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The church guy.... He did everything right, except that he should have put one-and-one together a few months earlier, so that he could have still been able to achieve what he originally set out for. That last one is the perfect example of a dumb bitch (OP) seeking the advice of a dumb bitch (Therapist... who is likely not dating, and basic women typically have this collective mentality of, "if I am not, then other women should not"), which has led her to misery. She knew what she needed to do, and just like every other basic dumb bitch, she did the opposite. No pity afforded to her scenario.
Last story: Bad advice from the therapist. There are so many ways to approach that fear of missing out that resolves it without breaking up or separating. Makes me wonder if the therapist was projecting his/her own issues onto the patient and leading the OP into the results the therapist thought was best. It happens more than people think
When I was around 17-18, I had to see a therapist or lose my caseworker ( I was a street kid and had a worker for housing and helping me with my GED and volunteer work.) That convinced me that I had bad "issues". They put me on anti psychotics and it took three of my friends to toss the meds and stop seeing the doctor. I lost my housing and was banned from getting a new worker. About a year later, I saw a new therapist who got me off the misdiagnosis and helped me deal with my issues ( I overwhelmed myself and caused took on too many jobs and classes to deal with to cover my depression, not having at time BPD. ) I came out better for life and not as depressed or anxious. As it turned out, I discovered by then my caseworker got paid more from the city if the client was an addict or mentally ill so he would try to shoehorn the clients or try to drop them.
@@Rose-kj7rzthere's also the fact that therapists are the most easily manipulated group of people, we do manipulation tactics subconsciously all the time in our day to day life so it's not crazy to think it was many factors that added to the bad advice
@@pequenaesposa3286 yes, you may want to wonder why therapists don't want to wait a bit longer to get to know their patients before attempting to give life changing advice. Especially since that can come with the territory of having personality disorders that generally aren't what's diagnosed first.
I remember this first story... It's so disheartening to still see people behave so poorly in the context of religion... I'm not religious myself, but shouldn't religion act as a means of wholesome and kind union? Acting so insufferable towards others because of their political leanings and ostensibly making it part of your religion is so gross. Do I ever wish churches doing that would instantly lose their tax exempt status. That said, if 'Mr. Charming' really does believe in an afterlife, he better be ready for a really toasty eternity.
As someone who is religious, yes As a Christian, we are expected to be humble and kind towards others like God wants his believers to follow I don't like the ones who harass the people about not being religious Like we tell about the religious beliefs and spread the gospel and if they still aren't religious it's okay We did our part of it and it's their choice We respect it
No matter the situation... people are still people. Some are good, some are bad, some are downright evil. and most are oblivious to the facts even if you gave them a map, guild, and a seeing eye dog.
As a Christian, myself, I don't see him going to hell. He could repent of his sin, and God would accept it provided he doesn't repeat. He might have repented the first time when he committed adultery. Therefore, God didn't punish those who told a small lie. However, when he committed the egregious sin against the young man who ultimately was forced into another path, then ministry, God wasn't having anything to do with that. Notice that the young man's life wasn't totally destroyed for telling the little lie of "not me", even though God says though shall not lie? That is because that lie was probably forgiven when he asked for it. If and when Mr. Charming decides to repent, God won't bail him out, he will have to be that perfect Christian before he even gets a small reward here on earth. As he chooses to keep with God, or not isn't for us to be concerned with. God has a worse hell for those that know of God, but refuses his word. That is a death, I would not want.
:( As a former Minister of an American Church, this is why so many of us DO NOT GO TO AMERICAN SATANIC CHURCHES :( I hate saying it, but they are more satanic than a house of politicians :( Just like the Satanic States, the Holy Church actually is despised by these "churches "
Fomo is a lie. I can't believe she'd choose a toxic life in NY over a man and a daughter AND potential future kids. Leave him and his daughter alone. I'm sorry but you could have asked for another chance BEFORE he got a new gf. Seems like you're only regretting it after he found someone else
People seem really divided on the last story. Personally, I don't entirely think it's the OP's fault, she got a bad therapist that tore apart her perception of her life and relationship and used the vulnerable, intimate nature of their bond as patient-therapist to do it. You've got to remember that as her therapist, she's giving them every ounce of trust she has and they couldn't see something good for what it was, broke it, createe even more problems for the OP to deal with mentally/emotionally than they did before. They even convinced her that it was the right thing to do for several years before the OP figured out they were wrong. That therapist either needs reeducation or a new carrier path because that is not okay.
Last story. OP for her own feelings crushed his previous boyfriend's heart and dissapoint his daughter. And she is wishing to reach out just for her own feeling of guilt. Just go to the same psycologist that recomended her to break up to help up with the aftermath
Story 1: So much for "thou shalt not bear false witness" and "thou shalt not commit adultery". I swear, the more religious they are, they more they believe their own rules don't apply to them. Stuff like this, and the many bad actions of Mr. Charming (if you can even remotely call him that) are big reasons why more and more people are steering away from religion nowadays. The revenge the OP and Fred took on him was great. Too bad Mr Charming and the old pastor didn't lose their jobs after all of this, but i do find it funny and fitting that he ended up just being a shelf stocker afterwards. Glad to hear that OP did much better later on in life too, and hopefully Fred did too. Story 2: OP isn't a jerk here, but definitely a dunce and really needs to move on here. You're basically obsessed here and its really not good nor healthy. You realized the mistake of breaking up with him, but you also need to realize that he's gone from your life forever... especially when the OP was the one to originally say they wanted no contact. I honestly dont get why the OP wanted to have a 'glamourous' nightlife when she had a pretty good life with he ex and his daugther.... to each their own i guess. If i were the OP, i would just try and accept that he is gone and has moved on.
Story 1: That and the Bible itself leads more people into atheism than it does Christianity. Story 2: OP gave it all up for a thrust on the advice of a quack therapist.
Let me guess, the therapist in the second story was a single educated woman who is a miserable wench. Not going to lie though, even if that wasn't the case, if your therapist is telling you to break up with your significant other to go find yourself, it's time to find a new therapist or just talked with your significant other about your feelings.
There are definitely lots of bad therapists out there. And I find many of them think the answer to all of life's problems are to break up with your current partner, bc that MUST be what's causing your issues.
The last story is crazy and she really did deserve what she feels. And this is also why I really quit doing therapy because it doesn’t really help sometimes.
last story the op is just mad she lost such a great guy like i get she was going through things but if she told him am sure he be like that is fine take as much time as you need etc but no she breaks up with him and now is upset he have moved on like what is she a yandere irl sorry sister but you lost your chance
The other way to put it is she said she was scared she would miss out things ( basically she wanted a hoe phase ) and after 6 years being ran through now she wants to settle
Last story feels nice to hear tbh Similar thing happened to me, chick did it for similar reasons too, after more years. Feels nice to hear when ppl like this regret their choices and suffer from it 😁
Sure but, happens with men too. I've seen wayyyy too many relationships ruined because the man feels inadequate about himself and doesn't feel "truly like a man" bc he sees people on social media partying and fucking many women
The churches I have been involved with all turned out to be gossipy, cliquy, condescending, dreadful places. There might be a veneer of 'happy-clappy let's all praise the Lord' but underneath that is a lot of venom. There is no hate like Christian love.
I feel you. Religions are pretty much tribes that give you a sense of identity. Screw them-you don't need to believe in a sky wizard with dissociative identity disorder and a zombie Jewish carpenter to be a nice person and enjoy the good things in life.
Yeah, I feel that- People I knew tried to control my life with an iron fist. In a few different religions, though I went mostly to support my brother and father. I stopped going for similar reasons, they also played it off as helping and calling them out and being blunt was apparently the wrong answer. Even if I wasn't rude about it, come to find out my dad was the main person spreading gossip... Fun.
@@JamesDavy2009 I wonder if that phrase is understood sometimes, after what I've been through. Many of the rumours my dad's church had weren't even true.
The op of the second story just had a combo of bad luck finding a pseudo-therapist that hates nice relationships and advises her patients to become b1tches to get rid of their depression, and also the stupidity of not trying to think by herself, I mean come on, if you don't feel depressed when you're with someone, why the heck you'd break up with that person? It's not okay to give certificates to those people with radical thoughts that will definitely ruin lots of beautiful relationships, as much as it's not okay to follow their advices blindly without weighing what's more important in your life
Last story; Very bad and pathetic advice from the therapist. If your therapist tells you to break up with your significant other to find peace and whatnot then it's time to either talk to your significant other about it or find a new therapist who can understand the bonds between good friends a lot better than that therapist could. I don't entirely think OP was the jerk in that situation but their therapist definitely was. That first story, though. Wow! The OP was definitely 100% justified in getting their revenge on 'Mr. Charming' and honestly, with all that in mind, 'Mr. Charming' definitely got what he deserved in the end. I would 100% watch if a movie was made from this first story. Make it happen, Netflix!!!
I feel so so SO SO SO bad for the girl who left her boyfriend, TERRIBLE ADVICE from the therapist and I feel that she should reach out and say sorry but don’t push a relationship that isn’t there
The last story was her pride and dumb therapist. If she loved him she would have talk about her problems instead of just deciding to leave him. Relationships are 50/50 and if she is too scared to talk about all of her problems then she got what she wanted.
19:02 that therapist needs to be fired😢 They obviously didn't listen to the part where the kid and your boyfriend make you happy....... Not to mention if you're in a healthy relationship don't leave it for mental health reasons because 9/10 a relationship is good for your mental health
I don't have a problem with religion, I do have a problem with organized religion. I hate when people put politics into a church and also dislike when a politician starts using religion in any way shape or form. Be whatever religion you want songs not hurting yourself or others but do not involve it in politics as no business with that whatsoever everyone has a right to do whatever religious things they want keep an eye out of governmental affairs and also keep it out of church if someone wants to be a different political party than you and they go to the same church or Temple or what-have-you then that is their business.
I know this sounds cheesy, but its true Communication is key to a good relationship, that therapist had some bad advice which only drove the relationship into a worse state. The OP of the second story should apologize for her actions, in a respectful way, when she is more mentally stable
Last one STOP THERAPY. Its never going to end well when you are not 100% in control of your life. therapy is to heal not cope. STOP Stalking. It brings more hurt which leads to the top part. Lastly STOP Worrying about what could have been and move on.
The story of Mr charming isn’t very surprising I feel like 99% of the religious “community” is toxic and corrupt these days and that last story you had a really bad therapist
A devout Christian of girls advocate progress And I think now we know why his wife is so bitter The guy hasn't really hunted his feathers for a long time Then it gets exhausting If you get yourself really worried
Unfortunately, a lot of people (particularly in the States) conflate religion with politics. A lot of conservatives even think the teachings of Jesus Christ are too liberal or worse too Communist for the values they hold. It doesn't help that the American culture is to consume goods, hoard wealth, blow up other lands and feel xenophobic to their neighbours; all of which go against the Big X's teachings and commit the deadly sins of pride, greed, gluttony and wrath.
the second story reminds me of my high school friend he wants me back, wanting to take me back and so on and so forth i wish that he could move on and get a girlfriend.
1st story: the denomination that the OP said he was a part of should've done better internal policing so that Mr Charming shouldn't have become a pastor in the first place. Also what Christian Denomination owns the houses of the people who adhere to its beliefs?
I just find it kind of odd that, in the last story, OP didn't seem to miss her ex and want him back until she found out he was with another woman... Why wait that long just to say you want someone back after they've established another relationship? It IS creepy... ESPECIALLY when young children that you've bonded with are involved.
Last story: The OP hoping their ex boyfriend would break up with the current girlfriend and going out of their way to STALK her and her daughter is really unforgivable, like, I understand the OP wants things to get back to the way they were, but seriously, there's no turning back time.
that pastor......I bet the church knew about everything he did and just did not care and just moved him around and hope he be good, yeah he is just like Joseph Maskell
That lady from the seconds story just sounds like an absolute toxic mess. Not to go all weird-o man-o-sphere or anything but there is a certain type of life style that some woman kind can run into where they're constantly chasing glamorous urban life styles at the cost of social and family connection. They get told by social media that they can 'have it all' when in realty no one can do that. You gotta find that balance that works best for you, not what social media tells you should chase.
Last story: that therapist was such a moron. For convincing somebody that because of their “fear of missing out,” they should break up with the only good thing they had? Congratulations because of your “fear of missing out” you’re now missing out. And then there’s the fact that you’re essentially becoming an Adele song with your levels of creepy stalker behavior. And I’m just gonna say this. If he didn’t see it coming, that meant you were not communicating your issues with him. And that was your fault.
story 2: typical western female therapists. It's amusing seeing how other women keep going to "therapy" with another woman, who encourages and enables someone to do such things. There's a saying where I'm from, men are problem solvers while women are good listeners. If you want to dump something off your chest you go to a woman therapist, but god forbid you go to one to find a way how to fix a problem. I've been listening to these stories for a while now, and this is a recurring theme which is hilarious. Seeing so many therapists going for patient retention than actually helping to fix their problems. Warning someone of the downsides of a choice and inherent risks is the most basics of offering advice. If your therapist isn't highlighting your flaws and instead is enabling you, you're getting played.
Since when is Pastor a paid position? The donation money is there to maintain the church itself and fund programs to assist the needy. Not to go into the pastor's or deacons' pockets.
I think that Mr. Charming's wife is the way that she is meaning she radiated bitterness, resentment and repressed anger because she was well aware of her husband's ways towards the youth. I mean this guys was hitting on junior high to college age students. Now I don't know if my denomination is the same is the original poster's but mine if are a junior high you are at least in grade 6. To be in grade 6 you are normally 11 - 12 and mister charming was 40+ (meaning 40 - 49) so the age gap could have possibly been as large as 38 years years. No wonder why people says mister charming is a world class creep.
Last Story - OP is the biggest jerk, pls don't become an even bigger jerk to connect with him. A smart man will not accept a stupid woman who throws away the best life has to offer even if you all had a good time together before. Guaranteed he is not stupid. Leave him/them alone and don't stalk anyone, it makes you a desparate cheap trash. Therapy does not help all the time, use your brain/intuition or go read more about happy couples' lives. I don't understand why you would live your life according to someone else's words. Also, you need to grow up and stop comparing and being materialistic - remember this is what you get for your past actions, so change your attitude because it is your attitude that directs your actions. Sorry for the harsh words but hope they wake you up.
Never mess with a female that’s in therapy it never ends well. Until you are well enough to emotionally support yourself you really shouldn’t be getting into a relationship. You’ll just hurt yourself and the people around you.
For that last story it seems like her therapist wasn't really a good therapist. Her therapist said she should understand herself better which I agree with but completely shutting off and closing off your relationship with others is never a good idea. She wasn't burdening her partner and even so if this guy is going to be there with her for a while I'm sure he would want to help. That's not like she would be a malignant trauma dumper. Shit therapist. shit decision. shit outcome. no big surprise.
Day 3 of asking for these stories because I cannot post on reddit, my parents don't want me on it, (rightfully so,) but I have a couple stories, and I really want to get mine into a video. Crazy Lady From my school wants Me to leave the bathroom because a smaller kid peeked under the stall, and I got mad. So, for reference I was in the 5th grade at this point, and I was in the bathroom minding my business, doing... what you would usually do in there, when this kid smiling runs up to the stall and peeks under, I yelled in both Suprise and anger. he was probably in about 2nd grade, so he should've known better at this point. I was in the downstairs bathroom, because, at the time the upstairs bathroom was gross as hell. A lady nearby says: Hey! stop yelling at little kids you are older! You have lost your BATHROOM PRIVEGES. I'm sorry, What?!?!! Schools are so controlling. I denied and told her what happened. she did not care at all. She continued to count down to call the principle over this. she came and ended up acting really chill (which is not usual) and waited for me to be done. I asked for her to be talked to, (I really just wanted this lady fired) but I don't think she was ever punished, nor the kid. Am I the Jerk for yelling? Random karen get mad for me saying excuse me. This is a rather short story but I will tell it anyways, I was at the arcade with my dad. And this lady and her baby was in the way of the claw machine That I wanted to use. She wasn't using it I think she was just changing a diaper. I politely asked: "Excuse me" I lost, and we moved on bu. She went through the effort to go all the way around. And yell and: Excuse me!!!! with her horrid breath in my face. Am I the jerk for- Nah. Crazy principle won't hear that I that I zoned out. So I was just getting done with recess and kind of just put a Hulu hoop down on the ground. And the Recess duty, Asks me to put it away I zone back in and ask her what she said And she was already calling the office over this. I told her that this was a misunderstanding and I zoned out And she said that that was somehow worse! I got sent to the office, And had to wait for my crappy school lunch for like an hour more than my classmates. Someone finally gets inherent of course. It's the vice principle who's always Super mean for no reason. I just explained what happened and she said. Okay, are you never explained it again? That it was by accident and it might happen again. I'm not one to just lie, And say it will never happen again. Just cause they want me to. But she kept repeating like a broken record player and Kept saying do you understand?? do you understand?!?!?! Am I the jerk for zoning out
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How and what Game is this
If you have to pay for God’s word it’s no longer God’s word
The church guy....
He did everything right, except that he should have put one-and-one together a few months earlier, so that he could have still been able to achieve what he originally set out for.
That last one is the perfect example of a dumb bitch (OP) seeking the advice of a dumb bitch (Therapist... who is likely not dating, and basic women typically have this collective mentality of, "if I am not, then other women should not"), which has led her to misery. She knew what she needed to do, and just like every other basic dumb bitch, she did the opposite. No pity afforded to her scenario.
Last story: Bad advice from the therapist. There are so many ways to approach that fear of missing out that resolves it without breaking up or separating. Makes me wonder if the therapist was projecting his/her own issues onto the patient and leading the OP into the results the therapist thought was best. It happens more than people think
Yep, I've been through 15 years of therapy and have had partners that have gone through therapy. This happens A LOT!
When I was around 17-18, I had to see a therapist or lose my caseworker ( I was a street kid and had a worker for housing and helping me with my GED and volunteer work.) That convinced me that I had bad "issues". They put me on anti psychotics and it took three of my friends to toss the meds and stop seeing the doctor. I lost my housing and was banned from getting a new worker. About a year later, I saw a new therapist who got me off the misdiagnosis and helped me deal with my issues ( I overwhelmed myself and caused took on too many jobs and classes to deal with to cover my depression, not having at time BPD. ) I came out better for life and not as depressed or anxious. As it turned out, I discovered by then my caseworker got paid more from the city if the client was an addict or mentally ill so he would try to shoehorn the clients or try to drop them.
@@Rose-kj7rzthere's also the fact that therapists are the most easily manipulated group of people, we do manipulation tactics subconsciously all the time in our day to day life so it's not crazy to think it was many factors that added to the bad advice
@@pequenaesposa3286 yes, you may want to wonder why therapists don't want to wait a bit longer to get to know their patients before attempting to give life changing advice.
Especially since that can come with the territory of having personality disorders that generally aren't what's diagnosed first.
Story 1: No wonder he became an archeologist with the digging he did. Good job for doing what needed done to extract the poison.
I remember this first story...
It's so disheartening to still see people behave so poorly in the context of religion... I'm not religious myself, but shouldn't religion act as a means of wholesome and kind union?
Acting so insufferable towards others because of their political leanings and ostensibly making it part of your religion is so gross. Do I ever wish churches doing that would instantly lose their tax exempt status.
That said, if 'Mr. Charming' really does believe in an afterlife, he better be ready for a really toasty eternity.
As someone who is religious, yes
As a Christian, we are expected to be humble and kind towards others like God wants his believers to follow
I don't like the ones who harass the people about not being religious
Like we tell about the religious beliefs and spread the gospel and if they still aren't religious it's okay
We did our part of it and it's their choice
We respect it
No matter the situation... people are still people. Some are good, some are bad, some are downright evil. and most are oblivious to the facts even if you gave them a map, guild, and a seeing eye dog.
@@wcemichael yep
As a Christian, myself, I don't see him going to hell. He could repent of his sin, and God would accept it provided he doesn't repeat. He might have repented the first time when he committed adultery. Therefore, God didn't punish those who told a small lie.
However, when he committed the egregious sin against the young man who ultimately was forced into another path, then ministry, God wasn't having anything to do with that. Notice that the young man's life wasn't totally destroyed for telling the little lie of "not me", even though God says though shall not lie? That is because that lie was probably forgiven when he asked for it.
If and when Mr. Charming decides to repent, God won't bail him out, he will have to be that perfect Christian before he even gets a small reward here on earth. As he chooses to keep with God, or not isn't for us to be concerned with. God has a worse hell for those that know of God, but refuses his word. That is a death, I would not want.
:( As a former Minister of an American Church, this is why so many of us DO NOT GO TO AMERICAN SATANIC CHURCHES :(
I hate saying it, but they are more satanic than a house of politicians :(
Just like the Satanic States, the Holy Church actually is despised by these "churches "
my god bro the last story op is such a creep stalking them and expecting the ex to get back with her like some kind of Disney movie
Last story...op deserved what she got. She hurt 2 great people because of her pride.
True
Fomo is a lie. I can't believe she'd choose a toxic life in NY over a man and a daughter AND potential future kids. Leave him and his daughter alone. I'm sorry but you could have asked for another chance BEFORE he got a new gf. Seems like you're only regretting it after he found someone else
The audacity!
if you go to the profile, OP is originally from London and is an uber hoe.
You make the bed, you get to sleep in it right?
Last story: Definately apolagize but dont expect too much affection. If ur luckly you might get a friendship going on.
People seem really divided on the last story. Personally, I don't entirely think it's the OP's fault, she got a bad therapist that tore apart her perception of her life and relationship and used the vulnerable, intimate nature of their bond as patient-therapist to do it. You've got to remember that as her therapist, she's giving them every ounce of trust she has and they couldn't see something good for what it was, broke it, createe even more problems for the OP to deal with mentally/emotionally than they did before. They even convinced her that it was the right thing to do for several years before the OP figured out they were wrong.
That therapist either needs reeducation or a new carrier path because that is not okay.
Last story.
OP for her own feelings crushed his previous boyfriend's heart and dissapoint his daughter. And she is wishing to reach out just for her own feeling of guilt.
Just go to the same psycologist that recomended her to break up to help up with the aftermath
Story #1 is a great example of why I hate organized religion as much as I hate corporate CEOs and politicians.
I hate religion, corporations, government, and academia. “I don’t believe in Beatles, I just believe in me.”
Story 1: So much for "thou shalt not bear false witness" and "thou shalt not commit adultery". I swear, the more religious they are, they more they believe their own rules don't apply to them. Stuff like this, and the many bad actions of Mr. Charming (if you can even remotely call him that) are big reasons why more and more people are steering away from religion nowadays. The revenge the OP and Fred took on him was great. Too bad Mr Charming and the old pastor didn't lose their jobs after all of this, but i do find it funny and fitting that he ended up just being a shelf stocker afterwards. Glad to hear that OP did much better later on in life too, and hopefully Fred did too.
Story 2: OP isn't a jerk here, but definitely a dunce and really needs to move on here. You're basically obsessed here and its really not good nor healthy. You realized the mistake of breaking up with him, but you also need to realize that he's gone from your life forever... especially when the OP was the one to originally say they wanted no contact. I honestly dont get why the OP wanted to have a 'glamourous' nightlife when she had a pretty good life with he ex and his daugther.... to each their own i guess. If i were the OP, i would just try and accept that he is gone and has moved on.
Story 1: That and the Bible itself leads more people into atheism than it does Christianity.
Story 2: OP gave it all up for a thrust on the advice of a quack therapist.
The first story….he should blackmail the pastor and say “unless you give me a good recommendation then I’ll expose everything again” 😂😂
Let me guess, the therapist in the second story was a single educated woman who is a miserable wench. Not going to lie though, even if that wasn't the case, if your therapist is telling you to break up with your significant other to go find yourself, it's time to find a new therapist or just talked with your significant other about your feelings.
ya like that is not the way to help the op get better is makes it worse
Sounds very likely id say.
There are definitely lots of bad therapists out there. And I find many of them think the answer to all of life's problems are to break up with your current partner, bc that MUST be what's causing your issues.
@@Rose-kj7rzyeah and most of them are always female and single
@@rival_672 yep
The last story is crazy and she really did deserve what she feels. And this is also why I really quit doing therapy because it doesn’t really help sometimes.
15:32 honest i would spotted him yell how does payback feel as smile can say u deserves what happened to ur life
Glad th hear OP in storry 1 managed to get away from that cult life. Hope he is doing great now
opportunism and nepotism quite a combo!
last story the op is just mad she lost such a great guy like i get she was going through things but if she told him am sure he be like that is fine take as much time as you need etc but no she breaks up with him and now is upset he have moved on like what is she a yandere irl sorry sister but you lost your chance
Well put brotha
The other way to put it is she said she was scared she would miss out things ( basically she wanted a hoe phase ) and after 6 years being ran through now she wants to settle
Ya
op should move on.
Shut up
Last story feels nice to hear tbh
Similar thing happened to me, chick did it for similar reasons too, after more years.
Feels nice to hear when ppl like this regret their choices and suffer from it 😁
Bro
that is messed up
You’re so blatantly bitter here its hilarious
Really? Dude…
What is wrong with you?
Last story: Leave that man alone. You blew it. Move on dumb dumb.
The last story is why most relationships fail. Women, social media, and their "fear of missing out"
Sure but, happens with men too. I've seen wayyyy too many relationships ruined because the man feels inadequate about himself and doesn't feel "truly like a man" bc he sees people on social media partying and fucking many women
Story 2: translation, I regret my 304 phase and now yearning for my ex that has move on with a hotter chick
Bro called Mr Charming "it"
thanks for the podcasts
Last Story: Yeah, probably get a new therapist and definitely some anti-psychotics.
The churches I have been involved with all turned out to be gossipy, cliquy, condescending, dreadful places. There might be a veneer of 'happy-clappy let's all praise the Lord' but underneath that is a lot of venom. There is no hate like Christian love.
I feel you. Religions are pretty much tribes that give you a sense of identity. Screw them-you don't need to believe in a sky wizard with dissociative identity disorder and a zombie Jewish carpenter to be a nice person and enjoy the good things in life.
Yeah, I feel that- People I knew tried to control my life with an iron fist. In a few different religions, though I went mostly to support my brother and father. I stopped going for similar reasons, they also played it off as helping and calling them out and being blunt was apparently the wrong answer. Even if I wasn't rude about it, come to find out my dad was the main person spreading gossip... Fun.
@@Crystal323100 _Thou shalt not bear false witness._
@@JamesDavy2009 I wonder if that phrase is understood sometimes, after what I've been through. Many of the rumours my dad's church had weren't even true.
The op of the second story just had a combo of bad luck finding a pseudo-therapist that hates nice relationships and advises her patients to become b1tches to get rid of their depression, and also the stupidity of not trying to think by herself, I mean come on, if you don't feel depressed when you're with someone, why the heck you'd break up with that person?
It's not okay to give certificates to those people with radical thoughts that will definitely ruin lots of beautiful relationships, as much as it's not okay to follow their advices blindly without weighing what's more important in your life
Last story; Very bad and pathetic advice from the therapist. If your therapist tells you to break up with your significant other to find peace and whatnot then it's time to either talk to your significant other about it or find a new therapist who can understand the bonds between good friends a lot better than that therapist could. I don't entirely think OP was the jerk in that situation but their therapist definitely was.
That first story, though. Wow! The OP was definitely 100% justified in getting their revenge on 'Mr. Charming' and honestly, with all that in mind, 'Mr. Charming' definitely got what he deserved in the end. I would 100% watch if a movie was made from this first story. Make it happen, Netflix!!!
It’s hard enough get people into church and then we gotta worry about ppl like that …..what a shame
oh my god a church goer who is scary i'm not really surprised😂
I feel so so SO SO SO bad for the girl who left her boyfriend, TERRIBLE ADVICE from the therapist and I feel that she should reach out and say sorry but don’t push a relationship that isn’t there
Last Story:
The World's Smallest Violins 👌🏼🎻👌🏼🎻👌🏼🎻👌🏼🎻👌🏼 to OP !!
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The last story was her pride and dumb therapist. If she loved him she would have talk about her problems instead of just deciding to leave him. Relationships are 50/50 and if she is too scared to talk about all of her problems then she got what she wanted.
19:02 that therapist needs to be fired😢
They obviously didn't listen to the part where the kid and your boyfriend make you happy....... Not to mention if you're in a healthy relationship don't leave it for mental health reasons because 9/10 a relationship is good for your mental health
Story 1st:
-pastor- Mr Charming = _"religious"_ people in a Nutshell
I don't have a problem with religion, I do have a problem with organized religion. I hate when people put politics into a church and also dislike when a politician starts using religion in any way shape or form. Be whatever religion you want songs not hurting yourself or others but do not involve it in politics as no business with that whatsoever everyone has a right to do whatever religious things they want keep an eye out of governmental affairs and also keep it out of church if someone wants to be a different political party than you and they go to the same church or Temple or what-have-you then that is their business.
I know this sounds cheesy, but its true
Communication is key to a good relationship, that therapist had some bad advice which only drove the relationship into a worse state.
The OP of the second story should apologize for her actions, in a respectful way, when she is more mentally stable
Last one
STOP THERAPY. Its never going to end well when you are not 100% in control of your life. therapy is to heal not cope.
STOP Stalking. It brings more hurt which leads to the top part.
Lastly STOP Worrying about what could have been and move on.
First big red flag was calling other churchgoers "his disciples".
Who did he think he was, the Pope?
Story 2..
It really isn't creepy to stalk someone's social online... I mean when you are a girl who just wants to see what you missed out on
13:07 I like how you pronounced pulpit: I've been in a debate with someone about how pulpit is pronounced, it's nice to know someone agrees with me.
The advice for story 2 was right on the nose.
Except for saying it would be okay to apologize. Just...no.Stay out of the guy's life, and get a better therapist than the one she had before.
The story of Mr charming isn’t very surprising I feel like 99% of the religious “community” is toxic and corrupt these days and that last story you had a really bad therapist
I feel bad for op becouse she either misinterpreted her theropists or they gave her bad advice. And she is regretting following such a path.
Story 1:
Fred = MVP CHAD 💯🔥 !!!
Something tells me that mr charming turned into mr traumatized
I hope that you reported that Pastor to whoever you needed to report to cuz that's just like a wolf in sheep's clothing
Am I The Jerk realizing he’s Mr.Charming 😳
Story #1: Mr. Charming, did you think you were pure? Mr. Alarming, in nocturnal rapport🤣
Love your videos ❤❤
I am so happy the girl who broke up is living such a pathetic life. 🙃 you reap what u sowe Einstein
A devout Christian of girls advocate progress And I think now we know why his wife is so bitter The guy hasn't really hunted his feathers for a long time Then it gets exhausting If you get yourself really worried
Last story: okay HUh??? I. Do. Not. Even. Know. What. To. Say. Just attend therapy more and try to settle things out etc like geez i dotnt Even know
People who have the fear of missing out is just a loser that think life only can be enjoyable by one stupid way
The voice reminded me of Pike 😂😂😂
Isn't being Christianity is loving and caring? Plus the church should be doing that more.
Unfortunately, a lot of people (particularly in the States) conflate religion with politics. A lot of conservatives even think the teachings of Jesus Christ are too liberal or worse too Communist for the values they hold. It doesn't help that the American culture is to consume goods, hoard wealth, blow up other lands and feel xenophobic to their neighbours; all of which go against the Big X's teachings and commit the deadly sins of pride, greed, gluttony and wrath.
Story one shows the hypocrisy of religious folk. So glad I quit that BS at a young age
the second story reminds me of my high school friend he wants me back, wanting to take me back and so on and so forth i wish that he could move on and get a girlfriend.
but op needs to move on and get a new boyfriend instead of wanting her boyfriend back.
For the second story: the op f'd up. Glamor doesn't equal happiness. That's for shallow people.
People who feel shallow are often insecure and insecurity can drive a wedge into a relationship.
The therapist is the jerk in the second story imo
1st story: the denomination that the OP said he was a part of should've done better internal policing so that Mr Charming shouldn't have become a pastor in the first place. Also what Christian Denomination owns the houses of the people who adhere to its beliefs?
It must be some cult.
THE WALL IS UNDEFEATED
I just find it kind of odd that, in the last story, OP didn't seem to miss her ex and want him back until she found out he was with another woman...
Why wait that long just to say you want someone back after they've established another relationship? It IS creepy...
ESPECIALLY when young children that you've bonded with are involved.
Last story: The OP hoping their ex boyfriend would break up with the current girlfriend and going out of their way to STALK her and her daughter is really unforgivable, like, I understand the OP wants things to get back to the way they were, but seriously, there's no turning back time.
the therapist is feminist, she want other be alone like her
People never change
Last story I blame op and their first therapist
Why isn't me charming facing any kind of charges for touching the youth in his old church? Seems to me he should be held accountable for that.
Any update on the last story?
that pastor......I bet the church knew about everything he did and just did not care and just moved him around and hope he be good, yeah he is just like Joseph Maskell
That lady from the seconds story just sounds like an absolute toxic mess. Not to go all weird-o man-o-sphere or anything but there is a certain type of life style that some woman kind can run into where they're constantly chasing glamorous urban life styles at the cost of social and family connection. They get told by social media that they can 'have it all' when in realty no one can do that. You gotta find that balance that works best for you, not what social media tells you should chase.
You don’t get to judge people
@@KadeStringer2.0 what are you, stupid or something? People judging others is literally what this channel is about.
Last story: that therapist was such a moron.
For convincing somebody that because of their “fear of missing out,” they should break up with the only good thing they had?
Congratulations because of your “fear of missing out” you’re now missing out.
And then there’s the fact that you’re essentially becoming an Adele song with your levels of creepy stalker behavior.
And I’m just gonna say this. If he didn’t see it coming, that meant you were not communicating your issues with him. And that was your fault.
whats the game in the background? looks cool af
There is literally no point to the report for “nudity or sexually explicit” anymore wtf
story 2: typical western female therapists. It's amusing seeing how other women keep going to "therapy" with another woman, who encourages and enables someone to do such things. There's a saying where I'm from, men are problem solvers while women are good listeners. If you want to dump something off your chest you go to a woman therapist, but god forbid you go to one to find a way how to fix a problem. I've been listening to these stories for a while now, and this is a recurring theme which is hilarious. Seeing so many therapists going for patient retention than actually helping to fix their problems. Warning someone of the downsides of a choice and inherent risks is the most basics of offering advice. If your therapist isn't highlighting your flaws and instead is enabling you, you're getting played.
It's an American thing to try to retain -cash cows- patients instead of curing them.
What’s the game in the back?
First story has Warren Priests vibes tbh
Since when is Pastor a paid position? The donation money is there to maintain the church itself and fund programs to assist the needy. Not to go into the pastor's or deacons' pockets.
Second OP needs therapy
Or better therapy
Shut up and quit judging people
I think that Mr. Charming's wife is the way that she is meaning she radiated bitterness, resentment and repressed anger because she was well aware of her husband's ways towards the youth. I mean this guys was hitting on junior high to college age students. Now I don't know if my denomination is the same is the original poster's but mine if are a junior high you are at least in grade 6. To be in grade 6 you are normally 11 - 12 and mister charming was 40+ (meaning 40 - 49) so the age gap could have possibly been as large as 38 years years. No wonder why people says mister charming is a world class creep.
Hes a pastor, of course hes a creep, its part of the job.
Not all Pastors are like that though. I've met plenty that weren't.
It's mainly ones from larger branches rather than Small Time Churches.
you mean Mega church pastors. most are normal just not the mega pastors they dont love god, they love money
@@Kj_Chisom Their church is the Church of Mammon.
@@JamesDavy2009 Mormon
@@Kelle0284 No, I said Mammon-one of the Seven Princes of Hell who represents the seven deadly sins. His sin is greed.
I can kind of sympathize with the last OP, that said, stalking her ex and his new gf is not okay and it's inexcuable.
DAMN U DESTROYED HER!?
Hi i need Advice on strict parents but a my grandmother I'm female and 19 years old but just can't leave or have a boyfriend !
Last Story - OP is the biggest jerk, pls don't become an even bigger jerk to connect with him. A smart man will not accept a stupid woman who throws away the best life has to offer even if you all had a good time together before. Guaranteed he is not stupid. Leave him/them alone and don't stalk anyone, it makes you a desparate cheap trash.
Therapy does not help all the time, use your brain/intuition or go read more about happy couples' lives. I don't understand why you would live your life according to someone else's words. Also, you need to grow up and stop comparing and being materialistic - remember this is what you get for your past actions, so change your attitude because it is your attitude that directs your actions.
Sorry for the harsh words but hope they wake you up.
Seven years older 💀
❤ if you're waiting for a pad on the back you'll be waiting a long time
Never mess with a female that’s in therapy it never ends well. Until you are well enough to emotionally support yourself you really shouldn’t be getting into a relationship. You’ll just hurt yourself and the people around you.
Story 2 ok wtf stalking is not ok wtf hell naw u blew it 304 belongs to the streets
What’s the game?
Last story is a skill issue
For that last story it seems like her therapist wasn't really a good therapist. Her therapist said she should understand herself better which I agree with but completely shutting off and closing off your relationship with others is never a good idea. She wasn't burdening her partner and even so if this guy is going to be there with her for a while I'm sure he would want to help. That's not like she would be a malignant trauma dumper. Shit therapist. shit decision. shit outcome. no big surprise.
what is this game, it looks so fun
Bruh that therapist and op is STOOPID
Dam 6'6 that's a big boy. They grow them big in the south. That's a brock lesner mf.
Day 141 of saying the same thing until I get pinned
Karen's getting destroyed is one of the best parts of my life
Glad no one said "first"
Third
But you just said it
😐
What is the game called
Day 3 of asking for these stories because I cannot post on reddit, my parents don't want me on it, (rightfully so,) but I have a couple stories, and I really want to get mine into a video.
Crazy Lady From my school wants Me to leave the bathroom because a smaller kid peeked under the stall, and I got mad.
So, for reference I was in the 5th grade at this point, and I was in the bathroom minding my business, doing... what you would usually do in there, when this kid smiling runs up to the stall and peeks under, I yelled in both Suprise and anger. he was probably in about 2nd grade, so he should've known better at this point.
I was in the downstairs bathroom, because, at the time the upstairs bathroom was gross as hell. A lady nearby says: Hey! stop yelling at little kids you are older! You have lost your BATHROOM PRIVEGES. I'm sorry, What?!?!! Schools are so controlling. I denied and told her what happened. she did not care at all. She continued to count down to call the principle over this. she came and ended up acting really chill (which is not usual) and waited for me to be done. I asked for her to be talked to, (I really just wanted this lady fired) but I don't think she was ever punished, nor the kid.
Am I the Jerk for yelling?
Random karen get mad for me saying excuse me. This is a rather short story but I will tell it anyways, I was at the arcade with my dad. And this lady and her baby was in the way of the claw machine That I wanted to use. She wasn't using it I think she was just changing a diaper. I politely asked: "Excuse me"
I lost, and we moved on bu. She went through the effort to go all the way around. And yell and: Excuse me!!!! with her horrid breath in my face.
Am I the jerk for- Nah.
Crazy principle won't hear that I that I zoned out. So I was just getting done with recess and kind of just put a Hulu hoop down on the ground.
And the Recess duty, Asks me to put it away I zone back in and ask her what she said And she was already calling the office over this. I told her that this was a misunderstanding and I zoned out And she said that that was somehow worse! I got sent to the office, And had to wait for my crappy school lunch for like an hour more than my classmates. Someone finally gets inherent of course. It's the vice principle who's always Super mean for no reason. I just explained what happened and she said. Okay, are you never explained it again? That it was by accident and it might happen again. I'm not one to just lie, And say it will never happen again. Just cause they want me to. But she kept repeating like a broken record player and Kept saying do you understand?? do you understand?!?!?! Am I the jerk for zoning out
what game is this