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  • @elsy_guevara
    @elsy_guevara  3 ปีที่แล้ว +443

    GET YOUR CURRENT CARD HERE www.current.com/ElsyG :)

    • @cassandramorales7644
      @cassandramorales7644 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Elsyyyy💞💞

    • @tanairytdelgado4516
      @tanairytdelgado4516 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love this💗I can relate to a lot of things you girls said, I think we went to the same place for a therapist !

    • @arizanenathequeen
      @arizanenathequeen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank You for sharing your story
      Look at you and your sisters now
      Amazing, beautiful Queens.
      Bless Be.

    • @floradelossantos6920
      @floradelossantos6920 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for sharing your family storyline I cried through the whole video God Bless your family

    • @kimmxoxo7467
      @kimmxoxo7467 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I’m so deadddd the ending was the best I started cracking up 😭 after bawling my eyes out great ending 😂😂😂🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @alondradessy
    @alondradessy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11935

    Okay we need more video with all of you guys together 😭👏🏻❤️❤️

  • @alondradessy
    @alondradessy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9476

    Not you partying at 12 😂😂😂

    • @alejandroflores9138
      @alejandroflores9138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Hi aloooi

    • @bootycheeks520
      @bootycheeks520 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      :0

    • @esmeraldarobles8882
      @esmeraldarobles8882 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      rightt loll babe we missed ur collaboration you should take care of her baby for a video

    • @la_yadira
      @la_yadira 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Aww. That’s cool you have sisters 🤍🤍🤍🤍

    • @elsy_guevara
      @elsy_guevara  3 ปีที่แล้ว +924

      LMAOO with my training bra and everything 🤣

  • @rcuevas1211
    @rcuevas1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2499

    Elsy mom making her sell chips as a little girl is why Elsy has her own business now and continues to be a hustler. 💪

    • @rcuevas1211
      @rcuevas1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Forgot to add my cashapp. 😭😭 $Erickcastellon

    • @daisyvargas8559
      @daisyvargas8559 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      PERIODDD

    • @jessica-dz7dy
      @jessica-dz7dy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rcuevas1211 you can edit your comment 😁

    • @rcuevas1211
      @rcuevas1211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@jessica-dz7dy if I edit my comment it will take off Elsy's like won't it?

    • @jessica-dz7dy
      @jessica-dz7dy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rcuevas1211 no it wont it will just edit your comment

  • @bereniceleon8940
    @bereniceleon8940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1046

    It’s always the oldest who is the most damaged. They know/remember everything and sad part is they will never talk about it, not even to their younger siblings. Love my brother for taking charge of the house when my mom was out working to provide.

    • @de72386
      @de72386 3 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Completely agree. We all need to appreciate the oldest for their sacrifices 😢

    • @angelitaheredia6534
      @angelitaheredia6534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Sadly my brother never took charge and left so I had to and it’s always been so much pressure especially now I want to start my own life with my boyfriend but I always fall back to being there for my mom

    • @bereniceleon8940
      @bereniceleon8940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@angelitaheredia6534 ooo girl I feel you. My brother ended up leaving after a bit (I don’t blame him, he had to start his own life/family) so I also took charge of the house. It was difficult. And I totally understand where you’re coming from, it almost feels like you’re being selfish for thinking about your personal life and future because you want to be there to help your mother. Just know that your mom will understand when the time does come and you have to fly and make your own nest 💜 you did enough love.

    • @angelitaheredia6534
      @angelitaheredia6534 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      That is exactly how I feel... atleast someone understands 😔

    • @knm9531
      @knm9531 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I relate to this so much :( that’s why I try to make everyone around me happy because I don’t want them to feel like I did💘

  • @marissaboomin
    @marissaboomin 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3913

    Now we know if her babydaddy talks shit it’s because his life was easy and he doesn’t understand how strong women usually come from hard upbringings.

    • @jaytee1044
      @jaytee1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +272

      I think they’re still together unfortunately. Him talking shit more than once just proved he doesn’t respect her 😪 I love Elsy she deserves the best!

    • @karenrm8632
      @karenrm8632 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Wait what did I miss ???

    • @perlaacosta7782
      @perlaacosta7782 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Wait what ?

    • @adrianalovespickles
      @adrianalovespickles 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      What happened 🤔

    • @odalismontoya8843
      @odalismontoya8843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree

  • @romjenii
    @romjenii 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1933

    The whole video i was bawling, nobody knows the struggle immigrants parents go through more than their kids. I remember McDonald's was a luxury to my siblings and i because we couldn't even afford that. Que duren para siempre los papas que vinieron sin nada y les dieron todo a sus hijos !!

    • @missyb9258
      @missyb9258 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Yes one of the memories that lives forever in my head is the time I turned 10 and all I asked for was a dinner at McDonald’s! My parents did buy it for me and my 5 siblings and I felt like the luckiest person ever !🥺

    • @locaajenn303
      @locaajenn303 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ughhhh Same the dad situation hits different when you never even met a father figure 🥴

    • @cindyespinoza2371
      @cindyespinoza2371 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes!! When I was little we had a McDonald’s at a walking distance down the street. My mom would dress my sister and I in matching dresses and we would go to McDs for happy meals. Happy meals were everything bc we
      barely had money but my parents made sure they treated us for a small treat. 😘

    • @Jiron127
      @Jiron127 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Everybody struggle is unique and the process of healing starts with letting go. God has pulled you through 🙏🏽🙏🏽

    • @geeo989
      @geeo989 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      neta 🙏🏽 my mom would be like hay frijoles en la casa" lol now i cant live without beans an rice at home . my mom came from nothin ether a single mom with 6 kids . we dont noe how they do it but shout out to them 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @luzgranados3876
    @luzgranados3876 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2399

    They went through hell and back but they still found a way to be happy and laugh with each other and support each other through their trauma. Their mom was an amazing mom to be working through 3 jobs to support 6 kiddos. Now look at them successful with beautiful kiddos of their own.

  • @vitameza17
    @vitameza17 3 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    When we all thought Elsy talked low but then there is Betty 😅😅

    • @elic2533
      @elic2533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right 😭😂😂

  • @antonyvelazquez1922
    @antonyvelazquez1922 3 ปีที่แล้ว +778

    Patty looks so full of life but also so hurt inside

    • @yeseniacruz9878
      @yeseniacruz9878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      That’s how it b with so much trauma. You wanna start living for yourself

  • @gabrielaestrada1794
    @gabrielaestrada1794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1672

    You can tell they hide there hurt through laughter. You guys are so strong. Therapy would truly help heal your heart. It can teach you how to cope with situations. How to avoid passing your traumas onto your children. I’m sorry this has happened to you guys but it shows your true strength.

    • @mytzylorenzo9481
      @mytzylorenzo9481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      This one right here ! I can relate to them a lot !

    • @kevigarcia8863
      @kevigarcia8863 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Yessss I agree, like they want to say so much but don't, definitely hiding that pain. Poor girls.

    • @emilynolasco3579
      @emilynolasco3579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I could definitely relate to them so much! I need therapy once I am done with college!

    • @mytzylorenzo9481
      @mytzylorenzo9481 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@emilynolasco3579 girl don’t you find it hard to stay focus in college because of all the trauma ?

    • @emilynolasco3579
      @emilynolasco3579 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mytzylorenzo9481 at first not really I felt like God help me so much in healing. Also my bf has helped me so much mentally. But since COVID my mental health has been suffering due to my grandma died a few months ago. It is my last semester and honestly I am trying to pass my classes bc I am almost there and I want to be over with it already. I feel like my past trauma has been slowing coming back in my mind and I start to remember little things due to my grandmother death. Also I feel a sense of loneliness. That I definitely need to seek therapy once I am done. I have two more weeks until the semester is done!

  • @Dreaababes
    @Dreaababes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1175

    Your mom is so STRONG for not talking to any men to keep you all SAFE! She really put y’all first!!!

    • @nicolekaye1236
      @nicolekaye1236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Same here! I've always been weary around men when I was small and my mom was very aware but my friend is choosing her man rn over her chikd even tho he's almost 18 but she let her man threaten to beat him up and he's my godson so I'm livid thinking about it so I can't wait to run into him but it sucks cus I know my friend won't talk to me once I confront him 😒

    • @nayelli1764
      @nayelli1764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She did but they didn’t let her lol she’s a strong women do she put her daughters before any man but that doesn’t mean she didn’t talk to any. my mom was the same way. She never had a bf. She always put us first but we didn’t mind her having a bf if she wanted to. Now she does after I moved out

    • @todalia13
      @todalia13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Esas son madres mi abuela iso lo mismo se kedo con 8 y con migo sola nos crio no necesito de ningun viejo y asta aorita sola con sus hijos 😁😍por eso la keremos mucho

    • @nesse8279
      @nesse8279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally my mom 😘

    • @xiomara2266
      @xiomara2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nayelli1764 protect him at all cost

  • @smart5000
    @smart5000 3 ปีที่แล้ว +361

    Y’all kept saying “my mom” like each one had a different mom. Lol “Tell me your Hispanic without telling me your Hispanic.”

    • @delicinhaxoxo
      @delicinhaxoxo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So true lmao 😂

    • @brittanymerriman8050
      @brittanymerriman8050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I was just thinking why are they saying my mom instead of our mom

    • @beatrizlozano1662
      @beatrizlozano1662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Very true!!! 😆

    • @august_heat4594
      @august_heat4594 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lol!! I’ve noticed this in many families. I find it weird.

    • @raysquiggz
      @raysquiggz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Frrr. A lot of Hispanic friends of mine, and my mom and her siblings, all say “my mom” instead of “our mom” or just “mom”

  • @crystal-fg2ys
    @crystal-fg2ys 3 ปีที่แล้ว +651

    Patty seems “hurt” and sad talking about this you can see it, maybe because she’s the oldest but you can tell she’s wild but has a huge heart. She’s the kind of person to make you laugh even when she’s going through it herself 🥺 You all are so strong ❤️

  • @agv23agv
    @agv23agv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +660

    I’ve always loved Elsy for how humble she is, but now I love her even more. She’s proof that we can go through hell, but we still have a choice.

    • @marz3704
      @marz3704 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @veexo9115
      @veexo9115 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly , some just choose to put their kids through the same sht they went through .. won’t be me with my daughter 💯

    • @desireebustamante7536
      @desireebustamante7536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Love this ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

    • @desireebustamante7536
      @desireebustamante7536 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You girls are so strong! ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Ayeitsmelizahh
    @Ayeitsmelizahh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1308

    Patty seems the most happy, but deep down seems to be hurting a lot. 🥺❤️

    • @tisheralvay4010
      @tisheralvay4010 3 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      It’s usually the happiest ones who are the most hurt 😢

    • @lifestylewithpaige
      @lifestylewithpaige 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i agree 🥺

    • @KarenLopez-ht4fh
      @KarenLopez-ht4fh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I loved patti ❤️

    • @alondra8541
      @alondra8541 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Did she tell you she was hurting or what

    • @daisyordaz5905
      @daisyordaz5905 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      People who seem the happiest are usually the ones holding in the most pain😞

  • @leticialeon727
    @leticialeon727 3 ปีที่แล้ว +512

    When you sister said “ I was forced to be a mom” I felt as the oldest 🥲

    • @lauralopez928
      @lauralopez928 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Same 😫

    • @kimberlyapuan453
      @kimberlyapuan453 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same here. To 9 of my brothers and sisters and my 6 little cousins. Now I have 2 sons of my own 😇. I will never and always love and appreciate how naturally I became a mom. Yes I too had a hard life and had damage and now I suffer with depression and anxiety. I take it day by day and pray every night.

  • @azanetteponce
    @azanetteponce 3 ปีที่แล้ว +704

    I know Patty wouldn’t talk about her father, but the pain and uncomfortable feeling it made her feel I think she deep down needs to vent and let it out so that she can be free from it.

    • @annm.3600
      @annm.3600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Saw that too !

  • @yairaa
    @yairaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +612

    Video Summary: THEIR MOM IS A QUEEN!! 👑✨

    • @humanityhere5584
      @humanityhere5584 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/iBpjTfT4kso/w-d-xo.html
      🙏❤

  • @briannagomez7377
    @briannagomez7377 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1680

    Betty and Elsy look so much alike!!

  • @karinarodriguez9373
    @karinarodriguez9373 3 ปีที่แล้ว +328

    Oh my, Patti is holding in so much. From a woman who “doesn’t have a dad”, I know that tone and those laughs all too well. I wish I could just hug her! 🥺 y’all are queens and freaking amazing for getting through all this! Not to mention your mom, SUPER HERO!!! She’s amazing! XoXo!

  • @emilym.4924
    @emilym.4924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +907

    Patty seems like the crazy sister, Betty seems like the shy sister, and jenny seems like the smart sister, who is like the mom out of the sisters if that makes sense. and I feel like elsy is like all of them together.

    • @MrTonyRodriguez94
      @MrTonyRodriguez94 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      and then elsy is *crickets* lmao i died when i saw that

    • @kkgg6067
      @kkgg6067 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Elsy is a mix forsure

    • @carolinapena4656
      @carolinapena4656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Elsy is the rich tia 🤣🤣❤

    • @emilym.4924
      @emilym.4924 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MrTonyRodriguez94 SAMEE

    • @A.aaliyah1
      @A.aaliyah1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      This comment is perfect. 💕

  • @amandajaimes97
    @amandajaimes97 3 ปีที่แล้ว +770

    Elsy was selling chamoy with gummy worms she was the original pica pica 😭❤️

  • @perlanunez6404
    @perlanunez6404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    am i the only one so happy to see this side of elsy? im so glad you decided to bring your sisters to your channel. I know they were all really nervous but they all seem so fun, humble and honest. i think you should definitely do more videos with them i just know eventually they will open up more and feel more comfortable and honestly i loved the vibes this video gave me. i had a really hard upcoming to and this video just felt like home.. idk its hard to explain but thank you so much for sharing all this with us and for letting us in.

  • @gabrielabedolla5645
    @gabrielabedolla5645 3 ปีที่แล้ว +564

    It's crazy that elsy &' her sister's laugh over tragic stuff & make jokes out of it this video made me realize that others had it or have it worse than me &' I should really stop complaining becus there's others really out here struggling &' surviving at the same time elsy & her sister's were one of them 💛 y'all are iconic

    • @Sammy_8
      @Sammy_8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Some people get a laughing mannerisms to cope with the trauma, it’s weird but it’s true lol

    • @Lizso100
      @Lizso100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This!!!! God has definitely watched over you guys💗

    • @aeiou5614
      @aeiou5614 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Don’t invalidate yourself though, your trauma is just as valid and real.

  • @marissagonzales5415
    @marissagonzales5415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    My mom couldn’t afford me and my sister when we were 5 & 3 so she just dropped us off at my dads job and left and my dad had to quit work to take care of us alone as a single father and he ended up getting full custody of us until we were 18 my mom was always in and out of prison and didn’t try putting us first we’re now 28 & 25 and now she’s just a friend to us ! We gave my dad so much props cuz raising to daughter alone isn’t easy !

    • @MarcyLo
      @MarcyLo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      That’s so incredibly admirable of your dad. I mean aside from being a father, to step up and be both parental figures, that’s double the responsibility. You’re dad’s a great role model.

    • @mrss2471
      @mrss2471 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      How did ur dad support u financially if he quit?

    • @marissagonzales5415
      @marissagonzales5415 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mrss2471 welfare and low income programs

    • @mrss2471
      @mrss2471 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@marissagonzales5415 Dang! How was ur relationship w/ur grandparents?

    • @marissagonzales5415
      @marissagonzales5415 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mrss2471 it was great my dads parents had great jobs and my mothers parents were just as bad has my mother so my dad barely let her around them until we were 18

  • @RoxyReyes
    @RoxyReyes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +598

    You and your family have overcome so much. It was nice seeing you guys together and getting to know more about you and your family. Hope to see more of them soon. 💕

  • @sandraalvarez2750
    @sandraalvarez2750 3 ปีที่แล้ว +249

    Dude your mom deserves the world. Now that’s a hard working women that did anything and everything to make sure her kids were good. Mad respect to your mother. Por su lucha ustedes pueden ✊🏽

  • @bnavarro1352
    @bnavarro1352 3 ปีที่แล้ว +299

    I am 17 in foster care with my 9 month old daughter thank u for speaking about what u went thru gives me motivation ! 💝💝💝💝

    • @karinnahernandez7604
      @karinnahernandez7604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      im glad this video gave u motivation 💕

    • @marisssolo5163
      @marisssolo5163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      The foster system can be an ugly place, pls protect your baby girl by all means🥺 I was a teen mom at 16 I’m 24 now it gets better I promise 💕

    • @destinysuhr8319
      @destinysuhr8319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @BNavarro girl I just wanted to tell you that things get better just keep praying 🙏 and believing it will ... I was also a teen mom with a son in a group home at 17 my son who was 7 months at the time it was called new Beginnings group home in California and being there I graduated at 17 take Advantage of the programs that they have there so when you’re 18 you and your daughter can be straight !!

    • @natalierobledo9936
      @natalierobledo9936 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Things will get better for you stay positive I definitely can relate I was in foster care my whole life growing up since I was 5 months old till I was 20 yrs old I was also pregnant at 17 in foster care with my son lucky for me the last home I was in with my son I was grateful to be in they also were there for my son as a single Mom! The system can be crazy and you do go through alot but got to stay Positive for you and your baby I'm 36 yrs old now with 3 kids married and own my own home I'm blessed Now! You will to 🙏❤

  • @jamiegonzales4615
    @jamiegonzales4615 3 ปีที่แล้ว +502

    “ so we weren’t that rich... we weren’t hot food rich..we were microwaveable rich” 😭😭😂😂 elsy has me DEAD AF also her oldest sister laugh is ME

  • @candilease938
    @candilease938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +258

    Her oldest sisters son hugging elsy and telling her she’s so pretty and kissing her cheek omg you can tell that they love their kiddos and always hug and kiss them and make sure they know they’re loved because of how they were raised! Having an independent hard working momma really makes for different women!

  • @rachellesandoval7814
    @rachellesandoval7814 3 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    when they were talking about elsy being good with their kids and being patient the video of her hitting her nephew w a purse popped up in my head 😭😭

  • @melymelsern980
    @melymelsern980 3 ปีที่แล้ว +465

    When her sister said "i would only say things to make us seem like we were normal" 🥺🥺🥺😢😭😭

  • @jackierivera79
    @jackierivera79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +337

    I’m over here complaining about the smallest things and your mom had it the hard way to figure out just to provide, much respect to her ! She did a excellent job ! What a inspiration Mother

    • @naileavirgen
      @naileavirgen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree ! But don’t belittle your struggles babe

  • @AngeG86
    @AngeG86 3 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    Growing up My Mom said “there is no half, you all are brothers & sisters.”

    • @inezbarr8600
      @inezbarr8600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Period!

    • @ariananoelle8371
      @ariananoelle8371 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      exactly!!

    • @xiomara2266
      @xiomara2266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Period

    • @rosetatum1694
      @rosetatum1694 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I love my siblings from my dads side with all of my heart and always will see them as my siblings

  • @mariaquijas3431
    @mariaquijas3431 3 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Your big sister laughs a lot, u know what they say "people that laughs the most are the most hurt".. hope she can heal!

  • @Maverick-zy7yu
    @Maverick-zy7yu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    This is a very big step for you, and we’re proud of you. Talking about this openly will help your mental health sooo much 🤍

  • @juanamerrill3699
    @juanamerrill3699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    It’s easy talking about your trauma with your family but when it comes to telling your story to strangers it’s emotional because they might not understand and you fall back to detail of the horror

  • @debestel3791
    @debestel3791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    When the little boy came up and hugged Elsy “You look so pretty” 😭 ❤️

    • @Desi3A
      @Desi3A 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Her little nephew 💙

  • @melissagomez6705
    @melissagomez6705 3 ปีที่แล้ว +138

    Crazy bc when patty said moms would choose boyfriends over their kids I can relate and now that I’m a mom I don’t know how some people could even do that

  • @emilybee1226
    @emilybee1226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    I just think it’s so crazy how much our parents struggled back then and how much harder things were. Our generation could never .
    I love that you are putting this content out, so many people can relate and feels good knowing we are not alone in healing from childhood trauma .

  • @elizabethl6364
    @elizabethl6364 3 ปีที่แล้ว +537

    Elsy is a very strong women to come on here and open up about her life story but I’m glad her and her sisters continue to be positive and support each other ❤️ and let’s admire how their mom was working 3 jobs to maintain 6 children she’s a super mom and I’m happy they didn’t give up and continued to succeed together ❤️

    • @jocelyn2762
      @jocelyn2762 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      A women who doesn’t give away her stuff when she does giveaways

    • @wendymartinez7685
      @wendymartinez7685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jocelyn2762 ??

  • @jorgelexis18
    @jorgelexis18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +582

    “We thought we were rich with the EBT” 💀💀

    • @rosetatum1694
      @rosetatum1694 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      no bc that food stamps money be hittin

    • @jorgelexis18
      @jorgelexis18 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rosetatum1694 lol yes!!! Buy whatever you want don’t even look at prices 😂

  • @co7940
    @co7940 3 ปีที่แล้ว +207

    Their mom got robbed on payday 😭😭😭 and chose her children over the $, then apologized to everyone around her 😭I can’t handle, she deserves the entire world

  • @maritza_mendoza22
    @maritza_mendoza22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +302

    My mom is a single mother as well. And my mom never dated any guy. She put us first. Until this day she is still single. I’m so blessed for my Mami! She is my best friend and my everything!

  • @claudiarios2995
    @claudiarios2995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    “We didn’t have family like that, but we starting our own generation” 😭🥺

  • @EarthlyBeauty
    @EarthlyBeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    I can tell Patty is the most emotional and hurt by everything that happened. Laughter and joking about the situation is yalls defence mechanism for sure. Therapy would help her and all of yall immensly. I really hope you consider it 🙏🙏🙏

    • @AnzoraFamily
      @AnzoraFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yea I definitely agree ❤️ it’s always better to talk about stuff and not hold it in!

    • @mickeybabahs
      @mickeybabahs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s hard being the oldest sibling. Usually they become the most responsible, grow up fast and care for the younger siblings 😥

  • @shellycruz9487
    @shellycruz9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    Honestly what Jennie said “just because you have a dad doesn’t mean you’ll have a good dad.” was always my biggest consolation for not having a dad.. I used to get in my feels sometimes and then I’d be like maybe good didn’t give me a dad bc the one that was supposed to be was a bad person and he saved me from that..

    • @shellycruz9487
      @shellycruz9487 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God*

    • @cinderellasCurse
      @cinderellasCurse 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That’s a really unique way of looking at this 💛

    • @rociosandoval232
      @rociosandoval232 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omg same here!! Growing up with no father figure at all maybe was the best thing for me bcss who knows how it would’ve been if I did have one, growing up wasn’t the best but who knows maybe it could’ve been worse

  • @vanessaorozcorios7154
    @vanessaorozcorios7154 3 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Patty is so strong she laughs to hide her pain ❤

    • @jayymaane
      @jayymaane 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/UyFuAx-nOAc/w-d-xo.html

    • @AnzoraFamily
      @AnzoraFamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      She does u can tell ❤️

    • @kellyapolaya3776
      @kellyapolaya3776 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Laughing through sexual abuse isn’t strength but pain

  • @eforevelyn7103
    @eforevelyn7103 3 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    There is no “half” sisters when you love someone with your WHOLE heart. We lived a similar life, chin up even when it’s hard 🥺❤️

  • @8nalaura
    @8nalaura 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    Betty and Jenny both need a microphone 😂 n I thought Elsy whispered 💀

  • @jenniferpreciado8642
    @jenniferpreciado8642 3 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    Jenny looks like young jenny69 back when she was all innocent looking lol

    • @champagneliria1279
      @champagneliria1279 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      She does!! Lol

    • @ginabellmadepaula2042
      @ginabellmadepaula2042 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I am so glad I was not the only one who noticed

    • @mayL6799
      @mayL6799 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i cant unsee this now lol

    • @Neecy.
      @Neecy. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I feel like she looks more like young Annette69 🤔

    • @lifewithm.j.194
      @lifewithm.j.194 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought I was the only one that thought that!!!!

  • @TimeBucks
    @TimeBucks 3 ปีที่แล้ว +587

    So glad you guys are doing better

  • @kellyrodriguez885
    @kellyrodriguez885 3 ปีที่แล้ว +203

    Thank you for allowing us to see this and showing us that there is light at the end of the tunnel despite life challenges. Now that we have children, we realize all the sacrifices our parents did for us 🥺 God bless you all ❤️

  • @Natalie.Karina
    @Natalie.Karina 3 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    It’s unbelievable how our mothers are alike in a way because when you said “my mom chose us over a boyfriend” that touched my heart because my mom is a single mom, she went through the most and she does everything for me and my sister without any help. Our mothers are independent strong women❤️

  • @gabyperez9481
    @gabyperez9481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    You can tell there’s a lot of unreleased hurt and emotions.. don’t worry ladies you’re all doing amazing and your mother did a great job. Just so you don’t keep everything bottled up inside you should all consider counseling, it would help release that extra tension you all carry around.

  • @beermakeup4555
    @beermakeup4555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    I like how the oldest is basically mom and she knows her "kids the best" and can describe them fast and she takes lead

    • @candilease938
      @candilease938 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      And she was the most nervous but she totally answered quickly and knew everything

  • @yazmine7975
    @yazmine7975 3 ปีที่แล้ว +206

    Lol your sister in the brown talks quiet like you 😂😂😂

  • @narixoxo6448
    @narixoxo6448 3 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I thought Elsy was quiet, but she’s yelling compared to Betty and Jennifer 😂

  • @jesuslovesyoubuthatesyours8624
    @jesuslovesyoubuthatesyours8624 3 ปีที่แล้ว +121

    "For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life." John 3:16

  • @liddokittyx
    @liddokittyx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +118

    I’m a cashier . & EBT still doesn’t cover hot foods & i get yelled at for it by the customers 💀💀💀😭

    • @jeanettemoreno9764
      @jeanettemoreno9764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same ! It should be accepted I was a cashier in the deli and if no one buys it it just gets burned in the portable oven .

    • @liddokittyx
      @liddokittyx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@jeanettemoreno9764 yeah, a lot of food gets thrown away! Might as well let them get it too. I understand not the other taxable but food is food.

  • @jimenaa444
    @jimenaa444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    “ hola papi” “soy tu elsita, me sacas mis piojos “ i’m dead 😂😂😂

  • @michellehuezo8319
    @michellehuezo8319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    The fact that they laugh a lot and say jokes while telling their story, I can see a lot of pain through their laugh and jokes. 🥺 you ladies are so strong. Props to your mom.

  • @kimberlyfernandez271
    @kimberlyfernandez271 3 ปีที่แล้ว +236

    Suban la entrevista completa de su mamá en Telemundo 🥺

  • @Bella-ko2tv
    @Bella-ko2tv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +189

    Well your guy’s dad lost 6 amazing beautiful kids and have grown stronger all together.🥰

  • @lucysolares2655
    @lucysolares2655 3 ปีที่แล้ว +231

    i love patty’s laugh its so contagious😂☺️☺️

    • @niicolegenesiis
      @niicolegenesiis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Right 😭😂

    • @w.endylizeth
      @w.endylizeth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg yes i kept laughing with her 😂😂

    • @Maze_ftw
      @Maze_ftw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      foreaaals😂

  • @lorenamojica3126
    @lorenamojica3126 3 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Foster kids have a different kind of heart. My nephews were the sweetest kids, it sucks my sister couldn’t leave her addiction and get them back. It hurts me even more because I wasn’t old enough to gain custody myself during their trial. I’m FINALLY financially stable enough to care for all of them and they’ve already been adopted. All I can do now is wish the best for them and hope to cross paths with them again someday. I couldn’t imagine how hard it was for Elsys mom to lose custody because when my nephews were taken, I was heart broken (and my bond with them is probably nothing compared to a mother/child bond)

    • @jackier7069
      @jackier7069 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg Im so sorry to hear that☹️I wish you and all your family safety and health❤️And hopefully someday you get to see your nephews again❤️

    • @moonlight-ht9zg
      @moonlight-ht9zg 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im getting divorced due to domestic violence. Do you think i can win custody over my daughter? Also my husband does meth

    • @myopinion5809
      @myopinion5809 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@moonlight-ht9zg yes you will win gather all the proof & pray to God to help you be set free , stay safe God bless you & your daughter

    • @evamoreno6426
      @evamoreno6426 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hugs to you I feel ya haven't seen my grandkids for 9 years they said I couldn't support all 5 But mind you I raised 6 kids their grown now an my grandkids got adopted also

  • @jenniferbravo7530
    @jenniferbravo7530 3 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    Elsy and Betty look soooo alike the same smile and everything

  • @itzelramirez1024
    @itzelramirez1024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +96

    “We were microwaveable food rich” 😂😂 lol. I love elsy so much! So brave to open up about all her life and everything they went through. Giving a voice to a lot of hispanic kids that struggled growing up! ❤️

  • @MrsSantillanes710
    @MrsSantillanes710 3 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    That’s SO Crazy!!! My mom came from El Salvador in 89 as well because the war was getting really bad, my uncle came first because he didn’t want to get taken by the military. Every time I watch “Voces Inocentes” i get all emotional knowing my family went thru that too

  • @no3ll3mayb3rry9
    @no3ll3mayb3rry9 3 ปีที่แล้ว +102

    I know you girls laugh cause that’s how you deal with the pain, and I don’t know why but I cried this whole video. You girls are STRONG! And I hope all of you know that.

  • @Kimberly-js2cx
    @Kimberly-js2cx 3 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    This literally felt like I was sitting with my family. My cousins and I also do things like this. Every so often we sit there and crack jokes about our traumas. kind of reminisce and talk about how it made us who we are. My cousins husband hates it because he says “how can you guys laugh about stuff like that” and it’s like either we laugh about it or we are going to sit there and cry and hurt. It’s just our way of coping with it

  • @perlanunez6404
    @perlanunez6404 3 ปีที่แล้ว +175

    Okay... commenting again because when you said "we dont have uncles or family" I FELT THAT. i get so sad when i see my bf with his cousins and aunts. uncles and grandparents... and im like i never had that. Which is why i promised to always take my son around my sisters and parents.

    • @miadaniel294
      @miadaniel294 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      SAME omg everyone i know has family but i never grew up with any family or cousin

    • @ninethalvarez8406
      @ninethalvarez8406 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I thought I was the only one. Me too, no grandparents tios or cousins. I'll be your cousin 🙂 fr fr.

    • @xoxo-td8or
      @xoxo-td8or 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes same!!

    • @perlanunez6404
      @perlanunez6404 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Diany Garcia yessssss girl it’s hard ☹️

    • @hotcheetoeyes
      @hotcheetoeyes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Diany Garcia I’m the opposite. My bf and his family don’t see their extended family and with me I grew up with my cousins living in the same house and always going to parties etc with a big family. But now my bf somewhat ruined that for me and I don’t have that anymore. I only see my parents and it’s rare when I see my sisters/ nephews/nieces. It breaks my heart 😔 I’m glad you’re not that type of jealous that doesn’t want to see him happy with his family.

  • @monseramirez7778
    @monseramirez7778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    @39:22 “Awh at least you got to hear those words”
    “Bitch he don’t care bout me, he blocked me” 😅😂😂

  • @camilaherrera6123
    @camilaherrera6123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Ur sister (green shirts) reminds me of the fancy girl fish from that movie shark tale! Lol!

  • @jennyypda0398
    @jennyypda0398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +515

    The Telemundo made me think y’all were actually on TV🤦🏻‍♀️😂

    • @solmarie.3x
      @solmarie.3x 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      LML I was waiting for Caso Cerrado clips💀😭

    • @monicalisbethgutierrez2022
      @monicalisbethgutierrez2022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      There mom was, she told her story.

    • @SarahisVal
      @SarahisVal 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@monicalisbethgutierrez2022 what’s the Telemundo video called? I would like to watch it

    • @jessicarosas6278
      @jessicarosas6278 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SarahisVal same

    • @brendamendesdesouza6952
      @brendamendesdesouza6952 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@SarahisVal same I would like to see it

  • @jaylacabrera7326
    @jaylacabrera7326 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    You can tell these girls hide their pain through laughter

  • @daisym7752
    @daisym7752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +51

    So everyone just talks low not just elsy 😂 I bet Elsy had to turn up the volume while editing just so we could hear all her sisters 😂
    👁👄👁👂🏼

  • @jessicarovida4374
    @jessicarovida4374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    It’s crazy how no matter how bad your dad was to you guys, you all don’t act resentful and hateful. That’s how you know you guys have such good hearts. Everything that you guys went through led you to where you are today and I admire all of you for how strong you are❤️

  • @aflores31
    @aflores31 3 ปีที่แล้ว +129

    aww when your sister Patty said that it's a sensitive topic for her talking about how she has a different dad. You are loved and it's obvious that your sisters love you so much and don't see the difference. That doesn't make you any less family or any less special. Also, Jenny that is so awesome that you got a degree in business & web technology. That is so amazing. I could tell from the time the video started that you are an analytical person. You guys are all really blessed to have each other.

  • @jasminetv8297
    @jasminetv8297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Jenny’s gonna need to borrow that frozen microphone 😂😂

  • @ceesoCUNTY
    @ceesoCUNTY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    JENNY'S HUMBLE FLEX BUSINESS AND WEB TECHNOLOGY DEGREEEEE PERIODDDD POOH! AS YOU SHOULD!

  • @diamondmancilla1599
    @diamondmancilla1599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Traumas cause memory loss & it makes me sad hearing y’all say “I don’t remember that” 🥺 I’m so glad the tables has turned God bless y’all🥲🤍

    • @LarissaMLL18
      @LarissaMLL18 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Definitely! Our brain blocks certain painful, or traumatic situations. That's why they might not remember.

    • @andreap6741
      @andreap6741 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I’ve always wondered this !!! I suffered a lot of trauma when I was younger and there’s just so much I don’t remember! People till this day ask me about my “trauma” and it makes me doubt myself and I wonder if any of that really did happen all bcs I can’t remember🥺

    • @diamondmancilla1599
      @diamondmancilla1599 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andreap6741 I’m so sorry love it’s not your fault so don’t take it out on yourself.

    • @joana2331
      @joana2331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr I can relate to this so much 😭

  • @hernandezamy13
    @hernandezamy13 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    “We weren’t hot food rich we were microwave rich “ I felt this growing up 😂💗💗💗💗 no shame in the struggle 💪🏽

    • @Robloxgurl-r8n
      @Robloxgurl-r8n 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Going thru the same thing 🤣

  • @rocky2372
    @rocky2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    31:50 - 31:59
    Elsy being like “yeah... oh yeah... yeah”
    Patty: do you remember
    Elsy: no
    🤣🤣🤣

  • @kayNoemi
    @kayNoemi 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I remember my high school days with Pattie and Betty 😭 you guys have been so strong with everything you guys went through. Miss you girls but I’m glad you guys are doing good! 💕

  • @riverajoanne25
    @riverajoanne25 3 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    This is the most relatable video lol growing up so poor not realizing until we were grown how bad it really was 😂

    • @A.aaliyah1
      @A.aaliyah1 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      THIS 😭😂

  • @erikalizbeth4109
    @erikalizbeth4109 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    You girls are me using dark humor to deal with my childhood trauma 🥲
    no but Im so happy that all of y’all are doing so much better now .. it sucks how the most beautiful souls have to suffer the most ☹️

  • @Ana-dx2mb
    @Ana-dx2mb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    Ohh so Elsy was the pica pica plug before pica pica was a business 😭

  • @kiaracarter412
    @kiaracarter412 3 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    Y’all’s mom was a gangster lmao selling pills , on the news sis was getting the job done you have to admire someone like that !

  • @pinkcornercreations
    @pinkcornercreations 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I’m crying 😭 your mom is the definition of “mama luchona” all the stuff she went through and she probably went through way worst that y’all didn’t even know about and she still fought for y’all 🥺😭❤️

  • @gloriselmedina723
    @gloriselmedina723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    For y’all to actually laugh at the hard times and still smile through everything shows that your mom did a great job at giving you all reassurance. I loved this video and for once I did not skip any parts! 🥲❤️

  • @Lgn27
    @Lgn27 3 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    You know what, Elsy has a special and pure soul cause kids just gravitate to her. 🥺❤️

    • @Lgn27
      @Lgn27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      AND I think she is the strongest person ever because she is choosing to share this story with us to help US. And I can’t even imagine like the encouraging conversations with her sisters to help them share. UGH I LOVE HER 🥺❤️

  • @mj3900
    @mj3900 3 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Maybe the dad isn’t allowed to have any contact with you or if he has a serious record his calls get traced and his officer changed his number.

  • @yannimacedo3934
    @yannimacedo3934 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Respect to your mom for raising 6 kids on her own with bumps on the road. You and your sisters are truly amazing women ❤

  • @lizz2198
    @lizz2198 3 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    I was so into this video that I didn’t realize it was 42 min long 😂

    • @jeanettemoreno9764
      @jeanettemoreno9764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know !! I watched the whole video feel like I was their laughing . Their all so humble .

    • @sevillaitzel9893
      @sevillaitzel9893 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn’t even realize it, till I seen your comment. I was like oh shit. 😱🤣

  • @StephaniePops
    @StephaniePops 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Not Elsy forgetting the mic! Can’t hear any of y’all! 😂 Loved seeing this! You girls are strong. I’m feeling you didn’t need him to get here!! 🤍🤍

  • @lizethsalgado7786
    @lizethsalgado7786 3 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    “ imagine, tenemos hambre, me falta un calzón “ 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 best part

  • @kayleenlanderos2001
    @kayleenlanderos2001 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    The fact that all of you guys use humor to cope with what all of you went though is really me and my siblings 😂 omg when patty said ‘you not my dad’ had me dying!😭 $KayleenLanderos

  • @aislinnrodriguez5078
    @aislinnrodriguez5078 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I really think that as influencers like you and many others we watch it’s almost refreshing and just relatable for you to tell us these things on such a big platform . I think as sad or traumatic our story’s are it is important to be able to relate to you and other influencer were all human famous or not . I’m really happy you shared little details about your story. I realize how similar we can be and go through the same struggles. Some don’t want to share and It kinda sort of feels like home when they do share 🥺❤️