This!!!!! 💯💯 not big enough, no stamina, and weak stroke game .. YET still wants to juggle multiple women - it’s bizarre. The money isn’t long enough either to juggle 3 “wives “ & future children smh
This would imply that all women are the same, yes? But we know that all women are not the same! Not every women requires a marathon runner in the sex department. Not all women require a man to have Bill Cosbys bank account to find satisfaction or contentment. The polyamouros relationship are deeper than just SEX! In fact, polyamorous relationships have existed for as long as man and women has. Monogamy is the 'new kid on the block' , a Western [20th century] Construct created by Europeans in order to control birth rates.
@@Luver4lyfe You have to PICK BETTER lovers my G! Remember, you're the facilitator of whom you share your body with. If the MEN YOU CHOOSE are not satisfying you sexually, change how you choose men. If a women teaches a man on how to treat her, why not teach him 'how to love or sex you'? When the women I converse with complain about the men THEY CHOOSE to give their bodies to, are trash in the bedroom, I tell the women its their fault for NOT teaching him WHAT YOU LIKE!
Polygyny is having multiple wives. Polyamory is having multiple sexual partners. How these people want things and they don't even know what they're talkin about smh.
Yeah, I don't understand why people do that snorting thing with their nose, it's like they do it after stating a point of view of theirs 🙄 it's irritating
We have to stop giving these men passes because they’re “honest”. This is still ridiculous. I gotta put up with you stepping out because you’re paying the rent?! This man will have you in a studio apartment with 3 women sharing a corner talking about how he’s taking care of the family.
You do know millions of women are sharing their man as i type and they just don't know it? Also plenty of women wouldn't mind knowingly being in this type of relationship. Its just not for you so don't do it. No need to be mad.
I am an African woman and I'm laughing so hard at this man. He sounds like he's writing a confused script for some comedy movie... And the Africa he knows probably exist only on Western media!
Leave Black women alone. Please! We go through too much. All we need is some love and respect. It’s sad that asking for the bare minimum for other races is few and far between for us. The amount of people who want to defend this man even after Kendra pointed out the double standard he is looking for is what’s wrong with us as a people. Have your multiple wives, fine, but he STILL wants to sleep around. He points out that he would feel some type of way with his future wife stepping out on him but he’s okay with making her feel that way. This man is clearly looking for a toxic relationship. There are people with 2/3 wives and they live well and respect each other (it’s not for me but that’s alright). This is not that. This man just wants to be disrespectful to your face and have you say nothing about it.
@@nicolebaii8447 Yup i have black men tell me all the time these days that they send for women from over the islands cuz they are already trained in knowing what to do to serve for them they tell me us American women are not trained like we should b to serve them..And O how sad it is of how i c them get treated
This man is the reason why I'm working so hard to make money. I will never let any man feel like because he is paying all my bills, he has every right to cheat on me. NEVER. This man doesn't know what he wants. Putting three women in an household is a recipe for disaster.
There's a reason why these "high-value men" don't want a woman that's too successful, because besides paying the bills, they have nothing to offer. no emotional security, no loyalty. Then, they get mad when we say that we don't need a man.
Girl don’t listen to these comments. Both my husband and I make great money. I don’t pay any big bills at all. It’s never one size fits all. He doing the bare minimum of what “men” is suppose to do provide.
Kendra single as f...with no marriage in sight! She so bad at 43 she has to freeze her eggs...with them having a less than 20% chance of hatching! Men who have money don’t care or want your money Kendra -- and will marry younger
You go Kendra!!! What you said about pain being attached to something a man gives you is 110% truth. You drive that Bentley proudly knowing that Jesus is the only man who made you buying it possible. Congratulations!!! I’m not even looking to date anyone but I love watching your show. A lot of times the men remind me why I chose to be single. Men are crazy these days. Lol
Lol they definitely crazy. I keep telling American women go get the virgin men in other countries. They definitely exist. It's a hell of aot of them too. They know how to refrain from sleeping around.
Lots of women have multiple men and thats seen as ok among other women and they’re typically not honest about it with whom they date. This gentleman is at least up front, take it or leave it.
On behalf of the African American BW and the African BW it’s a no for us…we will humbly forward your application to the other communities 😊😊 good luck💅🏾
It’s gon be return to sender… cus they don’t even entertain his mess. He don’t even mean marrying the women like them Utah, he talkin bout some women all over town thinking they “go together” 😂😂😂
Thanks for the clarification. I have been wondering the difference but I swear when I googled it...it came across like the same thing. But maybe I'm an idiot and didn't read it right until your comment.
Thank you! When he gave his definition, I was like he doesn't even know what "polyamory" means. He is referring to polygamy, not polyamory. In polyamorous relationships, they all date each other and that is not what he is wanting.
Facts. All the emotions baggage sexually pleasing 3 women enough so they don’t stray. Every holiday buying 3 of them gifts etc. It’s certainly possible in all ways but sounds like a load.
@@ceeb107 😆 🤣 😂 😹 now see THAT'S the part most men don't think of when they entertain the thought of entertaining multiple women in this "arrangement" lol
@@KimmiesKloset85 facts. All I’ll say is whatever you settle for when you young especially under 40 it’s not likely you will get better treatment after 40. Join this man and be his 2nd unofficial wife if you want and if he puts you out and you have no legal rights remember that’s what you signed up for. Do the best you can when you are young or you will pay for it later in life!! Settle now and pay later. Or you will be stuck going back and forth with this kind of man and whole time coulda been one mans wife 10 years ago. I’d rather be lonely and get a better offer in due time vs settle and play catch-up later in life. And don’t let other men you meet later in life know you settled for that kind of Situation we all have a past and regrets but some men are like if you was his 2nd “wife” why should I marry you now? Why am I gonna pay full price for what another man got for a crumbs price?
Love love love Kendra’s come Back to the question regarding her buying a Bentley, Manny is fooling no one that’s his way of cheating and making it feel like it’s acceptable definitely a double standard and I could’ve bet money on the fact that he was going to pick 21 to 30 because they’re the only ones that are not mature enough to see through the okey-doke🤡
As someone who suffered in a poly relationship thank you for explaining to him what it feels like for women. Edit: in general now, I know better. I only do poly if it’s just a relationship for fun. I would never willingly share someone I’m heavily committed or serious about lol
@@E.P.7131 it wasn’t equal or fair. Everything he wanted was more important than what I wanted. There were heavy double standards and clear it was about sex. Not love
Why doesn't he just buy an escort or a sugar baby or two and have a contract? He wants his money to pay for one way monogamy. There's an app for that 🤷🏾♀️😂
Because he wants an actual "loving relationship" from the woman hes just paying to have sex with regularly and he can still date around. He wants these women to actually be fully invested and loyal even tho he doesnt have to be, because he is paying a BILL. Notice he always came back to he was paying for their love and loyalty. He was disgusting with that BILL mess. Like sir, are you paying for the CAT or nah.
@@ShandraGraham He's delusional. You can't pay a person to fall in love with you. You can pay them to pretend though lol. The reality is he's beyond insecure. The fact that he has to pay someone to love him shows he doesn't think he can find that on his own without the money. Another sad soul...
This is the legacy of Kevin Samuels, ugly truck drivers out here thinking their king Solomon from the bible living in apartments talking bout I pay all the bills. Chileeee🤦🏽♀️
Wow! So, he wants 3 wives and they will have absolutely no legal rights. So, essentially they will all be girlfriends who have rings. I appreciate his honesty. I don’t respect the set up. It’s extremely selfish and self centered. Having a child is dangerous health wise. He wants all of the benefits of a wife without taking on the legal responsibility. He could leave the women and children blowing in the wind at any time and everyone would look at the women like they should have known better. In all honesty this seems like game to me. I wouldn’t be mad at a woman for flipping the game on him. He deserves it. He wants 3 women’s world to revolve around him while the settle for no security. Two thumbs down. If you don’t know the game stay away from this man. He’ll use you up.
I’m just over 8 minutes into watching this skit and shocked. My brow has been fixed in the same position for the last 5 mins or so 😟Some people (men) really think like this!!!??? This is just a whole sorry delusional mess. SMH 🤦🏾♀️ Black women - please, please, please keep it moving. We can do soooo much better than this. We need to love and respect ourselves first and foremost. We need to ensure that we instil this positivity and self worth in our children, especially our Black Daughters to ensure men like this are unable to even approach them.
It's almost "midnight". The real them is coming out. People are showing you, with no shame, who they've always been.... werewolves, jackals, snakes, vampires, goblins, elves, gremlins, beasts, bats, hyenas, demons, jennie, jackasses, and the list goes on and on 😈.... Please snap out of it. H3ll is ETERNAL!!! Oooo Chile! 🤦🏽♀️
Most "high quality women" are single and are already sharing a man whether its implicitly or explicitly!!! ALL WOMEN want the same man which is a top 10% to 20% type of guy! So effectively your sharing the same dude anyway.....At least this guy is honest and can afford these women
@@cyes1156Also there are high quality women who look for other options in the dating pool. There are other high quality women who are content with living their best life without being with a man at all. What some people fail to realize is that being without a man is actually better than being with men who lie, cheat, or generally drain the energy, money or time from a woman. Statistically women who are not married live longer than women who do. Let me be clear. I am not against relationships for women but I also believe that if the man is not of good quality the woman is better off living her best life on her own rock and roll tour. Also, I do appreciate the guy's honesty. More men should do this so they don't waste women's time. They should also be honest about their sexuality as well.
Imagine being so full of yourself that you think you can fulfill a person's every need & desire. That is not practical or healthy, and the primary reason it takes a village to raise a child.
@@E.P.7131 in my experience men are happier when they have a woman who he can put on a pedestal as the love of their life, his prize woman unlike all others, but the caveat is she does have to actually be a prize in his eyes, whatever that looks like. It doesn’t work the other way around.
@@evaphillips2102 Thank you for responding. For the record, I don't think it's healthy for either men or women to think themselves a prize, it wreaks of arrogance and a sense of superiority. Prizes or trophies are physical possessions, people are not and should not be treated as such. Viewing a significant other as an accomplishment or achievement is operating out of one's ego and takes away their humanity, even if only a little. I think it's healthier to view significant others from a place of humility with empathy and compassion. Quick story: the last girl I met online dating was a fine ass Jamaican girl, 28y/o, no kids, school teacher. On our 2nd date she says in conversation, "I'm the prize, bro". I challenged it and she responded with "in the Bible ... finds a wife...good thing". I told her, "But you're not a wife. And I'm not a Christian". I then went on to explain how it comes across as not valuing or undervaluing the other person. She said she understood, that was our last date. Later, I reflected on the convo and realized she was unemployed, no car, living with family, and not a citizen (here on work visa but "taking a break from teaching")... but she thinks *"she's the prize"*? 🤷🏾♂️ Make it make sense.
Him: "I don't put those ideas in her that she can't do better." Also him: "I make jokes about the guys she gets with. " ALSO him: *Proceeds to try to tear down KG for her achievements and tries to bring her down for having her own, rather than taking disrespect from a man in exchange for things.* RUN LADIES, RUN! 😷
No strings attached. It makes him feel weak because he is not buying Bentleys and he does not believe that a woman should be able to do this without a man.
sidebar: if anything he's the insecure one. men forever act like they NEED multiple women, when in real life they need the validation of being desired by different women because they don't believe they are who they pretend to be. AND women, I loathe working, absolutely hate it, BUT no one can ever dangle paying bills in my face as a means of gaining access to me. this is what they think. do for yourself and only be accessible to people that actually value you. yes, it's easier to sit back and have somebody take care of x,y, and z, but it's better to have your own suh
Lol this is false. I men are designed to desire multiple women. Humans would not have populated the earth if this wasn't the case. How many male species on the planet only mate with one female?
A lot of male truck drivers are like this, they jump from bed to bed in different cities not wanting to be committed. And back home they have a whole wife and kids just living a double life 🤷🏽♀️
This dude is a selfish hypocrite. He needs to realize he doesn't make "Poly" type of relationship type of money. The women who would accept this arrangement expect to buy and do whatever they want. I am not dissing him for being a truck driver but c'mon. Why get married?
He wants kids, that's why he wants to get married. It's the only reason I'd advise men to get married in these times, so the children have a secure, stable foundation to thrive in. Polyamory isn't the chaotic, sex-centered concept alot of people envision it to be. There are actual benefits.
@@bsanon4796 Raising children with two women instead of one mother who is the child's mother is unstable . In fact it is very dysfunctional. The only person benefitting is the man.
@@bsanon4796 The point of marriage is dedication. I'm not dissing Poly but what I am dissing is Poly with someone who doesn't have enough compensation. I myself , am old fashioned. I just want one really good one.
Multiple wives is polygamy; not polyamorous unless they're in other relationships as well. He just sounds like a lustful teenager. Doesn't know real love.
I feel it's great that Kendra was able to buy her own Bently. She's a selfmade woman. I bought my own beamer and was so proud I didn't need my spouse's help. 100 percent me. Proud of you Kendra!!!
Before he lies he says "so,so". He is one of the worst narcs there is. He had the nerve to tell the woman he is seeing and bringing him lunch, that he can't make her a wife bcuz shes Hispanic!? Ridiculous! ( I'm black) He like a big 3 yr old
@@tmcurly I think he's paying for what he can't find within himself. He's got to find women with low self esteem that are delusional enough to feed into his ego but he himself doesn't feel worthy. It's not that he wants a poly relationship. It's that he wants to pay for one. The fact that he can't just get a woman to stay just because of who he is (which is common in poly relationships) speaks volumes. He doesn't feel worthy therefore he has to use his assets as a reasoning for a woman to stick around. Pretty pathetic if you ask me.
@@soulshineSessions1 yes. And his emphasis on having 2 blk women is eerie. He will be extremely abusive. He actually hates blk women, that's where the weird logic comes from.
I love Kendra screaming to the woman in the back 😂… and to his question about a man paying everything idc what you got or what you pay for, a man’s character and how he treats me always comes first.
This man is absolutely insane . He wants more than one woman but doesn’t want her going elsewhere with other men 👀 Mannnnnnn I’m sure u don’t have enough money to provide and expect that . Goodbye 👋
This is how you hold a conversation. Two adults with opposing views who are able to be respectful, not talk over each other, take criticism, and end the conversation on a good tone. Love it.
In short, he wants 21-30 year old bisexual baddies who have many options who are not used to providers. But if he’s paying, I think he’ll have some options but won’t cheat or seek attention from elsewhere. The 26 year old Latina is definitely wasting her youth on dealing with him after he said told her she wasn’t it. Women need to learn to let go and do what makes sense. It will make life exponentially easier.
In Cali the men dont date black women ..they date latinas and others ..she probably has no dad in her life..most latinos dont bring unambiguous black men around anyway so she is probably dealing with other men in her community till she finds the one ..and getting money from him ..he think he up when he really not
@@R.Yvette.X. How is he exploiting her ignorance? He just told her he would never marry her and she’s still there. Maybe she’s there because she just wants to be there. Y’all won’t hold women accountable for nothing lol
@@faxxxovafeels The "getting married" part is not what she's ignorant about. She's too ignorant to find out how to obtain independence. Probably because she comes from a place that doesn't teach women how to be self sufficient. So if she doesn't know how to procure documentation, education, transportation and habitation, then she will remain ignorant. She will forever trade her "box" for the bare minimum.
Right especially not the emotional part. He keeps harping on the physical and financial. Women are emotional beings and you want to add children boo?? ok then...
He’s not even thinking about anything other than financially. Unfortunately since so much emphasis being put on money, some men think that’s all that’s needed.
It doesn't have to be lust could just be biology. Men's testosterone makes us want multiple women. Times have changed where men are vilified for their natural biology
I live for the eloquent shut downs..#respectfully . I love that you can have soft debates with ppl like him without it becoming explosive or disrespectful. I respect his honesty as well. and also his ability to articulate exactly how he is coming 2 the table..no deception...this show is great adult content that allows ppl with different views to exchange thoughts and opinions while still finding ppl that fit them...keep up the great work Kendra!
Why would any decent self loving woman think that this is ok? Unless she could have a second husband. Lots of romance books about two men or more sharing their woman. Lol
I hear ya - denise! I’m curious to see how he would be able to pull this off, marrying two or more women… has he lost his mind? It’s hard enough marrying one woman! Good luck with all that, and to the women who are willing to go along with this! Because I don’t see any decent woman that actually respects herself doing this! Anyway, that’s my two cents. -Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
It’s a fair trade: resources for exclusivity. If anything I think he’s doing his wives a favour if he can actually afford to take care of them. If I was a woman, I would rather that than be broke, miserable and single.
Kendra I’m 52 and married. When I say you are so dope… When I say you explained your purchase of the Bentley and read dude in the most professional way. Was absolutely astonishing. I’m so damn proud of you😃😃😃
Frank while i don't agree with him. Im 48 and trucking industry as well. Im in Vegas land of milk an honey. Strippers an Call girls. Kendra is an sexy old bird. An she's not the average woman buying a Bentley is cool but most women in this country can't buy a Bentley maybe 99% of them an yes us truck drivers can afford a Bentley most of us can we just don't
@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 i got it. justs makes these women think they are more valuable than what they are some men don't see that he could be a hen pecked husband who lets his wife kick his ass bro he might need help hahaha i have 4 daughters they have value to me NOW they mean nothing to other men until an when they get married
Homie is a truck driver meaning he is on the road in that truck a minimum of 10hrs a day. He ain’t going to know what his woman or women are doing😂 He shouldn’t worry about any hearsay getting back to him he needs to focus on getting his 💰 and elevating himself to the position of owning the truck not driving it.
@@amarelogan7081 his scarcity mindset and fear of losing his woman n or women to another man tells me he moves fearfully. Most people will do more to avoid pain, than they will to gain pleasure. He is most people. He definitely works for someone else.
There you have it ladies… it only takes ONE ☝🏽 woman to feed an ego enough where a man can believe that he can have his own personal brothel. 🤷🏾♀️ LOVE YOUR RESPONSE AT THE END KENDRA!!!
I've been married for 10 years and with my husband for 14 years so I haven't dated in quite some time, but I'd like to know, is it really this hard out here that this below average man would really think women would sign up for this
@Random Thoughts, darling it is a dog eat dog world. PLEASE stay within your loving marriage. It ain't nothing nice. I am a black 50 plus women, I believe in marriage and If you can make it work, PLEASE do your best. Peace n Blessings.
Truth is it’s nothing like it was even once you married ten years ago. Porn and social media has ruined Dating to an extent. Everyone wants the 0.0001 and it’s not enough of that to go around. Glad you are married. The marriage rate is dropping more as time goes on especially in the black community.
Yes. Some of these women have become very desperate just to say they have a man and he wants only BW because he knows they are obsessed with being in a relationship or feel useless.
The type of situation he wants...is literally what BM do. The difference is, he's verbalizing & keep'n it a buck abt his intentions whereas other mf'as just do it & nobody knows anything about anything & thinking they're the only one.
@@rm5282 he doesn't want to marry legally and there ABSOLUTELY ARE women like this. I've dated a few and met many. I'm not saying it's sustainable long-term because I've never seen it but ppl calling him delusional is weird honestly. Especially nowadays
@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 this type of thing was prevalent in Utah but within Mormon rules. This guy wants a harem. He should live in the Arabian desert. Eventually, the women will jokey for position in his life and without good structure, someone is going to suffer a bad situation.
He's saying there's no way I can compete with you on income so there's nothing I can have as leverage over you to accept my lifestyle Ladies that's why many men despise successful women because it makes the playing field more balanced. Furthermore makes me understand more of why women decades ago stuck un unhappy marriages because they didn't have means of financial security.
Men can't start families without women so we need yall as well which automatically gives yall leverage, especially with the way family courts operate. Women often become flat out jerks when they earn as much or more than their men. Many women cant handle being in that position and belittle/disrespect their men once they earn more money.
@@rehsa2194 its just a taste of what many men were dishing out previous generations with women. Using their power of being in position to provide financially to keep women in a position to accept anything. Welp times have change and men better understand those options aren't appealing or needed anymore.
RUN BW, RUN.......for the hills, and through traffic if need be.....'Dust, will ALWAYS be 'Dust'. Listen to the words coming out of his mouth...looking for a BW to USE...RUN.
My thing is.. men who want a wife and side pieces, do they still expect thier wives to be loving and warm towards them? Do they expect sex from the wife too? Or maybe they don't care about that? They say they have side pieces because of thier insatiable sex hunger and the wife should accept it because he financially provides. The solution would be to get a women who's main focus is the money. She will not care what you're doing when you're outside the home, as long as the bills are paid.
Seriously! I can cook, clean, and maybe even have sex with someone in a business type arrangement, but my actual feelings will be cold, and it’ll be palpable. There’s a tenderness and intimacy that’s present when you’re with someone you truly love and trust that men miss out on when they want something so uneven and transactional.
I read the title but, I wasn’t prepared for this level of insanity. Yes, he’s being honest and upfront with his wants but…WOW! Boo, boo, tomato tomato 🙃
I have to rock with the ladies on this one. I give y'all hell most of the time but this guy is delusional. Please avoid men like this because eventually something is going to cook off.
I'm so tired of men wanting multiple women at the same time and most of these men can't satisfy one woman sexually 🙄 🤷🏾♀️
Because they want multiple women catering to them, and they know they're full of ish!
This!!!!! 💯💯 not big enough, no stamina, and weak stroke game .. YET still wants to juggle multiple women - it’s bizarre. The money isn’t long enough either to juggle 3 “wives “ & future children smh
This would imply that all women are the same, yes? But we know that all women are not the same! Not every women requires a marathon runner in the sex department. Not all women require a man to have Bill Cosbys bank account to find satisfaction or contentment. The polyamouros relationship are deeper than just SEX! In fact, polyamorous relationships have existed for as long as man and women has. Monogamy is the 'new kid on the block' , a Western [20th century] Construct created by Europeans in order to control birth rates.
@@Luver4lyfe You have to PICK BETTER lovers my G! Remember, you're the facilitator of whom you share your body with. If the MEN YOU CHOOSE are not satisfying you sexually, change how you choose men. If a women teaches a man on how to treat her, why not teach him 'how to love or sex you'?
When the women I converse with complain about the men THEY CHOOSE to give their bodies to, are trash in the bedroom, I tell the women its their fault for NOT teaching him WHAT YOU LIKE!
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Black women: please stay out of this. He’s been single for a decade for a reason!
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Lort 🤣🤣🤣
I am a proponent of black men but this dude is ridiculous. Men, we have to be better than this if we want women to be good too.
Too funny…
Hater!!! Let this man be great!!!
Polygyny is having multiple wives. Polyamory is having multiple sexual partners. How these people want things and they don't even know what they're talkin about smh.
Exactly! I was gonna say the same thing smh
Facts
THANK YOU! Was going to say the same!
He's an amateur, he didn't finish watching his KS tapes.
so what? he knows what he wants. he doesnt have to follow allt he vocabulary, theres no english teacher here to please
I appreciate his confidence, but he is snorting the highest grade of cocaine 😂😂😂
I get powered donuts vibes too🤔🧐
Yeah, I don't understand why people do that snorting thing with their nose, it's like they do it after stating a point of view of theirs 🙄 it's irritating
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Lol he definitely snorting alot. Lol
His nostrils agree
We have to stop giving these men passes because they’re “honest”. This is still ridiculous. I gotta put up with you stepping out because you’re paying the rent?! This man will have you in a studio apartment with 3 women sharing a corner talking about how he’s taking care of the family.
Exactly lol 😂 or a basement or homeless he is weird
You do know millions of women are sharing their man as i type and they just don't know it? Also plenty of women wouldn't mind knowingly being in this type of relationship. Its just not for you so don't do it. No need to be mad.
@@lorenzomalone3105 that’s why I’m cool with me and myself, I’m good
@@Jesslit101 Life is about choice. No judgment
@@lorenzomalone3105 that’s why I keep about 5 to 10 on call lol 😂
Paying bills doesn’t keep STDs away 😂
And at that point hopefully it’s something curable 😂
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🔥🔥🔥🙏 so true.
To add, you can’t get your youth back, self esteem back, self worth back or edges.
@@MajicGurl lmao
This man doesnt want multiple wives, he wants an open relationship. A main woman and the ability to sleep around...call it what it is.
It's not open if the woman cannot also have the ability to sleep around
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LOL! The main woman is the twisted mommy care woman. The mommy structure in the home while he goes out to play.
He wants a sex toy. He couldn’t care less about the women's feelings or wants.
Exactly lol
I am an African woman and I'm laughing so hard at this man. He sounds like he's writing a confused script for some comedy movie... And the Africa he knows probably exist only on Western media!
The men that have this logic most west African women wouldn’t even look at it’s so funny.
💀💀😹😹 he really wants some kind of fantasy 🤦🏿♀️
@@sistrenyogigal3813 yeah because they're brainwashed into being Americanized. Which is showing them they're a fish outta water
I thought Africans do have multiple wives. Isn't this culturally acceptable?
@@hanaayr yes it is, this African woman who made the comment is clearly Americanized
Leave Black women alone. Please! We go through too much. All we need is some love and respect. It’s sad that asking for the bare minimum for other races is few and far between for us. The amount of people who want to defend this man even after Kendra pointed out the double standard he is looking for is what’s wrong with us as a people. Have your multiple wives, fine, but he STILL wants to sleep around. He points out that he would feel some type of way with his future wife stepping out on him but he’s okay with making her feel that way. This man is clearly looking for a toxic relationship. There are people with 2/3 wives and they live well and respect each other (it’s not for me but that’s alright). This is not that. This man just wants to be disrespectful to your face and have you say nothing about it.
This guy ain't looking for love, he's looking to fulfill his lust. 🤔🤔
Please leave us black women out of this mess! Another black man thinking he's the prize!!
Hence why the only woman he could get to bring him lunch is anything but what he actually desires.
Lol that's how Black men feel about "Another Black woman thinking she's the prize". Goes both ways 🤷🏿♂️
U are not the prize there’s plenty of women around for every 1 guy there’s 8 women so please ur noottt the prize
@@sanchoelmatador nobody cares how black ninja feels but the mammies.
@@sanchoelmatador please find your prizes 💁🏻♀️💁🏼♀️💁🏻♀️ in their community
I wish he wanted white women. Black women…don’t settle for this.
Any real Lady would not put up with this no matter of skin color.. Best chance would b a woman from the island's or what he has now
He need a women who's looking for a green card.
@@nicolebaii8447 Yup i have black men tell me all the time these days that they send for women from over the islands cuz they are already trained in knowing what to do to serve for them they tell me us American women are not trained like we should b to serve them..And O how sad it is of how i c them get treated
They do go for this lol they literally have a baby by the same dude and he still be knocking them down
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This man is the reason why I'm working so hard to make money. I will never let any man feel like because he is paying all my bills, he has every right to cheat on me. NEVER.
This man doesn't know what he wants. Putting three women in an household is a recipe for disaster.
There's a reason why these "high-value men" don't want a woman that's too successful, because besides paying the bills, they have nothing to offer. no emotional security, no loyalty. Then, they get mad when we say that we don't need a man.
For American women
Lady. Your living in a damn horror movie in your head. You're making a make believe disaster to give yourself a reason to be single for eternity.
@@Alpha_apex well hell....single has never looked so damn good to me after hearing this dusty a$$ man.
Girl don’t listen to these comments. Both my husband and I make great money. I don’t pay any big bills at all. It’s never one size fits all. He doing the bare minimum of what “men” is suppose to do provide.
I love Kendra’s confidence. She’s a bad bish, and she knows it.
She had time today - schooled him
Kendra single as f...with no marriage in sight! She so bad at 43 she has to freeze her eggs...with them having a less than 20% chance of hatching! Men who have money don’t care or want your money Kendra -- and will marry younger
You go Kendra!!! What you said about pain being attached to something a man gives you is 110% truth. You drive that Bentley proudly knowing that Jesus is the only man who made you buying it possible. Congratulations!!!
I’m not even looking to date anyone but I love watching your show. A lot of times the men remind me why I chose to be single. Men are crazy these days. Lol
Lol they definitely crazy. I keep telling American women go get the virgin men in other countries. They definitely exist. It's a hell of aot of them too. They know how to refrain from sleeping around.
This man is the definition of trifflin. I’m glad he’s honest about it
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Why is that a big thing? Isn't everyone else honest about it?
@@SweetestSadie honest about being trifflin? I’m confused
@@FirstnameLastname-vi7hm Isn't everyone on the show honest?
Lots of women have multiple men and thats seen as ok among other women and they’re typically not honest about it with whom they date. This gentleman is at least up front, take it or leave it.
On behalf of the African American BW and the African BW it’s a no for us…we will humbly forward your application to the other communities 😊😊
good luck💅🏾
It’s gon be return to sender… cus they don’t even entertain his mess. He don’t even mean marrying the women like them Utah, he talkin bout some women all over town thinking they “go together” 😂😂😂
@@ShandraGraham lmao 🤣 oh well the package will stay in limbo 🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️🤷🏽♀️🤦🏽♀️cuz we ain’t taking that shit🤣😂🤣😂😂🤣
Exactly
I ll hand deliver copies. We.are.gooood. Bettah than good
As African BW we co sign on this statement.
Again, I love how Kendra breaks things down, points out the red flags without being nasty and judgemental.
Difference between Kevin Samuels ..she don't put people down
Agreed..
That's the difference between her and Kevin Samuels
Exactly
@@user-nubiangoddess Yep. Kevin Samuels had so much contempt for women, but Kendra G seems to like men.
I love how Kendra be yelling out to the individuals in the background. She goes the extra mile for her audience. 🤣🤣🤣🤣
And how she looks to the corner of the phone like she can see around the phone 😂😂😂😂😂😂 I love it!!!!
So glad I went to college and that I have a career to pay from my own bills
It's when Kendra knows there is another person in the room and starts hollering and ratting them out. LMAO
12:50 This part! I was cracking up! 😆😆
For real 😂
It’s HILARIOUS
She need to mind her business
Yes! He basically trapped a 22 y/o and has been wasting her life for four years.🙄
Polygamy: 1 man and multiple women
Polyamory: multiple partners for all parties in a relationship.
He doesn’t even know what he wants
Thanks for the clarification. I have been wondering the difference but I swear when I googled it...it came across like the same thing. But maybe I'm an idiot and didn't read it right until your comment.
Thank you! When he gave his definition, I was like he doesn't even know what "polyamory" means. He is referring to polygamy, not polyamory. In polyamorous relationships, they all date each other and that is not what he is wanting.
Lol. You caught that to huh? 😆 🤣 😂
Exactly
I didn't expect him to know the difference, he's a whole narcissist with a healthy serving of misogyny #hesbadnews #nothanks
Don't worry about your PH balance babe. Im paying all the bills...I got you!!!
Right. Shit is nasty🤣🤣🤣
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Haaaaa
Right?! 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
😂😂😂😂💞
I just love Kendra.. she goes from funny, professional, hood, and sometimes rachet in 30 seconds. A true sister! I love it!!
He’s another fresh & fit member and it shows!! They love coming to your show!
Gosh. We’re not talking about food or drinks we’re talking about body fluids and souls my goodness.
Exactly.
@Joyce G, it seems like most women nowadays have high body counts anyway. What's your body count?
It's too many diseases they are so gross
@Joyce That part!
@Otrebla you sound like a disgruntled incel. What’s your body count?
Thanks Kendra for putting this Dusty in his place. He is delusional.
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AF🤡🤛🏾😒😒
I'm 33 and married and I'll say this.. one woman is enough for me lol
Facts. All the emotions baggage sexually pleasing 3 women enough so they don’t stray. Every holiday buying 3 of them gifts etc. It’s certainly possible in all ways but sounds like a load.
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Thank you for setting the bar! Lol
@@ceeb107 😆 🤣 😂 😹 now see THAT'S the part most men don't think of when they entertain the thought of entertaining multiple women in this "arrangement" lol
@@KimmiesKloset85 facts. All I’ll say is whatever you settle for when you young especially under 40 it’s not likely you will get better treatment after 40. Join this man and be his 2nd unofficial wife if you want and if he puts you out and you have no legal rights remember that’s what you signed up for. Do the best you can when you are young or you will pay for it later in life!! Settle now and pay later. Or you will be stuck going back and forth with this kind of man and whole time coulda been one mans wife 10 years ago. I’d rather be lonely and get a better offer in due time vs settle and play catch-up later in life. And don’t let other men you meet later in life know you settled for that kind of Situation we all have a past and regrets but some men are like if you was his 2nd “wife” why should I marry you now? Why am I gonna pay full price for what another man got for a crumbs price?
Love love love Kendra’s come
Back to the question regarding her buying a Bentley, Manny is fooling no one that’s his way of cheating and making it feel like it’s acceptable definitely a double standard and I could’ve bet money on the fact that he was going to pick 21 to 30 because they’re the only ones that are not mature enough to see through the okey-doke🤡
As someone who suffered in a poly relationship thank you for explaining to him what it feels like for women.
Edit: in general now, I know better. I only do poly if it’s just a relationship for fun. I would never willingly share someone I’m heavily committed or serious about lol
If you don't mind sharing, what do you mean by "suffered"?
What was your experience ?? Please share
I simply cannot understand anyone willingly being in a polygamous relationship …I mean would the Woman not get tired of him too. I digress..
@@E.P.7131 it wasn’t equal or fair. Everything he wanted was more important than what I wanted. There were heavy double standards and clear it was about sex. Not love
@@sallysharp4126 I didn’t really love him/wasn’t that attached. That’s why I was okay with him. I’d never share a relationship I was serious about 😂
Why doesn't he just buy an escort or a sugar baby or two and have a contract? He wants his money to pay for one way monogamy. There's an app for that 🤷🏾♀️😂
Lmao! You’re absolutely right.
Because he wants them to his self an escort would be shared
Because he wants an actual "loving relationship" from the woman hes just paying to have sex with regularly and he can still date around. He wants these women to actually be fully invested and loyal even tho he doesnt have to be, because he is paying a BILL. Notice he always came back to he was paying for their love and loyalty. He was disgusting with that BILL mess. Like sir, are you paying for the CAT or nah.
@@ShandraGraham "whats love got to do, got to dooo" 🎶
@@ShandraGraham He's delusional. You can't pay a person to fall in love with you. You can pay them to pretend though lol. The reality is he's beyond insecure. The fact that he has to pay someone to love him shows he doesn't think he can find that on his own without the money. Another sad soul...
This is the legacy of Kevin Samuels, ugly truck drivers out here thinking their king Solomon from the bible living in apartments talking bout I pay all the bills. Chileeee🤦🏽♀️
Chile🥴
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😂🤣😂Absolute delusion 😵💫
This comment!! 😂😂💀💀
That part!! 🤦🏾♀️
Wow! So, he wants 3 wives and they will have absolutely no legal rights. So, essentially they will all be girlfriends who have rings. I appreciate his honesty. I don’t respect the set up. It’s extremely selfish and self centered. Having a child is dangerous health wise. He wants all of the benefits of a wife without taking on the legal responsibility. He could leave the women and children blowing in the wind at any time and everyone would look at the women like they should have known better. In all honesty this seems like game to me. I wouldn’t be mad at a woman for flipping the game on him. He deserves it. He wants 3 women’s world to revolve around him while the settle for no security. Two thumbs down.
If you don’t know the game stay away from this man. He’ll use you up.
* Single Baby mamas we have enough of that in the community
I don't recall him saying they couldn't work, just that they didn't have to. Which is what 99% of the women that come on this show say they want
What legal rights does a men get once he decides to get married?
Cause the whole no legal right thing only seems to apply to women
@@spythe right, there's no legal right to sex after that marriage ends but there's somehow a legal right to his assets still
Of course you want him to give up his legal rights🤣🤣
Kendra killed it. Breaking all that down about her Bentley and then the way she said bye had me cracking up.
I’m just over 8 minutes into watching this skit and shocked. My brow has been fixed in the same position for the last 5 mins or so 😟Some people (men) really think like this!!!???
This is just a whole sorry delusional mess. SMH 🤦🏾♀️
Black women - please, please, please keep it moving. We can do soooo much better than this. We need to love and respect ourselves first and foremost. We need to ensure that we instil this positivity and self worth in our children, especially our Black Daughters to ensure men like this are unable to even approach them.
It's almost "midnight". The real them is coming out. People are showing you, with no shame, who they've always been.... werewolves, jackals, snakes, vampires, goblins, elves, gremlins, beasts, bats, hyenas, demons, jennie, jackasses, and the list goes on and on 😈.... Please snap out of it. H3ll is ETERNAL!!!
Oooo Chile! 🤦🏽♀️
Not skit !!! 🤣
High quality women will not buy into this guy's agenda. Women who have low incomes or even low self esteem will go with this.
Just straight low self esteem. You have some women with low income who have respect for themselves.
Most "high quality women" are single and are already sharing a man whether its implicitly or explicitly!!! ALL WOMEN want the same man which is a top 10% to 20% type of guy! So effectively your sharing the same dude anyway.....At least this guy is honest and can afford these women
@@cyes1156 he cannot afford that 😭
@@cyes1156Also there are high quality women who look for other options in the dating pool. There are other high quality women who are content with living their best life without being with a man at all.
What some people fail to realize is that being without a man is actually better than being with men who lie, cheat, or generally drain the energy, money or time from a woman. Statistically women who are not married live longer than women who do. Let me be clear. I am not against relationships for women but I also believe that if the man is not of good quality the woman is better off living her best life on her own rock and roll tour.
Also, I do appreciate the guy's honesty. More men should do this so they don't waste women's time. They should also be honest about their sexuality as well.
He's a truck driver lol he cannot afford a high maintenance woman hahhaha
Imagine feeling like your never enough for a person 😕
Ppl are insane lol....
A whole fool
Facts. And he clearly won’t be enough for them because he won’t even physically and mentally be there to support them how they need
Damn
Imagine being so full of yourself that you think you can fulfill a person's every need & desire. That is not practical or healthy, and the primary reason it takes a village to raise a child.
I’d rather be alone than with a guy that thinks he’s the trophy
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Men feel the same way.
It's insulting for a woman to think/say she's the "prize".
@@E.P.7131 in my experience men are happier when they have a woman who he can put on a pedestal as the love of their life, his prize woman unlike all others, but the caveat is she does have to actually be a prize in his eyes, whatever that looks like. It doesn’t work the other way around.
@@evaphillips2102 Thank you for responding. For the record, I don't think it's healthy for either men or women to think themselves a prize, it wreaks of arrogance and a sense of superiority. Prizes or trophies are physical possessions, people are not and should not be treated as such.
Viewing a significant other as an accomplishment or achievement is operating out of one's ego and takes away their humanity, even if only a little.
I think it's healthier to view significant others from a place of humility with empathy and compassion.
Quick story: the last girl I met online dating was a fine ass Jamaican girl, 28y/o, no kids, school teacher. On our 2nd date she says in conversation, "I'm the prize, bro". I challenged it and she responded with "in the Bible ... finds a wife...good thing". I told her, "But you're not a wife. And I'm not a Christian". I then went on to explain how it comes across as not valuing or undervaluing the other person. She said she understood, that was our last date.
Later, I reflected on the convo and realized she was unemployed, no car, living with family, and not a citizen (here on work visa but "taking a break from teaching")... but she thinks *"she's the prize"*? 🤷🏾♂️
Make it make sense.
Yes!!!!
Im nigerian and i would never in life be in no mess like this
Him: "I don't put those ideas in her that she can't do better."
Also him: "I make jokes about the guys she gets with. "
ALSO him: *Proceeds to try to tear down KG for her achievements and tries to bring her down for having her own, rather than taking disrespect from a man in exchange for things.*
RUN LADIES, RUN! 😷
You peeped that, right?! He needs to be with women that are slow on the uptake. Everyone else sees through him.
Congratulations on your Bentley purchase Kendra! And for setting him straight! It's very sad there are lots of males like him. Very sad.
He doesn't even look like he can afford one ..
@@afro_buddha4977 I wouldn't stereotype by a look. The poorest looking man can be the richest. He just has some issues.
@@afro_buddha4977 looks can be deceiving.
No strings attached. It makes him feel weak because he is not buying Bentleys and he does not believe that a woman should be able to do this without a man.
The popcorn ceiling and the sheet on the window says otherwise
sidebar: if anything he's the insecure one. men forever act like they NEED multiple women, when in real life they need the validation of being desired by different women because they don't believe they are who they pretend to be.
AND women, I loathe working, absolutely hate it, BUT no one can ever dangle paying bills in my face as a means of gaining access to me. this is what they think. do for yourself and only be accessible to people that actually value you. yes, it's easier to sit back and have somebody take care of x,y, and z, but it's better to have your own suh
Lol this is false. I men are designed to desire multiple women. Humans would not have populated the earth if this wasn't the case. How many male species on the planet only mate with one female?
@@TELLMEWHOYAGOT k.
Wanting multiple wives has more to do with family and legacy. I want more children than one woman can give me, practically.
They need constant validation.
@@E.P.7131 And more than you can take care of! 🙄
Having “something on the side” is not polygamy 😒
Please help him lol
He wants a open relationship lol
polygon has several sides lol
Girl he’s a clown lol
@@JDMHaze no that is a open relationship. Poly is being FULLY committed to the 2 or more people you are with. They would all be main
A lot of male truck drivers are like this, they jump from bed to bed in different cities not wanting to be committed. And back home they have a whole wife and kids just living a double life 🤷🏽♀️
These type of relationships NEVER work!! He has no idea of the jealousy, wickedness, low vibration, and turmoil his life is headed for......😂😂😂
This dude is a selfish hypocrite. He needs to realize he doesn't make "Poly" type of relationship type of money. The women who would accept this arrangement expect to buy and do whatever they want. I am not dissing him for being a truck driver but c'mon. Why get married?
This poly thing is very common now and many of the brothas that are in it actually arent balling
He wants kids, that's why he wants to get married. It's the only reason I'd advise men to get married in these times, so the children have a secure, stable foundation to thrive in. Polyamory isn't the chaotic, sex-centered concept alot of people envision it to be. There are actual benefits.
@@bsanon4796 Raising children with two women instead of one mother who is the child's mother is unstable . In fact it is very dysfunctional. The only person benefitting is the man.
@@bsanon4796 The point of marriage is dedication. I'm not dissing Poly but what I am dissing is Poly with someone who doesn't have enough compensation. I myself , am old fashioned. I just want one really good one.
@@djTorchLive I disagree, but I get where you're coming from.
I love how Kendra wore his ass out in the end with that classy read. 👏🏽
Agreed!!
He wants a classy woman but No woman with class would ever want him.
Yessss.
Yet Kendra has no man or family. Bless her heart.
Multiple wives is polygamy; not polyamorous unless they're in other relationships as well.
He just sounds like a lustful teenager. Doesn't know real love.
Polygyny is multiple wives 🤔
Polygamy is a type of polyamory
I feel it's great that Kendra was able to buy her own Bently. She's a selfmade woman. I bought my own beamer and was so proud I didn't need my spouse's help. 100 percent me. Proud of you Kendra!!!
Thank you for expressing that about affording your own life. It was on point!!!
Am I understanding him right. The non black he’s with can do as she pleases, but when he gets with a black woman she can only be with him???
He won't be taking care of the non black one financially
@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 he said he provides for the non black financially🤷🏾♀️
Chile just insane all around CTFUUUUUUU
More average clowns thinking they're hugh Hefner 🤣🤡🤡
lol
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Facts 😂👍🏽🤣👍🏽😂
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Before he lies he says "so,so". He is one of the worst narcs there is. He had the nerve to tell the woman he is seeing and bringing him lunch, that he can't make her a wife bcuz shes Hispanic!? Ridiculous! ( I'm black)
He like a big 3 yr old
Something is off about him. He needs to join Kody from sister wives. Willing ladies there.
@@tmcurly I think he's paying for what he can't find within himself. He's got to find women with low self esteem that are delusional enough to feed into his ego but he himself doesn't feel worthy. It's not that he wants a poly relationship. It's that he wants to pay for one. The fact that he can't just get a woman to stay just because of who he is (which is common in poly relationships) speaks volumes. He doesn't feel worthy therefore he has to use his assets as a reasoning for a woman to stick around. Pretty pathetic if you ask me.
He is not looking for Love ❤️ He is looking to enslave (2) black women.
He was bold asf
@@soulshineSessions1 yes. And his emphasis on having 2 blk women is eerie. He will be extremely abusive. He actually hates blk women, that's where the weird logic comes from.
Kendra had me laughing when she was shouting to get the girl's attention. Hilarious!!
This guy is lost in his own reality, created by him, of course.
I love Kendra screaming to the woman in the back 😂… and to his question about a man paying everything idc what you got or what you pay for, a man’s character and how he treats me always comes first.
Yeah, us women got to look out for each other 👌
Kendra the fact that you bought your own Bentley is an accomplishment to all women. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ god bless you
BOSS!!!!
Still no husband, tho 🤷🏾♂️
A isn’t an Accomplishment it’s a liability. Reproduce, create and digging deep are accomplishments.
@@growstrong9657 your comment did not make any sense. So having a child is the only accomplishment a woman can have? OK👌
@@E.P.7131 she is in a relationship - not everyone wants to be married 👍
Loved the way you got him ALL the way together Kendra!
Agreed, love that she did it out of love..
He's honest so anyone who chooses to date him can't say they didn't know.
Kendra girl, your ability to keep a straight face is 👍🏽
I could not😹😹😹🤦🏾♀️🤡🤛🏾
He is truly the most trifling ass man I ever seen on the show
In other news, I’m loving the braids, Kendra!
Right! I love this look. I'm a little biased though
...I prefer more "natural" styles
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Right… they’re so pretty.. 🙏🏾❤️
Same here! Kendra could we get a 360 Kendra cam of your hair?
This is what I call not entertaining the fuckery 😂😂😂
This man is absolutely insane . He wants more than one woman but doesn’t want her going elsewhere with other men 👀 Mannnnnnn I’m sure u don’t have enough money to provide and expect that . Goodbye 👋
Right! Ppl don't see how crazy they are lol
He thinks he will live happily in AFRICA !!!! the lawless continent where he would be a "half breed" not blk enough for respect.
Exactly. While up in an Apt.
These type of men are a trip!
Kendra’s closing ‘argument’ was 🔥!! Go Kendra. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
This is how you hold a conversation. Two adults with opposing views who are able to be respectful, not talk over each other, take criticism, and end the conversation on a good tone. Love it.
Kendra u ate him up at the end CTFUUUUUUU u also spoke facts and were very transparent.
The way Kendra pulled out the Tisha Campbell in BOOMERANG as the neighbor “whoooo whooo girlfriend!!”😅
In short, he wants 21-30 year old bisexual baddies who have many options who are not used to providers.
But if he’s paying, I think he’ll have some options but won’t cheat or seek attention from elsewhere.
The 26 year old Latina is definitely wasting her youth on dealing with him after he said told her she wasn’t it. Women need to learn to let go and do what makes sense. It will make life exponentially easier.
Finding a women that will, have, or do have sex with women is easy. Even for a guy like him.
In Cali the men dont date black women ..they date latinas and others ..she probably has no dad in her life..most latinos dont bring unambiguous black men around anyway so she is probably dealing with other men in her community till she finds the one ..and getting money from him ..he think he up when he really not
He is exploiting her ignorance. That's what many American men do to foreign women.
@@R.Yvette.X. How is he exploiting her ignorance? He just told her he would never marry her and she’s still there. Maybe she’s there because she just wants to be there. Y’all won’t hold women accountable for nothing lol
@@faxxxovafeels The "getting married" part is not what she's ignorant about. She's too ignorant to find out how to obtain independence. Probably because she comes from a place that doesn't teach women how to be self sufficient. So if she doesn't know how to procure documentation, education, transportation and habitation, then she will remain ignorant. She will forever trade her "box" for the bare minimum.
Can he take care of multiple women emotionally, financially and physically? He doesn’t understand structured polyamorous relationships.
Right especially not the emotional part. He keeps harping on the physical and financial. Women are emotional beings and you want to add children boo?? ok then...
He’s not even thinking about anything other than financially.
Unfortunately since so much emphasis being put on money, some men think that’s all that’s needed.
Did yall ask him that question? Until it's confirmed that he cannot handle them emotionally you cannot say that definitively.
@@MrBrown-rm9zl Right!
@@ItsmeCR-g8j That's what the western world conditions people to prioritize.
So buying your own car makes it worth less? Cause a man didn’t buy it? I’m dying 😂
He thinks he’s going to support 3 women, himself and at least 3 kids on 6 figures. Get out of here 😂
This is exactly why TH-cam needs to reinstall the dislike counter thingy . ☹️
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Yeah but you would be disliking Kendra video, but I get it cause he slow 😭😭😭
@@nawlnottoday3677 Yeah that's true bc it's not her video. It's him.
Yes. There needs to be 2 dislike buttons. One button for the TH-camr and one guests like this.
Appreciate his honesty. It boils down to self control.. Sexual lust is never fulfilled🤷🏾♂️🤷🏾♂️
What do people mean when they say "Appreciate his honesty"? Are there liars on this show like that? 🤔
It doesn't have to be lust could just be biology. Men's testosterone makes us want multiple women. Times have changed where men are vilified for their natural biology
EXACTLY, but it’s bcuz most ppl can’t control what they it. Of course of factors come in to play..
These guys saying they want all these women are scatter brained and have no common sense 🙄😒
The flesh is never satisfied
1 Woman is enough what he's asking for will eventually backfire if he actually gets what he's asking for that's a recipe for disaster.
It's so refreshing hearing a man say this. I think most men get caught up in the fantasy and not the reality.
Yep I agree!
*cough* simp lol on god 💯😆
Yea he’s headed towards a cliff
Let this brother be great
I live for the eloquent shut downs..#respectfully . I love that you can have soft debates with ppl like him without it becoming explosive or disrespectful. I respect his honesty as well. and also his ability to articulate exactly how he is coming 2 the table..no deception...this show is great adult content that allows ppl with different views to exchange thoughts and opinions while still finding ppl that fit them...keep up the great work Kendra!
RUN LADIES RUN AND NEVER LOOK BACK...🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️🏃♀️
Why would any decent self loving woman think that this is ok? Unless she could have a second husband. Lots of romance books about two men or more sharing their woman. Lol
Yeah, but those men were white, I bet...
@@bsanon4796 😂 😂
I hear ya - denise!
I’m curious to see how he would be able to pull this off, marrying two or more women… has he lost his mind? It’s hard enough marrying one woman!
Good luck with all that, and to the women who are willing to go along with this! Because I don’t see any decent woman that actually respects herself doing this!
Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips
It’s a fair trade: resources for exclusivity. If anything I think he’s doing his wives a favour if he can actually afford to take care of them. If I was a woman, I would rather that than be broke, miserable and single.
You’re comparing romance books to real life…🤨😂
Kendra I’m 52 and married. When I say you are so dope… When I say you explained your purchase of the Bentley and read dude in the most professional way. Was absolutely astonishing. I’m so damn proud of you😃😃😃
right people worried about the wrong thing
Frank while i don't agree with him. Im 48 and trucking industry as well. Im in Vegas land of milk an honey. Strippers an Call girls. Kendra is an sexy old bird. An she's not the average woman buying a Bentley is cool but most women in this country can't buy a Bentley maybe 99% of them an yes us truck drivers can afford a Bentley most of us can we just don't
@@blackamerica5974 let him simp in peace
@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 i got it. justs makes these women think they are more valuable than what they are some men don't see that he could be a hen pecked husband who lets his wife kick his ass bro he might need help hahaha i have 4 daughters they have value to me NOW they mean nothing to other men until an when they get married
@@blackamerica5974 you said all that to say you can afford a Bentley?
Homie is a truck driver meaning he is on the road in that truck a minimum of 10hrs a day. He ain’t going to know what his woman or women are doing😂 He shouldn’t worry about any hearsay getting back to him he needs to focus on getting his 💰 and elevating himself to the position of owning the truck not driving it.
Thank you!!!
Facts!!! 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾
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How do u know he doesn't own his own truck?
@@amarelogan7081 his scarcity mindset and fear of losing his woman n or women to another man tells me he moves fearfully. Most people will do more to avoid pain, than they will to gain pleasure. He is most people. He definitely works for someone else.
There you have it ladies… it only takes ONE ☝🏽 woman to feed an ego enough where a man can believe that he can have his own personal brothel. 🤷🏾♀️ LOVE YOUR RESPONSE AT THE END KENDRA!!!
I really appreciate his honesty WHICH gives me the choice to RUN....Thats allllll
I've been married for 10 years and with my husband for 14 years so I haven't dated in quite some time, but I'd like to know, is it really this hard out here that this below average man would really think women would sign up for this
@Random Thoughts, darling it is a dog eat dog world. PLEASE stay within your loving marriage. It ain't nothing nice. I am a black 50 plus women, I believe in marriage and If you can make it work, PLEASE do your best. Peace n Blessings.
Yes it is .
Girl I'm married too and I am happy to not be in that pool. Lol
Truth is it’s nothing like it was even once you married ten years ago. Porn and social media has ruined Dating to an extent. Everyone wants the 0.0001 and it’s not enough of that to go around. Glad you are married. The marriage rate is dropping more as time goes on especially in the black community.
Yes. Some of these women have become very desperate just to say they have a man and he wants only BW because he knows they are obsessed with being in a relationship or feel useless.
The type of situation he wants...is literally what BM do. The difference is, he's verbalizing & keep'n it a buck abt his intentions whereas other mf'as just do it & nobody knows anything about anything & thinking they're the only one.
He needs to do this outside of the United States if he wants both women to be his wives. Utah has outlawed a man having multiple wives.
This is true @Karma
@@rm5282 he doesn't want to marry legally and there ABSOLUTELY ARE women like this. I've dated a few and met many. I'm not saying it's sustainable long-term because I've never seen it but ppl calling him delusional is weird honestly. Especially nowadays
This is true! A lot of men live this way today (through deceit - not open and honest like he is)
@@tyroniussupapookiemcleroy1403 this type of thing was prevalent in Utah but within Mormon rules. This guy wants a harem. He should live in the Arabian desert. Eventually, the women will jokey for position in his life and without good structure, someone is going to suffer a bad situation.
So you’re ok with sleeping with and wasting time of other women of different races, but doesn’t see them as wives? If that isn’t a fetish, idk what is
Tell him Kendra 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽
I'm glad I pay my own bills 😂
Right!
He's saying there's no way I can compete with you on income so there's nothing I can have as leverage over you to accept my lifestyle
Ladies that's why many men despise successful women because it makes the playing field more balanced. Furthermore makes me understand more of why women decades ago stuck un unhappy marriages because they didn't have means of financial security.
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Bring back the days of old
Men can't start families without women so we need yall as well which automatically gives yall leverage, especially with the way family courts operate. Women often become flat out jerks when they earn as much or more than their men. Many women cant handle being in that position and belittle/disrespect their men once they earn more money.
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@@rehsa2194 its just a taste of what many men were dishing out previous generations with women. Using their power of being in position to provide financially to keep women in a position to accept anything. Welp times have change and men better understand those options aren't appealing or needed anymore.
Kendra be on it! 🤣 I love it! Tell on these busters girl!
Not smacking his mouth like that!! Keyword: AUDACITY
😫 so annoying
@@skwilson34 ain't it!!
Glad I seen this comment💯💯💯💯💯
It's all about RESPECT! Preach Kendra ❤️
LMAOOOO @13:00 if she does not get her tail out in these streets and level up on this young nutcase! LOL
RUN BW, RUN.......for the hills, and through traffic if need be.....'Dust, will ALWAYS be 'Dust'. Listen to the words coming out of his mouth...looking for a BW to USE...RUN.
This!!
Facts!!
My thing is.. men who want a wife and side pieces, do they still expect thier wives to be loving and warm towards them? Do they expect sex from the wife too? Or maybe they don't care about that? They say they have side pieces because of thier insatiable sex hunger and the wife should accept it because he financially provides. The solution would be to get a women who's main focus is the money. She will not care what you're doing when you're outside the home, as long as the bills are paid.
All of this!
Yes they do lol
Seriously! I can cook, clean, and maybe even have sex with someone in a business type arrangement, but my actual feelings will be cold, and it’ll be palpable. There’s a tenderness and intimacy that’s present when you’re with someone you truly love and trust that men miss out on when they want something so uneven and transactional.
I read the title but, I wasn’t prepared for this level of insanity. Yes, he’s being honest and upfront with his wants but…WOW!
Boo, boo, tomato tomato 🙃
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@@ItsmeCR-g8j 😆
Why is it insanity? There are black American women sharing the same man.
I have to rock with the ladies on this one. I give y'all hell most of the time but this guy is delusional. Please avoid men like this because eventually something is going to cook off.
@@rm5282 😊🤣👏🏽👏🏽
Yeess Kendra!!! Ate his ass up!! 👏🏽👏🏽
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏 yassss Kendra, you set him STRAIGHT ✋✋✋❤
I'd be way more amazed by a woman that went out and grind earnestly to gain her fortune. I can respect that.
Basically he know he can only have ONE legal wife and all the others will be side chicks wives. Are y'all ladies down? 😂
No ma'am! We don't want him, pass his ass to the White, Hispanic, Asian and other minorities! 🚮🚫
Congratulations on the Bentley, Kendra!!!! 🙌🏿
Agreed!!
What he is speaking of is not LOVE it’s LUST!!! Smh
Kendra is so real and I appreciate that so much.