I'm an old Texas dyke and I have been through it all. Every kind of abuse (rape, beatings, rejection) and am now joyously married to a wonderful barrister. It has been a hell of a struggle to get here! We, as lesbians, are systematically being erased. It has happened before and, if we aren't paying attention, it will happen again. I'm very proud to contribute to your group, both through financial and social support. Keep strong!
Women who 'come out' don't even come out as lesbian anymore, they come out as 'queer'. I've responded by wanting to say lesbian as much as humanely possible.
@@AdaGeddonSame. I have no interest in being dissolved into the faceless grey muck of the "queer/genderqueer" machine, where words can mean whatever you want them to. Holding faster than ever to lesbian, butch, tomboy, same SEX attraction, as well as bringing back transsexual. My new pet peeve is people redefining historical figures as "trans" or "genderqueer", whether butch lesbians like Stormé DeLarverie or Anne Lister, or women who just wanted the freedom men had.
I fully support you Jenny. You’re such a brave woman.. I think you’ll find that not only the LGB alliance support you, but the majority of heterosexual women do as well. Keep going.
Transphobia is rooted in misogyny and also did you know that the LGB Alliance also voted against banning conversion therapy for gay people? Yes they did and you know why they did it, it's because that ban on gay conversion therapy also included banning conversion therapy on us trans people. DUHH!!! If you are gonna ban gay conversion therapy you have to ban trans conversion therapy as well as it should be. This shows weather you are pro-conversion therapy or not.😊😊😊😊
transphobia is also rooted in misogyny and you are only supporting bigots that will not help you for helping them discriminate against us. What do you think these neo nazi gender criticals are gonna do whaen they start getting more of what they want?@@Garbeaux.
As a gay man, I am really sad to see how visibly upset Jenny is but be assured you have a lot of support. I feel a lot of people do not understand how intimidating these men can be. I was walking through Hyde Park with my boyfriend and we came across a Let Women Speak event. I was shocked at how the men were really going out of their way to intimidate the women. One of them came up to me and was in my face Unfortunately he misjudged me as I am not someone who backs down. He started but when I whispered in his ear if he did not move within 20 seconds what would I do to him he ran off. With these people, you cannot debate or be reasonable. I am so grateful for the LGB alliance and also other women like Jenny who are making a stand.
It's difficult to take transgenderism seriously as a civil rights movement when "lesbians are allowed to not want to have sex with us" is something they consider to be a major issue
Transphobic simply means not giving bullies what they demand from you as part of your rights and your boundaries. It’s a meaningless slur thrown by narcissists at good people asserting reasonable boundaries. I’m straight but utterly support every lesbian’s right to their freedom of association without this harassment. Keep going Jenny, these activists have nothing of substance - only the fear they try to instil.
Gender ideology is a threat to LGB rights. We are same sex attracted people, you can’t erase sex. Our attraction isn’t identifying business, we don’t “identify” gay-bi. Sex matters
Keep going Jenny! The trans community needs to start calling out their own people abusing real women! If that was not a trans woman doing it, the me too movement would have a field day with them. This not calling this in appropriate behavior out needs to stop! When someone is sexually inappropriate, they need to be stopped. Often women have already be the victim of sexual assault and this only makes matters worse! When do women count?!? This just continues the patriarchy!!
@@elizabethwhite1068Agree it mostly affects women 100 percent but straight women are absolutely claiming to be gay men as well an invading gay men’s spaces.
Know that men and women from all walks of life and from around the world support you and your right to women only spaces. Wishing you love and peace throughout your life. ❤
I’m so sorry to hear about the harassment you have received while you had set out and succeeded in doing a service for other women like yourself. You come across as a self aware, empathetic woman. Best wishes. Stand together women 💜
It's so sad young lesbians can't even go to lesbian only events anymore in the UK. Jenny has done *nothing* wrong. There's plenty of events for trans people nowadays. Why are people so enraged at lesbians wanting their own spaces and events???
They don't like that we won't allow who we are to be erased or dissolved for the sake of the "transgender/queer/genderqueer" machine. We are transphobic for staking a claim to our own identity as same SEX attracted. And I now use "identity" with caution because it's now something you can choose or unchoose, but I don't know what other word to use.
Did you know that the LGB Alliance voted against banning gay conversion therapy? They did it because it because they knew that banning gay conversion therapy also included banning trans conversion therapy as well. If you are gonna ban gay conversion therapy for gay people you have to ban trans conversion therapy as well as it should be and then we will see if you are pro-conversion therapy or not.😂😂😂😂😂
@@thejennywatson Great to hear that. Hopefully as more of us report these death threats and harassment as the crimes they are, these "activists" will see true consequences for their violence and hateful entitlement.
@@stefanig4834 it's here already. I've visited a few men's health channels on urology and we are now people with penises or sperm givers. What about the add in London for the bathhouse showing two men and a woman in a binder. I can't imagine seeing a woman in a gay bathhouse. I hear grinder is full of women in the large cities at least. My employer has put tampon dispensers in the men's public and private washrooms basically inviting women to enter one that's quite dangerous. Dangerous in this case for the women but thank you no, I don't want women in my toilet.
Harassment and stalking Harassment and stalking are classed as offences under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997 and (where the offending is racially or religiously aggravated) the Crime and Disorder Act 1998. Both offences relate to behaviour that is repeated and unwanted. Harassment is behaviour intended to cause a person alarm or distress. The behaviour must occur on more than one occasion but it does not have the be the same kind of behaviour on each occasion. Common harassment incidents include: texts, voicemails, letters or emails comments or threats standing outside someone’s house or driving past it Harassment involving putting people in fear of violence is a more serious offence. It involves two or more harassment incidents that leave the victim fearing that violence will be used against them. Stalking involves persistently following someone. It does not necessarily mean following them in person and can include watching, spying or forcing contact with the victim through any means, including through social media. Stalking involving fear of violence or serious alarm or distress is a more serious offence. It involves two or more occasions that have caused the victim to fear violence will be used against them or had a substantial adverse effect on their day-to-day activities, even where the fear is not explicitly of violence. Evidence that the stalking has caused this level of fear could include the victim: changing their route to work, work patterns or employment to avoid contact with the stalker putting additional home security measures in place moving home suffering physical or mental ill-health If the offence is harassment (putting people in fear of violence) or stalking (involving fear of violence or serious alarm or distress): the maximum sentence is 10 years’ custody if racially or religiously aggravated, the maximum sentence is 14 years’ custody
I'm in a few secret WhatsApp groups where women only events are planned and publicised in order to avoid the attention of these scumbag transactivists Lesbians meeting in secret in 2023...this is where "Be Kind" has taken us Sending all the strength and love to you Jenny
It's a bit hard to support a group that say they will gang r*pe you if you disagree with them. They can just make their own dating event if they wanted to, not disturb hers.
It baffles me that I’m supposed to hear what that letter said, and think those who sent it are the “good guys”. They’re homophobes and misogynists, plain and simple. Thank you Jenny for standing up for us lesbians, and I am so sorry you’ve faced the backlash you have. Stay strong! 💜
This is terrible. The problem is many trans identified males don’t have gender dysphoria. Nobody with gender dysphoria would move on a woman in a bathroom like that bc over aggressiveness is a male characteristic. Only misogynists think they have a right to women’s spaces. It’s so easy to tell the difference between an actual sufferer to one that has a fetish. Gender ideologues think you don’t need to be gender dysphoric to be trans. Like wtf? If you don’t hate your body why would you medicate it with harmful chemicals and cut off healthy body parts?! Make it make sense.
The idea that a man who actually has dysphoria wouldn't do something like that doesn't truly make sense to me. Having dysphoria doesn't mean that people can't be shitty or commit crimes, and trans identified men are still biologically male whether they have dysphoria or not. I understand the impulse to defend trans people who don't harrass women, but it seems desperate to say that people with dysphoria would never do something like this. You truly never know, because hating your body and wishing to have the sexual characteristics of the opposite sex doesn't impact your morality in any way.
@@espinabrau6672 I’m not taking up for anyone. Are you seriously saying men who get off on thinking of themselves as women wouldn’t do this? Or what about all the sex offenders in prison who are now all of a sudden trans? A male with gender dysphoria is typically meek and mild as a general rule. You think once that meek and mild male takes blockers and estrogen they’re gonna start harassing women in bathrooms? Ok. I can feel sympathy for actual gender dysphorics and still call out the rest of the nonsense.
I have donated to every legal case fund I have become aware of challenging the oppression of dissent towards gender ideology, and will continue to do so. Not because I am LGB (I'm not) or a feminist (I'm not), but because I want this to remain a free country!
It the men who hate. They are allowed to get away with it by the general male population that doesn't believe in accountability except as it applies to women.
Not quite. Unfortunately, it's mainly young women who fuel this 'inclusivity' and 'safe space' nightmare across our broken institutions, particularly universities.
Something gone wrong when a lesbian is not allowed to meet other lesbians in a safe environment. The trans community is letting itself down by what seems a large section being very aggressive and intolerant. There are gay men, lesbian women, trans men and trans women. They are all separate groups and need to be able to organise without harassments and threats by another section. Why such intolerance?
Now, more than ever, we all need to speak up against this absurd. Thank you for speaking up Jenny, you are not alone, there are thousands of Lesbians, gays, bissexuals and even some trans people who think like us. If sexuality was not about SEX it would not be called SEXuality.
Sad story, those threats that were made against Jenny show exactly what some of those people were like, obviously her trans friends that she keeps in touch with are not like that. No one i know would be interested in lesbian speed dating nights .
As a straight, asian father of one, I fully support LGB Alliance. Orientation is in the DNA, nothing can change that. However, being trans is a confusing choice. Trans are confused people
It's all about consent, really. Every person has the right to give access or deny access to their body to people of their choice. And that choice has to be free from any other considerations other than the person's personal preference. Discrimination is harming someone’s rights simply because of who they are or what they believe. There is no discrimination if you don't want to be with another person for whatever reason, because absolutely no one for whatever reason is entitled to have access to another person's affection or body. Every single touch without consent is SA, there is absolutely no scenario where this is different, no matter why a person says no. NO! MEANS! NO! Every if or but is undermining consent and enabling SA. It isn't racist to say I do not want with this person of a different skin colour. Because racism means that person is denied something they have a right to access, and since no one under no circumstances is entitled to any other person's consent or access to their body, there can't be racism, transphobia, or whatever else, if you say: 'no, I do not want you to touch me.' This is hard to accept for many. But it is one of our most fundamental rights, that can under no circumstances be weakened. Body autonomy was gained under strenuous circumstances, after a long, tiresome and humiliating fight. It is important for everyone. So if you feel slighted when your desired person denies you access to themselves, it's time to reevaluate yourself. Why do you want to force a person to accept your touch after they said no? What is wrong with you? Don't even ask why. This is the one thing you just HAVE to accept, there is no reasoning, you have no right to ask why, because NO. MEANS. NO. Fullstop.
@@vanizorcbiology is actually much more complicated than the x and y middle school basics. Also why does somebody have to be a certain sex (physical trait) to identify with a certain gender (social construct)? Are they not allowed to express themselves or feel the way they feel?
@@ilikespaghetti4458 People can express themselves however they want, that was my point. A man can like baking and wearing dresses, and he is no less of a man because of that. A woman can play sports and have short hair, and she is no less of a woman. I'm saying that men and women who don't conform to restrictive and arbitrary gender stereotypes don't have to identify as the opposite gender because of their "non-conformity" - rather they should embrace it and express themselves however they want regardless of societal gender stereotypes. There are gender cultists out there who believe that "men/women who do/think _____ are the opposite gender", and I'm saying that this ideology is sexist, regressive, and harmful. It goes against the very gender equality and feminist movements that we've painstakingly built for decades.
I find this series of topics a little bit "off". There were lesbian bars in Soho, they existed for years, but the vibe in there, was that NO non-lesbians were welcomed. This made visiting there, even with lesbian friends REALLY off-putting, so we'd usually go to other bars. Unsurprisingly, the bar shut down due to lack of business, you'know, because of the UNWELCOMING ATMOSPHERE. I always felt it odd and little stupid that the last of the last lesbian areas all shut down, and all for similar reasons. But watching this video, it just reminds me of how I felt when I entered a lesbian bar. You have other events more commonly, probably because they are more welcoming across the board maybe? BTW I also get harassed online often, and you know what, its usually a person pretending to be a trans activist to stir up trouble, and even got hacked, which when I followed the threads, lead me back to an American church, so yeah. Unless you actually cite evidence, you are spreading hate without any true evidence behind it.
Which lesbian bar in Soho are you claiming had so few customers it had to close? And are you not aware that Soho rents tripled making even longstanding institutions and the most loved shops and cafes close down? And the general decline of all LGBT venues across the capital? You seem to not be citing any evidence and also seem unfamiliar with the scene, but as a straight person maybe this is understandable.
@@whisperingleaves As I said, an increase in rents is cited. The bar was always busy when I went there. It's hard to bridge the gap when your rent goes up by 60k per year overnight.
@@admi1191 I don't really understand why you are commenting. They couldn't keep up with the cost, and they were sold to a gay bar chain, which is still running to this day. I literally am not really required to supply more evidence lol. Do you want to discuss anything else? If not have a nice day!
Jenny's events aren't lesbian events though, just marketed that way. They are for bi women. Some lesbians who donated to her events rly feel scammed as they wanted a lesbian only space, as that how it was advertised, just 2 find out it wasn't. Be true in when advertising your spaces and nights Jenny, please. It isn't fair to lesbians.
@@helendancelot The events were advertised to look like they were lesbian only. Lesbians donated. It was then revealed they are for lesbians and bi women. Some Lesbians have been used by bi women and are screaming for a space of their own. They thought they had that with Jenny and got fooled. If it's a lesbian and bi space, say so. All her interviews with Bindel etc say it's a lesbian space, not a lesbian and bi space.
Nobody is arguing that individual or specific lesbians have to date trans people, but the issue comes in when people declare that dating trans people revokes your lesbian label. That is what is happening here and what isn’t being discussed.
What does it take for you people to leave homosexual women alone? We are not attracted to biological males, nor to biological males who say they are women. Your ideology does not work. Get used to it.
No, that just isn’t the issue here. It is possible to believe both (1) that lesbians who form relationships with trans women are still lesbians; (2) that biological women should be allowed to form their own spaces.
The connection to The Free Speech Union again, though Andrew Doyle (LGB Alliance) might give some clues as to why his story is making into the usual media channels. None of this makes any sense in the real world. In the real world of lesbian dating and contemporary queer culture there are many events in London alone for trans women who want to be included. No trans woman l know would go somewhere they didn’t feel welcome, life is hard enough.
Hey Freda, bet you noticed a lot less lesbians in Manchester this weekend, apart from a few confused kids of course. Stop advocating this bs - lesbians don't support you and neither do the locals!
You seem to be entirely missing the point that this is also about the Liberty of biological women to form their own spaces without facing harassment and intimidation.
Connection to free speech is bad how? One side wants freedom of speech and association, the other doxxes and threatens a woman for wanting to hold a lesbian only event. As you yourself have pointed out there are plenty of events for men who want to bother lesbians. Why the hate for one place that doesn’t want you to take over.
The only solution is to promote the event honestly. It is a gender critical lesbian dating event. Trying to frame this as a lesbian issue is disingenuous and not in line with statistics and anecdotal evidence that show strong support from lesbians. This is a gender critical issue. Which most would argue is a transphobia issue. Lesbians are being erased and harmed by an ideology, but it isn’t gender identity.
I don't see anything wrong with having a place for females who only want to date other females. I wouldn't call it "gender critical" so much as "sex specific". If there are females who are open to dating others based on their gender, not their sex, there are plenty of places they can do that.
Gender ideology is literally what’s harming us. And it revolves around gender identity. If you’re gender non conforming, then great. Cut the gender identity nonsense, you’re just a non conforming male aka a man.
Sex is something we do in the bedroom Duhh!! So please keep it in the bedroom but who am I to tell anyone that coz I do Porn for a living and I know what sex is ok I do it all the time on cam.@@Poecilia1963
No, being a lesbian is being an exclusively same sex attracted woman. It has nothing to do with political views. Your ideology discriminates against lesbian, by definition.
I'm an old Texas dyke and I have been through it all. Every kind of abuse (rape, beatings, rejection) and am now joyously married to a wonderful barrister. It has been a hell of a struggle to get here! We, as lesbians, are systematically being erased. It has happened before and, if we aren't paying attention, it will happen again. I'm very proud to contribute to your group, both through financial and social support. Keep strong!
Women who 'come out' don't even come out as lesbian anymore, they come out as 'queer'. I've responded by wanting to say lesbian as much as humanely possible.
Very sad about the entire thing
@@AdaGeddonSame. I have no interest in being dissolved into the faceless grey muck of the "queer/genderqueer" machine, where words can mean whatever you want them to. Holding faster than ever to lesbian, butch, tomboy, same SEX attraction, as well as bringing back transsexual. My new pet peeve is people redefining historical figures as "trans" or "genderqueer", whether butch lesbians like Stormé DeLarverie or Anne Lister, or women who just wanted the freedom men had.
I fully support you Jenny. You’re such a brave woman.. I think you’ll find that not only the LGB alliance support you, but the majority of heterosexual women do as well. Keep going.
Misogyny and homophobia alive and well and being supported in broad daylight
Transphobia is rooted in misogyny and also did you know that the LGB Alliance also voted against banning conversion therapy for gay people? Yes they did and you know why they did it, it's because that ban on gay conversion therapy also included banning conversion therapy on us trans people. DUHH!!! If you are gonna ban gay conversion therapy you have to ban trans conversion therapy as well as it should be. This shows weather you are pro-conversion therapy or not.😊😊😊😊
Exactly this!
Agreed. I use misogyny and homophobia very sparingly bc they’re both so overused but that it truly what it is.
transphobia is also rooted in misogyny and you are only supporting bigots that will not help you for helping them discriminate against us. What do you think these neo nazi gender criticals are gonna do whaen they start getting more of what they want?@@Garbeaux.
Supported by the political left no less.
As a gay man, I am really sad to see how visibly upset Jenny is but be assured you have a lot of support. I feel a lot of people do not understand how intimidating these men can be. I was walking through Hyde Park with my boyfriend and we came across a Let Women Speak event. I was shocked at how the men were really going out of their way to intimidate the women. One of them came up to me and was in my face Unfortunately he misjudged me as I am not someone who backs down. He started but when I whispered in his ear if he did not move within 20 seconds what would I do to him he ran off. With these people, you cannot debate or be reasonable. I am so grateful for the LGB alliance and also other women like Jenny who are making a stand.
It's difficult to take transgenderism seriously as a civil rights movement when "lesbians are allowed to not want to have sex with us" is something they consider to be a major issue
It’s an uncivil rights movement! I don’t consent to participating in anyone’s fetish
Transphobic simply means not giving bullies what they demand from you as part of your rights and your boundaries. It’s a meaningless slur thrown by narcissists at good people asserting reasonable boundaries.
I’m straight but utterly support every lesbian’s right to their freedom of association without this harassment. Keep going Jenny, these activists have nothing of substance - only the fear they try to instil.
I prefer the term transhater. It captures my feelings towards them better.
The far left does the same thing in regards to calling someone “racist” and it’s heartbreaking and infuriating.
Gender ideology is a threat to LGB rights. We are same sex attracted people, you can’t erase sex. Our attraction isn’t identifying business, we don’t “identify” gay-bi. Sex matters
I don’t like dick either but I don’t build my whole victim complex around it
100% agree!
Yes they are two separate civil rights movements with different causes.
Leftist woke ideology uses 'intersectionality' to blur these lines of causes.
more power to you Jenny and the lgb alliance. entitled men need to be told no
Thank you for your ongoing bravery Jenny, and sharing your story - I'll be sure to share it too!
Keep going Jenny! The trans community needs to start calling out their own people abusing real women! If that was not a trans woman doing it, the me too movement would have a field day with them. This not calling this in appropriate behavior out needs to stop! When someone is sexually inappropriate, they need to be stopped. Often women have already be the victim of sexual assault and this only makes matters worse! When do women count?!? This just continues the patriarchy!!
Too right! Thank you for your words x
It's always interesting to me that this fight is 95% happening on the female side of things. That can't be a coincidence.
@@elizabethwhite1068Agree it mostly affects women 100 percent but straight women are absolutely claiming to be gay men as well an invading gay men’s spaces.
@@elizabethwhite1068 It certainly isn’t.
LGB's everywhere support you Jenny!!
And straight people too.
Know that men and women from all walks of life and from around the world support you and your right to women only spaces. Wishing you love and peace throughout your life. ❤
I’m so sorry to hear about the harassment you have received while you had set out and succeeded in doing a service for other women like yourself. You come across as a self aware, empathetic woman. Best wishes. Stand together women 💜
I support Jenny and LGB Alliance. Same sex attracted are being called bigots for not buying into gender ideology. Keep fighting for LGB rights.
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It's so sad young lesbians can't even go to lesbian only events anymore in the UK. Jenny has done *nothing* wrong. There's plenty of events for trans people nowadays. Why are people so enraged at lesbians wanting their own spaces and events???
They don't like that we won't allow who we are to be erased or dissolved for the sake of the "transgender/queer/genderqueer" machine. We are transphobic for staking a claim to our own identity as same SEX attracted. And I now use "identity" with caution because it's now something you can choose or unchoose, but I don't know what other word to use.
They hate women for being what they can never be and they can’t stand being left out of anything. If they’re not let in they’ll shut it down.
Transgenderism is inherently misogynistic and even homophobic.
@LGB Alliance, please help Jenny report this harassment to the police. The letter will have fingerprints on it, for example.
Already reported, thankfully being taken seriously
Did you know that the LGB Alliance voted against banning gay conversion therapy? They did it because it because they knew that banning gay conversion therapy also included banning trans conversion therapy as well. If you are gonna ban gay conversion therapy for gay people you have to ban trans conversion therapy as well as it should be and then we will see if you are pro-conversion therapy or not.😂😂😂😂😂
@@thejennywatson Great to hear that. Hopefully as more of us report these death threats and harassment as the crimes they are, these "activists" will see true consequences for their violence and hateful entitlement.
BRAVO 🎉 Gay men support Lesbian Woman - We understand completely and We will fight this with You 🙏
Gay man here offering support.
We should support because gender ideology is coming for us next
@@stefanig4834 it's here already. I've visited a few men's health channels on urology and we are now people with penises or sperm givers. What about the add in London for the bathhouse showing two men and a woman in a binder. I can't imagine seeing a woman in a gay bathhouse. I hear grinder is full of women in the large cities at least. My employer has put tampon dispensers in the men's public and private washrooms basically inviting women to enter one that's quite dangerous. Dangerous in this case for the women but thank you no, I don't want women in my toilet.
It already has@@stefanig4834
@@stefanig4834 What's wrong with trans men?
Harassment and stalking
Harassment and stalking are classed as offences under the Protection from Harassment Act 1997 and (where the offending is racially or religiously aggravated) the Crime and Disorder Act 1998. Both offences relate to behaviour that is repeated and unwanted.
Harassment is behaviour intended to cause a person alarm or distress. The behaviour must occur on more than one occasion but it does not have the be the same kind of behaviour on each occasion. Common harassment incidents include:
texts, voicemails, letters or emails
comments or threats
standing outside someone’s house or driving past it
Harassment involving putting people in fear of violence is a more serious offence. It involves two or more harassment incidents that leave the victim fearing that violence will be used against them.
Stalking involves persistently following someone. It does not necessarily mean following them in person and can include watching, spying or forcing contact with the victim through any means, including through social media.
Stalking involving fear of violence or serious alarm or distress is a more serious offence. It involves two or more occasions that have caused the victim to fear violence will be used against them or had a substantial adverse effect on their day-to-day activities, even where the fear is not explicitly of violence. Evidence that the stalking has caused this level of fear could include the victim:
changing their route to work, work patterns or employment to avoid contact with the stalker
putting additional home security measures in place
moving home
suffering physical or mental ill-health
If the offence is harassment (putting people in fear of violence) or stalking (involving fear of violence or serious alarm or distress):
the maximum sentence is 10 years’ custody
if racially or religiously aggravated, the maximum sentence is 14 years’ custody
Well done to Jenny for getting the event reinstated and to the LGBA for supporting her.
I’m so sorry that happened to Jenny. This is disgusting. Hope she keeps strong
From one lesbian to another. Thank you speaking up. Plenty of us here fighting with you. Keep up the good work.
Trans rights are human rights 🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️🏳️⚧️
The other side has no argument so they resort to threats and intimidation.
Thank you Jenny, please keep doing what you are doing and don’t allow males to bully you.
I'm in a few secret WhatsApp groups where women only events are planned and publicised in order to avoid the attention of these scumbag transactivists
Lesbians meeting in secret in 2023...this is where "Be Kind" has taken us
Sending all the strength and love to you Jenny
This really is plain old bullying. Let’s call this out in simple terms for what it is.
And this is why I am proud to support LGB Alliance. Rock on!
This is so depressing. I'm so sorry, Jenny.
It's a bit hard to support a group that say they will gang r*pe you if you disagree with them. They can just make their own dating event if they wanted to, not disturb hers.
Thank you LGBA. Unbelievable what is happening to lesbians and gay men...
Well done for standing up and saying NO to males in women spaces.
This is disgusting. Jenny you aren’t transphobic-you want to keep our spaces SAFE.
This is what happens when you get in the way of a man and his kink.
It baffles me that I’m supposed to hear what that letter said, and think those who sent it are the “good guys”. They’re homophobes and misogynists, plain and simple.
Thank you Jenny for standing up for us lesbians, and I am so sorry you’ve faced the backlash you have. Stay strong! 💜
This is terrible. The problem is many trans identified males don’t have gender dysphoria. Nobody with gender dysphoria would move on a woman in a bathroom like that bc over aggressiveness is a male characteristic. Only misogynists think they have a right to women’s spaces. It’s so easy to tell the difference between an actual sufferer to one that has a fetish. Gender ideologues think you don’t need to be gender dysphoric to be trans. Like wtf? If you don’t hate your body why would you medicate it with harmful chemicals and cut off healthy body parts?! Make it make sense.
The idea that a man who actually has dysphoria wouldn't do something like that doesn't truly make sense to me. Having dysphoria doesn't mean that people can't be shitty or commit crimes, and trans identified men are still biologically male whether they have dysphoria or not. I understand the impulse to defend trans people who don't harrass women, but it seems desperate to say that people with dysphoria would never do something like this. You truly never know, because hating your body and wishing to have the sexual characteristics of the opposite sex doesn't impact your morality in any way.
@@espinabrau6672 I’m not taking up for anyone. Are you seriously saying men who get off on thinking of themselves as women wouldn’t do this? Or what about all the sex offenders in prison who are now all of a sudden trans? A male with gender dysphoria is typically meek and mild as a general rule. You think once that meek and mild male takes blockers and estrogen they’re gonna start harassing women in bathrooms? Ok. I can feel sympathy for actual gender dysphorics and still call out the rest of the nonsense.
I have donated to every legal case fund I have become aware of challenging the oppression of dissent towards gender ideology, and will continue to do so.
Not because I am LGB (I'm not) or a feminist (I'm not), but because I want this to remain a free country!
It the men who hate. They are allowed to get away with it by the general male population that doesn't believe in accountability except as it applies to women.
Not quite. Unfortunately, it's mainly young women who fuel this 'inclusivity' and 'safe space' nightmare across our broken institutions, particularly universities.
No - the majority of Trans activists are actually woman. Woman allowed this, perpetuated this stupidity and have brought this on themselves.
Something gone wrong when a lesbian is not allowed to meet other lesbians in a safe environment. The trans community is letting itself down by what seems a large section being very aggressive and intolerant. There are gay men, lesbian women, trans men and trans women. They are all separate groups and need to be able to organise without harassments and threats by another section. Why such intolerance?
Jenny's courage is an inspiration! Kisses from Portugal 😘
I live in Portugal, do you have any links regarding how self ID is going here?
Standing with you 💜🤍💚
Thank you for what your doing. ❤✊️
Allison Bailey, a barrister at Garden Court Chambers
Solidarity always.
STRAIGHT MALE. I fully stand with the LGB Alliance. And thank your for saying that there are ONLY 2 GENDERS!!.
Now, more than ever, we all need to speak up against this absurd.
Thank you for speaking up Jenny, you are not alone, there are thousands of Lesbians, gays, bissexuals and even some trans people who think like us. If sexuality was not about SEX it would not be called SEXuality.
I cried. How can they get away with this and the night cancelled, so vile and unjust!
Imagine homoSEXuals being shamed for wanting to be with people of the same sex...
Try to do ONE good thing for womankind and out come the threats. SMDH
Sad story, those threats that were made against Jenny show exactly what some of those people were like, obviously her trans friends that she keeps in touch with are not like that.
No one i know would be interested in lesbian speed dating nights .
Thank you for saying this
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I am a straight white male, and I fully support y'all. Now let's see what kind of hate I get.
As a straight, asian father of one, I fully support LGB Alliance. Orientation is in the DNA, nothing can change that. However, being trans is a confusing choice. Trans are confused people
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❤❤❤ am intersex..so on ' the outer' with almost every one except ' gay women' ..how's 💖 that work?
It's all about consent, really. Every person has the right to give access or deny access to their body to people of their choice. And that choice has to be free from any other considerations other than the person's personal preference. Discrimination is harming someone’s rights simply because of who they are or what they believe. There is no discrimination if you don't want to be with another person for whatever reason, because absolutely no one for whatever reason is entitled to have access to another person's affection or body. Every single touch without consent is SA, there is absolutely no scenario where this is different, no matter why a person says no. NO! MEANS! NO! Every if or but is undermining consent and enabling SA. It isn't racist to say I do not want with this person of a different skin colour. Because racism means that person is denied something they have a right to access, and since no one under no circumstances is entitled to any other person's consent or access to their body, there can't be racism, transphobia, or whatever else, if you say: 'no, I do not want you to touch me.'
This is hard to accept for many. But it is one of our most fundamental rights, that can under no circumstances be weakened. Body autonomy was gained under strenuous circumstances, after a long, tiresome and humiliating fight. It is important for everyone. So if you feel slighted when your desired person denies you access to themselves, it's time to reevaluate yourself. Why do you want to force a person to accept your touch after they said no? What is wrong with you? Don't even ask why. This is the one thing you just HAVE to accept, there is no reasoning, you have no right to ask why, because NO. MEANS. NO. Fullstop.
yeah. but if transgender women are into women, where else should they go to speeddate?
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Good. Deserved to be banned for your hatred. Do better.
"Hatred"? lmao you mean "reality" right? Men playing dress up are still men, with XY chromosomes.
@@vanizorcbiology is actually much more complicated than the x and y middle school basics. Also why does somebody have to be a certain sex (physical trait) to identify with a certain gender (social construct)? Are they not allowed to express themselves or feel the way they feel?
@@ilikespaghetti4458 People can express themselves however they want, that was my point. A man can like baking and wearing dresses, and he is no less of a man because of that. A woman can play sports and have short hair, and she is no less of a woman. I'm saying that men and women who don't conform to restrictive and arbitrary gender stereotypes don't have to identify as the opposite gender because of their "non-conformity" - rather they should embrace it and express themselves however they want regardless of societal gender stereotypes. There are gender cultists out there who believe that "men/women who do/think _____ are the opposite gender", and I'm saying that this ideology is sexist, regressive, and harmful. It goes against the very gender equality and feminist movements that we've painstakingly built for decades.
Terfs take the L on the daily
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I find this series of topics a little bit "off". There were lesbian bars in Soho, they existed for years, but the vibe in there, was that NO non-lesbians were welcomed. This made visiting there, even with lesbian friends REALLY off-putting, so we'd usually go to other bars. Unsurprisingly, the bar shut down due to lack of business, you'know, because of the UNWELCOMING ATMOSPHERE.
I always felt it odd and little stupid that the last of the last lesbian areas all shut down, and all for similar reasons. But watching this video, it just reminds me of how I felt when I entered a lesbian bar.
You have other events more commonly, probably because they are more welcoming across the board maybe?
BTW I also get harassed online often, and you know what, its usually a person pretending to be a trans activist to stir up trouble, and even got hacked, which when I followed the threads, lead me back to an American church, so yeah. Unless you actually cite evidence, you are spreading hate without any true evidence behind it.
Which lesbian bar in Soho are you claiming had so few customers it had to close? And are you not aware that Soho rents tripled making even longstanding institutions and the most loved shops and cafes close down? And the general decline of all LGBT venues across the capital? You seem to not be citing any evidence and also seem unfamiliar with the scene, but as a straight person maybe this is understandable.
@@admi1191 en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Candy_Bar,_Soho
@@whisperingleaves As I said, an increase in rents is cited. The bar was always busy when I went there. It's hard to bridge the gap when your rent goes up by 60k per year overnight.
@@admi1191 I don't really understand why you are commenting. They couldn't keep up with the cost, and they were sold to a gay bar chain, which is still running to this day.
I literally am not really required to supply more evidence lol.
Do you want to discuss anything else? If not have a nice day!
@@whisperingleaveswhy on earth do you seem to think it's up to lesbians to make non lesbians like you feel welcome? Entitled much?
It doesn't take long for them to show you who they are and who they are affiliated with. When you smell a rat, there probably is one.
We are homosexual women. What is your problem with that?
@@SladeLI suspect his issue is that he is a man pretending to be a woman and will bully any woman who says he isn’t one.
@@tozmom615he’s a vile fetishist, not a woman
@@tozmom615 I now see who he is. Another man who cannot respect a no from women.
Jenny's events aren't lesbian events though, just marketed that way. They are for bi women. Some lesbians who donated to her events rly feel scammed as they wanted a lesbian only space, as that how it was advertised, just 2 find out it wasn't. Be true in when advertising your spaces and nights Jenny, please. It isn't fair to lesbians.
Biwomen are women. They are not men.
I don't understand what you are saying.
Is this you, ‘leatherdyke?’
@@helendancelot The events were advertised to look like they were lesbian only. Lesbians donated. It was then revealed they are for lesbians and bi women. Some Lesbians have been used by bi women and are screaming for a space of their own. They thought they had that with Jenny and got fooled. If it's a lesbian and bi space, say so. All her interviews with Bindel etc say it's a lesbian space, not a lesbian and bi space.
@@ZackZick96
If thats true, who actually cared? It's women looking for women, I'd call that a lesbian event.
Nobody is arguing that individual or specific lesbians have to date trans people, but the issue comes in when people declare that dating trans people revokes your lesbian label. That is what is happening here and what isn’t being discussed.
What does it take for you people to leave homosexual women alone? We are not attracted to biological males, nor to biological males who say they are women. Your ideology does not work. Get used to it.
Ok. Discuss it then.
Lesbian is the word used to describe same sex attraction of women.
It refers to their sex.
@@Gingerblaze for them it is a word game, totally disrespecting we are not words. We are homosexual women.
No, that just isn’t the issue here. It is possible to believe both (1) that lesbians who form relationships with trans women are still lesbians; (2) that biological women should be allowed to form their own spaces.
The issue is men who want to invade homosexual female spaces.
The connection to The Free Speech Union again, though Andrew Doyle (LGB Alliance) might give some clues as to why his story is making into the usual media channels. None of this makes any sense in the real world. In the real world of lesbian dating and contemporary queer culture there are many events in London alone for trans women who want to be included. No trans woman l know would go somewhere they didn’t feel welcome, life is hard enough.
Hey Freda, bet you noticed a lot less lesbians in Manchester this weekend, apart from a few confused kids of course. Stop advocating this bs - lesbians don't support you and neither do the locals!
You seem to be entirely missing the point that this is also about the Liberty of biological women to form their own spaces without facing harassment and intimidation.
You are lying.
You don't know any "trans women". You know some very confused men, though.
Connection to free speech is bad how? One side wants freedom of speech and association, the other doxxes and threatens a woman for wanting to hold a lesbian only event. As you yourself have pointed out there are plenty of events for men who want to bother lesbians. Why the hate for one place that doesn’t want you to take over.
The only solution is to promote the event honestly. It is a gender critical lesbian dating event. Trying to frame this as a lesbian issue is disingenuous and not in line with statistics and anecdotal evidence that show strong support from lesbians. This is a gender critical issue. Which most would argue is a transphobia issue. Lesbians are being erased and harmed by an ideology, but it isn’t gender identity.
I don't see anything wrong with having a place for females who only want to date other females. I wouldn't call it "gender critical" so much as "sex specific". If there are females who are open to dating others based on their gender, not their sex, there are plenty of places they can do that.
Gender ideology is literally what’s harming us. And it revolves around gender identity. If you’re gender non conforming, then great. Cut the gender identity nonsense, you’re just a non conforming male aka a man.
Sex is something we do in the bedroom Duhh!! So please keep it in the bedroom but who am I to tell anyone that coz I do Porn for a living and I know what sex is ok I do it all the time on cam.@@Poecilia1963
No, being a lesbian is being an exclusively same sex attracted woman. It has nothing to do with political views. Your ideology discriminates against lesbian, by definition.
What ideology is it, that you believe is harming them?
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