Tara Lambert Case Analysis | Aspiring Model to Failed Killer
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- This video answers the question: Can I analyze the case of Tara Lambert?
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Meeting in a KFC should have been a red flag for her. Real hitmen meet their clients at Arbys
They've got the meat!
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@@bthomson😂
FAX !
When he revealed the cost of the hit man I nearly burst out laughing. 1000 dollars and he wanted 125 dollar down payment 😂
The wry jokes are always great, but what has always made your content so special is the compassion and empathetic pragmatism. We’ve all met people with these personality traits and it’s easy to hate them and treat them as less than, but just because it feels justified doesn’t mean it’s helpful or logical. A+ analysis yet again!
It’s crazy how little time they give for conspiracy. I mean she fully intended to have her murdered. She shouldn’t get less time because she was caught. Ugh.
Right. It's like rewarding someone for failing to carry out the crime.
Woman also get less time
@@pus915 Not always. There are women doing life for defending themselves from abusers.
We have people serving way longer sentences for far lesser offenses. This nut job is a danger to society. Regardless of a personality disorder not being someone’s fault, the chances of overcoming it are low. She tried to murder the mom of young children, destroying multiple innocent lives. And statistically she’ll never recover from her disorder enough to develop the insight to fully understand the meaning of that.
Sadly, our justice system is punitive so you actually have to be murdered before you can get some justice!
The price should have been a tip off. I can't imagine one could hire a decent hit man for $1,000. Especially hoping for a 2 for 1.
There already have been cheaper killers hired. As shocking as it sounds.
@@rebel4466 I bet. I DID emphasize "decent", though. 😉
Exactly what I thought
Yeah definitely not the brightest crayon in the box $1,000 to kill someone actually two people for $1,000 lol she's definitely not living in reality.
@@christinesmith4741 Yeah. It's not "2-fer Tuesday" at Billy's Discount Barn. 😁
What a great example of unearned entitlement! She was so focused on making her outside pretty,she left the inside ugly... another great analysis Dr. Grande!
Boy! The comments on this channel are stellar!☀☀☀
@@bthomson some of them are really funny.😂
I know, right!
Being pretty is unearned? Tell that to the ancestors that worked hard to get hot wives.
@@blurredlenzpictures3251isn't it the reward itself ?
She tried to kill someone and she gets less than 5 years that seems really wrong.
If your white and attractive in america, you could get away with anything smh. God will have to deal with ppl like her.
@jamal smith
If you’re “white”? What does your skin pigment matter. Seems like you have an underlying racial problem.
t00t! t00t!
She's white and pretty
She didn't try at all. She was entrapped.
The good news is that the prison warden says she’s a model inmate.
yeah, and she needs to stay in there
No, you didn't! Hahaha.
That's very clever!
😂😂😂
If someone made a movie about this, they’d have to take some creative liberties and make it about high school students because nobody would believe Tara and Jenny are adults 🤦♀️
Unfortunately, in our world today... it's easy to believe that they're "adults."
You've clearly never dealt with an awful divorce(wife).
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Even for a basic tattoo you have to pay more than 125 dollars down payment!
Tara has an IQ about 6 points higher than butter.
Margarine!
@@bthomson I'm thinking mayonnaise.
@@jguenther3049 even mayonnaise is is too good for her
That's still much higher than people who get tattoos.
@@blurredlenzpictures3251non-sequitur
I never understand why people try to kill the ex or the new wife. Your child support issues won't last forever. Once the kid is 18 you'll never have to speak to those people ever again. Been 6 years already for me and it's been utter peace.
Are you a man or woman. Because there's a big difference in divorce proceedings. Women have all the rights and Father's have zero. That will make you hate a person deeply. Also they steal all your money amd make you spend into debt on lawyers. Can you see how you might hate a person after that?
I can Slightly identify, because my Mother was killed when I was 13. My Father lost his mind, and I raised myself. I realized later how I became the person I did. My Father used to give us 100$ bills to go away. He let us do whatever we wanted to.
Sometimes we are our own best parents! Seems like you did a pretty good job?
I’m glad you pointed out that her illness likely will limit the effectiveness of mental health practitioners with her. I’ve sometimes thought to myself “is this person acting like an asshole because of their diagnosis or are they just an asshole?”
Personality disorders really do suck :(
12:25 is unbelievably insightful.. people who are self centered, narcissistic and arrogant have no idea that they are that way..
It might be crystal clear to everyone around them and they will have absolutely no clue that they are horrible human beings. 🤔
She may not see herself as narcissistic, but she knows what she is doing is wrong. She's not insane. People really need to stop making excuses for this type of behavior.
I wish that was true. Some malignant narcissists know they are narcissists while believing that is part of what got them to according to them such a higher more enlightened than the rest place than the majority of the people around them.
Wow I really didn't see it that way,but it's spot on,it's everyones fault but hers,the Bible speaks of Satan bn so beautiful spot on, she's DANGEROUS!
Heh ...that hospital bill crack. Even when I'm miserable you never fail to elicit a laugh.
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Cheer up, Rebel!
“…her hatred converted into lethal desire.” Poetic Dr. Grande.
In her situation while making all those bad decisions, besides the only a passing temporary feeling of hatred itself becoming perverted into lethal desire, who converted it most? -The only a feeling of hatred which makes all of us human beings feel like the hairs on the backs of our necks are all standing up.
One could say a "model inmate"
Lmao good one luv me some good puns
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@@laur131306 😂
I think this one won the internet!🎖🏆🏅
That should have been Dr Grandes line, his humour is really dry. 😂
Hospital bills are definitely no joke. lol I'm seriously addicted to these videos.
*U.S. hospital bills. Others are fine or non-existent.
@@icturner23 exactly
13000 for a appendix removal and 1000 for a entire human. That IS a bargain.
It amazes me when parents that have divorced hate each other more than they love their children . Then both parents bring new partners into their children’s lives….causing conflict and end up actually hating each other. My heart goes out to the children involved in this crazy situation. Parents please remember at one time you loved your ex and decided to bring a child into this world…..put your children first!!!
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"Parents" = woman
Sweet shirt. From Counselor to model. 🙂
your camera quality is so good it almost feels like im in the room with you
You look like the type of person who'd like iron bar in Morristown..
This scary woman will be free before long. Seems there's little consequence for her actions. On a happier note, glad to see Dr Grande looking sharp. Love the blue striped shirt 👕🇬🇧
She’s already out, right? The trial was in 2016, and most don’t even serve the full 5 years with good behavior. This homicidal idiot is free to move on with her life after trying to render innocent children motherless. And society cares so little, it’s not even a viral story.
I like your photo Alison! You have a classic sophisticated style. 😊
There is literally zero consequences for a white Womans terrible behavior in this country.
That's why she acts that way because not only is it allowed, but promoted and lauded online/social media.
I love the shirt as well!
@@gravydog1 hiring a hit man to kill your step children’s mother is “promoted and lauded online/social media”?
@@Catlady-mw4en All of her behavior from an early age led up to her acting like a spoiled, entitled, vapid potential murderer yes.
Nobody ever said no to her because they would get cancelled, sued, or killed.
"I believe she was referring to a wood chipper, not a machine that would chop up lumberjacks." I wait for these jokes.😂😂😂
I love Dr Grande's cheeky sense of humour. Has Jeremy Bamber been done? If not can you do him please Doc?
Now Dr. Grande...she's not a failed killer...she's aspiring at that too.
Me, I'm an aspiring astronaut.
I am an aspiring dog
Did you take up space in school?
@@jguenther3049 No but clearly you did. Dr. Grande would be so proud of your rude behaviour. Hmmm. Clearly, cannot discuss or debate.
@@christinepedersen5511 Obviously, Bamboonga is joking. Obviously, I'm responding to his joke with another joke. Your inability to follow what is going on explains why you "clearly can't discuss or debate."
@@jguenther3049 No, but growing up, there was nothing in my head but space.
She should do at least one more year for using "air quotes".
"At least"
Love your (gin and tonic) dry sense of humour.
What Iike about your show is that you cover the possible motives. I don't always agree, but I do pay attention.
Haha, his motives? It's his theories for me! The 'wolves selling bicycles' in Morphew case 😂
I am the same as you here as far as that goes. Unlike some others here sometimes who are only trying to make a name for themselves while being way too quick to judge.
Constantly consistent, in-depth, and informative. Dig the channel Dr. Grande. 👌🤘
A13yo living with a boyfriend? Where were child protection authorities?
Every one of these cases surprises the heck out of me. Not just the hitman for hire, nor the not realizing that they were speaking with a police officer, it's the knowingly getting into a car with someone who they think is a murderer. This is not normal behavior.
No definitely not normal behavior. But the reason they are so comfortable with doing so is because the hitman is going to go through with something they either don't have the guts to do themselves or so they can sit back and think they have control which is a classic sign of narcissistic behavior. I would say she is a sociopath and a very dangerous one at that.
Pin stripes, very smart shirt.
Thank you Dr.
Wow. New one on me. Loved your analysis, Dr Grande. Ok, I always do, even when I may have a slightly different opinion but your compassion and clarity of her situation was imho perfect. I often wonder about those whose wiring may make them “unfixable” - I cannot imagine life without the ability to learn and change; to be without that possibility is a punishment in itself.
*Dr. Grande....*
The world is ready to hear your in depth analysis and opinion about the controversial Bill Cosby case. We need your wisdom to help make sense of the nonsensical. 🤔
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Wish I could see your board or notes. Would love to see how you sequentially present the information.
Todd needs no board, he's that rad ✌️❣️
He also has an excellent summary at the end of each video. Very organized.
just pay attention to his videos
Happy Sunday doc! You should do a video where you just interview your family for us! I'd love to know more about them and you. Although I'm sure your goal is to keep stuff private. It'd be cool though!
In one of his videos, he mentioned that a person has already come to his house (pizza related intrusion!) Imo he already gives enough of himself ( of course we always want more!)
this video was so informative, i had only known bits and pieces of the case. i was wondering if you could analyze the mental health of claus von bulow.
Tara is living in her own reality.
Great video Dr Grande!!! Hoping you had a great week!!
Epic title. Thanks Dr. Grande!
&A 125 dollar down-payment? 🤣
Wouldn't just "model prisoner" have been better?
But yeah 125 was just bizarre!
The money was my favorite part of the story.
It's the kind of amount where you could end up paying the last bit in coins.
It seems to me that she was frustrated with her own life, and angry that things weren't going her own way. But rather than looking inward to challenge her own demons, she transferred the blame to this other woman. And perhaps without fully understanding the seriousness of the act, tried to get her killed. It might even be that she never really thought about that woman being dead, but merely imagined her problems going away.
OR.... maybe, the analysis we just watched, given by a mental health professional who is more familiar with the facts than you are, provides more valuable insight than your computer desk opinion. ..... which, is obviously flawed, anyway. I might add, it is flawed in a very amateurish way, that ignores what the pro is teaching you.
peace
@@blackopal3138 That is rich. How passive-aggressive of you. Toss insults at me and then end with "peace."
I am not impressed.
@@janerkenbrack3373 Pity, an impression is all I was going for.
Wrong again, bud. 0 for 2. There is nothing passive about the way I expressed my opinion.
Being disagreed with or corrected IS NOT being insulted. It feels like one, but that is on you and your ego. And it is so common a reaction that it is epidemic and extremely damaging to society, so I'm going to explain myself.
It may feel insulting, but there is no direct insult, or larger insinuations of your character. I simply gave an honest opinion of your analysis. Yes, I add color, and a touch of sarcasm, but that does not mean the goal is to insult you, the goal is to help you; read it again. And, also, to help others not get distracted by an inaccurate comment.
Calling me passive aggressive when I am not though, is clearly an attempt to insult me. I would guess it is because your ego is bruised, and pulling me down to your level makes you feel better, and helps you avoid facing the pain of self reflection and the discomfort of self improvement.
To be honest, what really sounds insulting, is also just a simple observable truth. That is, your reply is indicative of the same behavior that leads to this girl's perspective and actions. - You ignore my point, accuse me wrongly, project your own bad behavior to me, and try to walk away thinking you took the high road in your exchange with an unimpressive fool, and of course, in reality, learned nothing.
This behavior is a hallmark of West European cultures, imho, esp North Europe. It's no coincidence this chic is a tall blonde. ... The secret to beating it is to accept your imperfection as a human being, and find joy in self discovery, and the opportunities for self improvement that come along, instead of pain in being wrong. Big deal, we had a wrong thought, had some bad info, whatever, but for sooo many people, it is a big deal, it is the biggest deal. Being corrected in front of others can literally lead to war. Embarrassment, shame, whatever it is, it can be a killer. It is something I have always constantly been improving on. Not feeling that way, I mean to say; but I changed my reaction to it a long time ago.
Narcissism and megalomania are epidemic, people need to accept that there are many others out there that know things they don't, that have better understandings of some of the mysterious corners of life than they do, or some of the every day mundane processes than they do. And to be alright with that, to not be weakened by it, bc you have stuff to offer, too. Maybe more than they do, but no one knows it ALL, right? Intelligence is treated like one giant pissing contest for all of society, and I really wish it would stop. Because truly intelligent people don't get into pissing contests, they have better things to do.
If you accept that no one is made a better person or more valuable than anyone else, by their abilities, but, instead, by their choices, than being wrong doesn't diminish you, but not admitting it does.
I end 90% of my comments, emails and communications with, 'Peace'. That is who I am, and, believe it or not, Sir, I do wish you peace.
It's the same thing as above, you simply see it as sarcastic or arrogant, because you perceive an attack, and already believe I am out to get you. It's not an attack, I don't even know you or anything about you, except for these 2 comments and your name, which I accept may be an alias. I thought you were wrong, I said so. I also thought it.... unnecessary, to even make the attempt, given the irony of your comment appearing on a video that was a professional analysis, so I weaved those two together. If it was just the story of this woman presented by an actor, my reply would have been much different. I would have had to argue my own points, and may not have even bothered to reply to you.
Peace
@@blackopal3138 I believe they were giving their opinion of the video, which is perfectly acceptable. You tearing them down for that opinion is unacceptable. It does not make them look wrong and you look right. It makes you look very judgmental and opinionated.
@@greenscreekgirl lol, I think you're having a hypocrisy issue. Get back to me when you decide who you are. peace
She's going to be even MORE arrogant and completely entitled after this
Hey beautiful!
Again with the flirting!🍻
@@charliehagon8513 katie could be cat fishing you men. Looks like a commercial pic her name is really bubba I bet, 😂😂
Wow great video and analysis. I’m shocked some people are so entitled, narcissistic, and naive that they would think they can solve personal problems this way. I’m glad no one got hurt. She seems childish and like a young adult/teenager in how she thinks and behaves and like she’s unable to predict the consequences of her actions.
Thanks for the expert analysis it really explains a lot. You’re the best Dr. Grande 😊
I’m not shocked, lol. I think you just insulted young adults and teens though. She’s been on drugs at LEAST since age 14 (probably stunting her mental development), but even 14 year olds aren’t this stupid. You don’t have to be that old to understand that $1000 is not a life changing amount of money or that murder is a life- changing decision. Unless I was just a genius teen.
Wow! A "teenius" new term!
@@bthomson lol
Don't you love the way we revisit our comments!
She is not the brightest person, but damn did she get away easy.
That's my hangover viewing sorted
I’m almost 50 years old & I don’t know one hit man (or woman).
Hey! You thumbnail is the zoom lawyer cat! Did you see Dr. Grande's video on that! Priceless!
You don't know one...perhaps because you've not needed one ? They don't tend to openly advertise their service. Lol You never know what your neighbour's might be up to intheir free time. 👀
I met some in prison.
Perhaps if you started to commit more crimes, you'd run into a few.
@eric I’ll think about it. 🤔
The humor 😫🤣 another great one Dr. G!💚
Wow, great analysis! You’re the best!🤩
Please cover Beach Boy Brian Wilson?
Yes, please. I have been asking. I think on the optimistic side!
I kept seeing Michael Palin dancing around a wood chipper while singing the "lumberjack song".
Dr. Grande your videos are so entertaining, I honestly admire the hard work you put into this channel.
Very interesting analysis. Thanks Dr G.
Always appreciate you Todd really
The humor, that's mainly why I'm here.
I get confused with the people's names.
Excellent analysis.
Agree with you.
Totally.
I love this Guy.💘
This case was so crazy! Nice breakdown of the details Dr Grande. Thank you for your analysis doc! Love your content!💜
Bravo !! another early video.
thank you dr. grande, that hospital bill joke just made my night LMAO
Dr. Grande has the best sense of humor on youtube!
Hello, dr. Grande! I have been watching / listening Your videos for many months now. I enjoy Your choise of "today`s questions", dry/sharp sense of humour and attitude, but first and foremost Your videos help me to fall asleep.It is something almost eerily calm about Your voice and manner of speaking - taking into consideration that I live in one of the northernmost small countries of Europe. 5 months daylight and 7 months rain, cold, snow, wind and constant darkness. Now, before You say " I`m not diagnosing, only speculating..." I say "Thank You"
I love The background really calm and brings the focuse one the subject.
Another early uplaod! You spoil us Dr. Thank you. :)
And please keep doing it but with a vacation!🏝🏜🏖🏕
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Not only a dose but a nine millimeter cartridge!
@@bthomson OH! Spit-take! So glad that I follow the trail. Sometimes the comments on the comments are the funniest. Well done.
Hi Dr G. Ive watched all your recent videos so I've come back to the older ones. This analysis is stellar, really love that you go more in depth. Please could you include this long-form analysis in your newer content if at all possible? Thanks you!
It consistently surprises me that the direct line between hate is murder .No middle steps just get rid of the problem.
I appreciate your little jokes in your segments. Always make me smile.
Your hair looks very nice today 👌
Thank you for always providing high caliber content.
Always the same ( continuity and reliability) and always different (subject, cacti, shirts) A winning combo!
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Thank you Dr. Grande.
Just discovered/subbed to this channel; your jokes are so unexpected and crack me up. Subject & analysis is quality. Good content all around man!
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Haha that hospital bill jab was priceless Dr.G 😆
Almost one million subs dr Gran a million people seek your advice this is awesome .
I recently watched a video from a couple of years ago. At the beginning of it, he provided his credentials and experience, which are impressive. I also appreciate he's personable as well as the times he provides a little personal information, such as his taste in cars. Since he uploads so often, I know his content will be authentic as well as humorous.
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Is this the same *"Circleville"* as the _famous_ *"Circleville Letters?"* 📩
Sad to be so unhappy! Interesting and great analysis, thank you.
Well said about personality and personality disorders.
Body dysmorphia does not make you a cold- hearted murderer.
Thanks, Doc.
Excellent analysis.
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Early Grande, nice!
Great video
Animal prints. That trial sounds like it was a hoot. Happy Sunday!
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That was a fascinating analysis, Dr Grande. Bravo! It's scary to think there are people like Tarra walking among us, and one small vendetta could get you killed. Luckily for Kelly, Tarra wasn't blessed with much intellect.
Anybody else think of the pun “model prisoner”/“model inmate” before watching even a second of this video?
Another one I haven’t heard of, let’s do this!
What! Not "Let's give it a gooo!
Never heard of this case but as usual, in depth, funny, sad. & informative. Narcs have no insight & are so dangerous. Thanks Dr G😊💚💚
Yes! His videos are the whole magilla! 😍
@@bthomson For sure!!💟
Hi Doctor Grande can you do an analysis of Jack The Ripper?
Love the facial hair Dr Grande! And the video too. 😍
And the cacti (three) the prop rotation (four) and the shirts (five)!
This was a good video 🤔. It made me think yeah we can fail as parent, as a judge and society and create what she is. How horrifying that she didn't have empathy or thought that she was the actual problem nor the worth her action including the value of a life smh thank you Dr. Grande. 😊 that was an excellent breakdown
Getting closer to a million doc. Congratulations. Those shirts are definitely working for you.😂😂😂 LOL!! Just kidding. Keep up the great work. We're all rooting for you.
First time I’ve actually laughed at one of your jokes ( I’m a bit hard to please) but the hospital one was unexpected and on point, and I actually made a sound! 😂
These new videos are so much better than your Excel spreadsheet videos.
Great job! I appreciated you highlighting the judges lack of developmental consideration and custodial responsibility when addressing her behavior and choices at 13. I also appreciate your non-judgmental and objective conceptualization. You made me laugh with the hospital bill comment! I'm not familiar with the case, but when you described her lack of insight, poor judgment, grandiosity, lack of empathy, and reflective function I wondered, was she having a manic/hypomanic episode? If the therapist was accurate in reporting that she attempted to decieve the psych test (again poor insight, could she really have not known about the validity scales? We normally prepare them. Or could she have been so grandios or concrete to think she could beat the validity scales? With that in mind one would definitely rule out cluster B personality disorders. Being a DID/OSDD specialist I couldn't help but wonder if her behavior at Walmart could indicate a dissociative episode. I wonder about her trauma history? Also, her nieveness with cost of a hit man makes me wonder is her lack of insight and concrete thinking related to UQ issues?issues Such? There brain trauma? Such an interesting discussion. Would be fun to do a round table with you! Docs Talk!🤩
I think what is hard here though is that one out of 3 girls and one out of 6 boys will experience some form of sexual abuse before they're 18. Not to mention all the physical abuse and neglect, and emotional abuse. That is a hell of a lot of people with trauma. But the vast majority are not murdering or attempting to murder people. So ya, she could absolutely have all those things, doesn't mean that she didn't choose to be violent or commit a crime.
Lets call spade a spade, she is narcissistic entitled *itch so stop trying to justify or indeed psychoanalyze her.
Dr. Grande thank you for publishing an analysis about this case. Could you please do a case analysis on what happened to Stewart Scheller a marine when he questioned a superior about how we are going to get people out of Afghanistan who are loyal to the real both pro-life and democratic cause too which the U.S. was trying to help be established there too?
Hello Dr. Grande, huge fan from Michigan here. I was curious as to wether or not you could do a profile on the Oakland County Child Killer (OCCK), who murdered at least four children in Oakland County, Michigan from 1976 to 1977.
Very interesting case, and I would love to hear your thoughts, and personal theories on the case.
I have to go back and watch Fargo, thank you Dr Grande
Dr. Grande please cover the Cash Gernon case, its absoluteley insane
Eileen UK. She thought her looks would get her what she wanted but you need a personality to go with it which she clearly didn’t have. I don’t need to say anymore DR Grande I absolutely agree with your analysis spot on as usual thank you 🙏 for another great 👍 video and another great 👍 shirt. 💙
Hello Dr grande I've watched your videos for two or three years. Shawn Cook is a childhood friend. Very interesting case for sure.
Such a rookie. All of us in the field know you are are supposed to freeze before the lumberjack chopper.
I will keep that in mind.
@Nathan Smith 😉thanks for the tip Nathan!😁
As a former logger, or lumberjack, I find this line of comments uncomfortable.
You missed on "A Model Inmate" - sorry to say. Great work as always though.
Good morning Dr Grande. Great analysis . I've never heard of this woman . She really sounds vindictive .I'm so pleased the police found her out.I wonder how she'll go when she is released. Thank you Dr Grande, have a great day.