This is who you call an “influencer” . This is what they’re supposed to be doing . Influencing the right and not the toxic . Thank you elsy , I respect you for this
THIS IS THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD INFLUENCER !!! Someone influencing us to do something new with our life’s and not be stuck in the dark… I’m loving this elsy that doesn’t give up and tries to help others while going through rough moments 😫
Elsy talking so sweet about E while he continues to bash her on social media just makes my blood boil. He literally posted a screenshot of this video and captioned it “who watched this bs” .. like wtf?! she deserves wayyy better & i hope she finds someone that will treat her like the queen she is soon.
Your BD is just making himself look bad. He’s confirming to everyone how toxic he is. You aren’t even bashing him and he’s over there talking mess. He’s MAD mad… you deserve better and you WILL find someone better
@@cynthiaaapurplehaze4525 some girls stay in bad relationships because they are afraid to be alone and be independent 🙏🏼 it’s better to be alone than with bad company . Your kids deserve better
Elsy is the realist influencer … period! You look so much different with a beautiful glow it’s so precious. The fact she actually shows she cares for her followers 🥺. Love ya elsyyyy
I left an 8 year toxic relationship and moved across the country, it was SO hard but I finally did it and feel soooo good, so peaceful and happy now, the things I have done in such a short amount of time is amazing ♡ I never thought I could do it. Anyone out there in the same position, it seems impossible sometimes but DO IT! Everything you thought you could never do will become possible.. ♡
It really is break up season thank u for making a video for us ladies to know that we are not alone. Everyone living in a toxic environment needs every bit of support and strength to get through it. You’re a super mom!!
Elijah is so closed minded and self centered, he doesn’t see that this video actually had nothing to do with him at all!! Yes, elsy brought up the breakup as a way to explain her motivation to change, but this video was all about how elsy is improving her life. If he takes that to be an attack towards him, then I think we can all agree that it’s because even he acknowledges he was a dead weight in her life 🙄🙄
I moved out of my baby daddy’s house almost 3 months ago now and I can honestly say that I’m in such a better space now and I feel so much at peace. We’re in this together sis! Sending you a big hug
The fact that this man still decides to talk down on Elsy is so disgusting. She is such a good person and she never talks down on him. I hope and pray and nothing for the best for you Elsy ❤️❤️❤️
Hermana, i NEEDED this. My man and i broke up 2 weeks ago and I’ve been so emotional every day since. But it’s time to switch it up. You’re so strong 🤍
She means God don't give you more than you can't handle.. My son told me that after a break up.. 12 years later I'm still with the love of my life... seek it search it don't settle for less and enjoy the freedom ...
I needed this, my baby‘s father and I just recently broke up, our baby is 6 weeks old, and my heart aches that we were not able to work through our issues and that our journey as a family ended so quick. I am being brave for my son and I, and I’m determined to move on forward, but some days are just harder than others. Thank you so much for this!
Ok I'm going to be completely honest, I normally fast forward through the sponsors in the beginning but for some reason I decided to watch it all the way through .. I'm sooo glad I did bc that footage of baby e asking for more peas was so freaking cute. I am proud of you Elsy! Your skin is looking fresh, up in the gym just workin on your fitness, being so vulnerable with all of us. I really felt like I was on FaceTime with you .. except I am so incredibly single I can feel the spiderwebs growing more and more every day. Keep drinking your water we love youuuu!
I was in a toxic relationship and it took me 13 years and 3 kids to walk away, almost 6 years free and although it's not easy it's way easier than allowing abuse for years after years! Soo proud of you not just for choosing to live a life with respect but also for sharing it publicly and bringing hope to those that still feel trapped.
Elsy really laid it out there and spoke to those women in bad relationships and showed them that there is life after the storm. ....Wishing you and baby Ehlani all the best. You're an amazing mama Elsy!
I admire you Elsy! You are a hardworking mother who despite the obstacles you had to face you continue to be the best mother you can be to your baby! You have a successful business and you thrive on TH-cam! God bless you both and your family! 💛
The change you’ve had is so noticeable. It looks so good on you. I’m so glad that you are finding your way again. Can we all say that we are proud of you and we are so glad that you don’t need a MICROPHONE anymore 😂 we hear you loud and clear and we are here for it!!!!!!!!!! Plus, your baby is so beautiful and you are a wonderful mother. So happy for you.
People come into our lives to teach us a lesson. The most powerful thing anybody can do is to not give a reaction. That really shows how at peace you are and not letting emotions get the best of us. I wish you nothing but the best and I pray that God keeps you and your family safe. You got this momma 💪
I didn’t go through a break up with a kid, but I did go through a break up from a toxic relationship. Nothing helped better than being alone and learned to love myself and learn to be alone and not depend on no one to be happy. It’s so good to be back hanging out with my friends, not worried about what someone might be doing behind my back, not worried about anything. In such a better mindset now. So glad you are as well ☺️
Elsy this video hits home. The past few months I lost myself… started to hit depression. And mind you I work at a behavioral hospital, I see this day in and day out. I finally got the courage to get up and do me again! You took all the words out of my mouth. Thank you!! Thank you elsy!!
It’s been 1 1/2 years now since my BD and I split and there’s days I’m still hurting tremendously but then I realize as a mother I got this and everything will be okay. This is a raw and relatable video coming from an influencer. 🥺💛
This is why I admire you so much because you’re such a strong woman and you never ever give up on your dreams even though you’ve through aaaallllloooottttt you still manage to get back up and try again you’re so inspirational elsy! Sending you love to u and your baby 🥰🥰🥰🥰💜💜💜
Took me 5yrs and just like Elijah posted this video on his IG saying it’s BS. That’s exactly what my ex did. He tried to bash me. 8yrs later I’m here happy with a wonderful husband living a life i never imagined bcus I was in such a toxic environment to understand there’s better out there.
Omg right I just seen that he posted saying her video was BS.! So sad that he continues to bash Elsy. He’s pathetic. I’m so happy Elsy is thriving and looking happier and better than ever. 💙
I also saw that he posted another photo after the screenshot of this video. My take on it is that he’s saying “she’s fake” bc perhaps Elsy does miss/love him still. She may also still have him over and they may still hook up. Then realizes she deserves better and stops and then it turns into a vicious cycle bc that’s what toxic relationships are. There’s no boundaries, there’s trauma, there’s trauma bonds, etc. People tend to forget people’s brains don’t fully develop until the age of 25. So people make mistakes and that’s totally normal for the average person. Imagine what happens when that person experienced severe trauma? Therapy is needed for both parties involved and self care. Therapy for the abuser and therapy for the victim.
me being a single mom as well this hit so hard. thank you so much for saying this to me and speaking to me, even the way that you did that is just so genuine. i needed this so much. you are such a beautiful person and you girls deserve happiness❣️
So cute how she said “more” in sign language 😭 I taught my baby sign language as well and it makes life soooo much easier bc they communicate with you 🥺 they learn how to speak sooner too! great job momma 🤍
This video inspired me to leave my toxic relationship and to be strong for my baby girl.. I wish I could talk to you, Elsy. Thank you so much. It hurts but I’ll get through it. For my daughter 💖🙌
I’m in the same boat. I feel like there’s no one to call to because I don’t want my friends and family to know everything that happened to me in that relationship and it went on during my pregnancy. Watching videos like these gives me hope to one day get the peace I once did in my life. I wanted to stay and work things out but always felt so stupid going back to someone who clearly didn’t love me but he represented the life I wanted and without him I would never had the family I longed for. No morning family cuddles, being those parents that kissed in front of their kids, no forever. I told myself I was going to wait five years but the more I thought about it I realized that it wasn’t going to be healthy for my son to see the way his father treated me. My new dream is to raise my son to be that man I wanted his father to be.
This is so scary, cause you know that there’s people who just don’t wanna see you making it without them. But after struggling with bullshit like this, you have to put yourself and your kids first. Mentally I’m not okay. And I’m so glad you spoke up! 🥺 Very proud of you! 🥰
Amazing how you went from going drunk to zumba lessons videos (Nothing wrong with that bc I also LIVE for those kind of videos too) to actually empower women! That really demonstrates how a baby can change your whole outlook in life and it's so admiring how you are doing such SUCH an amazing job with ehlani
You're skin looks flawless. I'm so happy that you're healing. Stay exercising and eating healthy and always meditate for at least 10 mins a day. You got this queen!
You can tell how mature she is even before she had baby E !!!! She's such a great mom, doing her thing and staying strong that's amazing to see. . some of us girls have it so hard trying to pull through a family and relationship to make it work for the children. She deserves happiness and someone who isn't going to take her for granted. She's such a genuine soul
Thank you for sitting down and talking about this. And encouraging others who are going through the same thing to be independent and not give up. You are such an admirable individual 💗
" God does not make you go through things you can't handle" Most definitely! My husband left me about a year after being diagnosed with endometrial Cancer. I did not know how I would go on with life after that. However, with God, faith and support from my family, I am in a much better place and have accepted my life as is and am tryly Blessed. 😊
This is the most inspiring, motivating video I have ever seen. Literally cried bc I’ve been going through SO much and it was like you were talking to me. Thank you 🥺 Also wow baby girl is so smart I love how she loves vegetables. You’re such a great mom.
It’s so tough. I don’t even have a baby or ex partner I’m going through war with. I’m going through war with my own self. I need to snap out. I admire you so much for your strength and I feel like you’re progressing so strongly❤️ to eveeyone who’s feeling sh*t. Sending love and hope you all feel better eventually ❤️
Girl, I am literally in this position right now. I’m so scared to leave bc I can’t imagine being away from my babygirl even for one day 😔 But I am SO unhappy in my relationship. Thank you for sharing this Elsy, it gives me hope for a happier future ❤️
You’re doing such an amazing job raising her & the fact that your teaching her simple little sign language too, you’re such A GOOD MOM to her & in general Elsy! Love you & thank you for being so open with us with everything you’ve been going through!🥺💕💕💕
You can totally see Elsy’s change and how far she has come! 🤞🏽💜 so glad your doing well and doing the best for baby E 💕 everything will be in your favor!
Elsy, the fact that you have a huge platform and you choose to show us your vulnerable side is GOLD! Thank you for speaking to the women the way you do! You are very special and we thank you for being you l! WE LOVE YOU 🤍
I didn’t have kids with my ex fiancé but I was with him for almost 8 years. We have been broken up for 1 month now and it’s so hard. He was a narcissist so he left me emotionally damaged and traumatized. I have my days where I’m okay and I have my days where I’m really depressed but I’m glad I got out that situation. It took me years to leave but I’m finally done.
8 yrs for me too. He was also a narcissist & the codependency was real 😔 I am glad I had my awakening cuz I honestly feel happy doing things I couldn't do while with him cuz he was so controlling
@@juanitameza2791 I’m glad I’m not alone. My ex manipulated me thinking he was going to change but kept cheating on me and living a double life behind my back. I was so blind and took him back every time but now I am realizing I need to put myself first and love myself. Be strong and allow yourself to heal. Things will get better!
Im in the same situation love🥺 Its been a month since I left. my days have been good. But come to find out a couple weeks later he got into another relationship. so I’m an emotional wreck at the moment 😓 I’m glad I found my therapist to help me cope with the trauma him and his family put me through.
I am pregnant and that's how my bby dad he has not treated me good right now during pregnancy I left him but it's so hard 😫 for all the thing I went thru with him I have left him it's so hard leaving because they know how to get you back .. they use words but enough is enough .i feel sad days I cry I miss him but it's better us been apart I do wonder if he will be in anther relationship it will hurt but if I keep going with this I am hurting my self more
He reminded me of the average fu*kboy, when you’re on another level. Can’t wait to see you mentally, emotionally and physically stronger & better letting that dead weight go 🥰
You have the meaning of “influencer” ❤️ you’re an amazing person who has genuine heart and beautiful heart! You’re a strong and vibrant woman who is brave enough to face anything towards her! Love you elsy ❤️
Girl!!! We on the same boat!! I share my son with my bd, and it’s super hard I always have mom guilt , when I work and I have time to myself . But I shouldn’t , I got out of toxic relationship and I’m glad I did. But I still struggle just like you. We got this babe!!!! We’re not alone. Keep pushing for your beautiful baby girl.
You really touched my heart, lately I have been really happy. Your video just made me realize that I am not the same person I was 2 years ago, 2 years ago I was depressed off a relationship that I knew was toxic, but I was comfortable with it. But I came to the realization that I have made a change in my life and that I’m really really happy. Thank you Elsy ❤️❤️
Wow Elsy thank you so much! I have been sharing my daughter for two years and it is still not easy, I break down every now and then and wish family would have worked out. I was able to go back to school. Learn more about my self, and this is life!!!! Thanks for sharing it’s nice to know I am not the only one feeling what I feel ❤️
Your growing and learning how to get through these dark days. I promise you are better and stronger beacuse of it. Your baby girl is growing up with an amazing mother.
I love how real and raw your video is! Made me teary knowing how hard it is to not have your daughter with you all the time but also proud of you that you are strong! I totally believe God doesn't put you in a situation you can't handle. It may seem difficult but he will give you the strength to carry on! God bless you Elsy and your daughter. Love your gratitude that's powerful
Aw elsy this video made me emotional. You never really know what people go through. We all fight our own battles everyday. Keep being a good mom to your baby girl, wish you the best!❤️
That baby is so precious and so smart. Take good care of your baby girl. I know she helps you be so strong. Such a great mother for bringing nothing but positivity in her life. Proud of you girl. We are watching you glow and be happy with yourself. God will bless you with someone good ❤️
this … this is A REAL ASS influencer , this is the most honest and beautiful video i’ve watched , thank you elsy for showing your true story on such a big platform .. i’m so glad to see you healing and doing better 💕💕💕💕💕 stay strong for baby E 🤎
look at youuuu 🥺 you’re so pretty after everything you have been thru you’re doing perfect after that break up it sucks because y’all have a baby but push forward for you’re baby look at y’all two having fun and perfect laughs y’all are the cutest just don’t think about the past stay up queen! 👸🤍
You learn a lot about people when they don’t get what they want from you ! You are strong and courageous elsy! You’re beautiful princess needs a happy mommy not a toxic “family” environment you did the right thing keep moving coward you’re an example for all of us 💓
We love you Elsy. When you’re feeling alone just remember there are thousands of us rooting for you. Wishing you many blessings 💗💗 sending you virtual hugs 🤗
Trust me. One day you'll look back on all of this while being the happiest you've ever been and see this all as a good thing. You have so many beautiful things coming your wayQ
the strength you have going through the things you don’t talk about pushes me to stay strong for my family even though my situation is different than yours. i look up to you so much i love you 🥺💖
I am so proud of you! This is the definition of an amazing mom who is putting herself, daughter and mental health first. You are making the best out the hard situation that you are in. You should be so proud of yourself! You’ve got an army behind you.
Elsy you have become my fave TH-camr even with not having so many videos up constantly because it just shows how raw and authentic you really are. You are so beautiful inside and out. ❤️ Your friendship and love for your loved ones is so genuine as well. God bless you and Baby E, don’t let anyone take away your energy and peace ❤️
currently 6 months pregnant and it has been complicated and just hearing how positive you are and the motivation you giving your supporters just gives me so much hope of things eventually getting better 🤍 Wish you and your baby girl nothing but great positive energy and happiness.
Elsy, you’re my favorite. I love how real you are! Your videos don’t feel forced and they come off so natural and real. You’re also glowing with vibrancy now and I wish and pray you find true happiness 💜 you deserve it! Thank you for being a real human and being conscious enough to share for those with similar struggles to yours!! You’re amazing!! God bless you
Sometimes we have to take a minute and be grateful for everything we have. I was literally just thinking about this today… that if you just take a second you will realize how much God has given you or helped you with. It couldn’t have been explained better! I loved this video❤️
I have been dealing with healing after leaving my son’s dad two years ago & this was so reassuring that I did the right thing. It made me look back at everything I went through and reminded me that I REALLY DID THAT!!! 😭🙏 Thank you Elsy!!! Keep the videos like this, we don’t get enough single mom influencers. I really really relate to everything that you are describing.
Awww baby E!! My heart drops each time i see this beautiful child!!! And girl you look like your doing so much better and look happier!! You really needed to take time off and focus on you and Baby E!!
I love how you are using your voice now before girl we couldn’t hear anything you were saying now we can hear it clearly and specking up help a lot and continue to be happy and doing you 💕
I love your vulnerability and rawness! You’re an amazing person and mama for healing yourself and making all these difficult changes. Thank you for sharing and helping others along the way ❤️🙏🏽
Damn I haven’t watched a motivational video like this in a minute. I been stressed and my mental health hasn’t been the best so watching this will most definitely motivate me to do better for myself 😌
Great advice Elsy! I literally went through the same thing you did with my baby daddy so toxic I had to get out for my daughter! And now I’m so happy I did so much for my life! I just graduated from college and I’m 100 percent sure it wouldn’t of happened if I would of stayed! Girls be strong and move on if you guys are stuck in this type of situation…Elsy your the type of influencers that give us courage ♥️
This video is so inspiring. I really respect you as an influencer being honest and so open with your struggles. You show the good and bad in life and not trying to have everything perfect as if life is ever perfect. I currently have so much bad going on in my life and it’s been really hard I don’t have family or friends around so dealing with my struggles on my own has been hard. One of my favorite people to watch on TH-cam I hope you continue to thrive 💕
Love you for even leaving and realizing that you needed this for you and for your child 🖤 your child will love you for even trying than knowing it ain't going to work and leaving and making your life better 🖤🖤👌🏻 it does suck !!! It hurts so bad to share and give your child away for a couple of days 😭😭😭😭 but it's always the best that your baby is the #1 focus in life and it does make you happy when your baby is happy as ever ⁉️🙏
I really needed to hear this. I’ve been praying for a change for my baby and for myself. I’ve spent 4 years of my life being depressed and unhappy with my relationship..
She is so adorable ! I Love how you know when to put your camera down & tend to your Daughter Not a lot of parents do that these days, It’s always “Give me a minute” or the child gets fully ignored So I just want to say I’m proud of you but I’m pretty sure you Hear that quite a lot 😁🙏🏽 But reminder’s can be refreshing & make you feel good about yourself ❤💯
This is who you call an “influencer” . This is what they’re supposed to be doing . Influencing the right and not the toxic . Thank you elsy , I respect you for this
This comment!!!!!!!!
Not like Catherine from the Ace family that pretends is all rainbows and mermaids lol
Seriously this video was so motivational. And not just with relationships, life in general! ❤😊
Love you Elsy! Keep doing you girl! ❤
Exactly what I wanted to say!!👍👍👍
Did any guys find this video motivational? Seems like these feel good videos are for folks that don't want to take action.....
THIS IS THE DEFINITION OF THE WORD INFLUENCER !!! Someone influencing us to do something new with our life’s and not be stuck in the dark… I’m loving this elsy that doesn’t give up and tries to help others while going through rough moments 😫
Agree!! Love you girl! Elijah is a lowlife
G he hm h huh nnkkopopoiiopui my to l
do u guys know his socials?
Elsy talking so sweet about E while he continues to bash her on social media just makes my blood boil. He literally posted a screenshot of this video and captioned it “who watched this bs” .. like wtf?! she deserves wayyy better & i hope she finds someone that will treat her like the queen she is soon.
what's his ig?
She bashes him offline so stfu lol
@@Tartebio as she should considering the reason being that he cheated on her lmfao i don’t wanna hear it
@@Tartebio shut up Elijah
You don't even know these people 😂
Your BD is just making himself look bad. He’s confirming to everyone how toxic he is. You aren’t even bashing him and he’s over there talking mess. He’s MAD mad… you deserve better and you WILL find someone better
You are so blessed to be able to leave him and be financially stable that’s an issue to a lot of women.
This.. I can relate and I 100% agree.
This is why most of you women Need to stop depending on men!!! Do something that can get you to be INDEPENDENT!!
This. 🙁
@@cynthiaaapurplehaze4525 some girls stay in bad relationships because they are afraid to be alone and be independent 🙏🏼 it’s better to be alone than with bad company . Your kids deserve better
It’s because some girls are afraid to be alone and do things on their own . Unhealthy relationships are never good for kids .
I love how brave she is and how she’s showing her little one how to love
We need a cooking episode with you and Alo now that you both know what to do in the kitchen I still remember when you guys tried to cook and failed🤣🤣
omg yes ! they both chefs now🤌🏽
Omg YESS 😍
Yesssssss using hello fresh and green chef omg that would be so fun
Elsy is the realist influencer … period! You look so much different with a beautiful glow it’s so precious. The fact she actually shows she cares for her followers 🥺. Love ya elsyyyy
I left an 8 year toxic relationship and moved across the country, it was SO hard but I finally did it and feel soooo good, so peaceful and happy now, the things I have done in such a short amount of time is amazing ♡ I never thought I could do it. Anyone out there in the same position, it seems impossible sometimes but DO IT! Everything you thought you could never do will become possible.. ♡
Damn girl took you a while huh! Kuddos ❤️
Good for you you did the impossible many can't and you did it!!!😇🥰
It really is break up season thank u for making a video for us ladies to know that we are not alone. Everyone living in a toxic environment needs every bit of support and strength to get through it. You’re a super mom!!
Elijah is so closed minded and self centered, he doesn’t see that this video actually had nothing to do with him at all!! Yes, elsy brought up the breakup as a way to explain her motivation to change, but this video was all about how elsy is improving her life. If he takes that to be an attack towards him, then I think we can all agree that it’s because even he acknowledges he was a dead weight in her life 🙄🙄
Just know that realizing you deserve better, and moving on is literally the best thing you can do for your daughter!🤍
Agree!!!
Single mother households are societies cancer.
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I produce my own music solo everything is me
I moved out of my baby daddy’s house almost 3 months ago now and I can honestly say that I’m in such a better space now and I feel so much at peace. We’re in this together sis! Sending you a big hug
HE DAT PATTYWACK PRODUCTIONS #darealpattwackbaby #trapmusic #rap
I produce my own music solo everything is me
I am the same girl I feel peace not been with him but at times I mis our good moments but most of the time was just bad days
it doesn’t hurt knowing that he’s talking to other girls or possibly having girls over ?? it’s gonna kill me once i move out 💔
The fact that this man still decides to talk down on Elsy is so disgusting. She is such a good person and she never talks down on him. I hope and pray and nothing for the best for you Elsy ❤️❤️❤️
do u know his socials?
Elsy, you were born to be a mother. The way you’re putting yourself and Ehlani’s happiness first speaks volumes on that. So proud of you, mamas 💛
Hermana, i NEEDED this. My man and i broke up 2 weeks ago and I’ve been so emotional every day since. But it’s time to switch it up. You’re so strong 🤍
Sending you nothing but positivity, happiness, health, and love!
God bless you and guide you with this healing !♥️ @roci
She means God don't give you more than you can't handle.. My son told me that after a break up.. 12 years later I'm still with the love of my life... seek it search it don't settle for less and enjoy the freedom ...
It gets better 💗 you got this
You don’t need anyone who don’t need you . You Can’t make a man love you or respect you . His loss! God bless you and your healing process
I needed this, my baby‘s father and I just recently broke up, our baby is 6 weeks old, and my heart aches that we were not able to work through our issues and that our journey as a family ended so quick. I am being brave for my son and I, and I’m determined to move on forward, but some days are just harder than others. Thank you so much for this!
you got this girl! wish you the best, you and your son have a beautiful life ahead ❤️
Trust me it’s better that it ended so quick than later. Praying for you 💛
@@Ukhtyu yes!!!!
Your amazing. I have similar feeling today as well with my situation. Your awersome
UGH same! :(
Ok I'm going to be completely honest, I normally fast forward through the sponsors in the beginning but for some reason I decided to watch it all the way through .. I'm sooo glad I did bc that footage of baby e asking for more peas was so freaking cute. I am proud of you Elsy! Your skin is looking fresh, up in the gym just workin on your fitness, being so vulnerable with all of us. I really felt like I was on FaceTime with you .. except I am so incredibly single I can feel the spiderwebs growing more and more every day. Keep drinking your water we love youuuu!
HE DAT PATTYWACK PRODUCTIONS #darealpattwackbaby #trapmusic #rap
I produce my own music solo everything is me
I was in a toxic relationship and it took me 13 years and 3 kids to walk away, almost 6 years free and although it's not easy it's way easier than allowing abuse for years after years! Soo proud of you not just for choosing to live a life with respect but also for sharing it publicly and bringing hope to those that still feel trapped.
Elsy really laid it out there and spoke to those women in bad relationships and showed them that there is life after the storm. ....Wishing you and baby Ehlani all the best. You're an amazing mama Elsy!
I admire you Elsy! You are a hardworking mother who despite the obstacles you had to face you continue to be the best mother you can be to your baby! You have a successful business and you thrive on TH-cam! God bless you both and your family! 💛
The change you’ve had is so noticeable. It looks so good on you. I’m so glad that you are finding your way again. Can we all say that we are proud of you and we are so glad that you don’t need a MICROPHONE anymore 😂 we hear you loud and clear and we are here for it!!!!!!!!!! Plus, your baby is so beautiful and you are a wonderful mother. So happy for you.
After going through so much , you deserve all the happiness this life has to offer ❤️
People come into our lives to teach us a lesson. The most powerful thing anybody can do is to not give a reaction. That really shows how at peace you are and not letting emotions get the best of us. I wish you nothing but the best and I pray that God keeps you and your family safe. You got this momma 💪
I didn’t go through a break up with a kid, but I did go through a break up from a toxic relationship. Nothing helped better than being alone and learned to love myself and learn to be alone and not depend on no one to be happy. It’s so good to be back hanging out with my friends, not worried about what someone might be doing behind my back, not worried about anything. In such a better mindset now. So glad you are as well ☺️
When she felt thankful to be happy about all the little things around her literally got me tears.
I love you elsy.
Elsy this video hits home. The past few months I lost myself… started to hit depression. And mind you I work at a behavioral hospital, I see this day in and day out. I finally got the courage to get up and do me again! You took all the words out of my mouth. Thank you!! Thank you elsy!!
It’s been 1 1/2 years now since my BD and I split and there’s days I’m still hurting tremendously but then I realize as a mother I got this and everything will be okay. This is a raw and relatable video coming from an influencer. 🥺💛
This is why I admire you so much because you’re such a strong woman and you never ever give up on your dreams even though you’ve through aaaallllloooottttt you still manage to get back up and try again you’re so inspirational elsy! Sending you love to u and your baby 🥰🥰🥰🥰💜💜💜
Took me 5yrs and just like Elijah posted this video on his IG saying it’s BS. That’s exactly what my ex did. He tried to bash me. 8yrs later I’m here happy with a wonderful husband living a life i never imagined bcus I was in such a toxic environment to understand there’s better out there.
Omg right I just seen that he posted saying her video was BS.! So sad that he continues to bash Elsy. He’s pathetic. I’m so happy Elsy is thriving and looking happier and better than ever. 💙
I also saw that he posted another photo after the screenshot of this video.
My take on it is that he’s saying “she’s fake” bc perhaps Elsy does miss/love him still. She may also still have him over and they may still hook up. Then realizes she deserves better and stops and then it turns into a vicious cycle bc that’s what toxic relationships are. There’s no boundaries, there’s trauma, there’s trauma bonds, etc. People tend to forget people’s brains don’t fully develop until the age of 25. So people make mistakes and that’s totally normal for the average person. Imagine what happens when that person experienced severe trauma? Therapy is needed for both parties involved and self care. Therapy for the abuser and therapy for the victim.
me being a single mom as well this hit so hard. thank you so much for saying this to me and speaking to me, even the way that you did that is just so genuine. i needed this so much. you are such a beautiful person and you girls deserve happiness❣️
So cute how she said “more” in sign language 😭 I taught my baby sign language as well and it makes life soooo much easier bc they communicate with you 🥺 they learn how to speak sooner too! great job momma 🤍
You’re such a great mother !!! The fact that not only will she grow up bilingual you are also teaching her sign language is amazing!!!! 💗💗💗💗
This video inspired me to leave my toxic relationship and to be strong for my baby girl.. I wish I could talk to you, Elsy. Thank you so much. It hurts but I’ll get through it. For my daughter 💖🙌
I’m in the same boat. I feel like there’s no one to call to because I don’t want my friends and family to know everything that happened to me in that relationship and it went on during my pregnancy. Watching videos like these gives me hope to one day get the peace I once did in my life. I wanted to stay and work things out but always felt so stupid going back to someone who clearly didn’t love me but he represented the life I wanted and without him I would never had the family I longed for. No morning family cuddles, being those parents that kissed in front of their kids, no forever. I told myself I was going to wait five years but the more I thought about it I realized that it wasn’t going to be healthy for my son to see the way his father treated me. My new dream is to raise my son to be that man I wanted his father to be.
This is so scary, cause you know that there’s people who just don’t wanna see you making it without them. But after struggling with bullshit like this, you have to put yourself and your kids first. Mentally I’m not okay. And I’m so glad you spoke up! 🥺 Very proud of you! 🥰
Amazing how you went from going drunk to zumba lessons videos (Nothing wrong with that bc I also LIVE for those kind of videos too) to actually empower women! That really demonstrates how a baby can change your whole outlook in life and it's so admiring how you are doing such SUCH an amazing job with ehlani
she was still inspiring ppl back then. u don’t need a baby to empower women☠️
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You're skin looks flawless. I'm so happy that you're healing. Stay exercising and eating healthy and always meditate for at least 10 mins a day. You got this queen!
You can tell how mature she is even before she had baby E !!!! She's such a great mom, doing her thing and staying strong that's amazing to see. . some of us girls have it so hard trying to pull through a family and relationship to make it work for the children. She deserves happiness and someone who isn't going to take her for granted. She's such a genuine soul
Thank you for sitting down and talking about this. And encouraging others who are going through the same thing to be independent and not give up. You are such an admirable individual 💗
" God does not make you go through things you can't handle" Most definitely! My husband left me about a year after being diagnosed with endometrial Cancer. I did not know how I would go on with life after that. However, with God, faith and support from my family, I am in a much better place and have accepted my life as is and am tryly Blessed. 😊
This is the most inspiring, motivating video I have ever seen. Literally cried bc I’ve been going through SO much and it was like you were talking to me. Thank you 🥺
Also wow baby girl is so smart I love how she loves vegetables. You’re such a great mom.
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Elsy have you ever thought about going to school and pursuit a psychology or social work degree? It suits you! 👏🏽
It’s so tough. I don’t even have a baby or ex partner I’m going through war with. I’m going through war with my own self. I need to snap out. I admire you so much for your strength and I feel like you’re progressing so strongly❤️ to eveeyone who’s feeling sh*t. Sending love and hope you all feel better eventually ❤️
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Sending you lots of love !!!! You can do this
@@lizbethrodriguez4671 thank you sm. Needing all the positive energy, sending you lots of love and light back ✨✨
Girl, I am literally in this position right now. I’m so scared to leave bc I can’t imagine being away from my babygirl even for one day 😔 But I am SO unhappy in my relationship. Thank you for sharing this Elsy, it gives me hope for a happier future ❤️
The part where she asks for more 😭♥️! You look so happy Elsy! Ur such an amazing mom, don’t let anyone tell you different! Keep going boss mom!!
You’re doing such an amazing job raising her & the fact that your teaching her simple little sign language too, you’re such A GOOD MOM to her & in general Elsy! Love you & thank you for being so open with us with everything you’ve been going through!🥺💕💕💕
You can totally see Elsy’s change and how far she has come! 🤞🏽💜 so glad your doing well and doing the best for baby E 💕 everything will be in your favor!
You can just see your peace Elsy. Stay doing what you’re doing! Time heals all 🙏🏻🙏🏻
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Elsy, the fact that you have a huge platform and you choose to show us your vulnerable side is GOLD! Thank you for speaking to the women the way you do! You are very special and we thank you for being you l!
WE LOVE YOU 🤍
Proud of you Elsy! Getting yourself out of “a funk” isn’t easy and you’re doing it!!! Keep keepin on.
I didn’t have kids with my ex fiancé but I was with him for almost 8 years. We have been broken up for 1 month now and it’s so hard. He was a narcissist so he left me emotionally damaged and traumatized. I have my days where I’m okay and I have my days where I’m really depressed but I’m glad I got out that situation. It took me years to leave but I’m finally done.
8 yrs for me too. He was also a narcissist & the codependency was real 😔 I am glad I had my awakening cuz I honestly feel happy doing things I couldn't do while with him cuz he was so controlling
@@juanitameza2791 I’m glad I’m not alone. My ex manipulated me thinking he was going to change but kept cheating on me and living a double life behind my back. I was so blind and took him back every time but now I am realizing I need to put myself first and love myself. Be strong and allow yourself to heal. Things will get better!
Im in the same situation love🥺 Its been a month since I left. my days have been good. But come to find out a couple weeks later he got into another relationship. so I’m an emotional wreck at the moment 😓 I’m glad I found my therapist to help me cope with the trauma him and his family put me through.
@@selenvxo omg I’ve been thinking of seeing a therapist!! I feel like it is the only way I will ever heal properly
I am pregnant and that's how my bby dad he has not treated me good right now during pregnancy I left him but it's so hard 😫 for all the thing I went thru with him I have left him it's so hard leaving because they know how to get you back .. they use words but enough is enough .i feel sad days I cry I miss him but it's better us been apart I do wonder if he will be in anther relationship it will hurt but if I keep going with this I am hurting my self more
He reminded me of the average fu*kboy, when you’re on another level. Can’t wait to see you mentally, emotionally and physically stronger & better letting that dead weight go 🥰
Elsy you’re such a good mommy! And baby ehlani is SOO smart when she got the chicken with her tiny hand I CANTTT 😩😩 but girl you are GLOWINGGGG 😍😍
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You have the meaning of “influencer” ❤️ you’re an amazing person who has genuine heart and beautiful heart! You’re a strong and vibrant woman who is brave enough to face anything towards her! Love you elsy ❤️
So proud you found the strength to separate and make a happy home for your princess. You got this . Co parents can raise a happy child .
Girl!!! We on the same boat!! I share my son with my bd, and it’s super hard I always have mom guilt , when I work and I have time to myself . But I shouldn’t , I got out of toxic relationship and I’m glad I did. But I still struggle just like you. We got this babe!!!! We’re not alone. Keep pushing for your beautiful baby girl.
You really touched my heart, lately I have been really happy. Your video just made me realize that I am not the same person I was 2 years ago, 2 years ago I was depressed off a relationship that I knew was toxic, but I was comfortable with it. But I came to the realization that I have made a change in my life and that I’m really really happy. Thank you Elsy ❤️❤️
Elsy your just amazing … you seriously gave me the motivation to leave a toxic relationship so my baby girl can be happy and see me happy all the time
Wow Elsy thank you so much! I have been sharing my daughter for two years and it is still not easy, I break down every now and then and wish family would have worked out. I was able to go back to school. Learn more about my self, and this is life!!!! Thanks for sharing it’s nice to know I am not the only one feeling what I feel ❤️
Your growing and learning how to get through these dark days. I promise you are better and stronger beacuse of it. Your baby girl is growing up with an amazing mother.
I love how real and raw your video is! Made me teary knowing how hard it is to not have your daughter with you all the time but also proud of you that you are strong! I totally believe God doesn't put you in a situation you can't handle. It may seem difficult but he will give you the strength to carry on! God bless you Elsy and your daughter. Love your gratitude that's powerful
Aw elsy this video made me emotional. You never really know what people go through. We all fight our own battles everyday. Keep being a good mom to your baby girl, wish you the best!❤️
The glow on your face tells us how much happier you TRULY are you DESERVE that 🙌🏽❤
That baby is so precious and so smart. Take good care of your baby girl. I know she helps you be so strong. Such a great mother for bringing nothing but positivity in her life. Proud of you girl. We are watching you glow and be happy with yourself. God will bless you with someone good ❤️
this … this is A REAL ASS influencer , this is the most honest and beautiful video i’ve watched , thank you elsy for showing your true story on such a big platform .. i’m so glad to see you healing and doing better 💕💕💕💕💕 stay strong for baby E 🤎
look at youuuu 🥺 you’re so pretty after everything you have been thru you’re doing perfect after that break up it sucks because y’all have a baby but push forward for you’re baby look at y’all two having fun and perfect laughs y’all are the cutest just don’t think about the past stay up queen! 👸🤍
Im so glad you made this video. I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years today. I cried but i kept telling myself it will get better.
You got this! ❤️
It will get better, you'll shine once again & even brighter than ever ✨
I’ll forever admire you for doing what’s best for you and your baby. I’m due in November…a baby girl…and you’re definitely mommy goals for me 🤍
Elsy baby you are a QUEEN. Your soul shines so bright and you are definitely shining again….I’m so proud of you.
You learn a lot about people when they don’t get what they want from you ! You are strong and courageous elsy! You’re beautiful princess needs a happy mommy not a toxic “family” environment you did the right thing keep moving coward you’re an example for all of us 💓
We love you Elsy. When you’re feeling alone just remember there are thousands of us rooting for you. Wishing you many blessings 💗💗 sending you virtual hugs 🤗
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Trust me. One day you'll look back on all of this while being the happiest you've ever been and see this all as a good thing. You have so many beautiful things coming your wayQ
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the strength you have going through the things you don’t talk about pushes me to stay strong for my family even though my situation is different than yours. i look up to you so much i love you 🥺💖
I am so proud of you! This is the definition of an amazing mom who is putting herself, daughter and mental health first. You are making the best out the hard situation that you are in. You should be so proud of yourself! You’ve got an army behind you.
Elsy you have become my fave TH-camr even with not having so many videos up constantly because it just shows how raw and authentic you really are. You are so beautiful inside and out. ❤️ Your friendship and love for your loved ones is so genuine as well. God bless you and Baby E, don’t let anyone take away your energy and peace ❤️
i absolutely loved this wow Elsy, everyone needs a friend like you !!!
currently 6 months pregnant and it has been complicated and just hearing how positive you are and the motivation you giving your supporters just gives me so much hope of things eventually getting better 🤍 Wish you and your baby girl nothing but great positive energy and happiness.
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Elsy, I’m so happy you feel more at peace now. You deserve all the happiness in the world ❤️
Elsy, you’re my favorite. I love how real you are! Your videos don’t feel forced and they come off so natural and real. You’re also glowing with vibrancy now and I wish and pray you find true happiness 💜 you deserve it! Thank you for being a real human and being conscious enough to share for those with similar struggles to yours!! You’re amazing!! God bless you
Sometimes we have to take a minute and be grateful for everything we have. I was literally just thinking about this today… that if you just take a second you will realize how much God has given you or helped you with. It couldn’t have been explained better! I loved this video❤️
Literally we are all so blessed 🥺🙏🏽❤️
stoppp, when she did “more” in sign language without you asking was so damn cute🥺💕
Yesss I saw that I was like wait a minute 😩
I’m not even going through a break up right now and this motivated me to be better for myself 👏 thank you elsy ♥️♥️
Elsy with green chef and alondra with hello fresh and meee going to Walmart still omg 😂😂😂
I love you guys ❤️❤️❤️
Period! Lol
Girl saaaame lol or food 4 less 😂😂😭😭💖
Looook at you and your baby literallly glowing literallly actual glowing 🤎🤎😩😩 soooo cuteeeee
I have been dealing with healing after leaving my son’s dad two years ago & this was so reassuring that I did the right thing. It made me look back at everything I went through and reminded me that I REALLY DID THAT!!! 😭🙏 Thank you Elsy!!! Keep the videos like this, we don’t get enough single mom influencers. I really really relate to everything that you are describing.
You said it so well
They do it for the “ comfort “
I’m so happy for you and wish you nothing but more strength ♥️
Awww baby E!! My heart drops each time i see this beautiful child!!! And girl you look like your doing so much better and look happier!! You really needed to take time off and focus on you and Baby E!!
Benny should get Elsy on a song 😂 she spittin'
I love how you are using your voice now before girl we couldn’t hear anything you were saying now we can hear it clearly and specking up help a lot and continue to be happy and doing you 💕
I love your vulnerability and rawness! You’re an amazing person and mama for healing yourself and making all these difficult changes. Thank you for sharing and helping others along the way ❤️🙏🏽
Damn I haven’t watched a motivational video like this in a minute. I been stressed and my mental health hasn’t been the best so watching this will most definitely motivate me to do better for myself 😌
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“My BBL will melt out there” 😂 I love her !
Great advice Elsy! I literally went through the same thing you did with my baby daddy so toxic I had to get out for my daughter! And now I’m so happy I did so much for my life! I just graduated from college and I’m 100 percent sure it wouldn’t of happened if I would of stayed! Girls be strong and move on if you guys are stuck in this type of situation…Elsy your the type of influencers that give us courage ♥️
Omg baby girl is so precious and chubby . Love her sweet smile. Congratulations on taking care of yourself and leaving a toxic environment. 💕💕💕
This video is so inspiring. I really respect you as an influencer being honest and so open with your struggles. You show the good and bad in life and not trying to have everything perfect as if life is ever perfect. I currently have so much bad going on in my life and it’s been really hard I don’t have family or friends around so dealing with my struggles on my own has been hard. One of my favorite people to watch on TH-cam I hope you continue to thrive 💕
Love you for even leaving and realizing that you needed this for you and for your child 🖤 your child will love you for even trying than knowing it ain't going to work and leaving and making your life better 🖤🖤👌🏻 it does suck !!! It hurts so bad to share and give your child away for a couple of days 😭😭😭😭 but it's always the best that your baby is the #1 focus in life and it does make you happy when your baby is happy as ever ⁉️🙏
You can just tell the glow up on your face ! You look sooo happy! You deserve it so much and way more 💕💕💕
This video is so inspiring it touched my soul to the point where I'm tearing up.
I really needed to hear this. I’ve been praying for a change for my baby and for myself. I’ve spent 4 years of my life being depressed and unhappy with my relationship..
She is so adorable ! I Love how you know when to put your camera down & tend to your Daughter Not a lot of parents do that these days, It’s always “Give me a minute” or the child gets fully ignored So I just want to say I’m proud of you but I’m pretty sure you Hear that quite a lot 😁🙏🏽 But reminder’s can be refreshing & make you feel good about yourself ❤💯