@@ChasityXoxo lol! You right though. I used post 911 GI Bill to go to school full time and got paid BAH for my area. She's getting food stamps and living in a home with no mortgage, so she should have plenty of money left over for necessities. Maybe she didn't stay in long enough to qualify for veteran's benefits though.
@@odog76543 you know what that’s what I was thinking cause anybody that served will tell you how long. She said “some years” baby did you get past basic training or no? 🤨
I don’t know what man would sign up for this and also especially if she’s open to marrying a woman unless they all sharing. This interview was way to much to unpack . She’s spoiled and dulusional.
Why doesn’t she get her license to babysit if there’s an issue with Childcare in her area? Thinking about a man and not getting money. Silly Street Stalker
The fact that she’s okay with bringing her child on a date with a stranger is literally screaming I’M VULNERABLE I fucking can’t 🙃 She was failed a LONG time ago ☹️
She's in Millen, GA. I grew up there (partially). It's a very rural area with no jobs because it was basically set up as a place for old white people to retire. It's very much a part of the "Old South", but things are slowly changing. Still, the job situation isn't going to change any time soon, because the place was literally created for retirement -NOT employment. You're supposed to graduate from high school & then LEAVE!
I'm from Swainsboro.. I know Millen well.. you do have to leave cause there is nothing there but sex and trouble cause you bored! Just dirt roads and woods. Its a whole different world outside atl.
She says she is independent but depends on everyone for her and her son’s survival. Lives rent free in her father’s house, in court getting support from her baby daddy, food stamps from the government. Son is in school 6 hours a day. So what is she doing???? And how is that independent????? These ladies just talk to hear themselves and they are always putting on and trying to make their nonsense sound good.
The definition of the cart before the horse. 🤦🏽♀ She is so responsible, but she's 25 yrs. old, with a 4 yr. old child, unemployed, receives food stamps & hasn't worked since she had her son, yet out of all of the men that have appeared on this singles site, she reached out to the most famous, successful past guest. She is looking for someone to take care of her and her son, but she cannot be bought though. It just amazes me how these types of women feel more entitled than embarrassed. Yes, many single mothers have had to struggle to make ends meet, but to purposely put your child through that predicament is heartbreaking.
@@msreen269 I concur. I'm here shaking my head with this nonsense. She is so contented with her self to the point where she feels as though she's deserving
All of these remote jobs out here and she’s unemployed for F-O-U-R years???? This is a disgrace. Unfortunately she only wants to lay on her back for work.
@Follow My Lead yes it depends, but I personally know people who work in banking, insurance, pharma, medical billing, event management, etc who all work remote. Dozens. Overall though, she’s entitled and lazy
If her record is ok, she can work for Walgreens from home. They provide the equipment. Or she can do chat support if she can’t control the noise level in her house. She said the jobs around aren’t paying much?!?? Mam, you have no income!!! 😩🥴🥴 this is a disgrace. Po baby (the child, not her lol)
So you want your sons to be wearing dresses and being bend over by their wives also? Men are the ones who are supposed to be the providers and protectors and not the women.
This young woman really does need to get it together. Child, you don't take your baby on a date. This young woman is not ready for anything relationship wise.
She’s looking for a man to provide for her , and let her be a stay at home mom. She’s slow, though. All over the place. A walking contradiction. Nothing but excuses. Red flags all over the place.
She's a financial liability, fueding with her baby daddy, dipping between men and women, & can't even give 100% in a potential relationship bc she can't even afford free time away from her child. Ain't no woman pretty enough to deal with all this baggage, not longterm anyway, maybe just to hit.
There are so many red flags with this woman its truly terrifying for her young son especially. Particularly at the end when she said her potential man could discipline her son “in time” something tells me it wouldnt take much time. I hope that her son stays protected and safe because this is really scary. Wow wtf
@@sportspanelpodcast7488 I agree......however...I was speaking about physical discipline....if necessary. A stepdad forbidding the child from watching tv till homework is done or taking away a phone until he/she acts right is a different story. That benefits the child.
She needs to use her Internet/Computer to find a job and not a man. Her priorities are so messed up and she is so selfish. Instead of getting herself together for the sake of her child, she'd rather put herself first chasing the "D" and possibly end up brining another child into the world without a safety net. If the father leaves her on her own, she's going to end up on Gov't Assistance and use the kids as an excuse not to work and pull the 3 of them further in the hole (Generational Poverty). Prayers to the 4 year old child who has to look up to this sad excuse as a mother 😞.
@Intuitive Readings with Vanity if she's injured why is she worried about dating a men right now? 😂😂 shouldn't she focus on healing first? 😂 y'all will sit up here and make any type of excuses for ppl like her who don't have their priorities together 🤣
As a mom of a 1 year old and I’m almost 32 years old. I will never be unemployed and actually opening up a business and starting to buy investment properties to built generational wealth for my child. Forget dating. Build yourself up girl!!!
@@RexBanner_she can't have any requirements. Not having a job is a red flag. You can't require someone who has their shit together when you don't. This is how people end up with a whole clan of kids. Be walking at Walmart and have to do a head count when they leave or enter to make sure they didn't forget one 😂. She needs to get a job and forget everything else. Her kids should be her priority.
Food stamps don’t pay for her cell phone and that full face of makeup so she’s definitely not sitting around with no sort of income whatsoever. “Certified massage therapist” is a subtle way of saying she’s trapping. If you know you know.
She is said that she get food stamps but I believe that she is on full welfare. Meaning that she gets food stamps , cash assistance and shelter allowance. She is probably renting part of the house for extra income as well.
25 years old.... baby 4yrs old...... nine months being pregnant. She said did some years in the military!! And she said some other jobs. The math ain’t mathing..... she older than 25 for sure.
There are PLENTY of at home jobs, especially since the panorama. With her dad paying for her housing, even a minimum wage job can make a huge difference in her life. She can even sale pics of her feet online.
She got pregnant by a dude she knew for 4 months that's irresponsible as hell for both parties involved you'll make that type of commitment and unsure if you even want to be together
@@meloniejobe9522 You know me personally??? kill that noise I have no Kids and if I did I'm in the position to provide for them even if I'm not with the mother my child wouldn't be living in poverty and his mother wouldn't be struggling that's my child she takes care of him I'd make sure she's taken care of. This the second time you've posted this you're a complete weirdo
I hear ya - Reese! Ladies… If you want to start attracting “Men” instead of “Boys…” Become a High Value Woman on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of woman that men are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand! Men are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality men that is! Men that have their lives together. And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
This lady may have a lot going against her but she also got a lot going in her favor too. I say this because she’s very receptive to constructive criticism! A lot of women would’ve gotten offended and would not have appreciated Ms. Kendra’s honest advice. So kudos to them both on this interview. I pray this beautiful lady finds love one day.🙏🏾🥰💗
@@Newarkguy38 You must be a feminist to think that way. First of all the whole " what do you bring to the table " question was invented by father's back in the old days when a man courted their daughter's and the men's end goal was to marry their daughter's then the father's would ask the men " what do you bring to the table to take care of my daughter if you want to marry her? Asking a woman what she brings to the table is putting a woman in the masculine role and not in the traditional role. Also getting a woman off food stamps is easy for men to do by marrying the women they impregnated and supporting her. Most men are complete cowards and leave a woman to fend for herself with a child. In the old days men who left their responsibility would get 3 punches to the gut from each man he encounter and he would get a bad reputation and no one would hire him and no woman would want him. Also many men use their children to lure women all the time, it just bothers you that a woman is doing it.
Kendra uploaded the full live and she is in the comment section making rude comments to anyone that commented on her situation. She's very immature and delusional.
Exactly. People don’t realize a lot of white people get food stamps. Some go to Harris Teeter at midnight to hide that fact. I work mids & love shopping @midnight. However, HT would not ring me up. So I asked the cashier “why did you ring up the white woman?” Her answer? We have to ring up food stamps, they can’t self check out.
I was thinking about the boy too. You don't introduce men to your kid, especially your son unless you know you are going ot be with them. When you have kids you have to be especially cautious.
I love Kendra honesty & also I love how she tries to support others and give them honest & positive feed back. She is such a role model to many & is so supportive to her peers.I love you Kendra G!! Stay positive, sweet, & honest babygirl 🥰❤️🙏
Priorities first baby girl. Please make sure what you are asking for you can also give. I wish you all the best as well on your journey. "Remember if you aren't whole you can't fully give to a relationship".
Food stamps don’t pay for utilities and a cell phone. These are the questions Kendra fail to ask her. Revised ok you can get assistance for a cell phone so how is she paying for water, gas and electric. She’s probably laying up or selling food stamp in exchange for money to pay those bills pay. To be honest about her situation 4 years of not having a job but yet she’s on here wanting a man to do for her and another man child. Instead of looking for a job that doesn’t sounds like a person worry about having money for paying any bills or wanting a job ? She’s thinking about the long run that’s ahead of her. Evidently she gonna need a steady flow of money coming in as her child gets older and tricking and or selling food stamp gonna get old sooner or later.
@@muchgoodisgiven1517 Plenty is wrong with that. Especially, when you have a large list of demands in what you want in a partner. If someone is willing to step in and save you, you can't ask for shit. Not his height, looks, salary, trips, [insert whatever dumb shit she listed]
Nothing wrong with having food stamps because groceries are high as hell! Imma say this, I get why she's single and how she's all over the place but I work, have my own place, a car, good job and I'm a single mom. When you live in a small town the pool of single good men who actually want to build with you are slim to none. And the older you get whether you have one child or 5 that list gets even smaller. She has no business dating right now but there's alot of factors why someone could be single. I don't have family or an evening baby sitter for my kid so dating is not an option right now. I would never bring a child on a date. But she is looking to get out of her situation. I do feel like she should date when she moves to a better city and have childcare.
What’s especially crazy about this one is that she is probably one of the more articulate and effective communicators about what she wants that I’ve seen on this show. She definitely needs some mentoring but she seems like she might be teachable under the right circumstances and while on some birth control. 🥴
Her father really blessed her…owning a house is generational wealth…if she was smart she would move out and rent the house…get a job and have double income.
@@lineialquantum Even better! That's how it's supposed to be. Black women are so used to these sperm donor leaving them nothing that they don't realize leaving a paid off home to a child is customary in other groups.
She's not crazy but she does seem rather " mentally young" almost sheltered if you will. I don't think that makes her bad , she just got caught up " SUBMITTING" to a bum. That happens more often than not.
@@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy You're being disingenuous, This women has nothing to offer the type of man she's after but bills Seriously think about from the man's POV
@@odin5188 LOL! What I said has nothing to do with the woman in the video but only with what the poster said about her being a liability, not an asset. I questioned it with the point of submission. That to me, is a contradiction, bcuz if a woman submits to a man that makes her his liability. So, I just wanted to hear his reply to my question. Now you talking about paying bills. But I look at this way, what’s the point of a woman submitting to a man if he’s not sharing his money with her? Submit to him for nothing at all besides an idea?
Hence why she shouldn't go through with a pregency if she doesnt think the father is suitable. She had all the power to decide. Now she's on her own with no job, thinking about taking her son on a date... Madness, no accountability
@@odin5188 I find it interesting that you don’t care because you’re not in the US yet your original comment is about a US situation… Yet, in regards to equal rights. In this case, they both had equal rights to protection while engaging in relations & choose otherwise
She is picky about who she leaves her child with but wasn’t picky about who she made the child with. Also, Kendra was very discreet when she tried to call out that this woman is on welfare but spends $ at the salon, lashes, make up. She damn well knew she was being called out and didn’t have the guts to own it
I don't know if Kendra knows the struggle But full-time workers who still don't make enough money get assistance for food stamps nothing wrong with it get help where you can especially when you don't have support from your family Js🤷🏽♀️.
Sometimes something so little as simply wearing a little make up and trying to look beautiful can help you though depression. Being poor and on welfare is very depressing.
25? 🛑the🧢. Emotional intelligence reads like she's 16, while she looks 35. Then shawty flip-flops between muffin diving & the CC. Shawty is an excellent way to waste resources, time, attention & energy.
There are people with full time office jobs on Food Stamps! Yes, I was one of those. Kendra, your comment really was out of order. You're stereotyping what someone on food stamps looks like?!
Yup...the :working poor" is the term if you haven't heard of it already Working full time and still falling below the poverty level Just a new form of slavery for ALL of us
There's also a lot of people abusing food stamps. Lying on the forms about their actual address and number of people living in the home. Selling food stamps because they don't really need them, so they can get cash to buy Marijuana and liquor. Most of the people I know on food stamps don't look the part, because one might assume that all people on food stamps are destitute. The people I know on food stamps still go to the club on weekends with a new outfit and they smoke and drink, then complain about not having enough money for rent, gas, or food despite selling half their stamps.
She is in court with the child's father for custody issues. He is probably stable and she won't let him have his child. She can go back into the military and date if she would relinquish time with the child. She is not independent if she is not working and recovering assistance from the state while living in her father's home. I would never
I'm disgusted by her saying that the man she dates can discipline her son, if that don't speak desperation nothing else does. It's too many child predators out here and she's the type that they look for. Especially with her comment he has to date me and my son. SMDH
I’m a single mother who works from home and also receive SNAP benefits…. But I also don’t plan on being on it forever. I also started doing press on nails and in the process of looking into other side businesses. This is the biggest reason why I’m not dating now, no child care. But I’m also sitting my ass down somewhere. I want to be married one day, but now is not the time to make me a wife. I still have a LOT of growing and learning to do
Listen!! I work and got an EBT card to IDGAF! I'm blessed to even get them. This food increase is insane and I'm taking all the help to feed myself F who judging!
Millen! Whew I been there and it’s a very small town with absolutely nothing there, BUT the next town over is huge maybe 25 mins away they have literally everything.
25 miles away is not a long commute at all too. About 30min. If the father had a house to give, then he probably got a hoopie for her to drive for a job.
I said the same thing. She kept saying this or that doesn’t matter but he has to have at least…. So then it does matter. Very manipulative way of speaking.
“High value men” are sought after by 8 out of 10 women. So he has the option to pick what he wants. Not a basket case thats looking for a savior and wants you to date her and her child.
8:47 keyword here is “certified” it’s a biiiig difference between certified & licensed, if she’s really operating on people with just a certificate instead of a license she could be in a lot of trouble if something goes wrong with her client
That’s why I ❤️ your show Kendra! Everything is with love and unapologetic realness! not to tear nobody down! I caught 333 while writing this! Good day Loves ☕️💗💗💗
exactly what I said no ambition a woman on her shit would have left Milen too I have 4 sisters from there and none of them stayed once their mother died and they finished school all of them got married and moved the hell away that place is the definition of a cow town the biggest thing there was Walmart Hell even a woman who's doing it by herself would have left Milen this woman is just lazy and doesn't want anything better for not only herself but the child as well her and the baby daddy ain't ish
I'm watching this as an unemployed single mom but I'm in the process of getting my ish together. I will say it is possible to find someone to take care of u especially if ur not picky and along with having someone take care of u will come other shyt u have to deal with like control.
The fact she's an unemployed single mother looking to date instead of getting a job is insane
She said several times she has no childcare/daycare even if she got a job.....
My brain is discombobulated.🤯
That's a poor excuse its 2022 There is daycare in another city/town close to her.
A million work from home jobs … and this what she’s doing.
She doesn't want to work. She wants someone else to take care of her and her son.
When a parent literally hands you a house with no mortgage you have it EASY! Perhaps she has it too easy and that’s the problem!?
That's a blessing but maybe it has made her comfortable
Agreed and she seeing nothing wrong with it.
And she was in the military??? Why you not in school. I’m working and going to school full time right now through the VA. Baby you lazy
@@ChasityXoxo lol! You right though. I used post 911 GI Bill to go to school full time and got paid BAH for my area. She's getting food stamps and living in a home with no mortgage, so she should have plenty of money left over for necessities.
Maybe she didn't stay in long enough to qualify for veteran's benefits though.
@@odog76543 you know what that’s what I was thinking cause anybody that served will tell you how long. She said “some years” baby did you get past basic training or no? 🤨
She gets no support from her family, but she lives in her fathers house rent free by herself. Make it make sense.
That’s what i was saying!
she's been spoiled most of her life and when they aren't catering to her she feels she gets no support.
I don’t know what man would sign up for this and also especially if she’s open to marrying a woman unless they all sharing. This interview was way to much to unpack . She’s spoiled and dulusional.
Right!
Exactly I'm like that's support. I wish I had that.
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For a person with nothing really to offer she certainly has an extremely long list of expectations
She's a woman and not a man.
Men are the providers and protectors.
Women are the takers and nurturers.
You must be a feminist
News Flash 🚨 She's actually what most men are looking for. I'm sure she's snatched up by now.
Yall stop ✋
@@busybee2033 lol 😅
The woman is the prize. You sound like you are hating.
@@busybee2033 thank you……
👑✨ she’s a nurturer
Why doesn’t she get her license to babysit if there’s an issue with Childcare in her area? Thinking about a man and not getting money. Silly Street Stalker
Great idea.
She said she was content where she is. I don’t think she’s open to any suggestion.
That !! Is too many excuses.
Childcare free or very low cost if you get help
Boom...there u go. Great idea
She has little to no support from her family but living in her fathers home for free…. Ummmmmm… wow. She is delusional as hell.
Right that’s more support that a lot of us have from family 🥴
That’s half of the problem having a place to live. She’s one up and just lazy. She’s a bum.
Entire house no worries I’m sure her dad pays electric bills she’s waste how she
I was thinking the exact same thing. A free home but no family support 😂😂😂
She wants her family to do it all for her.
This show is powerful, people revealing themselves and don't even know it
Facts!
Interesting
Hilarious
This is a more tame Kevin Samuels
These people are fools. The whole world online is watching this girl making an embarrassed of herself 🤦🏿♂️
The fact that she’s okay with bringing her child on a date with a stranger is literally screaming I’M VULNERABLE I fucking can’t 🙃 She was failed a LONG time ago ☹️
These are the women that want high quality men wow‼️
True
I thought the same thing. It gives me she will move a man in and he won’t have to do much but screw her
Fken FACTSSAID💯💯💯💯💯
I was thinking the exact same thing 😏
Anybody noticed that she likes everything but “work”😂🤣😂
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She can join the army
Right ! She said she likes roller blading lol
Right💯🤣🤣
Y’all no body bird brain bitties need to stfu!! The lady said she didn’t have childcare
These women think marriage is a big deal but having kids isn't.
Poor kid is the innocent victim in this!
She's in Millen, GA. I grew up there (partially). It's a very rural area with no jobs because it was basically set up as a place for old white people to retire. It's very much a part of the "Old South", but things are slowly changing. Still, the job situation isn't going to change any time soon, because the place was literally created for retirement -NOT employment. You're supposed to graduate from high school & then LEAVE!
Thanks for the insight
It’s some jobs around the street in Dublin. Especially at the VA Hospital.
I guarantee it!
Sounds like Mansfield Ohio
They have remote jobs. She was in the military she could get a degree online
I'm from Swainsboro.. I know Millen well.. you do have to leave cause there is nothing there but sex and trouble cause you bored! Just dirt roads and woods. Its a whole different world outside atl.
Prayers to this young lady not for finding love but for getting her life in order.
She says she is independent but depends on everyone for her and her son’s survival. Lives rent free in her father’s house, in court getting support from her baby daddy, food stamps from the government. Son is in school 6 hours a day. So what is she doing???? And how is that independent????? These ladies just talk to hear themselves and they are always putting on and trying to make their nonsense sound good.
Example of a weak ass mother.
She don’t have childcare her son isn’t in school he’s only 4
@@LifeWithLatoyaMontana 9:28
The definition of the cart before the horse. 🤦🏽♀ She is so responsible, but she's 25 yrs. old, with a 4 yr. old child, unemployed, receives food stamps & hasn't worked since she had her son, yet out of all of the men that have appeared on this singles site, she reached out to the most famous, successful past guest. She is looking for someone to take care of her and her son, but she cannot be bought though. It just amazes me how these types of women feel more entitled than embarrassed. Yes, many single mothers have had to struggle to make ends meet, but to purposely put your child through that predicament is heartbreaking.
@@msreen269 I concur. I'm here shaking my head with this nonsense. She is so contented with her self to the point where she feels as though she's deserving
She's an equal opportunity user, women or men, lol.
I meeeeean that's what I heard lol .... anybody .... with a pulse and a check please
Crazy isn't it smh
Its only bad when women get used... lol
Wtf 😭😭😭😭
Chile.😹😹😹
All of these remote jobs out here and she’s unemployed for F-O-U-R years????
This is a disgrace. Unfortunately she only wants to lay on her back for work.
She don't even wanna do that lol. Only fans take nothing why can't she even do that if she said her feet look good? Just lazy af
Preach! Employers are giving away wfh jobs
I didn't think about that! Good point!
@Follow My Lead yes it depends, but I personally know people who work in banking, insurance, pharma, medical billing, event management, etc who all work remote. Dozens. Overall though, she’s entitled and lazy
If her record is ok, she can work for Walgreens from home. They provide the equipment. Or she can do chat support if she can’t control the noise level in her house. She said the jobs around aren’t paying much?!?? Mam, you have no income!!! 😩🥴🥴 this is a disgrace. Po baby (the child, not her lol)
She is the type of woman I tell my sons to stay away from. Other than a pretty face, she has nothing to offer except trouble and baggage .
So you want your sons to be wearing dresses and being bend over by their wives also?
Men are the ones who are supposed to be the providers and protectors and not the women.
She might have been pretty at 18. Now, at 25 🙄 she is all used up. And she shows it...help me Lord!
I see a lot qualities in her, she doesn’t have a lot kids, she isn’t ugly and she wants to take care her kid.
@@caterinalopez5297 25??? I thought she was like 38
@@dayanarab6874 you should hit her up
Here is a Dustyquesha in all her glory. She is all yours fellas!!!!
Right! She sounds ridiculous as hell. Especially saying if she can’t take her son she can’t go on a date. Poor thing.
@@DoniaRenee Right what kind of woman thinks like her no job no income and have these expectations
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Facts
@@reese4898 I’m confused. I thought men don’t care about income and looks are women’s currency.
This young woman really does need to get it together. Child, you don't take your baby on a date. This young woman is not ready for anything relationship wise.
Exactly! Just because you go on a date doesn't mean its going to turn into a relationship. Little guy might end up on 100 dates 😟😟
She sat there reading out that list of demands. RIDICULOUS. Kendra barely hid her disgust.
Like a Hostage Letter
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@@ricolewis2949 🤣
@@ricolewis2949 Nooooo!!!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Reading off that dusty list 🤣😃🤣😃😃🤣😃
Kendra face at 06:18. she's like: this bish 🤦🤦 🤣🤣😂
She is the type that will bring everyone around her kid.
She’s looking for a man to provide for her , and let her be a stay at home mom. She’s slow, though. All over the place. A walking contradiction. Nothing but excuses. Red flags all over the place.
🤡🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️
Exactly 💯
I almost dropped my phone when Kendra asked what kind of man you looking for and she started reading from that list🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😭😭
I know right I saw that shish also 😂😂😂
🤣😂🤣
Because if she picks a random bum who ends up taking her life then you all will blame her for not choosing better.
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@@winning3329 those are apparently the only two options to y'all.
Being pretty doesn’t mean much, she’s all over the place.
right lol
So true
And she ain’t that cute 🤷🏾♀️
She's looking 40 something
She not really cute then she said she don’t want drug users but she’s gay and that’s just as bad.
Why not be a childcare provider… you see the need in your area ,she says she loves kids. Help yourself
because that requires work
Exactly
She's a financial liability, fueding with her baby daddy, dipping between men and women, & can't even give 100% in a potential relationship bc she can't even afford free time away from her child. Ain't no woman pretty enough to deal with all this baggage, not longterm anyway, maybe just to hit.
she says she dont want a man thats stinky, but she stanky, lets keep it 100%
Exactly 💯💯, she really is setting herself up for to be used in that way.
No question. Your observations are very accurate also. 👍🏽✌🏾
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Right she’s cute but that’s just about it. Buy her a steak dinner and blow her back out 😂
There are so many red flags with this woman its truly terrifying for her young son especially. Particularly at the end when she said her potential man could discipline her son “in time” something tells me it wouldnt take much time. I hope that her son stays protected and safe because this is really scary. Wow wtf
May god protect her son from her it’s sad man
Exactly!!! No one other than her or the biological father should discipline her son.
Baby boy situation
@@luvbig41 he need to come get his son and be responsible then
@@sportspanelpodcast7488 I agree......however...I was speaking about physical discipline....if necessary. A stepdad forbidding the child from watching tv till homework is done or taking away a phone until he/she acts right is a different story. That benefits the child.
She needs to use her Internet/Computer to find a job and not a man. Her priorities are so messed up and she is so selfish. Instead of getting herself together for the sake of her child, she'd rather put herself first chasing the "D" and possibly end up brining another child into the world without a safety net. If the father leaves her on her own, she's going to end up on Gov't Assistance and use the kids as an excuse not to work and pull the 3 of them further in the hole (Generational Poverty). Prayers to the 4 year old child who has to look up to this sad excuse as a mother 😞.
She is already on government assistance. Food Stamps IS government assistance.
@Intuitive Readings with Vanity if she's injured why is she worried about dating a men right now? 😂😂 shouldn't she focus on healing first? 😂 y'all will sit up here and make any type of excuses for ppl like her who don't have their priorities together 🤣
@Intuitive Readings with Vanity injured and seeking to join the military🤣🤣🤣uh huh. Stop it😂😂😂😂.
@@abby-a facts!!
she says she has little to no support from her family, shes living in a house paid off by her dad, what else does she want? crazy
I'm sorry but if I had a house that's paid for, I'd at least get a job.
I’m only 6 mins in and, Omg this girl is delusional as hell.
25???? More like 45. She’s lying about her age
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Facts
Exactly because I'm 25 almost 26
I have a sister who is in her 30s and she looks younger than her 💀
Right, she's definitely older than 25. Girl, bye!
This is wild. “Someone who isn’t cheap. I don’t mind paying at times if I had an income” 😂😂😂😂😂
🤣😂🤣😂🤣 that's good Jay 👍🏽
I will admit that's ridiculous! 😂
She wild forreal
Absolutely ridiculous…
I screamed 😂😂
As a mom of a 1 year old and I’m almost 32 years old. I will never be unemployed and actually opening up a business and starting to buy investment properties to built generational wealth for my child. Forget dating. Build yourself up girl!!!
Dopeness!! How do I get started?
She started reading a prepared list of requirements!!!! You can't make this up...Kendra keep doing what ur doing...I love it
So now it's wrong if you are prepared? You can't make this thing up loool
The bisexual thing was a read flag. Sounds like she wants to exercise her options.
@@RexBanner_ lol
@@RexBanner_
Prepared for what?
Her wish list? To look into Kendra's crystal ball and find her a man?
@@RexBanner_she can't have any requirements. Not having a job is a red flag. You can't require someone who has their shit together when you don't. This is how people end up with a whole clan of kids. Be walking at Walmart and have to do a head count when they leave or enter to make sure they didn't forget one 😂.
She needs to get a job and forget everything else. Her kids should be her priority.
I feel terrible for the first lady's son! Children are always the ones that suffer the consequences of bad decisions.
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I remember you from the KS stream.
I miss the community...😞
Food stamps don’t pay for her cell phone and that full face of makeup so she’s definitely not sitting around with no sort of income whatsoever. “Certified massage therapist” is a subtle way of saying she’s trapping. If you know you know.
EXACTLY! I made the same comment up top. If you kno you kno. Facts!
I didn’t know but now I do 😭
🤣 certified finesse therapist
She is said that she get food stamps but I believe that she is on full welfare. Meaning that she gets food stamps , cash assistance and shelter allowance. She is probably renting part of the house for extra income as well.
@@jacmelprincess8315 I don’t think she’s smart enough or even motivated enough to even look for a tenant to be honest.
I'm convinced ppl be TROLLING 🤦🏿♂️
25 years old.... baby 4yrs old...... nine months being pregnant. She said did some years in the military!! And she said some other jobs. The math ain’t mathing..... she older than 25 for sure.
She maybe getting military compensation with benefits.
Well she said her age range is 27-35 so she's probably 29.
She looks older than 25 to me.
If she could come on and Actually admit that she gets food stamps, why would she then have to lie about her age??
She do look older, more around my age at least
She shouldn’t be looking for a relationship! Smh 🤦🏾♀️
But she cute though you should ignore all them obvious red flags especially being from a small town u guarantee you she has a negative history
In a relationship for 4 months?! That ain’t no relationship she was a booty call😂🤷🏾♀️
She looking for everything in a partner she is not.. This shit is too funny 😂
There are PLENTY of at home jobs, especially since the panorama. With her dad paying for her housing, even a minimum wage job can make a huge difference in her life. She can even sale pics of her feet online.
True because I work from home.
@@maritalconquestt.v.declassifie what kinda work?
@@EatPraySmoke Customer service. There is sykes, humana, Uhaul, apple, and walmart.
@@maritalconquestt.v.declassifie me too
Somebody help me out, I always hit dead ends when looking for a legit work from home job 😒
She got pregnant by a dude she knew for 4 months that's irresponsible as hell for both parties involved you'll make that type of commitment and unsure if you even want to be together
What about the baby you made and ran out on ? Talk about being a hypocrite
@@meloniejobe9522 You know me personally??? kill that noise I have no Kids and if I did I'm in the position to provide for them even if I'm not with the mother my child wouldn't be living in poverty and his mother wouldn't be struggling that's my child she takes care of him I'd make sure she's taken care of.
This the second time you've posted this you're a complete weirdo
@@meloniejobe9522 You dated bums got pregnant by them and assume your reality is everyone reality
I hear ya - Reese! Ladies…
If you want to start attracting “Men” instead of “Boys…”
Become a High Value Woman on your Purpose, that way - you become the type of woman that men are naturally attracted to - because you’ll be in High Demand!
Men are going to be able to sense that immediately, quality men that is! Men that have their lives together.
And therefore, you won’t need to chase them, because they’ll be drawn to you - like a magnet!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
@@meloniejobe9522 Wowwwww
Kendra said "Maybe there is a man that is going to save you"
Me: Hard pass to the next man
An extremely hard pass
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No interception and that pass is incomplete!
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Hahahha
This lady may have a lot going against her but she also got a lot going in her favor too. I say this because she’s very receptive to constructive criticism! A lot of women would’ve gotten offended and would not have appreciated Ms. Kendra’s honest advice. So kudos to them both on this interview. I pray this beautiful lady finds love one day.🙏🏾🥰💗
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@@Newarkguy38 You must be a feminist to think that way.
First of all the whole " what do you bring to the table " question was invented by father's back in the old days when a man courted their daughter's and the men's end goal was to marry their daughter's then the father's would ask the men " what do you bring to the table to take care of my daughter if you want to marry her?
Asking a woman what she brings to the table is putting a woman in the masculine role and not in the traditional role.
Also getting a woman off food stamps is easy for men to do by marrying the women they impregnated and supporting her.
Most men are complete cowards and leave a woman to fend for herself with a child.
In the old days men who left their responsibility would get 3 punches to the gut from each man he encounter and he would get a bad reputation and no one would hire him and no woman would want him.
Also many men use their children to lure women all the time, it just bothers you that a woman is doing it.
Yes she is open to the dating advice. If she gets the job and gets off the food stamps, she will get some higher quality men interested in her.
No one like her should be "looking for love."
says a woman
🤦🏾🤯 I'm only 5 min in,,,WTH this is a new level on dysfunction geez...
She has the nerve to draft a shopping list.🙄
No shade , but... shes definitely delusional. When you make your bed you lie in it . Bottom line.
Fasho😢
I been shaking my head the entire interview…This girl is so delusional 🤦🏾♀️
TRUTH
She is but she will get chosen quickly
Me2, and shaking my leg🦵🏾
Wow her answer 😮😮😮
I’m like 🤪.. she is inviting BS into her son’s life.. poor kid
I hope she looks back at this to see how foolish she looks smh
Amen
Kendra uploaded the full live and she is in the comment section making rude comments to anyone that commented on her situation. She's very immature and delusional.
@@bellaapple2166 Where is this, can you direct me to where it is??
Wtf does being on food stamps look like??????🤷♀️🤷♀️🤦♀️🤦♀️
Ikr?!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
@@ms.toniamorgan2172 gurllll periodt!!!!! 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤦♀️
Exactly. People don’t realize a lot of white people get food stamps. Some go to Harris Teeter at midnight to hide that fact. I work mids & love shopping @midnight. However, HT would not ring me up. So I asked the cashier “why did you ring up the white woman?” Her answer? We have to ring up food stamps, they can’t self check out.
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Full face makeup, lashes. Expenses someone on welfare wouldn’t typically be able to afford.
This is thee most disturbing, unsettling, sad and delusional interview I’ve seen on this channel! Let’s all pray for this young lady son!
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I was thinking about the boy too. You don't introduce men to your kid, especially your son unless you know you are going ot be with them. When you have kids you have to be especially cautious.
@@hanaayr I agree 100%. A man is the very last thing she should be worrying about right now!
Imagine the reaction if a man was saying all of this 😑
@@thespiderman630 a man saying he don't work and wants a woman to date him and his kid? Yeah, imagine that.
I love Kendra honesty & also I love how she tries to support others and give them honest & positive feed back. She is such a role model to many & is so supportive to her peers.I love you Kendra G!! Stay positive, sweet, & honest babygirl 🥰❤️🙏
I'm skeptical on the 25, she looks closer to 35.
I must of missed that part bcuz I didn’t know. I thought she was around 30-35.
She is in her 30s her name below says 90d baby. That’s late 20s early 30s
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Kendra’s facial expression is so funny. She looked over it. 😂😂 i love this show
Kendra’s face when she said she’s hilarious had me rolling.😂
Her family doesn’t support her but her father left her a house completely paid off ….. fellas have fun with this one
I admire Kendra's ability to listen to this girl without busting out laughing because REALLYYYY??? 😂🤣💀
Did she say 25??? 🥴 25 looks different these days.
She over here looking for a man, she need to be looking for a job. Priorities all messed up!!!
Priorities first baby girl. Please make sure what you are asking for you can also give. I wish you all the best as well on your journey. "Remember if you aren't whole you can't fully give to a relationship".
Yessss
1:36 because it’s all about spending money to look good. We need to stop buying overpriced cloths, tj maxx Is fine. Don’t need Gucci imo
She said her family doesn't help her, when her dad bought the house she lives in. She may seem sweet, but she is extremely ungrateful.
Cause I was like huh!
Food stamps don’t pay for utilities and a cell phone. These are the questions Kendra fail to ask her.
Revised ok you can get assistance for a cell phone so how is she paying for water, gas and electric.
She’s probably laying up or selling food stamp in exchange for money to pay those bills pay. To be honest about her situation 4 years of not having a job but yet she’s on here wanting a man to do for her and another man child. Instead of looking for a job that doesn’t sounds like a person worry about having money for paying any bills or wanting a job ? She’s thinking about the long run that’s ahead of her. Evidently she gonna need a steady flow of money coming in as her child gets older and tricking and or selling food stamp gonna get old sooner or later.
Right
wifi too
You can get a free cell phone while on public assistance
agreed
That’s for her pursuers to question, Kendra asks the basics
So she is looking for someone to bail her out? LOL
Looking for a stepfather, in my KS voice...
Yes, she is looking for her hero. What’s wrong with that?
@@muchgoodisgiven1517 Plenty is wrong with that. Especially, when you have a large list of demands in what you want in a partner.
If someone is willing to step in and save you, you can't ask for shit. Not his height, looks, salary, trips, [insert whatever dumb shit she listed]
@@freudianslip2192 I mean she didn’t ask for much . She asked for 50K
@@Sandrinarhonda that's only the financial piece. She asked for much more.
An unemployed massage therapist? Girl you ain’t looking for a job.
Nothing wrong with having food stamps because groceries are high as hell! Imma say this, I get why she's single and how she's all over the place but I work, have my own place, a car, good job and I'm a single mom. When you live in a small town the pool of single good men who actually want to build with you are slim to none. And the older you get whether you have one child or 5 that list gets even smaller. She has no business dating right now but there's alot of factors why someone could be single. I don't have family or an evening baby sitter for my kid so dating is not an option right now. I would never bring a child on a date. But she is looking to get out of her situation. I do feel like she should date when she moves to a better city and have childcare.
There is definitely something wrong with getting food stamps when you choose not to work. No one owes her anything free.
Food stamps and looking to date. Get your priorities in order
this is the perfect example of someone not looking for a help mate.. they're just looking for help... sad
She made allllllll those lists when she should've made a resume...And WHAT is all that around her eyes??
EXACTLY
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MOLES😂😂😂
What’s especially crazy about this one is that she is probably one of the more articulate and effective communicators about what she wants that I’ve seen on this show. She definitely needs some mentoring but she seems like she might be teachable under the right circumstances and while on some birth control. 🥴
Wish you the best as a mentor.😅
Struggle sesh for life.
Said that she gets no support from her family after saying that her dad pays the house. Kendra's right, she's crazy.
No you didn't hear her. The father moved out because he got married. The house was ALREADY PAID OFF!
@@GoddessBlueYozakura7 even worse smh
Her father really blessed her…owning a house is generational wealth…if she was smart she would move out and rent the house…get a job and have double income.
@@lineialquantum Even better! That's how it's supposed to be. Black women are so used to these sperm donor leaving them nothing that they don't realize leaving a paid off home to a child is customary in other groups.
She's not crazy but she does seem rather " mentally young" almost sheltered if you will. I don't think that makes her bad , she just got caught up " SUBMITTING" to a bum. That happens more often than not.
Unbelievable !!!!!!!! 🤦🏽♂️, As a wise man used to say, "You can't make this shit up" the audacity.
Man on man.. i really really miss kevin samuels
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She is a liability, not an asset. Stay away from her. 💯
She's even a liability to herself.
And has the nerve, to have an attitude lol
That sounds strange when men want women to submit to them. Isn’t someone submitting to you a liability that you’re agreeing to?
@@HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy You're being disingenuous, This women has nothing to offer the type of man she's after but bills
Seriously think about from the man's POV
@@odin5188 LOL! What I said has nothing to do with the woman in the video but only with what the poster said about her being a liability, not an asset. I questioned it with the point of submission. That to me, is a contradiction, bcuz if a woman submits to a man that makes her his liability. So, I just wanted to hear his reply to my question. Now you talking about paying bills. But I look at this way, what’s the point of a woman submitting to a man if he’s not sharing his money with her? Submit to him for nothing at all besides an idea?
I absolutely COULD NOT make it through this entire interview ✌🏾
**scrolls**
There are men who provide for women. Being a mother is a job.
Hence why she shouldn't go through with a pregency if she doesnt think the father is suitable. She had all the power to decide.
Now she's on her own with no job, thinking about taking her son on a date... Madness, no accountability
@@odin5188 hmmmm, what are your views on the possible reversing of Roe vs. Wade?
There are men who provide for women who have THEIR children.
@@nilaja-itsmylife I care not as I'm not in the US Men and women should have equal rights before a child is born imo
@@odin5188 I find it interesting that you don’t care because you’re not in the US yet your original comment is about a US situation…
Yet, in regards to equal rights. In this case, they both had equal rights to protection while engaging in relations & choose otherwise
She is picky about who she leaves her child with but wasn’t picky about who she made the child with.
Also, Kendra was very discreet when she tried to call out that this woman is on welfare but spends $ at the salon, lashes, make up. She damn well knew she was being called out and didn’t have the guts to own it
I used to be on welfare and I still bought make up and did my hair although I had to use very cheap products. There is nothing wrong with that.
I don't know if Kendra knows the struggle But full-time workers who still don't make enough money get assistance for food stamps nothing wrong with it get help where you can especially when you don't have support from your family Js🤷🏽♀️.
Sometimes something so little as simply wearing a little make up and trying to look beautiful can help you though depression. Being poor and on welfare is very depressing.
thats the excuse women use for not letting dad see the kids or not having a job
@@Christine_1075 ... This woman in this particular case does not work. She said so herself
When you thought you reached the lowest, someone pulls up with a shovel.
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To all my brothers out here we cannot save them lets save ourselves this woman here is a prime example why we need to leave them alone
These titles be wild!!! LMAO 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I read "The titties be wild"
THE WAY YOU KEEP YOUR COMPOSURE IS EVERYTHING I SWEAR!!!💯💯💯💯
25? 🛑the🧢. Emotional intelligence reads like she's 16, while she looks 35. Then shawty flip-flops between muffin diving & the CC. Shawty is an excellent way to waste resources, time, attention & energy.
Nah, she’s 25 fr
🤣🤣🤣🤣yall hellll....WHAT IZ.MUFFIN DIVING
I do think she's cute but I also didn't think she was only 25.
This too much . . . The dating pool is POLLUTED
There are people with full time office jobs on Food Stamps! Yes, I was one of those. Kendra, your comment really was out of order. You're stereotyping what someone on food stamps looks like?!
Yup...the :working poor" is the term if you haven't heard of it already
Working full time and still falling below the poverty level
Just a new form of slavery for ALL of us
There's also a lot of people abusing food stamps. Lying on the forms about their actual address and number of people living in the home. Selling food stamps because they don't really need them, so they can get cash to buy Marijuana and liquor. Most of the people I know on food stamps don't look the part, because one might assume that all people on food stamps are destitute. The people I know on food stamps still go to the club on weekends with a new outfit and they smoke and drink, then complain about not having enough money for rent, gas, or food despite selling half their stamps.
@@odog76543 exactly
Why no rebuttal? You bum.... don't try to normalize government assistance ol lazy broad.
She is in court with the child's father for custody issues. He is probably stable and she won't let him have his child. She can go back into the military and date if she would relinquish time with the child. She is not independent if she is not working and recovering assistance from the state while living in her father's home. I would never
bingooo!!!!! those 1st 2 sentences .... spot on i bet lol
Seems like that’s her only source of insurance for food stamps and possibly tax benefits. Could also be her only source of sanity.
This woman is batsh*t crazy. Fellas and Ladies stay far away from this one.
Exactly a fool should be able to read her. Yet so many people would be fooled by people like this .
I'm disgusted by her saying that the man she dates can discipline her son, if that don't speak desperation nothing else does. It's too many child predators out here and she's the type that they look for. Especially with her comment he has to date me and my son. SMDH
YO I swear to God, Kendra gon snap one day live on air and scream "Y'KNOW WHAT?! KEVIN WAS RIGHT ABOUT ALL Y'ALL TRIFLIN' ASSES!" 😂😂😂
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That day is coming ...
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Totally agree!!
I’m a single mother who works from home and also receive SNAP benefits…. But I also don’t plan on being on it forever. I also started doing press on nails and in the process of looking into other side businesses. This is the biggest reason why I’m not dating now, no child care. But I’m also sitting my ass down somewhere. I want to be married one day, but now is not the time to make me a wife. I still have a LOT of growing and learning to do
Same here!
Go girl preach you can do it mama!
@@godsgirl7201 same to you!!! And thank you 🖤
@@MissDeenaB94 ♥️
Listen!! I work and got an EBT card to IDGAF! I'm blessed to even get them. This food increase is insane and I'm taking all the help to feed myself F who judging!
Millen! Whew I been there and it’s a very small town with absolutely nothing there, BUT the next town over is huge maybe 25 mins away they have literally everything.
Including babysitting. She should move/commute.
25 miles away is not a long commute at all too. About 30min. If the father had a house to give, then he probably got a hoopie for her to drive for a job.
@@MrsAK.Simmons 🤭🤭
She's contradicting everything she says.. Sounds like lies to me.
I said the same thing. She kept saying this or that doesn’t matter but he has to have at least….
So then it does matter. Very manipulative way of speaking.
Agree
“High value men” don’t care about a woman’s money/ accomplishments right? There you have it.
this is the comment I was looking for..🤣🤣🤣 because.. she's young.. pretty.. one child.. meh.. I'm sure she'll find someone 💯💯
Ain't no high value man or high value woman trying to sign up for her bullshit and all those chins. Ain't working OR working out.
“High value men” are sought after by 8 out of 10 women. So he has the option to pick what he wants. Not a basket case thats looking for a savior and wants you to date her and her child.
I am a man, and I have never agreed with that. I only deal with women who are successful, and who are not losers.
People love to DATE with no JOB! Smh
That comment had me tickled! Lol
Women*
@@freudianslip2192 men too
8:47 keyword here is “certified” it’s a biiiig difference between certified & licensed, if she’s really operating on people with just a certificate instead of a license she could be in a lot of trouble if something goes wrong with her client
That’s why I ❤️ your show Kendra! Everything is with love and unapologetic realness! not to tear nobody down! I caught 333 while writing this! Good day Loves ☕️💗💗💗
In court trying to figure it out = trying to get child support. Plus someone that provides for her and her child. She doesn’t plan on working again.
exactly what I said no ambition a woman on her shit would have left Milen too I have 4 sisters from there and none of them stayed once their mother died and they finished school all of them got married and moved the hell away that place is the definition of a cow town the biggest thing there was Walmart
Hell even a woman who's doing it by herself would have left Milen this woman is just lazy and doesn't want anything better for not only herself but the child as well her and the baby daddy ain't ish
*She a dusty 4real*
And what person wants to deal with a mate who is fighting in court with their kid's other parent?
She's living rent free so there's no excuse not to have a job as she can afford day care.
"Good with finances"
You can't make this up smh.
You have an excellent sense of humor because I haven't laughed this much since I watched the Dave Chapelle show
Swear to God
I'm watching this as an unemployed single mom but I'm in the process of getting my ish together. I will say it is possible to find someone to take care of u especially if ur not picky and along with having someone take care of u will come other shyt u have to deal with like control.
3 minutes in and this one is wild 🚨
"I AM INDEPENDENT" SAYS THE WOMEN ON FOOD STAMPS.. CAN'T MAKE THIS SHIT UP!
And in a paid for house
She made a long ass list on paper on what she wants out of a man and what she likes to do......😂🤣😅 wow
@@who.i.am.6549 😂😂😂😂😂
I met a woman the other day who is on section 8 and said she has her own this is the mentality these women have government housing is having your own
I told my husband the other day, "I don't need a man!" (We get his and hers food stamps in SoCal.) We chuckled.
“Good with finances” the scream I just scrempt 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
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Hahahahaha lol 😂
Scrempt 🤣😂🤣! I love it!!!😆
Lol, somebody gotta be!!!
scrempt! lol
Much Love to you Kendra G and thank you for Educating everyone here.
Independant??? Living free in her fathers home no job apperently not paying any bills due to her only income is food stamps for food!!
Apparently, food stamps in some areas can be exchanged for cash. Or you can receive cash instead of food stamps. Something like that.