This is one scene where I absolutely dislike Dean's character. This is verbal abuse. She answered the phone, because she wanted to take a message, but Rory hung up. Dean was worried that she would catch him cheating and manipulated her by deliberately trying to make her feel worthless for answering his phone with good intentions. Lindsay apologized for doing nothing wrong. Shameful.
A suprisingly accurate depiction of infidelity. Most cheaters use some form of gas lighting similar to this. Infidelity is almost always emotional abuse
@@haileyann001 i agree, and she says they always fight, and with the way she acts in this scene, tells me this how some of those fights probably went. he was low key abusive. no wonder she hated dean so much after finding the letter, but didn't seem to hate rory as much.
It’s the writers’ doing.. This is not the Dean they introduced in the first season.. They just had to ruin Dean and Rory for whatever reason they only know..
@@dashmendoza4930 The writers absolutely ruined Dean and Rory. Rory was unlikable after Logan was introduced, and Dean was after he cheated on Lindsay with Rory.
i actually feel bad for lindsay. if he doesn’t love her anymore than he should at least have the balls to leave sooner. i used to love dean until him and rory you know.
rise and shine just my judgment of character but I never liked dean . He was whiny and annoying and he never tried to improve his situation. He had a great wife who actually tried her best to make him happy and was a decent person. But he chooses the girl it didn’t work out with over her . Such bs .
Lindsay was the wife he always wanted I read this somewhere she was old fashioned type of wife . And he pulls this !? This episode made me hecka mad lol smh
@@anonmous4468 I feel bad for Lindsay but she was far from the dream girl that Dean always wanted. Old fashion sure, but that can go so far when he's the only one working and she's constantly wanting to spend time with him, and wanting things like a town house and other expensive things that they argued about. The whole relationship just wasn't meant to be for either sides point of view if you ask me.
The actress that played Lindsay, Arielle Kibbel, is actually pretty good in her scene. For the short amount screen time she’s given, she does a great job delivering her lines and her body language is awesome. The timidness and the desperate optimism she was trying to force out felt really genuine. To me she felt like a real young woman who doesn’t really know what she’s doing, trying her best to salvage a relationship that feels like it’s crumbling.
Dean feeling like he’s been caught and is now projecting his feeling of guilt masking it as some kind of disrespect on her part making her feel like it’s her fault which she ended up apologizing for which she didn’t need to. This is emotional abuse.
I hate how hard Lindsey tried, and Dean kept dragging her around like that, she deserved better and Dean doesn't deserve such a kindhearted caring women 🙄
Ik and he talked about how jess treated Rory when HE IS A MARRIED GUY who slept with his ex and he honestly treats her soo bad he is the one that treats the girls as dirt
@@ruthsolis5315 he's such a hypocrite, I loved him the first few seasons he was like a perfect boyfriend then he got clingy and attached to Rory even when he didn't have her
@@georgiastone3025 i don't like how he handled it at all, but his renewed interest in rory happened because lindsay's own selfish behavior made him feel left out
Right? The writers were showing signs of cheating. Any time a man is way too passive aggressive over little stuff like that, he has something to hide. Dean was petty for that.
Honestly disappointed how Rory didn't learn from this whole 'mistress' thing, because in the revival she's with Logan while he's engaged. I guess characters like people are flawed
She was a good girl for too long, so she started to make her own decisions, no matter if they were wrong...she had a lot of issues with the male figure, because she was raised by a single mother.
I stopped watching the revival just for that lol Rory made mistakes but the cheating thing in the revival seemed out of character to me, at least here she's a bit regretful
@@belenzapata6010 The revival was absolutel dog shit. The main writer wanted to end the series with Rory saying she's pregnant. Even if she was just graduating Yale, its whatever she's a adult. But in her 30s? What's shocking? She's in her 30s. Yes, Rory was absolutely unbearable the last few seasons. Always thought she should've married Logan, instead the writers just made her pathetic now banging logan, and you know, making her a furry. Their feminism really ruined that.
I like how rory became, yes she was a terrible person towards the end but it makes it more realistic than her being the perfect goody two shoes. She was annoyingly niave and it was only about time her niavety would mount to her making poor decisions.
@@yourebrainwashed9129 that was not feminism? At all. Paris was more a feminist icon than Rory could ever HOPE to be. Feminists wouldn’t support have the shit Rory pulled in that revival.
I felt so bad for her. She was trying so hard to be loving offering brownies, speaking kindly about where he was, and seeing if he is free to do something. dean was such a jerk to her.
He was a jerk in the same because he felt guilty so yeah I understand why you felt like a jerk here and you know what he also been through a lot too and he was had a lot of other shit going on now do it wrong I still like teen but I didn’t agree with the laughing said did I think it was right for them to talk to him is he like there’s no but also understood he felt guilty and you can see it how guilty was and you know what a bad person will never feel guilty believe me because there is cheaters out that I cheat on purpose and not feel a damn thing so Lucy felt something but of course everyone’s a judge and criticize and all that stuff and then just do a group of hating on Dean when actually he had real feelings and he was a caring person and you know what pisses me off to lobby people act like you’ve never been jerks in your life that’s actually a fucking lie I guarantee you mostly everybody on this comment section has been a jerk to somebody and one time or another even to nice people because you were having a bad day something or feeling guilty about something yes we all have done it every human being has every human being is done at least once in their life so what now don’t be wrong I do feel bad for Lindsay because she to me was a good person and she didn’t deserve to be treated I shouldn’t be deserve to be hurt like this even though I lighting I would admit he was really wrong what he did and he wasn’t treating her too well but he didn’t really love her he couldn’t admit it to himself either
This scene crushed me. The writers did a good job of showing that Dean was just projecting his guilt and paranoia when he was lashing out at her. Plus in the next episode or so when she tries so hard to cook his favorite dinner 😭😭😭
I think marrying someone while you’re still in love with another person a very cruel thing to do. I used to love Dean and prefer him over Jess. Now I think that out of all of Rory’s boyfriends Jess was the best one.
Lisa H - definitely. Even in the later version of the show, she gets cheated on by Logan. At least Jess didn’t cheat on her, and instead grew up, got a job doing what he enjoys, and never ran back to her after already trying once.
I think this sadly was his fate, I mean dean was a very sweet guy but even from the first season he was very aggressive towards Rory when she didn’t say she loved him back! I’ve also seen in other episodes he got too caught up in pleasing Rory he lost his own opinions and thoughts and then had bursts of anger towards her and his feelings would come out then. He is a people pleaser who gets walked all over and he hated Jess because he was so open with saying and doing what he wanted and people let him get away with it, also didn’t help that Rory had eyes for him. Unfortunately I think deans story was well fitted to him.
Dean lied to Rory. He told her that he and Lindsay both feel their marriage is over but Lindsay is clearly making an effort to make it work by cooking for him. Only he feels it's over and yet he is still married to her even though he is love in with Rory. And I can't believe Rory didn't learn anything from their first sexual encounter and still didn't stop Dean the second time he came on to her
1:54 oh ok rich coming from the man who literally just came home from cheating on his wife with his ex girlfriend. Absolutely disgusting how he treats Lindsey
Lindsay is so sweet omg she looks like the perfect girlfriend, the fact that she said she wanted to cook for him AND kindly offered him a brownie and meanwhile he cheated and gets angry at her over the phone when HE CHEATED… how dare he treat such an amazing girl like this. Poor Lindsay deserves better
Dean: you've absolutely no respect for me at all, that's just obvious. Me: yeah because for the last 40 min (a quick guess of how much time he spent with Rory) you've been respecting your wife, right?
@ymarrero23 In some societies 15 year old girls are married already, Does that makes them ready for marriage? Not at all, getting married at a young age does not equal a successful marriage.
@ymarrero23 you are clearly nuts, two fifteen year old are not ready for marriage, neither are two nineteen year old, the age of Dean and Lindsay. Maturity has to do at well
Ok were people asleep when Dean was the most possessive self-centred bf ever, not understanding that Rory had work to do for school, not letting her talk to Jess and treating her like some sort of object he owned? Cause that's the same person right there
@@lfior Thank you, because everyone seems to be blind to who he was when they first started dating. He dumped Rory because she didn’t say I love you and would constantly have little outbursts and show up unwanted. This storyline for him was not at all surprising.
The reason why I’ve never been on team dean is because of outbursts like this. Yeah he was a good bf to Rory early on but then as his character developed I hated him more and more
what a dope . hes married to this sweet kind girl and hes emotionaly abusing her all cause hes hung up on rory his ex. lindsay deserves better. for the record i think Arielle Kebbel is one of the reasons why god created women.
I actually really liked that the writers went this way with Rorys character. She was lovable but obnoxiously perfect. I feel like them writing her as an adulterer REALLY added depth to her story and it was one of the first big moments that defined her character independently of Lorelei or her grandparents.
So I'm tryna understand why a teenager, barely 16, was mature enough to speak to the mother of his girlfriend about being understanding to ensure a solid relationship turns around and cheats on his wife remorselessly? Such a dramatic change... I sometimes loathe writers who destroy a well established character to make the story more interesting (?) only to end up screwing the arc...
I think the reason why they made Dean so shitty later on is that the audience really loved him but the writers didn't have any stories left to tell about Rory/Dean. So they made him a jerk so people would root for Rory/Logan.
It's actually kinda funny scrolling through the comments just to see how much hate you are giving to Rory and Dean in both different ways! Honestly a good laugh! 😂
I think this scene does a REALLY good job at showing how people react when they feel bad about something they did. Almost always people who are feeling the way Dean did (like he was a bad husband, like Lindsay would find out he’d done something wrong, like his marriage was a mistake) try to make the person they’re fighting with feel those same feelings. So all the stuff he said had the intention of making her feel like a bad wife, that she was the one who made a mistake, that their marriage was a bad decision. It’s just really cool to me to see this mirroring technique executed so flawlessly on television like it is in real life. In summary: Dean sucks, but the writers nailed it
I can’t . You don’t understand how amazing that girl is. SHE IS MY FAV ACTRESS! omg her in aquamarine and the vampire diaries and THIS. She’s an amazing actress wow
From the beginning, I’ve always thought of Dean as immature. This whole thing was messed up. Lindsey is so kind and she tries so hard. Dean is a jerk. Sorry but I’ve never liked him. 😕
Caroline Becker I’m right with you on that one . I think he’s a narcissistic asshole. Even when he was with Rory . He was so possessive of her and whined and guilt tripped when he didn’t get his way and that’s why it never worked out between them. And his marriage with Lindsay just proves his narcissism. Where does he get off yelling at her for answering his phone when he was doing her dirty behind her back? What a douche bag!
The audacity of him to get mad. YOUR phone woke her up and she answered, Rory didn't say anything, then hung up, but you're mad she didn't take a message? Dean, GET A CLUE. The audacity! Talking about her having no respect for you. Um, I think YOU have no respect for HER, Dean. The hell. "You have no respect for me!", says the husband who slept with his ex girlfriend behind his wife's back. The. Freaking. Au-da-ci-ty!
I feel so bad for Lindsay because I’m this scene especially she seems like she’s trying to make it work, and she’s being nice and trying to be considerate and a good wife. But then dean yells at her after he cheated on her. From what we’ve seen of Lindsay the only thing she wanted was to have a normal married relationship and a house and to just be with dean. But then he cheated. And I felt even worse when she looked at him and said “ are you made at me” like honestly poor poor Lindsay
So sad how in the beginning, Rory just dragged Dean around even though she lost feelings for him. And here, Dean can't help it but do the same thing to Lindsay!!
No it was not. Rory didn’t yell at him like he did to Lindsay. Dean was being petty and jealous and yelled at Rory for hanging out with Jess. Their relationship was unstable. And dean slept with another woman. While he was MARRIED TO HER. And Lindsay is clearly trying to make teh marriage work out so for dean to say that they both think the marriage is over to Rory, is just awful. Dean is a crappy guy.
@@lovelyrainx4205 dean yelled at rory because even though jess was a troublemaker and had tried to rape her, she didn't have the sense to break up with him. In this scene, dean is just in a panic. In the end, it turns out that it was him who felt remorse for the cheating instead of rory.
@@lovelyrainx4205 I should also add (just happened to be rereading this) that rory demonstrated manipulative and controlling behavior herself while dating jess
Dean was the scariest of Rory’s bfs in real life…comes across sweet at first (and apologists still only see that side), but he’s possessive, selfish, and is the kind of person who doesn’t even see himself as doing anything wrong. Her other bfs had issues too but I feel like they’d admit to the issues they had.
Yeah but at least Dean eventually comes to his senses. That scene where Rory comes to his place asking how he feels and he’s like girl I just broke up my marriage not great
I always liked Dean - he's absolutely perfect for Rory (which I think he thinks too). But if he feels anything for Rory, he shouldn't do what he did to Lindsay. Lindsay was a great wife, a great person in general - and she didn' t have to go through all that pain.
Ya well I guess this what do you expect. He got married for all the wrong reasons. (1) they were both way to young to even consider marriage, (2) he was still in love with rory & was just using Lindsey to get over her.
1:54 "I mean you have absolutely no respect for me at all that's just obvious" He and Rory don't deserve respect for the way they treated Lindsey, poor girl
Dean is so cold to her in this scene. Like she didn’t do anything to him!!!!! Dean and Rory made a very bad mistake and now it’s being taken out on Lindsay.
Gosh poor Lindsay she is literally so beautiful and Dean doesn’t even compare also she is so kind and caring and she tries to fix their relationship and he doesn’t care for her feelings at all
Rory is incredibly selfish. Probably gets it from her Mom. Dean is as well. What a knucklehead. Lindsey deserves better. Never get mixed up with a Gilmore GIRL. They will chew you up and spit you out.
I can't remember exactly now because I haven't watched the series thoroughly for ages, lol. But wasn't it because Rory went with Jess? I guess poor Lindsay was a rebound :(
I think it was that Rory had chosen Jess and then gone to a big school, and he felt like he needed to move on from her and also do something with his life - and because what he always wanted was that wife that prepares dinner for her husband and etc., he thought he might skip to the happy ending of his story and move on by marrying Lindsay.
Rory straight up told him in high school that she left him for Jess because Jess was the bad boy and that turned her on. Dean was way too nice. Dean got smart and realised the only way to get with her was to become the bad guy (cheat on his wife)
After Dean’s high school experience with Rory and heartbreak... it kinda seems sad the cycle continued. Like Rory strung Dean along when she was into Jess... the same thing happened where Dean is now stringing Lindsey along. You’d think he’d have more empathy for cheating and being shady from his past experience...
This made me really sad for Lindsay. From the start I didn't want them to get married, they barely knew each other and it was so rushed. Lindsay didn't deserve to be treated this way after doing everything she could for Dean. Yes their lives seemed very bland, but Dean had no right to go behind Lindsays back with Rory. If he was unhappy in the relationship he should have told her. This made me fully ate Dean. You should never talk to a partner like that.
Lindsey tried to be nice to Dean, talking about cooking, offering him brownies. Dean turned the whole thing on her and made her feel guilty about answering his phone when he was out CHEATING on her a couple minutes ago.
I feel like Dean has always wanted to just sleep with rory and that's why this all happened, rory was immature too, with how smart and sensible she is you think she would know that you don't sleep with someone's husband/boyfriend and then try to justify it, you're a immature child.
Lexi from vampire diaries would never let a man talk to her like this. Where the hell is Stefan and Damon to come kick deans ass for disrespecting Lexi
It’s like the people in this comment section have never put themselves in a bad situation where they reacted really poorly because they were projecting their anger and disappointment in themselves onto someone who absolutely doesn’t deserve it. This doesn’t have to be in a romantic situation that involves cheating, it could be anything.
I feel so bad for Lindsay she was talking kindly offering him brownies and even apologized for something that wasn't her fault. Dean should've told her the truth or at least been nicer to her it's his fault he slept with rory Lindsey did nothing
"You have no respect for me at all"
*cheats on her with Rory*
Projecting :(
Facts. Cheating is the lowest you can go on disrespecting someone.
@@GhostTweeHubBub I know. Dean is so dumb😅
Yeah, that's called projection. Typical narcissistic behavior
@@sds6303 I see. Smh Dean is a jerk
This is one scene where I absolutely dislike Dean's character. This is verbal abuse. She answered the phone, because she wanted to take a message, but Rory hung up. Dean was worried that she would catch him cheating and manipulated her by deliberately trying to make her feel worthless for answering his phone with good intentions. Lindsay apologized for doing nothing wrong. Shameful.
Lol Dean has always been lowkey abusive to Rory it's really not out of character
Yes yes he is super manipulative to Rory and Lindsay it scared me a lot it looked like he would hit them so many times
A suprisingly accurate depiction of infidelity. Most cheaters use some form of gas lighting similar to this. Infidelity is almost always emotional abuse
Agreed
@@haileyann001 i agree, and she says they always fight, and with the way she acts in this scene, tells me this how some of those fights probably went. he was low key abusive. no wonder she hated dean so much after finding the letter, but didn't seem to hate rory as much.
Oh Dean... no empathy, no morals, acting superior and then getting aggressive and screaming at her making her feel worthless, poor Lindsey
Plus Taylor and the other boss knew dean was married so it's most likely his wife answering the phone 📱
Boy, Dean is a real jerk! I may not have cared for Lindsey but she did not deserve that!
It’s the writers’ doing.. This is not the Dean they introduced in the first season.. They just had to ruin Dean and Rory for whatever reason they only know..
The writers are getting more moronic each season
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@@dashmendoza4930 The writers absolutely ruined Dean and Rory. Rory was unlikable after Logan was introduced, and Dean was after he cheated on Lindsay with Rory.
i actually feel bad for lindsay. if he doesn’t love her anymore than he should at least have the balls to leave sooner. i used to love dean until him and rory you know.
rise and shine just my judgment of character but I never liked dean . He was whiny and annoying and he never tried to improve his situation. He had a great wife who actually tried her best to make him happy and was a decent person. But he chooses the girl it didn’t work out with over her . Such bs .
Anon Mous i know right! he’s so annoying now
Lindsay was the wife he always wanted I read this somewhere she was old fashioned type of wife . And he pulls this !? This episode made me hecka mad lol smh
She was a spoiled brat making him work so many jobs while she does nothing she wanted a townhouse come on she should have gotten a job
@@anonmous4468 I feel bad for Lindsay but she was far from the dream girl that Dean always wanted. Old fashion sure, but that can go so far when he's the only one working and she's constantly wanting to spend time with him, and wanting things like a town house and other expensive things that they argued about. The whole relationship just wasn't meant to be for either sides point of view if you ask me.
The actress that played Lindsay, Arielle Kibbel, is actually pretty good in her scene. For the short amount screen time she’s given, she does a great job delivering her lines and her body language is awesome. The timidness and the desperate optimism she was trying to force out felt really genuine. To me she felt like a real young woman who doesn’t really know what she’s doing, trying her best to salvage a relationship that feels like it’s crumbling.
Yeah disappointed that I didn't see the actress in more! I liked her a lot in everything she's started in. She has a good presence
I agree! She’s a phenomenal actor. She was in the Vampire Diaries.
I think she was in the vampire diaries
She’s an amazing actress in everything she’s been in!!! I wish we saw her in more movies
best comment on her tbhhh
Dean feeling like he’s been caught and is now projecting his feeling of guilt masking it as some kind of disrespect on her part making her feel like it’s her fault which she ended up apologizing for which she didn’t need to. This is emotional abuse.
Couldn’t have said it better myself twist everything around and make you apologize for shit they do wrong
Bingo!
Exactly it does what it’s meant to do and that is to show us why him and rory wouldn’t have worked even if Jess wasn’t involved
Men like doing it.
Yep
I hate how hard Lindsey tried, and Dean kept dragging her around like that, she deserved better and Dean doesn't deserve such a kindhearted caring women 🙄
Gigi Stone I think Rory rubed off on him!!
Dean changed drastically after Rory, so you can tell that relationship really affected him
Ik and he talked about how jess treated Rory when HE IS A MARRIED GUY who slept with his ex and he honestly treats her soo bad he is the one that treats the girls as dirt
@@ruthsolis5315 he's such a hypocrite, I loved him the first few seasons he was like a perfect boyfriend then he got clingy and attached to Rory even when he didn't have her
@@georgiastone3025 i don't like how he handled it at all, but his renewed interest in rory happened because lindsay's own selfish behavior made him feel left out
How do you cheat on her and act like a jerk because she answered your phone
ItSophiaD88 he’s a narcissist that’s what they do. Never got the appeal with dean he was always up himself and super judgmental of everyone else.
He’s projecting
Right? The writers were showing signs of cheating. Any time a man is way too passive aggressive over little stuff like that, he has something to hide. Dean was petty for that.
@@thruthemotions exactly
This happens in real life.
Honestly disappointed how Rory didn't learn from this whole 'mistress' thing, because in the revival she's with Logan while he's engaged. I guess characters like people are flawed
She was a good girl for too long, so she started to make her own decisions, no matter if they were wrong...she had a lot of issues with the male figure, because she was raised by a single mother.
I stopped watching the revival just for that lol
Rory made mistakes but the cheating thing in the revival seemed out of character to me, at least here she's a bit regretful
@@belenzapata6010 The revival was absolutel dog shit. The main writer wanted to end the series with Rory saying she's pregnant. Even if she was just graduating Yale, its whatever she's a adult. But in her 30s? What's shocking? She's in her 30s. Yes, Rory was absolutely unbearable the last few seasons. Always thought she should've married Logan, instead the writers just made her pathetic now banging logan, and you know, making her a furry. Their feminism really ruined that.
I like how rory became, yes she was a terrible person towards the end but it makes it more realistic than her being the perfect goody two shoes. She was annoyingly niave and it was only about time her niavety would mount to her making poor decisions.
@@yourebrainwashed9129 that was not feminism? At all. Paris was more a feminist icon than Rory could ever HOPE to be. Feminists wouldn’t support have the shit Rory pulled in that revival.
I felt so bad for her. She was trying so hard to be loving offering brownies, speaking kindly about where he was, and seeing if he is free to do something. dean was such a jerk to her.
She was trying to salvage what deep in her gut she knew was an already sinking relationship 😕😕
Classic guy move to pick a fight then blame her when he bolts
He was a jerk in the same because he felt guilty so yeah I understand why you felt like a jerk here and you know what he also been through a lot too and he was had a lot of other shit going on now do it wrong I still like teen but I didn’t agree with the laughing said did I think it was right for them to talk to him is he like there’s no but also understood he felt guilty and you can see it how guilty was and you know what a bad person will never feel guilty believe me because there is cheaters out that I cheat on purpose and not feel a damn thing so Lucy felt something but of course everyone’s a judge and criticize and all that stuff and then just do a group of hating on Dean when actually he had real feelings and he was a caring person and you know what pisses me off to lobby people act like you’ve never been jerks in your life that’s actually a fucking lie I guarantee you mostly everybody on this comment section has been a jerk to somebody and one time or another even to nice people because you were having a bad day something or feeling guilty about something yes we all have done it every human being has every human being is done at least once in their life so what now don’t be wrong I do feel bad for Lindsay because she to me was a good person and she didn’t deserve to be treated I shouldn’t be deserve to be hurt like this even though I lighting I would admit he was really wrong what he did and he wasn’t treating her too well but he didn’t really love her he couldn’t admit it to himself either
@@tammiepage6489just admit that you’d cheat on someone and move on 😭
This scene crushed me. The writers did a good job of showing that Dean was just projecting his guilt and paranoia when he was lashing out at her. Plus in the next episode or so when she tries so hard to cook his favorite dinner 😭😭😭
I think marrying someone while you’re still in love with another person a very cruel thing to do. I used to love Dean and prefer him over Jess. Now I think that out of all of Rory’s boyfriends Jess was the best one.
Gabriela Dourado Logan’s the best
I think Jess deserves better. She should be with Dean or Logan because they all are low.
Jess also was the only boyfriend that didn’t cheat on her.
Lisa H - definitely. Even in the later version of the show, she gets cheated on by Logan. At least Jess didn’t cheat on her, and instead grew up, got a job doing what he enjoys, and never ran back to her after already trying once.
@@ThefattestCatOnMars he tried a couple of times but i get what your saying
Linsday: Oh, the phone rang so I answered it-
Dean: UNSPEAKABLE WAR CRIMES! THE DISRESPECT COMING FROM YOU IS OFF THE CHARTS--
😂😂
Lindsay was too young and naive, and Dean not smart enough to have a double life.
Poor Lindsey. This was truly a horrible turn of events
Dean changed so much from the first few seasons
Rory changes him for the worse
I think this sadly was his fate, I mean dean was a very sweet guy but even from the first season he was very aggressive towards Rory when she didn’t say she loved him back! I’ve also seen in other episodes he got too caught up in pleasing Rory he lost his own opinions and thoughts and then had bursts of anger towards her and his feelings would come out then. He is a people pleaser who gets walked all over and he hated Jess because he was so open with saying and doing what he wanted and people let him get away with it, also didn’t help that Rory had eyes for him. Unfortunately I think deans story was well fitted to him.
He was always aggressive. Then he grew up and it grew with him.
@@izabella7135 exactly. 👏🏼👏🏼💯💯
no, he is agressive since first one
Dean lied to Rory. He told her that he and Lindsay both feel their marriage is over but Lindsay is clearly making an effort to make it work by cooking for him. Only he feels it's over and yet he is still married to her even though he is love in with Rory. And I can't believe Rory didn't learn anything from their first sexual encounter and still didn't stop Dean the second time he came on to her
I feel so bad for Lindsay she was being cheated on treated like shit and overall not in a good relationship kinda toxic
And a lot of relationships are like that and shame on Rory
exactly
It is toxic😕
1:54 oh ok rich coming from the man who literally just came home from cheating on his wife with his ex girlfriend. Absolutely disgusting how he treats Lindsey
i think he is projecting his guilt on her
@@queencurry4276 exactly
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@@queencurry4276 it’s refreshing to see people understand stories and character arches.
I’m just going to pretend I only watched season one and two
With the gentle, floppy haired, six foot two, Jess hating, Rory kissing teenager
Grace Jackson I feel that lol
I’ll just pretend he’s Sam lol
@@FacebookQueen lol
Lol the Jess hating was also super controlling, manipulative, and so 1950s possessive husband
@@lfior thank you he wasn’t that great in the early seasons either
Lindsay is so sweet omg she looks like the perfect girlfriend, the fact that she said she wanted to cook for him AND kindly offered him a brownie and meanwhile he cheated and gets angry at her over the phone when HE CHEATED… how dare he treat such an amazing girl like this. Poor Lindsay deserves better
the way that she’s his wife too not even his girlfriend she deserved much better
I loved dean but after this scene I don’t like his attitude he is a jerk Lindsey deserve better she is a nice girl , rory just play with him
Yeah!
Yes ,I hate Rory
No Rory loved him
@@heathervelasco5159 loved him enough yo cheat on him you mean :)
They both are at fault. It is not just rory
Honestly I feel so bad for Lindsay. Dean treated her like trash and didn't respect her at all :(
Dean: you've absolutely no respect for me at all, that's just obvious.
Me: yeah because for the last 40 min (a quick guess of how much time he spent with Rory) you've been respecting your wife, right?
"You've absolutely no respect for me at all !" says the guy who just cheated on his wife with his ex girlfriend
I think it was Sookie the one who said they married too young, and she was right. Dean married Lindsay having feelings for Rory,
that could even be if you marry later. I mean youd think younger adults wouldn't rush into marriage as you usually have plenty of time
@@oooh19 that's the thing, they were not ready and rushed.
@ymarrero23 age has to do as well, they were not even adults
@ymarrero23 In some societies 15 year old girls are married already, Does that makes them ready for marriage? Not at all, getting married at a young age does not equal a successful marriage.
@ymarrero23 you are clearly nuts, two fifteen year old are not ready for marriage, neither are two nineteen year old, the age of Dean and Lindsay. Maturity has to do at well
I can’t believe that Dean really has the audacity to go home and scream at his wife after sleeping with another woman.
He’s such a jerk! He was so sweet in the first 2 seasons.
Yeah now he is just a big butt face jerk!!
ever since he got this homeless looking hair i hated him
I dont hate dean character but i hate the writer that create dean downfall
Ok were people asleep when Dean was the most possessive self-centred bf ever, not understanding that Rory had work to do for school, not letting her talk to Jess and treating her like some sort of object he owned? Cause that's the same person right there
@@lfior Thank you, because everyone seems to be blind to who he was when they first started dating. He dumped Rory because she didn’t say I love you and would constantly have little outbursts and show up unwanted. This storyline for him was not at all surprising.
The reason why I’ve never been on team dean is because of outbursts like this. Yeah he was a good bf to Rory early on but then as his character developed I hated him more and more
He was a putz
He sorta had outbursts/anger issues even since season 1.
@@WitchChangkyun Logan and Jess must team up and fight this man till he dies
I thought I was the only one who who thought this.
I felt the same with Rory😒
what a dope . hes married to this sweet kind girl and hes emotionaly abusing her all cause hes hung up on rory his ex.
lindsay deserves better. for the record i think Arielle Kebbel is one of the reasons why god created women.
yeah but men dont operate that way. he was knocking both of them off and loving it.
I actually really liked that the writers went this way with Rorys character. She was lovable but obnoxiously perfect. I feel like them writing her as an adulterer REALLY added depth to her story and it was one of the first big moments that defined her character independently of Lorelei or her grandparents.
Dean makes out to Rory that Lindsay is horrible and that she is the one splitting there marriage up when it’s actually dean lol
How he treats Rory after the break up with Lindsey is even worse. Rory isn’t guilt free at all, but damn.
Ok he had the most cruel parts and most sweetest parts but in real life this dude is such a good actor that he pulled them all off so well
Jared Padalecki is awesome!
She is so sweet and he treats her so bad 🥺
Hopefully dean put those brownies away for her so they don’t get dry. The least he could do.
😂😂😂
Nora Krank no I bet he ate them all like the pig he is and never even thanked her !
@@anonmous4468 lol
So I'm tryna understand why a teenager, barely 16, was mature enough to speak to the mother of his girlfriend about being understanding to ensure a solid relationship turns around and cheats on his wife remorselessly? Such a dramatic change... I sometimes loathe writers who destroy a well established character to make the story more interesting (?) only to end up screwing the arc...
I think the reason why they made Dean so shitty later on is that the audience really loved him but the writers didn't have any stories left to tell about Rory/Dean. So they made him a jerk so people would root for Rory/Logan.
"I don't want to fight, we always fight" Oh my lord what a warrior.
Lidsey is soo sweet and Dean needs to shut up
It's actually kinda funny scrolling through the comments just to see how much hate you are giving to Rory and Dean in both different ways! Honestly a good laugh! 😂
Lol
Dean treats Lindsay unfairly because he knows he acted wrong. I'm glad the series doesn't justify the main characters behaviour.
okay boys and girls and that’s on ✨toxic relationships✨
yessss
This scene is played so well it hurts
Lindsay is such a beautiful girl. And so cute and sweet. Dean didnt deserve her!
I think this scene does a REALLY good job at showing how people react when they feel bad about something they did. Almost always people who are feeling the way Dean did (like he was a bad husband, like Lindsay would find out he’d done something wrong, like his marriage was a mistake) try to make the person they’re fighting with feel those same feelings. So all the stuff he said had the intention of making her feel like a bad wife, that she was the one who made a mistake, that their marriage was a bad decision. It’s just really cool to me to see this mirroring technique executed so flawlessly on television like it is in real life. In summary: Dean sucks, but the writers nailed it
Dean does not look cute whatsoever. Get rid of the stash and go back to s2 hair jeeze.
The actor who played Dean looks hot playing the character of Sam in Supernatural
I can’t . You don’t understand how amazing that girl is. SHE IS MY FAV ACTRESS! omg her in aquamarine and the vampire diaries and THIS. She’s an amazing actress wow
Lindsay is an amazing girl and dean is horrible to her
every time dean was yelling at someone it scared me so much
OMG SAME
From the beginning, I’ve always thought of Dean as immature. This whole thing was messed up. Lindsey is so kind and she tries so hard. Dean is a jerk. Sorry but I’ve never liked him. 😕
Caroline Becker I’m right with you on that one . I think he’s a narcissistic asshole. Even when he was with Rory . He was so possessive of her and whined and guilt tripped when he didn’t get his way and that’s why it never worked out between them. And his marriage with Lindsay just proves his narcissism. Where does he get off yelling at her for answering his phone when he was doing her dirty behind her back? What a douche bag!
God, dean was a walking red flag since the donna reed episode ☠️
The audacity of him to get mad. YOUR phone woke her up and she answered, Rory didn't say anything, then hung up, but you're mad she didn't take a message? Dean, GET A CLUE. The audacity! Talking about her having no respect for you. Um, I think YOU have no respect for HER, Dean. The hell. "You have no respect for me!", says the husband who slept with his ex girlfriend behind his wife's back. The. Freaking. Au-da-ci-ty!
I feel so bad for Lindsay because I’m this scene especially she seems like she’s trying to make it work, and she’s being nice and trying to be considerate and a good wife. But then dean yells at her after he cheated on her. From what we’ve seen of Lindsay the only thing she wanted was to have a normal married relationship and a house and to just be with dean. But then he cheated. And I felt even worse when she looked at him and said “ are you made at me” like honestly poor poor Lindsay
So sad how in the beginning, Rory just dragged Dean around even though she lost feelings for him. And here, Dean can't help it but do the same thing to Lindsay!!
What Dean did to Lindsay is the same thing that Rory did to him with Jess
No it was not. Rory didn’t yell at him like he did to Lindsay. Dean was being petty and jealous and yelled at Rory for hanging out with Jess. Their relationship was unstable. And dean slept with another woman. While he was MARRIED TO HER. And Lindsay is clearly trying to make teh marriage work out so for dean to say that they both think the marriage is over to Rory, is just awful. Dean is a crappy guy.
@@lovelyrainx4205 dean yelled at rory because even though jess was a troublemaker and had tried to rape her, she didn't have the sense to break up with him. In this scene, dean is just in a panic. In the end, it turns out that it was him who felt remorse for the cheating instead of rory.
@@lovelyrainx4205 I should also add (just happened to be rereading this) that rory demonstrated manipulative and controlling behavior herself while dating jess
@@TheMarkmcr when did he try to rape her? She said stopped they stopped he just got mad and not bc of the sex he had other stuff going on.
@@chelsifortenberry5967 he actually did try to at kyle’s party and stop excusing jess’s actions.
Dean was the scariest of Rory’s bfs in real life…comes across sweet at first (and apologists still only see that side), but he’s possessive, selfish, and is the kind of person who doesn’t even see himself as doing anything wrong. Her other bfs had issues too but I feel like they’d admit to the issues they had.
Yeah but at least Dean eventually comes to his senses. That scene where Rory comes to his place asking how he feels and he’s like girl I just broke up my marriage not great
Dean was always my favourite character I loved him with all my heart and now i can't recognise him and it's really awful
I always liked Dean - he's absolutely perfect for Rory (which I think he thinks too). But if he feels anything for Rory, he shouldn't do what he did to Lindsay. Lindsay was a great wife, a great person in general - and she didn' t have to go through all that pain.
Dean was controlling and aggressive from the start
He's totally playing mind games, lashing out on her, making her feel like she's to blame and then rejects her. How awful for Lindsay.
This was one of the most dramatic moments of the whole series. Amazing.
Ladies and gentlemen: gaslighting at its finest
Thats wrong he is basicly cheating on her
Yea and then trying to pick a fight with her as if she did anything wrong
Ya well I guess this what do you expect. He got married for all the wrong reasons. (1) they were both way to young to even consider marriage, (2) he was still in love with rory & was just using Lindsey to get over her.
The way he treats her , he would never lash out on Rory and that’s the problem , he gave Lindsay half assed “love”
He kind of talked to Rory like that. He was a tad bit manipulative.
@@yeseniatrejo2012 Lindsey deserved better
1:54 "I mean you have absolutely no respect for me at all that's just obvious"
He and Rory don't deserve respect for the way they treated Lindsey, poor girl
Dean is so cold to her in this scene. Like she didn’t do anything to him!!!!! Dean and Rory made a very bad mistake and now it’s being taken out on Lindsay.
this is one of the moments where you forget people are acting. truly phenomenal.
Lindsey did mot deserve this at all. Personally, I wasn't a fan of her but she was so wronged with this.
Gosh poor Lindsay she is literally so beautiful and Dean doesn’t even compare also she is so kind and caring and she tries to fix their relationship and he doesn’t care for her feelings at all
and to think that i used to like his character....
High key triggered by how Dean looses his shit over the phone thing. Lindsey is flawed, yes but she in no way deserved how she was treated by Dean.
Rory is incredibly selfish. Probably gets it from her Mom. Dean is as well. What a knucklehead. Lindsey deserves better. Never get mixed up with a Gilmore GIRL. They will chew you up and spit you out.
After the 2 seasons I stopped liking Rory, completely and then when she hooked up with Dean I got so pissed
Rory dumping dean changed dean so nuch....he wasnt like that he was shattered and now shattering lindsey life
So wait why did they get married in the first place again? This storyline always came out of thin air for me. lol
I can't remember exactly now because I haven't watched the series thoroughly for ages, lol. But wasn't it because Rory went with Jess? I guess poor Lindsay was a rebound :(
@@yumdisc4981 So he gets married????? LOL
@@StefWriter haha I know.
I think it was that Rory had chosen Jess and then gone to a big school, and he felt like he needed to move on from her and also do something with his life - and because what he always wanted was that wife that prepares dinner for her husband and etc., he thought he might skip to the happy ending of his story and move on by marrying Lindsay.
Rory straight up told him in high school that she left him for Jess because Jess was the bad boy and that turned her on. Dean was way too nice. Dean got smart and realised the only way to get with her was to become the bad guy (cheat on his wife)
After Dean’s high school experience with Rory and heartbreak... it kinda seems sad the cycle continued. Like Rory strung Dean along when she was into Jess... the same thing happened where Dean is now stringing Lindsey along. You’d think he’d have more empathy for cheating and being shady from his past experience...
“You have absolutely no respect for me at all, it’s obvious.”
*Lindsay staying calm nd not yelling at him back like she should have.*
After watching this I have never seen Rory or Dean the same way again.
Is Lindsey the girl out of vampire diaries
Yes Lexi
@@salihapotassium8589 OMG no wat
Lexi yesss
"I was feeling epic" 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Why does she get the bad endings??? Like in Gilmore Girls as Lindsay, she gets cheated and in The Vampire Diaries as Lexi, she gets killed 😭
Rip
I thought I recognized her
"You don't respect me enough!" Says the guy that's been cheating on her behind her back. 🙄🙄🙄🤦♀️
I know Lindsay wasn’t in a lot of the show but I feel like she deserved a lot better she seems like a sweet person
“Did I ever tell you I like your hair?”
Boy BYE. 🙄🙄
Lmfaooooooo
Dean is like a baby, he has tantrums and get annoyed like it was everybody’s fault
IM SO ANGRY WITH THIS SCEEEENE, I CANT WATCH IT
"you have no respect for me"
Says the man who's cheating on his wife
Everyone arguing about Teams...
I'm Team Jess❤️
but....
I'm Team Lindsey now!😂
Same!! Team Jess always! 💕 Lindsay deserves better, and so does Jess, also Paul, and Odette deserve better as well!
Two 19 year old kids (who were not pregnant) got married and it didn't work out? The hell you say!
I mean I did lol 10 years this July
@@amandaparchman3556 you're an exception not the norm.
@@BellaParkerPink you were almost stupid. Luckily you came to your senses.
@@BellaParkerPink you absolutely made the right choice. I wish you a long happy healthy marriage
Lol
This made me really sad for Lindsay. From the start I didn't want them to get married, they barely knew each other and it was so rushed. Lindsay didn't deserve to be treated this way after doing everything she could for Dean. Yes their lives seemed very bland, but Dean had no right to go behind Lindsays back with Rory. If he was unhappy in the relationship he should have told her. This made me fully ate Dean. You should never talk to a partner like that.
dean: u have absoLutely no RESPECT FOR ME AT ALL!
seems like the other way round :/
The audacity of Dean to say that Lindsay has no respect for him 🤦🏾♀️
He's such a prick yelling at her like that, this poor girl is afraid
Lindsey tried to be nice to Dean, talking about cooking, offering him brownies. Dean turned the whole thing on her and made her feel guilty about answering his phone when he was out CHEATING on her a couple minutes ago.
I feel like Dean has always wanted to just sleep with rory and that's why this all happened, rory was immature too, with how smart and sensible she is you think she would know that you don't sleep with someone's husband/boyfriend and then try to justify it, you're a immature child.
Rory is such a red flag
Dean was a jerk. Lindsay DEFINITELY deserves better.
Lexi from vampire diaries would never let a man talk to her like this. Where the hell is Stefan and Damon to come kick deans ass for disrespecting Lexi
It's Gilmore girls. another show. We don't need tvd here
Please don’t bring another tv show into this topic
It’s like the people in this comment section have never put themselves in a bad situation where they reacted really poorly because they were projecting their anger and disappointment in themselves onto someone who absolutely doesn’t deserve it. This doesn’t have to be in a romantic situation that involves cheating, it could be anything.
This isn't just cheating, it's emotional abuse.
this girl ALWAYS plays the side character in every show lmao she's been waiting for her big break for so long damn
HOW LONG DID IT TAKE ME TO REALISE THAT THE ACTOR WHO PLAYS LINDSEY IS ALSO THE ACTOR WHO PLAYS LEXI IN TVD🤯🤯🤯
The phone was ringing and UR WIFE answers it and then u say she has no respect for u
I feel so bad for Lindsay she was talking kindly offering him brownies and even apologized for something that wasn't her fault. Dean should've told her the truth or at least been nicer to her it's his fault he slept with rory Lindsey did nothing