Um, they get life. Period. That's how long the children will have to live with it. The predators can't be truly rehabilitated, and that's the opposite of what prison does, anyway.
My father got exactky the same sentence. 12 years. But he pleaded not guilty so i had to give evidence over 2 days. This destroyed me. I never got over it. But despite the fact he never admitted guilt, he was still allowed out of jail after 4 years. He moved back to my town and i just saw him one day in wh smith. It was the most traumatic moment. I just ran. The only reteibution in my story is that he died 7 weeks later. A massive heart attack. He had named me as next of kin. The council tried to force me to clean his flat and pay for his funeral. I absolutely refused. There was jsut no way i was puttint my family into debt for this man and i didnt want to touch his stuff. Someone told me he had taken in a cat who was wandering the streets since he died. We went and found the cat. We loved the cat dearly and she spent the rest of her life with us and died aged 17 with her family all around her. But him, he had a pauper council funeral that no one attended. I dont even know whether he was buried or cremated and i dont care. Survivors have very little justice in this country. The court system is a joke and very traumatic for victims.
thank you for sharing your experience, i hope you're feeling relieved and so much better now that this monster died. And taking the cat was a very cute idea
That's really sad. I seen a TH-cam video where this young guy got arrested and he was gang graped in jail and he contracted HIV. It really tore him up 💔
Imagine being so excited to have your father back in your life, only to discover through repeated atrocities just what type of person he is. Not to mention the guilt this person made you feel when he was clearly the perpetrator. I hope it goes without saying that none of this was your fault. I wish you happiness and peace. You are a remarkable human. ♥️
It’s a relief that her mom found out and alerted authorities right away and had him arrested. It seems with all these cases I watch, the mom doesn’t believe them, doesn’t want to or is upset but doesn’t want to get the father arrested.
As a father of 3 girls I can’t understand how any man could look at his own daughter in that way and do what he did to her how could he live with himself he should have been made to do the 12 years and more in my opinion dreadful man.
As a full grown adult I still can’t fully comprehend how some people can be so evil. Like I truly can’t understand how a person can bring themselves to a point to hurt another human being in general other than self defense or protecting your family. This is why I don’t play with people period because you really don’t know what people do behind close doors. SMH to many sick monsters out here
I grew up not having my father in my life and any time I feel upset about it I think of children that grow up with abusive fathers and I think a higher protected me from whatever unnecessary trauma he had. I hope you find peace in the fact that you had no power in this. Im glad your mom found out and she protected you. ❤
Thank God you didn't that illness.. My heart goes out to you deeply 💖 and I hope you have good immediate support around you and your life balances out and you get all of the happiness you deserve in life. Well done with helping others. Wishing you all the very best 💖
4:14 “I just took that all inwards, with guilt, that my dad could potentially make himself sick and potentially even die because he wasn’t taking his medication because of what happened with me” This is so unbelievably evil and horrid. I can’t believe what a strong woman she is to have gotten through this ❤️
You are such a strong, courageous and inspirational woman. Thank you for sharing your story your bravery is breaking down stigma and will help so many others to become empowered to let go of their shame of being abused.
This poor woman. 😢 Hopefully her life is improving and she’s becoming stronger everyday. Betrayal by her depraved father! So sick 🤢 He should be in jail for life. There’s no forgiveness and no coming back from this evil that perpetrators bestow on their victims. 😢😮
Sending a big hug out to you girl! No way was any of this your fault! There should only be shame on your father's part! Your mom is a HERO! Standing up for your rights even as a child. You are never alone. Just reach out to others that have experienced this horror. Thank you for speaking out, so that other young people will hear your message. ❤
They gave him less time coz he saved the court money by pleading guilty. Money is all they care about. And, most of the judges are the same way inclined as her dad. So they’re lenient.
I'm so sorry you had to go through such pain. It's heartbreaking how sometimes, we hold onto the hope that theyll change, even when the signs show otherwise. What do you think has helped you the most in finding strength through this journey?
Common - she didn’t notice for 5 years - that’s not a flex - and only noticed cause she saw a text message .. if he didn’t send that message mum would still be oblivious Not saying it’s her fault but she’s far from observant if she didn’t notice any behaviour issues for 5 years 😮
@@barbarella.artistwhere did you get 5 years from? The first time he abused her was when she was 14 and it was reported 6 months later? Obviously things weren’t right leading up to it (3 years earlier) but her mother wasn’t living in the same house so it would have been harder to notice the grooming.
So brave to share your difficult story ❤ he was such a coward. Also for letting you down again when you tried to have a conversation. I hope you can find the closure that you deserve, without him. My friends father never admitted to abusing her. It took a lot of time and trauma therapy but my friend feels good now. I wish you all the best. Like you said, you got nothing to be ashamed of, you are a true warrior and survivor.
My mother always took good care of me (she was very protective) and since I was very little I remember her always telling me not to let absolutely no one touch me or do anything I felt it wasn’t right.
These stories really need to be told. I'm a professional freelance closed captioner, and I really think this series deserves to have captions on them. Is there an email I can contact you at?
How could a mother invite someone like that back into their life after they left the first time? How heartbreaking for this woman. :( It sounds like getting stabbed in the back by not only one caretaker.... but BOTH failed her.
I'm so sorry to hear that you've had to witness or be affected by such a painful situation. It's heartbreaking that people like him can sometimes escape the full consequences of their actions. I believe that justice should always be served, but I also wonder, what do you think is the most important factor when determining if someone truly deserves a second chance or not?
What a monster of a man/father! I wonder what happened to him as a child? Who were his parents and predators? God bless this woman, her kids and her marriage. Just wow! Just like Joyce Meyer, the Christian Evangelist, so sad.
Are there not laws that give harsher charges for when someone with hiv or other life altering conditions, knowingly ‘sleeps‘ with someone and doesn’t inform them or sa’s someone because it can be a d*ath sentence, or are those not in the UK? I know that there are laws like that somewhere, but I would have thought that when those laws were first introduced, that most nations would have at least started the process of adding them into their system! However, either way, after what he did he never should have been released!!!!!
Human rights activists like fighting for criminals against the death penalty. While this isn’t crime doesn’t warrant a death penalty, my point is if the most serious crimes (such a murder) calls for life sentence WITH A POSSIBILITY OF PAROLE, then something that is “less serious” like this will only give a slap on the wrist. I guess I’ve been brought up in the school of hard knocks but people need harsher punishment especially for crimes like these where victims will be punished for the rest of their lives.
Partly it’s your mums fault. She should not be letting you go with your dad straight away, he should have had a regular visit only not staying overnight or a day with a monster. Law should change on this😢
@HudaAbdulahi _You can't be serious. First, just because you don't like a question doesn't make the person who asked it a troll. She said herself that she wasn't asleep the first time. So how does that happen on "multiple occasions"? And then a full on unprotected sexual relationship? Come on now. And knowing the health risks! What tf are we talking about? So yes, how about just a little bit of response / accountability? Stop being weird and emotional you creep weirdo._
I don’t know, being abused by her father who has hiv is so horrific, and yet you are here commenting about something that doesn’t even compare in severity. You’re deluded if you can’t see how stupid you are being with that ideology.
So incredibly brave, she is doing so much good for fellow survivors like myself 🤍 8 years is not long enough and its disgusting that he can just change his name and live in the community now freely.
@ she wasn’t child enough to know it was very wrong the first time it happened. He reinforcing that by apologizing profusely…I’m a monster, etc. even at 14 I never ever would have gone back to that. The whole father thing was new to her. She had a stable life at her mother’s. She didn’t have to go back.
@@ohhdah5219the onus isn’t on her it’s on the adult. Tell me you have no idea about grooming.. stop trying to shift the blame and I hope you are sterile
@@ohhdah5219 shocking comments. She was a little girl who was craving a father who loved her. Getting her into drugs and alcohol. He is pure evil manipulating a child.
@@CG-fy9jz exactly. He is pure evil. He even said so the first time he molested her. She had a mother and stepfather at home to see what love and affection should be like. My dad used to beat the crap out of me till I was 4, then he shot himself. He knew it was wrong too. I get trying to have a father figure in your life. But never to that extent. Think back to when you were 14…..if I knew something w as wrong it would have never happened again.
Reduced to 8 due to pleading guilty and only serving 4? He raped a child, knowing he had HIV, not broke into a liquor store.
💯
It’s disgusting the laws for child abusers they should get atleast 15 years prison time
Um, they get life. Period. That's how long the children will have to live with it. The predators can't be truly rehabilitated, and that's the opposite of what prison does, anyway.
Law system is telling people 'do your own justice' without saying it. We Just don't want to understand...
Interestingly he'd have gotten more time for robbing a liquor store
My father got exactky the same sentence. 12 years. But he pleaded not guilty so i had to give evidence over 2 days. This destroyed me. I never got over it. But despite the fact he never admitted guilt, he was still allowed out of jail after 4 years. He moved back to my town and i just saw him one day in wh smith. It was the most traumatic moment. I just ran. The only reteibution in my story is that he died 7 weeks later. A massive heart attack. He had named me as next of kin. The council tried to force me to clean his flat and pay for his funeral. I absolutely refused. There was jsut no way i was puttint my family into debt for this man and i didnt want to touch his stuff. Someone told me he had taken in a cat who was wandering the streets since he died. We went and found the cat. We loved the cat dearly and she spent the rest of her life with us and died aged 17 with her family all around her. But him, he had a pauper council funeral that no one attended. I dont even know whether he was buried or cremated and i dont care. Survivors have very little justice in this country. The court system is a joke and very traumatic for victims.
I am crying I can feel your pain lots of respect from Pakistan ❤
thank you for sharing your experience, i hope you're feeling relieved and so much better now that this monster died. And taking the cat was a very cute idea
Does a lot of incest go on in Pakistan @@BushraKhalid-x9g
Its hidden in Pakistan this type of abuse @@BushraKhalid-x9g
Thank u for taking in the cat
It's insane that this monster was out after 4 years, what he did should have been considered attempted murder.
i think in the US it would be
@@ttrin_x2not anymore due to the meds making it possible to live with the virse.
@ but i don’t think the law has changed bc eventually most people die from it
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
I met a man who was sexually assaulted as a small child and contracted hiv. You could see the dark cloud over his head. I feel so bad for him 😢
My heart goes out to your friend 💖
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
I feel terribly for him that’s my worse nightmare. No one is going to be around my kids.
That's really sad. I seen a TH-cam video where this young guy got arrested and he was gang graped in jail and he contracted HIV. It really tore him up 💔
Imagine being so excited to have your father back in your life, only to discover through repeated atrocities just what type of person he is. Not to mention the guilt this person made you feel when he was clearly the perpetrator. I hope it goes without saying that none of this was your fault. I wish you happiness and peace. You are a remarkable human. ♥️
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thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
It’s a relief that her mom found out and alerted authorities right away and had him arrested. It seems with all these cases I watch, the mom doesn’t believe them, doesn’t want to or is upset but doesn’t want to get the father arrested.
A heartbreaking and courageous story shedding light on resilience in the face of unimaginable pain.
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How brave to speak out
Can we please stop overusing the world 'brave' please?
@@fcukugimmeausername how is this an overuse?
@@fcukugimmeausernameshe is brave. Not everyone could share private things. Share your insecurities and trauma to the world if youre so brave lol
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@@fcukugimmeausernamecan you stop telling people to stop using that word?
As a father of 3 girls I can’t understand how any man could look at his own daughter in that way and do what he did to her how could he live with himself he should have been made to do the 12 years and more in my opinion dreadful man.
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How anyone can see any child sexually is disgusting. The only cure is death.
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My father did this to me, it's a terrible thing. Just curse these creatures.
I was sexually abused by a hiv positive uncle .and left with horrific trauma,I respect this lady.
Did you contract the virus
Sincerely wishing this young lady all the very best ❤
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thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
What a beautiful and brave individual. Thank you for having the courage to speak about this.
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
As a full grown adult I still can’t fully comprehend how some people can be so evil. Like I truly can’t understand how a person can bring themselves to a point to hurt another human being in general other than self defense or protecting your family. This is why I don’t play with people period because you really don’t know what people do behind close doors. SMH to many sick monsters out here
I grew up not having my father in my life and any time I feel upset about it I think of children that grow up with abusive fathers and I think a higher protected me from whatever unnecessary trauma he had.
I hope you find peace in the fact that you had no power in this. Im glad your mom found out and she protected you. ❤
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
Thank God you didn't that illness.. My heart goes out to you deeply 💖 and I hope you have good immediate support around you and your life balances out and you get all of the happiness you deserve in life.
Well done with helping others.
Wishing you all the very best 💖
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4:14 “I just took that all inwards, with guilt, that my dad could potentially make himself sick and potentially even die because he wasn’t taking his medication because of what happened with me”
This is so unbelievably evil and horrid. I can’t believe what a strong woman she is to have gotten through this ❤️
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You are such a strong, courageous and inspirational woman. Thank you for sharing your story your bravery is breaking down stigma and will help so many others to become empowered to let go of their shame of being abused.
Beautiful brave girl. Tks for sharing.
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thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
I had a patient that was gang raped as a child and contacted HIV. It was very sad.
The guy is a psychopath, nothing else. He should stay in prison for the rest of his life.
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How is her skin so perfect? Wow. Most beautiful skin I've ever seen
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thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
Makeup
How is that relevant
This poor woman. 😢
Hopefully her life is improving and she’s becoming stronger everyday.
Betrayal by her depraved father!
So sick 🤢
He should be in jail for life. There’s no forgiveness and no coming back from this evil that perpetrators bestow on their victims. 😢😮
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Good for you! It’s so important to share this,there are still so many victims out there that are carrying a shame that doesn’t belong to them
Sending a big hug out to you girl! No way was any of this your fault! There should only be shame on your father's part! Your mom is a HERO! Standing up for your rights even as a child. You are never alone. Just reach out to others that have experienced this horror. Thank you for speaking out, so that other young people will hear your message. ❤
I know this was probably so hard, thank you so much for sharing ❤
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They gave him less time coz he saved the court money by pleading guilty. Money is all they care about. And, most of the judges are the same way inclined as her dad. So they’re lenient.
Bless u my darling ❤
Abuse is strange:- we go back to it - in my case - hoping they will correct their behaviour.
They rarely do.
I'm so sorry you had to go through such pain. It's heartbreaking how sometimes, we hold onto the hope that theyll change, even when the signs show otherwise. What do you think has helped you the most in finding strength through this journey?
Thank you for sharing your story.
Moms are so precious sometimes😊 im so, so sorry this has happened to you.❤
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You're a very brave lady to tell your story to help others, so sorry you had to go through this ordeal
thanks to dr abiola for curin me completely from hiv
How brave of this beautiful woman. I am so sorry she had to go through that.
Beautiful, brave and courageous girl! You are an amazing person. Best wishes to you for your future happiness and success ❤
I'm so sorry that happened to you 😢
Well done for talking about it publicly Lauren. I hope that your life is more peaceful :)
Beautiful, brave lady. Thank goodness your mum was so observant and spotted that things weren’t right 💖 xxx
Common - she didn’t notice for 5 years - that’s not a flex - and only noticed cause she saw a text message .. if he didn’t send that message mum would still be oblivious
Not saying it’s her fault but she’s far from observant if she didn’t notice any behaviour issues for 5 years 😮
Most mothers are accomplices. Is IMPOSIBLE to not notice rappe
@@barbarella.artistwhere did you get 5 years from? The first time he abused her was when she was 14 and it was reported 6 months later? Obviously things weren’t right leading up to it (3 years earlier) but her mother wasn’t living in the same house so it would have been harder to notice the grooming.
@@Yanina-ls1gy it wasn’t like they were all living in the same house? He’s the only one at fault here.
Jeezzz, I'm so sorry to hear that, just horrendously sickening.
So brave to share your difficult story ❤ he was such a coward. Also for letting you down again when you tried to have a conversation. I hope you can find the closure that you deserve, without him. My friends father never admitted to abusing her. It took a lot of time and trauma therapy but my friend feels good now. I wish you all the best. Like you said, you got nothing to be ashamed of, you are a true warrior and survivor.
Good for you speaking up.
what an incredible young woman.its just a shambles of a justice system. .sending ❤
Thanks for being brave and sharing your story. You are an incredible person you have no idea ❤
You're brave, God bless you ❤
❤ you’re really brave
I'm so sorry this happened to you ,, hope your doing OK ❤
Bless you
So sorry you went through this
Heard her story before, breaks my heart every time I see her talk
You’re a very strong woman, bless you! ❤
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I’m so sorry
My mother always took good care of me (she was very protective) and since I was very little I remember her always telling me not to let absolutely no one touch me or do anything I felt it wasn’t right.
You are so brave❤I hope you find peace❤😢
These stories really need to be told. I'm a professional freelance closed captioner, and I really think this series deserves to have captions on them. Is there an email I can contact you at?
You can turn on cc from the top right-hand corner of the video.
@S-ki7mz These captions are not reliable.
@@KaseyNlopez These are autogenerated captions and are not reliable or accurate.
@S-ki7mzNot every TH-cam video appears to have the cc button...
This is just a way for him to try and get “business” aka scam
I wish you all the best. I wish him all the worst.
Bless you 💕sending love❤
Some of these comments are awful and they need to be taken down.
I'm shocked, some people are very sick in the head
How could a mother invite someone like that back into their life after they left the first time? How heartbreaking for this woman. :( It sounds like getting stabbed in the back by not only one caretaker.... but BOTH failed her.
I didn’t notice Lauren saying that her mum invited him back into their lives. It is possible that he had a legal right to see his daughter.
Did the judge jail the same person she’s talking about here? Because he does not deserve to be out on licence.
He was jailed for 8 years but apparently he's out now and was able to move to a new area and change his name :/
I'm so sorry to hear that you've had to witness or be affected by such a painful situation. It's heartbreaking that people like him can sometimes escape the full consequences of their actions. I believe that justice should always be served, but I also wonder, what do you think is the most important factor when determining if someone truly deserves a second chance or not?
@@lunalove9395 yeah I got that which is why I’m saying from her story he should have been locked up for much much longer.
Thx u for sharing your story may God continue to heal your wounds
This is awful.
This is really dreadful
Horrible stuff
This poor brave young woman
I am sorry you went through this ❤️🙁
What a monster of a man/father! I wonder what happened to him as a child? Who were his parents and predators? God bless this woman, her kids and her marriage. Just wow!
Just like Joyce Meyer, the Christian Evangelist, so sad.
Someone who treats their daughter that way is neither a man or a father.
Not a father, a monster!
There should be longer prison sentences, plus castration. Or the death penalty as some countries have. There’s no excuse.
Are there not laws that give harsher charges for when someone with hiv or other life altering conditions, knowingly ‘sleeps‘ with someone and doesn’t inform them or sa’s someone because it can be a d*ath sentence, or are those not in the UK? I know that there are laws like that somewhere, but I would have thought that when those laws were first introduced, that most nations would have at least started the process of adding them into their system!
However, either way, after what he did he never should have been released!!!!!
This wasn't sleeping with someone. This was child sexual abuse and rape.
You mean sexually t diseases
4 YEARS
So much evil in this world ..
Human rights activists like fighting for criminals against the death penalty. While this isn’t crime doesn’t warrant a death penalty, my point is if the most serious crimes (such a murder) calls for life sentence WITH A POSSIBILITY OF PAROLE, then something that is “less serious” like this will only give a slap on the wrist. I guess I’ve been brought up in the school of hard knocks but people need harsher punishment especially for crimes like these where victims will be punished for the rest of their lives.
She should have claimed he didn't Pay taxes he would have been in prison from 60+ years SMH...... this world is so disgusting
What a painful story.
Brave & living
Damm! this sucks!
Disgusting people in this world just evil what it wrong with these sick men. why didn't you just tell someone it's just not right.
What a nasty human being he was how dare he do that.
What a sick dude. I don't understand
Your Beautiful I’m Sorry To Hear This Happened. Go To God He Is Our Healer.
She looks completely like Lauren Branning from Eastenders.
Literally was going to say this myself
12 years what country is this? If this was in America this guy would have got life
Clearly you’re not up to date but an actual rapist is president
So no
No he wouldn't lol usa is even worse
What are you confused about trumps the leader and he's one so why are you confused?
Partly it’s your mums fault. She should not be letting you go with your dad straight away, he should have had a regular visit only not staying overnight or a day with a monster. Law should change on this😢
I don't understand how she can now have a healthy sexual relationship with anyone ...
Telling your kids youre hiv. Disgusting
😵💫😵💫😵💫If it was me I would have been ☠️ long time ago
What a demon
Do yous still have hiv this is disgusting. I don't know how someone can do this but it does happen
So is she HIV positive now?😮
No she didn’t get it
Miraculously, no.
I was wondering that myself.
@skinco3203 thank you Lord 🙏
Good girl ! ! !
Animals
I never knew my real dad your not alone Jesus is salvation
Your biggest salvation comes from within and not some mythical creature
@SocksPropaganda your wrong sister Jesus Christ real man God in the flesh your a sinner big time get away from me
@SocksPropaganda and don't come back
Perhaps you should ask Jesus how to speak English. Oh wait.. you cant.
Heych????it's h
O no not the usual suspects.
Well does she have HIV
No
God bless you and forgive your dad!!! Move on and with gods help be happy
We ignoring the lack of accountability here?
What accountability? For whom?
Like always
@@JAcm49 Use your noggin.
She was a child how is this her fault? You must be a predator as well.
You need your computer checked
men are gonna watch this and get off to it.
That's big of you to admit I guess. I hope you get help😢
@@deoranjed8118 bro said men in general are gonna do that, not themselves personally 😂
@@SocksPropaganda You obviously didn't see the other comment that he deleted then. He said that he "couldn't get enough of it!"
Gross
Disgusting perverted men are … not really the average guy …. I don’t think the average person enjoys hearing about monsters like this
Where is the personal responsibility?
For what being abused as a CHILD how is she to blame troll
@HudaAbdulahi _You can't be serious. First, just because you don't like a question doesn't make the person who asked it a troll. She said herself that she wasn't asleep the first time. So how does that happen on "multiple occasions"? And then a full on unprotected sexual relationship? Come on now. And knowing the health risks! What tf are we talking about? So yes, how about just a little bit of response / accountability? Stop being weird and emotional you creep weirdo._
@@NewStevenEvensnice try troll
What are you on about?
cuda bin worsee u cuda had photo of u taken of u at 17 (republcians class this as worse)
What a heartless thing to say! It’s not a competition!!
I don’t know, being abused by her father who has hiv is so horrific, and yet you are here commenting about something that doesn’t even compare in severity.
You’re deluded if you can’t see how stupid you are being with that ideology.
What?
Yu were aware he was hiv...yu let him have intercourse,?
I cant believe those insanities
So incredibly brave, she is doing so much good for fellow survivors like myself 🤍 8 years is not long enough and its disgusting that he can just change his name and live in the community now freely.
I understand being so upset the first time it happened but why would you keep putting yourself in that situation. At 14 you knew it was very wrong.
she was a child! Are you seriously trying to blame the victim here? Unbelievable!
@ she wasn’t child enough to know it was very wrong the first time it happened. He reinforcing that by apologizing profusely…I’m a monster, etc. even at 14 I never ever would have gone back to that. The whole father thing was new to her. She had a stable life at her mother’s. She didn’t have to go back.
@@ohhdah5219the onus isn’t on her it’s on the adult. Tell me you have no idea about grooming.. stop trying to shift the blame and I hope you are sterile
@@ohhdah5219 shocking comments. She was a little girl who was craving a father who loved her. Getting her into drugs and alcohol. He is pure evil manipulating a child.
@@CG-fy9jz exactly. He is pure evil. He even said so the first time he molested her. She had a mother and stepfather at home to see what love and affection should be like. My dad used to beat the crap out of me till I was 4, then he shot himself. He knew it was wrong too. I get trying to have a father figure in your life. But never to that extent. Think back to when you were 14…..if I knew something w as wrong it would have never happened again.
Telling your kids youre hiv. Disgusting