PICK ME GIRL WEARS CONVERSE TO PROM!!!?? 🫣

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  • @xiacapretta
    @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +1701

    be iconic and do what YOU want!!!
    FULL PROM VIDEO: th-cam.com/video/wf_TlyL5nSU/w-d-xo.html

    • @bojuu
      @bojuu ปีที่แล้ว +4

      this was such an icon move tbh

    • @TheCalicove
      @TheCalicove ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol I wish
      If I told my parents the things that I’d like, ha that wouldn’t go well-
      *#disowned*

    • @Luna_kuna08
      @Luna_kuna08 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TheCalicove Thats just sad

    • @lindawarren3208
      @lindawarren3208 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      U know what I’m gonna wear covers to my prom

    • @anabehl42
      @anabehl42 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’m actually gonna wear converse to homecoming this year but I’m known as a tomboy so everyone’s gonna be more focused on me actually wearing a dress then me wearing shoes that don’t break my ankles

  • @merxier
    @merxier ปีที่แล้ว +21498

    Honestly society just bashes on whatever people do tbh

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +1629

      very very true. that’s why everyone should start doing WHATEVER they want & ignoring the rats opinions 😋

    • @merxier
      @merxier ปีที่แล้ว +139

      @@xiacapretta fr! Not everything someone does it mant to seek validation or liking from others. Tbh, that's MY opinion

    • @alyaa3386
      @alyaa3386 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      facts

    • @Bored_and_bookish
      @Bored_and_bookish ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Facts also literally like let her wear her converse she didn’t even emphasis it at all making a big deal like look I’m wearing converse to prom how SPECIAL of me she just wore them

    • @madisondoesherthing
      @madisondoesherthing ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Especially women. Like we fr can’t do anything. I bet there were guys wearing comfortable and formal shoes and no one cares

  • @jadediaz5239
    @jadediaz5239 ปีที่แล้ว +3735

    how in the world is wearing convers part of being a "pick me" it's like saying you can't wear anything out in public

    • @cocolani839
      @cocolani839 ปีที่แล้ว +49

      Fr people don't know what pick me means it's someone who looks for male validation but yet they think it's someone who wants to be comfortable

    • @The_Duolingo_Bird_Is_After_Me
      @The_Duolingo_Bird_Is_After_Me ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I keep re reading this comment and still have no words

    • @cocolani839
      @cocolani839 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@The_Duolingo_Bird_Is_After_Me ik how you feel this whole situation is just childish

    • @localtaehyungsimp5371
      @localtaehyungsimp5371 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      from what i saw most of the comments were calling her a pick me bc she was making it seem like wearing converse was something unheard of to do, not justifying the hate but hopefully this gives some insight

    • @YouShouldntReplyToMe
      @YouShouldntReplyToMe ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh so nooww that she talked about this everyone is like "omg how is she a pick me?" Like i love and hate the internet sometimes.

  • @Yxllow_Rxses
    @Yxllow_Rxses ปีที่แล้ว +3132

    Me as soon as I saw the converse with her prom dress: WHO SAID I CANT WEAR MY CONVERSE WITH MY DRESS

    • @Shawarma101
      @Shawarma101 ปีที่แล้ว +104

      WELL BABYYY THAT'S JUST MEEE

    • @M0onThv_
      @M0onThv_ ปีที่แล้ว +52

      THATS JUSST MEEEEEEEEEE

    • @K3R0..
      @K3R0.. ปีที่แล้ว +34

      OHAhOaH ao Ahhh 😙😝😝

    • @amanday3103
      @amanday3103 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      WHO SAY I CAN’T BE SINGLE AND HAVE TO GO OUT AND MINGLE BAByYyYyY THAT’S JUST ME

    • @__peeps
      @__peeps ปีที่แล้ว +13

      THATS JUST MEE!!!!!

  • @avocado941
    @avocado941 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +614

    She just put her haters in their place.😂

    • @antoniofigueroa1524
      @antoniofigueroa1524 หลายเดือนก่อน

      A heart and 606 likes with no reply’s w
      Lemme fix that

  • @St4r_girl_.8
    @St4r_girl_.8 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +279

    handled the hate like a queen

    • @YoungFarquad
      @YoungFarquad 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      bruh 💀

  • @StanChunghaOrGoHome
    @StanChunghaOrGoHome ปีที่แล้ว +2758

    It only makes you a pick me if you put down other women for wearing heels. But you didn’t, you just made a personal choice to choose comfort.

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +409

      exactly!!! heels, crocs, converse, whatever - i'll never hate on someones choice! putting down other women is cringe 💯

    • @gamingyasmine9707
      @gamingyasmine9707 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      ​@@xiacapretta I think your 100 right also tbh I feel like some pick me girls would also wear heels because guys like them and some of them would put down girls for wearing sneakers.

    • @Estellaxo
      @Estellaxo ปีที่แล้ว +4

      literally!! there’s this girl at my school who i used to be friends with and she keeps commenting about how “ew girls who wear lululemon are basic and annoying ” and then if someone asks her what her favorite brand of clothing is she’s like “probably amazon, I’m not like everyone else”(HER EXACT WORDS) and she puts an emphasis on how she’s not like the other girls, she literally has one friend whos a guy who hates her

    • @gamingyasmine9707
      @gamingyasmine9707 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Estellaxo eww she's cringe. Also pick mes are the ones who dress basic most of the time. Their not special at all. Im sorry if I sound weird.

    • @GH62713
      @GH62713 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@xiacapretta 100%. I feel like whatever shoes you wear doesn't matter, so long as you're comfortable.

  • @ayanoluvsyou
    @ayanoluvsyou ปีที่แล้ว +7707

    how is that being a pick me… people are not understanding the definition of pick me💀

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +630

      for real 😭

    • @mrs.oleary5265
      @mrs.oleary5265 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      it was what she said in the video i think

    • @jessicacook8834
      @jessicacook8834 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Facts

    • @totoro413
      @totoro413 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I understand not being used to wearing heels, because I never wore them either. I'm going to wear heels and risk my ankles and hope I don't twist it like last time-
      And I'm going to get some other shoes to wear after. Plenty of girls do this.
      The reason she is being called a pick me is cuz she made a videos on the Internet about it. Noone rlly does. And the video has intention to get attention, cuz why else do ppl post videos.

    • @briaTheG
      @briaTheG ปีที่แล้ว +80

      @@totoro413 but that isn’t the definition of a pick me, if that was everyone on the internet would be one. “A person, mostly female, desperate to get another’s attention, usually male. Mostly used towards women who promote misogyny.” She never said that she was better than everyone, she just wanted to show off her converse to an Avril Lavigne song.

  • @crystalex9717
    @crystalex9717 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    "who says I can't wear my converse with my dress""💃💃

    • @lar2.
      @lar2. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💃💃🕺🕺

    • @Zlurpii
      @Zlurpii ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well babyyyyy that's just me 💃🕺💃🕺💃

    • @izzys.digitaldiary
      @izzys.digitaldiary 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i’m such a girly girl yet I’ll still wear converse with my dress bc I don’t have that many cute shoes 😭

  • @JustARandomLesbian
    @JustARandomLesbian 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +126

    Converse are amazing and comfortable. AND look good with a dress.

    • @Kai_hellfire
      @Kai_hellfire 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah, with the blue one, it almost looked magical!

  • @ch3rryslays
    @ch3rryslays ปีที่แล้ว +40

    converses and dresses are literally a style😂 i had a school dancee and basically all of the girls were weraing either blazers or converses
    converses are literally a vibe 🔥

  • @Isabelle0-0
    @Isabelle0-0 ปีที่แล้ว +390

    I think it’s because you made a whole video ABOUT wearing converse to prom which is not that crazy

    • @Kim._..
      @Kim._.. ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Fr 😭

    • @southparkisbetterthanfamilyguy
      @southparkisbetterthanfamilyguy ปีที่แล้ว +36

      She should be allowed to show off what she likes without being bashed at

    • @Isabelle0-0
      @Isabelle0-0 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@southparkisbetterthanfamilyguy yeah I get that, im just saying its not that weird🤷🏼‍♀️

    • @botticellismuse
      @botticellismuse ปีที่แล้ว +36

      @@southparkisbetterthanfamilyguy She’s not explaining the full thing. In the video she’s talking about, she says everyone hated on her for wearing converse shoes. And then the comments started calling her a pick me because it’s perfectly normal to wear non formal shoes to school dances and that she should stop acting like she’s special.

    • @kayyyyla
      @kayyyyla ปีที่แล้ว +2

      exactly

  • @potatocornsplease2383
    @potatocornsplease2383 ปีที่แล้ว +724

    Making fun of girls for literally minding their business IS pick me girl energy

    • @botticellismuse
      @botticellismuse ปีที่แล้ว +21

      She’s not explaining the full thing. In the video she’s talking about, she says everyone hated on her for wearing converse shoes. And then the comments started calling her a pick me because it’s perfectly normal to wear non formal shoes to school dances and that she should stop acting like she’s special.

    • @amberlives13
      @amberlives13 ปีที่แล้ว

      U need to stfu… she was just explaining what happened she wasn’t trying to act like she was special idiot

    • @yes7639
      @yes7639 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@botticellismuseright but if a guy made a vid about wearing converse to prom, no one would care or call him a pick me.

    • @botticellismuse
      @botticellismuse ปีที่แล้ว

      @@yes7639 I don’t think you would, but I most definitely would,

    • @QueenZiana
      @QueenZiana ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@botticellismuse She was talking about the comments on tiktok when she captioned that she even commented that under another comment to explain why she captioned that. And even then off camera she still could’ve gotten picked on because she wore converses. Just because something is normal doesn’t mean other people accept or view it that way online or offline. I also see you in almost every comment talk about obsessed.

  • @theylovemercury
    @theylovemercury ปีที่แล้ว +1756

    WHO SAID I CANT WEAR MY CONVERSE WITH MY DRESS OH BABY, THATS JUST ME!!

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +188

      YASS 🤪🤪🤪🤪

    • @theylovemercury
      @theylovemercury ปีที่แล้ว +8

      OMG hiiiii!

    • @ioaa6441
      @ioaa6441 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      lmao so freaking cringe

    • @ekinie3854
      @ekinie3854 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      HAHAH MY THOUGHT!!

    • @Katie.yes.12
      @Katie.yes.12 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@ioaa6441that’s a song lyrics-

  • @rachelhutchinson1175
    @rachelhutchinson1175 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Girl I love the shoes with the dress don’t let people bring you down. I love that fashion.

  • @AJRxBWU
    @AJRxBWU ปีที่แล้ว +15

    converses with fancy dresses shouldn’t be a big deal! my mom said she wore them for her 8th grade graduation party, and many girls I know wear converse to parties.

  • @raphdraws
    @raphdraws ปีที่แล้ว +227

    Who said I can’t wear my converse with my dress

    • @mcrmakesmedance
      @mcrmakesmedance 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@thanos6464it’s a song 😭😭

    • @thanos6464
      @thanos6464 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@mcrmakesmedance lmao mb its a glitch on yt, sends my reply in some random comment

    • @Lollizy_mix
      @Lollizy_mix 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      WELL THAT'S JUST ME😜

  • @maddiesusan4445
    @maddiesusan4445 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    Wearing converse to prom does not make you a pick me. Specifically calling attention to the fact that you're Wearing converse though...

    • @Moey_idk
      @Moey_idk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She even used the Demi lovato song

    • @yes7639
      @yes7639 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      How? If a guy posted a video saying he’s wearing converse to prom instead of dress shoes, would you be calling him a pick me?

  • @aliviapirika
    @aliviapirika ปีที่แล้ว +144

    who said, I can’t where my converse, with my dress? Well babaayyy that’s just meeeyyyy.

    • @Idktbfh
      @Idktbfh ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wear***

    • @constance4625
      @constance4625 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Were it’s were

  • @elevenandmikeedits
    @elevenandmikeedits ปีที่แล้ว +4

    who and why would anyone make fun of you for wearing converse? that’s the dumbest thing i’ve heard today. your stunning and wear what you want.

  • @nonstoryadict
    @nonstoryadict ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Some people don’t even know the definition of pick me girl

  • @aremstudios
    @aremstudios ปีที่แล้ว +34

    nothing is wrong with the shoes, it’s just that you made a whole video about it and made it look like some new revolutionary thing u thought up 🙄

    • @moppuuo
      @moppuuo ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Exactly!!😭😭

    • @Lumity178
      @Lumity178 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      The music in the background was sooooo cringe

    • @ladydeath3463
      @ladydeath3463 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Lumity178 it's a literal meme about old school Disney. Everyone wore converse back in the 2008

    • @Lumity178
      @Lumity178 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ladydeath3463 ik listening to the song was just painful

  • @Akkkito
    @Akkkito ปีที่แล้ว +111

    people call you pick me not because of the converse an the dress
    they call you like that because you upload a TikTok about it like if you are the first person doing that or if you were special because you were converse
    and I'm not trying to be rude on this comment but if you really don't know why people call you like that rewatch your video
    greets :)

    • @January_010
      @January_010 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She was matching the video with a popular audio? No where did she act like it was special and different. A pick me is somebody who puts down other girls (especially in front of guys) for their own benefit. In her prom video she was doing the opposite, complimenting other girls and just having fun.

    • @Akkkito
      @Akkkito ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@bells.09 if you think that something that you do is normal you are not going to do 3 videos about that, or i think so

    • @Akkkito
      @Akkkito ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@bells.09 👍

    • @botticellismuse
      @botticellismuse ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@January_010 She’s not explaining the full thing. In the video she’s talking about, she says everyone hated on her for wearing converse shoes. And then the comments started calling her a pick me because it’s perfectly normal to wear non formal shoes to school dances and that she should stop acting like she’s special.

    • @botticellismuse
      @botticellismuse ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@bells.09The girl specifically said that everyone hated on it, which is 100% not true because it’s been a trend since the 00s.

  • @nat634
    @nat634 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    ur not a pick me everyone does that there’s nothing wrong with wearing comfy shoes to prom but u don’t have to brag about it to the internet 😭

  • @loveygummi
    @loveygummi ปีที่แล้ว +6

    no bc i wish i would’ve worn comfortable shoes to prom because it is NOT fun sitting around the whole time because your legs feel like they’re gonna fall off 😭

  • @miacamhi436
    @miacamhi436 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    It’s giving…. saving mucho money because buying expenses heels you’ll never wear again ain’t it.
    Good choice girl, people who called you out are the pick me girls! 👟

  • @thisisnothend
    @thisisnothend ปีที่แล้ว +55

    Legit everyone at my prom wore converse and vans and nikes

  • @graciefinley6912
    @graciefinley6912 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Almost all of the girls at my school wear converse to prom
    *edit: spelling error

  • @imjustasconfusedasyou
    @imjustasconfusedasyou ปีที่แล้ว +442

    i saw that video, people weren’t saying you were inherently a pick me because of that. it’s because you also said “i wore converse to prom, some people REALLY didn’t like that” and people were saying that it’s popular rn and stylish and that no one would say that

    • @delena4evertvd267
      @delena4evertvd267 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      it was just her overall vibe in that video tbh. i seen the original video not long ago and also thought she was implying she’s like super different or quirky or superior for wearing her converse with her dress at first. i didn’t make any comments ofc, i don’t know her and didn’t wanna be mean. i just scrolled past. but seeing this video where she clears up that wasn’t her intention to come off that way is nice lol

    • @chair2975
      @chair2975 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I agree with you kinda, but tbh converse have always been in style since they came out

    • @heatherdimuro1647
      @heatherdimuro1647 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well it made her feel like they were calling her a pick me sorry if that’s not aloud🙄🤨

    • @starscreamlover8571
      @starscreamlover8571 ปีที่แล้ว

      ​@@delena4evertvd267boohoo no yall love to jump to conclusions because yall are fucking idiots.

    • @LovelyStephhh
      @LovelyStephhh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@heatherdimuro1647I think you mean allowed*🤓

  • @lhsunshinegarden4415
    @lhsunshinegarden4415 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Bruh, I feel you!!! Only difference being is that it's my mum who won't let me wear them. Because they aren't "fancy enough." Like damn! Sorry I want to be able to actually dance without being barefoot the entire night! 🙄

  • @estabaniaalmonte4228
    @estabaniaalmonte4228 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    But literally, she rocked it. She is amazing.❤

  • @libek.illustration
    @libek.illustration ปีที่แล้ว +34

    If you really wanted to be „different“ you‘d wear chunky crocs in a Color that absolutely doesn’t match your dress.

  • @Aspen_thee_rodent
    @Aspen_thee_rodent ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I guess I’m a pick me (even though I’m a trans guy and literally a part of the boys)

  • @Lilly12349
    @Lilly12349 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    it’s not that u wore converse to prom it’s that u made a whole video of u wearing them and the main subject was u wearing converse

    • @alishbayaser4516
      @alishbayaser4516 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ok, so?
      In the video she explained how she wanted to wear something comfy and who really cares? She also recommended wearing comfy shoes.

    • @maya_707
      @maya_707 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      ​​ @alishbayaser4516 xactly, why would we care what she wears💀💀she still made a whole video about it lmfao...that shit's embarassing

    • @hotdogwater9580
      @hotdogwater9580 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​@@alishbayaser4516 exactly literally everybody wears comfy shoes to prom so why make a video acting like your the only one doing it

    • @nickeni3050
      @nickeni3050 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hotdogwater9580 When I had to go to my school's cultural day I was basically gaslit into wearing heels even tho I kept complaining about my ankle pain and about how it would be uncomfortable to dance with it (I was part of the dance crew) but was gaslit by several people including my aunt into wearing it, day ended with my ankle hurting so badly that I couldn't walk properly for near a week. They said that it would be embarrassing for me to wear sandals or a converse, said alot of things to me that made me give up the idea and if I had even just one person's encouragement that day I would have gone with the comfortable shoes instead
      Just cause you haven't experienced being shit on just cause you chose something comfortable doesn't mean that others don't experience it
      Edit : also her video didn't say that everyone was against her or that she was special, she simply said that there were those who said shit about her wearing it not that EVERYONE said something negative. I don't know where you got that from

    • @uraflopxxx
      @uraflopxxx ปีที่แล้ว

      @@maya_707u cared enough to make a comment on her choice 💀 and if you don’t care why watch the video in the first place

  • @natalidayana
    @natalidayana ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I honestly see nothing wrong with wearing converse or any kind of comfortable shoes with your prom dress. At least you don’t have to worry about a heel breaking 🤦‍♀️

  • @1Proud_Hater
    @1Proud_Hater ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “Get OuÙt GeAHæUh”
    -a wise person

  • @VDotBlank
    @VDotBlank ปีที่แล้ว +26

    I mean if she's a pick me for wearing converse i can't picture what i am after wearing 6 inch platform boots

  • @Wzpp_ppl
    @Wzpp_ppl ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Bruh if I say I can't/don't wear heels they automatically say I'm a pick me. WELL EXCUSE ME FOR NOT BEING ABLE TO WALK LIKE A MODEL BUT WALK LIKE A ZOMBIE

    • @Music_Lover40224
      @Music_Lover40224 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      For real this pick me stuff is getting annoying

    • @Wzpp_ppl
      @Wzpp_ppl ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Music_Lover40224 Like fr

  • @Cookiebabyy2
    @Cookiebabyy2 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    I mean I think its really common thing to wear sneakers with anything, heels aren't for everyone. I think it's just a lil werid to point it out like it's different or special

    • @nickeni3050
      @nickeni3050 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Watched the original video and the vibe I got from it was "some people said some things about me wearing Converses with my dress but I wore it anyways, oh and I'm also making content about that too coz why not?"

    • @Cookiebabyy2
      @Cookiebabyy2 ปีที่แล้ว

      ⁠​⁠@@nickeni3050 well her first video was just about her shoes so if she's taking the hate comments from that video half of them seemed like jokes quoting that demi Lovato song or just saying that it's a normal thing but I get she can make content on anything and I don't think she's a pick me or anything I just feel there's no need to give attention to the action or the comments

  • @ScribbleSpark
    @ScribbleSpark ปีที่แล้ว +2

    “Wearing comfortable shoes to prom because the dress is already itchy enough, and you don’t wanna be miserable the entire time cause of that makes you a pick me!”
    The brain ain’t braining correctly-

  • @jewelkatepoland
    @jewelkatepoland ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I LOVE THAT U WORE CONVERSE TO PROM!!! ❤❤❤I’m gonna wear it too!

  • @P1p3r_i_Guess
    @P1p3r_i_Guess ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Just let her be comfy and not face planting bc that’s what I’d do lol

  • @leyansalih6847
    @leyansalih6847 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    IM NoT ONe OFf ThE GIRLy gIRLS …STaWp😂

  • @sidneyreading1103
    @sidneyreading1103 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    The point wasn't that you were wearing your converse to prom its the fact you made such a big deal about it.

    • @anfissabishop660
      @anfissabishop660 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      oh no the world is ending

    • @nettamichalko5970
      @nettamichalko5970 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Who cares if she made an entire video about it. How does that effect you?

    • @gretmaryquinones4006
      @gretmaryquinones4006 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Bro you call this a “PiCk mE” and yet there is a WHOLE SONG about someone wearing converses with their dress so you call this pick me but that’s not pick me, really ☠️

  • @Kaiyarunkles
    @Kaiyarunkles 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People just need to worry about themselves. Wearing converse to prom does not make you a pick me. LOVE YOU!

  • @ST4R_123
    @ST4R_123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    definition of pick me girl:
    A girl who is OBSSED with “the boys”
    Not someone who wears comfortable shoes with a dress
    Plus no one’s going to look at your feet /shoes and be like “omg your wearing converses,ew” like I don’t think they actually care

  • @UH.EVY.
    @UH.EVY. ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Who said 🙌🏻 that I 🫣can’t wear 😩my converse 😎with my 🥹dress😤but baby…🫠
    😨THATS JUST ME 🕵🏼‍♀️

  • @artemis9127
    @artemis9127 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Bro 90% of my high school wore comfortable shoes to prom. We took our pictures in our high heels and then we wore our comfy shoes the rest of the night

  • @yourrandogamerkitty6689
    @yourrandogamerkitty6689 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    A lot of things can make you a pick me girl and sometimes it's ridiculous. I don't style my hair too often and sometimes I'll put my hair in a ponytail or messy bun when it's too hot. I also never wear makeup unless I'm feeling good or it's a special occasion. I'm too lazy to mess with my hair and makeup lol. Don't get me wrong, I find this video funny. 😂

    • @chicken3806
      @chicken3806 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Bruh the only thing I do is brush my hair in the morning. Not like I care what classmates think about it because its just hair.
      But if its something important I’ll spend a bit more time

  • @LoveOrangeCats
    @LoveOrangeCats 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    *wears shoes because she doesn’t know how to wear heels*
    Comments: PICK ME ALERT
    y’all 😭😭😭

  • @RimaEln
    @RimaEln ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Pick-me's are people who *insult* the choices of other people to try and make themselves look better because they made the "better" decision, according to what *they* think other people would agree with.
    If you said something like, "other girls wear heels (how dumb lol!), but not me! I wear converse!" Then yeah, that would be pick-me behavior. But just saying "hey, I wore converse and loved it!" without having to insult or belittle those who didn't, then that's not being a pick-me; that's just you talking about your choices.

  • @El_3345
    @El_3345 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Never let them now ur next move…. I wore a heel and a sneaker to prom….

    • @marinamessina5387
      @marinamessina5387 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Just giving me ideas now my therapist could never my prom is tomorrow night-

    • @justdoinmybest2208
      @justdoinmybest2208 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Not like the other gurlllssss

    • @emiliereal1520
      @emiliereal1520 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think one of my besties wore sneaker heels to our middle school graduation lol

  • @AmphibiousJester
    @AmphibiousJester ปีที่แล้ว +21

    it's not the fact that you wore converse to prom, it's the fact that you think that makes you special

    • @twinkletoes75
      @twinkletoes75 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      frrrr like she’s making such a big deal out of it

    • @sussybaka5201
      @sussybaka5201 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      She literally didn't say it made her special. Leave people alone ffs.

  • @heavencielo6999
    @heavencielo6999 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    bro wearing converses to prom shouldn’t make you a pick me. Some people simply don’t know how to walk in heels and rather would wear sneakers or a flat shoe.

  • @Moey_idk
    @Moey_idk ปีที่แล้ว +2

    People weren’t calling you a pick me for simply wearing converses, it’s the fact that you posted them saying “oh I wore them even though people hated them” and using the god damn Demi lovato song.

  • @s_haro
    @s_haro ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You didn't get the point. It's not that you are a pick me girl because you wore converse to prom. It's okay to wear converse or whatever. It's the fact that you wore them, and made tiktoks to only talk about you wearing converse.
    And that makes you a pick me girl bc you wanted to get people's attention over converse instead of simply showing your outfit without pointing out your shoes.

  • @c26331
    @c26331 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Ok honestly, everyone wears converse to prom and she shouldn't have even mentioned it because it's just cringe that she was like "oh this is so different of me" in the first place

  • @Bruhette
    @Bruhette ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I wore small heels to my prom because I wanted to feel pretty. By the end of the first hour i was dying.
    Wish i could wear earrings without my ears hurting tho

  • @gottaloveme13
    @gottaloveme13 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    No they said your a pick me because freaking everyone gos to dances in converse

    • @ice_pls
      @ice_pls ปีที่แล้ว

      Sooo why does that mean she's a pick me?

    • @trinity9167
      @trinity9167 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@ice_plsbecause it seems like she thought she was being different even though she did something common

  • @AxelXionSora
    @AxelXionSora ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To the people calling you a pick me I’d like to quote Inigo Montoya “You keep using that word. I don’t think it means what you think it means.”

  • @mega_met44
    @mega_met44 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    no matter what you do, someone isn’t gonna like it. if you think someone is fishing for attention, then STOP GIVING THEM ATTENTION

  • @turtleneck6197
    @turtleneck6197 ปีที่แล้ว +575

    i don't think they were hating on u because u were the converse to prom, it was because u put such an extreme emphasis on wearing converse to prom like it was really that different when girls do it all the time. No hate from me though, idgaf what people wear on their feet. I'm just explaining their POV.

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +99

      i wouldn’t say i put an “extreme emphasis” i just showed my outfit & responded to the converse haters 🫣 but i really respect you for commenting this! everyone has their own perspective 🫶

    • @turtleneck6197
      @turtleneck6197 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Np girl, u looked beautiful at prom. It don't matter what they think as long as u felt good about urself

    • @quuequue8334
      @quuequue8334 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      that’s so invalid 😅 no hate to you but literally anyone calling her a pick me is just jealous. she’s a youtuber for a living so the “emphasis” is just her MAKING A VIDEO, it’s easy and fun content 😂 why wouldn’t she show off her cool outfit and make money??? again no hate to you, but the people calling her a pick me have no logic to begin with

    • @ohohpelia2166
      @ohohpelia2166 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ​​@@xiacapretta the girl that commented this is probably like 12 or 13 years old😂

    • @turtleneck6197
      @turtleneck6197 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@quuequue8334 i didn't call her a pick me

  • @molliejesse
    @molliejesse ปีที่แล้ว +103

    WHO SAID I CANT WEAR MY CONVERSE 🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘🤘

    • @aubreyreese2054
      @aubreyreese2054 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      WITH MY DRESS 👗

    • @Lainey432
      @Lainey432 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      WONT MAKE ME ❤

    • @malloryJ
      @malloryJ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      THATS JUST ME😎😎🔥

    • @ben_anton
      @ben_anton ปีที่แล้ว +2

      WELLL BABBBYYYY

  • @charitynicholeart7370
    @charitynicholeart7370 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I didn't go to prom but best believe I would've wore my busted up skating vans cause I actually can't walk in heels, trust me I've tried

  • @miers2002
    @miers2002 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    good for you, converse literally slay
    but for me, i LOVE heels, i wear them whenever i can lol

  • @myas9514
    @myas9514 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The comments are ridiculous. The whole prom at my school either had sneakers on or wear heels to take pictures on then took them off. No one wants to dance that long at prom. Plus our prom was from 6pm to 11pm

  • @The_Real_Kokichi_Oma
    @The_Real_Kokichi_Oma ปีที่แล้ว +14

    No it’s because you acted like you were the first to ever do this

  • @paytonhicks-
    @paytonhicks- ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Who said I can't wear my converse with my dress?

    • @yosandaniel7995
      @yosandaniel7995 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      "That's just me"

    • @I-ampiper
      @I-ampiper ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@yosandaniel7995 and me

  • @jammyy714
    @jammyy714 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    they were calling you a pick me because of the song..

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      WHO SAIIID I CANT WEAR MY CONVERSEEE 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪

  • @Kitkat-po8si
    @Kitkat-po8si ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re not a pick me I promise you a girly When I’m older I’m definitely gonna wear converse to prom because I don’t like wearing high heels or any other shifts then Convers I love Cumbres

  • @Squishmallowfan-ky8pl
    @Squishmallowfan-ky8pl ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It sucks because I’m friends with a boy since I was 2 and I get hated so much but we are like siblings and just because I have friends that are boys and live in the country doesn’t mean anything (and I’m not allowed to wear necklaces or bracelets because I do work on a farm)

  • @Ash..R
    @Ash..R ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I honestly really want to wear converse to prom just because I love the look of them so much and I can't walk in heals, that might change in the future but that just my thoughts rn

  • @Amanda_13-13
    @Amanda_13-13 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I dOnT EvEn KnOW HoW ThEy GoT iN mY EaRs😂😂😂😂😂

  • @microwaved.orange
    @microwaved.orange ปีที่แล้ว +31

    “I wore converse to prom even though people hated on it.” That’s why people called her a pick me. Bc she put those words in the video and then the song La la land (🎵who said… i can’t wear my converse🎵).

    • @Moey_idk
      @Moey_idk ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you, more people need to call this out

    • @microwaved.orange
      @microwaved.orange ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Moey_idk np bro

  • @peach_143
    @peach_143 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    OK YALL 2023 IG WEARING CONVERSE TO PROM IS PICK ME BEHAVIOR 💀

  • @KeeleyTV
    @KeeleyTV 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wore converses to my middle school valentines dance and people respected it since I’m not trying to break my ankles like everyone else

  • @extraordinarygradient4276
    @extraordinarygradient4276 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wait am I a pick me girl?! I literally don't know how to do my hair. I also just look really bad with a ponytail. I just leave my hair down.

    • @4c3.0f.H34rt
      @4c3.0f.H34rt ปีที่แล้ว

      No! Pick me girls are just girls who usually due to internalized problems (like misogyny or confidence issues) make it a point to make it clear that they "aren't like the other girls" and are "one of the boys" with passive aggressive remarks like "ugh I could never wear that much makeup" or complain about how "stupid and boring" other girls are and just generally tear others down to build themselves up.

    • @ornithowlogist
      @ornithowlogist ปีที่แล้ว +6

      don’t even worry about that lmao
      you can’t cater to everyone’s likings, just be yourself; as corny as that sounds.
      i don’t tie my hair up or wear jewelry because it’s a big sensory ick for me .

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      no you’re not!💯 this was just an exaggeration, none of these things actually make you a pick me 😭 the actual pick mes are the ones who try to put down other girls to make themselves look better

  • @H2t37
    @H2t37 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Who said I can't wear my convers with my dress oh yeah or is that just mee????

  • @That_bi_girl
    @That_bi_girl ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Ok if you want to make them REALLY mad wear slipers

  • @sarahandjude
    @sarahandjude 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    👇🏻swifties who heard “I’m on the bleachers”

  • @UhmGuys123
    @UhmGuys123 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You can act like one perfectly but you aren’t one my sister did it too and she ain’t a pickme

  • @violetteisamazing1238
    @violetteisamazing1238 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    That was a little too natural for her

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      JOSH PLSSSS 🤪🤪🤪

  • @Malphas-
    @Malphas- ปีที่แล้ว +32

    I like the shade of blue, matches w the dress, looks pretty.

  • @Asc-o5y
    @Asc-o5y 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    People who saw subscibe, if u saw this
    👇

  • @BonbonTB47
    @BonbonTB47 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    1. People will hate on every and anything just because they have nothing better to do
    2. If its not a "trend" its apparently not cool and should be bashed
    You sre absolutely fine, dont mind the haters 💀

  • @hrts4_zoe
    @hrts4_zoe ปีที่แล้ว +374

    The only reason they were saying that is because you put emphasis on it

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +48

      how does that = pick me 🤨

    • @Luvly_Sunflowers
      @Luvly_Sunflowers ปีที่แล้ว +43

      @@xiacapretta who said i can’t wear my converse with my dress well baby that’s just me!!! also i’m also gonna wear converse with my prom dress but i’m gonna design them myself so they go with my dress

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@Luvly_Sunflowers omg that sounds awesome!!! you’re gonna rock it 💯

    • @quuequue8334
      @quuequue8334 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      she makes videos for a living bro, making a video about her shoes (emphasized or not) doesn’t make her a pick me girl 😂

    • @MrMshaze77
      @MrMshaze77 ปีที่แล้ว

      She didn’t dumbass she showed what she looked like and people had a problem wit her shoes.

  • @biggie7196
    @biggie7196 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    • @biggie7196
      @biggie7196 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @jellybean smells yeah

    • @IdkjustLin
      @IdkjustLin ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

    • @biggie7196
      @biggie7196 ปีที่แล้ว

      @jellybean smells yes. I try to inspire people to make more comments like this!!!

    • @biggie7196
      @biggie7196 ปีที่แล้ว

      @♡ pluto ♡ glad u do!!!

    • @biggie7196
      @biggie7196 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Alieee Ik 🥶🥶🥶

  • @norizz014
    @norizz014 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I love doing a messy bun its easy and quick i try to make a proper bun that dousnt look good... soo the point of me saying all this is am i pick me girl and also i dont wear jewellery often just during weddings(only with close cousins ones tgat are like siblings)and a necklace it was a gift.........soo am i a pick me girl i do this unintentional but 😅😅😅

    • @xiacapretta
      @xiacapretta  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      you’re not a pick me unless you try to bring down other girls! the other stuff doesn’t make you a pick me! 💯💯💯

    • @norizz014
      @norizz014 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@xiacapretta thankyou im always soo paranoid though bcs im more friendly with boys bcs thats just how im its not like i cant talk to girls or dont want to my personality is whatever it is i dont even know.soo sometimes i wonder if i say something to another girl or boy and maybe they think im a pick me

  • @Eliosmolestedpeach
    @Eliosmolestedpeach ปีที่แล้ว +1

    "🎶WHO SAID I CANT WEAR MY ✨️CONVERSE✨️ WITH MY DRESS"🎶 🙄💅
    "WELL BABY THATS JUST ✨️MEEEEEE✨️🎶 🤭🔪
    Ohaho AUUUU!!!!
    I'm going mentally ill...lolol

  • @AoiArtx
    @AoiArtx ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Once I was getting bullied by a karate girl, like, she'd smash my head into doors, pin me down, smash the back of my head, paint on my uniform, punch my back, smash doors into my nose. (NOW I DEFEND MYSELF DW I CAN BEAT TF OUT OF HER BUT I DIDNT WANNA GET IN TROUBLE) I told her to stop and I slapped her head and she said "Your such a pick me omgggg" and since then she calls me a pick me bc I told her to stop harassing me💀💀

  • @urfavie
    @urfavie ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I went to prom and it’s normal to wear heels for the pictures then change into comfortable shoes because you’ll be dancing and your feet will hurt lol, that doesn’t make u a pick me 💀

  • @Jellybeansatdusk
    @Jellybeansatdusk ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Bruh lol it’s not that you wore comfy shoes to prom. It’s that you made a whole video about:
    Whoo I’m so quirky I wear converse everyone else is wearing heels to prom look at me

  • @_j4yyy
    @_j4yyy ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Okay but ain’t no way I’m wearing heels to prom I’m going to trip and break both my legs before even getting there 💀

  • @evaengle7256
    @evaengle7256 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ok I totally support like slay but I can’t help myself.
    WHO SAYS I can’t wear my converse with my dress😫😫

  • @bobbyjonessencen8015
    @bobbyjonessencen8015 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you
    I didn’t really realize that converse with dresses were like a pile me thing, but I always loved it
    Also a lot of girls get hated on for being a “”pick me””

  • @Gabby-wasnt-here
    @Gabby-wasnt-here ปีที่แล้ว +12

    See i wouldnt wear heels to prom because they're so incredibly uncomfy after dancing for a while or even walking for a while T^T but I don't think I would wear converse (not hating on you this is just my personal opinion) maybe like a comfy but nice flat

  • @katiebugg7018
    @katiebugg7018 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    It wasn’t that you Wore them to prom as much as the video flexing about it😂 I mean honestly for me it was nostalgic and funny but I guess some people took that as you wanting clout for being “different” because in the early 2000s everyone wore converse with dresses 😂 so it’s not like you started something new.

  • @miaarlu554
    @miaarlu554 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I wore converse to my sneakerball ehem let me say that again SNEAKERBALL still a pickme?
    _________
    Aldo idkehat the comments are talking abt you SLAYED that dress with converse
    Also how am i a pick me if there obly 3-6 boys and 8-9 girls in my friend group the main ftiend group is all girls and they are not "friends" jey are my bestestfriends ever❤ ok byeeee

  • @xxlora
    @xxlora ปีที่แล้ว +1

    people: “OMG STAWP WEARING UR DrESS WITH CONVERSE 🍆”
    *meanwhile me, a female, thinking of wearing a suit:*

  • @jasminemiddlestetter5818
    @jasminemiddlestetter5818 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I don’t like that people said that wearing shoes with a prom dress is being a pick me girl because I personally don’t think it is I wear shoes with my dresses all the time because heels are just way too uncomfortable and I don’t like heels so I wear shoes to be more comfortable and I personally think it’s more stylish depending on what shoes u pick