The crazy thing is, women don't even like simps. when you stop chasing women and start focusing on yourself, women love that. when you start focusing on your mental health, fitness, and finance and your deen, great things happen. it compounds over time, slowly you become financially, physically, and emotionally strong. when you get to that point in life, wallahi as I say this, you don't need to chase women, women will want you. it takes hard work, discipline, and focus. work on yourself to become the best Muslim man, you owe it to yourself. you got this!!!!!!
I just saw a short that made me think about this. Allah (SWT) has instructed women to respect their husbands not love them (because that should come naturally through responsibilities fulfilled, good conduct, and so on). I spent a lot of time reading on marriage forums during high school years to better understand love. I think how a relationship becomes impossible to fix, is when respect and appreciation is not there for a woman. Most divorce cases or adultery stems from this, and it does not matter the good effort put in by the "nice man", if the woman does not seem him as her leader. Woman are biologically weaker, meaning in an abusive relationship, disrespect will end up in more abuse and danger for the woman! So if a woman is showing disrespect, it would be better resolved if she tried to obey Allah and showed some respectful criticism (not because he has done something to deserve it necessarily). If she is unable to communicate this effectively, then someone she trusts to speak to the husband. However, even from an attraction standpoint, a woman attracted to her husband has to have respect for him and see him as her leader. "Men are in charge of women1 by [right of] what Allāh has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allāh would have them guard.2 But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance3 - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly].4 But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allāh is ever Exalted and Grand." (Surah Nisa verse 34, saheeh international translation). Allah did not just create the laws, but our nature is also most suited for these laws. Remember the story of Zaynab (RA) and Zaid (RA)? The virtue of Zaynab (RA) is such that Prophet Muhammad (SAW) was destined to marry her and she would be one of the mothers of the believers! However, she was never able to respect Zaid (RA) as her leader in their marriage! She got into arguments with him and he found it difficult to love her too. It is also controversial to say this, but men want submissiveness in a woman. Not that she keeps quiet and never complains or criticizes, but rather that she is generally gentle and loving. What feminism has done to the unit of marriage, is taught women to disrespect and see their husbands as their equal, and to instead obey their bosses at work D: This is also why "bad boys" are more exciting or pleasing than a "nice guy" who they cannot respect in the dating scene (which is haram as I hope most of us know, but just as an insight). As-salamu alaikum
Please don't be a simp, I'm really thankful for this one guy who tweet "talk to her dad or leave her alone bro" 🙏 May Allah SWT protect us all (especially from the footsteps of shaytan) 🤲
If you don't talk to her how will she know if she can fall in love with you? How will the two of you get to know each other, build a connection with each other and know if you truly love each other?
Awwwww!! Mashallah this is one of the best lecture. Finally someone talk about simps and the problem of nowadays concepts of Love and relationship. Jazakallah brother Imran ❤️❤️❤️
The women is a big test for men and if a man can’t control his desires then he should get married it will help him lower his gaze. The solution to all of our problems is in the Quran and sunnah.
Yes, but finding a good wife is much harder then it should be (if you do not have any real family etc network to be able to get help from). And many of the socalled marriage/"dating" sites for muslims seems to be filled with scammers and people with alternative motives.
BROTHER IMRAAAN. Please make more videos on this subject and suggest below similar videos. And advice the sisters on how to be greatful to their spouse's.
Make more videos refuting scholars and less videos like this. This isn’t your lane. Refuting scholars is. Even if people message you about marriage topics, just ignore them stay in your lane and stick to scholar refutations (and decontextualisation of hadith). I’m being sarcastic.
Bro hajji does nothing except deceives the people and takes things out of context watch dawah mans refutation which shows u how hajji can’t even read arabic properly or deceived the people by covering up certain parts to take things out of context. It’s called. Deconstructing hajjis khaariji methodology
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The crazy thing is, women don't even like simps. when you stop chasing women and start focusing on yourself, women love that. when you start focusing on your mental health, fitness, and finance and your deen, great things happen. it compounds over time, slowly you become financially, physically, and emotionally strong. when you get to that point in life, wallahi as I say this, you don't need to chase women, women will want you. it takes hard work, discipline, and focus. work on yourself to become the best Muslim man, you owe it to yourself. you got this!!!!!!
I just saw a short that made me think about this. Allah (SWT) has instructed women to respect their husbands not love them (because that should come naturally through responsibilities fulfilled, good conduct, and so on). I spent a lot of time reading on marriage forums during high school years to better understand love. I think how a relationship becomes impossible to fix, is when respect and appreciation is not there for a woman. Most divorce cases or adultery stems from this, and it does not matter the good effort put in by the "nice man", if the woman does not seem him as her leader. Woman are biologically weaker, meaning in an abusive relationship, disrespect will end up in more abuse and danger for the woman! So if a woman is showing disrespect, it would be better resolved if she tried to obey Allah and showed some respectful criticism (not because he has done something to deserve it necessarily). If she is unable to communicate this effectively, then someone she trusts to speak to the husband. However, even from an attraction standpoint, a woman attracted to her husband has to have respect for him and see him as her leader. "Men are in charge of women1 by [right of] what Allāh has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allāh would have them guard.2 But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance3 - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them [lightly].4 But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allāh is ever Exalted and Grand." (Surah Nisa verse 34, saheeh international translation).
Allah did not just create the laws, but our nature is also most suited for these laws. Remember the story of Zaynab (RA) and Zaid (RA)? The virtue of Zaynab (RA) is such that Prophet Muhammad (SAW) was destined to marry her and she would be one of the mothers of the believers! However, she was never able to respect Zaid (RA) as her leader in their marriage! She got into arguments with him and he found it difficult to love her too. It is also controversial to say this, but men want submissiveness in a woman. Not that she keeps quiet and never complains or criticizes, but rather that she is generally gentle and loving. What feminism has done to the unit of marriage, is taught women to disrespect and see their husbands as their equal, and to instead obey their bosses at work D: This is also why "bad boys" are more exciting or pleasing than a "nice guy" who they cannot respect in the dating scene (which is haram as I hope most of us know, but just as an insight).
As-salamu alaikum
Please don't be a simp, I'm really thankful for this one guy who tweet "talk to her dad or leave her alone bro" 🙏 May Allah SWT protect us all (especially from the footsteps of shaytan) 🤲
If you don't talk to her how will she know if she can fall in love with you? How will the two of you get to know each other, build a connection with each other and know if you truly love each other?
@@abdulmalikumar5838 true lol
I talked to her dad flew across the world to speak to him..
We had one conversation not going to well..
@@abdulmalikumar5838 you’re allowed to talk to her when her dad is there
@@ismailah4576 broo why is it not working
Imran I love you for the sake of Allah hope I can meet you in the masjid one day inshallah.
Always keeping it real
Yo this speaker is a real one may Allah reward him, Ameen
Aameen ya raabil alameen
Awwwww!! Mashallah this is one of the best lecture. Finally someone talk about simps and the problem of nowadays concepts of Love and relationship.
Jazakallah brother Imran ❤️❤️❤️
The women is a big test for men and if a man can’t control his desires then he should get married it will help him lower his gaze. The solution to all of our problems is in the Quran and sunnah.
Yes, but finding a good wife is much harder then it should be (if you do not have any real family etc network to be able to get help from).
And many of the socalled marriage/"dating" sites for muslims seems to be filled with scammers and people with alternative motives.
@@ruben7937 brother Imran did recommend one called sunnah match, it seems pretty legit
@@user-wq4ew6rp8s It’s brother Imran’s only 😂
we shouldn’t be a test..
@@hk-nm8ox
Want or not, but you are.
So relatable ...May Allah Forgive us
Aameen ya raabil alameen
Really enjoyed this episode Allahumma barik 😂 love the thumbnail
BROTHER IMRAAAN. Please make more videos on this subject and suggest below similar videos. And advice the sisters on how to be greatful to their spouse's.
this was so good Allahuma Barik
36:55 I knew it! I knew you were alluding to Ibrahim alayhisalaam and then I was so happy when I was proven correct! Alhamdullilah 😂
Build yourself up. And the women will follow. And even if the women don’t follow. You’ll have built yourself up and that will have been worth it.
AWESOME
Alhamdullilah inchaAllah Ammiin Saskia from Maastricht The Netherlands
Love is blind
Wa alaykumu s-salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh brother Imran
Don’t be a simp lads
DawahmanIsCold Allahumma barik
May Allah bless you. The thumbnail is hilarious. 😂
Subhanallah
Ma Sha Allah
29:25 and the crazy thing is, just one ☝️ Angel would have obliterated any human army. The angels are mighty creatures of Allah.
9:43 barris and hilib😂😂👍🏽👍🏽
thumbnail is too funny bruv
35:00 Back to the topic
Come to Manchester
Man playing too much call of duty...so true😂
Assalamu Alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatuh
Waleykumsalam warahmatullahi wabarakatu
35:00
Brother you said there will be a video on the the Truth of the Ottomans Empire’ it’s been over a couple of months habibi
th-cam.com/video/aQEFmFLfgis/w-d-xo.html
it was here in November Akh
@@abdurrahmanghaib6417 thank you soo much
What happened
16:20
Make a new channel to increase exposure. This blacklisted channel is sabotaging progress
4:20
My heart really broken by amount se Siddiqui broken my heart he is really broken my heart a Mansi Siddiqui really broken my heart
53:39 bro has no haya
and neither do you
Abu bakrs son???? fought him in battle
who was he??
Abdulrahman ibn abu bakr fought him in battel of badr and later he accepted islam.
@@user-ue4fh5mv9s alhamdulilah
Lmfaoo
Them greys are showing now
What were u hoping to accomplish by saying that?
Make more videos refuting scholars and less videos like this. This isn’t your lane. Refuting scholars is. Even if people message you about marriage topics, just ignore them stay in your lane and stick to scholar refutations (and decontextualisation of hadith). I’m being sarcastic.
Bro hajji exposed this man why was are you guys still blind following this comedian
Whose that??...exactly
@@mohamedmoihdeen7067 th-cam.com/video/J916av1Twpw/w-d-xo.html
Bro hajji does nothing except deceives the people and takes things out of context watch dawah mans refutation which shows u how hajji can’t even read arabic properly or deceived the people by covering up certain parts to take things out of context. It’s called. Deconstructing hajjis khaariji methodology
Hajj is the real comedian
@@Kardu3 specially when he makes a million grammatical mistakes when he tries to speak Arabic 😭😭
You jokeman
Ma Sha Allah