Disclaimer: Some of these signs can apply to introverts, people with social anxiety, or are a little withdrawn as well. The key is if the person in question only shows these signs to you and not other people, then maybe they secretly dislike you.
Agreed. Additionally, a person with autism/aspergers may exhibit many of these signs without realizing even though they're genuinely tying their best. Body language isn't completely universal.
I never seek to hate anyone. But I hate someone having an issue with me and not even telling me what their problem is with me. It can be immature on their part, especially when in a professional setting. Most people have to work with someone they don’t like. It’s part of being an adult.
Yes I hate that too. My bestfriend did that to me and I was asking if there was something wrong, she just ignored me for 2 straight days in school. Then on dismissal she finally spoke to me, I asked her again and it seems like she was lying. So I just kept quiet. I became cold to her...I felt like I can't trust her anymore.
Some people are afraid of confrontations and some are too nice to tell you that they don't like u. That's why such videos are helpful, u can understand their body language
@Kray The Fin Yes! I never understood why some people just automatically don't like people. Like they never spoke to you don't even know you but don't like you. But one time I gotten tired of my coworker murmuring stuff about me so I asked if she had a problem with me and she told me I was too happy all the time and I smiled too much lol some people just are naturally bitter
Agreed, if I have a real issue with somebody I either talk to them about it directly or try to mind my own business. Unless they deliberately do something to harm me, in which case all fucking bets are off
Ty for saying this bc my own cousin said she doesn't like me and it hurt my feelings bad bc im a very sensitive person and me and my cousin were never that close we've gotten into ONE fight before but after and before that I was nothing but nice to her so I never understood what I did to make her nit like me😭
1. Their body language is not open 2. They avoid eye contact with you 3. Intense eye contact 4. Their conversations with you seem fake 5. They don't mimic. Instead, they reflect the opposite of your body language 6. They are to the point, and don't tend to talk further 7. They don't get in touch, or stay in touch if u caught me live... cool have a nice day UwU
Ive been said by my parents that they hate me, especially my mom and sister, secretly my dad and brother. Then there me, hating myself for not being good enough.
I feel like I do all of these things in social situations where I don't feel confident or comfortable... Not to say I dislike the other person, but I'm worried they dont like me so I act closed off. I was rejected a lot in my life so it's a way to protect myself... Social anxiety is fun.
That was my impression too. Introverts or people feeling insecure do all of these things on the regular, and get REALLY tired of friends and acquaintances saying that they thought you hated them at some point. My guess is that real active dislike or hatred (in real life, anyway) is a lot rarer than we suspect. But it seems that pretty much everyone is paranoid of everyone else hating them because they have certain expectations of other people that they don't see met the way they want, and they feel insecure themselves. This is why it's important to talk to people if we're really unsure of the truth of where we stand with them, not make random guesses based on body language.
I am the same way! My body language is so closed off because I feel insecure expressing it freely, which scares another person away from me. The number of times I had to answer no to people who asked me if I hated them. I feel guilty, I feel like everybody hates me secretly then when my body language is closed off they think I hate them. The struggle 😭
i hate eye contact with anybody, also people think that i hate them when in reality i dont like being touched, i hate hugs, i hate being latted on the back, i hate being kissed, i hate being touched on the shoulder, i hate people touching my hair
i avoid eye contact because it’s like when you look around you accidentally look at someone else and then they look at you and then it gets rly awkward
I know for a fact someone secretly hates me... I swear! Everyone thinks she’s the sweetest person but she always subtly put me down. Only me and my mom has noticed that, but she has legit made me cry before. Of course I don’t tell anyone (other than my parents because they know literally everything about me) Because I don’t want people to get involved and or dislike her. I’m just glad we don’t go to the same high school.
@@snowf0xx586 Oh, I’m 100% sure she knows what she’s doing. It took a while for me to realize it though. Here are just a few things she has done. 1. She liked to rub things in my face that I did wrong, and she rarely Congratulated me when I finally got an accomplishment. 2. If I ever started getting some attention she would try her best to steal it. 3. In eighth grade I had pretty low self-esteem. And usually had my hair down, because I didn’t really know how to do anything with it. But, one day I decided to wear a high ponytail, which made me really scared, because I didn’t know what people would think. When I met up with her in carpool she asked “ is your hair in a ponytail?” When I told her yes, she replied “ohhhhh thats why your hair looks so messy”. I started freaking out. I was terrified, I wanted to cry, and I definitely didn’t wanna go to school anymore. Luckily my mom had my back and stood up for me. By the way, the day turned out really great I got lots of compliments and my self-esteem got a whole lot better ever since. Sooo yeah. I’m pretty sure she’s doing it on purpose :P
I had a coworker that did all this stuff. The herder I tried the "kill em with kindness approach" the more she hated me. It got to a point that I would dread work when I knew she was on the schedule. I would go to a different space to do my work cause I knew she was gonna be pissed that I blinked my eyes or breathed the same air as her.
Don't worry, it doesn't mean they actually hate you, it's just a clickbate, there are many possibilities for emotions they would feel by doing the actions in the video
So I've been this way with people, not because I hate them, rather because I don't trust them. Their behavior was not consistent and made me second guess their intentions for me. I have also had people be this way with me as well. I feel bad that I made anyone think that I hate them, and it made me learn the importance of being honest. Live and learn, as they say? ❤️
I have ADD, and one of the symptoms is being distracted by my own thoughts. I could be making direct eye contact with a person and nodding, appearing to be paying attention, but my mind is miles away. It's not because I hate the person, but because my mind is wandering. I used to really annoy my mother with that *sweat drop*.
@@Psych2go not really one specific person but alot of people in general, most people i meet just tend to not like me, and thats fine i guess but like rip
I do ALOT of these, not because of dislike but because I’m shy~. Even “not reaching out/cancelled plans” I sometimes do because of feeling awkward to reach out to someone. So now I do make the effort to go somewhere if invited no matter how asocial I feel, because I don’t like making the wrong impression.
Everyone in the comment is like, "People hate me" "This video is so me. I can relate because so and so dislike me" But for me . . . I am 'that person'. I am the one that tends to hate people and keep them at a distance. People just annoy me and it is hard for me to like and relate to people. I be the one who smiles and be nice and polite but really, I just want to get my day over with so I can go home and relax in my bed and do my own shit on my own time.
I'm crying cause people around don't get it, dude I don't wanna talk, I don't care about your 'cool' family story, how quarantine is going for you, and those 'funny' jokes of yours, you're temporary cause I don't want to seem lonely, we ain't friends!!! Sorry I went on ranting there lol, someone's been annoying me, and I'm too passive aggressive to say a damn
@@itsnardjas_0069 SAME. I act like this with a specific friend too (well 2) . Like I hate conflict so I'm super passive aggressive, so I'm just always closed off and unresponsive or like straight to the point. It's a serious pain in the ass
Never understood why they hate me. Tried to be nice to them but it would seem like they would still find something to hate or/& upset w/me about. Well thank you for this video. Can't control others, you can only control your self.
Number eight: They deliberately try to drive you OUT of group conversations. Knew a girl in Highschool, totally hated me but we had mutual friends, so we were around each other a lot. She would always ignore my statements, interrupt me, and generally just try to exclude me. Thankfully, our mutual friends were better than that, so I was never fully excluded. To be honest, I wasn't great either, after I noticed her attempts to exclude me, I never addressed her individually, and even though I'd be courteous and never speak over her or say anything rude to/about her, I also would mentally check out whenever she was talking. Because I was not going to waste the energy nor brain cells paying attention when she wouldn't bother to do the same. Ironically I only just remembered her recently because she popped up in my instagram suggestion a few days ago.
@@Psych2go Hi! I love you so much! I know you weren't talking to me, but I think I do some of these because I have low self esteem. I don't like looking into people's eyes because I'm always self conscious.♥️🙏
This can be a very triggering video for people with social anxiety. But love the little saying at the end. I always feel like everyone hates me secretly. (Anxiety talking) Especially the people I work with.
I'm so shocked that almost all of the points are accurate, I know and understand how to direct a negative energy towards many people and expect the coming feedback, probably shit. props for the channel guys, they are trustful and helpful.
1. their body languange is not open 0:40 2. They avoid eye contact with u 1:05 3. Intence eye contact 1:32 4. Their consersations with you seem fake 1:58 5. They dont mimic instead , they reflect the opposite of your body languange 2:28 6. They are to the point , and dont tend to talk futher 2:53 7. they dont get in touch , or stay in touch Thank me later
Oh dear! I do most of these things... I'm an introvert. My body language seems stiff, I don't really maintain eye-contact while speaking. I generally have short, reserved conversations because of my awkwardness. & I don't like to answer calls, too lazy to reply to texts. I usually don't start conversations either. So, it appears as I don't want to keep in touch... People must think I really hate them😑😌
Bruh so last year i transferred to a new school and i had this friend who we’re gonna call Val and apparently secretly hated me from the beginning of our friendship but, she showed none of the signs that were listed in the video. Val acted so much as a true, trustworthy, and valuable friend to me. She enjoyed talking to me everyday before and after school, we always sat next to each other during lunch time and on the bus without a problem, and played games together almost every weekend.But during quarantine we still talked to each other for several hours at a time until one day, she just confronted me that i have apparently been annoying her since the very beginning and she hated me then she just blocked me. I felt so hurt and depressed afterwards because i just lost one of my only friends and i didn’t know what have i done wrong to deserve this, for several months i couldn’t get over the fact that Val is no longer my friend and just upsets me and i was somehow mad at myself and thought to myself that i don’t deserve other friends because i’ll just somehow be annoying and just ruin the friendship like i did with Val. But i’m doing better now, i kinda love myself now and found some true friends who is always there for me, cares about me, and makes me happy. Update: Oh wow something very unexpected happened, apparently Val wants to be friends with me again 12 or so hours later i posted this comment about her. (i dunno if this is a coincidence or something lol) She actually felt very horrible for leaving me like that and wants to apologize to me and as you know i give most people second chances, lets hope that she isn't pretending just to just hurt my feelings again and she actually means it. Update 2: We’re friends again! Val apologized for what she has done and realized that she was a toxic b**** and wanted to change her personality and felt really bad for leaving me and also missed me. It was awkward at first when we started talking but, we started getting less awkward and started talking normally to each other like we usually do. I invited her to a group chat with some of our friends from school and we all had a really good time together in a group call, I feel pretty happy that i got my best friend back and willing to talk to her more tomorrow.
Aww I’m so sorry that happened to you! They didn’t deserve you! Just judging by this comment, you seem to be a great storyteller and well-spoken. I don’t know how Val couldn’t see that! :(
Signs Of A Love-Hate Relationship👍 Sometimes you feel they are a blessing in your life. Sometimes you just can't stand them. You makeup-you break up again and again. You take the relationship as a challenge. You have no idea where the relationship is heading. No healthy emotional connection. You both have emotional baggage
Ngl these videos helped me identify the fake friends I had while making it easier to distance myself from them, realize that going through what I had too in fact wasn't worth it, and assisted the search for better and more caring people. I can say that the search is slow to bear fruit: finding good people these days is difficult, its worse when you distrust 98% of them because they give off a sort of "vibe" that's comparable to past individuals that weren't that great of a support. It also doesn't help that this distrust has led me to dig a bit too deep where no digging should be done, over analyzing actions, statements and behavior to an extreme point and often rejecting connections that could turn out better then I initially thought. I can't really blame myself though, you encounter enough people who literally act like exact copies of each other despite being completely different individuals, its hard too not find pushing everybody away the solution. Maybe its best I just leave social behavior to others who actually understand people, though I do enjoy these topics when its presented in ways like this.
As somebody who only had shallow conversations at social events and was so nervous, sometimes I didn't even know where I should put my hands because I was afraid I would say or do something stupid and feel stupid and lose my chance to be friends with the person I am talking to. I want friends, but I keep getting nervous when I see somebody who could be my friend and we are having a conversation. I end up just nodding along. I don't know what to do because my head is filled with thoughts, like millions of them running through, but I can't get any of them out and say it. Sometimes, I just froze or ran away. And looking into people's eyes is terrifying. After I watched this video and reviewed my recent conversations, I found I did many of these things. I really don't hate people. It's just I WANT TO HAVE FRIENDS SO BAD. I really don't hate people. Is there a way I can change myself from this to a normal person?
OMG YES...I always think every friend i have is fake (which is kinda a good/ bad thing cause i only have like one friend left) . I started to question my only friend left and then i said to myself , "they were friends with you for 3 or 4 years and they haven't left yet"
@@abby8490 OMG ye me too! I have been Friends with this one girl for a rlly long time! Although Idk much about her like before, memories fade for me. Eh, some of these things that were mentioned in the video, my friend had.
@@Edd_Vortex OH Also..same. I am starting to forget my friends personality cause i havent seen him in almost 2 years. I am also starting to forget some of the happy memories we had.... But he gave me 2 presents and i still have them and cherish them
"Did you know that mirroring and mimicking someone's actions is a subtle way that tells them you like them?" Me, who mirrors the bad things back at people when i don't like them: *VISIBLE CONFUSION*
I think I display some of these towards other people but it’s not because I hate them. I’m just scared of rejection so I guess I use these to keep people at a safe distance. I hope people don’t think I hate them :(
Wish people would just be honest. I'm fine with people not liking me or hating me for whatever reason. What I'm not okay with is people who waste my time. If you don't want to be in my life or don't care about me, just express it so we can move on. I always give people the opportunity to be honest with me about how they feel or what they want, and they always reassure me that they either want to be in my life or want me to be apart of theirs. But then later they would rather ghost, waste time, be unreliable, or display what's on this list. It's freaking exhausting. If I can be honest why can't they? Why is being sneaky, passive-aggressive, disloyal, and just plain wishy-washy always preferable to others?
This is how me and my dad’s girlfriend relationship is. To be honest, I don’t like her. So this is spot on. At first our relationship was easygoing and engaging, but it quickly changed after she started living with me and dad. So I’ve gotten to know her better. I hope this doesn’t come off as mean lol. I still very much respect her regardless of my thoughts. I respect her to show support for my dad and just not fully understanding her upbringings or issues she may have faced. Everyone story is different. Getting closer and learning more about God has helped tremendously.
All of these signs combined could also describe those who have social anxiety disorder and depression. I think the best way is to always communicate with the person first before you jump to conclusions that they hate you. Be mindful, kind, and understanding to the social anxiety community - We may display these signs but we truly like you!
I honestly feel like I have some of these signs, but for the wrong reasons. I don’t actually hate anyone. I really try to be a loving person. However, I often struggle to feel part of people's groups or simply struggle to enjoy talking to some people. It’s not because I hate someone at all though. I think it mainly has something to do with how I don’t have many friends. I end up feeling lonely and not connecting with certain people ends up turning me off. It really makes me sad. The only people who seem to want to talk to me are the ones I struggle to feel connected to while the ones I really like don’t talk to me as much. I don’t know how to fix my lack of friendships though. I have a few friends I can easily call friends online, but that’s mostly it. I have very few IRL friends that I genuinely can feel connected to. The last time I tried to befriend someone myself, I screwed up horribly because I became obsessed over wanting this person as a friend and ended up making her hate me. It ended up teaching me a lot about friendship though. It was just a horrible way to do it. Really though, I have nothing against the people who try to befriend me. I just think the may not be my type. I continue to talk to them though just to have someone to talk to. It’s honestly a depressing cycle and I just wish I had enough close friends that I could always talk to someone.
To all the people saying _everyone_ hates them, that's just impossible!! We tend to pay more attention to negativity that's why u think like that. But just like there are haters everywhere, there are also people who will love and support you no matter what. Maybe u haven't noticed them yet❤️❤️
There is this person that I work with and she talks to everybody. I, on the other hand, have a hard time talking to people in general. But when she's around me, she never says anything. Sometimes I try to avoid her to try and make it less awkward. The way I see it, she doesn't talk to me either because she doesn't like me or she doesn't know what to say to me. And I don't talk to her because *I* don't know what to say. Plus, I also feel like I'm not good enough to talk to her (or most people). Now we're in this weird thing where we walk around each other constantly wondering if we hate each other.
Wow. I actually do these things with people I like bc I’m so scared they won’t like me LMAO no wonder it’s so hard to make friends. They all think I hate them-
I really needed this, I know a classmate who probably hates me for a completely dumb reason. I decided to forget about it and move on, while she decides to be childish and hate me. Like wtf you're in middle school why are you so childish bruh
Hate is in my opinion a extremely misunderstood word, hate is undescribeable, you never want to hate someone, even if you do hate someone you probarly don't want to
“it is much safer to be feared than loved because ...love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails.” ― Niccolo Machiavelli, The Prince
Machivelli my main man. Hated for all time because he spoke the truth of how the human race works. People don't like the guy who holds up a mirror to them.
Mmm I already knew that coworker kinda hated me lol. It’s nice to have this video to do a self-check of my perceptions though. I know not everyone has to like you too. As long as you’re not actively hurting them in some way, you can’t control if someone just decides not to like you
Are there any verbal ways to tell besides someone just being direct? I had some online friends who were some of the best friends I've ever had (seriously we all got along on pretty much everything) but as soon as my depression got out of control I was blamed for it and I haven't really spoken to many people in about 2 months. People who I thought were genuine, understanding people turned against me when I needed them the most and now I'm alone and don't know who to trust.
Its horrible when someone dislikes you simply because they're jealous of you these are the sort who resort to bullying and belittling others too many are on social media making really hateful abusive attacks on others only because they are envious and want to lash out .they derive sadistic pleasure from hurting others . Stay strong know you're ok despite these awful vicious types avoid them cut them from your life .
Me: trying to heal from past trauma. Psych2Go: here you go, 7 signs someone secretly hates you. *glad to know that everyone hates me* Secretly chuckled🙂
“People should either be caressed or crushed. If you do them minor damage they will get their revenge; but if you cripple them there is nothing they can do. If you need to injure someone, do it in such a way that you do not have to fear their vengeance.” ― Niccolo Machiavelli
Disclaimer: Some of these signs can apply to introverts, people with social anxiety, or are a little withdrawn as well. The key is if the person in question only shows these signs to you and not other people, then maybe they secretly dislike you.
Agreed. Additionally, a person with autism/aspergers may exhibit many of these signs without realizing even though they're genuinely tying their best. Body language isn't completely universal.
I have had one I was always talking to my best friend and he said always he was bussy
@psych2go please answer my email about autism and alienation
I don't ussualy have body language
That's OK me a lot of times but sometimes I don't
I never seek to hate anyone. But I hate someone having an issue with me and not even telling me what their problem is with me. It can be immature on their part, especially when in a professional setting. Most people have to work with someone they don’t like. It’s part of being an adult.
Yes I hate that too. My bestfriend did that to me and I was asking if there was something wrong, she just ignored me for 2 straight days in school. Then on dismissal she finally spoke to me, I asked her again and it seems like she was lying. So I just kept quiet. I became cold to her...I felt like I can't trust her anymore.
Some people are afraid of confrontations and some are too nice to tell you that they don't like u. That's why such videos are helpful, u can understand their body language
@Kray The Fin Yes! I never understood why some people just automatically don't like people. Like they never spoke to you don't even know you but don't like you. But one time I gotten tired of my coworker murmuring stuff about me so I asked if she had a problem with me and she told me I was too happy all the time and I smiled too much lol some people just are naturally bitter
Agreed, if I have a real issue with somebody I either talk to them about it directly or try to mind my own business. Unless they deliberately do something to harm me, in which case all fucking bets are off
Totally with you. it happens too often.
Honestly, I can be that person to nod along with conversations, but that's just me not knowing what to say 😅
Yeah same GOSH DARNIT I HATE ANXIETY
That's why people have to notice the other signs too x)
I nod as well when I agree with what they are saying.
Me too
Yes
"Everyone is a bad person in someone's story."
Tru
Ooh interesting, I wonder in whose lives I am the bad guy
Who told you that? Hitler?
My mom wrote that on her wall
@@리시나몬 same..
"If they hate you, they don't deserve you" I can agree with you on that ❤
True & a fact
Ty for saying this bc my own cousin said she doesn't like me and it hurt my feelings bad bc im a very sensitive person and me and my cousin were never that close we've gotten into ONE fight before but after and before that I was nothing but nice to her so I never understood what I did to make her nit like me😭
Most of these are also signs of certain autism spectrums and usually are not outgrown. I hate that the video doesn't mention that!
@@Bre_.88 um maybe because of your face or smth (sorry my comment sounds a little bit rude
1. Their body language is not open
2. They avoid eye contact with you
3. Intense eye contact
4. Their conversations with you seem fake
5. They don't mimic. Instead, they reflect the opposite of your body language
6. They are to the point, and don't tend to talk further
7. They don't get in touch, or stay in touch
if u caught me live... cool
have a nice day UwU
@Grass Eater ur welcome!
Ty
Woah I'm early
Ty
thanks!!
It hurts me more when people do these subtle things than just telling me straight to my face that they hate me.
Ive been said by my parents that they hate me, especially my mom and sister, secretly my dad and brother. Then there me, hating myself for not being good enough.
Wouldn't it be great if people could just work out their differences
BunnellGachaGay aww why do you feel you aren’t good enough
When its your own family.
Same here
I didn’t need this I already know that everyone hates me
F
Felt that
Bro that's sad
Same. Yet here we all are! Like I needed confirmation (guess I do)! 💖🙃💖
I don't hate you ;-;
I feel like I do all of these things in social situations where I don't feel confident or comfortable... Not to say I dislike the other person, but I'm worried they dont like me so I act closed off. I was rejected a lot in my life so it's a way to protect myself... Social anxiety is fun.
That was my impression too. Introverts or people feeling insecure do all of these things on the regular, and get REALLY tired of friends and acquaintances saying that they thought you hated them at some point. My guess is that real active dislike or hatred (in real life, anyway) is a lot rarer than we suspect. But it seems that pretty much everyone is paranoid of everyone else hating them because they have certain expectations of other people that they don't see met the way they want, and they feel insecure themselves. This is why it's important to talk to people if we're really unsure of the truth of where we stand with them, not make random guesses based on body language.
I am the same way! My body language is so closed off because I feel insecure expressing it freely, which scares another person away from me. The number of times I had to answer no to people who asked me if I hated them. I feel guilty, I feel like everybody hates me secretly then when my body language is closed off they think I hate them. The struggle 😭
Indeed. Great points. Yeah, introverts and people who are a bit more closed off may show those behaviours.
SOMEBODY KNOWS WHAT IT FEELS LIKE
I’m autistic and I can relate to some of these points made.
“ A healthy mind does not speak ill off others”
...But bottling up emotions isn’t too good either I guess...
Yay!!!!
Thats not how it work's😅
Ah yes, because bottling your emotions is perfectly healthy.
@@candydream16 got em lol
Hello! :)
I don't even need to watch the video to know people hate me.
But still you're here. To confirm???
Everyone shows that they hate me
As long as you don't hate yourself that's all that matters ;)
@@Psych2go I didn't before but now I'm starting to ;-;
@@bipbeedippy3954 I can feel you. 😞
Because of you, I feel like I have a little bit of self control of my thoughts and feelings. Thank you!
So glad!
I love your profile picture ahah
i hate eye contact with anybody, also people think that i hate them when in reality i dont like being touched, i hate hugs, i hate being latted on the back, i hate being kissed, i hate being touched on the shoulder, i hate people touching my hair
i avoid eye contact because it’s like when you look around you accidentally look at someone else and then they look at you and then it gets rly awkward
I know for a fact someone secretly hates me... I swear! Everyone thinks she’s the sweetest person but she always subtly put me down. Only me and my mom has noticed that, but she has legit made me cry before. Of course I don’t tell anyone (other than my parents because they know literally everything about me) Because I don’t want people to get involved and or dislike her. I’m just glad we don’t go to the same high school.
Maybe she's just oblivious to what she says?, can you elaborate more?
its just humanity, take them as mere dust,just like this comment
Same but we are in the same school and sit next to each other. I hate my life.
@@snowf0xx586 Oh, I’m 100% sure she knows what she’s doing. It took a while for me to realize it though. Here are just a few things she has done.
1. She liked to rub things in my face that I did wrong, and she rarely Congratulated me when I finally got an accomplishment.
2. If I ever started getting some attention she would try her best to steal it.
3. In eighth grade I had pretty low self-esteem. And usually had my hair down, because I didn’t really know how to do anything with it. But, one day I decided to wear a high ponytail, which made me really scared, because I didn’t know what people would think. When I met up with her in carpool she asked “ is your hair in a ponytail?” When I told her yes, she replied “ohhhhh thats why your hair looks so messy”. I started freaking out. I was terrified, I wanted to cry, and I definitely didn’t wanna go to school anymore. Luckily my mom had my back and stood up for me. By the way, the day turned out really great I got lots of compliments and my self-esteem got a whole lot better ever since.
Sooo yeah. I’m pretty sure she’s doing it on purpose :P
@@julianneferguson5696 ohh I get it, yeah that's a pretty jerk move she did.
I already know someone hates me, you don’t gotta remind me
@@kodiak9079 yeah you probably hate me too...
@@kodiak9079 what do you mean by that? you want me to get some music so I don’t cry?
@@caroline-jz8np I dont hate you :333
@@abby8490 well thank you
@@caroline-jz8np i dont hate ya y so ppl are just so rude sum times arent they
People that hate me just Hardcore Ignores my exsistance but Stalk my social media 😂🤦
Ikr??
I had a coworker that did all this stuff. The herder I tried the "kill em with kindness approach" the more she hated me. It got to a point that I would dread work when I knew she was on the schedule. I would go to a different space to do my work cause I knew she was gonna be pissed that I blinked my eyes or breathed the same air as her.
So those were the signs that my family hated me! Now I know thank you!
*when all of your friends have the signs*
*uh oh*
@@kodiak9079 sad life indeed my dude 😔
Friends have*
@@Lettuce._head05 *Tokyo ghoul opening starts playing
@@kodiak9079 Lol same....Oooo Can you be meh friend :>
@@rollipolli642 LMAO
This was surprising,, I felt alone at the moment,,,
Trust me your not alone bro your not
F same bro
me too
same
Don't worry, it doesn't mean they actually hate you, it's just a clickbate, there are many possibilities for emotions they would feel by doing the actions in the video
‘No one deserves hate, We all compare even if we are the same species’
Omg a Gacha person! Tru tho!
@@Edd_Vortex lmao yess
A lot of people actually do deserve hate tho like really messed up people
Trump does deserve the ✨hate✨
@@Kate-ok4vb oh yah except him :3
So I've been this way with people, not because I hate them, rather because I don't trust them. Their behavior was not consistent and made me second guess their intentions for me. I have also had people be this way with me as well. I feel bad that I made anyone think that I hate them, and it made me learn the importance of being honest. Live and learn, as they say? ❤️
I have ADD, and one of the symptoms is being distracted by my own thoughts. I could be making direct eye contact with a person and nodding, appearing to be paying attention, but my mind is miles away. It's not because I hate the person, but because my mind is wandering. I used to really annoy my mother with that *sweat drop*.
everyone shows all the signs and im already really stressed about everything and knowing these makes me feel oh so much better✨
I look like am doing most of these all the time due to my inability to pick up social cues due to my autism.
I see. Does any of these signs describe someone in your life?
@@Psych2go not really one specific person but alot of people in general, most people i meet just tend to not like me, and thats fine i guess but like rip
@@erikburzinski8248 I’m also autistic and I do these things as well
@@erikburzinski8248 Same. It doesn't mean we dislike, let alone hate someone.
Lemme give you the list of people who has me on their hitlist:
EVERYONE
F
@pekoupekou great
Where are you hiding? We have been looking for you.
@@Psych2go I cannot tell ye, lest ye leak information on mine enemies.
@@Psych2go I have been hiding for 400 years
Why you gotta heighten my anxiety like that
O_O Sounds like me tbh
“never seen them before in my life, sorry to this person” is me when I’m mad at or out of touch with someone 😭😭
I do ALOT of these, not because of dislike but because I’m shy~.
Even “not reaching out/cancelled plans” I sometimes do because of feeling awkward to reach out to someone. So now I do make the effort to go somewhere if invited no matter how asocial I feel, because I don’t like making the wrong impression.
I secretly hate all of my classmate FR.
I don't know why actually.
I think it's because they are REALLY annoying
I like the funny kid, my crush and my best friend
Because probably they picked on you it’s a reason why
Can you guys please stop making me suspicious about my own life and the most perfect times.
Everyone in the comment is like, "People hate me" "This video is so me. I can relate because so and so dislike me"
But for me . . .
I am 'that person'. I am the one that tends to hate people and keep them at a distance. People just annoy me and it is hard for me to like and relate to people. I be the one who smiles and be nice and polite but really, I just want to get my day over with so I can go home and relax in my bed and do my own shit on my own time.
Omg twinsssss, I'm exactly like that!
ok
I've been on both sides of the coin. Can suck at times, but only made me stronger mentally.
I'm crying cause people around don't get it, dude I don't wanna talk, I don't care about your 'cool' family story, how quarantine is going for you, and those 'funny' jokes of yours, you're temporary cause I don't want to seem lonely, we ain't friends!!!
Sorry I went on ranting there lol, someone's been annoying me, and I'm too passive aggressive to say a damn
@@itsnardjas_0069 SAME. I act like this with a specific friend too (well 2) . Like I hate conflict so I'm super passive aggressive, so I'm just always closed off and unresponsive or like straight to the point. It's a serious pain in the ass
Never understood why they hate me. Tried to be nice to them but it would seem like they would still find something to hate or/& upset w/me about. Well thank you for this video. Can't control others, you can only control your self.
member?
This has literally confirmed everything I needed to know. Thank you for creating these videos to help people figure what could be going on💜
The eye contact animation made me laugh. It was just too perfect 😅
I show all these signs to a lot of people, it's not because I hate them it's because of my social anxiety.
Number eight: They deliberately try to drive you OUT of group conversations.
Knew a girl in Highschool, totally hated me but we had mutual friends, so we were around each other a lot. She would always ignore my statements, interrupt me, and generally just try to exclude me. Thankfully, our mutual friends were better than that, so I was never fully excluded. To be honest, I wasn't great either, after I noticed her attempts to exclude me, I never addressed her individually, and even though I'd be courteous and never speak over her or say anything rude to/about her, I also would mentally check out whenever she was talking. Because I was not going to waste the energy nor brain cells paying attention when she wouldn't bother to do the same. Ironically I only just remembered her recently because she popped up in my instagram suggestion a few days ago.
I do all of these to everyone but I don’t hate anyone
same. i either completely avoid people I strongly / dislike, or i treat them as best as i can muster
Same!
I see!! Thanks for sharing. Why do you think you might do these?
@@Psych2go Hi! I love you so much! I know you weren't talking to me, but I think I do some of these because I have low self esteem. I don't like looking into people's eyes because I'm always self conscious.♥️🙏
Saame
This can be a very triggering video for people with social anxiety. But love the little saying at the end. I always feel like everyone hates me secretly. (Anxiety talking) Especially the people I work with.
Me: wow, I sure wish I was able to develop closer relationships
TH-cam: 7 signs someone secretly hates you
Me: does most of these to everyone
Me:👁👄👁
I have a recommendation!
since I have only online friends because I dont get along with irl people, can we get a few videos about online friends?
I like that idea
So there's a few that secretly hate me, and alot of people who don't value me. Great! Thanks for letting me know 😖😆🤧😅
The video: 7 Signs Someone Secretly Hates You
My anxiety: Oh so you mean everyone
Went to a new school. Some girl constantly glaring at me. Two years later, you can barely separate us.
I'm so shocked that almost all of the points are accurate, I know and understand how to direct a negative energy towards many people and expect the coming feedback, probably shit.
props for the channel guys, they are trustful and helpful.
1. their body languange is not open 0:40
2. They avoid eye contact with u 1:05
3. Intence eye contact 1:32
4. Their consersations with you seem fake 1:58
5. They dont mimic instead , they reflect the opposite of your body languange 2:28
6. They are to the point , and dont tend to talk futher 2:53
7. they dont get in touch , or stay in touch
Thank me later
Thanks
@@gulshamaisa4733 np !
you are describing me
Confession: I’ve been on the giving end of it many times. Mostly towards my younger brother
nobody:
absolutely nobody:
my crush hates me
I did all of these to my crush and I obviously don’t hate him
Oh dear!
I do most of these things...
I'm an introvert. My body language seems stiff, I don't really maintain eye-contact while speaking. I generally have short, reserved conversations because of my awkwardness. & I don't like to answer calls, too lazy to reply to texts. I usually don't start conversations either. So, it appears as I don't want to keep in touch...
People must think I really hate them😑😌
Bruh so last year i transferred to a new school and i had this friend who we’re gonna call Val and apparently secretly hated me from the beginning of our friendship but, she showed none of the signs that were listed in the video. Val acted so much as a true, trustworthy, and valuable friend to me. She enjoyed talking to me everyday before and after school, we always sat next to each other during lunch time and on the bus without a problem, and played games together almost every weekend.But during quarantine we still talked to each other for several hours at a time until one day, she just confronted me that i have apparently been annoying her since the very beginning and she hated me then she just blocked me. I felt so hurt and depressed afterwards because i just lost one of my only friends and i didn’t know what have i done wrong to deserve this, for several months i couldn’t get over the fact that Val is no longer my friend and just upsets me and i was somehow mad at myself and thought to myself that i don’t deserve other friends because i’ll just somehow be annoying and just ruin the friendship like i did with Val. But i’m doing better now, i kinda love myself now and found some true friends who is always there for me, cares about me, and makes me happy.
Update: Oh wow something very unexpected happened, apparently Val wants to be friends with me again 12 or so hours later i posted this comment about her. (i dunno if this is a coincidence or something lol) She actually felt very horrible for leaving me like that and wants to apologize to me and as you know i give most people second chances, lets hope that she isn't pretending just to just hurt my feelings again and she actually means it.
Update 2: We’re friends again! Val apologized for what she has done and realized that she was a toxic b**** and wanted to change her personality and felt really bad for leaving me and also missed me. It was awkward at first when we started talking but, we started getting less awkward and started talking normally to each other like we usually do. I invited her to a group chat with some of our friends from school and we all had a really good time together in a group call, I feel pretty happy that i got my best friend back and willing to talk to her more tomorrow.
Sorry to hear that; I'm glad that you're doing better.
Aww I’m so sorry that happened to you! They didn’t deserve you! Just judging by this comment, you seem to be a great storyteller and well-spoken. I don’t know how Val couldn’t see that! :(
Signs Of A Love-Hate Relationship👍
Sometimes you feel they are a blessing in your life.
Sometimes you just can't stand them.
You makeup-you break up again and again.
You take the relationship as a challenge.
You have no idea where the relationship is heading.
No healthy emotional connection.
You both have emotional baggage
Dang these are always perfect timing
Ngl these videos helped me identify the fake friends I had while making it easier to distance myself from them, realize that going through what I had too in fact wasn't worth it, and assisted the search for better and more caring people.
I can say that the search is slow to bear fruit: finding good people these days is difficult, its worse when you distrust 98% of them because they give off a sort of "vibe" that's comparable to past individuals that weren't that great of a support. It also doesn't help that this distrust has led me to dig a bit too deep where no digging should be done, over analyzing actions, statements and behavior to an extreme point and often rejecting connections that could turn out better then I initially thought. I can't really blame myself though, you encounter enough people who literally act like exact copies of each other despite being completely different individuals, its hard too not find pushing everybody away the solution.
Maybe its best I just leave social behavior to others who actually understand people, though I do enjoy these topics when its presented in ways like this.
I'm not worried about anyone hating me.
I watch these videos to use in my writing.
As somebody who only had shallow conversations at social events and was so nervous, sometimes I didn't even know where I should put my hands because I was afraid I would say or do something stupid and feel stupid and lose my chance to be friends with the person I am talking to. I want friends, but I keep getting nervous when I see somebody who could be my friend and we are having a conversation. I end up just nodding along. I don't know what to do because my head is filled with thoughts, like millions of them running through, but I can't get any of them out and say it. Sometimes, I just froze or ran away. And looking into people's eyes is terrifying. After I watched this video and reviewed my recent conversations, I found I did many of these things.
I really don't hate people. It's just I WANT TO HAVE FRIENDS SO BAD. I really don't hate people.
Is there a way I can change myself from this to a normal person?
*what my brain thinks my friends do to me*
OMG YES...I always think every friend i have is fake (which is kinda a good/ bad thing cause i only have like one friend left) . I started to question my only friend left and then i said to myself , "they were friends with you for 3 or 4 years and they haven't left yet"
@@abby8490 OMG ye me too! I have been Friends with this one girl for a rlly long time! Although Idk much about her like before, memories fade for me. Eh, some of these things that were mentioned in the video, my friend had.
@@Edd_Vortex Guess what
My friend = ex
@@Edd_Vortex OH Also..same. I am starting to forget my friends personality cause i havent seen him in almost 2 years. I am also starting to forget some of the happy memories we had.... But he gave me 2 presents and i still have them and cherish them
Honestly yes. My anxiety and paranoia makes me think my friends might secretly dislike me or something
"Hate" is a strong word... 💔
"Did you know that mirroring and mimicking someone's actions is a subtle way that tells them you like them?"
Me, who mirrors the bad things back at people when i don't like them: *VISIBLE CONFUSION*
i love how your voice is so peacefully and calm
I saw all 7 signs! Thanks for the help!
I think I display some of these towards other people but it’s not because I hate them. I’m just scared of rejection so I guess I use these to keep people at a safe distance.
I hope people don’t think I hate them :(
Me realizing that I do all of these things to random people even when I don't dislike them
😬
Thank you for another great video!
Wait, there are other ways than this that people could interact with me?
Now I get it.
Wish people would just be honest. I'm fine with people not liking me or hating me for whatever reason. What I'm not okay with is people who waste my time. If you don't want to be in my life or don't care about me, just express it so we can move on. I always give people the opportunity to be honest with me about how they feel or what they want, and they always reassure me that they either want to be in my life or want me to be apart of theirs. But then later they would rather ghost, waste time, be unreliable, or display what's on this list. It's freaking exhausting. If I can be honest why can't they? Why is being sneaky, passive-aggressive, disloyal, and just plain wishy-washy always preferable to others?
This is how me and my dad’s girlfriend relationship is. To be honest, I don’t like her. So this is spot on. At first our relationship was easygoing and engaging, but it quickly changed after she started living with me and dad. So I’ve gotten to know her better. I hope this doesn’t come off as mean lol. I still very much respect her regardless of my thoughts. I respect her to show support for my dad and just not fully understanding her upbringings or issues she may have faced. Everyone story is different. Getting closer and learning more about God has helped tremendously.
I need an hour of the little psych2go characters just dancing to healing music
All of these signs combined could also describe those who have social anxiety disorder and depression. I think the best way is to always communicate with the person first before you jump to conclusions that they hate you. Be mindful, kind, and understanding to the social anxiety community - We may display these signs but we truly like you!
Yeah i dont like talk to long just to the point
1:21
*_PSYCH2GO IS A NARUTO FAN?!kdmosndosndowj_*
Thats what I was wondering. Hinata lmao
Haha I was just scrolling through the comments wondering why no one else noticed xD
@@chriskuni9308 right?
I was scrolling thru the comments to see where the rest of the naruto fans are at 🤣🤣🤣🤣
Aaaaa Hinata
"Have you ever looked someone and wondered... What it's going on inside their head?"
number 7 for sure. picked that up a lot this year with certain people i thought were cool with me.
I honestly feel like I have some of these signs, but for the wrong reasons. I don’t actually hate anyone. I really try to be a loving person. However, I often struggle to feel part of people's groups or simply struggle to enjoy talking to some people. It’s not because I hate someone at all though. I think it mainly has something to do with how I don’t have many friends. I end up feeling lonely and not connecting with certain people ends up turning me off. It really makes me sad. The only people who seem to want to talk to me are the ones I struggle to feel connected to while the ones I really like don’t talk to me as much. I don’t know how to fix my lack of friendships though. I have a few friends I can easily call friends online, but that’s mostly it. I have very few IRL friends that I genuinely can feel connected to. The last time I tried to befriend someone myself, I screwed up horribly because I became obsessed over wanting this person as a friend and ended up making her hate me. It ended up teaching me a lot about friendship though. It was just a horrible way to do it. Really though, I have nothing against the people who try to befriend me. I just think the may not be my type. I continue to talk to them though just to have someone to talk to. It’s honestly a depressing cycle and I just wish I had enough close friends that I could always talk to someone.
Just what I needed to prove my anxiety wrong! Except that the first sign is relatable oh no
Oop-
Psy2go really didn't need to confirm my fears like this
To all the people saying _everyone_ hates them, that's just impossible!! We tend to pay more attention to negativity that's why u think like that. But just like there are haters everywhere, there are also people who will love and support you no matter what. Maybe u haven't noticed them yet❤️❤️
Richa Mansukh .Ur saying absolutely right.i m agree with your words .
There is this person that I work with and she talks to everybody. I, on the other hand, have a hard time talking to people in general. But when she's around me, she never says anything. Sometimes I try to avoid her to try and make it less awkward. The way I see it, she doesn't talk to me either because she doesn't like me or she doesn't know what to say to me. And I don't talk to her because *I* don't know what to say. Plus, I also feel like I'm not good enough to talk to her (or most people).
Now we're in this weird thing where we walk around each other constantly wondering if we hate each other.
Oh well lemme just cross off names the list of 20 people I thought like me😔
[*Sigh] Lemme go ahead and do that too
Wow. I actually do these things with people I like bc I’m so scared they won’t like me LMAO no wonder it’s so hard to make friends. They all think I hate them-
Now i know Most people hate me
I really needed this, I know a classmate who probably hates me for a completely dumb reason. I decided to forget about it and move on, while she decides to be childish and hate me. Like wtf you're in middle school why are you so childish bruh
Hate is in my opinion a extremely misunderstood word, hate is undescribeable, you never want to hate someone, even if you do hate someone you probarly don't want to
I'm starting to love you guys even more because you guys are like therapy to me :)
“it is much safer to be feared than loved because ...love is preserved by the link of obligation which, owing to the baseness of men, is broken at every opportunity for their advantage; but fear preserves you by a dread of punishment which never fails.”
― Niccolo Machiavelli, The Prince
Machivelli my main man. Hated for all time because he spoke the truth of how the human race works. People don't like the guy who holds up a mirror to them.
Everyone hates me🤦🏻♀️🤣
We love you, and 7 others who gave you thumbs up
now i'm worried that my friends think i hate them even though i don't... i'm just really introverted and socially anxious
'sitting really far away from you' they don't hate you they're just following social distancing advice vie Covid-19.
Not first
U r first
It’s weird because you are, you know that though 😉
yes
Oop
There is an imposter among us
I don’t like giving eye contact to anyone because it makes me feel weird
Mmm I already knew that coworker kinda hated me lol. It’s nice to have this video to do a self-check of my perceptions though. I know not everyone has to like you too. As long as you’re not actively hurting them in some way, you can’t control if someone just decides not to like you
Yes, I have experienced these things, but I just let it roll off my back. Life is too short to waste, any amount of time, on hatred.
Are there any verbal ways to tell besides someone just being direct?
I had some online friends who were some of the best friends I've ever had (seriously we all got along on pretty much everything) but as soon as my depression got out of control I was blamed for it and I haven't really spoken to many people in about 2 months. People who I thought were genuine, understanding people turned against me when I needed them the most and now I'm alone and don't know who to trust.
I need this
When your best friend does pretty much all of this: ._.
Its horrible when someone dislikes you simply because they're jealous of you these are the sort who resort to bullying and belittling others too many are on social media making really hateful abusive attacks on others only because they are envious and want to lash out .they derive sadistic pleasure from hurting others . Stay strong know you're ok despite these awful vicious types avoid them cut them from your life .
Hate is a very strong word.
Early squad ayyyy
Ayy
Me: trying to heal from past trauma.
Psych2Go: here you go, 7 signs someone secretly hates you.
*glad to know that everyone hates me*
Secretly chuckled🙂
*cries* in introvert
@@cerridianempire1653 same bro same!!
then I dislike everyone. sosical anxiety here we go...
Wow this is so sad. Someone I was with for 18 years acts this way towards me. To be around someone for 18 years and hate them is crazy work!!!!
Brings up topics that make you sad. Not going to react to say om disgusted is an understatement
“People should either be caressed or crushed. If you do them minor damage they will get their revenge; but if you cripple them there is nothing they can do. If you need to injure someone, do it in such a way that you do not have to fear their vengeance.”
― Niccolo Machiavelli