It Was A Hard Day So We Dyed Easter Eggs, Ate Olive Garden & Cried! | Home Vlog
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- In today's vlog we hang out at home, take a trip to Target, dye some Easter eggs, eat some Olive Garden take away and talk about how were doing now that baby Oliver is almost one month old. Spoiler alert: it's hard lol. We knew it would be but we wanted to talk about how we're feeling and the realities of going from 1 child to 2. We hope that talking about this can help at least one person in some way, thank you for giving us this space to talk about those feelings. Thank you for spending time with us at home and thank you for watching, we'll see you tomorrow with a new vid!
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The biggest tip that helped the most help for us with 2 is not blaming the baby for making him wait for things, and also tell the baby he needs to wait sometimes in front of Jackson. “Oliver i’m with Jackson right now” “Oliver lets be quiet Jackson is talking” sounds silly but GAME CHANGER
I’m a mom of an only child, so never even thought about this, but WOW, that makes so much sense. Such a great suggestion, and I hope a lot of parents see this, it’s definitely awesome advice!! ❤️
@@tiffanyann9763 thank you! It really works 😀
When Tim said that Oliver is almost a month old my jaw dropped at the fact it’s been a month already!
I know! The countdown to baby had us all so on edge with anticipation.
Jenn is such a genuine person. I really appreciate that she is so open about her feelings (both positive & challenging ones). Her family is very lucky.
I'm Japanese listener! I'm definitely not good at using English but when I saw Jenn's tears, I thought that I would like to show my appreciation right now. Thank you for sharing your warm and loving family. Your video makes me very happy and heals my mind. Don't push yourself too hard! Eat well, sleep well, and always be yourself. Your happiness is my happiness🍀 Thanks a lot(*´꒳`*)❤️
こんにちは！はぐみさんは本当に英語が上手ですよ！コメントでは文法の間違いが全然ありません｡ 私、日本語が下手になっちゃいました。じゃあ、一緒に頑張りましょう！
Speaking as a Kindergarten teacher for 16 years, I think it's great to let kids learn to lose at home with you. I have so many students where adults, with the very best of intentions, change the rules so their child never loses or is upset. Then they get to school and have an absolute meltdown when they lose a game with their friends. It's just too important to them. The sooner they learn winning and losing are a part of life and it's not a big deal either way, the easier the transition is.
You're doing a great job! I always feel bad about how much pressure parents put on themselves to do things the "right" way. There are lots of different pathways to get to the same destination. One day this will just be "remember that time we got through that, that was crazy!"
Beautifully said!
Teachers know best!
Jen as a woman in my 70’s, you are doing great. Emotions after a baby are normal, you don’t need to apologize. You have a lot on your plate right now, you’re tired and you have a toddler trying to figure out his new reality. Do you !❤️
Agree. X
I too am 77 and remember those baby days. It goes by too fast. We now have the time to read those books, do the projects, take the naps. Never envisioned having this time, haha we earned it.
There's likely hormonal changes going on since one is changing states from being pregnant to being fertile.
This grandmother totally agrees!
Jackson: "It’s kinda going wild!"
Best explanation EVER!
Would have been a great title for the video! It's going wild! Life is wild. ❤
when Oliver is a little older we need a series where Jenn picks what you do at the parks. Can make it a date night, A nice vlog, And you get to do all the fun things your missing. I'm only 21 so i can't imagine what you guys are going through but you got this! Keep all the love and positivity and you will continue to grow as a person and kick even more butt than your doing right now.
"Somebody got raptured" made me burst out laughing. Thank you. I remember how challenging the first few months are. You're handling it gracefully with your sense of humor intact. Keep doing what you're doing. Everyone feels overwhelmed postpartum and crying is normal. ❤
And crying is emotionally good for you!!
@@soozg true. Very cleansing.
When you’re in the middle of so much, working from home (which is by no means easy,) having a newborn and toddler, staying home 24/7, is not easy. Your feelings are completely legitimate and not silly whatsoever. It’s super stressful, and knowing that behind the scenes, it’s not perfect, but you and Tim are both doing the best you can, and that is killing it! Hang in there and know your friends & family, viewers, and the universe are sending positive vibes, love, and hugs!!! ❤❤❤
Exactly!
This is absolutely 100%! I worked from home during COVID and it was so difficult.
Tiffany Ann Very well said!❤
Jackson (with his food struggles) is likely trying to find a way to control something in his life as he adapts to change. Earlier, someone suggested giving Jackson a choice between two (available) foods. He can choose one of what is offered, not just have an open "what do you want". Maybe that will help. You guys are wonderful parents.
My son was a very picky eater. We tried the two option idea and it was a game changer. I think he felt like he had a little control. It just made dinner time after a long day so much more tolerable.
Agreed.
Yes, definitely
This works so well with everything. Like when my kids refused to get out of the bath I’d say okay “do you want to use this towel or this towel?” Not getting out wasn’t a choice but they still got to make a choice if that makes sense.
I saw video on Tiktok of a parent that made a little menu for their kid, which they could choose from and it seems like a fun idea
It's been 10 years since I had a newborn with a toddler and this brings back all the feels. It's such a hard stage. Take care of yourselves.
I think it’s awesome you’re being authentic, it doesn’t have to be roses and rainbows all the time! It is hard, you’re doing a great job - even if sometimes it doesn’t feel like that!! But most importantly don’t say sorry, for no video! Family first - always!
This!!!
I was a single mom with a newborn and a toddler with absolutely no help and it is definitely so hard, I appreciate your authenticity,it gets better I promise. I thought I was going to go crazy but now we’ve adjusted it’s so much easier! You guys are doing Great 🥰🥰🤩🤩🤩
You’re doing great too! ❤
I have a 4 month old and now a 2 year old...and 😮 it gets a little rough... but slowly starting to get into a routine 🤞so all the mama's out there sending y'all air hugs🥰
@@chantadunn2426 absolutely! I have an 8 month old. You just gotta take it day by day, second by second I’m learning :)
You got this🎉
Even at 75 years old, you inspire me!💕💕👵🏻
First off let me just say you are killing it Jenn! Mothers never get the credit and the recognition that they deserve but one day a year! I couldn’t imagine everything that you have on your plate along with the daily duties you have going on, having to be a mom, a wife, a video editor, a chef, a cleaner, the laundry lady, so basically Wonder Woman! My heart really goes out to you! I really appreciate your openness and vulnerability with all of us. Even though reality is you are talking to a camera, we are here listening to you, and trying our best to empathize with you! Please never apologize for not having a video up or needing to take a day for a break to recoup and handle the daily stresses that come your way. Those that care about you and your family will always be here when you have the spare moment to join us! YOU ALL ARE DOING GREAT TRACKERS! We applaud and stand behind you! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
I have a 12 and 6 year old and just hearing you say “you’re doing a great job” was what I needed to hear. It actually made me take a deep breath to know we are all in this “together”.
Parenting is the best and hardest thing we will ever doing and we just have to cheer each other on! ❤🎉
Yaaaas !!! You’re on point!! I also have a 14 and 6 yr and recently started going back ti college with a full time job. It’s been very rough and this made a huge difference in my day and also cry lol
I actually really appreciate what I think of as "older sister" talks. Things aren't always easy and that reality is nothing to be ashamed of. You're doing amazing no matter what.
Jenn, as someone who struggled with ppd and ppa I just want to remind you and tim to review signs of ppd and reach out to your Dr. You guys were my lifeline when I was deep in the trenches and glued to the couch and pump 20 hours a day. When I felt like a failure I could see y'all thriving with a baby just a few months older than mine and it gave me hope. Remember this time is so short, and that's bittersweet but you're gonna get yourself back! I hope you can schedule time with some friends or go get a massage or something. You've got so many people rooting you on.
Yes this! I had PPD and being on medication saved me from going doin the spiral I did when my son was born.
It’s so good that you’re supporting Jackson with his emotions. So many parents don’t address this and it can cause issues when they’re older ❤
Next time I can’t do something at work, I’m going to say “It’s kinda being wild” 😂 Jackson is such a treasure ❤
Jenn, I'm glad you're discussing the hard parts because it can feel incredibly isolating when you're home alone and looking at other people's Instagrams and social media. It always feels like you're not measuring up. You definitely are! There are always going to be days when the baby's crying, the toddler's pushing your buttons, and everything feels a mess. It's okay. Rough days makes the good days feel even better.
With Jackson getting into the picky phase, it's definitely going to add another layer of challenge but give him 2 options at meals of things you have on hand and you guys will get through it. ("You can have chicken nuggets or a grilled cheese. Taco is not on the menu") For toddlers, too many choices is as bad as no choices at all.
Jenn, I love the way you’ve normalized the experience of motherhood and speak about your wins and struggles openly. It’s a great reminder we’re not alone on those hard days. The boys are so lucky to have you!
Thank you for your raw honesty Jenn! My baby just turned 15 weeks today and those newborn momma feelings and tears are still so fresh in my mind. It’s so hard to all of a sudden have this little blob that is 100% dependent on you. I know it’s hard to feel like you’re not “killing it” but every day that goes by with that little baby is proof that you’re doing such an amazing job. Sending you so much love and support.
Never apologize for taking breaks to prioritize family, we'll be here cheering you all on in the background and happy whenever you guys decide to post! I've also had a really rough month and sometimes its okay to take some time and prioritize your mental health, we're not going anywhere :)
I love that you all keep it real. Having a newborn is so hard. And having a newborn and a toddler is extremely hard. You will have days where you feel like you’re doing great, and days where you feel like a failure. But your kids never see it that way. They are happy and loved and that’s all that matters. ❤️
One day at a time Jen ❤ sending good vibes your way.
You don't need a manufacturers recording of Kermit when you have Tim.. 😂😂😂
To me, he sounds like Ernie from Sesame Street back in the day, lol. And it took me FOREVER to figure out what he sounded like when I first heard him. He could seriously be a voice in a cartoon or movie. Such a unique voice.
Yes!!!
Tim sounds EXACTLY like Kermit!
Ah Jenn, you made me emotional, you are killing it. All of us, as mothers, in our own way, are killing it. Talking is everything, we have all been through, or are going through, different versions of the same story. You are strong, you are loved, you are amazing! ❤
I rarely comment on any TH-cam videos but I have to say, you really warm my heart, Jenn. I cried when you were crying and then I literally cackled when you said “when you’re here, you have diarrhea”. I’m just a stranger on the internet but I wish you all the best and I am SO proud of you
Thank you for reminding us to stop comparing ourselves to others because we’re all going through our own stuff and it’s okay to feel all of our emotions. Thank you for making videos for us love you guys!
I just wanna say thank you for saying “even if you don’t have kids, you’re killing it” that meant more to be than you know, Jen ❤ I often feel unworthy of feeling stressed with life because I’m a single 28 year old and that I don’t have the right to be overwhelmed compared to people with children. I felt heard when you said that and that it was okay to be stressed and know others are cheering you on despite not having children so thank you a trillion times and know that you’re doing amazing ❤
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It's never easy juggling a new born and toddler. You just take the time off filming when needed, family is far more important! We - the Tracker Fans - aren't going anywhere! hugs to you all!
Every time a video pops up from you guys I think about how impressed I am that you had time to edit a video for us despite everything else you have going on, Jenn. Even on your “bad” days you’re killing it. The FOMO is real, even when you’re not postpartum. Sending hugs & 💚 your way.
7 months post partum with a 5 yr old and so much of this still resonates with me - love your openness. This is such a HARD season, so much growth for everyone. 🌹
Ohhh Jenn... I have such mad respect for you as a momma and a fellow millenial woman. It's hard to be so vulnerable and admit things aren't picture perfect. But acknowledging those feelings and letting yourself actually feel them is so much better than not doing that! I hope tomorrow is a good day, so when another bad day rolls around, you've got the strength to handle it. Sending love.
Jackson’s little voice is just the sweetest, and he speaks so well!
Jackson going full on terminator mode on the newborn clothes got me laughing so damn hard. You guys are so awesome and wholesome!!
Oh that triggered memories from when my kids were little. I was like noooo!!!! 😂😂
I was envisioning my 6 year old doing the same thing 🙄😂😂
Sending you Jen a big virtual hug. It’s a reminder to others and yourself that you are real and authentic and human and everything you’re feeling is completely normal. We’re all here behind you guys and are cheering you on along the way.
Being a mom is so hard! Mine are in their 20s now but my husband came home from work on our 10th anniversary and I was crying with a colicky newborn and a toddler that was less then thrilled about the attention given to their brother! Its hard but you got this!!!
We love you too Jen. Its good that you share your feelings so people know it's not all roses.
Thank you for showing the realistic part of being a new Mom. Some people online make things look so perfect.
Sending you both so much love, but especially Jen! The hormones and exhaustion and loneliness mixed with the joy and love of a new baby is A LOT! You’re doing great & bad days are ok. And if you only have 20% & give all 20%… then you gave 100% of what you had that day.❤️
I know people probably tell you this all the time, but you never EVER have to apologize or feel bad for not putting up a video every day, or every other day, or ever. You guys choose to share your lives with us and you don't have to. Absolutely no one expects anyone's life to be all sunshine and roses all the time, especially those with kids! And especially a newborn and a toddler!! We know there are going to be rough times, days, weeks, maybe even months. You really ARE killing it, both of you. You're providing a happy, healthy and safe home and life for your kids and yourselves, and that's all anyone can ask for in life. I sincerely can't imagine anyone ever being upset because the Trackers didn't upload a video for a few days. Things happen, life happens, and time just goes on. You guys are amazing people and parents, and we enjoy and appreciate anything and everything you share with us. We love you guys!!
JENN! Yes!!!!! More parents need to say these things. ♥️♥️♥️
I have two boys, three years apart, they are in high school and college now but your video brought me immediately back to the hardest days. Jenn, these are the longest, loneliest, most isolating days. You are doing such hard work and it’s also so hard to feel like you can’t accomplish anything because you’re caring for Oliver. A shower feels like a major win, you get time alone! All I can say is that this WILL pass, routine will come together, you WILL find you itself again and your body will be yours again. Keep going, you’re really doing the hardest job and your babies are GREAT, this too shall pass. No, for real, it really does. ❤😊
Thank you for being so open and honest about how you're feeling, Jenn! ❤ please remember that you are also killing it and the best mom to your amazing, beautiful boys. As a mum to a 2 year old, Jack, I still struggle with the decision of having another kid, but my post natal depression hit so bad that I don't think I could go through all of that again and listening to you talk about Jackson feels with a new baby kind broke my heart in a good and bad way as they are just so little trying to understand this new adventure. Keep being the most amazing mom that you are ❤
Being mom to both a toddler and newborn is the hardest job in the world both emotionally and physically. It’s overwhelming. The best thing I ever did when mine were young is to schedule “me” time, even though I had every excuse in the world I couldn’t because I was too busy, just even pumping ahead of time having someone watch the baby and going to the parks for a couple hours or getting a massage or just going out to lunch with friends makes a world of difference. Thank you for being “real”, every mom that watches your channel can relate to what you are going through. ❤
The decision process of a toddler is wild- Jackson: What are these? Tim: Those are newborn clothes, they don't fit baby brother anymore. Jackson: (PILE DRIVES WITH A PERFECT CUTAWAY)
Oliver's grumpy face in his car seat had me in stitches 🤣 7:27
That was a real face of disapproval, wasn’t it 😂
Thank you for this video. I feel it's important to show this side of motherhood. We have good days & not so good days. My boys are much older now (teens) and I still get overwhelmed sometimes. You're are doing great job and all we can do is take one day at time. Take care of yourself momma! ❤️
It's so hard for the little buddies to get acquainted with having a sibling but you are such amazing parents that he will transition well while still loving his new brother. Cravings are so weird, when I had anemia but didn't yet know it all I wanted to eat was popsicles. Apparently chewing ice is a sign of anemia.....crazy.
Sweet Jenn 💕 sending you hugs. I wish I was there to help you with those household chores so you could relax. Thank you for being authentic. It truly is so hard and not enough people talk about it. The mom guilt, sometimes anger, guilty for getting angry and overwhelmed. You are in my thoughts. I’ve been watching for about 10 years now and have enjoyed seeing you guys become a family ❤ my 8 year old son loves watching Jackson and now Oliver. My husband and I joke a lot “dang we wish we were Jackson”. He is so loved by y’all it is clear!
Your feelings are so normal. Accept that for the next few months you will be feeling emotional and overwhelmed. Its ok that stuff doesn't get done. You're accomplishing the important stuff-taking care of your family. I felt the same way having to work, come home,, clean the house, breastfeed, cook, etc. It will all be in the past soon and you'll be back in the swing of things!
Jenn, you are truly doing amazing. It’s hard on all mothers with a new baby. Balance and doubts are real. We get it. You can always talk it out with us. I hope it made you feel better. Your words actually made me feel better. Thank you 💖
You can not win at parenting - but caring about their little lives is important. Being a human is hard, and having feelings is normal.
Jenn you are so STRONG!!!!! By being honest and vulnerable about what you feel is your shortcomings is such a strong thing. ANY PERSON who keeps another person alive is “KILLING IT”!!!!! But where you are even more exceptional, is that you air it all and allow us to see it all (and judge it all). Praying for your continued strength and hoping there are MANY more “fantastic”days than “rough” ones.
Jen, as you were talking, I was reminded of the time in my life when I was the mom of a newborn and a 15 month old. One day the only thing I accomplished was cleaning the toilet. At the end of the day, I cried because everything felt so hard. My mother in law reminded me that I had kept my kids alive and that was a great accomplishment. These days are long but the years are short. Hugs to you as you navigate this new phase of life. ❤❤
Jenn, I resonated so much with you in this video. It’s SO hard to manage toddler, new baby, work, friends/marriage/relationships, plus everything else!! Motherhood is HARD! You’re in survival mode right now and that is OKAY! Things will get easier, right now is just a season of life and things WILL get easier! Motherhood is not glamorous, thank you for keeping it real!! ❤❤
Oh Jenn I just wanted to hug you! Sending so much love we all have good and bad days and thank you allowing yourself to be vulnerable and share how your feeling. Love you guys xxxx
Your vulnerability is so touching. I cried with you. All of us moms have those days that we struggle with and don’t feel great about ourselves. Thank you for sharing. You are killing it because you are honest and open. Keep doing what you are doing and don’t be afraid to cry-it definitely helps.
You all are the best people. Thank you Jenn, for the dose of reality and the encouragement. I don’t even have kids but I appreciate the reality you brought. You’re doing great!
Watching this while feeding my 9 week old, that truth hits so hard. Even on the good days, it is hard. Sending you support and love on those extra tough days!
You are so right, Jackson! The purpose of the waffle is to give us a way to eat butter😊
Jenn I understand it’s tough being pregnant and having these cravings don’t worry about you are a good mother i appreciate you and Tim for everything thank you 🙏 💖💖💖
Jenn I just wanted to let you know how much we appreciate your genuine vulnerability. I do not have children yet, but I can tell you that your an inspiration and I'm so encouraged by you.
Home vlogs & authenticity are my favorite. Jenn, it’s one of your super powers! Sharing so openly. Thanks also for acknowledging non-moms too, it can also be hard if you’re only parenting yourself or furry babies or tending to older family members etc. Raising other humans is insane, to be clear tho 🤪 You’re doing awesome. We love y’all! 💕
The first few weeks you are surviving on excitement and adrenaline. The lack of sleep really catches up with you around week 4. At that point if everyone survives the day and gets some food, you are doing great.
This is so true. I always feel worse at my 6 week appointment.
Love you, Jenn. I’m not a mother, nor a mental health professional, but I’ve been through a lot of therapy. And I think the fact that you’re aware of and talking about your feelings so openly is huge and the first step in taking care of yourself mental health-wise. We’re at different stages in our lives, but I relate to you so hard - both on feeling overwhelmed/anxious AND on Olive Garden always upsetting our stomachs 😂 and what you said DID help me. Thank you for saying I’m doing good even if I feel like I’m not. That’s a message I really needed to hear right now. You’re a beautiful star! Sending you hugs!
Jenn, I remember going over to my mom's house to visit her and my dad right after I had my second baby. My oldest was 1.5 years old and I was like 2 or 3 week into staying at home with them and I just burst into tears. I was like I'm just exhausted and never sleep and I didn't know what to do. My mom drove me home and had me nap while she watched the girls. You are doing amazing and it's such a big transition, give yourself some grace. I know almost all if not all the viewers completely understand and would rather you take the days yall need than feel overwhelmed. I've enjoyed going back and watching your old videos while we wait for new ones. The season right now seems like its long and never going to end but I promise that time will go so fast and soon you will be back out doing all the things!
Life is hard and breaks are ok. I was crying along with you Jenn until Tim talked about his olive garden tingles and then I started laughing. ❤ Hope your having a much better day today ❤
Awe Jenn, I never hardly comment…I’ve been watching for 6 years and I felt I need to tell you both and Jackson, that your feelings are okay, they’re real, it is all okay. Thanks for sharing. You can only do one task at a time. As long as your family is feed, warm and safe, you are Killing it. GET A HOUSE Cleaner! When the house cleaner is there, pick a room and you and the kids camp out with the door shut….it’s okay! ❤
Jen is such a beautiful and genuine human. you can tell she’s a wonderful mother. you’re doing a great job Tim and Jen🤍
Thank you Jenn for being so open and honest. You are doing amazing!
Jen, I feel you! My kids are much older (15 and 9) and I still have those days. I totally agree, sometimes you gotta take your wins where you can get them. Parenting is a wild ride. Don’t be afraid to ignore a chore for some you time, it’s just as important if not more so. Sending all the good vibes!
All of us mom have those days. You are rocking it.
You are such an amazing person. Even on your hard days you make it a point to cheer other people on. That speaks so highly of your character
Your honesty is refreshing. Hang in there and be kind to yourself. 💗
Love you guys so much. Congratulations on baby Oliver!
Awe Jen, I wish I could reach through the screen and give you a big hug. It will be ok and you’ll be out doing fun things as well very soon. You’re doing a great job don’t ever doubt yourself sending virtual big hugs instead ❤❤
Mother in her late 40s here, full time carer to disabled adult daughter. I think we are feeling the same. I've just started HRT, emotions all over and my gorgeous daughter is all consuming. I had a lovely cry watching tonight, thankyou.
And, you are just where your meant to be, newborns aren't easy, toddlers aren't easy and you are still recovering. ❤
We love you so much Jen. You are so strong and kind. Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts, life, challenges , and joy with us. 💗💗💗
Thank you so much Jenn for opening up. I felt like you were talking directly to me. I’ve been having a really rough time lately. I watch every video you put out and tbh, I did think you were killing it, and I compared myself to you (one of the pitfalls of social media). I’ve been crying a lot, feeling the exact same feelings you expressed. But also feeling SO alone and that everyone else is doing it better than me. My situation is different (married for 16 yrs, now a single mom to a teenager and pre-teen) but the emotions are the same. I feel like I’m failing at everything. But as you say, my kids are fed, housed, have my love and support, are both doing exceptionally well in school and life in general. I just feel “less-than” as the stigma of being a single parent is strong. Thank you Jenn, I can’t say how it feels to know I’m not alone, everyone struggles in some way and nothing is ever perfect. ❤
You ARE killing it! And I hope even if they don't always say it or show it (I mean, you know, kids), you know that they do love you. I say this as someone who was brought up by a single mum.
It’s been many years since my 2nd child was born but I can still remember how hard it was. Trying to get a toddler to sleep while explaining that the baby isn’t staying up and she’s going to sleep soon too. Totally forgetting what your partner looks like as you both try to deal with a child each. It definitely gets easier and you’re doing an amazing job ♥️♥️
Love you Jen 💕 just know you are surrounded by love and support. Thank you for being so open and talking about this, because it’s real. You guys are doing amazing!
I love that you are being real. It’s not easy and don’t be hard on yourself. You have a right to your feelings. A lot of us feel that way!
“Oh no. Somebody got raptured” was so unexpected and I died laughing
It was so subtle too 😂😂😂
You guys are great. I'm sure those parents out there appreciate your transparency. You guys are such good parents, its a pleasure to watch. I'm sure most wish they grew up with that type of support...even getting to choose what you ate for dinner doesn't happen in most families. Keep it up ;)
Jenn, you're amazing and you ARE killing it. Thank you for being so open about your emotions. My favorite thing to say when going through it is that two things can be true. You can be happy to stay at home to take care of Oliver but have all the FOMO. I'm definitely look forward to seeing Jenn's first day back at the parks, but I love the home vlogs just the same.
Jen!!!! I can’t thank you enough for being so open about your emotions and sharing your personal feelings with us. Mental health is so important and I feel as though it’s not talked about enough. I appreciate you for being brave and talking about your struggles with us. And as a single mama of a 2 year old girl, I really appreciated you telling us that we’re all killin it out here too. I hope your bad days are few and far between!! Much love to you all
I really admire y'all's dedication to be realistic with your viewers. No one wants to post or see all the bad stuff. And it can create this image that everything is perfect in these curated versions of people. I think having a real talk every now and then is super healthy.
Ahh big hugs to all of you - it must be incredibly tough and your body is doing amazing things and still healing from the birth. Never apologise for not putting up a video - we all know what you’re coping with. Hopefully everyone will fall into a routine soon and Jackson will get used to being an older brother. I think you’re all amazing ❤
Hugs Jen, you're doing a great job being a Mom and also keeping it real and sharing with us. I've been watching you guys since before Jackson was born. I've been suffering from depression and anxiety. Your videos make me smile, and seeing how happy you and your family are warms my heart.
Jackson's emotions are super valid and totally normal developmentally I'm glad you guys are supporting him navigating this new change its a big transition!
❤❤❤❤❤❤take it easy you guys!!! Your audience(including myself) is "ride or die" strong...... and so are y'all!! Take your time!!!! We are all here to lift you up and support you......... just like y'all do for us❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
#keepswimming
I haven’t become a mom yet, but just from what I see in your blogs you’re doing great. Always marking little victories (even if it’s only one thing like a chore) helps you feel accomplished and like you’re trying your best. Keep doing what you’re doing ❤️❤️
Thank you Jenn for being so honest and opening your heart 2 us. I don’t have children, just me, my husband and dog. I work from home and feel so alone at times. Some times the hard times really get 2 me as I don’t go out and have no escape so it’s truly refreshing 2 hear u 4 who u r. U r a wonderful mum and wife, u keep me going in life, so thank u 4 being the friend in my life that I have not met but who I need ❤❤❤
you guys are really amazing supportive parents. take the good with the bad and know that you do the best you can each day. parenting is tough and there is no rubric that comes with it.
You’re an amazing wife, mom and presence in all our lives. Thank you for being so real. Know how much you’re loved, and what a wonderful Mommy Jackson and Oliver have. We’ve all felt the way you’re feeling today, and that’s perfectly fine. You time is also very important though, helps the not so good days to be a little easier. We love you.
I think you’re also doing something VERY healthy by talking it out. Sending you well wishes
Wow I needed that cry. Thanks Jenn. Being a mom is so hard and it’s so easy to get down on yourself. We are doing great.
Oh Jen, thank you for sharing . I almost cried when you almost cried, vent my dear , it’s allowed, we are here for you, you have a great way to share your burdens of day to day life with a baby and toddler. Kudos to you and Tim for sharing your life. I can only hope that it does get to the point where you feel you are succeeding.