when I get dolled up. I agree with Chloe when it comes to authenticity. Sometimes my friends and I wear each other other's clothes and imitate each other but it always looks off and we see that each of us has a unique look that's works perfect for them. But the jealousy though... lol I was once calle the b word by a girl at school coz I spoke to her crush. Like fr I've never understand how people can be triggered just by looking at me. Or how they become surprised if I say something really smart. Unless I waer my glasses I usually don't get taken seriously. Being a beautiful woman with real thoughts and opinions is apparently not a great combination for a lot of these guys outchea. This video helped clarify what kind of person I'd be better suited with.
Anyway happy holidays everyone. Hope you're having a great time with family and friends 🤗😘💜 thanks Chloe for this informative video. I'm looking forward to the rest of this series. I won't be surprised if I closely resonate with another archetype. I tend to be confused about what I am sometimes.
@@sarahb6758 omg that's terrible. It's girls reacting to how unfair it is for us to easily get attention not knowing the burden it comes with. We'll get judged if we don't act lady like around these guys and we'll get called horrible names if we refuse to give anyone attention. Either way it's our fault. There's no sympathy for pretty women. That's why sometimes I feel that pretty privilege is not exactly a privilege for all pretty people.
I used to feel that same way when I was younger
That being beautiful was a curse
And I would try to dim
Myself but it never worked
It sometimes is a curse when you’re not fully aware of who you are bcuz you will attract narcissistic people (men and women)
Men will try to date you just to say they dated you
And mistreat you when you’re goddess energy
And the women will solely be your friend to get men attention and try to take those guys. But it never works bcuz it’s something about you not them
I always knew who I was but as I started getting older I embraced me even more
And eliminated the toxic waste
Keep glowing up 👑
Oh wow! This is so me! It’s like an blessing and a curse. I get called a hoe because I attract wealthy men that have a level of respect for me not out hoeing so they put me on a pedestal. I get women that try and copy my style and join together to bash me, slander my name. Narcissist men who couldn’t keep me try and shame, demean and make me jealous by going for the downgrade. When I laugh at them they get mad at the downgrade. The downgrade gets mad because she put so much effort into becoming me. Then on the other end, many men always look at me as being in a relationship, yet I be sitting at home bored and single as the last cookie in the jar that’s hard to reach. 🤦🏽♀️💜💜☺️
Awww. I’ve been there sis
The best thing to do is go solo and embrace loving your own company
One day you will meet other goddesses who don’t compete w you but compliment you
But until then don’t alway anyone to tarnish your shine. It will take too much elbow grease to get the original luster back
Stay safe and keep being you
Delusion much
Hereto tell you it’s even more savage in your 40’s especially if you maintain yourself well. ❤️ stay mysterious and beautiful. Drives people mad
"Single as the last cookie in the jar that's hard to reach" 😹 saaammee 😩
The pedestal is so lonely. My mother was a trophy wife, my father wouldn't let her work. He did all the grocery shopping, didn't want her to be seen by potential rivals. Only company was a dog he bought her until she had children. I learned a lot from her story and tried to hide my goddess energy to avoid her fate. I became a doormat to have friends, I gained weight so people would trust me. But after a while.... you have to be you. And to hell with fake friends!
Love this series!👍🏼 ..I feel like MOST women thinks they're a goddess but in reality are average/basic & over compensating trauma by being overtly sexual & bossy.
Agreed
Wow, I thought something was wrong with me and I was doing something unconsciously…. I’ve always had these struggles and still do… I’m at the point where I just have to embarrass it while sticking to my standards and boundaries. I definitely have to have secure females in my life in order to have a friendship and I realized I’ve always dated secure men and that’s what I need. I dated an insecure man and let’s just say never again. I also changed how I dress, I dress more conservative anything less I’m overly sexualized. It’s a struggle. People always ask me what do I do to these men because when I’m ready to walk away they have a hard time with letting go and go to extreme length to receive my energy. I’m mindful of that as well, I had 1 stalker situation and I realized my power and how I can’t give me to just anybody.
@@MzBrOdUs18 yes my friends call me voodoo lol…
@@MzBrOdUs18 girl let’s me friends we can be witches together lol
@@abigaila2024 Lmaoo
@@MzBrOdUs18 hey I tried to post my ig but it not showing
So happy I found your channel again !!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️
I’m not sure if I’m the goddess type (they are hard to come by) but I relate to a lot of things mentioned in this video. I developed my curves at the age of 15 and have been considered “body goals” for the majority of my 20’s. I’ve had three life changing relationships with narcissistic men, one of them spread lies about me to his fraternity that resulted in a lack of respect on their end. I get compliments about my femininity from different men. And I’ve experienced a lot of hatred from other women that I could never understand because I try to be nice and understanding to everyone, until I’m tested… then you’ll see a different side of me. Btw I’m team Virgo ♍️
Goddess -Diva archetype here.
Hated by women for just existing...hated by men for being unattainable.
The goddess is not easy I’ve had the worst of worst with it and questioned why? But I’m finally learning how to accept it
Chloe, I'm back to class for some brush-ups! Your wisdom can never get old Beloved 💅🏾
First of all , I appreciate the quality of these pictures and thank you for the effort you put into your videos !
A true virgo ♍
I am the goddess archetype and unfortunately I am starting to embrace it now. For along time , I use to fight the attention because I grew up being told that I was a seductress so I did everything to self sabotage my relationship with men !
I am the girl next door for sure, I love these archtypes and when you mention women who represent these archtypes it truely makes sense. my culture and upbringing made sure that I was always in my femenine and I thought all women were but when I moved to the US I understood every one of your videos. I love them and I cant wait for more videos
I had a class in college with an African guy named Adonis. His mom named him right! He was fine 😍
❤️❤️❤️. This helps me to understand why I get so much rudeness from other women.
Same for me sis
You had me in the first half! Thought I was the goddess archetype, however, I only attract ashy dust mites and receive envy from equally ashy women without any effort 🥴
I’m a goddess archetype and it’s annoying 🤦🏾♀️🤣 I know, “oh you’re complaining about pretty privilege?” Yes. Y’all don’t understand how happy I was about the pandemic. Because I could put a hat on and a mask and all people could see was my eyes. This still didn’t stop men from coming up to me and asking me out, but it was less than usual. I just want to be left alone sometimes.
Im embracing my authentic self
I am dominated by girl next door,but often times i receive goddess like attention,with splashes of the princess archetype👑
I'm 100% the Goddess! and the Princess too! I get sooo much attention without trying. But as you said there's the good and rhe bad, most women are so envious and some men objectify and look at me as a trophy to show to their male friends. I used to hate ro actually been seen as just beautiful but know Im using it to my advantage and getting more dept as a woman.
I'm more of the Girl Next Door and Princess but this is my favorite archetype! Most of the women I admire seem to fall under it.
Thanks Chloe for this video this really hit home for me I'm definitely the goddess prototype naturally and it is the gift and curse Thank you for breaking down the dark side of it so on point.
Omggggggg this is so crazy! As always your very virgo self be reading! Ive missed all the series in this valuable lesson but im definitely going to play catch up! Im just realizing my goddess role! Ive always marched to my tune and everyone else clamored to be around me. Ive loved the sound of my own beat to the point i never compared myself. I always want everyone to find their inner bliss and never understood the unnecessary turmoil that people thrive off of keeping going. Im so excited about this woman im becoming! Thanks for the confirmation ❤
Me too and I’m also a virgo...always marched to my own beat from birth. Can we be friends? Lol
Yes, Chloe, bosses are the best, especially if they see a woman as a muse to their success. The feminine mystique continues to intrigue men even when your looks start to fade. It's like a super power! But feeling lonely as a goddess is true and envy comes at you all the time. It's best if you work from home or not at all. Workmates can be evil.
I have a few close friends who love me and hate me at the same time. There's nothing I can do about that. One friend forbade me from coming to her house because her husband was so excited to see me. This hurt me because I would never cheat on a friend. But maybe only goddesses follow the sister code because they attract men all the time. Less competitive.
I think you’re onto something with goddesses respecting the sister code. With so many options, one feels secure and doesn’t need to do this.
Chloe aint making us wait and I’m grateful to God cuz I need this series right now. Keep em coming and thank you so much 🙌🏽🙏🏽👏🏽
Love it! This is going to be a great series!
Although I drew upon great inspiration from the Goddess archetype in my level up period of my life. My feminine power lies elsewhere.
If this is you in the profile, you are beautiful!
@@esemusic8294Thank you for sharing a kind compliment, yes this is me. I wish you a wonderful New Year.
Yes on getting a lot of attention from high earning men👀. Yes on attracting a high number of narcissistic men!😖 And thankfully, I am unaware of any jealousy from female friends☺️
This is me. I hate it here. I used to tell my mother I wish I looked average so real love could finally find me.
Great video Chloe! People tend to not agree with me but Gal Gadot is one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen so I’m glad you mentioned her in this topic.
I agree,am a Gal Gadot fan
I’m more like a siren type I think. Goddess archetype is so great !! But you definitely have to be hyper confident in yourself 👌🏾
I’ve always knew that this is my archetype, I’ve just never knew how to express it.
❤❤❤ loved this I'm a siren, but I do embody a few of the goddesses' descriptions
Thank you for pointing out that being in goddess energy can attract shallow and narcissistic people that really just want to siphon that energy from you rather than cultivate their own. It’s hard to walk around in that energy when you were not raised with emotionally affirming adults around you. I love that scene on American Gods when this ancient goddess, Bilquis/Queen of Sheba, was a hobo sleeping on the streets and looked up at a tv through a store window and saw her temples being ruined on the news in Ethiopia. I related to that moment very deeply and metaphorically. I am meeting my own needs now (so that I am not in need of ‘worship’ or needy) and requiring those who want to enter my temple to bring offerings of value and quality, Asé✨
I need Chloe to have an instagram of just all the photos of gorgeous black women that she uses - I can use it to model myself on it!
Thank you so much for this video, it was like hearing my life's story.
This is definitely my archetype 🥰
I partly fit and feel like being a goddess archetype can be detrimental without social skills, excellent boundaries and self determination.
Great content!! I am a girl next door archetype and I embrace it. I love a Goddess woman and my favorite is Sade.
It's "her milkshake bringing ALL the boys to the yard," for me. Good lesson Chloe
I am definitely the Goddess archetype, I have several sisters who are all pretty. Some of their boyfriends/girlfriends have told them that "All of your sisters are pretty but [insert name] is SEXY". I've only had one of my friends [Girls] that didn't find themselves attracted to me sexually. Women have always been jealous of me or just plain hated me since I was a teen and to be honest I never understood it because I am not a 10 in the looks department Lol. I once asked a woman why she was attracted to me, in her words "aside from obviously being pretty, you weren't trying too hard".
Love this! S/o to all the goddesses & girls next door. I can't wait for the creative girls' video!
Let’s lift each other up !!!!
Nothing gives me more satisfaction than to be in the presence of other women’s power and to celebrate it as if it was my own success. Imagine if we all treated each other as soul sisters !
I am rewatching this video and Wao! It so good and accurate . Love the part about “ attracting shallow men that objectify her and lots of narcissist that want to use the goddess as a trophy wife” Wufffff ! That was a lot.
I do attract men, successful and then the not so successful ones. I have a magnetism that pulls them in, but when I do. It goes sour.
Loved this breakdown.
Love your breakdowns on the female archetypes. I can't wait til you get to the analytic. ❤❤❤❤❤
Yes YES & YEEEESSSS!!!!!!!!!! Oh how I ADORE your content. You, are GIFTED💕
I think when I was younger I was really tapped i to this unknowingly. The energy I received from men and women was........something. I had to harden my exterior a bit sue to environment. Now, idk which archetype I am.
Chloe Bailey comes to mind.
Thankfully im balanced in all this because my daughter is just the same and watching how I handle it all. As a goddess, life truly is a game of Chess. Every true goddess can play chess; remember that! 💋
Thank you for these Chloe .. I am 39 learning about my woman hood❤️🥰
Am I a goddess? I’ve had men of status interested in me. I have the hour glass figure. I’ve had women hate me. Or am I the girl next door? I’m quiet and my self esteem isn’t where it needs to be. Wish I knew about this in my early 20s. I’m 29 now.
I am definitely ready to learn and glow up for the new year yasss😁. Thanks🤓
Great video 💕 yes can relate to the points in this video
Chloé I LOVE LOVE LOVE your Channel!
Thanks so much 😊
Very much anticipated series!
Thanks, Chloe ❤
Spot on Chloe!❤
I've been embodying the goddess archetype lately and it feels delicious.
I have to check the other archetypes because this sounds close to me with the body, attention and unintentional seduction but idk. I was super shy and insecure growing up and tried to cover and downplay my looks and shape to make others feel better. Got with a few narcissists too. More recently I've been glowing up inside and attracting bosses! When I whip this wardrobe into shape I may have a problem on my hands 😬. I'm going for something like Molly's look in Insecure mixed with the styling in "And Just Like That..." (sequel of Sex in the City). Excited, but bracing myself too.
definitely not the goddess archetype… but of course I would love that. looking to find out which I am based on your schema. I think I’m a combination of the princess and the bohemian type.
5:58 yup! I don't have the goddess archetype but in terms of style and mannerism, can't have anything to myself 😒
7:32 also true!
Yep this is me these ugly Bettie’s cannot stand me
Definitely have the Goddess in me which attracted very controlling and narcissistic partners, what I found familiar from my upbringing. I am un-conditioning from all that damage, it can turn very destructive if you don’t know any of this educational guidelines. The downside is being ashamed for your natural sensuality and self-love. I think the Goddess has a natural infinite self-love that illuminates every place.
Loving the Feminine School Types videos!! I'm excited to learn more of these archetypes. I personally feel as though I embody "The Goddess Characteristics, I always received the stank face when women meet me and knew nothing about me at all but I know I share other Archetypes equally also. Keep us on our toes in 2022 Chloe. Love all your content!!!😘
Thank you Chloe_💖! I am really beautiful but I know that I am not "The Goddess." My sister Ericka is a natural goddess♥️! I am totally "The girl next door archetype🥰!
So grateful for this series. Thank you Chloe for helping us look for and find ourselves. Loads of love for you.
I believe a goddess is something from birth! I don’t believe everyone can be a goddess, there are other titles for powerful women.
She mentioned Alpha among others
I enjoyed watching this because I embody the goddess energy effortlessly! ✨✨